EXCLUSIVE: La La's Pregnant AGAIN - With NBA's Carmelo Anthony's Second Child!!!

EXCLUSIVE: LA LA'S PREGNANT AGAIN - WITH NBA'S CARMELO ANTHONY'S SECOND CHILD!!!

January 28, 2008. Congratulations are in order. MediaTakeOut.com has EXCLUSIVELY learned that La La Vasquez and NBA superstar Carmelo Anthony are expecting their second child.

We spoke with one of La La's family friend's who broke the news. The woman told MediaTakeOut.com, "When we heard the news everyone was so happy ... La La is such a great mother."

La La and Carmelo already have a son, Kiyan, together. The happy couple has been engaged since 2004. No word on when the two plan on jumping the broom.

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COMMENTS:

She_So_Fly
	Congrats!
	--------------- I make MTO look good!

sirdickery
	www.whoizjazz.com


KDubbalicious
	Congrats to them!! Woohoo!
	--------------- Whatchu talkin‘ ‘bout, MTO?

bigdaddy1696
	GOODMORNING EVERYONE! Man La La looks just like that pornstar carmen hayes.lol Well congrats to them anyway.
	--------------- youtube.com/BIGGDADDYFLICKS

Kesha615
	O [EXPLETIVE] I'm early!!!
	--------------- ~priorities are str8~

EpitomeofFashion
	Good for them!


SaTiNBrOwN
	she seems like a sweet girl but she is busted.
	--------------- ~~~Welcome to DC~~~

SaTiNBrOwN
	she seems like a sweet girl but she is busted.
	--------------- ~~~Welcome to DC~~~

koko_kisses401
	Good Morn-tings :)
	--------------- Home with a headache

caligachick
	whatttt!!! thats exciting! i'm happy 4 dem!
	--------------- myspace.com/cali_georgiagirl ..holla @me

craze189
	Get Your Paper, Alani!!! 34% is better than 17%... Everyday. He Can Marry Her IF He Wants To, But She's Good Either Way. Smart Girl.


MWilliams
	What's the deal peeps..check out my new page at the site below...just spreading the word about..a new alternative to BP and MySpace... Peace
	--------------- http://www.myblackcentral.com/ChuckW

craze189
	Get Your Paper, Alani!!! 34% is better than 17%... Everyday. He Can Marry Her IF He Wants To, But She's Good Either Way. Smart Girl.


mrrockexclusive
	WWW.ROCKEXCLUSIVE.NET PAY-PAL ACCEPTED


islandbeauty
	I can't stand La La... wtf kind of name is that anyway???? She is so dramatic when she is on the I love New york reunion shows...she needs to stfu!!!
	--------------- AND WHAT??????

RUTHLESS
	WOMEN STAY AWAY FROM MALE CELEBRITIES THESE MEN DO NOT WANT NORMAL SEX..THEY WILL PISS ON YOU, DEFECATE ON YOU , F**K YOU IN YOUR ASS AND MOUTH AND THEY PROBABLY HAVE HERPES AND HPV IN THIER SPERM FROM ALL THESE WOMEN THEY SLEEP WITH. YOU WILL NOT GET MARRIAGE, HOUSE OR LAND ALL YOU WILL GET IS A GUCCI BAG...YOU ARE NOT AN ANIMAL DO NOT LET ANY MAN TREAT YOU LIKE ONE. IF YOU SAVE UP ENOUGH MONEY YOU CAN BUY YOUR OWN GUCCI BAG...


not_1_2_hate
	I'm Da Pappi
	--------------- The SMARTEST dumb man is still DUMB!

selene25
	yippeeeee!!!congrats to them!!!!!
	--------------- Sweeter Than Sweet

mzbabygurl
	congrats


SaTiNBrOwN
	Epitomeoffashion~~> your outfit is flyy
	--------------- ~~~Welcome to DC~~~

MarcStar
	CONGRATS TO THE TWO OF THEM
	--------------- www.myspace.com/dc_governor

step_into_the_light
	I hope to hear some wedding bells soon. Congrats to both.
	--------------- LOVING LIFE...

RUTHLESS
	THESE MEN ONLY WANT TO USE WOMEN LIKE ANIMALS AND THEN TOSS YOU OUT LIKE YESTERDAYS NEWS.....THEY JUST WANT TO USE YOU p*SS AND DEFECATE ON YOU. YOUR PARENTS DID NOT BRING YOU IN THIS WORLD FOR SOME MAN TO USE YOU LIKE AN ANIMAL OR TOILET...


JadisOne
	Congrats! Best wishes to the two of them.


MissLouisiana
	LaLa is trying to keep them babies coming so that Carmelo can end up just like Shaquille. Her career isn't going anywhere so why not hop on his.
	--------------- "The Real Testament"

MacDawgJustChillaxin
	Look like they gone stay together. Bitches
	--------------- It was all a dream. " Biggie "

Veet
	who cares


FelonysHobby
	Yeah, she put that thang on him. She is like 6 or 7 years older than him so I'm surprised she aint made him walk down the aisle yet. ----- You wanna be the big fish, you little guppy Black man can't be no yuppie You put on your suit and tie and your big clothes You don't associate with the Negroes
	--------------- www.myspace.com/felonyshobby

addorable4u
	CONGRATS...
	--------------- "BE SOMETHING OR STAND FOR NOTHING

herewegoagain
	Here we go again, another baby momma episode, no wedding bells....hmmmmm. The lifestyles that these sisters follow, wow it's amazing-get pregnant and win his love and affection.


EpitomeofFashion
	Thanks Satinbrown. And Ruthless, do you have experience or something? I doubt all celeb men do that. R.Kelly setting the standard.


blackexec
	Good for them. ===== 30 lbs in 30 days!! Only @ www.[SPAM].com
	--------------- Destroy Fat for FREE @ www.HealZoo.com

diva007
	coungrat lala


truebahamian
	Damn. When will women learn that it's not okay just to be a 'baby's mama'. I feel sorry for the generation that believes it's okay for men to continuously disrespect and degrade women for an easy dollar. Because that's what he's doing. He's basically saying, she's good enough to have sex with, but not good enough to spend the rest of his life with. Women, this is 2008, there's more to life and love than just getting paid okay. Have some respect for yourselves, and you will draw men to you, who realize this, and will inturn respect you as well. Men only do things that women let them get away with. Just my opinion, no need to address me. LOL
	--------------- Live well, laugh often, love with heart!

Micaii
	La La and Carmelo already have a son, Kiyan, together. The happy couple has been engaged since 2004. No word on when the two plan on jumping the broom. ***** rotflmao at mto! this was funny
	--------------- Yeah, sure you do :)

MsRhonnie
	@RUTHLESS.... hun is there something you trying to tell us????...hopefully you are not speaking from personal experience???
	--------------- Be yourself...everyone else is taken

Jah-N-me
	Dang Ruthless... take it down a thousand. Sounds like you speaking from experience. Breathe in..... Breathe out....


lusil1976
	She's having all these baby's to keep him right? He remains, right? From what I've always been told a baby can't make a man stay...so um, he's staying because he loves him some LaLa!!! Call me crazy but I'm SURE he had something to do with her getting pregnant!!
	--------------- I don‘t break hearts, I melt em

sexychoclit
	So she cool with that "baby mama" shyt too huh? Well if she like, I love it...congrats dummy!
	--------------- Chocolate is so addictive...need rehab?

jimmy67luv
	Melo still waiting on the freak-train. It's a myth Bruh...handle yo B.I.


xugarbush-nyc
	wow..i didn't even know these 2 already had a kid to begin with....wow...but what's up w these women being quick about popping babies but no sign of getting married & wanting more for themselves & their children better yet...don't jut be a baby's mom, become a wife, & for their kids to grow up in a home with both paents being married ..geesh!...especially black/latino women....nevertheless if you are with a pro athlete or entertainer who have so much going for themselves & can very much afford to gve you the life you deserve...don't settle for less ladies!!
	--------------- 100% Honduras,Central America Import

ImNaturallySexY
	So what!! I'm looking forward to seeing the baby pictures because I do think make a cute set of parents, but I'm really not a fan of either of them.
	--------------- www.myspace.com/chocolateflavoredlatte

kissthekitty
	CONGRATS
	--------------- Always Lovely

bkyouth
	Mornin everyone..i hate mondays..just wanted to share that... Lala's been looking goooood lately...dats wassup though, obviously they holdin each other down so its all good...


RUTHLESS
	AM SPEAKING FROM WHAT I READ AND HEAR EVERYDAY.


Cola_Brown
	Girlfriend knows what she is doing!!!! i aint mad atcha
	--------------- The Darker the Berry The Sweeter It Is..

Rar1Ty
	Shyt La La just tryna insure that paper. I love my girl, but right now the career is nowhere...and she does have a few years on Melo. But I dunno girl...engaged 4 yrs and having baby #2! That's living married life, but without the perks chick!


huhduh10
	damn yall move fast , congrats
	--------------- seeanferneejosephrun.blogspot.com

Jah-N-me
	Dang Ruthless... take it down a thousand. Sounds like you speaking from experience. Breathe in..... Breathe out....


RUTHLESS
	WHY HE DIDN'T MARRY HER WHEN SHE WAS PREGNANT WITH THE FIRST CHILD..IS NOT LIKE HE CANNOT AFFORD THE WEDDING... THESE MEN ARE NO GOOD SONS OF BITCHES...AND WOMEN ARE DUMB FOOLS. WHY OPEN UP YOUR LEG TO MAKE A SECOND CHILD WITHOUT A RING.


MissLouisiana
	Why marry her. Why buy the Cow if you can get the milk FREE
	--------------- "The Real Testament"

blackexec
	They look good together. ===== See your abs again!! Only @ www.[SPAM].com
	--------------- Destroy Fat for FREE @ www.HealZoo.com

PlayaRushous
	Congrats to them I guess.... Well Carmello respects her enough to be a mother to his kids, but not well enough to be his WIFE!!!!! I wonder if she thinks about that?????
	--------------- What Up Chumps!!!!!!

sweetlycee
	congrats to them


RUTHLESS
	CHILDREN BEING BROUGHT INTO THE WORLD JUST TO GET A PAYCHECK IS DISGUSTING...CHILDREN SHOULD BE BROUGHT INTO THIS WORLD FOR THE MOTIVE OF LOVE NOT MONEY..


RUTHLESS
	WHY IS IT THAT WHEN WOMEN MEET RICH MEN THEY HAVE NO IDEA WHAT BIRTH CONTROL IS...


IndianapolisIndiana
	sooo what
	--------------- Goodbye bad days,Hello good nights

DramaFreeInNYC
	All this "he dont wanna marry her" "shes just a baby momma" BS has got to stop! Did it ever occur to some of you that SHE may not want to marry? That DOES happen you know! Believe me, LaLa knows just what she wants! But far be it from me to entertain the masses with her personal life! JUST REMEMBER... EVERYTHING ISNT ALWAYS WHAT IT SEEMS!!
	--------------- 18-1! Winning When It Matters Most! NYG!

10-UH-C
	Man!
	--------------- Shutcho Azz Up, I‘m talkin!!

mzbabygurl
	Why do people criticize and say "oh you just a baby momma" or "oh they need to get married" and blah blah blah.... NEWSFLASH! just because a man tells you "I DO" does not mean he's there to stay. we hear everyday about men that are cheating on their wives, with woman and men. and some of them have been in relationships for 20 and 30 years. call me a part of the "young generation" but i dont see what the big deal is. besides 50% of all marriages fail anyway. so to each is own. if they wanna be a "baby momma" let them. hell who's to say they not happier that way....


mspansy
	Congrads to them!!! Hope they don't catch any drama about having kids outta wedlock, like Monica did....damn!! ATL an MTO drilled the hell outta her. myspace.com/fire3300
	--------------- Sorry fans!....i cant c u, Im workn lol

jimmy67luv
	@MissLouisiana / @Micaii / @Epitomeoffashion / @Kesha615 Just saying Good Morning, ya dig. Peace ladies..keep it sexy! ~~one~~


alana
	I mean damn...do people get married anymore before they start having all these kids??? Hope the baby is healthy


SweetStacia
	He is my baby and ios the only reason I like basketball. I wish they would just go ahead and marry that damn girl. Theyve been engaged for like 4 years!
	--------------- ~~~*PRiSSY*~~~

milw242
	When is the wedding?


mzarrogance
	as far as the children go, they have both parents in the home. it's their second and he hasn't gone anywhere yet. let'so be happy for the kids. again, they have both parents.


Txbadbtch
	Cool this is a good look glad he's sticking close to home and not running all wild
	--------------- Smoochez ;-)

mzarrogance
	i cosign w/ DramaFree


VicSage
	I know Melo is having his cake and eating it too..
	--------------- "Ponder the ? not the answer."

215girl
	Chil, I would be pregnant to, congrats.
	--------------- Take your mask off I might speak to ya..

KINGJACOB1
	thats wasup
	--------------- http://www.myspace.com/nwkking

vidabida
	I don't see the point in being engaged for over 1 1/2 - 2 years. He gave her a "STFU about marriage" ring.


Micaii
	why is everyone calling her stupid because they aren't married yet? to each its own, and why do everyone have to follow the status quo? maybe marriage isn't for everyone, do you all feel that if you are married everything is better? if so, then you need a reality check! Marriage is just a title to show off to people who think it matters lol, and I'm not judging all marriages the same because I know some people who actually knows the real meaning behind it, but maybe they both have decided they aren't ready for that step and settles with being engaged
	--------------- Yeah, sure you do :)

KEKO1720
	She is securing her money bank huh? I guess. But when did it become so cute to have a bunch of kids without being married? Maybe I am just a little bit more old fashion than most..but much respect to single parents.
	--------------- Lets be like the naked ‘fro skripp

lovejoydiva
	COngrats!!! I think it's bout time for a wedding Mello!! LaLa seems to be bossy on those Ilove NY reunions....tell Mello that you need to jump the broom!
	--------------- I‘m LiViN ThAt GoOd LyFe!!!

koko_kisses401
	@ DramaFreeInNYC & mzbabygurl You two took the words right out of my mouth. What if she doesn't want to get married. Look like these two are holdin it down with each other regardless of their marital status. Congrats to them both.
	--------------- Home with a headache

FATTMATT
	THEY ARE A GOOD LOOK TOGETHER... HOPE THE BEST FOR THEM.....
	--------------- EASY BROUGHT ME BACK

travieboo7
	CONGRATS...I LOVE CARMELO'S SEXY ASS....HE CAN GET IT..
	--------------- i‘M JuST sAYinG??

FATTMATT
	HI MACAII- SUP HOMEGIRL? HOW YOU DOING..
	--------------- EASY BROUGHT ME BACK

txaquarius
	Congrats to them! Marriage is something that can not be taken lightly. I personally want the ROCK before I start having babies.
	--------------- yep, stuntastic!

DubR
	DAMN MELLLLOOO
	--------------- I NEED U LIKE I NEED A HOLE IN MY HEAD

lonnydan
	AND? JUST ANOTHER RAGEDY AZZ BLACK MAN WITH AS BITTTTTCH THAT'S NON BLACK WHO WILL BE HAVING A NON BLACK LIGHT SKIN BABY. I DONT KNOW WHY DUMB AZZ BLACK MEN ARE HELPING THE MISSION OF GENOCIDE THATS BEING INFLICTED ON THE BLACK RACE WITH ALL THESE GODDDDAMN NON BLACK CHILDREN. I BET THIS BIIITCH SWEAR UP AND DOWN THE BABY WILL BE CUTE CAUSE THIS HOE GOT OTHER IN HER. BUT IT WON CAUSE SHE IS SO GODDDDAMN UGLEY WITH THOSE BOG BUG AZZ EYES, THOSE DROOOPY TITTTTTIES AND THAT NASTY YELLOW SKIN. DARK SKIN WILL ALWAYS BE MORE POWERFUL BIIITCH. NO MATTER WHAT. @TRAVIEBOO ARE U FUKING CRAZY. CARMELO DONT WANT TO GET IT FROM U. U ARE A PURE BLACK. HA U R FUNNY


LovelyLady0820
	@ Ruthless Damn what nicca you done hit, carried the f*ck out of u. Girl ur ass been scorned. Talking like that I assume u know first hand. lol. But some of what u sya is true. Congrats to Lala and Carmelo I do hope to see them married soon but..... @craze189 u said it best..... Get Your Paper, Alani!!! 34% is better than 17%... Everyday. He Can Marry Her IF He Wants To, But She's Good Either Way. Smart Girl. AND @ FelonysHobby Yeah, she put that thang on him. She is like 6 or 7 years older than him so I'm surprised she aint made him walk down the aisle yet. Thats ish is probably so trueeeee.... <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
	--------------- Eat It, Lick It, Snort It, F*ck It

PlatnumPlus
	Why Do People Stay Engaged So Long?...
	--------------- ....Have a Wonderful & Safe Wknd....

VAALLDAY
	They should think about gettin married now. The baby momma title ain't cool.


lisha26
	Good for them, I like LA LA. I thought she looked so cute on the I Love NY reunion show.
	--------------- Loves me some USHER since 1993...mwwahhh

Froman
	Damn EpitomeofFashion... Looks like you holdin a nice pair. Are you close to the CHI?
	--------------- Me & PornStars Nyomi Banxxx &Candace Von

lonnydan
	CARMELLO IS ONE UGLY FAT FACED LONG FACED BAD BODIED OUT OF SHAPE LOOKIN BITCH. NPT TONED UP AT ALL. WHY HE EVEN PLAYBG B BAL. FAT AZZ


FlyaThenIEvaWasB4
	I Think Its A Beautiful Thing..They Make A Cute Couple, I Think Wedding Bells Are In Order....
	--------------- U Wearin erri Clothe It MeansUrVery Soft

smuvJ
	Mo Money


shelly
	good for them


EpitomeofFashion
	I say the same thing dramafree and mzbaby...She may not ready to be married. And a ring doesn't guarantee ANYTHING. There are women out there that want kids but don't want to be married. Society doesnt have to set every standard for your personal life.


shabin36
	Love you La lA, VERY PRETTY GIRL


king_blackfansites
	Very good news for them
	--------------- www.blackfansites.com

Micaii
	hey fatmatt! just chillen trying to get thru this crappy monday
	--------------- Yeah, sure you do :)

nettie26
	They look good together


sie-sie
	i love seeing them togather, even though cormelo was going to be (MY BABYDADDY), im happy he found love with la la. she so cute. im very happy for them.


sie-sie
	mzbabygurl Flag post Why do people criticize and say "oh you just a baby momma" or "oh they need to get married" and blah blah blah.... NEWSFLASH! just because a man tells you "I DO" does not mean he's there to stay. we hear everyday about men that are cheating on their wives, with woman and men. and some of them have been in relationships for 20 and 30 years. call me a part of the "young generation" but i dont see what the big deal is. besides 50% of all marriages fail anyway. so to each is own. if they wanna be a "baby momma" let them. hell who's to say they not happier that way.... ***** AMEN!!!!! YOU SAID A MOUTH FULL GIRL


LoveyDoveyChic
	Congrads to them!!!
	--------------- IM UR FORBIDDEN FANTASY

Mom2Girls
	why is everyone calling her stupid because they aren't married yet? to each its own, and why do everyone have to follow the status quo? maybe marriage isn't for everyone, do you all feel that if you are married everything is better? if so, then you need a reality check! Marriage is just a title to show off to people who think it matters lol, and I'm not judging all marriages the same because I know some people who actually knows the real meaning behind it, but maybe they both have decided they aren't ready for that step and settles with being engaged ~~~~~ I disagree, if all marriage is to some is "a title to show off" then folks like that need not marry, and really do not understand the signifigance of it at all. How can you not be ready to dedicate your life and be committed to a person but you will spread seeds and have a child with that very person. That makes zero sense to me...like okay, I don't know if I am ready to marry you, but sure lets have a few kids and be bonded for the next 18 years as co-parents. Then it does not work out and you have 2,3,4 baby daddys and thinking it is "ok" because society has it backwards? I just do not agree with that. I see why the older generations are so disappointed in todays young people, we have no family values it seems (in general). But to each her own...


ttiiaa77
	RUTHLESS: you said "CHILDREN BEING BROUGHT INTO THE WORLD JUST TO GET A PAYCHECK IS DISGUSTING...CHILDREN SHOULD BE BROUGHT INTO THIS WORLD FOR THE MOTIVE OF LOVE NOT MONEY.." Tell that to Karrine Steffans and Gloria Velez (the chick that had a baby by Aaron Hall)!! Career FIRST!! MEn and BABIES LATER!!!! All you woman downplaying marriage are the same ones who jump for freakin joy if a man asked YOU to marry them, so stop frontin like it doesn't matter!!!! Just because no one may have married your grandmother, your mother, your aunts or even your sisters doesn't mean the idea is FOREIGN!!!


CuteBigGirl
	Never Knew they had a first baby I love melo hes my fav bball player and lala gonna gain her baby weight baCk


ttiiaa77
	Take that, take that!!


huhduh10
	IndianapolisIndiana Flag post sooo what
	--------------- seeanferneejosephrun.blogspot.com

Guilty_Pleasure
	Are you making this up? I'd hate to see Lala keep popping out babies for this dude without the ring. Black women are letting men get away with murder these days.
	--------------- Watch The Game Fri @ 8:30 on CW!!!

COBonner
	I can't believe Duke got this ugly ass bug-eyed Puerto Rican knocked up yet again. Good Job!


strongforu
	I wish they would go ahead and get married. Lala needs to get a prenup guaranteeing her a certain amount of money before this fool goes bananas like many young and rich do.
	--------------- http://strong11foru.blogspot.com/

ms_princess_08
	congrats


illyphilly
	Damn some of ya'll women in here are hot as fire, make a ni$$a wanna go in the bathroom and squeeze one off!!


illyphilly
	huhduh10 bit$h u got my money?? them corners ain't donna work themselves!!


WomanOfACertainAge
	Oh great! Another baby mama instead of a wife.
	--------------- I know "The Secret"....do you?

AriesAshes3
	Wow, some of the people on here are Ruthless!! I hope they stay together, I like La La!!
	--------------- myspace.com/hottashes3

K2TheJ
	To hell with the first comes marriage before the carriage, huh? What did Storm say in Tupac's song...."Holla If U Understand my Play LADIES...Fck Havin' BABIES By These Shady A$$ Nggas Swearin' He Can Save Me"
	--------------- I‘m #1 Wit A Bullet...

Thickness
	She not that cute...and she doesn't speak all that well...but I guess you can't help who you fall in love with...He's a cutie though...you haven't heard much about since he hooked up with her...I guess it's a good thing. Good luck with that...She's like Diddy's baby mama "Kim P" now, set for life...
	--------------- Doin It Big In Brooklyn!!

stymelove
	That's great news.....Now if this N1gga could only marry the damn girl.....I mean what will it take?


Mskee
	Whether they get married or not at least their being good parents to their children thats the only that counts.....CONGRATS TO LALA AND CARMELO.
	--------------- im as real as they come.....

NikkiH
	good for them, congrats. WWW.BOUTIQUEMASALA.COM


Mskee
	i meant: thats the only thing
	--------------- im as real as they come.....

GameFaceCEO
	That's what's Up, Congrats to the Happy Couple... BLACK LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING
	--------------- myspace.com/therealmajaleeg

fakesmile
	LA LA's Strategy: He wont marry me. Hummm, let's see, I'll just settle for being his baby mama instead! The more I have, the more money I'll get and the harder it will be for him to get rid of me. Hey it works for Kym Porter. Maybe when he's all vigared and STD'd out then he'll marry me.
	--------------- Close your legs, open your brain!

Powerball06
	See....just 2 weeks ago, everybody was talking sideways about Monica for being a "baby's mama", but nobody is mentioning that LaLa is doing the same thing.


Ashtyn
	Congratulations!


Kandgirl
	Congrats so what is up with the wedding


plug
	good for them so happy


bkyouth
	@micaii..yup...i know ppl like that too..that are doing better than ppl who are 'married' i think commitment for some people is a lot easier when they don't 'feel' the pressures of absolute obligation....its like a psychological thing with them...i can be like that at times...


illyphilly
	bkyouth y u keep going at my shorty man


WhoGivesAFukk
	the bytch just trying to claim them kids on that tax return
	--------------- Bum Bytches always begging for Money

Louiisiiana
	awwww but lala get on ma nerves
	--------------- Emm Tee Ohh World!

dsgb
	lala got some fat melons see why melo keep blowing her up!!


h0ney_bunz
	happy for them =] damn @ king jacob's hair.
	--------------- twitter.com/honey_bunz

angeleyes1124
	I like them as a couple. I hope everything goes well for them
	--------------- myspace.com/angeleyes1124

Micaii
	Byyouth smart move and I agree Mom2girls: well babe we will have to agree to disagree on this one because I don't feel like a person needs a piece of paper to tell them when they can have kids, that's just my take on it, and I still feel like everyone don't have to believe in the institution of marriage, if they want to be in a committed relationship without being Mr & Mrs, fine, so be it, but I do agree that they should have a bond before having kids though even though that is rare because most of time kids aren't planned
	--------------- Yeah, sure you do :)

jlew911
	La La really isn't all that attractive; she has a nice body and that's about it! She can be annoying and she's only a host! She must be throwing down in the bedroom though... Stop Snitchin 1 & 2


Florida_Chick
	awwwww..... congrats!
	--------------- DONE HATIN?? CARRY ON...

Brown__Suga
	about damn time!!!!!
	--------------- www.myspace.com/mzj23

RDR
	When I was in high school it was shameful and rare that a girl was pregnant. Forget about living with someone and not being married. I'm not old either. It's sad that these Black girls are allowing these men to have so much control over them, having kids out of wedlock like it's in style with no shame in their game. This is why it's so hard for a sista to find someone to marry them. Is the divorce rate high? Yes, because our values are low. Trying to marry a thug is like trying to make a ho into a housewife.


mstee11
	ok....is she gonna be his baby mama forever? when is the wedding?


EpitomeofFashion
	Someone said above that the women who don't care about marriage are the same ones without their ancestors married. Eff what ya heard. My grandparents were married, my parents are married, and so on. Not everyone is for marriage. Why get married if your unsure only to endure an expensive divorce later?


EpitomeofFashion
	And don't get me wrong...I want to get married...but not now. lol. Maybe in the next 5 years...but I want to live life free for now.


notheruser
	He's not going to marry her cause he still wants to play the field. She's content to be engaged and have the babies. It still guarantees her a good lifestyle even without the paper.


PURPLEZR
	What a long a$$ engagement... He is not going to marry you LaLa... cause he wants me...lmao
	--------------- Live 4 today, 2morrow may never come!

sierra714
	well, congrats ....i guess, im just wondering why after 4 years and 1 and 1/2 babies why he aint marry her yet, cant say he aint got the money. and if he wasnt ready for marriage than he wouldnt of proposed to her, u know cause thats why he got her an engagment ring with the intent on marrying.lol.
	--------------- Rt/bsn/msn.....im aiming for it

itiswhatitis
	Congrats if it's true. However they've been engaged for 4 years, made a baby after the engagement and now she's pregnant again?! Personally I have a problem with that. Why bring a baby intot he world with someone you aren't sure you want to be committed to. Some folks don't desire marrigae and that's fine. For those that do and continue to have babies out of wedlock why waste your time. I am not a fan of shackign up with a man! If he loved, respected and cherished you enough he'd marry u!


ImperfectBeauty
	This is just my opinion: I personally don't give a rat's a$$ if they get married twenty years from now! As long as they raise their children in a respectable manner!! Everybody is ranting and raving about they need to get married! And half of those may I ask where is YOUR wedding band? I will admit that four years is a long time to be engaged, but I respect the fact that they're not rushing into a quick "I do" only to end up replying with an even quicker "I DON'T!" It's not like this child they're having is going to affect anybody on this website (except those who wish they were the mother or father)! NOW CONGRATS!! This is only my opinion...don't like it....don't read it! @ JAH-N-ME.....I LUV YOUR HAIR!!
	--------------- I Do Me While You TRY to Be Me

itiswhatitis
	For all those people telling LALA to get her money.. good for her.. I think that's ignorant. A baby is not a business transaction!


ctgurl31
	She better have them babies....I don't know how many "I Love New York" reunion shows she is going to be able to get paid for.


PrettyBird
	I'm sorry, but my mom raised me old school. Don't bring a child into this world w/o being married. As for the people saying you don't have to be married to have kids how about you just chill out until you FIND that person you can love and marry and THEN have kids. It's soo funny caue where I'm from, me and my friend are about the only people who don't have babies, and then these chicks get mad when we don't congratulate them and coo over their babies. I'm sorry, I just can't congratulate you on something that wasn't and still isn't accepted in my home.


jakey_natey
	Well CONGRATS to them!!!!! As far as the whole marriage before babies or just being a "baby Momma"...Hmmmmm...I guess I can say I feel both sides since I've been there, My husband and I had our 2 boys before we wed. When I got pregnant both times I knew we made great parents and we worked well together being parents so I had my baby boys, but we had issues as far as getting along and neither of us was sure we were ready to say we wanted to be togther forever. BUT I will also admit it scared me thinking about being a "career girlfriend", we finally decided to do the "right thing" and be a good example for our boys. It will be a one year 3/3 and no regrets so far :-)!!!!! basically I'm saying I understand both arguments, but it's their lives to live and only they can say when and if they get married or not!!!!
	--------------- Started out hustlin, ended up BALLIN&lsq

Micaii
	imperfectbeauty I totally agree with you! it's like yeah you need to be married, "but he beats me" who cares as long as you married you will be respected in this world, lol
	--------------- Yeah, sure you do :)

monet
	What ever happened to getting married first? IF you are working on baby number two shouldn't you have the ceremony and the ring? Have some self respect!!! You are not setting a good example and you are letting this guy use you as a wife without the real wife props!!!


SmileyPeach
	Congrats...good for her and him. I sure they don't give a dayum what yall think. Question... why is some of you downing this woman for having kids? Are you virgins? So before you start judging somebody for their lifestyle...check yours DAMMIT!


illyphilly
	Micaii will u b my baby momma??


Buddah
	WHAT UP WIT HIS TEETH?
	--------------- ALREADY H=TOWN

SoulMusic
	Man I'm not mad at all. That's their biz.


mary
	Hi MzBabygurl, I like your hair, is that your hair? If not, what kind is it? I'm looking to do something to mine. HAS ANYONE EVER USED BOHYME BRAZILLIAN HAIR? ANY TIPS ON IT?


itiswhatitis
	People are getting marriage twisted. IF you marry the right person, or the oerson that compliments you, and you have a good idea of what marriage is about and you KNOW you're ready to forget about yourself and think about the WE instead of ME. Then and only then do you get married. Why are we usuing bad marriages as the standard for our lives. Many of married couples should've never been married, and most of them are peopel who got married becasue of love. Give me a break you get out of it what you put into it!


shoez12
	Well, I guess this is the makeup baby, maybe he will marry her, and maybe they may never get married. Yet, does it really matter she gets to say I have Carmelo Anthony's babies, isn't that what life is all about and won't that just keep him faithful.....


getalifeyall
	lonnydan i cant believe you i bet you are not 100% black or african the way this world been mixing since before who knows. and for you to tell traviboo he wont hit that it wouldnt be because she black it will be because she aint sexy at all. and how can you tell she a true black my cousin is half black and half philipenes an he's the same complexion as traviboo i was told that one drop of african blood makes you black. I am a mix of many races but I'm black. an how can you say lala aint black just cause of her last name what that mean. even if she is latin she still a blacxican.


Starr_Quality
	congrats to them
	--------------- U officially been chopped n screwed

missfe112
	I luv them together! yea for Black luv! Lala looked prego on I luv New Yorks reunion special too!
	--------------- live ur life!

ATLeon08
	i love it when you're on top!
	--------------- Huked On Fonics Werks

ATLeon08
	i love it when you're on top!
	--------------- Huked On Fonics Werks

Mom2Girls
	@imperfectbeauty I see where you are coming from. Marriage is nothing to rush into. But neith is parenthood. And how anyone can rationalize having a child, having multiple children with someone who you are wishy washy about maiking a committment to is insane and backwards. Yeah I love you, but we may not be right for marriage so lets just have kids instead? What kind of junk is that? I guess we just have different views on family values and that is cool. Everyone does not think alike but if you have to second guess marrying someone then you need to tripple guess having a child with that came person... I do not consider myself old fashioned at all. Wanting to have children within a union of two committed parents just makes more sense than a bunch of 1/2 stepping folks procreating with people they really really care about...but are not sure they want to marry. And being 'engaged' does not make it sound or seem any better...just like LeBron's baby momma x's 2...they know how ridiculous it is so they throw a ring and call the chick a 'fiance'... I just think it is a shame... JMO....


keeno1
	THEY GETS no congrats here! Another professional baby-momma. If ya don't want to be married, don't bring babies into this world! Sure nothing is gauranteed, but not even to try? That's like saying just because you might die tomorrow, you should kill yourself today! Stupid, right? So let's at least try to commit to each other and get married first, then bring the babies. Some of these youngstas on here got life all wrong, and to them I say, ...keep living, you'll figure it out. It's not always about the selfishness of the mother or father ...they need to keep their kids' future ahead of their own selfishness.


Mom2Girls
	@ Smiley Peach...I am not downing her at all. I will congradulate any mom to be. Pregnancy and children are a blessing. But at the same time, I just said what I thouht about her situation. Duh I don't know her, or him so my opinion means zero in the grand scheme of things. But this is a messageboard of sorts so we are all discussing it right?... @ Micaii don't take it out of context. I am not rationalizing that marriage is the end all and be all because there are a lot of married people who should not have made the move and there are a lot of married people in lovely marriages. Just because the divorce rate is high should not mean 'oh well we might as well never get married look at everyone else who got divorced...' It's cool. I just wish there were more families than baby mommas and baby daddy's...


DC_Diva
	LA-LA SHOULD NOT MARRY THIS [EXPLETIVE]. HE CHEATS ALL THE TIME AND THE REASON I KNOW IS BECAUSE HE CHEATED ON HER WITH MY BEST FRIEND. HE TOOK ADVANTAGE OF HER WHEN SHE WAS DRUNK. HE IS A DOG. AND HE HAS A LITTLE D*** ANYWAY. NASTY DOG.


keeno1
	MICALI, If he beats you, HELLO you don't need to lay down with him and have babies by him. Ever thought about that? Very simple!


stymelove
	@DC Diva How you Know he got a Little D***? cause your friend told you after she got taken advatage of because she was drunk..please.....Your friend Knew what she was doing...let's face it your friend is a damn groupie..and that's what happens to groupies.....stop using the alcohol as an excuse for careless behavior....she was looking for a Baller and got Balls in her mouth instead.....Tell your friend to grow up and stop drinking if she can't handle her liquor.....


kattdaddy2
	[EXPLETIVE] BABY MAMA'S AND U BYTCHES WHO SUPPORT THEM !!! THIS IS AN OUTRAGE !!! IT'S AN OUTRAGE BECAUSE MARRIAGE DON'T MEAN SHYTE TO NYGGAS ANYMORE !!! WHY IS THIS SUCH A BIG DEAL ??? BECAUSE I TRULY BELIEVE AND ANY COLLEGE PROFESSOR WITH BRAINS WILL TELL YOU THAT MARRIAGE/FAMILIES ARE THE BUIDLING BLOCKS OF CIVILIZATION ITSELF ! THE DESTRUCTION OF THE BLACK FAMILY IS ONE OF THE MAIN ISSUES THAT'S JUST KILLIN US AND LEADING TO OUR DESTRUCTION AS A PEOPLE. WAKE YO DUMB @SSES UP AND RECOGNIZE !


kattdaddy2
	F%@#K BABY MAMA'S AND U BYTCHES WHO SUPPORT THEM !!! THIS IS AN OUTRAGE !!! IT'S AN OUTRAGE BECAUSE MARRIAGE DON'T MEAN SHYTE TO NYGGAS ANYMORE !!! WHY IS THIS SUCH A BIG DEAL ??? BECAUSE I TRULY BELIEVE AND ANY COLLEGE PROFESSOR WITH BRAINS WILL TELL YOU THAT MARRIAGE/FAMILIES ARE THE BUIDLING BLOCKS OF CIVILIZATION ITSELF ! THE DESTRUCTION OF THE BLACK FAMILY IS ONE OF THE MAIN ISSUES THAT'S JUST KILLIN US AND LEADING TO OUR DESTRUCTION AS A PEOPLE. WAKE YO DUMB @SSES UP AND RECOGNIZE !


are_u_serious
	.she was looking for a Baller and got Balls in her mouth instead. lol! classic! they look cute together & congrats to them
	--------------- this is a joke rite? u cant b serious

MyLoveIsLikeWoah
	@SmileyPeach, I was just about to ask the same question. Everyone who has a problem with her being a "baby momma," are you a virgin? I DOUBT IT. Please people get off your judgmental boxes, most of you are not virgins so this could very well happen to you. Most children are not planned anyway. I happen to respect marriage and respect couples who take time before actually getting married. I've been dating my guy for a number of years and keep getting asked about marriage. We are simply NOT READY. One, because we are college students, and two, we are very young. I personally do not want to be a baby momma but it happens and I would deal with it accordingly. I don't get how someone would want to wear an engagement ring for four years though. If you aren't ready to get married, men, don't propose and women, don't say yes BUT to each his own. I'm not here to judge, as long as they are happy it doesn't matter what I think. Now to everyone who says that he should've married her once she got pregnant with their first child, ya'll know that's ridiculous because you and all your friends would be on here saying "he don't love her, he only marrying her because she is pregnant." YOU CAN SATISFY EVERYBODY so just satisfy yourself.
	--------------- ~You‘ll get addicted~

MyLoveIsLikeWoah
	Ya'll know I meant you CANT satisfy everybody @shoez12, you're joking right? @itiswhatitis, AMEN TO YOU! Oh yeah and to think of a baby as a paycheck is simple DISPICABLE! For all of you who truly thinks like this, do society a favor and DONT procreate
	--------------- ~You‘ll get addicted~

Mom2Girls
	" YOU CAN SATISFY EVERYBODY so just satisfy yourself. " Interesting saying :) Being a virgin and being a baby momma are mutually exclusive. Unplanned 'accident' babies..I have my own theory about that. If you have unprotected sex and you get pregnant, sorry that was NOT an accident because you knew the consequences, maybe you are surprised to be knocked up, but it was certainly no "accident". Now, if you are using protection and birth control like you are supposed to and you get pregnant. 2 things happened, you slipped up on your prevention method or you are part of the less than 1 and 2% that get pregnant anyway. Unique situations. Most women who were on birth control or used some kind of protection are lying through their teeth when they say "it broke," or "I don't know how this happened". in anycase, I wish her a safe pregnancy and another beautiful baby. Good luck to the both of them Everything ultimately goes back to values....


bronxbombshell215
	GOOD FOR YOU LALA CUZ HALF THESE PEOPLE ON HERE DOWNING U FOR BEING A BABY MAMA IS PROBABLY A BABY MAMA A COUPLE OF TIMES OVER BY DIFFERENT MEN THAT CANT EVEN SUPPORT THEIR DAMN SELF. A PIECE OF PAPER GIVING YOU HIS LAST NAME DONT EQUAL FOREVER SHE HAS ANOTHER IMPORTANT PAPER THAT GIVES HER BENEFITS A CHILD SUPPORT ORDER! SO WHATS THE PROBLEM
	--------------- Hated by many........Loved by few

bronxbombshell215
	@ KATDADDY U SOUND VERY IGNORANT.... [EXPLETIVE] BABY MAMAS YOUR UGLY ASS PROBABLY AINT SCREWING NOTHING BUT YOUR HAND SO YOU DONT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT THAT SITUATION. TIMES ARE CHANGING IT USED TO BE THAT WOMEN WERE SUPPOSED TO STAY HOME AND KEEP HOUSE BUT NOW WE ARE INDEPENDENT AND TAKING CARE OF OUR SELF SO IF A PERSON DONT WANT TO BE MARRIED THEN THATS THEIR CHOICE WE ARE TALKING ABOUT A FATHER IN THE PICTURE NOT AN ABSENT PARENT SO GO KILL YO' SELF U LAME ASS
	--------------- Hated by many........Loved by few

wing2flyon
	@BLACKDADDY GOOD MORNING TO YOU TO BABY!!WHATS GODD WITH YOU I READ THESE BLOGS JUST TO SEE WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY...EVEN IF YOU SAY SOMETHING NEGATIVE YOU STILL DO IT WITH CLASS....SO THANKS TO YOU....@RUTHLESS SHE GOT ONE RING ALREADY, DON'T YOU MEAN TOO RINGS. JUST AN OBSERVATION REGARDING YOUR COMMENT NO DISRESPECT...O.K. I AGREE BUT MAYBE IT IS THEIR OWN PERSONAL DECISION TO WAIT. WHO REALLY KNOWS WHY THEY HAVE NOT MARRIED, BUT THEM 2 EVEN IF THEY GET MARRIED IT IS NO GUARANTEE THAT BABY #2,3, 4 OR MARRIAGE WILL KEEP THEM TOGETHER.


BIGIRL
	In the words of my late grandmother , Why buy the cow , when you can get the milk for free?, Last I heard they weren't married and it's sad to say after two babies he probably wont marry her , I mean where she goin? NOWHERE if she is smart, she better keep a close eye on him cause soon as she turn her back , so many hoes are ready to jump on that, and you know, turkey basters aren't only for basting turkeys.
	--------------- bigirl

ImperfectBeauty
	@Mom2Girls I agree with your points too! But in this day and age, sometimes values get thrown out the window right behind the condom wrapper! LOL...but seriously here's what I'm saying: Single parent homes are way more common in our generation! I can respect that as long as the mother is handling her business! The "wedding ring" has just about no value now-a-days. It's just a ring and the meaning behind the ring has been lost! Most people get married just because they want they show of the wedding, the marriage doesn't mean anything. As long as they aren't all on the tabloids with domestic violence and drug abuse then I see nothing wrong with that! (Ex: Whitney and Bobby, Kevin & Brit) Hate to use the Whitney and Bobby example, but wasn't Whitney MARRIED to Bobby when she had Bobbi Kristina....and the same for Brit! I see none of the drama going on with Carmelo and La-La which says alot!! But if you're adamant about not having children out of wedlock then do you! More blessings to you! But if you should happen to pop one out and you're not married, make sure the child knows that have parents who love and adore them! That's all I'm saying!
	--------------- I Do Me While You TRY to Be Me

121269
	so the fuc* what.....(exclusive)one of mto staff has 3 lips.
	--------------- I JUST DONT GIVA FCK..FCK U~

PROFBUSTA
	HMMMMM I GUESS LA LA THINKS 25% OF THAT CHECK IN CHILD SURPORT BETTER THAN 50% OR WHAT EVER THE PRE-NUP WOULD BE. GIRL TAKE A CHANCE MAKE THAT MAN MARRY YOU. DONT BE A DONKEY. YOU WILL LOOK LIKE KIM PORTER


Jelicabean
	Most of yall on here look a hot mess talking about la la looks ugly @ sexychoclit you are hot if you ever decide to like girls holla at me! my pic is my icon


ThickMs
	~ that's great for them... however, i'd ease up on poppin out kids until we had marriage license signed - if that's really what the plan is. hell, call it a spiritual union ceremony & get it over with! ~
	--------------- can‘t help it- I WAS BORN THIS FLY

Nubian_Huntress
	Great Points @ Mom2Girls I'm a product of a single family home and have nothing but respect for my mother and women like her who took the weight of childrearing on their shoulders solo. But at the same time, what is the point of her being "engaged" if she doesn't plan on getting married? If it's not for her, that's her personal choice but why bother with the front in the first place? Either piss or get off the pot. Getting engaged isn't like a promise ring, it's done with the intent of moving towards a life long commitment. (And if their relationship isn't solid enough to warrant marriage, why continue the charade. And if neither of them really wants to get married, once again why bother with the charade?) And how can people say they aren't ready for a commitment, or that they aren't sure they want to be with a person for the rest of their life, yet turn around and have a kid? Hello, you are bonded through that child whether you like it or not. (Unless the person you conceive with is trifling enough to disappear from the picture all together.) That's how you end up with folks who have children with people they can't stand and yet are forced to deal with because they created a life together. Marriage is a big step, but so is giving birth to a child, so why do we treat one as a life commitment and the other as a casual choice? (At last check it's an even more profound and permanent decision. I can't give my kid back to the baby store, but I can file for a divorce.) We should be putting as much thought into the decision to bring a child into the word as we do getting married.


Nubian_Huntress
	Great Points @ Mom2Girls I'm a product of a single family home and have nothing but respect for my mother and women like her who took the weight of childrearing on their shoulders solo. But at the same time, what is the point of her being "engaged" if she doesn't plan on getting married? If it's not for her, that's her personal choice but why bother with the front in the first place? Either piss or get off the pot. Getting engaged isn't like a promise ring, it's done with the intent of moving towards a life long commitment. (And if their relationship isn't solid enough to warrant marriage, why continue the charade. And if neither of them really wants to get married, once again why bother with the charade?) And how can people say they aren't ready for a commitment, or that they aren't sure they want to be with a person for the rest of their life, yet turn around and have a kid? Hello, you are bonded through that child whether you like it or not. (Unless the person you conceive with is trifling enough to disappear from the picture all together.) That's how you end up with folks who have children with people they can't stand and yet are forced to deal with because they created a life together. Marriage is a big step, but so is giving birth to a child, so why do we treat one as a life commitment and the other as a casual choice? (At last check it's an even more profound and permanent decision. I can't give my kid back to the baby store, but I can file for a divorce.) We should be putting as much thought into the decision to bring a child into the word as we do getting married.


Nubian_Huntress
	D'oh, sorry for the double post.


greedybtch
	I've been a "baby mama" and "wife" and the truth is the "baby mama" will never get the benefits of the "wife" my final decision to marry my husband boiled down to my economic sensibilities or what i really should say is i grew up and got some damn sense i've been married twice 1st for love 2nd for money and i am much happier this time around, she will eventually trick him into marrying her, hell i could offer her some pointers if she needs them
	--------------- ~the truth is in the BLOOD~

Daphine1
	People should get married before they have children becuase it's what God wants! I have nothing against baby momma's (my mother was a single parent/baby momma) and no a marriage dosn't mean the relationship will last ( I was a product of a marriage and I barely even know my father)but these are Gods rules. Black women are more than just women to sleep with a make babies with. I find it funny when it's a black girlfriend she never makes it down the aile yet so many white women of NBA/NFL players are rushed down the aile (with out pre-nupts.


Hannity
	OMG..I hate to sound shallow but La-La has top greatest racks of all time.....SMH....Carmelo might as well marry her...they got a family and shyt...you got homie... Its cheaper to keep her...!! Learn from the guys that came before you...i.e. Diddy,Eminem,BabyFace,Michael Jordan....Juanita got 130-150 mil..dude it's not worth it....Marry her..!!
	--------------- Take tha monkey shyt off,u embarassn us.

wing2flyon
	@ RUTHLESS 2 RINGS SORRY FOR THE (SPELLING SNAFU)@BLACKDADDY WHATS (GOOD)!!!WITH YOU (SORRY FOR THE SPELLING ERROR) TOO MUCH COFFEE AND TYPING TOO FAST.@LONNYDAN I AM A DARK SKINNED AND I LOVE BLACK, AND ALL THE SHADES IT COMES IN, AND BEAUTY IT SIGNIFIES IN EACH AND EVERYONE OF US. IT DOES NOT MAKE ANY 1 OF US ANY BETTER THAN ALL OF US BECAUSE OF THE COLOR OF OUR BLACK SKIN.BLACK COMES IN ALL SHADES AND IT IS ALL BEAUTIFUL TO SEE. BEAUTY IS IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER....JUST MY PERSONAL OPINION!!!!!


spicylatina
	i truly believe men look at "their wife" differently than they look at "their baby's mama". and are any of you who say it doesn't matter if you're married actually married? because if you're not...sit down and shut up. LaLa is not just a Mom or a girlfriend to an NBA player- she has a career to think about...this is not a good look for her. Well, I guess we'll see what MTV and VH-1 do.


vanilla_one
	Alright LaLa, it's about time you tell this nucca to walk down the aisle or else!! How many kids will you push out and how many years are ya'll gonna be engaged before he finally says "I Do"?? Get it together K?
	--------------- Love under construction!

callicrew
	He dont want to marry this frog faced bitch, that's why she's stackin them kids. carmello is stupid.


Violetta5
	IF BABY MOMMA,GIRLFRIEND AND WIFE WERE THE SAME THING AND IT REALLY DIDN'T MATTER THAN THEY WOULD BE DESCRIBED BY THE SAME WORD WHICH THEY ARE NOT. NO ONE KNOWS WHAT GOES ON BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN IN PRIVATE.ONE THING THAT IS FOR SURE IF I'M PUSHING OUT TWO BABIES FOR A MAN WE BETTER ALL HAVE THE SAME LAST NAME.MARRIAGE DOES NOT MEAN A MAN WILL BE FAITHFUL BUT IT DOES CAUSE LESS CONFUSION FOR THE CHILDREN.


melvi
	i say more power to them its their decision to marry or shack up... keep them coming la la just as long as youre not doing it to keep him cus kids never keep a man


callicrew
	carmello does not want to marry her, if he did, he would have been done this. he doesn't see her as his wife; now rememeber my words. One day, when he finally leaves her, he'll marry whoever he's with then. because men know from day one whether or not you are marriage material for them, or girlfriend, or baby mama. she is a baby mama. and if by chance he does marry him, it will be because he would not have been his wife, and her pressuring him would have worn him down.


Canus
	I watched this debate when it was about Monica, and didn’t say anything (mostly because I don’t like the concept of registering on a gossip website to put my two cents in) but morality issues aside: NO a ring and a piece of paper do not ensure a happy marriage and stable environment for husband, wife, and child (and if that is what you think CLEARLY marriage isn’t for you), but it DOES provide numerous legal, economic, and social benefits. shrugs Maybe I’m just 24 and old fashioned, but on what planet is a living, breathing expression of love (a child) LESS of a commitment than marriage? ANYONE? I’m not trying to down my fellow men and women who choose to have children out of wedlock by any means. You have to live your life the way you see fit. But when will we as a people and a community believe that maybe broken “families” are not the optimum choice? I want my children to know they were planned, desired, and accommodated for to the absolute best of my ability before I choose to bring any in this world. I don’t feel like I can say that unless I have dedicated the rest of my life to their father and thus our family as a whole. Sure, there are no guarantees but life has no guarantees. All you can do, is try.
	--------------- Believe it. Achieve it. Repeat it.

Crossnation
	I don't know...Marriage is a huge step....I mean huge step...


jakey_natey
	LMAO @ the people on here talking like you know this couple personally!!!!! You don't know how this man feels about his woman, so to say he doesn't love or respect her enough is just CRAZY. Stop using your personal experiences to speak on a total strangers' family ways. Everyone has different opinions on Love, relationships, marriage and having babies... it's their relationship, their family & their lives
	--------------- Started out hustlin, ended up BALLIN&lsq

jlew911
	The marriage issue here is a legit question. First off, they may never get married; 4 years is way too long to be engaged. An engagement shouldn't be more than 2 years at the max. I'm not saying he's stringing her along but it damn sure looks that way. Baby#2 on the way and no wedding date? I'm from the old school and believe that you shouldn't be poppin out babies left and right without some type of commitment. He already has the milk, so why should he buy the damn cow???? If she is not careful, she will be another dumb ass Kim Porter in the making, poppin out babies only to realize ten years later, the man never had no intention of marrying her. Get the ring FIRST ladies!!! Marry only for love; if you marry for any other reason (like money) than you are doomed from the start and setting yourself up to fail.


jakey_natey
	LMAO @ the people on here talking like you know this couple personally!!!!! You don't know how this man feels about his woman, so to say he doesn't love or respect her enough is just CRAZY. Stop using your personal experiences to speak on a total strangers' family ways. Everyone has different opinions on Love, relationships, marriage and having babies... it's their relationship, their family & their lives
	--------------- Started out hustlin, ended up BALLIN&lsq

TOOREAL
	ok first of all la la is not black she's puerto rican second and this is exclusive how? third i agree with the person on here who said melo is ugly because he is i use to think that n/igga was cute until i really looked at him and yes he is busted long story short la la knows what she's doing


jakey_natey
	Question for everyone saying "she should have gotten a ring the first baby"!!!!! What if they married just because she got pregnant or what if someone gets married just because they are ready to have kids and worried about what others may think if they have kids out of wedlock, then the marriage is just one big mess because the love and respect isn't there???? Don't you think a child can be way more screwed up living in a home where the parents don't love each other, fighting and cheating on each other all the time than they would just knowing "oh my parents were never married" but the child is loved and happy growing up????? My parents were never married and I can honestly say it never affected me or my sister because we had a damn good mother that loved us to death, but who knows how it would have been if our parents were together and hated the site of each other!!!!!
	--------------- Started out hustlin, ended up BALLIN&lsq

lickittysplit
	AWWW.... CONGRATS TO THEM AND THERES! I RATHER BE ENGAGED FOR 4 YEARS THAN BE ONLY MARRIED FOR A COUPLE OF MONTHS! U HAVE TO TAKE YA TIME AND GET TO KNO A PERSON!
	--------------- i LOVEEE NY!!! MYSPACE.COM/TASHIA126

lainy
	Wow MTO I am impressed you did not say one bad thing about them. I guess La La won;t be hosting the Flav of Love 3 reunion show.


msbehaviin
	ruthless obviously got banged and abandoned by some celeb guy haha you shoulda listened to ciara "my goodies, my goodies, my goodies... NOT MY GOODIES!!" haha ah haaa and i totally side with lusil1976 babies do NOT keep a man around neither does marriage carmello is with la la cuz HE WANTS TO BE WITH LA LA http://www.myspace.com/ibaqtunv http://www.myspace.com/ibaqtunv http://www.myspace.com/ibaqtunv http://www.myspace.com/ibaqtunv http://www.myspace.com/ibaqtunv http://www.myspace.com/ibaqtunv http://www.myspace.com/ibaqtunv http://www.myspace.com/ibaqtunv “What you keep in the dark comes to light,” a statement in which we’ve all heard and probably have used once or multiple times. However, when we’re actually in a situation in which the truth is distorted or hidden, is it really better to know? Or should we follow the proposal of Mario Winans of not wanting to know? In a previous and highly controversial note “Power of the P-U-S-S-Y” I stated that both men and women cheat, however, I went on to elaborate on the different reasons leading to their infidelities. Women, I said, cheat for a legitimate reason; because we are in search of fulfillment when things in our relationship are continuously neglected. Meanwhile, men cheat because they fall victim of a woman’s ultimate power… Her pussy. Within this past week, I’ve held several conversations with a male individual who states and stands by the statement, “it is in a man’s nature to be with more than one woman.” Scratching my head in utter confusion and divergence, I ask him to elaborate. He then goes on to tell me: “There is no such thing as a loyal or faithful man. A man controls his actions [infidelities] when he feels he has something he doesn’t want to compromise or jeopardize in compensation for his actions; may it be a wife, his family, etc. Although a man may choose to control his infidelities, it doesn’t affect the fact that it’s in his nature to be with more than one woman, thus, any man who isn’t gay or is in his right mind are not exempt and will at some point think about it [another woman].” Still a little thrown off and curious to get a second man’s opinion, I write my good friend Latavious asking him his perspective on this statement. His response, “It's human nature to indulge in carnal desires. It's human nature to be selfish, and to lust and want something that doesn't belong to them. So in that sense yes, I agree. But it's in a woman's nature also.” Is it really in a woman’s nature to be with more than one man? Using Latavious’ perspective to challenge that of Man X, I get the following response; “If dick was in a woman’s nature, this place [the world] would be chaotic. If women loved sex and thought about sex as much as men, there’d hardly be any relationships. Women are negative, men are positive, and the two opposites attract. To love sex and think about it a lot is not in a woman’s nature.” Again I scratch my head. I know a few women who love sex and think about it a lot [I plead the fifth lol]. So why is it too not in a woman’s nature? Of course Man X has an answer for this as well. “Women have sex because they feel like it or are in the mood. Women have sex to satisfy their man or have a reason to do it.” On the contrary, “it’s automatic for men. Men don’t have to know the girl or her name. It’s simply in a man’s nature. Being emotional is a woman’s nature; being sensitive, wanting affection, and nurturing. Women are natural nurturers.” So here I am now sitting at my laptop, my mind swarming with questions, thoughts, and utter confusion. I now second guess the views discussed and argued in my previous note “Power of the P-U-S-S-Y.” Do men cheat because they are weak and fall victim to a woman’s pussy? Or do men cheat simply because it is in their nature? Is it a fact that because we cannot think like men, understand and interpret like men, or relate to men completely [because we are women] that we don’t believe it is a man’s nature to be with more than one woman? If you know your history, you know we’ve all derived from Africa, the Mother Land. You know that polygamy is and has always been practiced here. Have we fallen victim to western world teachings declaring one man to one woman is right and anything different is wrong? Who am I to say? I’m just one woman and I’ll be damned if my man is running around creeping with another woman. And that’s why I say: “If it is a man’s nature to be with more than one woman, then leave me in the dark before a crime comes to light!” Just Kidding
	--------------- http://www.myspace.com/ibaqtunv

explorer
	itiswhatitis - truer words were never spoken dsgb - Is that all women r 2 u is a pair of titties? RDR - Right On!!!! Mom2girls, ttiiaa77, and Guilty_Pleasure I could not have said it better. If girls are so unsure of marriage then it is because the pickins are very slim. Most, I didn't say all , but most black men do not work, most do not believe in education, they all just wanna be rap stars and basketball playa's. That's why most black women make more money than their men. I ride the train to work every day and you can count on one hand the number of young black men going to work in a suit or business attire.


kattdaddy2
	@ BRONXBOMBSHELL215 SHUT UP YOU IGNORANT BYTCH ! U HAVE NO CLUE OF THE WISDOM OF WHAT I'M SAYING, BUT THE PEOPLE ON HERE WITH SENSE KNOW WHAT IM TALKIN ABOUT ! DON'T HAVE KIDS WITH SOMEONE YOU DON'T WANT TO MARRY !!! KIDS NEED A MOMMY AND A DADDY !!! NYGGAS ARE F!%#KED UP FOR THE MOST PART CUZ THEY DIDN'T HAVE NO DADDY GROWIN UP ! I WOULD HATE TO THINK WHERE I WOULD BE IF I DIDN'T HAVE MY FATHER IN MY LIFE. MY PARENTS DEVOTED THEIR LIVES TO EACH OTHER BEFORE THEY HAD KIDS, SO EVEN THOUGH THEY DIVORCED, THEY WERE STILL COMMITTED TO BEING IN OUR LIVES !!! THIS IS BECAUSE THEY WERE MARRIED STUPID ! IF YOU CAN'T COMMIT TO A WOMAN, WHY IN THE HELL SHOULD SHE HAVE KIDS WITH YOU ??? SHE ISN'T SURE YOU ARE GONNA BE THERE FOR THE KIDS THROUGHOUT THEIR LIVES. BOTTOM LINE !!! SINGLE MOTHERHOOD IS KILLING THE BLACK COMMUNITY ! THIS IS THE DESTRUCTION OF THE BLACK FAMILY AND BLACK RACE AS A WHOLE !!! F$@#K BABY'S MOMMAS !


Mandisa08
	congrats to the both of them~ BUT I would of got the wedding out of the way b4 baby number 2!
	--------------- *As fine as I wanna be**

sorryIdontwantu
	I guess a lot of the old heads forgot about why the term "shotgun wedding" was invented in the first place, LOL! Believe me the younger generation is doing the same thing people were doing 50 or more years ago. Only back then people were so concerned with their damn reputation than the sanctity of marriage that now the divorce rate is up to 50%. I've seen kids from divorced parents have a much harder time copping with life then kids who's parents are together, but aren't married. Why is that?
	--------------- I will verbally assault your dumb ass!

Victorygurl
	This is the headline story? Wow people actually give a rat's ass about them INTERESTING


sexychoclit
	@Jelicabean- thanks for the compliment sweetie, but I been married for 10 years and I dont think I'll be "switching sides" anytime soon...or ever, but again- thanks
	--------------- Chocolate is so addictive...need rehab?

mafiaprincess
	FIRST OF ALL...I AM NOT IN HERE TO JUDGE ANYONE...BUT IF IT IS IN THE BIBLE THEN IT'S TRUE..NO IF'S AND'S OR BUT'S....MEN AND WOMEN SHOULD BE MARRIED BEFORE THEY START A FAMILY...REALLY JUST TO BE PRECISE..THEY SHOULD BE MARRIED BEFORE THEY HAVE SEX....IN NO WAY SHAPE OR FORM AM I TRYING TO DEBATE WITH ANYONE....JUST MY LIL' TWO CENTS @KATTDADDY.....WIT' YO' PASSIONATE SELF..LOL
	--------------- NICE NOSE...YUMMY

jakey_natey
	@ Kattdaddy2 I love the wisdom u spiitin' should make some people think, but as bad as it seems in this day and age it's a lot easier to make babies than it is to commit to one person for life, so if by chance you slip up and have a child with someone without considering them as a "life partner" is it best to raise a child in a home that has a loveless marriage or best to just be two separated, but loving active parents to your child(ren)?????
	--------------- Started out hustlin, ended up BALLIN&lsq

SomethingAboutDomi
	No not really... I don't have anything nice to say so I won't say much of nothin... Whatever happened to people getting married b4 the babies come?? I guess... Just call me old fashioned...
	--------------- www.myspace.com/domieffbaby

2Blessed4DaMess
	People are so ignorant. How can you judge when you are more than likely in the same predicament. Then alot of you probably have more than 1 child by different men. Misery loves company. Black people never like to see other black people happy when you would kill just to have a man acknowledge you. Grow up people! Stop being so judgmental because while you are HATIN, they are laughin all the way to the bank. Nothin is guaranteed especially marriage so if they r happy let them be happy. STOP THE 'CRABS IN A BARREL'MENTALITY..


mereeree
	Marriage is a commitment....it says to both individuals that I love you to point of sharing my last name with you and I am willing to dedicate my life to you. Along the way there will be bumps and there may be failure, but that is a part of life. No marriage is perfect. But to demand less then someone's full love and commitment is unacceptable. Marriage entails more than just a piece of paper. If Melo was to die tomorrow what ground does LaLa have to stand on if his family decides that she is not entitled to anything...what survivor benefits is she entitled to by law? Yes, I understand that they are both rich and can afford to take care of themselves but lets be real. The average young woman is watching them thinking it is okay to have a baby out of wedlock and be like "LaLa". That is why the welfare rate is so high in the US, because so many women are thinking the same way that many on this site are thinking. Why get married if they are happy the way they are....we can keep having kids because he loves me why set your standards so low and help produce more B/A/S/T/A/R/D/S (yes, that is what the children are called). Baby Mothers, don't get offended, because I was born one myself...but I bet my daughter won't be. My mother taught me that! How many single mothers do you know right now you think there life is much better for not being in a marriage? Were are the male role models for the male children...Jay-Z and 50 cents? How are these single women teaching their daughters to respect theirselves and not let men walk all over them when they are allow the men to treat them like a piece of meat. I am sorry, I will never be a "baby mama". Not saying that my marriage will last forever because as we know, [EXPLETIVE] happpens. But, I know that I have a better chance at living happily because me and my husband were willing to make the sacrifice to ensure each others happiness. Marriage is about growth and maturity...if you are not ready for marriage then right DON'T DO IT. But, if any person (male or female) is good enough to have 2 children by then they should consider you good enough to marry. Women...please quit settling for the baby mama drama that LaLa will have in a few years and find a man that is willing to dedicate his life, soul, and last breathe to you. Once again my opinion....by the way my choice was met, date, engaged for 1 year and them marriage. That was a 5 year plan and now it is time to plan the children.
	--------------- Wish you were here...Don‘t cha??

kilahbug
	Congrats to them
	--------------- lovemeorhatemeeitherwayyourethinkinofme

Royal_Princess
	WELL i AGREE WiTH YOU ALL iN A WAY i THiNK THAT OkK HAVE 1 CHiLD && YUR NOT MARRiED...OKk..BUT TO BE BRiNGiNG ANOTHER CHiLD iNTO THiS WORLD && NOT BE MARRiED && TO BE iNGAGED 4 THAT MANY YEARS iS BULL..&& THOSE PEOPLE WHO ARE SAYiNG SHE'S SMART..SHES HAViNG BABiES BY HiM 4 CASH...& YOU WOULD CALL THAT SMART..MORE LiKE TRASHY && CLASSLESS...WHY SELL YOUR SELF SHORT..&& LiKE SOMEONE SAiD EARLiER..iTS BASiCALLY LiKE HE'S SAYiNG SHE'S GOOD ENOUGH 2 HAVE SEX WiTH BUT NOT GOOD ENOUGH TO MARRY & SPEND THE REST OF MY LiFE WiTH... i PERSONALLY THiNK THAT LALA iS SELLiNG HERSELF SHORT BUT i WiSH THEM ALL THE LUCK iN THE WORLD && HOPES THiS THiNG WORKS OUT && THEiR RELATiONSHiP SURViVES FOR THE SAKE OF THEiR CHiLD(REN).
	--------------- W0RST i‘VE EVA HAD.. O_o

trychanel
	congrats
	--------------- Let Go, Let God

Still_about_Me
	Let's get a Light Skin Group Hug For Lonnydan I'll be the first "Welcome Lonnydan Light Skin Blacks Have Love for you" Hugs XXXXX u damn psycho
	--------------- ~Saddle Up Baby I‘m Takin You 4 A Ride~

kattdaddy2
	@ jakey Kudos to you for reading my post and recognizing the common sense I spoke. It sounds real harsh, but it's so important is why I'm so passionate about this. To answer your question: (so if by chance you slip up and have a child with someone without considering them as a "life partner" is it best to raise a child in a home that has a loveless marriage or best to just be two separated, but loving active parents to your child(ren)?????) Of course it's better to separate than to raise a child in a loveless home. But you can't compare a bad 2 parent home with a good single mother ! It's not fair or equal. On the other hand, "A GOOD 2 PARENT HOUSEHOLD IS ALWAYS BETTER THAN A GOOD ONE PARENT HOUSEHOLD, PERIOD" !!! This is a no brainer. This is why marriage is so important. It's one thing to divorce, it's another to bring a child into this world knowing damn well the daddy ain't committed to you. At least the married folks tried to give a kid everything it needs. BOTTOM LINE, IF BABIES COULD TALK THEY WOULD WANT BOTH PARENTS NOT JUST ONE !!! 2 GOOD PARENTS ARE ALWAYS BETTER THAN 1 GOOD PARENT ! MY GAWD' SOME OF YOU FOLKS WHO DIDN'T GROW UP WIT DADDIES HAVE NO CLUE WHAT YOU MISSED ! FATHERS GIVE GUIDANCE AND INFLUENCE TO SONS AND DAUGHTERS THAT A MOTHER CANNOT POSSIBLY GIVE, AND VICE VERSA. MOST NYGGAS I KNOW THAT GREW UP WITHOUT A DADDY DON'T RESECT THEIR MOMMAS !!! THEY RUN THE STREETS TALKIN THAT I LOVE MOMS SHYTE, BUT DON'T RESPECT HER ENOUGH TO LEAD PRODUCTIVE LIVES.


kattdaddy2
	F$@#K BABY MOMMAS ! THIS SHYTE IS TEARIN OUR COMMUNITY UP !!! U GOT SHAQUITA HAVIN 4 BABIES BY FOUR DIFFERENT MEN, NONE OF THEM MUFUKKAS INVOLED IN THEY KIDS LIVES ! THESE LIL NYGGAS GROW UP TO BE F$@#KING STREET TERRORISTS, SELING DOPE, ROBBIN FOLKS, KILLIN OTHER NYGGAS, AND THEN TURN AROUND AND HAVE 4 BABIES EACH THAT ALSO TURN INTO LIL STREET TERRORISTS !!! THE DAUGHTERS GROW UP AND GET PREGNANT BY SOME OTHER LIL STREET TERRORIST, HAS 4 MORE BABIES THAT ALSO GROW UP INTO STREET TERRORISTS AND GHETTO @SS BABY MAKIN MACHINES. NONE OF THESE LIL MUFUKKAS HAVE DADDIES !


Dis_Ya_Gurl08
	Kattdaddy2, I agree, this kinda sh*t is tearing down our community. If you can have a baby with this dude why cant u get married? That doesnt make sense to me. You gone be somehow stuck with this dude whether you with him or not. You'll look at your son and think of him. And everybody talking about congratz to them like they know these ppl personally. Its whatever to me. Good for them, they look like they happy so yeah.
	--------------- OBAMA YALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ntlperkins
	let them live their lives the way they want i for one never want to be married my life. its their business what they want to do everyone needs to leave them alone.


blkpearl07
	You know melo from b-more cause we just don't get enough.....gnaw congrats!!!


NoItAll847
	Thats what married people do but damn she just got her shape back!!!


mereeree
	@kattdaddy2...I agree with alot that you are saying. But, I still can't disrespect "baby mommas" like I said, my mother was one. What people fail to understand is that children learn from their parents. You teach a illiterate mother to read and her child will more and likely graduate highschool. You teach a mother how to demand respect for herself and her daughter will expect nothing less. To assume that all Baby mama's are tearing our community down is incorrect. That is an individual thing a woman can have 3 pregnacies, but raise all three children to respect themselves and demand respect from others. These children (as I have done) can see the mistakes that the parent (or parents) have made and act accordingly in their life as to not make the same mistakes. It happens! The cycle of failure does not always continue.
	--------------- Wish you were here...Don‘t cha??

remy
	Congratulations
	--------------- Oh My!

jade516
	I CAN TELL YOU WHEN THE WEDDING IS TAKING PLACE.....NEVER! ENGAGED SINCE 2004??? THATS A RIOT. WHAT THE HELL??? WHY GET HITCHED??? HE'S GETTING THE KITTY CAT, SHE GAVE ONE CHILD AND NOW SHE IS HAVING ANOTHER BABY....SOUNDS LIKE HE HAS HIS PRIORITIES IN PLACE (NOT!!!).


tb29
	I saw in Ebony about two years ago that they were married. So once again MTO is getting us to go against each other. I agree with family values and marriage and believe that kids benefit from "TWO GOOD PARENTS" because just because there are two parents in the home does not mean they are good parents etc. (Bobby and Whitney, the guy that shot up Virginia tech, and the kids at Culumbine) kids do not grow up to be thugs because they are without fathers they become that way because of how they are raised. In some cases single mothers do good jobs not because they want to but because they have to. Sen. Barack Obama, Dr. Ian Smith, and Oprah were raised by single parents and that is not how they turned out. It's not allways the quanity of parents it's the quality of parents. I'm not speaking against the sanctity of marriage but it's not fair to judge kids based on the mistakes their parents have made. I have a friend right now who is married in name only, instead of her husband putting food on the table for his kids he is spending money on a car he can't afford, so how do you think that is affecting the kids,seeing dad in the home doing nothing. We do need to become more responsible, but lets not put down all those single women who have raised successful black men and women. That's just my opinion. As far as the people who are saying look at what it's doing to our community, you are right, but putting lables on a child who haven't made their way out into the world is not helping nor is putting one another down for their mistakes is not improving our community either.


anthonyasj
	Good 4 her they ake a good n cute couple tho new season tonight 10/9c
	--------------- MYSPACE.COM/MAKINGTHEBAND4_FANPAGE

Mom2Girls
	"Black women are more than just women to sleep with a make babies with. I find it funny when it's a black girlfriend she never makes it down the aile yet so many white women of NBA/NFL players are rushed down the aile (with out pre-nupts." ~~~~~ Interesting spin....There seem to be far more African American baby-mommas than White Baby mommas with these professional athletes...the White women get 'wifed' and the Black women are just the baby's mommas mommas mommas.... That may be a overgeneralization but it seems like it. Whay is that?


mscreative1
	Congrats 2 them www.myspace.com/mscreative101
	--------------- myspace.com/mscreative101

ysn514
	truebahamian marrige aint nothing but a paper u dont need that if u really love someone stop that womens rights stuff cause it does not apply to this headline
	--------------- BROOKLYN 101

dropdead71
	They've been engaged since 2004 huh??? And two babies later and still no wedding? What a joke.


dropdead71
	They've been engaged since 2004 huh??? And two babies later and still no wedding? What a joke.


wifee_material
	i mean can you blame her. i would pop out 10 kids for his ass.
	--------------- IF YOU‘RE NOT 1ST, YOU‘RE LAST

jlew911
	Only ignorant ass folks, n**s that's scared to commit and those who don't have good examples of marriage in their families say the same BS: "Marriage is just a piece of paper" That's bs**t!! For example, living with someone for 13 years and being married TO someone for 13 years is NOT the same thing, no matter how you slice it.


bronxbombshell215
	@ KATTDADDY YOU THINK THAT YOU ARE SPEAKING KNOWLEDGE FIRST OF ALL YOU SOUND REALLY STUPID JUMPING OFF TALKING ABOUT [EXPLETIVE] BABY MAMS AND [EXPLETIVE] BYTCHES. NOW HOW IS IT YOU DISRESPECTING WOMEN TEARING DOWN OUR COMMUNITY BUT TWO PEOPLE WHO CAN TAKE OF THEIR CHILDREN TEARING DOWN THE COMMUNITY I DONT CARE WHAT YOU SAY ABOUT ME A-S-S HOLE CASE YOU SOUND DUMB YOU CAN NOT SIT HERE AND TELL ANY ONE TO GET MARRIED UNTIL THE TIME IS RIGHT AND IF SHE GETS PREGNANT WHAT WOULD IT BE BETTER IF SHE GOT AN ABORTION TO PLEASE JUDGING A-S-S HOLES LIKE YOU GET YOUR SELF SOME BUSINESS AND STOP JUDGING OTHER PEOPLES LIVES CAUSE YOU DO NOT LOOK SO TOGETHER YOUR DAMN SELF
	--------------- Hated by many........Loved by few

bronxbombshell215
	YOU DISRESPECTING WOMEN IS NOT TEARING DOWN OUR COMMUNITY (CORRECTION) SO LIKE I SAID GO KILL YOUR SELF YOU PEDOPHILE LOOKING MOTHER F-UCKER
	--------------- Hated by many........Loved by few

bronxbombshell215
	Y'ALL GOT TO FEEL ME THE=IS IDIOT JUST BUST OUT [EXPLETIVE] BYTCHES AND BABY MAMAS ISNT HE TEARING BLACK WOMEN DOWN THATS WHY I EVEN ACKNOWLEDGEDED THE A-S-S HOLE BECAUSE HE ACTING LIKE HE HAS SO MUCH RESPECT FOR OUR SOCIETY BUT YET HE SAYS SHI-T LIKE THAT. (EVERYONE ELSE PLEASE FORGIVE ME I DONT USUALLY SAY ANYTHING ABOUT ANYONES POSTS CUZ IT IS OUR OPINIONS BUT THAT IS JUST IGNORANT)
	--------------- Hated by many........Loved by few

quelinda456
	I knew they had gotten engaged, but I thought they got married already! Come on now La La, Just another baby's mama. Engaged for 4 years already? She had lost a lot of weight over those years too. She has gotten too skinny.
	--------------- IDK Why I‘m on MTO it makes me SMH&LOL

ttiiaa77
	Hey KattDaddy I like this one: MOST NYGGAS I KNOW THAT GREW UP WITHOUT A DADDY DON'T RESPECT THEIR MOMMAS !!! THEY RUN THE STREETS TALKIN THAT I LOVE MOMS SHYTE, BUT DON'T RESPECT HER ENOUGH TO LEAD PRODUCTIVE LIVES. I know men like this! Real talk [SPAM][SPAM]_____ To the women that are so angry, it's O.k, I understand, no one likes to be told that their doodoo stinks!!! How many of you baby's momma's out there have worked 2-3 jobs to take care of your children because no father was in site or because his child support payment is next to nothing????? (raise your hands up HIGH so I can count) I'll say it again: CAREER FIRST!!! MEN and BABIES later!!!!! My mom was a single mother and I would NEVER make the same mistakes she did!!! NEVER! That's not to say I don't respect or love her because I do with all my heart but she told me when I was 16 how hard it was when she was pregnant WITH ME at 16.


keely-jai
	boy she sho know what to do to keep him...not once but TWICE! she made sure he wasn't going no where lol
	--------------- myspace/keely_jai

DreDog
	Well I'm personally happy for them. Their son is absolutely adorable. I like LaLa...there's nothing wrong with this girl and if Melo didn't want anymore kids then he knows what to do. Stop hatin.
	--------------- The Bytch ya love ta hate!

SmileyPeach
	@kattdaddy I guess you hate baby daddy's too. It sound like it's the baby daddy's that you mad at bruh! @bronxbombshell215 I'm with you on that one... lol how buddy gonna act like he all smart and interested in building the black family when he call his own women b**ches.. Lol.. Another thing LaLa is with her "baby daddy" ...she not raising her son alone. 2nd just because your a single mother doesn't mean your kids gonna be street hustlers and shyt. Most kids that end up like that is because they are growing up poor, parents on crack, daddy in jail, and products of their environment...shyt some kids thats all they see...not cause they momma not married to the daddy. Yall looking at yall life and trying to make decisions based on YOUR CIRCUMSTANCE... Shyt life is hard for some folks... I'm not saying that marriage is not a wonderful thing to share with someone...I personally want to marry and have kids, but I don't think women should walk in the hall of Shame for the rest of her life just cause she had a baby outta wedlock.


kattdaddy2
	TO THE SMART FOLKS ..... NUFF RESPECT CUZ YOU KNOW WHAT IM SAYIN IS TRUE ! WE NEED TO BRING BACK THE "SHAME OF ILLEGITIMACY" !!! MAYBE U BYTCHES WILL STOP HAVIN THESE "LIL BASTARDS" WHEN IT AIN'T COOL NO MORE ! THE GUBMENT MAKES IT EASY, IF U AIN'T GOT A BABY DADDY, THE WELFARE CHECK WILL BE YOUR BABY'S DADDY ! THIS IS ONE PEICE OF THE PUZZLE OF WHY WE AS BLACK FOLKS ARE F$@#KED UP !


sexidee1
	AWww that's up!!! DEE
	--------------- ~Bein a bird don?t make you fly~

Heyk00laid
	So LaLa pulling a Kim Porter by dropping a bunch of kids for the checks and tryin to keep that n!igga around. Well sorry honey you may have his kids, but that chubby n!gga probably got a hoe in every state like most NBA n!iggas!
	--------------- KEEP IT SEXY!!!!

DreDog
	Yeah like someone said....there are a lot of kids WITHOUT either their mother/father or both. And yes I do believe in marriage which by all means is good but hey if BOTH parents are steppin' up and raising these kids TOGETHER then kudos to them both.
	--------------- The Bytch ya love ta hate!

ShutNitDown
	My black people can be so ignorant. We try to justify actions and why people do certain things when we all know you that you are supposed to marry the person you are sharing your life with and building a family with. If you gonnna do it do it right....that's my motto. They are going to have two kids together, live together but not get married.... that's just plan ignorant
	--------------- MTO is becoming irrelevant. Same STORIES

mabeline
	Marriage may not be for everybody, but who stays engaged for 4 yrs??? cmon now la la have a lil more self respect and Carmello needs to show her a lil more as well. He still young no one is forcing him to get married but dont present her with a ring if you know you not gonna follow through.
	--------------- gettin to steppin

kattdaddy2
	TO ALL MY DETRACTORS: @ BRONXBOMSHELL215 (NOW HOW IS IT YOU DISRESPECTING WOMEN TEARING DOWN OUR COMMUNITY BUT TWO PEOPLE WHO CAN TAKE OF THEIR CHILDREN TEARING DOWN THE COMMUNITY) MAYBE THEY CAN TAKE CARE OF THEIR KIDS, BUT THAT AIN'T THE NORM FOR BABY MOMMAS ! MOST OF THEM ON WELFARE AND IM TAKIN CARE OF THEY DAMN KIDS ! THEY SET A BAD EXAMPLE IS ALL IM SAYIN. (YOU CAN NOT SIT HERE AND TELL ANY ONE TO GET MARRIED UNTIL THE TIME IS RIGHT AND IF SHE GETS PREGNANT WHAT WOULD IT BE BETTER IF SHE GOT AN ABORTION) NO IDIOT ! IT WOULD BE BETTER IF SHE DIDN'T GET PREGNANT UNTIL SHE IS READY TO MARRY THE MAN SHE WANTS TO HAVE KIDS BY !!! MOST SINGLE MOTHERS HAVE KIDS BY "IRRESPONSIBLE ACCIDENT" ! (ISNT HE TEARING BLACK WOMEN DOWN ) GAWD'AM RIGHT IM TEARING THEY @SSES DOWN ! WHEN YOUR IRRESPONSIBILITY IS ONE OF THE GREAT SOURCES OF WHY THE BLACK FAMILY IS BEING DESTROYED, HELL YEAH IMMA TEAR YO @SS DOWN BYTCH ! @ ttiiaa77 U already know what the real deal is, real talk ! Keep sittin that real, it's the only thing that will save us as a people. @ SmileyPeach (I guess you hate baby daddy's too. It sound like it's the baby daddy's that you mad at bruh! ) TRUE DAT, BUT I HATE THE BABY MOMMAS EVEN MORE ! THEY ARE THE GATEKEEPERS IN THIS SITUATION ! THEY ARE THE ONES THAT GET PREGNANT ! THEY ARE THE ONES THAT GET THAT WELFARE CHECK ! THEY ARE THE ONES THAT KEEP HAVIN BABIES BY DIFFERENT MEN EVEN AFTER THE FIRST NYGGA LEFT ! BOTTOM LINE, DON'T GET PREGNANT AND HAVE KIDS BY A MAN YOU AIN'T GONNA MARRY, PERIOD ! BECAUSE CHANCES ARE REAL GOOD THAT HE WILL LEAVE YO @SS WITH NOTHING WHEN HE'S SICK OF YOUR FAT @SS !!! IF THIS NYGGA DIES TOMORROW, THE KIDS WILL GET PAID BUT LALA WON'T GET SHYTE CUZ SHE'S "JUST A BABY'S MAMA" !!!! SHE WENT AND BORE 2 CHILDERN BY THIS NYGGA AND STILL AIN'T GETTIN NO RESPECT ! WIVES ARE RESPECTED ! NO BABY'S MAMA'S ! F@$#K THEM BYTCHES !!!


barbinbmore
	Uh oh, ole girl must have figured out that he won't marry her so she's gonna get hers in child support. You go Lala, I know you want your kids to have the same baby-daddy. I bet as soon as she drop that kid we'll hear that they broke up. The bitch ain't stupid.


INFO
	THIS ISN'T TRUE. CARMELO AND LALA are happy devoting their attention to their son, Kiyan.


Gorgeous_Genius
	she's just doin what any other chick with little or no ambition, education, sense of self would do....drop babies for dudes with $. so fraggle rock is no different frm any other chick on the street sellin herself short ON PURPOSE. congrats my a/s/s. newsflash women: you have a weapon WAY more powerful than p/u/s/s/i trust me, i could use my face n body 2 get it but i use my brain and that gains admiration, money AND respect.
	--------------- OBAMA ‘08! VOTE!!! WE CAN DO THIS!

flycancer4lyfe
	congrats 2 them
	--------------- myspace.com/flycancer4lyfe

YL
	DC_DIVA YOU SOUND REAL DUMB YOUR FRIEND KNEW WHAT SHE WAS DOING. TALKING ABOUT SHE WAS DRUNK YEAH RIGHT . SHE WASN'T DRINK ENOUGH TO KNOW HIS PENIS WAS SMALL. STRAIGHT IGNORANT
	--------------- YUNG LAVI$H"DA BEST DRESS B-O-S-S!

Nails
	Ok, first honestly what does she do, I am not being funny, but she might as well lay under him and get paid. He probally is not trying to settle down, but she accepts it. Oh, and she may not be easy on the eyes, but I guess he loves it. I just let people be now. I am so tired of speaking on this subject.


MzJSUFan
	A lot of women are settling, whether they want to admit it or not. It is my belief, that no woman is born stating she wants to be just a baby mill for a man. LaLa is lame if that is what I am to believe about her. We have so many girls growing up, watching a lot of women SETTLE. If he won't wife me, I will have his babies. This is a sad decision to make. People try to minimize the importance of marriage, by bringing up the divorce rate. There are marriages with a man and a woman that are working and ARE NOT disfunctional. That's just an exucse for not really waiting on God, to really get what you want. It's getting so now, that having babies out of wed-lock is the norm and the married folk with good relationships and maybe children, are frowned upon. Then, we have other women, and some men, praising and stating that LaLa should "get that money." This is very childish and silly since she won't get nearly half as much, for HERSELF and the kids, since he has not decided to marry her. An engagement lasting longer than a year, you are just being strung along. But then again, why should Carmelo marry her? She already acting like a wife, with girlfriend benefits.
	--------------- The Blue Bengal Nation!

1_World_1_Man
	Damn, she makin' that NBA Cheese. La La and that Ill Na Na!
	--------------- On your mark, get set, HATE !!!

jrlink
	whats wrong with pussydaddy? and whats so exclusive about this story meadiafukkoutyumumma????
	--------------- gangsta fa life!

mrscockfield
	yall is really trippin. what ever happened to just being happy for other people. they are obviously enjoying their life...enjoy URS!!! i dont see they ass on here talking bout yo ass lol


Crossnation
	Whoa, One chick get pregnant from an NBA player and it erupts all this conflict, Bottomline, it doesn't matter about Mom and Dad raising kids or Single parent raising kids, it's all about the upbringing period.....Right values or teaching the kids from right or wrong.....it's Monday too early in the week for all that.....Chill


Kimmy07
	I DONT USUALLY POST COMMENTS ON THIS B.S., BUT I JUS HAD TO ON THIS ONE.....WAT KINDA SHYT IS DIS MTO.....JUS THE OTHER DAY YALL WAS TALKIN BAD ABOUT MONICA, AND HOW SHE WAS HAVING KIDS OUT OF WEDLOCK NOT SETTING A GOOD EXAMPLE FOR OTHERS, NOWITS LIKE YALL PRAISIN LA-LA FOR DOING THE EXACT SAME THING MONICA IS DOING IS IT BECUZ ITS WITH C. ANTHONY? WHO GIVES A FUKK WRONG IS WRONG.....WELL CONGRATS TO LA-LA AND MELO FINE AZZ


The_Ghost_Of_Benoit
	Where is Free that used to be on 106 & Park, All the gossip sites had her pregnant every 3 months Whooo!!!!! ----- I Was 4 Real


lri25
	Congrats to Lala! Having a child is a blessing from God. I wish her the best. Maybe they just want to wait on the perfect time to get married, or maybe he/she is not ready just yet. If he/she is willing to wait for him who are we to say anything about it!


TallShorty
	@ kattdaddy... if you go back to the monica thread you will see that i said exactly what you are saying about FAMILY being the basic foundation of every civilization and culture and the breakdown of the black family is the ultimate cause of all of our problems (tied with slavery but slavery broke up the black family and ruined the family structure/system). Basically I agree with you and MOM2GIRLS and many of the other voices off reason on here. How can you make a commitment to bring a life into the world, but not declare to spiritually, legally, physically, mentally and emotionally bind yourself to another? That is retarded. To commit to having a child is a bigger commitment than getting married, which is an enormous decision in and of itself. I'm only 23 so I don't think I'm old fashioned. I just have morals. Also, nowadays with the technology and education in the US, babies are no longer ACCIDENTS. Beating raw and ending up preggers does not constitute an accident. Use condoms and medicinal birth control as well. Also, if all you get from going raw is a baby, you should thank the heavens because AIDS is not a joke people. And let's be honest, it's more than likely Melo cheats so she is not special by saying she has his seeds because many others will probably be saying it soon as well. Don't have a child with someone you are afraid to marry. Either way you'll be bonded with someone for life. To the TRICKS saying now she's set for life. I feel bad for your children or future children. Children are not checks. @ Kattdaddy: I must add also though that I don't agree with you calling women bytches. The destruction of the family system is BOTH the fault of the men and women. Please don't further disrespect our people and dumb down your argument, because I do believe what you saying has merit and I agree with it. Just please try to do so without sounding misogynistic. I say this to you though with the utmost of respect because I feel you will understand what I'm saying. HAVING ILLEGITIMATE CHILDREN IS NOT CUTE AND NOT GOOD FOR OUR PEOPLE OR ANY PEOPLE FOR THAT MATTER...BUT WE DEFINITELY CAN NOT AFFORD TO FURTHER HELP WITH THE GENOCIDE OF OUR PEOPLE. WE ARE BECOMING OUR OWN WORSE ENEMIES. I WISH MORE PEOPLE OF MY GENERATION HAD MORALS. CHECK OUT THE MONICA POST...
	--------------- i‘ve been gone for a minute...

TallShorty
	Oh and other STD's are no joke either and many you can get even with condoms but they (the powers that be) will never come out and tell us that en masse. also, i wrote TRICKS because you are not women if you use your child as a check. you are a trifling bird ass trick. I know I made my otherwise semi-intellectual comment vulgar with that comment but it was needed to differentiate two separate groups of females.
	--------------- i‘ve been gone for a minute...

luvmykidz
	DON'T THINK I BELIEVE THIS ONE MTO! I NEED TO SEE "WE TOLD YOU SO".
	--------------- NewEditionFan4Life!!

nickoli
	Okay MTO, [SPAM].com says you all are liars! Someone in Carmelo's camp are denying Lala being pregnant. I guess time will tell.....


LadeeLeo
	She isn't even pregnant, ol' hating @ss people. LOL Good lord. Lonny - you need a ufcking HUG!


Nails
	@mereeree, those are some powerful words sista, refreshing. Sometimes you feel like it is no hope, but then your post, powerful.


Vintage
	Ya'll might want to check that insider again because according to Melo, Lala is NOT pregnant. Time will tell. We'll see.


FendiFiend
	Here we go again with another babymama tale. I sincerely hope that Lala is not pregnant with Carmello's second child, primarily because she is not married to him. I know a lot of sistas think they're securing a future by collecting child support, but child support is just that - for the child. Dissomaster will bless Lala for the simple fact that Carmello's earnings are high, but she'd better put a lot away for a rainy day, because when his earnings drop, so will her child support. If you really want to be a proper golddigger, ladies, marry the fool and collect alimony. That only stops when you remarry (and that's only if you remain married to him for a substantial amount of years).
	--------------- Keep wishing, hoping & praying.

trubeauty77
	Good for them!


FendiFiend
	Thank you, MzJSUFan. You're on point. We as a race have come to settle with regards to so many aspects of our lives and it's not part of God's plan for us as individuals nor as the collective. Some of us as women do not demand that our men respect us by using condoms or even abstaining from sex until we are in committed relationships, if not marriage. Some women will have baby after baby like having children will somehow make a man feel obligated to stay with them, but we know that is not realistic. No one is judging Lala or Carmelo, but a child is forever. You will always be a child's parent. You may not always be a man's wife or a woman's husband. We need to start assuming responsibility for ourselves and each other and do what we can to build ourselves as a race and as a family unit. If not, we will cease to exist as a people. This needs to start with our interpersonal relationships and carry over into our spirituality, our finances, employment, and every other aspect of our lives. God may not come when you want Him to, but He always comes on time. He will give you what you want, but ultimately, you will have what's best for you. This applies to relationships and everything else in life. Have faith and be patient, whatever you do.
	--------------- Keep wishing, hoping & praying.

81Scorp
	Wow!!! I am not surprised. At this point in the relationship a marriage is doubtful, but then again that one NBA player married his baby mama after 13yrs of hittin it. Now that's trifling. I would not marry after such a long "engagement" y'all remember what happened with Treach and Pepa, nine years together and they couldn't even last what 2-3yrs. The art of man trapping, Shaquille had no intentions of marrying Shaunie, at least according to interiews earlier in the year they were married, but found out in like August of that year she was pregnant with baby #3 and they were married in October. It's a no win situation to argue about the marriage issue only time will tell where the relationship will go.


Rayne24
	So many of our people are so delusional today. Some of ya'll have been saying that it doesn't take a piece of paper to show the committment. If a man is "committed" enough to have a child with you (that's 18+ years of committment) then why aren't you good enough for him to marry you? Ya'll gonna be stuck together anyway. You got love on lawaway & you're letting him make the lowest possible payments & you're still letting him get the merchandise. Get some standards darling & set a good example for your children. Some of the problem with our society today is that women allow men to treat them with such disrespect. You have royal blood running through your veins ladies. Make him treat you like the Queen you are.
	--------------- ~Blackness is Beauty~

PhatKat
	As I've known Alani for 10, damn almost 11 years, let me clue you in on a tidbit. My [EXPLETIVE] has plenty paper on her own. Is it NBA money? No, but if Melo ever walked away and took everything with his name on it, she'd be superstraight. Just because someone's face isn't plastered all over magazines, TV, and radio doesn't mean they're not gettin their paper. As far as them being married, in our culture (I'm talking STRICTLY to African Americans and the like cuz La is Puerto Rican), who is? 75 to 80% of our culture is single. 60% of Black women are single mothers. I don't have to hope they get married, I'm sure at some point they will because I've never seen two people more in love, but that decision will be made solely upon their discretion. And trust me, the last thing my homie is, is busted. She personally trained it out after Kiyan. La comes from a really good home; she, her mother, and her brother Christian are like the 3 bears. The same goes for Carmelo. All this talk about him messin around in the streets...let's just say Alani isn't oblivious, and nor is she suspicious. That man is ALWAYS exactly where he needs to be when she needs him to be there. These children have excellent parents and a strong support system. I wonder how many of y'all who talked the biggest [EXPLETIVE] are anywhere near walking down somebody's aisle? Not many I bet; always some bridesmaids, but never the brides. If some of y'all would talk what you're sure of and absolutely know, there'd only be about 2 or 3 posts per story per day.


SassyBmorean
	My boy Melo! Yay, doin it big getting into the NBA All-Star game I know that's riiight!
	--------------- I Need a Catchy Signature. No Luck Yet.

SassyBmorean
	U right PhatKat. But white people are not always married before they have children either. And they divorce A LOT!
	--------------- I Need a Catchy Signature. No Luck Yet.

Cadee0713
	First of all KATTDADDY are you still fookin, becuase if you are and you are not married, shut the hell up, in God's eyesight it is still the same thing, Fornication is fonrication, having a baby DOES NOT CHANGE THE FACT THAT U FOOKED OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE!!!all you judgmental [EXPLETIVE] and having abortions does not count either your fake azz was still pregnant and conceived. It has been confirmed since all of you little perfect angels were dogging out LALA, that she is not even pregnant. [SPAM] has lied or gotten some bad reporting again. MTO check your sources, and the rest of you get out of the glass houses or put down the stones..Damn!!!Thats why I don't deal with black women , we can tear each other down so fast, and it does not matter if she is light skinned or not she gets dogged too...So fo you mofos need to grow up or come back when you are old enough!!!


Cadee0713
	Fornication is fornication... So of you mofos need to grow up or come back when you are old enough!!!


Cadee0713
	Some of you mofos need to grow up or come back when you are old enough!!!


cowboyfan4lyfe
	She is throwing that latin puzzy on Melo. she doesn't have to marry him. 2 of his kids=big payday


PATrill
	FYI - they both Puerto Rican. But its their life not yours. As long as they are funny.


TallShorty
	i find it interesting you refer to LaLa as a black woman Cadee because an interview I saw with her a few years back when she first got the MTV gig she was adamant to prove and point out that she is not black, she is Puerto Rican... haha, just as they see me as a black woman Ms. LaLa...so are you. you just grew up in a purely spanish speaking household most likely. and didn't jLo deny she was preggers up until the 7 month...so mto can be wrong or right...we will see in 8 months...
	--------------- i‘ve been gone for a minute...

600pounds
	IF this is true, congrats and good luck! MARRIAGE DOESN'T CONFIRM OR GURANTEE ANYTHING! IT ALSO DOESN'T EQUAL AUTOMATIC BALANCE FOR CHILDREN! Really getting married is about getting taxed less. And plus if you get divorced which is likely since people are hos/non-commital these days, then it will be A LOT OF DRAMA, THROW KIDS IN, AND IT'S A BIG MESS.
	--------------- Never here for friends so next!

lelo
	MAN, DAT'S MY BABY...LOL
	--------------- ...half Man...half Amazin...

TallShorty
	and carmelo is half puerto rican...but best believe that puerto rican side is moreno or negrito... so he is black and blacker...just like LaLa but she apparently doesn't acknowledge she is a black woman with a Puerto Rican heritage. whatever, it doesn't matter to me...just wanted to point that out. i do wish them a happy and safe pregnancy though because i do not wish miscarriages and children with disabilities on anyone. i pray for all babies because they are innocent and don't ask to be born. also to LaLa's friend. yes he is where he needs to be when she needs him... but where is he in the meantime...so it's ok as long as when she calls he comes home? sounds like that dumb azz (but infectiously catchy) 90's song He's Mine by Mokenstef. hahaha... If they are so in love he would've married her by now. she obviously wanted to be married cuz she said yes to his "proposal" which happened when he was 20 (cuz he's an 84 baby like me). So if they wanted to be married and are popping out kids, what's the hold up? ok, i'm done. just wanted to interact for a bit. have a nice night people!
	--------------- i‘ve been gone for a minute...

BIGIRL
	To 600 pounds, i do believe marriage is in the bible, and every good woman wants to be claimed by the man they are already being a wife to .it's also a form of respect, i would want to be respected by the the man im loving and respecting. oh and by the way this photo is nasty , and you should stop playing cause it's not funny, nobody wants to see all that, and you know that your azz , stop fronting!
	--------------- bigirl

iamhere2letUhaveit
	...[SPAM]z...


iamhere2letUhaveit
	...ZZZZZ....


iamhere2letUhaveit
	...Zzzzz...


knee-grow
	aww, they are so cute congrats!
	--------------- www.meetraquel.blogspot.com

Southside773
	Congrats to them...They are a nice looking couple and they seem to really love each other....LaLa was already established in a career and she probably makes good money..so I don't understand people saying she is using Melo or getting over. People say me and her favor a lot..so I wish them all the happiness in the world....You can't satisfy black people because if he was with a white chick you would be talking "ish" and for your information LaLa and Carmelo are both Hispanic, so lets not make it into a race issue.I know their son is a cutie pie!!


gregswife05
	godbless them both i just hope they do get married and stop living in sin. i dont care what anybody got to say about me i believe what i believe and the rite thing to do is to get married godbless yall. kita_boo05@myspace.com


iiepitomizeSexXy
	Kattdaddy2... I'm going to beg to differ with you on that one. Marrying someone doesn't ensure that that person will be around your child forever; mates leave, they change, and they die and a child support check every month doesn't fill the spot of a good father. On the contrary though (whereas I am agreeing with you) I see when Monica found herself in this same situation MTO & their faithful readers would've damn near killed her and just because it's "LaLa" everything is fine? If they're already engaged with two children, they SHOULD be married. Period.
	--------------- iiM NOT TAKiiNG ANY ARGUEMENTS. PERIOD.

kattdaddy2
	To all i've offended, i apologize... However, I will never apologize for calling "certain women bytches" ! Some women are, and some women aren't ! It's just the truth. I reserve this word for those women, and describe them as such because that's what they are, for whatever reason. In this case, casually playing devil's advocate to the destruction of the black family. Everyone has been irresponsible at points in our lives, but we don't now justify what we did just because "it happened" ??? We should acknowledge as a standard traditional families as something to aspire to.


teri651
	It's 2008 and they have been engaged since 2004. He is not going to ever marry her. She is going to push out that second baby and Melo is going to run for the hills. She knows he signed that contract extension plus the money he makes from Michael Jordan that she is set for the next 17-18 years.


DatDamnVIRGO
	He aint gon marry her ass...watch he gon marry another bitch! See right now desperation is settin in with Lala so she think babies gon hold him and it won't. He is fine as HELL I can see WHY she doin it but she gonna be up at night with those babies and he'll be on to the NEXT NEW BITCH! She should have waited to see if this dude was gonna [EXPLETIVE] or get off the POT with this first child...LMAO!


Chaka9
	I can remember when LaLa was fat, with a jacked-up shape and a busted-up weave. MTV's checks got her NBA ready. Now, those checks stopped so she's gotta stay on the NBA's payroll. Makes sense to me. She'll just be a professional "fiance/baby mama", cuz her 5 min. of fame are up and he damn sure won't be marrying her.


ClassicLady
	Some people are saying maybe she doesn't want to get married if so, why is she engaged to be married? I've seen her flashing it all around when they first got engaged. See the thing is that was enough for her because that's all she's getting anyway, an engagment ring. So if she is content with her promise ring and "baby daddy" then let her be. A woman knows how to protect herself from getting pregnant so that means she knows how not to protect herself to get pregnant. If La La is happy then I'm happy for her.
	--------------- She‘s a Classic

universalbliss
	Melo is fine. They look great together.
	--------------- im the only thing im afraid of...

ElPrince24
	I wanted 2 personally let you all know that Lala is not pregnant. We are happy raising our son, Kiyan at this time and devoting all of our attention 2 him. You all know that if I have anything to announce, you'll hear it straight from me first! Peace. -Carmelo Anthonys Bulletin On His Official Myspace. Posted 1.28.2008 At 8:47 PM.


Marcus357
	true dat!


fendib
	Ok La La, I see your Motto is: DESPERATE TIMES CALLS FOR DESPERATE MEASURES. It's so sad 2 see how LOW this chick has to go just 2 try to keep this man. I mean let's be realistic. La La is not attractive. And belive me she knows this. There is alot of tough competition out there so she basically just secured her future. She knows exactly what she's doing. I mean what multi-million dollar man was she going to find? She's a Z-LISTER! Melo basically was young & dumb when he met her & got caught up in the "HYPE". He obviously realized this & that he probably made a mistake by getting engaged. The man did not want to get married anymore. After being engaged for 3 years La La came to reality & knew this wedding was not going 2 happen. She knew that if she didn't act fast, that she was going to lose this man! So what does a DESPERATE broad like her do? Get pregnant of course. The oldest & lowest trick in the Desperate Womens Book (written by Kim Porter). To her, this obviously was the only solution. She saw this as her opportunity, a business investment. Girl your just sad & down right DESPERATE & PATHETIC! I really believe that she's content with being "Carmelo Anthony's Fiance & Baby Momma". She's like as long as I got him, & his kids I'm good. I'm in there! She's saying to herself well he'll eventually HAVE to marry me sooner or later with all these kids. What a Bird Move! If a man don't want you, he just don't want you. Keep it moving! Trying to trap a man with a baby is not cute. That's just straight up dirty. But hey im glad it's you & not me. My conscious is clean. You on the other hand will have to live with that for the rest of your life La La. But you don't care. I'm sure you'll be alright with "Having your man, His kids, & HIS millions". I'm saying that's what you wanted, it's the life you chose. THESE COMMENTS ARE DIRECTED NOT JUST TO LA LA BUT 2 ALL WOMEN THAT HAVE FOUND THEMSELVES IN THIS SITUATION. GET A CLUE!


jayyyyy
	he might as well jump the broom cause with two kids child surport would eat his ass up lol
	--------------- Marquita‘s man

Loveyoulikecookfood
	No there not preggers [SPAM]..... Thats what the folks at [SPAM].com said


darealwifey
	Why does it matter whether or not people are married? Because too many black babies are growing up fatherless. Too many young men want to "hit it and quit it," and get as much booty as they can with no responsibility. Black women have become so desperate to snag ANY man that we put up with too much. Someone said that people would rather you be married and beat down by your husband than single and happy. She proved my point about women being so desperate they put up with anything. Nobody is saying marry a man who beats you. Why the **** would a woman stay with a woman beater in the first place? And if he beats you, for damn sure don't have kids with him. It's all personal choice, but the state of black people is suffering. As good a parent as women can be alone, it's hard being a single parent and it's hard on your child to not have a full-time dad in the house. The black family is out of balance. There is a natural order to things, and God intended families to have a man and a woman to raise their babies. And I agree with the women saying that most women who stay with celebrity men pay a high price in their dignity.


louisianayungin
	Nice hoots!!!
	--------------- If itz fucc me den itz fucc u!

Nellz
	Congrats.....Melo&LaLa


TallShorty
	I agree with darealwifey... well said!
	--------------- i‘ve been gone for a minute...

MzJSUFan
	Yes, DAREALWIFEY, you are coming from where I am coming from! I used to front and put up a brave face. I didn't have any children, but I couldn't hide the pain I felt after failed relationship after failed relationship. Not meeting any BLACK men worthy of me being a Queen and him being my King. I used to say that oh, I am single and happy thing all the time, knowing deep in my heart, I wanted someone to LOVE me, not just sex me. Willie D from the Geto Boys said it best in PWA, "Fck the mind and the body will follow!" Sistas, black, white and hispanic, ya'll got to smarten up. Men would willingly commit, on their own, if you weren't making the price of pssy so cheap! If I was a man, heck naw I wouldn't marry a woman who act like a wife when she ain't one. I can get it when I want, and I can tell her anything and she believes it. That is "pimping" at it's best. We don't expect the best, therefore we don't get the best. Hell yeah, being single and happy is better than married and miserable ANY DAY, I will go on record saying that! But that is a HUGE TRICK of the DEVIL. Marriage, DONE GOD's WAY IS RIGHT! How do I know? It happened to me. I used to get talked about for waiting on God. I even had old women telling me, chile, you ain't got to be married to have kids. All Foolishness! I come from a solid two-parent, male-female home, and that is what I wanted for me, BEFORE my baby came. I got married to a wonderful, FINE, Tall, big man, and now WE are 2 months pregnant. ALL BECAUSE I WAITED ON GOD! I didn't listen to all this bull about girl, get yo paper. Girl, you ain't getting no younger, girl, you might just have to get what you can! God is fulfilling all my dreams of a family, and I am under 35!!! We don't believe. We don't have faith like we say we do. We want to handle things ourselves. When you take God out of the equation, look for your life to be in shambles! All these women walking around talking about they alright because they have made poor decisions and encouraging others to follow that same road, you had better be a fly on the wall to know, all that glitters, is NOT GOLD. Shalom.
	--------------- The Blue Bengal Nation!

smuvJ
	[SPAM] SAYS [SPAM] IS WRONG ON THIS ONE


soulquarian212
	CONGRATULATIONS.
	--------------- Liberate the mind, then you go on home

FATTMATT
	wifee_material well i love em both. but fantasia can blow. [SPAM][SPAM][SPAM]__ UNLESS THAT IS YOUR SON... I WILL BE CALLING CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES ON YOU....THAT IS TOO MUCH BOOTY FOR THAT LIL BOY.... LOL J/K
	--------------- EASY BROUGHT ME BACK

MzJSUFan
	Yes, DAREALWIFEY, you are coming from where I am coming from! I used to front and put up a brave face. I didn't have any children, but I couldn't hide the pain I felt after failed relationship after failed relationship. Not meeting any BLACK men worthy of me being a Queen and him being my King. I used to say that oh, I am single and happy thing all the time, knowing deep in my heart, I wanted someone to LOVE me, not just sex me. Willie D from the Geto Boys said it best in PWA, "Fck the mind and the body will follow!" Sistas, black, white and hispanic, ya'll got to smarten up. Men would willingly commit, on their own, if you weren't making the price of pssy so cheap! If I was a man, heck naw I wouldn't marry a woman who act like a wife when she ain't one. I can get it when I want, and I can tell her anything and she believes it. That is "pimping" at it's best. We don't expect the best, therefore we don't get the best. Hell yeah, being single and happy is better than married and miserable ANY DAY, I will go on record saying that! But that is a HUGE TRICK of the DEVIL. Marriage, DONE GOD's WAY IS RIGHT! How do I know? It happened to me. I used to get talked about for waiting on God. I even had old women telling me, chile, you ain't got to be married to have kids. All Foolishness! I come from a solid two-parent, male-female home, and that is what I wanted for me, BEFORE my baby came. I got married to a wonderful, FINE, Tall, big man, and now WE are 2 months pregnant. ALL BECAUSE I WAITED ON GOD! I didn't listen to all this bull about girl, get yo paper. Girl, you ain't getting no younger, girl, you might just have to get what you can! God is fulfilling all my dreams of a family, and I am under 35!!! We don't believe. We don't have faith like we say we do. We want to handle things ourselves. When you take God out of the equation, look for your life to be in shambles! All these women walking around talking about they alright because they have made poor decisions and encouraging others to follow that same road, you had better be a fly on the wall to know, all that glitters, is NOT GOLD. Shalom.
	--------------- The Blue Bengal Nation!

sigmadiva
	That is beautiful and all but what ever happened to marriage?


mskiki
	carmelo is her man, why wouldn't(mto) u expect her to not get pregnant, you put it up here like it was so shockin to yourself...
	--------------- Ignorance is bliss on this website!

carliss123
	DANG LA LA.....I'm not mad at you girl. He obviously loves her and that's so very sweet. Keep his azz out of reach of the TRICKS and their SHANANIGANS!!!


missre11
	EXCLUSIVE!!!! [SPAM].com says that LaLa ISN'T pregnant and that [SPAM](lol) is reporting lies. Um, I think I believe [SPAM].com on this one.
	--------------- Love Does

carliss123
	@ MRROCKEXCLUSIVE...GET THAT CHINA MADE CRAP OFF HERE...WHO YOU THINK GONNA PAY $139 FOR SOME PU LEATHER FROM SINGAPORE...YOU PAID $28 to $30 PER PAIR...AHHHHH HAAAAA HAAAAA. YOU MUST BE PART OF THE CLAN THAT GOT FOLKS [EXPLETIVE] SHUT DOWN IN LENOX FOR BEING A [EXPLETIVE] IDIOT!!!!


paf
	Some men will get a license for his dog, but he won't go to the courthouse to get a license to marry you. It's sad that now most children are born out of wedlock.


sweetangel34
	To each his own BUT what's the point of being engaged for YEARS! What are they waiting for...?


fyoung10
	Ok, I may be a day late, but I had to say this. Now everyone is basically saying Congrats to La La, but a few weeks ago, there was a story posted up about Monica having babies out of wedlock and everyone went CRAZY! This is the same thing! La La is not married to him, sooooo....if you say it for one, say it for all. It really doesn't matter to me, because to each its own, and only ONE man can Judge, and I don't judge people. But I just wanted to point that out.


westsidechicana007
	NUbian Huntress: u couldnt of said it better the part bout making a child with sum1 who u will eventually hate..Damn i hate my daughter's dad so much ..He's a LOser.... n i made that decision n i cant change it now.....I been rasing my daughter for almost 4 yrs now (since she was born) by myself... n the next time i have a child sum1 is helping me lol
	--------------- IT WOULDN‘T BE LA WITHOUT MEXICANS

sweetangel34
	@fyoung10. I agree.


mistyblue
	Another stupid baby mama. He will never marry her. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.


FullGrownDiva
	OMG!!! Babies are a blessing...but he need to go on & wife her!!!
	--------------- Living Life to the Fullest!!!

honneybuttah
	That is her problem ! I bet none of us wil be financially supporting her and her chindren.
	--------------- Yeah I said it & what ?

tnj2323
	idiots.... My mom has 5 children, from 4 different fathers. She was married to only one of them. I take this very personally. We were ridiculed by family members, neighbors, whomever, because we don't look alike. We resemble our parents, but we don't look "co-hesive", if you know what I'm sayin... I absolutely hate when people have children out of wedlock! It has nothing to do with religion, because I'm almost an atheist, but it has to do with family structures. To this day, I don't feel close to ANY of my siblings (it may have something to do with us not having the same parents). But aside from my sob story, people get defensive and say "Everybody doesn't want to get married!" True, I'm one of those people, but I'm damned sure I'm not about to pop out my boyfriend's babies, neither! If I'm undecided about spending the rest of my life with him, why would I have a child with him? And what happens 'if' we break up? We still have this child 'together'...and does anybody ever think about the children? Having kids because you want a mini-me? That's F**king selfish as all hell... Oh well, at least they are able to afford and provide for them...couldn't say the same for me and my siblings' idiotic parents!
	--------------- ...work with me people, not against me!

TheBestEver
	Why would he even have sex with this nasty whore.....he just ruined himself as far as marketability is concerned...you have to have a white women on your side in order to make it big..this N1gger Blew it.....He is a fool...don't he Know that all N1gger B1tches are walking AIDS carriers....damn idiot. those damn cornrows..I knew it too damn tight....cut them things off and get you a nice white girl!!!!!
	--------------- Is Slavery Really over????

illyphilly
	tnj2323 your moms is a ho


illyphilly
	TheBestEver do u swallow? like i gotta ask! tnj2323 bo fukn hoo


starlite
	You damn baby mamas are at it again on here. Taking up for another one of your fellow baby mamas. Damn, yall stick together like roaches and make excuses for why you chose to spit out babies without a real committment. What the hell is wrong with getting married??? Do people not honor marriage anymore? Do people not want to TRY to live right? I mean, just try. Damn, we all fall short but there are some things that can be prevented such as having rugrats outside of marriage. The ones defending La La and her nasty azz behavior are baby mamas or future baby mamas. Stop making excuses for bad behavior baby mamas! Get married and keep your damn legs closed or use birth control.
	--------------- Proud HBCU Grad!

spongeboblizzie
	SHE BETTA CALM DOWN FO SHE END UP WIT DA BRADY BUNCH KIDS


caramelcutee
	Lala is NOT PREGNANT!! This is a direct comment from my friend Carmelo Anthony's myspace page he posted last night confirming this. For those who are spreading rumors you need to get a life, & stop it, & if indeed a so called source from Lala's camp is starting this, it is only a publicity stunt or some form of revenge just trying to let the other groupies know that they are still together. MTO you need to quit. From: Carmelo Anthony Date: 28 Jan 2008 19:47 Subject: Lala is not pregnant Body: I wanted 2 personally let you all know that Lala is not pregnant. We are happy raising our son, Kiyan at this time and devoting all of our attention 2 him. You all know that if I have anything to announce, you'll hear it straight from me first! Peace.


KEEYSHAJ50
	SHE NOT EVEN PREG MTO LYING AGAIN [SPAM] WEBSITE SAID SHES NOT SO FAILED AGAIN MTO HAHA... I KNEW SHE WAS'NT ANYWAY LOL. THANKS BOS-SIP :)
	--------------- ...BISD-09-09...

wescoga36
	www.IndyGrow.com then click on Women vs Men reality topics join in and keep it real.


tnj2323
	illyphilly: wow you're so funny and mad hardcore, making comments about peoples moms behind a computer, f*king btch azz how old are you, twelve?
	--------------- ...work with me people, not against me!

tnj2323
	illyphilly: wow you're so funny and mad hardcore, making comments about peoples moms behind a computer, f*king btch azz how old are you, twelve?
	--------------- ...work with me people, not against me!

cc78233
	thats not congrats!!! stop bring these kids into the world without being married!!!! it dont cost to go to the court house till u get a real wedding!!! come on black people...lets try to do it the right way sometimes!!


ThatDetroitQT
	cc78233 If a person decides to have a baby before marriage that's they business. Why are you so concerned do you have to raise them???? I didn't think so either!!!!!
	--------------- No one can stop me but me

EBZ01
	People annoy me so much about getting crazy over people getting or being married....wtf is being married supposed to do or change....if they are in love and committed then wtf...congrats.
	--------------- Still UGK for LIFE!!!!!


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