: Last week, most mainstream news sources were all abuzz with pundits questioning why Julia Hudson would leave the message, "Now that Jason's gone, I'm the prettiest one" on her Myspace page (See above).
Well one of MediaTakeOut.com's faithful sent us the official Jason Hudson funeral program - and it explains that Julia and Jason had a running joke going on about who was the "prettiest" in the family.
After seeing that it puts the comment in a whole other perspective ....
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there is no explaining... This Julia character is over the border line retardation limits. There is no stopping someone with the intent to prove she is more than there is! Her Mother, Brother, and Son are gone, and she still steps to the alter with New smiling pictures of her new Man? Posing as if it's a prom date? all this and extra on the Eve of the Funeral! Now let's see it for what it is worth. She has other Family Members, but the real money maker is Jennifer! Jennifer is the baby who had the burden of identifying and making sure that the funeral for her Family was in order. She ensured a place for the 3 of them in the Cemetery along the famous lake to ensure peace for the 3 of them. (on that Lake is John H Johnson Jr. (publisher of Ebony Mag) Mr. Owens Olympic Great and more. There is not much more in her heart that she could of done, short of asking the Lord to Bring them All back. Now is the time [SPAM] to let this go. The FBI and the Police must finish their job. And by keep posting on these Senseless Killings seem to only keep people like Julia, posting craziness. If you have a heart, think about what I said!!!
This woman is going through classic trauma and shock. She has not dealt with the tragedy of losing her loved ones, and realizing that she is the partially the cause. Someone killed those she loved most in life to hurt her. Do you know how big a guilt trip she is going to feel. If she doesn't seek therapy, you may see her take her own life. Leave a suicide note saying she misses them, and is going to join them, because she can't live without them. When in reality, she believes she is the one who should have died.
Again, you people on this site are some of the worst people out there. This lady has lost everything, and you are talking about how insane and crazy she is. She probably is insane, and who are you to say that you wouldn't be under these circumstances. You don't know what she is going through, and if this is how she grieves, leave her alone. Stop being so stupid and blind to what is going on around you. Open your eyes, your hearts, and your minds. Idiots!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
not 2 sound COLD HEARTED but am i the only one who feels that since she KNEW what the guy was like(THAT KILLED HER SON,MOTHER AND BROTHER)shouldnt she SPEND SOME TIME IM PRISON AS WELL?!?!?!?!?!?!?! i mean,this is partly her fault!!!!!!!!!!!!
i mean,thats like if a woman knows that the man shes marring is a RAPIST AND THEN THE MAN RAPES HER CHILDREN
MTO ya'll owe HER AN APOLOGY. I saw the obituary before ya'll posted it and I even said in the last post when you guys tried to call her out for her captions that, the reason she said that was because of a joke they had. You guys are on here asking for credit from a bulletin you copied. You didn't have first dibs on it and you were talking sideways about her too..
I SO STILL FEEL BAD FOR THIS FAMILY...AND THE MEDIA IS NOT MAKIN IT ANY BETTER......YEA, JULIA IS DEALIN WITH SOME DEMONS, SHE DON'T KNOW HOW TO DEAL. I DON'T SEE ANY CELEBS TAKIN HER IN, TYRIN TO GET HER SOME HELP OR WHATEVER. AND YEA J HUD IS THE CELEB, BUT THEY ARE FAMILY, TO TAKE CARE OF ONE AND NOT THE OTHER IS NOT, WELL, NOT FAIR. THEY ARE SISTERS AND IT MAY BE SOME FRICTION BETWEEN THEM, BUT FAMILIES GO THROUGH THINGS WHEN TRAGEDY HAPPENS IN THEIR LIVES....THIS WOMAN NEEDS SOME SERIOUS HELP, AND CALLIN HER EVERYTHING BUT A CHILD OF GOD IS NOT HELPIN THE SITUATION. I PRAY THAT JEN AND JULIA GET THEIR RELATIONSHIP BACK ON TRACK IN THE FUTURE, CAUSE I KNOW THEIR MOTHER BOUT TURNIN IN HER GRAVE, TO SEE HER DAUGHTERS NOT SPEAKIN', AND APART LIKE STRANGERS......THIS IS A SAD THING THAT'S HAPPENED, AND JULIA HAS DONE SOME TRIPPED OUT STUFF.....BUT C'MON WHO IS IN HER CORNER, SHE SCREAMIN FOR ATTENTION, YES, AND, IN MY OPINION FOR SOMEONE TO COME TO HER RESCUE AND HELP HER.
This is old news MTO--not headline news. And if the info is gleaned from Julia's MySpace page and an obituary which is now available to any and all, why would anyone need to credit MTO for reaching the same conclusion. When I read the story here the first time, I already knew what it meant. Get a clue and then a grip...
Oh please! That was obvious from just looking at his Myspace. It says something like "Jennifer got the talent but Julia got the looks". The fact still remains that she might be a lil' off in her head. Thats a very unusual and disturbing thing to say at a time like this ESPECIALLY when people are trying to pin her as a suspect. I guess she doesn't realize that jurors ARE biased and DO use outside information to help them form conclusions. (like it or not)
I have the program and its still messed up! Make all the excuses you want its still twisted!
This heffa is more concerned with the fact that she is living the high life in Trump Towers, than with the fact that her family is dead.
I pray that Jennifer gets the hell a way from these people very soon. She can grieve with David in her own home. Send the crazy people back to were they came from.
Sorry if that sounds cold or wrong but there is just something not quite right about these people.
Why don't people let this woman grieve the way she wants too over her family. Dang - she lost three members of her family - brutally. That's enough to drive anyone a little crazy. And now that folks see she has an explanation, they are ok with it. That's why no one needs to judge a person unless you walk 100 steps in their shoes. You never know what's behind a person's actions. If you don't approve of what she writes on her my space - stop being noisy and going into it.
For someone's son, mother and brother to be brutally murdered and the first or second thing you put on your MYspace page after the tragedy is "now I am the prettiest one" is downright scary, I don't care what anyone says. This girl ain't wrapped too tight.
Makes me think of one of those pyscho women movies on the Lifetime channel.
No one really pays attention to your way of thinking and your info MTO. You lie, embellish, make up stories and misrepresent too much. Just like the Oprah story saying Jennifer is sttaying there. I just read at People Magazine.com that Donald Trump has been letting Jennifer and her family stay free of charge at his hotel
MY THING IS, I THOUGHT JENNIFER HUDSON WAS THE FAMOUS ONE? SHE SHOULD BE THE ONE UPDATING HER FANS, NOT JULIA. WHO IS SHE ENTERTAINING?? IT SEEMS AS IF SHE IS LOVING THIS NEW FOUND ATTENTION. OK, YES PEOPLE GRIEVE IN THEIR OWN WAY BUT SERIOUSLY, ON MYSPACE? A JOKE? YEAH RIGHT. THAT COMMENT DIDNT SOUND LIKE SOME ONE GRIEVING TO ME, IT SOUNDED LIKE SOME ONE WAS JEALOUS. I FEEL SORRY FOR HER AND THE REST OF THE FAMILY, BUT SOMETHING IS NOT RIGHT!! SHE HAS BEEN ON MYSPACE SINCE THE DAY SHE FOUND OUT HER SON WAS MISSING... IF YOU ARE GRIEVING, WHEN DO YOU HAVE TIME TO GET DONE UP, PUT MAKE-UP ON AND GET YOUR HAIR DONE? WHEN DO YOU HAVE TOME TO DOWNLOAD MORE PICTURES OF YOURSELF ON YOUR MYSPACE PAGE? THE FIRST THING YOU THINK ABOUT WHEN YOU THINK OF YOUR DEAD BROTHER IS HOW YOU ARE PRETTIER NOW? HE IS NOT HERE TO SEE THAT COMMENT NOR IS THE MOTHER SO WHO WAS SHE JOKING WITH? "NOW THAT JASON IS GONE" ..HOW ABOUT "MAY MY BEAUTIFUL BROTHER REST IN PEACE" ... I DONT KNOW, I AM JUST NOT FEELING IT.
well i didnt say anything negative like everyone else was in the other blog because i dont know her situation or whats comforting to her and its not anyones place to judge her thats her family not mines and shes going through something and i feel sorry for her and i hope she finds that comfort zone with GOD by her side i am not one to judge anyone especially during her time of grieving
people are so judgmental and cruel. Maybe she shouldn't have posted those comments but she's just grieving.. I know when a loved one dies, family members laugh and tell stories of the good times.
I've been to funerals where some people can be really strong but it doesnt mean they are not hurting. I'm sure it's a lot of pain behind the smiles.
THIS CHICK NEEDS TO SERIOUSLY LOOK AT HER GHETTO LIFE......SHE IS A GREAT EMBARASSMENT TO JEENIFER AND HER DEAD FAMILY...SEEMS LIKE THIS FAT BITCH ONLY THINKS OF HER MY SPACE AND NO MOURNING AT ALL...IT TAKES AN INSANE WOMAN WHO LED TO HER FAMILIES DEMISE AND SHA SOUNDS LIKE SHE HAS NO REMORSE. WELL...GOD WILL PREVAIL OVER HER ANTICS AND KARMA CAN BE SUCH A BITCH......ALL THIS AINT OVER FOR THIS BITCH...HER COME UPPANCE IS DUE SOON!!!!!!
Yeah, Julia got way deeper issues than her son being killed and losing a brother....she is sick wit it What the hell was she doing updating myspace pages, at a time like this any damn way, who makes jokes like that so close after someone's death, regardless of how she explained it...GOD bless the whole family
WHETHER OR NOT THEY JOKED ABOUT WHO'S THA PRETTIEST, THERE IS NO EXPLANATION FOR THA WAY SHE PUT IT OUT THERE...MAYBE THA DUMBASS SHOULDA WORDED IT DIFFERENTLY, BUT I AM NOT ONE TO SAY "NOW THAT ____ IS GONE, I'M THA PRETTIEST" FOR ANY FAMILY IF THEY PASSED AWAY..THAT'S JUS DISTASTEFUL IMO
HE ACCEPTED CHRIST, HUH?? I WONDER IF JESUS WAS ALRIGHT WITH HIM SELLIN DRUGS??
I'M JUS SAYIN!!
so what! Still, just weeks after his death, this bytch is saying she's prettier than him?! No, this shyt still don't make sense, and she's still suspect in my eyes. I know everyone dont' grieve the same, but is she grieving at all? She's moved on to another man, and making jokes, and still all up on the computer? What mother is on myspace after her young baby son was shot in the head? What daughter is making new friends on my space after her mother was just shot in the head? What sister jokes on the computer about being prettier than her dead brother?
This fat bytch is crazy, and she has no conscience, i don't trust her, and i think she knew her family was in danger, and did nothing to stop it. She has known from day one whose responsible for her familys' brutal mother.
I hope somehow, Jennifer, the obvious smart one in the family, finds peace, cause she got a dumb azz stupid ignorant, ghetto, senseless, fat bytch of a sister.
@donthateonthegreat
But still, do you think its appropriate to make such a joke soon after your brother's brutal untimely murder?!!!!!
Bottom line, there is a time and place for everything. Most people grieve for a period of time, than get angry, and have to go through a range of emotions before they than even think about joking about a dead loved one. Remember, it's not like he was sick and the family expected the brother to die, if so, they would have had to time go through the grieving process prior to his death, but remember, his death was untimely, and unforseen, and brutal and cruel! He was only 29...and you think its appropriate for her to joke about being prettier?!
IF you think this is okay, than your azz is probably crazy too. REAL TALK.
Yall seriously need to get off this chick coochie lipz for real. Yall dnt know what this chick going thru. I have yet to hear someone say they've walked a mile in her shoes. Everyone has their own way of dealing with pain. Whether it be thru tears of joke; dats their way of dealing w/it. Yall are so wrong. Yall are so damn judgemental about ppl. Then to add insult to injury yall sittn up here talkn bout she had something to do w/ this. Pathetic.
@SrChocola
I totally agree...until the detectives and a jury of 12 say this woman had something to do with the murder of her Mom, brother and SON...some of yall need to fall back.
Yall aint going to be happy until shes gone. Then yall going to be on here giving your FAKE R.I.P. messages.
Damn lets hear some more fact first!!! I aint heard sh!t since really...
@ SanOn
Thanks! Here's the article...
"Donald Trump Shelters Jennifer Hudson"
Donald Trump doesn't just have the golden touch for business – he also has a heart of gold.
The real-estate mogul has been housing Jennifer Hudson and some of her relatives at the Trump International Hotel & Tower free of charge.
"She's a great girl. And we're protecting them well," Trump told PEOPLE at a benefit honoring Australia director Baz Luhrman at the Museum of Modern Art Monday night. "They are very safe."
Hudson has been seeking refuge at the Trump holding since her mother, brother and nephew were murdered in Chicago on Oct. 24.
Trump's largesse was first reported by E! Online. – Jeffrey Slonim
[link to external website removed]
Ok, let me add on to my first comment because I see mutafukkas already trying to get into an arguemental debate and I don't have the time.....I don't think it's appropriate of her to make such a statement under that photo on her myspace page, I know that this is the wrong time and agree that it's weird! I was just simply saying that obviously that's the kind of relationship that her and her brother shared together. No one have to understand, my brother and I always joke around like that too, but I would never have a comment like that under a pic of him if he died. I wouldn't even be thinking about a damn myspace, I would still be too fukked up!!! That's why I said "I can KINDA understand"
Damn!
@ Girlsluvgems
God bless you girl because you seem to have a big heart. I would love to believe that Julia is innocent but this world is so f*cked up that even mothers will do crazy things to their child! She's lucky that it wont be me or 2damnsexxy sitting at the bench 'cuz we would have probably taken Trooper's advice for Balfour and annihilated her on site.
Regardless of her "excuse" that is still NOT A NORMAL comment to make. She has OBVIOUS issues that are now being made public. Yes, she has endured a HORRIBLE tragedy that I wouldn't wish on anyone, but Does anyone else think the way this woman is ocnducting herself during under circumstances is wrong???
She is too busy taking pictures LAID up with some boyfriend and posting them on myspace? Then the pictures of her before she goes to bed???
I want the mirror in her house. People really have different views of themselves and are really good at lying to themselves!!!!!!
Everyone that keeps saying "if it was me" or "I would"...you need to OVERstand that it is NOT you and that is the point, how people choose to deal and get past death is for every individual to accomplish on their own! Some people cry alot, some people withdraw and go into depression, some people deal with it by humor and creating an upbeat situation.
NO ONE that HAS NOT lost three CLOSE family members at ONE TIME can possibly OVERstand what she is going through, so you shouldn't do anything but keep your mouth shut!
Some cultures and people view death as a celebration especially if they believe in GOD and believe that those innocent people will be leaving the hear and now and going to join him in PARADISE!
SO, please stop being ignorant and adding stupid comments about the situation and just stay prayerful for her and the rest of her family! And please stop trying to drop knowledge when you cannot even spell!
@ DaRealDeal34
What you said has a lot of truth to it but the 'funny' thing about this is that even if we refuse to pass judgement law enforcement will. Psychologists as well as Criminal Profilers show up in court rooms daily. It's only natural for human beings to pass judgement. I mean, think about it, you're on a gossip site so obviously you came here to pass judgement on someone yourself. I get annoyed by comments sometimes too (and show disapproval) so I understand what you're saying.
THIS INGORANT COW IS AMAZING. ACTIONS SPEAK MUCH LOADER THEN WORDS...SHE IS ACTING LIKE HER DOG WAS ABDUCTED FROM THE FRONT YARD AND NOT THAT HER FAMILY WAS PROBABLY SLAUGHTERED BY HER EX.
RATHER THEN LOGGING AND POSTING ON MYSPACE LIKE A FREAKING CHILD WHY DOESN'T SHE SHUT HER BIG FAT MOUTH AND JUST LAY IN THE CUT. IT'S NO WONDER PEOPLE CAN'T STAND HER....SHE IS AN IGNORANT DONKEY.
Exactly "Whatanidiot and Fastlane".. ;)
LMAO@ DaRealDeal34!!!
LOL.. You are funny. Nice FRUITY pic by the way.. Sorry, I misspelled "conducting". I am an Attorney at a Law Firm and even I make mistakes. Last I checked, the was an open forum to write any sort of input or comments you want, not to mention a gossip site..
Now put your headset back on and get back to work in your cubicle..because I need to call Sprint to order my new blackberry! Thanks! :)
@ VaNiTy_13, STORM ZOE , BROOKLYN LATINA... ALL OF YOUR POSTS KEEP IT REAL.I AGREE... THIS IS STILL INAPPROPRIATE. BASICALLY IT'S A TACKY ATTEMPT TO SHIFT THE ATTENTION TOWARDS HER. SHE IS CLEARLY DYING FOR ATTENTION! WHILE THIS PUTS THINGS IN A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE, IT TAKES NOTHING AWAY FROM THE VANITY AND IRRELEVANCY OF HER POSTINGS TO HER MY SPACE PAGE SO REGUALARLY.WHY IS SHE NOT PLEADING FOR THE ARREST AND CONVICTION OF THE KILLER ON HER MY SPACE PAGE?? ..INSTEAD OF PICTURES AND SILLY CAPTIONS.... SMDH
Exactly "Louisiana's Finest"..
BTW.. I'm sorry for your loss.. You especially can comment on this situation, since you have experienced it firsthand. Its completely abnormal. I think she just wants attention, be it positive or negative.. She really needs to be investigated as well. It wouldn't hurt..after all she married him!!
jADE16.... I CO-SIGN. THE FIRST PARAGRAPH OF YOUR BLOG..SAYS IT ALL. I SAY SHUT DOWN THE WHOLE FORUM NOW..GOT DAM IT.! THAT SUMS THE SHYT UP. LOL !!! FUKK IT . WE NEED TO POST YOUR BLOG AGAIN AND AGAIN.. he he... HERE GOES... THIS INGORANT COW IS AMAZING. ACTIONS SPEAK MUCH LOADER THEN WORDS...SHE IS ACTING LIKE HER DOG WAS ABDUCTED FROM THE FRONT YARD AND NOT THAT HER FAMILY WAS PROBABLY SLAUGHTERED BY HER EX.
THIS INGORANT COW IS AMAZING. ACTIONS SPEAK MUCH LOADER THEN WORDS...SHE IS ACTING LIKE HER DOG WAS ABDUCTED FROM THE FRONT YARD AND NOT THAT HER FAMILY WAS PROBABLY SLAUGHTERED BY HER EX.
THIS INGORANT COW IS AMAZING. ACTIONS SPEAK MUCH LOADER THEN WORDS...SHE IS ACTING LIKE HER DOG WAS ABDUCTED FROM THE FRONT YARD AND NOT THAT HER FAMILY WAS PROBABLY SLAUGHTERED BY HER EX.
LOL!!!!
The two pictures that sorta bug me are the ones taken with the guy friend. I could be dead wrong, but I could not see myself cheesin with a guy the day before my sons burial (if thats when the pictures were taken). Those first few months I would probrably be in a state of depression and then I'd try to pick things up and live my life. I would be to angry to smile. But everyone is different and I just pray I never have to go through something like that.
@ fire4u
Like yesterday If that was me that lost my son mother and brother I would have been at Stateville and I was like gas his ass. You didn't hear any reports of it. Trust if she was there it would have been all on tmz.
I would still plead for my family's killer not posing with men. I wouldn't have time for men. What the hell.
Nawh I smell tuna..and its coming right from her.
I still think it is a lil dillusional. Maybe she is trying to keep her mind sane by focusing on the good times and not the tragedy that brought about all this attention. She should have known having a"Public" MYSPACE page was an open door for media attention I mean come on! Still my prayers go out to the entire family b/c I know I would be a total mess!
@FIRE4U :)
I CAN'T STAND HER. SHE WAS WAY TOO "MATTER OF FACT" WHEN SHE WAS ON THE NEWS ASKING FOR ANYONE WITH INFO ON HER SONS WHEREABOUTS TO CALL THE POLICE.
I THINK PEOPLE WHO DIDN'T EVEN KNOW THE FAMILY ARE MORE BOTHERED BY THE TRAGEDY THEN THE SHE TAZMANIAN DEVIL IS.
MAYBE THAT'S WHY HER SON LIVED WITH THE MOM BECAUSE IT'S SOOOOO OBVIOUS HER TOP PRIORITY IS LOGGING INTO HER MYSPACE ACCOUNT AND HER WEAKNESS IS "GOOD DYCK" WAS MORE IMPORTANT THEN RAISING HER CHILD.
I HAVE NO SYMPATHY FOR HER BUT DO HOWEVER FEEL VERY SORRY FOR JENNIFER AND THE EXTENDED FAMILIES LOSS.
@LOUISIANA FINEST... I would still plead for my family's killer not posing with men. I wouldn't have time for men. What the hell. Nawh I smell tuna..and its coming right from her ************* RIGHT. WHITE FOLKS OPEN UP MEMORIALS AND MAKE PLEAS FOR THE KILLER TO BE CAUGHT. THEY SET UP HOTLINES AND TOLL FREE NUMBERS, WEBSITES, FLYERS AND APPEALS OFFERING CASH FOR INFORMATION AND TIPS LEADING TO THE ARRESTS OF THE KILLER. FOR HEAVEN'S SAKE, AN ENTIRE FAMILY HAS BEEN SLAUGTERED. I FEEL LIKE I HAVE MORE OUTRAGE THAN SHE DOES! STOP POSTING MY SPACE AND START BEGGING FOR ANOYMOUS TIPS IN THE CASE! SHE AIN'T DOING THAT ..CAUSE HER AZZ GOT THE TIPS. SHE KNOW WHAT'S UP. GIVE THAT AZZ A LIE DETECTOR TEST!!!!! CALL DFACS AND CHILD ADVOCACY ON HER AZZ.
jade516 @FIRE4U :) I CAN'T STAND HER. SHE WAS WAY TOO "MATTER OF FACT" WHEN SHE WAS ON THE NEWS ASKING FOR ANYONE WITH INFO ON HER SONS WHEREABOUTS TO CALL THE POLICE ************* i can't stand her fat azz either. i heard on another blog that she got her hair done before making the tv appearance too...and this was right after the murders of mom and brother. this chick is mental..and as a mother of a 7 year old myself , i am outraged and appalled at her behaviour. and this is no “case of everyone greives” differently. This is clearly someone who was removed from the love and attachment that is felt for your child. Grieving differently does not fall this far out of the realm of "normality" that speaks to basic sorrow and grief. This happy azz chick needs someone to smack that smile and smirk off of her face, and I volunteer!!
JADE516 & FIRE4U
You guys are too much! You had me LOL with every post! Its ALL TRUE! It's not normal behavior for a mother that lost her son, let alone 2 other family members!
Ok, Secondly, if she calls that "getting her hair done" before that first news conference, Lord- Please help her!
Third, How bad is it when you can tell a WOMAN needs to shave her beard when the camera is not directly on her?
Fourth, The man she is all cupcaked up with in the pics before the funeral, she refers to as her "bust it baby" on her Myspace page! Um, Bust-it-baby is not a flattering term, and it also shows her maturity level and where her head is at.
She probably got involved with her ex-husband because he gave her attention. She was not used to getting any sort of attention, so she thought she hit the jackpot. Meanwhile, all while ignoring the fact that he had done 6 years in prison and had just been released from prison for Manslaughter and still on parole.
Now, people do mess up and make mistakes in life. As an Attorney, I am well aware of that! However, I do believe that intention is everything. Bad intentions whether carried through or not, are bad news!!
Her behavior after these horrific deaths is unimaginable. I would be more distraught if my 2 year old beloved dog died! She is missing something upstairs!
@fire4u: I COMPLETELY AGREE. IT JUST DOESNT SEEM RIGHT! LIKE I SAID. JENNEIFER IS THE STAR, JENNIFER IS THE ONE WITH THE FANS, WHY IS JULIA THE ONE CHILLIN WITH THE PUBLIC?? IT LOOKS LIKE SHE TRYNA GET SOME SHINE, NOT GRIEVE. I DONT GET IT. LIKE U SAID, I FEEL MORE OUTRAGED THAN SHE APPEARS TO BE. IF IT WAS ME, WHICH I LOST 5 FAMILY MEMBERS IN A HOUSE FIRE IN D.C. 2 YEARS AGO,( AGES 5 TO 45) I WOULDNT EVEN BE THINKING ABOUT MYSPACE NOR BEING PRETTY, I'D BE HAVING A BREAKDOWN, LOOKING A HOT @SS MESS!! SHE IS TRIPPIN'. ME AN MY COUSIN ARGUES ABOUT WHO WAS CUTER ALL THE TIME, BUT AFTER SHE DIES SO SUDDENLY, THAT WAS NOT THE FIRST THING I THOUGHT ABOUT.. THE COMMENT WAS TACKY AND WHERE ARE THE PICTURES OF HER WITH HER SON? HER MOTHER? HER BROTHER? HOW ABOUT A R.I.P. COMMENT? SHE HAD PICTURES WITH HER AND FANTASIA, WHAT? GRIEVING COMES IN ALL SHAPES AND FORMS, BUT TRYING TO SHOW THE PUBLIC HOW CUTE AND SEXY YOU ARE AINT ONE OF THE WAYS.. SHE LOST A CHILD FOR GOODNESS SAKE!
@PARIS76:
I AGREE, IF MY D@MN PUPPY DIED, I WOULD BE ALOT MORE DISTRAUGHT THAN SHE APPEARS TO BE.
JENNIFER HASNT EVEN ADDRESSED HER OWN FANS PUBICLY YET, SO WHAT IS JULIA DOING? SHE NEED TO BE CAMPED OUT AT THEIR LOCAL POLICE STATION, DEMANDING ANSWERS, OR KICKING DOWN SOME DOORS, TORCHING SOME HOMES, SOMETHING OTHER THAN UPDATING HER MYSPACE PAGE!
@ VaNiTy_13 you took the words right out of my mouth. This situation is sad and twisted. How are you not going to believe a 27 year old man that served 7 years for attempted murder and vehicular hijacking ... when he said he was going to kill your family!? Lets not even talk about the man you were hugged up with recently on your updated myspace page. Don't you think you should relax with the men for awhile... your choices in them haven't been the best...
VaNiTy_13 & kimkelmor
I agree... I do not have any children. However, the closest thing I have is my bulldog puppy, who I have raised since she was 8 weeks old. I have an incredible bond and love for my puppy, so I can only imagine how strongly I would feel about a child!
If my dog was missing, again my dog, I would be banging down doors and offering a reward. I would even call the news and file reports, just in case it would help. I would probably look a hot mess and defintley would not be logging onto myspace, except to maybe post a "Missing dog" bulletin. I would not be dressing up taking pics, and I DEFINTELY would not be thinking about a man, let alone laying up with one.
Again, this is if (god forbid) i lost my puppy who is almost 2! Not a child... There is something missing from her that is a motherly instinct. It's very strange and questionable.
I think she should take a lie detector test. What would it hurt? Also, if someone ever threatned to take my son away from me and said that I would never see him again, I would DEFINTLEY take them seriously and take appropriate action. How do you blow off someone threatining to harm your son and family?????
Honestly, I would not be surprised if she was visiting him in jail or even writing him letters. She is just THAT SICK! Who knows with her. Anyone who is more concerned with dick, your hair,and taking pictures with Fantasia in the middle of burying your family (and son) is NOT playing with a full deck!
@fire4u & paris76 YOUR BOTH FUNNY.
I DIDN'T WANT TO ADDRESS THAT CHIA BEARD SHE HAS I WAS TRYING TO REFRAME FROM LASHING OUT BUT SINCE YOU MENTIONED IT...IT'S ON NOW. ASIDE FROM THE BEARD SHE HAS A 5 O'CLOCK SHADOW ON HER FACE AS WELL. TO THINK THAT SOMEONE...ANYONE WOULD HIT THAT IS PERPLEXING TO ME. SHE HAS THE SHARPA DOG ENCASED IN CLOTHES THAT CLEARLY DON'T FIT PLUS ALL THE OTHER ISSUES.
DID U NOTICE AT THE NEWS CONFERENCE HOW HER SONS BIOLOGICAL DAD WAS LOOKING AT HER LIKE "TRICK I'M GONNA CUT SOME BACON OFF YOUR BACK IF THEY DON'T FIND MY SON ALIVE"....SUCH DISTAIN WAS APPARENT JUST IN THE WAY HE LEARED AT HER.
THE SUSPECT IS A STINKING MESS AND SHOWS JUST WHAT CALIBER HOOLIGAN SHE IS INTO. I DO HOWEVER WANT TO SAY THAT SHE HAS GOTTEN ALOT OF ATTENTION....FROM MCDONALDS, WENDYS AND ANY ALL YOU CAN EAT ESTABLISHMENT IN CHICAGO.
SHE GOT HER HAIR DONE BEFORE THE NEWS CONFERENCE??!!! I HAVE SEEN BETTER WIGS ON JIM HENSON'S MUPPETS. I WOULD HAVE SHOWED UP IN MY PAJAMAS AND HAIR LOOKING LIKE DON KING.
IT SICKES ME THAT A SHANK LIKE THIS COULD BE GIVEN THE GIFT OF BEING ABLE TO CARRY A CHILD. THE BEST THING SHE CAN DO IS TO HAVE HER TUBES TIED OR BETTER YET JUST GET THAT UTERUS BURNT OUT WITH A BLOW TORCH SO THAT SHE CAN NOT RUIN ANOTHER INNOCENT CHILDS LIFE.
@ PARIS
LMFAO but yea, yall..well us..we..whatever need to cut it out. I'm looking back at these comments and I swear, between me, you, jade, fire4u, and some crazy others our comments are enough to drive that girl to suicide. Like I said before, as furious as I am, I would never want her to take it that far. I want her to sit in her cell and rot while she thinks about what she did!!! Death is too quick of a punishment. Whats interesting is the fact that a good number of unstable minded people that "laugh now" end up "crying later". For someone that got into back to back relationships with criminals (one of which just came out of jail..hence the unstableness) I find it interesting that she can handle such a strong burden so well. Like Vanity said, i've seen people mourn for months after their dog or cat died much less actual human beings. She's prancing around like like she won the lottery or..or..LIKE SHE WON IDOL OR SOMETHING. I keep hearing the argument about how people mourn differently but COME ON, is this "mourning"? I don't expect everyone to be depressed but damn!! If this is mourning how the hell is she when she's unhappy? Aiight, lets go back to basic highschool Psychology..People go through stages after experiencing death or loss..WHAT STAGE IS THIS?..EXACTLY.
What I want to know is if the people that pity her would be like that if she wasn't Jennifer's sister. Lets say that Julia was your neighbor and she found your family dead ..Or lets say that she was a sister-in-law and she was prancing around while your brother, mother, and nephew were dead. Would you feel the same way about her?
LMAO@JADE 516!!
I know.. she is INSANE.. The stranger part is you remind me of myself in so many ways.. LOL.. Just the way you word things and express yourself.. It's great! LOl.. If you have myspace, add me..my page is at the bottom..
She really should not be able to have any more children. God forbid her "bust it baby" gets ger pregnant, then she will be on Maury for the attention. I'm serious..
You are also so right when you mentioned Julian's real father and the way he was glaring at her at the press conference. I feel sorry for him. Can you imagine what he thinks of her now? Some [EXPLETIVE] took his sons life and children have no say in what they are subjected to, they only know what they are thrown into (good or bad)...
It's apparent she is jealous of her sister. I'm sure that all started when she first got picked for American Idol. Then she started making records and really getting in the media, made Dreamgirls, Won an Oscar ( you saw her all posed up with her sisters Oscar, right) now she is engaged and will be married. She is probably green with envy.
It was nice Fantashia came out to show her support, but FAT [EXPLETIVE] COW took it as an opportunity to post up with someone well known, regardless of her situation and circumstances.. It's almost like "OOPS, I forgot my son was dead"!
Why do you think Jennifer Hudson has not released a public statement yet? As an Attorney, I am willing to bet you that it is because she is completely embarrased with her sister's behavior and antics at a time that is so horrific. Jennifer is truly greieving and probably a mess. That is all completely understandable. Julia on the other hand, is trying to see the limelight. It's completely sick.
PARIS76, @Vanity...
lol ! Yeah , girls.She still sporting that dam beard..i wanna shave it so bad. Lol! Paris76 your comment about .. “The man she is all cupcaked up with in the pics before the funeral, she refers to as her "bust it baby" on her Myspace page!” For real???I had no idea. I was wondering who the hell that was. I knew it was probably a "piece" . I bet that Fat azz has already resumed her fukking and normal day to day activities. Lol! Remember that her myspace page said”I love dikk”…! so go figure. Yet in referring to her child she stated “well he already here”. (sigh) This fat reject pisses me off! She has no class and is an embarrassment to poor Jennifer. Why would you post something of that caliber on your page, and you are a celebrity’s sister? This goes to show you that some people know how to progress and elevate in life, while others remain in a state of bondage…forever holding on to low class values , self-respect, negative mental states, and ghetto mannerism.
@ WhatAnIdiotI'm looking back at these comments and I swear, between me, you, jade, fire4u, and some crazy others our comments are enough to drive that girl to suicide. Like I said before, as furious as I am, I would never want her to take it that far. ************ Lol. but you know what ?..i'm reading and laughing my butt off too. But ...i see me, you, jade,Lousiana Finest Paris, Vanity, kimkelmor...etc..as realist. we keeping it real. I'm a nice person, but this whole thing turns my stomach and angers me as a mom! i WAS NOT SURE WHO WOULD AGREE WITH ME...BUT I MADE SOME BOLD STATEMENTS AGAINST HER AZZ FROM JUMP.. WHEN THE VERY FIRST MTO BLOGS ON HER CAME OUT 2 WEEKS AGO. even if she had nothing to do with the actual murders., i wish they could charge her with child neglect , ENDANGERMENT OR something related to THAT..CAUSE putting your child in harms way IS NEGLECT. this child could not make decisions for himself, but she could. your fat azz gon put out a post talking bout cause i CHOSE" TO LOVE..MY FAMILY DIED. You made a couscious choice, heffa! you knew this sick azz ghetto thug was a danger to you and your family. your own mama put his azz out of the house! YOU CONTINUE TO SNEAK AROUND WITH HIM AS LATE AS THE DAY BEFORE THE MURDERS..FOR YOUR DAMN BIRTHDAY? HE DID NOT WANT HER AZZ ANYWAY..BECAUSE HE HAD 2 MORE GIRLFRIENDS..ONE OF WHICH WAS PREGANT,AND WHO HE WAS WITH THE DAY THEY PICKED HIM UP. YOU LOW SELF ESTEEM DESPERATE TRICK AZZ...NOW YOUR SON IS DEAD..!! WAKE UP[SPAM]!!!!!!!!
@ JADE516... DID U NOTICE AT THE NEWS CONFERENCE HOW HER SONS BIOLOGICAL DAD WAS LOOKING AT HER LIKE "TRICK I'M GONNA CUT SOME BACON OFF YOUR BACK IF THEY DON'T FIND MY SON ALIVE"....SUCH DISTAIN WAS APPARENT JUST IN THE WAY HE LEARED AT HER........ ..... I HAVE SEEN BETTER WIGS ON JIM HENSON'S MUPPETS ***************** LMAO!!GIRL YOU GOT ME ROLLIN! I JUST LAID MY HEAD ON THE DESK....TRYING TO PLAY SHYT OFF. BUT I WANNA RESPOND TO YOUR COMMENT ABOUT THE BABY DADDY. I NOTICED THAT TOO. HE WAS LOOKING AT THAT AZZ LIKE ..YEAH RIGHT...YUUR TRICK AZZ HO..! "WHO YA THINK YA FAT AZZ FOOLING"? THAT 'S THE KINDA LOOK THAT BROTHA HAD ON HIS FACE. SHE LIKE THEM HOOD AZZ THUGGED OUT BROTHERS WITHOUT A RESUME' OR HOMEOWNERSHIP PAPERS. SHE LIKES THAT.
@PARIS76
I know right...I said this 2 weeks ago about the pic with the Oscar...Thats like your sister taking a pic with your law degree...YOUR highest honor...your right minded person wouldnt do that...I would take a pic handing it to my mama but you are my sister...I would take a pic with my sister holding it....That was envy there...
Did you see the pics when she was a the MTV awards just look at expression....its just not right...
I don't know Julia and I are around the same age..being star stuck is getting old... I have seen stars and I don't be like PLEASE TAKE A PIC WITH ME...They eat, [EXPLETIVE], and get up every morning with one leg on the floor just like me....So with that pic with Fantasia you can tell that she was uncomfortable....so you can tell she is star stuck
@JADE516: I AM ROTFLMAO...BETTER WIGS ON JIM HENSONS MUPPETS!! OH SH!T, MY STOMACHE HURTS!
@fire4u: YEAH I AGREE, I DIDNT KNOW WHO WAS GOING TO AGREE, BUT HEY, WHAT DOES IT MATTER WHEN U R KEEPING IT REAL. I DIDNT CATCH ALL OF THE NEWS CONFERENCE, I WONDER IF I CAN CATCH IT ON YOUTUBE? ANYWAYS..IF SHE HAD ANY RESPECT FOR HER SISTER AND HER CAREER, SHE WOULD THINK ABOUT THE MOVES SHE MAKES. RIGHT NOW, I THINK SHE IS THINKING ABOUT HERSELF. I FEEL BAD FOR JENNIFER. HELL, I FEEL BAD FOR JULIA TOO, BUT ITS LOOKIN LIKE RIGHT NOW SHE GOT THE ATTENTION SHE HAS BEEN WANTING. I DONT KNOW. I NEED FOR HER TO SHEAD A REAL TEAR, GET MAD, CUSS, SOMETHING. MAYBE SHE NEEDS SOME ACTING LESSONS FROM JEN.
@ Paris76 & Fire4u. .. Both of u have made comments that are so in touch with normal people that has experienced a loss. I mean I tried to say that maybe she is "trying" to focus on the "good" times but the more I sit & ponder the mere thought of losing my "only" child It makes me cry because I know how dear he is to me (no matter how bad he can be at times..lol)..not to mention my mother and my only brother.. OMG.. I can't even imagine the pain and agony that I would fully never recover from. I must say Julia is many bricks short of a load. I was sooo shocked when the same day her family was murdered she still had pics of her ex husband, a suspect accused of killing them,on her myspace page..She does have some serious issues!! My heart goes out to the rest of the family!
@ louisiana Finest...@fire4u
I usually don't get into things like this but these murders are making me mad....So I don't get a damn what she reads..I hope the Bytch jumps in the lake.... ************************* right, me either.But, i've been heated on this one since day one. We talking about a family massacre..and an innocent little boy..and you on my space cheezin on pics and writing cute lil captions. kiss my black azz Julia!
@ vanity 13..DIDNT CATCH ALL OF THE NEWS CONFERENCE, I WONDER IF I CAN CATCH IT ON YOUTUBE? ***** google "julia hudson news conference and plea for child return" as key words. it should pop up. some of the local networks had it out there. That way You'll see that hotmess of a dam hairdo that Jade516 is referring to. lol !!!!!!!!
OK, Yes everyone is entitled to grieve differently.. However, her grieving and behavior is completely abnormal. The mere thought of something happening to my mother or EVEN a friend, makes me sad.. Let alone god forbid something happening.
Do you think it is NORMAL for her not to cry? Not only not to cry but to be on myspace posting pics and laid up with a man while your only child was gunned down and killed by your ex?
If anyone thinks that is normal grieving behavior for a mother, is to not even shed a tear ..then you are NOT NORMAL either..
Any NORMAL person would probably be banging down the police department doors, or holding more press conferences to obtain more information.
Julian's father probably told her about her ass from Day one when she brought her ex-husband home. Funny how they all laid up in her mothers house, what a winner he was!!
Jennifer never agreed with her sisters choice in men and the fact that she never enabled her sister by giving her $$ because she was with a piece of trash man-confirmed that!
Imagine how Jennifer and Julian's father feel now? I feel sorry for them. For they are grieving REAL tears and emotions. Imagine what they think of FAT FUKKS pictures and her new "Bust-it-Baby"?
Please Tell me what kind of HAIRY WHALE can entertain a mans company and take pics when her son was just killed along with her mother and sister?
^^^^ I agree... First off, God Bless the souls of those innocent people. Julia was on MySpace the DAY of the murders changing captions on pics and stuff. Something is fishy here.. I know people deal with grief in their own way, but she needs to not put everything out in the street. I would be somewhere trying to arrange a hit on that n*gga while he's in jail...straight up.
@502finest Flag post And even though her actions may seem crazy to us, we don't know the hell she's really going through. She's lost a child, a brother, and her baby. AND no matter how we feel she also lost a husband. We all grieve differently *********************** WITH ALL DUE RESPECT...if i hear we all grieve "differently" one more time...i'm gon' run through downtown atlanta butt azz naked!!! grieving different "still" does not and will not take you out of the realm of normality. different how???? WTF??? YOUR WHOLE FAMILY DIES, YOU FIND THE BODY, AND 2 DAYS LATER YOUR ONLY CHILD IS FOUND DEAD. this is horrific!! FORMS OF GRIEF... SCENARIO A..YOU ARE IN SHOCK, YOU CRY UNCONTROLABLY, YOU FAINT, YOU SCREAM., YOU JUMP IN THE CASKET..ETC.. SCENARIO B..YOU CURSE SOMEONE OUT, YOU STOP EATING, YOU STARE INTO SPACE, YOU GO IN SECLUSION..ETC... SCENARIO C..YOU LOG ON TO MYSPACE TO MAKE FRIENDS AND TO CHAT,UPDATE PHOTOS AND CAPTIONS, YOU SMILE AND TAKE NEW PHOTOS, YOU HANG OUT WITH FRIENDS, YOU GET YOUR HAIR DONE AND GO ON TV..ETC. YOU BASICALLY APPEAR TO BE HAPPY. THE FIRST 2 ARE FORMS OF GRIEF. THE THIRD IS ABNORMAL AND AGAIN IS "NOT" A FORM OF GRIEF WHATSOEVER! GUILT MAYBE...BUT NOT GRIEF.SORRY. THIS GIRL SEEMS HAPPY TO BE FREE OF HER SON. THE FACTS STATE THAT THE MOTHER WAS THE PRIMARY CAREGIVER..THIS GIRL SEEMS TO CARE LESS. GRIEF? N/A
I still don't like her. I feel like it's completely her fault that she hooked up with a loser (because she felt she couldn't get no one better, cuz she's fat) that spent 5 years in prison for ATTEMPTED MURDER. The man killed most of her immediate family. I feel bad for Jennifer, her sister should take some blame for this though. I'm just being real, a 7 year old little boy didn't deserve to die, neither did her mom and her brother. I think that's why people are so upset. if she didn't hook up with this loser, we wouldn't have this tragedy.
JULIA wouldn't know GRIEVING If it was between a bun dripping with grease and she ate it! It's OBVIOUS..
One more question, since she was not grieving and called herself "getting her hair done" the day of the press conference, why not get your beard shaved, waxed, or [EXPLETIVE] even aa trim or an edge?
I'm not understanding that part either?
It is not good to judge but she is putting stuff out there for the world to see that would need to be explained. This quote is not something that the average person would know. It is best that she keeps away from My Space since all her moves are being scrutinized, sometimes you need to remove yourself so you are not out there to be analyzed.
It's a very sad story but with the way drugs were in and out of their home I don't know why anyone can't believe this was a gang hit. If they were white, I'd say the Mafia did it the way that family was massacred.
Gangs and the Mob murder if you owe them money and shortchanged them or someone orders a hit. The Mob doesn't normally kill kids though. The Gangster Disciples have no problem killing anyone. They'd kill Jesus if they could get away with it. That's how ruthless they are. People just want it to be another way but it doesn't appear like it.
Mr. Balfour, a gangster Disciple caught with drugs back in June 2008; prior criminal history. Jason, no job, raided for drugs in 2002 and reportedly a Gangster Disciple. The writing is on the wall people.
@whatanidiot
thanks...I just dont want to believe she was involved until I know for sure. I am really NOT saying shes innocent..I just dont know enough of the facts to say something so harsh about a person's character. I never spoke with the women and murder aint nothing to just accuse someone with half cocked.
But if she is guilty..I hope you and 2damnsexy beat the sh!t out of her with my help...LOL
NOT THAT IT'S OUR BIZNIZ' (THA' PUBLIC), BUT HOW R WE SUPPOSE TO KNOW THAT? SHE'S BEEN SOUNDING SUSPECT EVER SINCE THIS TRAGEDY HAPPENED. AND IT SEEMS THAT EVERY CRAZY AZZ COMMENT SHE MAKES WHICH IS OFTEN, HAS TO BE EXPLAINED. THE FAMILY IS STILL IN MY PRAYERS BUT THEY NEED TO GET OFF MYSPACE AND ON TO A SOFA CAUSE THEY NEED THERAPY. BADLY.
i dont care about some inside joke...julia is ignorant black trash, responsible for the slaughter of her family....
tell me MTO, whats julia's excuse for the telling the MEDIA that julian was more like her lil brother than her son during a PRESS CONFERENCE?!??!
some animal cut off a 7 years hand then puts 2 slugs in the back of his head & this water-buffalo is worried about who's prettier!?!??
FUUCK JULIA HUDSON FUUCK JULIA HUDSON FUUCK JULIA HUDSON FUUCK JULIA HUDSON FUUCK JULIA HUDSON FUUCK JULIA HUDSON FUUCK JULIA HUDSON FUUCK JULIA HUDSON FUUCK JULIA HUDSON
ALways knew this was only out of love!!!!. Go to myspace.com/theofficialsagitaryu s if you want real gossip. You-know-who has a hip-hop song that will be released called "girls" and it's a "she"..lesbo material, sexy though!!!!...Everyone knows her well..........Put it his way, in 3 years , it will be a hit.....
I think she could use some therapy, and it seems like she still hasn't come to terms with the death of her 3 family members but to indicate her in the death of her mother, son and brother is low. especially low when all you got as [EXPLETIVE] evidence is myspace.
however this woman went through a traumatic experience, and we don't know what's going on in her head, thats between her and god. i prayer instead of letting jennifer hudson stay in her home, oprah pays for some grief counseling for this woman
@Paris
:) I WILL SURELY ADD U2 MY MY SPACE PAGE. MAURY ONLY MANAGES TO STAY ON THE AIR BECAUSE OF SHANKS LIKE THIS. I AGREE WITH YOU SHE IS SURELY JEALOUS OF JENNIFER AND USES HER FAME ALL HER HARD WORK TO POST ON HER HUNGRY HIPPO MYSPACE PAGE TO LURE THESE GUYS IN. SHE IS IN IT FOR THE ACCOLADES NOT TO GRIEVE OR HONOR HER LOST FAMILY MEMBERS LIVES.
@fire4u
SHE IS SURELY NOT LOOKING FOR A MAN WHO IS DOING ANYTHING. HER IDEA OF A HOT DATE IS A 40 OUNCE OF O.E THAT SHE PROBABLY DRINKS IN THE PARK, A BARRELL OF FRIED CHICKEN WINGS WITH CHEESE WIZ SQUIRTED ON IT AND BLUE CHEESE DRESSING SHE PROBABLY CARRIES IN HER PURSE. LOL, U SAID "HOMEOWNDERSHIP"....SHE IS MORE INTERESTED IN A DUDE WITH A FREQUENT VISITOR CARD FROM SUBWAY.
@STORMZOE
A PARTY!!!??? RU KIDDING ME??? MEANWHILE, I BET YOU ANYTHING SHE WAS THE DUMB AZZZ WITH HER VELCRO WIG ON SCREAMING AND ACTING A FOOL AT THE WAKE AND WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BET SHE EITHER TRIED TO ACT LIKE HE WAS GOING TO PASS OUT AT THE FUNERAL OR JUMP ON THE CASKET. I WOULD HAVE LET HER FAT AZZZX HIT THE DECK THEN I WOULD HAVE STOMPED HER LIKE A ROCAH WHEN SHE HIT THE FLOOR. IF SHE WERE MY SISTER I WOULD SCRATCH THAT BEOTCHES EYES OUT.
Enough with the "grieving in a different way" BS. She is TRASH and has NO CLASS! She is too busy with her "bust-it baby" and worrying about getting some "good dick", according to her myspace. Yea, thats normal, right?
My mother always said "Class is something you are born with, not something you acquire"
What ashame to her son and mother and brother she is!
The authorities are being quiet for a reason! She should not incriminate herself so much and try to pretend.
Let's put it this way.. I'm sure Julia Hudson hasn't missed a meal or a daytime soap since this tragedy happened!
As much as Jennifer loved her family, people living in areas like this shouldn't have to look far.
We all know how the "no snitching" code has ruined many black communities and it was no secret that Jason dealt drugs. No one can change that fact. Mrs. Hudson knew it, Julia knew it, & Jennifer knew it. The house was raided in 2003.
This massecre has all the looks of a gang hit due to drugs.
