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MAY GOD BLESS HER AND THE HUDSON FAMILY. |
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God Bless You Julia!!! |
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MY PRAYERS R WITH HER N HER FAMILY! |
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This is soo sad!! I wish them soooo much peace and joy in this TRAUMATIC time! |
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THIRD.....May the Lord continue to give you courage and comfort, His joy and love, His compassion and strength throughout this very difficult time in your family's life. Our prayers are with you this day. |
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GOD BLESS THEM...tHIS WORLD IS COMING TO AN END YA'LL |
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yeah I read that lastnight like any mother she jus trying to stay strong |
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My Prayers are with you and family! Keep the faith and stay strong |
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God is Good , and It may not seem like it but he has a plan for you Julia. Let God guide your steps . |
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She is the truth......I must be fly..... |
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thats sooo sad my prayers are with her and her family |
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God will bless and protect u. Youre in my prayers!! |
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| zoemayne |
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WHY DONT YOU GUYS HAVE THE SKINHEADS AS A TOP STORY? THE ONES WHO PLOTTED TO KILL 88 BLACKS AND OBAMA? |
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My thoughts and prayers are with you....this is too sad |
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| Chocol8Boo |
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SO SAD... KEEP THEM IN MY PRAYERS |
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SO SAD |
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SAD IN MY PRAYERS KEEP ON SISTA |
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Now I understand how she hooked up and married a convicted felon charged with attempted murder. She is clearly delusional, the fact that she chooses to in some way defend her choice in men saying it was "natural to love" shows she is still in love with the murderer of her family members. I find her myspace disturbing and what she should be doing is spending her time planning a funeral for 3 family members and not logging into myspace defending her choice in men. She is sick, she is the one who invited this murderer in, yet express no guilt or remorse on having done so in her myspace page. After the funeral Jennifer needs to leave Julia in the ghetto and never look back. |
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THIS IS HORRIBLE!! |
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I have mixed emotions regarding julia being on myspace but I'm not going 2 judge her because I NEVER want 2 know what she's going thru. Whatever the reasoning...I'm praying 4 the Hudson Family.
STOP THE KILLINGS IN NEWARK!!! |
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That's sad. Girl, Keep your head up!!! Remember, God is LOVE & LOVE is GOD. |
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see what our prison system produces? this guy is not a normal "thug". THIS IS A PRODUCT OF OUR PRISON SYSTEM. its all her fault. she brought a murderer into the family this is what can happen. I'm pretty sure the child's father is either in jail or not around because he has not even show up on the press conferences. BW need to stop reproducing with scum like this. The child lived a short happy life though I can tell from the disney land pictures he was a normal kid. so young he was born in 2001!
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GOD BLESS THEIR SOULS. NOW THERE IN A PLACE WHERE THERE IS NO HURT, & AWAY FROM ALL EVIL. |
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MAN...THIS IS SO SAD!!! MY HEART GOES OUT 2 HER AND HER FAMILY.. I CAN'T IMAGINE THE PAIN AND HEARTACHE THEY ARE GOING THRU RIGHT NOW!!!!! |
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Black Women please stop messing with scum. Listen to this youtube user:
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wow She looks just like Jennifer. You all are in my prayers. |
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My daughter and I would like to send our deepest condolences and prayers to you and your family,my god may god bless you all. |
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| cazatuz |
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JEN & her sister look like twins, i can barely tell the 2 apart!!
Yesterdays Jennifer traggedy post got over 1,00 comments compared to the usual 100+ comments!!
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THAT IS SOOOO SAD
MYSPACE.COM/APRILSHOWERS07 |
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| cazatuz |
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JEN & her sister look like twins, i can barely tell the 2 apart!!
Yesterdays Jennifer traggedy post got over 1,00 comments compared to the usual 100+ comments!!
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| cazatuz |
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JEN & her sister look like twins, i can barely tell the 2 apart!!
Yesterdays Jennifer traggedy post got over 1,00 comments compared to the usual 100+ comments!!
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| cazatuz |
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JEN & her sister look like twins, i can barely tell the 2 apart!!
Yesterdays Jennifer traggedy post got over 1,000 comments compared to the usual 100+ comments!!
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they LOOK JUST ALIKE, wow.
this such a horrible case, i wish the family the best. Nobody in this fam will ever end up on freaksonmyspace. |
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| cazatuz |
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JEN & her sister look like twins, i can barely tell the 2 apart!!
Yesterdays Jennifer traggedy post got over 1,000 comments compared to the usual 100+ comments!!
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| MilkChocolate209 |
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THIS IS JUST TERRIBLE FOR SOMEONE TO DO THIS, AND TO MAKE IT WORST YOU KILL HER SISTER'S BROTHER, MOTHER AND SON, HAVE YOU NO SHAME, HE WAS A LITTLE BOY AND THEY DIDN'T DO ANYTHING TO YOU!!!! THIS DISGUST ME I CAN'T EVEN TALK ABOUT IT, IT MAKES ME CRY TO HEAR WHAT HE DID AND DID TO THE LITTLE BOY!!! |
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life always takes twist and turns, and sometimes goes completely upside down but with strenght and prays, willingness and faith she will pull through.God always have somethng planned. |
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| blkngrekbeauty3 |
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THIS IS SOO SAD!! IT HIT ME REALLY HARD AND I DONT EVEN KNOW THEM!!! |
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| KEEYSHAJ50 |
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THATS NICE OF HER BUT SHE STILL SUSPECT TO ME SHE A LIL TOO CALM FOR ME...
ANYWAY RIP MAMA HUDSON AND BRO AND BABY JULIAN WE WILL ALL LOVE AND MISS U ;) |
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THIS SITUATION HAS ME ALL TWISTED. I CAN'T IMAGINE WHAT THIS POOR FAMILY IS GOING THROUGH AND I HOPE I NEVER HAVE TO FEEL THIS TYPE OF PAIN. GOOD BLESS THE HUDSON FAMILY IN THEIR TIME OF TRAGEDY. |
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| texxxasgurl |
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This is so disheartening! For ANYONE to have to endure such a sorrowful situation is just too much to think of. I will def keep them in my prayers. As a parent, I could never imagine my world without my child. God Bless them. |
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SHE REALLY DIDN'T HAVE TO EXPLAIN HER-SELF TO NOBODY. WITH CHANCE OF HOPE OR ANYTHING I WOULD HAVE DONE THE SAME THING. SHOOT I WOULD HAVE EVEN LOGGED INTO BLACKPLANET, FOR ANY SIGN OR SOMETHING THAT SOMEBODY WOULD HAVE EMAILED ME INFO ON MY CHILD WHEREABOUTS. SOME PEOPLE ARE SCARED TO TALKED TO THE POLICE, FOR FEAR OF THEIR LIFE. |
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For those who have children, this is probably one of the most tragic events that could happen to someone. I hope she stays strong... |
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| sexybmoremuva |
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God Bless Julia and her family. They are in a better place now. |
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this is so sad [SPAM] was making a big deal about her being on myspace. there was a woman who lost her cell phone, she was an event planner or something like that. she used her facebook to get her phone back! so, why would it seem ridiculous for her to use the internet to get her baby back!
the world is a lot smaller b/c the internet - chris rock
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This is nothing but sorrow...i can't imagine what she is going through. No mother should outlive her child especially one this young. Babyboy has his wings now. |
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| KEEYSHAJ50 |
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I TOTALLY AGREE
ALL I CAN SAY IS GOD BLESS JENNIFER AND LIKE U SAID AFTER THE FUNEREL LEAVING JULIA ALONE FOR LIFE CUZ HER REAL FAMILY IS DEAD SAD SH1T MAN :( |
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god bless the family and i wish her and jennifer the best and im so sorry this happened to them |
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She got her whole family killed because she brought this no good tramp into their lives. I hope women are paying attention, those who like thugs. |
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you are in my prayers.I lost a child also. I can't imagine losing that many loved ones at one time. |
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FIRST I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THIS SITUATION HAS DEVASTATED ME AS IF IT WERE MY OWN FAMILY. MY HEART HURTS FOR ALL INVOLVED...BUT I HAVE TO ASK..
*WHY IS THE MAN ACCUSED OF THIS HEINOUS CRIME STILL LISTED AS HER #3 FRIEND ON HER MYSPACE PAGE???? SHE LOGS IN EVERYDAY AND EVEN CHANGED HER DEFAULT PIC SINCE YESTERDAY BUT DIDN'T THINK TO TAKE HIM DOWN??? HE'S NOT CONVICTED YET BUT ALL ARROWS POINT TO HIM EVEN BY HER OWN ADMISSION...WHAT KIND OF CRAZINESS IS THAT??? |
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The Lord would never put more on you than you can bear...allow God to be that pillar of cloud that you need at this time as he was for the Isrealites as they went through the desert. May God comfort your heart and strengthen you at this time.
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More info from Chicago Tribune
Jennifer Hudson stood again in the Cook County medical examiner's office Monday afternoon, clutching the hands of loved ones as they identified the body of yet another slain relative—her 7-year-old nephew, Julian.
Even before family members arrived at the morgue, they had been told that the three-day search for the 2nd grader had ended when his body was found slumped in the back seat of an SUV parked on a West Side street. Amid visibly shaken family members in the medical examiner's office, Hudson bowed her head as if in prayer, then looked up.
"Yes, that's him," she told medical examiner officials as the family stood with her in an adjoining room and looked at a video monitor showing the boy's face.
The toll was inescapable: The Oscar-winning actress had lost her mother, her brother and now her nephew to a murderous rampage.
Even as the family gathered to answer one painful question, police searched the Chevrolet Suburban to answer others.
Officers questioned William Balfour, 27, the estranged husband of Julian's mother, Friday night, but he stopped talking when police suggested he take a polygraph test, law-enforcement sources said. Balfour has not been charged in the slayings.
Although the sources say Balfour remains the focus of the investigation, the motive remains murky. Police say there have been ongoing disputes between him and his estranged wife, Julia Hudson, and her family.
Hudson's mother and brother had thrown him out of their Englewood house in the past, sources said. Julia Hudson also told police that Balfour had threatened the family. A source said Balfour told Julia Hudson he would kill her if he found out she had a boyfriend, despite the fact that he had other girlfriends.
In another incident, sources said, Julia Hudson arrived Friday morning at Sunrise Bus Co. on payday and discovered her wages had been garnished because of unpaid car payments. Sources said Balfour had taken her car months earlier but promised to make the payments on the vehicle. After seeing her pay stub, Julia Hudson called Balfour to complain about the unpaid bills, sources said.
Police believe that Balfour went to the Hudson family home Friday and shot through the front door, striking Hudson's brother, Jason. Hudson's mother, Darnell Donerson, came into the living room, screaming, and Balfour shot her as well, sources said. Shell casings were also found in the child's room, but there were no bullet holes or other signs of violence there. Much of the account of what police believe happened that day came from an interview with a girlfriend of Balfour's, sources said.
The sources also said Balfour's girlfriend contradicted his alibi and told police that he was involved in the slayings.
Police have not ruled out the possibility that more than one person was involved, though Supt. Jody Weis said Monday that Balfour was currently their only "person of interest."
On Sunday morning, officials transferred Balfour to Stateville Correctional Center, saying that because he was a suspect in the slayings, he violated conditions of parole for a 1999 conviction for attempted murder.
Over the weekend, the city scoured the area near the first shooting scene and a grid east of where the boy eventually was found. Officers and volunteers taped missing-person posters up in area shops, and vigils were held in Englewood.
But Julian was found Monday morning on the West Side after a tiny dog named Li'l Man howled and barked at an unfamiliar white SUV parked in the 1300 block of South Kolin Avenue.
The Chihuahua's reaction drew the attention of his owner, John Louden. The SUV matched the description of one police had sought in the killings since Friday. It remains unclear if police had canvassed the block, but some neighbors say they had seen the SUV since Friday. But no one called police before Monday.
Louden, 75, went inside and told his wife, Lynnette. Neighbors said the pace of drug dealing nearby often brought strange cars to the block. But when the Loudens saw the Suburban's license-plate number appear on television, Lynnette Louden called 911.
"The first thing I thought was," she said, " 'Lord, don't let the baby be in there.' "
But he was.
Julian was found slumped over in the back seat of the Suburban, shot in the head. A bullet was found lodged in the vehicle, leading detectives to believe he had been shot in the vehicle. Police don't know precisely when he was killed, saying they are waiting for more information from the medical examiner's office. Police are hoping to find physical evidence at the two crime scenes that breaks the case. |
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GOD bless you and your family. |
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MY PRAYERS AND BEST WISHES
ARE WITH THE FAMILY AT THIS TIME.
NEEDLESS TO SAY I HOPE THEY FRY THE BALLS
OFF OF THAT BASTARD, DEATH WOULD BE AN EASY
PUNISHMENT FOR HIM, LET HIM LIVE IN PRISON
IN PURE HELL FOR UMMM...TEN YEARS WITH THE ABSOLUTE WORSE CRIMINALS THEY HAVE THEN KILL HIM.
I CURSE THE DAY THAT B*TCH AND THREE B*TCHES THAT LOOK LIKE WAS BORN. |
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| mskiki |
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this is so sad. i can't even believe that someone can commit such a heinous crime. god bless the hudson family |
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This is so sad... I feel very bad for the family and her.....My prayers go out to the family. |
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This is sad situation, this woman lost her son, her mother and a brother, let her find peace anyway she could. grief affects all of us differently, maybe she felt being online gave her some type of comfort in this time of tragedy
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Well all we can do right now is learn from this situation.
Sistas please if you have children, don't be bringing random waste man into your homes.
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| in_da_nati |
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| ThaUnknownOne |
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when things like this haoend we need totalk about it GOD BLESS THE FAMILY I AM SO SORRY. |
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Who are we to judge this woman? Many women put their relationships before their families but their dirt is just not in the spotlight. I'm not defending her but I'm also saying that you can't judge somebody for who they choose to be with or what they choose to do in times of sorrow.
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His father is Mr. King, he was at the press conference with her you idiot. Not all black men are losers!! |
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Only GOD can judge but something is really wrong with her...PEACE AND BLESSINGS 2 THE HUDSON FAMILY AT THIS TIME. |
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| bettyboop2800 |
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| autumnlucy |
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Somebody need to whoop this nig til the black fall off his bastid ass! I was agitated before, but damn! I'm praying for this family, but this is some shullbit for real. Petty. Stupid. Asshat. |
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| JAYJAY0861 |
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WHY IS THESE ANIMALS KILLING THESE BABIES? GOD HAS A PLAN FOR THE PERSON OR PEOPLE THAT DID THIS, AND MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON THEIR SOULS.
KEEP GOD FIRST |
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| Scorpio24_7 |
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This was such a sad event to happen to anyone. I think the media needs to give this family time to heal.. Cause truth is this type of stuff happens all the time in regular homes and we dont hear of it too much or see it blasted all over the news on every channel. Now that they have found the baby its time to allow this family to mourn in peace... |
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TRAGIC!!!
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MY heart goes out to the Hudson family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. |
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May he R.I.P.. |
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Weakass excuse. Sorry! |
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So sorry for her loss.. |
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I guess it's time to update this. When I started my Myspace, all of the above was true. Now because I chose to do what was natural to me and love someone , it cost me my beautiful family. My wonderful beautiful loving supporting mother Darnell, my true blue baby brother Jason , I love u big baby ... And last but never not least - my only son Julian, my innocent baby. One that was sheltered from all the evil in the world because we loved him so much.....Wow...I guess that says it all...That it was that monster of an ex-husband who did it...I was waiting for proof from the police.....SAD...Jennifer and Julia GOD BLESS YOU BOTH....I PRAY THAT YOU FIND PEACE! |
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@keeyshaJ @Atlsnoone You're right she is still suspect to me...Why wait this long to come out in the opening, she probably seen what some of us was saying up here, we were calling her ass a suspect. Why was she still updating her page with songs and no blogs about her family or anything, she is trying to cover up but she's not fooling me |
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i thought they just saw his body |
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She doesn't owe anyone an explanation, and I wish people like 2damnsexxy09 would stop posting comments accusing her of having something to do with what happened to her family. It's really lame and really it's not even our business, if we can't offer sympathy and prayer than just leave it alone people...it's not right to sit here and say these mean and hurtful things about this woman because all we know is what's being reported, we're on the outside looking in and we don't even know the entire story. Stop being so obsessed and deal with your own personal issues. |
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MAY GOD BLESS THE HUDSON FAMILY AND JENNIFER I FEEL SO SAD FOR THE FACT THAT YOU AND YOUR MOTHER WERE SO CLOSE AND YOUR IN THE PRIME OF YOUR SUCCESS N THEN TRAGEDY STRIKES MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND ALSO WITH JULIA IM SORRY YOU LOST YOUR SON THIS IS SO SAD!!!!!
THE SADDEST PART IS SOME THUG CRIMINAL WAS BROUGHT IN YOUR LIFE AND TOOK YOUR FAMILY HE SHOULD OF KILLED HIS SELF I HOPE HE BURN IN HELL WITH GASOLINE DRAWS ON THAT BASTARD .....LADIES WE GOT TO HAVE SELF RESPECT AND LEAVE THESE NO GOOD THUGS ALONE THEY ARE ALL WANNA BE'S AND THIS LOW LIFE PEICE OF SH*T KILLED HER MOTHER N BROTHER N NEFEW FOR WATTTTT?????
I PRAY GOD HEALS YOUR HEART N GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH TO MOVE ON I KNOW WE MUST FORGIVE BUT AFTER THE FUNERAL YOU SHOULD LEAVE YOUR SISTER ALONE IT COULD OF BEEN PREVENTED IF SHE NEVER KNEW THIS BASTARD!!!!! |
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So, she's telling us her husband did it? If I were Jennifer I would be mad at her. I do understand that she needed the attention...yeah it made her look really suspicious and was really macabre but I think she just NEEDS attention. And this observation has nothing to do with anything even remotely vain or external (I think she's a very very pretty woman...perfect skin) I just think she lacks emotional intelligence and self-confidence and really reveled in the attention. And though I understand that and the fact that she's grieving, if I were Jennifer I would still be mad at her. She chose the bum, who I am sure exhibited violent tendencies early on in their relationship. Hell, he had done time for attempted murder. She chose him. She MARRIED him. And then there's the reveling in the attention that came with all this, the national attention...she hasn't handled this well and I would be mad at her. |
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Sweetheart you don't have to explain anything. My child is 26 years old, and if something happened to her, I don't know what I would do. I cringe at the thought of my child being away at college 3000 miles away. |
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This is truly not a time to judge Julia. As a single mom my heart goes out to her. Her baby was taken from her. Clearly he adored her . . . Many prayers for Julia during this time and tragic loss of three family members.
For anyone blaming her ... stop!
She is a mother. She is a daughter and sister. The pain does not need to be padded with stupid comments from people who are getting their information from misreported information via the online and visual news reports.
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I don't personally know Ms. Hudson but given the environment she grew up in, her criminal minded husband was just another guy from the hood. No, she shouldn't have been with him but that's a lesson to be learned by many women.
Many of you can say that she's delusional but where you grow up affects people different ways. Some people become negative products of where they grew up and some turn that producitivty into something positive.
Ms. Hudson had no father and most females in that situation go looking for love. Unfortunately she found it in the wrong place.
As for immediate family, I assume its just she and Jennifer left now. If I were them, I would sell that house or give it away to a church and never look back. A fresh start means leaving that neighborhood and violent area behind.
Who knows? Perhaps Ms. Hudson could become a spokeswoman for women and teaching them how not to fall in the trap of bad men when you suffer from no self esteem. This phenomena is nothing new but it needs to stop. |
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Whats up KeeyshaJ girl, remember they read mediatakeout cause jennifer said it herself, so I know Julia seen the comments that we were writing, I can tell that something is up with that girl and that lame ass excuse does not change anything |
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1.The African Origin Of Civilization- by: Cheikh Anta Diop. 2.The Historical Origin Of Christianity- by: Walter Williams. |
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@jonas
I AGREE WITH YOU. THIS WOMAN SEEMS TO HAVE THE MENTALITY OF A TEENAGER. I TRULY FEEL SORRY FOR HER AND I'VE BEEN PRAYING FOR HER FAMILY(I DEFINITELY PRAYED FOR THE SAFE RETURN OF THAT LITTLE BOY), BUT HOW IN HELL IS SHE ON MYSPACE AT A TIME LIKE THIS!?!? SHE SOUNDS SELFISH. SHE IS PARTIALLY TO BLAME FOR THIS HORROR BUT SHE ONLY SEEMS TO BE SEEKING PITY. I'M SORRY MAYBE I'M WRONG BUT THIS BEHAIVIOR JUST SEEMS WRONG TO ME.
MAYBE SHE NEEDS SOME THERAPY-I KNOW I WOULD IF THIS HAPPENED TO MY FAMILY. BUT I HOPE IN THE FUTURE SHE IS MUCH MUCH MORE PICKY IN HER CHOICE OF MEN. |
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It hasn't hit her yet, the reality of their absence, the emptiness hasn't reared it's ugly head. May God bless Julie, Jennifer, their family and everyone who has been impacted by this monstrosity. My God. |
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@ zoemayne- I agree. While everyone certainly is upset about how senseless and tragic this is. . .this story has been overdone by the media. It's time to give the Hudson family a little bit of privacy as they grieve.
ALL AMERICANS, especially Black Americans should be worried about the disturbing news regarding the assassination plot against Obama. This should be the top priority on ALL news and gossip sites, especially Black ones. I know this is a gossip site, but it has a large Black following. Therefore, I think it would be great if the people who ran this site gave a little more attention to the Obama situation. DON'T SLEEP BLACK FOLKS! These racists are willing and ready to attack us at all fronts. The least we should be worried about is sensational news stories.
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She didn't have to explain her choice of logging into her myspace to NO ONE! People are always gonna have somethin' to say and this is definitely not the time to be worried and caring what others who don't even know you or fully understand this terrible situation think. Everybody don't handle grief in the same way so all of the judging and disrespect need to stop! |
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I be damn if it didnt hit her yet, 3 of the people you shared your house with and love the most are dead, how it didnt hit you yet, how is balfour still on her top friends and she still has pics of him, if she can add music and friends to her myspace page, she can take him off and make a few changes on her myspace page for the best.... |
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One more comment -
To any woman leaving a comment blaming Julia for "messing with" or marrying this guy - please look back in your dating past and remember the bad decisions you might have made in chosing a boyfriend. Your outcome might not have been as tragic ~ but no one is responsible for another adult. This is not a time for her to look back and want to change the past. Change her decision in who she dated or married. No one in one this site knows what she is feeling or thinking. She might be beating herself up for making a decision to deal with William Balfour . . . STOP JUDGING HER!!! Jennifer doesnt have to be mad with her. I dont see her as a suspect . . STOP making stupid comments! |
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@butterfly-kah.....The sources also said Balfour's girlfriend contradicted his alibi and told police that he was involved in the slayings.
*****Wow...thats it...And to think Balfour's mama said "on camera" My son is innocent....Shame on her for trying to protect her monster son....She's a ghetto biotch!!!.....Julia was like a lot of women in the hood...Thats the type of men she grew up around and became used to.... |
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I have a son and I can't imagine what she's going through and I pray to God that I never KNOW. Julia our prayer are with you and Jennifer. I think most of us feel like we've lost someone because during all this we are greiving for and with you. But know that God is there to give you peace that will pass all your understanding. We love ya'll |
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I am lose for words. This is really becoming sad that ignorant @ssholes are killing our future. I few years back a man killed his baby mama, her five children including his with a hammer here in Detroit. Last wk a mother lost three of her children in a house fire along with her aunt and then yesterday a mother and her two children were found dead in Novi. When is this going to stop. I am a mother of two and every morning I pray and pray asking GOD to protect and cover me and my family, friends and even my enemies. We have to come together for a future ppl. Love not hate. For all who has lost a love 1 ur always in my heart and put GOD first. |
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Everybody grieves differently - We have to respect that and hope that justice is served swiftly and accordingly all the while keeping the Hudson family in our prayers. If there are any JHUD fans from NYC/NJ area interested in attending the services (once info is available) hit me up via myspace or yahoo IM- Sexcess1 |
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Everyone has to deal with things their own way. Perhaps hers was to reach out to people but uhm, in light of the people she previously sought comfort in she shoud get off my space and tighten the circle up a bit. Last thing we need is for her to find more love in strange places. Seen a picture of their family on another web page fooling the Paps dressing up as Jennifer to deter them and the decoy looked a hot mess as did the others that was with them laughing and whatever, not sure what to call it they not used to having anything and i am not surprised they got left. I hope Julia learns from this tragedy God is with them and always has been and always will be. So peace to her in dealing with things |
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One more comment -
To any woman leaving a comment blaming Julia for "messing with" or marrying this guy - please look back in your dating past and remember the bad decisions you might have made in chosing a boyfriend. Your outcome might not have been as tragic ~ but no one is responsible for another adult. This is not a time for her to look back and want to change the past. Change her decision in who she dated or married. No one in one this site knows what she is feeling or thinking. She might be beating herself up for making a decision to deal with William Balfour . . . STOP JUDGING HER!!! Jennifer doesnt have to be mad with her. I dont see her as a suspect . . STOP making stupid comments! |
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To J.Hud (both J's)
My deepest sympathys to you and your family. May God grant you the strength to keep on moving forward and continue to enjoy life.
This is so tragic and hopefully an eye opener...this world is going crazy and we need to be mindful of our surroundings but more mindful of our GOD...i pray for protection everyday...this is serious yall too much is happening and we need to know that it is a spiritual warfare going on and the only one that can save us at a time like this is the precious lamb of God...
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I swear, you guys are ridiculous. Most of you sound like little old, lonely women gossiping and speculating on sh!t that you know nothing about. Who are you to accuse her? And if she wants to check her myspace, let her...she does not have to explain herself to anyone. She lost her Mother, Brother, and most importantly her only son....none of you know how you would react if something like this were to happen to you. Maybe she is still in shock, and it really hasn't hit her yet....maybe she is in denial. Everyone grieves differently...so give it a break, and stop assuming sh!t |
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I agree with most comments. While, I am glad Julia Hudson did post this, she really owes no one any explanation. We don't know the dynamics of her relationship and like Bishop TD Jakes says "When we date someone we date, whom they APPEAR to be; but when we marry them, we marry who they ACTUALLY are."
This lowlife could have presented himself to her as one thing (a changed man, etc). but in time he revealed his true self and unfortunately she lost her family as a result.
I also see that Julia, like Jennifer also sings. You never know, in this tragedy, she may turn to singing to release some of that pain and become just as great, if not greater than her sister. We just never know what God has in store. |
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@Audrey222...Well said!!!.....Some people think that because they excaped the horrors of the hood, that everyone else should!.....Everyone has to learn in their own way....Hell,, it took me years to learn who and what type of people I should and shouldn't have in my life... |
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My prayers go out to the Hudson family, we all grieve because we have to ask ourselves do we really know the people we allow in our circle. We need to be more careful about the people we introduce to our family. I think she wanted a man @ all cost and it costed her family. Women and men please open your eyes and don't accept anything @ face value.
I'm a bit confused on why this man done this crime, was he not living with another women. I pray that they get to the bottom of this. Also he was in jail when the SUV was discovered, did he really do this crime or is Juila speaking about loving someone else? |
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FVCK EXPLAINING ABOUT A MY SPACE....I WANT TO KNOW WHAT HAPPEN TO THAT POOR BABY AND WHY WOULD SOME CRAZY AZZ PERSON DID THIS.
MY HEART AND PRAYERS GOES OUT TO ALL THE FAMILY MEMBERS. AND WE NEED TO ALSO BE NICE TO JULIA BECAUSE REGARDLESS OF WHAT HAPPEN, SHE WAS HIS MOTHER.
THEN SOME OF THESE FOLKS THAT SAW THE VEHICLE SINCE FRIDAY NEED THEIR AZZ KICK, WHAT WERE THEY WAITING FOR (A REWARD) BEFORE CALLING THE POLICE AND REPORTING THE SUV IS ON THEIR BLOCK. |
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There are alot of mofos on this board judging Julia. Please tell me....What gives you the right to judge? "Only God Can Judge!" You know nothing but what they have reported. Now if you know this family personally than that's another story. But it didn't take a genious to figure out the reason she was on her myspace page. I figured that when I first heard that she was logging on.
Julia, don't mind the people who accuse you. I am mature enough to understand that people grieve in different ways. And I also understand that people make mistakes and bad decisions in life. Keep your head up and I will continue to lift you and your entire family up in prayers. God Bless. |
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The family is in the grace of God now. My prayers are with Jennifer.
Is it just me or does Julias letter seem rather cold? IDK I think I would have spoken better and more of the deceased than addressing and defending that azz she called a husband.
But we all grieve differently. I guess this is the way she copes with her loss.
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IDK PEOPLE GRIEVE IN DIFFERENT WAYS. I KNW I WOULD BE GOIN CRAZY.....THAT WAS HER ONLY CHILD....AND HE WAS SO YOUNG AND SOME1 KILLED HIM....SO VISCIOUSLY. AND SHE LOST HER ONLY MOTHER & BROTHER AS WELL.....LIKE WTF!!!!! I DEFINITELY DON'T KNW HOW ANY OF THAT FEELS LIKE CUZ I HAVEN'T LOST SOME1 SO CLOSE 2 ME IN MY LIFE YET.....BUT I WOULD NEED AN OUTLET.....AND I GUESS MYSPACE IS HERS.....I SEND OUT MY CONDOLENCES TO THE HUDSON FAMILY.....AND I WONDER HOW THE FATHER OF JULIAN FEELS (HIS BIOLOGICAL)THAT'S Y MEN NEED TO BE IN THEIR CHILDREN LIVES.....IF U DON'T KNW WATS GOIN ON U NEED 2 LEARN WATS GOIN ON..... |
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I've read some of the posts about the judging...I can appreciate that. It's fair. BUT if this really could happen to anyone because we all have chosen the wrong sort of guy, how will we learn from this mistake if just what made her decision such a horrible one isn't articulated at least? I don't mean to compound her hurt... |
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@ GETTING DOWN
I CONCUR! I am sure everyone in CHICAGO was on looking for a white Suburban and there happens to be one in front of your door for at least 2 days that doesn't move and you don't call the police?
I AM SURE IF THAT WHITE SUBURBAN WAS ON THE "OTHER SIDE OF TOWN" IT WOULD HAVE BEEN TRACKED IMMEDIATELY.
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Over the weekend, as I tried to wrap my mind around my own family situation and the fact that these incidents happened in my native home, it was brought to my attention that I once lived right around the corner from that area (up on the 'hump'), when I was going to Robeson high, and couldn't imagaine the effect of some selfish, insensitive, coward's actions. These shorties (to me), are just mind boggling. So scared to take an azz whippin', they hide behind a gun, so when you get locked up, what will you hide behind? May the Lord be with the family, friends, city. |
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Though I have never lost a child to death,I've been in a situation much like it involving my own children and it's devastating and crippling. I'll never be the same again.
I don't know you but I feel your pain and your pain has become my pain and I mourn your loss with you and I am so sorry for the loss of your BEAUTIFUL mother,your ONLY Brother and ONLY SON.
At this time of great success in your sister Jennifer's life the Devil has become very envious and busy in her life.
THE DEVIL COMES TO KILL,STEAL AND DESTROY!!!
You have three more angel watching over you and your sister now.
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@PunkDrunkPretty; I agree with you.
Where do we as a society get off this EMOtIONAL ROLLerCOasTER and just call BLACK Black and WHITE White, why do so many always want to be politcally correct all the time, sometimes its the minority not the majority thats CORReCT.
Anyway you want to cut it MommieDearest as a stake in all these people death by her own admission ! The only way she doesnt by her own admission have anything to do we these "3" Homicides, least see how many other scenarios there could be the Brother Dope Dealers did it, the brother was messing with another man's woman, the brother Gay Lover, the brother jealous friends, the mother's jealous friend, the mother's boyfriend, Jennifer's exboyfriends mad about her new man Punk another Celebrity, Jennifer's pshychotic fan gone ballistic, just someone Jennifer pissed off in the past and stuck her nose up to or just some JEALouse Neighbors that wanted Little Julian for Auntie's Money, none of these justify murder but all could be a motive in any murder with the sick selfish world we live in now. Other than some of these scenarios Julia admits Guilt by now pushing it on the man she Opened the door into all their lives and deaths.
Either we gonna quit being a puzzy emotional society and start getting facts and evidence about any situation and making all accountable, or you just gonna be BooBoo the Fool.
She may be 100% right in her own mind, but Chicago Finest are having a hard time sticking not 1 but 3 murders on this convicted felony, short of planting evidence and framing him to keep the public outcry down and not have to exhaust department funds to find the killer/s, I say Chicago Dick Tracies better come up with the goods and thats all to it cause everyone out here are not emotional believing every wind and doctrine that cross their eyes and ears, this little boy, that Mother and brother deserves more than emotions now. Im tired of hearing "why you Judging, only God can Judge", but God gave us the duty to know somethings in this life too and do something about it, just because it what a person feels or believes and trust me God have us the mind and wisdom to do as he said "you shall know them by the Fruit they bear" now wheter the fruit is Good or Bad you should know the difference. |
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To any woman leaving a comment blaming Julia for "messing with" or marrying this guy - please look back in your dating past and remember the bad decisions you might have made in chosing a boyfriend.
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I can agree to a certain extenty.
This woman already had a child. I am a single mom and any man is LUCKY to even meet my daughter unless I thoroughly check him out. To date, only one other man besides her father, have I allowed into my kids life.
Once you have a kid, its not about what you w ant or what you would accept for yourself anymore. Once you have a child any man you choose HAS to be good enough for your child to look up to, who will gladly accept your child as part of the package, and someone who you deem worthy enough to bring around your child.
Even if he was a changed man supposedly, and convicted felon, previously incarcerated for car jacking and attempted murder would NEVER be deemed worthy enough by me to expose my child and my family too. Once you have a kid, its not just about your needs anymore, and that includes any men you take home with you. |
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Please remember the press conference when she said "If you have a problem, it's between you and me, bring my son back he has nothing to do with it". The husband was in jail (I believe) so who was she talking to. Julia if you know who done the crime, please speak up you owe that to you mother, brother and especially your son.
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I am at a loss for words. May God Bless You & Your family and keep your hearts strong. Our thoughts and prayers are with you & your family. GOD BLESS YOU!!!
Some of you guys don't have a heart . don't you think that Julia has enough pain to deal with right now? stop and think for a minute,This Devil has tried to take everything this women ever loved away from her and I can't help but to think if Jennifer was there she also would have been a victim too,so please stop with all the hate words. PS.YOU WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT ONE GOES THROUGH UNTIL YOU WALK THERE SHOES.
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There are some serious things in this situation that don't add up. Seems that Julia didn't have to work as a bus driver on Friday, teh kids were out of school in Chicago - so the initial reports that she worked her shift may not be totally correct. She went to work and noticed that her pay had been garnished over car payments from the vehicle that William now had in his possesion - so she called him for a phone confrontation. Some sources say that he came to the Yule Avenue home and had a lowdown brouhaha with Julia that morning, prior to Julia going to work. Now Jason was her way to work, so since William allegedly stole Jason's suburban SUV after the shootings, how did Julia get to work that day to get her check? She allegely comes home at 3PM and realized that the murders had occured. Her demeanor seemed odd at the press conference. I have no idea what really happened, but i do know, it has not gone down the way it has been portrayed so far. Julia knows more than she is telling. |
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Julian's Dad (Mr. King) was at Julia's side during the press conference, he was on her left.
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This is not the time to pass judgment. We are not there when she lay down at night. Pray for this sister and her family. I have kids and this is anyone worst nightmare.
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MY GOD.. THIS WORLD IS A UGLY CRUEL EVIL PLACE.. TO KILL A CHILD YOUR HEART IS BLACK AND DARK... I DNT UNDERSTAND WHY THIS WOMAN WAS ON MYSPACE? I CANT THINK OF ONE HAIR BEING HARMED ON MY SON'S HEAD WITHOUT TEARING UP..MYSPACE IS THE LAST THING I WLD THINK OF.. I THINK MAYBE SHE'S IN SHOCK? WELL MAY THE LORD SOURROUND THEM WITH LOVE AND CARRY THEM THROUGH THIS VERY SAD AND UNFORTUNATE TIME.. THEY ARE ALL IN MY PRAYERS.. |
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MS JULIA THANKS 4 GETTING THAT OFF YOUR CHEST. YOU DONT OWE US NO EXCUSE. RIGHT NOW YOUR FOCUS SHOULD BE ON PUTTING YOUR FAMILY TO REST. YOU'VE LOST SOMETHING THAT CAN NEVER BE REPLACED YOUR FAMILY. GOD WILL NEVER PUT YOU THROUGH MORE THAN YOU CAN HANDLE. ASK THE LORD WHAT IT IS HE IS TRYING TO SHOW YOU . DONT WORRY ABOUT THINGS BEING POSTED ON THIS BLOG OR AN OTHER. THEY TALKED ABOUT AND CRUCIFIED JESUS CHRIST. SOME OF THESE PEOPLE HAVE NO EDUCATION, NO LIFE, NO COMPASSION, MOST OF ALL THE DONT KNOW OR SERVE GOD. IF SO THEY WOULD KNOW NOT TO JUDGE. GOD KNOWS WHAT HAPPENED , THATS ALL THAT MATTERS. GET BACK TO CHURCH. STAY AROUND PEOPLE THAT MEAN YOU GOOD. JEALOUSY IS OF THE DEVIL AND PEOPLE LOSE THEIR LIVES TO IT EVERYDAY. YOU AND YOUR SISTER PRAY AND STAY CLOSE . YOU ARE ALL SHE HAS NOW,BESIDES GOD ALMIGHTY. REMEMEBER ONLY HE CAN JUDGE YOU. PS. THIS WORLD IS COING TO END GOD WILL TAKE ALOT OF HIS PEOPLE BEFORE SO THAT THEY DONT SUFFER WHAT IS TO COME. YOUR SISTER IN THE LORD, DALLAS ,TX. |
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IM SORRY. IT' SOUNDS TO ME LIKE THIS PATHETIC EXCUSE OF A WOMAN STILL LOVES THAT FREAKING MURDERER. AND SHE STILL HAS THAT LUNATIC ON HER MYSPACE PAGE. MAN IF THIS WAS MY SISTER CAUSING ALL THIS DRAMA, SHE WOULD NEVER SEE ME AGAIN AFTER THE FUNERALS. THIS CHICK IS TWISTED. AND SHE SAYS IT'S NATURAL TO LOVE A PHUCKING ATTEMPTED MURDERER, DAMNNNNN... |
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Jennifer and Julia will go on to live their lives as with all of us who have lost a child or family member or friend, our lost love will become just a loving thought thats all thats left, a year ago some of you grieved Kanye West mother and others you lost are you still grieving them now or saying poor Kanye, next year this time it will be someone else so get prepared if all you want to do is Grieve, find them folks killers now thats what God want us to do. Talking about Judging, God also said "Thou shall not Kill". |
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...you can only understand this if you've been there and I have. When my son died I was on and off of myspace simply because it was a distraction from the pain. Not only that, there are friends on myspace who give encouraging words. I even wrote a blog of the whole morning I found my son dead because in a way it eased my mind to type it all out and let everyone know that SIDS is real. I didn't know how to go on and still find myself wondering where to go in life without him. Don't ever think you're invincible. To lose your only son is the worst pain a mother can experience and whatever it takes for you to try and cope is what you'll do. I do greatly sympathize with her, to lose not only a son, but a mother, then a brother has got to be hard on her. The last thing she said about his soul being at ease and being with the lord is what gets me through my days when I think about my son. This is so sad. |
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When they found little Julian yesterday, I had to take to the bed. I think I cried most of the afternoon. I don't know these people but I feel like I do. My prayers go out to Jennifer and Julia during this tragic time. I can't imagine what they are going through but I do know that both of these girl know Jesus and he is there with them with his angels to comfort them. I know Julia is blaming herself but don't do it. When she got imvolved with this man she had no ideal that he would turn out like this. If you can't say anything positive, please yall, don't say nothing. |
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THE FATHER IS AROUND, AND HE WAS AT THE NEWS CONFERENCE. SO CHECK YOUR FACTS BOO, NO HE IS NOT LOCKED UP OR NOT AROUND.
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I'm sorry for the loss of her mother and brother but my heart is especially hurt at the loss of the child. An innocent, adorable child who appeared to have a lot of personality. I can only imagine what he went through in his final hours and that is what really eats me up. I can't judge the mom, I'm sure she is hurting...When it comes to love we don't always make the best choices..but we must becareful who we bring into the lives of our children. I feel that there is another party involved, this wasn't a one man job. |
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When tragic things happen you don't know how you will handle it. My husband and best friend was killed in a car accident in 2000. People said I was strong, handeling it well, blah blah. I was in shock. My heart was broken and it still is.There are so many people praying for them. They have strength because the Lord is holding them up. I know what I'm talking about! |
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I agree with YOU ALL! I don't know how it feels to lose a child and don't ever want to indure that pain, it makes me wonder why on earth she is even foolin with myspace. Myspace would be the very LAST place I'd go...me personally I'd be too distraught to even type in my email and password on there. I mean we all grieve differently and I am trying my hardest not to judge and maybe this is her way that could have helped find her son and help her grieve but it REALLY did sound suspect to me. ANd I know I'll get ridiculed for thi post so go on and say whatever.... I've been reading everyone post since the day this all happened and I know someone will say something.
The comments back and forth have gotten real ugly so i'll take my chances.
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A lot of folks are blaming this little boy's mom, but I'm sure she didn't knowingly make the choice to have her mother, brother and son murdered.
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Sure everyone handles tragedy different but i have a problem with her addressing people and not that BASTARD THATS A SUSPECT!SHE LOGGED IN AND STILL DIDNT REMOVE HIM AS A FRIEND OR BEST FRIEND LIST..
QUESTION!WHY THE HELL WILLIAM BALFOUR STILL ON HER MYSPACE AS NUMBER 3 ON FRIENDLIST!!!AND AS HER BEST FRIEND!!!I DONT GET IT,IF YOU CAN CHECK WHAT PPL SAY WHY NOT SHOW ANGER WITH THIS MAN WHOS A SUSPECT NOW IN YOUR FAMILY TRIPLE MURDER!!!!WTH IS WRONG WITH HER
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I can understand her logging into myspace maybe to get some consolation from friends that know her and heard what happened. Or maybe even to make a blog and make a plea to her kid or set up a memorial to her fallen relatives. I did something similar myself. Just cuz she got on myspace doest mean she was on there to chit chat and shoot the breeze.
But what bothers me is that had that been me, I would have logged on specifically to DELETE the pics of the suspect (the man in custody and with motive to do this, the man who was steady living with his NEW girl tha he had knocked up) as well as changed my status from married to single because I would not want to be associated with this man anymore.
From my undertsnding, his pics are still up. she still has him listed as her husband. It seems like she is sooo into this kat and wont let him go emotionally that she may be in denial, the same way she is obvioulsy in denial that her "husband" moved in with some new chick and got her pregnant.
It just takes me back to that Susan Smith case, a woman who was soo "in love" with her BF that she was willing and actually killed her two toddlers because she wanted to be with her man so bad!! Now I'm not saying Julia was involved in any way, but her love for this man, still, after all he has been accused of, seems a lil disturbing. |
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I highly doubt this guy did it , sounds too much like drugs (ie) the brother , if the killers wanted to do him the ex husband something they could have harm his mother ,the girlfiend , etc , not ur exstrange wife and her family .. drugs played a part , a lot of bloggers are throwing stones when they them selves live in a glass house ..
ms julia you don't have to defend your self to know one but GOD
i have lost my brother in 92 and i was about 16 yrs old , after the the first news he died by drowing i cried and the the only think my sister , friends and i could have done was go to nyc for a few hrs then come back Nj ,
when my dad died i cry , but what 's the used of screaming and carring on he is dead , i can't bring him back , i still cry for my dad deep im my heart , he died 2 days b4 xmas every one show's hurt in many ways |
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I'm truly sorry for her loss, but it's not hard to tell that she WAS jealous of Jennifer!
I'm not exactly a heavy proponent of mental therapy, but in this case I think it will be necessary. She needs to first deal with her own internal issues (and don't act like she doesn't have issues).
Her myspace page says wonders about her, people go to myspace to vent in hopes that someone in cyberworld is possibly listening.
Everyone has regrets, you can't tell me that a single mother with 4 kids hasn't said to herself at some point, damn I should've waited to have all these kids. She admitted that her son called his grandmother "Mom", that on her birthday he kept complaining that he wanted to go back to home to grandma, and on her myspace she wrote:
Want to have kids?: WHETER I WANTED TO OR NOT HIS a$$ IS HERE.
Basically she had issues before the tragedy and now she's gonna be a basketcase if she doesn't get help.
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I can't say how I would feel or what I would do in this situation and I have mixed feelings about this whole my space thing. I'm not trying to judge at all and I know people grieve differently, but I might be able to understand if my space was used to get Julian's picture out there or to plea for information on his whereabouts, but I don't understand accepting friends and just hanging out on there. Again, I'm not judging...I know she has to be going through hell. And I hope that anyone who knows anything comes forward so justice can be served. This is a time to be a snitch |
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Terrible thing to say huh? We'll see if she is bloggin for free and clearly( like it or not) basking in the 15 minutes this horror is giving her why wouldn't she sell her story? her space says she was bored and did you see it with little sparkly things all around with pictures of the alleged MURDERER of the WHOLE family still on there? I agree with someone above she was lunching before this and will be during and after.
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I AM DISTURBED THAT HE IS STILL #3 ON HER TOP MYSPACE FRIENDS. BLOCK HIS AZZ, BETTER YET DELETE HIM!
BY THE WAY, JULIAN REAL FATHER WAS AT THE PRESS CONFERENCE. JULIAN HAD A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS REAL DAD AND 1/2 SIBLINGS. THEY WERE AT JULIAN B-DAY PARTY.
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And one more thing....I keep reading how Jennifer should just leave her sister alone after this so she won't bring her down. This is a black family. We don't do that. We have criminals, crackheads,prostitutes,etc. in our families and extended families. If its "ok" for rappers to claim to have killed and sold drugs and its accepted, then it should be accepted that Jennifer's sister made some bad judgements |
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Whoever throwing stone at her personally is wrong...we all have made mistakes..and I dont see anyone playing detective its all in the open on the www and news stations..we all know what happened which is to sad for words..but lets not act as tho things arent adding up...I have children and have lost loved ones to murder also and I would never keep a suspect picture info or anything close or in eye site,has anyone else?why has she addressed the questions ppl have posted about her logging into her account(I personally dont care how many times she logs in)
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.....Let's see I'm 29 years old, I have one child and I'm always bored. I love to have fun - even start a little s*** here and there. I have two younger siblings - my sister is Jennifer Hudson, yes the Jennifer Hudson, and my brother is Jason.
When I started my Myspace, all of the above was true. Now because I chose to do what was natural to me and love someone , it cost me my beautiful family.
..... Blog Board Reader Update Interpertation....
Scratch through family, God knows I will mourn and miss them, but as you see I said "Im always bored cause I dont exercise and just eat all the time, I love to have fun and start sh*t some time all thats still true. I should be out of this mouning in a year, see you in tha club, look out baby dadies I really got Jenny's Money now. |
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CAN SOMEONE JUST ANSWER ME 1 QUESTION??
WHY IS SHE STILL DISPLAYING THIS MONSTERS PICTURES ON HER MY SPACE PAGE??
SISTERS, I DONT CARE HOW U LOOK, THERE IS SOMEONE DECENT OUT THERE THAT WILL LOVE YOU AND RESPECT YOU 4 WHO U ARE, AND NEVER RUN THE RISK OF ENDANGERING UR FAMILY. JULIA IS GUILTY OF BAD JUDGEMENT AT ITS BEST.
WHY ON GOG'S GREEN EARTH WOULD YOU TAKE UP WITH A VIOLENT CRIMINAM LIKE THAT. SHE OPENED THE DOOR FOR THE DEVIL, AND HER FAMILY PAID!! |
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Dear Julie,
Try To Understand
Last night while I was trying to sleep,
My son's voice I did hear
I opened my eyes and looked around,
But he did not appear.
He said:"Mom you've got to listen,
You've got to understand
God didn't take me from you, mom
He only took my hand.
When I called out in pain that night,
The instant that I died,
He reached down and took my hand,
And pulled me to His side.
He pulled me up and saved me
From the misery and pain.
My body was hurt so badly inside,
I could never be the same.
My search is really over now,
I've found happiness within,
All the answers to my empty dreams
And all that might have been.
I love you all and miss you so,
And I'll always be nearby.
My body's gone forever,
But my spirit will never die!
And so, you must all go on now,
Live one day at a time.
Just understand-
God did not take me from you,
He only took my hand.
The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit ( Psalm 34:18 )
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OMG girl, I said the same thing this morning. Yeah those women who choose a man over their children are definitely suffering from deep rooted issues. It's just sad that children are almost always the victim if not the women themselves.
Yup, my ex husband shacked up with some chicked and knocked her up I wrote him off as soon as he left. I'd be damned if I'm keeping his retarded pics up on my page let alone have him as a friend before or after this tragedy. That's a wrap right there. No offense but she kinda seems a little special as does he. Bipolar maybe? Just an observation as I'm not a doctor but I'm around alot of Bipolar individuals and it just takes one incident to set them off and they snap. Unfortunately only those who committed the murders and GOD know. However, the dead do speak so hopefully they can tell their story.
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You said the following: "I'm pretty sure the child's father is either in jail or not around because he has not even show up on the press conferences."
Get your facts STRAIGHT & know what you're talking about before you rant & rave. Julian's father WAS at the first press conference that Julia held on Friday night. He was standing RIGHT NEXT TO JULIA as she spoke.
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Ok i wasnt going to post i was just sitting back reading every ones comments.So I'm from the south side of Chicago so I know first hand how rough it is and stuff like this everyday happens but because jennifer is a celebrity its being played all over the country. My heart goes out to her and her family. Im crying for her because i know her and her family was close. we went to the same school although she was in a higher grade than me we would have assemblys in school and her whole fam would come see her perform.....But i strongly feel that if she wasnt a celebrity this story especially them being from chicago would have been just an excerpt in a newspaper and people would continue on with there daily lives. And last but not least to the MTO detectives on here posting bull [EXPLETIVE] you cant even imagine whats going on in julia's head she is hurting right now so what if she logs into her myspace page that makes her an accessory to the murders you people need to get a clue.....to my chicago people on here im sure you understand what im talking bout. |
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MAYBE SOME OF YOU ARE READING INTO THIS TOO MUCH.
IF SHE HAD SOMETHING TO DO WITH IT, IT WILL COME TO LIGHT. MAYBE ALL SHE IS GUILTY OF IS MARRYING TO GUY FOR LOVE.
I AM SORRY AS A MOTHER MYSELF AND HAVING TO HAD DEALT WITH A DOMESTIC TRAGEDY AND MY FAMILY , I JUST CAN NOT SEE HER BEING THERE OR KNOWING IN ADVANCE THAT HER HUSBAND KILLED HER FAMILY.
AND WHY IS EVERYONE ASSUMING SHE WAS A SCHOOL BUS DRIVER, MAYBE SHE WAS A CITY TRANSIT DRIVER.
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TO THE HUDSON FAMILY.....
"LOOK TO THE HILLS WHICH COMETH YOUR HELP, WHICH COMETH FROM THE LORD"
MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY, IN THE THIS TIME OF SORROW.
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I'm sorry, but there's nothing natural about loving someone YOU ALREADY KNEW SERVED 10 YEARS FOR ATTEMPTED MURDER. Natural stupidity maybe, but not natural by any means. That's called selfishness; her feelings for this man she already knew had the tendency and capability to attempt to murder someone came before the safety of her family and child.....period, point blank. Otherwise, she would never have brought someone like that around her family and only child.
And all that BS about how long she carried Julian and how long she was in labor means nothing to me. She says that shyt like it's unique, like every other damn female with a child hasn't gone through the same thing and worse. Every other second, there is a child abused (or worse) by a mother who carried that child for 8 1/2 months and suffered 21 hours of labor, so what's her point?
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DO NOT judge, or you too will be judged.
For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged!!
And with the measure you USE, it will be measured to you!!
U BETTER HOPE AND PRAY SOME DAY HER HORRIFIC TRAGEDY,,DOESN'T BECOME YOUR HORRENDOUS REALITY,,I would guess then you will be able to teach a class on how to act under horrific conditions!!! why don't u stop judging her and show her some compassion during her time of sorrow!! |
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I HOPE AND PRAY NONE OF THEM IS ELIGIBLE FOR ANY OF THAT REWARD. BECAUSE NO ONE CALLED FRIDAY, SATURDAY OR SUNDAY...THE REWARD WENT UP LATE THAT SUNDAY AFTERNOON AND THAN EARLY MONDAY MORNING SOMEONE DECIDES TO DO THE RIGHT THING... |
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First of all we all have a right to our opinions and who the fcuk are you to say what we need to say or not. I just feel she a retard and she is not nor has she ever represented her sister in a positive manner. All the Bullshyt she had on her page I would be embarrassed. Some of the things she said about her mom and her brother, if I was Jennifer I would kick her azz. We didnt ASK that she explain her reason for being on Myspace, she offered it. Probably some to do some damage control. But if fact, how could she explain her accusing her husband and not taking him off her page. I think she is slow, co dependent and lack in Moral. Once again, this forum is for opinions and that’s mine. I do feel sorry for Jennifer that this has happened to her at this point in time in her life. However, I have little sympathy for Julia because I do feel like is SUPER STUPID! This is MY OPINION! and I don’t have to do all the " oh my heart goes out and my condolences this and that. I am not a blog investigator either, but like my mom used to say "Something In the Milk Aint Clean” That’s that on that!
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we all know she's not the most polished and articulate individual. we all have family members like that...all of us. and if any us try to deny we don't have ghetto family members you gat damn lie, there's always atleast one in the family.
we have to keep in mind the fact that she's doesn't have fame and fortune. she doesnt' have a publicist to express her emotions in just the right way.
right now she's probably in disbelief more or less walking around like a zombie trying to come to grips with reality. she's seeking some speck of normality. it's a hopeless string to hold on to but that's most likely wall she has left.
who else does she have left to turn to- her mother? her brother?
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WE CAN NOT EXPECT HER TO HAVE THAT TRUE MATERNAL LOVE OR ANYTHING.
SHE DID NOT RAISE THIS BABY, HER MOTHER DID...SHE STATED IT IN HER CONFERENCE, THE BABY WAS CALLING HER GRANDMA AND CALLING HER MOTHER MOM.
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I won't try to judge anyone, and my deepest sympathies go out to Jennifer and her family. I am a little baffled at the fact that everyone else has posted a default picture of her son except for the mother. She took down her photo and put up her mother's pic. I guess that's fine but I know if my own child that I birthed was gone that they would be the one gracing the page. I'm still unsure of what's going on and perhaps everyone grieves differently. I don't understand why she hasn't removed the pictures of the guy. She also makes the assumption that he is the one responsible for the wrong doing because she says she did the natural thing to love and it backfired. Its fine to love but you need to be careful of who you bring into the lives of you and your family. I know if she could do it all over again, she would. I think she should focus on losing weight and she wouldn't be vulnerable like she is to subject herself to losers. |
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First of all you retarded non-reading bitch. I laid out the facts. I also said only the Good Lord and the evil bastard(s) know what happened. You are talking all of that [EXPLETIVE] but if your slow bus ass watch the news(CNN) they were asking the same damn questions I was. I am really staring to think this is Julia because you have been on here not making no damn sense. This bitch was the last two see all 3 of these people alive and just so happened the first to discover that they were dead. All this neighbor said they heard shots and sh** was bullshit. None of them said that [EXPLETIVE] on tv. The neighbor who's son plays with Julian said it was a very quite morning and she left @ 10:30am. And when she got back home at 2:30pm police was everywhere. According to Chicago people, school was out on Friday. Julia drives the school bus. Who was she driving? I don't give a damn what your retarded as or anybody else think her ass is suspect. And until the prove otherwise it is what it is. And whoever did it didn't do it alone. Everybody grieves different my ass. Your mother, brother and your only child got they heads blown off and from day one you are on myspace. She is an attention whore. I was one of the first people to notice and put out there that her ass was logging on. So obviously I'm not the only one. And look at you... your ass has been on here every damn day before anyone wakes up. I swear TexasGlamourChic is really Julia. I have a little wager for you. I bet you $1000 (that's if you got any damn money) That I will put in an escrow account that Julia ass is tied into the murders. "If you got a beef with me take it up with me just let my baby go"..... WTF? On top of the fact your ass haven't shed a tear and you are sniffing and then you go take your ass on myspace. Julian must had a page we didn't know about. Because you ain't gonna find his ass on myspace. And who said someone had a beef. If she truly thought William did all of this. Why isn't she taking it up with him. Who are you saying this to? And if Jennifer thought William did it why offer $100,000 for his return they would have been at the Jail trying to get this [EXPLETIVE] to confess or something. William grew up with them him and Jennifer were childhood friends. I bet your stupid ass didn't know that. You say oh poor Julia only because she is Jennifer's sister if it had not been any relation to a celebrity every damn body would be saying Julia ass is suspect. She knows what the hell is going on.But trust this, her dingy ass wasn't alone in this. But in a few days they should have the labs back and it will start making sense. This bi*** has more pictures of William then she has of her own damn son. The funny part is she knows she is suspect that is why she is explaining her actions on myspace. I don't have [EXPLETIVE] else to say on this [EXPLETIVE] but watch what happens. I knew that little boy was dead and I knew, I knew that Jennifer was going to offer an reward and I knew right after she did he was going to pop up. MOCK MY WORDS.... This is about to have a hell of a twist. Everyone that is trying to say William did it.... prove it. Stop wishing death on that man. The police can't even prove it. Because he might not have anything to do with it. And if you want to use his prior record let me give it to you live and uncut. The damn boy was like 18-19 years old him and some other teenagers tried to steal a mans car, the man jumped on the hood of the car which caused them to crash into a tree, which is then automatically classified ass attempted murder. Why do you think he only did 7 years and not the 30 that a person in the state of IL would normally get for the same charge? Other then that no one has anything on this man to link him to this [EXPLETIVE] as of yet. So before you start wishing death on someone check the facts first boo boo. I'm not gonna keep going on with this because I am sure your loser ass is going to have dumb ass response. Hit me up if you wanna make that bet. I'm out! |
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That wasn't right, it was funny, but that wasn't right.
Women need to teach their daughters to love them selves, no matter what and men need to teach their daughter that they are princesses. So when they reach the real world they'll have tough skin and will be able to hopefully spot a loser a mile away.
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YOU ARE SO RIGHT THATS WHY I HAVENT SAID NUTHING ABOUT PPL HAVING A PROBLEM WITH HER NOT BEING AKA EMOTIONAL ENOUGH...EVEN THO IT SHOWS A MENTAL PROBLEM BY LEAVING HIS PIC UP AND NOT CHANGING IT..I KINDA HOPE SHE STAYS SPACED OUT CUZ THE GUILT MIGHT EAT HER ALIVE OF JUST THINKING SHE BROUGHT HIM IN..MY BIGMOMMA ALWAYS SAY BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU BRING IN THE FAMILY.. SOME CRAZIES SHOW NO SIGNS OR CRIMINAL RECORD..GOD BLESS US ALL |
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I want to start off by saying that I feel incredibly sorry for this family. I can't believe that something like this happened.
Now having said that, while I can understand the notion of people grieving in their own way, Julia's grief is something totally baffling. If she got on myspace as a way to help her get her son back, why didn't she make a public plea in her blog? Why waste that time accepting friend's request from people she doesn't know? If, William Balfour, by her own admission, is the person responsible for this horrible crime, why is he still on her myspace page? Pictures and all? She even had time to change her default pic and her mood. I'm not judging her, but these are just some questions that I have. |
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I haven't had much free time to be on here. I logged in a few times yesterday just go get an update on this tragic story. I was able to read up a little bit and I have this to say:
To Jennifer---I truly feel for you. You're a single, successful, beautiful young lady who loss your immediate family in such a senseless way. I imagine you're just numb. This is too much for one person. Too, too much. I feel for you. I can't even express how much.
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I wrestled with myself. Wrestled with writing what I'm about to because I am full with so much ANGER over this. That Julia---she gets NO...ZERO...SYMPATHY from me. If anything, I wanna bang that broad in her head. A MOTHER is here to protect and do right by her child. Bringing a CRIMINAL...A VIOLENT FELON into your child's life so you could get some "good dick" warrants nothing but WRATH from me. Just because she carried her baby for 9 months and went through 21 hours of labor means nothing! You hear me...NOTHING!!!! Any crackhead can do that! Especially when her ass wasn't even raising HER child. I am fed up with these women! We are making too many excuses for her. We've all made mistakes but females need to...I EXPRESS...need to learn when you have a child there is no more YOU or what's good for YOU. I don't care at what age you have that child. As soon as they're born, IT'S NO LONGER ABOUT YOU! If you cannot protect your child, you are not worth anything. An sympathy worthy situation would be sending your baby to a babysitter you thought was a good care-giver because she had all the proper documentations and her old record didn't come up in a search. It's NOT an "oopsy" or "mistake" when you bring a criminal around your young impressionable child so you can get some "GOOD DICK".
You see these men in our community? THEY HATE US. A part of the reason why is because they've seen their mothers addicted to drugs, addicted to MEN, addicted to acting ghetto. The abuse and neglect sits with them. This nasty girl with too much ATTITUDE (re-read her letter. You can see her neck snapping) for someone who brought this on her family over some "good dick" needs to bang herself! All I can say he dude got the wrong one. Put it together!
Black women, black mothers, black mothers, black MOTHERS...all we have are our kids. You see an abused child...they love their mothers even when they're doing them wrong. Imagine the love and RESPECT you get from children when you do right by them. Pour all you have into your children? Fukk these men!!!!! You can't count on no man. At any time they can get up and say they don't love you. Your kids will never abandon you. You get the greatest return when you invest in your children!!!!!
Poor Jennifer she is trying to beat the odds. Trying to do something with herself and this tragedy and embarrassment of a sister...
That b*tch is a COLD FISH! She's selfish!!!!!
Let me go. Let me go before I say any more and have to spend time I don't have today cussing out posters who wish to cuss me out over this chick! |
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He who has not sinned, cast the first stone...
Prayer is a powerful thing!!!
I am praying for the whole extended Hudson family.
As I am sure many MTO fans are also. We are all children of God, allow this family to grieve and heal appropriately. There will be time for the guilty to be JUDGED and adjuticated. The professionals in the Law Enforcement Community will do their due diligence and this evil person who committed these acts will be punished to the full extent of the law.
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this entire family is goin through it right now, all these comments about who this woman decided to love and bring into her home is null and void now. what's done is done and these 3 souls are in a better place, yes it is most certainly messed up how they went to the LORD, but he got them now and the pain and suffering is left for the living. and as long as they keep their faith in GOD they will be alright, no matter how long it takes. |
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All of you guys have a [EXPLETIVE] issue!!!!! The fact that you guys are on here talking [EXPLETIVE] about how she's handling the death of her family members is just so damn ingorant! Just because she's not on the floor kicking and screaming does not mean that she isn't in pain. Everyone doesn't have to do all that rolling on the floor and [EXPLETIVE]. You guys are making a fuss about her display picture on myspace... Come the [EXPLETIVE] on! Grow up.. I find NO wrong doing in Julia Hudson's actions! In fact the only wrong doing I see on here is you all slandering her name! You can't help who you love and if she's in love with him then so be it. No one can judge her on how she feels about him except for the one above. You guys should try and find something else to do with your time rather than to talk [EXPLETIVE] about her. This isn't time. And so what because she was on Myspace... I lost my father and I was on myspace reading the comments that people left me.. SO i guess something is wrong with me as well right??? you guys are a mess! Grow up! |
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@2DAMNSEXXY09 THANKS FOR EXPLAINING THAT CUZ U MAKE 1 HELLUVA DAMN SENSE WITH ALL OF THIS...KEEP TALKIN GIRL |
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While I don't agree with her choice in men it's not my place or anyone else's to judge this woman for doing what came natural to her. Loving a man that loved her or used her to think he loved her back. Regardless of how you feel about her way of dealing with this horrible tragedy we should not tear her down or belittle her. Now is not the time. She is grieving the loss of almost her entire family and is probably harboring heavy guilt for what has happened. She may also have to mend what may now be a broken relationship with her sister and other family members. I pray this is not the case. This woman lost her loving supportive mother (she had to be all that because she accepted her daughter's choice and tried to love him and accept him in her home), her brother and her adorable son. The pain is immeasurable and now is not the time to point fingers at her. Its a tragedy all around. It was so bad she wasn't even able to go and identify her baby's body. What mother really wants to? |
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PLEASE PPL IF U HAVE EARLY VOTING GO OUT AND VOTE!!! WE HAVE ONE WEEK DON'T GET OFF COURSE. I KNOW THIS IS TRAGIC BUT DON'T LOSE FOCUS! ONE WEEK ONE WEEK.
TOMORROW OBAMA 30 MINUTE COMMERCIAL AIRS AT 8PM ON ABC,CBS,FOX MAYBE NBC AND ALSO 2 0R 3 CABLE STATIONS.
PLEASE PPL IF U HAVE EARLY VOTING GO OUT AND VOTE!!! WE HAVE ONE WEEK DON'T GET OFF COURSE. I KNOW THIS IS TRAGIC BUT DON'T LOSE FOCUS! ONE WEEK ONE WEEK.
TOMORROW OBAMA 30 MINUTE COMMERCIAL AIRS AT 8PM ON ABC,CBS,FOX MAYBE NBC AND ALSO 2 0R 3 CABLE STATIONS.
PLEASE PPL IF U HAVE EARLY VOTING GO OUT AND VOTE!!! WE HAVE ONE WEEK DON'T GET OFF COURSE. I KNOW THIS IS TRAGIC BUT DON'T LOSE FOCUS! ONE WEEK ONE WEEK.
TOMORROW OBAMA 30 MINUTE COMMERCIAL AIRS AT 8PM ON ABC,CBS,FOX MAYBE NBC AND ALSO 2 0R 3 CABLE STATIONS. |
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ITA!!! EVERYONE is ENTITLED to how they feel and just because it differs from the ones that don't think Julia needs to be questioned about her myspace, don't mean that yall have to come at us with others opinions.
I agree with one thing that GETTINGDOWN put and that is that NONE OF THEM neighbors should get a reward because if they saw that vehicle on Friday Saturday and Sunday, then that FCUKED UP! I'm sure ALL of Chicago was aware of the amber alert. Hell I'm 6hrs away from Chicago and I knew about it!
And as for Julias myspace, yes she is entitled to have what the Fcuk ever she wants on there however right now, it should be questioned because as well as any of ther form of communication in life because there are 3 PEOPLE that have been killed by possibly her ESTRANGED HUSBAND!
ANd it also sounds to me like she was doing some damage control with that explanation as to why she logged in to her myspace... why the fcuk does she care about what some are saying about that? I mean seriously good and bad things are gonna be said about this tragic case so who cares what we think? ANd as far as her bringing up how long she was in labor, why was that necessary? Its like she felt owed or rewarded for giving birth. Just my opinion. take it or leave it! |
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Trooper: Just shows what black people are about, their own agenda...coming on here to plug Obama, you should be ashamed of yourself..You are a piece of trash.
If this was my kid, I wouldnt even be able to turn on a computer, let alone sit on myspace for hours while "Fake" people who you dont even know say they are sorry...Its a bunch of BS, and to bring a convicted felon around her kid is ridiculous...Its embarrassing that these woman keep bringing violent animals and thugs around their kids for their own personal enjoyment.
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Chicago is known for more than being just a lil windy, it is the city that never sleeps...white suburbans aren't THAT common....even in a city like the Chi, and in K-town, there's somebody out at every hour of the night, whether they're "trading" money for 'medicinal items', catching the public transpo, going to/coming from work....SOMEBODY is on the street at every hour of the day, even in below zero weather, so how the hell can you drive a white suv on the west side and nobody sees you? I'll say it again, that 'stop snitchin' bullshyt, is stupid, don't let these innocent people die in vain. And lastly, if you can't talk in complete sentences, don't get your ignorant sounding azz in front of millions and embarass us as a race: "I seent it"???? WTFAYD??!! |
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I can only imagine what she is going through. No explanations are needed. I am shocked over some of the suggestions in comments that Jennifer Hudson should leave her sister alone after the funeral. THAT mindset is what possibly inspired these heinous acts. It's the absense of love, respect, and value of life in general that causes people to do such things. Jennifer and Julia are all they have now, they are SISTERS. If they didn't need each other before, they certainly do now. It's going to take them leaning on each other to get through this, not turning a back to walk away. Sometimes it's best to not comment at all when you are insensitive. |
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Some black folks are so damn dumb and stupid. Why in the hell would Julia be involved in her only child, mother and brother death's. That don't make any senseat all...that's the problem with the black race and their negativity. It's so clear to any seeing person that this beautiful child was dotting on by his mother. All the pictures I've seen indicate that he was a happy child and I don't have to know Julia to know that this child was loved by his mother. If you don't have something positive and productive to say...then keep your negative opinions to yourselves. Julia and her family need all the love and support they can get to get through this tragedy. To Julia I'm praying that God hold you and your family up during this trying time. God bless you and Jennifer...my heart and soul mourns with you. |
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@showtime629 "If this was my kid, I wouldnt even be able to turn on a computer, let alone sit on myspace for hours while "Fake" people who you dont even know say they are sorry...Its a bunch of BS, and to bring a convicted felon around her kid is ridiculous"
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If she felt that Logging on to her myspace was a way to help get her baby back, why didn't she just do what Jennifer was doing and thats post a blog, bulletin, a status about him being missing??? why didn't she put his picture on BLAST like JENNIFER and other friends on her page did???? See her little bitty "explanation" is BULLSH1T!!! |
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Sounds like the message is from the heart. HOWEVER, if it wasn't for her selfish feelings, her child(and family) would not have been put in harms way! Why isn't she being charged with child endangerment, neglect, abuse, etc. Hard to have feelings for the guilty!
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To those who would like to send a sympathy card to my send it to the house where this unforunate act happen at:
Julia & Jennifer Hudson
7000 S. Yale Avenue
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Let me tell you something
Regardless of what you think of Jennifer Hudson sister and her so called choice in Men.
That does not change the fact that child should be murdered like that and her whole family.
I do not care if she was a prostitute in the street.
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WHEN THE OPPORTUNITY ARISES TO GET YOUR FAMILY OUT THE HOOD THEN PLEASE DO IT! AN OSCAR WINER IS THE HIGHEST HONOR FOR AN MOVIE STAR AND THERE COMES A TIME IN OUR LIVES TO GET THE FAM OUT THE HOOD BECAUSE HOOD SHYT WILL GET YOU OR YOUR LOVED ONES KILLED. I'M JUST SAYIN...IF I BECAME AN OVERNIGHT SUCCESS LIKE J-HUDSON YOU CAN BEST BELIEVE MY FOLKS WILL BE NO WHERE NEAR THE HOOD.
I HOPE AND PRAY THAT THIS FAMILY CAN GET THROUGH THIS DARK HOUR OF THEIR LIVES BECAUSE TO LOSE 3 LOVED ONES IN A 2 DAY SPAN CAN HAVE MENTAL AFFECTS ON A PERSON. HOPEFULLY J-HUD CAN CONTINUE HER CAREER ONCE SHE HAS GRIEVED BUT IT WILL BE HARD FOR HER. LIKE I SAID EARLIER THERE IS MORE TO THIS STORY THAN WE KNOW. GOD HAVE MERCY ON CHICAGO..THE MURDER CAPITAL OF THE USA. |
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@jonas...
She is sick, she is the one who invited this murderer in, yet express no guilt or remorse on having done so in her myspace page.
@ keeshaj50..i agree
@NicetyMonroe-she really is accepting myspace friends??
@ paf- I agree, the message in this is to be careful when choosing a mate.
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Jonas basically said what many are thinking….I have heard the talk around the water cooler at work. Let’s keep it real. This is the cold reality. She should quickly take acceptance for her poor judgement , it will help her. It is extremely immature to post to my space at this juncture.Once again shows poor judgement. The girl is not very bright. My fingers would be frozen. How can she type? At this point,.Someone else should be handling affairs…as she grieves. Phuck a my space page!!!!! And Why are you logging in and accepting friends? Let’s be realistic, Julia is no longer reaching out to “find” her 7 year old, he was already known to be deceased at the time of this particular posting. Any prior postings for his return, I can maybe understand. Why this new posting by Julia? the only reason a person would seek to explain when they were never asked anything, is if they feel “guilt” for something. Julia has been living on the edge, and knows that she placed her family in harm’s way for quite some time. Admit it! This man had to be kicked out of the home by her mom. Threats were made prior to the actual slayings. Going back, Reports show that they had been married for 2 years. This man was just released from prison in 2006, which means she married this felon straight out of the penitentiary, and may have even been his pen pal while in prison. She clearly has low self esteem, and did not think of the jeopardy she was putting her child in by not taking significant time to date and get to know this evil person. It is not about judging her, it is just that your standards in men should be higher or increase when kids are involved. She now feels guilt but won't admit it, instead she says that is “natural” to love. a cop out.What about the love for Julian? It should supercede this felon who was up to no good from day one, and likely only wanted to be apart of the Hudson family. |
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Yeah don't be so hard on her.
SHE IS LIKE MOST WOMAN!!! I preach WOMEN POWER at My Posh JEWELS everyday but I have had girls that work for me say "Why are you trying to save my", when I tried to WARN HER about a Man that was living with ANOTHER GIRL AND PLAYING HER. She QUIT.
We need to SPOT a LOSER B4 we MOVE HIM IN, IN A WEEK. B4 we give him THE KEYS TO OUR HOUSE AND CAR. B4 we take them AROUND YOUR KIDS.
LADIES you are worth it. We always account GOD for being the CAPTAIN OF OUR SEA but why can't wait for the MAN he preparing for us instead of trying to MAKE A MAN into something.
AND YALL KNOW WE LIKE OUR THUGS but sometimes GREAT SEX is ALL they can PROVIDE and by us LOOKING FOR LOVE we make sex more than what it is.
At first your are the prettiest girl he ever met and once he got you, you are EVERY NAME IN THE BOOK. We don't leave because our mind is being CONTROLLED BY HIM, you are in a FALSE LOVE, AND HE HAS PUT YOU DOWN SO MUCH YOU THINK YOU DESERVE IT OR YOU CAN'T GET BETTA.
You don't and YOU CAN.
SOME WOMEN after 1 WEEK will curse out their FAMILY and GIRLFRIENDS they have known forever. To a GUY, that show them that you had no life b4 they came along and if he has BAD Intentions, he will use that to separate you from EVERYBODY. If he is a GOOD GUY he would encourage you to make up with your friends and FAMILY.
STOP WALKING BLIND. Guys are evaluating our behavior, EVALUATE THEIRS.
1) Is he a POSITIVE PERSON
2) Do he have a STEADY JOB (not for your stability, for his)
3) Do you share the same SPIRITUAL BELIEFS
4) DO HE GET ALONG WITH HIS FAMILY (And then meet them)
5) Is he a GENTLEMAN
6) Does he RESPECT HIMSELF & YOU
7) Does he LISTEN to YOU
8) When you CRY, do he STAY or WALK AWAY
9) Is he A WOMANIZER
10) And lastly, Does he LOVE YOU with the same INTENSITY that you LOVE HIM
Don't just FALL IN LOVE just cause he has a heartbeat. That's FUNNY but S[SPAM]OOO MANY WOMEN DO IT EVERYDAY.
Us as a GENDER need to WAKE UP. I am not blaming us ONLY EMPOWRING US TO MAKE BETTER DECISIONS WITH OUT LIVES!!!
YOU ARE IMPORTANT. YOUR BODY IS IMPORTANT. YOUR FEELINGS ARE IMPORTANT AND YOUR LIFE IS IMPORTANT.
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@PlainJane74
I agree what mother wants to go identify her child's lifeless body...
But Julia is a different kind of mother, one who doesn't show emotion being the fact she is the one who found her dead mother's body, her dead brother as well and not to mention she saw her mother's body ran out of the house to call the police but not go through the house to look for her son who was at the house when she left. She is also the mother that while her son is missing and the same night of the murders is on myspace adding friends and sh**. She is the mother who has been on myspace every night since the murders and including the day that her baby's body was found she was so hurt and torn up that she couldn't go to identify it but she was able to go on myspace and and some man's picture on there and justify and try to justify her actions. She is truly a different kind of mother. |
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Why are people saying folks are "judging" her just because they're stating opposing opinions? Those same people come on here everyday, all day to talk mess about sh!t as trivial as the wrong weave color, but when someone has a thought or concern about something that seems sketchy, now all of a sudden people are being judgmental? No! People are genuinely concerned about the details of this case. No one's trying to play Clue at the expense of this family's feelings, but something just ain't stirring the kool aid and people have the right to state thier opinions about that. |
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WANT REAL TALK?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2eYEoTifVSQ
5 parts. Pull up a chair, open your ears, and walk away a with more knowledge. |
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I take comfort in knowing that Julian is with my mother and my brother and most of all the Lord . Now he's my angel, he's protecting me...
THIS IS FROM JULIA HUDSON
BUT I SAY SHE SHOULD HAVE PROTECTED HIM.....SHE HOOKED UP WITH AN ANGERY PERSON A PERSON THAT WAS IN PRISON FOR ATTEMPTED MURDER...SHE PUT HER FAMILY IN DANGER AND NOW THEY ARE DEAD..AS MUCH HER FAULT AS WITH THE KILLER!!!!! JULIAN KING, JASON HUDSON AND THEIR MOTHER PAID DEARLY FOR JULIA'S SINS. HOPE THIS STAYS WITH HER THE REST OF HER LIFE!!! I FEEL SORRY FOR THOSE THAT WERE KILLED, FOR JULIA'S ACTION (OR SAY HER LAY) AND DO NOT HAVE ANY PITY FOR HER!!! |
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Just like I said your retarded ass was going to have some silly ass [EXPLETIVE] to say. I'm starting rumors? Yeah it is official your ass is retarded. I have raised questions. You are so busy licking Julia's a** and wanting to make comments on here you don't even know what the fu** you are talking about. And hoe I have no problem giving you my address lets see you make it happen. Ignorant hoes is a no no.. Did you sleep? Your ass was on here first thing. I will ask this once again Why are you even on here.Everyone on here has their thoughts on the situation and expresses there beliefs and disagreements. Your ass don't even know how to read. You are an attention whore too, I am starting to realize that. But like I said hoe you and your 9-5...lol if you want to place that bet let me know. By the way have you noticed whenever you decide to say anything on here no one addresses or agree with your silly a** why do you think that is? Everything that you say is retarded. But now that I am noticing that you are either really young and dumb or just truly retarded. I won't waste any more time on you. Now get back to work! |
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TO ALL OF THOSE THAT ARE SAYING NO EXPLANATION WAS NEEDED GIRL..IT'S OKAY.ETC..
OK THEN WHY IS SHE "GIVING" US ONE? WE DID NOT ASK FOR AN EXPLANATION! SHE DOES NOT OWE US ONE AND SHE SHOULD BE GRIEVING SILENTLY!ONLY GUILTY PEOPLE EXPLAIN THINGS.....
BOTTOM LINE IS THAT This JAILBIRD was not worthy to be around LITTLE JULLIAN., yet BLOGGERS SAY THAT he remains on her my space...????
i HAVE A COUSIN THAT DEFENDED HER CHILD MOLESTING BOYFRIEND THAT MOLESTED HER DAUGHTER ...
SO YOU SEE SOMETIMES..WOMEN DO STRANGE THINGS FOR THE SAKE OF HAVING A MAN...AS THE CHILDREN SUFFER.THERE IS A LESSON IN THIS....
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I want you guys to go help the Police officials, FBI and CSI - lets see how that turns out and all the rest of you opinionated folks.
oh KEEYSHAJ50 especially the way you pand out the story yesturday on how it happen you should write a book or even a movie. Yah thats it compile all your negative thoughts up in one and collect that monique the chubby one that said God didn't hear the prayers cause folks were Ghetto and wicked - Foolish Gayl.
God heard all the prayers he just answered in the way he see it fit - open your eye's.
Half of you are birth from some trifflin as men who yo momma gave a chance and he left her sorry, pennyless and you seeking his love so stop judging this boys mother cause she gave a person a chance and he turned out just like you alls grandpa's, poppa's, uncles, brother's, cousins or even you.
How she greives is her way until it happen to you you won't know what avenues you would take to get the word out to search for your child better yet did you want her speechless, rolling on the floor, carrying on helpless so you could say she was acting or she need to get up well guess what get off your opinionated tail do the foot work and tell us the true story not the I think - guessed up story. |
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Correct. Gotta watch where you at and who you deal with. That's the reason why the hood is the way it is now cause people don't wanna get involved in protecting their own or their neighbor. The cops gonna protect me, call the police, etc. Sorry to put it this way but the only time black folk do something is if the pastor tell em to do it. SMH. |
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YOU PEOPLE ARE HEARTLESS, MAYBE THIS IS HOW SHE GRIEVES, JUST LAY THE [EXPLETIVE] OFF!!!!! |
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First of all, people need to get some fuc*in lives. Dont sit up here and try to accuse her of trying to say that oh she bad because she married a ex-con ans sh*t. Get some lives. You dont know the story unless you were invovled in it. shut the [EXPLETIVE] up you goddamn haters and you stupid ass bitches. Didnt your momma ever tell you if you dont have anything nice to say, dont say it at all? maybe not. Get a life people and stop commenting all this bad stuff trying to bad mouth her saying shes a bad parent or she still [EXPLETIVE] hin thats why she still with him amd [EXPLETIVE]. I dont care if you hate me I dont care. You guys need to go ahead and watch what you say on here because everybody reads what you say on here.
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Startin a lil sh*t is the way to go. Sounds ghetto az hell. But with all that said, May your poor momma, brother and son rest in peace.
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Julia- those with real hearts will know that a time like this- there is no need for you to explain yourself. Im sure due to many ignorance you may feel you should have too..but YOU DONT!!!
You have gone through a great deal and although an explanation from you is sweet- its not necessary.
Those who think otherwise- REALLY DONT MATTER..
IN any event- you will alwaybe be in my prayers and I cant even imagine to go through such a great ordeal. Your a very strong woman- and God will walk with you every step of the way
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I as a human do realize that every body is different in mind, body and soul, but when I lost my mom, the computer, my space, and logging in and out was the least of "my" worry, and just to think she lost mother, brother and child.....and she worried about whats on the damn internet...Thank them later, or give ya shots out at a later time..... besides most of the people dont know her personally anyhow .....PLEASE!!
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She's not giving an explanation for that William. Atleast - Thats not what I read.
Did your cousin give an explanation for her Boyfriends action? If so then thats her and what did you do to help/save the little girl? Did you assassin him beat him down or just give him dirty looks - Is he still walking around is what I mean?
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@THEMOSTISBEST42...YEA EVERYBODY GRIEVES IN THEIR OWN WAY BUT WHY ON MYSPACE...THIS IS THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN TO SOMEONE...TO LOSE THEIR CHILD AND LET ALONE THEIR MAMA AND BROTHER IN A MATTER OF DAYS. MYSPACE WOULD BE THE LAST FUKKIN THING ON MY MIND! BUT IT IS WHAT IT IS. ASK ANY MOTHER ON THIS SITE IF THEY WILL BE ON MYSPACE IF THEIR CHILD WAS MURDERED AND I BET YOU WILL GET A RESOUNDING NO! DON'T TAKE WHAT I'M SAYING AS LAW...ITS JUST MY OPINION PEOPLE. |
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I dont care what no one says I lost a child to death and I am a strong women Im still not and will never be over it , she seems a little to calm for me, first off why would you bring someone like that around your child you trying to keep him fom evil you brought evil to him, If the man i was messing with murdered my family theres no way in hell Im at ease not now it just happened.SOMETHINGS NOT RIGHT!!!!! |
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Jennifer you're in my prayers!
I have other things to say but it's a time and place for everything therefore I will reserve my thoughts. The truth will come to light, and who ever was involved in this tragedy will be caught!
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I'm sorry but in MY PERSONAL OPINION. No where on her page did I see a blog or anything on her personal page that suggested that she was searching for her son on Myspace. All I can say is Rest in Peace Julian King. My prayers are with the King family and the Hudson family that things don't any worse before it begins to get better. |
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I'm confused and hope someone can break a few things down.
1. Julia's myspace page said that Balfour stole her car. However, on Friday, she was yelling at him about not making the car payments?
So, did Balfour steal her car or not?
If he stole her car, why didn't she report it to the police?
2. If he threatened her family, why would she feel comfortable yelling at him about not making the car payments and her wages were garnished?
3. The car was in her name. Would the late payment notices/calls arrive at her residence? So, she would've known before that he wasn't making payments on the car. Why not take the car back and make the payments yourself?
She must have had a cell phone. She called him to b^tch about the car before hearing news about her family being murdered? Or am I getting the news stories wrong?
4. If he was violent, would the family keep letting him in the house?
The mother was the one who would put him out, not Julia. Why?
5. Why would Balfour violate his parole now? According to the IL Dept. of Corrections, he was going to be discharged from Parole on 5/5/2009. He had like 5 weeks and a few days remaining. Why violate your parole over a car?
Why chill at a girlfriend's apartment and leave the SUV with a dead child inside nearby?
A lot of hearsay is going on. Where are the facts...exact dates, times, etc.?
http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/local/chi-jennifer-hudson-william-balfour-oct28,0,3867065.story
Jennifer Hudson family tragedy: Suspect William Balfour's relatives, friends in disbelief
By Stacy St. Clair and Deanese Williams-Harris | Tribune reporters
October 28, 2008
During his brief marriage to Julia Hudson, William Balfour seemed to embrace the role of stepdad.
He declared himself a "proud parent" on MySpace and decorated his page with photos of a smiling Julian King. The boy also is mentioned in a seven-line autobiography Balfour wrote for the social-networking site.
On their Englewood block, the two often could be seen walking to the park or enjoying barbecues on the front lawn. Balfour, 27, helped support his fledgling family with money he earned as a Cosi baker and frequently indulged his stepson with boys-only trips to Popeyes and McDonald's, neighbors say.
Balfour's affection seemed so genuine that friends and relatives struggle to reconcile the involved stepfather with the man authorities call a "person of interest" in the 7-year-old boy's homicide. Authorities believe that Julian's shooting death is linked to the Friday slayings of his grandmother Darnell Donerson and his uncle Jason Hudson.
"The guy they're talking about is nothing like the guy I knew," said neighbor Ante Moore. "I'm not saying he was a saint, but I do know that he was trying to turn his life around."
Police named Balfour as a suspect in an Amber Alert released Friday. He currently is at Stateville Correctional Center in Joliet; authorities say he violated his parole by becoming a murder suspect.
Balfour's criminal rap sheet dates back at least a decade. Court records show that Balfour was arrested in 1998 after police spotted him driving a stolen vehicle. They tried to pull him over near the 6900 block of South Yale Avenue—about a block from the Hudson family home—but Balfour stopped the car and fled, according to court records.
Balfour was out on bail when a man saw Balfour breaking into his new Chevrolet Suburban on Nov. 29, 1998, and ran outside to stop him, court records show. Balfour, then 17, drove off with the man hanging from the roof rack.
As police followed, Balfour drove through alleys, front yards, through a police barricade and onto the Dan Ryan Expressway—all with the victim clinging to the vehicle, records indicate. He eventually crashed into a telephone pole and fled.
The victim suffered burns from fallen electrical wires as well as other injuries.
Balfour was sentenced to 7 years in prison after pleading guilty to attempted murder and car hijacking in September 1999. He was released in May 2006, returned to the neighborhood where he grew up and reconnected with Julia Hudson, one of the three Hudson siblings he had known while attending Yale Elementary School.
She was a single mother who drove a school bus, lived with her mother and depended on relatives to help care for Julian. Balfour was smitten with Julia Hudson, his mother said.
"He was in love with Julia," Michele Balfour said. "And Julia loved him."
The couple married in December 2006, the same month Julia's sister Jennifer made her screen debut in "Dreamgirls." The deeply religious Hudson clan, however, gave Balfour and his criminal record a wary welcome into the family, relatives said.
The newlyweds lived in the Hudson family's large home, and there was frequent friction between Balfour and Donerson, Michele Balfour said. Donerson repeatedly kicked him out of the house, and he accused her of meddling in his marriage.
Balfour moved out of the Hudson home for good in May and told his mother recently that he did not want to reconcile with Julia Hudson. He told relatives he was moving on with his pregnant girlfriend.
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MY WIFE JUST HEARD ON THE RADIO THAT WILLIAM HAS BEEN OFFICALLY CHARGED WITH MURDER!
MY WIFE JUST HEARD ON THE RADIO THAT WILLIAM HAS BEEN OFFICALLY CHARGED WITH MURDER!
MY WIFE JUST HEARD ON THE RADIO THAT WILLIAM HAS BEEN OFFICALLY CHARGED WITH MURDER!
MY WIFE JUST HEARD ON THE RADIO THAT WILLIAM HAS BEEN OFFICALLY CHARGED WITH MURDER! |
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I BET WANT NONE OF U B!TCHES CUM TO THE SOUTHSIDE OF THE CHI TALKING THAT H0E SH!T ABOUT HER BEING A BAD MOTHER AND ALL THAT BICKERING SH!T!! FAKE B!TCHES HER SON IS DEAD AND A MUF^CKA DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT'S GOING JOE!! KEEP YOUR CUM GUZZLING MOUTHS SHUT FAM..CAUSE ON THE NATION CHALIE A MUF^CKA WOULD DOG WALK YOU WHORES ALL UP AND DOWN THE CHI!! R.I.P. TO THE FAMILY |
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My heart and prayers are with the family at this time. I'm truly sad to hear about such a tragic loss. I can't even imagine somebody losing their mother, brother AND nephew all at once. They say GOD do not put too much on you that you can't bare...but this is something that is unimaginable. To kill that young child and their parents and brother like that is just insane. I pray that GOD gives them strength to move on. Keep your head up Julia and Jennifer.
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YOUR STATEMENT THAT ONLY WHITE PEOPLE DO SOMETHING LIKE THIS IS IGNORANT AS HELL. NRMALLY I WOULD ELL A PRSON LIKE YOU WHAT I FEEL ABOUT YOU, BUT OUT OF RESPECT FOR THE FAMILY, I WILL KEEP MY OPINION TO MYSELF.
JULIA YOU DON'T HAVE TO EXPAIN TO ANYONE WHY YOU LOGGED INTO MYSPACE. YOU JUST BASICALLY LOST YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY, SO IT'S ONLY NATURAL TOREACH OUT TO OTHER PEOPLE TO KEEP YOUR MIND OCCUPIED. THE HARDEST DAYS FOR YOU DIDN'T COME YET. WHEN YOU REALIZE ALL THE PEOPLE YOU USUALLY TURN TO FOR COMFORT ARE NO LONGER THERE, THAT'S WHEN YOU WILL HURT THE MOST. SO , DON'T CONCERN YOURSELF WITH WHETHER OR NOT PEOPLE APPROVE OF YOU LEAVING A MESSAGE ON YOUR MYSPCE PAGE. IF THEY DON'T LIKE IT, THEN THAT'S TOO DAMN BAD. IF THAT'S WHAT HELPS YOU THROUGH THIS ROUGH TIME, THEN DO IT. |
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@ fire4u
I agree with alot of your opinions. One of my closest friends is a product of child molestation at the hands if her mother's BF. She told her mother but the mother was in denial and she said she needed/loved her man. To this day my friend has a hard time dealing wit the pain and has a hard time forgiving her mother.
this leads me to a question. Some of you are defending her poor judgement on the fact that she hooked up with this man, knowing his prior record, and still introduced him into her son's or family's life cuz she may have thought he was a changed man? Why as a mother would u even risk that?
If you met a man who was convicted of rape or child molestation and u fell for him, then found out he was convicted of such horrible acts, but told you he was rehabilitated and a changed man, would u still take a chance with him? Especially as a MOTHER? I mean we are all different but I for damn certain would show a man like that the door!!!!! Would u even take the risk of putting him in your family's life?
This guy wasnt convicted for selling weed, or shop-lifting, or some minor bullshyt. She was convicted of attempted murder and robbery. As a mother you should THINK!!! |
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That is what the hell I wanna know. Good Damn points. Hell the other 100 questions I had haven't been answered yet. There is on question you missed off the list.
- How did a neighbor say that William and Julia was at the house earlier Friday and possibly was arguing and William threaten to take Julian. Julia was supposedly at work that morning they one neighbor said they heard shots like 8am-9am and another said it was a quite morning. Julia found the bodies like 2:30pm-3:00pm. When were they at the house? And at the house together? |
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As far as Julia logging on to her Myspace page and doing whatever she is doing on there, I am not going to comment on that.....BUT, out of RESPECT for her mother, brother and the son she grew to love AND knowing William is a suspect in all of this, she should have immediately removed ALL reference of him on her page.
If it is proven beyond a shadow of a doubt that he was not involved in these horrific crimes, then she can put him back on her Myspace page.
If I had even a LITTLE suspicion that my husband had something to do with killing my mother, brother and my son my anger would be so great any reference about him on the Myspace page would have been removed in a New York minute.
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First of all, people need to get some fuc*in lives. Dont sit up here and try to accuse her of trying to say that oh she bad because she married a ex-con ans sh*t. Get some lives. You dont know the story unless you were invovled in it. shut the [EXPLETIVE] up you goddamn haters and you stupid ass bitches. Didnt your momma ever tell you if you dont have anything nice to say, dont say it at all? maybe not. Get a life people and stop commenting all this bad stuff trying to bad mouth her saying shes a bad parent or she still [EXPLETIVE] hin thats why she still with him amd [EXPLETIVE]. I dont care if you hate me I dont care. You guys need to go ahead and watch what you say on here because everybody reads what you say on here.
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WHO ARE YOU? Do you know the story more than we do? and Why tell people to get a life? Julia posted her business on my space dot com, the largest site in the world!!! DUH? people will comment! get over it! we care about he loss of this child. KEEP IT REAL. THE STORY IS STILL UNFOLDING. AS FAR AS SHE GOES..a mother should UPGRADE her standards in men, when children are involved. THAT'S ALL MOST OF US ARE SAYING! THIS LOW LIFE SHOULD HAVE BEEN LEFT WHERE HE CAME FROM, IF THE PRISON SYSTEM DON'T TRUST HIM AND REQUIRES THAT HE CHECKS IN, IS IT NOT NORMAL FOR HER AS A PARENT TO CHECK HIM OUT A LITTLE MORE THAN SHE DID?? POOR JUDEGEMENT AND LOW SELF ESTEEM. |
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JULIA....You and JENNIFER is ALL YOU GOT LEFT OF YOUR IMMEDIATE FAMILY.
Be there for eachother.
Use this as a PLATFORM to speak on CHILD VIOLENCE and ABUSED WOMEN.
MAKE THIS YOUR LIFE'S PURPOSE. Your story can HELP SO MANY WOMEN.
Let GOD work through you just by telling your story to girls with SELF ESTEEM & IMAGE ISSUES.
WOMEN need to GET REAL. We ALL have a girlfriend (or in it ourselves) that RUSH TO LOVE B4 knowing a person. This could really happen to anyone.
A Man will mentally attach themselves to you and still ABUSE YOU. Just cause we won't LEAVE YOU ALONE, doesn't equal LOVE.
Maybe this is God's plan for your life because YOU CAN SAVE SO MANY LIVES BY JUST SPEAKING OUT!!!
Don't be ashamed and DON'T LET THAT LOW LIFE MAKE YOU A VICTIM FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. Don't let him control you FROM JAIL. Be strong, have Faith and STAY CLOSE TO YOUR REMAINING FAMILY TO GET THROUGH THIS.
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Look foreal she aint got to explain Sh!t to you mufukkas..the girl lost her damn mother, brother and SON to a fuking maniac!!! Do you know how she feel...and it was her fuking husband who did that sh!t!!!! she probably fuking numb! Until you walk in somebody shoes you don't know what the fuk u would do in a situation like this..this aint something that happens everyday in people lives!! this is a damn tragedy beyond tragedy!! I'm suprise she aint suicidal. Who cares what you would do..you aint her!!! Yall need to ease the fuk up and fall back and let this family grieve in peace..if you aint sending your condolences and prayers then stop trying to be a damn detective...alot of yall bitches probably out here fuking wit these criminals..murders and got them laying home with your kids right now thinking he mentally stable.
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If you met a man who was convicted of rape or child molestation and u fell for him, then found out he was convicted of such horrible acts, but told you he was rehabilitated and a changed man, would u still take a chance with him? Especially as a MOTHER? I mean we are all different but I for damn certain would show a man like that the door!!!!! Would u even take the risk of putting him in your family's life?
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THANK YOU!EXACTLY MY POINT. I HAVE A 7 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER. I DO NOT EVEN ALLOW MEN I HAVE DATED TO SEE HER OR MEET HER. YOUR STANDARDS IMMEDIATELY UPGRADE AND CHANGE DUE TO THE CHILD,(WELL AT LEAST THEY SHOULD). THIS GIRL USES A TERM LIKE I CHOSE TO LOVE BECAUSE IT “WAS NATURAL TO ME”. IT IS NATURAL OF YOU TO LOVE YOUR CHILD FIRST!!!!!... THIS MAN IS A STRANGER UPON MEETING HIM, ONE THAT MUST PROVE HIMSELF. IF YOU SET YOUR STANDARDS LOW, YOU LET HIM IN WITHOUT MUCH HESITATION,. AND IT IS LIKELY BECAUSE YOU ARE DESPERATE TO LOVE, NOT NATURAL AT LOVE. SHE MARRIED THIS MAN IN A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME UPON HIS RELEASE FROM PRISON. HE WAS RELEASED IN 2006 AND THEY HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 2 YEARS. SO THE MATH IS SIMPLE. AS YOU SAID , THIS MAN'S RECORD ALONE WAS A RED FLAG. AND BEING THAT THE STATICS SHOW THAT MOST CRIMINALS ARE REPEAT OFFENDERS THAT END UP BACK IN PRISON, SHE SHOULD HAVE REJECTED HIS ADVANCES! IS IT NOT IRONIC THAT HE IS NOW BEING CHARGED FOR THE SAME THING EXCEPT THIS TIME HE SUCEEDED? PRIOR ARREST ATTEMPTED MURDER AND CAR THEFT...THIS TIME TRIPLE MURDER AND CAR THEFT. |
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Everyone keeps saying stop judging her, but like paige4obama already said it's just plain and simple opposition.
We (bloggers) would dig into a white woman (Caylee's mother) /black man (DCsniper)/skinheads (Obama thread)/ killer asians(VTech) with little indifference.
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Look foreal she aint got to explain Sh!t to you mufukkas..the girl lost her damn mother, brother and SON to a fuking maniac!!! Do you know how she feel...and it was her fuking husband who did that sh!t!!!! she probably fuking numb! Until you walk in somebody shoes you don't know what the fuk u would do in a situation like this..this aint something that happens everyday in people lives!! this is a damn tragedy beyond tragedy!! I'm suprise she aint suicidal. Who cares what you would do..you aint her!!! Yall need to ease the fuk up and fall back and let this family grieve in peace..if you aint sending your condolences and prayers then stop trying to be a damn detective...alot of yall bitches probably out here fuking wit these criminals..murders and got them laying home with your kids right now thinking he mentally stable.
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First of all the father was at the press conference. Second, you do what you have to do. Maybe this is a way for her to let the public know not to judge her or her family, especially at a time like this. Your momma probably would have been doing the same. Too bad the you have to be so mean and nasty, must have had an awful upbringing. May the lord show you the way... |
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First of all the father was at the press conference. Second, you do what you have to do. Maybe this is a way for her to let the public know not to judge her or her family, especially at a time like this. Your momma probably would have been doing the same. Too bad the you have to be so mean and nasty, must have had an awful upbringing. May the lord show you the way... |
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First of all the father was at the press conference. Second, you do what you have to do. Maybe this is a way for her to let the public know not to judge her or her family, especially at a time like this. Your momma probably would have been doing the same. Too bad the you have to be so mean and nasty, must have had an awful upbringing. May the lord show you the way... |
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First of all the father was at the press conference. Second, you do what you have to do. Maybe this is a way for her to let the public know not to judge her or her family, especially at a time like this. Your momma probably would have been doing the same. Too bad the you have to be so mean and nasty, must have had an awful upbringing. May the lord show you the way... |
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First of all the father was at the press conference. Second, you do what you have to do. Maybe this is a way for her to let the public know not to judge her or her family, especially at a time like this. Your momma probably would have been doing the same. Too bad the you have to be so mean and nasty, must have had an awful upbringing. May the lord show you the way... |
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2damnsexxy09....okay let me check you one last time lil mama, first you said I was Julia and now Im young and retarded simply because I don't agree with how you constantly come on this site and bash this girl who you don't even know personally?!? Bitch and you're calling me retarded? You are really an imbecile and you need a life sister girl and it's really sad you been on here 3 days straight bagging this chic. You are a low life, a loser, a simpleton, a pathetic excuse for a woman and I feel more sorry for you than the Hudsons. Like I said the day before yesterday, you aren't concerned about the victims you cruel, evil heartless bitch! I wish you would just go away and die. It should've been you instead of an innocent kid. You should go and gargle with broken glass and do the world a fvaor and off yourself because you are a waste and people like you don't deserve life you smut. Marinade on that ish ho! |
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Here is the latest news on Balfour http://www.myparkmag.co.uk/articles/celebrity/jennifer-hudson/jennifer-hudson-murders-william-balfour-mugshot.html
The police mugshot has been released of William Balfour, the man being questioned about the brutal murders of Hollywood actress Jennifer Hudson's mother, brother and nephew.
Balfour is Oscar-winner Jennifer's brother-in-law - her sister Julia's estranged husband - and he is currently in custody being questioned about the triple-murder that has rocked the showbiz world since last Friday.
Hudson's mother Darnell Donerson, 57, and brother Jason Hudson, 29 were shot dead at their Chicago home last Friday evening, and her nephew Julian King - the son of Jennifer's sister Julia - was missing, until yesterday.
Police found the body of the seven year-old boy in the rear seat of a car ten miles from his home. He had suffered multiple gunshot wounds.
Jennifer officially identified the body along with other members of the Hudson family on Monday afternoon.
At the time of writing, police had confirmed 27-year-old Balfour, who served seven years in prison for attempted murder and carjacking in 1999, was being questioned in relation to the killings but has yet to be charged with a crime.
William's alibi for the day of the murders is reported to have been contradicted by his girlfriend.
However, Superintendent Jody Weis of the Chicago Police Department said he was "pretty optimistic" about finding the killer, adding: "Often there's lots of evidence left at a crime scene so I'm very confident that our forensic technicians will go through both areas with a fine-toothed comb.
"And I suspect there will be some evidence that will link us to the killer."
Referring to William's connection to the case, Weis said: "We are following any lead that we can get right now. He's a person of interest, but that's not to say that there's not other individuals that may turn up.
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Exactly! I have an 8yr old lil girl, and I'll be damned if I still date the type of guys I used to be attracted to when I was a teenager/young adult! (Yes I used to like the tough, street cats too-lol). Your standards are supposed to change as you mature and ESPECIALLY after having a child. You need to expect much more from any man you introduce into your children's life. I only trusted one man enough in the 8 years my kid has been alive to meet my daughter, because I felt he had proven to me he was a good man, and because he was soo willing to do both for me and my daughter! And he was someone she could look up to.
You should be very selective with anything you give your child, be it the best diapers, the best clothes, the best toys, as a parent you only want the best for your kids, so why shouldnt it include the best man for both you and your child? Dont settle for just any man! |
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william balfour's myspace
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Look foreal she aint got to explain Sh!t to you mufukkas..the girl lost her damn mother, brother and SON to a fuking maniac!!! Do you know how she feel...and it was her fuking husband who did that sh!t!!!! she probably fuking numb! Until you walk in somebody shoes you don't know what the fuk u would do in a situation like this..this aint something that happens everyday in people lives!! this is a damn tragedy beyond tragedy!! I'm suprise she aint suicidal. Who cares what you would do..you aint her!!! Yall need to ease the fuk up and fall back and let this family grieve in peace..if you aint sending your condolences and prayers then stop trying to be a damn detective...alot of yall bitches probably out here fuking wit these criminals..murders and got them laying home with your kids right now thinking he mentally stable.
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Preach!!!! The same ones on here accusing this girl probably wish these people the worst out of jealousy anyway! This was right up their alley for something like this to happen so they can do exactly what they're doing now, tearing these people down! This is what we as black people do everyday all day and it's really sad. We're the only race like that, hispanics and white people stick together but we sit here and build each other up to tear each other down. All of you sitting here thinking if Obama gets in office things will change for the better....once he does get in office if and when he does, you same mother*uckers will be on this site talking down about how he aint doing ish and this and that. It's a hobby for black people to be mean and negative to one another, I cant be mad at that at all I guess.... |
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She's not giving an explanation for that William. Atleast - Thats not what I read.
Did your cousin give an explanation for her Boyfriends action? If so then thats her and what did you do to help/save the little girl? Did you assassin him beat him down or just give him dirty looks - Is he still walking around is what I mean?
yah ya see everyone when it happens to you or your family one never know how they will take it or react and some do nothing at all.
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You totally miss the point. What does giving an explanation for the man have to do with anything? He is a loser and low life! In my mind a normal person would not be “giving” explanations on any aspect of it at all.., because if you are innocent and counsious free ,,you have nothing to explain to anyone! Julia is guilty and feels bad. While she did not mention his name, she clearly "explained him". She referenced him when she said “because I chose to love, which is natural”. This is her way of saying, I am not wrong , for falling for this man and for loving him. I say to you that she is , and that she should have used better judgement. Just as my cousin should have! Some women hide behind this blind love that the have for a man(whom she has now married) instead of believing in and looking out for the child. No,The child in my case, is not dead, but she is troubled and is going through a lot of problems because of being molested. Please see the point. No one is judging..The lesson is that a man does not come before your child. ..especially the likes of that type of an obvious low life. Just Look at him. |
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@DUCECONSTANT- How come every time I see a post from you you're flipping the hell out on somebody? Somebody is always a B*ITCH OR A W*ORE or worse....You stay coming out the side of your neck about a woman....who is YOUR mama? Does she know what kind of "man" she raised? SMDH... |
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POINT BLANK, THIS FAT BYTCH IS DISTURBED! SHE DOES NOT SOUND LIKE THE MOTHER OF CHILD WHOSE JUST BEEN MURDERED! AND I KNOW EVERYONE DON'T GRIEVE THE SAME WAY, BUT SHE JUST SEEMS COLD. I BELIEVE SHE KNEW FROM THE BEGINNING WHO DID IT. I THINK SHE'S STILL IN LOVE WITH THAT MOFO. AND I THINK WHILE SHE MAY BE SAD ABOUT HER FAMILY, I DON'T THINK SHE'S DISTRAUGHT OVER IT.
SHE IS THE CAUSE OF HER FAMILY BEING MURDERED, SHOT DOWN LIKE COMMON DOGS, YET HER FAT AZZ LIVES TO BREATH MORE AIR IN THAT CARCASS SHE CALLS A BODY! SHE WAS SUPPOSE TO PROTECT HER SON AT ALL COST. I DO NOT FEEL SORRY FOR A WOMAN WHO WOULD D-E-L-I-B-E-R-A-T-E-L-Y BRING A ATTEMPTED MURDERED AROUND HER CHILD. WHY FEEL SORRY FOR HER? SHE KNEW WHAT COULD HAPPEN. THE BABY DIDN'T KNOW, AND WHY SHOULD HIS YOUNG LIFE BE TAKEN CAUSE HIS MOTHER IS A DUMB AZZ FAT SLOB WHO CAN'T GET A DECENT MAN.
YOU GUYS CAN SIT HERE AND SAY I'M JUDGING, YOU CAN SIT HERE AND FEEL SORRY FOR HER, I DO NOT! AND IF SHE WERE IN FRONT OF ME, I THINK I WOULD HAVE TO BE PHYSICALLY RESTRAINED. THIS FAT BYTCH KNEW THE RISKS INVOLVED, AND WAS WILLING TO GAMBLE WITH THE LIFE OF HER FAMILY TO FULFILL HER OWN SELFISH NEEDS. NOW YOU TELL ME, WHY I SHOULD I FEEL SORRY FOR HER. I THINK YOU PEOPLE ARE CRAZY, AND YOUR SYMPATHY FOR PEOPLE LIKE HER IS WHY THIS SHYT WILL CONTINUE TO HAPPEN.
JULIA HAS DONE NOTHING TO DESERVE OUR SYMPATHY, BUT INSTEAD HAS DONE EVERYTHING TO EARN OUR DISGUST! FAT SLOB OF A BYTCH DON'T DESERVE MY PRAYERS. I FEEL SORRY FOR JENNIFER AND THE VICTIMS WHO LOST THEIR LIVES. I DO NOT, ABSOLUTELY DO NOT, FEEL ONE BIT SORRY FOR JULIA. SHE DIDN'T VALUE HER SON. NO ONE WHO VALUES OF THE LIFE OF THEIR CHILD, TRULY VALUES IT, WILL ALLOW A ATTEMPTED MURDERED TO BE NO WHERE NEAR THEM, AND THIS INCLUDES THE VALUE OF HER MOTHERS LIFE AND BROTHER.
I'M SURE HER MOTHER PROBABLY COMPLAINED ABOUT HIM, BUT THIS FAT BYTCH DIDN'T LISTEN. NOW YOU TELL ME WHY WE SHOULD FEEL SORRY FOR HER?! I FEEL SORRY FOR THE MOTHER WHO HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH HER CHOICE, I FEEL SORRY FOR HER BROTHER WHO HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH HER CHOICE, I FEEL SORRY FOR HER CHILD WHICH GOD ENTRUSTED HER TO PROTECT!
FEEL SORRY FOR JULIA, NEVER! I HOPE SHE ROTS IN THE SAME HELL AS THE KILLER. I HOPE SHE NEVER HAS A DAY OF PEACE. I HOPE SHE GOES INSANE WITH GUILT. I HOPE SHE CAN NEVER AGAIN HAVE A CHILD (SHE'S TOO STUPID AND SELFISH FOR ONE OF GOD'S PRECIOUS GIFTS).
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Angry that a childs life was soo brutally taken and that it was basically a peraonal thing. Its already established that this was no random act of violence.
This happened because someone involved themselves with the wrong type of people and consequenlty "invited" trouble to come tou their house. Just like that damn grandfather of the lil Las Vegas boy. His actions and stupidity put his family in harms way, and they involved his innocent grandson beceuase they knew he was living with them!! In that case YES I blame the grandfather as well.
Remember when you involve yourselves with the wrong people or crowds, not only does it affect you, it affects the closet people to you, becaue most bad or evil people will know that getting to them is most likely worse than getting at you directly. They know they can hurt you more, hurting the ones you love! |
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Preach!!!! The same ones on here accusing this girl probably wish these people the worst out of jealousy anyway! This was right up their alley for something like this to happen so they can do exactly what they're doing now, tearing these people down! This is what we as black people do everyday all day and it's really sad. We're the only race like that, hispanics and white people stick together but we sit here and build each other up to tear each other down. All of you sitting here thinking if Obama gets in office things will change for the better....once he does get in office if and when he does, you same mother*uckers will be on this site talking down about how he aint doing ish and this and that. It's a hobby for black people to be mean and negative to one another, I cant be mad at that at all I guess....
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Sweetie you aint neva lied..our race is the ONLY race that is pure haters that will degrade their own damn people. Yeah they voting and hooraying for Obama now and ONCE that man step into office..these same damn NICCAZ is gonna be the MAIN ones talking down and degrading that man...We need some serious help!!! this is just ridiculous..
callicrew you sound like a damn killer...sit yo dumb azz down. you can blame the pope right about now but guess what it aint gonna bring those people back. so let's move forward.
Maybe her self esteem is low and she had this young dude that is in shape and hood related and APPEARED TO BE mentally stable came into her life and she thought she had a winner...you dont know her reasons for fuking wit that dude. It could have been a man that never went to jail and done the same sh!t...we all make mistakes but this mistake she made was fatal and cost her family their lives...it's just sad! |
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TALKING ABOUT SHE WAS IN NATURAL LOVE..WTF! WHEN THIS GUY TOLD HER HE HAD A RECORD, OR ONCE HE GOT THE RECORD, SHE SHOULD HAVE WADDLED HER FAT AZZ THE SIZE OF A WALL, AWAY FROM HIM IMMEDIATELY.
I WONDER HOW SORRY YOU PEOPLE WOULD BE IF JULIA'S DECISION TO BE AROUND A ATTEMPTED MURDERER AND TO BE A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM CAUSE YOU YOUR MOTHER, OR YOUR BROTHER, OR Y-O-U-R CHILD. IT'S SO EASY TO FORGIVE AND FEEL SORRY FOR SOMEONE ELSE'S TRAGEDY. BUT WHAT IF THIS SHYT WAS ON YOU...WOULD YOU BE SAYING, I FEEL SORRY FOR HER, HELZ NO!
I'M ANGRY FOR THE VICTIMS, THEY DON'T HAVE A VOICE RIGHT NOW. MOTHER WAS JUST 57, SHE HAD ALOT OF LIFE LEFT, HAD A SUCCESSFUL DAUGHTER WHO WAS GOING SOMEWHERE AND DOING SOMETHING IN THE WORLD, I KNOW SHE WANTED TO BE AROUND TO SEE HER REACH HER POTENTIAL, AND SHE WOULD HAVE NOT BEEN FOR THIS FAT SLOB. HER BROTHER, JUST 29, HAD HIS ENTIRE LIFE. HER SON, OMG, JUST 7 PEOPLE! I REMEMBER BEING 7, AND THINKING MY MOTHER WOULD PROTECT ME FROM ANYTHING! SHE DIDN'T ALLOW RANDOM MEN IN OUR HOME. SHE KEPT US UNDER HER WING, LIKE A LOVING MOTHER DOES. NOT THIS FAT SLOB. |
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LOOK AT THAT LITTLE CASEY ANOTHONY GIRL HER FACE HAS BEEN ON THE MAJOR NEWS CHANNELS EVERYDAY ESPECIALLY ON THAT NANCY GRACE SHOW. YOU WANT TO BET SHE WOULDN'T HAVE GIVEN THIS TYPE OF ATTENTION TO JULIAN A LITLE BLACK BOY. HOPEFULLY THE TRUTH WILL COME OUT I HOPE AND PRAY JULIA DIDN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT BECAUSE IN THE END ALL YOU HAVE IS YOUR FAMILY. MONEY AND FAME MEAN NOTHING BECAUSE IT CAN ALL BE TAKEN AWAY IN THE TWINKLING OF AN EYE.
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I meant to say that Balfour had 5 "months" and a few days left on his parole.
Anyway, people have killed each other over shoes, men, women, money, etc.
There are so many unanswered questions on both sides.
My friend just wrote me back:
This can get real strange really quick! There is too much speculation going on. We just have to let the cops do there job.
They have not charged him with anything yet. Let the evidence show the way. If it is not him, it will show that.
This is too high profile of a case for Chicago P.D. to mess this up! Not with what has been going on with there credibility of late! |
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"Now because I chose to do what was natural to me and love someone , it cost me my beautiful family."
It should be natural to protect your son... This was a man that did 7 years in jail for pretty much the same crime!! He PLEADED GUILTY IN 1999 TO ATTEMPTED MURDER, CARJACKING, AND POSSESSION OF A STOLEN VEHICLE.
What some can learn from this. Is Ladies (men too). Choose who you love wisely!!!!! Look at the family tree...the apple never falls to far!!!! It may cost you your family!!!!
Never love a man/woman more than you love yourself!!!!!
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It was beyond irresponsible for Julia to expose her family to a low-life thug like her ex-boyfriend/estranged husband. It seems she realizes that now, but unfortunately innocent lives were lost before she opened her eyes.
However, we do not have all of the facts. Her ex, William Balfour, has a criminal past that includes and attempted murder, he looks crazy, but it is hard to believe that he would massacre an entire family behind an argument. It doesn't make sense. I'm not trying to defend him, but he may not have acted alone. He may not have been involved at all. I paid close attention to Julia when she addressed the media at the press conference held over the weekend. Balfour was in custody and she said things like "whoever has my son....if your beef is with me, take it up with me..." If she sincerely believed Balfour did it or that he was the only one with a motive, those comments did not make a lot of sense to me. It seems like a stretch, but it is possible that someone else could have wanted revenge against her, for what I don't know. Nobody on MTO knows. It’s all speculation, even on my part.
I do know that this is not the time for the blame game or to start pointing fingers. I realize it is upsetting for us to learn of these tragedies, we can only imagine what the Hudson family is going through. Julia lost her mother, brother and her 7 year old son, the last thing she needs is the general public to be passing judgment on her having only limited information. What she and the rest of her family need are our prayers. |
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I have said it before and I will say it again:
It was beyond irresponsible for Julia to expose her family to a low-life thug like her ex-boyfriend/estranged husband. It seems she realizes that now, but unfortunately innocent lives were lost before she opened her eyes.
However, we do not have all of the facts. Her ex, William Balfour, has a criminal past that includes and attempted murder, he looks crazy, but it is hard to believe that he would massacre an entire family behind an argument. It doesn't make sense. I'm not trying to defend him, but he may not have acted alone. He may not have been involved at all. I paid close attention to Julia when she addressed the media at the press conference held over the weekend. Balfour was in custody and she said things like "whoever has my son....if your beef is with me, take it up with me..." If she sincerely believed Balfour did it or that he was the only one with a motive, those comments did not make a lot of sense to me. It seems like a stretch, but it is possible that someone else could have wanted revenge against her, for what I don't know. Nobody on MTO knows. It’s all speculation, even on my part.
I do know that this is not the time for the blame game or to start pointing fingers. I realize it is upsetting for us to learn of these tragedies, we can only imagine what the Hudson family is going through. Julia lost her mother, brother and her 7 year old son, the last thing she needs is the general public to be passing judgment on her having only limited information. What she and the rest of her family need are our prayers. |
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IF SOMEONE KILLED YOUR AZZ, WOULD YOU BE SAYING IT'S DONE, SO LET'S JUST MOVE ON? YOU UNSYMPATHETIC PATHETIC BYTCH, SHUT THE FUCC UP. YOU SOUND LIKE A FOOL; YOU HAVE NOTHING OF VALUE TO ADD TO THIS POST.
YOU SAID MOVE ON, MOVE ON TO WHAT! I GUESS WE MOVING ON TO THE NEXT DUMB TRICK WHO WILLINGLY PUTS A THUG AROUND HER CHILD, RESULTING IN THEIR DEATH. THAT'S THE PROBLEM, WE KEEP JUST MOVING ON. WE NEED TO STOP AND UNDERSTAND WHY SOME WOMEN DO THIS. WHY THEY DON'T VALUE THEIR LIVES AND THE LIVES OF THEIR FAMILIES. WHY WOMEN EVERYDAY ARE PUTTING KNOWN CRIMINALS AROUND THEIR CHILDREN, RESULTING IN THE CHILD'S DEATH, MOLESTATION, OR PHYSICAL ABUSE.
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The fact that Julia married a felon is a moot question at this point. A lot of people have hooked up with the wrong people and regretted it, so I will leave that alone.
What is going through my head is how she is acting NOW.
- Keeping William on her Myspace page.
- Logging onto her Myspace page and doing whatever when her mother and brother had just been brutally killed.
- Julia discovered the bodies of her mother and brother but for some reason did not go to identify them at the morgue...Jennifer did that yet, Julia can hold a press conference. Why couldn't another relative do that.
- For whatever reason Julia did not go to identify her only son...Jennifer did that. That is her ONLY child. She would have been looking at him through a TV monitor and they would have only showed his face.
Being overwhelmed at a time like this is understandable but I am more than sure Jennifer is overwhelmed also.
I read where Jennifer went to the morgue with other relatives, but if my immediate family had just been wiped out and me and my sister were the only ones left, my sister and I would be there together ever step of the way with or without other relatives. Remember this is a close family. But that's me. |
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@ counsious 1…..
Your posts is the damn near the best one on here! You said it so well . some of the bloggers miss the point. No one’s intent is to be mean or hate at a time like this…..
@ texasglamour…We gave our condolences and I prayed for Jennifer and her family. you and blackrasberry are entitled to your opinions..but so are we. We are coming from the standpoint of a mother. We are just a little angry and we grieve more for Julian and feel that this could have been avoided. It is ignorant of you and blackrasberry to imply that because we feel this way we are judging and have men like this as well. Please rest assured sweetheart, I love my child too much to have someone that even “looks” like that ghetto thug come near my daughter. Somethings are obvious.He was not convicted of shoplifting, he was convicted of attempted murder. Hello? I do not have to have you in my world, no thanks. There are plenty of law abiding citizens to choose from. Black women need not be desperate!Set HIGH STANDARDS! All we are saying is that we wish she had used better judgement. And to now post my space and try to explain it away, “when we never asked”…is cheesy.she opened up the dialouge for discussion, so let's get it all out. let's be honest.
My condolences to Jennifer. Peace be unto you, your sister was trifling for this! Keeping it real……… |
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Yes this could have happened to anybody some may say, but ask yourselves:
What are the odds of a random act of violence happening to you and your fam? (Now I dont know the real stats but lets say its probably a one in 1000 chance just for arguments sake)
What are the odds of an act of violence happening to you and your fam when you involve yourself with sketchy and nefarious characters? I bet those chances triple!!!
Its not that we are trying to tear the woman down esp at this time but its a point to be made to really stop being selfish and really think about what you accept into your life. Those three human beings are never coming back. But perhaps it can serve to educate others that life and your choices alot of times isnt really all about you. Take into account everyone around you, before you lose something precious to you! |
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HEY WASSUP YEAH IF JENN AND OTHER READ MTO IM SURE SHE DID TOO CUZ SHE REG PEOPLE SHE SHOULD OF KEPT THIS TO HERSELF AND FOCUS ON FINDING OUT WHO KILLED HER FAMILY... |
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I feel the most sympathy for Jennifer. Something is not right about her sister Julia and I believe it will be revealed later on in the investigation. Looking at her plea on the news seemed a lot like Susan Smith to me (google it).
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Another question...Why was Jennifer Hudson the who had Identify ALL the bodies INCLUDING Julians when Julia was right there in the same city with them and Julian is HER son? |
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im so drained from all this.....its sooo sad....and please stop judging her cause YOU dont know what REALLY went down in that house whole....4 ALL U BELIEVERS....just continue to pray 4 the family that GOD will ease their hearts faster and be able to recover MENTALLY from all this... cause mostly all of yall including my self would have been committed to the "looney ben" strung out on medication from all of this....PEACE LOVE AND A SPEEDY RECOVERY TO JHUD AND FAMILY! |
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I don' get it!!! Why is she logging everyday? makes no sense. Write in a diary but not to the world. Her making a baby with that guy.... I'll leave it alone. But why logg everyday? I think there is more to Julia than being told |
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Reading these comments- its saddens me- A BUNCH OF NHIGGAS on here- thats it..
FIRST OF ALL_ EVERYONE GRIEVES differently SO WHAT..
just because the average person will cry their eyes out- and become glued to their bed- doesnt mean this woman is not hurting.
When i lost someone dear to my heart- I STAYED on the computer- I STAYED smiled- I STAYED trying to do whatever I can do - BUT THINK ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED. People thought i was crazy for wanting to go out to eat, ..people said I was still in shock- ppl couldnt believe i was moving on w/my daily activities- others though I didnt care, but thats what WORKED FOR ME! NOT EVERYONE is the same- I can say- months after the death- i did go into a mild depression and just kept to myself. Many think that was when it FINALLY hit me..IT HIT ME ALL ALONG- BUT YOU CANT SAY BECAUSE ONE IS CHECKING EMAILS and going on- that they are SUSPECT- or guilty of something- or DONT CARE.. GOD WORKS WITH PPL DIFFERENTLY- and it worries and saddens me- that yall dont understand it. I dont have to say - I AM ON MTO- and I know its alot of ghetto folks who may not even understand this type of ordeal at all!
SO WHAT SHE WAS ON MYSPACE....
SO WHAT SHE ADDED SOMEONE AS A FRIEND..
SO what when someone lost their mother- they couldnt get out of bed- THATS YOU!!!! PRAY FOR MORE STRENGTH- because obviously this woman has more strength than most- to where yall dont even understand. Noeone knows her relationship she has WITH GOD- and the peace she has come to ALREADY with this..
Yall are dead wrong for this..
and I pray for yall ignorant mofo's more than her!!!!
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YOU MOVE ON. I WISH OUR LEGAL SYSTEM WILL START HOLDING THESE MOTHERS ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR NEGLIGENCE.
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thank you. a judge in atlanta recently said just that!(not about this case,another case) we are responsible for our little ones. we need to protect them from criminals, child molesters, and pedifiles, as much as we can and have within our power to do so! STOP ACTIONG DESPERATE! THERE ARE "GOOD" MEN OUT THERE! BE PATIENT |
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Callicrew shoot yourself...not ONCE did you blame the MURDERER..you blaming the MOTHER of a child that she has to bury along with her mother and brother. Yes I do agree that she should have paid more attention to the warning signs but WHO THE FUK would have thought he would have murdered the mother, brother and son. It was no forced entry so is evident they didn't fear for their lives and let that animal in their house like they probably did on numerous occassions. Do you think the mother would have let his azz in if she thought he was gonna kill them?? Come on use what lil brain you got!! Do you think Jennifer would have kept her family at that house knowing that dude was gonna kill them??? HELL NO!! so fall your dusty azz back.
Like I said that family grieve and point fingers you dont know them so shut the hell up! we can go back and forth all day about what WOULD'VE, COULD'VE, SHOULD'VE..but guess what it aint gonna change sh!t! point your anger towards the fuking MURDERER not a lady who lost her entire family... |
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and because this happened- now her whole life is a mistake? she shouldnt been w/ that dude?
how many of yall been w/ dudes- that kick yall azz? cheat on yall? dont work? sleep w/ men? was in jail before? dont respect women..etc- BUT YALL AZZES ARE STILL THERE>>>
Just like MOST bad relationships- they DONT START OFF BAD..so what in the world are yall talking about??
WOW_ NOEONE KNOWS WHAT HAPPEN- but all these negative speculations..
Yall need GOD in your life-.
noeone knows anything about this woman or her relationshiop OR ANYTHING- and just going on and on and on.
This woman just lost her family- yall are so devilish...its not even funny..
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BrooklynLatina:
I understand what you guys are saying, and do agree with you. As a mom you have to cut the bull once you have you're child. Show them the right why to do things and the type of people to be around. You are right 100%
@dnc: I don't know that is a good question. Not saying that Jennifer is stronger, but Julia knows HER actions lead to this and maybe, just maybe she couldn't handle going through the process. I'm know i couldn't if I was her. it would be tooooo hard. |
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The sexy's have it! I agree with both of them and the way they broke down the whole story. Especially 2damnsexy09 with her typing azz;) Something ain't right ya'll and trust me just like with OJ and the bloody glove...the Keystone cops have had their time to present all the evidence along with camera footage to the DA's office. So what's holding them? They have had this n!gga in their custody since Friday? What's the hold up then? |
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they are blaming their moms- and not the murderer- NOT EVEN KNOWING the whole story
WELL shyt- all yall moms should have had CPS case them- if yall have this type of mindset-
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IT IS SO EASY FOR SO MANY TO JUDGE THIS WOMAN HOWEVER I DOUBT ANYONE HERE HAS HAD HER EXPIERIENCE..PEOPLE GRIEVE DIFFERENTLEY AND DIFFERENT DOESN'T EQUAL WRONG... SHE IS PROBABLY STILL IN SHOCK....CRIED TILL SHE COULDN'T CRY ANYMORE AND JUST HAD TO DO SOMETHING ELSE (I'VE BEEN THERE) SH!T I WOULDN'T WHAT TO DO...SHE HAS TO BE IN HELL JUST KNOWING THAT SHE BROUGHT HIM INTO THE FAMILY....AND U NEVER KNOW HOW CRAZY SOMEONE IS.....PEOPLE TURN THEIR LIVES AROUND EVERY DAY SHE PROBABLY THOUGHT HE HAD....PLEASE TED BUNDY HAD NEVER SPENT A DAY IN JAIL IN HIS LIFE AND LOOK @ WHAT HE DID...WE ALL HAVE EXES AND WE ALL HAVE CHOOSE SOMEONE WHO YOU LOOK BACK AN SAY WHAT WAS I THINKING??? THE ONLY DIFRENCE WITH HER AND US IS THAT HER'S ENDED IN TRAGEDY...THIS WOMAN HAS LOST HER MOM, BROTHER AND MOST DEVASTATING HER CHILD....HER CHILD....YA'LL NEED TO FALL BACK...EVERYONE IS SO QUICK TO START CACKLING ABOUT WHAT THEY WOULD DO...WHAT HAPPENNED TO SUPPORT??? COMPASSION??? THIS WORLD IS GOING TO HELL IN A D@MN HAND BASKET.
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Preach!!!! The same ones on here accusing this girl probably wish these people the worst out of jealousy anyway! This was right up their alley for something like this to happen so they can do exactly what they're doing now, tearing these people down! This is what we as black people do everyday all day and it's really sad. We're the only race like that, hispanics and white people stick together but we sit here and build each other up to tear each other down. All of you sitting here thinking if Obama gets in office things will change for the better....once he does get in office if and when he does, you same mother*uckers will be on this site talking down about how he aint doing ish and this and that. It's a hobby for black people to be mean and negative to one another, I cant be mad at that at all I guess....
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Sweetie you aint neva lied..our race is the ONLY race that is pure haters that will degrade their own damn people. Yeah they voting and hooraying for Obama now and ONCE that man step into office..these same damn NICCAZ is gonna be the MAIN ones talking down and degrading that man...We need some serious help!!! this is just ridiculous..
callicrew you sound like a damn killer...sit yo dumb azz down. you can blame the pope right about now but guess what it aint gonna bring those people back. so let's move forward.
Maybe her self esteem is low and she had this young dude that is in shape and hood related and APPEARED TO BE mentally stable came into her life and she thought she had a winner...you dont know her reasons for fuking wit that dude. It could have been a man that never went to jail and done the same sh!t...we all make mistakes but this mistake she made was fatal and cost her family their lives...it's just sad!
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According to reports it was indeed a forced entry! There was a shot to the front door. Julia's mom had kicked him out of the house last December so her mother obvioulsy got a bad vibe from him to say the least.
The neighbors said they had recently fought and Balfour threatened the family.
The jail recors show he was to take anger management courses as a part of his parole..All this on top of being a convicted felon
After all this, as a parent, would you not have seen trouble coming to you? Would you even risk the lives of your family and ONLY child and not take things like that seriously?
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one more thing..everybody blaming her but she wasn't even with the dude no more. he had a new girlfriend....
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I had the strangest feeling as I watched Julia's press conference. Something about her just doesn't ring true and she obviously has poor taste in men. How could any mother place her child in harm this way?
Sister or no Sister, Jennifer is beautiful/talented and she needs to get as far away from this girl as she can.
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Its not that we are trying to tear the woman down esp at this time but its a point to be made to really stop being selfish and really think about what you accept into your life. Those three human beings are never coming back. But perhaps it can serve to educate others that life and your choices alot of times isnt really all about you. Take into account everyone around you, before you lose something precious to you!
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WELL SAID. AS A SINGLE MOM I GOT VERY EMOTIONAL OVER THIS, AND I GAVE MY BABY GIRL A BIG HUG. SHE ASKED ME "WHY ARE YOU HOLDING ME SO TIGHT MOMMY?"...I KEPT SUEEZING HER AND SAYING TO MYSELF "BECAUSE YOU ARE HERE WITH ME". I GRIEVED FOR HER LITTLE BOY all day . I DON'T KNOW JULIA, BUT today,when i read this, i was a bit angered. i had already thought to myself, that as a mommy, she should have not been with him, but i kept quiet and greived with the family. As i stated ,she invited this dialoge with this my space posting. it's real talk. |
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People were inquiring and speculating about her MySpace account, so she provided an answer. Result, she’s being bashed for it. Talk about kick a person when their down.
In a “national” missing child case, it’s pretty common for the parent to create a website asking for information, aka tips and sightings. Most recent example; Natalie Holloway. In this case, the mother already had a MySpace page and apparently was popular because she is J. Huds sister. Of course she would accept new friends and check daily in the hopes that some one would have a viable lead that would have aided in finding her child….alive.
As for her comment about “who” she chose to love and the result….come on now, it’s clear that she is aware and acknowledging the danger her personal choice inadvertently exposed her family to. And like other non-high profile families around the nation who have family members go on a murderous rampage, she is probably wishing she could change the past….but she can’t. What more do you want?
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I refuse to jump on that bandwagon too and put more pain on that family and blame that girl. We all make mistakes and alot of us messed with men that went to jail...what fuking person on here dont know a black man that went to jail...come on be serious...most of our men are in jail or been to jail so dont fuking act brand new or turn your damn nose up like you aint never been in that environment. The point is she ran into the WRONG MUFUKKA point blank. You dont know these people when you meet them..you dont know their past unless they tell you cuz who the FUK ON HERE did a background check on their mate...tell me???? so dont fuking flatter yourself wit this bullsh!t....be realistic. This was a tragedy that happened. and if Julia did put her child in danger dont worry she will pay for it...she the ONE THAT HAS TO LIVE WITH THAT everyday for the rest of her life. so right now is not the time to throw that sh!t in this girl face. let her grieve..GOD got this... |
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William Balfour -- the "person of interest" in the murders of Jennifer Hudson's mother, brother and nephew -- isn't the first Balfour to run afoul of the law.
Balfour's father is currently serving a 30-year prison sentence for murder. His brother served time for drug dealing.
Balfour himself has served time for attempted murder and carjacking.
According to court documents obtained by [SPAM], Balfour was a member of the Gangster Disciple Street Gang.
Also according to court docs, Balfour told the judge back in 1999 he had a good relationship with his mother until "she gets an attitude." |
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THIS IS A HORRIBLE, SAD TRAGEDY! THE THINGS PEOPLE DO TO OTHERS! THIS IS THE REASON GOD MADE A HELL, FOR PEOPLE WHO HURT CHILDREN AND INNOCENT PEOPLE.
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Stop! The Press! I agree with ya!
First of all how in the hell this woman is on some MySpace Page talking about But his lil soul is at ease..THATS CRAZY AZZ HELL!
MySpace or anybody else retarded space will be the last place for me to visit let alone talking like he got hit by a car and in the hospital but in a few days he will be ok.....She is crazy!
Is she slow! There is no way in God's creation I could chat and gain popularity on my child's death talking about My mother and child at a crazy time like this...
This woman has some serious issues its clear she deals with street men not to say that this could not happen with a dude with money regardless of race or color but her choice was trash....
I'm sure if dude is the one who slaughter her family some where along the road they saw signs rather it was yelling, fighting, threats he showed something that he was crazy!
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I agree soooo much with what he/she said, i'll repost it...
callicrew said:
POINT BLANK, THIS FAT BYTCH IS DISTURBED! SHE DOES NOT SOUND LIKE THE MOTHER OF CHILD WHOSE JUST BEEN MURDERED! AND I KNOW EVERYONE DON'T GRIEVE THE SAME WAY, BUT SHE JUST SEEMS COLD. I BELIEVE SHE KNEW FROM THE BEGINNING WHO DID IT. I THINK SHE'S STILL IN LOVE WITH THAT MOFO. AND I THINK WHILE SHE MAY BE SAD ABOUT HER FAMILY, I DON'T THINK SHE'S DISTRAUGHT OVER IT.
SHE IS THE CAUSE OF HER FAMILY BEING MURDERED, SHOT DOWN LIKE COMMON DOGS, YET HER FAT AZZ LIVES TO BREATH MORE AIR IN THAT CARCASS SHE CALLS A BODY! SHE WAS SUPPOSE TO PROTECT HER SON AT ALL COST. I DO NOT FEEL SORRY FOR A WOMAN WHO WOULD D-E-L-I-B-E-R-A-T-E-L-Y BRING A ATTEMPTED MURDERED AROUND HER CHILD. WHY FEEL SORRY FOR HER? SHE KNEW WHAT COULD HAPPEN. THE BABY DIDN'T KNOW, AND WHY SHOULD HIS YOUNG LIFE BE TAKEN CAUSE HIS MOTHER IS A DUMB AZZ FAT SLOB WHO CAN'T GET A DECENT MAN.
YOU GUYS CAN SIT HERE AND SAY I'M JUDGING, YOU CAN SIT HERE AND FEEL SORRY FOR HER, I DO NOT! AND IF SHE WERE IN FRONT OF ME, I THINK I WOULD HAVE TO BE PHYSICALLY RESTRAINED. THIS FAT BYTCH KNEW THE RISKS INVOLVED, AND WAS WILLING TO GAMBLE WITH THE LIFE OF HER FAMILY TO FULFILL HER OWN SELFISH NEEDS. NOW YOU TELL ME, WHY I SHOULD I FEEL SORRY FOR HER. I THINK YOU PEOPLE ARE CRAZY, AND YOUR SYMPATHY FOR PEOPLE LIKE HER IS WHY THIS SHYT WILL CONTINUE TO HAPPEN.
JULIA HAS DONE NOTHING TO DESERVE OUR SYMPATHY, BUT INSTEAD HAS DONE EVERYTHING TO EARN OUR DISGUST! FAT SLOB OF A BYTCH DON'T DESERVE MY PRAYERS. I FEEL SORRY FOR JENNIFER AND THE VICTIMS WHO LOST THEIR LIVES. I DO NOT, ABSOLUTELY DO NOT, FEEL ONE BIT SORRY FOR JULIA. SHE DIDN'T VALUE HER SON. NO ONE WHO VALUES OF THE LIFE OF THEIR CHILD, TRULY VALUES IT, WILL ALLOW A ATTEMPTED MURDERED TO BE NO WHERE NEAR THEM, AND THIS INCLUDES THE VALUE OF HER MOTHERS LIFE AND BROTHER.
I'M SURE HER MOTHER PROBABLY COMPLAINED ABOUT HIM, BUT THIS FAT BYTCH DIDN'T LISTEN. NOW YOU TELL ME WHY WE SHOULD FEEL SORRY FOR HER?! I FEEL SORRY FOR THE MOTHER WHO HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH HER CHOICE, I FEEL SORRY FOR HER BROTHER WHO HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH HER CHOICE, I FEEL SORRY FOR HER CHILD WHICH GOD ENTRUSTED HER TO PROTECT!
FEEL SORRY FOR JULIA, NEVER! I HOPE SHE ROTS IN THE SAME HELL AS THE KILLER. I HOPE SHE NEVER HAS A DAY OF PEACE. I HOPE SHE GOES INSANE WITH GUILT. I HOPE SHE CAN NEVER AGAIN HAVE A CHILD (SHE'S TOO STUPID AND SELFISH FOR ONE OF GOD'S PRECIOUS GIFTS).
IT MAKES ME SICK THAT ONCE THE VICTIM'S ARE DEAD, PEOPLE SO EASILY TOSS THEM ASIDE. MY SORROW IS FOR THE VICTIMS, FUCC JULIA!
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But thats the point alot of us are trying to make. She never made her Myspace page a medium to ask questions of her kids whereabouts, she didnt post any plea asking for the return of her child. The only thing she did on her page was to come on and defend herself for getting on Myspace.
And blackraspberry,
No Im not gonna act like I never dated anyone without a past (albeit the most criminal past was some stupid selling weed shyt), but the minute I had my daughter and then became a divorcee, all that shyt went out the window! Any new man that comes into my life, I need to get to know, on many levels! And get to know his friends as well, their friends are a great insight on what you are getting into. And if you cant trust that person enough then too bad for me, but I Am not about to gamble my childs well being over a man.
You man not be a parent, so you may not fully understand what some of us are trying to convey. Most parents first instinct is to protect (over protect, even) theor child starting with the slightest thing. |
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Reading these comments- its saddens me- A BUNCH OF NHIGGAS on here- thats it..
FIRST OF ALL_ EVERYONE GRIEVES differently SO WHAT
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And what color are you? Why term things in that way? I personally am an intelligent black female with an opinion, not a nhigga…okay! Cut that you [EXPLETIVE] crap out, it is so not necessary ! Many of our points are not just about how she grieves , but more about the careless actions that led her to all of this in the first place. The my space posting simply opened up a can of worms for people to talk about how they really feel regarding her carelessness with her son . This man is a convict and should never have been allowed around her child. Why could she not wait until he completed his “anger management” classes. She did not even give the man time to rehabilitate himself back into society. He’s been out 2 years , married 2 years, murdered someone, and now headed back. It is just wreckless and careless behaviour on her part.AN ATTEMPTED MURDERER THAT WAS TAKING ANGER MANAGEMENT CLASSES. I ALSO BLAME THE SYSTEM. MAYBE HE WAS NOT READY FOR SOCIETY. IF THEY WERE CAUTIOIUS, SHE SHOULD HAVE BEEN EVEN MORE CAUTIOUS FOR THE SAKE OF HER CHILD. HAVE YOU EVER HEARD OF AN "UNFIT PARENT'? HE WOULD FALL IN THAT CATEGORY. SHE WAS PRESENTED WITH ENOUGH INFORMATION..BUT DECIDED TO BE WITH THE LOW LIFE ANYWAY! I grieve for Julian.
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I BET WANT NONE OF U B!TCHES CUM TO THE SOUTHSIDE OF THE CHI TALKING THAT H0E SH!T ABOUT HER BEING A BAD MOTHER AND ALL THAT BICKERING SH!T!! FAKE B!TCHES HER SON IS DEAD AND A MUF^CKA DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT'S GOING JOE!! KEEP YOUR CUM GUZZLING MOUTHS SHUT FAM..CAUSE ON THE NATION CHALIE A MUF^CKA WOULD DOG WALK YOU WHORES ALL UP AND DOWN THE CHI!! R.I.P. TO THE FAMILY
what an azz hole you are..yeah no one will go there ..we are too smart to live in some ghetto and too smart to stay. the reason we dont go there is because we dont want to see dumb azz people killing there own....remember this
298 killed in CHICAGO in 2008
212 killed in Iraq in 2008
and this is obamas home.....just goes to show you what this country will become if this azz wipe is elected.....oh by the way ..you are a stupid ignorant fool and i can see why your sorry azz is atill in the ghetto! |
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@callicrew
you make some damn good points but must you sprew such hateful names against the mother? can't you state your point of view without using such words as "dumb azz fat slob"?
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I digress, Barack Obama isn't black enough for me now, I don't need to wait for him to get into office.
Susan Smith got on television, cried tears and said a black man stole her car with her two sons in the back seat. All the while she knew she had pushed her car into a lake and drowned her sons.
So what if Julia went on myspace. All people mourn differently. My cousin lost his mother and went out and got drunk the night before the funeral.
All people have different coping mechanism.
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Guess what? If Julia's last name wasn't Hudson each and every last one of ya'll criticizing everybody else for stating thier opinions about this tragic event would be saying the same thing. EVERYONE knows that people handle death different. But, THREE deaths is a totally different ball game. These same pseudo intellectuals would be voicing their concerns just like everybody else. Why was she on myspace accepting friend's request from random people? Why is the "murderer" still on her myspace page? Why isn't she spending her myspace time to find her son? Those are normal questions that ANYONE would ask. Nobody's picking on her. But, things just seem shady. We have a right to voice our concerns just like you guys have the right to send your condolences. |
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I AGREE I THINK SHE KNOWS MORE TOO...
RedDragon
I WOULD DELETED OR BLOCKED HIS ASS
MAYBE SHE SCARED OF HIM CUZ SHE DONT
WANT TO BE NEXT SO IM GONNA LEAVE HER
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Callicrew shoot yourself...not ONCE did you blame the MURDERER..you blaming the MOTHER of a child that she has to bury along with her mother and brother. Yes I do agree that she should have paid more attention to the warning signs but WHO THE FUK would have thought he would have murdered the mother, brother and son...
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NOT ONCE IN HER POST DID SHE BLAME THE MURDERER. TRUE. NOT ONCE IN JULIA'S POST DID SHE BLAME HIS AZZ EITHER. SHE KNOW HE DID IT! THERE WOULD BE NOT MURDERER IF SHE HAD TOLD HIM TO STEP OFF.YOU AGREE THAT SHE SHOULD HAVE PAID MORE ATTENTION TO THE WARNING SIGNS. SHE KNEW ABOUT HIS RECORD, AND SHOULD HAVE NEVER INVOLVED HER CHILD WITH SOMEONE LIKE THIS. YOU RIGHT, WHO THE FUK WOULD HAVE THOUGHT HE WOULD DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT? WHO THE FUK WOULD HAVE THOUGHT THAT ALL THESE BLACK FOLKS WOULD HAVE HIV AND AIDS...BUT THE STATS ARE INCREASING. NO ONE CHOOSES WISELY, EVERYONE JUST ASSUMES IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN TO ME. SAD. BE CAREFUL OUT HERE. |
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First off, the guy I dated with the lil hustling charge was WAAYYYY before my daughter was ever a thought!
Thats my point. After She was born, after I got divorced, NO WAY IN HELL would I ever allow anyone with ANY type of criminal past near my child.
Secondly, maybe its just me, but when I "spend time and get to know a man" I dont have to fk him to do that. I have to know he is worthy to get this ALL of it before I let him in. And I definatley for sure would NEVER bring him to my home or near my child if I could not develop a certain amount of trust for him. If all you want to do us get fkd there are plenty of telly's u can go to if its all about dyck.
If it was someone who earned my trust and went crazy, at leat I wouldnt feel as crappy as I would KNOWING that I had allowed someone who I knew was trash from the beginning to get around me and my fam.
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Body count in the last six months:
- 292 murdered in Chicago,
- 221 killed in Iraq.
Our leadership in Illinois: Sen. Barack Obama, Sen. D ick Durbin,
Rep. Jesse Jackson Jr., Gov. Rod Blogojevich, House leader Mike Madigan,
Atty. Gen. Lisa Madigan, Mayor Richard Daley .....all Democrats.
Thank you for the combat zone in Chicago.
Of course they're all blaming each other.
Can't blame Republicans, they're aren't any!
State pension fund $44 Billion in debt, worst in country.
Cook County (Chicago) sales tax 10.25%, highest in country.
Chicago school system one of the worst in country.
This is the political machine that Obama says he comes from in Illinois.
Now Obama says he's gonna "fix" Washington politics?
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I AGREE BUT EVEN IF IM HAVING A BAD DAY OR NOT IN THE MOOD I DONT WANT TO BE ON THE NET AND I BARELY GO ON MYSPACE IM ON THIS CRAZY WEBSITE THEN MYSPACE AND IF THIS HAPPENED TO ME I WOULD'NT BE ON MTO I WOULD RATHER WATCH TV AND TALK ON THE PHONE FOR COMFORT OR BE OUT IN ABOUT WELL THATS THE WAY I GRIEVE CUZ WHEN AALIYAH DIED I DID'NT WANNA GO THE WORK BUT I DID AND AFTER THAT I DID'NT WANT TO GO HOME I WENT TO THE MOVIES CUZ I WAS SO HURT THAT SHE WAS DEAD AND DID'NT WANT TO WATCH TV OR LISTEN TO THE RADIO BUT HEY I GUESS PEOPLE GRIEVE IN THEY OWN WAY BUT JULIA SITUATION IS DIFF PEOPLE WERE MURDERED THEY DID'NT JUST DIE...
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OH AND..BLACKRASBERRY I GREW UP WITH SOME AZZ HOLES TOO... WHO ARE NOW CRIMINALS..ONE OF THEM WENT TO HIGH SCHOOL WITH ME. I HEAR THINGS ALL THE TIME..I THINK WE ALL CAN RELATE TO KNOWING OF A FELON.
I HOWEVER,WOULD NOT KNOWINGLYDATE THEM! THIS MAKES IT WORST. SHE PROBABLY WAITED FOR HIM TO GET OUT OF JAIL AND NABBED HIM. SMDH
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Julia's last name could be Rockefeller, Jones or Infufu and I would still feel the same way.
Shock does crazy things to a person's state of mind.
She is married to this man. They took a vow before "God." Anyone who is truly religious takes that very seriously. This is not some fly by night dude that she was just boning, took vows with him.
I'm sure plenty of people here have become angry with their significant other or experienced some type of life altering or even tragic event in their life and choose to express themselves on myspace or a blog. It is not a sign a shady behavior; it is a sign of the times we live in.
My best friend's dad was killed in a motor cycle accident. She had to identify the body. He was banged up bad! Nearly decapitated, hand nearly severed at the wrist, multiple broken bones . . . When I got the news a day or two after the accident my friend was numb. She didn’t cry at the viewing or the funeral. She said she was all cried out. She was on myspace during that time too. Does that mean she set her father up to be killed? |
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First off, the guy I dated with the lil hustling charge was WAAYYYY before my daughter was ever a thought!
Thats my point. After She was born, after I got divorced, NO WAY IN HELL would I ever allow anyone with ANY type of criminal past near my child.
Secondly, maybe its just me, but when I "spend time and get to know a man" I dont have to fk him to do that. I have to know he is worthy to get this, ALL of it, before I let him in. And I definatley for sure would NEVER bring him to my home or near my child if I could not develop a certain amount of trust for him. If all I wanted to do was get fkd, (hypotheticallY-lol) there are plenty of telly's I could go to if its all so much about dyck.
If it was someone who earned my trust and went crazy, at leat I wouldnt feel as crappy as I would KNOWING that I had allowed someone who I knew was trash from the beginning to get around me and my fam.
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TexasGlamour..I feel you. It's sad how our OWN race do our OWN people.i had that same argument with somebody about Oprah...Oprah can't satisfy everybody. Oprah has class..oh I guess since she dont have rappers or listen to rap music and act ghetto then she aint black enough...I mean wake the fuk up people. that woman do more than any black person I know.
I refuse to jump on that bandwagon too and put more pain on that family and blame that girl. We all make mistakes and alot of us messed with men that went to jail...what fuking person on here dont know a black man that went to jail...come on be serious...most of our men are in jail or been to jail so dont fuking act brand new or turn your damn nose up like you aint never been in that environment. The point is she ran into the WRONG MUFUKKA point blank. You dont know these people when you meet them..you dont know their past unless they tell you cuz who the FUK ON HERE did a background check on their mate...tell me???? so dont fuking flatter yourself wit this bullsh!t....be realistic. This was a tragedy that happened. and if Julia did put her child in danger dont worry she will pay for it...she the ONE THAT HAS TO LIVE WITH THAT everyday for the rest of her life. so right now is not the time to throw that sh!t in this girl face. let her grieve..GOD got this...
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Latina..yeah yeah yeah..everybody wanna play this lil innocent role...u divorced right..your husband could have killed u..do you care about you? its men we see and hear on tv EVERYDAY that works and is "good people with no criminal past" and guess what they go and kill the entire family. so lets not get into this lil criminal history bullsh!t. the point is u ran into a man that u married and I dont know why u got divorced but is evident something happened..and it didnt work out right? okay so that same man u MARRIED thinking he was the RIGHT ONE came out to be the WRONG MAN..he just didnt turn violent so u say...and u dont have to sleep with a man for him to turn violent..its alot of possessive men out here...stop trying to make your life so fuking better than somebody else's..I hate yall type of bitches..u FAKE AND PHONY!!!
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what u DON'T do is go online every [EXPLETIVE] five minutes to check ur comments. u try to find your son and the answer to that mystery was no whereon damn myspace.
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we all cope in different ways. does it really make yall feel all high and mighty to throw that girl under a bus right after her momma, brother and son have been murdered? are you people that self righteous?
just remember this- you will be judge on the sam accord you give others. yall remember that shyt. none of us are gonna be able to get out of judgement day. |
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blackraspberry
Apparently, I may have touched a nerve for you to get so defensive.
I in no way have made myself "holier than thou" for you to come acting like Im trying to make myself seem this or that over you.
I'm on here as a parent who gets angry that someone's lack of wisdom cost the lives of a grandmother, and uncle and the most innocent of victims a young boy.
As for a divorce, people marry young, directives change, feelings change. Divorce happens. But again, u miss my point and others point by saying that KNOWING and HAVING all this information about someone u get intimately involved with before hand, having hindsight and then proceding to go with the plan after all the warnings have been blasted in your face is a totally different story.
And if you notice, my conversations with you never included me calling you a bycth or being condescending to you in any way shape or form. Ot amazes my how poeple on here cannot state their opinions or theories without others having to get disrespectful to get their pont across. |
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@KEESHAJ50... EVEN IF IM HAVING A BAD DAY OR NOT IN THE MOOD I DONT WANT TO BE ON THE NET AND I BARELY GO ON MYSPACE
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YOU ARE RIGHT. GOOD POINT.
AND SOME OF THE PEOPLE ARE USING THIS EXCUSE THAT WE ALL GRIEVE IN DIFFERENT WAYS. LET’S KEEP IT REAL NOW, MY SPACE IS ENTERTAINMENT.PLAIN AND SIMPLE. LOOK UP THE WORD GRIEF IN THE DICTIONARY. DIFFERENT "WAYS" IS STILL SOME FORM OF GRIEF. LET’S KEEP IT REAL NOW.THIS IS A FORM OF ENTERTAINMENT. IT IS A SOCIAL NETWORK WHERE YOU MAKE FRIENDS, CHAT, LAUGH, SHARE PHOTOS..ETC. SO WHAT WE HAVE HERE IS JULIA HUDSON…WITHIN 10 HOURS OF A DEATH, CHILLING ON "MY SPACE". MY SPACE IS NOT A CATEGORY USED AS A DIFFERENT WAY TO GRIEVE... “MY SPACE “ IS ENTERTAINMENT! THIS IS NOT NORMAL. ENTERTAINING ONE’S SELF AFTER A MURDER IS NOT NORMAL BEHAVIOR. LET’S FACE IT, INVESTIGATORS HAVE LOOKED AT SPOUSES AND ACCUSED AND CONVICTED THEM OF MURDER BASED ON BEING IN AN ENTERTAINMENT MODE , AFTER A MURDER. IT YOU ARE OUT SHOPPING OR AT THE CLUB AFTER YOUR MAMA OR HUSBAND DIES,THIS IS DISTURBING… ! NOT A FORM OF GREIVEMENT.
AND THEN YOU GO BACK AND SEEK TO TRY TO EXPLAIN YOUR QUESTIONABLE ACTIONS ON “MY SPACE”? YET AGAIN, YOU LOG ON TO “MY SPACE”, TO DO THIS. LOL. THE PLACE THAT YOU ARE BEING PERSECUTED ABOUT IN THE FIRST PLACE? |
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I'm sending my prayers up for the Hudson Family's strength! I also pray that the true motive is disclosed so this type of ruthless crime won't happen to another family.
Just think of the thousands of families who have fallen victim to horrible crimes, but did not receive media attention outside of the local area.
Citizens have to take back their communities. We shouldn't have to live in war zones and become prisoners in our own homes. Criminals are so brazen with their home invasion tactics nowdays.
I agree that Ladies must make better choices when selecting or accepting a mate. We have to do better. Stop inviting evil into our homes and into our lives. |
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I send my heartfelt condolences to their family during this diffucult time. |
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Not only does it make me chuckle to see so many so called religious people passing judgement on this woman, they have also tried, convicted and damn near executed the husband. |
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@ brooklyn latina
i think the point is shoulda, woulda, coulda. if you really wana help a productive way to do so would be to go to a homeless shelter, for example. there are plenty of women in their with that mindset i.e ghetto.
blasting her on her really serves no purpose other than proping ourselves up. it certainly isn't benefiting jen |
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@dannyboy46: This is NOT a political issue, so please don't try to turn it into one. If you are trying to convince people not to vote for Obama, you are on the wrong site my friend. |
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First and foremost...So what if Julia went on line during this ordeal. Some people would have been going out of their minds during this time. She did what she had to do to keep her sanity together. People should not judge this woman during what has to be the most trying of times for the Hudson family. So many of us would have been losing their minds through this tragedy. Let's all offer this black woman compassion and sympathy. DO INTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD WANT DONE TO YOU. Let's not forget those important words. To Julia I'm so very very sorry for your lost. I know you didn't deserve this to happen to you and your family...nobody does. |
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lol Whats up zexy!! yeah i havent been on in a while..I havent heard not one person heated with that man HE PULLED THE TRIGGER..what WOMAN u know gets married to a man and say damn I dont care if he kills my family and my son...where they do that at..pleeze tell me...that girl didnt know....she lived with her family..if they felt he was gonna murder them dont u think they would have asked Jennifer to move them. |
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self esteem & self respect is the problem.
Julia has none of the above...therefore its
ok for her to bring a niggga who spent 7 years
in jail for attempted murder around her 7 year
old son and family...then marry him!
Its also ok that after her "husband" gets her
family shot up & killed, she casually logs on to
myspace for support from STRANGERS...
if Julia had any self esteem & self respect in
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@dannyboy46: You are in the wrong thread, let alone the wrong site telling the wrong people. I'm pretty sure that nearly everyone on MTO is voting for Obama (including myself) We've already decided. Thanks though. |
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SO LETS GET THIS STRAIGHT,
you've logged on several times even while your child was still missing, you accepted friends, changed your emoticon, updated your headline, added new photos of some other random dude to your photo album, and you not once sent out a bulletin asking for help like Jennifer, Punk, and so many others. You added NO NEW PICS of your son on the homepage in order to help folk identify him, you DIDN'T EVEN BOTHER TO REMOVE ALL THE PHOTOS OF THE MAIN SUSPECT FROM YOUR PAGE OR TAKE HIM OUT OF YOUR TOP FRIENDS, and you found the time to send a bulletin out defending your myspace activity?
Sounds like the actions of someone who knows som'n
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YOU ARE RIGHT. GOOD POINT.
AND SOME OF THE PEOPLE ARE USING THIS EXCUSE THAT WE ALL GRIEVE IN DIFFERENT WAYS. LET’S KEEP IT REAL NOW, MY SPACE IS ENTERTAINMENT.PLAIN AND SIMPLE. LOOK UP THE WORD GRIEF IN THE DICTIONARY. DIFFERENT "WAYS" IS STILL SOME FORM OF GRIEF. LET’S KEEP IT REAL NOW.THIS IS A FORM OF ENTERTAINMENT. IT IS A SOCIAL NETWORK WHERE YOU MAKE FRIENDS, CHAT, LAUGH, SHARE PHOTOS..ETC. SO WHAT WE HAVE HERE IS JULIA HUDSON…WITHIN 10 HOURS OF A DEATH, CHILLING ON "MY SPACE". MY SPACE IS NOT A CATEGORY USED AS A DIFFERENT WAY TO GRIEVE... “MY SPACE “ IS ENTERTAINMENT! THIS IS NOT NORMAL. ENTERTAINING ONE’S SELF AFTER A MURDER IS NOT NORMAL BEHAVIOR. LET’S FACE IT, INVESTIGATORS HAVE LOOKED AT SPOUSES AND ACCUSED AND CONVICTED THEM OF MURDER BASED ON BEING IN AN ENTERTAINMENT MODE , AFTER A MURDER. IT YOU ARE OUT SHOPPING OR AT THE CLUB AFTER YOUR MAMA OR HUSBAND DIES,THIS IS DISTURBING… ! NOT A FORM OF GREIVEMENT.
AND THEN YOU GO BACK AND SEEK TO TRY TO EXPLAIN YOUR QUESTIONABLE ACTIONS ON “MY SPACE”? YET AGAIN, YOU LOG ON TO “MY SPACE”, TO DO THIS. LOL. THE PLACE THAT YOU ARE BEING PERSECUTED ABOUT IN THE FIRST PLACE?
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grieve
c.1225, "cause pain," from tonic stem of O.Fr. grever (see grief). Meaning "be very sad, lament" is from c.1300. Grievance (c.1300, from O.Fr. grevance, from grever) originally was "injury;" sense of "hardship as cause for complaint" is from 1481. Grievous (c.1290) is from Anglo-Fr. grevous, from O.Fr. grevas, from gref "grief."
So I suppose you have never been depressed or sad and turn on a television or listened to some music to pass the time? Those are both forms of entertainment.
Some times people can also be in denial or it can sometimes take time for the reality of a situation to set in.
I have witnessed people who did not seem to grieve or show the slightest sign of sadness until they witnessed a person in a casket actually being lowered into the ground. |
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Latina..u right.i should have not called u out of your name..i do apologize. I just hate unrealistic people and fake bougie people. people that act like it cant happen to them..
Where is it written that you have to act a certain when when somebody u loves die?? is their a script u have to follow to show u grieving??? I wanna know? pleeze! |
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@ BLACKRASBERRY
---FIRE4U i got one question..the man u with..if u got one..WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME U DID A BACKGROUND CHECK ON HIM????? u dont know nothing about nobody unless they tell u...get real people. dont get caught up in a criminal record..dont think men without a record means they safe.
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I DID NOT FEEL THE NEED TO DO A BACKGROUND CHECK ON HIM. SUE ME. AND YOU ARE RIGHT.. EVEN BEING WITHOUT A RECORD DOES NOT MEAN THEY ARE SAFE! BUT IF I "KNOW" FOR A FACT THAT YOU HAVE ONE, AND I KNOW YOU JUST GOT OUT, I AM MAKING A CLEAR AND CONCISE DECISION FOR MYSELF AND MY CHILD. THAT IS WHAT WE POINT TO WITH HER! SHE KNOWINGLY TOOK THIS CONVICT IN WITH THESE TYPE OF PREVIOUS CHARGES..(FRESH OUT OF JAIL AT THAT!!!) EVEN IF SHE THOUGHT THAT DEEP WITHIN HE WAS A GOOD MAN, HE SPENT TIME IN JAIL. THE HAS TO DO SOMETHING WIERD TO A BROTHER. GIVE HIM TIME. LET HIM GO THREW HIS REHABILITATION AND ANGER MANAGEMENT. LET HIM GET OFF PAROLE FOR GOODNESS SAKE. MAKE BETTER CHOICES... THIS WAS BASIC COMMON SENSE WITH A CHILD INVOLVED. BASIC COMMON SENSE. |
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SPELLCHECK... -:)
THROUGH HIS REHABILITATION |
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YEAH SHE KNOWS WHATS GOING ON BUT SCARED TO TALK CUZ OF WILLIAM... |
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Well im done debating for the day...its a no win situation wit you know it alls..all I got to say is Vote for Change!!! |
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Making bad decisions does not make you a bad person.
Mr. Balfour's mother said all of those charges were given when he was a teenager. No one here knows him personally yet everyone is so quick to judge.
We all know the media has a way of putting a certain spin on things to make a person seem guilty. Just look at all of the negative publicity Barack Obama has received from his opposition. Barack Obama has admitted to smoking weed ans snorting Cocaine yet so many of you are voting for him anyway. Obviously, you believe that people are capable of changing.
Despite William’s criminal record, Julia may have thought he was capable of changing too. |
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LYoung Flag post
SO LETS GET THIS STRAIGHT,
you've logged on several times even while your child was still missing, you accepted friends, changed your emoticon, updated your headline, added new photos of some other random dude to your photo album, and you not once sent out a bulletin asking for help like Jennifer, Punk, and so many others. You added NO NEW PICS of your son on the homepage in order to help folk identify him, you DIDN'T EVEN BOTHER TO REMOVE ALL THE PHOTOS OF THE MAIN SUSPECT FROM YOUR PAGE OR TAKE HIM OUT OF YOUR TOP FRIENDS, and you found the time to send a bulletin out defending your myspace activity?
Sounds like the actions of someone who knows som'n
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wat in da hell????? is somebody paying you to clock this chick? is your life really that empty |
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blackrasberry,
Hun, I know this subject and tragedy just has emotions up to a boil. We're all trying to make sense of it and sometimes we all may get testy.
It's just really a horrible, horrible thing to have happend to ANYONE, be it JHud or the family down the block, and when kids are involved its worse.
I guess we're just all trying to make sense of something so senseless. |
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Who Hells Naw!!!
AP: Hudson suspect missed parole meeting Friday
October 28, 2008 at 2:53 PM | Comments (0)
The convicted felon named a suspect in the Chicago murders of three members of Oscar-winner Jennifer Hudson's family was arrested for possession of cocaine in June, but authorities declined to return him to prison on a parole violation, internal parole records show.
The suspect, William Balfour, also missed a meeting with his parole agent on Friday, the day Hudson's mother and brother were murdered and her 7-year-old nephew went missing. Reached by phone that afternoon, he told the agent he was "baby-sitting on the West Side of Chicago," according to the documents, obtained by The Associated Press.
The agent said he thought he heard a child in the background during the call.
Hudson's nephew, Julian King, was found shot to death in the back of an SUV on Chicago's West Side on Monday. Julian shared a home with Hudson's mother, 57-year-old Darnell Donerson, and brother, 29-year-old Jason Hudson, who also were both shot to death.
Authorities declared Julian's death a homicide Tuesday. No one has been charged in the killings.
Balfour, the estranged husband of Hudson's sister, served seven years for an earlier attempted murder and vehicular hijacking.
The Illinois Department of Corrections issued a warrant for Balfour on Saturday for violating terms of his parole by possessing a weapon and failing to attend anger management counseling and a substance abuse program, according to his parole history report.
The records indicate a parole supervisor declined to issue a warrant to revoke Balfour's parole after Chicago police arrested him June 19 for possession of a controlled substance.
"Per supervisor ... no warrant," the report reads. "Agent to monitor offender, impose sanctions."
A judge dismissed the cocaine charges for lack of probable cause in July, according to Cook County court records.
But under the strict rules of the state's parole program, Balfour could have gone back to prison just for the arrest.
A board that reviews such cases after parolees are sent back to prison relies on a preponderance of the evidence, a lower standard than in court. The board considers the violence of the original crime, the parole agent's recommendation, the arrest report, the parolee's adjustment and his attitude during a follow up interview in prison, among other things.
Corrections Department spokesman Derek Schnapp said officials reviewed the case but determined "the evidence that was presented during that time wouldn't have necessarily warranted a violation."
In Balfour's case, a violation could have sent him back behind bars for a period as long as the remainder of his parole -- until May 2009 -- minus a day off for each day of good behavior. That would have meant a release date in mid-December at the earliest.
The parole history report on Balfour also shows that a woman at Balfour's home refused to open the door during an agent's visit on Aug. 27. The woman told the agent during the 8:30 a.m. visit that Balfour was at work but Balfour's boss told the agent he wasn't due until noon.
"Agent heard other people inside the host site and suspected maybe suspicious activities going on," the report said. "Agent will be following up for a possible warrant on parolee."
There's no warrant mentioned in following days on the report, which does note, however, that Balfour passed a drug test.
Schnapp said the evidence again wasn't sufficient to warrant revoking parole. |
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The question of the day is Did William Balfour do this? He is a suspect and went back to prison for violating probation.....what he did to violate probation is also a good question. And did he just happen to violate probation the same day the Hudson Family was murdered? Is it just a coincidence that the crime committed to Hudson's family is the same crime he served 7 years for except this time the murder was completed not attemted? And again he pleaded Guilty!!!! I don't care who you are or the circumstances. No one is going to plead guilty to attempted murder if they did not do it!!! And Julia did not find the bodies it was a different relative (get the facts straight).
I question that Julia's Mom, Brother, and child was murdered but she remained unharmed. I question (in my opinion) lack of emotion during the press conference and being on MYSPACE more than with her grieving family (is she blogging to see what people are saying regarding the case to stay one step ahead - so she thinks). Something just doesn't add up. I hope the truth finally is revealed.... |
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There is no script for how a person should react to a tragic event and it seems like a lot of people here fail to realize that.
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