: You're gonna have to restrain yourself from jumping through the computer screen and punching the kid in his eye!!!
She has got to be the stupidest mother on the face of this planet for not kicking the dog sh-t out of his a-s. I would have just gone to jail for being the first person to ever choke a kid on national TV. She is a pushover for even arguing with him. He is a child, and she is the adult, and he needs to stay in a childs place...HOT DAMN!
OH...HELLS NO! THAT LIL MU..[EXPLETIVE] WOULD NOT EVEN BE TALKING THAT [EXPLETIVE] TO ME! SECONDLY...HIS FAT ASS WOULD HAVE BEEN THROUGH THAT DAMN WALL BEFORE FINISHING HIS DAMN SENTENCE! NOT TO BE FUNNY....BUT WHIT PEOPLE LET THEI CHILDREN TALK TO THEM ANY KIND OF WAY! HE NEEDS TO COME TO MY CRIB FOR A WEEK..REAL TALK!
THIS IS WHY WHITE KIDS GROW UP AND MURDER THEIR PARENTS..IF I WOULD HAVE EVEN SPOKE TO MY MOTHER LIKE THAT SHE WOULD HAVE KICKED MY DAMN TEETH IN AND IF I EVEN SLAPPED HER...OOOOHH CHHHIILLLDDD!!!I WOULDN'T BE ALIVE AND MY MOM WOULD BE SERVING TIME FOR MURDER.NOW A DAYS PEOPLE THINK ALL THAT TIME OUT SHYT AND "OH HE IS JUST VENTING AND LETTING OFF SOME STEAM" IS GOING TO WORK...NA F*CK THAT I GOT HIT WITH EVERY ITEM THAT MY MOTHER SAW IF I ACTED UP AND I KNEW NEVER TO DISOBEY HER
Parents that's what happens when you don't discipline your kids (spanking) at early ages. When a two year old is talking back to you it's not funny, but I see parents laughing and thinking it's cute, but when the little devil gets to be 8, 9, 10 then it's not so funny, because they are trying to run things. This is why parents need to be strong in their discipline of kids. Because if you don't....well just ask the woman in the video.
lol LOL LOL MY mom would of K.O. me...lol..its obvious that he is a fat kid wit no friends and takes it out on his mom....She needs to reinforce she da boss.
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All this proves is that the mother has always let that boy hit her. It started when he was little and all she did was either laughed at him or asked him ,"Why did you hit mommy?".People forget that little kids grow up what you let them get away when they are small they will continue to do when they are bigger.The mama started this shyt not that kid.
That little pig has such a sense of entitlement. He really believes that sht! And best believe he acts just like his pops. That lady took that slap cause she knows she deserves that sht for CREATING that little monster. The time to kick his ass was five eyars ago when he first started wilding out, when they thought it was cute. Not now that they're on Dr. Phil.
LOL @ MsSinnocent. I feel you on that, and you hit the nail right on the head. If I even looked at my momma sideways, she was on me like "white on rice." The problem with kids nowadays is that they do not fear their parent(s), and parents are too busy trying to be a kids' best friend, as opposed to an authoritarian. There was no negotiating in my household growing up. What my mother or father said was the law, and if you tried to raise up, there was TROUBLE.....trouble!
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@ sodapop, thank you, you're right, but people don't want to hear that....
This is nothing rare....Kids are getting charged with hitting their parents all over the country...white, black and otherwise...
That's what happens when parents try to be their kids friends rather than being a parent...or in some cases when parents are absent or not there for their kids in the early years...If you dont discipline and earn a child's respect when they are young, then dont come in trying to regulate later...Because this is what you are going to get.
This is from the Dr Phil show..it was about children who are out of control..I saw this episode and trust me, the mother is just as screwed up as the kid, she would beat him, curse at him and tell him she hated him..children learn from their parents behavior, so if the mother is going to act like she has no sense, how can you expect the child to have any sense?!!the mother needs help first before she can help this child
Oh hell naw! My a$$ would've been locked up that day. He would not have been able to finish his sentence cause all his teeth would've been knocked the hell out. I tell my children now, don't you ever think you can put your hands on me cause I will lay your a$$ clean out. Like my dad used to tell me, if i go to jail, when I get out I'm beating your a$$ again. I used to think to myself, dayum this dude is crazy. LOL! Just give me one day with this kid.
the mom lost her daughter to cancer, so she treats the son like crap..she even said that sometimes she wishes her son died and her daughter was the one who was still around..dont be so quick to blame this child, there are a lot of issues this family needs to work out, but with any bad kid, you have to look at the parents FIRST..theyre the ones who set the pace for how their kids behave..children done raise themselves..this boy isnt getting the love and attention he needs..the mother is so screwed up that she doesnt realize how shes hurting him..watch the whole episode before you judge
Whoooooo-Weeeeeeeeeeeeee! I don't have words for what would've happened to his little azz! I know one thing....he would've gotten either a 2 piece and a biscuit, and I don't mean from KFC, or the 2 hitta quitta! And that would have been for him POINTING his finger in my face. For the slap....oh hellz naw....he'd be 6 & green...little demon!
OMG!!! If he had ever done that in Barbados, his ass wud be beat for DAYS!!! i cud never talk to any adult like that, further more my mother.... she'd kill me on the spot for just telling her shut up or raising my voice at her. its sad to see what the future leaders of the world are coming to... She shud've thrown his ass through the wall and show him who's the damn boss
@MissMaiTai YOUR 100% RIGHT! BUT YOU KNOW WHAT THE OTHER BIG PROBLEM IS??ACS..JUST BECAUSE YOU SPANK A CHILD OR DISCIPLINE THEM, DOESN'T MEAN YOU ABUSING THEM. YES THERE ARE PARENTS WHO TAKE IT TOO FAR BUT THEN THEIR ARE THE PARENTS WHO HAVE CHILDREN WHO CONSTANTLY DISRESPECT AND DESERVE TO GET AN ASSWHOOPIN..JUST LOOK AT THE OUT OF CONTROL TEENAGERS THAT ARE ON MAURY!!..SHYT WHEN I WAS GROWING UP *MIND YOU IM AN 80'S BABY* MY MOTHER WOULD BEAT THE SHYT OUT OF ME EVEN IF IT MEANT DOING IT IN FRONT OF MY TEACHER.MY MOM ALWAYS TOLD ME THAT IF I AIN'T STRAIGHTIN MY LITTLE ASS OUT I WOULD BE GIVEN TO THE STATE AND THEN THEY WOULD PUT ME IN FOSTER CARE OR A GROUP HOME...SHYT BACK THEN HAVING MY OWN ROOM,TV AND HAVING ANYTHING I WANTED MEANT MORE THAN LOSING IT JUST BECAUSE I WANTED TO WIN A DAMN ARGUEMENT
ROFLMBAO!!!! How does it feel Negroes. That little piece of sh!t savage may grow up one day to be a cop policing your communities. Things like that actually sit in positions of authority governing over us.Can you believe it ?? LMAO! F^CKING CAVE PEOPLE LMAO! White women get NO RESPECT FROM WHITE MEN ! NONE ! Where's the daddy? Does he slap his white b!tch too ? LOL!
YUP I SAW THIS ON DR. PHIL, AND IM NOWHERE NEAR SURPRISED. C'MON YALL, DONT ACT LIKE YALL NEVER BEEN IN THE STORE AND SEEN HOW THESE LIL WHITE KIDS TALK TO THERE PARENTS. THE KIDS DO EVERYTHING BUT HIT THEM, BUT IM SURE THEY DO IT WHEN THEIR AT HOME. NOW I WOULD HAVE BEEN FVCKIN SHOCKED AS H3LL IF THE MOM WAS BLACK, SHE WOULD HAVE KILLED HIM ON CAMERA LOL.
That sh*t was hilarious I was watching that the other week on Dr. Phil....
When that fat kid slapped his mom I almost dropped my bowl of Cherrios....funny as hell!
Fat Kid Slaps His Momma
Kid needs to lay off the Twinkies and do what Maury does bring in the Boot Camp officer....see if that fat kid slaps that dude....
Poor mom got ho'd on national television
When I first saw this snot smack his mom, I wanted to kill him. That was, until I saw what a peice of [EXPLETIVE] his mother is. He didn't even smack her hard. I was disappointed in Dr. Phil, though. Because he could not get past the smack and even went as far as to invalidate the child's experience with his mom. That is wrong and that is how you raise future abusers and criminals. This kid is angry and frustrated that nobody is listening to him because he is a child. Everyone needs to be respected, especially children.
Children are a product of their environment and they live what they learn. This child obviously hates his mother for whatever reasons we don't know. You can't try to straighten the tree once it has already bent out of shape. Parenting begins from that child makes the first cry. Stop the child in the tracks from they are young and let them know who runs the house. Too many people worship their children as though it was God. The Bible tells us to love our children, but to also grow them up in the way they should grow, so when they are old they will not depart form it. You are a parent and have a duty to raise children with morals and values who respect you. I hope Dr. Phil helped them.
AGREE WITH "RAGE171" SHIIT MY MOM WOULD HAVE KICKED MY ASS THEN I WOULD HAVE ASKED WHY SHE DO THAT. AND SHE WOULD HAVE TOLD ME BECAUSE YO ASS THOUGHT ABOUT SLAPPIN ME A MINUTE AGO. HAHAHA THAT LIL GAY WHITE BOY TALKIN LIKE A BIG PUUSSY SAYING IT LEFT A MARK FOR 20 MINS NIGGGGA ABOUT A MARK LEFT ON YO ASS FOR A WEEK OR TWO. HAHAHAHA SHUT THE FUC UP.
Must I say this? Only in a white family! For real cause if thsis were a black family 1st of all we would not be on Dr. Phil anyways you handle [EXPLETIVE] like that at home. 2nd the conversation would have been over at because I said so. My moms aint listen to me either. You either did what you was told or you got ya azz beat. In my house my mome feed, clothed and provided shelter for me plus gave me some of the things I wanted and I had to show respect and go to school, If I didnt oooh shyt it was on! as a child you hell either you do what I say or you get the hell out! aint no? My mom listended when she neede to He need his azz beat! No not everyone has good parents but if that kid aint bein abused it is absoultley no reason for this to have even takin place. like I said and yall know its true only in a white family!
See, if you notice...he is not a little black kid. They are always trying to be their damn friends and shyt in the beginning...now, when they are older...they can't control them.
My mom wouldn't be on Dr. Phil talkin about "my child is out of control" the topic would have been...
"Mothers who killed their children by beating the shyt out of them for talking crazy."
I don't know about ya'll, but my mom is a fo' real country a$$ crazy lady...I am STILL afraid of my mom and 25 years old.
"mothers who killed their children by beatting the shyt out of them for talking crazy."
I don't know about ya'll, but my mom is a fo' real country a$$ crazy lady...I am STILL afraid of my mom and 25 years old.
Wow. Thats the same kind of kid that will let school bullies kick his A$$ up and down the block but he lay his hands on his mom. That women know Jesus boy cause I would lose my job spending so much time whipping his A$$ after that and where is the father what man lets his boy be a fag and let his boy act like that. Fellas take care of ya kids
I DON'T FEEL BAD FOR HER, IT IS APPARENT THAT SHE HAS ALLOWED THIS BEHAVIOR THRU THE YEARS AND HIM SLAPPING HER JUST FOLLOWS WITH THE PLAN. DID ANYONE NOTICE HOW HE DIDN'T SHOW A MORSEL OF FEAR AFTER POPPING HER IN THE FACE???
WHITE FAMILIES ARE ALWAYS MORE CONCERNED WITH BEING THEIR KIDS FRIEND AND ALLOWING WAY TO MUCH SELF EXPRESSION DURING THE EARLY YEARS OF DEVELOPMENT AND THIS IS THE END RESULT.
WHEN I WAS GROWING UP MY MOM WAS "A MOM" TO ME AND MY SIBLINGS. WE KNEW OUR PLACES AND BEING DISRESPECTFUL WAS NOT HOW I WAS RAISED NOR WAS IT ACCEPTABLE.
AS AN ADULT MY MOM IS NOW OF COURSE STILL MY MOM BUT NOW WE ARE BEST FRIENDS. I APPRECIATE THE FACT THAT SHE HAD GROUND RULES & PUNISHMENT FOR BAD BEHAVIOUR. SHE WAS MORE CONCERNED WITH RAISING GOOD KIDS THEN HANGING OUT WITH ME AND MY PALS FROM SCHOOL.
LMAO, that is crazy, and now-a-days ppl ckant say that if they were black that would not have happened...It might be less likely 2 happen...lol But I have seen some instances in which the fam was black, but clearly its her fault, she didnt respond,probably 4 fear of going 2 jail. Now that is crazy as well, when society can tell u how 2 raise ur kid....
O[SPAM] LOOORRDDD!!!!! OK.. IM 24 YEARS OLD... AND I AM SCARED TO DEATH OF MY MOTHER LOL... I HAVE SUCH A HIGH STANDARD AND MASSIVE RESPECT FOR MY MOTHER... YOU SEE HOW THAT LIL' KID WAS TALKING BACK TO HIS MOTHER?? YOU SEE THAT??? I COULDN'T EVEN THINK ABOUT DOING THAT TO MY MOM... YOU KNOW WHAT, LET ME STOP THINKING ABOUT IT, I CAN ALREADY FEEL HER FIST ON MY JAW RIGHT NOW... I'M 5'10 AND MOMMY IS 5'3 1/2... SHE IS THE ONLY WOMAN THAT COULD KICK MY ASS ALL UP AND DOWN MY HOUSE... NO CHILD SHOULD TALK TO THEIR PARENTS LIKE THAT. THAT'S WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DON'T INTRODUCE YOUR KIDS TO A SWITCH WHEN THEY'RE YOUNG.
Lawwddd! " over here with the holy ghost" Keep me from putting this child six feet under! Baby! I saw this on Dr.Phil and the mother just looked at the boy like " why did you do that on national T.V., you know my friends and family watching! LOL. I don't feel bad for this lady, she raised this spoiled little monster! This is what happens when you let your kids get away with small minor hits, kicks, slaps and punches when they are small. You think it's cute and funny. But then they get bigger and older it aint funny no more but you are gonna have a hard time controlling it because you never enforced the rules!
some of yall need to stop..for real..this whole "only white people let their kids act up" nonsense is the biggest crock of sh*t..a lot of yall posted on here that you got your ass beat in public, in front of others..what does that say about you? and your behavior? and your parents and their behavior? I have seen countless black parents embarrass themselves by yelling and cursing at their kids in public! they will be quick to scream on a crowded bus-"sit your f*ckin ass down!" I have worked for ACS, I have seen it more times than I care to remember, I have worked in the community and I have heard these loud ass mothers think that its ok to curse scream and hit their kids in front of others..black and spanish mothers!!!! do you think thats ok? do you seriously think thats cool? yall need to stop making this a black/white thing because black people have issuses when it comes to raising their kids just as much as white people do..
AINT NO ONE MAKING THIS A WHITE THING.BEHAVIOR LIKE THIS IS PREDOMINATELY SEEN IN WHITE AMERICA.IM NOT GOING TO DENY YES THIS GOES ON IN ANY AND EVERY RACE BUT THEN AGAIN HOW MANY MINORITIES GROW UP TO HARM THEIR PARENTS??GRANTED YES A HANDFUL GROW UP TO CARRY OUT VIOLENCE ON OTHER PEOPLE, AND THAT GOES FOR OTHER PEOPLE OF DIFFERENT COLOR AS WELL. BUT I DO AGREE WITH OTHER PEOPLE IN HERE IT IS THE PARENTS' FAULT.BUT IT IS THE PARENTS' DUTY TO NIP IT AT THE BUTT.HOWEVER, IN TODAY'S LIBERAL SOCIETY, MOST PARENTS' ARE RAISING YOUR CHILDREN TO BE THEIR BEST FRIENDS AND LET THEM DO WHAT THE HELL THEY WANT TO DO, WHICH ISN'T A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. YES I'LL ADMIT, IF I DISRESPECT MY MOTHER IN PUBLIC,SMACK ME BUT AT THE SAME TIME, I WAS BROUGHT UP WITH VALUES AND MORALS.AND I LEARNED NOT TO EVER DISRESPECT ANY OF MY PARENTS BECAUSE MY ASS WOULD BE EMBARRESSED.AND WHAT DOES THAT SAY ABOUT MY PARENTS?THEY RAISED ONE HELL OF A CHILD BECAUSE I HAVE NEVER BROKEN ANY LAWS,SHOW RESPECT FOR EVERYONE,AND HAVE BUSTED MY ASS TO BE THE YOUNG SUCCESSFUL WOMAN I AM TODAY, AND I HAVE MY PARENTS TO THANK FOR THAT.AND IM PRETTY SURE THAT MANY PEOPLE ON HERE CAN AGREE THAT EVEN THOUGH THEIR PARENTS MAY HAVE SPANKED OR DISCIPLINED THEM IN THAT WAY,HAVE AS WELL GROWN UP WITH MORALS,VALUES AND ETHICS.
@gigi2007, that syht you talking ain't about nothing. The issue was that the kid slapped his mother! What people were saying was that black mothers won't let their kids get away with disrepecting them, even in public. Everyone has issues with raising children, but it does seem like white folks take more crap from their children than blacks. It has been a topic of discussion for years. The whole issue is RESPECT and if they have to yell at their children in public so be it! Guarantee that child won't disrepect thier mother!
I actually was off that day and saw this episode of Dr. Phil. I was like, if that was my mother, she would have dropped kicked my ass on national T.V. White folks, I swear. they're the only ones who let their kids do that to them. But latinos and black folks... in the words of Whitney, Hell 2 da naw
WHAT[SPAM]!NO,NO,NO,HELL NO..OKAY,LET ME JUST CALM DOWN, WHOOOOOOO SAAAAAH. DEAR LORD, FORGIVE ME FOR THE THOUGHTS THAT ARE GOING THROUGH MY MIND RIGHT NOW,PLEASE, PLEASE, TAKE THE THOUGHTS OF ME BEATING THIS BOY AS IF HE IS MY STEP CHILD,AS IF HE STOLE SOMETHING,OR AS IF HE IS A TERRORIST, OUT OF MY HEAD...... IF MY SON EVER, EVER, EVER EVEN THINK ABOUT RAISING HIS HANDS ON HIS MOM OR MYSELF, HIS PICTURE WILL BE ON THE SIDE OF ONE OF THEM MILK BOX. GUARANTEED (BUT THEN AGAIN HE IS BLACK,SO HE KNOWS BETTER)
OOOHHHHH HHHHH33333LLLLLL NNNNNNAAAAWWWWW, WHEW, AIN'T NO WAY AIN'T NO WAY! 1st of all da lil crumb snatcher wouldn't be talking to me like dat, i would've slapped him in his d@mn mouth for disrespecting me he wouldn't have gotten a chance to slap me! If he did, i wouldv'e beat his @ss till i got tired, and would've told DHR ya'll can have him, cause if i can't disipline his disrespectful @ss u can take him! WHEW dat couldn't have been my child...they would've turn them d@mn camera's off.PARENTAL DISCRETION ADVISED LOL!!! I saw dat on DR.PHIL, an looked at my 2 kids, i told them if u EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER in ur LIFE think that you wanna act that way towards me, don't if u wanna survive! Dats real, cause if u don't they'll be beating ur @ss when they get bigger! I 4 1 ain't having it!
all Im saying is this..if you had your ass kicked in public, or around other people, your parent is no better than that kid that slapped his mother..you never put your business out there, even disciplining your kid should be kept private..if a parent beats their kids ass in public or around others, she is disrespecting herself and her child and making a fool of herself..as far as ass whippings go,if you dont have any control over yourself as a parent, how the hell do you expect your kids to have control? if youre telling your child to "sit the f*ck down before I beat your ass" how the hell is that teaching your kid a lesson? how is that helping anything? If you cant wait until you get home to discipline your kid, and you think its appropriate to beat your kids ass in front of others, you need help..your kid is going to learn from you, and thats not a trait you want to teach them..you dont want them to learn lack of self restraint, you dont want them to grow up angry and confrontational and thinking its ok to act a fool..does a beat down solve anything? nope, because your asses still continued to do bad sh*t..a lot of parents have no business raising kids because theyre too f*cked up in the head to know right from wrong..this particular parent on Dr Phil needs intense therapy because she lost a child to cancer, and as a result, shes treating her son like crap..shes taking her anger out on him(which a lot of black and spanish parents do) and shes not being the loving role model she needs to be..stop with the nonsense..times change, you have to learn and grow..the way your parents did things arent necessarily the way you need to be doing things
I grew up in an all white neighborhood and went to an all white school, therefore my best friends were white. Sad but true the children have more control over the home than the parents. They curse them, they ignore them, tell them to stay out of thier room...bottom line they are down right disrespectful to thier parents. I say Don't cry about that [EXPLETIVE] now, don't run to Dr. Phil for help..you should have never started that crap!!! He slapped her azz and asked how does it feel....had that been my child I would have karate kicked his fat azz out of that chair square in his chest and DFACS can get his azz from that point cause he's a lost cause. AHHHHH HAAAA THE [EXPLETIVE] IS COMICAL TO ME CAUSE YALL SAY BLACK FOLKS GOT PROBLEMS...I BET BLACK CHILDREN AIN"T JUST GOING AROUND KICKIN THERE PARENTS AZZ THAT"S FOR SURE!!! SUCK THAT [EXPLETIVE] UP WHITEY. AlWAYS SOMETHING NEGATIVE ABOUT THE BLACK RACE.....BUT YALL AZZ DOMINATE DRUGS (HENCE THE SHOW INTERVENTION) YALL SOME NASTY FILTHY PIGS CAUSE YOU GOT SOME OLE BRITISH WHITE BITCHES SNIFFING YOUR STANK AZZ DRAWS ON TV...AND SHOWING EVERYBODY THE [EXPLETIVE] RINGS AROUND YOUR TOILETS.....THEN YOU GOT "NANNY" THAT HAS TO COME IN AND HELP CONTROL YA DAMN CHILDREN.......YALL HAVE THE REAL PROBLEMS SLUM LORDS!!!!
OOOOOHHHHHH HHHEEELLLL TTTOOOO TTTTHHHEEE NNNNOOOO, Im from the caribbean and I speak for every caribbean person when I say, his a/s/s would have been torn to flickin shreds if that was any of our mothers. Trust me when I tell you, he would have been teethless put me in a room with him he'll see exaclty how it feels. Your never suppose to hit you parents cause the Bible says that thier our earthly Gods. He will never succeed in life for what he did, thats crossing the line. Spear the rod you spoil the child.
the ignorance on here is astounding..I think a lot of people on here are young or young parents..stop with this black/white garbage! there are plenty of things that white parents do that are right, that our people do wrong! dont start comparing parenting skills between blacks and white because we will lose hands down..some of yall need to grow up and understand that an angry parent breeds and angry child..if a beat down helped you to become upstanding citizens and productive members of society, then by all means, use that method..but looking at some of the posts on here, I doubt that was the outcome..stop with this black/white crap because youre seriously playing yourselves
what white kids did you go to school with? seriously..I went to school with white kids from pre-k until college..and I have been in their homes, I have been to outings with them, on vacation with them..those kids were for the most part respectful, polite and knew their place..those of you saying white kids are out of control obviously never grew up around them or you grew up with the trailer trash..I have seen them act a little bratty, like any kid, ALLL KIDS ACT BRATTY AT ONE TIME OR ANOTHER!!! why are yall acting like youre all angels? like you never talked back? like you never got out of line..get the hell outta here with that garbage
Gigi2007, gurl stop, i got plenty of @ss whoopings comin up, an if i didn't have a mom an dad to get in my @ss to tell me "no" an show me the way of life, to prepare me for this crazy world, i don't know where i will be! Obviously u don't have any kids, cause a real parent knows that crap wouldn't be tolerated, you have to teach kids at home, so they know how to act in this world!
I think i would have called the cops on myself and give them a heads up about what I'm about to do and tell them to bring a tazer to tazer my a/s/s off of him. I wouldnt have killed him no, no but I bet you he would never raise his hands again, if he hit his mother like that imagine how he would treat his girlfriend or wife when he gets older.
LMAO!!!! It's not funny, I'm jus sayin, my azz was NEVER dat damn bold. Oh HELL NO!!! I remember when I was 17, my mom kept tellin me to shut up, I kept talkin.....she snatched me cross the KITCHEN table by my shirt collar and my Grandma had to get her off me....so MUCH LESS this bullshyt. Oh HELL na!!! They need to get it together. Send him to my mama...she'll straighten dat azz out. Lol. And needless to say, it rubbed off on me, so my sons??? Shiii....it would be another MTO story posted with my mugshot if my kids tried me like that.
I saw that show on Dr. Phil and I think that kid was given a bad rap. He was not a bad kid, but his mother ABUSED him and he wanted her to feel what she makes HIM feel. Now, granted, it wasn't the best method, but in my opinion, that mother deserved it because she's an abuser and the kid is really hurting.
@WomanofACertainAge..thank you! these people commenting didnt see the show and dont know the whole story behind this kid..his mother beat his ass, called him names and constantly berated him..so did her ass beatings really help him? hell no..he slapped his momma anyway..so those of you advocating giving an ass beating, did it help this kid? does it help your kid? this kid was mentally and physically abused by a mother that is psychologically disturbed..she needs help..the boy needs help..all the ass beatings in the world cannot solve this boys problems..it goes deeper than that..some of yall have bad ass kids that behave that way because they have learning disabilities, chemical imbalances and psychological issues yet you ignore it and think theyre just acting up..you beat their asses and think thats the way to fix things..if you took a more intelligent approach to understanding why your kids act that way, you can understand how to fix things..getting mad, snatching your kid up and beating their behind with a hanger isnt going to do anything..the week after that theyre going to do something else..but you already instilled in them that its ok to act like an animal, so they will do it to their kids
@ Gigi2007....I can only speak for myself an nobody else. I am a black woman, age 37 with 2 boys 18 and 8. I was raised in an all white environment and I saw it daily with my own eyes. Yes black people have thier own set of various issues TRUE....but we are not disrespectful to out parents that way. Now todays children are some what disrespectful but as you said it depends on the age of the parent and thier upbringing. We just didn't do things like that to out parents. Also I can actually tell you the EXACT whippings I got from my mother which was a total of 3 my entire childhood cause I wasn't raised to be disrespectful and they didn't have to beat my azz for me to have common sense. White people are so into pleasing the child and wanting thier precious Suzy to be better than Jane up the street and go all out to give them whatever it is they want in lieu of making them earn it. Then when the time comes to ACTUALLY say NO...they can't quite get it. Sorry my friend I speak on what I see...perfect example...I worked in Gadzooks clothing store when I was 20 something. This white boy came in and wanted some Doc Martins (the shoes/boots most gothic white folk wear). They were $169 and he asked his mother. (he was about 17 or 18) well she told him no because she bought him some shoes 2 weeks prior that he still hadn't paid her back for as promised. he kept asking and she kept saying no until he finally blurted out as loud as he possibly could..."DON'T BE SUCH A BITCH"!!!!!! She had this totally shocked look on her face while he went about shopping like he hadn't said a word. she was so PINK and embarrassed that she sprinited out of the store. He stayed behind and continued to browse and truthfully looked quite proud of himself. And low and behold about 10 to 15 minutes later (I guess she realized he wasn't behind her) she came back in and bought the damn shoes!!! I say she got what the hell she asked for cause his azz would have gotten slapped in his damn mouth, and his azz would have had to find a way home cause I would have left his azz there. And depending on his previous behavior at that point his best bet would be to start looking for his own place cause he wouldn't have been living under my roof. I speak what I see not what I assume and white folks breed poor azz excuses for adults and wonder why...then think they can pay thier way out of it...they get exactly what they deserve!!!!! Now you did speak the truth when you say we all lose.....I agree if your saying there are poor excuses for blacks, there are poor excuses for whites and other races...yes that is true
@ gigi2007, I agree with you...and I can tell that you have been right there in the trenches working in the community as well, because you have a well rounded perspective. This is NOT a black/white issue and anyone who thinks so is absolutely clueless...
Go to any juvenile court...regardless of what racial composition of the area it serves and you see kids of all colors (including plenty of black and latino youth) there for kicking their parents azzes...This type of stuff happens in all races and areas of society because shytty parents exist in all areas of society...
Children are nothing more than the products of the environments that they are raised in, and what a child exhibits is what the parent has, or has failed to, instill in them.
And its funny how people think just beating a kid down is the end all/be all to every problem...there's a line between some physical discipline (which is okay) and physical abuse (which is not)...One helps straighten a kid out...the other just makes a kid even more violent and crazy.
"DON'T FEEL BAD FOR HER, IT IS APPARENT THAT SHE HAS ALLOWED THIS BEHAVIOR THRU THE YEARS AND HIM SLAPPING HER JUST FOLLOWS WITH THE PLAN. DID ANYONE NOTICE HOW HE DIDN'T SHOW A MORSEL OF FEAR AFTER POPPING HER IN THE FACE???
WHITE FAMILIES ARE ALWAYS MORE CONCERNED WITH BEING THEIR KIDS FRIEND AND ALLOWING WAY TO MUCH SELF EXPRESSION DURING THE EARLY YEARS OF DEVELOPMENT AND THIS IS THE END RESULT.
WHEN I WAS GROWING UP MY MOM WAS "A MOM" TO ME AND MY SIBLINGS. WE KNEW OUR PLACES AND BEING DISRESPECTFUL WAS NOT HOW I WAS RAISED NOR WAS IT ACCEPTABLE.
AS AN ADULT MY MOM IS NOW OF COURSE STILL MY MOM BUT NOW WE ARE BEST FRIENDS. I APPRECIATE THE FACT THAT SHE HAD GROUND RULES & PUNISHMENT FOR BAD BEHAVIOUR. SHE WAS MORE CONCERNED WITH RAISING GOOD KIDS THEN HANGING OUT WITH ME AND MY PALS FROM SCHOOL."
I feel bad for the kid because he's going to get a harsh wake up if he pulls that snit elsewhere!
@esotericdredz..thank you for being a voice of reason..I worked for ACS (childrens services here in NYC) for 5 years..I worked in foster care to be exact..the majority of our kids were from black and hispanic families but we also had asian and white clients..these beatings that the kids were given ranged from light to severe..but one thing was constant, their parents were angry people that taught their kids how to have a mean disposition and a violent streak..these kids got in trouble in school, would fight and be disrespectful to their elders, because this is what they saw their parents do, this is what they learned at home..I dont know how it works in other states, but here in NYC, beatings hold great consequences..if your kid goes to school and your teacher sees a mark or bruise on their body, theyre obligated to call childrens services..if your kid tells a teacher they were slapped or beat with an object..it has to be reported..and they will take your kid away with the quickness, before its even investigated..I have seen it happen too many times..ending up a ward of the state is more detrimental than any beating..being taken away from your parent is a real consequence these days..a lot of ignorant people on her are talking about "tearing their kids asses to shreds" and all that nonsense, not realizing the psychological damage these beating do to a kid and how this harms their self esteem, theyre self worth and how it teaches them that its ok to be violent..THIS IS NOT EFFECTIVE DISCIPLINE!!! we are in a new day and age and parents who beat their kids have consequences now..you have to change with the times..and can you really say you learned from your parents beating you? no, it was fear that kept you in line for the moment..but a week later you were back to your old ways, doing something mischeiveous, getting another ass whipping..so what did you really learn? try to think of another way do approach things..thats all Im saying..and you young, ghetto ass parents need to take a parenting skills class to learn how to be a better parent because its people like you that perpetuate this bullsh*t..dont take your anger out on your kids..your kid should only need one or two beatings in their life to put them in line..if youre giving your kids multiple beatings a year, youre doing something dead wrong
HONESTLY I COULD GIVE TWO SHYTS ABOUT THE WAY MY PARENTS RAISED ME BECAUSE IT IS A LESSONED LEARNED. THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT MY PARENTS COULD NOT HOLD RESTRAINT ON THEIR ANGER. ITS CALLED BEING EMBARRASSED.LETTING ALL YOUR LITTLE FRIENDS SEE YOUR BEHIND BEING DISCIPLINED SO YOU WOULDN'T ACT OUT AGAIN.SAME IDEA OF BEING PLACED IN A CORNER WITH A DUNCE CAP ON.YOU KNEW YOU NEVER TO TRY IT AGAIN AND IF YOU DID YOU WOULD GET A EVEN FAR WORSE PUNISHMENT THAN BEFORE.AND PERSONALLY,BECAUSE I CAN ONLY SPEAK FOR MYSELF, I NEVER DID IT AGAIN.I WASN'T AN ANGEL BUT BEST BELIEVE I KNEW NOT TO COME OUT MY FACE OR TALK SIDEWAYS. AND I GREW UP KNOWING BOTH SIDES OF THE FENCE.I GREW UP IN A FAIRLY POOR NEIGHBORHOOD AND THEN DURING MY LATER YEARS AS A CHILD, GREW UP IN A ALL WHITE RICH NEIGHBORHOOD. NO TRAIL PARK TRASH, NO GHETTO WHITE KIDS. NO THE SAME KIDS YOU SEE DRIVING THOSE BENTLEYS AND GOING TO THE ISLAND OF CAPRI FOR A WEEKEND GETAWAY.AND YOU KNOW WHAT?THEIR PARENTS WOULD LET THEM GET AWAY WITH MURDER.CALL THEM USELESS BLUE BLOOD TRASH TO THEIR FACE BUT THEN SUCK THEIR AMEX BLACK CARD OUT OF THEM.AND I SEE THEM TODAY AND YOU KNOW WHAT?THEY COULD GIVE TWO SHYTS ABOUT THEIR PARENTS BECAUSE OF THE LACK OF RELATIONSHIP THEY HAD WITH THEM. I HAVE ALSO SEEN THE DARK SIDE OF PARENTS BLAMING THEIR CHILDREN FOR EVERYTHING AND TREATING THEM LIKE SHYT AS THE CASE OF THIS MOTHER.AND I DO FEEL FOR THE CHILD.HOWEVER, WE HAVE ALL GROWN UP,AT LEAST I HAVE, TO RESPECT YOUR ELDERS NO MATTER WHAT.THAT MOTHER NEEDED PSYCHOLOGICAL HELP AND SO DID HER SON BECAUSE OF ALL THE DAMAGE SHE HAD CAUSED.BUT IN NO RIGHT DID HE HAVE TO HIT HER, IN MY OPINION. AND FOR THE RECORD, I HAVE KNOWN A HANDFUL OF PEOPLE IN MY LIFE THAT HAVE GONE THROUGH THE SAME VERBAL,MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL ABUSE THAT THAT CHILD HAS SUFFERED AND NOT EVER DID THEY RAISE THEIR HANDS TO THEIR PARENTS.THEY TOOK THOSE TIMES IN STRIDE,LOOKED FOR OTHER OUTLETS AND GOT AWAY FROM THEM.AND TODAY THEY ARE SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE AND VOW TO BE DIFFERENT FROM THEIR PARENTS.AND GO AHEAD AND CALL ME IGNORANT BUT UNLIKE YOUR WAY OF THINKING I AM NOT A YOUNG MOTHER AND DON'T PLAN TO HAVE ANY CHILDREN UNTIL I FINISH MY PHD.
AND FOR THE RECORD PEOPLE LETS TRY AND NOT GET THE LINES BLURRED WITH DISCIPLINING YOUR CHILD AND ABUSING YOUR CHILD.I'M SEEING PRODUCT OF YOUR ENVIRONMENT BEING THROWN AROUND. NOW I CAN UNDERSTAND IF YOUR BEING PHYSICALLY ABUSED ON A REGULAR BASIS AND YOU GROW UP TO DO THE SAME TO YOUR CHILD.BUT IT IS NOT ABUSE IF YOU HIT A CHILD FOR BEING DISRESPECTFUL.IF CHILDREN IN POVERTY STRICKEN AREAS WERE ALL PRODUCTS OF THEIR ENVIRONMENT, WHICH DOES INCLUDE THINGS THAT YOU SEE OUT OF YOUR HOME AS WELL, THEN ALL OF THOSE KIDS WOULD BECOME RAPIST,DRUG PUSHERS AND SO FORTH. PEOPLE ARE FAILING TO SEE STILL IT IS THE MORALS AND VALUES YOU ARE BROUGHT UP WITH.
OH AND GIGI2007 FOR THE RECORD, WITH YOU WORKING AT ACS OR SAYING YOU HAD BEFORE, THEN TELL ME THIS:WHY IS IT CHILDREN WHO ARE REALLY BEING ABUSED ARE NOT TAKEN AWAY OR ARE TAKEN AWAY BUT THEN ARE DEEMED FIT AND HAVE BEEN GIVEN THEIR CHILD BACK TO JUST ABUSE THEM MORE AND THEM POTENTIALLY HARM THEM. FOR EXAMPLE, AND THIS IS JUST ONE OF MANY HERE IN NY, THE CASE OF NIXMARY BROWN. HER PARENTS DEEMED FIT JUST A FEWS DAYS OR WEEKS BEFORE SHE WAS KILLED BY HER STEP FATHER? WHO, AND LETS NOT FORGET, TIED THIS CHILD TO A CHAIR, LOCKED HER IN A DARK ROOM, DIDN'T LET HER EAT AND HAD HER USE A KITTY LITTER BOX AS A MEANS TO USE THE BATHROOM?BUT THEN WHEN A CHILD WHO GETS SASSY ONE TIME WITH A PARENT, THEIR CHILD IS TAKEN AWAY FOR GOOD AND PUT IN FOSTER CARE? PERSONALLY, I DO NOT THINK ACS HAS DONE A GOOD JOB AT ALL ESPECIALLY IN NY. I AM THANKFUL THAT WE DO HAVE A DEPARTMENT FOR CHILDRENS' PROTECTION, HOWEVER, I CAN HONESTLY SAY AND KNOWING FIRST HAND, BECAUSE I DO WORK WITH ACS DIRECTLY AT TIMES, THEY ARE EITHER TOO BUSY AND JUST IGNORE THE SCREAMING SIGNS OF ABUSE,FORGET THE CHILD OR JUST PLAIN DON'T CARE BECAUSE OF THE LOW PAY AND HEAVY WORK LOAD.AND TO BE HONEST, SOME OF THEM SEEM UNEDUCATED, NOT SAYING YOU ARE BUT SOME OF THEM ARE.AND IF YOU DID YOUR JOB WITH GREAT PRIDE, I DO COMMEND YOU BUT REALIZE ACS HAS GONE UNDER MANY INVESTIGATIONS AFTER MANY OF THEIR CASES DIED BECAUSE OF THEIR PARENTS AND NEGLECTFUL CASE WORKERS.
like I said, you should only need one or two big beatings growing up to put you in line..if you received multiple beatings, something wasnt clicking..you obviously werent benefitting or learning from this method of punishment..if youre supposedly learning respect and how to stay in line from getting beat, why does it take multiple ass whippings for you or your kid to "learn"? its not doing the trick..it just keeps your fear at the surface until you get over it and do the next bad thing..so no, you didnt learn respect..fear does not equal respect
YOUR SPEAKING OF MULTIPLE BEATING LIKE IT WAS EVERYDAY.HOW LONG DOES CHILDHOOD LAST?LETS SAY FROM THE AGE OF 3 TO 12 BUT THEN YOU HAVE TEENAGE-HOOD, WHICH LASTS FROM 13-19(17 REALLY BECAUSE AFTER 18 YOUR PARENTS ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR YOU UNLESS IT IS FOR FINANCIAL AID FOR SCHOOL).SO YOUR TELLING ME THAT OVER THE COURSE OF THAT TIME, YOU ONLY REALLY NEED ABOUT ONE OR TWO SLAPS TO GET IN LINE?OK THATS JUST STUPID BECAUSE EVERYONE KNOWS ESPECIALLY WHEN YOUR A TEENAGER YOUR HORMONES ARE RUNNING WILD AND THERE WILL BE THOSE HANDFUL OF TIMES WHEN LITTLE TAMEKA WANTS TO STAY OUT LATE AND HER PARENTS REFUSE BUT SHE DOES IT ANYWAY.OR WHEN YOU GET INTO A DISAGREEMENT WITH YOUR PARENTS AND DO THAT LITTLE SOFT HUSH HUSH MUMBLE "SHUT UP" BUSINESS THAT YOU THINK YOUR MOM DIDN'T HEAR. THERE ARE ALWAYS GOING TO BE TIMES LIKE THAT ESPECIALLY DURING THE TEENAGE YEARS. BUT THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT THAT CHILD IS GOING TO GROW UP VIOLENT, HITTING AND SCREAMING. I UNDERSTAND IF YOU WANT TO TALK TO YOUR CHILD BUT IF YOUR CHILD COMES OUT THEIR MOUTH ONE DAY AFTER YOU DONE RAISED YOUR CHILD RIGHT, BY THE WAY YOUR SAYING NOT SPANKING OR HITTING YOUR CHILD, AND CALLS YOU A BITCH?WHAT YOUR GONNA SAY "OH IM SORRY YOU FEEL LIKE THAT BUT DON'T CALL ME THAT AGAIN". WTF IS THAT GOING TO DO?JUST GOING TO PUT IN YOUR CHILD'S HEAD THAT YOUR A SOFTEE AND THEY CAN GET OVER ON YOU.YES THE PAIN MIGHT GO AWAY AFTER A WHILE BUT WHEN THE CHILD CAN FEEL THAT PAIN AND THINK ABOUT WHAT THEY DID WHEN YOU TOOK AWAY THEIR TV,PHONE,COMPUTER,RADIO AND EVERYTHING ELSE THEY LOVE. THEY WILL REMEMBER.
yes I certainly agree that ACS has its flaws, that is without a doubt..every city agency has flaws..thats due to many factors..lack of funding, low pay, lack of support staff..the police department, the housing department, welfare, department of health..we can go on and on..but as far as discipline and ACS, from my experience, the problem is parents coming from the "old school" method of handling things..they dont even realize sometimes that they took it too far..they think its ok to reprimand their kid with a curtain rod, a paddle, a belt because thats what their mommas and grannies did to them..its not cool..anything that will leave a mark, cause bleeding or welts is just not cool..I have dealt with parents that have punched their kids, slapped them and left hand prints..and they see nothing wrong with it because thats the way they were disciplined..they want to scream and holler that its none of our business how they handle their kids, but when their kid comes to school and cant even sit down because they have welts on their ass from a beating, that cant continue..these kids grow up thinking its ok to do this..that its ok to send their kids to school with bruises on their legs and arms because their kids got out of line..some of you dont think youre being abusive, but theres a fine line..and think of how your kids feel afterward..did they really learn something? please dont undermine or insult people who work in social services..because I know plenty of people with corporate jobs that are just as rude, uncaring and unpolished as someone who works for the city..we deal with problems most people cant..so we have a lot more heart than others..but there comes a point where its overwhelming and you shake your head because it seems like the problems get greater and there are no solutions
First of all before we even sat down to talk he would of knew the consequences he would of suffered doing anything out of order.
First off he would of recognize the difference between my place and his...
Second thing....I would of given him the opportunity to explain his side of the story but never will he have ever gotten the last say so in my house....now as this slapping....well let's just say I probably would be sitting up in the jail house right now.
SEE THAT FAT FUK WOULD HAVE LOST WAIT AFTER THAT SHIIT. I WOULD HAVE PUNCH THAT FAT FUCCK IN HIS STOMACH THAT FAT BASTARD. SEE WHITE PPL ALLOW THIS SHIIT AND NOW BLACKS ARE STARTED TO LET DUMB SHIIT HAPPEN WITH THEM AND THEIR KIDS. KNOWING YOUR KID SELL DRUGS BUT U STILL LET THEM STAY WITH U UNDER YO ROOF. THATS JUST LIKE GETTING SLAPPED IN THE FACE. GRANDPARENTS GETTING YOUNGER AND YOUNGER. 25 YEAR OLD GRANDMOTHER. THATS JUST LIKE GETTING SLAPPED IN THE FACE. THINK ABOUT IT.
I UNDERSTAND CITY AND GOVERNMENT AGENCIES HAVE LACK OF FUNDING AND EVERYTHING ELSE BECAUSE MY OWN MOTHER WORKS FOR THE HOUSING AGENCY AND I SEE THAT BUT ACS HAS A WAY MORE IMPORTANT JOB TO DO. AND THEY ARE SLACKING IN THAT DEPARTMENT. I AM ALL FOR GETTING ACS MORE FUNDING SO THEY CAN TAKE CARE OF THE ABUSED CHILDREN.HOWEVER, THEY DON'T DO A GOOD JOB WHEN HIRING PEOPLE EITHER.YES THEIR ARE CORPORATE PEOPLE WHO ARE RUDE AND DON'T CARE.BUT THEIR JOB IS NOT AS IMPORTANT AS ACS. AND I'VE KNOWN PEOPLE WHO WORK STILL FOR ACS AND COULD CARE LESS FOR THE KIDS. KNOW WHY THEY DO IT?BECAUSE IT WAS THE ONLY JOB THEY COULD GET THAT PAID THE BILLS (CUZ WALMART AIN'T PAYING), THAT WAS IN THEIR FIELD AND THAT ACCEPTED THEM. WHICH IS SAD TO SEE BUT IT HAPPENS. AND AS FOR THOSE PARENTS LEAVING WELTS ON THEIR CHILD THAT THEY CAN BARELY SIT DOWN OR ANYTHING ELSE OF THAT NATURE IS ABUSE.BUT YOUR SAYING IF YOU JUST HIT YOUR CHILD ONCE, THAT ABUSE AS WELL.IM NOT SAYING HIT YOUR KID UNTIL HE OR SHE BLEEDS, CAN'T WALK,HAS A BLACK EYE OR BROKEN BONE.HOW THE KIDS FEEL?THEY FEEL THEY SHOULDN'T HAVE DONE IT. BUT THE MEDIA AND GOVERNMENT HAS PUT LIMITS ON HOW TO DISCIPLINE YOUR CHILD.SO IS IT NOW HIT YOUR CHILD ONCE AND YOUR AN ABUSER?NO..TAKE IT TOO FAR AND TOO MUCH NOW THAT IS ABUSE. THIS IS WHY THESE KIDS GROW UP TO KILL OTHER KIDS, BECAUSE THE PARENTS NEVER DISCIPLINED THEM. THEY JUST DIDN'T GIVE A CRAP.ANOTHER GREAT EXAMPLE. THE 16 Y.O BOY THAT WAS SHOT OVER THE MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND IN HARLEM. MY BEST FRIENDS MOTHER WAS THE DAMN SOCIAL WORKER FOR THIS KID IN THE GROUP HOME HE HAD JUST CAME OUT OF NOT TOO LONG AGO. HE WAS THERE FOR ROBBERY.SHE SPOKE TO THE PARENTS AT TRIAL AND YOU KNOW WHAT THEY SAID? THEY DIDN'T EVEN CARE.FAMILY HISTORY OF NOT CARING AND NO VALUES OR DISCIPLINE. YOU THINK IF THEY HAD DONE A BETTER JOB A RAISING THIS KID, THE 16 WOULD BE ALIVE TODAY BUT HE IS NOT. KNOW WHY? STEMMING FROM A PARENT WHO DIDN'T CARE WHAT THEIR CHILD DID AND LET THEM RUN LOOSE IN THE STREET. SO I ASK WHAT OTHER WAY IS THEIR TO DO TO A CHILD AFTER YOU HAVE TALKED AND HAVE DONE THE BEST YOU CAN TO INSTILL RIGHT FROM WRONG?TIME OUT?AT THE AGE OF 15?OR 12?OR ANYTHING ELSE FOR THAT MATTER?AND CONSTANTLY DISRESPECTING YOU?YOU SEE THE MOTHERS ON MAURY PLEADING WITH HIM TO FIX THEIR CHILD.AND THEY HAVE TALKED AND TIME OUTTED THE CHILD TO DEATH.WHAT IS NEXT?INSTILL FEAR. JUST LIKE MAURY DOES. THE PRISONERS CAN'T HIT THEM BUT BEST BELIEVE IF THEY COULD, 2 OUT OF 10 GIRLS WOULDN'T RELAPSE INTO THEIR OLD SELF AGAIN.
OMG, I WOULD WHOOP HIS AZZ UNTIL I PASS OUT. I WOULD CONTINUE WHOOPING HIS AZZ EVEN IF THE POLICE SHOWED UP ON THE SCENE. FOR EVERYDAY FOR ABOUT 6 MONTHS, EVERY TIME I LOOK AT HIM, I WOULD JUST OPEN UP ANOTHER CAN OF WHOOP AZZ ON HIM....IT WOULD TAKE A WHILE FOR ME TO FORGET THAT S/H/IT! WHEN I GET THROUGH, LIL FAT BA/STA/RD WOULD BE RAIL THIN, LIL FAT MONSTER. CAUSE THAT'S HOW MUCH RUNNING AROUND THE HOUSE HE WOULD BE DOING WHILE I'M CHASING HIS AZZ! THERE IS NO F'ING WAY WOULD HAVE BEEN STILL SITTING IN THAT CHAIR AFTER THAT SLAP..DR. PHIL, HIS PRODUCER AND ERBODY ELSE WOULD HAVE TO BEG ME TO STOP KICKING THE S/HI/T OUT OF HIM!
hey MissInnocent..yeah its definitely a frustrating system..there are many who have fallen through the cracks, and others who have benefitted..there are workers who care, and workers who dont care at all..I guess in the end all we can do is love our children the best way we can and try to make their lives as happy and fulfilling as possible ..have a good night
MsSinnocent THIS IS WHY WHITE KIDS GROW UP AND MURDER THEIR PARENTS..IF I WOULD HAVE EVEN SPOKE TO MY MOTHER LIKE THAT SHE WOULD HAVE KICKED MY DAMN TEETH IN AND IF I EVEN SLAPPED HER... --------------------
Thats what "we" all would have gotten.... The little boy across the street wears a partial to this day!...got it around 11 years old. Ask him why?.....he tried to say something quick to his dad...LOL
@ gigi2007 *applause* exactly...
I worked as a public defender in juvenile courts in two states and I saw it first hand day in and day out...Kids with violent tendencies and charges...and when you would look at their clinical evaluations almost every time there would be instances of emotional and physical abuse (not discipline) in their case histories....
There is way too much ineffective parenting...People who think that intimidation and fear is the only way to discipline....then they want to act shocked when their kids become bullies, trouble makers or turn around when they are older and give to the parent what the parent has taught them...Little things like never, ever striking a child in anger are forgotten because people believe "beat downs" are somehow effective parenting....Yet if take a poll of people in prison for violent crime, the overwhelming majority of them got "beat downs" all the time growing up and that was part of the problem and not the solution.
Its sad to run into kids who have been labeled "bad"..yet their parents have spent so much time yelling and hitting them with belts and extension cords yet they rarely took the time to actually talk to them in a normal voice, listen to them, or try any other means of discipline.
We have to let this mentality go because its a major factor in why there are so many angry, dysfunctional youth out there.
LMAO....WHERE DO I START???....UUUMMMM....LET'S SEE...WHITE AMERICA NEEDS TO GET THEY [EXPLETIVE] IN ORDER INSTEAD OF WORRYING ABOUT BARAK OBAMA AND THE CHURCH HE WAS AFFILIATED WITH...YOU SEE THIS [EXPLETIVE]...THAT IS WHY WE HAVE PEOPLE LIKE CHARLES MANSON, JEFFREY DAUMER AND A HOST OF OTHER INSANE WHITE PEOPLE RUNNING AROUND KILLING AND EATING PEOPLE...WHY THE [EXPLETIVE] DID SHE ALLOW HIM TO SMACK HER?, WHY DID HE FEEL CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO SMACK HER? THE ANSWER: BECAUSE HE KNOW'S THAT SHE IS NOT IN CONTROL, HE IS THE PARENT, HE TELLS HER WHAT TO DO !! GIVE ME 5 MINUTES WITH THAT LITTLE FAT [EXPLETIVE] AND I WILL EAT HIM ALIVE, THAT [EXPLETIVE] DOES NOT HAPPEN WHERE I COME FROM, IF THAT WAS MY MOTHER HIS TEETH WOULD BE DOWN HIS THROAT !!! WHAT HAPPENED TO HAVING RESPECT?, WHAT THE [EXPLETIVE] IS GOING ON WITH THESE DAMN KIDS??...LMAO...THIS IS SOME CRAZY [EXPLETIVE]....ONLY WHITE PEOPLE !!!
ACTUALLY.
I'm sure she hits that boy at home -- because I saw the 3 minute version on youtube & they showed a slo-mo clip of the slap & when she raised her hand to point in his face .. . he got scared and jumped his a*s back. Only kids who get slapped up by their parents jump when they see that hand raise LOL
but anyway, he still shouldn't have slapped his mom no matter how frustrated he was getting .. . sh*t I know the feeling. haha
Well, they would have had evidence to present to a judge if that had happened to me on camera. LOL! He would have gotten a beat down. My kids would never do that to me so I can only imagine what is really going on in their house that he would think to do that and to continuously yell at his mother. Not quite right in the head.
WTF. Here we go again with the race s.h.i.t again. First of all for the person that "this is why white kids grow up and murder their parents" What kind of ignorant statement is that. Do all white kids grow up and murder their parents? I think not. Are you saying that black kids never murder their parents. HELLO, rapper Juvenile's daugter was murdered by her brother who also killed his own mother.
Second of all, not all white kids are raised to talk to their parents like that. I was raised to have respect for my mom and if I ever talked to her like that she would have slapped me in the mouth. But it is not even about raising your kids with physical violence. Its about communicating with your children, by teaching them respect therefore they wouldn't even think about doing something like. I hear some of you on here talking you would put your child in a casket for talking like that. Are you for real? What kind of talk is that. No wonder so many kids are running and acting out with such violence because they learn it from home....Is that really cool? Try sitting and communicating with your children first before beating the living s.h.i.t. out of them.
Third of all, that kid looks like he is crying out for help. We only saw a small portion of the clip. We only see the small picture, but to me the way the kid reacted, is there is some deep emotional problems with him that needs professional help. And beating his a.s.s would not help, only make it worst. Remember, if you raise your kids with violence 9/10 times they will be violent and aggressive later on down the road......peace
THEIR WHITE....IM NOT SUPRISED AT ALL...THIS IS EXACTLY HOW THEY GET DOWN..ALL DAY....THATS WHY THEY FAMILIES ARE SO MESSED UP....THEN THEY WANT TO TELL US (BLACKS) NOT TO SPANK OUR CHILDREN.... LMAO...SHE SHOULD HAVE SLAPED HIM BACK BUT IT SHOULD HAVE BEEN OWN FROM THE GATE...I DONT LIKE HIS TONE...THEN HE TELLS HIS MOM TO "SHUT UP AND LET HIM TALK" OMG...THAT WOULD NEVER HAPPEN IN A BLACK HOUSEHOLD/ UNLESS THEY'VE BEEN BRAINWASHED BY WHITES TO BELIEVE THAT "TIME OUT" IS MORE EFFECTIVE THAN A GOOD OLD FASHION AZZ WHUPPING.....LMAO.
@ AJEFF627 I DISAGREE, HE JUMPED BECAUSE HE KNOW HE SHOULD HAVE GOTTEN SLAPPED THE FUK BACK....LOL.... IF HIS MOM HITS HIM HE WOULDNT HAVE DARED TO HIT HER...HE WOULD HAVE BEEN TO AFRAID.... THAT WOULD NEVER BE ME..... I WISH MY SON/DAUGHTER WOULD, THEY WOULD HAVE SHOWN ME BEING ARRESTED IN HANDCUFFS... LMAO...
Anyone notice that the little boy had something to say? Not even close to condoning him slapping his mother, there definitley would have/should have been reprocutions for that. But, little boy has a point. Adults fail to realize that little kids need respect, too. The same things that you felt as a little kid, little kids now-a-days feel the same thing. It's hard to call when it's really a case of a "bad kid" as opposed to a "mislead kid". There are no "bad kids". It's the way we raise them as parents. For all we know, that mother could have been telling that little boy to "shut up" and smacking him. She was probably holding her composure because she was being videotaped. He must have learned it somewhere. I don't want to hear learning it from tv or radio, because it has to start in the household and it has to be tolerated in the household. That little boy definitley deserved some punishment. Now, to decied what that punishment is, is the key. Is it really to whip his ass or is to hurt him in some other way? Most people would have beat that kids ass. Shoot, my first reaction would have been to jump down my kids throat and get that ass. But do we know the circumstances that are really taking place in this situation? I have a son and I would NEVER tolerate him putting his hands on me, and neither would his father. Children need someone to talk to, someone to listen to them, even if it's about something so petty to the adult, it's always more trivial to a child. Don't you remember being a kid? The smallest things (now) were the biggest problems in the universe! First things first, the child and mother both need counseling, seperately and together. It's a tough call, but something must be done, other than physical consequences. Soon, the little boy will develop a tolerance for it and it won't make any difference.
bj6251982-- I'm assuming you're a black male/female. So, this is what you're proud of? Promoting that black parents beat their kids asses? That's not something I would be proud of. Hmm.. maybe that's why the majority of correctional facilities are occupied by black males... that's not something you should be proud of. What you should be proud of is the people-- ANY people-- who make it out of the hood, whether it's black, white or hispanic. So, stop trying to find a reason to condone any form of racism. Just because we're white, doesn't mean that we're not "strict" or that we're "bad parents". Take a look around you. You can say "white, white, white" all you want, but truth is, if you feel so offended that "blacks" live in infested, dirty neighborhoods, stop throwing dirty pampers out of the windows and take your ass off of Welfare and get a job.
See had it been me this is how this hot garbadge would've played out: A local woman was arrested today after losing her foot in her child's azz! Sources say that after being slapped in her face by her child the mother swiftly leaped on the child and while on the ground the mother inserted her foot in his azz! Doctors have surgically removed the foot however the big toe has been lodged in the child's intestines! Stay tuned...more on fox news at 11! The phuck!
IF I SLAPPED MY MAMA LIKE THAT SHE WOULD TRY TO STUMP ME 6 FT IN THE GROUND! I WOULDN'T EVEN THINK ABOUT SLAPPIN MY MAMA. I MIGHT HAVE TALKED BACK BUT I PAID FOR WITH A SLAP IN THE MOUTH OR GOOD RIGHT HOOK. NOTHING WRONG WITH BEATING YOUR CHILD AS LONG AS YOU DON'T DO IT OUT OF ANGER. HOW CAN ONE SLAP THE WOMAN THAT BROUGHT THEM INTO THIS WORLD?
@XMzSarcaztikX....you are no better than the folks making generalized statements about white people. I take offense to what you say because as a woman of color....at not time did my momma, her momma's momma or myself lived in thehood or have ever tossed dirty diapers anywhere so when trying to make a point...take the higher road sweetie. And contrary to popular belief...there would be more white men incarcerated than black men but unfortunately the system works against people of color. You and I can commit the same crime but yet the court system would probably give you less time or no time at all. No one in my family has seen a jail cell....but I will certainly "catch a case" if my child thinks he's going to raise a hand to any of his parents or elders for that matter. Education starts in the home and apparently this mother should have nipped this shyt in the bud at a young age. She obviously has no control white or whatever. She failed as a parent. This is beyond color to me!
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@XMzSarcaztikX
Now see buffy I was ready to listen to your opinion....I'm sitting thinking *oh she has a valid argument, but I dont know if I should trust this opinion*
Then BAM!
----------------------------- If you feel so offended that "blacks" live in infested, dirty neighborhoods, stop throwing dirty pampers out of the windows and take your ass off of Welfare and get a job. -------------------------------------
Your true color of pink came out.....
The fact is---there are more white people on welfrare than people of color..
There are MORE children born to white teenagers than people of color....
There are more crimes commited by white people than people of color...the difference IS people of color dont get propation for felonies...
There are more White children addicted to drugs....
There are more white people charged with child molestiation....
There are more white people than people of color who kill family members for insurance monies....(children included)
I could go on all day...but I think you get my point....If you were thinking we were a bunch of easly influenced high school drop outs, mother of six, on welfare....you are mislead
We can rebuke all of your racist, antiquated, stereotypes.....so maybe its best you just move on.....
Good Day!!
despite of what his mom might have said or the way she has treated him, what he did was WRONG. you do not need dr. phil to help you....the child needs some serious discipline. I sure hope they've resolved their situation...AND I HOPE THAT MASS-MURDERER-IN-THE-MAKING has cooled down his temper, because this is going in the wrong direction. I don't care how much attention or how hurt a child is, this sort of behaviour is NOT acceptable. Let's not say just Whites have this problem, because I've seen black chilren in the grocery store using expletives and their mom (usually mothers accept this) would think it is funny. They're both just as bad in my book.
PRAY FOR OUR CHILDREN
And those are the kind of boys my daughters beat the hell out of at school...little chumps who yell at girls but punk out when a boy gets in their face...surprisingly, I get no notes sent home or anything lol! But yeah, she better nip that in the bud now, and there's no way to stop a child-slapping-parent situation than for the parent to slap the child harder...sometimes time out ain't workin ppl...spare the rod, spoil the child...
lolololol. the look after the slap was priceless. like he really slapped sense into her.
on a serious note, if you listen to what he's saying, she obviously used to slap him around for NO reason, yet be scared of him at the same time. i don't think he'd ever hit her before b/c she was really shocked. at the same time, if it were my mom...and i'm grown
Well, she created this, what does she expect. Ok, she tried to talk to him, but he is so far gone, he doesn't understand reason. If I EVER tried that, WHEW, I wouldn't be alive right now. And you can call the police on me, I wish my boys would, I would die knowing I showed my kids tough love. They may not like it now, but when they get older, they will respect the fact that I was on them like I was. Many of these parents I see today are JOKES, and should not have kids. I have no respect for them.
The reason why he talk to her the way he do, and slapped her azz the way he did is because she sittin up there explaining herself to him... WTF, if I tell you to sit down, come here, or do this, that's what I mean... She shouldn't have to explain herself to a child... This clearly shows that this is an everyday thing... So what more can we say??? SHYT!!!
We all need to realize that kids are very smart nowadays, and that's why a lot of parents are reluctant to use that old school belt/switch discipline that a lot of us grew up with in the 70's and 80's. A child could be quick to yell abuse in a minute. They're young, but not all of them are dumb.
However, at the same time, something has to be done about this. I mean there are more and more cases like this of kids being out of place and not respecting their elders..whether it be parents, teachers, anybody. Obviously the talking to and reasoning with these kids is not enough. What else can be done?
And by the way , this is something I'm certain all races of parents deal with on a daily basis, so who are we to assume that mainly white parents allow their kids to get away with such behavior? I know black parents that are the same way, so stop making race the issue.
This situation is a double edged sword... but in light of the little [EXPLETIVE].... Hey Junior, you are so right, come let's have some cherry Koolaid.. I put a little more sugar than usual, as this is the way you like it.. After you drink it, I think you should just go and lye down and watch tv for a while. Meanwhile, Mommy is going to the ATM to check my balance, cause I need all the bail money I can get my hands on. Be right Back Honey!!!!!!!!
OMG!!!!WTF!!!!WHERE THE HELL THEY DOIN' DAT AT??? THIS LIL' [EXPLETIVE] DONE LOST HIS RABBIT AZZ MIND I WOULD HAVE SLAPPED DAT LIL' FAT [EXPLETIVE] OFF DAT CHAIR, BROKE HIS MOTHERFUCKIN' WRIST AND SHOVED IT DOWN HIZ DAMN THROAT, LIL' DISRESPECTFUL [EXPLETIVE]!!!! THAT [EXPLETIVE] DONE PISSED ME OFF, I WANTED TO COME THROUGH THIS LAPTOP AND KNOCK HIS AZZ OUT THAT CHAIR, AND SHE SITTING THERE LUUKIN' DAZED AND CONFUSED ABOUT WTF JUST HAPPENED....WHEN HIZ AZZ WAS DOIN ALL THAT YELLIN AND TRYIN TO TALK OVA HER IS WHEN SHE SHOULD HAVE JUMPED UP AND CORRECTED THAT LIL' BITCH!!!![SPAM]OOOO I'M SO HEATED RIGHT NOW!!!
This is sad. I didn't see this episode and could see that there is a deep rooted promblem in that family. The boy is crying out for love and his mother is blearly not listening. I guess when she decides to listen to him it will be to late. He'll be the same little boy that will go to school and shoot up the whole school or kill his mother in the middle of the night. All because he is not getting the most important thing that he should be getting from his mother and that is love. You all know that when mothers are wrong they do not want to hear it from there children.
Please excuse my misspelled words. I was rushing. So I reposted it again.
This is sad. I didn't see this episode and could see that there is a deep rooted problem in that family. The boy is crying out for love and his mother is clearly not listening. I guess when she decides to listen to him it will be to late. He'll be the same little boy that will go to school and shoot up the whole school or kill his mother in the middle of the night. All because he is not getting the most important thing that he should be getting from his mother and that is love. You all know that when mothers are wrong they do not want to hear it from there children.
However, I would not have hit my mother. I would have just walked away from her. Life beats death anyday. Mama ain't raise no fool. lol!
I saw that Episode of Dr.Phil.......this lil dude would have my fist tattoed in his face. I aint believe in spanking kids...but u have to show them who is in charge from the time they are born. Well again a black mom would have smacked the taste out of his mouth. I am a grown ass woman and i wouldnt dare do somethinglike that.......my mom will surely pull off a Jet Li and Jackie Chan on me.
@ gigi2007 you are a very intelligent person...continue speaking the truth regardless if people agree with you or not...i agree with you completely on everything you said...i was one of these people who first judged this little boy for face value...but after i went on youtube and watched the entire episode i realized that his mother is an awful parent and she deserved every bit of that slap and more...i almost wanted to cry seeing that little boy cry out for help & dr.phil just completely ignore everything he had to say...when he honestly thought that going on national tv he would atleast be able to state his case and have a fair jury!
Since everybody in here seems to have an opinion on this matter how about i help you make an informed decision...go to youtube...type in "BRAT CAMP" watch the entire episode and tell me if you still feel the way you said you do about that little boy "Noah" who slapped his mother in the video clip above..the truth of why he would have that much pent up rage torwards his own mother will shock you...i swear to this!
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GO TO THAT LINK,IF YOUW ANT THE REAL STORY ON WHY THIS KID WOULD HAVE THE GULL/BALLS TO SLAP HIS OWN MOTHER ON NATIONAL TV!
theres no such thing as a bad kid...just bad parents!
@IQuestion..I appreciate that..I just want people to know that they cant be so quick to judge this kid and react in a violent way with their kids..you have to listen to your kids, be involved in their lives, be an active parent, understand their needs and learn more effective ways of disciplining them..beating their ass doesnt do anything productive for the child or the parent..it doesnt make you a better parent because you beat your child after they got smart with you..why did they get smart with you? why is your kid getting suspended from school? why are they getting into fights? you need to look at what youre doing wrong as a parent before you go ahead and get that belt..people are stuck on the old school ways..dont they understand that a lot of things that were done the "old way" dont work? our mothers and grandmothers were housewives that stayed home and had several kids..but should we follow that tradition? times change..we need to learn and evolve and understand that gaining our kids respect means we have to give them respect in turn..this poor kid was a victim of circumstance..his mother is screwed up over the death of his older sister so she took her rage out on him..thats why hes acting out..Im sure many people here have kids who act out because theyre not spending enough time being involved in their kids lives..theyre quick to beat their kids ass but ask them to go to a PTA meeting and they look at you like you have one eye
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Since everybody in here seems to have an opinion on this matter how about i help you make an informed decision...go to youtube...type in "BRAT CAMP" watch the entire episode and tell me if you still feel the way you said you do about that little boy "Noah" who slapped his mother in the video clip above..the truth of why he would have that much pent up rage torwards his own mother will shock you...i swear to this!
theres no such thing as a bad kid...just bad parents! ------------------------------------------------ I agree with you completely, kids aren't bad...they are just what their parents have molded them to be...
Unfortunately we live in a society where most people are dogmatic and completely incapable of independent thought and believe that just because someone has a certain title (Parent, Cop, Teacher, Politician, Elder, etc.) that they are beyond reproach...
Its just a shame that people want to always throw children under the bus and villify them rather than the adults that made them the way they are.
@ gigi2007, exactly....that's what i'm talking about...people who blindly follow things because "that's what was done" rather than having the insight to look deeper and the courage to change things...
Hitting kids with switches, shoes and extension cords is so unacceptable...and even borderline criminal, yet people talk about it like its a source of pride....even as it is clearly creating kids with trauma issues and anger issues...We have got to do better...
The fact that there are hundreds of comments advocating "beating him down" and so few advocating getting counseling or evaluated or some other source of help shows just how fcuked up the mentality in our community is.
@EsotericDredz..I definitely agree with you..parents dont take responsibility for what theyre doing or not doing as a parent..its disturbing the way people are calling this little boy names and saying how they would harm him or their kids if they behaved that way..have they taken the time to look at their own parenting skills? working in social services has been an eye opener for me..it made me realize how parents actions can screw their kids up..people who are quick to want to tear int this kid or their own need to work with kids who have severe emotional issues, chemical imbalances, learning disabilities, mental illness and who have been raped, molested and abused..they will see what real problems are..giving an ass whipping is the easy way out..looking into your kids problems and finding ways to solve it takes time and commitment..a lot of parents doing want to invest time in their kids and resort to these old school ways and say that since they got beatings as a kid, their kids should get the same..its called lazy parenting..its called a cop-out
and to the people who are making this a race issue-you say that only white people let their kids behave this way..but what does it say about our black people when we're quick to advocate violence against our kids? what does it say when we call a little boy names, and think of ways to hurt him? are we any better?
Its an ignorant mindset...and one thing I have seen on this site is how even people who possess some degree of intelligence can still be as ignorant as the day is long...
People dont WANT to see that kids have trauma issues, chemical imbalances, mental health issues, issues surrounding abuse, etc....They are too closed minded and would much rather just slap the "bad ass kid" label on them...And doing that is both short sighted and simple minded...
As a youth advocate it has been sooo hard to get parents, guardians and others to see and understand this....Even when you are armed with evaluations and expert opinions, people still want to hold on to the outdated ways of discipline and many refuse to take any responsibility for their contributions for their kids behavior....You seem parents, older kids locked up in juvy for violent offenses, and they are still ther with the younger ones, yelling and slapping and beating, and swearing that they are being a good parent because of it, ignoring the obvious pattern they are creating.
We have GOT to do better....and that applies to parents across the board of all races and backgrounds...because children deserve sooo much better than they are being given...
Hey to each its own...My mother beat my ass when I did wrong, but guess what i'm still living and i'm a productive citizen with kids. So do what you think is best for your child. And if your child slaps the [EXPLETIVE] out of you like this child did. Sit him down and talk to him, find out why he slapped you and maybe next time when he slaps your ass again it won't be so bad.
There is NO WAY IN HELL. TV or NOT..I guess my azz would just be sitting behind bars right now, had that been me, cause I don't play that sh*t; hell I don't even play that sh*t with OTHER people's kids.
That lil boy would have been choked, and beaten beyond recognition. No way in hell, no way in hell. You don't EVER put hands on your mama, and if you do, you learn WHY you never put hands on mama, bottom line.
White folks - so typical.
MTO I actually thought I was going to be shocked until I saw the ethnicity of these people then, I just waited for the inevitable. I am so not surprised because I see like disrespectful kids like that a lot, but I just don't understand why people are spoiling potentially useful people. That little boy is not going to be worth a damn when he gets older because he has no proper training.
Shooot, first of all I wouldn't be telling Dr. Phil nothing! He's whack! If you need counseling do it in private, seriously, that is just exasperating the situation! Whatever happened to a good old fashioned beat down....That little roley poley arse kid would caught a haymaker and then a quick left....I would have broke his dayum fingers....please believe I saw that show and that kid is a manipulator...My mom would have choked me and chin checked me fast for even thinking of doing such a thing!
Why does everything have to be about being black or white? Being white has nothing to do with that boy slapping his mother. It has everything to do with the manner in which he's been raised from a small child to current and his mother allowing it. My kids respect me and know better to even raise their hand at me and they're white. They know better than to talk back to me. My mother tolerated NO disrespect when I was young. She thought nothing about beating our butts when we were out of line. I just wish we could get past the black/white issues. Times have changed. It's simply the color of our skin. Doesn't make either less or more important. God made us all equal. We should love each other for what we are not because of the color of our skin. That's something we should be teaching our children.
