: MediaTakeOut.com just caught wind that actor Will Smith told the UK magazine NOW that it is O.K. to have sex with someone other than your spouse - as long as your spouse is aware of it. Here's how the paper is reporting it:
Will Smith reckons it’s healthy to fancy other people when you're married and has no qualms telling his wife when he does.The actor – who tied the knot with Jada Pinkett Smith 11 years ago – is determined to be honest about how he feels. ‘Our perspective is, you don’t avoid what’s natural and you’re going to be attracted to people,’ Will explains.
‘So sometimes we have the discussion: “Wow, this or that girl is freaking gorgeous”. I’m not going to say anything to my buddies that’s any different than what I say to my wife.’
And Will, 39, reckons he'll tell Jada - and she'll tell him - if they ever feel the need to have sex with others. Each will say: 'I’m not going to do it if you don’t approve of it,’ he says.
I knew something was kind of fishy with their marriage. Will was up on his co star, and Jada showed up the next day. It almost seems like she is his beard. His son doesnt look to happy in the movie premiere pictures, he must know something is going on, but the daugther is still too young to firgure out what is going on with her parents. It shows in their pictures.
JADA IS A VERY UNDERSTANDING WOMAN BUT SHE HAS HER THING GOING ON THE SIDE WITH THE LADIES SO I GUESS THAT'S WHY SHE LETS HIM HAVE HIS PLAY..I'VE SEEN PICS OF JADA KISSING SOME CHICK...SO HE LETS HER DO HER THING AND SHE LETS HIM DO HERS...ME I'M A LITTLE SELFISH I WOULD WANT MY WAY BUT I SURE AS HELL WOULDN'T WANT HIM GETTING HIS WAY..LOL
THAT IS A HEALTHY MARRIAGE!!! HEY are working on keeping spice in their relationship! How can ANYONE say it WON'T work and they been DOWN for more than 11yrs!!! That is simply because THEY keep it real and are happy!
YOU CATS LIE- knowing HALF of you go and contract something behind your significant others BACK- THAT'S what you call UNHEALTHY!!!
LIARS are unhealthy- FUKKIN BYTCHES with the 1 yyou LOVE tghe MOST-EST!!!
PRICELESSSSS
This is old news. They have been like this since they got married. What is the point of getting married and staying married if you allow your spouse to cheat. That is adultrey and just nasty. They will end up with some kind of disease or divorced because somebody is going to do it better than what's at home- then what?
No man of ANY race, creed or color is "OK" (in his heart of hearts) with other men having sex with his wife. At the same time, no woman of ANY race, creed or color is "OK" (in her heart of hearts) with her husband thinking it is OK for other men to have her. This does not have anything to do with religion or race. It is how we are innately made and our feelings of value and self-worth. Women expect a modicum of emotional security when in a married relationship and men exude a modicum of propriatary pride. Women want to feel loved, valued and that the man they are involved with gets all of his sexual gratification from her. Anything else is a self-delusional lie.
*sighs* why do people get married? If you are gonna be a hoe just be one without lying before God that will be faithful...when you know that is not your intentions. I have NEVER seen a marriage like this that lasts, eventually [EXPLETIVE] gets old. I was friends with a girl who allowed her husband to do the same thing and sleep with other women, threesomes, etc. and to this day they are having problems, she decided she didn't want to "get down" like that anymore and of course he wasn't ready to hang up the lifestyle.....you see where I'm going with this? WAKE THE [EXPLETIVE] UP PEOPLE!!! IF YOU WISH TO HAVE MULTIPLE PARTNTERS THEN DON'T GET MARRIED, END OF STORY.
I love Will & Jada because they don't let society and what they were tought growing up define their Relationship. Love is different for everyone and I respect that. News flash people, everything you were tought about manogomy and relationships doesn't mean it's right. It's human nature to be attracted to others, a wedding ring doesn't stop the eyes from looking. Do what works for you.
I get so tired of people saying.." did he do Charleze Theron, cause they definitely had on screen chemistry "..It is called acting people damn. You can not go by how they acted in THE MOVIES to determine whether or not they did it. Besides, Will and Jada's marriage is not built on anything solid anyways. Tupac had to convince her not to come out as a Lesbo. That is real information.
I'M NOT SURE IF I BELIEVE THIS ONE STILL EVEN THO PEOPLE'S BEEN SAYN THIS STUFF ABOUT THEM FOR YEARS I JUS CAN'T BELIEVE IT AT LEAST NOT YET. I MEAN WHAT'S THE POINT OF TAKING VOWS B4 GOD WEN YOU KNO YOUR JUS GONNA DO WHAT U WANT? WHY GET MARRIED? JUS DATE, LIVE 2GETHER, HAVE KIDS, AN DO U GUILT FREE WITH NO CONTRACTS INVOLVED. I MEAN WHAT'S THE POINT? I USED TO LOOK UP TO THEM AS A NICE BLACK HOLLYWOOD COUPLE NOT WITH A PERFECT MARRAIGE BUT A GOOD EXAMPLE OF A STRONG MARRAIGE. BUT NOT ANYMORE IF THIS SWINGER STUFF IS REALLY TRUE.
I DIDN'T GET ALL THAT FROM THE ARTICLE...HE SPOKE ABOUT FINDING SOMEONE ATTTRACTIVE....NOT PHUCKIGN THEM
SECONDLY: IF THEY DO HAVE AN PEN RELATIONSHIP AS WE ASSUME..THAT EXPLAINS WHY THEY ARE STILL TOGETHER.............THEY HAVE THE LUXURY OF PHUCKING WHO THEY LIKE AND COMING BACK HOME TO THEIR SPOUSE......IN TRADITIONAL RELATIONSHIPS THIS WOULD BE CALLED CHEATING...LOL
@ kimkelmor...I agree
@ spam322...you're right, love and the way someone shows it is different for everyone, and apparently MARRIAGE is too! They're not f'n boyfriend and girlfriend. They stood in front of loved ones and God, to bond and form a committment with one another!
This is so damn bad! I be damned if I was ok with my husband, or even myself to go out and sleep with another person. Diseases, pregnancy, emotions, OH MY!!!
You'd probally be surprised at how many relationships operate on this level. Its all about your values and what you want. After that, its about what the both of you can agree on. These are natrual human feelings. The diference is, some will be deceitful about what they feel and others will keep it real, and express it. There are also, those who are so into who they are feeling, they will not allow themselves to be put in a situation to be attracted to another person. Its possible, thats called (being disciplined, to a comitted and loving relationship). But at the end of the day; its about you and your significant others belief in what constitutes your relationship. In Africa, some men have about five to 10 wives. That's a reflection of their culture in Africa. In America it is encouraged to have that one and only love, but there is a whole lot of cheating going on between male and female. We see it on talk shows, movies, hear it in music and on the radios and are fully entertained by it constantly. Frankly those of us you know who you are even know about friends and family members whose cheating on each other. This is a lifestyle. I personally don't condone it. But it is a reality. The key is to be honost about what you want and not deceive the someone who may not be into having multiple sex partners. Rich folks can usually pull off(The will Smith Jada thing), but ordinary people from the hood and other places I don't think so!! Some of us still value dealing with one person at a time; until we've found that suitable match, that one we spend our lives with, for more than just sex alone...
This post does suggest a potential unusal practice. "And Will, 39, reckons he'll tell Jada - and she'll tell him - if they ever feel the need to have sex with others. Each will say: 'I�m not going to do it if you don�t approve of it,� he says."
The question is, how manytimes has this already happened? I doubt this is the first time its been a discussion or maybe an experience for will and jada. Its not just about being atracted to another person, its also the prospect of entertaining that potential attraction with sex. The article is very clear...
I'm sorry, did he ever say in the article that he does have sex with women outside his marriage? I don't think so. He just said he thought it was okay...if the spouse was okay with it. He never said he did it, nor did he say it was okay by him for his spouse to go get some. He also never said Jada's given him the okay to go out catting. Plus, this magazine is no better than the National Enquirer, Star Magazine, or even US and OK magazines. Who knows if this article is even accurate?
I TRULY BELIEVE THE REASON WHY ANYONE HAS AN OPEN MARRAIGE OR RELATIONSHIP IS BECAUSE OF INSECURITES ONE OF THEM FEELS. AND FEELIN LIKE THEY CAN'T FUFIL THEIR SEXUAL DUTIES AS A HUSBAND OR WIFE. IT'S A LOT EASIER TO GO OUTSIDE OF THE MARRIAGE THAN WORK ON BEIN MONOGAMOUS TO EACHOTHER. I THINK IT'S JUS A COP OUT AND LONG TERM IT WON'T BE THAT EASY BECAUSE LIKE SOME OF U OTHERS HAVE SAID WHAT HAPPENS WHEN THE OTHER PERSON GETS TOO CONNECTED WITH ANOTHER FROM OUTSIDE OF THE MARRIAGE?
it sounds good will jus dont know about that though but i heard they were swingers i guess thy are coming out now ...if they like it love it !
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The thing about sex is that everyone wants to pretend like it's unnatural and something that you supposed to keep private.
The fact is we all have sex. We all have urges and look at other people like they somethin to eat when we're in a relationship. But we all keep it secret like it's wrong to find other people attractive.
What he's sayin is why fight it? It's natural and something that's gonna happen. But because you have committed to another person, you have to ask before you can give into those base, carnal desires.
When you have a deeper connection, you realize that sex is not the end all, mean all in your relationship. And if sex is what's tying ya'll together, you got bigger fish to fry.
And Will and Jada have been swinging for at least 7 years that I've heard about. They never gonna split cause they have a deeper understanding.
You only hate cause you wish you had that with your significant other. . . .
SICK. Like ANIMALS.
You are so not kissing me when your mouth been on somebody else's crotch. Nope nope nope. EVERYTHING is NOT okay -- there has to be some rules.
And I was just listening to Wendy Williams yesterday with Charlamagne saying it's okay as long as your significant other DOESN'T know...which is it?
People find a way to justify anything.
WEIRDOS. THEY ARE NOT CONVINCING. ONE DAY THEY WILL BOTH WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE WHO WILL FORSAKE ALL OTHERS FOR THEM. MARRIAGE HAS NEVER BEEN ABOUT LOSING ATTRACTION FOR OTHER PEOPLE. IT HAS BEEN ABOUT COMMITTMENT AND FAITHFULNESS TO THE ONE YOUR WITH. INVITING OTHER PEOPLE INTO THAT BOND BREAKS IT. THEY CAN FRONT ALL THEY WANT. SOMEBODY'S GONNA BE HURT. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN HE OR SHE WANTS TO REPEATEDLY HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE? DO THEY INFORM EACH OTHER EVERY TIME THEY ARE GOING TO DO IT? BONKERS THE BOTH OF THEM.
First of all...this is old news. Back in the day when they first got married he acknowledged that they purposely left off 'foresaking all others' in their vows & that they have discussed when one or the other decides to venture out but both have to agree, sometimes Jada even picks the women. It was also said that during Wild Wild West, she almost left him for sleeping with Selma Hayek...guess she didn't approve that one. It's crazy but, that's Hollywood !
I agree with Drea2660. Drea speaks the truth. Over 11 years of marriage and they're still together, still raising their children together and his son by his first wife together. They're doing something right.
Meanwhile, on the left, if you want a real fake marriage look at Denzel and Pauletta. At least Will and Jada keep it real, instead of pretending they're monogamous while Denzel screws everyone with a [EXPLETIVE] and Pauletta doesn't care as long as the money comes in.
Drea is also correct about what real unhealthy relationships are about.
Honestly, I feel that everyone is taking this out of context. He didn't say that he has sex with other people, he's just talking about the relationship he has with his wife is one that is just like one he would have with his homies. He will tell her when some other woman looks good and if he ever felt like he wanted to have sex with some other woman, he'd tell her. I don't see where he said if I wanna have sex with someone else, I let Jada know and if she's cool with it then I go have sex with them. To me, he's saying they do just like everyone else. He will look at a co star or another person and say she's fine, I'd bang her in a heartbeat. The harm in that is? Its so funny to me, people know nothing about this couple and claim to know everything. You want so bad for them to be swingers you'll believe anything. I could care less if they are, I'm not concerned with it. I just think everyone is taking that statement too far, feeding too much into it and taking it outta context. JMO
@Danae why would you spread that fith about brotha denzell!! it's absolutely wreckless to spew out venomous rumors with no merit to them.. have you saw denzell cheating or you just heard it from these same wicked scribes(media) who more than likely grafted the story above!! I've said before we have become like the hog..we wallow in filth!!
This has been going on for years. Early in their marriage, they were on TV telling people how they get down. It's no new thing. And if you take the same interviews back than to compare them to this, that mag is lying. Cause years ago, they said it was only limited to mental fantasies. The sex thing itself may have been a little twisted just to sell issues.
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it just further validates that there marriage is a sham and that will smith is gay and so is jada,you just dont get married and thenconduct yourself like that they took vows,they obviously dont love eachother like a husband loves his wife they are just friends who [EXPLETIVE]..and [EXPLETIVE] everyone else.they nasty.
This is sooooo old MTO... So what they swing. It's not like they are the only ones, the first or the last to be doing it. Geez... Nowadays even ya mama and ya papa might be or back in the day mighta been swinging. They just don't talk about it at the dinner table. Hello? Don't knock it unless you've tried it, and even if it didn't work for you, it doesn't mean it doesn't work for the next person/s.
I know that we have been hearing this for a while now but I personally didnt want to believe it. There is always something going on in hollywood.. Its not that easy for me to accept that. Its not right and why get married if you are going to committ adultry. At least fornicate in your own sin! not that I condone that either but that is the reason why Jada looks so sad in some of those pictures to imagine the stuff she has to put up with.. I know she is doing it too.. but she may be doing it to keep her sanity b/c she has to deal w/ it anyway from her husband... who knows anymore???
SMDH. Heard this before but now I'm starting to believe it might be true! I never figured Will 2 be the "gay" type, but I can definitely see him chasing skirts on the outside...
This saddens me! I used 2 have soooo much respect for them but now looks like the ONLY reason they got married in the 1st place is when jada got pregnant with their 1st child.
A lot of folks say just let them do their thang but sh*t don't seem healthy! SMDH again!
a vow is a promise. i cannot stand before a priest/preacher (GOD's rep) in GOD's eyes making falsehoods that i know i won't honor. so many people want to re-define marriage to fit what makes them comfortable instead of doing what is right. will, jhada, the swingers and the rest of the adulterers will answer for this in the end.
well...this is OLD news. REALLY old. will got on the radio here in atlanta like 3 years ago and said the same thing. he even mentioned that they indulge in the occasional threesome. this lady even called in and offered to 'be with them' and he agreed to see wassup! LOL
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I think that's crazy, and asking for trouble. All they're doing is opening up pandora's box, and there will be tears shed later. If it works for them, great....but I don't see it working in the long run. When you love someone, and they have your heart that kind of thing will never really work out. I pray the best for them!
DANG, MTO!!!!
How gullible can one be?
It's interesting that everything else Will says in that article is in quotes, but the--I have sex with other women and my wife knows about it--is not.
People don't be naive.
Nevertheless, him saying that he and his wife are attracted to other people is nothing new. Like, another person said, they been talked about that way back in the day.
I remember an interview that Will did, Jada was sitting right next to the dude, he said that his attraction to women change all the time, he was like, I used to be attracted to Salma Hayek, but now I'm attracted to Beyonce'.
I mean, they both said that being attracted to other people is understandable because they are just married not dead.
And just because you think another person is attractive doesn't mean that the panty draws are automatically going to drop, when you see that person.
But, even if it did, that's Will and Jada's relationship---so, if it works for them, then, it just does.
HOLLYWOOD=
QUEERS+ DYKES+ SWINGERS+ CHIC RELIGION (Kabbala and Scientology).
This is nothing new. Will screws MEN (DUANE MARTIN)and WHITE WOMEN, while JADA (who was turned out by JASMINE GUY years ago) prefers YOUNG DUDES and WOMEN (above all).
ANGELA BASSETT, TISCHINA ARNOLD, 50, LATIFAH, MC LYTE, JOHNNY GILL, EDDIE, JAMIE FOXX, ETC ETC ETC GAY GAY GAY... all participate in "THE LIFE". Thats what MOST of BLACK HOLLYWOOD calls their clandestine activities while off camera. WILLS friendship with TOM CRUISE is not an happenstance. Its that sh**. 'The Life'.
They are queers and part of the same 'Lifestyle'.
Wake up and smell the piss. These people are on some other sh**. They are not "just like you". They had to trade their gender in for work. Thats how they Producers and Execs in that business create leverage. They take the most taboo possession in Amerika, which is your SEXUALITY and hold it over your head!
Sorry, but that is the ABSOLUTE TRUTH!
He didnt say he was having sex with other people. He's just saying that when you're with someone for a while, its O.K. to express your attraction to someone else to your partner. Especially if that person is untouchable like a celebrity.
I've been in that type of relationship before.
Now, if your constantly espressing your attraction to a co-worker, then we have a problem.
"I’m not going to do it if you don’t approve of it"
To me that sounds like an inside joke between him and his wife. I could be wrong. If they do swing thats their business, but I'm not going to jump to conclusions.
What they do is what THEY do. Dont get angry or act shocked. I pity these folks and dont envy them for anything. I like my manhood intact and when you surrender what you are for money, you are a weak pathetic bastard. Its the business. CONTROL.
Get the movie RKO 281 and see how Orsen Wells was making CITIEN KANE and how the Senator the movie was based on sent photos of ALL the executives at MGM, WARNER BROS., RKO and other major studios HAVING SEX WITH YOUNG BOYS AND FROLICKING WITH SHIRTLESS NAKED TEEN BOYS in their homes and romantic 'getaways'. This is HOLLYWOOD. An evil cabal of money, sex, drugs and CONTROL.
Get or rent that flick RKO 281...trust me. Great movie.
Peace.
I THINK IF YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE, THAT PERSON SHOULD BE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PERSON IN THE WORLD TO YOU. WHEN YOUR EYES START WONDERING, THEN SO DOES YOUR MIND, AND POSSIBLY YOUR BODY. I PERSONALLY THINK THAT IT IS DISRESPECTFUL TO BE ALL YOU IN ANOTHER WOMAN'S GRILL, WHILE YOU ARE WITH YOUR WIFE.
So I guess he and Charlize were gettin busy is what he is trying to say.
I understand the need, but this is absolutely digusting. With all the STDs out there, why would you put yourself at risk like that. I guess good ol HIV is worth dying for. Better Will and Jada than me. Is this Scientology at work?
This is when you have problems in the marriage because when either is getting it elsewhere why come home. Do we think Will has all that stamina to be out and about and then come home and give all that love and attention to Jada. He does it cause he is the bread winner and she puts up with it cause she has no bread, except Will's.
This is not the first time I've heard of Will and Jada's open relationship. I think its very mature on both their ends to be in tune with human needs and desires. Its only natural to be attracted to the opposite sex, that doesn't necessary go away, when you get married and you're not only attracted to the one you're married, too. I think if they have a mutual understanding and both are comfortable about that then I'm sure they're at peace with each other and have very tranquil relationship, therefore being one most successful powerful celebrate couple.
i don't see a problem, h3ll I know women and men who stay in relationships after they find out the other has not only cheated but had a baby. And they still there hold'n on. so why not put it up front, if you cool wit it so am I. And you don't have to be sneaking around and geeting caught or worse a kid.
I understand the 'idea' of the open honesty and not hiding when you find someone attractive...but having extramarital sex is disgusting and tri-fling...
I guess those swinger rumors are true. If nothing else at least Jada gets to do it too and she is just not allowing him to go out and bang every whore around town while she plays dutiful wife...but again...there is just someting nasty about sleeping with someone at the same time as someone else.
DaQueen...I know you werent that naive? People have known this for years but this is the 1st time Will has said it publically. They say every woman has 5 men she deals with...
1.Sensitive Man(listens and consoles her) 2.Money Man(doles out green backs) 3.Maintenance Man(bangs it out w/ 9+) 4.Gay Friend(shopping and tells all) 5.Mr. Mom(watches the kids w/o a problem)
Guess which one I am
SystemVII-- hmm...the maintenance man?
Anyways, I would just want to be rich, single and travel the world--have one guy in Italy, one in Africa, one in Japan, one in the U.S. and another one in Brazil. It's a woman's fantasy. That would be like a piece of heaven. But they are probably people in the world, even tho they have "everything".
What u do is fine, it's just nice to see a black couple who has the utmost of loyalty, like rubby dee and ossie davis. unreal how some of these celebs even feel comfortable 'putting their biz out there' but they better say something b4 someone else does.
Honesty is the best policy and the key to any successful relationship is good communication. That's why being upfront and honest from the very begining eliminates a lot of the useless drama later on. It's not for me but to each his own and no relationship is exactly the same. Also it crazy to think that themajority of men are going to be with one (the same)woman for the rest of his life. Most men cheat always have, and they always will but if he is honest with the woman about who he is then she has the option to make a decision as to whether or not it's ffor her. If they are both happy with the arrangement then who's business is it anyway? Damn!!!! Cake and Ice Cream.....
It's their marriage and their business....
It may not work for everyone....It may not work for most people....But if they are honest with each other about it and it works for them, who is anyone else to judge...
And its more common than a lot of people think...I mean when I read that Ossie Davis and Ruby Dee had the open situation THAT floored me....Will and Jada...well I already heard about that long ago. It is what it is.
Yea there relationship sounds wierd to "normal" couples but I know a few couples who are into the same lifestyle and it works wonderful for them. Its like they have a stronger bond than "normal" couples...u have to in order to allow some one else to have intercourse with your significant other. I can't get into it myself because I refuse to let another dude fu*k my girl, it's not even about being insecure, it's just the "principalities" of the sh*t, lmao! I'm not going to lie though, it has to b nice to be able to have sex with other women and it's ok!!!...WOW!!! Don't u know how couples have "movie nite", they probably have "switch your lover" or "orgy nite"! Lmao!
I have followed Wil's career since Fresh Prince. He's a fine, upstanding young man who speaks very articulately. Years ago he knew what he wanted out of life. His rap was clean and I loved it. He has much to offer children.
If swinging works for him and his wife, that is between two consenting adults. He's not in the tabs doing drugs, hookers, gambling like crazy, none of that.
I'm not into swinging myself but I look at it like at least the other partner knows. It's not like a Michael Jordan, A-Rod situation where there are hookers, girlfriends galore entering the marriage behind the wife's back. Too much pain comes with that.
I just dont get why get married. When you truly love someone, you DONT want to share yourself with anyone else and you DONT want your partner to share themselves with anyone else.
To me it sounds more like an arrangement than a marriage. Like two realy close best friends of the opposite sex who made a pact to keep each other company forever, and not a commitment to each other. Kind of like some Gays and their Beards have.
I mean personally I dont get it, but if Jada doent have a problem with it then I'm not gonna get mad about it!
I just dont get why get married. Stay commonlaw marriage. To me marriage takes on a bigger meaning with more responsibility and exclusivity.
WHOA! I kinda felt like w/ that whole scientology thing he could'nt disappoint me further, AGAIN I'm proven wrong. This is just 1 example of what happens when God isn't present in your life. It becomes the devil's playground. Those who are moraled can take solice in the fact that one of these ole days, we all have to stand before judgement. God is not a respector of persons or position. So it want matter who he is at that point.
Outside of that, Hancock was EXCELLENT.
I think it is a SLAVE CUSTOM to view marriage as a monogamous commitment not as a spiritual connection... IF TWO ARE SPIRITUALLY CONNECTED, the notion of committment would not be so prevalent... b/c in a spiritual bond you are eternally connected...
so what if they swing! THAT'S THEIR M.O. SHOULDN'T be ANYONE ELSE'S CONCERN.... And those who pass judgments on whether it's right or wrong shouldn't be b/c if you look into the history of civilization, Monogamy is unnatural. And Marriage was created to facilitate consumerism.
I think it is a SLAVE CUSTOM to view marriage as a monogamous commitment not as a spiritual connection... IF TWO ARE SPIRITUALLY CONNECTED, the notion of committment would not be so prevalent... b/c in a spiritual bond you are eternally connected...
so what if they swing! THAT'S THEIR M.O. SHOULDN'T be ANYONE ELSE'S CONCERN.... And those who pass judgments on whether it's right or wrong shouldn't be b/c if you look into the history of civilization, Monogamy is unnatural. And Marriage was created to facilitate consumerism.
WOW!!!!
While I certainly agree that honesty is an essential element to a marriage/relationship. To share desires is one thing, to act on those desires is another. While MY HUSBAND and I are a year shy of Will and Jada, I will admit that a relationship takes work. I agree one should knowledge themselves by picking up a book and reading, theres a great one that I would suggest, It's called THE BIBLE. As I understand it, it has been on the best sellers list for quite some time. Do/say what you may. God's ways are not our ways. Man is the ONLY thing that want do what God says. Birds fly, fish swim, trees sway. But man? God gives us a choice it's in the word I put before you a choice, life or death (eternal that is) me, I chose life. The world be a liar and God be the truth. These are undisputable. The things that man excuse are unbelievable. Women, while I am in agreement Will is not in this alone, are NOT leaders they follow suite, and when they lead, we must remember that they (we) were made in the image of deception. How beautiful was the Garden of Eden until Eve's arrival. While I myself like everyone else am far from perfect, somethings are unthinkable. Now hadn't I said my vows which are not only a promise to my husband but also my God, heck I'd be cloked in sin as well. One gloroius day I hope that after judgement I hear "Well done my GOOD and FAITHFUL Servant". My thinking may not be En Vouge but, those are my boys pictured. I want to set an example through my actions that I hope they will follow. Call me crazee! 305 4 lyfe
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To each his own but some people cannot stomach knowing/seeing the person they love lusting over someone else or satisfying themselves sexually with another. Its hurtful to some.
If a person can deal with that fine but I know as for myself it is painful and devastating for me to know that about my man, that I am not enough and he has to look elswhere to be satisfied. Because I dont get down like that so I feel if I am giving loyalty and fidelity and discipline myself, BECAUSE i love and am courteous to who I love, I expect reciprocation. I have always been a one man woman and when Im truly in love with someone they are all I need and I dont feel the necessity to look any further. so if my mate feels the need to be with other women, I see it as me not being able to satisfy him completely.
And going outside the marriage opens the door to connecting and bonding with someone else.I have seen this happen. I know a couple where the husband steps out and the wife knows and accepts it until one day he slept with a woman that was supposed to be only sex and he ended up falling for the other woman. HE left his wife for the other woman. he said himself he didnt go out loking for anything but a fck but this woman ended up being more than he ever imagined and what he wanted.
I dont knock a person/couple who are willing and capable of accepting EACH OTHER'S lifestyle, as long as its agreed upon mutually, but it's not for everyone. I know I could never be able to deal with it. It would hurt me too much.
will, dude , QUIT telling people all this Bullshit !!! After a while ALL the folks will find out about the Fellas you lay your little ass down with !!! THAT'S FOR REAL, NIC-ER !
UNLESS THAT THRILLS YOUR "s" TOO !!!
OH YOU WANT ALL OF US TO DO THIS SHYT !! GOD WILL BURN ASSES TOO PEEPS..BELIEVE THAT FUCKASE !
I can only imagine what the nasty room in their house looks like. Whips chains and all kinds craziness that's why they dress in black so much comes natural. I've been with my husband for 10 years too and I'd kill'em dead if he gave up the goods to someone else. He came into his mega stardom after marriage so maybe he's doing this because he has access to women he never had before. Makes you say hhhmmm
Will is fly though.
Get yours Jada I woulda had Blair Underwood in Set it Off.
Last year I met a guy, who happens to be homosexual and his family used to be in the entertainment business big time, and he told me about the gay celebrities. He told me about Jada being bi-sexual. I was shocked because I had never heard that before, but I did have some thoughts about their relationships based upon what I had read in magazines and interviews given. I really don't care because it is their business, but it is as disappointing to hear as when I heard about Ruby Dee and her late husband sleeping around. I just looked up to them as strong black couples and now I know why. IF it is true.
What the big deal...? the majority of men in the other parts of the world particularly the Middle east, Africa and Asia have more than one mate. In the Middle east a man can have up to 4 wives, in Africa, as many women as he can afford. Even in Europe, the average male has a mistress on the side. So if Will and jada want a open relationship, I say go for it. 11 years of marriage to that weido, I don't blame Will if he wants some varity.
After reading about "The Life" sounds on point in like 10 years they will all be sitting around talking about how they caught "THE AIDS" I don't see Angela being gay though, I like her and CV also, if this is what WS believes in and works for him sounds like something he needs to keep in his house/ circle but certainly not giving interviews about it like it is all good. I like to see them dressed up on the carpet and doing their thing but for some reason anytime they start talking or the THS comes on I can't listen to them IMAGE IMAGE IMAGE all about image but if it is not true what good are you ? There has to be more to the Tom Cruise friendship thing they probably turned his strange ass out because he is the weirdest little man in Hollywood land waiting for spaceships and [EXPLETIVE] to return, think that something he says to keep people out of ship scope, he dont just f*ck with anybody i dont envy none of them. What has a man gained if his soul is lost?
I really like this couple and I guess this explains why it doesn't bother Jada when other women are all over her man, I just couldn't do it! I'm to controlling to be letting another woman all over my man, but again, I do get tired of one man after a couple of years! Hmmmm, well I guess the truth is better said then found out, so whatever Will and Jada do, is between them and the who!!!
If all these people mentoned above do have open relationships believe it is the mans idea. Take me as a hoe or leave me alone because what woman in the world wants to share her d*ck? Thats humiliating. The only reason to go along for that ride is lack of self love Jada may play the little hard rock that's her role " I run [EXPLETIVE]" but Will runs that she know w/o him she would be another (name any black actress from the 90's) I cant even think of a name that's how much we see them these days. It might be ok because he not working with much and loves some dick only gets with women to compensate. This is not of God the devil is a liar, nothing appealing about it if they are both doing men and women somebody is bound to catch something seems like they dont care they got that Magic J money to get rid of it, its nasty and nothing to glorify, thats what they do but WS should STFU with it before he begin to lose his fan base he should ask tom since he wants to be him.
I've NEVER really understood their crazy ass relationship.
....and people say "Oh what a beautiful couple. Who I admire"
Hell, I don't! I feel like what's the point of getting married, if you feel the need to cheat? They didn't have to get married for that shyt.
They're both freaky and crazy!
See, that's why I DON'T EVER EVER EVER WANNA GET MARRIED!
Do you really think we were put on this earth to be with one person if so why do people do the things that they do.Eve should have never ate that apple the world would be a better place.Also after so many years being with someone people get bored in there marriage and they want to add some spice to it.Its nothin wrong as long as you guys have a understanding because eventually the man is going to want some new [EXPLETIVE] anyway...
MY COUSIN TOLD ME A FEW YEARS AGO THAT WILL AND JADA WERE SWINGERS. SHE HEARD IT FROM A PRETTY RELIABLE SOURCE OUT THERE IN HOLLYWOOD. THE FACT THAT IT'S BECOMING MORE PUBLICLY KNOWN ISN'T TOO MUCH OF A SURPRISE BECAUSE YOU CAN'T KEEP SOMETHING LIKE THAT UNDER WRAPS FOR TOO LONG.
ANYWAY IT MADE SO MUCH SENSE WHY THEY SEEM HAPPIER TOGETHER THAN A LOT OF OTHER HOLLYWOOD COUPLES. GOOD LUCK TO THEM IN THEIR MARRIAGE. DON'T WANT TO JUDGE THEM ON IT. I HOPE THEY TRUELY ARE HAPPY. AND I PRAY THEIR CHILDREN DON'T BECOME EMBARRASSED BY THIS, IT IS UNFAIR TO THEM BEING THAT KIDS CAN BE SO CRUEL THESE DAYS WITH THEIR TEASING AND ALL.
SOOOOOOOO nicely matched! a gorgeous woman and a romantic man —–a wonderful couple!I know the man as such a cool guy,does he still hook up
with those tall beauties on the tall dating site I n t e r r a c i a l L o v i n g .com ???The last time I saw his profile is last
monday, hope he does not leave.
I don't see an issue with this. They are grown and can do what they want. I bet the ppl who have an issue with this are the same ppl who lie, cheat, and er thing else under the sun! Such hipocrytes! I'm pround of will and jada for their openess, honesty, understanding, and all that. I hope to share that with someone some day.
