You are making too much sense
But, you are looking at it from a normal perspective…you need to look at it from a cave rat perspective.
You need to understand the modus operandi of most cave rats.
You see…I had a friend in college who used to embrace the “thug” element when she was a youth. She taught me more about humanity than any humanities courses I took in college.
It is interesting….and I will paraphrase what she so eloquently explained to me.
Do you know why most women seek the “thugs” or the badboys ?.... Yeah, there is an element of excitement to it…there is an element of danger or masculinity that attracts them….there is an element of addiction…more specifically drug addiction …there is an element of money and materialism…and lastly there is an element of *** involve. …all of these elements may play a factor….but, there is one element that very few women would ever admit to.
I asked, “what element is that?” and she said….to paraphrase
Many of these black women, especially when they are young, are not looking for any thing stable or long term. They are seeking a thrill, a nice joy ride, filled with excitement. A nice guy, a sincere guy they would never be attracted to…because he represents stability and commitment.
It is commitment they don’t want…it is commitment they can’t give…that’s why many of these young women will seek a man whose image is marred with abuse, violence and criminal behaviors.
Because, they understand these type of men will either end-up dead, locked-up, strung-out, or leave when the going gets tough…but, these are the qualities that attracted them at first
So, in order to hide their sickness and inability to commit…many of them result to the old defense mechanism…the one where “there are no good black men left”….or ” all black men are DL….or “ all good black men are dating white women.”
You see…they need to put up that defense in order to conceal their own sickness
It is now I am starting to understand the full meaning of what she said….
You see…if 67% of black households are fatherless…do you believe it’s only young black boys who are being affected? Are we that simple to think, young black girls are growing up psychologically healthy in this type of environment?
Ahahah….let’s be real…these young black girls are growing up in environment where they’ve never seen their mother in a committed relationship….some have even witnessed multitude of sexual partners ( both males and females) walking in and out of their mother’s lives.
Do you understand the twisted cycle that many of them, subconsciously or consciously have rendered themselves to….
So, the story goes…but the media…will never tell you this….because there is a reason the Power Structure love to keep *** afloat in this society…ahahaha!!!!
Side note…ahaha…white girls are not immune to this sickness as well….ahahahah!!!!
Have a good afternoon….