: MediaTakeOut.com just caught wind of a very touching story. According to one UK newspaper, a mother has come out to talk openly about not loving her 11 year old daughter:
Here’s a summary of the piece from the blog ParentDish.com:
Shelley Price doesn't love her own daughter, and fears she never will. This tearful mother of two is telling her story because she believes that she isn't the only mother to ever tackle such a taboo subject, and hopes she may help others come to terms with this unspeakable truth. How can this be?Here’s more:Price was just 22 when she had her eldest daughter, Catherine, now 11. Shortly after Catherine's birth, a five-year relationship with the father fizzled. That didn't help matters.
"It was obvious that something wasn't right from the start," said Price. The night Catherine was born, Price says she didn't want to look or touch her. Her maternal malfeasance continues to this day. Playgroup pickup was something to dread, she recalls no landmarks such as a first tooth and when Catherine is sick, Grandma is called in. She admits to ignoring her daughter's attempts to get her attention and not wanting to be physically close to her. "I did hug Catherine, but it was always half-hearted," Price said. "I always told her I loved her but I never really felt it or meant it."
That is just awful. Particulary when there is another child in the house now, Poppy, 2, a daughter who she calls "the love of my life" by her current partner.
On the plus side, if there is one, Price recognizes her shortcomings and is trying hard to improve her relationship with her older daughter. "Sometimes, if I've been playing with Poppy, she'll come and sit next to me, put her head on my shoulder and her arm round me, waiting for me to cuddle her," she said. "I look at her little face and know I've hurt her. I do care deeply for Catherine, but I have just never felt the same bond with her."Instead of a good night kiss and "I love you, honey," Catherine hears a nightly whisper in her ear. "I'm sorry for the way I've been with you."
seems like when my relationship fizzled with my kids father.. it only made me love them more... this chick is a head case.. how do u not love something that u created? i mean sure they get on ur nerves at time.. but not love them? well i know its possible look at al the crazies that kill their children, *** sickos
THATS SO SAD *** DA *** I SICK, HER DAUGHTER *** HAVE TO PAY 4 THE SINS OF HER FATHER. THE MAN BROKE UP WITH HER *** AND SHES TAKING IT OUT HER DAUGHTER, SHES TRANSFERING HER HURT *** ANGER FROM HIM ONTO HER DAUGHTER. *** DO THIS *** TOO OFTEN, WHEN THEY DONT GET ALONG WITH THEIR BABIES DADDIES, THEY SEE THEM IN THEIR KIDS *** TAKE IT OUT THEIR KIDS. TELLIN THEM, THEY MAKE THEM SICK, OR THEYIR JUST LIKE THEIR FATHER. *** NEED TO SEPERATE THEIR KIDS FROM THEIR KIDS FATHERS. I APPROVE THIS MESSAGE.
What's so crazy about this is that this little girl will grow up with issues.
Now she cna either take those issues, not do anything about it, murder, commit suicide, become a low life, no college education, stand around and feel sorry for herself, or she'll rise up in life, forgive her mother and her past, and become a beautiful young lady! In which I know she will!
I HATE people like this. My dad was like this with me and my brothers. He treated me the best because Im his only daughter and constantly treated my 2 brothers like ***. This has always caused me and my brothers to never be close because of jealously. So in the end, everyone suffers from BAD parenting. For a mother to do these with daughters is tragic. That little girl will grow up with some painful unbelieveable issues to deal with. I mean, if you don't love her why didn't you give her up to someone who will. She never asked to be born. *** trashy baby mothers make me sick. "When Catherine is sick, Grandma is called in." WTF? Won't even take care of her sick child? I bet she taking her anger out on her daughter because the relationship with the baby daddy didnt work out. Bytches like this should be sterilized immediately so they don't create anymore unwanted unloved children. I feel for that lil girl.
HOPEFULLY THE OLDER DAUGHTER WILL BE ABLE TO OVERCOME THE LACK OF LOVE FROM HER MOTHER AND BE ABLE TO TREAT HER CHILDREN WITH UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. SOMETIMES EMOTIONAL NEGLECT IS WORSE THAN PHYSICAL ABUSE. THE ONLY GOOD THING I CAN REALLY SAY IS THE MOTHER IS BEING HONEST ABOUT HER FEELINGS. MANY WOMEN MAY FEEL THIS WAY AND INSTEAD OF BEING HONEST THEY ARE PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE TOWARD THEIR CHILDREN.
As sad as this story is, I believe it. I know someone just like this. There are women out there that feel that way but do not want to reveal it because they do not want to be looked down upon for feeling that way. They have resentment towards their oldest child for whatever reason (usually due to not wanting a child at the time conceived and/or bad/strained relationship with the other parent). Sad situation but oh so real. That poor little girl.
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It seems to me she is blaming the failed relationship with her daughter's father as a reason for not putting forth any effort with the little girl. That along with the fact that she suffered from Post Partum Depression that she obviously didn't get any help for. That is a serious thing and effects lots of women. It's easy to be judgemental, but this is not one of those instances. It's unfortunate that she is this way, but I'm glad that she recognizes it and hasn't done any physical harm to the little girl. The emotional aspect of it will have her messed up for life as it is. It's really sad but this happens all over the world.
Very sad and it may scar the older daughter, who may in the future suffer with intimacy problems or low self-esteem. The mother obviously has a mental issue and I hope when the child gets to adulthood that she won't harbor any ill feelings towards her mother and just move on past it. I hope that her mother's apologies will help the child find peace!
Karma is a BIG BAD BYTCH....
This woman neglects to realize that one day she'll need someone to wipe her azz, cook her food and wash her clothes because she'll be unable to...and this little girl will NEVER FORGET that her little sister received all the LOVE while she got NOTHING. What goes around comes back around...full circle.
thats what happens with you have a child at a young age with a man youre not married to. if youre a young babys momma, chances are the situation isnt going to be the fairy tale ending that you anticipated. so you take that anger out on the child. females, please get on birth control until youre mature and in a stable committed relationship. I understand marriage isnt for everyone and thats cool but being a young mother poses too many risks. chances are you havent finished school, settled into a career, traveled, enjoyed time with your friends, and just discovering who you are. 22 is very young, and she was in a 5 year relationship before her daughter was born? she never got to live life. now that shes 31 or 32 years old shes ready to settle down and to stop being selfish, unfortunately her first born has to suffer as a result of her dumb *** decisons. remember it only takes a quick trip to the GYN to get a birth control prescription, or those who dont have insurance can go to Planned Parenthood for free. stop bringing unwanted kids into this world
YOU KNOW I NEVER LIKE USING THE HATE WORD, BUT I APOLOGIZE I MUST. I HATE WOMEN LIKE THIS, WHY BRING A CHILD IN THIS WORLD THEN JUST BECAUSE THE RELATION WITH THE MAN FAILED YOU STOP LOVING THEM. THAT IS CRAZY. THIS IS JUST LIKE THIS SITUATION WITH THE MOTHER THAT KILLED HER 11 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER BECAUSE SHE HATED HER FATHER AND BECAUSE SHE LOOKED LIKE HIM.
OK POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION MAY HAD A AFFECTED HER IN THE BEGINNING THAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN OVER WITH. SHE JUST USING THAT EXCUSE BECAUSE SHE JUST DONT LIKE HER. NOW IF HER CHILD DONT GET AROUND LOVE SOON, SHE MIGHT GO SEARCHING HIGH AND LOW IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES, EX *** WITH RANDOMS GUYS OR WHATEVER TO FEEL LIKE SHE IS WORTH SOMETHING. NO CHILD SHOULD FEEL LIKE THIS, THEY NEED TO TAKE HER AWAY. EVERYDAY THAT CHILD FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS IS CRUMBLING ESPECIALLY SINCE THE MOTHER IS PUTTING ALL THE EMOTIONS ON THE YOUNGEST CHILD.
This sounds like Casey Anthony, the beast who killed her daughter Caylee. she didnt want to be a mother, she was only like 19 or 10 when she had Caylee and she complained how being a young mother interfered with her life. look how that poor girl ended ujp. AND-I dont give this woman credit for admitting this and coming forward with this article. she doenst love her child so she could care less about how this story is going to affect her daughter. she needs psychiatric help asap
The EXTREMIST in me says she needs her a$$ WHOOP. There is NO reason for her to place a burden on this child of not feeling loved and wanted because her STUPID WEAK DISGUSTING A$$ has no sense of self-worth. How DESPICABLE?
The *** in me says to just pray for the woman because she is obviously sick in the head.
Either way, about 99.99% of my empathy goes to this child because this child did not ask to be here. This child deserves soooooo much more. When she gets older, I pray that she is much STRONGER than her POOR excuse for a mother. I also hope that she is LOVING towards her own children. Also, I hope she can bring herself to FORGIVE her mother b/c she's definitely going to RESENTMENT.
most women who had their kids in their teens or early 20's tend to say that they love their kids but they would have waited to have their kids if they could turn back time. birth control, birth control. please people. I know most of our grandparents and parents had us at young ages, but those were different times. people had different ideals about marriage and family in those days. people are so non chelant about having unplanned pregnancies and out of wedlock pregnancies and young pregancies that its become something that people dont feel the need to prevent. its too common and thats sad.
wow i have heard of stories like this before...its very sad to read about this...but the good thing i read from this story is that the mother realizes there is a problem...thats the 1st step in making things better......what she need to do is seek counsel and get some professional help......the strangest thing about this story to me is.....somewhere years to come, this mother will be down and need help and they child she is neglecting now will be the one to come to her aid......and then one she love so dealy now will be now where to be found........
Horrible....Seems like a woman who has associated the bitterness with her ex with the child and rejects her own kid based upon bad feelings of the prior relationship..Which is inexcusable...The parent child bond is the most important one there is.
I guess I can give her credit for being honest about it, but she needs to go to counseling and get to the bottom of it before her child ends up scarred for life. Kids who feel unloved and rejected are the same ones who end up going through their adult life looking for love in all the wrong places and being reckless.
THIS HAPPENS A LOT ALL OVER THE WORLD ESPECIALLY IF THE MOTHER WENT THROUGH POSTPARTUM EVEN WITH WOMEN WHO ARE STILL WITH THE FATHER . I WATCHED A PROGRAM WHERE THE MOTHERS WENT THROUGH THIS AT LEAST SHE IS ADMITTING IT AND HOPEFULLY SHE CAN DO BETTER WITH HER DAUGHTER . WHAT WE NEED TO DO IS PRAY FOR HER .IT EVEN HAPPENS WITH FATHERS , THERE ARE CULTURES WHERE DAUGHTERS ARE KILLED IF THEY WERE BORN FIRST AND NOT A BOY . SO DON'T JUDGE HER PRAY SHE GET HELP
Terryka Iono but I hate when women do that. She's taking her problem out on her daughter which isn't right! --------------- you gotta luv it
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I agree. And it is disturbing. At least she's being honest. BUT like I always say, some people don't deserve to make kids.
SOME BLACK MOTHERS CAN ACT THAT WAY OFTEN, MY MOMS SHOWED MY SISTERS MORE LUV THAN ME, AND HER EXCUSE WAS, U REMEIND ME OF UR NO GOOD DADDY, SAD, I NEVER FORGAVE HER FOR THAT, WE DON'T SPEAK NOW BECAUSE OF A LACK OF LOVE WHEN I WAS WAS YOUNG, ALWAYS REMEMBER WHAT U SAY TO UR KIDS BECAUSE THEY WILL NEVER FORGET.
THAT IS SAD. SHE MUST NOT HAVE BEEN SHOWED LOVE AS A CHILD. THERE ARE SOME SERIUS NEGLECT ISSUES. ATLEAST SHE IS TRYING TO FIX HER PROBLEMS THOUGH. THERE IS A DIFFERENCE IN LOVING AND ACTUALLY FEELING THAT YOU LOVE. THERE IS A LACK OF REAL APPRECIATION FOR HER CHILD. IF SHE LOST HER THEN SHE WOULD REALLY FEEL HOW MUCH SHHE LOVED HER ONCE SHE GOT PAST THE GUILT AND THE REAL REASON THAT SHE COULDNT ALLOW HERSELF TO FEEL THE LOVE THAT SHE REALLY HHAS BUT CANT CONNECT WITH
Flag post Horrible....Seems like a woman who has associated the bitterness with her ex with the child and rejects her own kid based upon bad feelings of the prior relationship..Which is inexcusable...The parent child bond is the most important one there is.
I guess I can give her credit for being honest about it, but she needs to go to counseling and get to the bottom of it before her child ends up scarred for life. Kids who feel unloved and rejected are the same ones who end up going through their adult life looking for love in all the wrong places and being reckless
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OMG That is so true. And I'm starting to think there are more mothers like this based on their actions. Just because a mother doesn't say this out loud does not mean she doesn't feel this way. This is sad.
I am saddened not by the situation so much but by people's reactions. This is why people with issues don't come out with them, because they fear being ostracized. If you cannot relate thats fine. But this is pretty normal and really expected to be honest. if you dont like someone, then anything reminding you of that person you will associate with negativity. I wouldnt think it would take a rocket scientist to get this.
Who ever is without fault cast the first stone, I guess all you *** are perfect. The woman is not glorifying her behaviour, but I'm glad she said what she did, so other mothers can realize they are not alone. And I dont think children's services taking the child away is going to help any. I guess it would be better for her to go from group home to group home (chances of her getting adopted are slim to none) and she is right before puberty too.
Yall are *** clowns and thak goodness you fools and not the decision makers.
@Quiesh_Ka
To an extent I agree but I wouldn't go as far as to say this is normal, this should be expected. I feel this situation does however apply to many mothers, more then we know because there are many women in this situation today but not all mothers handle situations the same either. I mean it's good she's being honest but it's still sad for a child to know her mother don't love her.
I admire her honesty. It makes me think how many other mothers out there feel the same about their kids after a breakup with their father. They may not be as honest about as she is, because of how people may look or treat her.
I'm kinda worried about ther 2y/o. Will she not love her anymore if the relationship with her father ends as well?
here's the thing, humans beings are flawed period. we cannot raise perfect kids because we are not perfect parents. therefore these things will happen. her child may come out better because of her honesty and her ability to try to deal with the issue, as opposed to alot of black families i see. it sounds like mom is defeated and just cant force herself to feel something she doesnt. it has lasted 11 years so far.
men think before you start a family you are about to abandon. but dude is off scotch free livng his life, is this fair?
Dang, give her to me, I've wanted a daughter forever, I had a rough pregnancy with my son, so she can save me nine months of suffering. I'm sure there are many people would love to have child. She should have given her to a loving family, hell, she still can. Why make the little girl suffer like that. That's causing emotional trauma to a child. My son is spoiled, but he's a really good kid. I would spoil that little girl rotten to make up for all the hell her Mom's put her through emotionally. I'm going to try and track this woman down and see if she'll let me take the baby girl off her hands. I would love to have a daughter. Then I'll have my wish for two children, a girl and a boy.
Flag post here's the thing, humans beings are flawed period. we cannot raise perfect kids because we are not perfect parents. therefore these things will happen. her child may come out better because of her honesty and her ability to try to deal with the issue, as opposed to alot of black families i see. it sounds like mom is defeated and just cant force herself to feel something she doesnt. it has lasted 11 years so far.
men think before you start a family you are about to abandon. but dude is off scotch free livng his life, is this fair?
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I am not saying you are wrong because I feel you are makin valid points. It's good to read comments from a another point of view because it makes people open their eyes and think. And no it's not fair. It's no fair for any woman to carry own a heavy load by herself weather she is a good mother or not. And the fact her daughter is growing up without her father is not her fault either.
@Quiesh_ka, girl tell me about it, the ones that dont care wont admit it, and def. wont come foward, AT ALL. I wonder what makes her think she doesn't love her child...I used to ask myself all that time, if I loved my child, and actually, at first I thought I didn't....But as I went throught the post partum, I asked myself it again, and I felt the same way, almost numb to the feeling of loving him, but, what I didn't realize is that with your first born, You begin to expierence a new kind of love for a person, I never knew what it was suppose to feel like to love your child....No one knows until they have one, that the love is unconditional, no love like any love that one could have for anyone, not even your mother..It's weird though, it's like my child and I are bonded for life in some sort of way....When I have another child one day,it would be easier to show the love, since I've already experienced loving a child of mine...I knew that I loved him when I could, without a hardbeat, know that I would die for my child if I had too, and know that I also wanted to live for him, and make sure he's safe, and compfortable...
@ Virgo, I agree to some extint. Some mothers are like that...But I feel that my children would be a reflection of me, so THEY *** BETTER GET TOGETHER!!!LOL Im working with only one right now though. These women better start screwing loosers in case they have children by them..But that's a whole nother story.
The same thing has happened to me. I'm 19 and I pray that when I have my own children in the future, I won't fall into the same trap my mother did before me. The best thing to do is just not let that neglect control you and FORGIVE. Everyone is capable of mistakes, this is just one of the most harmful ones unfortunately. It's good that this lady acknowledges her true feelings but putting it on blast is the worst thing she could have done to that poor girl. She hasn't even reached her teen years, she is a child, all her friends are going to know that her mother doesn't love her: how does she think that's going to make her daughter feel? You can't be that selfish and just think about yourself, about how its finally off YOUR chest. Like I said, the best way forward is forgiveness
Also it is possibly a combination of anger and bitterness from a failed relationship, postpartum depression, jealousy, selfishness and low self esteem
If anyone can read between the lines this lady is only in love with his children when the man that fathered the children stays around. She says that she loves her newest child and her and the father are in a current relationship. We as women have to have better self-esteem and pick better fathers for our offsprings, especially when men leave there families behind everyday. There are a lot of women that hate there children secretly becasue they father didn't stick around. You have to pick people to be in your life that has more substance then what they look like or because of how the *** made you feel. It's not the children it's the parents.
if this is real... this is sad.... thats why men (who you think love you) come into your house sexually abusing these kids and manipulating them because men know when youre not liking a certain kid trust me so they take advantage... this happen to my friend... her mother treated her bad as a child because she was dark and a little slow not *** though her mother had a baby by another man and the dude moved in and manipulated my friend into thinkin he like her and he got her pregnant also... I remembered that because she didnt come back to school for months because she had an abortion after that her sisters father still lived there at the house until he slept with another family member...men know when you dont like one of your children because they prey on that one... so love your kids... if you dont... you better act like you do
So her hatred for the father, bleed it way to her daughter. She sounds like a rape victim, like she's been used and abused before! Cause thats the only way I can see not having no love for your kid. the life you birth into the world!
ANd secondly if it was/is really like that she should have aborted.
MAN I REMEMBER MY MOMS USED TO TAKE ME A MY TWO SISTERS SHOPPING, AND SHE WOULD TELL ME, THIER DADDYS SUPPORTING THEM SO I GUESS U NOT GETTING ANYTHING, AND THE FUNNY PART IS, SHE WASN'T ON NO KIND OF DRUGS OR DRINKS, SHE WAS JUST EVIL BECAUSE MY POPS AND HER COULDN'T MAKE IT, *** THANK GOD FOR GRANDMA, R.I.P.
Thats just stupidity, ignorance and hatefulness...B.itch you are an insecure as.shole and i would like to take your child off of your hands. If you wish not to love her and respect her then i will. You can email me @ maliyah29@aol.com. No child should have to go without feeling loved everyday of their young lives. My daughter father left me and yes i was hurt beyond means, but i picked myself up and i realized that i had to keep on living for my 2 babies. Kids don't ask for much, they just want that motherly love like they should have and your story hurts me and it kills me inside to think that we have women out here in this world that would turn their backs on their child because that particular father ain't inlove with your selfish a.ss!!! grow the fu.ck up and give me your baby i will show her what a true mother really is...cassandra
I don't care how common this story truly is i am just worried that women will treat their children differently because that particular man that you claim you love so much and now has gone and left you feeling all sad and blue. now you decide well if he is gone i ain't got sh.it to do wit his child no mo so fu.ck it... thats just dumb, ignorant, stupid sh.it and your as.s should be abolished. I have no respect for you dumb bi.tches...what you need to do is seek counseling, get on some meds and keep a journal. write that shi.t out and get your sh.it together cause you still got kids to love and raise and i say f.uck that nucca its always gonna be other nuccas out their who would love you and your children the same..just learn to love you and stop letting ***.sh.it defeat you and make you less of a woman than you should be. this is for white women as well, its 2009 get your sh.it together or get lost.
these women don't love themselves...self love will take you a long as way and your selection of men will be a lot better. and if a motherfu.cker try to touch my son or daughter in the wrong way i will literally slice his di.ck off and feed it to him before i put a *** in his brain from close up...thats for real, for real.
I think I know how this little girl feels, growing up I didnt compare to my sister she was the favorite hands down. I was never beat or abused but I was ignored. I was treated like I was invisible, my parents didnt talk to me, not even a "good morning". I grew up angry with my sister wishing I could be her just cause I seen how my parents loved her and I used to wish I had it like that. I remember when I was younger I saw my parents yell at my sister over her report card her grades dropped like half a point and they were furious. So I started to not do my homework and trying to fail on purpose hoping maybe I could get attention that way. When I got my report card I was so excited thinking "I did worse then my sister, I'm gonna get yelled at" LOL!! but when I got home they didnt even care. My parents looked at my sisters report card and started lecturing her asking why her grades didnt go up and I remember being like "ok, my turn, look at my report card, I did bad too" and its like they didnt even hear me. But once I got to be about 15 I would go out with my friends and wouldnt go home for days, and they never cared or worried about me. I dont think I have any long term problems from this, although I did act out when I was around 15 I started drinking, and I became a pot head, but that is really it. Its weird reading this story cause I remember doing almost the same thing this girl did. If my sister was home I would sit in my room alone cause I felt unwelcomed and I would rather be by myself then feel unwanted. If my sister was out thats when I would sit with my mom on the couch and rest my head on her shoulder I would even try and hug her and I would get nothing back. But I would stay there even though it was always the same ***. Now I'm 22 I have two kids but I love them to death. I dont think my childhood experience has really done anything bad to me, so maybe this little girl in the story can use this in a good way. For me I dont deal with fake people in my life cause I feel like if I gotta deal with the fakeness and people treatin me like *** I can just go home to my family and get that. It just made me stronger. I see people who are really angry over this but what you dont understand is that it happens more then you think. I know girls I went to school with who have kids they dont care for. I think its easy for a man not to care for his children, but for a woman to not give a *** about a child she carried for 9 months I find to be a little harsh... but its not uncommon. let me tell you, I can make a list of all the girls I know that dumped their kids onto their relatives or close family friends and never look back. not the least bit uncommon.... it is still a sad and hurtful thing...
I can relate to that. When I was young, we lived in a two-bedroom house. One room was for my mother and brother. The second one was for my sister. It had a white canopy bed with matching dresser, etc. I slept in the attic on a twin bed. When we were older, I worked my way through college. I later found out that my mom had helped pay my sister's college tuition, bought her a car and paid for the apartment that she shared with her boyfriend off campus. I also found out that she has paid a lot of my brother's bills and given him thousands of dollars. I also found out that she has paid my brother's bills and given him thousands of dollars over the years. She never bought a single book for me and didn't attend my graduation. When I ran out of money for college, she told me that sometimes things like that happen. Fortunately, I was able to go back and finish a few years later.
For awhile, I told myself that it wasn't intentional, but finally had to face the painful fact that it is. Interestingly, she often calls me to complain about he favoritism that her mother shows towards her youngest brother. Around Thanksgiving, her mother told her to kiss her my azz in front of a roomful of relatives. She was devestated. It is like the bible says, you reap what you sow.
I work at an obgyn office and what she has is very common. It is called Post Partum depression. When she went for her 6wk check up after having her daughter, her doctor should have caught it. But if a woman isn't honest with her doctor about the way she's been feeling since having the baby, her Dr. will never know. In some woman it can only last about a week. But most of the time if you don't get some anti-depression meds it can stay with you forever. She need to get some zoloft and that should help. It's helped our patients.
You see this every day in the "hood" and in the "ghetto". I know for a fact, that a kid right now in my twenties is not for me. A lot of these women end up with wanna be thugs and they get screwed because of bad choices. This situation is passed down from generation to generation. Now at first, I didnt want kids, but now I do. Her mother was only 22 and she probably had dreams and she feels like her life is on hold. Her mother is still young, she is only 33 years old. Her mother to me is selfish and does not want to love her child to.
This is a very sad but touching story and i really feel ms price needs some serious counciling and @stronggirl how do you know that she is on welfare now that is just plain stupid on you part everyone that has problems are not always on welfare ok and no i am not on welfare but i have friends that get "govermnent assistance" and they are not trash at all so bump that suggestion
OK,FIRST OF ALL WHOEVER IS"STRONGGIRL" I DONT KNOW WHERE YOU GOT THAT PICTURE FROM BUT,NOW YOU TALK ABOUT THIS LADY SHOULD HAVE KEPT HER LEGS CLOSED AND CALLED HER WELFARE TRASH WELL
HOLD ON JUST ONE DAM MINUTE I DONT KNOW BUT LOOKS LIKE TO ME WHOEVER THE PARENTS IS TO THAT CHILD IN THIS PICTURE SHOULD BE SERVING A LIFE SENTENCE,WITH NO-TIME FOR PAROLE.
HOW YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR CHILD'S FATHER DETERMINE IF YOU LOVE THEM OR NOT.... GIVE ME THIS LADY'S ADDRESS SO I CAN SLAP... I AM NOT A MOTHER, BUT I THINK ABOUT MY UNBORN CHILDREN EVERYDAY... THEIR SMILES , THEIR PERSONALITIES, AND I CANT WAIT TO BE A PART OF SOMETHING BIGGER THAN MYSELF... STUPID TRAMP!
The truth hurts, but it heals, too. Believe it or not - there are Mothers who don't bond with their children after birth. How many Mom's hurt their children, physically. They are the Moms who really don't love their children because they don't seek help. THis woman recognizes the problem and is trying to work through it. That is a good thing - believe it or not. I hope through GOD, they find the Love that is missing in their relationship and things work out for her daughter and her in the long run.
OK, I think one of the things that a majority of the posters are forgetting are the AGES HERE, SHE IS 22 NOW AND THE DAUGHTER IS 11, THE CHILD WAS BORN AFTER A 5 YR RELATIONSHIP WITH THE FATHER FIZZLED.. WTF??? //
SHE WAS 11 WHEN THIS GIRL WAS BORN AND THEY SAY 5 YR RELATIONSHIP WELL , SINCE SHE WAS WHAT 6 YRS OLD??? DID ANYONE ELSE CATCH THIS??
Not ev1 was meant to be a mom especially when it comes when your 11 yrs old and in the 5th or 6th grade. I mean my daughter will be 11 this yr , I cant imagine it.
Her mother she have noticed in the hospital when the girl didnt want anything to do w/ the child. Where her mom when her 11 yr old daughter was getting pregnant????
Why would you let an 11 yr old CHILD CARRY A BABY FULL TIME AND KEEP IT??
In this situation, adoption would probably be the best thing to do, From this article it seems that her mom was trying to "force" her to be a mm @ 11 yrs old. Well that may be hard when she would rather go and play on the swings that teach some one how to tie their shoes.
Now the older you get , yeah, you realize your resposibility, but I dont know if I can hold a 11 or 12 yr old accountable for not developing a loving maternal realtionship with the child.
Ohhhhh, so since it's a WHITE woman from the UK, then this story is media worthy? PUH-LEASE. This sh!t has been happening since the beginning of time with black people. These chicks have these babies by these low-life men, pretend to be mother of the year for the low-life, baby daddy's sake, and when the low-life decides that he doesn't want to be with her anymore, then the child is no longer a priority and gets treated like sh!t. When that happens, then it is on to the next man and on to making the next baby. Ain't nuttin' TO IT, but to DO IT.
Don't ACT like ya'll don't see this foolishness in the hood EVERY D@MN DAY.
That is so sad! Now what is she gonna do when the 2nd child's father leaves her? She gonna not love that child either and have another baby by a differnet dude to fill that void? It would be a cycle with her. My son's 2. I was with my his daddy for 5 years as well. We split last year, and I be dam*ed if I treated my baby like *** just because I aint with his sorry daddy no more. I love my baby. My son's daddy is not in his life, but I am! She should learn to love both her kids equally.
