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WAIT WAIT WAIT....THIS THE SAME CHICK RUNNING AROUNF TALKING ALL THAT SHI.T ABOUT SKINNY BITCHES THIS AND SKINNT BITCHES THAT...LIKE SHE JUST LOVED BEING FAT....NOW SHE DAMN NEAR STARVING TRYING TO GET SKINNY.....SHE STILL GON LOOK LIKE A BOBBLE HEAD IF SHE LOOSE ALL THE WEIGHT CAUSE THAT HOE GOT A BIG AZZ HEAD....
To all those who are saying Monique's a hypocrite for talking sh!t about skinny bitches and then losing weight-yall are dead wrong. She's a comedian-that's what she does-make fun of everyday sh!t that no one thought to make a joke out of.
In this case her main message was to love yourself for who you are at the moment-no matter what you look like. I am a "thick madame" and I totally got her message-I will not walk around with my head bowed or in hiding because I'm a size 18. If I happen to lose weight, I'm cool with that-but in the meantime, I'ma continue to think and eminate all it takes to be a bad broad- "fat" and all. Amen...
On the radio, a day after christmas, she had said that her husband fears for her life b/c she's too big. So she said that she is losing weight just for him. Sounds like he's a jerk.
This what I want to know.....How she go be telling people that fat is good, and being big is ok, and her behind is losing weight, getting skinny? How that's go look. I hope all the big women start hatin her a$$.
First off it's hard to see with that big shirt on. Is she trying to hide something like a stomach? Like everyone said I though she loved herself just the way she was and claimed skinny females are evil. Why didn't she say anything about short women, tall women, or skinny men or whoever if it was just part of her comedy routine? She was jealous that's why. She is so fake.
@Reecie-I didn't know about the stuff she said on the radio about her hubby. Funk that-the only way I'ma starve myself into weight loss is if my DOCTOR said he feared for my health if I didn't. Otherwise, my husband better do like that song and love me just the way I are. I'm not gonna stop liking Monique tho-she funny as hell. Mary J. Blige still has some serious self-esteem issues and we still love her music, right? Give Mo Mo a break....
WOW GOOD FOR HER! MAN I KNEW SHE WAS GOIN TO LOSE SOME WEIGHT ANYWAYS! WHO WANTS TO BE FAT LIKE THAT! HELL U DEVELOP HEALTH PROBLEMS (HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE, HIGH CHOLESTROL, DIABETES)WHEN U OBESE! SO ITS GOOD THAT SHE LOST SOME WEIGHT! BUT ITS SHO' IS FUNNY THAT SHE WAS ACTIN IN THE PAST THAT BEING FAT IS BEAUTIFUL AND NOW SHE LOSIN THE WEIGHT TRYIN TO BE SMALLER LIKE THE SKINNY EVIL GIRLS! LOL MAN I GUESS THESE OBESE CELEBRITIES DONT STAY OBESE FOR LONG! (STAR JONES) IS ONE IN PARTICULAR! LOL
okay she's not skinny by far but I'm sure she's a much healthier weight and I agree with Writestuff she was just saying love you for you. Whether you're fat or skinny it don't matter, your weight shouldn't define you. I think she looks great and it wasn't healthy for her to be that big anyway so I applaud her for losing the weight for health reasons. You can't be that big and not be sick some kinda way. I think she looks fantastic although the head is rather large but she can't help that!! Ya'll be nice to our sistas for a change!!! We get beat up on enough as it is....
Yall sound crazy as shyt. There are plenty of fat a$$ people walking around who love their size and don't want to loose weight, but their prideful a$$es will be dead in 2 years. Like that MTV True Life episode, that fat a$$ girl was willing to risk getting diabetes than to loose weight. Now that is a dumb phuck right there.
Phuck what yall have to say, you're not going to take care of her kids if she dies are you? At least she is one that put her pride aside for her HEALTH and family. It's better to be hypocritical (seemingly) and alive then prideful and dead.
THIS FAKE HEIFFER NEEDED TO LOSE SOME DAMN WEIGHT, ITS ABOUT TIME. TALKING THAT I LOVE BEING FAT BULLSPIT. WHEN IT CAME DOWN TO IT HER BIG ASS WANTED TO LIVE LONG ENOUGH TO SEE HER KIDS GROW UP AND SHE CUT THE BS DOWN.
SOME OF YOU WOEM ARE PATHETIC THINKING THAT JUST BECAUSE SOME SORRY NIGGGGA LIKE LAYING UP WITH YOUR BIG ASS MAKE IT OKAY. TAKE SOME DAMN PRIDE AND DO WHATS BEST FOR YOUR HEALTH
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I saw that episode myself, that was crazy.
I really think that she did like being overweight. I mean, just think about it, that's how she was making her money. From her stand up act, to the Parkers. But anyone that big can't be healthy. So she had to do what was best for her and her family, not what any meaningless bloggers have to say about her.
This is a FUNNY thread.
I am laughing my as.s off at all the men saying she still can't get it or they will pass on that. Hilarious!
Personally, I don't like Monique at all. She is a hypocrite. I couldn't stand how she would defend her weight saying that it isn't about weight and skinny girls are evil and big women should embrace themselves. While it is true that big women should embrace themselves, why are you putting down skinny women? You want big women to feel better about themselves by putting down smaller women? Then comes Charm School where she's acting holier than thou, please. And NOW after all that preaching she did, after all those books, after trying to convince all of us (and mostly herself) that she was completely fine with her weight, she loses weight...hmmm...
I am happy for her though, she is doing what she should be doing to get HEALTHY and THAT is what is important. I hope she's shaved those legs since then, ew
That just goes to show you that losing weight doesn't always make you cuter or more attractive. No offense - but since she's lost the weight now her nose looks even bigger and her head looks bigger to. Oh well - I thought she was fat and happy anyway - and didn't want to be smaller? I guess that was just a lot of bulls h i t.
GREAT JOB MONiQUE SHE iS A WONDERFUL PERSON.... AND JUS CAUSE SHE LOST WEiGHT DOESNT MEAN SHE iS A HYPOCRiTE... HER REASONS ARE HER OWN FOR LOSiNG WEiGHT AND SHE MiGHT WANT TO BECOME MORE HEALTHiER...SHE WiLL NEVER BE SKiNNY BUT NOTHiN iS WRONG WiT HER FOR WANTiNG TO LiVE A LONGER LiFE NOT BEiNG 200 OR 300 HUNDRED POUNDS...NOTHiNS WRONG WiT BEiNG FAT iF THATS WHAT YOU WANT BUT BEiNG HEALTHY iS THE NEW BLAQ LOL
I'm sure when she does an interview, she'll say that she had to lose weight for health reasons, and that she still felt like she was da bomb as a BIGGER girl ('cause let's be honest, she's still a BIG girl, and always will be). I always said, gotta love yourself. But the problem I always had with her was that she had an audience, and was always putting out the wrong message. I don't care how much you love yourself, and how great you think you look as a plus-sized woman / man. There's still a point where that extra weight makes one predisposed for certain health problems, such as heart problems, high blood pressure, joint issues, stroke, etc. Most folks don't have access to the resources that she has. Gotta be responsible in your talk, Monique. Now you got a bunch of folks saying you're a hypocrite.
HOW IS SHE A HYPOCRITE SKINNY BITCHES ARE EVIL! DAMN SHE LOST SOME WEIGHT AND SHE STILL BIG SO WHATS THE PROBLEM. SHE TOLD PEOPLE TO LOVE YOURSELF REGARDLESS BECAUSE MO & I KNOW THAT IT HURTS TO BE BIG BECAUSE SO MANY PEOPLE LIKE SOME OF YOU ON HERE LOVE PUTTING FAT PEOPLE DOWN OH THE WORLD HAS BEEN MAKING FUN OF US IN THEIR STAND-UP FOR YEARS. WHO IS PROTECTING THE BIG THE GIRL THAT FEELS LIKE KILLING HERSELF BECAUSE NO ONE LIKES HER BECAUSE SHE'S FAT. IF YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN IN MO SHOES YOU CAN'T COMMENT ON NOTHING.IT SEEMS LIKE NOBODY CARES HOW FAT PEOPLE ARE TREATED ATLEAST SHE TRIED TO ENCOURAGE US AND MAKE US FEEL A LITTLE BETTER ABOUT OUR SELVES BECAUSE WE ARE HUMAN TOO! WE HAVE THE RIGHT TO LOOK GOOD,FEEL GOOD, AND FEEL SEXY!
She lost some weight and looks good, but she is far from "skinny". Like Star Jones, as much weight as she lost, she is not and will never be a skinny person because of her body type. I think the "skinny biches" Mo'Nique talks about are the size 0-4 naturally thin women who claim they can eat anything and not gain a pond. She is not one of those women, so just because she's losing weight doesn't make her a "sell out" to big women. I hope she is losing the weight for herself and not her husband; for someone as outspoken as she is I find it interesting that she would let a man dictate her in this way...must be love.
WELL THAT'S COOL..SHE LOOKS GOOD. NOTHING WRONG WITH HER LOSING WIEGHT. HOMEGIRL WAS REALLY BIG AND THAT'S NOT LIE. MY NIECE'S MOTHER IS TWICE HER SIZE AND CAN'T HARDLY BREATHE. I KNOW HER LOSING WEIGHT IS NOT ABOUT NOT LOVING HERSELF. SHE JUST REALIZED HER HEALTH WAS IN SERIOUS JEOPARDY..BUT THE FACT REMAINS, SHE STILL AND WILL PROBABLY ALWAYS BE A LARGER SIZE WOMAN...AND AS LONG AS SHE'S HEALTHY, SO BE IT..
I agree with Iloveme2313 and a couple of others.
I like Mo'Nique but she gave us all that song and dance about big girls are fabulous and embrace your fatness or whatever. She even had a show with big girls sort of like America's Next Top Model.
Mo'Nique claims she was healthy so why is she trying to lose weight now. I knew that "embrace your fatness" was a bunch of shyt.
There's nothing wrong with big girls & big boys. There's also nothing wrong with being big all of your life & not wanting to be big anymore. I have never had a problem with my weight, but my sister is a big girl... when she was little, she always had that big girl potential. As adults, we are comfortable in our skin, but my sister dose not want to be big anymore. She is a sharp girl, in style, head always popped, just don't want to be a big girl anymore. As long as a person is healthy & happy, that's all that should matter.
Good for Monique. She looks good. She needed to lose weight. I'm sure her heart was under tremendous strain when she was heavier. I always thought that she carried a lot of weight in her face. That's really what made her look so big in my opinion. She should just get a little lypo under her chin and neck. Howard Stern underwent this proceedure. She'll look like she's lost another 30 pounds with that. All in all, she looks good, I'm proud of her, and I want to hear her talk about the Obamas, the recession, her weight loss, and all that. She should have some really good material.
ohhhhhhh PUH-LEAZE. somebody get this sell-out b!tch a can, because that is exactly what she is going to need to stand on the corner and collect people's spare change, especially since her career is going down hill.
all that "skinny b!tches are evil" bullsh!t was just that....BULLSH!T. now, she done got the skinny chicks fat and the fat b!tches fatter.
ole' sell-out a**, hoghead ho.
Flag post I agree with Iloveme2313 and a couple of others.
I like Mo'Nique but she gave us all that song and dance about big girls are fabulous and embrace your fatness or whatever. She even had a show with big girls sort of like America's Next Top Model.
Mo'Nique claims she was healthy so why is she trying to lose weight now. I knew that "embrace your fatness" was a bunch of shyt.
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Co-Sign! Even tho her intentions were good she should have promoted being confident and healthy, not confident and obese. Keep it 100 when ur tryin to help someone, don't just tell them what they want to hear outta sympathy!
Entertainers really ought to be careful about what they say and how they rave on and on. It always comes back to bite them in the butt. Monique knew she was too big - and after having twins, she really needed to be concerned about her tendency for diabetes! I do think she looks better having lost the weight, but her thinking had better be about her own health - and not loosing because someone else says so. She'll be like Jill Scott and loose her man too. But at least Jill found someone else (married this weekend) and is 6 months pregnant....
I remember way back when MTO had a picture of monique and all the fat chicks naked with there body painted, and all the fat birds on here talked about how they loved being fat and how proud they were of monique and how she loved being a big girl BLAH, BLAH, BLAH. Nothing wrong with being big and Monique makes them program. I told yall then she was trying to loose weight. I got a boutiqe here in St. Louis, and her big azz came in with her busband, he bought a bunch, she couldn't buy NUTTIN! SHE WAS TALKIN BOUT LOOSIN WEIGHT THEN. REAL TALK DON'T KNOW CHIC WANNA BE FAT. WHAT ELSE SHE SUPPOSED TO SAY IF SHE FAT. SHE KNOW YOU FAT BIRDS GONE LOVE HER STORY AND EAT MORE CAKE AND FRIED CHICKEN, AND CHITTERLINGS EVERY TIME YOU SEE HER. WHAT YOU FAT BIRDS GONE DO NOW, JILL SCOTT WAS LOOSIN TO TILL SHE GOT PREGNANT. YALL RUNNIN OUT OF FAT ROLE MODELS!! WHAT DUE WANNA PULL UP A ROLE IN ORDER TO HIT, THIS INCLUDES YOU CHICK WITH BEER BELLIES WHO DON'T DRINK BEER AS WELL. THATS GROSS. YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED. FAT IS UNHEALTHY UNATTRACTIVE AND ANYBODY IN THERE RIGHT MIND WHO TELLS YOU OTHERWISE ISSSSS A FAT HYPOCRITCAL LIAR. NOW HIT THE GYM YOU FAT FU--S!
Well it is good she lost weight. I do not believe she is a "sell-out" to big women, because 9 times out of 10, she lost the weight for health reasons. People seem to forget that African-Americans suffer from high blood pressure and diabetes more than anyone else. Monique is older, which puts her at even a greater risk. If she was losing weight for appearance reasons, she would have been lost the weight, instead of waiting until now(2008 or 2009).
Okay let me give you some insight as to why this happened
As a former BBW and proud advocate for loving yourself no matter who you are, I can tell you from experience, her role as hating skinny girls was no act. Many on this particular site have stated that she secretly wanted to be skinny, well I’m here to set the record straight…it’s really not a secret. However, when you have been a BBW all of your life and you have finally accepted that you are a big girl and there is nothing you can do about it, you not only tell the world, but you tell yourself that you are happy with who you are! The reason why it’s so important to do that is for your self esteem and for your own happiness. You have no idea how it feels like not having the ability to control your body or your emotions. How cruel people are when they see that you are different, how free people are to criticize you and your apparent addition that everyone can see. You have no idea how it feels like to crave and desire food so much that it consumes your entire life. So what do you do, you turn that feeling outward and make everyone else feel guilty for not wanting to be big and beautiful, and you can’t knock her hustle for getting everyone to accept fat people and see that we are not bad people, we just have bad eating habits and yes bad genes, because I have seen it myself, two gastric bypass patients still have a fat baby – trust me it’s in the genes!!!
Anyway, you get to a point where the weight gets to be so bad that clothes don’t fit, activity is limited and breathing gets difficult and at that point you really don’t have any other choice but to do something drastic about it and most of the time if you have reached that point, that biggest loser thing is not going to work because somehow that leaves room for human error, meaning you can stop working out and start eating again, whereas, Gastric Bypass Surgery serves as a more permanent commitment and doesn’t give you the choice to eat and forces you make better decisions and that is what I ended up doing after I reached a total of 315lbs at the age of 35 yrs old. I am now 40 years old looking fabulous at a size 10, eating is limited and I exercise regularly which I couldn’t do at my former weight and proud to have made the decision to have the surgery even though people say it was the easy way out YOU MUST BE KIDDING? Taking a chance of death to lose weight is not easy decision, making the effort to exercise when before you almost went into cardiac arrest, or possibly facing other health risks if you decide to be stupid and over eat, so no IT IS NOT THE EASY WAY OUT OR AN EASY DECISION. So Monique decided to put herself first, good for her and good for her health - so don’t knock her hustle!
LMN
Good for Mo.
I saw a picture of her months back & figured she may have had some surgery (she's getting that bobble head look as I call it). I just hope if she did, she comes clean with it. Please don't pull a Star Jones & try to hide the fact, you got sliced & diced to get healthy, to each his own. [EXPLETIVE]!!! I did & I'm proud to say so & love being inspiration for others. She looks good though.
She FIANLLY realizd that her phat azz was way TOO big and unhealthy. Is she trying to be the "skinny bitch" she hates so much??? Nothing wrong with being plus size, but she was big as hell! It's time for her to stop with that cop out about big is beuatiful--it is, but being plump and healthy is better.
