UPDATE: JENNIFER HUDSON IS STAYING AT OPRAH'S CHICAGO HOME ... BEING CONSOLED BY THE TALK SHOW QUEEN ... AND RIFT BEGINS BETWEEN JENNIFER AND HER SISTER JULIA!!!


 







November 07, 2008. While Jennifer's going though the most difficult time in her life, MediaTakeOut.com has learned that Oprah Winfrey is doing her best to help. According to reports, Oprah has opened up her East Lake Shore Drive Chicago condo to Jennifer and her fiancé David Otunga. And for the last week, Jennifer and David have been staying at Oprah's home - which is not only large, but private and secure from the media.

But things are not improving for Jennifer in another front. Here's what OK Magazine is reporting:
"Jennifer and Julia do not seem to be getting along," a family insider tells OK!. Jennifer had always been cautious in dealing with her sister's ex-husband, William Balfour, 27, who is considered a "person of interest" by authorities.

Meanwhile Julia is wresting with guilt. "If William is responsible for the slayings, it is because of his relationship with Julia," the family insider says.

And Julia suspects the true depth of her pain is going unacknowledged. "She probably feels the spotlight has been on Jennifer's struggle, completely overshadowed by the fact that she lost a son," a family friend tells OK!

This is just a tragedy all the way around ....

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COMMENTS:

    dks6929
    1st
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    "And...the truth will set YOU FREE!

    dks6929
    1st
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    "And...the truth will set YOU FREE!

    dks6929
    Still in my prayers!
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    "And...the truth will set YOU FREE!

    NuckingFuts
    knew that was coming!!
     

    Latinaxoxo
    Top 10? lol
     

    maxi
    I knew that was coming...RIP to da fam
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    Dimpz
    o0oh Datz wasssup then
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    chakahrae1
    I will still keep her and her family in my prayers...
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    lUdaBabIi
    dang

    still in my prayers though

    and stuff!!!
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    ...and stuff!!!!

    KellsT
    Jennifer and Julia are definitely in my prayers. I am glad that Oprah is there for Jennifer. But, I truly hope that Julia's pain isn't going unacknowledged. Losing a child is the worst pain ever.
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    SHELLZ27
    DAMN!#5
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    romans 8:28

    lovinzee
    Stay strong and prayed up!
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    *Not your average Wife...The BE$T*

    whatwhatwhat
    Just sad. But really, when you find out someone has a rap sheet you should exclude them from the "eligible husband material" list.
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    My love is right smack in the socket

    paf
    Uh because you are the one that brought that trash to your family's house and I wouldn't deal with her either, all because she wanted to get laid.
     

    Ladyva4life
    We just need to keep this family up in prayer....
     

    Miss_Remarkable
    that's sad...the entire situation.
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    shalane
    NOTHING GOOD CAN COME FROM THIS SITUATION. THEY NEED TO HEAL...IT GONNA TAKE A LONG TIME BECAUSE THEIR ROCKS ARE GONE. GOD BLESS THEM....
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    IT‘S THE PERSONALITY THAT COUNT&ls

    sexxiibeast
    I will continue to pray but every1 knew that was coming.J's sister knew what that guy was all about come on now!
     

    focusfocus
    OMG!!! thats fabulous!
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    Rest In Peace Michael Jackson ! ! !

    StarrBeauty
    Still so sad
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    HarlemG4life
    Julia knows that she has played a role in this whole situation. She is not innocent. They need to check on here whereabouts...I'm suspicious of her....watch and see...she was part of the whole thing! Don't count her out!
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    Guard Yourself with God!

    oneinamilli
    It really is sad...ladys, we have to choose the men we decide to love wisely
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    BOSTON?... "HERE"

    Fastlane
    Jennifer's healing process is just beginning. I'm sure she is still in shock as well as an emotional wreck. It's wonderful that Oprah has taken an interest in her well being considering these tragic turn of events.
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    I-I-I‘mma -a-a-a Di-va. lol

    IamQueen
    sad
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    focusfocus
    I hope Oprah can see her through this!!!
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    Rest In Peace Michael Jackson ! ! !

    MrsLisa12
    in my prayers
     

    tootallk2000
    Stay strong Jen.
     

    RedDevi
    Very sorry to hear this.
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    freaksonmyspace
    she definitely needs to be isolated.
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    KEEYSHAJ50
    AWWW THATS RIGHT JENNIFER
    STAY AWAY FROM THAT BITCH...

    AND GOD BLESS U JENN ;)
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    ...R.I.P M.J LOVE AND MISS YOU :(...

    Ebonyblanco
    It would be impossible for Jennifer NOT to hold her sister and her associations accountable!
     

    Kareemthedream
    MANNNN...I PRAY THAT GOD GIVES HER COMFORT AND PROSPERITY THROUGH THIS REALLY BAD STORM IN HER LIFE!!
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    He said my name....in the streets???

    tjtrae1
    Jennifer is the celebrity so she gets an invite but why not Julia who lost a mom,brother and son where is she staying?
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    Stop following and become a leader..

    blkngrekbeauty3
    WELL WE ALL KNIW HIS ASS DID IT!! I WOULD BE MAD AT HER ASS TOO!
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    BRB GOTTA TINKLE.....

    ClassicBlackness
    Now that's some real sister love! Oprah taking care and couseling a baby sister!! But please Oprah, NO DR. PHIL!!!!
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    I SAID what I came to SAY!

    SINGLELYFE
    This is just the saddest story. You can't pick your family or their choices.
     

    bigtymvp
    its messed up for them ALL....julia is looking for sympathy....she gotta understand...her sister is in the public eye WHICH is why she gets more attention
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    FRANKI
    JUST AS I POSTED BEFORE, I DON'T THINK JULIA'S MILK IS 100% CLEAN.

    I OFTEN WONDERED WHAT WAS THE RELATION BETWEEN JENNIFER AND JULIA SINCE HER HUSBAND IS SUSPECT.
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    Her tongue is unbelievable

    myxy
    THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN SOMEONE IN THE FAMILY BRINGS THUGS AND BUMS INTO THE INNER CIRCLE!!!
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    Live from the Inkwell

    Shereezy
    This is so sad...

    The poor actions of a few costed valuable lives!!!
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    If you knew betta...You‘d do betta

    chitownbaby
    GOOD TO KNOW OPRAH STEPPED IN. IM SURE JULIA FEELS BAD IF IN FACT WILLIAM HAD SOMETHING TO DO WITH IT .LETS PRAY FOR THE FAM.
     

    My3sons
    Jennifer will stay in the "spotlight" (no pun intended) b/c she's the star. Sad but true; that is the way it goes.
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    Brought Sexy Back With a Receipt

    Shereezy
    And I dont wanna be negative but I feel like Julia knows more than what she is sharing...I could be wrong...but something just isnt right!!!
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    If you knew betta...You‘d do betta

    JERZEE_DIVA
    ALL I CAN DO IS PRAY FOR THEM
     

    NippyFan
    Both Jennifer and her sister are just going through the Stages of Grief but they are each going through it in their own way. It is natural for Jennifer to at one stage blame herself for not forcing her mother to move. Its also another natural stage for her to want to blame her sister. They are strong in their faith and they will make it through this. I have been and will continue to pray for them.
     

    Girlforaction
    I think Julia should take some responsibility in this. She should have been more careful about the men she allowed in her life.
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    MzTory
    she need to be strong throughout this situation
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    MsMusic08
    Still sad about the whole thing!!!
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    hotazzfirefighter
    SHE CHOSE THIS THUG TO BE IN HER LIFE....JENNIFER DIDN'T!
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    only da bad is capable of bn da baddest!

    lowerlevel82
    i bet they living the good life in oprah's pad
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    Justforfun
    WHile we acknowledge Julia's pain as well as Jennifer not sure what this is about if Jennifer was not who she is the 3 family members would still be dead at the hands of ???? cuz that has yet to be determined and Julia and the rest of the family would still be trying to scrape ends to bury 3 people not to mentionshe would still be living at the murder scene and it would have most likely went with minimal news coverage. What is she saying now - she wants to get back on myspace and meet new people?
     

    MizzNique
    JULIA NEEDS TO STOP! I KNOW SHE GOIN THROUGH BUT SHE BETTA BE CAREFUL B4 JENNIFER CUT THAT ASS OFF!!! BUT THIS SH!T IS REALLY SAD...MADE ME CRY N I DONT EVEN KNOW THEM.
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    CutemilFactory
    I'm Praying for them
     

    texxxasgurl
    @franki...I agree. I know this is a difficult situation, but if God brings you to it, he will bring you through it.
     

    MsGleam
    Poor Jennifer...I pray that she and Julia find the strength to get through this tragedy and mend their relationship...they're the only two members left from their immediate family.

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    71MIL
    wow.....
    i feel so sad.....
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    ITALIANA
    JULIA NEED 2 TRIM HER GOATEE AND GET A LIFE....THATS ALL SHE WANTED WAS ATTENTION FOCUSED ON HER AND NOT HER SISTA
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    SouthernGul
    This family is going through so much turmoil,but God can and will bring them through.
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    And what?

    mama1210
    Morning! Jennifer will STAY in my Prayers! I believe Love will start to heal all the wounds between these two SISTERS!
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    ONE FOR THE THUMB PART TWO!

    soLA
    ya'll know that sister didnt have nothin' to do with that why would ya'll even comment like that!! not only is Julia experiencing grief she gotta deal with the guilt!! dont make it worse for her!! if you lost someone you know its hard to eat, sleep or think!!! be positive not negative!!!SMH at the people who comment!!!
     

    krisjones
    man dey all dey got....i hope dey get it together.... it shud be a lil bit harder on her sister tho....it was her son
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    MsKendra79
    You know this story is really messed up. But I believe that Jennifer and her sister probably are having a rift in their relationship. No one knows who killed them they keep saying William but I don't think that lil dude could take out Jennifer's big ass brother, her mother and that lil boy by himself with no struggle, come on now. And the media is milking this for all it's worth they don't talk about how Julia is grieving I mean for God's sake she lost a child her only child at that in the worst way. And Oprah has a agenda she's going to make sure she get's Jennifer's story first before anyone.
     

    OneLifeo1
    I'm glad that Oprah is giving a helping hand, GOD Bless her. But along with GOD, and the support of her other family members and friends, she is going to make it. Cause if anybody can see her through this it's the Lord above. My prayers are still with you Jennifer. HE CAN HE WILL AND HE SHALL, Mend and Heal this family in the name of JESUS AMEN.
     

    sexy4ever
    I knew this would happen and I was thinking the same thing. Like I know we all love Jennifer and we feel sorry and are saddened by her lost but at the same time her sister lost her son, her only child, 7 years old but it does seem like all the attention and focus is only on Jennifer. If she wasn't a star then this would just be another said story the world would hear about and after a while it would go away like everything else but because it Jennifer Hudson its a big deal. All I'm saying is Julia needs the love and support just as much a Jennifer if not more she needs to be right there in Oparhs house with her sister so they can get through this together.
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    Headliner
    I said to someone that if Jennifer was not famous, this may not have even been national news. It would have been if they were white, though. Sorry, Julia. The public cares about Jennifer because they know her. It's nothing personal.
     

    THE_Black_Tie
    Man, just let her be...she already has enough on her plate
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    I thought he was dead...?

    YourEarsHear
    Don't get mad at each other.
    God has the final say so ppl







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    NicNasty032
    Damn
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    2blssd2Bstrssd
    @ paf - I agree with you 120%. People shouldn't be so desparate to accept anyone. This should be applied to both men and women, because a guy would accept a girl who is mental or with a rap sheet longer than her arm, if she has a nice body or he is desparate. Which Julia must have been the latter because Williams looks like straight shiiittt. Above comment is just something that everyone should adhere to. What has happened with the Hudson family can't be reversed, so all anyone can do now is pray for them. I hope Julia doesn't think that she should be the one staying in Oprah's condo.
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    SoulMan
    WOW, theses are one of those problems that time has to heal....
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    Blaze2009
    MY SISTER WAS IN THE SAME POSITION. DATING THIS THUG AND THE WHOLE FAMILY TOLD HER TO LEAVE HIM ALONE. THANK GOD IT DIDNT END UP BAD, BUT IF IT DID I WOULD HAVE BLAMED HER. WOMEN NEED TO QUIT SETTLING FOR LESS AND LEARN TO BE HAPPY WITH THEMSELVES FIRST. QUIT LETTING MEN RUN ALL OVER YOU. IF A MAN IS CHEATING, STEALING, ETC ON YOU YOU DONT DESERVE THAT. JUST A SAD SITUATION, BUT THIS IS HOW FAMILIES ARE TORN APART.
     

    KEEYSHAJ50
    paf AND HarlemG4life
    REAL TALK...
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    beauty_n_bmore
    ITS A SAD STORY SO I WILL STAY OUT OF THIS ONE...
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    MsKendra79
    Let's not forget Jennifer went to school with William so she knew him first. There are pictures on Julia's myspace page with him and Jennifer. I don't know why you people keep forgetting that Jason Hudson was a dope dealer selling dope out of his Momma's house and he was affiliated with one of the most notorious gangs in Chicago so if anyone brought this to the family it was him. Whoever killed them wanted Jason and they took that innocent lil boy and their mother with him and that was wrong but I do believe Julia knows more than she is letting on. There is more to this family and this story when the truth comes out I think we will all be shocked!
     

    Giggle
    julia brought the thug in.
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    Spare_Me
    Oprah has such a generous soul. That was really gracious of her to open her home to Jennifer.
     

    Tika90
    Now if her Julia didn't have anything to do with the "slayings" I would never talk to her ass again.
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    kpw801
    I understand completely. There is a rift in my family because of something similar (no deaths thank God), but my sister brought a known criminal (we have documentation of his rap sheet) and drug dealer into my mother's home shortly after the death of our father. He proceeded to loot all of the valuable carpentry tools our father left behind. My father wanted us girls to sell the tools and divide the money between the four of us. Well, the tools and the money from the sale went to the dope man. This guy has stolen food from my mother's freezer. When I tried to talk to my mother about my concerns, my sister blew up, told me to go to hell and said as far as she was concerned she had to sister. Even her own sons tried to make her see what she had brought into the house. Why my mother doesn't do anything, I don't know, but I never go over there anymore. There are too many thugs and ruffians there and I don't feel comfortable. There is a definite rift, but Julia chose William Balfour over her family. And I'm sure if he were to be released, she would go back to him. My sister used to kick her crack head man out of the house, throw his clothes out behind him and then before you could blink an eye, he was right back in mama's house and in my sister's bed.
     

    myxy
    OPRAH'S QUEEN. YOU OTHER SISTAZ NEED TO STEP UP YOUR GAME
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    lefteee
    It is only a matter of time before Jennifer gets really upset at her sister. If she hadn't settled for this f%$$^# clown none of this would have happened! Of course no one would ever think something like this would happen, but why would you pic this kind of man for a step-dad for your son? Things are hard enough for young black males, they don't need any shady role models.
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    reddevi22h
    She should have been more careful about the men she allowed in her life. Then It is said she is with a man old enough to be his father at "B l a c k W h i t e K i s s . c 0 M" where is for women to meet handsome latin, hispanic and other men online.. .
     

    icu2
    ooo nooo u dont MTO..dont start this Julia vs MTO thread shyt again..
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    BETTER PISSED OFF THAN PISSED ON

    kysauntie
    They only have each other left, they should really be trying to stick together. Even if it turns out that Julia's estranged husband did have something to do with it Jennifer should not put that guilt on Julia. I'm sure she is carrying her own guilt.
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    NippyFan
    @MsKendra79

    I totally agree! Oprah is being nice but she is being very self serving right now because when Jennifer is ready to talk she has poised herself to be the one and only person to get that interview.

    And for people who don't agree, I'm sorry but Oprah is great but she is a business woman and this is the biggest story to rock the entertainment world in a very long time and she wants to make sure her face and name are part of it. She see's ratings in her future!
     

    skennedy143
    i hope its not true that they're not getting along this is a time when they need each other the most.....
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    bertabrain
    Jennifer is the victim so it's only right that she comforted as much as possible. Her sister knew who she was dealing with...apparently she just under-estimated his capabilities to kill her entire family. So I'd be mad at her too.
     

    Tika90
    You guys kill my on how you just accused this man of a crime that no one has proof on.
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    WhatAnIdiot
    My prayers have been answered! Thank you Jennifer!! Please stay away from that co-conspirator! She might end up killing you too or have someone else do it and try to conceal information.
     

    MissJNS
    Well, since I see people posting dumb messages such as, "Big pimpin' baby!" etc....I guess my message won't sound as stupid. So here goes:

    I think they need to keep an eye out on Julia. Maybe the police don't want to leak this out just yet, but I don't think she's innocent. The report read that the brother was found upstairs, yet, Julia claimed to have opened the door, saw her mom dead, and immediately ran out of the house to phone police saying, "My mom and brother have been killed....and my son is missing." How could she have possibly known all that when, according to HER, she didn't go throughout the home once she saw her mom on the floor? Something ain't right I tell ya. And I think Jennifer knows it. THAT'S why you won't see Julia at Oprah's.
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    Tika90
    LOL at what an idoiot.
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    Tika90
    OK Miss JNS.... That's good information to go off of.
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    Amyah2008
    yea all prayers to jennifer Hudson but more go to her sister
     

    ttiiaa77
    As much as I hate to say this, it's beginning to look like Julian was sacrificed. (hopefully I'm wrong)
     

    Tika90
    I totally agree nippyfan. She is being nice, but it's mostly business, Good business 2.
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    jaibaker
    my prayers with the both of them, keep your heads up and let god see you guys through big o you are what class is baby
     

    Amyah2008
    rip
     

    QTBROWN1
    im not surprised, this is to be expected but i am still praying.....
     

    greedyj35
    I WOULD LOVED TO BE CONSOLED BY OPRAH!!
    IF THIS IS TRUE THEY SHOULD NOT BE FIGHTING AT A TIME LIKE THIS EVEN IF IT IS JULIA'S FAULT THEY SHOULD DEAL WITH IT ANOTHER TIME!!!
     

    NippyFan
    This may sound wrong but Jennifer needs to do whatever she needs to do to get through this without having a nervous breakdown and if that means that her and David are alone and away from the rest of the family so be it.

    The rest of the family gets to grieve in private for the rest of their lives, but Jenn on the other hand at some point will have to emerge and face a slew of questions and finish grieving with the entire world watching so while my heart goes out to Julia and I don't want to think that she would have anything to do with this, Jennifer is the focus because unless she is going to scrap her career behind this she needs time to get it together so that she can go forward.
     

    Tika90
    Oprah going to be like "so Jen, how are u feeling 2day, are u hungry" Then she will be like " Ummmmm, What's up with that story though, I let u and your man stay in my house for free and [EXPLETIVE], U OWE ME!!etc.....lol
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    cristall
    It appears that Julia placed her son - and ultimately her family in jeopardy because she chose to get involved with a trifling thug. She's obviously desperate. If I were Jennifer, I'm not sure I would ever forgive her.

    I felt something odd when I saw Julia's press conference. Something is not right about that woman.

    Under ideal circumstances, siblings should be very close. I have one sister, but we are as different as night and day. When I purchased my home, I invited her over. She behaved strangely, but I didn't think much of it. My stepfather later told me that she was upset because my home is nicer than hers. I brushed it aside. I recently went on a cruise.sent her a brief e-mail telling her about the cruise and suggesting that we take her kids (she's divorced) on one because they would enjoy it. She didn't respond to the e-mail and hasn't called me since I returned.

    When we were younger, I was the skinny, sickly and awkward child who was put down. God has fixed it where things have changed and she just can't cope with it.
     

    Girlsluvgems
    Punk! OMG What is he doing at Oprah's home??? He better stay with Jen forever as much as his "I love New York" reject ass is being brought up.

    Time will tell.....

    This is really no time them to be TURNING ON EACHOTHER!!! Jen is taking all of the SPOTLIGHT. She need to be with her FAMILY not in Oprah's ROMANTIC hideaway condo with PUNK's punk ass...


    R.I.P. Julian, Jason & Miss Darnell
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    Fabulous_1
    Auntie O to the rescue!!!!!
     

    mrspryncess30281
    That's good that Oprah is being so supportive considerin the circumstances. But Julia just wanted the spotlight anyway. She wasnt that damn crazy bout her boy. She loved Flex. And we all know the victims were the very same people who wanted to stop her from loving Flex. So Julia is just mad that her man is still in jail.After all she already gave us her excuse, she said she is only doing what comes natural (sh*ttin me)
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    Girlsluvgems
    Punk! OMG What is he doing at Oprah's home??? He better stay with Jen forever as much as his "I love New York" reject ass is being brought up.

    Time will tell.....

    This is really no time for them to be TURNING ON EACHOTHER!!! Jen IS taking all of the SPOTLIGHT. She needs to be with her FAMILY not in Oprah's ROMANTIC hideaway condo with PUNK's punk ass...


    R.I.P. Julian, Jason & Miss Darnell
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    Tika90
    Jennifer couldn't have been that close to her family, I think she's more scared for her life than anything, and of course some mourning, but people seem to 4get that her family was having financial probs, and still living in englewood. Im from Chicago and I would never live in Englewood, why didn't she help them.
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    mzarrogance
    I do hope that the part about Julia's feelings towards Jennifer aren't true. She must think, had Jennifer not been a celeb, the police may not have a person of interest. They may have written it off as another black on black killing like many yof the other unsolved killings in that area.
     

    Tika90
    I dont think her husband did this. she may know who did, but that scrub doesnt'seem capable. Neighbors know him, and he's been in the neighborhood b4, someone would know something. Wouldn't that them this long if they found the killer, which everyone thinks is him.
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    myxy
    SAD THAT HER MAN, DAVID, DIDN'T HAVE A PLACE OF HIS OWN TO OFFER JEN A QUANTUM OF SOLACE IN.
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    KinkyB
    I kind of understand where she's coming from. J Hud is a celeb so of course she is going to be in the spotlight more. If it wasn't for her this awfully sad news wouldnt be as big as it is. Im not putting any blame on her because I cant imagine any parent being a part of causing harm to her child or any child. Both women need to be consoled and prayed for and they need each other at a time like this.
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    Jordan21
    Very Tragic My prayers go out to them ALLL !!!!!
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    TorreyLove
    wow
     

    BleepThis
    @mskendra79

    I don't know why you people keep forgetting that Jason Hudson was a dope dealer selling dope out of his Momma's house and he was affiliated with one of the most notorious gangs in Chicago so if anyone brought this to the family it was him. Whoever killed them wanted Jason and they took that innocent lil boy and their mother with him and that was wrong but I do believe Julia knows more than she is letting on. There is more to this family and this story when the truth comes out I think we will all be shocked!

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    I was waiting for someone to mention this...stop blaming Julia she may or may not know more but the FAMILY that was living in the house as a whole set their selves up for failure...the mother for allowing it in her house, and the brother/sister for still being at home and involved in this mess...when you are in gangs and sell drugs you put innocent peoples lives in jeopardy as we see...May God shed light on the situation and peace in their hearts.
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    NippyFan
    @Tika90 - She tried to get her Mom out but she wanted to stay. Not only that I haven't heard about her mother having a job and her brother was disabled so I would have to guess that it was Jenn that was paying all the bills in the house b/c a bus driver makes good money but not enough to support herself, her son, her mother, and her brother. Jenn was holding it down for the family but her mother was stubborn.

    Also its the media that is giving Jennifer the attention, Jennifer isn't going after it. Lets remember that we have not seen Jennifer's face ONCE since this incident happened. Jen's not the one on her myspace Every Single Day! Yes her name is part of every news story but she has not wanted any attention at all.
     

    mzarrogance
    I agree MsJNS.

    Also, Julia should feel lucky to grieve in private. I cannot nor do I want to ever have to grieve in the public eye, having reporters and other strangers constantly asking how I'm doing, etc.
     

    mzrespiratory
    if this is true i hope they settle their differences, b/c they are sisters. they need to stick together. it was a great loss to both of them, now they need to be there for eachother. this probably isnt even true.
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    KingRamses2U
    DUHHHHH! Note to Julia: your Sister is a world-wide celebrity so naturally she is getting headlines and not you. However, Jennifer asked at the very outside that the media respect her remaining family's privacy and she has NOT spoken publicly to the press since the incident went down. So why are you mad?

    Unless of course, this entire story is bullshyt and contrived by that homo Fred who owns this internet rag!
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    plug
    i don't belive she at O house
     

    mzarrogance
    @ BleepThis - Also mention that Julian's father and William, the person of interest were also in this gang with the brother. They were AWARE of what was going on, especially Julia. She was the wife of, the in-house sister of and a baby mama of three members of the Ganster Disciples.
     

    Tika90
    Im glad u said that "Bleepthis". People act like they dont want to say nothing about Jens brother and they are focusing on the sister's husband. People fail to realize that Julia possibly cant say anything. Her saying something may put her and other family members in danger.
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    moneylover
    REST IN PEACE TO THE FAMILY, BUT JUILA HASNT LET GO OF THIS MAN YET ION KNO I GUESS SHE STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM SHE SHOULD FEEL BAD
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    DQC
    i wouldnt let her stay at my house. she's kinda sloppy.
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    Tika90
    "money lover"-Let him go???? Where do u guys get this information from?? The man has a child on the way with some chick he was living with. To my understanding they are not even together.
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    BlinkysBabyMama
    It was just a matter of time before this happened.
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    mrspryncess30281
    And what could Julia say? "I'm sorry", "I didn't know." yeah right and for everyone talkin bout Oprah has another agenda, well maybe so but guess what, the story has to be told. Atleast she enjoys to live in Oprah land until she's ready to tell her story. Hell how many talk show host u know let their guest camp out at their homes to get over their grieving process?? Especially an unsolved mystery like this. And is was also a cold- blooded murder. So yall stop hatin on Oprah she gets it up by any means and she gets a lot of respect for being the hustla that she is.
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    fire4u
    @ sexy4ever…

    All I'm saying is Julia needs the love and support just as much a Jennifer if not more she needs to be right there in Oparhs house with her sister so they can get through this together.

    Julia likely needs a damn jail cell if anything! Do not let her fake azz fool you. Jennifer likely sees what a lot of us keeping it real folks see. A sick disillusioned sister who is still in love with a thug that assassinated her entire family. Meanwhile she does a press conference, and logs into my space to chat, and update pages,hours after the murder. She lived with her family for heaven’s sake. How calm can you be in a crisis like this?? Jennifer knows she is phoney, and she clearly sees through her bullshyt. FYI-Julia is also a person of interest in this case and the police have questioned her knowledge of key events. I think some things are about to hit the fan , and Jennifer has clearly separated herself from this sister, so that she is not caught up in the ghetto foolishness that Julia created. Kudo’s to Jennifer for making a bold move and separating herself. Julia could be upgraded from person of interest to suspect. Stranger things have happened.
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    DivaliciousSan1
    Wouldn't wish that kind of grief on anyone. But I knew that was coming. Her sis shld've known better. Everyone is in charge of their own destiny. PERIOD! You chose who u love. You have the power to leave someone alone. Therefore you feel nothing! She did not; she will feel guilt 4 all of her days. She shld NOT be the one angry w J Hud. That's her fault!!!
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    Tika90
    Im sorry to say this, but if Jen's mother allowed dope selling in her house, then those are the consequences. Julia is not the only person to blame, her ex was a dope dealer not her, she has a job, but the brother didn't, the dope selling should not have been allowed in the house, and now they want to blame an outsider, when all the people (except Julian) were the blame behind all what happened.
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    KROW
    THIS STORY IS A SAD ONE. VERY UNFORTUNATE FOR THE SISTERS WHO WILL MORE THAN LIKELY NEVER HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WHERE THEY SUPPORT EACH OTHER. THANK GOD FOR SOMEONE OFFERING JENNIFER A PLACE TO STAY AND SOME PRIVACY DURING THIS TIME. NO ONE IS INNOCENT ANYMORE. I JUST HOPE THAT HER SISTER CAN SHUT HER FAT MOUTH AND GRIEVE THE SAME WAY SHE HAS LIVED UP TO THIS POINT (PRIVATELY), ANYTHING ELSE MAKES HER LOOK SUSPICIOUS AND LIKE AN ATTENTION WHORE. MY HOPE IS THAT THEY BOTH FIND POSITIVE WAYS TO COPE AND THAT WE ALL PUT OUR LIVES IN GOD'S TRUST.
     

    Selector
    Say WHAT Now...
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    Tiff2fresh
    They asked William Balfour to take a lie detector test and he REFUSED! He did it! I been in a situation like this too and you know what it is julia's fault, you don't choose trash over your family!
     

    2SEXXY
    THAT FAT BITCH JULIA IS NOTHING BUT TROUBLE! IF I WAS JENNIFER I WOULD STAY AWAY FROM JULIA BECAUSE OF THE COMPANY THAT SHE KEEPS AND HOW MENTALLY ILL THAT BITCH IS...HER FAT GREASY ASS HAS ALWAYS BEEN JEALOUS OF JENNIFER AND HER SUCCESS...I HAVE A SISTER JUST LIKE THAT ..WHO REMINDS OF ME OF THAT FAT GREASEY JULIA..THATS WHY I STAY AWAY FROM HER AND LIVE FAR AWAY FROM HER ASS AS POSSIBLE..ALTHOUGH WE STILL COMMUNICATE AND KEEP IN TOUCH MY SISTER HAS ALWAYS BEEN JEALOUS OF ME SINCE GROWING UP TOGETHER..SHE HAS ALWAYS BEEN RUNNING THE STREETS HANGING WITH GANGS AND SLEEPIN AROUND WITH THEM THUGG ASS NI99ERS WHO THREATENS HER LIFE...FROM TIME TO TIME..WHILE I KEPT MY HEAD IN THE BOOKS AND DECIDED I WANTED TO MAKE SOMETHING GOOD FOR MYSELF .WHEN I CALL HER TO CHECK UP ON HER AND 1 OF THEM NI99ERS ANSWER THE PHONE THEY ARE SCARED OF ME CUZ I WILL HAVE THEY ASS ARRESTED IF THEY DO HARM TO MY SISTER BUT I WILL NOT I MEAN I WILL NOT STOP MY LIFE JUST TO SAVE MY SISTERS...I LEFT THAT BITCH ALONE AND TOOK CARE OF MY OWN FAMILY..AND WE ARE DOING FINE..IM ON THE WEST SHES ON THE EAST...
     

    NippyFan
    Well the story on [SPAM] is very telling. Julia actually has a photo up on her myspace that says "Now that Jason's gone I'm the prettiest" anyway check out the photo's and Jennifer is in two of them but its interesting to me that Julia looks like she is having the time of her life and Jennifer looks a damn wreck.

    http://www.[SPAM].com/2008/11/07/julia-hudson-now-im-the-prettiest-one/
     

    Tika90
    I dont blame him..They were not even allowing him an attorney.
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    NippyFan
    Well the story on T M Z is very telling. Julia actually has a photo up on her myspace that says "Now that Jason's gone I'm the prettiest" anyway check out the photo's and Jennifer is in two of them but its interesting to me that Julia looks like she is having the time of her life and Jennifer looks a damn wreck.

    http://www.t m z.com/2008/11/07/julia-hudson-now-im-the-prettiest-one/
     

    Darknsexy44
    I don't think this story is reliable, Jen has a condo which is in downtown Chicago. I didn't think Oprah and her were that close..
     

    fire4u
    @ nippy fan..you are right. Jenn took care of the home . the mother insisted on staying . neighbors verified that.
    peep this..i've also heard reports that Julia is still in danger. Sister or no sister, i would not want to be in the line of fire for any intended bullets for her fat azz. I believe this girl created this mess, and has placed her entire family in harm's way. Jennifer is in a secured home with high tech security gates and alarm technology.. far from the ghetto slums that Julia obviously prefers. whatever!
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    donthateonthegreat
    Aww, that was really nice of Oprah! Hopefully Jennifer and Julia will work their problems out. After all it's just the 2 of them left so they should be strong and stick together.

    MTO...Thanks for the update, I was wondering what was going on with them and how they're doing.
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    Tika90
    LMAO @2sexxy..
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    cristall
    I say Jennifer is making the right move. Usually, I would feel empathy for someone like Julia, but it just wasn't there. Jennifer is going to have to move on and find sisters, friends, etc. elswhere. It is the safest thing to do and it is in her best interest. She's a beautiful, talented young woman (I love her cd, especially "Jesus Promised Me A Home Over There").
    She needs to grieve, heal to the extent that she can, embrace the blessings that God has for her and thank him that her mother was able to live long enough to propel her in the right direction.
     

    Karisma
    The whole situation is sad. I hope they get to the bottom of this and soon. I wonder where Julia is staying. Some people said this was going to happen, rather hope that it happen so I hope you guys feel good about it now. It's amazing that they have found the gun that was used on all the vicitims and they still can't find who did it. It's alot still not being said about this case and I'm not sure myself if Julia don't know more then what she's saying. Her and her brother were close enough in the game that they both got locked up in 02 on drug charges and I'm sure it didn't stop then. This is a prime example on what many of us said about "watching who you bring around your family" The guilt that Julia is feeling maybe because she knows more then what she said, not just the fact that she lost her family and was married to the suspect. If that's not the case her grief should be still strong because the question of "What if I never met him?" has to cross her mind at least once. If not, then she may need counsel because she's not processing things correctly. Who knows what's going on behind closed doors. I can't see Oprah opening up her doors to just Jennifer and David and NOT Julia if everything was cool between Jennifer and Julia. I pray they get things together. They already lost family don't need to lose each other.
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    PAPERBOY
    WTF! SOMTHING WRONG WITH THAT BYTCH..
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    PunchDrunkPretty
    I never understood that. I know someone who moved in with someone else after a close family member died. We were all like??? This other person was someone she found impressive and it just confounded us...I don't understand why she couldn't bring her sister instead of her fiance. This sounds fishy and I for one believe she's a diva. I hope she doesn't think she's better than her sis. Although, I would be a bit miffed at her as well. I think she lacks emotional intelligence...myspace the day of your mom's and brother's murders and your son's kidnapping?
     

    efbphee
    THAT'S [EXPLETIVE] UP, TRAGEDY IS SUPPOSED TO BRING FAMILY CLOSER TOGETHER. OPRAH NEEDS TO MOVE HER SISTER IN TOO, THEY NEED SOME COUNSELING
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    cristall
    I hear you, 2Sexxy. My sister ridiculed me amongst family members for years because I'm single. She married a man who had another woman pregnant and wound up paying most of the bills while he continued to whore around and spend the little money that he makes on whatever. She thought having a couple of kids would change him, but it did not. When she finally decided to get a divorce, she tried to keep it a secret. She didn't realize that such notices are posted in the paper. And she had the nerve to get upset when she found out that everyone had known for months. Today, she's overweight, unhealth, bitter, obsessed with church and struggling. My mom begged her not to marry that man, but she wouldn't listen. He's not a thug, but he obviously wasn't good marriage material. It took her 15 years to figure that out.
     

    myxy
    MTO, why no story about the Blood Bath at WBLS in NYC. Many people FIRED!!!

    Wendy Williams lost most of her staff. TREV HOLLYWOOD, TARIN AND CHARLAMAGNE GONE!!!!!

    Wendy must have MTO in check!!!

    http://www.[SPAM].com/2008/11/wendy_williams_radio_shak.html
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    Drac
    Props to Oprah...

    Jennifer and Julia, remember ya'll blood, family is all you have left in the end!
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    myxy
    [SPAM]
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    Tika90
    Who Julia married has nothing to do with anyone, if this scrub did not do it. Now if he did then, ok I hear ya!
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    cristall
    This is a tragic situation and I sincerely hope that our empathy for the pain that the Hudson family is feeling will cause more people to think twice about the senseless, brutal violence that is destroying families and communities. If we can feel for Jennifer over this, we can feel for others and do better. This should not be the norm in any community. It should not be acceptable if the victim is a celebrity or everyday person.
     

    fire4u
    From t . m. z. web site
    Two weeks to the day after her mother, brother, and son were brutally murdered, it's hard not to point out what Jennifer Hudson's sister Julia is saying with words and pictures on her MySpace page.
    Most bewildering is this: Under one picture Julia writes, "NOW THAT JASON'S GONE I'M THE PRETTIEST ONE," an apparent reference to brother Jason, whose body was found shot to death along with their mother's. Other photos show her partying with friends
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    cristall
    It's none of my business, but I'm going to ask anyway. What is appealing about a thug who just spent seven years in jail for attempted murder, looks like hell and doesn't have a job?
     

    Karisma
    @topic: now that I think about it
    @fire4u: I started to think the same thing about Julia or Jennifer being in danger. People usually don't move around so much, not as much as Jennifer has if it wasn't something serious and the media is not what I'm talking about. Even when Jennifer was in a public hotel they didn't get a picture of her so privacy isn't a issue. She keep moving around like she can't stay at one place for too long. Gosh this is so sad...
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    opining
    It’s sad, but not surprising, especially since one is in the public eye as an entertainer and the other is not. However, there is always “more” to a story than what we are seeing on the surface…especially when the reader has no personal relationship with the people in question.

    Twice I have read here in the comments that both Julia and her deceased brother were involved in criminal activities related to a well known gang there. Twice I have read that Jennifer either attended school with William Balfour or knew him in some way “other” than through her sister’s relationship with him. And everyone knows her mother chose to stay in the home she managed to raise them in. So the “story” of this family does not begin with Jennifer’s lucky turn in life due to American Idol and end with these murders possibly at the hands of her ex brother-in-law. There is background about their environment, family etc. that most aren’t privy too until/unless some investigative report exposes everyone…to include Jennifer. For all we know had she not been afforded the opportunity to meet people outside the circle of her environment…she may have been huddled up in an apartment somewhere with a guy named Pookie instead of Oprah’s private estate…and STILL have the same issues she’s having with her sister now.
     

    IMSONEGATIVE
    I KIND OF KNEW THAT WAS GOIN TO HAPPEN! ITS ALWAYS STAGES WHEN A DEATH HAPPEN!CONFUSED,SORROR,DISCONNECTED,ACCEPTANCE, DENIAL, ANGER,DEPRESSION, LOVE AND RESENTMENT! PROBABLY NOT IN THAT ORDER BUT THOSE ARE THE STAGES! TIME WILL HEAL ALL WOUNDS! DONT KNOW WHEN BUT TIME WILL HEAL! PRAYIN FOR YA FAMILY JENNIFER!
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    Tika90
    @ cristall.....I guess being in jail that long tunrned her on, cause he wansn't getting in coochie. I bet she tore that dick up....lol
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    critique101
    Very sad situation. I hope both Jennifer and Julia work out their differences. Especially at a time like this they need one another.
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    Tika90
    oops! I thought they would bleep d(*k out.... sorry! I dont even talk like that..
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    cristall
    Jennifer's mother seems like a woman with a loving heart. If the stories about the drug dealing are true, this is even more tragic. I attended the funeral of a dear family friend a couple of years ago. As it turns out, her grandson is a drug dealer and he had been giving her and family members money/gifts for years. He paid for extra limos for the family. This was a woman that I've known for years and she and her family were very big in the church. No amount of money is worth the associated risks.
     

    ClairvoyantInBoston
    There is something going on that the police department is being very quiet about and obviously Jennifer got word of it. The suspicions of her sister Julia. I am sure they are checking to see if there is any money trails here in regard to insurance policies. Her cellphone records are also in question around the days before and after the murders. Jennifer is now suspicious of her sister and rightly so. She has to be until the investigation is completed and has to protect herself. I am sure the police department insisted upon it. There is something terribly wrong with this Julia person. Her big mouth and arrogance could have very well gotten her entire family killed. This case will be wrapped up fairly soon.

    ClairvoyantOfTruth.com
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    fire4u
    who cares about "whose the prettiest one" ??..Girl, your got-damn mama and son and brother just died. your fat azz is sick..you jenny craig reject! what a simple azz heffa. get your fat azz off of myspace . com please!!
    Don't you read? T .M . Z. 's website is watching everything you post and they are re- posting it and putting you on blast. the dam page ain't even private. you clearly want attention! you are an embarrasment not only to Jen, but to other black women of color. i wish Chris(the owner of my space) would shut your damn account down...you ghetto queen. smdh
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    rexchap
    While NO ONE deserves this.....You sorry azz LOW ESTEEM BYTCHES who keep choosing these LOW LIFES bring some of this drama on yourselves

    while ANY ONE can go OFF, ALOT can be avoided. SOme of this cat's issues where ALREADY ON DISPLAY. Why some of you deal with FELONS, is beyond ME.

    Raise your expectation bar, that's HALF the battle right there. Stop waiting on some CONVICT.

    Sure Mr White collar can go off, but with his earning potential, chances are probably better that the ghetto mentality is probably further removed.

    All you THUG loving BYTCHES get what you deserve....nobody deserves all THIS, but you KNOW WTF you got and you CHOSE it.

    SO i don't feel sorry for too many of you. Dudes ain't lining up to get with a BUM BYTCH....he may line up to PHUCK A HOE, but that's just SOME AZZ.

    You don't like it, I don't give a PHUCK.

    You wanna deal with or wait on a CONVICT...shame on ya. You don't ask for MUCH in life
     

    carisma81
    This is not shocking news. If I were Jennifer I would have to be just as distant from Julia too. ANd I thought there was some tension between those two. I even feel that maybe Jennifer feels that Julia knows more than shes leading on as well.

    Also as for Julias mourning be unacknowledged Why the FCUK does she care about all of that? Because she is craving for attention... well she is getting it but in a negative light. Plus basically most of the ppl the knows about this feels that Julia aint acting right and seems a bit suspect but Jennifers actions shows that she is actually GRIEVING and in shock and SADDENED unlike JULIA. THATS WHY SWEETIE, thats why.
     

    moneylover
    @ TO THE GUL WIT NO NAME WIT THE BLACK SHIRT
    " I SAID SHEN LET HIM GO" SHE GOT THIS N!GGA ON HER MYSPACE STILL SO WHAT THAT TELL YA??? WHERE DO U GET CHO INFO FRM YEA I KNO HE GOT A CHILD ON DA WAY.. SO WAT UM TALKIN BOUT JUILA HE MIGHT HAVE MOVED ON BUT SHE HASNT YA SEE WAT UM TRYNNA SAY.. SO UM THREW WITH THIS SUBJECT.. NEXT!!
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    mommahips
    I WAS HOPIN THIS WOULDN'T HAPPEN, BUT IT WAS INEVITABLE....I HOPE J HUD IS GETTIN SOME GOOD COUNSELIN @ OPRAH'S.....THIS IS JUST SAD, MY HEART GOES OUT TO J HUD AND HER SISTER JULIA!!!!!
     

    PureSweetness
    That's really sad what they're going through. Everyone makes mistakes in their life, and unfortunately Julia's mistake was chosing him to love, but it is certainly not her fault. No one should blame her, my gosh she lost her only son in this tragedy as well as her mother and brother. So for anyone to blame her is just heartless. I honestly hope this is just a bad rumor and they are both consoling each other! My heart goes out to them.
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    LuckyS
    fire4u

    i just went on t.m.z. site and read what
    she said under the picture. WOW is all i
    can say. Now her true colors are coming out.
    At this point she really needs to shut her
    myspace page down because the world is watching
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    fire4u
    @ karisma...
    Even when Jennifer was in a public hotel they didn't get a picture of her so privacy isn't a issue. She keep moving around like she can't stay at one place for too long. Gosh this is so sad...
    *****
    Exactly!!She even entered the funeral through a secret location away from photographers. She is not only hiding from them, she may be hiding from the alleged killers that are still out there. This was obviously a hit. And the police believe others are involved. Julia clearly knew about this crap..but kept playing with fire. She clearly stated in her press conference that quote “if you got beef with me, don’t harm my son”, put him on the curve” and let him go”. This girl is "suspect" and a threat to Jennifer’s safety, at this point. There’s so much we don’t know yet, so better safe than sorry. Kudo’s to Oprah.
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    yellahamma
    julia seems to be ok it seems...my heart only goes out to jennifer, after reading about the funerals and how jennifer took time to walk up to each indiviual body and say "good-bye" why wasnt it reported that julia did the same..now i know everyone grieves totally different from the next person but the whole thing just seems weird, oprah is a good person
     

    rexchap
    PureSweetness....BULL SHYT

    it IS JULIA'S fault for loving this cat. The fact that she KNEW he wasn't SHYT.

    SHE KNEW who he was

    he wasn't the BOY"S dad and probably was like ALOT of women..... "I NEED A MAN"

    She had LOW EXPECTATIONS.

    You CAN'T get to STEP 2 unless you do STEP 1 which is actually giving the NUKKA THE TIME OF DAY

    Bullshyt to what you saying.

    Stop making excuses for WOMENS BAD CHOICES!!!!
     

    MSGA
    How does ANYone know what Julia is doing.. All you hear about is JENNIFER...JENNIFER...JENNIFER..
    So who knows what Julia is feeling. Everyone is so concerned about Jennifer and what she feels. They both lost a parent and brother, but Julia lost a child, do you hear me folks... A Child that she gave birth too...
     

    TROOPER
    I REALLY DON'T FEEL LIKE TALKING ABOUT THIS BECAUSE, MY PRESIDENT IS BLACK AND UNO THE REST!

    BUT ANYWAY, IF JULIA DID HAVE SOMETHING TO DO WITH THIS. THEN RIGHT NOW SHE'S SHOWING THE SIGNS OF A PERSON THAT DID SOMETHING TO HEAR HER NAME ON T.V. LIKE I WAS WATCHING I BELIEVE C.S.I. AND THE SUSPECT WAS KILLING AND DOING THINGS TO GET CAUGHT JUST SO HE CAN HEAR HIS NAME ON T.V. AND GO DOWN IN HISTORY AS THE SERIAL KILLER OR SOME [EXPLETIVE]. BUT WHEN THEY ARRESTED HIM THE PUT A QUESTION MARK OVER A BLACK OUT FACE AND DIDN'T SAY HIS NAME ON THE NEWS WHICH MADE HIM MAD CUZ HE DID'T GET THE FAME HE WAS WISHING TO GET. SO I'M SAYING THIS BECAUSE JULIA NAME IS MENTION BUT WHEN THEY MENTION JULIAN THEY SAY JENNIFER NEPHEW SON OF HER SISTER JULIA. THAT'S WHAT [EXPLETIVE] HER OFF CUZ SHE'S STILL NOT FIRST.
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    mypharrell
    I will still pray for them but.....

    Come on Julia....what's wrong.....awww u want to live iin the spotlight and need a lil attention.....?????

    Come on now why is she trippin on the fact that nobody is acknowleding (spell check) her??? I'm sorry but you would think that after losing a child that she would be somewhere to herself and with family than worried about a camera or storys about how she feels on the news and media!!!!! Sh** look at Jennifer she is trying to avoid the media becuz she jus lost people so special to her.....!!!!! Things jus don't sound right. I know if my child was killed I wouldn't give a damn on what was going on!!!!
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    TracyLLo
    My spirit is not ready to convict Julia Hudson just yet. I think many of you who come down on Julia need to walk in her shoes for a minute or so. How would you feel about everything that has transpired. A horrible animal who you once loved wanted to destroy you and your family. Why can't you people see this and show so support to her. She does't deserve all the condemnation coming down on her. This woman has a ready tough road to travel and this will always hang over her head and be in her every thought. My upmost support and prayers goes out to Julia and Jennifer Hudson. We as black people have to be family when a tragedy like this happens to one another. I know she will alway miss her lovely son more than life itself...please have some compassion my black people. I'm sure if the shoe was on the other foot...she would offer her upmost support to you all.
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    VicSage
    This was inevitable...Jennifer has every right to feel the way that she does...
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    nanamonie
    this is so sad,I hope jennifer and julia stay together for the sake of their familly its only the two of them now and this is going to be hard,no matter what happens julia has lost a son as well and didnt want this to happen so they shouldnt let that dumb ass of ex hunsband do more damage than he already has done in that familly...stick together girls your mama would have loved this...
     

    sikdamc
    Half of me feels the sister has something to do with it...more than she's saying, like she set it up...BUT, I don't wanna think that because I don't know them obviously...she just a little suspect to me though
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    RainaBee
    Oprah is the ish! So please visit my page www.myspace.com/rainasupawoman and vote 4 all my entries im trying to win a scholarship.Thnx!
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    Tika90
    "money-lover" If the guy didn't kill her family, she doesn't have to let him go unless she wants to, she is still married to him. And so what she got him on myspace, they may not even be the real Julia Hudson...Yall give "MySpace" to much recognition.
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    2island4gurl2
    @sikdamc i agree with you,she does seem a little bit strange,i will still keep them in my prayers
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    cristall
    Anyone remember the sister from the movie, The Bodyguard? Turns out she secretly resented her sister's success and ordered the hit.
     

    nanamonie
    i dont believe that oprah will offer jennifer to stay at her place and not julia that is not true...oprah is a very intelligent and warm person in a situation like this no matter what's going between the two sisters(and im sure that they get along very well and are each other support right now)she will not take one and leave the other in such a difficult time..so lets all ignore the wrong information the media are giving us and lets keep the girls in our prayers lets remenber julia has above all lost her son its the most tragic thing for a mother she doesnt need to read [EXPLETIVE] written about her....
     

    cutenkinky
    MsKendra79 Flag post

    And the media is milking this for all it's worth they don't talk about how Julia is grieving I mean for God's sake she lost a child her only child at that in the worst way. And Oprah has a agenda she's going to make sure she get's Jennifer's story first before anyone.
    _-----
    I agree. This is Oprah we are talking about. If it doesn’t make dollars it doesn’t make sense.

    sexy4ever Flag post

    If she wasn't a star then this would just be another said story the world would hear about and after a while it would go away like everything else but because it Jennifer Hudson its a big deal. All I'm saying is Julia needs the love and support just as much a Jennifer if not more she needs to be right there in Oparhs house with her sister so they can get through this together.

    I was wondering where Julia has been staying and why wouldn’t Oprah extend the invitation to Julia as well as Jennifer and David unless of course as MsKendra79 put it, Oprah has an agenda.

    MsKendra79 Flag post

    Let's not forget Jennifer went to school with William so she knew him first. There are pictures on Julia's myspace page with him and Jennifer. I don't know why you people keep forgetting that Jason Hudson was a dope dealer selling dope out of his Momma's house and he was affiliated with one of the most notorious gangs in Chicago so if anyone brought this to the family it was him. Whoever killed them wanted Jason and they took that innocent lil boy and their mother with him and that was wrong but I do believe Julia knows more than she is letting on. There is more to this family and this story when the truth comes out I think we will all be shocked!
    Also, let’s not forget Julia’s first husband, Gregory King was also affiliated with that gang and was involved in the raid that took place at the home in 2002.
    Jason was shot twice in the head which leads me to think he may have been the intended target. He was shot in the leg some time this year, refused medical treatment and was using a cane. What was that about? A warning perhaps?
    I think Darnel was an innocent bystander and poor Julian was in the wrong place and the wrong time and saw too much.

    I have not figured out in my own mind what part Julia played in this mess. It has been reported that the family may have been murdered with Jason’s gun. Could Julia have provided the murder weapon? Is this all a plot to get back at William? I do not think she is totally guiltless and she is definitely holding something back.

    I still say William Balfour did not do this. Is he a drug dealer? Yes, It has been proven. Is he a drug user? Yes, it has been proven. He is also a car thief that foolishly took a man on a ride and nearly killed him. The courts said attempted murder, I disagree but that is neither here nor there. All of those things do not make William Balfour a cold blooded murdered.

    Julia and Jennifer knew William. They grew up with him. It isn’t like he was a complete and total stranger to them. They had history. I don’t buy that story about Jennifer being upset with Julia for “bringing” William because it appears he was always around.

    Jennifer may be Hollywood now but she was “hood.” I think she may know a little bit about what is going on too. She didn’t go to Idol until 2004. That means she was around during that 2002 raid.

    What was keeping Darnel there? Did she not want to leave Jason and Julia because she knew they were both knuckle heads? Why were her grown son and daughter still living in the house even after it was raided?

    MsKendra79 said, “There is more to this family and this story when the truth comes out I think we will all be shocked!”

    I totally agree.
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    Conscious1
    "And Julia suspects the true depth of her pain is going unacknowledged. "She probably feels the spotlight has been on Jennifer's struggle, completely overshadowed by the fact that she lost a son," a family friend tells OK!"
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    You see...I told y'ALL this bitch was a cold fish. She's narcissistic, "Oh I am the one who lost a son...pay attention to me."

    This jealous, lard-ass, big pussy bitch needing sterilization don't deserve no sympathy! Her weakness for big dicks cost her family their lives and Jennifer her family...but out of all that, she can only think about everyone paying attention to Jennifer. Under different circumstances, the MOTHER would get the attention, but she was no mother and damn near a co-conspirator (heck she brought the mofo into their lives).

    FUKK YOU JULIA WITH A BIG DISEASED DIKK YOU HOG FACE BITCH!!!!!

    Witcho ole Flowers in the Attic ways....

    I'm done!
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    Antidumb
    Screw Julia she learned the ULTIMATE LESSON the HARD WAY.

    PERIOD

    She unfortunately ruined MANY lives in the process just to say her FAT ASS had a man.

    She has NO STANDARDS.

    And it would take me a LONG WHILE to forgive my sister.

    How could she ever make this up? She lived with this man who had ALL THE SIGNS of having a NEGATIVE MENTALITY.

    THe family was trying to RISE UP and she BROUGHT THEM DOWN.

    I pray for Jennifer, and hope that she can get through this. Everytime I see her or look at her I think of this tragedy.

    Another GIFT from her Sister that she has to walk around with the fact that her family became a NEGATIVE STATISTIC in the most UNBELIEVABLE way, I don't think I've heard of other incidents like this in terms of someone being a celebrity.

    He didn't even KILL HIMSELF, so this wasn't a crime of passion, this was bod and straight from some GHETTO CRAP.

    POOR JENNIFER
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    Conscious1
    If it turns out this was drug related, then I apologize. I'm learning towards the drugs angle because of the EXECUTION that was carried out. For all we know, the brother was in some stuff. Don't like to talk ill of the dead but...

    Well anyways, it if was in fact, Balfour....I STAND BY EVERYTHING!!!!!
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    prvallen
    I have a daughter and she is my everyting; as well as my nieces and nephews! I thank God for her and them daily and I don't know how it feels to lose a child and I pray that I never find out.

    My prayers to the Hudson family.
     

    Conscious1
    *leaning
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    moneylover
    @ NO NAME
    UHN HUH
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    Da H.B.I.C.!! rememba dat tr!ck!

    knowtheledge
    Julia will have to deal with the fact that, right or wrong,she will be blamed for bringing that lowlife into their lives.
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    Conscious1
    Y[SPAM]Oo I just checked out the, "Julia's new photos on myspace" thread.

    Why is Julia trying me?????
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    SugarCake
    Jennifer needs to stay far away from her psycho sister!



    From [SPAM]:

    "Two weeks to the day after her mother, brother, and son were brutally murdered, it's hard not to point out what Jennifer Hudson's sister Julia is saying with words and pictures on her MySpace page.

    Most bewildering is this: Under one picture Julia writes, "NOW THAT JASON'S GONE I'M THE PRETTIEST ONE," an apparent reference to brother Jason, whose body was found shot to death along with their mother's.

    Other photos show her partying with friends."



    That is not normal AT ALL! Julia is one SICK BITCH!!! She probably had something to do with the murders!
     

    DecemberSag127
    I wish Oprah was my friend.
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    lovejoydiva
    Damn, I would live with Oprah anytime!!
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    getreal01
    I agree with both sides. Julia did lose her baby but Jennifer is probably mad as hell that her sister's husband killed her whole family. I knew things would probably come to this. They need sister counseling. They only have eachother left. I love Oprah she's only trying to protect Jennifer's career.
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    hot2trot
    They would be both dumb to be the last surviving memebers of their family line and end up enemies. Playing the blame game will help neither of them, they need forgiveness, counselling and love each other more than before, because they are all each other have.
     

    Mills1580
    Can I live in one of your houses O?
     

    lydia
    i don't believe she's staying with oprah. i think she's moving from hotel to hotel for safety reasons.
     

    lovejoydiva
    @cutenkinky

    Oprah don't want Julia in her house eating all her food!!
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    monique2468
    they need to stick together
     

    YESIDID
    WHAT SHE HAS THAT ON HER PAGE SHE THE PRETTY ONE? COME ON NOW.. SHE IS DELUSIONAL.. DAMN! THATS MESSED UP.. RIP AND MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO THE FAMILY.. BUT IM STILL STUCK ON HER THINKING SHE IS PRETTY.. WOWSERS! EEKK.
     

    fire4u
    @ consicious 1..
    You see...I told y'ALL this bitch was a cold fish. She's narcissistic, "Oh I am the one who lost a son...pay attention to me."
    This jealous, lard-ass, big pussy bitch needing sterilization don't deserve no sympathy!
    *****
    lmao!!! now see that's the Henny with no coke. on the rocks! i agree she wants attention shifted to her. as if at her size, she does not already get plenty. smdh.
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    Tagirl25
    Oprah does a lot genuine stuff. She doesn't do everything just to be seen.
    I think she's truly genuine about this.
    She doesn't need to be the first to break the story.
    I doubt if she even asks Jennifer to talk about the story after all of this is said and done over with.

    I just don't think so.

    As far as Jen & Julia's relationship, we don't know the particulars so I won't comment on it.
    However, Jennifer was destined to get a lot of media attention because her career was just soaring at the time of the murders with the movie and the album. It was a shocker, and she's a public figure, so of course every news media was going to be talking about it. Everyone understands that. I pray for Julia too, but before this, I didn't even know Jennifer had a sister, and I'm sure I'm not the only one, so of course Jennifer's going to stay at forefront of everyone's mind.
    It doesn't diminish anything about how Julia is feeling, because in truth, she did lose the most, it's just that Jennifer is the most well known. That's it.
    If Jennifer hadn't been part of this story then the 3 murders would've been just another homicide case to add to the over 400 murders that have already happened in Chicago this year.

    I can't imagine living in a city so full of murders. I pray Tampa never gets like that.
     

    lovejoydiva
    I really do not think that Oprah is comforting her just to get the 1st interview!! She may be a business woman but she has a heart! Plus....it's a given that she will get the 1st interview because she's OPRAH and they both are from Chi-town and Jennifer trusts her!
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    lydia
    @mskendra79 said
    Let's not forget Jennifer went to school with William so she knew him first. There are pictures on Julia's myspace page with him and Jennifer. I don't know why you people keep forgetting that Jason Hudson was a dope dealer selling dope out of his Momma's house and he was affiliated with one of the most notorious gangs in Chicago so if anyone brought this to the family it was him. Whoever killed them wanted Jason and they took that innocent lil boy and their mother with him and that was wrong but I do believe Julia knows more than she is letting on. There is more to this family and this story when the truth comes out I think we will all be shocked!
    -----

    i totally agree. that's why balfour hasn't been officially charged with the crime yet. there's more to it than what's been released to the public.

    it's obvious that julia is mentally unstable. instead of supporting punks loser ass, jhud need to do whatever it takes to get her sister the help she so desperately needs. your sister is your blood. whatever it takes, do it now! instead of spending your resources and quality time on legal reject punk, spend it on your sister before it's too late. she is in dire need of help.

    get her a psychiatric evaluation. she's a driver, hire her as your personal driver. just do something before it's too late. she's desperately reaching out for the 'spotlight' too. allow her in like you did punk.
     

    lovejoydiva
    @fire4u

    big pu$$y b!tch!! lol lol lol how did you get that through the sensors!
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    Honey_Dip08
    Sorry to hear that but I think they need to pull together because they need each other more than ever now...
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    TracyLLo
    Julia does have a alright face...it's just that she overweight you can't see she's attrative.
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    Girlsluvgems
    This is really no time for them to be TURNING ON EACHOTHER!!! Jen IS taking all of the SPOTLIGHT. She needs to be with her FAMILY not in Oprah's ROMANTIC hideaway condo with PUNK's punk ass...


    R.I.P. Julian, Jason & Miss Darnell
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    Girlsluvgems
    This is really no time for them to be TURNING ON EACHOTHER!!! Jen IS taking all of the SPOTLIGHT. She needs to be with her FAMILY not in Oprah's ROMANTIC hideaway condo with PUNK's punk ass...


    R.I.P. Julian, Jason & Miss Darnell
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    fire4u
    @ lydia....

    other articles and webites report that she indeed is staying at Oprah's place. it's true. Oprah has more than one place...though.(she likely let her stay there until things blow over.
    article...
    Washington, Nov 7 (ANI): Talk show queen Oprah Winfrey has lend protection to mourning Jennifer Hudson by hiding the actress out at her luxury Chicago, Illinois apartment, according to reports.

    The Oscar winners mother and brother were found shot dead on at their Chicago residence.
    Jennifer has been staying at Oprah’’s East Lake Shore Drive condo. There’’s plenty of privacy and security there,” Contactmusic quoted a source, as telling America’’s Star magazine.
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    trueSTARs
    she mad caz her sis got poor judgement choosing men to date. but can u blame Julia, she is FAT. and fat girls settle for any type of man just to be able to hav one. he could be a fuking serial killer with HIV n he'll find love with a FATWOMAN.
     

    fire4u
    lovejoydiva Flag post
    @fire4u

    big pu$$y b!tch!! lol lol lol how did you get that through the sensors!
    *****
    LMAO! GIRL, COUSCIOUS1 POSTED THAT. I CAN'T TAKE CREDIT. LOL! I COPY/ PASTED HER BLOG TO RESPOND TO HER POST. THAT SHYT WAS FUNNY AS HELL.
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    Conscious1
    fire4u Flag post
    @ consicious 1..
    You see...I told y'ALL this bitch was a cold fish. She's narcissistic, "Oh I am the one who lost a son...pay attention to me."
    This jealous, lard-ass, big pussy bitch needing sterilization don't deserve no sympathy!
    *****
    lmao!!! now see that's the Henny with no coke. on the rocks! i agree she wants attention shifted to her. as if at her size, she does not already get plenty. smdh.
    =====
    LOL She gon' drive me to drink...and I DON'T drink.

    With her selfish ass. Gluttony is a sin. By the looks of her, she been SINNING!
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    WhatAnIdiot
    If it was a drug raid I"D STILL BLAME HER!! Jason and the childs father were involved in a drug raid AT THE HOUSE a few years ago..CPS should have removed Julian at that point SMH but anyway she jumps from one piece of sh*t to the next. They grew up with Balfour and his as* spends 7 years locked up and as soon as she has a kid with another man she jumps on his dick! Isn't she married to him? Why is her last name King like the baby daddy and not Balfour if she's married to him?


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    @ Tika

    The problem with her getting back with Balfour if he's innocent (which I HIGHLY doubt) is the fact that HE HAS ANOTHER GIRL PREGNANT AS WELL AS A THIRD GIRLFRIEND ACCORDING TO HIS MOTHER!! His mother told Nancy Grace that Julia spent her birthday with him and then in less than a few hours he was with the other chick. Remember, he was found at his girlfriends house! How desperate can she get?!? I hate to say this but this poor child was free from his misery of growing up in such a troubling environment. CPS should of went harder when the raid took place. This is just sickening.
     

    cashmonet140
    Frome viewing Julia's Myspace. She has alwyas been JEALOUS of Jennifer I mean honestly look at her. In one pic she has the caption " you can see who the real beaty is" or some foolishness to that extent. While she was on myspace accepting friends request( I sent her one and she accepted) she seems to have been relinquishing in her 15 mins of fame... to me I get the black sheep syndrome on this one... Jen is like the Marsha and she's jan.... Everybody's not the same... julia need to go sit down she know that crazy boy aint want her from the beginning. I don't know why these women can't just love themselves first its very very easy trust me
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    ashstew84
    WELL THEYLL BE IN MY PRAYERS GRIEF IS A HARD THING TO DEAL WITH AND THE HEALING PROCESS IS A VERY LONG AND HARD JOURNEY
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    cashmonet140
    P.S. I think God has ALOT in store for Jennifer Hudson.. SHE SHOULD MOVE TO LA ADN FOCUS SOLELY ON ACTING..There is nothing in Chicago for her anymore...THE SKY"S THE LIMIT> and your angels are all right there to bless you babe.. DON"T STOP! WE ALL LOVE YOU!
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    lydia
    damn! i just logged on to the other site and read what julia wrote "now that jason's gone i'm the prettiest one" and it made me realize that she is sicker than i thought. she's in dire need of our prayers! she's probably suicidal.

    JHUD IF YOU ARE READING THIS. HELP YOUR FLESH AND BLOOD. SHE'S ALL THAT'S LEFT OF YOUR IMMEDIATE FAMILY!
     

    timewilltell
    @tjtrae1

    The reason for that is Julia may have had them killed, she looks so suspicious.....it may have been a money thing. It's like why is she the only one alive and her family is dead, everyone was killed except for Julia which is strange, I believe she had something to do with it.
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    Ashanti 4 Life- Murda!

    timewilltell
    @tjtrae1

    The reason for that is Julia may have had them killed, she looks so suspicious.....it may have been a money thing. It's like why is she the only one alive and her family is dead, everyone was killed except for Julia which is strange, I believe she had something to do with it.
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    Ashanti 4 Life- Murda!

    timewilltell
    @tjtrae1

    The reason for that is Julia may have had them killed, she looks so suspicious.....it may have been a money thing. It's like why is she the only one alive and her family is dead, everyone was killed except for Julia which is strange, I believe she had something to do with it.
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    Ashanti 4 Life- Murda!

    getreal01
    I just talked to my friend in Chicago and she said that Julia has been partying it up with her friends enjoying her new found fame. Check out pics on http://www.[SPAM].com/

    While Jenny is honestly mourning the loss of her family. She believes that Julia is doing this and saying crazy stuff out of anger and denial. She posted new pics on her myspace of herself and friends partying it up while Jenny is hurting. Jennifer has been staying close to her fiance when she can and her best friend. Julia is still trying to figure all of this shyt out. Once reality hits her it's going to be a bytch,
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    getreal01
    Website is [SPAM]
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    fire4u
    @ CLARA..Oprah is a creep for helping one sister and not the other. Oprah is causing MORE DAMAGE to Jennifer by taking in that opportunitst Otunga to support Jennifer, instead of her flesh and blood sister.
    *****
    OPRAH IS NOT TO BLAME. OBVIOUSLY JENNIFER DID NOT WANT JULIA THERE. OPRAH DOES NOT EVEN KNOW JULIA..SO THIS IS JENNIFER'S DECISION.THERE IS CLEARLY FRICTION BETWEEN THE 2 SISTERS. PRETTY SOON THINGS WILL HIT THE FAN AND WE WILL UNDERSTAND MORE. I BELIEVE SHE WOULD HAVE LET HER MOVE WITH HER DURING ALL THIS TURMOIL IF ALL WAS WELL. OBVIOUSLY, JULIA IS STILL "A PERSON OF INTEREST" AND WILL BE SPENDING MOST OF HER TIME ON MY SPACE AND AT THE CHICAGO HEADQUARTERS ANSWERING QUESTIONS. OPRAH AND JENNIFER HAVE CLASS AND ETIQUETTE,AND ARE BEING SMART. ANY PUBLICIST WOULD ADVISE YOU TO SEPERATE YOURSELF FROM THIS GHETTO QUEEN..UNTIL AFTER THE INVESTIGATIONS. SOMETIMES IT'S KNOWN AS TOUGH LOVE. STAY TUNED, THERE'S MORE TO COME.
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    cristall
    Here's another issue. Jennifer is engaged to a Harvard educated attorney (aka Punk). On the other hand, Julia is married to a convicted felon. Go figure.
     

    LADIVA9
    Oprah is awesome for doing this in her time of need. She's probably now like a mother figure to her, and next to God, she's someone Jennifer needs right now? But yeah what about Julia's hurt? I pray God grants them peace.
     

    Conscious1
    Wait Jason was a drugdealer and apart of a notorious gang?????
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    lydia
    i just checked out the other thread on mto and i take everything i said previously on this thread back. that girl needs to be institutionalized and kept the f*ck away from jhud!
     

    tjtrae1
    @timewilltell in the RHIANNA thread 80% of the post used the word pregnant when we all know that there could be a million reasons why a woman might pass out and in this thread everybody a policeman and they know Julia had something to do with. My first question would be especially to the women on this post how many women do you know that would want their child murdered and murdered in that way.At this point JULIA is only gulity of marrying a man with a violent history who in fact hasn't been charged with anything. Bottom line Oprah is wrong for this and black people we should not to rush to judgement you are innocent until proven gulity.
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    Girlsluvgems
    I am getting so tired of Jen & Punk's OPPORTUNIST ASSES!!!!


    Two reality show rejects with lucky breaks! She SHOULD NOT HAVE OPRAH INVOLED IN THIS!!! SOOO TACKY!!!!


    I knew something was funny about her when they said "she was SHOPPING for ENDORSEMENTS for her Wedding"...don't people just get MARRIED anymore...No Celebrities need a Coca Cola logo across the pulpit.


    Jen go home to your family and stop this nonsense...THEY NEED YOU AS MUCH AS YOU NEED THEM!!!

    YOU DONT KNOW PUNK'S PUNK ASS!!!! He could be William, Jeffrey & Ted COMBINED!!!!


    Go home girl and stop this charade...
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    WhatAnIdiot
    Conscious1


    Hey mami! Yea, there was an article on T..M..Z...It should still be on there a few pages back
     

    Girlsluvgems
    I am getting so tired of Jen & Punk's OPPORTUNIST ASSES!!!!


    Two reality show rejects with lucky breaks! She SHOULD NOT HAVE OPRAH INVOLED IN THIS!!! SOOO TACKY!!!!


    I knew something was funny about her when they said "she was SHOPPING for ENDORSEMENTS for her Wedding"...don't people just get MARRIED anymore...No Celebrities need a Coca Cola logo across the pulpit.


    Jen go home to your family and stop this nonsense...THEY NEED YOU AS MUCH AS YOU NEED THEM!!!

    YOU DONT KNOW PUNK'S PUNK ASS!!!! He could be William, Jeffrey & Ted COMBINED!!!!


    Go home girl and stop this charade...
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    His flaws made him human. RIP MJ

    Girlsluvgems
    I am getting so tired of Jen & Punk's OPPORTUNIST ASSES!!!!


    Two reality show rejects with lucky breaks! She SHOULD NOT HAVE OPRAH INVOLED IN THIS!!! SOOO TACKY!!!!


    I knew something was funny about her when they said "she was SHOPPING for ENDORSEMENTS for her Wedding"...don't people just get MARRIED anymore...No Celebrities need a Coca Cola logo across the pulpit.


    Jen go home to your family and stop this nonsense...THEY NEED YOU AS MUCH AS YOU NEED THEM!!!

    YOU DONT KNOW PUNK'S PUNK ASS!!!! He could be William, Jeffrey & Ted COMBINED!!!!


    Go home girl and stop this charade...
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    lifegroove
    Why do you women get with those THUG lowlife sorry azz dudes? I can't understand it because I see these dudes curse at their baby mommas, some phyically abuse them, and they lay around your crib with no job not helping out. I'm like these women must be some desperate woman to lay down with a lowlife THUG. Most of these THUG dudes look like CHIT but you Black women love them. Anyway I hope J Hud recieve the support that she needs. Peace!!
     

    Conscious1
    WhatAnIdiot Flag post
    Conscious1
    Hey mami! Yea, there was an article on T..M..Z...It should still be on there a few pages back
    =====

    WAI!!!!! What's good? Obama won!!!! Yeah!

    Oh I missed that article. Must've been the week I was hella busy at work. I came on one day and skimmed through the replies when I saw the "Weakness for big dicks" retort.

    I saw RED!
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    fire4u
    lifegroove Flag post
    Why do you women get with those THUG lowlife sorry azz dudes? ..... I'm like these women must be some desperate woman to lay down with a lowlife THUG. Most of these THUG dudes look like CHIT but you Black women love them
    *****
    WHY? IT'S CALLED SWAGGER. UNTIL SOME OF OUR BLACK WOMEN ERASE THAT WORD FROM OUR LISTS OF QUALIFICATIONS, THE WILLIAM BALFOURS AND LIL WAYNES OF THE WORLD WILL ALWAYS BE ON TOP. IT'S TIME TO LOOK FOR MEN WITH QUALIFICATION'S LIKE OBAMA'S QUALIFICATIONS..THAT'S WHAT'S UP.
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    Conscious1
    lifegroove Flag post
    Why do you women get with those THUG lowlife sorry azz dudes? I can't understand it because I see these dudes curse at their baby mommas, some phyically abuse them, and they lay around your crib with no job not helping out. I'm like these women must be some desperate woman to lay down with a lowlife THUG. Most of these THUG dudes look like CHIT but you Black women love them. Anyway I hope J Hud recieve the support that she needs. Peace!!
    =====
    The thugs say they're worthy of the BONE :p j/k

    <-----Never liked thugs.
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    trueSTARs
    she mad caz her sis got poor judgement choosing men to date. but can u blame Julia, she is FAT. and fat girls settle for any type of man just to be able to hav one. he could be a fuking serial killer with HIV n he'll find love with a FATWOMAN.
     

    Conscious1
    Fire4u

    It's called misunderstanding "Swagger". Bum [EXPLETIVE] ain't got no type of swagger. Women like Julia and his other two girls, pump them up to be more than they are. They're NOTHING.

    Aint nobody on the block got more swagger than Obama. Give me a brainiac anyday. He could MIND FUKK ME TO DEATH!!!!!
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    fire4u
    @COUNSIOUS1
    LOL She gon' drive me to drink...and I DON'T drink.
    With her selfish ass. Gluttony is a sin. By the looks of her, she been SINNING
    *****
    LMBAO!!! ROLLIN'!!!GIRL, YOU MADE ME SPIT MY DIET COKE ON THE KEYBOARD.
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    Whatever,I keep it real...Atl

    TROOPER
    I CAN'T GET ON HER PAGE, BUT WHY SHE PUT THAT LATE BULLITEN UP THERE THAT SAYS, THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR PRAYERS. PLEASE PRAY FOR MY SON SAFE RETURN. THAT WASN'T UP THERE, NOT EVEN WHEN HE WAS FOUNDED. IS THIS BITCH CRAZY, IS MYSPACE THAT FUCCKING ADDICTIVE THAT U JUST HAVE TO GET ON THERE?
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    SweetPea1000
    I hope this isn't true. Jennifer and Julia need each other at a time like this. They should put their differences aside and be there for one another. They are still blood no matter what.
     

    Girlsluvgems
    Jen please stop this charade...

    YOU DONT KNOW PUNK'S PUNK ASS!!!! He could be William, Jeffrey & Ted COMBINED!!!!


    You seen the way his family looked on "I Love New York".....I am just saying...he fits the profile.....


    You are no different or better than your sister...yall stop fighting...

    It is easy for the SERPENT to step in and tear yall down but this is the time to get closer to your CREATOR. Understand that He had a PURPOSE (for what happened) but HE HAS A PLAN (for your life)!!

    go home girl....
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    Girlsluvgems
    Jen please stop this charade...

    YOU DONT KNOW PUNK'S PUNK ASS!!!! He could be William, Jeffrey & Ted COMBINED!!!!


    You seen the way his family looked on "I Love New York".....I am just saying...he fits the profile.....


    You are no different or better than your sister...yall stop fighting...

    It is easy for the SERPENT to step in and tear yall down but this is the time to get closer to your CREATOR. Understand that He had a PURPOSE (for what happened) but HE HAS A PLAN (for your life)!!

    go home girl....
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    aurevoir
    On t/m/z/.com they have pictures of julia on her myspace page where she says now that jason is gone I am the prettiest one. It could be how she grieves, cause everyone is different and some people are actually kind of innapropriate at stressful times.http://www.[SPAM].com/ right after sharon stone story. This is really sad for this family. I dont even know how to feel about it. I am just going to pray for all of them.
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    MZ_ME
    The whole situation is sad, but its even more pathetic for ppl to act as if they havent made a poor choice in a mate before, we ALL have these types of ppl in our families. If it were my sister, there is no way in hell I would blame her or be mad at her for something her boyfriend did. I just pray that they get through this time and that they will be close again, because all they have left are each other.
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    Conscious1
    Black women, because of our history, looks for the alpha male. We look for protectors. Bad boys who break the law appear to be this because they don't play by the rules. The thing about choosing thugs is they're the first to end up in jail, which will leave you behind or broke...if not seeing the same charges that sent homeboy to sing-sing. If they're amongst you, your home will either be raided by police or shot up by their rivals. Females wanting thugs; thinking they're protected, actually end up in harm's way MORESO than the girlfriends/wives of law abiding citizens, but I suppose that's part of the thrill.

    That's why I love my husband. He's a responsible, loving, caring guy who gets up everyday and works for his; providing me with love and stability. He got swagger for dayz and ain't never had to carry a weapon!
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    WhatAnIdiot
    @ TROOPER


    You have GOT to be kidding me!! She ACTUALLY put up a bulletin asking for his return? For weeks and weeks people have been complaining that even complete strangers seemed to be more concerned about him and NOW AFTER HE'S BEEN FOUND DEAD she's looking for him? LOL Yea, right Trooper you a trip!
     

    fire4u
    FOR ALL OF YOU THAT ARE TRIPPING ON JENNIFER..SHE DOES FEEL GUITLY...ACCORDING TO THIS ARTICLE SHE FEELS BAD THAT SHE DID NOT DO MORE. JULIA ON THE OTHER HAND, FEELS LIKE PARTYING AND TELLING "MYSPACE" THAT SHE IS PRETTIER!
    SEE ARTICLE.....London, November 5 (ANI): Jennifer Hudson has held herself responsible for the tragic murders of her family members, by letting them live in the danger-ridden neighbourhood.
    The Dreamgirls actress is said to be ridden with guilt for not doing enough to convince her family to move out of the violent area.
    Family friend, Sharita Dickey, said: “Jennifer grew up on Chicago’’s South Side, and knew all about the violence. She was able to get out, and wanted to take her mama with her, but Darnell said no.”
    Hudson’’s second cousin, Reverend Krista Alston, added: “Jennifer is hurting and asking why this happened. She’’s asking why she didn”t do more to persuade Darnell to move away. (ANI)
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    WhiteManLover
    Please be careful of the men u date. Those red flags are not decorations. I know she probably saw alot from him through the years to get out.
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    WhatAnIdiot
    You know what it is? She's reading the blogs and trying to cover her tracks! It's just as simple as that but THANKFULLY she's too stupid and she continuosly makes more and more mistakes. What a silly as*!
     

    getreal01
    ON THE OTHER HAND JENN KNOWS WHAT KIND OF FAMILY SHE HAS. SHE NEEDS TO LET HER SISTER WORK HER OWN SHYT OUT. IF MY SISTER POSTED A PICTURE SAYING SOME SHYT LIKE NOW THAT OUR BROTHER IS DEAD I AM THE CUTE ONE, WE'VE HAVE SERIOUS PROBLEMS SOME REAL SERIOUS PROBLEMS. THIS IS NOT A GAME NOR A JOKE. THREE PEOPLE WERE MURDERED BRUTUALLY.
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    PARIS76
    Well I knew this was coming. It was obvious that was Jennifer's intuition about Julia's husband. Can you blame her? He had served 6 years in prison for manslaughter and they were off and on again. Plus the threats, drama, and little things that happened within the family that is personal.

    It's a very SAD situation to happen to anyone. I wouldn't wish anything like this on my worst enemy. However, I feel that this should be an example as to people's demeanor and intention in relationships.

    Bad intentions, whether followed through or just spoken about, are a bad thing. No one is worth you putting yourself (or anyone else) at risk. Some people have their own issues and you will never change them. They feel the world owes them something, when they have created their own destiny.

    When women (or men) stay in a bad situation with OBVIOUS signs, they no longer have an identity, they are then just labeled "Desperate". Have fun with being labeled desperate, because it carries more baggage and brings you more heartache than you will ever imagine.

    Men and Women- WAKE UP!! If someone is treating you wrong, LEAVE!! Your only debt in life is to yourself.
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    Conscious1
    fire4u Flag post
    @COUNSIOUS1
    LOL She gon' drive me to drink...and I DON'T drink.
    With her selfish ass. Gluttony is a sin. By the looks of her, she been SINNING
    *****
    LMBAO!!! ROLLIN'!!!GIRL, YOU MADE ME SPIT MY DIET COKE ON THE KEYBOARD.
    =====
    Yeah I'm just mad girl. When I get mad, I start talking crazy. I was sad over the death of the mother and brother, but when it go to the lil boy I damn near lost it. I keep thinking about those chubby cheeks and twinkle in his eyes. :(

    Not the kiddies man...not the kiddies. And this fish fry bitch wanna act like she's the victim. Either she endangered her child's health by bringing "Big Dikk" around or she allowed him to stay in a drug environment. Either way she ain't no mother of the year.

    Like T.I. said...Imma DIE for mine!
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    Girlsluvgems
    Dont read too much into that....

    What else do she have but the support of MyspaceSTERS????

    I know people who will play video games or cook all day...It is just the way she greives
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    trueSTARs
    @Conscious1


    u on point with da logic babes. but if these woman continue to alow themselfs to starting looking like sloppy cows which inturn makes them lower their standards for love, there will be many more sad stories to read about like da Hudsons.
     

    fire4u
    ARTICLE
    New York, November 3 (ANI): Jennifer Hudson has not been able to step into her Chicago residence that had bared the slain bodies of her mother and brother, according to her friends believe she went back just once, to the gate, but didnt go inside, the New York Daily News quoted Hudons friend and mentor Andre Leon Talley as telling them.
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    Bubblicious
    Hmmmmm... Now this isn't suprising at all... I know that if my sister got involved with and married a loser and nutcase from hell that turns around and kills damn near our entire family- I'd be livid myself!!! I'm sure the family seen something unfortunate and tragic coming a long time ago and tried to convince this desperado of a sister and mother and she failed to listen... I can't say that I'd [f**ck] with her either, sister or not!!! I'd look at it like, because of her bad choice in men, we've lost a mother, brother and my nephew!!! Then for it to be said,

    "She probably feels the spotlight has been on Jennifer's struggle, completely overshadowed by the fact that she lost a son," a family friend tells OK!

    Says that Julia expected a lil more attention from all of this than she's getting... Things that make you go "Hmmmmm"
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    Girlsluvgems
    I know half of you now got a THUG laying around aint paying a bill...waving you off to work while he spends his day texting and creeping wit other women!!!


    Please Jen...your sister is a BUMBLING FCUKING IDIOT but she is your sister. You cant run from that forever...

    I know when we get a Man its you and him against the world but that Man may leave you and it may be too late to look for Julia...
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    WhatAnIdiot
    ...and that explains why she made that blog "defending" her love for Balfour. Who was she defending herself against? Who was she making an explanation to? BLOGGERS!! Think about it, she has plenty of Myspace time to accept complete strangers as friends so why not? Congratulations MTO!!You have another celebrity friend! Julia Hudson-King!!!
     

    TexasGlamourChic
    smh @ quoting anything from Ok! magazine, wow MTO yall really have some reliable sources...not!
     

    Conscious1
    trueSTARs Flag post
    @Conscious1
    u on point with da logic babes. but if these woman continue to alow themselfs to starting looking like sloppy cows which inturn makes them lower their standards for love, there will be many more sad stories to read about like da Hudsons.
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    Yeah, but it's not just sloppy Joe's falling for thugs. There are pretty girls who have so much to offer with these bums. I know a few. Skinny, tall, short, fat...they're attracted to that danger and mystique. I can't understand it.

    And for those who think Jen needs to support her sister...Jen is barely sane right about now much less to come to the aid of her sister. I have a feeling that was the dynamic growing up. Jen being the one you can count on who dared to dream big, and Julia, in her sister's shadow feeling like the black sheep like, "Pay attention to me. No one pays attention to me." I bet her ass played the role of the big, fun sister to her SON.

    It's hard enough not to blame someone for their bad judgment in bringing a criminal around your family. It's even harder when they just don't get it. Trying to get them to understand their ways and they're all, "Well I said I'm sorry...geesh what you want me to do?" and catching attitudes. Not sincere, and definitely not feeling the pain. Just defensive and want you to shut up so they can go out and do some more damage. Look at who she chose to be the father of her son then went on to marry jailhouse dikk. Her next man would've been a winner I'm sure.
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    disinquiringmind
    THIS IS THE TIME TO STICK TOGETHER. NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENED. I KNOW BLAMING SOMEONE MAY FEEL THAT IT HELPS. FIGHTING CANNOT CHANGE THE STANDING TRUTH, THE LIVES HAVE BEEN LOST. THEY ARE THE ONLY FAMILY THEY HAVE & THEY MUST STICK TOGETHER.
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    Conscious1
    Girlsluvgems Flag post
    I know half of you now got a THUG laying around aint paying a bill...waving you off to work while he spends his day texting and creeping wit other women!!!
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    Not I...
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    Foxy90210
    Well I'm glad someone is by her side...I will continue to pray for u Jennifer.
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    cutenkinky
    Off Topic . . .
    Oprah looks fab in that picture. I love that skirt!
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    Hawthorne
    Tell me where in the article MTO, does it say a rift is developing between the two. I swear ya'll take the least little something and blow it up, then your readers eat it up.
     

    ShamaShalon
    ermmm i swear she's grieving
    so why would she be playin sleepovers with Oprah im sure she will be with other family members probably
     

    AllaboutmeWill
    Yes Jennifer is getting the press because all jokes aside, no one really gives a damn about Julia....We all know Jennifer and this would just be local news if it wasn't for that fact that Jennifer is famous....Well it might have made main stream because the little boy was missing (Rest his little soul!) but other than that, no one gives a damn about Julia!....She is the one that married that bum azz jail bird and brought all of this grief upon the family!....
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    fire4u
    @ COUNSCIOUS1-Not the kiddies man...not the kiddies. And this fish fry bitch wanna act like she's the victim. Either she endangered her child's health by bringing "Big Dikk" around or she allowed him to stay in a drug environment. Either way she ain't no mother of the year.
    *****
    right.lol. fish fry! lol but yeah, she should have cut william totally off,,and Godforbid what ever else she was doing. i saw some recent pics of her hanging out with like 5 girls. she seem to be ready to move on with life. she seems happy to be free and single and this is not called"grieving in your own way". this fat azz heffa is disrespectful to the memory of her mom, brother and child. it's hard to sympatize with her at this point.
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    fire4u
    @ Conscious1 Flag post
    Girlsluvgems Flag post
    I know half of you now got a THUG laying around aint paying a bill...waving you off to work while he spends his day texting and creeping wit other women!!!
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    Not I...
    *****
    me either!
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    huhduh10
    it is expected that their relationship will be strain
     

    cutenkinky
    I have a strong Moorish man in my life! Never been into thugs.

    It makes me wonder about Jennifer Hudson's deceased father.

    Little girls usually grow up and seek men that have similar characteristics to their father.

    Little girls also emulate their mothers. What type of person was Darnell if she allowed drugs to be sold out of her home? I personally know mothers who allow their sons to sell drugs and they say nothing because they profit from it. The sons (and at times the daughters) are paying they rent and furnishing the home.

    Julia's desire to seek out the "bad boys" makes me wonder about her upbringing.
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    NippyFan
    @ Conscious1

    And for those who think Jen needs to support her sister...Jen is barely sane right about now much less to come to the aid of her sister.

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    You ain't said nothing but a word right their! Honestly you would think that Julian was Jennifer's son and not Julia's even in the picture (even though Jenn is cut off) it looks painful for her to even try to smile.

    Jenn is taking time to grieve staying quiet staying close to David. She hasn't been on myspace since before the services and that was probably not her because it was just to post the info about the foundation.
     

    cutenkinky
    I can't believe this woman! Her profile was just updated yesterday and She was logged on today.

    I can not longer give her the benefit of the doubt! At first I thought, "People mourn differently." but now I think she has mental issues. She is making comments like, "Now I am the pretty one . . ."

    off topic
    R.I.P to Oprah's dog Solomon
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    AllaboutmeWill
    Time to start bashing this fat bytch for her conduct....Even when she was on TV making her plea I didn't see the river of tears that you would expect from someone that had lost so much....I would have been damn near fainting trying to give a speech after losing so many people that close to me and my OWN child....This bytch is suspect....At some point she would have ate that little boy anyway(Rest his little soul)....
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    MISSWEST
    It's sad that there is separation amongst the 2 of them at such an emotional time as this. I'm still praying for their family.
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    Business1
    My prayers to both of them
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    Jaedadime
    is she for real? I didn't know nothing about no DAMN Julia Hudson, until this tragedy. please check yourself, JENNIFER is famous not YOU! my prayers go out for to the Hudson/ King family for their loss, but come on some one gotta stop this low self-esteem , pig face, fat back... she's making the family look really bad... she doesn't need to be on MYSPACE.. she should be in a church repenting. C'mon now let's be real!
     

    miniyouassistant
    It takes a srtong person to experince what she is feeling right now.

    "Get things done the way you would do it"
    miniyouassistant@yaoo.com
     

    makesmewonder
    That nice of Oprah to lend a hand!
     

    TheBrokenSilence
    And I was laughed at on here for saying that Oprah would help her out right? We are you bitches to now? And what type of f^cked up family argues over who has more grief over the deaths of their family? What is really wrong with people? Am I the only normal person in this world?
     

    TROOPER
    @ WhatAnIdiot Flag post
    @ TROOPER


    You have GOT to be kidding me!! She ACTUALLY put up a bulletin asking for his return? For weeks and weeks people have been complaining that even complete strangers seemed to be more concerned about him and NOW AFTER HE'S BEEN FOUND DEAD she's looking for him? LOL Yea, right Trooper you a trip!
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    NO I'M SERIOUS! GO TO IT.

    I ALSO HEARD THE TRUE STORY ABOUT THIS TOPIC. PATTY JACKSON ON WDAS SAID THAT JHUD AND HER SISTER BEEN HAVING PROBLEMS BECAUSE MORE AND MORE OF THE STORY BEHIND HER FAMILY DEATH IS COMING OUT AND JHUD CAN'T BE AROUND HER. SHE SAID THAT THE POLICE IS SAYING THEY DON'T THINK WILLIAM PULLED THE TRIGGER BUT KNOW WHO DID BUT NOT TALKING. ALSO THEY'RE SAYING IT WAS A DRUG HIT ON JASON CUZ IT'S BELIEVE HE WAS HOLDING BACK ON PROFIT FROM THE BROTHER-N-LAW AND WHOEVER ELSE. THAT COULD EXPLAIN WHY THE LIL BOY HAND WAS CUT OFF. CUZ THEY PROBABLY WAS SAYING GIVE US THE MONEY OR WE GOING TO HURT HIM. THIS STORY IS ASHAME AND SOON JULIA WILL COME TO LIGHT ON HER PART IN THIS. EVEN THE BOY REAL FATHER GREG KING I WOULDN'T DOUBT IF THAT FOOL HAD SOMETHING TO DO WITH IT CUZ HIM AND JASON AND JULIA WAS THE ONES SELLING CRACK OUT THE HOUSE IN 2002.
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    TROOPER
    @ TheBrokenSilence Flag post
    And I was laughed at on here for saying that Oprah would help her out right? We are you bitches to now? And what type of f^cked up family argues over who has more grief over the deaths of their family? What is really wrong with people? Am I the only normal person in this world?
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    NO, YOU SAID OPRAH SHOULD HAVE PURCHASED THEM A HOUSE AND SHE SHOULD HAVE DONE SOMETHING LIKE HER FAMILY IS HER PROBLEM. SO NO, U DIDN'T SAY "SHE WILL CONSOLE JHUD", U SAID SHE SHOULD HAVE PURCHASE THEM A HOUSE. SO YES U WERE WRONG.
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    getreal01
    ONE OF JENNIFER HUDSON'S BEST FRIENDS POSTED THIS ONE ABOUT BEYONCE! IT'S A DAMN SHAME.

    So i wasnt going to write about this but it is really really bugging me. Especially when people are calling my phone saying how nice it was of Beyonce to come to the funeral and show her support. And i have to sit back and hold everything i wanna say inside. But i cant do it no more. Beyonce did not come to the funeral nor did she call, text, send a card or hell send a damn email. If there are millions of people who are leaving Jennifer and Julia and myself messages and sending there prayers and condelences and these people don’t even know them why couldnt she? Every singer that Jennifer admires and had been a role model for her growing up even until now has called, from Aretha to Shirley Murdock to even present day singers like Chrisette Michelle. And yall know how much Jennifer loves Beyonce and she couldn’t even have her assistant call or nothing. But yet her camp is allowing her to recieve credit for coming to the funeral and being there for Jennifer and her family. Bullshit! This just pisses me off. Once again thanks to everyone who has be there for us. And sorry if i offended any of Beyonce fans by writing this but if i just couldn’t keep sitting back and reading articles and emails and having my phone ring about how nice it was of Beyonce to come out !
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    strawcream
    @ Conscious1

    Thank You so much and congratulation to you and your husband! I've finally found love myself soon to be married.....I thought this day would never come I found someone normal whatever that might mean...lol

    I so agree with you.....What bothers me the most is the violence and total disrespect in the black community.....Look around check the news!

    This here is added to the image of blacks rather folks want to believe it or not...People are thinking....Damn look how wild and crazy they are? They got the nerve to be marching and preaching but look what they do to their own peoples....Then that place the spot light back on black men as being evil and sick!

    Mental Retardation and ADD and ADHD is at its all time high where violence and ignorance towards others seems to be whats up! Thats Sick!

    There was a time when REAL MEN respect their elders not murder them! They were cared for when they got old.....Something tells me this dude was violent and extremly disrespectful towards her family before he murder them....

    If he has nothing to hide then why won't he take the lie detective test!

    so many young woman find themselves in abusive relationships then murder....Jennifer sister has issues I said that before the child is slow...You think I would have time to party and living it up and my baby dead thats crazy...

    Ladies listen to your man if your man threatens to kill you or inflict bodily harm he means it...Find a way out! Love does not hurt! My ex was the same way violent negative then nice the next.....I left never turned back!
     

    QUEENS
    @ getreal01...Thanks for sharing that. That crazy!!
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    BleepThis
    Why is so much focus on Julia when the brother was in the game too and the mother allowed it in her home that the GRANDSON that she so adored lived in...the whole family was wrong not just Julia for dating ole boy hell the brother was in the same game...

    Ya'll act like his drug activity didnt have anything to do with this...
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    QUEENS
    TYPO,That IS crazy. People have been saying stuff like this about Beyonce for YEARS...
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    cokebabe
    wondering how MTO approved someone else with the avi i been had?
    on topic. i am becoming a big fan of Oprah's lately.
     

    BleepThis
    If he has nothing to hide then why won't he take the lie detective test!


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    Im sure his lawyer suggested that he didnt...i dont know what his involvment was but i do know this if it was me and i was innocent i wouldnt take a dayum test either...and if i was guilty or knew something i wouldnt take a dayum test either...

    If yall know so much who is the other person? Detective work takes more than 2 post on MTO...sorry to be the one to spoil the fun, lol

    May God give the family rest and strength to continue on with life and learn from this experience.
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    Dreayonn
    It's good to see Oprah & Punk supporting Jennifer. Still can't believe this happened tho. Hopefully she's able to recover and continue on with life again. I'll keep praying for Jennifer and her family.
     

    Conscious1
    @Strawcream

    Congrats to you too and blessings. Don't it feel damn good to have a winner by your side?

    That's why we can talk down to bums. We know what good caliber is...and they ain't it.
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    spicy_creole
    Wow, I'm still praying for them. God Bless them, and Oprah Winfrey too
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    Tagirl25
    It's interesting to see the personal opinions on what Jennifer and Julia should do, when, for one, no one on this mb have walked in their shoes.

    I'm sure Julia is griving in her own way. Everyone grieves differently. Just because you don't hear about her staying in bed all day doesn't mean she isn't grieving. We all process things differently. No one see her when she's behind closed doors.

    And the same thing goes for Jennifer for those who say she needs to go home. Who are you to say that?
    Jennifer needs to do what she needs to do to process this all and allow God to mend her heart.
    She's full grown and is going through a difficult time right now.
    None of this is in anyway her fault. You can't make a grown person do something they don't want to. She asked her mom to move but her mom declined. But in this case, it may not have mattered where they lived if someone was looking for them. So that's not even a relevant complaint.

    And there's no need to call Julia names. It's really not warranted. None of us knows what she's going through. That's very disrespectful.
     

    timewilltell
    @tjtrae1

    Are you serious, I know you didn't go there.....you mean to tell me, in the world we live in that a woman is not capable of having her child killed(murdered for money), are you serious? Women do this crap everyday, you just don't here about it. I believe it's a possibility that this woman played a part in this violent crime, are maybe she's psychotic.
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    timewilltell
    @tjtrae1

    Are you serious, I know you didn't go there.....you mean to tell me, in the world we live in that a woman is not capable of having her child killed(murdered for money), are you serious? Women do this crap everyday, you just don't here about it. I believe it's a possibility that this woman played a part in this violent crime, are maybe she's psychotic.
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    timewilltell
    @tjtrae1

    Are you serious, I know you didn't go there.....you mean to tell me, in the world we live in that a woman is not capable of having her child killed(murdered for money), are you serious? Women do this crap everyday, you just don't here about it. I believe it's a possibility that this woman played a part in this violent crime, are maybe she's psychotic.
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    WhatAnIdiot
    @ TROOPER


    DAMN!! I didn't even know that they cut the baby's hand off. OMG!!! Its like the media forgot about them all week. WOW!! Wasn't it you that told me that Jason was shot in the leg a few months ago so he moved in with the mother? Do they think that it was the same people? You said that Jason owed Balfour..This don't make no damn sense..Ok, so how does the car that got sold come into this? Didn't he sell it in order to pay for debt? So Balfours debtor started pressuring Balfour and then he ended up demanding that Jason pay him? This story sounds bizzare but sometimes crazy people don't even have a logical motive. Regardless of who did what if you know something and you're witholding information you're just as guilty and can (and hopefully) will be thrown in prison along with them.
     

    getreal01
    I am not surprised about Beyonce. She seems like she does not give a fuc about anybody but herself poor thing. Perhaps the Oscar belonged to her in her mind. Never really been a fan of her but love Solange. Jennifer has the talent though Beyonce. I can not wait until this case is solved. Oprah's stock has gone WAY up in a lot of communities. I love you lady O. Once all of this has passed JHud is going to come back with the BANG mark my words.
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    JaeCe
    Prayers go out but they shouldn't let the pettiness surface...
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    Conscious1
    BleepThis Flag post
    Why is so much focus on Julia when the brother was in the game too and the mother allowed it in her home that the GRANDSON that she so adored lived in...the whole family was wrong not just Julia for dating ole boy hell the brother was in the same game...

    Ya'll act like his drug activity didnt have anything to do with this...
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    True, true. I wasn't informed of the drug activity until today. I only guessed it was drug related because of the nature of the crime. Or maybe I heard a little bit before in that last thread? I can't really remember because I was in and out of MTO during that week.

    They're all wrong. And it's especially stupid since Jen was well on her way. I'm not saying they should've lived off her, but selling drugs out your house was totally unnecessary. They sure weren't doing it to survive.

    It makes sense Julia ain't talking what she knows. Talking could be implicating herself....
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    keeno2
    Who needs their grief "acknowledged?" I certainly don't.

    My momma would NEVER have let us siblings THINK about not speaking to each other -- she'd whip all our butts, we were raised that way and as a result, we are all still very close though we have grown up and gone our separate ways.

    So, bottom line is no matter who did what, NOBODY DESERVED to have this kind of thing happen to them or their loved ones.

    Whoever did this was sending a very loud and clear message, especially by killing the baby.
     

    WhatAnIdiot
    @ getreal01


    Why is a greiving person worried about Beyonce? Also, only a desperate attention seeker would keep up with who is sending them condolences and who isn't. Why would that matter so much? Beyonce isn't even related to them! I guess birds of a feather do flock together because her friend sounds like a complete idiot! (If she actually wrote it)
     

    NEKMACCSTRESS
    THX OPRAH YOUR GOD'S GIFT BLESS U JENN.
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    WhatAnIdiot
    @ getreal01


    You also have to realize that not everyone that sends condolences actually has good intentions. People are really sick! If i'm mourning or my best friend is mourning why the f*ck would I be worrying about who saying what? You mean to tell me that the Beyonce is actually THAT important to them that her condolence message counts? Good Lawd!
     

    getreal01
    @whatanidiot,

    Yep you are right. Who give a rats azz about Beyonce anyway right? Everybody does not have a heart like Oprah. And yes, the writing is real!
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    Tagirl25
    Thugs=Swagger?
    NOT!
    There is not a thug alive that is sexy or has any swagger.
    I guess it depends on the womans mentality and definition of swagger.

    To me the definition of swagger is
    Swagger:Knowing who you are as a man/woman; knowing you are in God; loving yourself and exuding confidence;being balanced spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically.

    That's swagger. Thugs do not have those qualities. What they have is false confidence that comes to bite them sooner or later.
    Most of them are angry, and the root of anger is fear. You don't have swagger if you're a fearful person.
     

    HardCore
    Jennifer got money now so she needs to find somebody who's in jail who can reach out and touch William's azzz and get this mutha fucc'er to sing. I wish I could help 'cause i'd squeeze the truth out his skinny azzz.
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    Conscious1
    Tagirl25 Flag post
    Thugs=Swagger?
    NOT!
    There is not a thug alive that is sexy or has any swagger.
    I guess it depends on the womans mentality and definition of swagger.

    To me the definition of swagger is
    Swagger:Knowing who you are as a man/woman; knowing you are in God; loving yourself and exuding confidence;being balanced spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically.

    That's swagger. Thugs do not have those qualities. What they have is false confidence that comes to bite them sooner or later.
    Most of them are angry, and the root of anger is fear. You don't have swagger if you're a fearful person.
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    Let the Church say AMEN!!!!!
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    Tagirl25
    The news media didn't broadcast around that they cut the babies hand off. Who wants to hear that? His death was sad enough.
    I heard it on Nancy Grace, but she broadcasts details like that, so I expected that from her.
     

    Conscious1
    WhatAnIdiot Flag post
    @ getreal01

    Why is a greiving person worried about Beyonce? Also, only a desperate attention seeker would keep up with who is sending them condolences and who isn't. Why would that matter so much? Beyonce isn't even related to them! I guess birds of a feather do flock together because her friend sounds like a complete idiot! (If she actually wrote it)
    =====

    Wasn't that just pathetic? These people are G.H.E.T.T.O. I feel embarrassed for JHud.
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    fire4u
    @ GET REAL01..

    WHERE IS THIS POST ABOUT BEYONCE NOT ATTENEDING. SOME ARTICLES HAVE HER ATTENDING..SOME DON'T. SOME HAVE USHER ATTENDING...SOME DON'T? HOW DO YOU KNOW.? JUST ASKING.
    Police blocked side streets around the church to keep reporters and fans away. Celebrity guests such as Oprah Winfrey, singer Fantasia Barrino, rapper Missy Elliot, actress Queen Latifah and record producer Clive Davis arrived through a private entrance.
    *****
    A source close to the Hudson family said Oprah Winfrey, Usher and Queen Latifah were among those attending the private funeral services.
    *****
    Other celebrities - including Missy Elliott, @ Ciara, Clive Davis and Patti LaBelle - were also expected to be there, according to the Chicago Sun Times.
    *****Oprah Winfrey, Beyonce Knowles, Missy Elliott and Queen Latifah attended the memorial service for Jennifer Hudson’s mother, brother and nephew Monday

    DIFFERENT POSTS...I'M CONFUSED
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    NEKMACCSTRESS
    IT'S NOT THE TIME TO FIGHT, IT'S TIMES TO COME CLOSER IF ANYTHING.
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    WhatAnIdiot
    They need to get her before she tries to be slick and commit suicide or something! I want her to sit in a prison cell and rot while she thinks and what she did.
     

    WhatAnIdiot
    *about..She plays a part in this regardless of if she did it directly or not.
     

    fcukrehab
    Jennifer Hudson is to hollywood for me now. It's not just about Jennifer. It's about her entire family. It's a huge loss for ALL of them not just that big breasted and thick hipped wannabe diva.
     

    DivaTV_BayArea
    if I were Jenn that fatt piece of trash Julia would never ever see my face in person again,
    period...i'd be layin up on Oprah & so n so &
    forget that slob existed...

    Julia Hudson = DISSOWNED
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    Mahworld
    well thats nice of Oprah 2 let her stay.Stay strong
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    WhatAnIdiot
    @ Conscious1


    EXACTLY! I want to give her the benefit of the doubt and say that maybe she revealed some info to the police and that they are concealing it because the investigation is ongoing but this child was subjected to an abusive environment from the beginning. He couldn't even escape it. I won't even take into account the fact that Julia was raised in the ghetto (so she has a ghetto mentality) because THAT IS NO EXCUSE..EVER!!..Jennifer doesn't "seem" to be anything like her (I only pray that this is true). Also, plenty of healthy young women grew up in situations like her..Some even worst. No excuse. Stop excusing these thugs, crack heads, and other losers. I don't care if they're family or not. There is something called tough love and if you don't use it these people will never change. Being co-dependent on crack heads and dealers and the likes, babying them, giving them money, and doing other loving "hood rat" things only keeps them coming back with their manipulative ways. Its like a wild animal that you feed scraps to. They'll keep coming back over and over, suck you dry like a vampire, and then leave you for the next idiot.
     

    tjtrae1
    @timewilltell yea i went there since we playing detective what would a motive be for her to have her famliy killed? As far as what she's posting on her myspace page everyone grieves differently and unless you lost your entire famliy know one really knows what she's going thru.
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    WhatAnIdiot
    Women need to take a stand and say "You know what? I'd rather have a father-less child than a child with a drug addict, woman beater, etc etc for a dad" Stop trying to change these men! They will never change unless they HAVE to. They haven't changed for the benefit of themself so why would they change for you? They don't love themself enough to want to do better so why or how can they love you? Think think think!!
     

    BleepThis
    You know whats really sad...this is becoming a trend. So many children have been killed this year alone at the hands of their mothers boyfriend (not saying Julias did it)or step father.

    Attention all Fathers...You need to be apart of your childrens EVERYDAY life...weekends and child support will not guarantee their safety. You should be aware of the men that are in their lives and make it your business to BE THE MAN in their life...so many stories of babies being beat to death by Mommy's live in while she is at work...

    I get so upset with my childrens father(s) when i need to work late or do something (which is rare) and they make up excuses why they can not keep their child. I am not slow so i would not just trust anybody with my kids but FATHERS some times you need to miss work for sick kids or when mommy has to work late...these kids are your responsiblity too.

    And Im out this MOFO!
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    RedDragon
    IN MY EYES JULIA'S NO SAINT..AND HER GRIEVING OVER THAT CUTE CHILD..I HIGHLY DOUBT IT.HER MYSPACE PAGE SAID IT ALL. SHE DIDN'T GIVE A RAT'S ASS ABOUT THAT CHILD. THE FACT IS, SHE'S A FEMALE THUG...DEPSITE ALL THIS..SHE'S STILL NOT THE TOTAL BLAME. FROM WHAT I READ JENNIFER AND HER SISTER'S HUSBAND WERE RUNNING BUDDIES FROM HIGH SCHOOL. SO IF ANYONE BROUGHT THE GUY AROUND IT WAS HER. THEY ALL KNEW ABOUT THIS GUY AND THEY ACCEPTED HIM ANYWAY. PLUS, JENNIFER'S BROTHER WASN'T SQUEAKY CLEAN EITHER. IT SEEMS EVERYONE IN THAT FAMILY WAS AFFILIATED WTH SOME THINGS AND SOME PEOPLE I WOULDN'T EVEN GIVE THE TIME OF DAY. I'M NOT TAKING UP FOR JULIA, FOR SHE'S JUST A PRODUCT OF HER ENVIRONMENT.
     

    lydia
    just so yall know. balfour court date for parole violation is monday. if he's not charged with the crime by then, there's a good chance he could be released from prison.
     

    focus
    I said this would eventually happen. Julia may have lost a son but she needs therapy so she can understand that she put her and her entire family in danger by being with Mr.Balfour. She can't bring her family back but she can certainly seek therapy.
     

    RedDragon
    THAT FAT BYTCH JULIA HAS SET HER SHYT ON MYSPACE TO PRIVATE. AND THE WHORE HAS THE NERVE TO HAVE CONFIDENT ON HER DAMN MOOD. OH WE SEE THIS BYTCH NOW.
     

    justwant2say
    Maybe...just maybe if Julia stop putting all that crazy crap on her Myspace page and start acting like she had had sense people could sympathize with her more.

    What person in their right mind puts "now that Jason is gone I am the prettiest one" right after burying their brother, mother and son on their Myspace page?

    Girl needs to get a clue.
     

    KEEYSHAJ50
    2SEXXY
    GIRL MINES TOO BUT DIFF IS MY SIS HUSBAND A DRUG ADDICT BUT I AGREE THEY STAY JEALOUS...

    NippyFan
    GIRL I READ THAT HERE
    http://www.thisis50.com/profiles/blogs/julia-hudson-says-now-im-the?id=784568%3ABlogPost%3A8615786&page=1#comments
    ANYWAY IM SICK OF THE FAT CRAZY KILLER BITCH PUT HER IN JAIL ALREADY WITH HER CRAZY GANGSTER THUG HUSBAND...
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    bebeswagga
    dang....
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    alr2009
    i told u but nooooo yall didnt wanna believe me
     

    justwant2say
    I forgot to add this....what person goes from "numb" to "confident" inside of...what...a week. This is her mood on her Myspace page as of today.

    I can see you going from "numb" to "hopeful", but to go from the bottom(numb) to the top(confident) and no in-between emotions is unrealistic in my book...unless she's bi-popular.
     

    justwant2say
    Oops....I meant bi-polar
     

    justwant2say
    @KEEYSHAJ50,
    I tried your link, but they wanted me to sign up.

    What did the link say?
     

    Girlsluvgems
    @fcukrehab


    LMAO!!!!
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    Creative1
    nobody deserves to be killed but it is something definitly wrong with this case..and to be honest i think jennifer had a arrogant attitude toward her family pretty much leaving them feeling alittle low because that house looked like it been haveing drama in it for years and it seem like aslongas she had her man and her money she really cared less and God dont like ugly because the lord giveth and the lord taketh away..its something definitly more to this case thats beeen going on with that intermediate family.
     

    ttiiaa77
    Trooper: His hand was cut off?? Say word?!!
    That's crazy, who does that to a child!?? Where'd you hear that anyways.

    BleepThis: I'm not trying to defend men, but most of them don't have the flexibility/benefits to miss a day of work. Alot of guys don't have vaca/sick/personal days so if they don't work, they don't eat, which means you don't get your child support! So pick your poison.

    GOBAMA!
     

    BleepThis
    a lot of yall keep checking Julia for being on myspace hell it seems like yall on there just as much as she is...no dead relatives over here and I still have better things to do then check her myspace page...get a life yall sound obsessed!
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    KEEYSHAJ50
    IM PROLLY LATE BUT I HEARD WILLIAM GET TO WALK MONDAY...
    http://thisis50.com/profiles/blogs/hudson-murder-suspect-could
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    heavensent1
    losing three loved ones should make them realize that life is way too short to not be getting along with each other. don't take anyone for granted and don't hold grudges because you never know when you may lose that person.
     

    GETTINGDOWN
    Beyonce did not come to the funeral nor did she call, text, send a card or hell send a damn email. If there are millions of people who are leaving Jennifer and Julia and myself messages and sending there prayers and condolences and these people don’t even know them why couldn’t she? Every singer
    that Jennifer admires and had been a role model for her growing up even until now has called, from Aretha to Shirley Murdock to even present day singers like Chrisette Michelle.

    BEYONCE WAS IN CHICAGO ON MONDAY FOR BARAK OBAMA EVENT.
    WHY SHE DID NOT GO TO THE FUNERAL?
    WHAT A FRIEND, I THOUGHT SHE WAS HAPPY FOR JHUD, NO WONDER SHE PUT THAT DOWNLOAD MESSAGE OUT TO SING AT THE INAUGURATION.
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    Girlsluvgems
    @BleepThis

    I couldnt agree more!!!
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    getreal01
    It's real simple Numb to confident within a week = DENIAL. She is probably trying to stay confident in that she can make it through this. But the reality of it is that she's in deep mourning and probably missing her sister's love.
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    jazzberry778888
    the sister was acting suspect, but they don't need that right now,all they need is comfort and strength...
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    Nails
    Blaze2009 Flag post
    MY SISTER WAS IN THE SAME POSITION. DATING THIS THUG AND THE WHOLE FAMILY TOLD HER TO LEAVE HIM ALONE. THANK GOD IT DIDNT END UP BAD, BUT IF IT DID I WOULD HAVE BLAMED HER. WOMEN NEED TO QUIT SETTLING FOR LESS AND LEARN TO BE HAPPY WITH THEMSELVES FIRST. QUIT LETTING MEN RUN ALL OVER YOU. IF A MAN IS CHEATING, STEALING, ETC ON YOU YOU DONT DESERVE THAT. JUST A SAD SITUATION, BUT THIS IS HOW FAMILIES ARE TORN APART.

    -----
    You have a great point!
     

    Girlsluvgems
    All that girl got now is MYSPACE!!! Hello....

    Maybe she needs a friend even if its just a virtual one.

    Her sister left her for the first punk that came along...I dont see how one is any better than the other one...

    Who really knows Punk???? She dont!!

    Just stop fighting with your sister before you dont have a sister. Everybody wants to place blame. You want to blame her crazy ass husband but she may blame you for your success bringing negative attention, money grubbers and ill will people around the family. Was William attracted to Julia or Jen's fame????? So JUST STOP. Mom is gone....brother is gone...baby is gone...dont add sister to the list. IT AINT WORTH IT.
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    Kenny73
    Quit placing blame on Julia's shoulders. THE WHOLE FAMILY IS TO BLAME! Jennifer knew what was going on in her family. She was in Sister 2 Sister last month saying how close she was to her family how her brother & sister often gave her advice.

    I find it hard to believe she didn't know that her brother was a drug dealer/gang member. She knew he didn't have a job. And to my understanding the ENTIRE family knew the brother in law from the past so it's not like he is a stranger.

    Right now Jennifer is acting like a sell out. She's forgotten where she came from. I'm guessing her publicist is telling her every move to make so that she gets sympathy and not hurt her career. There's noone to do the same for Julia.

    Jennifer don’t let Hollywood ruin you, what goes up must come down. And when all the fame is gone, you’re family is going to be all you got, you may want to treasure it.
     

    Nails
    ONE OF JENNIFER HUDSON'S BEST FRIENDS POSTED THIS ONE ABOUT BEYONCE! IT'S A DAMN SHAME.

    So i wasnt going to write about this but it is really really bugging me. Especially when people are calling my phone saying how nice it was of Beyonce to come to the funeral and show her support. And i have to sit back and hold everything i wanna say inside. But i cant do it no more. Beyonce did not come to the funeral nor did she call, text, send a card or hell send a damn email. If there are millions of people who are leaving Jennifer and Julia and myself messages and sending there prayers and condelences and these people don’t even know them why couldnt she? Every singer that Jennifer admires and had been a role model for her growing up even until now has called, from Aretha to Shirley Murdock to even present day singers like Chrisette Michelle. And yall know how much Jennifer loves Beyonce and she couldn’t even have her assistant call or nothing. But yet her camp is allowing her to recieve credit for coming to the funeral and being there for Jennifer and her family. Bullshit! This just pisses me off. Once again thanks to everyone who has be there for us. And sorry if i offended any of Beyonce fans by writing this but if i just couldn’t keep sitting back and reading articles and emails and having my phone ring about how nice it was of Beyonce to come out !
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    Doesn't surprise me, if this is true! SMH
     

    Girlsluvgems
    I just dont want Punk to be taking advantage of the situation..

    Some men can be controlling and looking for any reason to break a girl away from her family so he can have more control (probably of her checkbook)

    I dont trust any of those reality star attention seekers. They want to be famous so bad they will go on TV to date NEW YORK & FLAVA FLAV....

    LAWYER = BEHIND THE SCENES
    WRESTLER = MILLIONS OF FANS

    I just dont trust him yet....

    And you know when we get a MAN we get that "F the world" attitude until he show his ass and we go right back to our girlfriends and family...

    I just hope she is not running with that thinking he is her KNIGHT IN SHINING ARMOUR!!!

    **In Sarah Palin voice**
    Who is David Utunga?
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    Girlsluvgems
    From New Yorks house to OPRAHS.....hmmmmm

    **In Sarah Palin voice**
    Who is David Utunga?
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    bchanel09
    Oprah is really being sweet to people now-a-days...

    Go O!!

    As for julia she can really fall back. Not to be rude but she seems a lil suspect if ya know what i mean...

    okay so where was she when the murders went down and she does seem a bit happy kinda fast

    jen is still grieving and julia is up on her myspace posing for pics and all that ish

    seems a lil shady if u ask me
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    LosAngeles
    very sad, i knew it was gnna come down to that the sister getting tired of everyone talkin bout JUST jennifers struggle loosin her mom but sister lost son as well. The oprah thing i figured she would stick her face into something
     

    GregObama
    I love Jennifer Hudson. She is what you call talented. I pray Obama gets her to sing at the Inauguaration in 09!
     

    SassyRedChica
    I am so heartbroken about the whole tragedy. We can not change the past but Julia seems to be in her own world. I mean when you look at her ex husband past, it doesnt take a rocket scientist to see that he was a diseaster waiting to happen. I think Julia has some serious self esteem issues and is mad because she is not in the lime light like JHUD.. My condolences however are extended to the entire fam!
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    KEEYSHAJ50
    AWWW DAMN BEY SHE SHOULD OF WENT OR CALLED I WONDER WHAT HER EXCUSE WAS LOL...
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    spc_08
    Go Oprah! I know Jhud I would be mad to! Julia acting as she just got put on in the spotlight. Now people not worried about your new male friend. Just showing respect you and Jhund in the loss of your family.
     

    KEEYSHAJ50
    AWWW DAMN BEY SHE SHOULD OF WENT TO THE FUNERAL OR CALLED I WONDER WHAT HER EXCUSE WAS LOL...
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    pac4lyfe
    I figured someone would look out for her. Trump Tower is way too expensive to be staying there for weeks. She needs to be away from the family so she can get her thoughts together.
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    Girlsluvgems
    Punk has a lot to do with it. It shows that she is no better than her sister. Jen can not place blame on anybody but the person that commited the murders.

    She knew the life her family was living and was cool with it until this tragedy. It is no point in placing blame because none of that will change the outcome. She IS going to realize that and mend her relationship with her sister...I just hope by her having punk to lay up with and talk to she forget that OTHER PEOPLE ARE HURT TOO...
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    Girlsluvgems
    Punk has a lot to do with it. It shows that she is no better than her sister. Jen can not place blame on anybody but the person that commited the murders.

    She knew the life her family was living and was cool with it until this tragedy. It is no point in placing blame because none of that will change the outcome. She IS going to realize that and mend her relationship with her sister...I just hope by her having punk to lay up with and talk to she dont forget that OTHER PEOPLE ARE HURT TOO...
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    Nails
    Many times you have to distance yourself from family. I am in that same situation!
     

    Girlsluvgems
    @nails

    Thats so true....but since the headline said rifts between them I can just imagine how nasty it is probably getting....
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    Girlsluvgems
    My family just went through a passing and funerals bring out the WORST in people because you feel mad, you have suvivors guit, and you quickly look to place blame....It's vicious sometimes!!

    And something to this magnitude can break a person down But in the end you have to accept that this is how it is and going to be

    BLAME feel great now but Faith & forgiveness is the ONLY thing that is going to get her through this...not blame and definately not Oprah.
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    Jazzo411
    @maxi

    i agree wit u. this issue def. ran through my mind with all of the media/rumors goin around about this situation. i am still continuing to send my prayers and condolences to the Hudson family. Most headlines r jus saying J. Huds name because if when this first happened and they put Julia Hudson's mom, and brother were murdered ppl who go who? and by pass the article.

    So yea Julia jus chill and relax you guys have better things to worry about than the media's headlines. your older so be mature sweetie
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    GETTINGDOWN
    @GIRLSLUV

    WHY ARE YOU SO STUCK AND HARD ON DAVID(PUNK)?

    WHAT DID HE HAVE TO DO WITH THIS TRAGEDY?

    THAT IS HER MAN, OF COURSE SHE IS GOING TO LEAN ON HIM FOR COMFORT..WHO ELSE SHOULD SHE BE LEANING ON.
    DO YOU KNOW HIM PERSONALLY...YOU CLAIM JHUD IS TAKING ALL THE SPOTLIGHT..NO THE MEDIA IS PUTTING HER IN THE SPOTLIGHT...NO ONE CAN SAY THE HAVE SEEN JHUD IN PUBLIC SINCE THIS HAPPEN.

    HER SISTER HAS MOVED ON WITH HER LIFE, SHE HAS A NEW MAN..AND THE HEADLINES COMES FROM MTO ONLY...SO WE KNOW NOT TO READ INTO THIS SHYT.

    AND LAST...WHY ARE YOU AGAINST OPRAH GIVING HER SHELTER, JHUD HAS HER OWN PLACE BUT WE ALL KNOW THEY WILL CAMP OUT AT HER PLACE WITH CAMERAS.

    PLEASE DON'T GET ME WRONG I KNOW THIS IS YOUR OPINION.
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    Girlsluvgems
    Oh as long as you know it was my opinion then I dont have to explain my thought on his ass again...just scoll up and read, slowly this time
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    dapharoah69
    Oprah is sweet
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    Girlsluvgems
    I dont have to know him to know he (of sound mind and body) would go on national TV to date NEW YORK...


    I dont know him but I Love New York just went off so I can imagine that she dont really know him either.

    I am just saying that ANYBODY can fall for the wrong guy.....if you really read you would see that.

    I could care less tha she got a MAN....that wasnt the point...
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    Nails
    Conscious1

    That's why I love my husband. He's a responsible, loving, caring guy who gets up everyday and works for his; providing me with love and stability. He got swagger for dayz and ain't never had to carry a weapon!
    -----
    My hubby is the same way, preach girl!!!
     

    Girlsluvgems
    @stormzoe

    EXACTLY[SPAM]!
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    lydia
    punk is just using jhud. damn. how much can a girl take. the price of fame is a mutha!
     

    Girlsluvgems
    @stormzoe

    OMG Why did we just same the same thing?????
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    Girlsluvgems
    same = say
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    adck
    THATS SO NICE OF OPRAH 2 HELP JHUD OUT!!! THATS CHI~TOWN LOVE 4 U!!! BUT 4 REAL IF ITS TRUE THAT THERE NOT GETTIN ALONG IM ON JHUD'S SIDE CUZ HA SIS KNEW THAT HE WAS NO GOOD! BUT LOVE CAN MAKE YOU DO CRAZY THINGZ AND SUMTIMEZ U REGRET THEM BUT I PRAY THAT SHE GETS BETTER WITH N TIME WE LOVE YOU JENNIFER!!!!!
     

    Girlsluvgems
    He is using the same low selfesteem lines that william used on her sister. If she wasnt JHUD would they be together?????

    I really dont see where Jen is any different. He is just oh so happy to lounge around Oprah's house.

    I am not upset about Oprah giving her a place (like so many others on this thread)...but when I saw his name....I just had to state my opinion on him

    If you read from MY FIRST COMMENT you would see that...
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    Shaquanna
    MY prayers go out to jennifer. She lost three loved ones in her life. its even more depressing because the holidays are just around the corner. I hope they catch the bastard(s) who did this. and my prayers go out to her sister julia losing a child cant be easy. God bless the Hudson family.
     

    bboyblue
    thats very nice of Oprah helping out her black sister... i wish most black people could be that nice instead of knocking each other down all the time... like is some of these clowns do online...
     

    shasha5575
    ok. i would invite jennifer hudson to my houseyet refuse her sister. so i feel where Oprah is coming from. Julia still has her ex husband on her webpage so i know she would be calling him and inviting him to my house enough for him to knock my head off trying to help her . what kinda attention she wanted she aint famous her sister is get over it. its sad that she loss her son but bad things like this happen to the average person and they get less attention. what she thought she was going to get a starring role or something. Julia please. let go and let God. improve your look and do u.
     

    getreal01
    Jhudson has a dude that she's bff with and a chick named A something. Well i forgot her name. but check out his post. Also, it's been all over the news that Beyonce did NOT attend or anything. Queen, Clive Davis and the likes were there.

    http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendID=28088708&blogID=446992243
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    getreal01
    http://wandaphullworld.wordpress.com/2008/11/07/beyonce-beyonce-has-not-called-jennifer-hudson-huh/

    Another posts about the above topic! After this one, i am done with Bey. Lets move on to more important topics.
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    explorer
    I DON'T KNOW HOW JULIA THINK THAT ALL THE ATTENTION IS BEING SPOLIGHTED ON JENNIFER. SHE SURE DOSEN'T SEEM TO CARE, SHE TOO BUSY TAKING PICS TO PUT ON MYSPACE. I WONDER IF SHE EVEN SHED A TEAR FOR HER FAMILY. HER BEHAVIOR IS JUST STRANGE. SHE DON'T NEED NOBODY TO COMFORT HER BECAUSE SHE IS NOT GRIEVING.
     

    getreal01
    Yeah, William is like her second brother from what i hear. But she has a female best friend too. William is the one that blasted Beyonce not the chick. Julia has a new man and perhaps that is why she is smiling. Shyt might as well find some happiness in all of this. I really think she is acting and the real Julia comes out when no one is watching. She is probably a mess then.
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    KEEYSHAJ50
    TROOPER
    PROLLY SO ABOUT THE CSI/JULIA THING...
    ALSO I HEARD THE HAND DID'NT GET CUT OFF???
    ANYWAY WHAT U BE SAYIN BE ON POINT SO CARRY ON
    CANY WAIT FOR ALL THE TRUTH COME OUT...

    Conscious1
    DAMN U TELL THEM GIRL LOL...

    Antidumb
    I AGREE...

    getreal01
    THATS FUKKED UP I NEED TO SEE THEM PICS...
    SHIIT I WOULD ADD JULIA AS A FRIEND BUT SHES NUTTY...
    SHE DESERVING HOW DO SHE SLEEP SHIIT I WOULD HAVE NIGHTMARES
    IF THIS HAPPENED TO ME GOD FORBID ANYWAY GOD BLESS U JENN ;)

    WhatAnIdiot
    I AGREE IM SURE BEY WOULD GET AROUND TO IT
    I DONT GO TO ALL MY FRIENDS FUNERAL SO WHY SHOULD BEY...
    I ALSO AGREE THEY SHOULD LOCK JULIA AND THE REST OF THEM
    UP TIL THEY CONFESS...
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    KEEYSHAJ50
    justwant2say
    IM SORRY MTO I THINK THEY MADE A TOPIC ABOUT IT NOW HERE IT GO...

    http://www.mediatakeout.com/28032/julia_hudson_puts_photos_on_myspace_from_the_night_before_her_family_funeral__media_speculates_whether_the_photos_are_appropriate_.html
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    getreal01
    On second thoughts, since Julia is the star of the month Jenny Craig or Slim Fast might do well by signing her. Shyt that Punk Punkd got a wrestling contract might at well get the whole family celebrity gigs.
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    puffy
    Read my blog
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    The_Stars_Critic
    Enough of the bullish! that boy aint kill nobody, and thats why he is not being charged! The media will hype of anything and the cops are stupid because time is wasting while the real killers run free. Its obvious that incident was some drug related mess because a drug dealer or dealers dont give a heck who the take out or how they take them out. They are cold and heartless and what happen to her family was cold and heartless. My question is WHY WAS THE MOTHER STILL LIVING IN THE HOOD? and please dont run that her mother did not want to move BULLISH. All she had to do was purchase the place, furnish it, and mover her momma in. No way Mom would have refused that, so again, WHAT DA? Momma still living in the hood for?
     

    chi-hop
    i'm hoping jennifer pull through this as a human being,as a BLACK man and as a person who is from that neighborhood right around the corner to be exact englewood is one of the most violent areas in chicago there is no way i would be living there if i had the money to get out which is why my whole family who lived there are no longer there(well 97% of them) but anyway balfour did not do this alone i think he knows something but i don't think he pulled the trigger anyway i wish her and her family the best i pray for her family and my old neighborhood!
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    chi-hop
    p.s. i have a contact who is close to the case keisha50 is right the child's hand was NOT cut off all this is about drugs that's all i'm going to say jason was no saint hate to say it i'm a big jennifer hudson fan but her brother was not a saint her sister was not a girl scout either jennifer was the one who was trying to do something with her life out of all of them
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    M-M
    I said this before and I'll say it again, Julia is not right. The day she was on television pleading for the return of her son, looking very together (hair freshly done) and not a tear in her eye-let me know she is responsible for this tragedy. How do you ask for forgiveness? God speed, God speed.
     

    Tiffany347
    Jennifer Hudson actually got her dream to come true and make it from the hood. Her family was allegedly caught up in drug dealing and a gang, still living with their mother. Jennifer's mother didn't even want to move from her neighborhood, nor does it seem she wanted to put her kids out. Now what ever dirt they did, it cost them their lives. If Jason did something that backfired and got his mom and nephew slained, that's sad. If William is angry and plotted against the Hudsons', that's sadder. If Julia tried to kill her own blood that's saddest...I hope this ain't like "The Bodyguard".
     

    dahotwon
    why the heck is David (Punk) staying with her in Oprah's condo? Wow...I dunno. Its so suspect to me.
     

    rmc1982
    May God be with the entire Hudson family threw these tragic and trying times.
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    carmel666
    I'M SORRY,BUT 9 TIMES OUT OF 10 AND EX-CON IS NOT MARRIAGE MATERIAL. HER SON WAS NOT HIS AND IT'S OBVIOUS HE WAS STILL LIVING DIRTY. HOW THE HELL ARE YOU MARRIED WITH 2 GIRLFRIENDS-1 PREGNANT AND IT'S NOT EVEN A SECRET? PLUS HE WAS IN THE SAME GANG AS HER EX, IF JULIA WAS MY SISTER, I'D BE PISSED AT HER ASS TOO. I'M SURE ALL SHE HAD TO DO WAS ASK AND SHE AND JULIAN COULD HAVE BEEN LIVING IN A BETTER PART OF THE CITY OR EVEN IN ANOTHER STATE-FAR FROM ALL THE BULL. SHE DIDN'T WANT ANYTHING BETTER AND NOW PEOPLE ARE DEAD. I DON'T BELIEVE IN FATE, I TTHINK GOD LET'S US CHOOSE OUR FATES. JENNIFER CHOSE TO GET OUT HER FAMILY DIDN'T, I'M SORRY SOMETHING SO TRAGIC HAPPENED TO THEM.
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    WomanOfACertainAge
    i don't blame Jen one bit for being pissed at that fat ass desperate sister Julia. Had she taken better care of herself and not been such a fat slob and had more self esteem, she wouldn't have been mixed up with the likes of that lowlife. IT'S JULIA'S OWN FAULT THAT HER SON IS DEAD AND I PERSONALLY HAVE ZERO SYMPATHY FOR HER. IT'S A RESULT OF HER BAD CHOICES!!!
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    sexybigbeauty
    Hi, I am a big curvy girl and I know a wonderful 100% social site to connect with big beautiful women and big handsome men! Chat, email, profiles, photos, forum, blog and more...totally free and really fun!
     

    sexybigbeauty
    Hi, I am a big curvy girl and I know a wonderful 100% social site to connect with big beautiful women and big handsome men! Chat, email, profiles, photos, forum, blog and more...totally free and really fun!
     

    sexybigbeauty
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    getreal01
    agreed, some people's motives for reaching out are just a fake and phoney as they are. Clearly David is staying at Oprah's because he is short on cash.
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    cutenkinky
    William Balfour, a suspect in the murders of three members of Jennifer Hudson's family, has been held for two weeks awaiting a hearing on whether a parole violation will keep him behind bars.
    The hearing before the Illinois Prisoner Review Board is scheduled to be held Monday morning at Stateville Correctional Center, prison officials said. Balfour has not been charged with a crime, but police have developed several pieces of information tying him to the crime scene at the Hudson family South Side home on Oct. 24., the day that the Oscar-winning actress' mother, Darnell Donerson, and brother, Jason Hudson, were killed.

    Jennifer Hudson's 7-year-old nephew's body was found three days later on the West Side.

    If the board decides there is insufficient evidence that Balfour violated the terms of his parole for a 1999 attempted murder conviction, he could be released after the hearing.

    -- David Heinzmann, Chicago Breaking News Center
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    I am curious to know what "evidence" they have. Fingerprints or dna can be explained because he once lived there. I guess we will have to wait to find out if he tested positive for gun shot residue. It doesn't wash off easily.

    If he was arrested simply because of a parole violation he very well may be released. Is it possible the police have put so much focus on Balfour as a suspect they ave let the trail go cold on any other possible suspects.

    I have not found one news article naming Julia Hudson as a "person of interest." So I would like to know where people are getting their information from.

    RANDOM THOUGHTS

    I keep reading stories that Jason was shot first but I don't think that is possible because he was found in an upstairs bedroom. He was already shot in the leg and couldn't get around so he could not have ran up there.

    Reports say Jason had defensive wounds, hmmmmm

    This still sounds like robbery/drug deal gone bad to me.
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    bostongreeneyes
    God bless Oprah for helping this woman because her sister acts like she could give two [EXPLETIVE] about it...the way she's taking pictures like she's a star she needs to get bitch slapped...Jennifer I'm on your side all the way...why is she complaining how much attention her sister is getting? she lost A MOM AND BROTHER JUST LIKE YOU DID STUPID DUMB ASS BITCH...and you lost your own kid and that's all you can talk about? can you say LAME?? I'm so disgusted!
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    Bless1
    sad
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    Bless going out and coming in.

    je71870
    Oprah holds it down. If you want a great commemorative gift go to ebay and get a Obama Collage Poster they are great to show support and preserve a piece of history. http:// shop.ebay.com/merchant/edmondsonjo
     

    Justforfun
    Hate to bring this up... but ... how innocent could Jhuds mother be to have her grown man son pushing out her house? He sat in the front yard and sold drugs day in and out for what appears to be YEARS exactly why no one in the neighborhood seem to have seen sh*t, Julia seems like the ultimate fat sista that dont care who come around she f*cking just happy to get attention. No one ever reported Jason having a job or anywhere to go - ever he was Julia's bus driver ( cant figure out how she got home if her ride was dead ) how much scratch could they have been getting drivin 04 vehicles? they didnt even look paid unless Jennifer dressed them up and took them somewhere. I do think Balfour had something to do with setting this up and taking the boy out the house maybe even before the murders but somewhere at he bottom of this Julia knows way more and i'd bet the farm when all the smoke clears Jennifer will walk away and leave her right there with all her thugged out gutta boo's and cyber friends. I certainly would not take her stuffy *ss out the hood, for what to come embarrass me and bring the drama and mess with my bread and butter - oh no. I dont care what nobody says what kind of grime ball would be looking for love and friends on a computer after they whole family including their child was just wiped out? People are hard on her because people do recognize a rat when they see one. And as for Oprah I would expect nothing less than how she has extended herself to Jennifer and em. They can come around Oprah acting like baffons if they want soon as Jennifer rolls out . I see Julia calling one week later and speaking with the assistant of the assistant
     

    msmto
    @Justforfun, MsKendra79, and Boss:

    I love all your comments and I totally agree!

    God knoweth the truth and will shed light to this entire situation in due time.

    Stay tuned...
     

    NotimeforBS
    I know I am late, but the Phat bytch know that man is psycho. And it had to be other incidents prior to the bottom falling out and the tragedy. She looks lazy and nasty and she is really selfish, and need to ask God for forgiveness for putting that heathen hubby b/4 everything of love in her life. She should be trying to get the death penalty against that fool!
     

    NotimeforBS
    Julia, acknowledge.....the only reason this story got publicity is because of Jennifer. You just another statistic of black on black crime. Did you think you had some anti defense mechanism against you with all that negative, low life living you have been welcoming. Jennifer, you have all the right to be furious with your sister, but remember forgive her and try to educate her on a better quality of living, she does need guidance and a wake up call of the results of negative surroundings in her life.
     

    NotimeforBS
    Moreover, if he didn't pull the trigger he know who did, and the street code is not even a factor in this. You'd best to talk cause that little boy had nothing to do with yall grown folks problem.
     

    iscribe
    I love oprah soo much...and julia is a mess


    my prayers or with jen and that the fam for real
     

    5013ayers
    My prayers are with Jennifer and her family. Her sister Julia is acting too strange...I hate to say this, but I wouldn't be surprised if she was somehow involved...The husband still has not been arrested for the murders...better check the insurance policies.....It is a blessing that Oprah is allowing Jennifer and her fiance stay at her condo.....
     

    5013ayers
    My prayers are with Jennifer and her family. Her sister Julia is acting too strange...I hate to say this, but I wouldn't be surprised if she was somehow involved...The husband still has not been arrested for the murders...better check the insurance policies.....It is a blessing that Oprah is allowing Jennifer and her fiance stay at her condo.....
     

    breana415
    i dont think jennifer should be mad at her sister..
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    breana415
    i dont think jennifer should be mad at her sister..
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