: MediaTakeOut.com has some very sad news to report, two nights ago Mary J Blige and Kendu got into an argument at her album release party in New York. And word is, the argument ended with Kendu getting his AZZ WHOOPED
According to our PRETTY RELIABLE sources, Kendu and Mary started arguing after Kendu had Mary's brother REMOVED from the VIP section. And at the same time allowed some of his favorite VIDEO VIXENS inside.
Editor's Update: MediaTakeOut.com's insiders tell us that Mary J Blige, an admitted ALCOHOLIC, appeared to be drinking that night - and that may have contributed to Mary's over the top behavior
Details on what went down next are sketchy . . . some say Mary PUNCHED Kendu in the face, others say Mary spazzed out and started BITING him, and others say that it was Mary's brother that did the fighting, while Mary was egging him on. But one things for certain, Kendu ended up getting physically manhandled.
And it gets better. After getting manhandled, Kendu was escorted out of the nightclub - without Mary.
DANG!!!
Editor's Update: For all those who DIDN'T believe us, the NY Post's PAGE SIX is reporting the same thing:
Mary J. Blige punched husband Kendu Isaacs in the face at her record release party at club M2 Tuesday night. The singer slugged Isaacs, drawing blood, after she thought he was flirting with a waitress.And here's what the NY Daily News is saying:"She turned to him and was screaming, 'You're not going to ruin my night,' " our witness says. "They got up in each other's faces before someone tried to separate them, at which point she shoved the guy aside, pulled back and popped [Isaacs] in the face."
The source said Blige, Isaacs and their entourage were whisked through a door to the attached club Pink, which was closed. Our witness relates, "She was yelling at him, 'What are you gonna do, Chris Brown me?'
One partygoer told the Daily News that the 38-year-old Grammy winner flew into a jealous rage because Isaacs was paying too much attention to a waitress at the club.Members of the press ARE REQUIRED to credit MediaTakeOut.com for this ORIGINAL REPORT"Mary hauled off and smacked him," the source said.
Blige then warned Isaacs not to even think about retaliating. "She said, 'You ain't going to go Chris Brown on me, are you?'" according to a source.
I hate white media and ibitterbetty: YALL [EXPLETIVE] DONT KNOW WHAT WENT DOWN! MTO ALWAYS HAVE SOME PRETTY INACCURATE STORIES SO LESARN THE TRUTH BRE ANYBODY STARTS JUDGING! Yall talking ish about my girl Mary....Beyonce aint [EXPLETIVE] and will never be on the same level as Mary. Thats why she's the QUEEN!! its always a hater trying to knock the next down bcuz they have something they want.....yall need to get a life and stop tripping on her. She's making a living and living her life....so go do the same!!
@Persian_Princess Yes, Mary is a homewrecker. She gave a interview about 3 or 4 years ago in Essence or Ebony Mag. where she stated that Kendu was married when she met him and that she felt bad about the situation. They were shacking up and she put Kendu out until he took care of things with his wife and kids. If I find the link I will post it. Karma is a B#tch. People like to give celeberties a pass because of there status but i don't. Alica Keys, Fantasia, Angelina and many others will get whats coming to them. I could never mess with a married man. Its not worth it. My Mom taught me better
OK PEOPLE ... TIS THE SEASON TO BE JOLLY! ACT YOUR AGE UP IN THA CLUB MARY AND KENDU. MARY DON'T BE TRIPPIN ABOUT SOME WAITRESS, SHE AIN'T GOT NOTHIN ON YOU. IF HE CAN'T KEEP HIS EYES TO HIMSELF, HE CAN GO BE WITH WAITRESS, I GOTTA WARN HIM THOUGH, THE MONEY WON'T BE SO GOOD! CHOOSE YOUR BATTLES WISELY KENDU, B4 YOU FIND YOURSELF OUT ON YOUR A$$!
Ihatewhitemedia
Co-sign! Same thing happened with Clare Danes and Mary Louis Parker! Mary was married and pregnant to some dude, and here comes homewrecking Clare Danes (Terminator 3)! Mary has the last laugh thou cause now she's got a few Oscars and a hit show (Weeds). Clare Danes is with with a new dude, and she is jobless!!! Lol
As much as I LOVE Mary, I have to say that what she did was mad corny. I understand being upset if he was looking at someone else, but there is always a better way to handle yourself. I wish them the best though, when she talks abt him she always has great things to say and they look good together. I hope things work out for them.
Oh and no matter who's doing the hitting it's not okay!
how embarassing, nothing worse than a shorty thats an angry drunk...shyt i had to haul off and str8 two piece this drunk chick before at the club! they will swing on yo ass in a second...
just kidding, of course it was it was open fisted ladies, i aint gonna chris brown ya, ima a muthaphuckin gentleman. lol
So sounds like MTO got its story from these more reputable although sometimes questionable organizations, and changed a few minor parts of the story.
But I hate it when I guy gets struck by his girl and everyone wants to say he got his ass beat. What is he supposed to do? What any man supposed to do. If he hit her back you won't even hear about her striking him, just about him getting arrested and how much the public is now behind her.
Not Cool Mary. U was just all on tv promoting your center for young girls and this is the example you setting? Women got to realize its not cool to put yo hands on a man either. And then gon taunt him, bringing up Chris Brown. She woulda felt stupid if he whooped that a$$. Good Job Kendu for controlling yo sef.
I SMELLA BREAKUP WIT DIS ONE OR PERHAPS KENDU SIGNIN DEM PAPERS DEY GOT NO KIDS TOGETHER 2 WELL SEE HOW FAR DIS MARRIAGE CONTINUES AFTER WHAT HAPPENED 2 DUDE AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS WRONG DONT MATTER WHOS GETTIN CHRIS BROWNED.I THINK MARY MIGHT BE SINGIN DEM SADSONGS AGAIN AND I KNOW SHE DONT WANNA GO BACK 2 DAT.
Looking at some of these responses shows just how hypocritical people are......Mary put her hands on her husband. That is assault! How can you expect anybody to be outraged against violence towards women when women feel it is totally acceptable to hit whoever they want too! THIS IS WRONG AND A CRIME AND IT SHOULD NOT be ridiculed...your even trying to clown her husband because he took it and didn't whoop her ass in retaliation!!! He was apparently being a real man and you clown on him. Now if he'd punched her in the mouth you and these chowder headed females would have been crying foul-HYPOCRITES!!!!
I was just starting to think how preachy about G-d Mary has become to all her fans lately and thought she sounded phoney. I know earlier this summer it was reported here that she had gone back to drinking after admitting she was an alcoholic which once you are one you stay one. She also looks bloated and heavier now like she doesn't work out anymore. I bet she got drunk at the club and acted out. Time to let that alcohol go, I'm sure her label is pissed. This is not the time for her to act up, with a promotional tour and interviews to be done.
Whooo hooo!!!!
Yeahhhhh for Mary. Women everywhere, particularly you cave rats, this is how it is done. Praise ole Saint Nick….Mary was given the gift of jabs, left hooks and uppercuts.
Is this is how the founder of Foundation for the Advancement of Women Now, which is said to help the advance of women of color…the question is, the advancement of women of color over whom? Certainly it can be over Jewish or white men who help fund this organization….I don’t think it is over white, Asian or Latin women, for they’ve carved out their on niche in this society. I mean, can you imagine Asian women being supplanted by black women…what would happen to all the weave shops around the US…a fukking tragedy for the Negro woman.
So, the question is…whom is her organization, purportedly trying to advance black women against….I give you Negros three guesses….ahhh fukk it.. you already know the answer.
Mary…you’ve come a long way…from project rat, to drug feign, to alcoholic, to sexual deviant, to being a battered woman, to multiplatinum selling artist, to a voodoo witch, to FAWN and finally to beating-up your wife, Kendu.
No self-respecting man, who understands your history and the pact that you’ve made with the head-honchos would ever get involved with you. But, Mr. Kendu and you are one in the same…in fact, Mary, continue to put his ass in place.
Make sure he realizes, you are the modern day black woman, and you will beat a Nig/gas ass for even starring art you wrong.
Lol…gotta love this shyt…hey…Merry Xmas ( btw…are we celebrating his death or his birth)…I don’t know anymore…from is immaculate conception, to his crucifixion and to his rebirth, I don’t know if Jesus is coming or going.
Ahahaha….lol…you Negros…go out and shop ‘tll you drop….lol….ahahahahah
once again the HYPOCRISY of MTO sticks its ugly head out, I really need to stop coming here before I get jaded into believing every woman that is the victim of domestic violence has the same beliefs the majority of you have and deserved getting their ass kicked for putting their hands on the man first
All Mary did was show us how most black women act today. Black women today have this independent attitude...and that's y black men and black women can't get along. Women its in men nature to be in control...to be head of household. Women if u don't sit on the passager side of the car and let a man drive...u gon keep having accidents. And u wonder y black men r running to white women. She punched him in his eye and dared him to hit her back. Come on Mary that $hit could have been solved later at home.
da_advocator I find you very suspect. That "weave" comment is beneath you normally. Most men I know, really don't care. ====
It is what it is
The weave business is multi-million dollar a year industry and the Asian has cornered 70% of this market and its major buyers are African American women
You can’t dispute that…You can’t deny that.
Now…what is your real issue with my comments….
My real issue is non-existent really. The Asians will be very pissed to learn that they missed one, that's all. 70% of the weave business probably consist of Women. Men. Black. White. Children. Dolls. Hispanic, and even Asians themselves. So I guess your assumptions of what I believe and know are wrong.. Just wrong like those phony statistics.
Some of yall chicks in here saying wait till she get home half if not all would have handled it the same way. That's right Mary check his ass right there don't give him no time to come up with a lie by time you get home. I bet the next time his ass will think twice before flirting wit some off the wall broad.
My real issue is non-existent really. The Asians will be very pissed to learn that they missed one, that's all. 70% of the weave business probably consist of Women. Men. Black. White. Children. Dolls. Hispanic, and even Asians themselves. So I guess your assumptions of what I believe and know are wrong.. Just wrong like those phony statistics. ===
Your issue can’t be non-existent…for you made it clear you have issue with my statement and the statistics.
As my old college professor used to say...if you feel these statistics are phony...go ahead and create your own...I am looking forward to reading your findings... I give you a year...you never know...you can market it to industries and make a fortune.
I’ll even help you…let’s shine some light on the hair-care industry. I realized, the many Negros, don’t want to toil and sweat anymore, but loves the fine jewels and riches.
Juicytoostie
Actually I wouldn't have handle it in that fashion! If he has been cheating on Mary then she should have left him then! Why wait 2 embrass ur husband in front of a large crowd?! I don't believe in laying my hands on anyone especially not a man...esp not my man because its not only dangerous and wrong, but its quite emasculating! Mary's notiarity prob already does a fine job of that, and its prob the reason for his flirting and infidelity.
being judgemental about what we see, read or hear can be cruel because we don't know what transpired BEFORE this situation happened
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I agree...but, interestingly enough, this rule seems to apply only to certain groups of society...exclusive of black men...
ahahaha...don't you just love it...cast a picture of a black man...and he is all types of Dog and defile names....ahahaha!!!
jabugy wrote "Black women with these attitudes. White women here we come".-------------------------------------------------------------------------------
You are weak. Yes, Mary is trash but your comments are too. If you want a white woman, then go get you one. But don't use black women as an excuse for your preference. You sound like Tiger who recently got his azz whipped by his white wife. LOL!
da_advocator I have your report now: There are at least 1/3 of men who contribute to the weave business. I don't have to research it. I'll just take..let's say..10 subjects and will find nearly 3 of them to be a cross-dressing homosexual who like to play dress-up. I feel so confident in saying so, I will put that information out as statistical truth and run with it. Any objections?
Why is this turning into a session to bash the black woman, oh yeah I c..hi Duh_advocator! Question answered!
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You call it bashing, I call it soul cleansing... The truth can be painful...I know...especially in the manner I deliver it... I make no apologies for my delivery.
But, trust me…the day I bash black women on here…you would know it and it would leave a bitter taste in your mouth for weeks.
I am not in the bashing business…nor am I in the sugar-coating business.
It is what is it…the truth unabashed…
Da_advocator
Y r u putting the issues of the black community on front street? We can go tit for tat with regards to the neurosis of the bm and bw.....ur an idiot! All the things wrong in our community and u pick the most trival! Discuss aids, poeverty, single mothering, racism, diabetes, high blood pressure,obesity, and undereducation! Stop consuming urself with thoughts of the Yaki 1B that SOME bw choose to rock!
I agree...but, interestingly enough, this rule seems to apply only to certain groups of society...exclusive of black men...
ahahaha...don't you just love it...cast a picture of a black man...and he is all types of Dog and defile names--da_advocator
Aren't you doing the exact same thing? Now add black "before" the word "men" in my new "research" and you will have a "credible" statistic. Isn't that how they usually work?
da_advocator I have your report now: There are at least 1/3 of men who contribute to the weave business. I don't have to research it. I'll just take..let's say..10 subjects and will find nearly 3 of them to be a cross-dressing homosexual who like to play dress-up. I feel so confident in saying so, I will put that information out as statistical truth and run with it. Any objections?
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Business 101…narrow down your focus group.
I understand homo males are big purchasers of wigs and even weave…I am not concerned with them. Unless they drive more than 50% of hair care market, I am not going to waste time or energy on them.
Here’s what…tell me how much do black women spend per capita on hair care, weave, etc..and tell me how much of the market they own..
Let’s shed some light…maybe the Negro woman can start owning as oppose to spending…
Hey look women this is not me bashing black women...I luv my black women. I'm just sayin the way Mary acted was a typical black woman with an attitude. And yes I do understand that a lot of men act like boys, but not all. Ladies once u pick up this independent attitude u gon chase away the gud men. That's all I'm sayin.
Ihatewhitemedia and bitter, STFU! first of all you don't own someone just because you're married to them thats why they call it "divorce" people get them every day, I like Ms. Blige, she can definately get it! and... she did age gracefully, I dont think she's 40 yet but she looks damn good for her age and she has some beautiful skin! she's still doing make-up and skin commercials! Jealous azz hoez just mad because at her age she looks better then you in your teens and 20's, Hoez! dont hate "exfoliate" LOL!
Come on this a bad moment for Mary. She has been in the business way too long to not know how to conduct herself in public. If you had a problem with ya husband then just pull him to the side and have a calm discussion. She should have took the high road and just continued on with her party. This is an embarrassment and now she going to have to explain and apologize for her behavior in public.
da_advocator and Ms Good at the same time. All we need is Sexi_Choco, stormzoe,clarkthink,and Cracker_Devil and it's on and crackin,lol.
*sidenote* Ms Good and da_advocator, I could just see the two of you going at it in person, and then passionately ending the night,lmao! The classic matching of wits!
Actually I meant exactly what I typed but my feelings are we don't know what transpired before this situation kicked off but nor did I say it was his fault..If it had been the other way around ....He would have been apprehended on the spot with the headlines reading MJB's hubby abused her
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Do we ever know what transpires between to anonymous individuals…When you get your news information, aren’t you always going by hear-say. When a NEWS agency report on an event, are you ever there to give an account? Don’t we always form opinion on what is reported by the white media?
So, the question to you is…what makes one event plausible and believable and the other event implausible and unbelievable?
So, if the situation were reverse…would you be saying the same thing…or would you be calling him a woman beater?
Okay, da_advocator, you object my research findings. Here's where the problem lies: It's my hypothesis,(Are 1/3 of bm contributing to the weave industry?) control group(universal mind control) and dependent variable (response, which I can safely assume will have only objections from bm) The results: Yes. I find that roughly 3 out of 10 bm are contributing to the weave industry. Somehow, I don't think many would oject it, if I put it out there.
Silly right?
@ kimpeach, I didn't say all black women. U came in on the azz end of another debate I was having. I luv my black women, I do. But only the ones with gud sense. Its just those attitude that some black women carry today, like Mary. And please don't use tigers situation of a black man getting his azz whiped by a white woman, cause tiger woods is not black.
My take on this is this is what you get when you deal with savages. This guy is a lame for ever letting or tolerating his woman putting her hands on him,(if true) What is a savage? A savage is a person that has no knowledge of self and is living a filthy and beast life. Uncouth, uncivilized, scourge, and last but not least hoodrat!
@ da advocater You are a FAG! Its easy to tell from your BITTER writings. And Im mixed so I only half ass give a damn. Oh, a being a FAG, let me guess, youre from that FILTHY ASS GHETTO called ATLANTA! Yup. No need 2 hit me back, I keep hit MOVIN
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Didn't i tell you, your feminist shame tactics don't work on me... Calling me a fag, while broads like yourselves, get turned on while looking at women's asses, is hypocritical and diabolic.
While you at it...go ahead and call me a woman-hater, a woman basher, small penis, can't get woman...ahahaha...
fukk outta here...Like i said, the truth hurts…
Okay, da_advocator, you object my research findings. Here's where the problem lies: It's my hypothesis,(Are 1/3 of bm contributing to the weave industry?) control group(universal mind control) and dependent variable (response, which I can safely assume will have only objections from bm) The results: Yes. I find that roughly 3 out of 10 bm are contributing to the weave industry. Somehow, I don't think many would oject it, if I put it out there.
Silly right?
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You are better than that…don’t give me some half-ass print on a page and call it research…again, Negros afraid to the leg work involve. You are disappointed in the statistics…go out there and create your own
Other wise, you have no leg to complain.
Don't worry, da_advocator, The bad news is if ever these findings are released as "facts" then you will have supporters from 100% of bw. The "good news" is that 70% of them will be wearing Yaki No.? GTFOH ===
I don't even know what Yaki is...see, that's why you should do the research....lol...
ahahahah
Heyyy Allahuakbar. I have to agree. My thing is no celebrity is above ridicule on this site..not from where I sit. This is the time and place to do so. Now, does anyone recall any strange circumstances about Kendu and Mary when they first got together? I do. Let's just say that the law that "opposites attract" was applied here. It's safe to say that these 2 should have never gotten together for they are 1 in the same! K-ci and Mary pt.2
Well, I guess there is more drama and things are not just fine with her and kendu. lol Seriously, I love her and hope whatever is going on with them works out. I had hoped this kind of situation was in her past. Maybe Kendu is not who she needs him to be and she is going to have to find a better way to deal that.
and in case anyone didn't know it already; Dec 25th is the celebration of Nimrod's birthday! Santa Claus is a representation of him stealing the knowledge and wealth of our ancestors and bringing it back to white civilization. Pagan sh*t! On easter I will break down that holiday and all other subsequent holidays!
side note...don't know how this became a debate about weave...lol...I don't own one and god forbid I ever get involve with a woman who is passionate about her weave....lol
Side Note...women every where...black woman...should be proud...Mary handle her business... I'll be the first to admit, some of the Negros deserve a beating...Next time Mary...use the left jab...and counter with the right hook... ahahaha...lol..hey...
listen up...this was fun...Ms.Good...I am serious, I give you a year...shed some light...this should be interesting.
@ Tastysis, but its true that most black men come from a ghetto and is a baby daddy. So if someone white say that a black man typically r those thing, I would agree. What's wrong with coming from a ghetto...nothing. What's wrong with being a baby daddy...nothing. I'm not sterotyping our black women. But most of the women on MTO today thinks what Mary did was right. That's crazy
I just read that Marys publicist is denying this story and saying that her husband and her and very happy and spending the holidays with their three children. I don't see how she can deny publicly beating her husband up in a nightclub full of people. But now might be a good time for her to come off the preachy image she is portraying, she is still certified hood and proved it.
This was bound to happen, everytime when Mary talks about being soooo happy, and with my man this and my man that, it only shows that everything is not perfect. And what happened there is hard steam commin out of the sauna. Merry x-mas/Happy Kwanza to all....Mary Kickass to you Kendu.
Remember how you get em is how you keep em, or worse.
mar j blige What you did ( if it went down this way) was crude, but with that being said. Your true fans will understand. Many in the fashion industry that have worked with Mrs Blige understands that she is a warm,loving,and supportive to new design talent. We love you Mary,and (I hate to say this,but imma get real "hood") if he disrespected you,check his chin,and put him back in check.
"The denim revolution is here for 2010,be apart of the movement"
aye...shot out to digitalnerd,realblackdude & 1biteme! this is my first post on mto, and i have to say thank u to the people i just mentioned beause they said exactly what was on my mind! Yes I am a die hard MJB fan and will go hard at anyone attempting to direspect the UNDISPUTED QUEEN OF HIP HOP AND R&B SOUL!! If any of yall are like me and been down with Mary since "what's the 411', then yall kno she done been thru some shyt! and she shared her experiences with her fans thru her music!And with every album,she adressed some serious in he,but she was growing & evolving,and so was her music
da_advocator I am just as qualified as you are to speak about Yaki or " the weave industry." Even after telling you that I never wear them. You're falling off. Tastysis, I'm not really a science person, although I did quite well in school. I just rely mainly on the uncommon common sense.. As my mom would say! LOL
When the headlines read:
SEASONS BEATINGS!!! KENDU AND MARY J BLIGE GET INTO ARGUMENT IN NIGHT CLUB . . . AND MARY J GETS HER AZZ WHOPPED!!! (DETAILS INSIDE)
Don't even say anything bad about him. Say "Kendu ain't playing", "whoop dat trick" and all the other ignorant jokes and excuses for the unexcusable. She's twice Chris Brown's age,had many more years to learn what's right than his ig'nant butt and should know better by now. The the next breath, she'll cry that "I've been abused" crap again. Should sing "I've received what I've given." Can't be a victim 4ever Mary; you're wrong!
Stop it, da_advocator. It was you who used the weave argument to drive home a point. I said it was silky to do so. Either way you are correct that many women will find it ok to hit Kendu but would be ready to taste blood if the gender roles were reversed. I'm just saying Kendu and Mary are one in the same.
Kendu is on his way to becoming a lap dog. Black women take note, if your man is doing something that is not acceptable in the Feminists rule book, like checking out another woman, or leaving the toilet seat up, smack him and verbally abuse him in public. Remind him YOU are the breadwinner, YOU are the HBIC and make him grovel and beg to be back in your good graces. YOU TOO can have a mini black man lap dog. YOU GO GIRL!!!!
da_advocator I am just as qualified as you are to speak about Yaki or " the weave industry." Even after telling you that I never wear them. You're falling off. Tastysis, I'm not really a science person, although I did quite well in school. I just rely mainly on the uncommon common sense.. As my mom would say! LOL
===== You are missing the point…how can I claim to be qualified when I said, I don’t know what Yaki is
Are you having problem following the gist of my rhetoric…If you have issue with the statistics, then create your own. So, if I am asking you to create your own, then obvious, I think you are qualify…in fact, you probably would be more than me
Lol…so, what’s the issue
Are you saying that Asian, don’t corner the market as producers, suppliers and distributors of African woman hair care products?
Are you saying African American woman don’t spend as much as gay black men on hair care products?
Are you saying, African American woman, on the whole don’t wear weave, don’t add chemicals to straighten their hair…etc.
So…if you have issues with these statements…then, I beg you to shed some light
Enough with your half ass retort and dancing around this topic
Give me some data…statistics, per capita spending, revenue expenditures, production data
Again, if you need help…just ask…I will give you a year
Untill then…lol…merry xmass…oh…I forgot…that woman in you AVi…is that you…my…what lovely hair she has…assuming of course…it’s her natural hair…lol
I am out…this shyt was fun…
Black women r the most beautiful creatures on the face of this earth...when they r tryin to be more like Michelle Obama and not like Mary J did in that dam club. So mary listen...u must rejoice before u get divorce. If u got a gud one like u claim, hold on to him...and quit all that bull$hit ya'll doing in them clubs.
1Biteme
Good point! The word is be using to describe everything, so now nothing is technically "ghetto" or I guess its ghetto when black people do it! Almost like, if ur mentality ill and poor ur crazy, and if ur mentality ill and rich ur eccentric! Funny how negative words r thrown on the disenfranchised!
She's a recovering alcoholic and if she had a drink it was obviously gonna be a wrap for her. The liquor went straight to her head and she lost control and being a victim for so long she decided she wasn't gonna be a victim no more and let the anger take over. I'm pretty sure she is feeling like shyt over that right now and her AA counselor is putting her in her place. She was drunk and can't handle her liquor.
From what I hear she slapped him, not punched him though.
Also MAry wasn't the one who "Whooped" his ass, it was the security detail that manhandled him.
What Mary did is no where near what Chris Brown did to Rihanna, If Chris Brown would have just slapped Rihanna if/when she hit him and left it at that without going into a fist full of rage it wouldn't have been that serious.
This is getting good family, yall have me laughing over here! Ms Good you know the cynical tone was funny how da_advocator sarcastically stated that. There is a few sisters on here who wouldn't mind that too,lol. My position on the Black woman has not nor will not change. But this thread sure is entertaining.
Listen, no sane person will support Beat a Black Man day
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The operative word in that statement is sane...now go re-read the first 20 posts...how many sane individuals did you count... lol...
You know what...lol..I learned a long time ago sanity is matter of perception
Hey msGood…if I have cheerleaders…than let them cheer…you must admit, we are putting on a good show…isn’t that the reason, you responded to my comments
You wanted to put on a show… and we did…let’s take a bow… and call it a day…no need to call ostracize people on what comments they agree or disagree with
This isn’t a 5th grade school yard…no bullies…just adults…again assuming we are all adults…although, I question some..
Lol..I mean it sincerely…have a good xmass.
Mary's main issue and the SOURCE of all her anger is being sexually abused and molested at the age of FIVE.
She's emotionally very broken and will never get over that. Her mistake the other night was taking a drink when she knows that the alcohol was going to take over and take her back to that angry place and make her lose control.
Also MAry wasn't the one who "Whooped" his ass, it was the security detail that manhandled him.
What Mary did is no where near what Chris Brown did to Rihanna, If Chris Brown would have just slapped Rihanna if/when she hit him and left it at that without going into a fist full of rage it wouldn't have been that serious.
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I know…I agree…marry just slapped him, she would have serve him better if she spitted on him...the nerve of this Negro starring at another woman…doesn’t he know, his eyes belong to Marry… Mary own your black ass…don’t fukk with the Queen
Now..ms.latina…I not assuming, but, I’ve been around a lot of machismo Latin men…and you right…if Chris Brown would have just slap Rihanna, like these latin men do their women, not a peep would have been said.
I agree…Negros need to practice restraint, and use the back-hand technique more…ahahahah ( satire)
I guessing, that’s what you are saying…correct me if I am wrong..
LMAO@ the people defending Mary but the same ppl hate Chris Brown. Wait, I'm sorry did I miss something? When is domestic violence EVER ok??? At lease Chris Brown had the decency to hit Rihanna BACK in private! How dare Mary hit Kendu and DARE him to retaliate? That what's wrong with the women defending this ish. For some reason you think your above an azz whoopin. I'm glad Chris Brown made an example out of women like this! Shame on Mary.
@ Persian! the only person who owns us is GOD! the union of marriage has not been the same since the 1920's! When you live in a country where in some states men can legally marry other men and women can legally marry other women, marriage will never be the same! let me reiterate! You do not "own" the person you are married to! That piece of paper the two of you sign is not a contract of "ownership" My mother was married to my father for 8 years before she divorced him for extreme abuse! I'm glad she didnt think the way you do because if she had she'd be dead now! Leave Mary J alone!
da_advocator
Here's the correction
I am in NO WAY condoning ANY of the physical violence. I was merely pointing out the levels of severity were different in each individual case. Domestic violence is not specific to any race or nationality, and it is not acceptable to me in any way shape or form. However there are always levels of violence.
Here come the self-hating coons again: attributing all things negative to blacks. smdh. Elin Woods "clubbed" Tiger, literally. Guess what? She is white. Lorena Bobbit NEUTERED her husband and guess what? She was white. I know some latinas that HUMILIATED some dudes when they didn't OBEY them and guess what? They're hispanic. Realize that all RACES are the same and start to focus on specific individuals, you'll look stupid less often.
@SEASONS BEATINGS!!!!..... DAM THATS SUM FUNNY SH!T RIGHT THERE I ALMOST FELL OUT MY CHAIR....
@BROOKLYN LATINA........ EXACTLY I WISH MUFUKAZ WUD QUIT TRYNA FIND WAYS TO JUSTIFY WHAT CHRIS PU$$Y DID.....THERE AINT NO FUKN EXCUSES SO STOP TRYNA MAKE EM.....AND I AGREE IF HE WUDDA JUST SLAPPED HER A$$ HE STILL WUDDA BEN WRONG BUT HE WUDNT HAVE BEEN CRUCIFIED FOR IT BECUZ IT WAS JUST A SLAP, BUT HE "OBVIOUSLY" DID "MORE THAN THAT"....
AND TO BE 100 ... Y THE FUK IS WE STILL TALKIN BOUT THIS.... LIKE GET THE FUK OVER IT ALREADY ITS GOIN ON "2010" (A WHOLE "NEW" FUKN YEAR)
@1BITEME...... OMFG.....EXACTLY!!!!!.... i always say that like these mufukaz so brainwashed.... its always BLACK THIS BLACK THAT..... BUT DONT EVEN WASTE YO BREATH SUM MUFUKAZ JUST "WIRED DUM" THAT WAY.....LIKE IM GON KEEP SAYIN....
"PPL FROM ALL RACES, CULTURES, RELIGION, ETC. DO DUM SH!T ... STOP PUTTIN MUFUKAZ IN BOXES... IF U GON JUDGE, JUDGE THAT "INDIVIDUAL", NOT THE "WHOLE PPL""...
A_sez,
Since I already read the 48 laws of power, I just bought that book 50 did with the author robert greene the 50th power, haven't read it yet. I have the story of mankind (1921) hendrik willem van loon. knowledge of self by supreme understanding and the bloodbath teachings of malcolm x by the Honorable Elijah Muhammad. Those are the ones that I just bought within the last month and I haven't read any of them yet. But all came recommended. Whenever someone recommends one I order it or put it in my que on amazon! The last book I read was closing the gap by Hon Minister Farrakhan.
Domestic violence is not specific to any race or nationality, and it is not acceptable to me in any way shape or form. However there are always levels of violence
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Ahhhhh!! You forgot Gender…domestic violence is not specific to any race, nationality or gender….put that in there…circle it, highlight it.
Now…I love your drunken excuse to justify her slapping him…even insinuating it’s just a slap…nothing more.
I like that…really I do…even the last part about levels of violence…classic defense response.
you see…I don’t get in between a verbal dispute between a man or a woman…9 times of out 10, the person who is getting abused would curse and damn near fight the person who is protecting them from the abuser.
It’s Stockholm syndrome…and Negros are known to suffer from this shyt
Good day…damn…Xmass is near( looking forward to a black Xmas…ahahaha)….happy holidays…and may you Negroes survive the upcoming year….
Had that been Kendu that slapped her for looking at some young man, he'd be locked up and everybody here would say he should die.
The hypocrisy here is terrible.
The worst thing a woman can do to her man is emasculate him in public. Mary J did that. While I like Mary J, what she just did will no doubt cause future problems.
It ain't right for anybody to hit anybody. For her to punch him, causing him to bleed then threaten him using the Chris Brown angle? That's terrible.
Her past/alcohol issues may or may NOT be the reason for her outburst. She may feel that a wife has the right to slap her husband if he's disrespectful. White women slap disrespectful men all the time, EVEN IN THE MOVIES! Guess what? when they know they are wrong, they walk away. When they are not wrong, they press charges. I don't agree with her behavior, for the record. But stop assuming you KNOW what someone's issue is and stop calling all things BLACK ghetto when in reality, all other races do the same thing.
I KNEW THIS KENDU MOFO WAS SHADY. I JUST KNEW IT. MARY HAS BEEN IN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS BEFORE. SHE PROBABLY HAD A MOMENT. SHE DOESNT WANT TO GET BEAT AGAIN. REMEMBER CASE AND K-CI USED TO BEAT HER, SHES JUST MAKING SURE SHES NO ONES PUNCHING BAG ANYMORE. SO I SAY YEAH, BEAT THAT MOFO BEFORE HE BEAT U MARY. LET HIM KNOW U AINT STANDING FOR THAT SH*T. HE AT HER RELEASE PARTY LOOKING AT OTHER CHICKS. HE STRAIGHT DISRESPECTED HER. SO YEAH CHIN CHECK THAT MOFO.
Now…I love your drunken excuse to justify her slapping him…even insinuating it’s just a slap…nothing more ---------
You are not comprehending what I have written properly. Go back and read all my posts. I wrote that the source of her anger is her sexual abuse at the age of five which was the catalyst for all the other shyt she has gone through in her life and as a recovering alcoholic she was truly irresponsible for allowing herself to take that drink which did not help her in any way shape or form assess the situation properly and address it the way a grown person should. I know you like to
I know you like to debate and antagonize so no matter how I explain it you will just find your own spin on what I say just to go back and forth.
I am speaking from a psychological standpoint regarding cause and effect and not condoning it, merely putting into perspective and understand as to why people may react to situations in such volatile ways. In none of my posts do u see me defending her actions. On the contrary, Im actually a bit disappointed in her.
You are not comprehending what I have written properly. Go back and read all my posts. I wrote that the source of her anger is her sexual abuse at the age of five which was the catalyst for all the other shyt she has gone through in her life and as a recovering alcoholic she was truly irresponsible for allowing herself to take that drink which did not help her in any way shape or form assess the situation properly and address it the way a grown person should. I know you like to
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You see the problem with excuses, anyone can make one up…even to some plausible and excusable.
Hell…Chris Brown beat Rhianna because he was juiced up on steroids, and had a couple of drinks that night….so, in a feat of rhoid rage he beat her up….see, how easy that was.
I am not concern with fabricated excuses…just answer this question..
Are you or are you no in agreement with her actions…and fukk all the excuses…this is a simple yes and no response..
And upon your response…I rest my case…again
Good day…lol…I know… I know…I keep coming back…but, rest assured, this argument has been put to rest, with out without your response to this simple question.
texascaliber Is this is your way of proudly telling the world your chick is asian? Does your Asian chick go on Asian themed websites and tell her counterparts-'black is the way to go' Doubt it. OR are you seeking some attention/starting a fight with black women? I'm not sure why you feel the compulsive need to repeat the same thing over and over and over again. Its redundant. Really. It is.
She was well within her rights to put his azz in check!...She warned him,but he wanted to continue to show out.What was she suppose to do?...just like someone said...continue to turn the blind eye?...Hell No!.She got tired of that and i don't blame her!..So now she's Ghetto becoz she wouldn't let him disrespect her in front of other Women?...We're taught to stand up for ourselves.He was suppose to be different,he ended up being the damn same..so he got GOT!...Don't change Mary...BE YOURSELF ALWAYS!
SOME OF YOU ON HERE TALKING ABOUT "MY GIRL" MARYJ THIS N THAT. GTFOHWTBS
ONCE A HOODRAT ALWAYS A BULLET RIDDEN SCARRED UP HOODRAT.
MARYJ ALICIA OPRAH GAYLE JENNIFER H ARE ALL ABUSED HOODRATS, THAT WHY THEY ALL GET ALONG SO WELL.
MaryJ ain't no better than the regular hoodrat in the hood her busted ass just have a little more money. BTW Kendu was married when he was messing with Maryj"s busted ass.
@--->CLARK
GOOD POINT. AT LEAST KENDU IS NOT A WOMAN BEATER.
I HOPE THAT THEY CAN WORK OUT THEIR PROBLEMS; I HAVE SEEN THIS COUPLE IN ACTION AND THEY HAVE BEEN TRYING REALLY HARD TO TOLERATE EACH OTHER. THIS IS WHAT CAN HAPPEN WHEN ONE PERSON PAYS FOR EVERYTHING IN THE RELATIONSHIP. AT A POINT, MARY STOPPED RESPECTING KENDU AS A MAN.
BUT MARY, PLEASE LEAVE BREEZY OUT OF YOUR FAMILY AFFAIRS.
Im sorry, but I believe women should only date men that ARE superior to them. Men should date women with less status/money than them so that the roles dont get reversed. The same thing happened to Toni Braxton, when the woman outshines the man, he never fails to humiliate her-usually with someone of a lower status than both him and his more popular wife. Women should marry up, men should marry down.
But i do totally understand the frustration she felt with him for disrespecting her that way. I would have been pissed too, and if I was intoxicated I may have made a scene too. I don't know about slapping a mofo, but I may have slapped the side of his arm and argued. Then when I would have woken up the next morning, i would have felt like an idiot for causing a scene in public and acting like a nut. If sober, my ass would have just had security escort him out of MY party and tell him to leave and deal w/ him when i get home.
Too many guys wanna wear the pants, when they are not the breadwinner. If you are a freeloader and the woman is busting her azz, then you should expect to be treated like a freeloader. If you need to feel superior and be respected like a man, then YOU should be the provider. Which by the way was the original design.
Coffeecolor She was well within her rights to put his azz in check!...She warned him,but he wanted to continue to show out.What was she suppose to do?
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I REALLY hope your loved one warns you in public (around a lot of people) then when you don't listen he just slaps the living fu-ck out of you.
Then I want you to come back and justify anybody losing their cool and hitting their love one.
It ain't right and you inbred chicken heads who support this are most likely unhappy, single or just fu-ck buddies because the opposite sex sees what you are for what you are.
Nothing but a fu-ck.
MARY JUS STRAIGHT UP AND DOWN WRONG FOR THAT...I DONT CARE IF HE WAS GIVING DA GIRL A COMPLIMENT....Y DO U FEEL DA NEED 2 PUT UR HANDS ON SUMBODY IF THEY DIDNT PUT THEIR HANDS ON YOU?...SMH it whats sooooo sadi is that some bitchez think its okay for a woman 2 go off but not okay for a man 2 defend himself....smh IDIOTS!!!
MARY AIN'T GOT IT ALL. SHE'S TILL BATTELING THINGS. ALCOHOL JUST BRINGS OUT THE WORST IN HER. AND THEN AT THAT SHE BROUGHT UP CHRIS BROWN, THAT WAS KINDA LOW MARY. THIS IS WHY SHE ISN'T A WORLD CLASS DIVA LIKE MARIAH & BEYONCE BCUZ SHE'S TO IFFY. KENDU IS KINDA SNEAKY LOOKIN, BUT SHE SHUD'NT BE HITTIN HIM. THERES SUCH A DOUBLE-STANDARD OUT HERE. SHE NEEDS TO CHILL. BUT I DO WISH THEM THE BEST. MARY HAS TO MOVE ON, SHE SEEMS KINDA BITTER SHE ALWAYS TALKS ABOUT GROWTH & ALL BUT SHE RESORTS BACK TO THIS.
Rihanna made the mistake of thinking she had a real man. Yeah she was wrong if she put her hands on him. But she was scrwing him and felt like she deserved respect. Women slap disrespectful men on the daily and the real men just get the eff away from the beach-especially when the man knows he is wrong
Real men don't hit woman it don't matter what they do to you it might be hard but just walk away i have 3 lil brothers a son a nephew and male cousins and i would never want them to hit a woman walking away beats getting locked up and labeled a woman beater cause the brothers on lockdown don't play that
Funny thing is the same [EXPLETIVE] probably happened with rhi n breezy.. only she said wtf u gonna do hit me? She called that lil boys bluff and he bite punched and all that other [EXPLETIVE].. mary is ghetto but too grown to be feeling intimidated by some WAITRESS! Rhi is just caribbean and young that's her problem.. smh what's going on man
dont get me wrong, not saying that Chris Brown was a girl, just a child. I do think that society was harsh and forgot that they were BOTH basically children. I think that THIS situation has made a man of him. @theman00 : Mariah and Beyonce fight with men/women just like Mary. Mariah has a better voice/songs and Beyonce has more publicity. period
She should be charged with assault just like a man would be charged. People were talkin all dat s*hit about these wild women not provokin men by puttin their hands on men first, now look.vilence is violence, no matter what. And chris aint got nothin to do with your failing marriage so keep his name out that s*hit...
@MSHOLLYWOOD1..... EXACLTY .... I FEEL LIKE MUFUKAZ IS SO STUPID SUMTIMES.... WUD U RATHER BE LABELED A WOMAN BEATER... OR JUST WALK AWAY FROM THE SITUATION AND LEAVE IT ALONE.....MUFUKAZ JUSTIFICATIONS FOR DOIN SH!T THESE DAYS IS "SO FUKN STUPID".....
@1BITEME.... EXACTLY .... please take beYAWN(zzzzzzz)ce a$$ up off ya tongue... mufukaz always bringin her up on stuff that aint got sh!t ta do with her......
When Reckless Eyeballin goes Wrong!!!!!!! Now all Kendu had to do was sit there at the party and act like he love Mary J. We know she pay all the bills so why he gotta be flirtin with her sitting right there. He know she crazy. These kept men just don't know how to act in public...he needs to take a lesson from Stedman. Save the lookin for when the ole lady is not around. It was her night at least act like you support her cause we know she supportin you!!!!
Marriage is a bunch of muhfukkin bullshyt...real talk...don't do it...you betta off by ya dayum self...use that time alone to get to know ya self and find out who you are...get to know the Lord and spritually grow...you ain't got to prove shyt to noody... don't get caught out there...leave marriage alone...
Some of y'all women need help egging on this domestic violence. If a woman beats on a man its all good, but if a man does it on a woman, he is a monster. BS. Nobody has the right to hit anybody unless they are defending themselves. I like MJB as an artist but she ain't wifey type. The ghetto will never leave her. She's gonna end up lonely forever. Women tend to go crazy if they think their man is flirting. Him he shouldn't control who gets in or not. Thats the body guard job. He better leave her now, she is crazy. And get all of her money and endorsement.
oh wow..so tha moment a niqqa qets his asz beat bya female its lyk OMG!..buh women been qettin dhey asz beat for decades!..its about time sumbody put dhey foot down.i dnt condone (excuse me if i misspelled it) violence buh honestly sumtimes dhats wat yu qotta resort to...if men stop bein stupid dhen dhey wuldnt qet kauqht up!..kudos mary!
Since Kendu is allowing himself to be supported by a woman the only way he can feel like a man is by trying to get attention from other women.
To all you ppl who are upset about the double standard regarding women perpetrating domestic violence...Ur right it is a double standard because we know that if a man wanted to he could beat the $h!T our of any woman (most men anyway they are usually stronger but not in every case). So when a woman Bish-Slaps a man it's Hilarious. Bottom line Deal with it!!!!
Well, well, well, some of the behind-the scenes-details of Mary and Kendu's life have started to surface. There has been trouble in the camp for a while now. I've heard that he has been eye-balling chicks for a while. Mary has been busy trying to stay on top and even though she has a great fan base, she knows that she is much older and her voice is 'not' getting any better. The competition is fierce!
Abuse and assault know no boundaries, fyi. Women of all races, ages, financial brackets, and geographical locations are victims of domestic, physical, emotional, and sexual abuse/assault. The term "hoodrat" is generally used to classify women of low education, understanding, morals, and value. "Hoodrats" just like abuse/assault can be found in all races, financial brackets, ages, etc usually talking trash about others: fighting over men; making irrelevant/unintelligent declarations; doin somethn IMMORAL and/or placing high value/importance on things/issues of little worth/relevance. fyi
Wow< Wow<WOW. That is all I can say. So now That the Afro-American Goddess slap her husband first without him provoking her. Black America has spoken and it is now ok for a women to hit a man and him not beat her down, bloody her face, bite her etc. So Black America ahas spoken and again has imparted their values on others about what and when Domestic Violnece is Ok. U guys are f----. I ma done with this site and the retared black folkes onhere. In in the words of RiRi. I dont give A f--- what u think. Bring on ur ugly comments. That is all u are good for.
@tigergood: i've never seen a black woman cost a man millions of dollars and public humiliation because she dedided to dish all the details of her adulterous liason. yeah those were black women stirring up ALL THAT DRAMA. LOL @ GREEKNESS, JONAS, AND jbrute, and halle: any responses. don't everyone speak at once.
Women are not prosecuted as much for domestic violence because the capacity of great bodily injury increases when a man hits a woman not the other way around. A woman hitting a man mostly does little damage unless she uses an object to hit him.
Women do go to jail when they finally come to the end of their wits and shot the MOFO thousands of women are in prison for that. Despite the fact that she may have been abused for years.
That's why its funny cause for the most part if a woman hits a man with her hands there is little physical damage
Im just tripping how the same people who called Elin a hero are calling Mary "ghetto" for doing the EXACT same thing for the EXACT same reason. SMDH. Even win MARY IS THE BREADWINNER and Elin is getting the free ride. wow. the racism is just revolting. Even worse the blacks don't realize it. sad. Worse than all are the COONS who know this and are still racist- AGAINST THEIR OWN RACE. KNOWING THEIR GRIMY AZZES ARE WAY WORSE THAN MARY, BUT THEIR ONLY CHANCE AT LOOKING DIGNIFIED IS TO BELITTLE SOMEONE ELSE. PATHETI and I am NOT A MARY FAN, JUST WORKING ON MY LEFT HOOK. GOTTA STAY IN SHAPE. LOL
Don't get me wrong I laughed when Elin allegedly clocked him and my response was: "She should have." I just want to know whats so difference. God bless all the beautiful people of the colors, races, and mixtures and let's pray for all the hateful, proud people of all colors, races, and mixtures. God Bless you all. and remember: "I keep it jumping like trampolines, keep 'em pumping like gasoline."
it is not cool at all for anyone to lay hands in a relationship. mary should be prosecuted just like chris brown, since she wants to invoke his name.its really sad that these women are giving props to mary for violence, but was hating on rihanna(who didn't fight back) for 'snitching.' an ugly double standard. it just says that u women view violence from men as the norm. that is whats really sad and pathetic.
Do I now? How bout you act like you got some sense and keep your hands to your self? I would never hit a WOMAN. Key word WOMAN! The second you wanna disrespect me and try to turn me into a bytch... so you can brag to your pigeon azz homegirls bout how "you run sh1t"...lol Dont try and duck under that "battered woman" flag when you wanna play that game.
Wow...this is true! Nothing like keeping your own darn Drama going! I guess, Kendu is tired of every album having to be about this Bytch getting hurt in someway or form from KC, JoJo, Mic d l t? whatever his name is. Every single record is drama... and she is the queen. I wonder what her new bff Oprah thinks of this? ps... that marriage was in serious shambles since June 2009!
oh I have hit girls with empty Nike boxes before... normally the sound of the "THWAP" lets them know I aint playin! Is that abuse? Its more degrading then anything. The girl was swinging at me with Mayweather combos and I snapped. I found the Nike box on my dresser and bopped her on the head pretty good. I dont know why I did it? but we ended up fuggin like 2 hours latter. lol
Wow! For one of the first times in my entire life as a proud , Black man I must say I'm ashamed of my sisters. How dare you? We men were on here going off about Chris Brown and his treatment of Rihanna, yet y'all think it's okay for Mary to publicly abuse Kendu? That's trashy and classless. No amount of success gives you the right to hit ANYBODY MALE OR FEMALE! Quit the double standard or allow what's good for the goose to work for the gander.
andre3579 You must not be that proud if you are looking for an EXCUSE to be ashamed-on any given day you can find plenty excuses to be ashamed right here on MTO. Also, I beg to differ. MOST of the posts from BW have been against MBJ doing what she did.
love2screw Go put on a burka or something, you making me feel bad. Like I should be doing some sit ups instead of fukkin around trolling on this website.
*sidenote* Ms Good and da_advocator, I could just see the two of you going at it in person, and then passionately ending the night,lmao! The classic matching of wits!
Ms Good,
I sense a little internet chemistry between you and da_advocator, (I'm just saying,lol)brother my a**, lol-Allahuakbar
I must have been caught up to not see this! lol
Mary has always been a G.
all I gotta say is the man married that woman knowing her history, knowing her past and knowing all the traumatic experiences that have molded her to be who she is. For better or worse he knew it may come to this at some point. If he married her for love he knows this is something he has to help her with, and if it was Wifey's night he should have expected her to trip over something like that.
How stupid of her! She making the money not him. Just drop him. I am sorry, but, she got to pay the consequence of her action. If the court of public opinion is to be fair and just, then the rain should be coming down hard on MJB. Boycott the CD, take away the makeup and cell phone endorsements, dissolve the girls outreach program etc. All they things done to CB should be coming Mary's way now. Where them CB haters at? Where they at, where they at, where they at? And she had the nerve to give a damn comment about Chris B and Ri's situation. Bitch STFU and restart 12 steps!!!
How stupid of her! She making the money not him. Just drop him. I am sorry, but, she got to pay the consequence of her action. If the court of public opinion is to be fair and just, then the rain should be coming down hard on MJB. Boycott the CD, take away the makeup and cell phone endorsements, dissolve the girls outreach program etc. All they things done to CB should be coming Mary's way now. Where them CB haters at? Where they at, where they at, where they at? And she had the nerve to give a damn comment about Chris B and Ri's situation. Bitch STFU and restart 12 steps!!!
Wow! I don't think it went down like this I mean Mary just doesn't seem like the type. Meanwhile I'm noticing some color hating Creole or otherwise.. do you know what Creole means?? Means first generation.. And Bey is ya role model?? Werd??? smh Thank God I waited to have children ya'll are wildin' AND black is still black SO, excuse me African American is still AFRICAN AMERICAN.. whateva ya color people are people..grow up ya'll it's the 21st century.. this is for entertainment purposes go read a book
It was more than she could handle. "I thought, I can't do this. I'm not a home wrecker," she remembers. "I was like, give me a gun and I'll just blow my brains out, because I'm at the point of...like I said...my spirit is dead. There was a lot of pain, so I ran straight into more self-destruction. I was thinking about the wife, I was thinking about the kids, and I was thinking, I just don't want to be responsible for that."
Isaacs insists that his first marriage was already dissolving before Blige was fully on the scene, and he says that today he and his ex-wife have a good relationship. Still, it took some time to convince Blige that she hadn't torn apart a family. Eventually she opened her heart back up to Isaacs, and he moved in to her New Jersey home.
It's amazing to read the posts from all the silly azz birds on here who agree with Scary J Blige hitting her husband. Ok idiots lemme ask you this, what if it was your son who was smacked by an immature silly ghetton hood rat? How would you feel then? So do you still think women should be allowed to swing on a man?
COBonner
I've been smacked b4 and laughed it off. But then again I'm 6'3" so when a chick hits me it's like the equivalent of getting hit by a child and that how I see it, like dealing w/ a spoiled brat. I don't feel the need to go off on a chick cuz I know I can do damage. I just control the chick and if she don't calm down her azz gets put in "time out"
People act like because women are weaker than men, she's a weak person. They act like if she hit you in the right spot with the right amount of power it won't hurt a man.
Get off that ish, God made women with muscles just like he did a man, they're just smaller muscles, it doesn't mean she's a weak human being, she's just weaker than a man that's all. Women should keep their hands to themselves, just like we should!!
Girlsluvgems
He's not exempt from Karma himself since he was going around telling everyone he was over with his wife b4 Mary finally gave in to Queen Latifah's badgering for her to call him. Even QL didn't think his marriage was salvageable at that point even though he was separated but not divorced so she played cupid w/ them.
Juice...I'm hoping you're a man who's insecure. becoz if you're a woman wishing domestic harm on me..I feel sad for you...Check it...YOU may let a man treat YOU like crap...But not ME!...We'll tear that mFka DOWN!..You hear me?...He put his hands on me?..WE FIGHTIN!.My momma always told me.."Don't NEVER let a man start beatin on you,becoz if you let him do it the first time?.EVERYTIME he gets mad he's gonna take it out on YOU!..THAT?..AIN'T GOIN DOWN!..SAVANNAH WOMEN FIGHT BACK!
MiamiPimpin
The whole relationship is not exempt from karma. He wasn't divorced. Just like Swiss and Alicia, and J Lo and Marc Anhony. The media goes insane when a man cheats but famous women are just as scandelous. Wasn't Kendu and Marc Anthony wives pregnant when they left? Complete selfishness on all parts!
I know Marc Anthony wife was pregnant for sure but J Lo was so hard pressed for a husband she would do anything. Mary and Alicia too. Low self esteem tricks LOL
And if you gonna steal somebody husband, let him atleast be fine. Kendu look like a pound puppy on ambien. Swiss looks like a jj from good times and Marc look like death warmed over. The single-man pool is not that dry! I wouldve kept looking!!!
White woman know how to do it. They snatchin Brads and Tigers! You leave the bums right home wit they wives LOL
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Mary get it together and keep your hands to yourself. I was mad at you for acting like Kendu was the ONLY reason you were finally happy and your life turned around. You portray yourself as strong woman but what example were you teaching young girls. Now you beating his ass tsk tsk tsk another bad example for girls please get it together because your new song is FIRE and I would hate to see you catch a case over this nobody YOU made somebody!
ITS AMAZIN HOW SOME OF DA SAME PPL ON HERE DAT HATED BREEZY AFTER HE DID WHAT HE DID ARE DA SAME PPL DATS CHEERIN ON MARY WHEN SHES JUST AS GUILTY AS CHRIS AND DEY WONDER Y DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS SUCH A MASSIVE PROBLEM INDA BLACK COMMUNITY ALL I GOTTA SAY MARY U HAD A GOODTHING AND SOON IT WILL BE OUTTA YO LIFE THEN ITS BACK 2 DA MY LIFE CD PT.2 NO KIDS EITHER HES FREE 2 LEAVE AND NEVA COMEBACK SAYWHAT YALL WHAT AT LEASE HE WAS BEIN A REALMAN BY NOT RETAILIATING MARY GONNA BE HBIC ALRIGHT ALL BY HERSELF AND FEELIN LIKE A LOSER LIKE LOOK AT WHAT I HAD NOW IM DA K-CI.
Ok now what is all this commotion concerning,why most people feel the need to scrutinize this woman whom you barely know. People need to stop capitalizing on her miss fortune and allow her to resume her life people come to the conclusion that just because she is in the public eye she's not entitled to her feelings and thoughts she made a human error if this story is accurate let's pray for this sista so her marriage can continue to withstand mistrials and tribulation she has overcome many obstacles in her life to dwell back into her former behavior
I love me some Mary. But I seen the video of this incident of her album release party because its on YOUTUBE courtesy of the NY post who filmed it! He was talkin to her and before he can even git the words out she smacked the shyt of him. He then grabed her by the arms and still tried to talk to her but she pulled away and walked off and the bodyguard grabed onto him and began conversing with Kendu. She should have handled the situation better. She didn't have to put her hands on him. She's wrong for that!
some ppl are so ignorant its not even funny. If it's wrong for one person its wrong for another! Chris brown was wrong n so is MJB! And both of the situations are NOT to b treated as if they are the same. Because they're not. Even though this was a party. She had colleagues there and she still should have been somewhat professional because the purpose of the party was to MARKET the album. If you feel like u have to put ur hands on somebody walk away from the situation! and pack their shyt! I wouldn't want my son being smacked and hit on nor my daughter! WHEN UR WRONG UR WRONG!
I love Mary, but the ghetto NEVER goes away. Sad, but true. Can't do that to your man in public Mary, however, no matter how ghetto you are. That's just plain humiliating. Can't even imagine how he felt when he was getting kicked out the club and it doesn't appear that Mary did anything to intervene. That should have been handled when they got back home behind closed doors. It seems like Mary turned her entire life around when Kendu came into the picture. I suspect he may have had something to do with the improvement. Would hate it if she falls back.
