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@tjtrae1..LOL, u always notice the ish in the pics that aint got nuttin 2 do w/nuttin 2 funny @CharlieFromThaChi...sellout bytch? wow, looks like sum1 dont like da swirl. So if u fall in luv ur a sellout now, oh, i aint know dat, thanks 4 da memo....
On da cool yall, he look like a bootleg Quentin Tarantino!!!
She looks FAB..I do have to agree that her husband isn't attractive but to each their own, what i think is ridiculous is all the comments just because he's white, as one person said, she married to "whitey"...if they're happy let them be, quit hating already, people wonder why this country still having issues with race..
You know what, I don't even blame Stacey for marrying a snowbunny and selling out. I blame that damn big ass light bright Christopher Williams!
Maybe if he didn't use her as a punching bag all those years ago, then she'd still be up for some black meat.
All that sexiness gone to waste on Mr. Rogers...smh.
That white man don't even know what to do with all that.
Stacey still look so beautiful! Why do we all care what her husband look like or what race he is? I mean, should she turn away someone who makes her happy simply because he isn't black? That's stupid as hell and life is too damn short! Do you, Stacey! Don't worry about these haters! Like Mary j says, "Let em get mad, they gonna hate anyway don't you get that? doesn't matter if you're going on with their plan, they'll never be happy cause they're not happy with themselves!" LOL
you know ole boy got some moolah to pull Stacy! heck, i didn't even know she was married. a bruh sho wouldn't have went for her posing nude. go on stacy!
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Why are people COMPLAING or bothered by the fact that she has her very own white man? Black women are very loyal to Black men. Even some singers like Angie Stone make songs in dedication, to the love she has for black men. BUT look at songs by Black male artists like the Ryan Leslie ft. Cassie and Fabolous. Fabolous mentions something about having a white girl, as if white females are some type of trophy. Black men, NOT all, but some are just not loyal to black women. Inter-racial unions are not bad, but it seems like the black men who do it, do it for superficial reasons, or because of self-hatred. My sister knows this black guy who refused to date black women and only dates latinas, because we attitude problems. So, NOW, what we as a society are experiencing is black WOMEN stepping out and trying different FLAVORS,lol. Black women are considered the least desirable women in the world. And it is harder to feel good when our own black men don't appreciate us fully, so we look for love elsewhere. And so when black women go inter-racial, it is usually for the "RIGHT" reasons. Just my OPINION.
LMAO @ MTO race baiting on both ends....They trying real hard today
But wow I really didn't know she was married...
She's been one of the most beautiful women for a while...
@ MixedHearts
I support all people dating whom they want, but lets not generalize...To be fair, there are a whole lot of "love for the sistas" songs by brothas...and a lot of "no good black men songs" as well...
And as I said yesterday, you never know why someone (of whatever race or gender) is with a person unless you know them and their reasons personally....Anything else is strictly assumption and speculation...
Mixed Hearts. Maybe that's the reason brothas look elsewhere. Even though this is about Stacey Dash with a white dude you, and alot of sistas still find a way to BLAME BROTHAS FOR EVERYTHING. You are the least desirable women, as you put it, because you don't know how to act like loyal women and not like a bunch of nagging, lazy, b@tches. And think about this, if black men don't want you, what in the world makes you think that any other kind of man would want you or any other average sista?
Stacey always act like a little white girl so we are not surprised by this...
Terrance on the other hand is very refined and educated but he PLAYS like he's from the streets (at times) and then date white woman...he just a confused dude or he's plaing the black race for fools...either way I dont like him...lol
@ ubeetheman
"It seem Black women are just like black men, because we both date the fattest and ugliest kinds of white people"
Speak for yaself home boy,I still exclusively date the sistas.Always have and always will.
@ MixedHearts
Press and hold the "Ctrl" button on ya keyboard and tap the letter "F" on your keyboard.After that a search box should come up,type in the werd "trend".Look how many black females in here said they're gonna start doing it because its the new trend.So is that the right reason,because its a trend?I could name 10 songs in the past 2 years by black men praising black women,I'll name the most popular because you prolly haven't heard of the other 9 I know.I can tell already u dont listen to certain kinds of music, but you MUST HAVE heard of atleast that song African Queen by 2face Idibia.
Certain black dudes already look dumb but they make themselves look dumber...With that said,tell me how I seen some black guys in the club dancin to African Queen... with white women!Smh.
@ MixedHearts..Do you even listen to hip-hop? Seriously, stop listening to commercial radio play the same 10 songs over and over, step outside the box and appreciate the whole picture of hip-hop...Because if you do, you will see that positive hip-hop, including praise of the black woman is very much a PRESENT day thing...
I suggest you turn start with some Common (The Light, Retrospect for life, Come Close, Faithful, Love is), Talib Kweli (Black girl pain, beautiful struggle, For Women, Brown Skin Lady) and Little Brother (Nobody But you, Slow it Down)...and take it from there...
And those are only a few....And don't get me started on all the CURRENT soul singers dropping gems to black women...I could be here all day...
Please don't do what the media does and ignore the positive that exists in hip-hop and soul....
I've seen alot of black women bashing black men my whole life.
"Black men ain't sh!t,Black men aint as good as white,latino men,Black men are all either gay,have low intelligence,unfaithful,incarcerated,they dont take care of their kids,they can't satisfy a black woman etc...".I barely scratched da surface,theres alot more than that.I seen a lady 1 time on the beach with a tattoo on her arm that said "Once I went Spanish,the Black vanished" Lollllllllll.Ofcourse I seen her Mexican husband or boyfriend next to her.Even within my own family I hear the antiblack man stuff.My mother says it too,and she even told me when I was younger to make sure I marry a white woman.I've never dated,never will date and or marry a nonblack woman.So whats my excuse?I hear the anti black man stuff just like you hear the antiblack woman stuff.
I be seein that sh!t in movies too.Sanaa Lathan's movie Something New.remember that part where she looked at all the black guys and there was something wrong with all of them but OFCOURSE the 1 white guy was the best possible choice lol.There were other attacks on Black Men in that movie,and in her personal life Sanaa Lathan prefers white men.There are tons of other movies like that,why do I not "broaden my horizens","try new flavors" and be with a nonblack woman who wont black men bash?
Honestly its because I dont equate ALL black women as being the same thing.Worldwide the only thing Black Women all have in common is that they are BLACK and that they are WOMEN,after that they all differ.I only mess with a certain type of sista,that type of sista doesn't black men bashing.Thats my high caliber black goddess.I love my black sistas,but I dont love all black women.I refer to the ones who I hold dear to my heart as my sistas because I'm bound to them,and I cherish them.
What I'm trying to say basically is, in my personal opinion them IR daters be havin an inferiority complex and deal with self hatred,inadequacy and insecurities.I can honestly say I see alot of black men bashing on the net too,and at no point of the day do I say to myself "damn I need a nonblack gerl who wont hate me because I'm a black man".What I do say to myself is "I'm glad I dont associate with THAT KIND of black woman and or black man".Alot of black men have stated their preference for latina and white women so ofcourse inadequate,self hating and insecure black women feel the need to compensate by being with a man of another race.What better way to compensate?White women are the white man's woman and latinas are the latino man's woman.If I can please a white man or latino then I'm not so bad ...
This white boy isn't on the level I thought Stacy would pick, but I guess he was the man for her.
Stophatin
LOL!! White men don't even put white women on a pedestal. They treat them like 2nd class citizens. Their glass ceiling is a lil higher than yours.
What makes you think he'll put someone he's taught to hate on a pedestal? PLEASE!!!
"I see alot of black men bashing on the net too,and at no point of the day do I say to myself "damn I need a nonblack gerl who wont hate me because I'm a black man". What I do say to myself is "I'm glad I dont associate with THAT KIND of black woman and or black man".
@lvlario... Tha's what's up! I concur 100%. Keep that mentality and you'll find a woman with the same. If the man or woman is treating you well, making you happy and keeping you uplifted and positive...does race really matter? I can't say I don't date black men because 1 did me wrong....there are so many who have done me good...all over the color spectrum but I PREFER black men.
i AGREE WITH STOP HATIN. I WOULD VENTURE TO SAY THAT THE PEOPLE WHO DISAGREE ARE MEN..?
WE WOMEN KNOW. ESPECIALLY THE ONES THAT HAVE DATED WHITE MEN , OR KNOW SOMEONE WHO HAS. THEY PUT YOU ON A PEDASTAL NOT BECAUSE YOU ARE BLACK BUT BECAUSE YOU ARE A LADY. MORE IMPORTANTLY "THEIR" LADY. THEY JUST TREASURE YOU MORE. I THINK THEY KNOW THAT YOU HAVE BEEN TREATED LIKE 2ND CLASS CITIZENS AND OFTEN WANT TO ALL THE MORE MAKE YOU FEEL SPECIAL.
And Black men don't put women on a pedestal, these silly/ignorant remarks make some Black women sound like fools. If you like white men like them, but to say that Black men don't do this is ridiculous. There is a serious mental issue going on where not even 20-30 years ago you would be shot dead on the street, forced rape, and not given equal oppurtunites that now the white men are the way to go, I understand the attraction that opposities attract and the magnetic forces that are at work here, but to try to give a reason why white men are the way to go is utterly ridiculous. Two books, THE FALL OF AMERICA, AND THE MESSAGE TO THE BLACKMAN IN AMERICA, both by Elijah Muhammad, written in the 1960's predict to the letter exactly what would take place in the years to come.
i have dated all shades of black men mainly my entire life and to be honest some have treated me very good and some not so good. But never in my mind did I think to give up dating black guys when I got dissed and date a white guy.
I just have my preference but to say a white guy can't talk to me becuz he's white is ignorant.
I have met some really sweet white guys before who have the utmost respect for any lady and I have met some brothers who also have the same respect. Race doesn't make you a person.
And Black men don't put women on a pedestal, these silly/ignorant remarks make some Black women sound like fools. If you like white men like them, but to say that Black men don't do this is ridiculous. -------------------------------------------------
Its much easier to say that silliness than it is to look in the mirror and question the dating choices that they make...There are Black men that honor and cherish their women, and there are white and other races of men that don't...Its an individual thing, not something based on race...Seriously, it's the definition of prejudice, saying that character is based on skin color...Ignorant and crazy...
When people feel the need to justify their dating choices by trashing someone else, it shows insecurity in that choice...A person who is truly secure in their choice will say "I am dating ____ because that's who I want to be with"...They don't need to come with explanations or justifications....
allahuakbar Flag post And Black men don't put women on a pedestal, these silly/ignorant remarks make some Black women sound like fools. If you like white men like them, but to say that Black men don't do this is ridiculous. There is a serious mental issue going on where not even 20-30 years ago you would be shot dead on the street, forced rape, and not given equal oppurtunites that now the white men are the way to go, I understand the attraction that opposities attract and the magnetic forces that are at work here, but to try to give a reason why white men are the way to go is utterly ridiculous. Two books, THE FALL OF AMERICA, AND THE MESSAGE TO THE BLACKMAN IN AMERICA, both by Elijah Muhammad, written in the 1960's predict to the letter exactly what would take place in the years to come ******************************** I don't think that i nor anyone said that black men did not treat place us on a pedastal in some cases. I personally agreed with "stophatin"..as she pointed out that white men tend to put us on a pedastal. the discussion is not about black men, it is prompted by the fact that Stacy is with a white men. that being said ,takes nothing away from the good black men who place their women on a pedastal, it just gives kudos to the white men as well, and encourages sistas to expand their options. I find nothing wrong with that. One's color should not be a barriar when deciding whom to date.
@ eso.. A person who is truly secure in their choice will say "I am dating ____ because that's who I want to be with"...They don't need to come with explanations or justifications.... [SPAM] Unfortunately they do have to come with explanations..and this is due to bigotry and stares that they get from people.. as well as criticism . From both men and women! women should be allowed to date whomever they want.
It seems like there is a double-standard going on here with SOME Black males. When the jungle-fever is reversed Black men have noting negative to say about the relationship. In fact some will even say that the brother got an "upgrade", when he has a non-Black female on his arms,or "she can get it." But when a Black female dates outside her race she gets a lot of [EXPLETIVE].
@ fire4u....I disagree...Every grown person has the power of self determination to be with whomever they please..Its a personal decision that no one else has veto power over...
If people criticize, so what? Its no one elses right or business to dictate whom a woman or man brings into their life/bedroom...
I don't know...I just feel like...If you want to date someone, make the choice and date them...Its all good..But it seems weak as hell to want to...make excuses for why you date them...
Its like allahuakbar said, if sistas want to date white men, God bless, do your thing, make the choice but leave black men the hell out of it..Dont use us as an excuse for why...Do it because you want to...I say the exact same thing to brothas...If you want to date a white or other race of woman, do it and be proud, no need to explain or blame black women for it...Just do you and be happy.
@ eso..
but if the black woman 's excuse or reason is because of the black man, then what's wrong with that!?. I mean, if that's her reason! you can choose to call it an excuse, i call it a reason.
For example, if after for years you lived in an all black neighborhood and encounter break ins , robberies, car thefts and drug activity you choose to move. If with your move, you choose an all white neighborhood and find peace..is it not air for you to use that as a valid reason to have moved. SOme might call it an excuse, but it is also a reason.
Because in my mind if you encounter the same problems over and over and over again with something or someone, logic suggest that you should try something new or different. The reason for you trying something different may or may not be because of a black man and his treatment, but if it happens to be, i still say Kudos to you for venturing out. That's all i'm saying.
@ fire4u
I see your point and your analogy, but I contend that anyone who has that perspective exhibits VERY flawed thinking...
One, it is foolish to attribute the actions of a few or a small number to an entire group of people...Two, nicer does now HAVE to mean White or Whiter...It can be, sure, but it doesn't have to...
So to use your example of the neighborhood...Even if I went through that bad neighborhood experience, I would know that moving to a better, middle class black neighborhood was an option...I wouldn't come with the b.s. that "oh I got treat bad in a black neighborhood so I HAVE to go to a white one to do better"..Now if I found a dream house in a white suburb, fine...But moving there would be my choice...it wouldn't be because I had to do it to find something good, because similar black neighborhoods do exist and are out there...
The same applies with relationships...I would never, EVER take the actions of the few black women who have done me wrong and use them to judge ALL black women...or discredit all black women...that's just silly...
I agree with you...A smart person keeps their options open and does what is best for them, whether that be in business, career, where you live or relationships....But there are good and bad men/women in every race...So I still think people who have to say "I dated A because things were bad with B" are making excuses and justifications, rather than providing reasons...IMO...But I see where you are coming from.
This chick is fine???? Is she not what y'all call a "butta face"?? Look at her face. Look at the shape of her nose. Here eyes are too close together. She looks like a sun tanned/burned ole white woman, lol. She's really not that attractive at all. What black men have always found appealing in and about her was her being of obvious mixed race. Her texture of hair. Her keen and funny shaped nose,lol. Her eye color, her non-black complexion. That's what makes her sooooo fine and a "dime" to black men, lol.
@ SisterSallieWalker-
Please don't assume to speak for us black men. I found her attractive because she's pretty. At first I didn't know she was mixed. I just thought she was a pretty black woman.
You sound like you have some color issues against people that have a different skin tone than you with the whole "Her keen and funny shaped nose,lol. Her eye color, her non-black complexion" comment. I guess based on your logic a Hispanic woman can't be attractive either. You need to get out more.
For real, big ups to ANYONE who has the open mind to do something different and not care what other these other gorillas think. This ethnocentricity that we used to pride ourselves on has become nothing more than simple racism. Y'all haters are no different that those country bumpkins hatin on Obama at McCain rallies simply because his father came from Africa.
@ TDR25 like Black women are more negative and upset, because of the double-standard and hypocricy that comes from so many Black men. Look at the threads where the Black men are with the non-Black women (Baron) and you will see Black men who have no "problems" with these relationships. Black men make no negative comments, and often comment on how fine the non-Black woman is. But when the relationship is reversed the woman is a sell-out needs dark meat, etc. Black women are upset because of the double standard.
For the guys that are saying that's why brothas go elsewhere, please explain to me why u think really give a [EXPLETIVE], u may not believe it but many of us find white and latino men more attractive and better prospects than bm,and could care less who u date as long as it keeps u out of our faces. U can fool yourself and think all bw want u but it's the biggest lie ever told. they used to talk about a bm shortage and now u don't even hear that b cuz more sistas are finding love outside the black race so don't kid yourself. please go elsewhere, i prefer smooth chest hair and dark blue eyes anyday!
Black man are not as "negative" because of the numbers. Most Black interacial relationships are with a Black male, and a non-Black female. I remember reading a few years ago that it was approximatly 90%. I am sure those numbers have changed some, but not that much. Of course Black males can't speak negativly about something, when they are the main ones doing it. I still think Black males have a whole lot of nerves saying anything when a Black woman crosses the tracks. Black males have been running across the tracks as soon as they see a little success for the past 50 years.
wtf is going on? i thought CHANGE had come, the CHANGE we all wanted?
why are there still people who oppose interracial dating/marriages?
do ur empty eyes not see that as ur heart darkens with hatred, ur wicked tongue burns the souls of ur own brothers & sisters?
"Be the change you want to see in the world" - Mahatma Gandhi
@TDR5 You are correct White and Asian/Hispanic are #1 when it comes to interracial couples. I wasn't speaking about them; I was talking about the Black/Non-Black couples, when I stated that I read that about 90% of the time the man is Black. I don't know what "problem" you are reffering to. I simply stated that Black men shouldn't say anything when the see a Black woman with a non-Black male. I know you say that Black men don't care, if that is true why do they make negative comments when they see a sister who crossed the tracks. Black women do not feel like they own Black men. Many of us have figured out that you need to be open to interracial relationships, or risk spending your whole life waiting for a Black man. For you to say that a Black woman has better chances of winning the lottery than landing a successful man, shows how you feel about Black women.
lmao - You brothas crack me the f*ck up. It's funny when a "Black Sista" date out side of her race, she's either with him because he have money, but when a lot of black women talk about these stupid, gold-digging snow bunny, ho's who could give two f*cks about a black guy, she's not a gold-digger, and the black women, are just "Jealous". So, the white woman love for a black brotha, is loyal, but when it comes to a black sista dating a white guy, she's not being loyal, it's just basically about "Money"?! Y'all really need to get a reality check. A bunch of hypocrites walking around. Don't HATE on that "White Guy", who probably really love her, for who she is. Who's not using her as a punching bag. I'm sure it's more to Stacey's husband, then just his "Money". I usually can't stand the word "Hater", but in a lot of y'all cases, y'all are "Hating" big time. lmao Haha..
I'm gonna have to agree with SOME of the Fellas, who have common sense. Ladies, some of y'all are ass backwards. Y'all ain't nothing but a bunch of hypocrites. Y'all get mad when a black brotha date a white women, but then when y'all see a women like Stacey Dash, dating a white man, then it's okay?! Y'all were just talking shyt about the black brothas, but since she's a black sista now it's okay?! A lot of y'all are half ass confused. I honestly prefer being with a black guy, but love don't have a color for me. It's okay to have a preference, we all have that, but stop contradicting y'all self's. For the women who date white men, who claim that white guy treat them SOOO much better, than the black guys, don't y'all realize the black brothas feel the same way, about the white chicks?! lmao First we need to get it together. TWO WRONGS, DON'T MAKE A RIGHT!!!
