: MediaTakeOut.com just received an update on the Steve McNair murder investigation. Nashville police have now confirmed that Steve McNair’s mistress, Sahel Kazemi, murdered him and subsequently committed suicide.
And here’s how she did it. Police claim that Sahel waited for him to fall asleep and then shot him multiple times. MediaTakeOut.com also received a local report which claims that before falling asleep, Steve had been intimate with Sahel
That’s pretty cold blooded…
And just to add.....I make 70k a year and I have hotter jump offs than this. She would be like 4th or 5th on my booty call list....I'd be on some desperate [EXPLETIVE] before I got down to her name.
Steve McNair is a clown for fukking with this chic. Especially without first setting some ground rules.
this should be a strong warning for those athletes that cheat on their wives thinking its all good you never know what a person is thinking sex and love is a powerful thing and these married athletes shouldnt promise anyone that they are going to leave their wife and kids for them and the females is stupid if she believe that bullsh*t thats only to keep you in the cut they would do and say anything to bad he had to lose his life over it he had a wife and kids thats what i'm trippin on at the end of the day it really wssnt worth it his family lost a husband brother son
his kids no longer have a father because of the choices he made no [EXPLETIVE] is ever worth losing your life over to bad he had to find out by getting killed by his jumpoff i can just imagine how his wife is feeling from what i heard he wasnt even helping her money wise at least have enough game to get that money and keep it moving she was too damn young for him
AND THEY WERENT EVEN INVOLVED A DANG YEAR!!! How stupid and needy could she have been??? Men shouldnt be misleading yall are absolutely right but nothing in my mind could have me that caught up and wrapped up and in love in no dang 6 years let alone 6 months!! AND YES I DO WATCH SNAPPED HAHAHAHAHA!! Im glad I constantly know my place in every relationship!!
I feel sorry for his family, his wife and kids. However, this is just a repurcussion from tha kind of games people play... its called Karma...although I dont by any means condone her killing him, it is what it is..You cant jus fault her, it takes two to cheat...He shouldnt of been doin this [EXPLETIVE] in the first place...
I co-sign wit VicDamone.....he said
This has got everyone who got a side chick SHOOK!!! Everyone breaking up with their friend on the side through text, phone and email...NOT IN PERSON
Dats sum real [EXPLETIVE]!! Funny, but real! Cause these lil Biitches is fukkin crazy! And i bet he was tellin her how much he loves her while he beatin it. her mind already [EXPLETIVE] up! Now wit dat on top of it....shiiiiit!
Madame PC
that selfish bitch ... took a father away from his children for life ... if she was so emotionally miserable and broke ... she should have just offed her own side piece ass!!! when will jumpoffs know their place [SPAM][SPAM]________ The best way for a jump off to know that is for you to not give her a place at all how about that one? You can never control other people so when men get so selfish that they think it is only about there wants and needs this is what you get in the end... We hurt people so much in this world and expect them not to B crazy.
These young woman need to have some damn dignity and morality. its SICK that you feel it is in your better good to mess with a married man on top of that has children. You will never be happy sharing a man...... Little girls need to be a WOMAN. And stand tall. As for the MAN... its apparrent he wasnt wise enough to back away and strong enough keep it in his pants.... SHAME!!!
MTO ya'll are so stupid.... no one has report they slept together that night.... please go to CNN or Fox News and get the real report... he bought her a 07 escalade, and she was staying all the time at the apt him and another man was renting... she thought he was cheating on her with another girl and the night before she was arrested on a DUI charge with McNair in the escalade... McNair was released and she was taken to jail.. she got out and then the next night all this happened... Please get the facts before you report anything dumba**
dajames07
She was wrong but he was stupid had more to lose and put all that matter to him on the line for that bitch... Even now men have so much to say about the woman but what about ya'll laying asses who create [EXPLETIVE] that ya'll can not finish ( I don't mean you personally) but until men really start to check there own asses they will be many more bodies watch... U can only control yourself, so control U and we will not be having [EXPLETIVE] like this happening and that goes to all men...
HBIC lala
Yes woman should but as always it takes two and both are accountable... When I like at the woman in the world today I see them trying to follow a man's mentality and driven world and they are losing this battle... I think the best revenge on men treating you like nothing for year is to keep there legs closed and give these men nothing until the learn that you are just as important and precious as they are... Stop letting men define them and play games with there minds for his own personal gain... I do pray for the woman of today…
I HAD A BIG TALK WITH MY MAN ABOUT THIS, I SAID IT WAS HIS FAULT- MY REASON IS- THAT HE WAS MARRIED AND SHOULD NOT HAVE STEPPED OUT OF HIS MARRIAGE TO GET SOME YOUNG BOOTY.- AND THEN STARTED TO GO OUT WITH THIS GIRL, THEN BUYING HER STUFF-CARS, APARTMENTS TRIPS, WRONG MOVE ON HIS PART ( NOW HE IS SAYING THAT WHY AM I SAYING IT ALL HIS FAULT) HE'S NOT UNDERSTAND THAT THE FOOTBALL PLAYER WAS THE ADULT IN THAT REALATIONSHIP AND THAT HE SHOULD HAVE JUST ORDERED HIS FOOD AND LEFT THE RESTURANT AN LIVED HIS LIFE. A OLDER MAN WITH A YOUNGER GIRL HARDLYL EVER WORKS. SHE AND HIM R IN DIFFEREN PLACES.
This puts new meaning to him dying doing what he does best...other than football of course! That chick was crazed. Certainly he had to have seen some signs. She makes the female in "A Thin Line between Love and Hate" look like a saint. Tragic!! ----------------------------- [link to external website removed]
And he was with her the week before this when she was driving and was arrested for being drunk. He then refused to speak to her while she was in the police car. He was JUST in the car with her so why refuse to speak to her? You can't play mind games with people. It's 2009 and people are getting crazier and crazier.
A 36-year old married man (12yrs) with 4 kids, a loving wife but he has a 20-year old jump-off and possibly other chicks on the side??? Dude made some real bad choices and now his family, wife and kids are suffering through this tragedy.
CRAZY ASS JUMP-OFFS CAN KILL, Amy Fisher shot old girl in the face, they don't just flatten your tires, smash the windshield and key scratch the whip anymore...them byatches playing for keeps.
That's a lie!!!I live in Nashville and no freaking report says that. Just lies lies lies. His image is already damaged why do you want to damage it even more. The time line reported said Steve got to the condo between 1:00-1:30 and Kazemi arrived a sometime after that and that he was asleep on the couch and she shot him in the head, twice in the chest and again in the head. She then sat beside him on the couch and shot herself in the head...if you gonna report get the fukking facts and stop tryna glamorize a already fukked up situation...
even though she was wrong 4 phucking w/a married man people r forgetting that she didnt take vows w/anyone, she didnt enter into a covenant b4 da lord and the church...HE DID!! U cannot play w/a womans emotions like dat, reason being..look wut happened. If dis nikkah woulda honored da women he took as his wife he would still b alive and so would this young lady. Is she wrong? yes Is it crazy that her feelings ran dat deep? yes, but it aint no telling wut she had already been thru putting up w/all his lying...He wanted to bust a nut so bad that it cost him his life! sad 4 da kids but not him
That's what the fck he get!!! This should happen 2 every stupid married man who decides 2 go out n cheat when they have it made @ home!! Don't feel any pity 4 him. Obviously the bitch was crazy but she must have given him sum superb brain 4 him 2 go out n buy her a whip after just a cpl of months.... Anywho.... Good 4 his cheatn ass... His wife will be great!!!
cubanak
If brothers keep treating the black woman as they do watch it will not be long before the black community mimic this action trying to keep up with the Jones... I have learned that it might be hard to be alone but it is better than letting someone else ruin your self image of yourself... Guard your heart and mind with all dilligence so the issues of the life (the world) will not come in...Quoted from the Bible...
WUTUPDOe313
And it is still wrong has always been but people find all kind of excuses to do it even when it causes them there life...Why can't people just check themselves and stop such a destruction kind of behavior all it does it destroy everything in it's path.. [SPAM][SPAM]____________
Peewee06
Could not have said it better... Now even for the strongest of woman it is hard... To me the world is all about manipulation so as long as other are so free with themselves no one will be able to gain the life style that we all deserve and want to make come true...
I don't feel bad for him but for his wife and kids and all his other family. His wife had to find out that her husband was murdered and that he was chetaing all at once. Some men (and women) are incredibly selfish. Although she didn't say the vows she could still have morals and not mess around with a married man with kids. And he is so disgusting I have no sympathy for him because it could've been prevented if he just didn't cheat. He had four little boys, he didn't think about them one bit and look now they're going to be raised without their dads and they'll have to hear this terrible story
This low down dirty trifling white bitch! Excuse me for being so candid, but i have a problem with a white girl knocking off one of our brothers...just because she felt entitled@ I heard on CNN that she felt that her life was not going the way that it SHOULD , and that she also discovered McNair might have an additional girlfriend. First of all, you are the jumpoff! Do you not know that if he cheats with you, he will cheat on you. I dare you kill him. If anyone should kill him that would be the wife,,,not her azz. I know that sounds crazy, but the point is ...she had no entitlement to him!the nerve of her to even feel like she had any rights whatsoever! this superiority , snobbish complex that some of these white women pocess is just shocking.
I'm mad at Steve for even messing with this twisted sick woman!. ..
@ fire4u Homegirl wasn't white. Don't understand why ppl associate all light skinned ppl with being white. She was from Iran. And yea as a jumpoff she should have played her role cuz she knew what she was. But homeboy aint exempt. He knew better than to deal with a 20 yr old, knowing half of these youngster's are not in their right state of mind. It don't take much to set a young minded female off regardless of her race....
cont.. Black men..you can date whom you please. But please ask enough questions. Don't date a chick just because she is white and viewed superiour. Please don't automatically assume that her white skin makes her pure and moral. I say that because..Some of you are just happy to have a white women. Just really happy to experience something new and adventurous. This stick your chest out pride that many of you get when you land one... is just really corny. Now Steve's azz is 6 feet under because he got caught slipping . This girl told her friends that she was going to end it all. No one told Steve, huh? Or was he too blinded by the white girl's sex, that he failed to come up for air and practical no nonsense thinking.
So , in the end...Rather than being remembered for his contributions to the NFL, he is remembered for placing shame , headlines and scandal on his name, and that of his children. It's just shameful
LaDiva22 Flag post @ fire4u Homegirl wasn't white. Don't understand why ppl associate all light skinned ppl with being white. She was from Iran. --------- Yeah, i knew she was from another country just based on her name. And? She's not black, nor is she a person of color..which probably to many of us is the same from a practical standpoint ..if you look at just pigment. So, no, she's not white american. The fact that she is from Iran...is far worst. The struggle for women in that part of the world is intense.Their rights for equality has been supressed for decades. So why on earth would someone like her feel entitled to sucess at such a young age? She must have been very much apart of Amercan culture, or may have even been born in the U.S.to feel that way? You get a DUI and a few bills and all of a sudden your life is over? Give me a break! lol.
Why are people bringing the fact that she's Persian (NOT ARAB) in to this? Are people stupid enough to believe that she was somehow genetically predisposed to commit murder suicide? Really? Grow the fukk up, and realize he got unlucky. There are mentally unstable woman in all races and cultures, sho have killed their bf AND themselfs. Ain't nothing new under the sun. She was a drug addict, that didn't help either.
lol@ Ms America...
Right. they get on my nerve with all that white, light skinned crap. The knowledge that in general terms we are speaking of someone outside of the black race as we know it is common sense. Clearly this trick was NOT black. lol might i add...there is no need for a racial debate on color and race as it relates to this tramp! she does not deserve it.
Bottom line is she was not African American....and He should have had his black azz at home ..whith his African American wife and kids!!!!!!!!!! So..My condolences to his lovely wife and children....
First, keep race out of this. This woman is selfish, weak, low life piece of trash, and any woman of any racial background who did the same would deserve the same description!
Sorry but this is just plain weak. If someone doesn't want you anymore, have the strength and dignity to hold your head up high and walk away. That is what strong women/men do. Only the weak use "emotion" as an excuse. Suicide is a selfish weak act, and taking this man to the grave with her made it worse. There is no justification for cold blooded murder ever!
@FLA941...It's true that already confirmed it as a homicide/suicide.
Condolences to the MCNair family. What a tragic lost. But he made his bed and now he's laying in it LITERALLY. You never know who ur dealing with these days! THAT'S Y U STAY AT HOME WITH UR WIFE AND KIDS! U MARRIED UR WIFE SO Y CHEAT?
sad! RIP BRO!
Fire4u EXACTLY!!! Now his beautiful wife (I say that b/c she is) and his kids are left embarassed and deeply hurt. She has to deal with his death and infidelity!! What a blow! And that trick, whose only 20 years old talking about things werent going her way and she wanted to end it all. WTF could you have going on sooo trying at 20 that you wanna kill yourself and someone else?? Hell I was 20 at one point and my greatest concern was getting my financial aid in on time so I could get my reimbursement and probably buying them expensive behind books hahahah!! I was partying my butt off!!
@ fire4u & MissAmerica1 who the phuck gives a shyt where she is from. ppl act like a blk person aint ever flip out on someone. this shyt happens all the time but bcuz homeboy is in the nfl thats why its being blown up. and all that stereotpye of her skin color, u da one calling her white so therefore i called u out on it...
Some men (not real men) are notorious for promising the world to a young person stupid enough to believe it. It's a shame that the one's who have to deal with the realness of it are the wife and kids. That jumpoff was wrong cuz she knew he was with someone but he was the one who made the vow to his wife so the biggest one to blame is him.
@miss america... 20 years old and working at dave and busters as a waitress. Yet he saw enough in her to purchase her all of these things..all the while taking money out of the home he had built for his family. This uneducated 2 bit trick didnot deserve these lavish things, and it proved to be a fatal mistake to spoil her with them.
@ MissAmerica1 Hey azzhole i don't need to make a phucking list so keep sitting on it. As for me I'm hispanic and I'll be damned if some ignorant bytch as yourself gon try to disrespect me by calling me something i aint. Just like u want to be respected for your heritage u learn to respect others or shut the phuck up with ya ignorant ass...
@ don simmons.. Hi! lol You are so right. But i brought race into it because she is not black and she killed a black man. I am not saying that a black woman or hispanic woman would not or could not have done the same thing. I am saying I dare this jump off do something that the wife could be viewed as doing..because of a adultry. No one is committing adultry against her! she is the jump off and for some reason she felt entitled enough to do this? Not thinking of his kids losing a father. She had no right to kill him. So,I am saying that I would excuse the wife for this act, b4 i would her. She had no right to kill him. so from that aspect, the fact that she is not black further infuriates other women of color like myself. It's like..i dare she?
MissAmerica1 Flag post Fire4u was the trick even getting an education??? ---------------
lol. All tha i have read just indicates working at dave and busters and screwing this black woman's husband. Clearly at 20,. she should have been in school attempting to further her career. Seeking fame and fortune through a man is just not a gurantee. It seems she had little guidance in life matters perhaps? Killing someone as a solution is just outlandish!!
Should have been at home with his wife and kids. See blk dudes be tryna get these weak dumb girls and promise them the world knowing that they want only one thing and that's it. Jump off...what made u think u where above his wife. Who ever is a jump off need 2 get dat thru their thick skull. (SIDELINE HOE)
To all the ignorant and dumb azz people who says he deserves it! No one deserves to die, out of respect for the family yall could at least save whatever harsh feelings you have about this situation. That's some pretty cold [EXPLETIVE] to say about the decease. God did not create a perfect person, he had faults just like EVERYBODY else! It was his time, so God called him home. People get over it!!! Everybody on this site, sitting behind a computer sceen or cell phone, got there OWN problems to deal with, unfortunately, this is NOT yall problem, so let the man rest in peace..
*Ringing the bell*
Here goes all the bitter black oogly bitches screaming that he gets what he deserves lol. Loser azz hoes. She shot the man while he was sleep!!! That's some cold s,hit rite there. Weak self involved s,hit. Middle eastern ppl as a whole ppl should just phuckin avoid. Suicide obviously isn't a problem for them. I cant believe a JUMPOFF is arguging and gettin all emotional over another JUMPOFF. Some women cant handle being with a millionaire.
n*ggaz fukcin w/ these psychotic white bitches. always wanna downgrade a sister for sticking w/ u when the going gets tough but when things get rosy wanna play around w/ becky. see a sista can go crazy but you always know where we stand cuz black women are verbal. white women be holdin shyt in--grinnin & smiling & shyt & be crazy az a fukcin bedbug. this is just terrible. my heart goes out to his wife & kids.
Just check out Toya; Lil Wayne's baby mama. The country bimbo. I remember when Wayne was on the cover of BLAZE mag with his new daughter in his arms talkin about him and the mother weren't together. this is like 10 yrs ago! Now on Toya's show this bitch is still talkin bout wayne this and wayne that. It cant be for his charming looks or personality. Wayne has moved on the bigger and finer things(Lauren London)so this bitch needs to let it go please. Getcha a drug dealer or something gold digger or better yet, work on yer damn self kuntry.
Be careful when toying with folks emotions...thats some dangerous stuff. No one deserves to lose their life by the hands of another...but when emotions run high and are dishonest stuff like this happens. I wouldn't of been messing with a married man first off but damn she could of glued his ting-a-ling to his leg and told his wife but i wouldn't of shot him thats a bit harsh!
How sad for his wife and kids...
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@hotbunny MTO my computer keeps telling me that there is malware on this site, my MAC and PC is saying the same thing, so please fix this because this can damage someone's computer.
Good and I hope the malware eats into your PC's CPU and makes it retarded. DOS is windows duddddd. That would be one less annoying blogger to listen to. Kick rocks crunchy black
SHE DUMB!! SHE SHOULD'VE WATCHED A LIFETIME MOVIE FIRST, PLANNED DA SHYT AND SHE COULD'VE BEEN FREE AND STILL ON THIS EARTH WIT ALL THE SHYT HE GAVE HER. WHAT A RETARD!! R.I.P. BUT I DON'T FEEL SORRY FOR HIS AZZ!! I HOPE MORE JUMPOFFS DO THE SAME THING TO THOSE AZZHOLES CHEATING ON THEIR WIVES FOR A PIECE OF AZZ!! BUT PLEASE PLAN IT OUT FIRST AND KEEP IT MOVIN!!
hotbunny Flag post I WOULD CREMATE HIS A.SS AND THROW THE ASHES IN THE GARBAGE OR EITHER IN THE JUMPOFFS CASKET AND GET ON WITH MY LIFE. -----Actually, this is the best idea, why waste money on a funeral, he's already wasted enough on side pieces, and believe ME, there was more than ONE!
*** ROFLMAO
Why r they trying make seem like this man was sleep? I am just gonna take it anutha step further, they had sex, he fell asleep, she killed him and staged da scene NOW lol! Homie should have been home wit his beautiful black wife & 2 sons. This is wut u get when u cheat and break GOD's commandments. Just don't marry or just get divorced, if u wanna be free and become eligible for STD's n Death! fukkin ridiculous.
DAMN STEVE SHOULD HAVE WENT TO A PROFESSIONAL FOR SOME ASS. ITS CHEAPER THEN A RELATIONSHIP. THE CHICK WILL ACT LIKE SHE LOVES YOU BUT WILL NEVER REALLY CARE ENOUGH ABOUT YOU TO KILL YOU. AND IT IS DISCREET (SHE WONT TELL) NOT LIKE SUPER HAEAD. BUT HONESTLY YOU KNOW IF YOUR READY FOR MARRIED LIFE OR IF YOU WANT TO BE SINGLE. SO STOP GETTING MARRIED IF YOUR NOT DONE SOWING OATS. AND DEFFINANTLY DONT HAVE KIDS IF YOUR NOT READY TO SETTLE DOWN. REALLY DOWN ALL THE WAY DOWN AND DONT WANT TO GET BACK UP. PEACE
This is one of the many reasons I choose to be celibate. Unfortunately this sad drama occurs amongst single people too. What people need to understand is that men and women are wired differently. Very few women are able to have a casual s-e-xual relationship without catching feelings for the guy. Even if the man is upfront about what he wants, signals still get crossed and women get confused especially if he treats the woman kindly. Most women can’t help this it is in our maternal instincts to do so, but we need to know that our p---y no matter how good we think it is can build/sustain a relationship. If a man is not willing to give you what you want in a relationship, cut him off as soon as you find out, because it will only gets worse and by the time it is officially over, you become so bitter, you cannot even appreciate or recognize a better man when you see one. You pass that same bitterness on to your children and all the nice guys will run from you.
Most women seek revenge by slashing tires or harassing the other women in the guy’s life, but it usually doesn’t go to this extreme. McNair was taking this girl on trips and helped her to get an expensive car, why wouldn’t she think she was kind of special to him? However, he wasn’t even paying her car notes or rent, only one of his friends knew about her, which meant he probably never intended to leave his wife for her, and yet she still clung onto a man that gave her very little. Don’t be envious ladies; it had nothing to do with him being a black man or her being white, the only thing he cared about was p---y and it was obvious he was just playing with her.
Men on the other hand, hardly ever confuse sexual compatibility for emotional compatibility. Even if you have the good good, it is not going to change the way he truly feels about you especially after he gets out of bed. If you ask most men, the bomb sex is usually next to the lowest on the list when seeking a life partner. As much as people are bashing this woman, I truly have sympathy for her. She was probably a ticking time bomb before he met her. A high school drop-out, poor immigrant, low-confidence, young-minded girl with not much to look forward to and then here comes a good looking, older rich man paying attention to her. She probably built this big fantasy in her mind, because she was so desperate and sought love the wrong way. Although he did not deserve to go out like this, McNair should’ve been ashamed of himself for preying on the naivety and weakness of Kazemi and other girls like her. Let this be a lesson to both men and women. Treat people how you wish to be treated.
fakesmile
I don't think that men are that different from first creation GOd had an entirely different plan for the man in the woman but the human race messed that up... I do believe that a man can be in a very faithful relationship when he mind is grounded in the better things... See it is all about the mind and what you allow into your space, eyes and ears... Men cheat because because the world makes them feel that they can with not real consequence but that is the deception just like the the Garden of Good and Evil...The Bible says my people die from a lack of knowledge.
McNair loosing his life this way should not discount that he did a lot of wonderful things, but he was just a man like so many others, made a dumb mistake. This is why I cringe when people put Obama on a pedestal like he is some type of messiah with all that pressure on him to do everything right, he is probably really struggling with resisting improper outlets to deal with so much being expected of him. We are all human and make mistakes; I just hope that McNair’s positive legacy isn’t overshadowed by this crap.
@resurrected It's not the woman in this mess but the man as usual...
What in God's name are you talkin about? She knew she was simply a jumpoff ya dumb c,unt. So because she got hurt by McNair that gives her a license to kill? She shoulda been happy he was spendin money on her broke azz and lived it up. So if a woman berates me and gets on my nerves can I beat the s,hit out of her too resurrected? Pretty please I'm emotional too.
Of course they had sex before she offed him. She wanted to be the last one. She purchased the gun just a few days before so it was definitely thought out. She knew he would fall asleep after he came, watching tv on the couch. I'm sure she knew his routine. She wanted to fall on his lap but ended up falling to his feet. How fitting. Feel bad for his family. I'm sure they are sad but kindof humiliated.
@resurrected
You made some good points.
I also think women fall into these type of situations with men because they are not paying enough attention to whether they are dealing with a man who is properly grounded, maybe it is because they aren’t either or they think he is going to learn by her example and change. Yes, our world has so many people lost and confused.
WELL LADIVA22 GET YOUR HISPANIC OFF THIS BLACK SITE THEN AND YOU WONT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT BEING DISRESPECTED!! You so busy preaching about this could be any race but you have yet to tell me how many black women have killed a dam.n man over some sh.it like this and then I tell your ass to calm down earlier yet I leave for lunch and come back and you are still talking sh.it. I know yall a$$es are crazy b/c I have lots of hispanic friends so you probably one of the ones to kill a mothafucka!!! But Im ignorant???? NO Bitch you are ignorant.
Betterman
They are both gone and both don't have to deal with the mess but he had way more to lose and now someone innocent it suffering the wife... Sometimes I just wish that men saw the damage they left behind.. Yeah they are with the freaky woman but I rarely meet men these days that wantr to go through the correct motion for a good and better woman, then get bad when they find out that there side peace is crazy... Who is the person that needed to check the company that he was keeping not the wife...
fakesmile
I consider myself an exception because I did not grow up with a lot of good men around but very strong woman and even in the absent of my father in my life I don't trust men at all that much... I treat people how I want to be treated because I was taught that way but don't get me wrong I am quick to tell a man to pump him brakes if it is needed... I still hope to have a man that I can be equally yoked with but as a woman we all come across some duds on your way.. We are all hurt people in this world but something has to give... I think character is so important in a person.
@ MissAmerica1 Sorry dumb ass but aint no man worth losing my life for(or killing for that matter). But someone as ignorant as u are making outlandish and biased comments only reads what they wanna read. Research all the statistics homey, cuz crazy ppl come in all colors... U one for dat matter. It always starts of with ignorant ppl.
I don’t think the mature people on here are trying to justify or excuse Kazemi’s actions, she was wrong on so many levels, but like many of us who are baffled by what happened; we are just trying to rationalize what may have caused this woman to snap. McNair could have been telling her the truth, but a mentally unstable person is not going to process reality of a situation the same way normal people do. That’s why you have to get to know people before you let them get close to you. What do you know about a person in 4-6 months? That’s usually when all the dirty secrets start coming out.
Too bad McNair and other people (men and women) don’t understand this when they play around.
I'm SO sorry for the wife that didnt see this coming. What a terrible way to find out about your husbands 'other life'. He needed a serious upgrade in the mistress department. A waitress?? Taking her on sex junket vacations, buying cars, condos and shiit. Confused the girl - she forgot her place was a PLAY THING. ..hmmph and I Hate to play devils advocate, but BETCHA he wouldnt have fucced with a black WAITRESS, if he hadve, she woulda just got some dick, no xtras. Niccas kill me with that. Tiger married a nanny for gawds sake. oops my bad, Au pair. lol lol.
Men cheat, hell PEOPLE cheat, but men and women do it for different reasons, but it seems, for men, loves got little to do with it. Women get waaaay more attached emotionally, hence this 20 year olds DELUSIONAL thinking that she and McNair would be together married. Then she found out he had yet ANOTHER girlfriend!!! Couldnt handle her fantasy was just that; a fantasy. His fantasy more than likely revolved around wild and uninhibited sex, the kind you don't share with the wife, she's the woman that kisses your children goodnight with that mouth and maybe the idea of jizzing all over it and in it was something he didnt want to do to her!! Especially if she is a 'good girl', the type that usually gets the ring and title MRS. (for the record I know there are freaky MRS's as well, but many ARENT)
Women KNOW the man that is laying next to you and stop settling for lies because YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!!! A LOT OF SUCCESSFUL MEN HAVE HIGH SEX DRIVES *and* OPTIONS and means to realize their fantasies. Not saying its right, but it is what it is.
Fucc what u heard, TRUTH is POWER and gives YOU options. When you accept lies, you get surprises like this. I'm NOT saying to turn the other cheek and play docile, 'do-whatever-you-want-honey' wife while he is dicking down the neighborhood, but chances are if you are married to a high profile man with disposable ends for 10-15-20 years, he may get that itch to stick it in a pretty young thing from time to time. And if he is a good man, a provider, a good companion, good father, are you going to let him go to be with a jump off thats been WAITING for YOUR good thing? So YOU can join the ranks of single black and bitter motherhood? There HAS to be boundaries, and when you know the truth, you are in a better place to navigate them. My opinion.....
@ betterman..
lol. why are you yelling at Ressurected. He or she made a great point. Why the direct sensitive for the man, and constant abuse of a woman. You seem to love to do that. I am able to evenly distribute fault amongst both genders fair and evenly as can be attested in my comments. But you seem to hate women. Let's all just agree that Steve should ahould have not been in an affair with this young girl. With that said..he contributed to his early demise. Either he is resting in peace..or just resting...only God knows.
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Truth is knowledge is so right I find that a lot of men want for you to be stupid so that they can get what they want...When my ex was cheating on me he would get mad when I would look for and find information about what he was doing..He would say stuff like everyone knows that you never look for what you don't want to find...I was like well I don't know that and do not want to live a lie... I would rather always know the truth no matter how much it hurts me.. You have to let people know where U really stand and then here comes the runner and the manipulator.
I DON'T KNOW WHY BUT I DON'T 100% BELIEVE THIS STORY. Something about it don't sound right period. Yeah she may have been a lot of things but i don't think she killed him. I really believe these ppl were set up maybe by her ex or somebody else that found them out to make it look like her ass was crazy. It may come out eventually or not at all but something just don't fit in this picture.
THIS IS NOT A COLORED ISSUE SO PPL PLZ STOP TAKING IT THERE, GO WATCH SNAPPED. ALSO EVERYONE READ WHAT FAKESMILE SAID: I totally agree. Some ladies need to learn to take the time and figure out what they really want in life and relationships before laying down with someone. Some women sleep with men and hope for the best like this little misguided girl, I'm not much older than her but I was taught better. See what a man is all about first then you won't have try and beg, plead and figure out if he wants to be with you. Women should never be the chasers, that never ends well, smh
@Shytmoney-You Throw Shyt Around? Gross..LOL!
Anyways He Should Have Never Been Keeping This Chick. He Should Have Just Hit And Went On His Way. I Know That Sounds F-cked Up But A Man Is Going To Be A Man. Shyt She Gets me Hard And I Have a Pussi..LOL!! He F-cked Up Treating This Bytch And Not Treating Her Like The Hoe She Was. I Mean The Pussi Can't Be That Good. WTF? He Should Have Never Been Keeping That Crazy Bytch. Let A Hoe Be A Hoe.
@fire4u
I believe Kazemi told her family that she knew he was married and was confident he would go through divorce proceedings, plus she waitressed at a restaurant that him and his family dined at frequently. Whether McNair told her the truth or not, I do not believe it would have changed her attitude much especially since she probably thought he was going to replace her with another side kick. She was mentally unstable, and would have perceived things the way she wanted to regardless of the facts.
However, there are some creative cheaters out there. I know a married person that entertains his mistresses at his mother’s house when his mother is not home. This woman thinks that is where he lives. They are not my friends, so I am not saying anything, because I do not want anyone coming after me.
Who was the real pimp here?
Steve was OBVIOUSLY pucci whipped and got in waaay over his head. Damn shame. How you gonna know a chick for a few months and trick her out like this? Slide her some dicc buy a trinket or 2 and keep it moving!!! jeez. probably felt sorry for her cuz she was an orphan. *scarface voice* 'You stupid fucc, Look at you now!'
I couldnt be a man, women would be throwin hot grits on my azz all day, e'ryday. lol lol lol
LOL @ shoefetish....the ex new entirely to much now don't get me wrong i talk to my ex too but not about EVERYTHING that is happening in my life. Not just the ex but his wife seems suspect to me too. IONO we as women have a sick sense especially when our men are cheating. He didn't just start messing with this girl he was with her for 6 months. That is more then enuff time for his wife to call a private investigator and have that man followed. For some reason i think wifey found out about ole girl and had hired somebody to kill them.
I think we all coulda assumed this was what happened. I figured he had to been sleep at the time because who would just keep chillin and layin on the couch with somebody pointing a gun at you?? So clearly he was sleeping during the shootings. If he would have been awake he probably woulda knocked her azz out! He WAS a football player and a big dude so the only way she coulda did this was while he was sleeping. As far as them just finished having sex, that sounds another MTO-made up story. How would you know they just finished having sex? Was semen found? Were they naked? STFU MTO
@greyeyz I don't think he was paying for much, maybe the trips, but it has been reported that she was struggling to pay for the SUV, another car and double rent because her roommate left. The SUV was in both names so he probably helped her to get the SUV because her credit was poor or income too low, but it was her responsiblity to pay for it. Then she discovers that he is seeing another woman on the side? He fell asleep on the couch and not in bed w/her? She was at great risk for losing what little she had of him. She did it.
miss america and fakesmile..... oh ok..i see. so if she knew he was married..she probably thought she could dangle him away from his wife then you think? which is usually extremly rare. Or he may have told her that he would leave the wife . I just cannot figure out why Steve would decieve someone like that. Cheating is one thing..but deception is a dangerous game to play. He should have been experienced enough with women and groupies...to grasp that. I find it very immature that men still attempt to decieve the other woman. There are a great deal of women who will participate in the affair with open eyes....on an ongoing basis without them having to pick someone who wants marriage.
I had heard that there was another woman.. a 3rd party..which makes him even more promiscuous. He was truly being wreckless against his wife.
This was just in poor taste on McNair's part..and just cannot be explained away with any sort of dignity.Running around as if though you are 21 and you are damn near forty is just tacky. I just wish or hope that men will pay attention to things like this.
I think she snapped--like the tv show. pre-meditated...of course, she bought the gun two days b4. The girl simply had enuff of his lies, his deception, his false promises...she was young and thought she was in love. Steve had NO plans on being with this jumpoff-but she thought differently. You just can't play with ppls emotions like that. People do snap...look what happened to Chris Brown...a seemingly choir boy image destroyed becaused he "snapped". I think this should be a wake-up call for anyone who's cheating on their partners...you better think twice b4 you wind-up 6ft unda.
TOO MUCH SPECULATION..HERE ARE THE FACTS******** Kazemi's family lives 10 minutes from my house in Orange Park. She was adopted, her mother died in Iran. She lived here with her Iranian relatives before moving to Tennessee. When she got arrested Thursday for DUI, Steve was in the Escalade too. His name is mentioned in the police report. Police reports are public record and anyone can buy one for $3. Steve ended it before the media got a copy of the police report and made it public. This is what caused her to snap.
Even though it is sad that she killed Steve, we should be relieved that she didn't kill or try to kill his wife - remember AMy Fisher and Joey Buttafuocco? That's what happens when you fool around with little girls who can't handle or control their emotions. BTW, is she wearing BRACES on her teeth? WTF?!?!?!?!?!?!?
#greyeyz... For some reason i think wifey found out about ole girl and had hired somebody to kill them -------- The final police report that was released concluded murder suicide. There was gun powder residue on the mistress's hands...and they show record of her purchase of the firearm a few days prior to the murder. Enough iron clad proof to close the case..which they did. It is just unfortunate that Steve trusted a jumpoff enough to go to sleep..even after he had stranded her on the road a few days prior. Men really think all women are stupid. Which she actually was stupid..but coo-coocrazy as well.
@fire4u--I agree with your comment..however, most men who continue to deceive women never think that they would end up with one foot in a coffin. If they got away with it once, they think they're invincible. But what these men fail to realize is...Karma is a bi..tch!! You're right...deception is a very dangerous game...oftentimes....Deadly.
@ajalyn... Steve ended it before the media got a copy of the police report and made it public. This is what caused her to snap. ___ HE ENDED IT? WELL WHY WAS HE OVER THERE FOR ONE LAST HIT THEN? THAT WAS JUST PLAIN STUPID OF HIM. YOU BREAK IT OFF AND THEN GO GET IT ONE MORE TIME FOR THE ROAD? SMDH IF THAT'S WHAT HE DID, THEN HE ASKED FOR A SCORNED REVENGEFUL WOMAN'S RAGE.
Fire4u girl I was just reading an article from CNN and this chic was very upset b/c she saw another woman leaving his condo a few days ago and she followed the chic but never confronted her. First of all, how you gone be following some other jumpoff when you are a jumpoff?? I could understand the wife following this woman but not you. I know so many women are mislead but I also know so many are not mislead and they be under the ridiculous impression that they can get him or change him or make him be with them. And then the fact that she tried to position herself so that she would fall into his
lap really says alot. I guess she was too dumb to realize the CSI folk would figure out they werent killed by someone else or maybe she was nutty enough to just want to die in his lap!! Either way this story is awful!! I just wish she wouldve waxed herself only and maybe if she wanted to teach him a lesson, she couldve done it in front of him. He probably wouldntve cheated again.
Thats why this whole thing about women being smarter than men should STOP. Because smart ppl are smarter than dumb ppl. Its both faults. YOu KNOW the man is married WHY Mess with him? And more females right now are still doing it. Mama told u he is not leaving his wife. I don't feel bad for neither of them and I like McNair as a NFL player but he made a dumb mistake and he got kill for it. The girl was stupid for messing with a married man. So for all u women saying she was young and dumb and making excuses for her and down playing men saying Its in our genes to cheat QUIT IT. SERIOUSLY.
Hell hath no fury like a jumpoff scorned...
Let this be a lesson to everyone. If you're not interested in being faithful to someone, LET THEM KNOW!! Just say in the beginning that you don't want anything serious right now. I hate it when people pretend to be genuine. Especially if you're married with children. TRIFE!!
MissAmerica1 Fire4u girl I was just reading an article from CNN and this chic was very upset b/c she saw another woman leaving his condo a few days ago and she followed the chic but never confronted her. First of all, how you gone be following some other jumpoff when you are a jumpoff?? ------ lmaofffffff! exactly. That's what i have been saying. You are the jump off. I dare you confront, antagonize or do anything to this man. Did this domb blonde not see that she was also hurting the wife and children..by stealing this womans hushand? That falling into his lap thing was some wierd mess. Women from the middle esst are surrounded by a lot of murder, terrorist type activities..and if you notice many of them make no qualms about shooting to kill. IF you do not believe me, attempt robbery at an Iranian man's dry cleaner, package, or convenience story and see if you want get shot. These people do not seem to fear death...and think the ends justify the means.
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and on top of that her family and friends were not too bright either. To make comments that suggest that she has arrived..And "has it all" is just disrespectful to the wife. Taking someone's hushand of that many years means 50 percent of the estate would be handed over to her and the kids..leaving her , Steve, and that Dave and Buster's job at a diaadvantage. They were all stupid...and hoping for a payday that was never intended .
missamerica1, these chicks are dumb, not misled. I once heard a girl call into a radio station talking about having to check her man's "other" woman. After talking for a minute, she revealed that the "other" woman was his children's mother and he told her that he had to move her into his place temporarily so that the kids wouldn't be on the street. I mean, seriously?!?! And she was talking like the radio MC was automatically going to feel her side. He and I paused at the same time and I know what he was thinking: "this dumb ...."
Hoes are hoes 'cause they are dumb az hell! lol
Thursdays is an all day Snapped marathon. So far i've only seen 2 black chicks on there and a whole lot of gangsta white chicks. One of the most sinister chicks was from the middle east and she tried to kill her husband so that she could be with a dude she was obsessed over. Come to find out she might have killed her JOs girlfriend too so that he could get back with her. If Kazemi hadn't killed herself too this would have been an episode.
Okay like I said on antoher post..I'm here in Nashville and it is known that Steve (and more than 80% of the players-black, white Samoan, etc) was cheating. I'm sure Mechelle knew but not the extent of it. NO ONE deserves to die at the hand of someone else but ... what you do in the dark will come to light. I just hope cheaters will learn from this and his death will not be in vain...go read II Corinthians 5:10...also the funeral is televised on www.wsmv.com at 7pC. PEACE OUT!!!
And [EXPLETIVE] are ALWAYS talkin about how 'balck women are crazy' and that's why 'they don't [EXPLETIVE] with us and we are gold diggers' now looka here! A white bitch was gold diggin and home wreckin and crazy as [EXPLETIVE] and killed his ass. So suck on that all u lame ass [EXPLETIVE] that only want a white woman!
I KINDA FIGURED THEY HAD SEX FIRST...WELL, HE GOT THAT LAST GOOD KNUT...ANYHOO, THAT WAS COLDBLOODED OF THAT CHICK...THE WHOLE THING IS JUST SAD AND PHUCKED UP...AND THE WIFE HAS HER BUSINESS ALL IN THE STREETS...SHE MUST FEEL SO ASHAMED, EVEN THOUGH SHE DIDN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE SITUATION....NOW FOUR BLACK SONS ARE FATHERLESS....
There are still some things that confuse me about this case though.
1. Why was SHE paying the note on 2 cars? I thought he was breaking her off, and I was like "why would she kill the goose that laid the golden egg?"
2. Why on earth would she want to be stepmother to 4 boys at the age of 20, one of which is 17?
I know if I was having the financial binds that she was claiming, I would have given him his funky car back, or let it get repo'ed. That right there would learn him.
LIFE IS ABOUT CHOICES...AND MCNAIR CLEARLY MADE SOME PHUCKE UP ONES...HIS WHOLE LIFE CHOCKED UP TO NOTHING BECAUSE OF A SCANDAL..ALL BECAUSE OF SOME AZZ...IS SEX REALLY THAT IMPORTANT TO MEN? LIKE IS THAT ALL THAT MATTERS? CLEARLY THIS MAN FORGOT WHAT'S IMPORTANT IN LIFE..AND INSTEAD OF DYING A HERO HE DIED IN SHAME...AND NOW THAT SHAME WILL BE PLACED UPON HIS FAMILY..BLACK MEN HAVE TRULY BECOME A DISSAPOINTMENT...
@UCHOOG2007.. NOW THAT'S REAL TALK...SHE ALREADY HAD A PHUCKED UP LIFE. SHE SHOULD HAVE BEEN WORKING EXTRA HARD AND GETTING ON HER GRIND TO TAKE CARE OF HERSELF..THAT'S WHAT'S WRONG THESE MATERIALISTIC YOUNGUNS..THEY WANT SHYT THE EASY WAY.. HELL NAW..IF YOU WANT BLING YOUR AZZ IS GOING TO WORK DAMN HARD TO GET IT...AINT NOTHING IN THIS DAMN WORLD FOR FREE..THESE YOUNGUNS NOWADAYS ARE WEAK AS HELL..THEIR MAMAS AND DADDIES BUYING THEM CARS...MAKE THESE LITTLE LAZY BRATS EARN THAT SHYT!!
Her nationality had nothing to do with it. She was a young girl who belived what an older rich man was telling her. Believe it or not there are a lot of young women just like her. I blame him. To me he was a pedophile. He got kids damn near her age. He shouldve been ashamed of himself. Mcnair rot in hell forever!!
resurrected I don't think that men are that different from first creation GOd had an entirely different plan for the man in the woman but the human race messed that up... I do believe that a man can be in a very faithful relationship when he mind is grounded in the better things... See it is all about the mind and what you allow into your space, eyes and ears... Men cheat because because the world makes them feel that they can with not real consequence but that is the deception just like the the Garden of Good and Evil...The Bible says my people die from a lack of know
THANK YOU!!!
MissAmerica1 Flag post Fire4u girl I was just reading an article from CNN and this chic was very upset b/c she saw another woman leaving his condo a few days ago and she followed the chic but never confronted her. First of all, how you gone be following some other jumpoff when you are a jumpoff??
That's true. WHY would HE give the 'jumpoff' a key to his place?! He had a RELATIONSHIP with this girl, period, his ACTIONS proved it. It's unfortunate, but he paved the road that led to this situation.
I don't know why everyone is so angry with this mistress. No matter who Mcnair was cheating with, whether she was crazy or not, when you fail to honor your marriage vows something terrible is always going to happen. So cheaters take note. His wife was very beautiful and he still chose to take the path with some mediocre chick that led him straight to hell. I can guarantee you that he is not resting in peace. I can't have sympathy for someone who dogs his wife and humiliates is family in life and still after death. So I won't be watching his memorial like I was watching Michael Jackson's.
@ dcfin - Exactly, the men are defending him by attacking the women's responses. The women are defending him by saying a jumpoff should 'stay in her place'. A MARRIED MAN SHOULD NOT HAVE ANY JUMPOFFS period. As a married man, HE didn't stay in his place. The women with this mentality are setting themselves up for a man disrespecting them (knowing/unknowing) down the line if not at the present. Same with the men, keep thinking like this being married.....
A lot of these comments are borderline psychotic and spiteful, so I'll just join in on the spirit of the party and say that the next time a White/non-Black man kills his Black whore/spouse, or a gang of honkies do something vile to a Black woman, I'm just going to jump for joy and say something dumb like "That's what that dumb Black whore gets for messing with White men." You have to have an eye for an eye mentality when dealing with the Black woman of today. And no, I'm not trying to defend Steve McNair's issue of infidelity if anyone asks.
So old MTO, saw this yesterday. And she tried to fall in his lap when she shot herself and he had another chick on the side which is why she was depressed. Thats what kills me, how the jump off gonna be upset that the man she are with who is cheating on his wife cheats on his jump off? A cheat is a cheat is a cheat is a cheat.
Players are in the game. We know the rules and the penalties. But our family and friends, they are just spectators. Its unfortunate that his kids and wife were caught in the mix; Jump-offs like to play. They loved the perks of the game, but they don’t want to suffer the penalties and often would rather forfeit the whole game than lose. IT'S A SHAME FACE:
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Maybe im just ignorant but its nothing about this story that moves me towards sadness cause if i was his wife i wouldnt bury sh.it he would have to make it to the dirt the best way he can.... I would cash those insurance policies split them five ways and gone on..... I do however feel sorry for his wife how hurtful and downright embarrassing these nuccas and females too gone learn sooner than later
Wow....when will they (black) men ever learn. First a waitress at Dave and Buster. That means a man with low/no self-esteem and knew women were only attacted to his status and not him. Second, ole gurl is not cute. Third, I feel sorry for the wife (finding out the way that she did) and the children who will have to live with their father's disgrace. Every race needs to stick with their own kind.
As much as I liked McNair as a football player, I can't ignore what he did behind closed doors. While I do respect people's personal life, this guy was married and had 4 kids! Not only was he suppose to set an example for his kids, what about the other kids around the country who admired him. And the wife claiming she didn't know anything, PLEASE! The wife to me probably had a lot of knowledge this; it's the lifestyle many athletes have when they go on the road they might have a girlfriend in every area code, but have his regular life back home. I just feel bad for his 4 sons!
