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He treated her like crap on that VH1 show. And she actually let it be shown nationally that he treated her like the dirt under his shoe. I'm not surprised she with him. The whole family was dyfunctional. Got the little boy crying cuz he don't want them to get divorced! Irv wasn't even living at home. They should've just told him the truth from day 1! After that show, I lost much respect for Irv.
AND JA-RULE will NEVER make a comeback! EVER!!
i'm sorry, if i was deb i would've yanked dat lil' bi@#hazz n!g$a 4 da way he talked and treated her on that show. I guess now since he aint makin' no records, the reality kicked in he can't afford 2 houeholds, sellout. I hope that they r jus' on a family outing wit da kids, and he goes his way and she goes her own. But he wouldn't b coming n and out my house wit no key tho. he know what he can pull and what he can't, he'd b pullin' his head out his azz if he was my bd (baby daddy).
IT WAS PROBABLY JUST A DAY OF TAKING THE KIDS OUT CUZ IF SHE TOOK HIM BACK SHE'S AN IDIOT. HE TOLD HER TO HER FACE THAT IT WAS NO POINT IN THEM GETTING BACK TOGETHER CUZ HE KNOW HE GONNA GO FU*K OTHER PEOPLE AND SHE JUST GONNA THROW HIM OUT AGAIN SO WHATS THE POINT. HE TOLD HER THIS ON NATIONAL TV SO IF SHE TOOK HIM BACK SHE STUPID AS HELL
MTO FORGOT TO MENTION THAT WAS AT THE JORDAN CLASSIC IN NYC DURING THE WEEK OF THE APRIL 20TH. I DID MEET HER AND SHE WAS SO NICE I TOOK A CLOSE UP PICTURE OF THEM TOGETHER AND MTO ALSO FORGOT TO MENTION ASIDE FROM MICHAEL JORDAN BEING THERE WITH HIS "WHITE GIRLFRIEND", VINCE CARTER AND MAYA WAS THERE AS WELL I WAS ABLE TO TAKE PICTURES OF THEM ALL AND I GOT TO MEET MAYA AND HAVE A BEATUTIFUL CLOSEUP OF HER AS WELL. IF YOU ARE INTERESTED NENAQUETUHACE@AOL.COM.
PS -- MAYA IS A NATURAL BEAUTY BUT I WISHED THAT SHE DID NOT PUT ON ALOT OF MAKEUP
He said on their show that they would never get a divorce and that he's going to keep doing what he want to do. As long as she keeps allowing him to do this to her then it's going to keep happeing. She really need to get some balls and set up her and the kids a checking account and divorce his ass and take half of everything. Where is her mother, sisters or homegirls to teach her how to do all this? "You don't need no man to do nothing for you that you can do for yourself"
@ addorable4u i totally agree with you..she needs to find herself a job and stop relying on him so much..thats y he is treating her like that..she should take some of that money and take some classes at the College of New Rochelle (its pretty close by her) and go do her thing..she is in his house so she really cant date any one her life is basically at a standstill..i hate when women let men treat them like that
Family outing? Yes.... Back together? Don't Think so.
Irv has such a distorted image of what it is to be a MAN, let alone a music executive.
Irv needed that VH-1 special to give his immature ass a more....likable side but he all but IGNORED his children believing that simply PAYING the bills was enough. He completely HUMILIATED his wife estranged or not.
He confirmed what people knew about him all along, he has an EGO the size of L.A. & NY put together and He is selfish and extremely DISRESPECTFUL especially to women.
Unfortunately for Deb, she really seems to love Irv, that and she's the only one concerned about how their children feel. He's in & out of their lives choosing women and work over spending more than a photo op basketball game with them. Sad excuse for a man.
she relies on him because hes her only source of income..so where is she going to go? she knows hes going to keep cheating, but she has to deal with it because she has no other means of living..thats a damn shame..all of these celebrities wives need to learn from Kimora Simmons..use the mofos money and fame to make your own money..whether its clothing, music, real estate..there are so many ways for rich wives to capitalize off of their husbands money..now Kimora is set for life..if Russel doesnt pay her spousal support, shes still a millionaire many times over where she doesnt need his ass..thats why she moved on and got herself a real man..I cant stand Kimora but I give her props for being smart enough to know that being the wife of a rich man means she can make her own doe and make a name for herself..Deb seems weak and helpless and Irv has her wrapped around his finger..if she cant make her own money, she needs to divorce Irv and marry another rich man..if not shes going to be a door mat that he walks all over
TO ME THIS IS SAD.
SHE IS SUCH A VERY BEAUTIFUL LADY.
WHY DOES SHE ALLOW SOMEONE TO DISRESPECT AND CHEAT ON HER?
EVEN WORSE HE WENT ON TV AND DISCUSSED IT?
LADIES, FOR ANY MAN WHO DOESN'T TREAT YOU LIKE YOU SHOULD BE TREATED, THEN YOU TREAT YOURSELF WITH RESPECT AND LEAVE HIS AZZ!
HE WILL CHEAT AGAIN BECAUSE HE'S LOW AND SLIMY LIKE THAT.
WHEN I FOUND OUT HOW HE WAS MISTREATING HIS BETTER HALF I MADE IT A POINT NOT TO EVER WATCH THAT SHOW.
NO RESPECT FOR HIS BIG SLOPPY JOE AZZ.
I agree she should leave him but hurting her children isn't in the question for her(you saw how bad her son took it when they talked about divorce) so she sacrifices her own feelings of being hurt by the piece of crap the is Irv Gotti. She deserves much better and is wasting her good looks and her life with him. I'm sure his father didn't cheat and be disrespectful to his mother because they are STILL married so I don't get how and why he is treating the mother of his children like that. Keep your d!ck in your pants, it's not that hard! You piece if crap! Some men would be GLAD to have Deb! How would you feel if some man did the same to Angie? Huh Irv? Or to your own mother?
@ gigi2007
@ MakeItHappen
YOU TWO ARE SO VERY CORRECT. IRV IS SUCH A POOR EXCUSE FOR A MAN. I WISH HE WASN'T A BLACK MAN. BECAUSE THE BLACK MEN WHO REALLY HAVE THEIRS TOGETHER IRV JUST DOESN'T FIT THE BILL AT ALL. HE'S STILL STUCK IN HIGH SCHOOL MODE AND HAS YET TO GRADUATE. I CAN'T IMAGINE THE STD'S HE HAS. AND HOW DOES HE SLEEP AT NIGHT THE WAY HE WENT ON TV AND DISGRACED HIS VERY ON WIFE? AND DIDN'T TAKE CARE OF HIS CHILDREN? THAT IS WHY I MADE A POINT NOT TO WATCH THE SHOW AND TO DISREGARD HIS MUSIC. I LIKE ASHANTI BUT I LOOK OVER HER BECAUSE I WILL NOT SUPPORT IRV GOTTI IN ANY WAY. JUST A FLABBY AZZ KID GOIN NO WHERE. CAUSE WHEN YOU HAVE NO RESPECT 4 WIFE AND KIDS U R GOIN NOWHERE NO MATTER THE DIRECTION YOU HEAD.
HE WILL SEE THAT AGAIN IN HIS LIFE. GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF IRV GOTTI.
ALSO KIMORA IS A BUSINESS MINDED LADY AND SHE TOOK SOMETHING THAT RUSSELL FAILED AT AND MADE IT A HOUSE HOLD NAME! AND SHE WAS NOT GOING TO SIT AROUND WHILE RUSSELL DATED EVERY FEMALE WITH TWO LEGS.
LOOK AT HER NOW!!! THE HEAD OF A MULTI MILLION DOLLAR BUSINESS, TAKING CARE OF HER CHILDREN, SHE SCORED A FINE SEXY OSCAR NOMINATED ACTOR (HE STAYS IN THE "IN" WITH THE OSCARS) AND SHE LOOKS FINE AT THAT!
KIMORA AND TRACY EDMONDS ARE SHOWING THESE BLACK DUDES WHO HAS NO RESPECT FOR THEIR WIVES, HOW TO DO IT!
BE PROACTIVE IN YOUR LIFE AND BE INDEPENDENT EVEN IF MARRIED! CAUSE IT SHOWWWW AIN'T PROMISED TO LAST!
YOU BETTA ASK SOME BOD-TIE!!!
There is nothing wrong with Deb. No, she isn't red carpet glamorous, but so what she's regular. A sububan soccer mom, except she drives a Bentley and not a caravan.
I think she's doing a great job raising her kids away from the hollywood hype. If Irv wants to miss out on precious moments in the kids lives, well it isn't her fault. It would be nice for her to get a job so she wouldn't have to rely on Irv.
Everybody talking about "OH, LEAVE HIM"! From what I see- She is doing what she has to do for her children!If there were no kids involved- I think she would have been bounced on him. At least they take into consideration how the kids feel before doing something that would make them feel hurt. Kids are sensitive to these issues when they are still not ready to accept that things will never be the same.
And no matter what they choose, he will NEVER find another women like her! He needs to wake up and fix this, or learn how to make adjustments to move on- even if the kids need counseling!
Btw, been there done that!
I liked his show, and although I didnt like everything he had to say, at least he was trying to real with her! She made herself look stupid by trying to continually "guilt" him into something he didnt want. Although we know she loves him, she is hanging on because she relies on him to support her! That is her mistake, and she will always be unhappy waiting on him! Fro watching the show he loves her, he just isnt in love with her, and wants to move on.
WHo is that unidentified kid....wearing that wack gotti gear....next to the adopted daughter of debs....anyone heard if him?????
anywho
loved the show, but i woulda punched gotti in his fat ass neck for some of the shyt he did....but deb needs to take a stand...she dont want to give up her comfort (i.e. get a job)...she too busy runnin around complainin while this fat dude dycks down everychick in all 5 boroughs!! STAND UP MAMA AND LEAVE...HOW LOBNG ARE U GONNA WAIT FOR GOTTI 2 GROW UP?! MAN UP DEB!! MAN UP!!! LoL
@ MAKEITHAPPEN... I AGREE WITH U 100%.
@JAMAICAN-BEAUTY... UR RIGHT, SHE DOES RELY ON HIM. BUT GUESS WHAT?! THAT'S HER HUSBAND, SHE'S SUPPOSED TO RELY ON HIM. HE MARRIED THIS WOMAN AND APART OF THE MAN'S ROLE IN THE MARRIAGE IS BEING A PROTECTOR AND A PROVIDER. THAT'S IT! YES, HE PROVIDES 4 THEM FINANCIALLY. HOWEVER, HE DOES NOT GIVE THEM WHAT THEY ALL REALLY NEED EMOTIONAL SUPPORT. HE WILL FIND OUT, IN TIME, AS HIS CHILDREN GET OLDER THAT THEY WILL RESENT HIM FOR HOW HE TREATED NOT ONLY THEIR MOTHER, BUT THEM AS WELL. HE'S A SORRY EXCUSE FOR A MAN.
@GIGI2007... OK... LET ME EXPLAIN SOMETHING TO U.... DEB DOESN'T NEED IRV. THEY ARE MARRIED, SHE'S ALREADY GOT HIS DOE AND HIS KIDS. SHE DOESN'T NEED TO STAY MARRIED TO HIM FOR THE MONEY. SHE CAN DIVORCE HIM AND STILL BE GOOD. SHE STAYS WITH IRV, NOT BECAUSE SHE'S STUPID OR WEAK... SHE STAYS BECAUSE SHE LOVES HIM. I DON'T KNOW IF UR MARRIED, BUT IF U EVER DO GET MARRIED U'LL UNDERSTAND HOW POWERFUL THAT WEDDING RING IS AND THE VOWS THAT U TAKE ARE.... ATLEAST IF U MEAN THEM WHEN U SAY THEM. SHE'S IN A VERY DIFFICULT POSITION. SHE'S IN LOVE WITH HER HUSBAND AND SHE ALSO WANTS HER CHILDREN TO HAVE A GOOD FAMILY LIFE WITH THEIR FATHER. IRV SHOULD FEEL ASHAMED OF HIMSELF FOR TAKING ADVANTAGE OF A GOOD WOMAN'S LOVE AND TRUST. HE WILL REAP WHAT HE SOWS... SOONER OR LATER. AS FAR AS THE KIMORA COMMENTS.. IT'S CRAZY, YEAH, SHE SPUN HER MARRIAGE TO RUSS INTO GOLD. HOWEVER, IF U CAN TELL FROM IRV'S SHOW, DEB ISN'T BIG ON MATERIAL THINGS. SHE LIVES A GOOD LIFE, IN A NICE HOUSE, DRIVING A NICE CAR. SHE DOESN'T SEEM TO WANT THAT RIDICULOUSLY LAVISH LIFESTYLE. SHE WANTS A NORMAL LIFE. IT SEEMS TO ME THAT PEOPLE ARE DOGGIN HER BECAUSE SHE LOVES HIM AND HAS A LOT OF HOPE FOR HER MARRIAGE AND HER FAMILY. THAT'S A SHAME, WE SHOULD BE TRYING TO SUPPORT WHAT SHE'S TRYING TO DO... KEEP HER FAMILY TOGETHER. THIS SOCIETY IS SO BACKWARDS.... JUDGING THE WOMAN FOR TRYIN TO WORK THROUGH THE DIFFICULTIES, WHICH IS AN ASPECT OF MARRIAGE THAT ALL MARRIED COUPLES HAVE TO DEAL WITH. NOT BEING A DOOR MAT, BUT TRYING WITH EVERYTHING U HAVE TO HOLD THINGS TOGETHER WHEN THINGS GET ROUGH.
DEB IS A FANTASTIC WOMAN... SHE IS TO BE APPLAUDED FOR HER EFFORTS TO KEEP HER FAMILY TOGETHER. I HOPE IRV GETS HIS ACT 2GETHER, NOT FOR HER OR THE KIDS SAKE, BUT FOR HIS. REMEMBER THIS... U NEVER KNOW WHAT U HAVE UNTIL IT'S GONE. ONCE AGAIN.... U REAP WHAT U SOW.... AND AS EVERYONE KNOWS, KARMA'S A B*TCH!!!
GOD BLESS THEIR FAMILY. I WISH THEM ALL THE BEST.
Well I can understand what Deb has tried to do as far as keepin her fam together, BUT she can't do it alone. If the man doesn't want you move on! You can't make him want you, he's not gonna wake up one day and decide all of a sudden he will be a good husband. She could find happiness else where. [EXPLETIVE], she deserves it. My parents divorce I lived through it, It would be worth it for the kids not to see their Mom hurt all the [EXPLETIVE] time!
I like them together Deb is a very strong woman because if my husband would of admitted to the world that he cheats, brag on the rondevouz with Ashanti and than treat me like he was the damn victim on T.V. Had that been me the story wouldn't of ended like that.....But hey if she like it than I love it.
Oh and she does Nagg to damn much....
