: MediaTakeOut.com had been hearing rumors for a few months now that Atlanta Housewife Kandi Burress' fiance broke up with her. And then he left her to raise two of his daughters - without providing any child suppport. We could hardly believe it, but Kandi admitted to it in an interview with Essence.
Here's what she said:
INTERVIEWER: Speaking of which, inquiring minds want to know what exactly does AJ do for a living?Wow ... that is some mess right there. How you gonna have your EX raise your kids....BURRUSS: AJ over time has done a lot of things, including running this collection agency while we were together and he just recently bought into this strip club.
INTERVIEWER: Hold up. Did you just say you and AJ are no longer together?
BURRUSS: (Laughs.) We're on hiatus. He's a great guy and he's not the type to sit on his behind like a scrub, so it has nothing to do with that. Yes, he has a lot of children, and yes, I didn't know about them all at first but I got over it because as long as you handle your responsibility and spend time with your children it's not an issue for me. Another thing I want to set the record straight on is that AJ was married before. A lot of people make comments like, if he didn't marry his other children's mothers then why do you think he's going to marry you.
INTERVIEWER: When we spoke before you expressed concern about how a separation might affect your daughter. How is she handling your break?
BURRUSS: Things have changed because not only do I have my daughter living with me but now I am the legal guardian of AJ's 12-year-old twin daughters because his mother felt the responsibility was too much for her right now and she couldn't handle it anymore. He would have taken them with him, but they needed a strong female role model and wanted to stay with me.
Just because AJ and I are together I have accepted them as my children the same way that my stepfather did me when I was their age and he and my mom separated. He continued do things with me as my father throughout my life.
KAndi is ah fool! It's no way i would be taking care of that man kids and we weren't together for that long. if he so much a good father, those kids would be with him plus what type of example is he setting, if all his money is put into owning a strip club. he need to be saving money for all them kids he have. smh at her and his five dollar tail
I commend Khandi for caring for someone other than herself and for giving back to the community. As for the surrogate and the sperm donor, Shame on you for putting yourself first. Now this confirms that Khandi bought her own ring because the fathe of those children should be able to financially kick in. Standard coon behavior, let's leave someone else to be responsible.
While I think Kandi is a nice person this just sounds like BS... How do two ppl that "love" each other take a hiatus? Women need 2 stop allowing men 2 disrespect their relationship by using wack shyt like "taking breaks" and "doing whats best for me" Sometimes its jus the perfect cop out for "I AINT [EXPLETIVE] AND DON'T INTEND ON BEING [EXPLETIVE]" If he really loved her nothing (insecurities, hang-ups, issues) couldn't keep him away! Poor thing and she's still taking up for his azz
Kandi is a beautiful, talented woman. Why these women "SETTLE" for these types of men I don't know. With her talent, I'd be shopping around Hollywood or corporate Atlanta. Not someone just finding odd jobs and hustling. Bobby Brown's herd of kids should've been a wake up call for Whitney. He's still reproducing and still in arrears.
Ok, Khandi really seems really dense to me on the show, but this just proves it... You are going to take care of your ex-BOYFRIEND's (not husband) kids?? with no child support? And what kind of "man" leaves his kids for his ex-girlfriend to raise...and most importantly, WHY ARE U TELLING PEOPLE THIS!.. Stupid country bumpkin....
I like Kandi a lot. I love her mommy, she keeps it real and she knew that AJ wasn't worth a dime. Most times a mother does know her stuff! what good mother wants her daughter with a total bum and jerk of a man?. I am a mother!and although my daughter is only 14 now, she won't be forever. when she is allowed to date at 16 or 17,I don't want her dating a young man with no education or direction towards college. She's a beautiful, smart honor student and headed to UCLA as an entertainment lawyer. Why would I want my child to mix with a thug or a hope to die dreamer?.with a zillion kids, NOT!
And he aint even cute. Kandi is a pretty girl who can do so much better!.Her mother is like my mom she prays away a no good man from me and my two sisters if he aint right, and we're to dumb to see he's a bum and a jerk. Being a mom myself, now I can see what my mother was talking about?. There is no need for a woman with kids or without to be with a man who can not show provider ship, and leadership,positive influences, very family oriented, respectful and god fearing.Looking good and great sex if fine.But a man with no direction is useless.
I think that Kandi is plenty smart, although she does seem to be a little short on using her common sense! This whole situation with AJ is embarrsing! I figure she can at least write a song about all of this drama and nonsense and get paid for the inconvenience of it all. What a waste of time AJ was. Her mother knew it and quite frankly, so did I. Now would be a good time for Kandi to go and see Tyler Perry's new flick...."I can do bad all by myself" It certainly applies...don't you think?
Dont stop there Kandi...there are thousands of mothers----that finds parenting... "Too much of a responsibility".
and guess what Kandi....that mother of the twins...kiss her bye-bye...you aint never going to see her azz at your front door. Shes going to be too scared that they might need something! Get your money and your patience up---you gotta lot of college funds to put up!
...just look at ya!
I like Kandi...she has her head on straight but she should have told AJ to take the children back to their mama. What she mean she couldn't handle them at this time? They are her kids and AJ, child take your kids home to your own self house. Kandi don't deserve this mess. I hope she finds a decent man cause AJ ain't cutting it. MAMA WAS RIGHT ( they usually are)
Kandi is "Boo-Boo the muthaphuckin fool" (excuse my french yall), but this situation is bogus. she is doing anything to try & get this portion of a man down the aisle. Okay, so her and A.J wanted to take a break, but yet she feels she should step up to the plate and raise 2 of his daughters since THEIR MOTHER will not do it. And the children "wanted to stay with her"?? Ummm, Kandi you got the game all messed up. He laid down and had those little girls and he should be the one taking are of them, not you!! It's bad enough Riley's father isn't in the picture and it is hard being a single mother
(cont) as it is. The same reason why yall aint made it down the aisle yet is the same damn reason he needed to be raising his OWN KIDS!!! Kandi is just stuck on stupid. Don't get me wrong, she is a great parent to Riley so I will know she will do the same AJ's kids. But come on now. This ni99a is just reaping all the benefits and you aint getting a damn thing in return. Smarten up Kandi and listen to your mother!!!
im happy he left her, she was to good for him. but i def would not be raising none of his kids and wasting my money on them, i dont care how close we are, thats what his baby mama get for popping out all them kids, talking about its to much on her wat she think raising kids was like having a puppy or something. dumb chick
So Kandi if you found someone else and built a new life, eventually marrying, how would the new guy feel about this situation?
Where would this leave the kids?
Cut all ties and get out now, that's just letting him keep an open window into your life or you hanging on to something that ain't there
I think its the latter...
Move around girl!
btw, WhereTF is the twins' mother?
All the single men in the world, why would a woman want a man with a bunch of kids he doesn't take care of but wants to be with you? You can't explain this or justify putting yourself in the situation. If this man is paying child support, it takes money from your pockets. If he don't work, shame on you and a lot of women are in this situation because they choose to play games and this is the reason men play and leave you high and dry and you have no one to turn to.
This man left you with kids his ex didn't want. He can't add to your life, so why be a legal guardian ? Hello
Ok.Maybe I missed a sentence or two in that article but where did it say he wasnt giving her any child support? And as far as her raising the kids, I commend her! Anything a child messes up the first thing ppl yell is,"I blame the parents" but i really does take a village to raise a strong intelligent blk person and if one(or 2)person(s) wasnt able to do the job the correct way then its good to know thats its still ppl out there that will pick up the slack in order to save these kids from the life they would have been subjected to otherwise.
I just reread the article... Doesnt it basically say he handled his responsibility and that he spends tine with the kids so she was ok with him having a lot? I dont wantch the show but it seems like its a lot of anamosity towards her... Im not sure if she is just a horrible person but as far as this situation goes, why hate on her for adopting?!
Typical behavior of a black uneducated female with LOW SELF-ESTEEM. I am not surprised. She really believes that putting herself out there (being used) and taking on other peoples baggage/garbage equates to the definition of a "Strong Woman." All too often, women like Kandi (who means well) get played. This time she played herself because people tried to warn her, but because she is so needy and desperate for any idea of perceived love she ignored all of those who loved and hoped to protect her. Yep, go right along and take care of some man's kids that never married you...Sad stuff!
1.That nigg is not a bum. 2.Kandi is boring on Housewives. She is not an idiot, no class monster like the rest of them.(shocked at Lisa this season) 3. Kandi probably wanted to raise the two girls 4.Niggz raise broads bad ass kids all the time even if they arent their own. 5.Niggz still be around and take of the kids of women they arent even dating anymore.
So, it sounds like to me, this fool is still MARRIED and will NOT get a DIVORCE because he dont want to Pay his share!!!
I wonder if he ever got a DIVORCE? or was he cutting up with a stripper from his club?
Kandi can do so much better. Her home is beautiful as so with her smiling & caring persona.
He was just a damn 'charity' case for her. Next, this "charity" case will try to sue her.
KANDI WHY DOES AJ GET TO HAVE A FREE RIDE...READING THE ARTICLE IT STATES THAT "HIS" MOTHER SAID THEY WERE TO MUCH FOR HER..MEANING...GRANDMA..SO IF SHE CAN'T GET THE TWEENS TO DO RIGHT & THAT'S HER BLOOD WHAT MAKE U THINK U CAN HANDLE IT..WHEN THEY GET TO SMELLING THEMSELVES& TALK'N BACK & TRIPP'N CUZ U AIN'T MY MOMMA U WILL SEE WHAT GRANNY WAS TALK'N ABOUT...TO MUCH TO HANDLE..
Kandi I'm sorry but he always seemed likes SCRUB and he just verified that he is by leaving HIS kids with u whether it was their choice or not he has no buisness leaving another woman to raise HIS offspring! [EXPLETIVE] that I ain't raising no child that aunt mine unless I'm with their parent PERIOD, that was a dumb ass move Kandi
Wow... it's soooo ironic that Kandi & Tiny co-wrote "No Scrubs" for TLC!!! It looks like Kandi needs to go re-read the lyrics to that song!! Kandi's judgment is putting her on the level of "donkey!"....
AJ has SIX kids w/ FOUR BABY MAMAS, and on RHOA, she said that they were only together for SEVEN or EIGHT MONTHS before getting engaged, so it's obvious that AJ had an agenda going on!!!
And how exactly did the conversation come up where she was asked or told to petition the courts to be appointed the LEGAL GUARDIANS for the twins??!! Does that mean she's responsible for their upbringing for the rest of their lives??!! That right there just screams “dumb ass!!”.. All I know is, it would NOT have been me doing that s/h/i/t!!!
That breaks my heart, it truly does. Just another example of a brotha not taking care of his responsibilities. A mother not taking care of her's either, and a very powerful, strong black woman stepping up to the plate. Kandi, you deserve better. I would love to get my hands on this sucker and teach him a lesson about leaving his children.
I been heard about this,but it was her that broke up with him.She dumb azz hell,she aint know about all da kids @ first,and his twins was living with his mom. Kandi more slow than kim.even tiny got more sence.they leashing off kandi, a.j a housewife lol cuz he a gold digger too lol get a dumb bit*h to care 4 ur kidS.
I can respect Kandi for stepping in assisting AJ with the girls...that's okay, because they probably bonded with her when she and AJ were together...Kandi is paying it forward, and God will bless her for that...somebody helped her when she was young (her stepfather) so now she is paying it forward...AJ, I'm sure will be providing Kandi with financial support for the twins...so it's all good...the girls bio mom probably wasn't able to take care of them...so Kandi stepped in and took the reins when she saw AJ needed her help...that's what good parents do...kudos to her...that's a good look...
i'm for anybody doing the right thing, but the last I checked, Kandi is a single mom and has a daughter of her own...may i ask why i didn't hear the words co-parenting anywhere in the interview?...and yes, i CAN talk because I know Plenty of men raising their own kids, some daughters...and some on their own too!...accepting someone's kids and being a legal guardian are two different animals...Kandi, you're being Played hon...
THE THING IS IM SO SURE KANDI HAS COUSINS THAT ARE ALSO SINGLE PARENTS & STRUGGLING WITH THERE KIDS BUT YOU CHOOSE TO TAKE CARE OF AJ PACKAGE WHEN U HAVE LILCOUSINS THAT ARE SUFFERING...LOOK ALL IM SAY'N IS YES IT MAYBE A NICE JESTURE BUT TAKE CARE OF YOUR OWN..THOSE TRIFFLIN MOM'S SITT'N AROUND PLAY CARDS/DRINK'N & LAUGH'N @ YOU FOR BEING SO STUPID WANTING AJ SO BAD THAT UR WILLING TO TAKE CARE OF HIS KIDS!
Next to last! Ha! No Kandi No is rite! Kandi your above all that & its seems you got a good heart. Them are 12 yr olds & their parents already got them scheming.That momma been raising them she aint got long to go. Worry about Riley and if you need to get out of ATL 4 awhile then do that. Don't settle 4 anything. He aint even kind of cute. Love tha show.
Ok his mother is what?...TOO OLD? to HANDLE it?...coz umm...where is THEIR mother?...Whom ever Popped um out should be the next in line to take care of em'...Khandi is WEAK,I thought she was a strong girl...But she is REALLY weak and becoz he saw that in her, he and his momma sat down and plotted for her to...A-D-O-P-T.. his TWINS...well damn!..see,that's 2 less for him to pay support for!..DIRTY DOG!.Now HER daughter is gonna feel like an outsider, becoz twins are a force in the same house...Khandi what are you doing to your daughter's emotional stability?...Poor child,her momz done lost it!
So in other words, for those of us who can actually read, he takes care of his financial responsibilities, is making his own money, and they AGREED to share custody of his daughters because the BIRTH MOTHER, wasn't stepping up to her duties, and Kandi was considered more of a mother figure.
GET OFF THAT DUDE'S JOCK, MTO, IT IS THE BIRTH MOTHER WHO IS SLIPPING NOT THE DUDE!!!
I agree with glassdoll1, that is a very noble, responsible, nice thing to do for AJ, but I'm sure there are children in her own family that she is biologically related to that would be better beneficiaries to her resources.
I kno she loves him, but taking care of his kids is not going to make him want to be with her if he really doesn't want to. Obviously, he has allegiance to no one, not even his own kids.
Shame, shame, shame!!!!
Kandi is a stupid brod. Why is there a need for her to get involved with her ex-fiance business and they aren't even together anymore. Of course his mother said she couldnt have her own grand children. She has her son ex- fiance with money to provide for the children. Hopefully she finds love and really take her mother's advice. She has been through far more than Kandi has. I know her mother is really upset with her daughter's actions.
I would'nt give a damn if the birthbytch stepped side ways on her motherly duties..SHE had em!.They're lives should be the responsibility of her and his broke azz!.Khandie got a child of her OWN!..HER CHILD should be her MAIN priority..now that child has to share her becoz her becoz her "BOYFRIEND" and his momma ran game on her. Shyt i would have respected her more if she adopted a NEW baby from a childless Mother!..She went and adopt two almost grown azz women?...In some societies 12 is GROWN!...hell with the stupid shyt!..you KNOW disrespect is commin!...12?...come on!..That's an evil age!
My heart really goes out to Kandi. She seems like a nice and genuine person. Even though his kid situation was out of control, I was rooting for them to work, if for nothing else but for her and her daughter's sake.I do think she is totally getting taken advantage of, but at the same time, she's letting it happen.And think about it, she said the twins want to live with her instead of their own father. What does that say about him?
LOL..sorry yall...i just read that...I'm gettin passionate...I meant a new baby from a Motherless child...Yall know what I'm talkin about!...I know it's her life, but can you stand to see somebody's kindness taken for weakness? Don't take advantage of the girl becoz you KNOW she's IN LOVE- with you..They wanna LIVE with her?...Kids are NOT stupid,and he already filled their heads with vision of sugar plums!...That's not right....ok what if she wasn't KHANDIE from Escape?...What if she was just Khandie from off the block?...
@ COFFEECOLOR U MUST BE MY LONG LOST CUZ'N CUZ I DEFINITELY FILL YAH...THAT TWEEN AGE IS A CHALLENGE AND IF THE MOTHER & GRANDMOTHER DON'T WANNA BE BOTHERED THAT'S A RED FLAG..YAH THAT'S CUTE & ALL SHE WANNA BE A STAND UP GIRL BUT...GET REAL THOSE TWEEN'S GONNA GIVE U A RUN FOR THE MONEY & ONCE THEY USE U UP & U DON'T LET THEM HAVE THERE WAY THEY'RE GONNA RUN HOME TO THERE REAL MOMMIE...
Actually her mother should just shut up and let her fall because she obviously didnt raise a woman with any self esteem. Something went wrong somewhere during her upbringing and not because she took care of those kids but because she obviously wants to hold on to that man no matter what. That's what's sad.
glassdoll1...Gurlll tell it like it is!...You know good n dern well as soon as she hit the right button..the first thing they're gonna say is....You ain't my momma,you can't tell me what ta do!"...Smellin their self...But gurl i'll put em in a choke hold just b4 i send them BACK to their grandmomma's house. see once she signed those papers?..she did it to herself...becoz to then run back to the court and say.."Well I can't handle them ither..they're gonna feel like she's wastin the courts time...becoz she probably pleaded for them...They don't just sign folx kids over to you coz you got money.
Kandi is a sweet woman with a big heart but she needs to listen to her MAMA! Mother's have motherly intuition and/or instinct and although we may hate it.... MOM IS ALWAYS RIGHT!!!!
Kandi please move on and continue to rise above this. Even AJ's career goals are low budget. Why would a father of 6 and soon to be married man who can not raise his own kids open up a strip club? I hope you are not funding this?!?!?!?!
LOL..she can't get rid of the kids NOW,they signed sealed and delivered!..Sporty Theivz....laffin...tsk tsk tsk..But no good deed goes unpunished...Like somebody said...she did it from her heart,but if he truly loved her?..he would have married her,even if he had moved all his kids in as long as he worked WITH her to make their family work i think peeps would have given him respect!....BUt look at his moves...got her to adopt the kids on PAPER, then broke up with her!..DOG!
i'm not going to comment on their relationship, but i will say that its awesome that she was willing to take in 2 kids that needed a good female role model. if more people took on the responsiblilty of kids that aren't theirs, maybe more kids would have a shot. if you see kids in need and you can help them, you should. its not about YOU, its about what you can do to help someone else.
Well if Khandi want his Kids, I don't see the harm. If the mother is unstable, the father too busy, maybe his Kids should be with Khandi. She volunteered, he didn't force them on her. I dunno this man personally, I can't tag him. It's sad how we don't trust each other tho. Then again, you neva know either. People are shady and selfish these days. I wish them all the best.
Flag post i'm not going to comment on their relationship, but i will say that its awesome that she was willing to take in 2 kids that needed a good female role model. if more people took on the responsiblilty of kids that aren't theirs, maybe more kids would have a shot. if you see kids in need and you can help them, you should. its not about YOU, its about what you can do to help someone else.
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Yes, the gesture is very noble BUT she didnt even marry this Joe Schmoe to even think about takin over both the parents responsibilities! Now what if AnoTHeR one of his baby mamas comes at her with yet another sob story, she's gonna give them Super Sweet 16's too?? Cuz that's all they really want. Those heffers were waiting patiently 4 a marriage so they could 'Whitney Houston' her azz!
I commend her. Those are two children. They need a good home. Their mother can't be bothered. Dad can't be a man. They chose Kandi. I know she was stupid to have been w/ him at first, but the kids know her now, and they need stability. Phooey on their mother though, dang. Go Kandi. What an awesome woman.
I hate to say this as a black women but black people and ignorance go hand in hand starting with MTO! Be offended if you want but the comments are proof of that. It's easy to sit back and hide behind your computers and judge someones life. The important thing here is that there are 2 children here that have a home and a mother figure in their lives but leave it to MTO to make it out to be something negative.
A) She's a sucker. B) Why is the show called Real Houswives of Atlanta when only 1-2 of them are actually married? Don't you need a husband to be a wife? C) She's a sucker. D) Did I mention she'a a sucker? E) The reason this man let his two girls go is because he sucks, that should show you the character of the character you are dealing with.
I have to commend her on holding down the kids, however black men need to step and take responsibilities for their actions! Stop acting like a bunch of p*ssys and take care of your kids! How many black families you see today with 2 parents in the home? It's there but not that many. That's sad to have most women holdind down the household. I'm beginning to think that black men are worthless! You need to take a stand, and hold your family up! stop sleeping with other men and take care of your own kids!
I have to see her say this for myself or at least read it from a credible source, which MTO is not (no diss; this site is great for entertainment purposes).
If this is true....I give her big time props for unselfishly stepping up like that but I hope she always remembers that there's a thin line between being loyal and gullible. I can just hear her mom now! lol
Damn, how old are the shows that we are currently watching? They show them clearly together. That's HER choice to help those children so respect it and keep your damn mouth shut! Too bad it will make her much less desirable for a relationship leading to marriage due to all those children in the house. It's still HER choice as an adult though.
DAMN KANDI...HER HEART IS IN THE RIGHT PLACE FOR WANTING TO TAKE CARE OF THEM KIDS CUZ THEY PARENTS ARE OBVIOUSLY SOME PHUCKING IDIOTS BUT STILL... SOMETHIN AIN'T RIGHT WITH THAT SHYT...LIKE 1 OF THE EARLIER COMMENTS, WHERE IS TWINS GRANDPARENTS & OTHER FAM? HOW THE PHUCK IS THE RESPONSIBILITY TO TAKE CARE OF THEM 2 MUCH FOR THE BABYMOMS IF OLD BOY IS DOING WHAT HE SUPPOSE TO DO? KANDI WAKE UP HONEY..THEY TRYING TO PLAY YOUR AZZ, THEY ARE PLAYING YOUR AZZ RATHER. YOU TO CUTE FOR THAT BULLSHYT. THE WOMEN TO MAN RATIO IS STARTING TO MAKE THESE WOMEN DESPERATE AND NYGGAS SPOILED AND CRAZY AS HELL
Khandi is so pretty and down-to-earth. I wish her the best, but she's also very easily swayed when it comes to men, I see. Any man that agreed to appear on a reality show with a former R&B star is suspect to me. Not to insult Khandi (who I really have nothing bad to say about beyond her questionable taste in men), but this reeks of opportunism. If he wasn't married to you, he should discourage you from agreeing to do a show that would surely impede your getting over the drama with your Mom and his baggage. He reminds me of Neffie's husband. He obviously wanted a rap career.
ummm. luv ya kandi but how u gonna say a guy is great but his twin daughters lived with his mother? a great guy aint gonna leave the burden of two kids on the mother that raised her kids already. and i get that he was married b4 but a great guy doesnt want an ishload of kids either unless he's rich and aint got nothing betta to do! (like diddy)
a fool is born every day. a fool is not discriminate as to what month, year or day they are born on. kandi is living proof of that. hope her next album goes platinum or else, she'll be eating ramen noodles and bologna on [EXPLETIVE]..all because she felt that his two kids needed "a strong female role model"; oh and because they "wanted to stay with me."
stupid is as stupid does. life is like a box of chocolate's--you never know which fool you'll pick.
gRIL AND YA MAMMA KNEW ALL ALONG I NEVER DID LIKE AJ HE LOOKED LIKE A LIL MUSKRAT ANYWAY YOU DESERVER BETTA KADI AND GIVE HIM HIS DAMN KIDS BACK [EXPLETIVE] DAT YOU HAVE ENOUGH TO WORRY ABOUT WIT YA OWN KID!!!! THAT BABY MAMMA HAD EM FOR 12 YEARS NO PROBLEM THEN HE GETS WIT YOU AND NOW THE BABY MAMMA CAN'T TAKE IT SO THE [EXPLETIVE] WHAT FIVE HIM BACK HIS PROBLEM . AND YA STEP DAD WAS MARRIED TO YA MAMMA WHEN HE TOOK CARE OF YOU GIRL YOU ARE BETTA THAN ME.... OOOH HELLL TO THE NAWWW
I like the way this girl Kandi carries herself. Like her song says 'She flys above' so no matter what the motives of the supposed dope dealing fiancee and his momma that probably co signs all his BS , Kandi is doing what is in her heart- right or wrong true or false.Long as her intentions are honorable, God will bless her. She will find out and if all else fails we know aunt Bertha and uncle Boullie and all them will be there to pick up the pieces. I been a victim of a scheming, trifling, using mother and son team, momma knew her jail bird son was not worth a damn but you live and learn.
That is some slave mentality crap right there! Bad enough to not be with the twins mother for whatever reason, but to not be with the woman who is raising them also? Khandi girrrl, yo mama was right!!! Trust them older folk, they've seen more and been through more. Don't get stuck on stupid!! fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me!
the_disputed_truth Flag post I have to see her say this for myself or at least read it from a credible source, which MTO is not (no diss; this site is great for entertainment purposes).
If this is true....I give her big time props for unselfishly stepping up like that but I hope she always remembers that there's a thin line between being loyal and gullible. I can just hear her mom now! lol
i agree with everything you said!...& even though we don't wanna hear it, we need to listen to mama dem sometimes...her mama could just feel that he wasn't right for her
WHY YALL SO WORRIED ABOUT WHAT THIS MAN DOES FOR A LIVING, ITS CLEAR HE DOING SOMETHING FOR HIS KIDS, THEY NOT IN FOSTER CARE, SOME OF U VERY PEEPS ON HERE GOT KIDS U DONT TAKE CARE OF YA D#$$#N SELVES AND STEADY TRYIN TO JUDGE PEOPLE, WE ARE OUR WORST ENEMY ALL WE LOOK FOR IS NEGATIVITY IN OUT PEOPLE, NO ONE KNOWS WHAT GOES ON BEHIND CLOSED DOORS AND WHAT THIS MAN DOES, SO WHAT HE GOT A LOT OF KIDS, HALF OF U WOULD HAVE A LOT TOO IF THE ABORTION CLINIC HADNT HELPED U OUT, I SAY THIS TO SAY LAY OFF THE DUDE DANG
You know sometimes it's best not to know much about celebrities. This is an example. I had respect for Kandi and not it's fleeting. A) You've embarrassed yourself by being with this n**** with all these babies and more importantly BABY MAMAS. Does it really matter if he was married when he has 4 different ones? B)How after all that defending you've done and ruining your relationship with your mom you're going to let HIM dump you. She really needs to see her own worth. C) AND you got the kids that ain't even yours. WOW! The d*** must be out of this world!
Call it divine intervention and a blessing...didn't her mama tell her? Admirable for her to take the girls...they can't help it their parents are crappy. She better have real LEGAL guardianship as in court filed papers- they'll be trying to get some dollars off her no doubt.
So...does this mean she's leaving the show? I take it that was her HOUSE but she still ain't nobody's WIFE.
Your mom is there for guidance now your looking in her face and she;s telling you "I told U so" I know you have to make your own mistakes and u also have to learn from them. I think since u probably loved him more than he loved u. U thought mabey his kids will keep me tied to him. I don't know if that was smart your taking the responsibility away from him and the mother the twins are not old enough to make that decision that's a lotta luv cumn from u and I wish u well honey u are waaaaay better than me luv or no luv it aint that potent.
