PHARRELL'S GIRLFRIEND IS PREGGOS!!


 







June 15, 2007. Looks like hip hop superstar Pharrell Williams is going to be a new father. MediaTakeOut.com has learned that Vashti Kola, his girlfriend of nearly 5 years, is pregnant with the couple's first child.

A person close to Vashti broke the news exclusively to us. The source tells MediaTakeOut.com, "Vashti and [Pharrell] are trying to keep the pregnancy under wraps, but they're both really excited about it ... they make such a cute couple, I can't wait to see their kids."

Congratulations to them both!!

UPDATE: Pharrell is now denying that he's gotten Vashtie pregnant. And to prove he's not the papa, he's gone so far as having one of his friends lie to the press. According to TMZ.com, one of Pharrell's tall- tale telling friends is claiming that he and Vashtie haven't seen each other for "over a year."

We'd like to hear how his buddy explains these pics, taken just a few weeks ago, that show Vashtie and Pharrell featured in the same photo shoot??? Click here to see pics. We really hope that Pharrell's not trying to pull an Eddie Murphy.

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COMMENTS:

    missingtupac
    1st...she's cute
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    missing2pac in da house watch yo moouuuf

    Scarlett
    Congrats....she's cute
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    U saying the same Sh*T that he said...

    SmurfetteSmurf
    who is she?
     

    divamarie
    I'm hurt. :(
     

    bonafied_trini
    I THOUGHT HE WAS GAY???? LOL!
     

    YoungShellzs
    this [EXPLETIVE] iz doing it big.
    keep ya head up dawg.
     

    MissUrbanChic
    Shes cute. But noo thats MY baby, I love Mr.Icecream. Smh.. Oh well..
     

    strongblackwoman
    that's a good look, they are cute...
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    I‘ll take *go get a life* for 300

    bonafied_trini
    SHE LOOK LIKE SHE PART INDIAN...CUTE GIRL BUT I THOUGHT HE WAS GAY????
     

    ydidi
    She looks pretty but DAMN IT Skate Board P..... you was supposed to leave that for me!
     

    JoJaBoi
    Wow I cant believe everyone is giving her props!!! She isnt black so the first to posters must not care.. another one bites the dust...She's set for life if she plays her cards right!

    Good luck!!
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    Watch for the hook!!

    roxy_girl
    She's very pretty
     

    MsRhonnie
    yet another "baby momma"....
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    Be yourself...everyone else is taken

    miamiblack34
    SHE KINDA LOOKS LIKE ASHLEY FROM FRESH PRINCE OF BELAIR A LIL BIT.
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    Stackin Cheese like a diease

    strongblackwoman
    and why is this the headliner... yal need to be posting as the headline Eddie being the father of Mel's baby, well that is what other celeb gossip blogs are saying anyhow...
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    I‘ll take *go get a life* for 300

    RemoteControl
    they look like a happy couple.....i hope it's a cute baby not no ugly deformed one.
     

    shonene2100
    CONGRATS!!!! THATS GONNA BE A CUTE BABY WITH GOOD HAIR.
     

    Lis
    Wow, that girl could be my sister! :)

    Pharrell, you coulda got at this! LOL
     

    fifi197825
    she is very cute! I love it when women, men, go for a different look all the time, and not the same look over, and over again!
     

    Sickney
    She is so pretty! Love her skin complexion.
     

    mrstljohnsonjr
    AWWWWW....THEY ARE SO CUT TOGETHER!!! I HOPE THEY WORK OUT.
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    "WHERE THEY DO THAT AT?"

    andrewlisa
    if she isnt black then what is she. dark skinned indians thats what we call them in london not red indians have a link to africa which explains her skin tone.
     

    richchick
    ALLLL...that's really special..they will make a beautiful family!!..hopefully they will get married real soon!!..Pharrell if you trust her w/your seed you can trust her as your wife!
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    Wisdom is FREE..just ask GOD for it!

    MONIQUEP
    WASNT SHE IN THAT FRONTIN VIDEO? BUT ANYWAY SHE;S PRETTY AND THE BABY WILL BE GORGEOUS. BUT HE MUST HAVE CHEATED ON HER A FEW TIMES BECAUSE I REMEMBER LIKE 3 YEARS AGO WHEN HE WAS ON THE BET RED CARPET HE WAS TALKIN ABOUT HE MESS WITH SOME WHITE CHICK AND HE BOUGHT HER TO THE AWARDS, BUT OH WELL.

    MYSPACE.COM/POODIE_N_ILLA
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    MOMMY 2 BE MYSPACE.COM/POODIE_N_ILLA

    Txbadbtch
    I am truely crushing on this dude and amazed I always thought Pharrell was fund of white chocolate so i thought i never had a chance well now i know i might of had a chance well at least for a second it was well worth it and now it has been nixed again DAMN so i must say CONGRATS to baby girl u got urself one sexi brother and im sure he's a good man Good Luck ;-)
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    Smoochez ;-)

    Dior100679
    Their baby gonna have some blessed genes in him/her! I think they are a very cute couple and I see them with a boy or twins. Pharell look like he'll be a cool daddy. He seem like a sweetheart too. About time he found someone to match his character. Go Pharell, cause its beyond ya birthday boo!
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    Love, Dior

    MissUrbanChic
    MY BAD ! SHE IS BRAZILIAN ! Oh well close enough . Their baby is going to be cute . I missed the WHOLE part about her being pregnant .. Damn my egg mc muffin is cold.
     

    bignsweet1966
    Yet another black couple bringing another black bastard into this world. After five years, she gets to be not a wife but a "baby momma." Thats so sweet(fake smile). Well, at least she picked a man who is able to support a child.
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    Blessed & highly favored.

    killdanoise1
    she's ok. that's it just ok. he could've done better.
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    I AM THE SHOW STOPPER BITCH!

    Mom2Girls
    She has a greta look, can go glam and also be down to earth looking. I hope they at least get married...crazy how people will create a life with someone but won't make a committment to share their life with that same person...

    Congrats. I like Pharrel alot.
     

    MONIQUEP
    @SBW

    WHAT OTHER BLOGS SAID EDDIE IS THE FATHER CUZ TMX AND PEREZ DOESNT HAVE IT.
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    MOMMY 2 BE MYSPACE.COM/POODIE_N_ILLA

    MONIQUEP
    I MEANT [SPAM]
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    MOMMY 2 BE MYSPACE.COM/POODIE_N_ILLA

    standard
    She's adorable, very pretty skin. I love her curly hair. Pharrell is super hot and i know their baby will b a cutie whether its a boy or girl. I wish them the best with the pregnancy and a healthy baby.
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    i‘m gonna b a mommie

    SMACKTHAT1
    SHE IS A BEUTIFUL GIRL, AND WHY DONT'T THESE MEN WANT TO COMMIT?????
     

    whatwhatwhat
    they look greeeaaat together!!
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    My love is right smack in the socket

    sexyluv
    SHE'S GORGEOUS, AND SHE IS GOING TO GET THE PRIZE, THE RIDE O DIE CHICK,

    MYSPACE.COM/MISSKNOCKOUT
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    UwesizzY
    who would have thought that pharell can make sum1 pregnant..judgin by his looks u may thnk he aint capable of producing babies,i wish him good luck as a father
     

    tanto07103
    Cute couple,Kudos 2 them if this is true
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    You are who you choose to be!

    MONIQUEP
    ALTHOUGH IM ALL FOR MARRIAGE BECAUSE I PLAN ON GETTING MARRIED IN THE NEXT FEW YEARS, EVERYONE IS NOT BUILT FOR MARRIAGE AND THEY FIND IT A WASTE OF TIME TO GET MARRIED IF THEY DONT FEEL STRONGLY ABOUT IT. AND PEOPLE WHO GET MARRIED JUST TO DO DONT USUALLY LAST SO THEY LIVE THEIR LIVES TOGETHER WITH KIDS AND THEY ARE FINE. JUST BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE NOT MARRIED THEY SHOULDNT BE ATTACKED WHEN THEY HAVE KIDS. IF THEY DONT WANT TI GET THATS THEIR RIGHT.

    MYSPACE.COM/POODIE_N_ILLA
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    MOMMY 2 BE MYSPACE.COM/POODIE_N_ILLA

    IllBeYourThinspo
    I'm surprised. I thought he was the type to prefer white girls. But glad I was wrong. She's pretty and natural.
     

    bew-t
    Yeahhh!!! Congratulations!!!!!
     

    smooveazzdime
    wow @ bignsweet1966...what up with that tude? If she chooses to be a baby momma then that's her decision. Are you black?
     

    strongblackwoman
    Monique I got it from vanilla_one yesterday and I got it from my coworkers but my coworker read it on ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com so check it out there but yeah I was like it isn't on [SPAM] or perez hilton so maybe its a legal issue in which they can't post it yet, but that is why I stated celeb blogs instead of an actual site... but we all know he is the papi anyway... sorry to get off subject... oh and I agree marriage ain't for everyone including myself I think sometimes I wish i waited until i was older or something lol

    Morning Lis!
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    I‘ll take *go get a life* for 300

    pinklici
    I'm pretty sure MTO has sworn all up & down in the past that Pharrell was gay. Anyway, the girl is very pretty. She looks like a Trini indian.
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    Who the cap fits, let them wear it

    2cexee4u
    DANG IT ALL TO HELL! (sighs) WELL I GUESS I NEED TO GIVE UP THE DREAM OF BECOMING HIS BABY MAMA! LOL! SHE'S CUTE THO'...CONGRATS TO THEM BOTH!
     

    215girl
    Morning SBM....

    I love Pharell, if this is true congrats. I think he is so sexy, I am having mixed feelings about this....lol, my feelings are hurt but I am happy for him. She is cute, she reminds me of one of my friends.
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    Take your mask off I might speak to ya..

    hotboip24
    she favors LARK VOORHIES from SAVED BY THE BELL....she's definitely some black in her...and a lot of it....beautiful chick...congratz P
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    gqswazey
    AWWWWW DAMN!!!!

    NOW BECAUSE SHE IS PRETTY I CAN NOT HATE ON HER. I REALLY THINK SHE IS SWEET AND GOOD FOR HIM, BUT I LOVE ME SOME PHARRELL, HE IS SO SEXY AND FINE. I GUESS HE IS NO LONGER PLAYING WITH OYS ON THE SIDE, BUT IN CASE YOU CHANGE YOUR MIND, YOU CAN CALL ME AT *****, I WILL BE WAITING ON YOU SEXY BOY.. YOU ARE SO SEXY BOY!!!
     

    Lockstress
    Aw...it's gonna be sooo cute!
    Morning everyone!
     

    texas_sweety
    Goodmorning all.... Aaaww Pharrell what happen to our secrect engagement. lol If thats his girl then I know I had a chance. LOL Congrads to both. 5 years is a long time.
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    lemme hold $2

    tinytexasdiamond
    BONIFIED_TRINI....

    i'M WITH YOU..I THOUGHT THE DUDE WAS A DOOKIE CHASER!!LOL

    BIGNSWEET1966
    IT IS 2007 PPL DONT SHIP YOU OFF SOMEWHERE TO HAVE A BABY ANYMORE IF YOU'RE NOT MARRIED!BUT I GUESS A COMMENT LIKE THAT WOULD COME OUT OF YOUR OLD ASS MOUTH....1966...SO THAT MAKE YOU LIKE HOW OLD??....LMBAO!!

    AND SO WHAT IF SHE AINT AFRICAN AMERICAN..HELL I AINT NEVER BEEN TO AFRICA BUT IF YOU PUT ME AND HER SIDE BY SIDE A WHITE PERSON WILL STILL CONSIDER US BOTH BLACK GIRLS SO WHO CARES IF SHES BRAZILIAN OR INDIAN..AT LEAST HE AINT WITH NO STRINGY HEAD ANOREXIC WHITE CHICK!!
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    MONIQUEP
    @SBW THANKS I'LL GO CHECK IT OUT NOW.
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    MOMMY 2 BE MYSPACE.COM/POODIE_N_ILLA

    IMSOBROOKLYN
    Awww they make a cute couple. He seems like a really down to earth dude. Congrats!
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    Gimme the loot!!!!!

    KiluRenee
    nice looking fam congrats on the kid
     

    angelalicious
    Ya thought he was gay????? Ya must have heard it from MTO. LOL
     

    killdanoise1
    SHE NEEDS SOME PLASTIC SURGERY
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    I AM THE SHOW STOPPER BITCH!

    killdanoise1
    SHE NEEDS SOME PLASTIC SURGERY
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    I AM THE SHOW STOPPER BITCH!

    bignsweet1966
    Tinytexasdiamond.....dat makes me 41. Old enough to know better. I know they don't ship u off for not being married but if u doing everything that married people do.....why not get married?? And yes smooveazz, I am very black, no cut.
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    Blessed & highly favored.

    babyphatgirl9o3
    in a BLUR she looks like chilli!! dont ya think?
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    watch out somedayimgonnabeastar

    missnellypoo
    I am happy for them! I am just glad because I thought he was the type to marry awhite gurl! And the idiot who said she needs plastic surgery stop hatin!You probably need it!

    myspace.com/mizzsexythang27
     

    Mz_Too_Much
    AAAAAWWWWW, this is so sweet and she's really cute ! I wish them the best..
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    Mmm Hhhm, das dat sshhh !!!

    BossBitch
    I'm wit U MONIQUEP

    Marrriage is not for everyone-not everyone is anxious to get married. There is no law that says if you've been together five years-YOU MUST GET MARRIED-I'm happy for them and I think they make a great couple.
    Some people on here are so dumb and need to sweep around their own doors and probably dont even has so much as a cut friend but has time to worry if these two should get married. Trust!!!! Homegirl is doin GOOD! and seems to be happy with the way things are and thats all that matters.

    That's right @TINYTEXASDIAMOND. Tell her old ass, lonely ass, stupid ass, fake ass, dumb ass like it is. This is 2007 ho. I guess we know her bignsweet ass is single
     

    MONIQUEP
    @Killdanoise1

    WHY DO SHE NEED PLASTIC SURGERY SHE IS VERY PRETTY HOW SHE IS NOW WHAT DO SHE NEED THE SURGERY FOR?

    MYSPACE.COM/POODIE_N_ILLA
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    SexyKimmie
    What is with all these people claiming this woman isn't black. "If" she is from Brazil she's still black duh! I mean come on black people live all over Brazil they have the 2nd largest black population of course after Africa. I am happy they are having a baby in all but, I agree with whoever said after five years she's his babies mama not his wife. I mean come on what is wrong with these men having babies like this and not getting married. I hate to say it but, only a sister would go along with that. If she were white she would have been demanding they get married and it would have worked by now! After five years he certainly can't say she's after him for his money.
     

    TheGreatDame
    Damn, I thought he was with Kanye...She looks cute, but kind of young for pharrell...That brother is pushing 40 on the down low...I guess Kanye is the bottom bytch....LMAO
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    Fa-dangling Choppas Like Ed Bundy

    MONIQUEP
    OH SHE NOT THE GIRL IN THE FRONTIN VIDEO I JUST WATCHED IT THATS NEW NEW FROM ATL. THEY LOOK KIND OF ALIKE BUT HIS GIRL IS DARKER BOTH PRETTY THOUGH.

    MYSPACE.COM/POODIE_N_ILLA
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    MOMMY 2 BE MYSPACE.COM/POODIE_N_ILLA

    M_I_L_F
    MARRIAGE IS A HUGE STEP IT SHOULD BE DONE WHEN BOTH PEOPLE FEEL THEY ARE READY 4 THAT STEP. IM NOT SAYING I WOULD WAIT FOR 8 YEARS WITH SOMEONE BUT..SOME PEOPLE WILL, ME AND MY KING HAVE BEEN DATING FO 3 YEARS AND WE HAVE A CHILD BUT IM NOT FORCING HIM CAUSE IF I DO I WOULD HAVE A FU(KED UP MARRIAGE!!!
     

    IMWUTDATIZNTX01
    I KNOW HER SHE USE TO HAVE AN PAGE ON DALLASPEEPS AND SHE IS REAL COOL...THIS IS HER SECOND CHILD THO.....BUT ANYWAYS U GO VASHTI!!!!! MISS TALKN TO YA
     

    JustHangingOut
    She's pretty. Nice skin and pretty white teeth. Congrats to them.
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    CELTICS # 17!!!!!!!!!!

    sexyazzred
    I've said it before and I must say it again...Ya'll are waaaay too judgmental on MTO...Who cares if they're not married. The post isn't about them making a vow to NEVER get married but have as many kids as possible, its about them having a baby, which im sure they're both elated about!
     

    MONIQUEP
    @SEXY KIMMIE WHERE ARE YOU GETTING YOUR STATS FROM. THERE IS A BILLION AND ONE WHITE COUPLES THAT HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR LONG PERIODS OF WITH KIDS AND THEY ARE NOT MARRIED. HOW DARE YOU SAY ONLY SISTAS STAY WITH THEIR MEN HAVE KIDS AND ARE OK WITH NOT GETTING MARRIED. THATS JUST WRONG. LIKE I SAID MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYBODY NO MATTER WHAT COLOR THEY ARE. WHAT DAY AND AGE ARE WE LIVING IN? PEOPLE CAN DO WHATEVER THE HELL THEY WANT TO DO, AS LONG AS THEY ARE NOT HURING ANYONE LEAVE THEM THE HELL ALONE.

    MYSPACE.COM/POODIE_N_ILLA
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    MOMMY 2 BE MYSPACE.COM/POODIE_N_ILLA

    smitty254
    SHE IS FINE THEN A MUG...KIND ALOOK LIKE TATYANA ALI!
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    Im rare like mr clean with hair

    MONIQUEP
    I MEANT LONG PERIODS OF TIME
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    MOMMY 2 BE MYSPACE.COM/POODIE_N_ILLA

    sexymix
    my gosh! my gosh! certain heffers are jealous of this chick! she is beautiful, and they have been going strong for 5 years? that's a great thing! why can't we just celebrate this miracle instead of saying hateful things like she needs plastic surgery? anyways the only thing that could make this better is a ring on this girl's finger, but they should do it on their own time! who are we to judge? smh, jealous heffers! oh and she's not brazillian, she's indian!
     

    UkBaby1
    Wasnt he going out with Jade Jagger (Mick jagger from the Rollin' Stones daughter) & I'm sure that wasnt over 5 years ago
     

    strongblackwoman
    moniques they were talking bout nunu they were talkin bout she resembled the dark girl with nunu...
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    I‘ll take *go get a life* for 300

    SoopaStarr
    Did someone really say they'd have cute babies with good hair? Wow.
     

    Amarie4911
    Bignsweet said: "Yet another black couple bringing another black bastard into this world." Did you say that when Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes had a "bastard" or Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie? Hell no. Stop being an Uncle Tom talking about black people. Mind your business and let them have their baby.
     

    WomanOfACertainAge
    To me, she kinda looks like Chili from TLC but although marriage isn't for everybody, at least you can get out of a marriage if it doesn't work, but when you have KIDS with someone, that's forever! All these rappers and hollywood people having these illegitimate kids, treating it like a fad. That's why half our kids don't have a stable home now!
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    I know "The Secret"....do you?

    miamiblack34
    HEY YALL WANNA SEE SOME FUNNY SHIIT CLICK THIS LINK & TELL ME WHAT YALL THINK


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Picys4GazeU
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    Stackin Cheese like a diease

    tinytexasdiamond
    MIAMI
    I'M AT WORK..IS IT SAFE? OR WILL YOU HAVE TO FIND ME ANOTHER JOB?
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    miamiblack34
    tinytexasdiamond

    Yeah its safe just dont laugh out too loud LOL
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    Stackin Cheese like a diease

    strongblackwoman
    is that the same link from jimmy kennel miami? that shyt was funny as hell...

    myspace.com/kia02_07
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    I‘ll take *go get a life* for 300

    itiswhatitis
    @ WomanOfACertainAge

    I agree! not just celebrities people in general. If you have no desire to get married and you want children that's up to you. Honestly I feel like the majority of women don't fit that category. sistahs are getting with men, playing wifey, having babies, making a home for men who aren't thinking about marrying them. While I'm happy for them and I hope all works out and they eventually get married. I kinda feel like enough is enough. If you ask most white women why they don't have children they will say because I'm not married. Alot of sistahs will say I don't have a man. It's about a mind frmae and wanting more for yourself, wanting the total package. Lebron James just has another baby with his girlfriend. It's kinda sad. Back in the day a man would look at a woman and say I want her to be my wife.. now it's I wanna take her down. unless you are someone who doesn't desire marriage ladies stop making babies with your boyfriends. I don't understand the concept of wanting to raise a child with someone, but you don't love & respect them enough to marry them. Maybe it's just me!
     

    standard
    @Monique, i totally agree with u, marriage is not for everyone. People can whateva the heck they want as long as they taking care of their business.

    Y do people think commitment equals marriage. I know plenty of couples who have been together for yrs and not married. commitment means 2 people who love, trust, take care of each other and definately communication, u have married couples with none of these qualities. If u r happy together that's all that matters. Pharrell and his lady should not b judged cuz their not married, how about he ain't beating her, hopefully he's not cheating and in these pics they look very happy together.
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    i‘m gonna b a mommie

    strongblackwoman
    itiswhatitis you and the other lady have to understand we are dealing with a new generation with me included, and sometimes putting a title on something makes things messy, sometimes I feel like the saying "why fix something that isn't broke" applied to me cuz me and my hubby was just fine before we tied the knot, now we fight over stupid shyt etc. but that is neither here or there, I just feel like marriage doesn't define a relationship sorry, and in the older days people only married because of financial situations or because of what family stated they had to, now people see pass all that...
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    strongblackwoman
    I just feel marrying me isn't going to make him love me more or less

    myspace.com/kia02_07
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    pumkinface
    i'm so happy for them. i'm glad he has a beautiful black sistah and not some plastic white barbie. kudos to you Pharrell!!!
     

    miamiblack34
    strongblackwoman

    Yeah I thought that we all should have a laugh on friday before we clock out. lol
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    strongblackwoman
    maimi they were dying in my office off that silly ass jimmy kennel! lol
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    standard
    @Strongblackwoman, u on point. U can love, honor and respect someone and not b married and sometimes when u do get married it complicates things, U r so right about that. Nowadays people get married for all the wrong reasons, that's y the divorce rate is so high. I don't want no man to married for any other reason then the fact that he loves, honors and respect me. Not cuz i'm pregnant or financial reasons or cuz our parents want us to, to only b unhappy
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    i‘m gonna b a mommie

    itiswhatitis
    @ strongblackwoman

    I understand what you are saying. I di realize we are a different generation but does honestly you get what you put out there. There are many women who desire to be married, but they either give the guy to much to soon, or start popping out babies so the men take the easy route and never marry them. There are many couples that have better relationships that married people have, that's an individual thing. Is it safe to assume that becasue we are a different generation we should lower our standards? The thing is this is not so much about the fact that people are havign babies out of wedlock for whatever reason and being fine with it. This has everything to do with sistahs who are selling themselves short. Like I said if you have no desire to be married then that's up to you but that's not the the case most of the time.
     

    Trish
    She is pretty

    @SBW so Eddie is the pappy huh

    What site is it on?
     

    texas_sweety
    Sometimes relationships work better with girlfriend and boyfriends title. Instead of husband and wife. Women are always pressuring men to make a commitment. Sometimes people change after marriage. End up divorcing a few years later. Why go through all that drama? Yep your right SBW... Marrying someone will not make them love you more.
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    standard
    @ITISWHATITIS, i'm sorry, i don't agree with u.
    If u have a man that loves and respect u how r u selling urself short? or would it b better if ur married to a man that abuse, cheat and disrespect u. In my opnion when u said selling urself short i assume ur talking about a woman being in a relationship with a man who does not handle his business is a woman selling herself short or vise versa, but if ur happy like Pharrell and his lady, she's not selling herself short. She's happy and that's the most important thing.
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    MsStarStatus82
    Awwww they looks cute and Im sure the baby will be too.
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    Pretty is a STRONG word, use it wisely!

    richgyrl22
    They definently make a Great couple. SHe's beautiful and so is he. They both look down to earth. COngats to them both. I wish them a healthy baby.

    Damn my feeling are hurt. That was my undercover boo. Why Pharrel.....WHY!!!!!
     

    strongblackwoman
    Trish I got that from my coworkers and this celeb blog, its posted earlier on this post...

    itiswhatitis my question to you why do you think a person is selling themselves short by not getting married? I really don't know the statistics about who wants to get married and who doesn't, my question to you is why do people feel marriage makes the relationship better? people should get married because they truly want to, my thing is I feel me and my hubby could have stayed bf/gf and it would have made no difference, I just don't see how marriage secures the deal or make things better, the only thing in my opinon about marriage is that it secures financial only making the couple one person in the government eyes...

    However I'm not knocking marriage by any means, if I can do it all I again I will, my thing is I just never understand how people can knock others who have babies out of wedlock etc. AT least its they are still a healthy loving couple is what should really matter.. but that is my opinion, I feel what you are saying... but I dont' feel like my generation is lowering our standards because we choose otherwise... our generation today is raised by parents who is teaching their young women and men to be independent, not find a man who will marry you, and that's just real so if you are going to blame anyone then it would have to be the parents of the children of this generation, and I will be to blame in the future as well because when I am blessed with kids I will be teaching them about independence as well, and love someone for who they are not if they will marry u or what they can do for you... but to each its own... a major generation gap...

    myspace.com/kia02_07
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    itiswhatitis
    @ standard

    I hear you. you don't have to agree with me. True indeed you can be in a relationship with a man who handles his business and married to one who doesn't. If you've been with a man and then marry him and he doesn't handle his responsibility chances are he never was. Men are creatures of habit. Most men don't change over night. That's neither here nor there. My point is when a man finds a woman that he values he marries her (given he's not a man who doesn't desire marriage) When a man repsects,loves, and values you enough to make a woman his life partner he proposes to her. I think we've gottne so accustomed to failed marriages that we can't fathum a succesful one. At the end of the day to each his own, btu I will not be a babies mother, nor wil I play wifey to a man. Like I said before that's just me!
     

    Scarlett
    @ SBW

    You spitting that knowledge... ain't mad at you...but i must say i agree with you
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    U saying the same Sh*T that he said...

    strongblackwoman
    so itiswhatitis you feel if a woman gets pregnant she has to be married? just having a stable relationship isn't enough? what is playing wifey? so a wife have roles? what roles do a girlfriend play? not starting any cyberbeef lol, I'm just really trying to understand your view point...

    myspace.com/kia02_07
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    strongblackwoman
    lol at Scarlett just trying to find some good dialogue today... lol..
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    itiswhatitis
    @ strongblackwoman

    I never said if you get pregnant get married. All of the thing I'm saying applies to women who want to get married. If you are someone who desires marriage, hold off on the kids until you do get married. It's like we have kids first and think about marriage second???!! Playing wifey is a home for a man and living like your are husband and wife (again speaking on the women who want to get married but sell themselves short) Understand of you have no desire to get married this is not for you, but I see many women daily who regret decisions they've made in relationships and when it was all said and done they are left bitter and with raising children by themselves. What I'm havign trouble understanding is why is everyone so quick to have children with men they don't want to marry? Why is my point so hard to understand? I don't get it
     

    italiancutie26
    Hey everyone, I'm a new member and I love this web site but their is definitely alot of HATING! I say she's cute doesn't matter what nationality she is. It is 2007, as long as people focus on what race can be with what race, this f'ed up world is never gonna change. And I agree, marriage is not for everybody and as long as they are happy what do we care?? And again not ALL "white girls" for people into marriage, I have been with my man for 5 years and I am happy as can be. I will get married one day, maybe to him, maybe not.
     

    purple
    Beautiful i just want you to know your my favorite girl! congards his girl is real pretty. I hope that her pregnancy is a sucess, a blessing.
     

    strongblackwoman
    okay itiswhatitis, I'm sorry but that wasn't clear in your previous statement that is why I asked, but I cosign if you are speaking of women who want to get married but sell themselves short, I'm sorry I was under the impression you were referring to all women who have kids from long time boyfriends...
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    keeno1
    WHY BOTHER TO GET MARRIED FIRST? After all, marriage is a bigger responsibility than a human life (insert sarcasm) RIGHT? Black folks are so lost...
     

    hotamale
    Brazillians have black in them , some are completely black. So I do see her as a black woman, but it should matter to us who he chooses as his mate and they make a great looking couple. But if she is pregnant, than he should marry her. My question is, why dont black men commit and marry their women rather than making them the "babymomma"
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    Scarlett
    Well ya'll are keeping it going..and thats good for me because i need something to make my time go by faster...

    pls proceed...lol
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    hotamale
    sorry I meant to say it 'should not' matter to us who he chooses as his mate
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    hotamale
    try reading a book sometimes
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    kkmarble
    AM IVE BEEN A FAN OF HIM FOR A WHILE AND HIM AND THIS GIRL HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A WHILE AND SHE IS NOT BRAZILIAN SHE IS FROM TRINIDAD AS MANY OF YOU HINTED..... SHE IS A VIDEO DIRECTOR FOR MANY CARIBBEAN ARTISTS...
     

    MONIQUEP
    MAYBE THEY DONT WANT TO GET MARRIED BUT DOES WANT TO HAVE KIDS. JUST BECAUSE A WOMAN HAS A BABY BY A MAN AND DOES NOT WANT TO MARRY HIM DOESNT MEAN SHE SHOULD NOT HAVE HIS BABY. MAYBE IN HER EYES AND BY THE WAY HE CARRIES HIMSELF SHE FEELS HE IS WORTHY ENOUGH TO BE THE FATHER OF HER CHILDREN BUT SHE'S JUST NOT THE TYPE OF PERSON TO GET MARRIED. THATS THE POINT THAT IS GOING OVER YOUR HEAD ITISWHATISIT.
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    drburke
    Great to see another couple that's happy together.
     

    girlygirl
    Getting pregnant after 5 years is a POWER move....think Lala!

    It's cool though, she's been down with him for 5 years. She deserves to be his wife. She's been playing wifey.
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    drburke
    Strongblack, again I agree. Marriage is for some, maybe not for others. One thing for sure, it doesn't guarantee anything. Financially, people do have a way of working things out for present and future needs. However, I think, that marriage is way less important than love and marriage doesn't guarantee that.
     

    keeno1
    I just finished reading through most of these posts and had to post again -- yes I said the same thing about tom and katie, and everyone else who keeps treating having these babies like
    it's a hobby. It's important to committed, AND married -- the children are affected and hurt most by some of yall's thinking, even though it might not show up right away and clearly, it will manifest itself in other ways, trust and believe.

    It's NOT okay to keep doing this and giving high fives and best wishes behind it, and all this "well some people ain't made for marriage" and "some people get along better without being married" is nonsense -- if that's the case, they don't need to be making babies together. Let's grow up for the sake of our poor lost race.
     

    standard
    @Strongblackwoman, once again ur on point, u better speak...LOL

    @ITISWHATITIS, i'm getting the assumption u think if ur not married then the man doesn't value his woman. Just like strongblack, not tryna start no cyberbeef, just curious, that's all
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    kimberlyfbaby
    she's got pretty hair.
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    strongblackwoman
    people please with the race shyt black folks arent' the only muthfukas having kids out of wedlock and black women aren't the only baby momma's, so please with that! and to me personally a baby momma is a woman who isn't with her kid's father, this chick is not a baby momma she is his girlfriend who happens to be pregnant with his child, damn people think for yourself sometimes and quit jumping on the bandwagon and letting people put shyt in your head...

    and why is this girl's race an issue seriously...

    Scarlett quit instigating lol...
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    lifegroove
    Pharrell got himself a cutie...homegirl is going to get paid.
     

    PrettyBoi
    all i can say about Pharrell is YUM!!

    Where's that hypocrite who's always quoting the Bible when gay stuff is on MTO? aint it funny how we can always find a Bible quote about homosexuality yet we can NEVER seem to find one about fornicating and having children out of wedlock? Not hating on Pharrell just that corny hypocrite broad who's always judging folks on here & using the Bible as a weapon against people she personally has a problem with.
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    strongblackwoman
    so keenol only married people make great parents? are you serious? lol
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    strongblackwoman
    what's up prettyboi
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    standard
    @keeno1, r u saying that having a baby out of wedlock will affect the baby, what if the couple is happy together?

    There's a girl at my job that thinks marriage is the ultimate love, but after only 10 months of marriage her husband is cheating on her. Now me personally, I'd rather have a b/f that loves and respect me, then a HUSBAND that treats me like sh1t
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    Scarlett
    @ SBW...ok i'm going to stop instigating right now...lol

    @ standard... i agree with you
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    Scarlett
    LMAO @ Prettyboi
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    gangstatrading
    Definitely a cutie. I can see she has to be atleast Part Indian with the name Vashti. About time you put a bun in that oven P. LOL!!!!!
     

    standard
    @Scarlett, u funny...LOL
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    DAGENERAL
    wha da hell??!!!..she's a cutie..I thought ice-cream man was a fudge-packer??...hahaha
     

    itiswhatitis
    @ standard

    Personally if I were in a relationship with a man who wasn't opposed to marriage, and he wanted to have children then see if we get around to marriage. Yes I wouldn't think he values or respects me. Figure out your plans for me and lets follow through, then we'll discuss raising a family..
     

    keely-jai
    they make a beautiful couple. lets hope they get married soon...
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    Scarlett
    @ standard

    just trying to make my time go by faster...but SBW my gurl...so she know i got to mess with her...she always spitting that knowledge and thats real talk...lol
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    MONIQUEP
    IM DONE WITH THIS CUZ PEOPLE ARE REALLY CLOSE MINDED. WHERE IS IT WRITIN THAT ONLY MARRIED COUPLES RAISE HEALTHY AND WELL ROUNDED KIDS THAT WILL GROW UP BETTER BECAUSE THEY HAVE TWO PARENTS IN THE HOUSEHOLD? DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY MARRIED COUPLES WHO HAVE KIDS ARE IN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS? DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH THAT EFFECTS KIDS? MARRIED PEOPLE ARE JUST LIKE UNMARRIED PEOPLE THEY JUST HAVE A LITTLE BIT MORE BENEFITS AND A DAMN PIECE OF PAPER. KIDS GROW UP ALL DIFFERENT KINDS OF WAYS WHETHER THEIR PARENTS RAISED THEM RIGHT OF NOT, THEY ARE GOING TO GROW UP AND DO WHATEVER THE HELL THEY WANT JUST LIKE WE ARE DOING RIGHT NOW. A CHILD COULD COME FROM A HAPPY FAMILY AND THEIR PARENTS COULD HAVE MARRIED FOR 30 YEARS AND THAT CHILD COULD BE A PSYCHO KILL JUST LIKE A KID WHO WAS RAISED BY A SINGLE PARENT. YOUR MARITAL STATUS DOES NOT DEFINE HOW YOUR KIDS WILL TURN OUT NEITHER DOES YOUR PARENTING SKILLS YOU JUST GOTTA HOPE AND PRAY YOU DID ALL YOU COULD DO TO TACH YOUR KIDS RIGHT FROM WRONG AND HOPE THEY FOLLOW WHAT YOU TAUGHT THEM INTO ADULT HOOD.

    MYSPACE.COM/POODIE_N_ILLA
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    italiancutie26
    Just out of curiosity, who said he WANTS kids or she WANTS kids? Maybe it was an oops and they have to deal with it. We all do things that could result in children but it doesn't mean we all want them right now. SHYT happens.
     

    italiancutie26
    Hey Monique- I like how you think!
     

    BklynRogue
    They do compliment each other, but yall already know what they say about two pretty people having a baby....it's gonna either come out looking like Amerie or a Gremlin!!!

    I know Kanye mad.
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    standard
    @ITISWHATITIS

    What do u mean plans, just because he decides to marry u doesn't mean its forever. plans don't last forever.
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    Justcause07
    Alot of sensible men don't commit because it's free to have the cow and the milk. When you go and commit your in the worst trouble because being married is not what it's cracked up to be and if you divorce you are stuck as a man with breaking off half. Why go through it.. You can have a family the old fashion ghetto way..
     

    MONIQUEP
    THANKS ITALIANCUTIE26
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    italiancutie26
    hey Justcause- do you see what's going on here? U are going to start WWIII with a comment like that. LOL!!!
     

    vanilla_one
    She is cute, and I think they make an adorable couple. I'm not sure what her race is but hey, I guess it works for Pharell.

    What up strongblackwoman, yesterday I was listening to the motor mouth Wendy Williams and she announced that Eddie Murphy was the father. I don't know where she got her info from, but that's what I was riding off of. I don't see it on any other site and I'm sure MTO would of put that as headline news instead of Pharell and his girlfriend. lol

    As far as this whole marriage issue, most couples prefer to keep it just as a long term relationship, whether a child is being raised by a single parent or both parents that child is gone grow up with it's own choices in life. They may develop great values but that can be learned from single parenting. Some children are raised with both parents and they child still grow up to be murderers, drug/alcohol abusers, child molesters and the whole nine.

    Me personally, I prefer not to be married based on my past relationships where I've been cheated on twice and that was enough to convince me that being married was not part of my agenda. I know they say don't let one apple spoil the whole bunch but hey that was enough for me. Because I figure if I was married and I got cheated on then I would of been in a whole 'nother predictament. Yar probably would of read the headlines "Crazy deranged bitch cut off husband's penis and stuffed it in his mouth along with bullet wound up the ass".
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    standard
    @Monique &Strongblackwoman, y'all really spitting that real talk, this is one of the reason y i like MTO
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    drip_drop
    <<<<<<<happy for them
     

    standard
    LMBAO @ Vanilla_one, we all would have a field day with the Headline. Forget Laureen Bobit.....Wait is that her name.
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    Scarlett
    LMBAO @ vanilla_one...gurl you wouldn't do that...or would you? LOL...but i do understand where you are coming from

    and yes that is her name...lol
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    KEEYSHAJ50
    PRETTY GIRL BUT I'LL BELIEVE IT WHEN I SEE HER BUMP ;)
    IF SO SUCH A BEAUTIFUL BABY IT'LL BE HOPE ITS A GIRL ;)
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    uramess
    I know for a fact this is not true.
     

    Tanjaleesa06
    she IS pretty! i like couples like this....they make pretty fine brown babies like me!!!


    Myspace.com/Tantalizingtangy
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    somethingtosay
    People dont get married anymore. Why not marry then have kids instead of just having babies? Hmm....
     

    noseydiva
    Today at work, I decided to bring my Pharrell CD. I hadn't heard it in a while. As soon as the first song started, I logged on to mediatakeout and look what I see! That is so weird. Anyway, even though I have a mad crush on Pharrell, I am happy that he has a beautiful black woman. Stop hatin people. She's gorgeous and very natural. Not every celebrity roles with model chicks.
     

    PrettyBoi
    Wassup Strongblackwoman!!!!!
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    PrettyBoi
    OK how old is Pharrell? cuz somebody told me he was like 35 and wrote "RumpShaker" by WrexNEffect way back in 1992???? is that true? Cuz if he is that old, he looks DAAAAAMN GOOD!!!!!
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    stefy7
    HE IS SEXY AS HELL AND THEY R A REALLY CUTE COUPLE
     

    margo
    [SPAM] just reported that MTO has it's facts wrong. They said Pharrell hasn't seen the young lady in over a year and she has a new man. They not sure if she's pregnant, but if so, he's not the one.What's up with that?
     

    Guilty_Pleasure
    I guess the poor girl held out as long as she could for that ring.
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    kkmarble
    um mediatakeout [SPAM] is saying you guys are wrong..pharrell you are not the father
     

    Jessgrl
    They are a really cute couple. I'm glad Pharrell ahsn't sold out. They are going to havbe some cutiepie kids. Congrats to the both of them
     

    yeah_and
    So.
     

    email2michael
    bignsweet1966 Flag post
    Yet another black couple bringing another black bastard into this world. After five years, she gets to be not a wife but a "baby momma." Thats so sweet(fake smile). Well, at least she picked a man who is able to support a child.
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    I hope you know how NIGNORANT you are for that remark. Do you know the two words used to make up "NIGNORANT"? Figure it out? Because they both apply to your dumb @ss.
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    Zmoney
    I'm just glad she's black. She's cute though, not spectacular but cute. I think Pharrell can do better, but hey if the love is there more power to them I hope their happy.
     

    Dubya
    **BREAKING NEWS**
    PHARRELL IS NOT GONNA BE A DADDY! FO REAL
    (because guys can't get pregnant)
     

    daviano
    thought pharrell might be a lil sweet for a minute...second thought...still do
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    prtybrwneyes
    M_I_L_F having children is an even bigger step than marriage! Why because at least if you found out you married the wrong person there is always divorce...the kids are yours for life! Marriage only affects the two getting married, having a baby affects the and innocent person who did not ask to be here! I just found out that I am becoming an aunt AGAIN and my brother has 3 children already for 3 women! "I" demanded that he marry his current pregnant girlfriend because this is becoming stupid and he needs to make a family with this woman and their child this time instead of like the last 3 missing out on being a part of their life. He has hurt 3 children by not being an effective and active part of their lives..yeah he pays thier support but children need more than money, they need a males love and time and emotional support. Look at Lebron and his girlfriend just dropping babies left and right, unless they sign some type of co-habitation agreement these baby mama's are screwed! So what you get a hefty child support check, what about the mother's rights when she has been with a man supporting his career and whatever for years? Some of you fail to realize all the benefits that a spouse (male or female) are intitled to in the event of one their deaths. How many of your jobs allow you to add your baby mama onto your insurance plan? How many baby mama's do you know recieve death benefits? Not only that if the woman ever really wants to be married but never marries her baby's father, depending on the number of kids she has this will also reduce her chances of marriage or maybe not cause we all know how some men will run out on their own kids and then pick up with some other woman and her kids!
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    ninja
    ATTENTION THIS IS SO FAKE!!!!

    FROM [SPAM].COM

    Pharrell is NOT Going to Be a Baby Daddy

    A report burning up the net claims that superproducer Pharrell Williams is going to be a daddy with his "girlfriend of nearly 5 years," Vashtie Kola, who's pregnant with their kid.

    But Pharrell tells [SPAM] that the news is "100% not true," and we're told by a source close to Williams that he hasn't even seen her in over a year.

    MediaTakeOut.com reported the "news," claiming that the couple are trying to keep the pregnancy "under wraps," but our source says that Kola actually has a new boyfriend, and that no one is even certain that she's pregnant. We're told that Pharrell is "not sure why this is coming out now."

    http://www.[SPAM].com/2007/06/15/pharrell-is-not-going-to-be-a-baby-daddy/
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    itiswhatitis
    @ standard

    If I go into my marriage with the mind frame of it won't last forever why get married? Just becasue marriages are failing I should have no desire to get married? I'm not naive and I know the divorce rate is high.
     

    ninja
    AND TO Z MONEY
    SHE'S NOT LIGHT ENOUGH RIGHT????

    YOU FUCKEN MORON I BET YOU DON'T LOOK ALL THAT GOOD EITHER!!!!

    THAT GURL IS VERY FUCKEN GORGEOUS AND MAKES ME PROUD TO BE BLACK!!!!
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    ninja
    SOME OF YOU BRAINWASHED WEAK MINDED BLACK FOLK NEED TO GET A FU@KEN CLUE!!!

    GO SUCK A WHITE DICK YOU SELF HATING [EXPLETIVE]!!!!

    THIS IS TOO ALL THE LOST BLACK FOLK ONLY SO SMART FOLK DON'T BE OFFENDED.
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    PreppyNoir
    I just saw that ninja and, like you handle would suggest, you beat me to it. And MTO already has an update. MTO on HIGH ALERT! Handle your scandal! LOL

    I'm gaining a little bit more respect for MTO...
     

    strongblackwoman
    MTO WRONG AGAIN DAMN...

    yeah vanilla_one everyone in my office was screaming eddie was the father but they got it from a celeb blog but we will see hopefully lol at your comment about cutting the diyk off lol
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    disconnexionsdotcom
    Awww, so can their new baby play with Ne-Yo's child that MTO reported about last week, or is story made up too?? LOL This site makes up more stories than Stephen King...

    www.disconnexions.com
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    euphemia
    MONIQUEP

    @SEXY KIMMIE WHERE ARE YOU GETTING YOUR STATS FROM. THERE IS A BILLION AND ONE WHITE COUPLES THAT HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR LONG PERIODS OF WITH KIDS AND THEY ARE NOT MARRIED. HOW DARE YOU SAY ONLY SISTAS STAY WITH THEIR MEN HAVE KIDS AND ARE OK WITH NOT GETTING


    there are lots of white couples who have children out of wedlock,but if you read statistics and live in a heavily populated area with blacks you would know that there are much more unmarried black couples than whites.that's a fact,a sad one,but a fact nonetheless.why are so many black women in denial?i live in atlanta,meet and talk to many black women everyday where i work,and alot of them yearn for a good man,they yearn to be married and have a nice family;and that's natural,so what i don't get it when you have black women trying to explain the low marriage rate amongst blacks as"not everybody wants to be married" when the numbers are beyond that.then there's the xtreme "would you rather marry an abusive husband"...don't marry a no good man.can someone please come better than that?
     

    standard
    @ITISWHATITIS

    Not saying going into a marriage with the frame of mind that its not gonna work. I'm saying marriage is not forever, its suppose to b but its not. U might plan to get married, but divorces r not plans and it happens more then ever now. Be happy with what's going on in ur life NOW cuz the furture is not promised and neither is marriage
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    standard
    This is a subject that can go on and on. My advice would b, don't worry about what everyone else is doing. Take care of urself and enjoy life. Don't let anyone tell u want they think U should do with ur life, they don't walk in ur shoes, they don't live in ur house and their not sleeping in ur bed.
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    PreppyNoir
    Most of those people at [SPAM] don't even know who Pharrell is.

    At this point, the discussion is more interesting the news story. It's true that not every black woman wants to get married. And among those who don't feel their life depends on it, it's not like they just woke up the day they started puberty and said they don't want to get married. A lot of life happens to get you to that point.
     

    I_LOVE_I_AM
    I agree with itiswhatitis...

    I'm from the 'new generation' and I very much value my independence...however, where I'm from, being a 'wife' holds a helluva lot more clout than being a 'baby's mother' regardless of whether or not our relationship is strong and loving and trustworthy and all that other great stuff...

    I'd much rather be a wife than a baby's mother
     

    richchick
    I SEE HE READS MTO TOO OR HIS FRIENDS!!...I SAW YOUR "CLICK HERE" ALL BEC SHE'S IN HIS CLOTHING ADS DOES NOT MAKE HER HIS GIRL!! I THINK PHARRELL IS A HARD WORKING MAN BUT IT'S HARD TO BELIEVE GROWN PEOPLE WEAR ALL THOSE COLORS TOGETHER AT 1 TIME =0)
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    standard
    How about I'd much rather b loved and respected then in a marriage that not stong, loving and trustworthy.
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    itiswhatitis
    @ I_LOVE_I_AM

    Holla!
     

    itiswhatitis
    @ sandard

    Why do you assume that every marriage is weka, and will end in divorce?
     

    itiswhatitis
    @ standard

    For me marriage is respect. I can't have children w/o being married first! For those who are going to say what happens if you get pregant? Oops ups happen when you are careless. If you really don't want to get pregnant you won't.
     

    work_it_ladies
    He is not with vashtie...she goes out with some Asian man
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    strongblackwoman
    I_Love_I_am: okay why would you worry about what others think of you? I ask this because you stated wife holds more clout than baby mama... see this is my problem with this fuked up Patriarchal society have women thinking they have roles in society assuming that if you want a better life play your role and get married, when you can have a better life without that title you and your soulmate... I'm not judging you nor do I find ANYTHING WRONG WITH PEOPLE WHO WANT TO GET MARRIED FOR THE RIGHT REASONS AND NOT BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT SOCIETY TELLS YOU IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO...

    myspace.com/kia02_07
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    strongblackwoman
    now itiswhatitis the only way a person can avoid pregnancy is by abstenance and if you saying that is an easy thing to do then boy I wish I had that stamina lol, because pregnancy isn't that easy to avoid unless you are celibate, which is very rare in this generation lol...

    myspace.com/kia02_07
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    itiswhatitis
    @ strongblackwoman

    Celibacy is definitely the only way you have no chance of getting pregnant, but there are condoms and birth control. Been having intercourse for many years never been pregnant once becasue I didn't want to be.
     

    Question
    Quoted from [SPAM].com:

    A report burning up the net claims that superproducer Pharrell Williams is going to be a daddy with his "girlfriend of nearly 5 years," Vashtie Kola, who's pregnant with their kid.

    But Pharrell tells [SPAM] that the news is "100% not true," and we're told by a source close to Williams that he hasn't even seen her in over a year.

    MediaTakeOut.com reported the "news," claiming that the couple are trying to keep the pregnancy "under wraps," but our source says that Kola actually has a new boyfriend, and that no one is even certain that she's pregnant. We're told that Pharrell is "not sure why this is coming out now."

    http://www.[SPAM].com/2007/06/15/pharrell-is-not-going-to-be-a-baby-daddy/
     

    Question
    End of story. Move on.
     

    strongblackwoman
    man itiswhatitis then I must be using the wrong damn birthcontrol cuz I got pregnant in 2005 and not on purpose and i took my pill every day at the same time never missed a day and my ass popped up preggars lol.... no kids though... lost it... but we even had on a condom... i just might have bad luck lol...
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    killdanoise1
    @MONIQUEP - SHE NEEDS SURGERY! SHE'S NOT THAT CUTE - she needs a little "tweeking" around the nose area. her nose does not fit her face - lololololol!
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    strongblackwoman
    folks we don't care about the headline so please quit that movin on shyt we on some other shyt if you don't want to be bother BLOG ELSEWHERE na mean! lol
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    itiswhatitis
    @ strongblackwoman

    wow!
     

    italiancutie26
    Hey itiswhatitis- guess what you can have an oops, it happens everyday. Who uses a condom, takes birth control, uses a sponge and pulls out? that's about the only prevention next to celabacy. I'll abmit I take the pill and I have never been pregnant neither have you, but that makes us lucky not more careful
     

    Suggamama
    Having a child with your husband is an honor. All children are blessings. See the problem is that we have so many women being reared in household without daddy's that they can not phathom the idea of what it would be like to have a dad in the household. Now that's sad. This is not meant to put anyone down. I feel like I can speak(type)freely because I am a bastard child just like they say Jesus was. My mom and dad just went and did they thang but its all good I am not mad at them I have just learned to make some different choices in my life. A child needs needs both parents. Its so unfair for a mother to rear her children alone just like its unfair for father to do it all by himself. The child wasn't created by one. It was created by 2 so why not 2 share in the continual growth and development of the child.

    I understand why the younger generation is so angry and disillusioned and sad. They want they daddy. Oh and Happy Fathers Day to all the Dads.
     

    italiancutie26
    tell 'em strongblackwoman, it's deep up in here! :)
     

    killdanoise1
    @MONIQUEP - YOU ARE ON A ROLE TODAY CHILE! YOU ARE ALL OVER THIS POST.....SOMEONE'S BORED AT WORK. LOLOLOLOLOL!
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    deeelite
    This story is a lie. Pharrell says so, he said he hasnt seen this girl in over a year. [SPAM] called out Media Take Out, lol. See link below.

    http://www.[SPAM].com/2007/06/15/pharrell-is-not-going-to-be-a-baby-daddy/
     

    itiswhatitis
    @ italiancutie26

    Nope never been pregnant.
     

    chelly04
    I don't think it's true. He was at an awards show and told Wendy Williams he wasn't with her b/c she cheated on him. That was over a year ago. She is pretty though..but she doesn't deserve him in my opinion
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    KiluRenee
    this isnt true
     

    italiancutie26
    yeah I know, me neither but that makes us lucky not necessarily MORE careful.
     

    italiancutie26
    we know the story is not true, we're on some other shyt
     

    email2michael
    MTO is like Dan Rather..sticking to their story nomatter what folks say haha
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    standard
    @ITISWHATIITIS:

    I'm not saying every marriage will fail, but my thing is things happen whether ur married or not, u can b in an abusive relationship or marriage. I'm tryna understand what's so important about the "title" Someone said they would much rather b a wife then a baby momma whether or not the situation is healthy. To me that person sounds insecure. I don't wanna b no man's wife if they don't treat me right, just like i don't wanna b no man's b/f if he don't treat me right. Marriage does not mean put u on a pedestal.
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    strongblackwoman
    Hey italiancutie26 must be a newbie!

    Suggamama: I hear you and cosign with the fact a child does need both parents, but I guess I put a glitch in your study because I was raised by a man a man alone, and my mom ditched on us, so therefore I'm not speaking out from not having a father, but I do understand where you are coming from, my dad just raised me to do things that you are comfortable with and not because you are told too...
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    italiancutie26
    i alway log on but just became a member and i happen to agree with most of what you say :)
     

    standard
    @Strongblackwoman:

    My Dad passed when i was 12yrs old and i co-sign with Suggamma on that also. My stepfather was there but we hated him, so i know when i have my children i want nothing more but for the my kids to know their father the way i knew my dad.
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    strongblackwoman
    lol at italiancutie26!
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    Scarlett
    @ SBW

    See what happens when i leave and go to lunch...man ya'll are having a good debate...so let me put my 2 cents in...

    I agree with everyone (sbw, standard and itiswhatitis)!!!! lol
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    italiancutie26
    @ strongblackwoman - :)
     

    italiancutie26
    a little off subject but I wish that MTO would update like [SPAM] does, on here they only update once a day
     

    strongblackwoman
    yeah Scarelett when I went to lunch and came back I had to jump back in the mix lol

    italiancutie26 to be honest MTO sucks, but I only log in to chat and debate with others though... Mto never be on point or accurate with their stories lol
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    strongblackwoman
    I can't debate like this on those kind of sites, [SPAM] perezhilton yahooanswers, no offense, but those people are some racist muthafus and by time I'm finish i be wanting to kill someone, I use to blog on yahoo answers alot but I couldn't do it anymore... too much ignorance
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    SoSad1ty
    SHES PRETTY UH-O IM SCARED OF THEM LOL!!!
     

    italiancutie26
    yeah I agreee, it's like soon as they hear something they post it without researching to be sure, but I do love the debate
     

    itiswhatitis
    @ standard

    I agree I wouldn't wan tto be in a relationship/marriage with a man that treats me bad, but FOR ME part of it is repsect, and it is the ultimate commitment. I know the marriage CAN end in divorce but atleast my man though enough of me to make the commitment. Having a bf is an agreement/understanding. Having a husband is totally different
     

    BossBitch
    You know what MTO- IAM SICK OF YALL SH!T WIT DA FUKKIN LIES. Yall HAVE GOT TO DO BETTER. How hard is it to just post sh1t thats dam true. Somebody is gonna sue da brakes off yall asses and we gone be somewhere else bloggin laughing our asses off- THIS SH!T IS RIDICULOUS. Yall always lyin-FOR NO REASON-
    GET IT TOGETHER- A S A FUKKIN P
     

    Offmymind
    THIS STORY IS A LIE, PAHRRELL SAY'S HE HASN'T SEEN THIS CHICK IN OVER A YEAR!
     

    italiancutie26
    hey itiswhatitis and standard, sre you guys married and/or have children? just curious
     

    Scarlett
    @ italiancutie26

    Mto get almost all the stories wrong...but thats ok...i like the debates that people have on here...lol
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    italiancutie26
    since they get everything wrong, they might as well confirm that Eddie is the dad, since we all know he is anyways. LOL!!
     

    itiswhatitis
    @ italiancutie26

    Not yet.
     

    standard
    @ITISHWATITIS

    I want make sure i understand u: "at least my man thought of me enough to make that commitment". so if he doesn't commit r u saying he doesn't love u enough or think of u? Please say no, cuz that's just bull
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    strongblackwoman
    Bossbitch they dun pis_sed you off huh? lol

    myspace.com/kia02_07
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    standard
    Off the Subject: Eddie needs to b slap right in his face. Everyone knew he was the dad, but him.
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    italiancutie26
    I'm just wondering. I'm not married and I don't have kids but I have been with my b/f for 5 years. Some would say why stay together for so long and not get married? I think there is alot of speculation going on here about what is right and wrong for everyone but in all actually what is right or wrong for me or you, might not be right or wrong for everyone else.
     

    Scarlett
    @ italiancuite26

    I know right...i wonder what's taking so long

    @ standard...i see that you are still debating...lol
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    italiancutie26
    to standard - eddie knows too, that jack ass!
     

    itiswhatitis
    @ standard

    If I am in a relationship with a man and he deosn't marry me then no obviously I'm not the one for him. I am not abut wasting my time, and since I will not have children out of wedlock (and having children is something that I strongly desire) why waste time with someone who deosn't have the same goals in mind? It might be bull to you, but like I said FOR ME this how it is.
     

    texas_sweety
    Thats why it not even worth it SBW.. save your energy girl. Okay MTO yall had me on this story. I cant believe I fell for it...lol
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    Scarlett
    italiancuite26

    what might work for you, might not work for someone else...bottom line is...only you know what you truly want...or what works for you

    some people might say a title complicates things...but thats for you to decide
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    italiancutie26
    in a perfect world we would all be happily married with lots kids and lots of money. we would live in big houses and drive nice cars. there would no crime, no violence, no abuse and no cheating. guess what everyone, this is NOT a perfect world we live in. not even close!
     

    itiswhatitis
    @ italiancutie26

    That's cool if it works for you. Do you plan on having children? with your current bf, or in general?
     

    texas_sweety
    wait.... I thik I'm late so Eddie is the father.
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    italiancutie26
    in a perfect world we would all be happily married with lots kids and lots of money. we would live in big houses and drive nice cars. there would no crime, no violence, no abuse and no cheating. guess what everyone, this is NOT a perfect world we live in. not even close!
     

    italiancutie26
    @ itiswhatitis, do I plan on having kids? yes, one day. With my current b/f? not unless he becomes my husband
     

    Scarlett
    @ texas_sweety

    I heard he is!
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    itiswhatitis
    @ italiancutie26

    Why aren't you having children before marriage?

    Just curious..i guess my reasons aren't good anough for MTO lol
     

    standard
    @Scarlett, yeah i'm still debating, its cool tho. These r the debates i like. No one has been called out their name, no one is talking about my momma and i haven't been called stupid either....LOL
    Oh wait...i c u still co-signing....LOL
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    italiancutie26
    personal preference, i agree with most of what you say but like i said what's good or bad for me or you might not be for others
     

    standard
    dang MTO has nothing on Eddie and his jackasssss. He needs to donate some of that sperm, having all these damn babies, he got like 5 with his wife.
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    standard
    i mean his ex-wife
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    italiancutie26
    be right back, break time at work :)
     

    Scarlett
    @ standard

    I like these kind of debates too...everybody is cool...and not getting ignorant

    *****CLAPPING*****

    GOOD JOB EVERYBODY

    yea i'm still co-signing..LOL
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    Scarlett
    @ standard

    and word on the street is...he had a kid before he got married...but i don't know how true that is
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    QueenNisha
    She's not pregnant by Pharrell MTO, Ya'll have been exposed for the liars that you are on T M Z.com. He hasn't even seen her in over a year.
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    ☆ I feel like me again☆

    standard
    @Scarlett

    Everyone is mature about it, u know how they can get, u cross them and its ur mamma this, and u stupid b1tch that, so it was cool today.

    Damn, he got that potent sperm. I wouldn't even want touching me, knocking me and i'd b screaming all we did was kiss.
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    seeker
    Ya'll being called out by [SPAM] about this.
     

    italiancutie26
    ok, i'm back. that subject is old now, what do ya wanna talk about now?
     

    italiancutie26
    hey scarlett- your momma! LOL!!! :)
     

    tinytexasdiamond
    HEY MIAMI THAT WAS SOME FUNNY SHHHHH!!!!LMBAO
    I WAS DAMN NEAR CRYING CAUSE I COULD BUSS OUT LAUGHING!!
    I NEEDED THAT WITH ALL THESE SERIOUS CONVERSATIONS GOING ON..
    WELL LET ME SAY THIS, I AM A SINGLE PARENT WHO TRIES TO WORK THINGS OUT WITH MY SON'S FATHER SO MY CHILD CAN GROW UP IN A TWO PARENT HOME AND ALSO BECAUSE THERE ARE THINGS I CANT TEACH HIM BEING A WOMAN THAT ONLY A MAN CAN.BUT IN THE SAME INSTANCE WE DONT GET ALONG..SO WHY GET MARRIED JUST BECAUSE SOCIETY SAYS ITS RIGHT AND BE UNHAPPY? PLUS THAT HAVING A BABY OUT OF WEDLOCK IS SO PLAYED OUT!!! WHO DOES THAT ANYMORE!!
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    Scarlett
    @ italiancutie26

    what's up...your momma...lol
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    Scarlett
    @ standard

    yes he is potent...he's so potent if he looks at you...you will be knocked up!!! lol
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    italiancutie26
    what does everyone want to talk about now? I have a hour left to kill and that subject is old.
     

    standard
    @Scarlett....LOL

    Eddie is cute and all but sh1t walk pass him and i'm 12wks LOL
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    itiswhatitis
    @italiancutie26

    I agree
     

    italiancutie26
    so NOT cute!!
     

    Scarlett
    @ italiancuite26...i don't know...it's pretty much a open forum

    @ standard...LOL
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    standard
    Everytime i go back to the main page, i keep Kelis chickenhead looking assss, all she need is that bright yellow bird outfit from that movie with Dave Chappelle. Does anyone know what the name of the movie is.
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    italiancutie26
    any suggestions anyone? where did strongblackwoman go?
     

    italiancutie26
    Kelis is sooooo not cute with her pink azz hair!!!!
     

    italiancutie26
    only dave chappelle mivie i know of is block party and i never saw it
     

    omgisthis4real
    5 years and now this chick is preg? common people he always said he wanted 2 be married first be4 he started knocking bitches up, either p need to get it together or this is BS and pharrell iz too much of a ladies man to be tied up and he yell single all the time check it out your self www.myspace.com/therealcaress
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    yeah I promote STARTRAK so what?????

    standard
    I think it was one of the scary movies, Shawn Wayans was laying on the bed and he wanted her to dress up in that bright yellow bird suit and made her walk around and cluck like a chicken.
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    vanilla_one
    @standard, r u talking 'bout Half Baked? Cause that's what comes to mind when I think of a yellow bird outfit, lol.
    He was also in Blue Streak with Martin
    and Nutty Professor with Eddie Murphy and I don't recall him wearing that in any of those two movies. lol
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    italiancutie26
    b4 he started "knocking bitches up"? wow, we were having an intelligent convo. sorry no offence.
     

    standard
    @vanilla_one, its half baked. that sh1t was funny.
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    vermoo
    I tried to look at the pictures that the article was referring to, and it was a picture without a head! What is that all about?!
     

    standard
    i was all off...LOL
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    italiancutie26
    i didn't know dave chappelle was in all those movies?
     

    Scarlett
    Half Baked...that ish was funny as hell...dave where are you?...come back to us!!!lol
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    miab
    THIS IS A BUNCH OF BULL!!!!!
    TAKE A LOOK AT [SPAM].COM,

    THEN STAY TUNED FOR MTO'S RETRACTION!

    PEACE
     

    italiancutie26
    hey miab- is your name mia for real?
     

    italiancutie26
    no actually we found that out like 4 hours ago, hunny, but nice name, that's cute!
     

    puffy
    MTO ya'll are so clueless. Just because they are in the same photo album that don't mean that they were there together.
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    Scarlett
    lol @ italiancuite26
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    italiancutie26
    scarlett- you r still here? i thought everyone left.
     

    Scarlett
    i'm about to leave in 5 minutes...what about u?
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    italiancutie26
    still got 20 minutes or so...maybe we'll talk on Monday... have a good weekend!
     

    Scarlett
    @ italiancutie26...yea we will talk on monday...you have a good weekend as well

    *****Scarlett is leaving the building now lol...MTO readers have a good weekend****
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    MONIQUEP
    @killdanoise1

    LOL AREN'T WE ALL BORED AT WORK CUZ IM PRETTY SURE THATS WHERE EVERYONE IS USING THEIR COMPANIES COMPUTERS, LOL. BUT I NEEDED A LIL TIME TO BURN SO I DID MY THING ON THIS.

    MYSPACE.COM/POODIE_N_ILLA
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    I_LOVE_I_AM
    This is late but...@strongblackwoman: It isn't so much about what other people think, for me, I'm just stating a fact about where I'm from. For me it's more about the biblical institution of marriage.
    @ standard....sweetie, I'm not insecure ~smiles~ I guess what I said came out the wrong way...when I said I'd rather be a wife than a babies mother regardless of the love etc etc I didn't mean I'd settle for a marriage where there was no love...I meant that if our relationship is going to be one of love and trust and respect etc etc REGARDLESS of what title we use with one another, why not use the title of Husband and Wife. We will still have the love..trust..etc etc regardless...I hope I cleared that up
     

    I_LOVE_I_AM
    Have a good weekend ladies :-)
     

    mscreative1
    they look cute togather
    www.myspace.com/mscreative101
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    Tiniva
    Pharrell is NOT Going to Be a Baby Daddy
    Posted Jun 15th 2007 12:32PM by [SPAM] Staff
    Filed under: Music

    A report burning up the net claims that superproducer Pharrell Williams is going to be a daddy with his "girlfriend of nearly 5 years," Vashtie Kola, who's pregnant with their kid.

    But Pharrell tells [SPAM] that the news is "100% not true," and we're told by a source close to Williams that he hasn't even seen her in over a year.

    MediaTakeOut.com reported the "news," claiming that the couple are trying to keep the pregnancy "under wraps," but our source says that Kola actually has a new boyfriend, and that no one is even certain that she's pregnant. We're told that Pharrell is "not sure why this is coming out now."

    Fake!
     

    ninja
    damn Tiniva you're so LATE!
    LMOA
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    muy mal

    Tiniva
    Damn Ninja, STFU!!!! 'LMAO'
     

    shonene2100
    since i am new to MTO i actually believe this story but now i see yall are a bunch of lieing bastards i cant believe sh!t on here. damn u
     

    gamecents1
    another man gets trapped
    i hope it's not true
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    houston party 5/2/ 08 club on the bayou

    c
    Skateboard P is about to have a baby Neptune. Thats cool. Pharrell always seemed cool to me and he's one of my influences, I will forever be a fan of the Neptunes. Shoutout to Chad, the other Neptune. Congrats P and keep makin music that is out of this world. (Throwing Up the StarTrak Sign.)
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    Was There Any REASONABLE DOUBT

    mia3425
    SHE IS VERY PRETTY...I WISH THEM BOTH THE BEST OF LUCK , THEY MAKE A BEAUTIFUL COUPLE!!
     

    MsGottabody
    THAT LUCKY &%$*@...WELL IF THIS STORY IS TRUE CONGRATS. HOPEFULLY HE'LL MARRY HER ASS SO SHE WON'T BE A BABY'S MAMA FOR LONG. AWH THEY'LL BE A LIL SKATEBOARD P RUNNING AROUND.
     

    MsGottabody
    THAT LUCKY &%$*@...WELL IF THIS STORY IS TRUE CONGRATS. HOPEFULLY HE'LL MARRY HER ASS SO SHE WON'T BE A BABY'S MAMA FOR LONG. AWH THEY'LL BE A LIL SKATEBOARD P RUNNING AROUND.
     

    MsGottabody
    I BELIEVE SHE'S A TRINI GAL. I WONDER IN THAT SONG BAD ASS WHEN HE SAYS"...IT'S YOUR DARK, YOUR JUICY LIPS...", WAS HE TALKIN BOUT HER? ALWAYS THOUGHT HE WAS TALKIN ABOUT ME. PHARRELL WILL DO THE RIGHT THING & MARRY HER. I GUESS I'LL BURN MY PIC W/HIM 2NITE. DAMN I'M JEALOUS!!!
     

    partyxxgrrl
    [SPAM] IS TELLING THE TRUTH! THAT GIRL IS A FU**IN GOLDDIGGER WHO WAS OUT FOR PHARRELL'S MONEY AND TO GET FAMOUS HER DAMN SELF. F**CKIN GOLDDIGGER.
     

    mzarrogance
    she's cute w/ and w/o makeup.

    if she was that much of a gold digger, he wouldn't have spent 4 or 5 years of his life with her. please! it's easier for a golddigger to get a man anyway b/c men are drawn to what they say they don't want first. this comment isn't towards you, but that's the real.
     

    215girl
    That top pic is like 3 years old. They do make a cute couple but I am glad this is not true, now I still have a chance with him :)
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    blatina48
    she is too cute
     

    Yve
    They are cute together.
     

    hotamale
    Her race is not an issue for me. Statitics have proven that black men are less likely to marry the women they have children with. That's all. And I am asking why. Why are these black men afraid of commitment. Yes I am asking this...thank you, have a good weekend
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    Goliano
    That photoshoot doesn't prove anything. They're never in the same pic together. Hell, two people can sing on the same recording and never see each other. Typical MTO bullsh!t.
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    Cali2Atl
    she is adorable.
     

    Sleeky
    WELL I WAS ABOUT TO SAY CONGRATULATIONS TO THE FIRST AFRICAN AMERICAN LESBIANS WHO ARE OPENLY HAVING KIDS TOGETHER, BUT IF PHARELL DENIES IT MAYBE HE'S LEARNING FROM ROSIE'S MISTAKE ABOUT BEING OPEN ABOUT LESBIANS RAISING KIDS, YOU DON'T WANT TOUPEE MAN DONALD TRUMP THREATENING TO TAKE YOUR GIRLFRIEND WHEN YOU'RE IN THE STUDIO, SO I WOULD SAY THAT'S A SMART MOVE ON PHARELL'S PART, KEEP IT UNDER WRAPS AND DENTAL DAMS, ARTIFICIAL INSEMIGAYTION IS THE WAY TO GO (WINK)
     

    Sleeky
    WHY IS PHARELL STILL ROCKING VON DUTCH LOOKING HATS, EWWWWW HOW LAME, STEP YOUR FASHION GAME UP PHARELL HOW SICK, YOU SHOULD STAY FAAAAAR AWAY FROM ANYTHING THAT LOOKS VON DUTCH LIKE.
     

    Sleeky
    SEEING A VON DUTCH HAT OR ANYTHING REMISCENT OF ONE IS LIKE SEEING BEYONCE ON TV, IT'S TIRED AND DONE
     

    Sleeky
    REMINISCENT MY BAD
     

    Unique2009
    That first pic she reminded me of Chilli...he looks How u doin to me.
     

    tmarti30
    Great conversation going- i wish i hadn't gotten into it so late. But let's be real - most of the times its really the MAN who doesn't want to marry the WOMAN who is pregnant with his kid.

    The woman may act as though it's no big deal- but really- I think most of the time she would ...esp. after having the child and really seeing how hard it is to be a single mom.

    Men who have "girlfriends" with kids by them- CHEAT. Sorry- but it's true. A man not being "ready" is his way of letting the woman know he still wants to mess with other women---or in the back of his mind he's thinking there is still something better out there that he might find- and he doesnt want the legal tie down.

    All the young ladies saying marriage isn't important- are probably still young. But young ladies listen- as you get older you're minds will probably change!!!! You do eventually get tired of clubbing 4 nights a week- and the stuff that was important isn't....when a woman (and most men) get older they want to have a "life partner" ...not saying you have to be married- but honestly- men can be the biggest dawgs -most still but "wifey" in a special category in their minds!

    I understand what @itiswhatitis has been sayinng all along. Women have to stop "settling" and convincing ourselves it's o.k. Until we start being really honest with what it is we want in our relationships and not only demanding it---
    but sticking by the Demand-----

    As mi abuela (granny) used to say- "A man's only gonna do what you let him"....and "why buy the milk when you already got the cow"....

    There's a reason why these sayin's have been around sooooo long- they are true!
     

    partyxxgrrl
    MEDIATAKEOUT GET BETTER SOURCES!
     

    Baby_kay
    OH OK///
     

    zebrahead
    wow!

    i am sooooo late with this and i'm sure this post will be up for a while...

    she is a beautiful girl and looking at her, you would think that pahrell wouldn't mind having a bazillion babies w/ her.

    BUT, who knows how this lady carries herself as a woman, friend, daughter, or potential mother. what's behind that smile??? just b/c she's pretty doesn't mean that she's wife material and we shouldn't point the finger at these rich celebrities and blame them for not wanting to marry these women they get pregant or date for waaaaay too long! we think that men aren't as serious about marriage...WRONG! they are pickier than women.

    all the money in the world doesn't make you smart and for damn sure can't buy integrity. just b/c you're pretty DOES NOT mean a man will marry you, give you half his loot, not to mention impregnate you so that his kids will have a 50/50 chance of being just as trifling as the female he's gotten pregnant. there are some men out there who care about these things!

    and yes... i do agree w/ tmarti30 quite a bit!

    ladies we have to start showing some respect and earn it so these men won't have any excuse to treat us like the diamonds we are. if these men had more than a body to work with. i'm talkin about the woman who can hold her own, financially, mentally, spiritually...is cultured and listens to more than just beyonce and lil wayne, then maybe these guys wouldn't have to hop around wasting their time w/ chicks who ONLY poseess 25% of each characterstic.

    yes...they make a cute couple, but the future is forever. DOES that beautiful (and that lady is gorgeous) have what it takes to keep that man happy FOREVER! can she assure him of that OUTSIDE the bedroom?????

    men want LOVE to. they just go about finding it differently.

    BUT, they do make a gorgeous couple. she's rare! i hope she's more than just a pretty face

    peace.
     

    Smiley009
    Pharrell is so fine! His girlfriend is pretty to. If she really is pregnant, they'll have some pretty babies.
     

    misstreysongz
    damn pharrell do it! she's pretty and he's fine as hell so they'll be alright in the baby department! congrats if she's pregnant, oh well if she's not
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    gigi2007
    I dont think they have been together for 5 years..he was dating Jade Jagger and I dont think that was more than 5 years ago..I have to agree with Zebrahead and TMarti30..the people who are saying its no big deal for them to be together that long and still not be married especially now that shes pregnant are either young, or are babies mommas..women who say they dont care about marriage are programmed into believing this after their man constantly tells them hes not trying to marry them..she has to force herself to believe that..or she keeps dating losers who wont commit so she gives up and thinks it will never happen for her..so she makes herself believe that marriage is no big deal..these women that get with rappers and celebs dont always have the best character or judgment and just because Pharell is never in the center of controversy and isnt a thug, doesnt mean hes the best candidate to have a child with..we dont know anything personal about this man-and being filthy rich isnt a good enough reason to have a baby with him..black and latino people have to stop bringing kids into this world out of wedlock and into borken homes or potentially disasterous conditions-Example-Jay-Z and his bastard son..hes tucked away in some remote island, getting denied left and right..what kind of life is that for a child? how is his self worth going to be knowing his daddy isnt proud to introduce his son to the world? these babies mommas situations with celebs end up with the couple splitting up, the father paying a ridiculous amount in child support, and the mother not caring if the father and child have a relationship, as long as the checks are rolling in..
     

    sharizzle
    gonna be a beautiful baby!..pharrell's fine ass
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    sharizzle
    oh wait..i just read that lil update..lol @ his lying self..and DOUBLE lol at that eddie murphy comment
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    beautdi
    TRINI 2 THE BONE SHE IS. THIS GIRL IS NOT FROM BRAZIL, SHE WOULD BE CONSIDERED A {DOUGLA, DOUGLA, DOUGLA} IN TRINIDAD, WHICH IS A BLACK TRINI AND AN INDIAN TRINI MIXTURE. AND I DON'T THINK 2 PRETTY PEOPLE MAKE UGLY BABIES. BECAUSE I'M A PRETTY A$$ BLACK SISTA AND I HAVE A HANDSOME A$$ SON WITH MY FIANCE WHO IS ALSO A {TRINI WHO IS CONSIDERED A DOUGLA.
    I MEAN LOOKS DON'T MATTER AND ALL, BUT 4 THE COMMENT SOMEWHERE AT THE TOP, UM 2 PRETTY PEOPLE MAKE UGLY BABIES? NAW, THAT'S JUST SOMETHING {UGLY} PEOPLE SAY!
    I HOPE THEY ARE HAPPY, AND I KNOW PHARRELL LOOKS CAN BE DECEIVING, BUT SHE SEEM'S LIKE A KEEPER, AND CONGRAT'S.
     

    hotamale
    I put up a response that said " statistics show that black men are les likely to marry their women compared to other races." Then it got removed. I was thinking maybe someone flagged it as inappropriate. I was just stating the facts, not trying to offend anyone. But I realize there are a few people on here who take the internet very seriously. Anyways I am just reporting the facts and my statement was a follow up to a question I had about Pharrel not marrying this chick if she happens to be married. Oh well anyways, who really cares and I wish them well....if they are together....having a baby.....hope you had a glorious weekend...ciao!
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    hotamale
    corrections to above (less.....she happens to pregnant)
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    Lysia
    Dang. I guess I can 4get about ny chance of me n Pharrell being 2getha huh. Boo-Hoo. As fa dis lil "news" ppl dnt kno wat dey tombout. Dey jus need to shutup. But I thanx yall lilniggas 4 finally showin me how his girl or ex-girl look. I saw a pic of dem togetha b4 i jus aint kno who she was. Dats real talk rite there
     

    REDBONE37
    I'M WITH (SCARLETT) AND (MISSINGTUPAC) SHE IS A CUTE GIRL. CONGRATULATION PHARRELL.
     

    doingit_well
    They make a cute couple. Congrats Pharrell.
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    MzHelloKitty
    she look aight but he gon always kno where im at so when she get on his nerves he gon come runnen back 2 me
     

    CARE
    That girl features are very average. Ya'll know you are saying she is pretty because of her hair. Ya'll did the same shyt with the Game's baby mama. She was ugly until ya'll saw her hair and then all of a sudden she became cute. If this chic did not have the so called "good hair" no one would say she was pretty.

    If you are light you have to be mixed with something or if your hair is loosely curled you have to be mixed with something... black people need to get over the dumb shyt.
     

    candiceandchrisbrown
    CONGRATS TO PHARRELL AND HIS FAMILY. SHE IS [PRETTY}. HE IS SO SEXY!
     

    CtsFinest09
    Awhh! She's pretty! They make a cute couple!
     

    hotamale
    CARE.....YOU MAY HAVE A POINT, PEOPLE DO TEND TO DO THAT. LOL . BUT EVEN IF SHE HAD TIGHTER HAIR I STILL WOULD CALL HER "NOT UGLY". Anyway Feliz Navidad
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    Lysia
    Guess wat yall. Media Takeout gat da story wrong cuz [SPAM].com say dat ol' girl say she aint even wit him no mo. Pharrell say da same thing and he say he aint even seen her inna yr. He dnt kno y dem rumors cumin out. Oh yeah, from wat I hear Vashtie, wateva kinda name dat is, gatta a different man. Dnt believe everything yall read or hear. But im happy cuz ma sexy husband aint cheatin on me
     

    Lysia
    I still gatta chance, YAY ME!
     

    munchy
    hey he is my man lol
     

    kkmarble
    well if it not true more betta for me so we could get back to our situation over here..... ps pharrell since your ex vashtie is trini so am i
     

    partyxxgrrl
    PHARRELL IS SO CUTE. HE LOOK LIKE A LITTLE TANNED ASIAN...SO CUTE.
     

    SexyMN
    Nooooo! Say it isn't sooooo! I love him! I wanted him to be MY baby's daddy....

    She is cute and they do make a cute couple. They both look about 14 years old.
     

    takenotice2me
    SHE IS PRETTY BUT SHE IS NOT PREGGO!
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    maria25
    omg...pharrell i love u, pls dont marry her...il die for u
     


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