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hahah ugly black men slay me with this! it's such obvious self-hate! do they seriously expect us to believe that traveling from city to city and state to state as easily as one might travel from her front door to the mailbox isn't conducive to DIVERSITY in their choices of girlfriends/wives? Do they really think we believe that it's mere chance that 99% of the time a black woman just isn't who caught their eye? ha! and she looks like this girl I had a class with...she was always going on and on about how men liked to spend money on her. i wonder if it's her, in fact.
she looks like shes from India, hes probably fin w her to get his gas cheaper. Truth be told a majority dont get into inerracial dating UNLESS big monies is included. This way the whole family can easily come over. So look at it this way hes helping the less fortunate, lol..hes dark as he ll. I cant see his eyes
If more black women spent more time loving themselves, keeping themselves up and their weight down, weave out, then maybe, just maybe there would be less hate. Some of you are just plain bitter, angry, single, and emotionally immature black women and it shows in your comments. Get a life and you can get a man so that what another black man does is none of your business anyway. If he wanted to be with you it would happen and if you wanted him you would try and make it happen. What kind of classy black woman would call any black man a monkey? What manner of black man would call a black woman a whore? I will tell you, and hood rat, one that we should not be with in the first place. If he is not your type then why would it matter who he dates? That's the question for you haters to answer.
So what, let him do you him and MTO get some better stories. Stop trying to play to the ignorant black people that read your site. This is 2008, the Jim Crow era has been gone for quite some time now. We are free to live as we please just as other races are. So why should we be restricted in who we date?
caramelprinze If you read my comment and my reasoning, surely you must know I'm far from "ignorant." So, I won't take your comment as an insult. I'll just respond... Here goes: Ignorant is denying this trend of black men coddling everything unlike themselves. It has nothing to do with "Jim Crow" and "freedom," that's a way of rationalizing their self-hate as self-definition. It's not so. Ultimately, does it make me want to end it all? [EXPLETIVE] no! I would hardly call athletes the black intelligentsia and the black man who will be president has a black wife after all...we're not hurting for it, trust me. I'm just commenting on the internet, but it doesn't change the fact that it's true!
jhaney, because it scarcely happens, which makes it absolutely reasonable to think they're two people in love. Or I should say, to do a bit less generalizing, I've found that it happens just enough that I think these two people met and genuinely liked each other. I am not against miscegenation, not at all.
Get off Chad.. He has had his fair share of black woma. Trust me this new chick has about 6 step kids!! Besides she's kinda cute.. ************************************************* @ SUPADUPAFLY
I agree with you on that, as a matter fact Chad has 4 kids by 3 different women...And ladies we need to stop getting upset over some of these black men because they're not even worth getting mad over...We put these trifleing black ball players on a pedestal pick apart the women they date when the men aren't about sh*t either...There's nothing wrong with a person dating other flavors and yea, some of these brothas are color struck but personally I wouldn't want a brotha who wouldn't date a woman his own color..If he don't like brown sistas then he probably doesn't like his own skin and that should be a red flag to any woman, so why get upset keep moving...But not all black men who date other flavors have something against black women.
And there are a lot of good black men out here who don't make a million dollors, who love chocolate women so we need to stop wasting time caring about the ones who don't.
I'm sorry, but what does, weight have anything to do with race? That is one of the dumbest generalizations that I've heard for the day. There are tons of overweight to obese, white, black, hispanic and yes even asian women and men, so to generalize that just because black women are fat no one wants them has to be the dumbest sh!t of the day. I'm sorry, but i feel that everyone wants a black woman at least to have one time in their life, even if its in fantasy. He has had his share of black women in his life, maybe this chick is the one who makes him feel complete and understands him. Cause in the end you can't help who you love.
ecuasionz You haters are pathetic.
1.Shes FINE as HELL 2.shes clearly not white. 3.stop with the self hate rhetoric 4.stop being so bitter and live you life. 5.date who wanna date and stop worrying about what men wanna do. *************************************************
EXACTLY.
Then you got the most bitter ones like punchdrunkpretty cry a storm about this however saying "it's okay for black women to be with white men because that's true love".
WTF?
How twisted is she? Just bitter, ugly (inside and outside), lonely and jealous. You can't achieve so you get mad others can. SAD.
Also to those saying if he wasn't a football player would he get her, well if he wasn't a football player you wouldn't want him either. Stop being ignorant and bias.
Last but not least to "l_qow" who said he looks like a monkey, how ignorant are you!
You say black men look like a monkey but get mad when white separatist say the same thing. HOW ARE YOU any different? You're just as racist and ignorant as they are.
Oh and btw if that's you in the picture, you should shut up, your not a looker your damn self.
Umm wtf is swirl about this? And Chad is not attractive in the least bit, but he's cool on the field...I like his personality.
LMAO@Mandingo77 Some people on here should have watched Tyra on Oxygen last night...
MTO stay with the race shyt on here to get Black women panties up in a bunch...I'm so over that.
@Sierra, you're wrong...most NFL'ers are with Black women.
@Stylz75, I'm a black woman and I am farrrr from fat, and unattractive...quit with the stupid generalizations.
Juice, obviously you're stupid...either that or you need to take a few courses in reading comprehension because you've so gnarled my comments that it's sad. I said a black woman dating outside of her race rarely happens and because of this it seems reasonable to assume it's a situation of a chance meeting and natural/genuine attraction. I think everybody got that point. As for my looks and inability to achieve, ha! If you only knew... Wouldn't mind millions and millions of dollars...who would? But we're just fine.
@ lexia i go by what i see, i've been an avid football fan for years and from what i seen only SOME black nfl players have black gf or wives. put it this way i've seen more black nflers with non-black women then black women. it dont really matter to me cause i got my own life, i just state what i see ..thats all.
ocho cinco looks good right there.
@ mandingo - i feel you on so many levels. but in general self-hate is applicable (again i said in general) when these atheletes get money. i read books on african american history and this phenomenon isn't new. btw, my weight is down, no weave, and for the most part i could care less.
to the person that stated no one would date him if he weren't famous...WRONG, WRONG(charlie murphy). if took out all of those solid gold teeth, i would. there's nothing i love more than a chocolate black man. there are PLENTY of black women who wouldn't date a pro ball player. everything that glitters ain't gold.
sierra714, I thought I was doing the same thing...casually offering an opinion on a public forum. But I see we have word police trashcan sociologist internet geeks lurking to verbally attack. Oh well, no more for me... I couldn't be bothered to care about a series of [EXPLETIVE] letters. Have fun defending athletes in here, guys...nobody gives a damn about you anyway...you might as well live vicariously through the nuts of jucks.
when some dark skinned males grow up with people teasing their complexions, they grow up and gravitate to the people who weren't picking on their color, white girls or other. if they have children, they don't want their kids to go through the same thing. they tend to procreate with someone lighter. i know lightskinned girls/women who have done the same thing. they were tired of being called white girl or not black enough and made it a point to date the darkest guy she could find. be honest with yourselves, how many couples do you know like this?
mzarrogance Flag post and where do you men live where you assume that all or even most black women are fat? wth ****************************************************
Lol, they only talking about most of the females on here not all black women in general.
You can tell who the fat, ugly, lonely, bitter, sad, pathetic ones are just by reading the hate they post.
Lexia Flag post Sierra, I hear you but if you only go by what the media display and just a few that you've seen, you will be in the dark...The majority are with Black women...The media just doesn't like hyping that up...I could name countless of them that are with Black women... ***************************************************
Exactly.
I mean take for example MTO. They show a black man with a black woman and everybody is like okay. In fact some may hate on the girl and call her ugly, etc.
They show a black athlete with a non-darkskin woman and this the bitter women come out the woodwork screaming that the guy is a sellout, loser and so on. They get a lot of attention from this race baiting.
The irony is, these same women congratulate whenever they see a black women reported with any non-black male.
MTO race baits the ignorant because they know.. they are ignorant. They will always get a response of "black men are losers", "if she's not black he hates his race" or "Damn that girl moving on up, she got a white man!".
If they know that people aren't going to respond ignorantly to black and black they won't show much of it. However since MTO knows they're guaranteed a long line of ignorant posters rehashing how they think every black athlete is with white women any time they see one athlete with a non-darkskin female(even though most are with beautiful black women)they use it to their advantage.
Also posters here need to realize that darkskin people aren't the only people who are black. Seriously.
Juice, you are right...We are quick to tear down the Black women who a successful Black man is dating...I read terrible things regarding DWyane's Wade wife on here, Lebron James girl, Usher's wife, etc...People don't appreciate shyt until it's gone...sad to say...
And I also agree with you regarding dark-skinned people aren't the only Black people...
And if any of you care to see a successful NFL'er with a Black wife on tv, tune in to Deion Sanders show with his wife Pilar on Oxygen...
Of course they're engaged! Look at the effort she goes through to show the ring in the pic instead of just putting her arm around his back.
I happen to think she's a cute girl...that's just me though. I don't think she looks like a skeleton in the face...she's pretty. He's not bad looking at all either...I'd talk to him. So if he wasn't an athlete, he may could very well still get her...
Some of ya'll talking trash about the couple in this post...go to the Tameka Foster and Usher stories and most of ya'll are the same ones talking trash about her as well.
Make up your minds!!! Do you want black men getting with "others" or with black women??? Not that ya'll opinions matter much anyways...
I gurantee you since most black women don't view sports, they have no clue who he is when he steps to them in public. So they give him major attitude like he is beneath them and not worthy.
The moment he stepped to this woman, I bet the conversation flowed, and she was pleasant. I keep telling y'all it's those fvked up attitudes that keep these ballers at bay! Or any man for that reason! Of course this doesn't apply to all black women, I'm just pulling your coat tail!!!
Staypoppin, Now you know you're wrong...MOST women do not follow sports, regardless of race...So if this chic didn't know who he was, I doubt if he would've gotten her also...
Alot of people know who Chad Johnson is because he's always whining to the media and have those crazy TD celebrations...It's the same or similar to Terrell Owens...most women know who he is...lol But I still like him nonetheless.
Now talk about an Adrian Peterson, Antrell Rolle, or even a Julius Jones, and they may not even know.lol
Lexia please
If he walked drove the street in a bucket with average clothes on, most women would look right passed him.
My point is, wheather you know him or not, I bet her conversation was in tact, and he didn't have to pull teeth to get her to open up and be friendly. YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN, DONT PLAY!!
stylz75 Flag post BEOTCHES ON HERE NEED TO STOP HATIN DAMN WE CANT HELP YALL BLACK BEOTCHES ARE FAT AND UGLY ---------------------------
Whitey slayer to the rescue------
I got your fat and ugly....you pink skin having 300 lb, dog hair smellling, living in a trailer park--getting laid by your brother, baby mama to you uncle azz...could possible have a hit on you--for insurance purposes.... by "one of YOUR family members"
YOU....Got a nerve!! You MF-ers quick to say some fat shyt...and I see more fat azz white girls than a little bit....so save that shyt... Your uncle is ready for you to pick up your baby...so get the fyck outta here...and stay outta here!!....with that bullshyt.
Staypoppin, you really need to chill because you are generalizing like a mofo...I personally don't care about who Chad is dating because I never thought he was good on the eyes, but this chick can be stereo-typed with the rest of the women that are solely after money...Good Conversation? Please. I'm sure she had a good convo being approached by Chad or did she approach him?...hmmm we'll never know that...but anyway...
And let me let you in on something...I've been around NFL'ers and NBA'ers at parties and different events...The dj's or party promoters, etc usually make it known that "they" are in the house...So these chicks know...please believe...
I'm not bitter or hating, I agree with alot of what Juice is saying but some of you other men on here seem just as bitter as some of the women on here for real.
I don't feel threatened by none of these non-Black chicks because these type of guys approach all the time...You never know who is actually posting on this site...Which is why I could easily tell Sierra that most of these men are married to or have Black girlfriends.
I'm trying to figure out why they look like they dressed for 2 different seasons. It almost leads me to think that the pix is photoshopped. She's wearing a sleeveless white dress, and he sporting a jacket with a scarf no less.
I'll say it until I'm blue in the face-BLACK WOMEN DATE OUTSIDE THE RACE. Life's just too short.
@ Staypoppin
Your mind is seriously closed and one sided. Maybe it's YOU WHO CAN'T GET A BLACK WOMAN, but I assure you most of the sisters that I know including myself would be happy to give him some of our time. I don't know 1 not 1 black man over the age of 25 who is single-no I do know 1, but he broke up with someone recently. Even though I regularly date outside the race, I do love black men, as does 90 percent of black women.
To me, you come off as very bitter and unpleasant to be around.
Jaming876, you're really coming off as being bitter bruh...To think that attractive non-Black women want you for love but to say that non-Black men that date Black women are unattractive and corny etc is foolish...Why are you even judging men looks anyway? Leave that to us.
And I can honestly say, I've dated a tall fine sexy Italian/White guy who was a model before...Most of the ladies, Black, White, Hispanic, etc were attracted to him...And that's when I found out just how racist and bitter alot of White chicks could get too...lol But I didn't care...
Let’s see…it is o.k. for black women to f.u.c.k or marry non-black men, because black women feel it is not as common?
It is o.k. for black women to f.u.c.k or marry non-black men because there aren’t many black men available.
It is o.k. for black women to f.u.c.k or marry non-black men because their union is more sincere and not motivated by money or lust.
It is o.k. for black women to f.u.c.k or marry non-black men because black men are dogs, and white men treat black women better.
To all of you bitter, black b!tches on here…I have one response, STFU. You ignorant F.U.C.K.S are starting to irritate me.
You motherf.u.c.k.e.r.s have no issue with interracial dating. In fact, you motherf.u.c.k.e.r.s applaud this sh!t when it is a white man and a black woman….but get upset, when it is a black men and a non-black woman. Clearly, you believe you own the black man. You call him ugly, too black, too gay, too crazy, yet, you b!tch and complain when he is with a nonblack woman.
The sh!t you are pulling is apparent, No one is fooled. Most, likely, many of you bitter b!tches are one pay check away from becoming a full time street walker. You black B!tches are pathetic. And to be honest, if every black women was like you f.u.c.k.s on here, most black men would have crossed the fence long ago. As it stands, 90% of black men are still marrying you black a.s.s.e.s. And over 80% of NFL and NBA or other top black athletes and entertainers are marrying or are co-habiting with your black a.s.s.e.s. Therefore, STFU already…you b!tches are getting extremely pathetic.
In this case my black sistas (they) can have him.We dont want this piece! This Man has 4 kids 3 different mothers, doesnt take care of them other than (financially)which by law he has to so he gets no credit for that. Which is good enough for some folks but ask any of them how often he sees them. Then he'intellectually challenged...not that bright up top, sexually dysfunctional meaning will lay down and eat any and everything with out protection. This thinned haired wannabe black lady, has the wrinkles of a 40 year old wears tons of make up but she is equally yolked with Chad being that she has his clueless ass thinking she is well off financially when really her family has money this heffa is as broke as Chad was prior to coming to the NFL but like I said hes not that bright so he doesnt even realize she never spends any of this money she claims she has. This engagement will never reach the alter and karma is Bi**H so Chad wont be news for long because You have to do good things to have good things happen for you. Two losers disguised in nice clothes.
K, first of all, the girl he's with is not white - she's Indian. So to use the world "Swirl" for this headline just seems a bit retarded to me, when the 2 parties involved are minorities.
Second, there are SOME people on here who make it seem as though a person is being irresponsible or hating themselves & their race, just because they wind up with someone who's not black like them. To make it seem like, "Well these guys aren't about shyt because they marry outside the race", is very unfair to just make that blanket statement. Are there SOME who aren't about anything? Yes! But NOT because they date outside the race. It's not a crime OR a wrongdoing of any kind. If someone dates outside because they REFUSE to date people in their own race, then I agree that's NOT cool. But if they're willing to date all flavors & they wind up with someone of a different flavor in the end, that's fine & it should NOT be treated as something bad that person did, or treated as though they're "not about anything". Marrying another race for trophy reasons is wrong, I agree. And marrying someone in the SAME race for trophy reasons is JUST AS WRONG! You don't everyone's situation & you don't know someone's reasons, IN EVERY SITUATION, for marrying that person.
Not every black rich guy marries a person of a different flavor, for trophy reasons. To look at a simple photo & decide what somebody's intentions were for being with that other person... it's silly & just plain wrong.
I keep tellin myself don't commment, don't comment.......aaaaaaahhhhhh, I hafta say something.
@da_advocator you pretty much got that ish right on point, might have come of a little vulgar but it's undersatnable. On the real, Ignorance breeds ignorance, so for some a dose of reality is well deserved. Just be careful with the "You Black B!tches" cause some my take that as a generalization.
@Lexia
U know ur football..........I think i'm in luv.
@keepitpushin
That is just a dumbazz post. I'm sorry for all the dumb post on here i had to get at urs. Say what u want about Chad and his antics as it relates to football but come out to talk about him and her personally.....Sorry but, WHO THE FCUK R U????. Your last line is, "there losers"...lol. why exactly? especially her? What's her name? please enlighten me... Unless u got one of the MTO insiders working for u, u need to settle urself down. Hatin on someone u don't know from Adam. Fcukin crazy.
Lastly To everyone. At the end of the day do what the fcuk u wanna do. Theres only one real Judge out there n i'm sure on his list of things that bother Him, well u can guess were this ranks.
Black people start caring for thing that matter.
And with that, I'm done.....Peace.
By the way...... women of all races hate on their own men for numerous reasons... Women of all races hate on each others men for numerous reasons. But women in general hate on each other the most.....for abosoultly no reason...
Truth is ya'll should run the world. Seriously u should but you can't stand each other. I've always been sayin the P.O.P(Power of Pu**y) is a dangerous thing. Ya'll just use it... for all the wrong reasons...lol
LOL Danga1181, yes I know my football...I grew up a big tomboy and my dad played basketball in high school and college and was a big part of my high school's history as he led them to win 2 state championships. So I guess it's just in my blood. My former hs sweetheart was the QB in football, the center in basketball, and the pitcher in baseball.
I agree women as a whole is just like that...I don't think I'm as bad as most because I mostly had males as friends and still do...Most of the only women I deal with are relatives...I have alot of cousins my age. I do think women tend to notice every little thing...I could read a post about a celeb and someone will come in and point something "minor" out...and I'm like dag, I didn't even notice that...lol But I love seeing my people succeed and I hate that so many are quick to tear them down.
Chad Johnson is broke thought getting with this chick because she had money would make his brokeness bearable however she was FRONTING 2! He's still BROKE and miserable, He thought demanding a trade from the Bengals to any and everyone that would listen would frorce them to trade him and subsequently he would be able to ge a new contract for more money...NOT! He is a very good LIAR, he will look you in the face and lie to you.
Meanwhile back at the ranch he has a little boy on the way wich will make his fifth illegitimate child. He presented the young lady pregnant with his son with a 9 carat engagement ring then once she began the second trimester of her pregnancy he gave MIA (the chick pictured) a ring since he heard she had money and he's having problems spending his before he gets it. When his son is born all hell is going to break lose. He has Major Mental Issues! He claimed not to even know the woman he's pictured with to his pregnant fiance' or should I say fiance' number 1. Oh well Women marry for money all the time...and with Chad being the Bitch that he is any thing less woul be uncivilized. I hope they live happily ever after! Chad please pay your taxes! Instead of bejeweling Bitches!
jaming876, dude it is official...You are GAY and obviously bitter...I suspect you're suffering from the "lil man" syndrome...It's okay boo boo...there is someone out there for everyone.
Shout outs to the intelligent Black men on here such as Juice, Danga, etc...You guys get my utmost respect for knowing how to carry on an intelligent conversation without sounding ignorant and bitter. Kudos!
Curtain call
Please, ask any black man in the streets and he will tell you he would rather talk to another woman from another race than to talk to a black woman. Don't believe me? Ask the next 50 you come across and hold your own survey!!
I already know someone like you would come out of the wood work and say that, but the truth is that's why you see the increase in black men dating outside of their race, it's easier to talk to these women.
You see I always know you catch flack for pulling somebody's coat tail, but it's you guys complaining about black men dating outside his race, when someone shed light on the situation, y'all turn on him like he's the villan. When it's me pulling your coat tail on what black men say behind closed doors!!! BUMP YOUR UNGRATEFUL KIND!!
Keep thinking you have all the answers and keep coming up short, when someone was gracious enough to enlighten your ignorant behind, and put you dow with the real scoop! That's why cats leavin' ya'll in the dark, because someone is going like you will something mean and ungrateful!!
Keep thinking ain't no vigina like black vagina, and watch this situation get worse!! I tried to help, but now you're on your own like you want it to be, and you're just as lost as they come!!!
Trust me, black men will continue to date outside their race, and say the things I told you they say behind closed doors. People like you will forever think they're saying something fly, and cats will continue to laugh at you at you 'cause you're left in the dark!
Damn, so two brown skinned people is a swirl now? Black men just can't win....
LOL.....
It's like pavlov's dog...MTO shows a picture of a black man and any non-dark skinned black woman and the bitter and the feeble minded start spewing hatred at black men, driving up the hits while the MTO execs laugh their asses off....because so many of the women on here are so easily duped into the race baiting, Willie Lynch game they love to play for their own profit....
There is no need to hate on Chad...Unless you know him personally, you dont know WHY he is or isnt with her...The brotha has certainly dated sistas in the past (and has children with them) so he obviously is not the type of brotha who exclusively dates outside his race....Which tells me that he is just chillin with someone he's feelin'...and there isn't a DAMN thing self hating about that.
As i've said before, folks need to stop being irrational and ignorant and look at facts....The overwhelming majority of black men marry black women....In an open minded society people date whomever, but brothas overwhelmingly marry black women...and the percentage of black men marrying withing the race is very close to the percentage of black women marrying within the race...So stop with the "black men glorifying what isnt black", victim mentality bullshyt...
Even in NFL circles, the majority of black men are with sistas...but the media chooses to show and glorify those who arent....That is why you "see" so many brothas who arent with black women...
As an example...Reggie Bush is a backup RB on the verge of being declared a bust, yet you see him and his GIRLFRIEND everywhere...Yet LaDaniam Tomlinson is a former MVP and regarded as the best player in the NFL by many, and a lot of folks didnt even know what his wife looked like until recently....Please gain some consciousness people and look between the lines of what the media does before you take the bait and start hating on others in your own race...Because SOME of you bitter angry women seem like the real self-haters in the way you so quickly tear down and disparage black men rather than give the benefit of a doubt.
@esotericdredz, EXACTLY! We have got to stop being fooled by the media...Years ago, I was a bit guilty of this until I actually got to be around some of these people and see and know how they think...Now you still may have your Wesley Snipes and OJ's out there, but they are the minority...
MTO Is good for starting ish and because most of the people on this site are Black women, they will definitely try the race bait...They use Black women loyalty to and preference for Black men to stir up race wars on here...And many take the bait every single time...If we stop giving this dumb shyt attention, it would stop. It's like we have these discussions atleast once or twice a week.
The media loves controversy...
Lexia
I'm talking about black men in general, you can front all you want, but black men all across this country complain about a black woman's attitude, the only reason you don't hear it is because they love a black woman's apple bottom. They chase after the nice sweet one's for relationships. They chase after the mean ones for sex, so she'll never hear what they really think about her, they'll just show her when they get sick of sexing her and leave her. Harsh truth, but it's the truth!
I rarely post on here because of all the racist comments coming from our own black people about black people. I just wanted to say Lexia you are so right about everything you said. I was thinking the same thing the majority of black men are with black women the media just shows what they want us to see. I remember awhile back watching a show with black athletes and their wives/girlfriend all were with black women except Kobe.I wonder why the media picked only Kobe and his wife to talk to? There was Shaq, Dwayne Wade,Gary Payton, Alonzo Morning, Rick Fox to name a few so it wasn't like Kobe was the only known athlete. It's just the media trying to destroy the black family. I don't buy in to it and never will.
Before I say anything today, I wanna give a shoutout 2 "TRIPLE C's"...I got Kush and lean on my breath!!!....Now, as I was saying....Chad could not have pulled this woman if he was a regular cat, I'm sorry, I'm not hating, I'm just being trill...Her people forbid any kind of relations with us negras, it's a simple fact...Unless!!!...Unless!!!...You BALLIN!!!!!That n***a is moving up in the world!!!...I got to get me some major paper like him, damn me!!!...N***a get rich 2 this!!!...They should have never gave them N****s money!!!...Money crosses every border line...Money makes you look fine....If you are a rich black man, don't get married, I repeat, don't get married!!!...Marriage means you own 1 women, playasville means you own em' all...Do the math!!!...Why marry 1, when you could have 100!!!...Rainbow Coalition going down!!!..."Hat In The Cat N***a"
My opinion: We are are entitled to find love no matter what color the love comes from.The most important thing is that you feel the love from that person. I think black men will never stop loving black women.We are in the core of their hearts and always will be. We are the image of their mothers.Some black men look at us as bickering/complaining/materialistic/etc. Some black women look at men as cheaters/liars/thugs/ghetto/etc. I think we have got to learn to be compassionate toward each other. We need to take the time to learn each other and dont say everything we think in every conversation.Be honest and respect each other.Black love is and always will be alive and well.Once you are independent and happy with yourself, you can be happy with anyone.I will never look down on ANY black man. I will always find the positive in him simply because I love them.All that matters in a couple is happiness and respect.
Let me just say that I love you!!!! You dropped it like it was hot. Well put and it pleases me to no end that there is one sista out there that does not hate us and instead loves us (black men).There is no one on this earth more beautiful and precious than a black woman. It's truly sad that so many black women have been bam boozled and conditioned into thinking that black men are the scum of the earth and that we don't want or love them because I know many that do. None of my male friends and the operative word is friends, are married to White women or any other woman of another race. If they did I would still be their friend and I would not have a problem with it either because who the hell am I to tell someone else how to live their life? If only more black women saw it the right way like you do(yoadmirer1)because we need each other. Personally I am not all that I could be without the love, respect, support, and loyalty of a black woman. As black men and women we have to find a way to repair the divide/rift between us and it's just that simple our survival as a people depends on it. Again thank you for putting it down so eloquently.
I agree yoadmire1...
I for one wasn't putting black men down...This certain particular poster had such hate for Black women and then tried to clown the White men some Black women may date but uplift the non-Black women that Black men date...That's just ass-backwards and divisive on so many levels...
I'm with a Black man that loves Black women so the foolishness that some of these immature men on here are spouting is very comical...
People saying that Black women want to be white because they get weaves, relaxers, etc...I guess they are clueless when it comes to the White women who wear extentions, wigs, dye their hair blonde, brown, black or whatever or get tans, perms, lip injections, butt implants, breast implants, and contacts as well...See that crap isn't limited to the Black women, but clueless, brain-washed people would think so. Funny thing is, I doubt if you would ever hear a White man accuse them of trying to be Black...lol
@ Lexia I agree with you as well. This is not a one sided issue. The white women are trying to be like the black women as well. They make all the changes you mentioned but no one never notices this. We have the injection free full lips and hips. We have no need to wear padded panties or bras.We have the naturally tanned skin.There are no need for breast implants b/c most of have well porportioned figures. They do all of this to imitate us.They lust for our beautiful black men . There is definitely two sides to this.We also as black women have to learn to respect them and love them the right way to keep them. We need each other.
I am an smart, successful,and independent African-American woman. I own everything. My house. My car. Have stock, bonds, retirement. I lost my husband. Alot of white, spanish, and other races, men, ask me out. I always wait out for the black man. I guess I still believe in black people growing, building and loving together. After seeing displays like this over and over again---I think I am going to start dating outside my race too. I would like to thank all the brothers who have opened my eyes to this. If the brothers are not holding out. Why should we. Love is love after all, right. I mean if light is better I better get it while I am in an advantagious postion too, right brothers. Just kidding. For now.
who ever mentioned halle berry.The situation is NOT TO COMPARE , HALLEY IS MIXED !!! AND IF YOU HAVE HAD BLACK MEN DO TO YOU WHAT THEY'VE DONE TO "POOR-HALLE", THEN YOU SHOULD SEEK A WHITEBOY TO, (IF YOURE A GIRL,HOPEFULLY ) .GOTTA "add" THAT !!
AGAIN, THIS ISN'T THE SAME SENERIAL FOLKS !!!
AND YES, I AM THE REAL FRED FLINTSTONE,PEEPS .
@jaming876
I can tell you right now if you decided to date outside your race, you would not be missed. You are very ignorant (thus not suitable for any women of any any race to be quite honest)for thinking my avatar is actually a picture of me But... even if it were my avatar is a pic of a beautiful black women. Your hatin on your own race and have the nerve to comment when a black women leaves her options open. If you have a women I hope she is checking that ass daily. Probably not though I can tell you don't have any home training.
@TDR25
You are in the same group as the before mention. Can you make up your mind are black women to be haters or congratulaters? I can not speak for all black women but if another sista finds love outside of her race I'm happy for her because she found love and kept her options open period. If you can't find love with a brother then find love with another.
I really don't care who dates who if you find love that is something to be cherished and celebrated. Most of the comments made by black women is out of concern for a brotha because of the type of women that are approaching them because of their celebrity and financial status.
But some of you can't appreciate the concern. You have to insult and act ignorant and that's why the black family is in a decline now, because you can't recognize a good women when she is standing right in front of you. So hell yeah I'm going to date outside of my race, at least when a white man dates a black women most of the time it's out of love and respect for her and not lust for what she has to offer.
Check it out
Garcelle Beauvais-Nilon (Fancy, Jamie Foxx Show) Karyn Parsons ( Hillary, Fresh Prince of Bel-Air) Halle Berry Donna Summer = Dating or married to a white man Tina Turner Mr.Big (Sex in the City) Black girlfriend Robert Deniro Black Wife George Lucas(Creator of Star wars) dating Melody Hobson A black women (successful financial analysts)
Just to name a few
Damn people.. ya'll wilding in here!! lol, but honestly what threads like this and many of the other interracial topics that's been discussed here tell me is that the hate comes from BOTH SIDES, sistas moan when they see a brotha with a non-black women and brothas moan when the sista's start praising a sista who's with a white man but deep down we (black males) are hurting too, and you know what that proves folks?...is that WE ALL HAVE A PROBLEM.. both male and female, but instead of looking at it as a problem i see it as a positive because at least WE CARE!!.. and ain't blind to that beautiful thing called black love, at the end of the day when it comes to the crunch you know we ride for eachother!!.. we keep eachother strong in a world that's been so crule to us, and that bond shall NEVER be broken, yes we have some brothas and sistas who don't understand the meaning of being black and aspire to be something they'll never be but guess what peeps?, THEY ARE IN THE MINORITY!!, it doesn't matter what a sista does to me i'll never turn my back on ya'll, sistas snatched my heart from day one!! lol.. and i'm sure i speak for most brothas all over the world, as a people we've been through too much to ever let go.
Peace
Over all this woman is not bad looking. I'm not big on LONG NOSE women and I would bet her azz is as flat as an ironing board but he could do a lot worst for now.I must say those kind of features don't hold up over time once these type of women age. Their kind tend to look like witches when they get older. As far as he's concerned, he's a decent looking brother with a lot a paper.( Male prospective ) ANY BLACK WOMAN WHO ATTACKS HIS LOOKS BY CALLING HIM NAMES,IS SICK IN THE HEAD. Stop being angry about WEALTHY MEN EXERCISING THEIR CHOICES. WELCOME TO REALITY BABY. Who he dates is not a reflection of your self worth. Grow up and get your minds right. Brothers aren't tripping on Halle, Whoopi or any other Black female celebs that choose non-Black mates.
Jaming
Of course I see how their attitude melts away when white men and latin men are around. I've been with both of these races and saw how these men would get cat calls, women would pursue them and initiate conversation and everything.
These would be the same women that would make the most handsome well groomed black men chase them. I learned a lot of black women (not all) will chase non black men when I was like 13 and 14 yrs old because I was hanging with white and Latin guys back then. (I still do)
I still see the same thing to this day!
First of all, I don't have a problem with black men dating white women or any other race because I'm not attracted to ya'll asses anyways. But if black men would stop kissing the white woman's ass and treating her like she is some "goddess" that can do know wrong and are perfect, then maybe we would be more accepting of it. If black men, would stop dogging out black women as an excuse to date white women or other ethnicities, then it would not be as big of an issue.
I mean I like white guys and I don't dog out black men ever. I like what I like and that is it. Anyone that doesn't like it, can kiss my ass. But black men go on and on about how black women are ghetto and wear weaves and relax their hair and this is somehow an excuse to date white women or Latina women or whatever, I think that is bull. And ya'll also need to stop getting with these white women for the wrong reasons too. Stop getting with them in order to have light skinned babies with light eyes and [EXPLETIVE]. Stop getting with them to make the black woman jealous. Stop getting with them to gain access to the 'White Man's Land' At least be genuine about it, then you won't have as much animosity.
First of all (IluvWhiteMen) if you do indeed love them then this issue should not be of any concern of yours. Secondly if the photo you have posted is not representative of who you really are then you are a fraud and a fake. What kind of person puts up a picture of someone else to represent them? Inquiring minds would like to know. You are talking loud but not saying nothin because you go on with your non sense about what black men do (have babies with White men for light skinned children)and how would you know this if you don't deal with them? You should not open up your pie hole and let the world know just how ignorant you are because what you put out is extremely asinine. By loving White men the way that you claim is truly a blessing for black men because we deserve better so thank you for not loving us. And I will close by asking you to look in the mirror before you accuse anyone of being genuine. That's one hell of a picture of you
Who am I to judge your choice in a lover. I personally will date a white man and it has nothing to do with a black man not being good enough. I LOVE black men. But I am entitled to date whoever of whatever race. I can't hate on him, that's just his choice.....Though I feel that black couples are sooo amazingly beautiful.
jaming876
Like I said before you are ignorant and to stupid to realize a good women when you see one. That's exactly why you are attracting the type of women that are not of substance and only with you because of what you got. You are only telling on yourself with all the dumbassness you portray as intellectual talk.
Truth be told you are a weak ass bother who can not handle a strong sister that's about the business. If you are going to talk shyt about an avatar put your pic up and let's see what you look like. I bet you are as busted as your pockets.
If I get with a white man it's not because of a brtoher it's in spite of him. And I'm not on here dogging out my brothers but you are dogging at the sisters. That is nothing but self hatred and your pain is speaking through all your rants (volumes no less). You have been hurt my brother and now you are the walking wounded. And I already know Booo misery loves company but....
I am to bless to be stress
Man yall went off on this one. I haven't read an interesting thread in a long time.
I hope Chad is happy. That is all that is important.
I guess the chicken head who is pg with his 5th child will be at home crying her self to sleep tonight. Aint that right Jamie from the Nati.
Never unlock the goods until u have the papers from the court
Bitch PLEASE...miamilifestyles No one is hating on Chad...The Truth is just Hard to swallow at times. If this Bitch is such a nice girl she would be more receptive of her role in his childrens life she was not with him at his daughter's pagent here in Miami nor have I even seen her with his children. She just wants to hang on the arm of Chad Johnson/Ocho Cinco, however along with Chad come his children. He doesn't want that Bitch he's just selling her a DREAM trying to make sure he has a back-up plan in case he doesn't hit the field during the 08-09 season.
This nice chick left her fiance of 5 years to kick it with CJ....and Chad is stringing along his pregnant Fiancee' in hopes of a payday from the rich nictey bitch. Karma is going to pay a visit soon to Sharkey Lane.
And regarding the slick ass comment about comparing this Bitch to Chad's 3.5 Baby Momma's there is NO comparison at least all 3.5 of them are in the image of HIS Mother, Aunt's and Grandmother WHO in the family does the nice girl resemble? Chad STILL has women in Miami, Los Angeles, Atlanta, Cincinnati, Akron, Pittsburgh and Houston.
Now if u want a laugh, i would like mediatakeout to post a picture of Chad's 30 year old GROWN ASS sucking his THUMB....Now that [EXPLETIVE] right there is COMEDY! How does the nice girl feel knowing He still sucks his thumb and has oral sex with chicks you think are not comprable to her???? ROTFLMBAO!
Compare That...Chad is a ZERO! This Bitch ain't [EXPLETIVE] and neither is HE!
Staypoppin,
Then you better get your eyes checked. Because I have been with numerous white men and italian. I have never dated a black man and never plan to. And white men pay me attention all the time. Don't get mad at us because we are moving on from black men.
And 2nd of all I dont' care what any black man thinks because I value none of you guys opinion. You can't do anything for me. So don't address me again.
LOL!!
Mad? PLEASE!! Who hasn't dated outside of their race these days. I didn't see any black men bragging on dating white like it's some kind of big deal! If it's one thing I know from hanging out with white guys, and that is they run fast from women with bad attitudes like yours. So I know you're lying!! Or you were just a jump off.
We don't look at dating white, Latinas etc. like it's a step up or anything. SHE'S JUST ANOTHER WOMAN TO US, AND THEY USUALLY ADAPT TO OUR CULTURE meaning we still act black, we don't have to switch up our style and start acting white!
Your emotional scars run deep! I hope you get help sista, my friend is a psycologist if you need her info let me know!!
And I guess it is safe to assume that White women aren't looking for love with you dummies? The double standardness on here is hilarious...Coming from Black men speaking about what or who White men are interested in...And then to accuse the ones who are with Black women of having fetishes...Hmmm Me thinks the same could be said about Black men or White women.
FYI, there are quite a few of Black women who are MARRIED to White men in Hollywood and outside of Hollywood...That silly ego that many Black men have are the reason why we have lost many of our Black men to the streets and prisons.
Thank goodness I have a great successful Black man who isn't silly, immature, and one-sided as some of you seem to be on here. It's ashame that you come from Black women but have no respect for them, and then to try and insinuate that no other race of men could possibly be genuinely attractive to them.
And btw, I could easily say the reason that alot of White women give you the time of day because they can easily get from you that White men aren't willing to give them...lol In other words, you're getting what they don't even want...Enjoy.
IluvWhiteMen you are still a fraud and a fake and by your comments an ignorant individual. What White man other than one of low stature would want to be with the likes of you. You have no class and I seriously doubt that you are a black woman because I refuse to believe any black woman would be as stupid as you come across. I see that I struck a nerve because you immediately went to the put down with the monkey statement but my skin is quite thick. The last time I checked I was a man so I would never allow such low class hood comments to bother me. If you new better you would do better but the fact is you are what you are. It is obvious that you can't handle the heat or critique of your ridiculous commentary so you resort to what you know best and that's verbal aggression. And about the picture that you have posted that's not you says a lot about how warped and misguided you really are. "To thine ownself be true" and it's quite clear that you don't know how to do this. If you were genuine you would post your own picture but you won't because you and I know that you are not the eye candy that White Men love to be with. If you are with White men it's just for the sex and their pleasure. How many have taken you home to meet the family?
Amazing how this SAME topic shows its ugly face whenever someone is with another ethnicity.
FACT: None of us have control over who someone chooses to date/marry, nor do we have ANY right to judge. If they are together for the wrong reasons, it will not last...if they are in love, then let them live.
Yoadmirer
I'm with you on this, see, I never said that we don't have some black men that screw it up for the rest of us like these thug types etc.
I see you are mature enough to recognize that there are problems on both sides with the men and women. If you've noticed in my previous post I said not all black women are mean, the sweet but strong ones like you don't have a problem with men of either race I'm sure.
You do rep for the chocolate sistas very well in your pic too!
ThickNikkiLove
My dear I would Not be calling this girl a skeleton face if I was you. You have your picture as your avatar. You on the other hand have a long, very very long chin and pug eyes. I am a photographer and can tell what good, strong bone structure is. She is on the skinny side for my taste but she is far from ugly. This picture was taken 2 days ago at the SPIKE AWARDS in L.A and I took pictures of MEGAN G, CHAD J, MEL B and this picture is not the best of the couple.
To Mrs. Ocho Cinco if you read this, keep your chin up, you must be doing something right to get 200 hits in one day.
damn this is 2008 not 1968. it sad how close minded and ignorant alot of people who havent been afforded the oppertunity to travel the world see other minorities. He aint with a white chick and even if he was so what? Be he happend upon a very classy woman of statue who is ALSO minority. mother [EXPLETIVE] should be applauding 2 peeps like that doin their thing. I also know her well enough to say check your faces, she is a very nice classy woman. and dont pull that look like his grandmama [EXPLETIVE]. i hope no is tryin to bang someone who looks like their grandma lol.
Go head on BROTHA...these black women on here so fulla hate that it's sickens me. I don't blame black men at all for dating "other" women. Hell are a tell of two extremes...those that aint got [EXPLETIVE] tryin to get with the brothers who got it goin on even if it's the dope man, and the few sisters who got it goin on.....got in goin on so much that you can't even say hello to their stuck on themselves ass. I say [EXPLETIVE] um! Get yourselves a women who is ALL THE WAY DOWN with you as a man... and not for what you have... and be happy fellaz!!!!
TO ALL THE HATERS !!!!!
YOU HATER @SS BLACK BYTCHES MAKE ME SICK AS HELL !!!!!
NO WONDER NONE OF THESE SUCCESFUL NYGGAS WANNA DATE YO @SSES !
IT DON'T MAKE HIM NO SELLOUT CUZ HE CHOSE TO MARRY A WOMAN OF ANOTHER RACE ???
THIS MAN CAN LOVE AND MARRY WHO THE F@%$K HE WANTS !
AIN'T NO GAWD'AM LAW THAT STATES THAT US SUCCESSFUL BROTHAS GOTTA MARRY YOU BLACK @SSES !!!!
STOP TALKIN SIDEWAYS ABOUT THIS MAN, STOP SIPPIN YOUR HATERADE, AND STEP YO GAME UP BYTCHES !!!!
THAT'S RIGHT ! I SAID THE TRUTH !
THESE WHITE/OTHER RACES OF CHICS ARE RUNNIN CIRCLES AROUND YOUR NAPPY-HEADED @SSES !
DO SUMTHIM BYTCHES ??? INSTEAD OF COMPLAININ BOUT THIS SHYTE, OR IT WILL GET WORSE !!!
REAL TALK !
People don't fall in love with colors, they fall in love with people. Skin is an organ. That's all it is, it does not define you as a person. We are all Africans from the same tribe separated by just 2000 generations and due to changes caused by environmental causes, no longer recognized each other. Splitting up as one family and going our separate ways is the only way we survived as a species. If a species can breed together, then it is the same species. Stop practicing the racism that you have learned and allow people who see it for the nonsense that it is, help finally bring us back together. It is inevitable. We are one race! Human. If you want to see what all people once looked like, 2000 generations ago, look up the Khalahari Bushmen of Afica. Scientists have discovered through dna testing that they are the oldest descendants of the original people. They look like a whole separate race of people.
s[SPAM]hhhhhh$$$$$T! I know this girl! She went to Howard with me! she is NOT Indian she is either Etheopian or Aretrian. She looks miserable in the picture and atleast 20 pounds thinner. I read all the comments and its sad to read such ignorant remarks. I have not seen her in 5 years and I wonder if she knows her picture is on here, but she does look different than what she did in college.
The comments about her race are not true she is not Indian and not Trinidadian, her being broke is kind of personal and I don't think she needs to be rich to be with any man, but from what I recall she was never engaged to anybody for 5 years. These comments are crazy and don't make sense. I am amazed at how people can just sit behind a computer and say things regardless if they are true or fabricated. All I know is that from the picture she looks unhappy, thin and not like herself. Maybe this guy is making her miserable with all his Baby Mama drama. I read the comment about how she should baby sit his kids! LOL just because the man has kids does not mean she has to be their mother, these kids have mothers she is just a fiance/girlfriend. Some people are not cut out for the lime light.
Go head on BROTHA...these black women on here so fulla hate that it's sickens me. I don't blame black men at all for dating "other" women. Hell are a tell of two extremes...those that aint got [EXPLETIVE] tryin to get with the brothers who got it goin on even if it's the dope man, and the few sisters who got it goin on.....got in goin on so much that you can't even say hello to their stuck on themselves ass. I say [EXPLETIVE] um! Get yourselves a women who is ALL THE WAY DOWN with you as a man... and not for what you have... and be happy fellaz!!!!
