: MediaTakeOut.com obtained photos of Mekhi Phifer and his girlfriend. Congrats to them...
8 MILE star MEKHI PHIFER has launched a harsh attack on his ex-wife MALINDA WILLIAMS, after she spoke out about his infidelity.
Actress Williams, who has a son with the ER star, blames the actor for their marriage meltdown - and now he's fired back.
MEKHI PHIFER SLAMS EX-WIFE
He rants, "I was 23 when she got pregnant. You want to do the right thing - what society deems as being the right thing. She wanted a structured family lifestyle that she was used to growing up. The women are dominant matriarchs in her family and the men are subversive, subservient and subdued. Me? I come from a family of men - grown-ass men handling their business.
"It's easy for a woman to say, 'He cheated on me and did this and that.' Look, I'm a very sexual person - I love to make love. In the morning, stink breath? I want to make love. At night after champagne, I want to make love. Women have to let men be men, not walk over them. If you are dealing with a yellow-bellied, no backbone muthaf***a, then okay. I'm a mover and a shaker - a king.
"I didn't want to be home anymore. We had nothing to talk about because she didn't know the people I knew. Any argument that we had, 90 per cent of the time, I didn't know what the f**k she was talking about. There was just tension in the house and she couldn't be sympathetic. I didn't ask her to cook, clean, nothing. I had cleaning ladies, all that s**t.
"But if you want your man to be there with you, you have to be there with him too - a stimulus for a muthaf***a. For most of the relationship, I was the mover and shaker, she was home complaining.
"I was young. I had an ideology of what I was doing, but it wasn't the right thing with that particular person. She's a great mom; I'm a great dad. But we weren't made for each other. You can't teach an old dog new tricks."
@ that article that strawcream has. he seems like a self centered bastard, like its either his way or no way, hes not willing to comprimise on anything. well that asian girl got him now. she probably the type of woman that does whatever her man tells her to do, no if, ands, or buts about it. hope the baby is healthy.
@ sierra714
MEKHI PHIFER GET SLAMS BY STRAWCEAM
I use to love MEKHI PHIFER then he got all Hollywood and stupid on us sisters. Let me say this he was married to a beautiful woman then he lied and cheated and then met Mrs Producer chick and we suppose to be like Oh Mekhi I'm so happy you have a baby coming. He is so phoney!
Your wife is suppose to be your back bone he treated Malinda like dirt. Nobody knew they were married because he was really never seen with Malinda.
Then he talks about how much he wasn't ready and how young they were and she didn't know the people he knew. Well damn last I check you put her on you introduce her to the people you know.
I bet you this that woman in the picture he with he won't play her azz out. Why? Because he know in Asian culture they don't play that hit and miss crap. The majority of asian women are easy any way so it wasn't hard for him to pull her for real.
You see him on the red carpet with his baby mother his new woman its a direct slap in Malinda face. I know by now Malinda moved on but damn that got to hurt the man you loved cheated on you then diss you and played you out the whole time he was fukcking some other chick.
Is this the prime example of how black men get down once they make it in Phoney ass Hollywood
Good for them....
Question?....Does all the black men in the valley date and marry Asian women???
Yeap... I'm sure they have sent out a flyers to Asia "looking for a wealthy man to marry" get to the San Fernando Valley...you'll be snatched up within the first 48 hrs.....
But the catch is he will be African American....Whities there dont want you...They have the pickings of the tan, barbie-like, valley girls...
Why put Asian Girlfriend??? I'm already onto you MTO ya'll do that ish to make people mad and start drama and if you look at her she doesnt even look 100% asian. She must have black in her you can see that. What i hate about this site is people on here are so racist. Black people are always quick to yell racism yet when a black person goes out with a white person or asian person theres this big uproar!!SO [EXPLETIVE]!NG WHAT IT'S 2007 PEOPLE!!!RACE SHOULDNT MATTER AND HALF YOU PEOPLE ON HERE ARE PROBABLY UGLY AS HELL AND HAVE NO LIFE ADVERTISING YA MYSPACE PAGES TO GET MORE FRIENDS[SPAM]!!!!
Mekhi seems to be one who likes submissive women (hence the Asian girlfriend)...and his ex (Melinda Williams) seems to like submissive men (hence D-Nice) so I can see why it didn't work out for them. In any case, I wish them both the best. Although Melinda seems like a nice girl Mekhi seems to want woman to submit to his "I'm the man" complex sometimes means he's lacking in other "areas"...and if he is the first black man for his asian girlfriend...she won't know the difference. LMAO
These so call massage palors are really a prosititution gallery!
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Well then again they aren't the only ones as you can see other nationalities are doing it~
These so call miltary dudes go over seas and pregnant one of them asian women I'm pretty sure allot of American people have a half brother or sister over seas and do not know it...
Amerie daddie is a miltary dude...Much love to Amerie....
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@ jhaney
You know what it really is I'm going to break it down to you:
The black woman has been hurt, bruised and disrespected repeately by WHO? The majority of our own BLACK MEN..What I mean by that well check it?
We are called names....Made fun of not feeling like we are wanted. When the majority of us just want a nice black man to settle down with who thats going to appreciate us and love us the way we deserves to be love.
We are repeately teased about our hair texture or clothes or weight or skin color and when another man of another race find that sexy other than a brother (black man) the majority of us go in another direction.
A direction where we feel the love and affection and attention we need and should get at home.
Black women are known to be strong women who have been there since day one. Wipe the black man's azz and put up with his [EXPLETIVE] when need be.
We are the ones who made a way out of no where and still continue to love unconditionally.
That is why most of us are upset when we see token azz dudes like MEKHI PHIFER run around town. Its like saying ok well being black is not what I truly want this is what I consider beauty and that is what piss allot of us off!
1st comes love, then comes marriage...You guys know the rest.
I do not agree with people having children out of wedlock, that's not the way God intended it to be. Man and wife should become one and live in holy manogamous matrimony. Not to have the advantages of being single while at the same time acting as though you're married.
Good luck to anyone willing to put themselves through the potential baby mama/daddy drama.
Will never be me. Just my opinion. Like it or not, it is what it is. Eg. I don't like the rain but that's just the way God intended it to be. Hmph. (I already made a comment on the 1st Halle post that she wasn't married either)
jhaney and jaming are both hypocrits who have skimmed thru the comments to find an argument. That is what it is. They are no different than MTO for accentuating the fact that Mekhi's woman is ASIAN. They are looking to stir up some arguments because the last I checked there were all kinds of comments about Halle NOT being married and having a baby for a white man. End of Story...
Just in case you two missed it. HERE ARE A FEW COMMENTS MADE ABOUT THE HALLE BERRY THANG:
darkman Flag post WHO CARES BLAHHHHHHH BABY GONNA LOOK LIKE A PAPER PLATE HE PALE AND SHE HALF WHITE LOL lacosteboi79 Flag post hatianbigwill,face it she loves white men and hates black men. • HardCore Flag post As all those nigggas that have beaten Halle's azz, I can't fault her for crossng that color barrier but remember white men kick azz too(where do you thimk we learnt it from). [SPAM][SPAM]____ • lacosteboi79 Flag post hardcore, the difference is white mean don't beat their women they kill them and their unborn child. truebahamian Flag post
Even though I don't agree with having children out of wedlock, I guess she's @ a point in her life where it's the best thing for her at the moment.
and more....
not-an-angel Flag post
i gotta admit i was disappointed that out of all the good black genes (even the bi-racial brothas) that been up in that she choose to re-create with a funny looking little white model man tiaje Flag post Good for her. But here is another BABY DADDY story. Halle hurry and get married before the baby is due. Stop making all these children out of wedlock. All hell broke loose when it was Kim and Puffy. But its all good for Halle, WTF?????? darkman Flag post that baby gonna come out lookin like a snowball lol email2michael Flag post I guess after Eddie Murphy/Wesley Snipes/Eric Benet ole' girl said "brothas need NOT apply" and she let a white man run up in it and plant the seed. Hmmm, well I'll reserve judgment, it's her life.
wait wait...there's more:
prettyricky46 Flag post That dude, Gabriel Aubry, is white as hell!! Damn! I guess Halle Gave up on black men. Wow! tiaje Flag post @Love_Trinity...I understand where you are coming from. But I just think that all women, no matter what their status is should have a husband and not just a damn BABY DADDY. karmma Flag post Yeah, whatever. She's been w all these brothas...but the Great White Hope saves her life and NOW she's preggers? Please. B*tch just wanted to keep it right by making sure it's white!
Halle, I'm surprised at you! You used to be so down for the brothas. I guess after you "made it" you figured keeping it Black wasn't what your new white image makers and audience wanted. Tsk. Tsk. Tsk.
HOW DID YOU MISS THESE COMMENTS? I guess the Black men who made snowball comments are conditioned to think like white women, no? lmao..
I can't stand this Negro!!! My friends and I met him and her last year in CA. I asked him about where he used to live in NY because I heard that he grew up around my old neighborhood. He misunderstood my question and got nasty with me. I never really liked him like that before but I really don't care for him now.
Just another attempt to stir the pot and boost up hits to the site...MTO knows interracial dating topics does it every time...
Bottom line, she's a very good looking woman, they make a nice couple and I wish them both a great deal of happiness...
In 2007 people dating across racial/ethnic lines in just NOT a big deal...this is a truth despite the few divisive voices hanging out there in the wind....
So whether it's Halle or Mekhi or Tiger or Rhianna or whomever, may they all be with whomever makes them happy...
@regal
A brother (black man) better be working with something if he's dealing with a Asian chick. You notice they are always talking about looking for a man that can take care of them.
People like MEKHI PHIFER they better have a career or business something going on for themselves way before she introduce him to daddie. I know how it all went down what's your name ok what you do ok my daddie will like you.
I bet a $100.00 if he was Mekhi the gas pump attendant her daddie will tell him personally get the fukc out my house. Sounds familiar...
Because Mekhi that black dude on TV that you can turn on and see playing a doctor...Her family smiling at the TV talking about thats him you see I told you he wasn't broke
That makes him offically part of her Asian family.
Come on ladies we know what it is
We take our brothers busted, ugly, broke, uneducated, bad breath, dirty clothes, missing teeth, unemployed, lazy, crazy the list go on any yall know it...
Can I get a witness! Holla Back!
I used to LOVE Mehki in my younger years. Now he's just not all that attractive to me anymore. I don't hate on interracial couples because most of the women in my family are married or date white men-besides me. I stay with the brothas and my take is all men are @$$holes, black white yellow and green LOL. But there's nothing like beautiful black love.
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JAMING the point is that you tried to make it seem like ONLY Black women had something to say about this type of topic.
LOOK AT YOUR OWN QUOTE AND READ IT CAREFULLY IDIOT:
'Where's the outrage black women? With every story and post from black women on this site, my theory is further solidified, BLACK WOMEN ARE TRAINED BY WHITE MEN TO THINK LIKE WHITE MEN....SO SAD'
Where is the MOST or MAJORITY in that? Please show me...you made it seem like WE are the only ones making comments about this AND you didn't say most or majority so stop trying to backtrack just because you were made to LOOK STUPID. Glad to see you have a sense of humor about your retardation....
@LIlENA AND THE REST OF YOU LAMESSSSS
MARRIAGE IS NOT A PRE-REQUESITE TO HAVING CHILDREN... WHAT DOES BEING MARRIED MEAN A SHITTY SELFISH BASTARD IS JUST THAT CHILDREN OR NOT HUSBAND OR NOT!! TELL ME HOW MANY HAPPILY MARRIED PEOPLE YOU KNOW AND MAYBE ILL CHANGE MY POSITION... DO WHAT WORKS FOR YOU PEOPLE SO STUCK ON HAVING A DAMN WEDDING AND NOT PAYING ATTENTION TO WHATS REALLY IMPORTANT ( THE RELATIONSHIP)!!
Jaming..find female sounding blog names? Love_trinity, tiaje, and strawcream, truebahamian, etc...ALL must be men right? LMAO. YOUR ARGUMENT IS WEAK, but you are entitled to it.
Like I said (and I noticed you didn't address) ALL Black women are not hopping mad about Black men dating outside of their race, while LOVING the reverse. Sorry you attention starved loser. I could give a rats a$$ about you. I am and have always only been interested in BLACK MEN who are interested in me.
