: Remember when we told you that Angela Simmons was dating a popular Mexican-American record producer ... well here he is!!!
@passionforus..dats def a stud bytch!! @DQC...switch..luvs it cuz she sho do b switching out them boyfrieds @SikWitIt..right!!! Dats a dam* lie dat girl givin up da draws and we all know it @nubian_goddess05..u look like hoopz w/a wider face..ur pretty but seriously u do look like hoopz in a way..any1 ever told u dat b4?
Iloveme2313 Flag post Watch dudes be mad cause she crossed over....when dudes do it all the time. Do what you like is my take on it. - - - - - - -
Girl please stop. You know damn well men don't care half as much as most of the females on MTO. The only way to get most men to respond to a story like this, is for someone to write an outrageous comment specifically designed to push their buttons. Other then that, don't hold your breath on men getting heated over Black women dating other types of men. Matter of fact, I've seen Black men hook white boys up with Black women for dates. They just don't care. It all comes down to self esteem,they've been portrayed as sexual gods in the media for centuries and now they believe it.They're just not intimidated by other types of men sexual prowess.It is what it is. Some of you ladies really need to stop looking at IRR as a competition between Black men and women in the first place,that's where most of you ladies mess up.
La Diva
Because, I used to speak to those lil azzholes when they were starting to populate the south, and they would look at me like don't speak to me N!GGER!
I stop speaking to them because I saw they were racist lil hoes. It got so bad that blacks started shooting their lil asses. They would cut your path off in department stores, ALL KINDS OF ISH.
I live in a nice neighborhood and they do most of the landscaping around here, they try to mean mug me EVERYDAY!! So now I'm like to hell with them.
If one is cool I'm cool. Caprende'!
@staypoppin01
their is a lot of truth to what you speak, I've talked to a lot of foreigners and they all pretty much tell me the same thing, that white people always paint negative pictures about Blacks to them, plus when they watch so called "welcome to america" films they show negative subconcious images of the Black male/female. I used to mess with this mexican chick back in the day and we used to have candid conversations about how they feel about Blacks and she kept it real and said the majority of mexicans tell their sons and daughters to marry white if not mexican because Black people are beneath dirt.
Good, black women need to start dating out, and stop waiting on Mr. Black prince in shining armor when he isn't going to show up anytime soon. That's why our asses stay single.
Anyway if they are dating kudos to them. And for the people saying black men don't get mad over interracial dating...PUHLEEZE. Black men are just as angry when we do it. Especially if the man is white, of baby they hit the f-cking ceiling. They have this "I don't want you, but I don't want nobody else to want you either" complex. When their asses do it 24/7 tasting the rainbow all the damn time. Just like when negroes was getting mad about that black porn star not wanting to f-ck brothas. So it is true black women outside of internet land can care less anymore lol!
I hopee more sistas find love wherever they can find it.
@ TooFine4WhiteMedia....not always true. A lot of black men do have issues or make derogatory comments about black women crossing over...i've seen it on this site....but in all honesty, I truly don't care...about this topic or your comments....i'ma need you to calm down.
I am not trying to race bait or start some black/white thread....my comment was purely out of fun...
Most people on this site see it for what it is....a blogsite to talk shi.t.....
@ STAYPOPPIN01 let me tell u something aight cuz apparently you think it's only mexicans... for one thing it aint... aight.. cuz spanish ppl get the racism from everybody including black ppl, white ppl, whatever... it aint just u... there is racism within ya own community so don't try to come off n say your peace when you know dats true... but what u doing now is putting them all as the same n judging them all... should they all do that to u... nah just thats ignorance... to be a better person is to look beyond n past that .... Keep it moving son...
They define racism as limited to acts against groups that have “little social power in the United States (Blacks, Latino/as, Native Americans, and Asians), by the members of the agent racial group who have relatively more social power (Whites).”... ------ therefore Blacks and/or other minorities cannot be considered racist in america, this term is used way too loosely, now on the other hand if their was a country on this earth where Blacks were the majority and had social power then the term racist could apply. -----
prejudice - Definition [prĕjìə-dĭs] (n.) An adverse judgment or opinion formed beforehand or without knowledge
(n.) The act or state of holding unreasonable preconceived judgments or
(v.) To cause (someone) to judge prematurely and irrationally. See synonyms
----- Now a Black person or another minority can be prejudiced towards another in america.
@LAdiva
Preach!! I've seen more deragatory, prejudice foul things from our community towards each other than anything else. I see it all the time on here how everyone picks the next sista (brotha mainly sista) apart. Then we want to complain about other races being racist. Our country has moved foward, Barak Obama getting voted as president we're still stuck in the Willie Lynch era.
70%of the Mexican population voted for Obama, they've heard racist comments from everyone too, so we're not the only one's we just want to cry victin all the time to get a free pass, to return the favor.
There's prejudice and racist views in all communities.
Allah
You just answered a question I've had for a long time. I've always wondered how these foreigners even knew to pick up that attitude coming from another country. The "Welcome to America" films huh?
Whites want them to make money and spend it with them, they know a lot of them are green when they get here and might spend money with black businesses and make blacks rich. With money they know comes power. We know they don't want that.
@ TooFine4WhiteMedia....not always true. A lot of black men do have issues or make derogatory comments about black women crossing over...i've seen it on this site....but in all honesty, I truly don't care...about this topic or your comments....i'ma need you to calm down. -------------------------------------------------
Co'signing!!! I've seen it with my own eyes, my brother is one of them. But I don't want to stretch this discussion when it's suppose to be about Angela dating some guy, so I'll leave.
Dueces!!
La Diva
I said if they're cool I'm cool right? I met a couple of cool ones. I remember taking a long ride outta the city limits into the country one time on a hot summer day, and saw a watermelon patch. I know basic spanish so I was able to ask a crew of them for a free huge sweet watermelon, and they gave me the biggest, sweetest, one.
Remember this though, you have a light complexion, and your hair is a different texture, you can't ever compare the racism you recieve with the one we recieve. REAL TALK!!
@ STAYPOPPIN01 now you talking shyt.. cuz for one thing regardless of my light complexion, i get looked down by many races, among them my own kind. so don't talk about the shyt you don't know about. u think you get more racism, that's a lie. look at the history of mankind. there was racism towards jews, native americans. don't get it twisted n keep making yaself look dumber with every retarded comeback you can think of... u aint the only one so stop playing the victim n man up.. u give it as much as u get it so therefore u aint no better.
@Hotmomma
Girl you sound crazy. Half of those so called Black men commenting negatively on this site are frauds to begin with,namely white people pretending to be Black. They'll log on as a BW and then turn around log off and then log on again and respond to their crazy comment as a BM. lol It's so obvious sometimes it's pathetic.Most of the real Black men who comment are simply asking why the double standard,which I already know the answer being a Black female; INSECURITY! I can get any man I want and I don't have to do cartwheels whenever I see another Black female dating a man from a different race. Please let's stop the myth that some of us are WAITING AROUND from Black men.If a man wants you he'll let you know and it nobody wait. I know senior citizen Black females that get hit on by older white men but you know what those women are attractive. You will never ever ever find a good looking woman state they have trouble attracting a variety of men. So save it.
La Diva
Ok. You have jennifer Lopez starring as white men wives in movies right?
You have Antonio Banderas starring with white women in movies right??
Name a Black man or woman that they glorify as sex symbols, and have them star in mainstream movies with whites, and have love scenes movie after movie??
I've been black all my life, I have no choice but to man up! Now answer my questions!!!
@ Hotmomma Exactly.. Dat's what I'm talking about. It aint just one race, man it's ppls mentalities. I phucking hate when one race gets singled out as the scapegoat for the rest of the races in the world... Sad.. It's truely sad... We as mankind can never take 1 step forward without going 10 steps back...
@ STAYPOPPIN01 Ok for one thing, you making it seem that all spanish ppl look like jennifer lopez. don't get it twisted lil man when i tell u that spanish ppl come in all shapes, sizes n colors.. and what the phuck is u talking about movies for... them movies aint reality dog.. reality is when u walk out your phucking house, stupid... real talk, you weak..just like ya mentality is weak. stop making excuses for the shyt a group of ppl do n make an example of yourself.. that speaks more than anything coming out ya mouth right now... my brothers n sisters are not spanish, my brothers n sisters are ppl who want to unite before God n make a difference instead of popping excuses.. I look beyond ya race, n creed. Just that is the measure of a man. The measure of a man is his actions. That's real talk son...
@STAYPOPPIN01
It's the same thing for good looking Black females. All of these Hispanic and non-Black women hate on us and show their jealousy constantly. I use to have some Hispanic female "friends" but most of them where just using me to attract Black men and when their men chased after me forget it. They would lose their minds with jealousy. These people want us sexually so badly but they try oh so hard to deny it, like a closet homosexual fighting their inner sexual urges.lmao. They hate us even more when we excel in business or academic more then them because they've been brainwashed to believe we shouldn't. As far as I'm concerned they're no better then white people in terms of their racism. Lucky for me I not impressed by them like some of my sisters are so I could care less about some pale bird nose man like the one pictured above supposedly dating Angela Simmons. He looks like a step down to be quite honest but then again she's still young and maybe experimenting. He is definitely not in her class.
Ladiva
I'll be "weak" coming from you that's a compliment TRUST ME! You can't hold an intelectual debate to save your life. Your stuck on that hood BS, expand your mind and get some class fast baby girl. you sound like a mean hood rat or something. It was just a convo, not life or death.
You see how THETRUTH88 responded with dignity and class to a light conversation. Alright truth88, I didn't know that. You learn something new everyday.
@STAYPOPPIN01 Lil man i can give it to u in anyway shape or form, intellectual or ghetto but at the end of the day u is a weak as man trying to make excuses for himself. Take it as a compliment while I lmao at the bewildered look upon your face.. The truth is you just couldn't take the truth n now you want to act the victim... Keep it up, your doing a phenomenal job... I applaud you....While your at it, you might want to learn how to spell "intellectual" first...Lol
@La_Diva22 I'm going to actually keep it real right now n say within my family there are some racism but that is not only in the spanish community, that goes within everyone's community. I am not going to dispute that. But I'm the better person that I can actually look beyond their errors n not try to make excuses for myself.. That is the character of a person...Y quien mierda eres tu...
Alright Ladiva
Your going to get rich now because you know how to spell a word.
FYI I'm a successful entrepreneur on my way out soon to mail something to a potential celebrity client that's heard of what I do and wants to hear more about it. I can't make excuses, because I live by the saying YOU CAN MAKE EXCUSES, OR YOU CAN MAKE MONEY, BUT YOU CAN'T DO BOTH.
You wish your man could say things like that don't you?? LOL!!
@ TooFine4WhiteMedia
You're delusional, sweety. Also, you're not too fine for White media, we would just be indifferent.
Anyway, there is a lot of hatred for Mexicans on this site and it's sickening. Especially coming from people who claim to be discriminated against. This negativity makes me less sympathetic to your "plight" in the process.
Anyway, let this young girl dates who she wants to. Like I said, it seems Black men are looking elsewhere anyway.
ROTFLMAO @amber85
Why don't you head down to the headquarters of NOW ( National Organization for Women )and start working on white women getting equal pay for equal work from white male employers.Get to work trying to remove that glass ceiling your white male counterparts have built to keep you subjugated. Why don't you focus on making a contribution to the equal rights of white women in this country instead of living off the sacrifices of Black men and women. Your foolish preoccupation of arguing with Black women on MTO is getting tired and old. Maybe you need a new mask! Btw when do you think this country will finally elect a white female to the office of President??? You do realize your own white men don't want you sexually or otherwise. You white women need to seek some advise on how to keep your white men from some Asian chicks. HAHAHAHA! Btw these Mexicans as well as others wouldn't even be in this country seeking employment without the success of the civil rights movement and affirmative action legislation. Their filthy attitudes and behavior have brought about negative perceptions of them by Blacks. You white women,Hispanics as well as other non whites owe a debt of gratitude to Black people...male and female. When will you people say thank you? So basically, what I'm trying to say is .... F@CK YOU amber85!!!
While your at it, you might want to learn how to spell "intellectual" first...Lol ***************************************** @ladydiva22 while you're trying to correct his spelling of intellectual you may want to learn that it's not "your" it's you're meaning you are. come on now when did we learn that way back in grade school!
DAMN...how did this story turn it to race wars again? how do Mexicans become the spokespeople for Latin Americans? I know that in the south there are mostly Mexicans and no other hispanics really...but there are millions and millions of black latin americans and they can be the blackest of the black...and they will have that same attitude because different countries have different stereotypes...people think african amreicans are a bunch of watermelon fried chicken section 8 freeloaders...hispanics are a bunch of illegal babymakers...If you all wanna blame someone for all this hatred toward eachother blame white people for taking us out of our homes and moving us all over the world...damn can you imagine what it's like for a person who is mixed with all sorts of things to come on here and to hear how each race views eachother? it's real fuc*ed up! but BACK TO THE DAMN STORY...if he's treating you good girl than do your thang!
@bostongreeneyes
My ethnic background is Puerto Rican, Cuban, Moroccan Arab, Moroccan Berber/Moor,Irish, German, and Native American, and i could give a flying fcuk what people say.
It's been proven that everyone can be traced to an African woman so why get mad when someone is judging you out of stereotypes that have been developed. Yeah, it's ignorant that they do that but I wouldn't commit my energy foolishness.
I do agree with CRACKER_DEVIL tho, people are quick to forget that all minorities were included into the black category in segregation, yet it was predominantly black people who stood up for equality. Although history books in school are at times water down crocks, we didnt watch videos in school of other races singing we shall overcome.Most were scared and still scared to question caucasians, i'm just being real. There was the chicano movement(i'm not knocking that in any since) but fcuk the way was already paved for that.
@ JeffreyDahmer For one thing, the conversation was directed to someone else, but b/c you want to be all in someone's conversation and be a "smart azz" so to speak... If I choose to use 'your' instead of 'your'e, that is without a question my prerogative...
@ kennedyclark I rather be a spic than an ignorant dumb bytch like yourself...
This amber85 hoe is corny. I mean really...who is looking for your sympathy? Why don't you deliver that sympathy to the plight of white women like yourself who are paid less than their white male counterparts even thought affirmative action was created mostly for their benefit, told to starve all the body fat off their bodies to look like little boys, THEN told to take fertility drugs since they can't get pregnant cause they don't have enough fat on their bodies, THEN made to have sex with animals on camera, told unless they have white hair they aren't attractive, the largest consumers of plastic surgery because they ARE NOT HAPPY WITH THEMSELVES, the largest number on welfare, the largest group living in run down mobile homes, etc. Yeah give your self a little bit of sympathy because the plight of the white woman needs it more than ever!
TooFine4WhiteMedia Flag post @STAYPOPPIN01
It's the same thing for good looking Black females. All of these Hispanic and non-Black women hate on us and show their jealousy constantly. I use to have some Hispanic female "friends" but most of them where just using me to attract Black men and when their men chased after me forget it. They would lose their minds with jealousy. These people want us sexually so badly but they try oh so hard to deny it, like a closet homosexual fighting their inner sexual urges.lmao. They hate us even more when we excel in business or academic more then them because they've been brainwashed to believe we shouldn't. As far as I'm concerned they're no better then white people in terms of their racism. Lucky for me I not impressed by them like some of my sisters are so I could care less about some pale bird nose man like the one pictured above supposedly dating Angela Simmons. He looks like a step down to be quite honest but then again she's still young and maybe experimenting. He is definitely not in her class. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
I cosign!!!!!
With that cosign, I'm saying, racist and prejudiced ideas exist everywhere in all communites.
People really are free to date who they want. In my perfect world, we wouldn't have classism, racism, sexism, etc. I've had many negative experiences, but I'm glad I was exposed to all types of people and cultures as a kid.
@ realwoman
Thanks for pointing out the plight of the White woman. Didn't realize we had it so bad. Probably worse than Black women who never get married, have multiple kids from various fathers, have the highest rates of diabetes and stds, lack education and struggle to find a man to keep at home all while envying the White woman.
I do agree with CRACKER_DEVIL tho, people are quick to forget that all minorities were included into the black category in segregation, yet it was predominantly black people who stood up for equality. Although history books in school are at times water down crocks, we didnt watch videos in school of other races singing we shall overcome.Most were scared and still scared to question caucasians, i'm just being real. There was the chicano movement(i'm not knocking that in any since) but fcuk the way was already paved for that. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
PREACH!
i got alot of mexicans friends, both male and females and they all have told me that mexican men can be really "macho" and alot of them believe in beating thier women.
if this chick aint careful he might go Chris Brown on her
and we all know its true that most of them think they are above Black people, thats real. they might smile in your face but they will be quick to call you a 'mayate' in their language
@TooFine4WhiteMedia Girl please stop. You know damn well men don't care half as much as most of the females on MTO. The only way to get most men to respond to a story like this, is for someone to write an outrageous comment specifically designed to push their buttons. Other then that, don't hold your breath on men getting heated over Black women dating other types of men. Matter of fact, I've seen Black men hook white boys up with Black women for dates. They just don't care. It all comes down to self esteem,they've been portrayed as sexual gods in the media for centuries and now they believe it.They're just not intimidated by other types of men sexual prowess.It is what
it is. Some of you ladies really need to stop looking at IRR as a competition between Black men and women in the first place,that's where most of you ladies mess up.
WOOOOW, I really could not have said it better myself thank you.
It boggles me why is that people who know nothing about being black, flock to what we have and try and be apart of it. Why do people come on here just to start shidt seriously? Can't black people have something of their own, I mean shidt first black history was taken and claimed as another (it has been proven what a rich history we have but it is yet to be found in european ethnocentric textbooks found in schools that teach non-caucasian minds), then we made our own culture after it was forgotten & people stay trying to jack that, I mean can't we just have our own lil piece without people trying to run it in the mud??!! YES,I'm talking to you to all those people who come on here waiting for an opportunity to bash a race rather you are talking about the male or female gender it doesnt matter cuz we are a unit. DONT YOU HAVE SOMETHING BETTER TO DO?! The media caters to make caucasians look good can't you just be satisfied with that image they try to shove down other non-caucasians throat ?! You would think you would feel good about yourself already when they predominantly report about you when the statistics are in your favor that is(they even go so far of asking questions that would cater to you), every time one caucasian is reported missing we (meaning non-caucasians) have to hear about it NONSTOP (yet when of us go missing we hardly fifteen minutes if that), in mainstream movies caucasians are always depicted as the desired race (they have caucasians intermixing with everybody,lol)and don't even get me started on caucasian "history" flicks they have everyone so grand and immaculate when most only bathed once a year IF THAT, one would think that these desperate for attention caucasians would be satisfied and overfilled with esteem but it is yet to be shown. I'm not being mean or racist, I'm beingreal. I love all people regardless of background. I DEAL WITH REALITY but I'm not going to excuse pure negative behavior to degrade a race. Plz if you are one that happens to be non-black (meaning you don't claim ANY of your AFRICAN ancestry) and you don't have anything nice to say on a >>>BLACK<<< website SHUT THE FCUK UP. FOR ONCE THIS SITE IS NOT ABOUT YOU, YEAH IT REPORTS ON SOME CELEBS THAT ARE NONBLACK BUT THAT'S ONLY CUZ BLACKS KNOW ABOUT THEM. TRUST THEY ARE NOT GOING TO REPORT SOME SHIDT ABOUT SHANIA TWAIN. Blacks have better things to do than to create profiles on nonblack websites talk [EXPLETIVE] and have the nerve to hide their face,lol. (if you are racist or prejudice why are you hiding,lol?!)
Dont come at me cuz "we can" bit, "it's a free country", I'm asking what is your real motive?!
Figure that shidt out and for your sake please try to get your self esteem kick (like loving your self for once)some where else.
I'm really going to take a nap this time. I'm tired as hell.
@amber85
No one's got more STDs then white women so please put down whatever you're drinking. Oh and I'm real sure Michelle Obama and Attorney General Eric Holder's wife are real jealous of white women. LOL. Give me a break! Btw why didn't you answer Cracker_Devil?? Why do you always fixate on Black women. You're sick get help!
@amber85 Girl BOOOOO
Ive said this many times and i will say it again, It;s not that black women cant get other races its that most black women would prob date only blk men
But trust honey if alot of black women were like me and at least tried it u would c alot of blk women with differ races. please believe the ball is in our court.
I am personally responsible 4 hooking 5 blk women up with differ races but they were scard 2 try and they did, 4 are still dating(YEA I SURE DID).
As a blk women who is around alot of white or spanish men everyday from my husband they r crazy bout us they say they dont kow how 2 approach us. Trust it is happening
As a blk women who is around alot of white or spanish men everyday from my husband they r crazy bout us .
^ ^ ^ ^ To each his own but that statement in it's self sounds so weak to me.We know Black men approach all women with ease. What kind of grown ass man doesn't know how to approach a woman? SMH. That's why I believe most white boys are basically smoke an mirrors. A mere Hollywood and history book concoction. Whenever the game is leveled they lose. I really don't have anything great to say about Hispanic men.so I'll simply refrain from bashing them.
@Superwoman
Well good 4 u boo boo then i aint talking bout u then. I meant that they know and the world know that most black women prefer blk men.
One of our faults as black women is that we have lived by the quote "STAND BY UR MAN" yea that is true but damn my legs are getting tired at times.
Do u honey, that means im not talking 2 u. BY THE WAY, love my STRONG STRONG man. lol
CRACKER_DEVIL Flag post
ROTFLMAO @amber85
Why don't you head down to the headquarters of NOW ( National Organization for Women )and start working on white women getting equal pay for equal work from white male employers.Get to work trying to remove that glass ceiling your white male counterparts have built to keep you subjugated. Why don't you focus on making a contribution to the equal rights of white women in this country instead of living off the sacrifices of Black men and women. Your foolish preoccupation of arguing with Black women on MTO is getting tired and old. Maybe you need a new mask! Btw when do you think this country will finally elect a white female to the office of President??? You do realize your own white men don't want you sexually or otherwise. You white women need to seek some advise on how to keep your white men from some Asian chicks. HAHAHAHA! Btw these Mexicans as well as others wouldn't even be in this country seeking employment without the success of the civil rights movement and affirmative action legislation. Their filthy attitudes and behavior have brought about negative perceptions of them by Blacks. You white women,Hispanics as well as other non whites owe a debt of gratitude to Black people...male and female. When will you people say thank you? So basically, what I'm trying to say is .... F@CK YOU amber85!!!
^^^^^^^^*STANDING OATION* TO [EXPLETIVE] DEVIL...
IM SURE YOU REALIZE THAT ITS AMBERS MISSION TO DISCREDIT BLACK WOMEN..
I ALWAYS LMAO AND GIGGLE @ SOME OF HER POST...BLACK PEOLE DON'T TAKE THESE FRUAD BLOGGERS SERIOUSLY
@TooFine4WhiteMedia
Baby Gurl I guess I have set you straight too being that I am a hispanic female, and you claim we are hating on the black woman....Here it is point blank period.... We are women just like black women are too.. Black men are attracted to us just like they are attracted to you and white women and any woman of their choosing...Never have I been intimidated of any black woman cause to me it's not a competition...when are you going to realize that you do not own black men? They are free to date or love whomever they please..this is america a free country...seems like to me you would live your life and not worry about what the next man is doing cause it's not your life to live. We as hispanic women cannot help it if the black men love spanish chicks!!! truly pitiful how people are on here talkin down on people who ain't worried about ya'll selfless hating.....yes i am married to a black man and he loves me and i love him...period.
