: MediaTakeOut.com has learned that in a recent interview with Essence magazine, director Tyler Perry refuses to directly address the issue of his sexuality. Here's an excerpt of the interview, when the interviewer confronts Tyler about the gay rumors::
[Tyler Perry] acknowledges first, that climbing into a dress and wig and packing his face full of Maybelline could very well lead people to question for which side he's hitting. "It used to bother me a whole lot in the beginning, it really, really did," says Perry. "But what it's done is give me firm seating in my manhood. And if some people can't separate the character from the man that I am, then that's their issue, not mine."What the heck kind of response is that??? Why won't he just say whether he is, or he isn't?? Better yet, why won't Essence just ask him the question straight up???. Guess that would be too much to ask from them. Sorry y'all we're just venting...
...DUH???? From his answer, he's clearly saying he's str8!!!!!!
I don't know if MTO is just hard of understanding, but he CLEARLY STATED that it makes him MORE COMFORTABLE with HIS MANHOOD being able to play that character and STILL BEING A FULL FLEDGED MAN....
He said it's THE OTHER PERSON'S PROBLEM if they can't SEPARATE the character FROM THE MAN...
LEAVE TYLER THE HELL ALONE (I DEN' GONE MADEA)! MTO IS SO QUICK TO CALL SOMEBODY GAY! HOW COME NOBODY CALLED MARTIN LAWRENCE GAY WHEN HE PLAYED SHA-NAY-NAY? WHY DOES A MAN HAVE TO BE GAY IS HE'S NOT BANGING SOME WOMEN(S) BACK OUT? MAYBE DUDE JUST TRYING TO GET HIS EMPIRE TOGETHER BEFORE HE COMES AND MEETS ME! I LOVE YOUR WORK TYLER AND YOU AS A PERSON! I'VE BEEN PRAYING FOR YOU BABY, DON'T LET THESE, HATER'S BRING YOU DOWN!
like denzel stated "he's man enough to wear those woman flip flops" on movie "Out of time" lol...
I personally can care less about his orientation, and his comment was straight forward so I don't get what MTO didn't understand...
As for my personal belief, I think dude bats for the boys team.... but knows he can't say so cuz it will ruin his career the church is tooo much behind him.... that's just my opinion... and him playing madea has nothing to do with why I think that, cuz if you are confident in your sexuality playing a woman's part etc wouldn't affect ya, but with him in his interviews back stage info etc. its my gut that keeps making me think that...
Playing the character of Madea does not make Tyler Perry gay. Although he does a great job of making me laugh when he’s in character, it never led me to believe that he was gay. Lots of men play female characters without any question about their sexuality (Arnold Schwartzenegger, Robin Williams, Martin Lawrence, John Travolta, etc.). Tyler is a man that God used to be a light and tell stories that make people think and show people they can make it despite their difficulties. To try to continue to “cut him down” with rumors and accusations is just another example of the “crabs in a bucket” mentality that some of us still have. I respect Tyler’s work. I respect Tyler as a man and I can truly separate the man from the character. For those who cannot, may I suggest you open your mind? Expressing your opinion about not liking his show is one thing. Certainly you have a right to your opinion on that. But making accusations about the man’s private life is totally uncalled for.
I pray he keeps making good movies, plays, etc. I’ll continue to support him as long as he keeps entertaining! Go Tyler!
My mother swears up and down it's something about tyler that's gay. Let me first say this. I love madea and all...
But when a man A BLACK MAN AT THAT is asked whether he's gay or not and he doesn't answer with a NO or a Hell no or a Hell naw he's gay. The gay ones usually beat around the bush and avoid answering.
His response alone answers the question if you all just read between the lines. Hello he's making it clear that if the media and fans cannot separate his job from real life then that's our problem he knows and confident about his sexuality the hell what ya'll think. And plus he has answered that question before. HE IS NOT GAY
MTO..Are yall freakin' retarded???? Just from that response, the man clearly states that he is STRAIGHT!!! Think about it "seperate the character from the man that I am" Obviously people are having trouble with seperating those to things and that's their problem not his so it's obvious that he is not gay.
AND NEXT TIME, POST THE ENTIRE ARTICLE. DON'T JUST HIGHTLIGHT ONE STATEMENT AND CALL THE MAN GAY. IN THE REST OF THE ARTICLE, IT TALKS ABOUT HOW HE PLANS ON GETTING MARRIED IN THE NEAR FUTURE AND HAVING TWO KIDS (BOY AND A GIRL) HE ALSO STATED THAT HE IS ALREADY FURNISHING BABY BEDROOMS FOR THEM IN HIS NEW HOUSE. AS WELL AS HIS PAST RELATIONSHIPS WITH TRYA BANKS AND TRACEE ELLIS ROSS.
SO LIKE I SAID BEFORE, MTO..GET YALL SH!T TOGETHER AND KICK ROCKZ!!!
MTO how do you expect him to give a str8 forward answer if you claim Essence never asked him a str8 forward qustion.yall make no sense.dont ask me did i use the bathroom today and then expect me to say yes and i took a [EXPLETIVE]a piss and i threw up to.no im gonna answer what you ask me and nothing more.so if they dont ask if he is gay or not do you really expect him to bring it up.aahhhhh...nahhhh..also why is it any of our business if he is or isnt...i have people that i actually know personally that im trying to figure out if they r gay or not.there no time to worry about people i dont know.
Media Takeout, you all really need to leave people alone. Just because you all are ignorant and don't proper English. He responded the way he wanted too! If he is, that is his business. How come you all don't question other male actors sexuality when they dress up as women; Martin Lawrence, Eddie Murphy, John Travolta! He could be a metrosexual like Bernie Mac!
Misery loves company... hence the reason MTO is always calling somebody GAY. They mad cause their entire staff and life is gay and they feel that labeling everyone else as such is vindication. So sad... so sad... How can you seek out all of these so-called gay men, if you are not one yourself. Is there some kind of radar that I need to be looking for when scouting out gay people... I'm lost... someone help me to weed out the gays so that I can be somebody and have some gossip to report... PLEASE HELP ME...
I don't give a hoot if he is asexual. He puts out a good product. Why we always gotta know who's sleeping with whom Some things ought to stay in the dang closet, shoot! You start searching for farts and when you find one you're not gonna like the stench.
He is a positive black man that's doing his thing. Let's leave it like that.
WHY DOES MTO SPEND SO MUCH TIME TALKING ABOUT WHO IS GAY?
FIRST, NOBODY OWES ANY OF YOU AN EXPLANATION FOR WHO OR WHAT HE'S HITTIN UNLESS HE'S HITTIN YOU.
SECOND, IF YOU HAVE TO ASK, YOU'VE ALREADY ASSUMED THAT HE'S GAY ANYWAY AND IF HE SAYS "NO" YOU STILL WON'T BELIEVE HIM. SO WHAT'S THE [EXPLETIVE] POINT????
@angeleyes. I totally agree with you, I mean just because Im hot, and Im exotic, and both guys and girls want my uber hot body, if I ever decided to put myself in the limelight, which I JUST might do tomorrow, is it fair for MTO to call me gay?...NO!...it's not. DON'T call me gay cus you see me bangin all the hottest hoes in Hollywood, call me gay because Im banging their boyfriends 10 mins later! And i didnt even take a shower either! (neck rolls and pops bubbleyum)
MTO is just as bad as some of the black people on here wanting to dissect Tiger Wood's ethnicity and FORCE the man to claim he's black while renouncing his Asian heritage. Get over it. Tyler Perry does not have to tell us his sexual orientation and furthermore, since when does a man dressing up as a woman, Martin Lawrence, Dustin Hoffman, John Travolta, Eddie Murphy, make a man gay? Who needs to know and why do they need to be in Tyler's bedroom?
Some people are so insecure in their own skin that they think they MUST force their beliefs on others. The world does not operate that way.
If I'm a multiracial person, no one is going to FORCE me to say I'm just black; if I'm gay, no one is going to FORCE me to say I'm gay; if I'm dating a celebrity, no one needs to know my business.
Many in the gay community have gotten to the point where if someone doesn't publicly claim they're gay, they want to OUT them or report innuendo. How unfair is that? If they're not on the DL and involving innocent women and children, leave them alone.
In the entertainment business, it is not always conducive to come out and say you're gay. As I've said before, who would buy a ticket to a movie where Ellen Degeneres is playing someone's wife? Not many, because she chose to come out, display it like crazy and look what ended up happening. Yet Queen Latifah can play any kind of role she wants because she doesn't flaunt her business. She was adorably in love with LL Cool J in the Last Holiday and believed as an actress.
Well, I'm reading this thing at the top, and nowhere do I see where MTO bluntly ASKED Tyler Perry if he's gay. All I see is an excerpt of an interview in which Perry alone talks about the Madea character. It's a sad day in America when people want to see MORE INTELLIGENT and MORALLY UPSTANDING BLACK MEN in America, yet, when they come across one, the intelligence within quickly gets shoved aside, because they feel his sexuality is more important. That's always the first damn thing folk gotta know..."Is so-and-so gay?" Hell, if he is...SO DAMN WHAT? How does Tyler Perry being gay or straight going to benefit me or anybody else
It's a shame how people can't stand to see someone be successful and not try to find some way to demean them or pick them apart. Tyler has done excellent work and I truely believe that he is straight. I believe he made that very clear in his response but I don't think that MTO is even trying to grasp the concept of what he actually said. Regardless, I love his work and I will continue to watch his movies, plays, or whatever else he decides to come out with. God bless you Tyler and you should continue to do as the Lord leads you.
This morning I have decided to NEVER again post or read this website again. Why? Because after some praying and soul searching, this website, and others like it or so unGodly. Why do I say this? Well, first of all MTO, you are always digging in someone else's private life. You talk about their spouses, their children, and their intimate details as if you have a right to expose their dirty laundry because your life is so perfect. And then, you hide behind a computer. You don't expose who you (and your staff) are and their private lives. The day you ran a "fake" news story on Min. Hezekiah Walker should have told me that you all are a part of the devil's plan to tear people's lives apart. You are no better than the Saducees and the Pharisees in the new testament. You dog others out while you live your lives just as bad as the people that you are accusing. You many your dirty loot (money) by digging up others sins. Tyler, P-Diddy, Beyonce, Eddie, Jay-Z, Kelly, Usher, and all the rest deserve a PRIVATE life. Yes, they give up a little privacy because of their chosen careers, but they don't have to reveal things about the details of their private lives no more than you or I do. The internet is a great invention but seems like everything God blesses us with we end up using it to hurt and destroy others. This website is destroying reputations, marriages, and lives. You ALL will answer to God for that. And for those who have itching ears to hear how miserable someone else is, you're a part of the problem. I have asked God to forgive me for everytime I've logged on to this site and read things that I know are hurting others. I pray that you all will do the same. These people cannot exist if we don't support them. This Tyler Perry story is the last straw for me. I REPENT...I WON'T BE BACK! I wish the rest of you love, peace and the privacy you refuse to give to others.
WHEN YOU HAVE THIS KIND OF MONEY YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO FREAK ANY WAY YOU WANT WITH NOISEY HOE$ LIKE AJC & MESSY BLOGS. PLEASE DON'T DO STUPID STUFF LIKE MASE OR EDDIE MURPHY, LET YOUR ADMIN ASSISTANT HANDLE FREAKY SIDE WITH APPOINTMENT AND MEDICAL RECORD. DONT ANSWER THIS STUPID QUESTION TELL THE B!TCHES SAVE BY THE GRACE OF GOD. TELL THEM THAT YOUR FREAKY SIDE IS YOUR RELIGION.
Why should it matter? How would any of you like it if someone always commented on your. Wrinkled ass, bad teeth, sweaty underarms. bald head, bad weave, thick neck, limp dick. dry [EXPLETIVE], white woman lover, gold digger, cheap whore, big feet, ugly mother,crazy children,can't read. quit school, drunk, druggie, alcoholic,dike, [EXPLETIVE]ignorant bastard, bug eyes, hiv positive nasty azz dog. See we can all be called something wrong. Again, what difference should it make? LOVE YOU TYLER FOR NO REASON. DON'T EVEN ATTEMPT TO DEFEND YOURSELF ABOUT YOUR PERSONAL BUSINESS, IT'LL BREAK MY HEART. DO YOU WHATEVER IT IS.
There are alot of talented black men that play women roles and are straight: 1. Martin Lawrence (Big Mama's House) 2. Eddie Murphy (Nutty Professor) etc. Just because a man plays a woman character does not make him gay. If he is gay I will still go see his plays and movies because he plays the hell out of Madea. And the same people that are on here judging him will be right there when his new movies come out. Yall need to quit hating!
I bet Neyo is lying down somewhere (posed as a fish, of course) letting out a deep breath of relief, talkin bout, "Hopefully this'll keep them off me for awhile!" lol
I'm just trying to understand the difference it would make if he is or not. MTO & other media outlets already ridin him hard as hell anyway, with all the speculation, so they're going to believe that he is, regardless of what he says.
At the end of the day, we laugh at his jokes, and portrayed characters, not his sexuality, and being gay doesn't seem as though it makes/would make him any less funny.
(pun wasn't intended, but hell, it can be)
Why it matters is that Perry is a multimillionaire because of his message about the power of the church community - the same community that supports discrimination against gay people. If he's gay, that makes him a major hypocrite. He needs to find the courage not only to come out, but to call the black churches on their hypocrisy as well. If he's not, he needs to say so. But I"m guessing he won't say "I'm not gay" because that would be telling a lie, which he either doesn't want to do, or doesn't want to get caught doing.
I admire a lot of things about Perry and have seen all his films. But he needs to own this.
The devil comes in many forms. When Jesus was in the wilderness and the devil tempted him over and over again he didn't answer with a simple yes or no he gave him wise answers.Those who dont understand what Tyler was saying aren't anything, but [EXPLETIVE] who like to just say dumb crap that appeal to other [EXPLETIVE] aka MTO
I don't personally care if he was gay. He plays Madea well enough to be a transsexual. I couldn't care less if he was a transsexual.
All that I want to know is:
What the hell business is it of ours to know, one way or the other?
So does that mean if he is, we will no longer see his movies or watch his productions?
Will our knowing then give us the right to express our bigotry?
You all have huge noses that need to get chopped!