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wth ? seems liek everyones getting pregnant these days a lot younger. oooo mann . & yes u ppl. betta question that congrats ??? &&+ PPL. 2DAY IS THE B.E.T AWARDS <33 ....VOTE 4 MEDIATAKEOUT AS BEST BLOG :)...COME ON. FUK THOSE OTHER BLOGS> NO1 THOSE IT LIKE MEDIATAKEOUT
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congrats!!! |
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wow really |
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Top 10 |
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Good for her!! |
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Wow whats in the water |
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And it also looks like she has on a wedding band |
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Good for her! |
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Hopefully those eyebrows aren't hereditary... |
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Okay? |
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LOVING THE MOMMY LIFE!! |
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For real! WOW, wish her the best and I hope she comes out with another album. |
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she's not pregant?? and why is it sooo important to be in the top ten?? im just curious... |
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GOOD MORNING DC... THIS IS AGE NOW DAYS TO GET PREGNANT OR YOUNGER |
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...ummm yea congrats.. i guess |
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ITS MY BABY! |
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I WANNA GET PARIS MOMMA PREGNANT. IM FROM MN SO I GOTTA SHOW LOVE TO MY MINNESOTA HOMEGIRL PARIS. PARIS IF YOU READING THIS. TELL YO THICK ASS MOMMA I LOVE HER |
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Is she single?!!!
myspace.com/tosexy4u2handle
notenoughrealmen.blogspot.com
Holla at your GIRL!!! |
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oh pleaSe, that gal just needs to get her big ass on the treadmill...sorry, that sounded kinda mean..MY BAD, P! |
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I thought y'all were gonna show an ultrasound pic or something,LOL! |
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Okaaayyyy...Next.....
LOL @ Hrlmknight |
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WHO IS THIS CHICK???? |
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@MONTE03 GM GURL |
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congrats
Good morning... |
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WHATZ HAPPENIN ALL MY SEXY LADYS, ITS SUMMER TYME BABY SO SHOW ME LOVE
I DONT WATCH THE SHOW, BUT OKAY CONGRATULAIONS!!!
AND I HOPE IT TURNS OUT WONDERFUL FOR HER.
AND FELLAS. . . . PLEASE STOP WEARING THEM TIGHT ASS SKINNY JEANS TRYIN TO SAGG, LOL AND ROCKIN THE MOHAWKES ITZ REALLY NOT A GOOD LOOK. IT DONT MAKE YOU LOOK TOO TOUGH AT ALL, INFACT YA ALL LOOK GAY AS HELL!
YA KNOW WHAT IMMA BRING BACK A NEW STYLE ITZ CALLED "THE HETERO" |
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when did having kids as a teen become fashionable?? |
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Good For you..... |
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I've always like her... good luck to her if she is pregnant |
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Congrats to France, England or Paris...whatever her name is |
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| greyeyedchyck |
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MTO: IS SHE MARRIED TOO ? ? LOL ! !
SO WHAT? SHE'S NOT THE 1ST 18-YEAR OLD TO GET PREGNANT AND SHE D/A/M/N SHO' AIN'T THE LAST ! !!!!! |
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DO IT PARIS!!! GOD WILL CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND UR'S! AND I THINK SHE'S PREGGER'S SO THATS UNDERSTANDING SHE WANTS TO START A FAMILY INSTEAD OF GETTING IN THE MUSIC BUSINESS. |
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Her mother and grandmother were singers in the Sounds of Blackness. She was a finalist on the 5th season of AI when Taylor Hicks won. |
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Congrats...she looks very elegant!! |
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Yall said pregnant at 18 like its a bad thing. But yah I guess the dude she was with must've poked a whole in the condom or something to keep her ass because of all the new found fame she got's. Congrats ha |
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I DON'T KNW Y IM COMMENTIN ON THIS SINCE I DON'T WATCH AMERICAN IDOL.....AND I HAVE NO IDEA WHO THIS GIRL IS.....BUT ANYWAY, SINCE I AM COMMENTIN.....JUST WANNA SAY CONGRATS 2 HER SHE'S 18 WHICH MEANS SHE CAN LEGALLY BONE ANY1 AND GET PREGNANT & LIKE GREYEYEDCHICK SAID:"SHE AIN'T THE 1ST NOR IS SHE THE LAST" SO CHILL PEOPLE WIT THIS PERFECT AMERICAN SOCIETY CRAP....NO1 SAID UR GR8T GRAND OR GR8T GR8T GRAND PARENTS WERE TOO YOUNG WHEN THEY WERE GETTIN MARRIED @ 12 & 14 AND HAVIN KIDS @ THE SAME AGE. |
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COngrats, but poor baby also!!
Nobody warned that baby about dirty lil boys who'll think your soooo beatiful now that you were on American Idol and have a slight chance of becoming famous!!!??
We gotta do better as parents and guardians. |
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GOOD FOR HER !! God bless Her
Whats GOOD FAM!! ANY SOUTHERN PEEPS IN HERE |
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thats good! im happy for her....
@Science205-yeppp im from the south! |
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SHE GROWN... NEXT |
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congrats to her..hope the baby is healthy!!
maybe he/she will inherit the singing voice!!!
@ Science205 ---- reppin the south! |
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so what mto. i was pregnant 17 years ago.haha |
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I DONT THINK SHE PREGNANT...MTO ALWAYS WANNA START SOMETHING SMH |
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@SCIENCE205- Yessir, I'm your neighbor in Atlanta |
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y u have to say it like that MTO???? Yes congrats! shes obviously very happy.. |
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@Hrlmknight.....
News Flash!!!!!
You can't get someone pregnant by jerking off! You have to actually insert your penis into a female’s vagina! Okay!
Now go have a talk with your parents about the birds and the bee’s!
Good Luck! |
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Oh well.... |
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typo: beautiful |
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gimme a break
Check Out My Sizzlin' Sexxy Story! |
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Well, I'm glad she has a wedding band cuz shorty twas lookin a little rough |
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OKAY, I HAVEN'T COMMENTED IN A WHILE, BUT NEWSFLASH,
PARIS BENNET IS NOT 18, SHE'S ACTUALLY LIKE 20. SHE WAS 17 WHEN SHE APPEARED ON AMERICAN IDOL ALMOST 3 YEARS AGO, PARIS BENNET IS NOT 18, I REPEAT, SHE'S NOT 18.
AND EVEN IF SHE WAS, ATLEAST SHE'S GROWN. SO THE ISSUE ISN'T HER AGE, DOE'S SHE HAVE A JOB? WHAT ABOUT THE DAD? |
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naw man it looks like some baby fat.thats all.
once again MTO thinks everyone is pregnant,engaged,cheating or going broke.how original. |
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I don't like that first picture of her but the other two are super cute! Congradulation. |
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Well, in the scheme of things, she has many years she could have a baby. 20 is young as hell, she should be finishing college! When you become a real GROWN UP, you look back and see how young and dumb most of you were at 20!!!! And 18 doesn't automatically make you know everything, you haven't begun to live, then to add that 24/7 responsibility to a life that should be carefree is plain foolish. I'm just sayin... |
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Congrats on the baby!!! And so what she is pregnant at 18????? So f0cking what MTO??? I was a teenage mother and I'm sure there are a few other's on this site that will be real HYPOCRITs if we made a negative comment against this young mother to be! |
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ONCE AGAIN, PARIS IS NOT 18, SHE'S ABOUT 20. |
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WASSUP JAYBABY
I'M NOT VOTING FOR MTO. THIS IS NOT A CHANGE I CAN BELIEVE IN. HAHAHA |
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unless she's married or about to be, I AIN'T CONGRATULATING NO SINGLE MOM.....
PHUCK THAT
....THIS SHYT NEEDS TO STOP!!!!!
PHUCK ALL YOU IGNORANT FOLKS WHO BIG THIS BEHAVIOR UP!!!!!
STOP LETTING DUDES SHOOT ALL UP IN YA
NASTY HEFFERS!!!!! |
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SO YOUNG. |
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PHUCK ALL YOU DIFFERENT BABY DADDY HAVING BYTCHES TOO.
Stop making ONE kid with DA SUGARS, ONE with SICKLE CELL and ONE with BAD EYES
Siblings can't even rely on each other if they need transplants because their DNA is ALL DIFFERENT
NASTY BYTCHES!!!
YEAH, I SAID IT!!!
WHAT WHAT?? |
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@rexchap
Hush up all that nonsense. On here acting a damn fool. And I suppose u have never committed a single sin in your life. No smoking? Drinking? Fornicating? Lying? Stealing? Cheating? Cursing? Or ummmmm JUDGING? Come on now! |
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NO QAMIL, i had my ONE when AFTER i been married for 9 YEARS!!!
STOP trying to defend YOURSELF
THAT'S HALF the problem NUKKAS lowering the expectations so they can feel better about themselves for doing NOTHING |
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This ain't about the SINS..I'm talking about YOUNG FOLKS fukkin and letting cats splash all up in em
MORE THAN ONCE
Don't ACT like you don't know WTF i'm talkin bout either.
YOU KNOW I'M RIGHT |
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She let one slip past the goalie. www.NoahSife.com |
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Somebody will either blame it on the dress or she's gained weight.
Kimora Lee looked the same way in her dresses but where is the baby? |
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Paris can sing her azz off!! If she is pregnant I guess she's going to have to put that singing career on hold. I hate to see a young unmarried woman pregnant. |
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LOL @ rexchap!
Yes she does look pregnant. She is such a pretty and talented girl. |
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I saw many sexy girls with nice pics like her at free interracial dating site 'I N T E R R A C I A L C O N N E C T dot COM' where love is color blind. This is the reason why blacks and whites love this site very much!!!! |
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WTF@ HER EYEBROWS LOL SHE NEEDS A CHINESE PERSON IN HER LIFE...AND THAT LAST PIC LOOKS ALTERED MTO...WELL I DUNNO IF SHE'S PREGNANT OR MAYBE SHE'S JUSS TRYNA COUGH OUT THAT HAIRBALL...ANYWHO CONGRATS |
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@rexchap
I didn't say u were WRONG. I'm saying who are you to judge?
You aren't going stop teen pregnancy or anybody from getting
pregnant out of wedlock by coming on MTO and going off.
What good is that going to do? It will change NOTHING in
our communities.
I as well as everybody on this site knows that it is a
problem. It has been and will unfortunately continue to be.
And FYI there is no reason why I would come on an
"entertainment" website and try to "lower my expectations so I
can feel better about doing NOTHING" or "to defend myself"
In order for you to make that statement you would have to
know something about my personal life...which u don't...
So save it. Please. Nice attempt at reverse psychology though.
Perhaps u should spend some time volunteering at a local
Boys and Girls club. Start an anti-teen pregnancy campaign
in your community. Get you message across with actions
instead of posting hateful and derogatory messages on
internet sites and getting all pissy when somebody calls u
out for being judgmental.
God Bless Ya Dear |
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I take that back...please don't volunteer with any children! The language you use is out of control. Perhaps after you widen your vocabulary a little bit:) |
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she is not, she's just chubby... That dress does not reveal a baby bump. MTO needs to quit it... gees
DC 4 Life |
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koko_kisses401:
It's not about being hypocritical! It's about teaching kids/young adults a better way. Yes we've all made mistakes, but to let your child or anyone else you know make the SAME MISTAKE would be WRONG! Don't you agree??
How many young/teenage parents wish(ed) they could go to spring break, take road trips, go to a historically black college, even waited to have their child??
CHildren are a hinderance to young people who aren't financially or emotionally stable with a decent education. |
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Qamil....here we go with some PSEUDO INTELLECTUAL SHYT.
THAT ain't my JOB. That's your MOMMA'S job, your GRANDMA'S job to teach these girls some self worth. KEEP your FUKKIN legs CLOSED.
NICE try by YOU to pass the BUCK. |
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QAMIL....I CAN JUDGE, because i SEE THIS SHYT EVERYDAY!!!!
If you don't LIKE "JUDGE", how about "FORMULATE AN EDUCATED OPINION"?
Does that help you??? |
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Hey TROOPER. I've missed you since we last spoke. When are you gonna come put it on me like you used to? |
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HMM THATZ NiCE TO KNOW..... |
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D church ones, d worst ones |
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OK....AND THE POINT????? |
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Can i get a AMEN 2 dat 1 |
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Excuse me while I light my spliff |
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@ JAYBABY, UNO I PUT IT ON U ANYTIME U REQUEST. IT'S LIKE THE RADIO STATI0N, JUST CALL IN AND BE THE 25TH CALLER HAHAHAHAHA COME CLAIM YO PRIZE! |
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| myxy |
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AUNTIE ANN SHOULDA KEPT HER FROM THOSE CHOCOLATE STICKS....AND THAT CHOCOLATE PERIOD FROM THE LOOKS OF THOSE THICK ARMS |
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I always thought Paris was too cute. Like her hair in this pic.
But hell the girl is 18...she is of age believe it or not...leave her alone. She's probably doing very well for herself and she most likely will be able to provide for her baby. Let her be please. |
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Rexchap....seriously calm down. You my dear are like so many people who huff and puff but contribute NOTHING to the solution. By saying it "Ain't your job" you are pretty much saying nothing. You haven't said a THING that we all don't know. It just as much your job as it is "my momma's job" and "my grandma's job". Seriously though.. "My Momma and my Grandma?" Throw back to 5th grade on that one. It's that attitude of "that aint' my job" that is the problem.
And why are you telling me to keep my legs closed? Again....you know NOTHING about my personal life. If you did u would realize how ridiculous u sound trying to make a story about teen pregnancy relate to me. That is so far removed from my reality.
You can change the terminology..."Formulate and educated opinion" if you want to. The fact remains the same. You are judging and since it "aint your job" to make a difference then u shouldn't "JUDGE" unless u plan to help do something about the problem. PERIOD. |
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WoW!
www.theceelist.com |
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OK! Thx for the info. BTW, she is not the only one that is pregnant. Next, it will be beyonce, ashanti, alicia keys, and etc. We get it! This is leap year! |
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I HOPE THAT IS A WEDDING RING ON HER FINGER!
This out-of-wedlock sh*t is killing the black community. And no I don't want to hear that sh*t about "well, I'm doing well getting my college degree, etc, etc, etc." It's NOT ABOUT YOU, IT'S ABOUT THE KID(s) who isn't/aren't gonna have their father as a role model in their household growing up. IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU.
I've mentored 2 kids (a boy and a girl) at my wife's (a teacher) school over the past 5 years and NEARLY EVERY ONE OF THEM AT THAT SCHOOL IS GROWING UP WITHOUT THEIR FATHER IN THE HOUSEHOLD. Out of wedlock pregnancy is the self-destruction of the black community. |
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Qamil...oh YEAH, i hit a NERVE
Go ahead and say the GENERIC... "YOU DON'T KNOW ME"
So now i have to pick and choose the proper forum to tell folks to stop letting dudes run all up in ya?
You hit em where you can get em.
I'll say the same thing the same fukkin way on EASTER SUNDAY...in YOUR CHURCH.....HOLLA
YOU WOMEN.....since WOMEN are the ones who decide to HAVE the kids and are ABLE to bare kids.....KEEP YOUR FUKKIN LEGS CLOSED and STOP MIX MATCHIN these fukkin KIDS.
I'm DONE
take offense if you want to....
i don't give ONE fukk, let alone TWO |
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| Qamil |
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I'm not offended at all. I don't know you from a hole in the wall. Cuss and fuss until your face turns blue. The facts remain the same. You offer opinions and do not contribute to the solution. It's not "generic" to tell somebody who doesn't know you that they DON'T know you. LOL. It's the truth. You really don't. I would never be offended by something that somebody on this website says to me. It's a bunch of typed up lines on a computer screen. Not a reality. After I'm done typing this I'll get back to work. Go home for the day and never think about it again.
You should relax. Understand that some people will have a response to the ugliness that you spread. After all isn't that what you wanted when you came on here talking about girls letting men "spray up in them". Sorry if that gets u all worked up. That's too bad. |
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Oh and before I got all SIDETRACKED...Paris's hair looks really cute in the black cut. I love it. |
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She's a pretty girl. If she is really pregnant then congrats. I don't really think she is though. She is a very talented singer I remember her on American Idol. |
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check out myspace.com/bdubproductions |
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Qamil, are you at work right now? Well, if you are, stop arguing with rexchap and get back to work! :) Just kidding!!!!! And rechap, I can't tell if you are coming from the male or female perspective. However, I understand both of you guys points and counterpoints though. Hey, let's agree to disagree! |
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Qamil, are you at work right now? Well, if you are, stop arguing with rexchap and get back to work! :) Just kidding!!!!! And rechap, I can't tell if you are coming from the male or female perspective. However, I understand both of you guys points and counterpoints though. Hey, let's agree to disagree! |
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That picture looks at least 35 years old. It's probably the striped shirt.
In the top picture, girlfriend looks like Audrey Givens of The Givens Kids who were on The Gong Show singing "Bubbling Brown Sugar" on 'What's Happening?'
Go on ahead and sing your solo "God Bless The Child," girl. Well, God bless your child. Just what the world needs, another baby raising a baby. |
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@408kers
I know right! LMAO
It's a slow day..LOL |
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@FendiFiend.....
OMG!!!!! You're wrong for that!!!! OMG!!!
ROTMFFLMAO!!!!! OMG!! That is funny as shiit!! The Givens kids...how the hell did you remember the name of the kids!! I remember the girl your talking about and she looks just like her! That was funny! Thanks! |
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Congratulations! Two things: MTO, why did you add questions marks after you said "Congrats"? Secondly, to tiickl3mii3lmo, that comment was extremely unnecessary. No need for it at all. |
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jaydbee---stfu! i can say whatever the hell i want its my opinion! ur comment wasnt necessary either bitch! keep it moving! |
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408kers....This is coming from an ADULT point of view (male if you REALLY want to know)
The POINT of the matter is I'm NOT Congratulating NO SINGLE MOM (especially someone young) for letting some ARBITRARY dude (at the time, i'm sure) splash all in em and HAVING his damn kid, THEN turn around after THAT relationship didn't work...HAVE another and ANOTHER....Kids looking like NEOPOLITAN ICE CREAM up in the piece.
ALL that with NO MAN around.
Keep your legs CLOSED, get some dignity.
Stop being a BABY MAMA.
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MTO, the rumor is that's her second baby. She already had a baby when she appear on AI. |
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Well singing and [EXPLETIVE] ARE two DIFFERENT things... |
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I spent a lot of time in front of the TV when I was growing up, against my grandmother's wishes. LOL. |
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@rexchap
Another ADULT here, I know EXACTLY what you saying, but judging by all the congrats they not hearing you...
Besides I want to give a CONGRATS to all the c/o 08 grads!!! Good luck to ya.. |
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@ tiickl3mii3lmo
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THAT SHIIT WAS FUNNY AS HELL!! LMAO A FEMALE GARY COLEMAN HAHAHAHAHA DAMNNNN |
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i am a single parent mother and im proud of it, because i take good care of my child.AND IM NOT MARRIED AND IM PROUD,AND NO I DONT LIVE IN A HOUSE WITH A WHITE PICKET FENCE BUT IM VERY HAPPY AND BLESSED |
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Oh, I know who else she looks like in that top pic -- Lester, that black ventriloquist doll that Willie Tyler had. It's the hair and the cap, man! |
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@ pleasure
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Willie Tyler & Lester! You a fool for that one cuz I can see it! LMAO |
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This is a blog so of course people are going to post their personal opinions and everything. I am a single mother of one and have never been married. I don't plan to be a single mother forever nor is my child suffering in any way from my not being with his father. I don't believe in judging people in any way because that's only God's job. I won't say names but I don't think anyone is perfect or has the lifestyle to put on a "holier than thou" act. If you wait until you get married to have children, honestly, I applaud you and think it's a beautiful thing. But, nothing is guaranteed and you never know what tomorrow may bring. Just because you are married doesn't mean you are going to stay married. If you divorce, your wife will be a single mother just like all the women you are bashing. She wouldn't have had a child out of wedlock, but she would end up in the same position, which is being a single mother. Actually I am going to say a name, Rexchap I don't think anything is wrong with expressing your opinion, but I don't think you should call it educated when you came off very disrespectful to begin with. I guess there wasn't a better way you could've expressed yourself than to come off sayin "phuck all you..." blah blah blah. Comin off like that, you should have expected somebody to argue with you. It wasn't just an opinion at that point...You just came out sayin fukk somebody. That's not cool. I hope you stay married to your wife forever but to put down all single moms is stupid because she could possibly become one some day. There are many single moms who were married when they had their kids AND there are many women whose children have different fathers who were married when they had all their kids because they remarried.
By the way, it looks like your main complaint was women not being married and getting pregnant over and over again by different dudes or being "nasty" and lettin a lot of dudes splash in them. Well, I don't know how long you have known your wife or anybody else who you have had sex with in your life, but I guarantee you, whether they had a child out of wedlock or not, your wife or somebody you had sex with before have had somebody else "splash up in them" besides you. If they say they haven't and you believe them, that's fine. But it's highly unlikely that all the people you been with have only been "splashed up in" by you so callin them "nasty bytches" for doin that, you just might very well be talkin about your own wife on that one. |
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Next time get your eyebrows professionally done before you try to pencil them in with crayola crayon. |
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Again, single parenthood ISN'T ABOUT YOU. It's about the child(ren) who are not going to have their father in the household. YOU might think they're "doing fine" without a Dad, but they aren't. They are more likely to become criminals, be poor, have low grades, etc., etc. etc.
And for you who say "stop judging," you need to get a f*cking clue. I wish I didn't have to worry about the way other people were raising their kids, but the fact is that these kids growing up not knowing how to be men turn into monsters and rob/steal/kill people in my neighborhood. So, it is my problem when you decide to have kids out of wedlock, whether I like it or not.
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I expect ALL you single moms to TALK THAT ISH...what else you gonna do??
Otheriwse you'd have to ADMIT, your situation ain't IDEAL.
So whatcha sayin means NOTHING to me. Get all defensive if ya want. Ain't nobody gonna defned YOU like YOU.
Talk that ISh if ya WANT to and BELIEVE all is GRAVY if ya WANT TO
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Since YOU have the POWER to actually HAVE those 3 kids by 3 different daddies or the 2 kids with the dude in the PEN.....I say PHUCK YOU WOMEN
So it's ON YOU.....i don't need any "i don't need no man yadda either"
Keep your legs closed, HAVE SOME RESPECT FOR THE KIDS YOU'RE BRINGING IN HERE.
I'm DONE WHISPERING to people |
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@ JT-MONEY
so what are u trying to say that without a father figure in the household most of the kids are likely to end up in jail or whatever else was said.IT ALL DEPENDS ON HOW A CHILD IS RAISED IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WHO'S RAISING WHO.well my mother was a single parent mother, with 3 kids same mother same father and all of us finished high school by 16 and went off to college,we've never been arrested or ever been to jail.yes we got into trouble now as then as any other kids would do but never nothing serious.and all of us are hard working young lady with alot of ambition.so stop being judgemental.I DONT KNOW WHO MADE YOU MASTER OF CEREMONY.ACTING LIKE YOU KNOW IT ALL. |
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@ JT-MONEY
so what are u trying to say that without a father figure in the household most of the kids are likely to end up in jail or whatever else was said.IT ALL DEPENDS ON HOW A CHILD IS RAISED IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WHO'S RAISING WHO.well my mother was a single parent mother, with 3 kids same mother same father and all of us finished high school by 16 and went off to college,we've never been arrested or ever been to jail.yes we got into trouble now as then as any other kids would do but never nothing serious.and all of us are hard working young lady with alot of ambition.so stop being judgemental.I DONT KNOW WHO MADE YOU MASTER OF CEREMONY.ACTING LIKE YOU KNOW IT ALL. |
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To the Anonymous Poster Who Needs Some Help with Reading Comprehension:
This is a statement of fact from well-established research. Kids from single-parent families have a significantly higher likelihood that they will be 1) financially poorer, 2) engaged in criminal activities, 3) single-parents themselves, 4) high school drop-outs, and 5) a whole host of other negative outcomes, than their counterparts in married, two-parent households. Does this mean that every kid from a single-parent household is going to turn out badly or that every kid from a married household is gonna turn out well? Of course not. There are plenty of other factors and exceptions to everything. But it does mean that the CHANCES ARE MUCH LOWER for those born into single parent situations, esp black boys. You obviously do not appreciate or understand the importance of having a father in the household (perhaps because you didn't have one there?).
Maybe a sports analogy will help you understand me. It is like starting a 200 meter race with a 50 meter deficit. You can still win, but it makes it that much harder.
Please do some research next time before you try to intellectually step to me. |
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LMAO @ jtmoney's last comment. When you are suggesting that they "anonymous" poster do some research, did you conduct studies yourself about single parent families and the children born to them before you posted your "statistics" on MTO, or did you read what someone else (who you have never met before) researched and basically plagiarized it as your own facts? Enlighten us.
I post this comment about males, specifically BLACK MALES and their constant criticism of Black women who are single mothers for whatever reason they decided to be single or became single.
AS A RESPONSIBLE MAN, IF YOU DO NOT WANT A CHILD AND YOU ARE SEXUALLY ACTIVE, GET A VASECTOMY. I am so sick and tired of males logging onto MTO attempting to "educate" or "blast" women who are featured on MTO or who post comments on MTO. Women are not the sole cause of single parenthood so quit playing yourselves. I've suggested vasectomies before and the first time I made the suggestion, several disgruntled males posted comments referring to my suggestion as stupid and crazy. What is stupid and crazy is any male (or female) who is not careful about who you sleep with, especially in a day where sleeping with one wrong person one wrong time can cost you your life or render you with an incurable disease that can cause other diseases. (Do your research.)
Unless you are masturbating, sex is a 50/50 situation, so if you are sexually active with another individual of the opposite sex and the woman in that 50/50 situation becomes pregnant, it is BOTH of your responsibility to either raise that child or see to it that provisions are made to terminate that pregnancy if she chooses not to have the baby.
At the end of the day, it is a woman's final decision as to whether or not she gives birth, but a man can decide whether or not he wants to be a father by having a simple, minimally invasive procedure called a VASECTOMY. If you know fatherhood is NOT for you and you are sexually active, then a vasectomy is in order if you wish to continue having unprotected sex with a woman.
Stop criticizing women every chance you get and start taking responsibility for yourselves and your actions. If women don't want to be mothers in their lifetime, then have your tubes tied if you choose not to use contraception, but you still need to demand that whoever you are with use a condom PROPERLY. You may be able to have the procedure reversed in the event you change your mind about having a child. |
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@FendiFiend
I noticed that you didn't dispute the substance of what I said. It's probably because you cannot. Please check out the National Fatherhood Institute (I actually paid to get their book on father stats in hard copy, so it cannot be posted here). You can order their research book, as I did, here: http://www.fatherhood.org/fatherfacts/
Everything I wrote is well supported by research (for those who've bothered to look) and the conditions we see of the community around us. Denial is both pathetic and self-destructive.
As for the rest of what you wrote, yes, the punk *ss fathers deserve every bit as much, if not more, of the blame for all of these babies growing up in single parent households. |
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TIICKL3MII3LMO, TicklemeElmo, whatever your name is, get over yourself. Who in their right mind (besides those suffering from severe immaturity) tries to cuss someone out on a message board? Grow up. I said nothing ignorant about you at all. Now I could, don't get me wrong, but I do those things face to face. So YOU keep it moving and get over yourself, and stop getting so defensive. And maybe when you turn 28, you'll understand the whole concept of keeping your little ignorant immature comments to yourself. Talk to you when you graduate high school.... |
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Fiend.....you SOUND like a male's VASCECTOMY is of the UTMOST importance.
Like "OH WELL, I'M PREGNANT, i GOTTA HAVE HIS BABY, THEN"
STOP BRINGING THESE KIDS INTO THIS WORLD just because1 YOU WERE ABLE TO GET PREGNANT
Women act like they ONLY got one shot at it and they GOTTA have the kid.
DAMN SHAME
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This woman is grown and out of school and touring, so she will be taking care of herself and her own baby. She is not a HS chick, she is a grown woman living on her own...like it or not 18 is grown. Plus, she looks like she has tied the knot!!! |
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My question for MTO writers and editors:
How the hellz can you claim this as an "MTO WORLD EXCLUSIVE" when you basically just stole pics from another site that occurred at a PUBLIC event that y'all weren't invited to?
When y'all steal pics and stories and stamp your logo on it it doesn't mean count as an EXCLUSIVE.
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Okay, just caught up...
@jt-money..not disputing with you. But where do we as a people stop reading the "statistic books" and look aaround us. How many people come to your door and ask you are you married, who do you plan on voting for, how many children have different fathers in you household. I am 30...uhhm something (let's not worry about that), but to this day, I have never been question for my opinion or my status by the Census department, CNN, FOX news, or Nightline. So where are they getting the stats that you read from? Has anyone else on this blog been questions.
I have to admit that it is harder raising a child alone. But please don't believe that because we are single families that it makes it harder in the "real" world for us to succeed. That is a statment I can't co-sign. It doesn't matter if you have a both a father or a mother, if you child is going to be lazy, or sexually active, or drop out of school. That is the childs decision. My mother had 3 children. I was the youngest, and yes all three were by different men, before it was so "popular". but guess what, I didn't need a father figure in my house....I have 7 Uncles and 2 Aunts and a slew of great uncles and Great Aunts when I was growing up. My mother weathered the finacial storm alone but had the support of her family. Guess where her children are today??? Two are success role models in society and the other is well to say it lightly a deadbeat. It had nothing to do with a lack of a father. It had to do with will.... I wanted to do better than my mother and provide for her, so that is just what I did. There are children from two family household that are doing worse than I am...it is not about how many parents you have in the house but what you teach your children while they are in the house. Sorry to disagree. But, I really don't like Statistics that much...I received a 2.8 on that class my junior year...I was always disagreeing with the Professor. I always beleived that the stas were about me and the people in my neighborhood. But I never, saw them collecting the data.
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Paris Bennet my girl!
i only watched season 5 becuz of her!
i got her video clips from the time
the judges allowed her to go to hollywood
to the end. i love this girl
she is my american idol!!
phuck carrie underwood
kelly
ruben
fantasia
jordin sparks
taylor hicks
and that dame david belpre or
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No stats indeed. One of the reasons it's important to look at research instead of only just relying on what's going in our little slice of the world is that what's happening in your neighborhood/school/family/personal situation may not be representative of the population at large.
Please re-read what I wrote here:
<<Does this mean that every kid from a single-parent household is going to turn out badly or that every kid from a married household is gonna turn out well? Of course not. There are plenty of other factors and exceptions to everything. But it does mean that the CHANCES ARE MUCH LOWER for those born into single parent situations, esp black boys.>>
Poll questions? Try the census. Or statistical sampling. Also, there is plenty of data available about you without anyone asking you a question if you have been incarcerated, been in school or dropped out of school, been on public assistance, or otherwise interacted with "the system."
OK, I was gonna let the rest of what you said go because you at least had a polite tone, but, unfortunately I can't.
You said:
<<It doesn't matter if you have a both a father or a mother, if you child is going to be lazy, or sexually active, or drop out of school. That is the childs decision.>>
That is utter nonsense. You are not born with a lazy gene (unless you are mentally handicapped) and your behavior is largely learned from the environment around you. Do we all have different personalities? Sure. But our values come from what we observe.
You said:
<<Two are success role models in society and the other is well to say it lightly a deadbeat. It had nothing to do with a lack of a father. It had to do with will....>>
How do you know his "will" wasn't shaped by the fact that he had no father in his household growing up? Maybe if you were a man, you would have a better understanding of how boys learn to be men from their father figures.
You said:
<<There are children from two family household that are doing worse than I am...it is not about how many parents you have in the house but what you teach your children while they are in the house.>>
Again, please re-read this - "Does this mean that every kid from a single-parent household is going to turn out badly or that every kid from a married household is gonna turn out well? Of course not. There are plenty of other factors and exceptions to everything. But it does mean that the CHANCES ARE MUCH LOWER for those born into single parent situations, esp black boys."
You said:
<<I always beleived that the stas were about me and the people in my neighborhood. But I never, saw them collecting the data.>>
Just because nobody was asking you questions, doesn't mean there isn't plenty of data out there about you. There is. |
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@ rexchap- Sweetie, you are forgetting that it takes two to make a baby. Honey,you must be a male chauvinist and you definitely see the glass as half empty instead of half full. Seriously instead of you coming on here bashing single mothers, you need to go see a head doctor and get you a prescription for some Risperdal for Schizophrenia or maybe some Lamotrigin for Manic Depression because you definitely have a problem. I feel sorry for your wife with your attitute. You probably are the type that raises all kinds of hell if she misses one day of cooking. Nutbag, get a life and stop being an azzhole. BTW, I was married before I had my daughter, but I have the sense and knowledge to realize that all situations have pros and cons and no situation is perfect; where there is positivity, someone is always going to find the negative in it or visa versa. Sweetie a debate class would eat your azz alive. Maybe you need to make a baby and chill out psycho!!!!! |
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@jt-money..Ok, Ok. We are going to have to agree to disagree on this topic. As I stated I understand what you are writing, but again. This is not everyone, just my opinion. I don't agree with Statistic. Growing up, the majority of my area did not submit their federal taxes, did not pay the states taxes, or did not answer the door to the census worker. These are both people on and off public assistance. Even to this day, I can go to my home town and still see people like that. I didn't say all data was falsified, I just don't see how you came come with a complete statistic unless you query a large percentage of people.
When I refered to the statement about a child being lazy, worthless etc. i am not saying a child is born that way..I beleive that children learn they habits and between the age of 7-10 it has been instilled in their brain what kind of person they will be. If you don't beleive me then try to assume responsibility of a child that is 9-10 years of age that you have not raised. Their personalitly will will overpower you before you over power theirs. Children are more strong minded than I was when I was younger and society has changed. So when I say if they plan on dropping out of school or having sex, then that is just what I mean. Not that they are born to be stupid. Yes, children learn from the environment around them, but just because there is a mother and father does not make that a good environment...some of the worse children have come from two parent homes.
I chose to use myself as an example because I know my self and I know my family. My brother (the one who I referenced)was brought up because we were in the same house household and I know for a fact that he did not go without the male image in his life. he just chose to go another path in life..we were born in the days of punsihment and butt whoppings. We were shown that life had more to offer than corners and babies. But, he choose to answer to the calling of the streets. That was the choice that he made, not a choice that was forced on him from his upbring. This really doesn't have anything about being a man...to know the feeling of not having a father in my life. I didn't have my father in my life so I had the same problems that a my brother did. But like I said. I had the will to succeed, and he had the will to get over at any cost.
I told you I agree with the majority of what you said just not the Stats. Sometimes I beleive that people look so closely at our black families to see what is wrong in them that they overlook the families that are doing well.
My only reason for commenting is that I beleive that a single parent family works as well as a two parent family as long as the one parent is willing to expand their knowledge and raise their child to become upstanding adults. Of course, we will always have the children raising children..and when I say children raising children I do not mean age...I mean their intelligence level. So as long as we have these mothers/fathers wanting to be friends, go to the club, get high, and drink with their children then we will continue to have a repeating cycle of children raising children.
Oh, BTW..you are right about my comments. I don't have a reason to be rude. I respect everyones opinion regardless if I agree or disagree. that is why I come to MTO to read another persons views, because I live in my world and others in theirs. I cannot dictate what happens in your life nor yours mind. But all in all i like the conversation and I sit in a office for 12 hours watching AFN....I have no life at all. |
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@ The Anonymous Poster
Of course you want me to shut up because you can't make an intelligent counter-argument. Feel free to go back to being blissfully ignorant.
@ mereeree
Since I have raised two teenagers, I probably have a bit more knowledge on this subject than you do, but thanks for the polite response.
<<I beleive that children learn they habits and between the age of 7-10 it has been instilled in their brain what kind of person they will be. If you don't beleive me then try to assume responsibility of a child that is 9-10 years of age that you have not raised. Their personalitly will will overpower you before you over power theirs. Children are more strong minded than I was when I was younger and society has changed. So when I say if they plan on dropping out of school or having sex, then that is just what I mean. Not that they are born to be stupid. Yes, children learn from the environment around them, but just because there is a mother and father does not make that a good environment...some of the worse children have come from two parent homes.>>
The most powerful things in a child's environment are their parent(s) or lack thereof. Again, please see my earlier comments that every single-parent situation isn't necessarily worse than every two-parent situation.
<<I don't agree with Statistic. Growing up, the majority of my area did not submit their federal taxes, did not pay the states taxes, or did not answer the door to the census worker. These are both people on and off public assistance. Even to this day, I can go to my home town and still see people like that. I didn't say all data was falsified, I just don't see how you came come with a complete statistic unless you query a large percentage of people.>>
You aren't going to get far in too many arguments by discounting all statistics just because of what you witnessed or didn't witness in your neighborhoods. With statistical sampling, you can measure a community of a 1,000,000 people by sampling a small fraction of them. Again, this may explain why you personally didn't witness anyone asking questions in your neighborhoods. Most people don't see researchers in their neighborhoods, but that doesn't mean you aren't being measured.
<<My only reason for commenting is that I beleive that a single parent family works as well as a two parent family as long as the one parent is willing to expand their knowledge and raise their child to become upstanding adults.>>
No offense, but you really need to take a closer look at what is happening to our community. It is obvious why, in most situations, a two-parent situation would be better for a child. Two parents = two incomes. Two parents = one parent that can look after the kid(s) while the other is at work. Two parents = a male and female role model for the child. Two parents = two parents to look after the child at home.
It's really just common sense.
<<That was the choice that he made, not a choice that was forced on him from his upbring. This really doesn't have anything about being a man...to know the feeling of not having a father in my life.>>
Again, I'm not sure you really can relate to the effect that not having a father in the household has on a boy. It is a different experience from girls, though of equal importance. |
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@rexchap, the one thing I can agree with on your earlier comment, but maybe not in the same words, is that women need to learn the first time after they have a child with one man out of wedlock and be more careful and not do it over and over again and have multiple kids w/multiple dads. I don't feel there is much excuse for that.
I do believe that single mothers deserve respect BECAUSE they do it alone when they didn't actually lay down and DO it alone, but because a lot of men are irresponsible, the mothers are doing what they have to do. So really, most of the bashing going on should be done to the absent fathers not taking care of their responsibilities--not to the women who are stepping up and doing the best they can to fill both roles which is not what they should have to do. I think that most of us can say that we do know the statistics or at least agree that without 2 positive parents in the household, the child is more likely to have a more complicated adulthood or upbringing (especially boys with absent fathers). But when you come at it like, Eff all yall baby mommas and blah blah blah thats disrespectful, rude and uncalled for as long as we can say we are doing the best for our part to raise our children well. We can only do our part. And just because a child is born out of wedlock does not mean we are choosing single parenthood for life. I want to be married and when I do get married, after I find a positive male for myself and positive role model for my son, I won't be a single parent even though I brought a child into the world out of wedlock. So who are you against? All single mothers who have children out of wedlock? Or all single mothers who have children out of wedlock and never get married?
Also, I think a lot of us would have felt a lot better if you would have shown that you don't just have a problem with the mothers who have children out of wedlock, but the fathers too. You seem to have just came out against the single mothers/You didn't say Eff all yall baby daddies, just the baby mommas. Maybe you have a chip on your shoulder or a scorned past involving a single mother or "baby momma". Think about that-otherwise why are you just targeting us?
On another note, I have a problem with the way you are calling single mothers "nasty" for letting dudes "splash" in them. I don't understand that because there probably are not many people who are sexually active who have never had unprotected sex. I am a single mother of one and my son's father and I had sex tons of times with protection and only had sex without once or twice when I got pregnant and we were in a serious committed relationship, so I don't think it's "nasty". If you can say that you never "splashed" in a girl without protection before you were married--good, you did everything right but if not, that must make you a "nasty bitch" too. The judgment passing is truly not called for if you are not God himself. What if everybody started judging all sins in all aspects of life--then you would be upset because you not perfect (nobody is). So don't tell us not to get defensive because when people judge you for not "doing the right thing" or "being perfect" in a certain aspect of life, that's what you do. It's human nature. You defend yourself. |
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the name is tiickl3mii3lmo, get it right, if you're too dumb to spell it just copy and paste stupid ass! you need to take your own advice and stop tryna insult someone over the net. im not being immature im stating my opinion if you dont like it then you can walk cuz i dont give a rat's ass! damn you need a life! damn near 30 years old and your hiding behind a computer trying to argue with a 16 year old on the internet! you need to do some growing up yourself! LOL! |
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JT Money:
There was no point in disputing your comment because you believe what you believe like I believe what I believe. If it means anything, I don't see you disputing what I wrote either. My comments to you were to REMIND YOU that there are 3 sides to every story - his side, her side and the truth. Sex is a 2 partner street like creating a life requires a male and a female. You've clearly never read any of my previous comments on this issue (posted on other story boards), otherwise you never would've used the term "denial" when addressing me. I am not in denial as to what occurs in "our" communities but I am also not adversely affected for the simple fact that I am single with no dependents. I have never been pregnant because a) I have never been married and b) I have no desire to be anyone's mother who is not already born at this time. I am blessed to have been given parents and extended family who embedded in me the importance of personal responsibility and respect for myself and my body. With that stated, it is not my responsibility to judge another person who did not receive those lessons because they made different choices that others perceive as "bad" or "wrong." It is my responsibility to reach out to them and encourage them to do better despite circumstances that may not be so favorable to them.
Rexchap:
You need Jesus to take the wheel and God to ghost ride the whip. Nowhere in my statement did I solely say that men should get vasectomies if they do not want to impregnate a woman. There are condoms (which a lot of men complain about using, when protect men as much as they do women) and there is abstinence. A vasectomy is not for a responsible man who wants to be a father, but I know several responsible men who are fathers and who respect the fact that, with them being sexually active at any age, old or young, they can impregnate a woman. As a result of them not wanting anymore children, they have gotten vasectomies. It is not a form of emasculation, it is called BE RESPONSIBLE WHEN IT COMES TO YOUR BODY AND YOUR ACTIONS. If you could not extract that message from my post, then sorry for you. |
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@jt-money...ok, ok. I understand your point, but everyplace is different. I don't we will agree, I just don't feel that surveying a percentage of people in a area will provide you with statistical overview of a popluation of people.
As for my community, I not only take a close look at my community, but I also look at the communities surrounding the area where I have lived and live currently and that is where I get my views from. Maybe are communities are so unlike that we cannot see the same view.
People always say that a man needs his father to become a man but I don't agree with that. You don't need your father but you need a male role model. I am no different than a man that was raised without his father..I feel the same pain and abandoment issues that a man would feel. I think in a perfect society we want both mother and fathers in the home with there children...but sometimes that doesn't happen. So, we are left with single family households. this has not just happened over night, it has been going on since before the days of slavery and it will continue until the end of time. But, my main point throughout our discussion is that a one parent household does not automatically mean you are a loss cause and that does not mean that you will end up in jail, or on drugs etc. You stated that not all families are ruined by the single parent theory. I just wanted to make the statement that single parent families do work...
JT...it was nice discussing this with you. I usually make comments and then move on because I don't like going back and forth or partaking in the abusive conversation. So, I will look forward to disagreeing with you in the future...for tomorrow I have a plane to catch and I will catch up with you in a few days. Today is my happy day....leaving Afghanistan for good!!! |
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@ jt-monkey sorry i meant money
we are both blissfully ignorant because your obviously replying to my blissfully ignorant comments.DUMB @SS |
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