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Smh @ her blue contacts.
One of the reasons I love being black is our superior eye acutivity.We have the best eye acutivity on the planet as black people.
These coons dont know that tho,all they know is,any color other than dark brown is "pretty".
Smh @ the dude that had hands on her,helping her being ashy 2.I heard of giving someone a helping hand but, giving them a helping ashy hand is unheard of.How home boy's tattoos were ashy too?
She's a mess.
she should have been a lady at not consume alcohol at all. however,if she just absolutely needed to drink she should have done so in her own home. there are too many crazy people roaming in the clubs to just go out drinking in that kind of environment. hopefully,noone took advantage of her and she made it home safe and unharmed. when she sobers up,she should consider purchasing some jergens lotion or some johnson's baby oil,because she does appear to be a little moisture deficient.
@ She_So_Fly
This is a black site so 9 times out of 10 if they show a busted woman she's gonna be black.
@ GuessJeans
How is MTO exploiting black women?
Lets cut the pity party and the blame game.A black woman did this to herself.
Everybody who go clubbin in N.Y know them 7days peoples is there wit dey cams.MTO aint Exploit her or do nothing to her,this black woman did it to herself.
The 7days people dont go out with a specific mission to degrade and exploit black women,this black woman did w/e this is to herself...
They only showed the picture to get views,which it did...
And who the fawk still wears Guess jeans?
WTF? You see its hoes like that who wake up the next morning all upset cause she is butt naked, can't find her clothes or phone, don't know who is laying beside her, don't know where the f^ck she at and remembering that she had a train ran on her the night before but don't remember who all was involved. And then turn around and want you to feel sorry for them. HELL NAW!!
lvlario Flag post @ She_So_Fly
This is a black site so 9 times out of 10 if they show a busted woman she's gonna be black.
^^^^Well I understand that. but how to we know this 'black site' doesn'ty have a gang of white people behind the scenes posting this mess and getting a laugh at our expense?
Now true, homegirl should have took better care to make sure she wasn't all tow up lookin'. And true we each are resppnsible for our actions and have to deal with any consequences that come forth.
But still, after the laughs, it all gets tiring.
And besides, MTO shows women of other races from time to time, and they don't be lookin' all busted.
Maybe I'm readin' too much into it, but I'm just sayin'......
wowzers... she shoulda invested in a bottle of aveeno before she went club hoppin come on baby girl it cost less then them bracelets you got on and why you in da club fallin and stuff don't you know your limit *shaking my head for her cause i don't know mine but thats when i'm in da crib chillin* thats a shame i would be too embarassed and then you all posted up on 7day/7nights nice job keep up the good work
lvlario: good point! i do not feel sorry for this chick at all....sorry but u should put a limit to your self when going out to bar, club, etc. the fact she left her crib with no undies or shorts under that dress shows classless and asking for attention. then allow your self to get real wasted and show off ur ashy ass cheeks and let mother fcukers feel up on ur ashy ass..(they probably gang bang)...then blame it on the alcohol. GTFOH.....THIS WOMEN IS IN FACT DISRESPECTFUL AND CLASSLESS. NASTY GIRL
WOMEN IN AMERICA....GOT TO DO BETTER!
ummm...so where do i start--the bad china doll weave. the colored contacts. no panties. the barney-goes-to-the-club purple get down. the stretch marks. the cheap payless 2-for-1's. yea & some folks need to learn about makeup--like knowing when you need some & understanding the natural look aint for everyone.
Some black women should be put on blast, if you know your someone who likes a drink at least if you end up in these compromising postions which more than likely ten of ten times you do at least wear decent clothes. you can tell she does this on a regular just by her elbows alone which is rougher than sandpaper
She_So_Fly
Thats because nonblack women look naturally busted.Alot of sistas have to go out of their way to look fugged up.
Not necessarily She_So_Fly,alot of times there are white pedos behind the scenes but its up to the person to project themselves in a certain way.Me personally since I'm a 100% freak,I dont see anything wrong wit it.
I be noticing sistas not looking out for their fellow black woman,same wit da brothas not lookin out for a sista.
Yea,home boy did help her pull down her skert but it wasn't till after he threw up da West Coast sign.My man let every1 know where he was reppin ferst,then helped her out.
Lets give him the benefit of the doubt though.Maybe a Lil Jon song came on with the lyrics "If you a West Side ni**a,throw it up,throw it up!".
All in all She_So_Fly,this is a grown woman with full control of herself,and she looked pretty sober in the ferst pic.She was born black,with 2 black parents,she doesn't owe other black women anything.Not a positive image or anything.Other black women can't make you look bad.She_So_Fly just make sure you're the type of sista no 1 can say anything bad about,thats all that matters.
Alot of Stereotyping be goin on.I've never seen 1 or more black women collectively change my opinion of black women as a whole.
Black women are all very different,how can I truly let the actions of some dictate my opinion of all of them as a whole?
Take it from me as a racist,the thing with stereotyping is,you only pay attention to what you want to pay attention to.
I don’t know how MTO can show pictures like this, of private citizens, w/o facing legal ramifications. And, if there is a law protecting them, it’s UNJUST.
This poor girl could have been drugged for all we know. There are just too many unknown variables concerning this picture.
This is more sad than anything else, even if it is a result of her own accord.
Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.
I'm pretty disgusted with the people on here making jokes and putting down this girl. It's not funny and actually it could have been a prelude to rape.
What about the disgusting and disrespectful guy pulling up her dress and making gang signs on her thigh??? Why doesn't anyone have much to say about that?
And putting up her pics on here is EXPLOITATION mto. I am also sick of MTO putting up these kinds of pictures of Black women.
If this sista gonna put herself out their like that she needs to be ridiculed and then maybe she would get some sense. We need more fathers out their because this right here is a disgrace. I don't care, if a woman has to change her eye color with contacts she has serious insecurity issues and color issues.
Bwahhh ..ahh Hiliarious!! Some black women never ceases to amaze me about some of the sh!t they do, I mean goodness, does it ever occur to some of these that they make it bad for the women that have it together, and want better. A real man don't want that mess.. BTW, I got some baby oil, some cocoa butter, some shea butter and some crisco- which one ya want?
Her being ashy doesn't come close to the real situation at hand! That's the least of her worries....where are her friends?? And not to get off track, cause she needs a beatin for acting "unlady like", but where are the "step-up" men, the ones who are should dissipate the crowd and get this chile a chair and a glass of water? O..that's right..they are "pulling her dress up even more and flashing gang signs with those dirty ass hands...."
Let's make everyone involved accountable for some for of disrespect!
I'm not going to front...I use to be this stupid bitch in the club!!! I kept panties on...lol but I would get phucked up just like this not knowing my limit. Thank God I had real friends or I would have gotten raped or murdered...But after I seen how STUPID I LOOKED IN THE PICS, I WAS SADDEN BY IT AND EMBARRASSED....THIS IS NOT HOW A WOMEN SUPPOSE TO CARRY HER SELF....LADIES HAVE SELF RESPECT OR U WILL GET NOTHING BUT DISRESPECT!! I HAVEN'T HAD A DRINK IN 2YRS AND PROUD OF IT!! THAT DRINKING DOES NOTHING BUT DAMAGE UR BODY AND KILLS UR YOUTH!!!
man please the girl is not that ashy but she is difinely druck hopefully she got some good homegirls with her because these nasty hateing females now a days dont give a [EXPLETIVE] dont know [EXPLETIVE] about real friendship to busy chasing behind some dog as [EXPLETIVE]and please i have been around white and black people white girls are wors that i can promise you.
allahuakbar: i agree what some of the things you saying but we need to be real somtimes people get druck and act a fool you be seeing [EXPLETIVE] throwing up fallinh all onthe floor and [EXPLETIVE] does that mean that a [EXPLETIVE] [EXPLETIVE] slip someting n his druck and then [EXPLETIVE] him in the ass.because he wasnt aware but you are right about one thing black fathers need to stand up for real.its not natural for black girls not to have there father.and just brcause someone wears contacts dont mean they hate there self sometimes you want to switch it up try something new black women are creative just look at are hairstyles.
TRASHY SELLOUT DRUNK WHORE. SHOULD HAVE TAKEN THE MONEY SHE SPENT ON THEM STUPID LOOKING CONTACTS AND BOUGHT SOME DAMN LOTION. I CANT STAND BROADS LIKE THIS, IF YOU CANT HOLD YOUR LIQUOR THEN DONT DRINK. ITS STUPID ACTING PEOPLE LIKE THIS THAT CAUSE TROUBLE AND RUIN THE GOOD TIME FOR EVERYBODY. AND IM GLAD HER PICTURES ON BLAST, MAYBE THIS WILL TEACH THIS BIRD NOT TO ACT A FOOL NEXT TIME.
and not ONE of those so called men could have simply helped her out? Of course not-because it would simply be too much to ask of Black men to show some decency.
A REAL man would have made sure she got to her friends so they could get her irresponsible ass out of there.
Should she have over-drank? No! but that doesn't excuse the border line rapist behavior these "men" are exhibiting in the photo.
But, I am certain the majority of Black women on here will justify and defend these dudes and blame the drunk girl.
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@ allahuakbar
How can you call yourself a great defender of Black women when you are supporting the behavior these border line rapist are demonstrating?
Everyone should be responsible about their liquor but it is the culture of rape this website and the Black community breeds that concerns me. People are pretty much laughing at the idea that a "train" aka RAPE was committed against someone who CLEARLY is unable to consent.
If a cop shot and killed a drunk Black man and blamed his liquor-everyone on here would scream racism. But for some reason we decided to hold a drunk woman responsible for the animalistic behavior of these Black males.
Damn shame
But-I am learning to not expect much from Black people anymore when it comes to the behavior of Black males.
theprogressiveblackw oman.c/o/m
@devilsadvocate07
I'm not condoning her actions at all, if you reread my statement I specifically said that she needs to be ridiculed behind these pics and maybe she would straighten up her act. I also stated that we need more fathers out there because women who generally have positive male role models in their lives don't do these things or wouldn't even put themselves in these situations. The wise learn from fools mistakes so this picture should serve as a reminder of what the dangers of drinking and in public could bring. She has nobody to blame for this but herself, she needs to look in the mirror. I am the GREAT DEFENDER OF BLACK WOMEN, she needs to be torn down so she can be rebuilt a better woman.Peace.
Fellas! It is not wise to have sex with a women who is intoxicated. You could be charged with rape. I see a women being sexually exploited and fondled who is obviously not in control of her faculties. Everyone is condeming her actions and letting the men have a free ride. THE SEXISM MUST STOP IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY. Women are to be treated with respect even if she shows none for herself.
@allahuakbar
Considering these Black males in the picture are the only ones with the borderline criminal behavior-I suggest you focus your attention and tearing them down.
Please explain to me who are supposed to be male role-models for Black women?-THESE DUDES WHO DON'T EVEN HAVE THE COMMON DECENCY TO NOT TAKE PART IN THIS BEHAVIOR? Give me a break.
Black women do not need to be torn down but simply supported and these ignorant sexist comments are quite alarming that I am reading on this blog.
But a sad reflection of the horrendous acts against Black women the Black community loves to defend
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@ sho-well
Its a lost battle. Black people simply love to defend rape, child molestation, etc of Black women and if you noticed-the biggest defenders ARE BLACK WOMEN! Then they wonder why 70% of them are single mothers-because accountability for actions is something Black people simply refuse to enforce on Black men.
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@Lezmiranda,Sistasoulja and Knowthetruth...Thank you guys!! Yeah I'm wiser now honey! That life I had is no more and I have no desire to go back! I'm not perfect but I'm a child of God and I'm living a happy life right now!! I'm blessed in every way possible and all praises are to My Lord and Savior!!!! I never did drugs but I was drinking so much and doing things I knew was wrong....Til I said NO MORE!! I cried to the Lord and said help me father! And he did! Thank you Jesus!
But he know I'm still lowkey crazy....lol He still working on me ya'll lmao
But part of me was just so lost....I didn't have parents growning up so it was hard for me!! That's y I'm so active in my daughter life!! And I thank God she never say me passed out and drunk back then.....I kept my party life away from her....But waking up hung over and not having the energy to play with her the next day nearly killed me!!!! But that's the old me!!!
@devilsadvocate07
those men are most definitely not getting a pass from me and to be frank everyone in that picture is guilty of something, but what really? okay the male in question is maybe pulling her skirt down or up and at this point it really doesn't matter because she is outta control and drunk in a public place where SCURGE frequent, waiting for an oppurtunity to take advantage of her. You are and maybe i'm wrong trying to paint her like she is an angel surrounded by devils. She must be held accountable for her actions as well. I am not an advocate of rape, any rapist should be castrated in my opinion, but maybe an embarrasment like this would sober her up and make her aware of the consequences of her actions. Women are our most precious resource, hence (the father whom the positive role model reference). Does she not deserve any blame or ridicule in this particular situaion? Peace.
@ allahuakbar
What blame would you like to give?
We can ridicule people for whatever reason we choose. My issue is there are males in this picture exhibiting behavior that strongly indicates a rape could have or may have taken place and for some reason the ONLY person you can blame is the female.
Ridicule..yes..blame..ABSOLUTELY NOT! Is it okay to say MEN and women should be responsible when drinking? Of course..but the reality is Black men are RARELY ridiculed for their behavior..case and point..this picture
Any man who can sit there and take advantage of someone who CLEARLY is inebriated is a devil and deserves to be ridiculed for his actions.
But, because he is a Black male...he will be excused because it is what Black folk do best.
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@Alla
"okay the male in question is maybe pulling her skirt down or up and at this point it really doesn't matter because she is outta control and drunk in a public place where SCURGE frequent, waiting for an oppurtunity to take advantage of her". -------
Black male behavior doesn't matter? Of course it does. I have two little brothers and I make it my daily duty to teach them boundaries. I see drunk people all the time-but I don't violate them and then say it doesn't matter because they are already drunk.
That is like throwing garbage in poor peoples neighborhoods and saying: Well the neighborhood is already dirty so it doesn't not matter.
Why are Black men raised and ALLOWED to take advantage and/or harm Black women as they choose..clearly for some reason you believe that a drunk woman can be held responsible for the actions of someone outside of herself..
I clearly disagree with that ignorant and sexist view.
Like I said: I cannot see how someone who thinks it is okay to ridicule, degrade and exploit Black women is "healthy". I do not need you to defend me...thank you.
@devilsadvocate07
and what exactly is it that the black man does best: civilize nations, society, math,science,etc, or did you have something else in mind, oh or were you just being the devilsadvocate with that comment. What proof do you have that states that he is in fact 100% pulling her skirt up, now although I think he is pulling it up, I'm not 100% sure. Yes he is at fault, yes she is at fault, someone who allows themself to be inebriated in public like that is a FOOL, deserving of ridicule, what respectable Black woman would put herself in that situation, but that's neither here nor there, now it is time to lift her up and rebuild her, she deserves ridicule. Again if she was taken advantage of then YES, those guys were devilish. I hope you are not one of them sistas who make excuses for women no matter what they do as long as it involves a man. Peace.
@Alla
and what exactly is it that the black man does best: civilize nations, society, math,science,etc, or did you have something else in mind, oh or were you just being the devilsadvocate with that comment. What proof do you have that states that he is in fact 100% pulling her skirt up, now although I think he is pulling it up, I'm not 100% sure. Yes he is at fault, yes she is at fault, someone who allows themself to be inebriated in public like that is a FOOL, deserving of ridicule, what respectable Black woman would put herself in that situation, but that's neither here nor there, now it is time to lift her up and rebuild her, she deserves ridicule. Again if she was taken advantage of then YES, those guys were devilish. I hope you are not one of them sistas who make excuses for women no matter what they do as long as it involves a man. Peace. -----------
Please don't concern yourself with what kind of woman I am. Now, please continue to entertain me with your comments about how Black men civilize socities-it amuses me.
What I had in mind was the TYPICAL Black male who abandons his family, expolits his women and people (gangs, drugs), etc and degrades himself and all the great Black men who came before him.
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Black male behavior doesn't matter? Of course it does. I have two little brothers and I make it my daily duty to teach them boundaries. I see drunk people all the time-but I don't violate them and then say it doesn't matter because they are already drunk.
That is like throwing garbage in poor peoples neighborhoods and saying: Well the neighborhood is already dirty so it doesn't not matter.
Why are Black men raised and ALLOWED to take advantage and/or harm Black women as they choose..clearly for some reason you believe that a drunk woman can be held responsible for the actions of someone outside of herself..
I clearly disagree with that ignorant and sexist view.
Like I said: I cannot see how someone who thinks it is okay to ridicule, degrade and exploit Black women is "healthy". I do not need you to defend me...thank you.
Now, Your comment about "what respectable Black woman" is nothing more than a justification of these men behavior by claiming that because she is not respectable-she deserves whatever she gets.
In my college years I have drank more than I should have-and I am a VERY respectable young Black woman-so exercising bad judgment when drinking does not mean you do not love or respect yourself.
Black women are ridiculed by everyone-Black men, women, the media, White America, etc...to suggest that exploiting someone to make them what YOU decided they should be is an ignorant and misguided form of help.
No-I do not excuse women simply because they are women-but I am SICK AND TIRED of everyone giving the Black man a free pass and I will continue to hold them accountable for their actions-whether or not other Black people choose to follow.
Lastly, when you say "put yourself in that situation" it gives the wrong notion that the males are not responsible for their behavior-and alleviates them of responsibility. I suggest you pay attention to your language
theprogressiveblackw oman.c/o/m
@Alla (The first entry is a typo)
and what exactly is it that the black man does best: civilize nations, society, math,science,etc, or did you have something else in mind, oh or were you just being the devilsadvocate with that comment. What proof do you have that states that he is in fact 100% pulling her skirt up, now although I think he is pulling it up, I'm not 100% sure. Yes he is at fault, yes she is at fault, someone who allows themself to be inebriated in public like that is a FOOL, deserving of ridicule, what respectable Black woman would put herself in that situation, but that's neither here nor there, now it is time to lift her up and rebuild her, she deserves ridicule. Again if she was taken advantage of then YES, those guys were devilish. I hope you are not one of them sistas who make excuses for women no matter what they do as long as it involves a man. Peace. ------- Please don't concern yourself with what kind of woman I am. Now, please continue to entertain me with your comments about how Black men civilize socities-it amuses me.
What I had in mind was the TYPICAL Black male who abandons his family, expolits his women and people (gangs, drugs), etc and degrades himself and all the great Black men who came before him.
@Alla
and what exactly is it that the black man does best: civilize nations, society, math,science,etc, or did you have something else in mind, oh or were you just being the devilsadvocate with that comment. What proof do you have that states that he is in fact 100% pulling her skirt up, now although I think he is pulling it up, I'm not 100% sure. Yes he is at fault, yes she is at fault, someone who allows themself to be inebriated in public like that is a FOOL, deserving of ridicule, what respectable Black woman would put herself in that situation, but that's neither here nor there, now it is time to lift her up and rebuild her, she deserves ridicule. Again if she was taken advantage of then YES, those guys were devilish. I hope you are not one of them sistas who make excuses for women no matter what they do as long as it involves a man. Peace. -----------
Please don't concern yourself with what kind of woman I am. Now, please continue to entertain me with your comments about how Black men civilize socities-it amuses me.
What I had in mind was the TYPICAL Black male who abandons his family, expolits his women and people (gangs, drugs), etc and degrades himself and all the great Black men who came before him.
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Black male behavior doesn't matter? Of course it does. I have two little brothers and I make it my daily duty to teach them boundaries. I see drunk people all the time-but I don't violate them and then say it doesn't matter because they are already drunk.
That is like throwing garbage in poor peoples neighborhoods and saying: Well the neighborhood is already dirty so it doesn't not matter.
Why are Black men raised and ALLOWED to take advantage and/or harm Black women as they choose..clearly for some reason you believe that a drunk woman can be held responsible for the actions of someone outside of herself..
I clearly disagree with that ignorant and sexist view.
Like I said: I cannot see how someone who thinks it is okay to ridicule, degrade and exploit Black women is "healthy". I do not need you to defend me...thank you.
Now, Your comment about "what respectable Black woman" is nothing more than a justification of these men behavior by claiming that because she is not respectable-she deserves whatever she gets.
In my college years I have drank more than I should have-and I am a VERY respectable young Black woman-so exercising bad judgment when drinking does not mean you do not love or respect yourself.
Black women are ridiculed by everyone-Black men, women, the media, White America, etc...to suggest that exploiting someone to make them what YOU decided they should be is an ignorant and misguided form of help.
No-I do not excuse women simply because they are women-but I am SICK AND TIRED of everyone giving the Black man a free pass and I will continue to hold them accountable for their actions-whether or not other Black people choose to follow.
Lastly, when you say "put yourself in that situation" it gives the wrong notion that the males are not responsible for their behavior-and alleviates them of responsibility. I suggest you pay attention to your language
theprogressiveblackw oman.c/o/m
@Alla (The first and SECOND entry are typos)
and what exactly is it that the black man does best: civilize nations, society, math,science,etc, or did you have something else in mind, oh or were you just being the devilsadvocate with that comment. What proof do you have that states that he is in fact 100% pulling her skirt up, now although I think he is pulling it up, I'm not 100% sure. Yes he is at fault, yes she is at fault, someone who allows themself to be inebriated in public like that is a FOOL, deserving of ridicule, what respectable Black woman would put herself in that situation, but that's neither here nor there, now it is time to lift her up and rebuild her, she deserves ridicule. Again if she was taken advantage of then YES, those guys were devilish. I hope you are not one of them sistas who make excuses for women no matter what they do as long as it involves a man. Peace. ------- Please don't concern yourself with what kind of woman I am. Now, please continue to entertain me with your comments about how Black men civilize societies-it amuses me.
What I had in mind was the TYPICAL Black male who abandons his family, exploits his women and people (gangs, drugs), etc and degrades himself and all the great Black men who came before him.
Like I said: I cannot see how someone who thinks it is okay to ridicule, degrade and exploit Black women is "healthy". I do not need you to defend me...thank you.
Now, Your comment about "what respectable Black woman" is nothing more than a justification of these men behavior by claiming that because she is not respectable-she deserves whatever she gets.
In my college years I have drank more than I should have-and I am a VERY respectable young Black woman-so exercising bad judgment when drinking does not mean you do not love or respect yourself.
Black women are ridiculed by everyone-Black men, women, the media, White America, etc...to suggest that exploiting someone to make them what YOU decided they should be is an ignorant and misguided form of help.
No-I do not excuse women simply because they are women-but I am SICK AND TIRED of everyone giving the Black man a free pass and I will continue to hold them accountable for their actions-whether or not other Black people choose to follow.
Lastly, when you say "put yourself in that situation" it gives the wrong notion that the males are not responsible for their behavior-and alleviates them of responsibility. I suggest you pay attention to your language
theprogressiveblackw oman.c/o/m
@devilsadvocate07
Don't worry about trying to show these people that there's something wrong with the men in this picture. The majority of the comments on this post alone are a troubling sign of the ignorant MTO readership. Most of them don't even have the intellectual capacity or a simple moral consciousness to understand why there's so much more wrong with this picture than just the woman in it. Most of these MTO readers stand for NOTHING and are not about empowerment.
@allahuakbar:
She needs to be put down and ridiculed? You REALLY think that's the best solution??? If you're gonna put ALL the blame on the young lady, I think you could at least start with suggesting some therapy or empowerment classes. NOT disgusting and nasty jokes on MTO.COM.
You talk about fathers - so what would be your solution for the men in this picture? Or are you just gonna completely LET THEM OFF THE HOOK? Sadly enough - they ARE the fathers. And they're producing young black boys who will show the same type of blatent disrespect toward women.
There's WAAAY more wrong with this picture than just the young woman in it. Try looking beyond the surface and thinking about it's implications.
@misshugrad and TexasGlamourchic
I am sick and tired of the mentality in our community that insists on totally allievating Black men of responsibility and giving them permission and authority to rummage through Black women as they please. I am MOST disgusted with Black women who seem to insist on making it easier for men to disrespect them by pretending that blaming these women will somehow make it easier for them.
I realized that MTO and other Black blogs are not just bloggers but a true and sad reflection of the attitudes, culture and beliefs in the Black community.
Instead of just complaining, I decided to do something about it and created my own blog:theprogressiveblackw oman.c/o/m-just remove the slashes.
Please be active at my site and bring all the progressive Black women you know.
@knowthetruth
WEll it is safe to say that men run this world but that doesnt mean women are victims. If you read this blog the majority of the people on here condeming this female and saying nothing about these males are the Black women.
While I feel we must be critical of Black men-we cannot continue to allow Black women to contribute to this sexism for the own conveience.
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@devilsad
Yall are sitting here painting with an extemely broad brush, where in my comments am I not coming down on the men as well? First of all this female is in an environment where SCURGE frequent and is drunk on with a skirt half way up her bottom with no panties on and this is defended. As I clearly stated that she needs to feel embarassment of her foolish behavior and maybe she can learn from her mishap. Women are the teachers of our children and what they know is what they teach their young, and if it happens to be foolish,slutty, ignorant behavior then that's what her children will beget. My first statement was that we need more fathers but my words seem to be overlooked because oh no, no matter what women can't be held accountable for their own behavior, I am THE GREAT DEFENDER OF BLACK WOMEN for a reason, the same women whom I defend and point out their foolish ways and try to correct them down positive brothas like myself and defend the very beast whom exploit them far worse than any Black man can ever imagine. I would tell someone they are wrong out of love, and although it may be harsh it is needed, instead of trying to find excuses for not having panties on in public and getting drunk beyond your limit and then wanna play victim. would this happen in a library where she could be feeding her mind, more than likely not but this environment will more than likely produce this. Life is about choices, good or bad and unfortunately this is the real world and you have to pay for the choices that you make in this world. I hope she learned from her mistake. As far as if garbage is being placed in my neighboorhood and blaming the victim, no, I will clean my house and area up and hopefully set an example for others to emulate, so people are not just taught that's all, everyone needs to learn somehow, FOR THE RECORD AND I WILL SAY THIS AGAIN, MEN ARE NOT EXEMPT FROM THIS AND CONSTITUE A PERCENTAGE OF THIS PROBLEM AS WELL, Black men are given a pass by who: america, Black women/men, society, other races, NOT. Life is about decisions, you choose it you gotta live it. I am going to continue to defend and lift up my sistas and sometimes tough love is the only way you can achieve this. As far as drinking, I never said that drinking is a sign of self hate, i clearly said the contact lenses, subconsiously that is. What is so special about going to clubs getting drunk in public anyways, male/female? I know this is an emotional topic for you ladies and I know where you are coming from but put emotion aside and read my comments in context from the beginning.
Ok, three questions. 1. Why, lord, why does she have those contact in, with her complexion. I am that complexion, and I would NEVER walk around in those. She looks SCARY!! 2. Why dosen't she invest in VASELINE, it is only 1.00, 3. Why is she DRUNK like that in the club, where are her friends. I tell you about these W***** today. SMH! ------- I always hit the NAIL on the head with my comments.
GUESSJEANS...BLACK WOMEN EXPLOIT THEMSELVES...SOME OF THEM DO...A GIRL LIKE ME HAS CLASS...AINT NO WAY IN HELL IMA GO IN A CLUB ASHY AS HELL...THEN HAVE TOO MANY DRINKS...ITS NOT CUTE...AND U END UP MAKING A FOOL OUT OF URSELF...LIKE DIS DUMBASS HOOCHIE...IM STICKIN TO MY CRANBERRY AND C'ROC...2 OF EM MAYBE 3...AND IM GOOD FOR THE NIGHT!!!
@alla
The saddest part is that you ACTUALLY believe what your saying. You are by NO means a defender of Black women-but simply the typical Black male who has decided that the entire moral standing of the Black community must rest on the shoulders of Black women.
You are and will be nothing more than a chavanuist Black male.
"I would tell someone they are wrong out of love, and although it may be harsh it is needed, instead of trying to find excuses for not having panties on in public and getting drunk beyond your limit and then wanna play victim. would this happen in a library where she could be feeding her mind, more than likely not but this environment will more than likely produce this" ---- So now Black women have to hide in their homes or the library to be free of predator behavior? Because it is TOO much to ask of Black men to simply CONTROL themselves? This WOULD be funny if you were not serious. I do not know what insecure Black woman would allow you to be her defender..
I am done speaking with you.
theprogressiveblackw oman.c/o/m
@devilad
You are truly misguided trying to twist my words to to benefit your opinion, you go ahead to clubs with no panties on and get drunk, hey if that's your thang I ain't judging you. Who said they have to hide somewhere, I gave examples. It's progressive women like you who can't stand reason. Don't worry, I'll defend all the precious sistas out their and you have whitey defend you.
OMG. Themn n*iggas took her ass home and bout 15 of 'em ran a train on her ass. and I do mean that literally. HER ASS! I bet she woke up with a gaping hole. She ain't have no friend with her or nothing? hmph! That's the one thing about OTHER women I can't figure out. They put on the littlest, tightest, so then you can see right through it dress, go to the club ALONE, get lifted past what they can tolerate, and expect not to get gropped and raped and [EXPLETIVE]. Stupid b*itches!! Take your drunk ass home then!!
