: MediaTakeOut.com showed you pics yesterday of Lil Wayne’s ex Toya’s new man NFLer James Hardy. Well now one of MediaTakeOut.com’s readers told us some mess about him. Here’s what we were told:
While he played college football/basketball for Indiana University, he was arrested for assaulting his baby momma.And before you all go thinking this is just some crazy rumor – here’s what we found in a 2006 article printed on the EXTREMELY RELIABLE website Scout.com:His friends and teammates said it was out of drunken rage, but nonetheless, unacceptable! Just tell Toya to keep her guard up!!!
Hardy was arrested May 19 after Ft. Wayne police responded to a 911 call at [ADDRESS REDACTED] at 5:40 p.m. On the call, dispatchers reportedly could hear profanity and screaming before the caller hung up.DANG … Hopefully he ain’t like that anymore ….When police later arrived at the scene, Hardy’s girlfriend was found sitting across the street from the house crying, and her shirt was reportedly torn and she had marks on the side and back of her neck.
A probable cause affidavit states Hardy struck his girlfriend of seven years and their infant son.
lmao @ someone's beauty being able to attract someone who will treat them with respect! Are people that f'cking STUPID!?!? I swear muh *** must have the IQ of a *** grape fruit. Beauty doesn't attract people who will respect you... your values and standards will. Focus on beauty, body or money and you'll end up like this beautiful loser, or Lauren L, or Halle. smh
NO EXCUSE FOR A MAN TO HIT A WOMAN LET ALONE A BABY. SUPPOSE TO BE MAN ENOUGH TO WALK AWAY.MAY GOD BLESS TOYA&HER DAUGHTER & KEEP THEM SAFE FROM HARM. SURELY HE'S SMART ENOUGH TO NOT TRY THAT W/TOYA®INAE,TOYA FROM NOLA(DON'T MIND SQUARING UP)THEN SHE HER FAM,CASH MONEY FAM, TINY&TI.HOPEFULLY HOMEBOY HAS CHANGED.WHY HE HIT HIS OWN BABY THO'.SIGNS OF PROBLEMS. I'M GLAD SHE TRYIN TO MOVE ON & GET OVER WAYNE IF YOU STAND FOR NOTHING YOU'LL FALL FOR ANYTHING...
well i lik toya nd i really hope it works out for them...this mite b her first relationship since wayne so giv ha a chance, everyone is entitled to at least 1 r 2 *** ups afta a bad relationship *** my opinion?? he mite b a changd man, so u live laugh nd love toya!! if it doesn't work out u shake that *** off nd keep it movin represent us girls from tha ***.O.
Ft.WAYNE police ain't go be th ones on his a$$ if anything happens to them. It will be more like LiL WAYNE. So what they ain't together he still loves her. She has to be here for their child, because with all he's doing to himself who the hell else go take care of her like she do. Besides Toya might not even be serious with him. She could be just enjoying life or even gettin her some head.
im all for people make mistakes learn and grow from them!! lets hope this is something from his past and he has become a better person!
if he is still this monster there are some GOONS out there he dont wanna see if he puts his hands on TOYA or her and expecially her kid!!
Where they from they see a ***!ng dead body erryday the MUrda Capital of tha World!! B'LEEDat!!
DUDE IS *** SURE BIG ENOUGH TO HURT SOMEONE...But it still makes him as small as Bow Wow aka Lil Mama if he's putting his hands on a woman and even smaller like Gary Coleman if he's definitely abusing a child.." So in my mind if this is true then he's nothing but a little inch high btch *** coward!" True Talk.Brooklyn Lives-Maino what up son....
and yall on here talkin bout he betta then wayne obviously not since he can't keep his *** hands to hisself i rather have a man wit several kids than a man dat beats my *** and Toya needs to really do something wit her life instead of just sittin around waitin for some handsome rich man to sweep her off her feet cuz sumthin seems real golddiggerry bout her
Why are there so many chicks on this site encouraging Toya to stick out with this man?! The article clearly stated, he abuses women and children. She is a woman, she has a child. If she was lookin' for a healthy happy relationship, she would not settle for someone who has a history of violence. Obviously there is an alternative motive here. Money, appearance, ***, desperation, etc.
IM FROM INDIANAPOLIS, FT.WAYNE, WHERE JAMES IS FROM AND I KNOW THE CAT PERSONALLY, THIS WHOLE STORY WAS BLOWN OUT OF PROPORTION, THE LOCAL PAPER, INDIANAPOLIS STAR, EVN RETRACTED THE STORYO ONCE THEY FOUND OUT. MTO MAKE SURE YA'LL GOT YO FACTS STRAIGHT BEFORE U GO BASHING PEOPLE, ESPECIALLY ONES I KNOW!!!!
@ Dreayonn
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Ahahaha!!!
You are making too much sense
But, you are looking at it from a normal perspective…you need to look at it from a cave rat perspective.
You need to understand the modus operandi of most cave rats.
You see…I had a friend in college who used to embrace the “thug” element when she was a youth. She taught me more about humanity than any humanities courses I took in college.
It is interesting….and I will paraphrase what she so eloquently explained to me.
Do you know why most women seek the “thugs” or the badboys ?.... Yeah, there is an element of excitement to it…there is an element of danger or masculinity that attracts them….there is an element of addiction…more specifically drug addiction …there is an element of money and materialism…and lastly there is an element of *** involve. …all of these elements may play a factor….but, there is one element that very few women would ever admit to.
I asked, “what element is that?” and she said….to paraphrase
Many of these black women, especially when they are young, are not looking for any thing stable or long term. They are seeking a thrill, a nice joy ride, filled with excitement. A nice guy, a sincere guy they would never be attracted to…because he represents stability and commitment.
It is commitment they don’t want…it is commitment they can’t give…that’s why many of these young women will seek a man whose image is marred with abuse, violence and criminal behaviors.
Because, they understand these type of men will either end-up dead, locked-up, strung-out, or leave when the going gets tough…but, these are the qualities that attracted them at first
So, in order to hide their sickness and inability to commit…many of them result to the old defense mechanism…the one where “there are no good black men left”….or ” all black men are DL….or “ all good black men are dating white women.”
You see…they need to put up that defense in order to conceal their own sickness
It is now I am starting to understand the full meaning of what she said….
You see…if 67% of black households are fatherless…do you believe it’s only young black boys who are being affected? Are we that simple to think, young black girls are growing up psychologically healthy in this type of environment?
Ahahah….let’s be real…these young black girls are growing up in environment where they’ve never seen their mother in a committed relationship….some have even witnessed multitude of sexual partners ( both males and females) walking in and out of their mother’s lives.
Do you understand the twisted cycle that many of them, subconsciously or consciously have rendered themselves to….
So, the story goes…but the media…will never tell you this….because there is a reason the Power Structure love to keep *** afloat in this society…ahahaha!!!!
Side note…ahaha…white girls are not immune to this sickness as well….ahahahah!!!!
Have a good afternoon….
You can't believe everything you read or hear, but from what I have seen on the show, Toya seems to be experienced enough to be able to see 'through' some stuff. I think she's been through enough that she can pick up on abuse. She's lived a life of abuse and while many people still feed the abuse fire by the choices they make, I hope and pray that she will 'see' and 'feel' this person before it's too late.
hmmm interesting
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I do not condone abusing a woman or a child and I think Toya should leave his ***.
***MTO RULE*** If you are going to type a long *** message on Microsoft Word, can you at least introduce a new theory that is new to the African American psyche.
Being pretentious with this sophisticated BS is tired if you are going to do it at least cite your sources.
Some of you need to take a deep breathe and get over yourselves. Some of the readers have degrees and are not fooled by the pseudo-educated BS. Get your own blogs please!
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@ OTgrad
***MTO RULE*** If you are going to type a long *** message on Microsoft Word, can you at least introduce a new theory that is new to the African American psyche.
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*** MTO rule…I don’t live by the European Rules…what makes you think I will live by MTO rules
A theory by its very definition means work in progress….a theory never explain everything and is never intended to be absolute fact. It is the best explanation to a phenomenon…at times the most logical explanation. Said explanation may be revised when new information or facts are introduced.
With that being said….you are free to modify, add or subtract to this above theory…ahaahah
@ OTgrad
Being pretentious with this sophisticated BS is tired if you are going to do it at least cite your sources.
====== Being Plenteous? Cite Source? Which source…Freud…Carl Jung…Karl Marx
Which Intellectual white supremacist would you like me to quote….ahahah!
Wait…maybe I can quote Mayou Angelou…Oprah Winfrey…Angela Davis….
Ahahah!!!!
Perhaps, I can quote my King James Version of the bible. Ahahah!!!
What makes you think their theory has more credence than that of a *** or a vagabond who spent his life roaming the streets….ahahaha!!
I’ve heard rappers “spit” more credible words…if you want…I could cite them….ahahah
@ OTgrad
Some of you need to take a deep breathe and get over yourselves. Some of the readers have degrees and are not fooled by the pseudo-educated BS. Get your own blogs please!
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The truth is always threatening….I know….this your defense mechanism coming into work. If you can’t slander the message, slander the messenger…ahahaha
And I agree with…”pseudo-educated BS”…..the dumbest *** I’ve met were the ones who held MS and PhD degrees…..ahahah!!! It’s no wonder you are offended…nothing worst than a simple Negro who thinks her degree has brought her some credence in this world….ahahaha
Ahahaha….Men never needed college degrees to make sense of this world… you just need the spirit of truth….it’s starting you in the face….but, so many of you can’t handle the truth, and therefore, seek comfort in lies….ahahah!!!
And thus, you hide behind your degrees…Not once I mentioned my degrees….No college degree can measure up to human experience I’ve amassed…ahahaha…and If I am pretentious because of this.…I would rather be that, than be delusional….
Ahahaha…*** outta here….I am out…
@EXCUSEME...YOU BETTER PREACH....THE BETTER LOOKING YOU ARE, THE HARDER IT IS TO FIND SOMEONE WHO TAKES YOU SERIOUS OR LOOKS BEYOND THE SURFACE..THERE ARE PLENTY OF GOOD LOOKING GIRLS WHO ARE SMART AND RESPESCT THEMSELVES...BUT BLACK MEN ARE SHALLOW AND WILL DOG ALL OVER THESE WOMEN.....PLUS, WHEN YOU'RE ATTRACTIVE, GUYS SEEMS TO THINK YOU ALWAYS HAVE A MAN...IT'S MORE GOOD LOOKING PEOPLE SITTING AT HOME ON A FRIDAY *** THAN PEOPLE WOULD IMAGINE...LOL!!
IF HE BEAT HIS BABY MAMA/SON,HELL BEAT TOYA. IF TOYA GET HIM MAD ENOUGH EVENTUALLY HE WILL BEAT HER TOO. THIS CYCLE DOES NOT STOP WITH THESE TYPE OF ABUSERS. I CALL THESE RAGE ABUSERS IF THEY ARE PROVOKE INTO MADNESS THEY WILL REACT WITH VIOLENCE. ITS HARD TOO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THESE TYPE YOU HAVE TO WALK ON PINS /NEEDLES THROUGH OUT THE RELATIONSHIP
@ da_advocator BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHH I wish you would cite your sources because you write a lot but you dont say sh!t. Its funny how you always jumping on brothers nuts to bash black women with the same *** that the White man has been saying all along. And you really think you are dropping knowledge on someone because Microsoft help you use big words and organize your thoughts.
I am not impressed by your philosphical BS.
Stay in school my young A-rab brother you need to develop your arguments more because they are tired and played.
Get the *** outta! Im out!
Don't have a clue about dude, but from what I've seen of Toya on her and Tinys' show is that she is a strong young woman who has been through some things! Dude better watch himself; cause I don't think she is up for no abuse, verbal or physical...and hell to the know and I mean know just like I spelled it; about her child! He might get one in on her but I bet it will be his last on her at least I hope so, she seems very determined to grow in the positive! I pray Gods blessings on her and Tiny as well! AND, everyone who just wants to live their best life! GOD BLESS!
And to whosoneva, "hustla is" get on with your lame A@@ comment..evidently you caint treat nothin like nothin cause you aint nothin or else you would have some consideration/compassion for the plight/struggle of someone else! Hope that wasn't "Over ur head"! Bottom line this ish is 4 real, u should hope this young woman is fine and not resort 2 callin her a ho, jus cuz u confused *** angry B@%#h! Get on with yo lame ish!
Good thing I said.."Seemingly- Nice"...ya never know by the looks do ya?...Hmmm Well rather he was drunk or not, that in my book will never excuse him for his behavior that ***.*** hit her, but the baby?....Repeat offenders start with just one episode.If the police was called and it's been verified?..He's a *** and I don't like him...next!
*** up hellhollyweird! u love those white girls. nothing makes yo day brighter than to wake up whiter. get off this site, it's too black for u!!
as far as toya is concerned she should run in the opposite direction. i would hate for her to have to go nawlins on his azz. she's too pretty for prison!!!!
he looks like he likes to beat up on b.itches...then again, looks can be deceiving.
however, toya needs to stop tryna be seen dating a man other than wayne. she saw how stupid her a.ss looked on her show, still pawning and fawning after lil' wayne...the ex-husband who has had one baby on you...and two more on the way..who has been over you since your divorce in 2004 and probably way before then.
sad that she looks like a fish out of water--desperate and in need of some air (read between the lines- air= a man, any man, besides the one who doesn't want her tired, thirsty a.ss anymore).
@strawberry972c- how stupid do you sound...like b.itches from new orleans or louisiana don't get their a.ss beat by their boyfriend's or husband's? it's obvious that you haven't seen the video where the dude started beating the brakes off of his baby momma-and they were both from louisiana. women everywhere, from all over, from every socioeconomic class are prone to be in a domestic violence situation. how ignorant do you sound? ignorance clearly has no prejudice.
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if he did this people dont change only God changes them. Wayne screwed up Toya fine and the bodys right plus she love this dude since she was a kid and the girls Wayne with would have never gave him the time of day in real life. he left the chick that really loved him. Good luck hommey when your time wears off your nowhere
