ON BLAST!!! Swizz Beatz Ex-Wife Puts Out An OPEN LETTER To Alicia Keys ... Accuses Her Of STEALING HER HUSBAND!!!

: The following message was put out by Swizz Beatz soon-to-be-ex-wife R&B singer Mashonda . . . it's a long read.

In short, she suggests that Alicia stole Swizz from her. Read it at your leisure:

After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @Alicia keys twit page. I've never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I've reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.

I was a fan of AK's last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.

Already I can hear some of you saying " why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken". Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.

My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.

If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create.

Im not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would've handled things more carefully. I'm not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesnt exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now

This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don't have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!

I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what's real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the "people", this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.

I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don't understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I dont consider myself a victim anymore, Ive learned alot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.

If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I'm not going anywhere. Theres a child to be raised.

To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot.

Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.

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ms_pnut

well Alcia Keys is a home wrecker


tiplite2004

Damn swizzy... share the love bruh


ksam1357

i want to marry alicia keys.


Fine-N-Mellow

Wow


glassdoll1

THOUGHT THE LETTER WAS VERY TASTEFUL & EXECUTED WELL...SINCE ALICIA IS PRETENDING SHE'S NOT AWARE SHE DATING A MARRIED MAN...SHE'S TRYED TO REACH OUT SEVERAL TIMES B4 PRIVATELY.


BBWsweethart

gotta come back n read this 1


slimgody

Sad he wasnt worth keeping anyway


damnIgot_it

That's what AK gets for sleeping with another woman's husband... THEY BOTH WERE WRONG... shonda needs to get over that sh*t and find someone else...


str8_up_trufe

She's in desperation mode....sucks to be upgraded I guess...


monroe24

Welcome to the real world! Some men don't give a [EXPLETIVE]! She need to be checking Swizz.


Stallioness

IT IS DISRESPECTFUL FOR WHAT ALICIA DID. BUT DIDNT WE KNOW ABOUT THIS 2 YEARS AGO. WHY WOULD MASHONDA HAVE A BABY BY DUDE. YOU ALREADY KNOW HE CREEPING. SHE COULDVE SAVED HERSELF ALOT OF HURT FEELINGS....


trina1120

Just wanted 2 c my name om mediatakeout!hehehe


Sk0rPi0n_KinG

SHE NEEDS 2 GET THE [EXPLETIVE] OFF MY BOY SWIZZ DYCK

BEEYOTCH, UR NOT WANTED ANYMOE

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QEartshaker

We-e-e-el!


ChaseSky

wow ..just wow ..but on da real u have 2 give Mashonda credit she was very classy about this ..cuz it could have been a real mess! ..A.Keys and Swiss r dead wrong yo



thesecretmoneyonline

loL well thats what happen Alicia Keys is a Homewrecker!she shoulda just creeped on dude not stole her husband


MissCertified2009

GURL PLZ....MOVE ON....THEY LOOK BETTER 2GETHER ANYWAY......


Sexxie69

First and foremost Swizz new he was married and so did Alicia trust she will be in that same position in no time cause chicks like these fail to realize if he did it to me what makes you so special that it wont happen to you. And wasnt Alicia suppose to marry that dude that was in her video behind her. You reap what you soe and Alicia its all good now but trust babe best believe he will do ten fold to you compared what he did to his WIFE.


vanityrose

i know that it's a cold thing to say but if she was doing her job then her man would have been at home with her


choclatdrop

"people highest up got the lowest self esteem da prettiest people do the ugliest things on tha road to riches and diamond rings..." ye wasnt lyin.


tijhaun

why she took so long


britishbarbie

yall heartless

poor girll


justgiddy

Very classy lady..So articulate and intelligent..I don't have a clue about this whole mess but after reading this article, I feel for this woman>


mzsaddie2010

Mashonda handled that situation how most women should.i applaud her for not tryin 2 bash alicia even tho alicia was rogish for what she did.Im also glad she didnt jus put alicia 2 blame but also swizz cause it does take 2 to have an affair.


GaTeCiTyGoOnZ

MAN SHE SHOULD MOVE ON ALREADY AND LET IT GO SWIZZ AND A. KEYS LOOK HAPPY AND SHE WON'T BE IN TILL SEE LETS IT GO ITS OVER MA MOVE ON!


vanityrose

@ Sexxie69

I hear what your saying with the what goes around argument

but my question is this…..what the hell did his wife do to earn this kind of embarrassment lol…..and if you truly stand that saying then one would think that she deserved what she got so now all is right


sweetblck911

women really should be smarter if she sucessfully stole him and is with him he is gone move on you will not believe the stuff said on twitter go to freakytweets.com


lissablu85

I AM SOOO WITH MS. MASHONDA. PEOPLE ONLY SEE ALICIA THE CELEBRITY AND SO SHE IS STILL BEING PRAISED. BUT SHE BROKE UP A HOME, DESTROYED A FAMILY, SO SHE IS WRONG ALL THE WAY AROUND. IT'S ACTUALLY SAD.


hellokitty87

KIMDA FEEL BAD FOR HER, BUT @ THE SAME TIME SHE'S RIGHT I AM SAYING CANT DESTROYED WHATS ALREADY BROKEN . BC IF THEY WERE ACTUALL CELEBRATING THE SONS BIRTHT THEN THEYD BE TOGETHER. MAYBE THE BIRTH EXCITED HIM NOT HER. SHlT HAPPENS!!


Mizz_H0llyw00d

ughhh Alicia keys is such a homewrecker..she crazy if she think he wont do her the same way, him & Mashonda were together for a longgggg time



noneofyabusiness

Psstttt!!! Every1 saying she handled this classy but the loser put this on Twitter??? Pluhheeze!!! Move the eff on. Obviously their was strife in their relationship already. She is just tryna make AK look bad but to me she comes across just disgruntled. Girl get that alimony and child support and keep it pushin!!!


thrasher

Darlin, it's over...U need to keep it movin. Yes, u will gain sympathy for a minute...But u are trying to hold onto someone who no longer want to be held by u. Alicia could step aside and it be someone else. Focus on ur child and u.


FreeInfoProvider

And the drama begins....

Get a free apple macbook air. I thought it was too good to b true until i tried it. Hurry while supplies last! I got mines already


wholelotta

DAMN


gorgeousparkle

wow why put your personal busines out there like that


hiHES

alicia keys is a disgrace. its not okay to b a homewrecker.


whatagirlwants48

ok so she claims she is over it and has put it in gods hand....so why is she still writing this woman? Thats stupid on her part like she say there is a child to be raised...stop writing that woman and take care of your child...its all about that baby now....


QueenOfNewYork

Wow...Well, my little inner circles around New York City and what I've seen in person of Alicia Keys shows me she's a lesbian. I get it that she's more into women v. men.

This isn't rumor control, it's what I've seen with my own eyes.

Mashonda, raise your child. Your hubby is no GOOD! And, for those of you to criticize Mashonda for having a baby to her married husband, please!

At least, unlike so many others, she's raising her son!


pfarlough

And another thing @MTO. When yall post ur stories in the morning does everyone just go home? Bcuzz this shyt was the talk of Twitter yesterday morning. It seems to me like any other blog spot u would have worked that in YESTERDAY as it happened. Yall suck. Always late. Depending on yall I would have just found out Michael Jackson was dead!


blkbuddafly519

I commend Mashonda for handling this situation the best way she can..As for Alicia, girl, I love your music and everythang, but u trifling and dead wrong for this ish...Not only her either because it does take two..I also feel tha same towards Swizz..He had tha nerve to introduce her to his wife knowing that they were freaking each otha on tha low...WOWWW


Rose777

1. It's horrible to have lost love, but when someone loves another person more you have to face that reality.

2. Why should Alicia deny what is real for her and Swizz? That would be fake and hypocritical.

3. Mashonda, please do not keep bring up your child to make Alicia feel guilty. That is using the child for your own emotional purposes.

Swizz is still spendign time with his son. That won't change. He left you not the son, so don't try to use your son against Alicia.

4. Why are you bringing up how you used to be a fan? And how you "believed in" Alicia? That sounds crazy for real.


baddestbiitchshay

damn she [EXPLETIVE] wrote ah book yo lmao...but damn i aint kno it was like dat..alicia shud be ah lil ashamed of haself but den again if yew want sumthin yew gotta go afta it nd i guess dats wat alicia did...dis sum bullshit


streethoodradio

AK AINT DONE NUFFIN YALL BRAWDS HAVE NEVER DUN. SHE HUMAN!

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Modesty

Mashonda can't expect to do things on her time.

They all should come to some type of agreement, but Mashonda can't expect it to be on her time.

Sometimes that's the way the cookie crumbles Mashonda.

Ask Jennifer how she handle things LOL


sum2say

i want to see the twits



streethoodradio

1 MIN. NUCCAS DONT WANT PPL IN THEIR BUSINESS, THE NEXT MIN. THE AIRIN STUFF OUT ON DA NET. DATS WHATS WRONG WIT NUKKAS NOW. TRYIN TO BE LIKE DA, WELL U KNOW WHAT COLOR.

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Modesty

True True @mscertified2009


mkinn1

I wish she'd get over herself and move on. Alicia don't have time for this mess, so Mashonda, find a hobby


MzFloridaBabe

MTO YALL LATE I READ DIS ALREADY DANG WHAT YALL DO JUS LRUKIN ROUND SITES STILL DEY PICK CROSS DA MEDIATAKEOUT ON IT THEN GO WIT DEM LAME AZZ STORIES SO WHAT WHO CARES WHAT DEY GOT GOIN ON WE GOT PROBLEMS JUS LIKE DEM DEY AINT NO BETTA DERES JUS AIRS CAUSE DERE FAMOUS MASHONDA HONEY PICK UP DA PIECES AND MOVE AND WORRY BOUT U AND UR SON ALICIA DONT OWE U NOTHIN DATS UP 2 HER IF SHE WANNA GIVE IT DERE HAD 2 ALREADY BE DAMAGE DERE U WAS PROALLY JUS 2 BLIND 2 SEE IT JUS WANTED 2 HOLD ON AND KEEP UR VOWS LIFE MOVES ON SWEETIE WHEN 1 DOOR CLOSES GOD OPENS ANOTHA 1


Thasmartchick

Nobody can take your man away, he left willing, just get some therapy and move on. You are not the first woman to get hurt by a man you know?


Caramel_Cutie

Desperate much? Very messy, be a mother to your child and move on.


MrzBkHoney

Can't believe alicia would do such thing yeah he's definitley gonna do the same [EXPLETIVE] 2 her or he may just go back 2 his wife smh crazy !


MzFloridaBabe

TYPO LURK


befree

Alicia keys is a slutty ass HOMEWRECKER. I lost all respect for her.


Iwontbebad

ALICIA SHOULD SAY "SOMETHING" TO CLEAR HER OWN NAME. SWIZZ SITTIN BACK FAT AND HAPPY WHILE IT LOOKS LIKE ALICIA THE HOMEWRECKER WHEN NO ONE BUT A GUN TO SWIZZ'S HEAD TO CHEAT ON HIS WIFE.


Caramel_Cutie

That's a cute picture of them.


JstBReal

Alicia became the black Angelina Jolie lol. I love AK as a celebrity and I dont care what she does in her personal life. Mashonda wasn't able to keep Swittz so another woman took her spot. Case closed. I just hope he takes care of his kid.


Tialove

Mashonda has moved on ,she just wants akeys to acknoledge her and her child .For akeys to know there gonna be in swizz life there for her and ak need to have an understanding and respect.Bottom line is akeys cheating with this womens husband,this b!tch has no regard for family because she did"t grow up in one


hotdam

She's a fool. And everyone hopping on her Alicia is the bad guy is too. We're on the outside looking in. We don't know what went on in that marriage and she's telling her side... AGAIN. If she was so over it why the public bs? If she's moved on why care? Two years have passed and he's with someone else and she's still at this dumb sh*t. Nothing she has done has brought him back to her. Hell, After that public humiliation letter he'll probably push even harder for the divorce which she's stalling. She isn't going to ruin Alicia's career and she isn't going to make that man love her.C'mon son


Thasmartchick

If she deliberately went after your husband then she will have to pay for that,because what goes around comes around just move on. Who cares? It sounds like she is having trouble moving on. Life goes on, get over it. At least you don't have to worry about how to pay the bills like a lot of women who men leave them. Anyway why are you acting like a teenager putting your business in the streets, who cares any way?



aWaKe

HE IS NOT GOING TO KEEP IT AT HOME AND IT DON'T MATTER IF YOU KICK, SCREAM, CRY, DO STUNTS IN THE BEDROOM IN A SUPERWOMAN COSTUME...WHATEVER.

A.KEYS & SWIZZ IS DEAD AZZ WRONG AND HANDLED THERE BUSINESS PHUCKED UP. HE SHOULDA BEEN HONEST WITH MASHONDA FROM THE GITTY-UP AND ASKED FOR A DIVORCE BEFORE PHUCKING WITH A.KEYS LIKE THAT.

MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO MASHONDA.. A.KEYS LOST ALL MY RESPECT FOR THIS ONE. SUPERWOMAN MY ASS...HOMEWRECKER. ITS BEST MASHONDA MOVE ON, THIS [EXPLETIVE] WILL NEVER LAST BETWEEN A.KEYS & SWIZZ CAUSE ITS BUILT ON A LIE.


aWaKe

MASHONDA HANDLED THE SITUATION WITH CLASS..HELL SHE SAID SHE TRIED TO PRIVATELY REACH OUT SEVERAL TIMES. IF THE KID IS GOING TO SPEND TIME WITH HIS DAD HE WILL BE AROUND ALICIA TO, SO I UNDERSTAND MASHONDA WANTING TO RESOLVE THINGS AND BE AT PEACE WITH A.KEYS.

TO THE COMMENT WHO SAID IF MASHONDA WAS DOING HER JOB SWIZZ WOULD HAVE BEEN AT HOME...SOUNDS LIKE THE WORDS OF A HOMEWRECKING GROUPIE BITCH. WHAT WOMEN FAIL TO REALIZE IS IT DON'T MATTER IF YOU A FREAK, BETTY CROCKER IN THE KITCHEN AND A MASSEUSE FOR A MAN, IF THAT MUTHAPHUCKA AIN'T GOT IT IN HIM TO KEEP IT AT HOME GUESS WHAT?


aWaKe

HE IS NOT GOING TO KEEP IT AT HOME AND IT DON'T MATTER IF YOU KICK, SCREAM, CRY, DO STUNTS IN THE BEDROOM IN A SUPERWOMAN COSTUME...WHATEVER.

A.KEYS & SWIZZ IS DEAD AZZ WRONG AND HANDLED THERE BUSINESS PHUCKED UP. HE SHOULDA BEEN HONEST WITH MASHONDA FROM THE GITTY-UP AND ASKED FOR A DIVORCE BEFORE PHUCKING WITH A.KEYS LIKE THAT.

MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO MASHONDA.. A.KEYS LOST ALL MY RESPECT FOR THIS ONE. SUPERWOMAN MY ASS...HOMEWRECKER. ITS BEST MASHONDA MOVE ON, THIS [EXPLETIVE] WILL NEVER LAST BETWEEN A.KEYS & SWIZZ CAUSE ITS BUILT ON A LIE.


PunchDrunkPretty

If somebody writes "she should deal with her husband" I'll scream. That is such a flawed argument. The woman or man who enters into a relationship with a married individual is equally adulterous. And they always seemed to dote on each other, Mashonda and Swizz. Alicia's songs about love and female empowerment took a back seat to her raging hormones, I see. That's hardly in keeping with this image of herself as an artist and humanitarian. It's vulgar and she should be ashamed. Instead, it seems, she's too busy flaunting their affair.


SweetTeeth

This chick is soo GHETTO!!! how dare she go in on Alicia keys like that!!! She is turning into a stalker!!! Didn't she just shake Alicia hand 2 weeks ago at that party??? She's so unclassy for this.

Honey GET OVER IT!!! YOU THOUGHT HAVING HIS BABY WOULD SAVE YOUR MARRIGE??? BITCH GET A JOB A TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILD!!!! seems to me she's mad that her bank account ((Marrige)) ran dry and that child support for 1 child will not be enough her SMDH the reason they still married is because she won't finalize the damn papers. I guess she figures this the most fame shell ever get.


shida25

I cannot believe some of the comments I am reading! This is a woman that intentionally went after a married man some bullshit! Mashonda has the right to be angry! I hope Swiss does that bitch the way he did his wife! I hope neither of the ever sell a record [EXPLETIVE] A Keys marriage ruiner and [EXPLETIVE] Swiss I hope she get every [EXPLETIVE] dime!


moneyhungry

uh uh

Their body language is off

They do not look like passionate lovers in that pic, they look like homeboy and homegirl

She just comes off as a lesbian, IMO

I'm still not buying it


SaintJames

Swizz Beats lil' skinny azz needs to make a choice. Dudes already get a bad rap when it comes to us and relationships. I bet he'd feel like a real bitch if, when he left his wife, A. Keys cheated on him. That's what's wrong with us guys now, when we do it, we wonder why women trip. But when they do it to us, then it's WWIII. I won't sit here and act like I have never cheated before, but I saw how it affected the other person and I felt sick about it. The karma bit me in my ass and I understood. Not cool bruh, you can't f*ck with people's heart that way.


MadeNKorea

this is hella sad


imsickoftvnradio

mizzkiki...you just took the words right out of my mouth.

I am not married but if I were that would break my heart. Poor ting ting. What goes around comes around.


GreatGooblyGoop

IT'S ABOUT TIME SOMEONE FINALLY PUT AK PLASTIC SURGERY, EX FISTED NOSED, WHOPPED SHAPED HAMBURGLAR, LAZY EYE HEFFA GET CALLED ON THE CARPET.

fIRST, SHE CAN NOT SING, HER BACKUP SINGERS CARRY HER SONGS. 2ND SHE CAN'T DANCE, YO SHE AINT GOT NOO RHYTHM.

3RD HER BODY IS NOT BANGIN WIT DAT PANCAKE SHE GOT FROM HER MAMMY.

4TH SHE AINT GOT TOP BANK LIKE TOP BEETCHES

5TH SHE AINT NO CROSSOVER LIKE HALLE

6TH SWIZZ IS SS[SPAM][SPAM]OOOOO F'IN OOOO GAN F-IN MOOGLY

MASHONDA U AINT LOOSIN MUCH, UH

PLS DO A KELIS AND HIT DEM POCKETS. SWIZZ -N- AK SHO AINT JEY N BEY


OTgrad

Man if this is true then Alicia Keys is a pretentious whore that has everyone drinking her kool-aid.

I hate women that dont give a damn about the children involved in the situation and rather run around like dogs in heat chasing after married men.

If you help the man that you "love" break up his family and leave his children then is that really love? Or are you just a selfish low-life creep just like him?


GodBless2811

Alicia Keys is a [EXPLETIVE] bitch. She's a damn whore. Never liked her & dis makes it worst. She need to come out wid her gay ass & stop frontin nasty bitch. CLOSE UR LEGS 2 MARRIED MEN!


Ib12

I love Alicia but girl when you f*ck with a married man that takes you down a few pegs in my book. I do say this, this to will happen to you. Karma is a b*tch and what you put out will come back at you.


hotdam

And Alicia doesn't owe her [EXPLETIVE]. She didn't step out on her, he did. All she is causing is baby mama drama. Swizz will get a court visitation order and there's nothing she can do about it.

Alicia doesn't have to be in the picture while he spends time with his kid. All of that is crapola for drama and control.

What is she going to do when Alicia marries dude and have her own kids by him? ( I would like to know why this guy is even getting this kind of attention, in the first place.) She had better get a grip before he fights her for custody.



PunchDrunkPretty

SMH All you people taking up for Alicia, dismissing the very serious way in which Mashonda was violated, and rationalizing Alicia's decision to engage in an illicit affair have never, ever been in this situation, huh? It's being robbed of security, people. Imagine going to your parents' home tomorrow and having them act as if you're a stranger. That's how it feels when someone you love betrays you in this way. You are being so naive in your defense of Alicia.


harlemnbrooklynrelle

Patiently waiting for "karma" to hit ak and swizz in the ass lol I mashonda is a real woman for coming out classy about it and I feel her pain


imsickoftvnradio

I don't care what anyone says but as soon as AK found out Swizz was married the conversation should have ended. You never diss another woman like that. He could not have broke the vows had Alicia told him to step.


lovehatefashion

HMM I HEARD THAT ALICA HOOKED UP WITH BEATZ WHEN HIM AND HIS WIFE WERE "SEPERATED" EITHER WAY I CAN CARELESS

@nautysgirl

I AGREE YOU CAN TELL BY THE COMMENTS WHICH FEMALES ARE "SIDE" CHICKS OR SLEEPING WITH SOMEONE ELSES MAN!


sotochick

she needs to really get past it and move on with her life and quit crying over it. if he'll leave you like that with a new baby...how much could he care...move on and find someone who loves you....


KEEYSHAJ50

THIS IS JUST CRAZY,I JUST CANT GET OVER HOW A.KEYS GOING AROUND THIS LIKE ITS A FANTASY,DONT SHE CARE ABOUT HER REPUTATION I GUESS NOT I BET SHE WILL WHEN ITS TIME TO DROP THAT NEW ALBUM OF HERS,I CANT DEAL WITH THESE FEMALE CELEBS THEIR EITHER WHORES,ATTENTION WHORES,HOME WRECKIN WHORES I CANT SUPPORT NONE OF THESE BITCHES NO MORE... AS FOR MASHONDA SHE NEEDS TO MOVE ON AND GET AN DIVORCE ALREADY FROM THAT UGLY ASS NICCA SWIZZ THAT NICCA AINT ALL THAT ANYWAY,GET THAT DIVORCE AND GET YA KELIS ON LOL,AND IF THIS LETTER DONT WORK KNOCK ALICIA ASS OUT ALONG WITH SWIZZ I KNOW I WOULD DAMN THAT LOL


Modesty

I thought Mashonda & Swizz had two boys???


KEEYSHAJ50

ANYWAY KARMA IS REAL...


sweetblck911

if this happened to me, if she was able to so call steal him away then he was probably cheating before the so called stealing process started


RayfromtheBay

I don't believe this letter is drama control this woman is hurt and if you are women heartbreak is bound to come your way...but on tha flip Alicia has her game face on in pubic, but is prolly hurting and confused and in love all @ the same time behind closed doors...we can't really judge till we wear the shoes feel me???


ladybug4

CLASS!!! I AGREE DIS WOMEN B WANTN 2 B WITH D MAN SO BAD STILL GIV A DAMN OR LESS ABOUT D CHILDREN INVOLVED. I DONT WANT A PERSON AROUND MY CHILD DAT CAN NEGATIVELY IMPACT HIM OR HER EITHER. FOR THE BETTERMENT OF D CHILD EVERYBODY NEEDS TO B ON D SAME ACCORD. IF NOT,D MAN NEEDS 2 MAN D F UP AND LEAVE D OTHER WOMAN ALONE.


BabyGirlMrs

No one can deny AK's talent, but she was dead wrong for starting this relationship with Swizz. Some ppl say that it wasn't on her... and that "we don't know what really happened"... however, I don't care what the situation is... u don't f*ck with a married person! Period! I lost all respect for AK after this situation came to light. I would have thought that she would have made a better choice, but we're all human... she'll learn in the future that she should have never started this relationship... "Karma is a b*tch!"... This entire situation will come back on her 100 fold.

Believe that!


thrasher

@punch, I dont think people are defending her, she seems to be putting alot of blame on Alicia, no matter who's to blame, the relationship is over. She needs to move on.


lissablu85

HALF OF YALL READERS AREN'T GETTING THE POINT: SHE IS NOT DESPERATE. SHE LET US KNOW WHAT IS GOING DOWN. ON TOP OF THAT, WHAT SHE IS SAYING IS ALICIA IS KEEPING SWIZZ FROM HIS CHILD. SHE WANTS ALICIA TO KNOW THAT THERE IS A CHILD INVOLVED AND MASHONDA WANTS TO BE ABLE TO GET ALONG WITH SWIZZ AND ALICIA FOR THE SAKE OF THEIR CHILD.


BabyGirlMrs

BTW....

Mashonda's letter was on point... she's obviously a woman with class and dignity unlike this slut bucket, Alicia Keys!

Hey AK... u'll get what's coming 2 u! It always comes back around hun. Always!



Reek

HE HAD TO INTRODUCE HER,THEY WERE BOTH ON THE SAME LABEL..SHE NEED TO GET OVER HIM.IT WOULD'VE BEEN WITH SOMEONE ELSE ANYWAYS.HEY WHO KNOWS WHAT SWIZZ WAS TELLING KEYS ABOUT HIS DISFUNCTIONAL MARRIAGE.MAYBE HE TWISTED KEYS HEAD UP INTO THINKING IT WAS OVER WITH THE MARRIAGE SO SHE STEPPED UP AND SNATCHED HIM.THE WIFE JUST MAD BECAUSE SHE WON'T BE TAKEN CARE AS WELL AS SHE WAS BEFORE THE BREAKUP.MOVE ON AND GET THOSE BABY STACKS!!


merva320

There are two side to every story maye he was'nt happy maybe.... hell there is alot of maybe's but when she put out this letter she made it one sided so i cant judge i dont know the whole damn story


MaliaRichards

I think that it is sad how we as women are willing to disrespect other women.I don't know the situation and there are always three sides to every story: his side,her side, and the truth. I do think that it is tragic that a beautiful family was broken up,whatever the cause. If this is true Swizz is definitely to blame as well. I am not sure how helpful this letter is going to be in this situation but I wish the best for everyone involved. I especially wish the best for the little boy that is in the middle of this whole situation. To my beautiful women, don't allow yourself to be used. If he


Blacque

i read the letter yesterday on another site, i feel sorry for mashonda and swiss cuz this situation is so ugly and a baby is involved. i hope ak takes the soon to be x words seriously and allows a relationship to resume between father and son. you can control a person completely and if you feel like the other person your trying to keep him away from has a win then you've already lost even though the man may be with you at this current time.

and n e wayz i thought ak was so in love with dude she been with for almost ten years,

yuck


MaliaRichards

will cheat on her he will cheat on you. What comes around goes around like AK's song. Your way more beautiful and precious than that.


LadyKarma

@ lovehatefashion- I totally agree, you can tell who the sidechicks are on here. I don't see her calling AK a bitch or whore. So, she's not a woman scorned. But it's cool, this would be one of those rare moments when I say take him for what he got because if he had any respect for Moshanda and his KID he would get them to sit down and work things out for the childs sake. Yet, some people on here would say that's wrong. I wouldn't even let my child be around her, seeing how she has a heart of stone.


BabyGirlMrs

One last thing...

2 the ppl saying that Mashonda needs 2 move on, ur obviously not married...

and if u are, maybe u need to check the dedication u have 2 ur marriage. It's not easy to walk away from ur spouse. It's not like a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship... it's not like a baby daddy/baby momma relationship either... it's a true commitment.

If ur a truly dedicated and committed husband or wife, especially one that has a child or children, it's very difficult to walk away... especially when there's another person in the picture. ...


MildlyAmused

ATTENTION BLACK WOMEN: HERE'S SOME [EXPLETIVE] YOU NEED TO BE REMINDED OF-- Black men DO NOT respect women, much less the sanctity of the vow of marriage. Yall bitches better upgrade to a white dude.


simone718

If ur a single woman, and u meet and man and he said he was married? u r surpose to run for the hills !!!!! the truth is that nobody respects marrige not even AK. why would u find it fun to deal with somebody that didnt end there other relationship and start a new, i feel her pain, he didnt want a family and if he felt that way he should of stayed single


BabyGirlMrs

... If Mashonda feels a need to get sh*t str8 with AK, then she has every right to!

I mean, this skank b*tch IS SLEEPING WITH HER HUSBAND!


EmmaLouise94

I think swizz needs some blame 2 cmon aint like it was 100% alcia it was 50/50 infact i think swizz is more in the wrong he has children so he should of known better !


Safari1

Okay I'll take y'all word for it. Alicia what happened to the guy you had waiting a whole year for sex? I think he was the crucial in "Cruical Keys".


The_Stars_Critic

This is old news however I don't see all the big fuss over Swiss because he's a HORROR.


TheRose

You know I like Alicia, but this is some hoe shyt. Some women can be such idiots. And I don't care how talented or beautiful the woman is, they are not exempt from doing dumb shyt. Doesn't make the woman a genius. I just don't like that she did this. She is not the only one to blame, it is dudes fault as well, but to chase and pursue a married man and come between a woman, her family, and her kids is hoe shyt. It is obvious disrespect, shows callousness, shows her ignorance and stupidity. The guy isn't even divorced.


RayfromtheBay

I agree with sweetblk, he prolly cheated b4 but with someone of a lower calibur who he felt wasn't worth losing his fam for but he's all wide open for Alicia...he did the typical NIG move and didn't pass up the chance to tap alicia keyes (a lot of dudes dreamb***ch) ASS...the rewards prolly woulda been greater if he was strong enuff to do pass that up!



jnn121786

For all the folks not seeing the bigger picture here she us obviously a women scorned you can clearly see that, by how she states things. In paragraph 2 she says keys held a party for swizz beats, which she to attended and shooks keys hand why had she not pulled her aside woman to woman confronted her there? she is only trying to expose the truth about keys and swizz year affair.


aWaKe

@BabyGirlMrs

CO-SIGN


EmmaLouise94

@MaliaRichards 2 true if he was willing to cheat once wat stopping him from doing it again a.keys mad a mistake

tho if there in love good 4 them !


MissDiamond

WOW!!! oh well move on


LadyKarma

AK is talented but a hoe will be a hoe, both her and swizz! You deserve better Mashonda! :)


stillmsjersey

u see that why i dont [EXPLETIVE] with AK's nomore cause she was creepin while he was still with wife n that wrong she didnt have her father cause her mother did the same thing so it seems like the apple dont fall from the tree n if i was his wife i would have beat her ass 4 that 1 then i would let him have her n take him 4 everything


shugmslady

damn i feel for her marriage is a serious thing i dont understand why people dont understand that alicia is a great talent but a horrible person and not much of a woman


RayfromtheBay

@EmmaLouise94...being a woman who demands to be 1 in the man I loves life, @ some point us women have to stop and ask ourselves would you want some1 to do it to you? But a lot of women who settle for less always screw taken men, no morals and principles! Upbringing maybe? But experience allows me to learn that's y a man with a woman is off limits to me!!!!!


LadyKarma

It seems to be a lot of homewreckers making comments saying she deserved it for not doing her part. Feeling guilty? Or maybe he left you because you were just a side chick. Either way, some of you guys will reap what you sow.


jnn121786

Speaking on a more lighter note of someone who knows the two through family she, in my opionion will never come to terms with the divorce and if swizze happens to marry keys Mashonda might even go insane if she has not spoken to keys women to women from what I hearing through family mashonda knew something like this might have occured but just wanted to be supported but anyway hope she will be okay and move forward with her life .


TheRose

I have to agree. That letter was very well articulated. The woman can air her greivances if she wants to. Cause the shyt Alicia pulled is hoe shyt. Just to know she even did this makes me loose all respect for her. It is obvious Mashonda is hurting, her family is hurting and Alicia Keys is like I don't give a f--k. I am going to be a hoe and I don't care who's man I steal to get some dyck.


dropdead71

After reading this I've lost all respect for Ms. Keys. Doubt her relationship will last after the pain she's caused another woman and child. INSIDEOUS WOMAN AK!


aWaKe

THERE IS NO TELLING WHAT SWIZZ COULD HAVE BEEN TELLING A.KEYS TO GET IN HER HEAD BUT I CAN'T SYMPATHIZE WITH HER....BOTTOM LINE IS HER AZZ KNEW HE WAS A MARRIED MAN..


LadyKarma

@ TheRose- True that!


Gameday

Alicia Keys is the [EXPLETIVE]! Do you girl! I'm bet I still get ALL her albums when they come out. In the words of the great philisophical mind of Mia X (LOL), she "couldn't of took your man unless he was ret to go!" Holla (in Frankie's voice) LOL.



RayfromtheBay

And Alicia hasn't been in a public relationship where they are clearly in love, with any public affection before this (I thought she was closet dyke, and still do) but now she is about to learn about heartache...whether careerwise or with Swizz or somethin, KARMA!!! Every dog gets their day, and how you get em is how you lose em!!


Cantria9

mashonda needs prayer.. she needs to move on with her life..


diamondstatediva1

Mashonda please, you are only reaping what you sewed! Get a life! You took him from another woman and their child, and now the same thing is happening your azz!


LadyKarma

I use to love AK, the respect I had for her is thrown out the window. Practice what you preach in your songs honey! You grew up in a single parent home and should know better! Selfish.


stillmsjersey

We blame Swiss but it take a women 2 keep it coming it not like they was boy&girlfriend the was married n just had a baby n she still dint care it show what kind of women she is


xXcharisseXx

In my opinion I think its time for Mashonda to move on... I mean isn't obvious that Swizzbeatz has?


raison123

If her husband left her, he was missing something she wasn't given. We don't know anything about Swiss and his ex-wife or Alicia for that matter, but I will say it's more to the story than what I just read.

It's important never take anything for granted. The relationship could start off great, but sometimes people outgrow the other person. Whatever it takes to get a man or woman, it takes that and more to keep them. You can't slack off once you are married.


LadyKarma

Karma, Karma, Karma!


RayfromtheBay

Go ahead GameDay pop Alicias collar for her...but eventually she is going to get it back one way or another...now I'm not takin her talent from her but just because you can sing that don't mean you can eff married me...feel me?????


The_Shoparazzi

she may not have an album dropping soon, but she's aware that alicia does. there's motive.

keep igging her alicia. that's the more responsible avenue to take. swizz needs to deal with her, not u.

angelina publicly address jen; she let brad handle that.

when a man moves on, he's been plotting the move for quite some time. he doesnt just leave - out of blue.

for her son, (and hopefully her dignity) she needs to keep it movin'.


BigNat137

wait i been thought they was over i guess she was the only one that didn't know mwhahahahah


HoneeGirl954

I am disgusted by some of yall comments.... Blaming Mashonda for her husband cheating on her? I mean really.. Thats the problem with black women yall bitches well some of yall bitches are simple as hell. AK was just as wrong as Swizz and this home wrecking whore made a song called Karma??? Superwoman??? Choose your words carefully AK cause 99.9% chance you are going to be in the same situation that Mashonda is in. I cant believe yall saying get over it, you lost, you cant compare to AK are yall really serious? How can you tell someone to get over their husband? To stop loving someone? AK is a


nofries

Swizz and Mashonda's son Kasseem was born in Jan 2007, they divorced in April 2009, two years after their son's birth; Selfish, uncaring Alicia Keys knew but didn't give a damn about breaking up a marriage and leaving a son without his father. Swizz, a coward, is just as guilty, neither he nor AK have the class and intellect of Mashonda.


Honesty24

Why are people saying A. Keys is a homewrecker and STOLE Swizz from Mashonda? Did she run up in their house with chloroform soaked rag and put it over his face? Did she drag him out and throw him in her trunk, never to be seen by Mashonda and their son again?

Hell no.......

Husbands don't get stolen, most of them leave willingly as I see it. I am not one of those women who doesn't know how to respect another woman's marriage or relationship. It just bugs me out, how women always feel like they need to CONFRONT the other woman about something. Check the man you walked down the aisle with.


aWaKe

TO THE COMMENT WHO SAID IF MASHONDA WAS DOING HER JOB SWIZZ WOULD HAVE BEEN AT HOME AND HE MUST HAVE BEEN MISSING SOMETHING AT HOME...

SOUNDS LIKE THE WORDS OF A HOMEWRECKING GROUPIE BITCH. WHAT WOMEN FAIL TO REALIZE IS IT DON'T MATTER IF YOU A FREAK, BETTY CROCKER IN THE KITCHEN AND A MASSEUSE FOR A MAN, IF THAT MUTHAPHUCKA AIN'T GOT IT IN HIM TO KEEP IT AT HOME GUESS WHAT? HE IS NOT GOING TO KEEP IT AT HOME AND IT DON'T MATTER IF YOU KICK, SCREAM, CRY, DO STUNTS IN THE BEDROOM IN A SUPERWOMAN COSTUME, HAVE A MILLION OF HIS BABIES, GIVE HIM A BLOOD SACRIFICE, WHATEVER.



SheleekahPuddles

I read the whole thing...it held my attention...because it was real. I feel Mashonda's pain. And I am VERY dissappointed with Ms.Keys. My sights of her being a strong woman, no longer exists. Because a strong woman wouldve been strong enough to leave this along. A strong women wouldve been wise enough to know that she deserves more than a married man. Well I hope she wakes up and realizes her wrongs. Because Karma is a bytch. I'm sure she knows, she did make a song about it. "What goes around, comes around, what goes up, must come down".


thrasher

@babygirl, She is putting her biz on... OUT! IT IS OVA!! Just like one poster said, this is not the first time he may have stepped out. But since it's Alicia, and the fact dude is blowin up, she's feeling rejected...All ppl wit da AAAHS, are not helping her. She needs to pull up da big girl panties and step! If ur daughter went thru this, what would u say to her?


HoneeGirl954

home wrecking whore just like her pastey white ass mammy thats where she probably got that foul [EXPLETIVE] from cause we all know how they do it... Thats why she dont have any remorse... AK you was my girl but now I really.really,really hope that every album you put out FAILS!!! You lost a fan I promise i`ll get Taylor Swift [EXPLETIVE] b4 urs ever again in life u low life!!


aWaKe

ALICIA KEYS HAS A SONG WHERE SHE SINGS THE WORDS:

WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND WHAT GOES UP MUST COME DOWN

SHE USE TO APPEAR TO BE SO WISE TO ME, SHE LOST ALL MY RESPECT..ALL OF IT.


imsickoftvnradio

But he is the main guy to blame too. They both wrong.

If anyone on this thread is over 30 and think Ak behavior is justified. Please check your bulb cause something not right. But good read though.


Dreayonn

Drama, Drama, Drama.


HoneeGirl954

thrasher...Blowing up??? Swizz late ass blowing up where? Cause in So. Fla. we dont see or hear him pe-ri-od.... His 1990 ass is totally irrelevent to today unless we talking about this!! Get a life!!!


infp45

Wow...she wrote all of that. I thought twitter had a word limit or something.


imsickoftvnradio

I must admit her music is off the chain. I Love her music.


RayfromtheBay

Blaming Alicia is like blaming ourselves as black women...its not about blame its about knowing the morals and prinicple and upholding them, we as blk women get criticized for almost everything that we're put up against...we have to rep ourselves waay better than most and AK is an icon...she is outta line!!!


aWaKe

I AGREE WITH THE FACT THAT MASHONDA NEEDS TO MOVE ON, BUT SHE WAS MARRIED TO THIS MAN AND HAS 2 KIDS BY HIM. I CAN ONLY IMAGINE THE KIND OF HURT AND BETRAYAL SHE FEELS RIGHT NOW....

THIS IS A PHUCKED UP SITUATION.


SLiMThiCKY

Swizz was wrong, if he was having problems he could have waited for a divorce, and alicia was wrong for messing with a married man with kids. The world is rapidly losing morals.


coachprincess101

Well, from what I have always heard no matter if the husband cheated and knew that he was married that you ARE NEVER supposed to cheat with anyone else's husband &&if YOU DO YOU WILL HAVE BAD LUCK, Like it or NOT just b/c Alicia Keys is a talented artists DOES NOT MEAN SHE IS PERFECT. She is a human as well. Therefore; she is WRONG and two wrongs don't make a right... so clearly she is a HOMEWRECKER... Question is: Why couldn't she find her own man! ! Mmmm.. at leats Swizz Beats was Mashonda's husband at first... Tah


Sometimy

.

I have LOST ALL RESPECT FOR ALICIA KEYS !!

As a wife...I can understand Mashonda's letter.Can't wait till Karma sneaks up and bites AK in the ass!


kiaallday

yall n1ggas is f*cked up motherf*ckers that was her official hubby how dare you say she on his dick i actually admire her for keepin her composure cause if that was me sheeeeeeeeeshhhhhhhh hhhh omg it wudda been over for alicia as beautiful as she as and as much money as she has outta all these fine men you tellin me she cuddnt find her own?



MaliaRichards

diamondstatediva1,

Educate us. Most of us are not aware of that situation. Who was he with before? I am not being rude, I just want to know. I thought he just had one kid.

This is from swizz beatz twitter page in response: FYI I WILL NOT ANSWER ANY QUESTIONS ABOUT MY PERSONAL LIFE ON TWITTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THATS CHILDS PLAY IM A GROWN ASS MAN!!!!!!


thrasher

*Rolling eyes* If a dude left me for another chick...Hey, i lost one! Lick my wound, keep it steppin...HATE, HATE, A NEEDY MUTTER FUKKER!! Her whining azz is annoying to ME, I can see why he left.


icandothat

So much for being a Superwoman huh Alicia. Alicia is nothing now but a talented homewrecking whore. This relationship will fail, and for those condoning this, I hope a homewrecking bitch takes part in breaking up your relationship. This is not okay regardless of who does it.


MaliaRichards

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hottestmilf

get ova it mashonda that's mad childish to put ya biz out there that's [EXPLETIVE] u handle behind closed doors not 4 the whole world to c girl I understand u trynna get sum publicity outta this but I believe alicia got wit swizz after they separated like reports say mashonda sound like sge bitter as hell a she don't wanna accept the fact that the marriage is ova


TheTruthCanHurt

ALICIA WILL NOT STICK WITH HIM CAUSE ONLY A SELFISH TRICK BREAKS UP A HOME.SOMETHING MORE APPEALING WILL COME ALONG SHE'S OUT OR SHE'LL DO WHAT RIHANNA DID AND BREAK IT OFF IF THIS AFFAIR THREATENS HER CAREER. TRUST THAT ALICIA WILL GET HERS FROM SOMEONE ELSE. JUST WHEN SHE FALLS MADLY IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE, RIGHT WHEN SHE'S FEELING SECURE...**BOOM** SHE'LL FEEL MASHONDA'S PAIN! SWIZZ WILL ALSO FEEL THE PAIN WHEN SHE DUMPS HIS STUPID AZZ!!TRUST!! TO ALL THESE DUMB AZZ GEN. Y BROADS THAT ASSUME IF SHE WAS DOING RIGHT, SWIZZ WOULDN'T HAVE LEFT BLAH BLAH BLAH...GROW UP...YA SOUND IGNORANT!!!!


citizen

MASHONDA: Yes, your soon to be ex and AK were both wrong. What's done is done, and I think you realize that he ain't coming back. As for your son, all that is left is to work out the custody agreement. They don't really have to deal with you at all. Someone else can pick up the kid for visitation. And they don't have to socialize with you at b-day parties. Holidays can be split. Take the high road and don't start with the "only way he sees the child is through me!" nonsense.


akoo

Ak dont owe her nothing her man dont want her no more and thats just it i know shes hurting right now and that may be exactly what hes trying to do get over it girl and move the hell on to somebody else...


Uniquely_g

I can feel where this sista is coming from. The point of the letter is she's tired of the disrespect and that its time for them to get it out for the child [EXPLETIVE]. She'll find better swizz is not all that anydamnway


unacceptable

im in the same boat mashonda, be blessed sweetie...


LadyKarma

F Swizz beats! He should try acting like a grown man then! Handled this like a grown man and stop being a bitch! Hoe ass.


Ruth2010

I feel bad for her but in my opinion you can't "steal" a man or woman away from anyone. If they leave its because they wanted 2. AK was wrong for going after Swizz because he was married, I don't think any1 can deny that, but all I am saying is that this long ass letter should have been to the person who stood before God and vowed to love her forever, her husband not AK. Men and women are scandalous but it is up to the person you are with to respect you and your relationship not some1 else. I'm married & I would be more mad @ my husband than the other woman.


kiaallday

Sk0rPi0n_KinG says:SHE NEEDS 2 GET THE [EXPLETIVE] OFF MY BOY SWIZZ DYCK

BEEYOTCH, UR NOT WANTED ANYMOE

I say : n3gro stfu that was her devouted husband some1 she dedicated her like too some1 she planned on spending the rest of her life with who she thought was the love of her life its not like she was a regular old gf where he cud just leave he put a ring on it! she had his baby so wtf yu talkin bout you just a ghetto ass n3gro with no family morals


BabyGirlMrs

@thrasher...

U sound dumb ignorant... r u married? Do u have a child or children with someone ur married to?

If not then, u can't possibly understand by any measure what Mashonda is going thru.

As far as Swizz steppin out on Mashonda b4, that doesn't have anything to do with AK! She's the 1 in this relationship with Swizz... not some other random skank... and if it were some other groupie b*tch... I would b saying the same thing.

Btw... if it were my daughter and she felt that she needed to get sh*t str8 with a b*tch that was sleeping with her husband and more than likely would...


BabyGirlMrs

.... more than likely become apart of her childs life, I'd support that 100%... like I said, she has every right!

And I would have my daughter's back just in case anything popped off! No doubt!



AlreadyNYoDreamz

Mashonda is a BEAUTIFUL woman and NO WOMAN deserves what was done to her, especially their baby. ALICIA KEYS is a HOME WRECKER!


kiaallday

its hardddd tho that was hubb you tramps dont yall get it sheeeeesh and its harder for us females to go out and get a man so quick especially wit a child involved


TheTruthCanHurt

I HAD TO CONTINUE BECAUSE THERE ARE SO MANY IGNORANT COMMENTS BEING MADE. I USED TO LIKE ALICIA AND HER MUSIC BUT HOW CAN I LISTEN TO SOMEONE WHO CLEARLY DOESN'T HAVE ANY MORALS. WHAT CAN SHE SING ABOUT. LOVE?...BEING A SUPERWOMAN. THINKING BACK...SHE ACTUALLY TRICKED HER FANS BECAUSE IF MOST OF KNEW THAT SHE WAS SINGING ABOUT ANOTHER WOMANS HUSBAND THEN WE WOULDN'T HAVE LISTENED TO HER MUSIC. TREAT OTHERS LIKE YOU WOULD WANT TO BE TREATED! ALSO, TRUST THAT THE DEVIL IS BUSY...HE MAKES WHAT GOD SAYS IS WRONG LOOK RIGHT IN OUR EYES BY USING OUR EMOTIONS! I'M DISGUSTED!


muah31103

I made an account just to comment on this story. Some people are saying why doesn't she just move on...wtf! I know that most of yall are young but this isn't some boyfriend girlfriend ish...this is a marriage! You don't just move on that quickly and they're not even divorced yet! This is her life...she thought this person was going to be with her forever. Wedding vows are serious and shouldn't be taken lightly! Alicia Keys has lost all of my respect as a woman. Her actions go against everything that I thought her music represented. As for Swiss beat's little rat lookin ass! No comment! =X


Mrs1985

i thought alicia was more classy...his ex-wifey handled that real well he was married to dat chick mashonda right???


mizz_naysi

Aww Mashonda sweetie...

LET iT GO...

Quit living in the past, and move on with you life...

While your wasting your time trying to bring her down, your doing as much damage to yourself as well.

Fighting fire with fire ONLY makes the situation WORST.


AlreadyNYoDreamz

I have dealt with the same issue!

Its not the fact that Swizz left, the fact is that Alicia knew about his life and she still had the affair! Alicia could have rejected Swizz but she didnt!


BabyGirlMrs

@thrasher *Rolling eyes* If a dude left me for another chick...Hey, i lost one! Lick my wound, keep it steppin...HATE, HATE, A NEEDY MUTTER FUKKER!! Her whining azz is annoying to ME, I can see why he left. ******************************************

Wow! I hope u never have to face the hurt and devestation that Mashonda has gone thru (with a spouse)....

it's not the easy get up and go that u believe it to be.


sidity_chick

Well, I'm a fan of Alicia Keys & a married woman too. My opinion, I dnt care how long it took 4 the divorce to be final, AK shoulda fell back until it was. I feel Mashonda tho I think it coulda been another way to handle this besides writing a public letter, but at least she chose the non-violence route cause ain't enough bond $ in the world that woulda covered the [EXPLETIVE] I did to my husband & AK!


LadyKarma

I understand loving someone but she should've at least TRIED to let them work it out, especially if she asked her too. Swizz beats was going to do what he wanted, but AK made the choice to continue to f with him. Is she that insecure that she had to mess with a married man? If she knew her worth she wouldn't have been afriad to let them work it out, because she would know what God has for her is for her and understand that there are plenty of men out here to choose from. Wrong is wrong. F them both! Keep your head up Mashonda and continue being a good mother!


International

Keep them in your prayers


myxy

dumb black chicks fighting over a man....sad!


thrasher

@thetruth, U win some, u lose some! THAT IS LIFE... A STRONG WOMAN, would not resort to THIS! She would have gained more sympathy being QUIET! She's letting EVERYBODY know, I LOST! NO FAIR, I WANT DO OVER! I could not keep my dog tied up... Life is a game, & she is a sore LOSER! He. Is. GONE.


MizzBrown4Eva

As a woman I have been the other woman and now and now as a wife I fear reaping what I've sown. Mashonda really should forgive and move on. I understand your hurt pain and humiliation but if you believe in GOD then you must know that HE will work this out. Her and him will get theirs. What Alicia does personally has absolutley nothing to do with me listening to her music. I just know like most artist she is a hypocrite.



pinkdiamondprincezz

Nice letter, well written, but it's crazy that she's calling Alicia out on TWITTER of all places when it's her husband that broke HIS vowels to her. You are not married to Alicia Keys so why in da hell you're trying to "connect" with her, so you portray? It's your husband you need to be seriously talkin to.

Obviously your marriage and your husband wasn't all crakced up as you make them out if he left you for her. I'm certainly not defending Alica. She is dead ass wrong IF this story's all true but your husband is the main culprit becuz he broke the vow.


Najagirl

After 5 years he'll do the same thing to AK. Keep your head up and move on--He ain't all that.


pinkdiamondprincezz

*vows not vowels lol


LadyKarma

Oh please! She was strong when she didn't beat her ass! Some of yall don't need to get married, because a lot of people are not taking their vows serious and this is why the divorce rate is high.


makemwet

What did Snoop say? In this case yo [EXPLETIVE] chose me.


A_sez

Mashonda is a class act-she IS moving on and this is part of the process. She has a son and has every right woman to woman, to let AK know how she feels. She handled it with maturity and class. Too bad, I like AK, but her and Swiss flaunting their relationship while he is still married is a little tacky.


JSUAlumniStatus

It's crazy that so many of you are saying that the wife needs to move on and let it go. . .How insensitive can you be for real. She's not saying that she can't move on. I never even read her saying she wanted to try to make it work. What I got from this is that she feels disrespected because Alicia knowingly messed up a home and a family. Happy or Unhappy, it was not her call. As a REAL woman, you let that man work out his current situation before he takes those kind of steps with you. Out of all the men Alicia could have, she chose a married man. . .wow!


Nefetiti

Yo man dont want u no more.tru dat and if it wasnt alicia sumone else woulda had him anyway. Deal n move on, millions of people get divorced. Welcome to reality n you will come out stronger


pc7171

I THINK THAT ALICIA KEYS IS A BEAUTIFUL PERSON...ON THE OUTSIDE. ON THE INSIDE, IT IS ANOTHER STORY. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR MANY YEARS AND UNDERSTAND WHAT MASHONDA MUST BE FEELING. I REALLY CAN'T SAY I'LL BE AN ALICIA KEYES FAN AFTER THIS. I'M DONE BEING HER FAN. I HOPE SHE NEVER HAS TO FEEL THE PAIN SHE HAS CAUSED THIS WOMAN. BUT KARMA IS B!TCH AND WHO KNOW BETTER THAN ALICIA KEYES....SHE SANG ABOUT IT!


w8keup

This is so sad and for anyone that could say Mashonda needs to get over it you say that when the ish happens to you it seem like celebs have absolutely no respect and its one thing for this happen to an everyday person but when you gotta c this on tv and in mags how can you just get over it so easily its hard for everyday ppl I couldn't imagine it on this level AK better b glad M not featuring her azz on an episode of SNAPPED


JSUAlumniStatus

What we also don't realize is that this was more than a five year marriage. There was a relationship before then. And put yourself in her shoes. If you were having major or minor issues with your relationship, would you want your man/woman to go ahead and step out and persue someone else while you two are trying to work through your problems? She did what many women have done and what more young women need to do. . .She stuck it out in her marriage and tried to make it work despite what was said in the news or on the street. She respected her vows and I respect her more for that alone.


dominicanchica

I liked this tasteful letter. she was able to execute her point without childish name calling. Alicia should be a woman and own up to what she did. Maybe they can get along for the child's sake.


STOCKING_CAP

I FEEL SO SAD FOR HER...ALICIA KEYS IS A BIG HYPOCRITE WASNT SHE THE ONE SINGING "KARMA" WHY WOULD SHE DO THAT?

MASHONDA TAKE THAT BEAK NOSED CHUMP FOR ALL HIS GOT AND RAISE YOUR SON


bomb08

ppl can be so stupid sayn she needs to move on thats like waiting to exhale for a husband of sum years to jus up n leave n afta all she put up with him n now him n ak are all hugged up n pics n [EXPLETIVE] like its nuthin u kno that has to hurt swiss is stupid i dnt respect him as a man karmas a bitch THO.... MOMA ALWAYS SAID DNT LEAVE THE ONE YOU LOVE FOR THE ONE YOU LIKE


noneofyabusiness

I just don't think she should have done this on Twitter. Its one of those situations were since I don't like u I want everyone else to dislike. Personally I'm still a fan of AK and Swizz has a baby by another chick that's younger than the child he has with his wife. So obviously it aint the first time he cheated or whatev. I wonder if it was some random chick he chose would it play out like this? AK is succesful, articulate and beautiful... A triple threat. God bless em all tho!



HotterThanYou

It's real messed up how some of yall are telling this woman to get over it and move on! This is her HUSBAND that AK is blatantly flaunting a relationship with. To those calling her desperate and all that other crap, ya'll maybe need to keep ya' legs closed to married men! Like a previous poster said, that man wouldn't have been able to cheat with AK if she had said no. She is just as responsible as he is. And to people saying you can't help your feelings and blah blah blah, when it comes to married individuals you shoudln't even let it get to a point where you catching feelings. It's trifling


JSUAlumniStatus

Famous or not, Alicia is a person before anything and she's is due her mistakes, but to knowingly make a mistake and not seem to have any remorse what-so-ever is straight trifflin'! There's no other way around it. I believe in karma and we'll see what happens with this couple a few years from now. . .


the_disputed_truth

We're on the outside looking in so we'll never know the full story but I do know that Mashonda is (understandably) still very hurt & she's going to have to admit that & stop putitng on this strong woman facade so she can start healing. I would expect this out of Lisa Raye or Lil Kim but not AK =( HE is the one that should held accountable for breaking her heart & if I were AK I wouldn't trust that he wouldn't do the same to me.


HotterThanYou

on his part and hers too. And people saying just get the alimony and cs and get over it?? That's some trife gold-diggin' ish. It isn't always about money, she obviously loved her husband and her family and is hurt that it was taken away. She's better than me, cuz we all woulda' been on an episode of Snapped. With that said, I hope she does take him for EVERYTHING. People saying if she had handled her business and all that, gtfoh. You could be makin' 5 course meals, attending business dinners and swinging from chandeliers in the bedroom, some men are just greedy and free & easy ussy is worth it


HotterThanYou

to them.


Kenny73

Mashonda please just LET IT GO! I've been in your shoes so trust me I know, your marriage was over long before he left you. Most women just don't want to believe that it's over. Really why would you want a liar & cheater back? Move on and raise your kid. If AK ways responsible for the destruction of your marriage then karma will find her. But for you to keep talking about it is plain embarrasing!


kimmdee

This is sad we as women need to put our foot down we shouldnt entertain someone else's man im so disappointed in ak i look at that bitch so differently now i hope she what swizz did to his wife he will damn sure do to her


thrasher

@babygirl, I have never lost a dude to another chick, that i cared about. If it does happen, i wont blame the chick...period! I would SEE the signs, and take action THEN! I DONT STAY WIT SOMEONE, WHEN ITS CLEAR THAT ITS OVA! All ova a stupid contract, vows? Only women...How are u goin SWEAR to ALWAYS luv dis person? The vows need to be revised!


Dreamdoll2009

A.KEYS IS A HOMEWRECKER CALL IT WHAT IT IS!


mscreative1

She need to get over the fact that he husband is with Alica Keys and happy!


HandsomeStallion

She's just as classless as Alicia Keys. Her son is gonna read this one day. It's better to keep a dignified silence and discuss things in private, because once you put your business out there, you're opening pandora's box.

Having said that, I wouldn't be surprised if Swizz was tapping some other ass before Alicia during his marriage. To think no guy will ever ever sleep with another woman while in a relationship is funny..


icandothat

Some of yal are ignorant as hell. What is with these comments about how someone technically can't steal someone away from someone else and that the wife needs to move on? The point is that the trick is wrong. Alot of yal ripped Gabrielle a new [EXPLETIVE] but want to give this heffa a pass. Wrong is wrong. I hope this bull dyke wrecks one of your marriages so someone can tell you to get over it.


blackbeauty21

alicia aint the blame, he is. im pretty sure alicia didnt force him to choose her over his wife. their marriage was probably already [EXPLETIVE] up before alicia came along, why else would he look in the other direction. she cant blame alicia and their is no such thing as a women stealing another womens man. she should of kept him happy. if it wasnt alicia then it would have been another women.


rainbowkiid

WEN I SAY THIS BITCH JUST WANT SWISS BEATS BACK, DONT BLAME HER 4 WAT U WASNT DOIN RITE. THEN SHE KEEP USING HER SON,SO SHE KEEP HIM. BITCH GO TAKE A NAP


sixpac

Karma is a MF. Some whores just like to mess with married men-I know a few Kim E. and Shantal M., but what they dont realize is the [EXPLETIVE] will hit them in the face ten fold. The sad part is the man will do them the same way which makes him a piece of [EXPLETIVE] too.



TrueWords

((Attention)) if any of you dumb hoes are blaming alicica keys for ending mashondas marraige you are ignorant you can't steal a cheating man nobody put a gun to swizz head and mad him cheat with alicia he did it on his own so why is everybody blaming alicia key? swizz is to blame he's the husband he's the one that committed vows to mashonda NOT ALICA KEYS!!! that's the problem with women mainly black women always pointing the finger at the other woman instead of the one who started it (the husband) dumb asses

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TrueWords Flag post ((Attention)) if any of you dumb hoes are blaming alicica keys for ending mashondas marraige you are ignorant you can't steal a cheating man nobody put a gun to swizz head and mad him cheat with alicia he did it on his own so why is everybody blaming alicia key? swizz is to blame he's the husband he's the one that committed vows to mashonda NOT ALICA KEYS!!! that's the problem with women mainly black women always pointing the finger at the other woman instead of the one who started it (the husband) dumb asses


WHOGONACHECKMEBOO

I think Mashonda should have put AK on blast they r being very disrespectful going out n public and the divorce is not final and people taking pictures of swizz n ak like its cool its not cool I feel like Mashonda is not going to be able to heal becuz they keep up with da bulllsh.it but when Mashonda does find da strenght to heal she will be unbreakable I tip my hat to u Mashonda cuz me n my homegurl would have been waitin to catch da bitch I wouldn't have that strenght to just let parade around like its all good... Mashonda is maddd classy stay fab gurl


thrasher

@Handsome, THANK U! Ladies, coming from a dude! Tryin to get these woman to open their eyes, givin me high blood pressure...whew!


TrueWords

nobody said alicia isn't wrong dumb ass yes she is wrong but she's not to blame swizz is.


mzarrogance

Either this letter is old or she's had another baby with him.

It's not something I'd do but her language is tasteful.


im-chuck-dawg-bytch

REAL TALK...

I feel sorry for this woman... having your partner leave you for somebody else is very heartbreaking

Alicia Keys is only half the problem

The real problem is that society tries to push men to only settle with 1 woman...

which goes against nature

men are not meant to settle with only 1 woman

its not natural

just like its not natural to go on a diet (How hard is it to stick to one?)

men love women.... LOTS of women ... thats why men are not quick to make commitments to women... Because men can ONLY GET ONE!!!


ThaBlackMsMonroe

GOD BLESS HER I FEEL HER PAIN.NO ONE REALLY UNDERSTANDS UNTIL THE SHOES IS ON THEIR FEET......TRU BUT LET ME DROP SOME WISDOM ON MTO........ THE SAME WAY U GETEM IS THE SAME WAY U LOOSE EM N DONT EVERY DOG HAVE THERE DAY N WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. SO LISTEN A LIL MORE N TALK A LOT LESS N THE SITUATION WILL WHOLE BE OVER BEFORE SHE KNOWS.....I THINK THAT THESE R SOME WISE WORDS FROM MS.S.GIBSON HER SELF....BAAAAABBBYYYY WHEN I TELL THESE WORDS COULDNT BE MORE TRU.


earlyriser

so alicia cant talk about love because it might offend mashonda? she chose to go to akeys twitter page. so obvisouly she looking for some reason to go after alicia. swizz has made a song publicly acknowledging his feeling for akeys, hell he wore a ak pendent around his neck. why not write and open letter to him? he has clearly moved on and she should also. hell dont chase him replace him.


WHOGONACHECKMEBOO

@ true words... boo let me explain sumthang 2 u... this has nothing to do with being white or black stoopid this is bout respect, bottom line how would u feel if da person u took vows wit is disrespecting u over sum1 new be serious all y'all would be hurt stop post stoopid shiit ak is not to blame for their marriage failing but she contributes to maddness she is an accessory to the fact n not one time did Mashonda say da what she is saying again is be RESPECTFUL they can wait til da divorce is final to do all da extra n stop makin everything a black gurl issue ur comment is madd ignorant


MISSBLACKBEAUTY23

WHAT GOES AROUND,COMES AROUND, WHAT GOES UP MUST COME DOWN.IF KARMA WAS A MOTHER A.KEY'S WOULD BE THE CHILD!I ALWAY'S KNEW A.KEYS WAS FAKE AND SHE DIKEN,SHE DIKEN.LOL..I LIKE HER MUSIC,BUT I WILL ONLY BOOTLEG IT, I WILL NOT SUPPORT A HOMEWRECKER!I COMMEND MASHONDA!KEEP YOUR HEAD UP GIRL,HE WAS'NT ALL THAT ANYWAY'S,THE CREATOR WILL BLESS U WITH YOUR KING YOUR TRUE SOULMATE.AS FOR A KEY'S.YA'LL RELATIONSHIP IS DESTINED TO FAIL, BECOUSE IT WAS BUILD FROM A LIE.HE GONNA DO U THE SAME WAY! THEN YOU GONNA RIGHT A SONG ABOUT,AND I'MMA LAUGH SO HARD,AND SAY "THAT'S WHAT U GET U HOMEWRECKING BIATCH!"


pennylane

Wow.. Sistergirl Mashonda, you need therapy.

Alicia Keys did NOT break up your marriage, its quite obvious HE WAS NOT THAT INTO YOU and you seem to have tremendous self-esteem issues.

You come across as low self-esteem, and dragging your son into this mess is inexcusable.

Get help, move on and be strong for yourself and your son.


Dreayonn

Has anyone heard Alicia Keys new single?

Any thoughts?


UKNOWUAINTRIGHT

Very classy letter considering the situation.

The entire situation is not classy. Unfortunately people cheat and cheaters normally do not care about hurting peoples feelings.

Its a dangerous situation sleeping with multiple women and/men. He could have brought something awful home to his wife. STI's or STDs. The other woman has it easy her only job is to upset the relationship the man is in.


bomb08

THIS JUS A DIARY OF A MAD BLACK WOMEN U CNT TELL HER NOT TO BE MAD DUDES TODAY FIND THEY GIRL CHEATIN N BE TRYNA KILL HER DUDES CNT TAKE GETTIN CHEATED ON SO Y THEY FEEL LIKE ITS OK 4 THEM TO CHEAT



ThaBlackMsMonroe

oh lets not forget her favorite one ever A MAN WILL B A MAN REGARDLESS IF SHE MEANIN AKs ALLOW HER TO DO THIS THEN SHES JUST AS WRONG AS SHE IS.


ShoeFetish

@im-chuck....society pushes men to be with 1 woman and its unnatural? I beg to differ Christianity pushes men and women to be monogamous if you didn't read the bible there's a new testament that banned polygamy because ppl were getting out of hand. This country just happened to select christianity as its national religion. If u dislike that be muslim or something else


RedDivaBlue

I have been in Mashonda's shoes and I know she is hurting, but hell we have all known about this affair for as long as she has. She's acting like a straight up stalker. Mashonda needs to cry it out, be angry, whatever and get over it. I could understand if this letter came out a year ago. Let go boo boo (the fool). Take it from someone who's mother did stay with her husband for the sake of the kids. I watched a lot of arguing, watched my mother cry and only learned to hate my father. I always felt if my parents broke up, I could have actually had a relationship with my father.


LarryTLS

Alicia Keys so raw


chardon28

Much respect to Mashonda for being a Real woman about things.She asked them both they denied it.I am a woman and mother. She deserves some answers from AK because she knew they were married.Seems like her and swizz had their talk.As a mother she need to trust AK doubt a woman will do anything to a child when the woman is so in love with the man.Her Love is real and so is her Pain.People should respect that because we've all been hurt at some point in life.


Mel7

Alicia Keys is dead wrong and an a very sinful adulteress plan and simple!. Any woman who even thinks this is a joke, funny or he's upgraded to something better that says a lot about you as a woman?. Never support women who sleep with married men! never condone a man who cheats on his wife!. Those who cheat must know it won't truly work out in the long run, god surely won't condone or bless them like a married couple. Swizzbeats ex-wife has the right to express her hurt, betrayal and pain she was married to him for 5 years people!. Any woman or man that would break up a mariage aint [EXPLETIVE]!.


GuessBeans

a keys = homewrecker


aniyaqt

YOU MTO READERS ARE SO STUPID & ILLITERATE!

....4 THOSE WHO CANNOT COMPREHEND MASHONDA, WHO IS "WIFEY" SAID THAT SWISS WHO IS HER "HUSBAND" INTRODUCED THE 2 WHILE THEY WERE TOGETHER---"2 G E T H E R!" MASHONDA LEFT A MESSAGE "2 YEARS AGO" 2 Y E A R S! U IDIOTS! & AK STILL HAS NOT RESPONDED....GET THAT U RETARDS!


RedDivaBlue

If Mashonda has really moved on, she would do just that... MOVE ON! Actions speak louder than words. I know as a woman, it is a hard pill for anyone to swallow (losing your man to someone else), but come on a year and a half later you are publicly writing her. Mashonda definitely has a motive... to break them up. and even if he comes back, it will never be the same. Alicia won! Chalk it up and let go. Be happy. That's the real revenge.


coco-colada

Do you guys freaking hear ya selves.AK is fake kept denying the whole time that she was sleeping with that lady's husband.now what does that tell u to thoes who have a brain? AK KNEW IT WAS WORNG THATS WHY SHE WASNT WOMEN ENOUGH TO OWN UP TO IT.dont blame mashoda both swizz and a.k. Played a role. and if u dumb enuf to get with a guy that cheat thinking he wont do the same to u! Lol u got another thing cumming


samberene

AK is a home wrecker. But Swizz is an even bigger rass for doing what he did to Mashonda. But what really happened in their relationship that cause things to go the way they did? AK could have let the cockadoodle cool before she went ahead and jumped on it. How would you feel if you were married to someone and the other woman is publicly displaying affection for the man that you love(d). AK & Swizz don't forget Karma is a bish!!! Oh yeah good luck with your Hollywood relationship we all know how long that lasts. Yall ain't no Jada & Will, Patrick Ewing and his Wife..Do I dare say Bey and Jay-Z


Divine

I have a new found respect for mashonda for taking the classy road, as far as AK goes my respect for her and swizz went through the window. What "superwoman" steals another woman's husband especially since a child is involved? Some of you are saying mashonda sounds bitter when all-in-all she is hurt this was/is her husband for 5 yrs not forgetting how long they were together before they got married. This new generation of kids are so dumb...But swizz and AK needs to know that karma do exist


Jordan_Mesias

SHE PUT HERSELF IN DAT POSITION. SHE KNOW WHO SHE MARRIED AND SHE SHOULD HAVE KNEW EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM N HIS PAST. SHE PROLLY WAS WIT HIM FOR HIS MONEY N HE LEFT HER FOR A WOMAN WIT HER OWN MONEY N CAN HANDLE HER OWN.SO HEY GO CRY ABOUT IT


RedDivaBlue

Since when does a person have to respond to the wife (soon to be ex) of the dude she's sleeping with? Alicia don't owe her s**t! Only God and they know the real truth to the story. Feel Mashonda's pain yes, but have some damned dignity!


SweetSafiya

LET'S NOT JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS.....THERE'S ALWAYS TWO SIDES TO THE STORY.. I FEEL IT FOR HER BECAUSE SHE WAS HIS WIFE, BUT LET'S NOT ACT LIKE THE VICTIM! THEY WERE SEPARATED! IT'S NOT LIKE ALICIA PURPOSELY CAME IN AND STOLE HER MAN, THAT MARRIAGE WAS ALREADY OVER BEFORE ALICIA. SO WHAT IF SWIZZ FELL IN LOVE WITH ALICIA....IT HAPPENS, DON'T JUDGE THEM BECAUSE THEY HAVE A CONNECTION AND WANNA BE WITH EACHOTHER. HE WASN'T HAPPY, SO HE MOVED ON...HE'S A GROWN MAN, HE'LL BE THERE FOR HIS CHILD. AND ALICIA WILL RESPECT THAT. BTW: KEYS HAS REACHED OUT, BUT YOU KNOW SHONDA AINT TRYN TO HEAR THAT



HandsomeStallion

I'm not defending cheaters because being unfaithful is not cool, but the fact is that monogamy goes against our natural biological imperative. No penis/vagina ever belongs to you, no matter how long you've been together or married. We are just mammals, and the desire to reproduce with others shouldn't be condemned but understandably, it is if you are in a relationship but let's be realistic, most people aren't susceptible to the idea of an open relationship.

But on the other hand, if you're going to make a commitment, you should honor them. I don't know Swizz/Mashonda's business like that..


Iam_D-Liciolus

AK CAN DO BETTA THAN


HandsomeStallion

but I can understand why a man will stray away, especially if the relationship is going through turbulent times as Mashonda has stated. I just think it would've been better if Mashonda remained the mature one and not address this in public.


aniyaqt

@MISSROSE---U MAKE ABSOLUTELY NO SENSE...CHEESEBURGERS & FRIES LOOKS GOOD 2GETHER 2

@VANITYROSE---U SOUND LIKE A HOMEWRECKIN' HO AS WELL

@HOTDAM---WTF? I GUESS U LIKE TO HEAR URSELF TALK, DID U READ UR POST? IF AK MARRIES SWISS THEN SHE IS GOIN BE IN THE PIC WHEN SWISS SEES HIS KID U DUM A S S!


bajanbaby_995

back off biotch alicia didn't steal your man


Dreayonn

Didn't Alicia Keys record a song called 'Karma' LOL


The_Lady

Vows don't need to be revised, people need to revise their crooked minds! It ain't hard to love somebody forever if it's your soulmate, and if it ain't then why are you with that person in the first place? (OK mistakes do happen). Swizz is wrong and Allicia should have stayed out this mess until the divorce was final. Can't nobody keep a man away from his child unless that's the way HE wants it. Mashonda should move the hell on, take care of her son and keep her self respect. She looks great!


chardon28

Mashonda said she doesn't feel like a victim anymore and AK doesn't have to answer to her.Bottom line You can't make someone LOVE you.


MELOVEBEYOWULF

WHY ISN'T THIS THREAD DEDICATED TO BEYOWULF?!


girlwitrims

I can see there's a lot of homewrecking whores on this web site....she's he's wife. She has every right to be hurt. When ur in love its not that easy to jus move on. Especially when there's a MARRIAGE and CHILD involved. AK lucky she haven't got her a$$ beat. Real talk I would've taken a more violent approach. Much respect to Mashonda!


aniyaqt

MASHONDA HAS EVERY RIGHT 2 FEEL THE WAY SHE DOES!

.....UNLIKE U BABY MAMMAS, GIRLFRIENDS & SIDE-CHICS, SHE WAS "WIFEY, W I F E Y! AND THEY WERE "MARRIED" FOR 5 YEARS!....NOT WAITING ON DA RING BUT MARRIED!

-----OBVIOUSLY THEY WERE HAPPY! IT'S HARD 2 JUST MOVE ON WHEN YOU REALLY LOVE SOMEONE & THEY DO THIS TO U! ESP. ON SOME HUM-BUG SHI* LIKE THEY DID!


luvqtpies

I don't know much about this situation, but I do know it can't be his looks. As far as a man that women would fight over, he is not what comes to mind. AK should have just appreciated him for his talent and left it at that. The problem with him may be a superficial mentality. He is like a lot of men who get caught up in the hype and forsake their present romantic interest to date an A-list star. P Diddy succumbed to this mentality with J.Lo, Kevin Federline with Britney Spears, Dean McDermott with Tori Spelling and Brad Pitt with Angelina Jolie. Only time will tell if this one lasts.


nyla2009

I though Alicia Keys was better than that!


iDreamOfCece

Wow. All I can say is wow. She is such a stand up woman. And she is gonna make some man very happy. We don't always get what we want, but in the end we always get what we deserve. :)


tristanilove

i personally cant pick a side.. i believe what ak did was terribly WRONG!! and that karma is a bitch but why must mashonda go public with this ..this is there personal bussiness im sure that ak is not making swizz not see his kids , if he wanted to see his kids he could...in problems like this u cant judge because we are looking form the outside in ...we dont know wat was going on in there marriage we only know what the media displays or in this fact whatshe says " might have felt like the marriage was perfect but in fact wasnt!!!



aniyaqt

MASHONDA IS A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN AS WELL & SHE CAN DO MUCH BETTER THAN THESE 2 GONZO LOOKIN' SOB'S........

----ALL SHE GOTTA DO IS GET HER KELIS ON LIKE THE OTHER MTO READER SAID LOL


aniyaqt

KARMA IS A B I T C H!


JillyBean819

I am just thankful that Mashonda has proper grammar and doesn't type like a retard like some black celebs do. It made reading her letter so much more bearable.


Mel7

To keep you from an evil woman, from flattering tongue of a seductress. Do not lust after her beauty in your heart, nor let her allure you with her eyelids. For by means of a harlot a man is reduced to a crust of bread;and an adulteress will prey upon his precious life(prov 6:24-26).Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding; he who does so destroys his own soul.Wounds and dishonor he will get, and his reproach will not be wiped away(prov 6:32-33).Serious Laws of god!


caribbeanqueen

Karma is a b!tch and she is going to get what is coming to her. He gonna do the same thing he did to his wife to her.


UHLJJANGKITTY

why the heck is she fighting to get him back., he obviously doesnt love her. and is more attraacted to alicia keys. all of this is unnecesary


aniyaqt

ALSO, MASHONDA CAN GO PUBLIC WIT THIS ALL SHE WANTS!

....THESE 2 WENT VERY PUBLIC W/ THEIR "ADULTEROUS AFFAIR!!!"

...THEN AK WANTS 2 ACT ALL INNOCENT...SUPERWOMAN MY A S S!!!


Dreayonn

Flag post Mashonda said she doesn't feel like a victim anymore and AK doesn't have to answer to her.Bottom line You can't make someone LOVE you.

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True!


nicdraw

We don't know the whole story so it wouldn't make sense to pass judgement. Everyone had a role to play in this. I have lost respect for Alicia Keys though. And I don't think it was very classy fo Mashonda to put all this info out there. Alicia may want to release some kind of statement if she wants to maintain her classy image. If this story is even true.


ladyoftheyear718

Oh plz here she go with a letter come on now no one can mess up ur marriage if a gur loves u he will never leave u trust my word so its way more to the storys besides I hate when females blame the other chick smh get it together he don't want u he did not b4 alicia...and y'all calling her a homewrecker 4 what a chick can never wreck a home its up 2 a man 2 go with the flow he damn sure know how 2 say no...


FreewayLove

AK is a [EXPLETIVE] homewreaker i mean lets face it u fU*Ked a married man who was still living w/ his wife & kid! if that aint a homewreaker then wat is! MASHONDA is exactly right every1's lookn at the celebrity ak & not the real person.how u gon try too make these inspiring songs and u bein a triflin hoe.Wtfff!


rese713

wow...she just draggin out all the dirty laundry...making herself such a victim. im famous...wahhwahh, she stole my husband, whaawhaa. good grief girl get a grip. by her own admission the marriage was in shambles, if his heart wasnt ready to move on he wud hav never violated the commitment contract that was made. apparently moshanda was no where he wanted to be. seems she thought that they shud stay 2gether 4 the kid. Ak & swiss were wrong! But its her responsibility to heal herself not only 4 her but her son as well.


aniyaqt

DIS SOME DEEP S H I T !

THIS WOMEN GOT INTRODUCED 2 THE MISTRESS BY HER OWN HUSBAND?

...THE SAME MISTRESS WHO'S SONGS SHE WAS ROCKIN' 2 IN HER TRUCK?

-----AND YALL' TELLIN HER 2 MOVE ON?.......YEAH OK!


bellabad89

I have so much respect for this lady her class truly was shown in this excerpt cause my message would have went totally different im just speechless she is a strong woman but fa that stank hoe alicia keyes i hope she can never sell another record TRICK


Drea2660

Mashonda is NOT fighting to keep Toucan Swizz.... She is exuding her hurt woman to woman... AK has no right to galavant as she has been PUBLICLY w/ another woman's HUSBAND- yet everyone is mad at MASHONDA?! How abt Toucan Swizz is a TYPICAL man that doesn't see a sense of responsiblity. Funny how as SOON as the baby was born- HE BAILED! Alicia is a REGULAR HARLEM scallywag- on the come up as an adultress! [EXPLETIVE] AK! I never bought her albums anyway! Thanks LIMEWIRE!



mygudness

Reading this letter I can see why swizz left her. This women is delusional. She talks to much and doesn't know when to shut up. That's why he left. AK has absolutely NO responsiblity to Mashonda. Dont hate the player hate the game. It will set you free. Swizz doest want you anymore and theres nothing AZ can do about it.


rese713

cont. Moshonda stated she wanted clousure. There isnt a plausible explanation to justify why ak was fuggin her husband. There isnt anything she cud say to make her feel better. She has 2 make a decision in her mind to 4give & let go so that she can continue on in this life. thas the responsibility to herself 4 her life. Alot of times we cant see the big picture, and we dnt understand. Wen we put things in perspective in an eternal aspect we realize how insignificant most things are! Hope her heart heals soon.


RedDivaBlue

Why are so many people getting angry for us telling Mashonda to move on? It is what it is! It hurts, yes, it stings, yes, but should we be telling her some ole back in the day sh*t! "You just hold on to yo man". EVEN THOUGH HE CLEARLY DOESN'T WANT YOU! At some point you have to let go. I'm not saying it's not a messed up situation, I'm just saying. Just because you love it, don't mean it's yours. And if she does want him back, this "open letter" ain't helping. When you fall, you bleed, you say ouch, you cry, maybe get stiches if you need it and then heal. Same here... Deal with it!


BrooklynLatina

Anyone know exactly WHAT Alicia tweeted about that garnered this response from Mashonda?

This internet letter seems a lil pitiful, even though I do understand her frustration, but it makes her look a lil pathetic, especially when she tries to use her son as some sort of guilty bargaining chip. Just move on, girl. Don't look back. The best revenge is living your life well.


Drea2660

AGAIN to the ignorant crowd!!! AS A WIFE- SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO SPEAK ALL SHE WANTS. What ever happened to the sanctity of MARRIAGE?! He said his vows to Mashonda! He made a child with her... as she TALKS to much is y'all ONLY excuse as to why TOUCAN LEFT HER?! Gimmie a dam break!! Ignorant BASTARDS! Ill pray for u Mashonda!


MEDstudent

TEAM MASHONDA! People are blinded by AK's beauty and talent and refuse to acknowledge what she's done. That's bullshit! How can someone make so many songs empowering women and then do something so triflin'! The point is this if you know that a man is married you do not make yourself avaliable to him, no matter how much he pursue's you. All REAL WOMEN will agree. And Mashonda if your reading this stay strong because God will send you a love to heal your brokenheart. THE REAL WOMEN ARE PRAYING FOR YOU!!!


Drea2660

FYI: AK was on Twitter giving 'relationship advice' about LOVE and keeping ur man.... Sorry its wasn't abt 'STEALING' a man as it should have been...


BrooklynLatina

Its fukked up or very naive for even setting eyes on a married man. And don't get me started on listening to THEM tell you they are separated and the marriage is over. LOL they'll all say that if it benefits them.

The minute I find out a man is married I run in the opposite direction. Nothing but drama and emotional pain will follow. Why do to another woman what you know will destroy you emotionally? And why be with a man that could be so heartless to do that to a woman he vowed to love and respect? I don't know what the details were with these 3, they could have been over a long time ago, c


vanityrose

lol it's easy to see which women are unhappy around here...if it was the other way around and his wife left him then I’ll bet my bottom dollar that a good majority of the women around here would be saying that she did what was best for her...that she deserves to find love...and that he was most likely cheating...but because he left he's a snake that has no respect for her...[EXPLETIVE] hypocrites...I don't know why some many are so surprised...the divorce rate in the US is well over 50% and still going up...when will people just accept that it's an outdated institution


BrooklynLatina

I don't know how it went own with these 3, but I do know that married men never leave their wives. Yeah they will screw some random bytch or even have a long drawn out affair, but they hardly ever leave, and when they do, it's usually when the marriage has already deteriorated to a point where nothing will fix it and they are just going through the motions and one partner has already emotionally checked out, so they live their lives as "single" and all it takes is one person to spark a flame and give them feelings of love, not just lust, and that gives them a concrete reason to finally leave


monique2468

AK WONT RESPOND


HiphopFan

first of all, i believe in "how you get him is how you keep him" so if ak did steal or disregard a "good" marriage for her own gains...GOD will judge her...GOOD. HOWEVER COMMA, what woman of dignity resorts to using TWITTER to address another woman regarding an affair if she is trying to be discreet and protect her son????? No one who has their child AND their own best interests at heart! Now Swizz, being a grown ass man could have handled things differently but Mrs. Beatz may not be telling the WHOLE truth about how SHE could have contributed to the downward spiral of their "good marriage"


MDOTDABEAUTY

Real talk I will never sing another a keys song again. ..dat bitch couldn't wait till da divorce was final to [EXPLETIVE] with him?....I'm sorry but I'm too scared of god to sleep with a married man... but u kno wat they say u loose how u get them....dat [EXPLETIVE] ain't gonna last.


missteekay3

yall keep sayin she should "just move on". WTF!! she was...my bad IS his wife. reguardless of what was happening in his marriage he should have honored his vows or have the respect to end it. not creep and then flaunt his affair. and AK is dead ass worng. As a grown woman your never suppose to step inside the boundries of another womans relationship(married or not). thats bad karma. and if shonda asked her to step back and give her room to either fix her marriage or end it then Ak should have atleast done that. If swizz was so in love with her he would have been just as in love DIVORCED!!



Mrs_Diva

She need to take this wit her husband not it A Keys!!


GossipTranny44

Something i will never get is why would a man/woman would want to be with someone that do not want to be with them...MAYSHONDA needs to put a period and move on ..quit dogging after a man that clearly has nothing to be with you ...why would she put herself to shame like that is BEYOND me


BrooklynLatina

cont..because they start feeling like they don't want to live a lie, and their feelings for this other person are "real" and too strong, and they feel trapped in their marriages due to the responsibility of taking care of kids, taking care of the spouse, bills, etc. But yeahin general, married men DON'T leave, but when they do, it's usually over something they feel really strongly over, to the point that it will drive them crazy or make them extremely resentful if they stay married.


MDOTDABEAUTY

@ brooklynlatina at the end of the day there is no exscuse for akeys to be with a married man!....no justification at all....I need to see divorce papers before I even give my number..she's wrong in every way.


joezac

from role model to whore model.. ak is homewreckin whore...


SherRoyal

Shonnie was such a clinger. :?{


NotagainMTO

Well Im TEAM MASHONDA because she may not be saying so but HOmegirl is hurting. AK is dirty IF she really was sleeping with swizzy while he was still married. As a woman, I have no respect for women who knowingly get involved with married men...so AK's just lost a fan in me. I won't call her a home wrecker and whatnot cuz swizzy wrecked mashonda's home.


RedDragon

I READ THIS YESTERDAY...A.KEYS IS A HOMEWRECKING WHORE....SHE SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF HERSELF..SLUTS LIKE HER DON'T CARE ABOUT NOONE BUT THEMSELVES...SHE'LL BE GETTING HER OWN "KARMA" ONE OF THESE DAYS...


icandothat

Wow look at the groupie homewreckin whores on here taking up for Alicia Keys. Your precious wench A.Keys knew he was married but still chose to disrespect a marriage, I don't care how you look at it. That's okay, the trick will get hers in due time.


thrasher

@Rese&Ladyof, I fukks wit ya'll! Point blank...IF A CHICK GOT A LOCK ON DUDE, HE AINT GOIN'...PERIOD!! If i was Alicia, i wouldnt say sh!t! She doesnt need ur acceptance in her PRIVATE life. U ppl act like u were there, and know all the details, to come to a conclusion.Good think dude didnt have any freaky fetishes, dis chick would have put it out!


HiphopFan

...which is a very IMPORTANT thing to consider. You can say you took your vows seriously but if you did not take and PLAY your position as a wife, as seriously, the vows are MOOT! It sounds good though when/if you want to appears a victim and so wronged by your spouse. If ak did decide to stand back and swizz decided to pursue another chick, would Mrs. Beatz still be so compelled to put it on blast?...NO! I'm sick of ALL THREE of them! LATE!


vanityrose

ok i'll be the one to say it.....maybe MAYSHONDA had this coming...for all of you church heads you keep saying that god gives you what you deserve...how do you know that she didn't deserve this??? the way i see it A. Keys did god's work by giving swizz what he needed...happeness


MDOTDABEAUTY

@thrasher...gurl u sound crazy.. Where's ya respect for another married sista? I don't a fux wat swiss was goin through becuz it wasn't dat bad if he ain't get a divorce untill he [EXPLETIVE] alcia whore ass.


HiphopFan

ps, swizz (and ak) may not be saying much out of respect and for the sake of his son...who knows what that man can say about his son's mother. as soon as he takes the bait and speaks out about mashonda, she wins. handle your handle behind the scenes BOO...NOT ON TWITTER!


KayJay508

1- Alicia was wrong for willingly dating a married man PERIOD. Swizz was wrong for at least not waiting until the divorce was FINAL before he decided to pursue a relationship w/ another woman. 2- This letter is definitely a cry for help. It was well-written and I my heart does go out to her. I alsounderstand that Mashonda is hurt and would like some respect and/or empathy from AK. And that right there, I don’t agree with. If this woman didn’t have enough respect for you to NEVER go anywhere near YOUR husband, than what makes you think she would respect you or the child that is in the picture now???? (Mashonda is in denial somewhat from the looks of things and is having a very hard time accepting this, which I don’t blame her for, I’m just saying) But AK is obviously all for self and as long as she can screw Swizz and parade around with him, then she is happy and she could care less about Mashonda’s heartache/heartbreak. So, I think that it was a waste of time and waste of media coverage to write this letter to AK. And furthermore, why is Mashonda even reading AK’s tweets?? Instead of coping and trying to move on from the situation, she is indulging in it. That makes no sense to me. It’s like she is stepping in the kitchen when she knows she can’t take the heat!!! I also agree with whoever commented earlier and said that when they were at the party/event and she saw AK there & shook her hand, that would have been the perfect time to pull her to the side and discuss it or exchange numbers so that they could possibly arrange to meet up and discuss it at another time/place. This whole letter wasn’t a good idea IMO and it doesn’t help the situation or change it. What’s done is done!!! 3- Wow, that part kinda bothers me too. Because how do you go from shaking this woman’s hand (AK) at a party; PRETENDING as if you accept their relationship and made it appear that you are moving on to you writing this letter?? Mashonda is not only hurt, but confused as well. 4- AK is not keeping Swizz away from his child. Mashonda SHOULD NOT blame her for that. Swizz has a responsibility to that child regardless of who is with and if he is not stepping up to the plate, it’s because he doesn’t want to obviously. AK has nothing to do with that IMO. Mashonda is bringing this child into the situation and I think she is wrong for that. Swizz’s affair does have an affect on the child, but only to a certain degree. AK doesn’t have any obligations to the child, SWIZZ DOES.



BrooklynLatina

Mashonda needs to realize that if it wasn't Alicia, it would probably have been someone else. If he had emotionally "checked out" of the matrimony, then he was gonna leave regardless. She needs to cut her losses and console herself with the fact that if he did it to her, he will do it to Alicia, and if by some rare reason he doesn't do it to Alicia and it works out, then she can realize that he just wasn't the man that was meant for her, that perhaps there is someone else that is better suited and meant to love her they way she deserves, and Swizz and A were meant for each other..perhaps....


nutsytdaisy

Very classy of her to put their business on twitter. A public site. Sure. Then these are the same people saying please respect our privacy through this difficult time.lmao. Mashonda< although I feel for her is playing the part of a woman scorned. She need to move on already. Swizzy would have left her already. She seems very contradictory in parts. However classy is not a word I would use for this twittering mess.


BluBoy

MESSAGE TO MASHONDA:...LET IT GO!!!...UR ACTING LIKE A DESPERATE BYTCH!!...SWISS is HAPPY with ALICIA... so ALICIA KEYS MUST BE THE BETTER WOMAN!!!...


DeeDeeFierce

Lol Swizzy broke the 80/20 rule


nutsytdaisy

c/s with Brooklyn Latina.writing was all over the wall.


Coffeecolor

Naturally this story is going to have pros and cons,For the ones who've been the "other" woman..Understanding. For the ones who it CAN happen to.Resentment. From my comprehension of her plea,all she really wants Alicia to do is be woman enough to step back long enough for the little boy to Bond with his Father,(which means he has NOT been a good father since the relationship).She has that right as a mother to ASK Alicia since she feels SHE is the coz of him shirking his Responsibilities.She covered all grounds!...she came at her through Twitter becoz Alicia is all words, but no Talk!...SMH


thrasher

What is wit dis karma crap? I have seen the sweetest, most giving ppl, get dealt bad hands ALL the time. I have seen 'sluts' livin VERY well. Sometimes the bad guy DOES win... This isnt the movies! But, if it makes u feel better, *shrugs* do u.


rena1970

You know what? I have a great amount of disgust for any grown ass woman who knowingly sleeps around with married men. Both of those mutherfuckers were at fault. Swizz probably thought that he was getting something better, and going to realize that AK wasnt worth ruining his marriage and hurting his family. I can't stand fake ass bitches. Beyonce is one, and so is Alicia. Alicia wanna pretend like she so this and that and so down to earth, but she ain't nothing but a typical dumb ass bitch who thinks she can have whatever she wants because she throws on tight ass pants and heels.


Lord_Have_Mercy

If someone does not want or love you anymore, then as painful as it is you got to move on. Not giving any passes, if someone was wrong then they were just wrong, but it boils down to dealing with the hurt and moving on.


KayJay508

(cont) Swizz is wrong & so is Alicia, but Swizz WAS NOT HAPPY. That is crystal clear. So Mashonda may have believed that everything was going well between her & Swizz, but it doesn't seem like it at all. He seems much happier with AK. Of course Mashonda is hurt because she would rather him be happy w/ her, but life doesn't always work that way unfortunately. And she shouldn't have ignored the signs early on in the relationship. He brought AK around on a few occasions and Mashonda just didn't take notes on the fact that he had an interest in AK. You have to pay very close attention to things like that!! Mashonda just seems like she was blind and she was thinking with her heart and not her mind and did not want to believe that her Swizz (her husband) was checkin for another woman right underneath her nose. She claims that Swizz & AK denied it in the beginning and she CHOSE to believe it, but I think deep down she knew what was up.


QnzBaby

Writtinq this doesn't make Moshonda a victim. She's beinq real. Alicia keys is a coward.


SexyChakalit_85

THEY SAY CHECK THE NYGGA & NOT THE HOE BUT IT DEPENDS ON IF SHE KNOWS ABOUT THE WIFE/GIRLFRIEND & DECIDES 2 STAY WITH HIM OR NOT.IF SHE DOES KNOW THATS WHEN SHE BECOMES A HOE & A HOMEWRECKER ESPECIALLY IF THE GUY IS LIVING WITH HIS WIFE/GIRLFRIEND.GUYS DONT GIVE A F*CK ABOUT ALL THAT CUZ THEY GON DO WHAT THEY WANNA DO ANYWAY.I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR FEMALES THAT DECIDE 2 CONTINUE A RELATIONSHIP KNOWIN THAT THE GUY IS MARRIED OR HAS A GIRLFRIEND.FEMALES THAT DO THINK THAT THEY ARE BETTER & IT AINT GON HAPPEN 2 THEM. U REAP WHAT U SOW.GOD DONT BLESS RELATIONSHIPS THAT WERE BOUGHT 2GETHER BY ADULTRY


ladyoftheyear718

now I'm a groupie because of my last postreal talk I have a kid and my daughter dad cheated&cheated with da same chick I blmed him not her &left dat madeMe stronger &I moved on a year later I've been with dude eversince& me&my daughter father is great friends what imsaying is I'm 23 with a 7yr old about to graduate college4nursing I'm engaged and have my own crib car..what if I would have tried2hold on to my childs dad over da yrs or looked 4 answers life ain't perfect if it ain't ment to b it ain't never going work..wether married engaged or together..www.myspace.com/mrs_Blyden


BlaqPrincess

I understand Mashonda 100%. For the people that was never in a relationship lasting more than one year, you need not to comment. None of you seen why did i get married? This is a prime example of the 80/20 rule. Swizz left the 80 for the 20 because 20 looked good when he wasn't getting it. And to MTOisNOTcredible, Alicia does owe her an explanation. They both do. A man doesn't wake up one morning and decide to cheat. Mashonda knows what she's doing. Husband cheated. It was public, everyone knew. Therefore, Mashonda gets half. Why do you think she was civil and not combative?


RedDragon

@ROSE77...ARE YOU SERIOUS? THE ONLY THING REAL BETWEEN A HUSSY AND A MANWHORE IS LUST...L-U-S-T..HE'S ADDICTED TO THAT BOOTY AND SHE'S ADDICTED TO THAT THING..THAT'S ALL...YOU PEOPLE KILL ME CONFUSING LUST WITH LOVE..A MAN THAT TRULY CARES FOR ANYONE ISN'T GONNNA STRING ALONG TWO WOMEN.AND HIS LOYALTY FIRST AND FOREMOST WAS TO HIS WIFE AND HIS CHLD...THAT IS WHAT'S REAL!!!



Navigator0937

Alicia is a home wrecker. Never mess with a married man


BrooklynLatina

I could almost give a pass to a woman who hooks up and falls in love with a man and THEN LATER finds out he is married and still continues the relationship, cuz at that point a woman can be blinded and confused by her feelings of love, but the fact that Alicia knew he was married and had a family with this man, makes her wrong period, I don't care if he's telling you they're over and he doesn't love her anymore. Ugh If that's the case go get a divorce and then we can talk. Some men just always want their cake and eat it too, and some women are just too easy to dismiss the feelings of another w


RedDragon

@BLAQPRINCESS..CO-SIGN....THE PEOPLE RUNNING THEY'RE MOUTH AND TALKING ALL THIS FREE LOVE BULLCRAP HAVE NEVER BEEN IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP...THE TUNE CHANGING ONCE YOU GET HURT YOURSELF...


ladyoftheyear718

And response to da post b4 mine no it don't depends if the chick knows the guy is married wtf are u saying honey a girl can put her panties down in front of ur man and be one off the baddest chicks if ur man heart is with u he's not going to let noooo pu. Ssss yyyy beytween y'all if leaves u for her than honey there was way more problems b4 that u really think its deifferent if the girl know y'all together u know how many chicks knows dat and still witll try but if that's ur man he ain't going else where


BrooklynLatina

woman when it comes to a man.


cocoahue

Mashonda is a sweet heart who has tried to handle this situation with class. I pray her heart is healed & AK is woman enough to talk to her- which IS the point of this MTO even tho yall wanna make it that Mashonda is saying ak stole her husband. Mashonda is right- there is a child, the least you can do in the situation is communicate..Ak is whack for this.


RedDragon

@HOTBUNNY..YOU GOT THAT RIGHT...MOST BLACK MEN ARE JUST BIG LIARS AND WHORES..I'VE HAD A DUDE COME AT ME TRYING TO GET WITH ME WHEN I KNOW HE HAS A WOMAN..HE WAS SAYING, " I DO WHAT I WANT, SHE DOESN'T CARE, BLAH BLAH BLAH.." I TOLD THAT GUY YOU NEED TO RESPECT YOUR LADY..HAVE A NICE DAY!LOLOLOLOL!!


ladyoftheyear718

In response to another response sweetie I said I got hurt by my daughters dad we was living together that was my first everything and we planned 2 marry but mayb my dad taught me different I was hurt crying but like I said if he don't want to be with me I'm leaving and [EXPLETIVE] I'm not blaming anyone life goes on


SexyChakalit_85

FOR THOSE OF YALL SAYIN THAT "IF SHE WOULDVE BEEN DOING WHAT SHE SUPPOSED 2 DO THEN HE WOULDNT HAVE CHEATED" HOW CAN YALL SAY THAT? ESPECIALLY WOMEN. HOW MANY OF YALL WOMEN DO "EVERYTHING" IN THE WORLD 2 MAKE UR MAN HAPPY LIKE COOK,CLEAN,WASH, PAY BILLS,& DON'T COMPLAIN & HE STILL CHEATS? WTF? ITS NEVER ENOUGH 4 THEM.THEY ALWAYS THINK THAT THERE IS SOMETHIN OR SOMEONE ELSE BETTER WHEN WHAT HE NEEDED IS AT HOME THE WHOLE TIME & WHEN HE REALIZES IT ITS 2 LATE. SO YALL NEED 2 QUIT SAYIN THAT BS.IF YALL WERE OR HAVE BEEN N HER SHOES THEN U SHOULD KNOW HOW SHE FEELS CUZ MOST OF US WOMEN HAVE BEEN.


shondizel

you reap what u sew! AK is a homewrecker! I stopped buying her lies (music) years ago!


ladyoftheyear718

Mayb u can learn from me and I'm 23 www.myspace.com/mrs_blyden

like y'all sound really desparte for a man god is ur first man y'all are crazy


ladyoftheyear718

This is my last post - never said if she was doing what she was spose to do he would have never left honey u shouldn't have to do all that to make a man want u I'm just saying...


PutUOnBlast

first off, Swizz disrespected GOD! if your not in love anymore, get the papers done first before messing around with another woman while your still MARRIED! So that let's me know that what Alicia did was in disregard. Alicia did care about Swizz still being married, and neither did he...that's why i feel it was messed up of him to get wit Keys...if your done with being in love with your WIFE, then get the sh.it done all the way so you can make a correct exit...don't worry about giving up child support, you shoulda thought of that earlier! Mashonda, just get over that scare crow lookin ass nuca


HandsomeStallion

Some people type too much on here and it tends to be a bunch of shít they're talking too.


cocoahue

..also MTO yall never tell the whole story..this didnt come out of the blue it was in resonse to all of the tweets alicia had been doing about love & understanding & knowing everything about someone but loving them anyway...also this: aliciakeys: Question is...N love is it better to go 4 the choice that is "SMART" or the choice that has "SPARK"?? Just thought those mto readers not on twitter following this should know where this really came from.



prettyfaceAKA

Bottom line you need to wait until the person is officially DIVORCED before you call yourself getting involved...they need to come to you with legal signed documents in hand...Alicia is going to learn that what you put out into the UNIVERSE comes back to YOU...so with that being said...this one will be a wait and see...and trust me after KARMA gets thru beating that ass for what she helped destroy between Swizz and his wife...the public may never know...some shyt you just don't do...you ain't got to have every man...you got to have them papers signed and in hand Alicia...bottom line...


BrooklynLatina

SexyChakalit_85

I agree. You can have a woman who caters to a man, puts his needs in front of hers, is a whore in the bedroom and a very good woman in public, good mother etc, but when that man gets bored (like so many of them do) they go out and cheat, like it's a given, like it's something they have a right to do. If it's gonna happen it's gonna happen regardless of how well your holding it down at home. Especially if the couple have been together more than a few years. Ever hear of the term "seven year itch"?


thrasher

@nutsy,blu,mtois,broklyn,vanity...PREACH!! jaming, *GASP* Ive never seen THIS side of u...*smile* Me, likey!*wink*@mdot, sweetheart, i do respect marriage. But life can be cruel...Was it wrong what swizz & keys did? YES! Do i want chica to take some time to HEAL, focus on her child, so she can LEAVE this baggage behind, so as to NOT take it out on the next dude? YES!


SexyChakalit_85

TO muah31103:

WELL SAID!!! I WENT THRU THIS WITH MY SOON 2 BE EX HUSBAND AND TILL THIS DAY I STILL DONT KNOW WHERE IT WENT WRONG. I DID "EVERYTHING" 4 THAT DUDE AND I GAVE UP SO MUCH 4 HIM BUT I GUESS IT WASNT ENOUGH. I SAID VOWS UNDER GOD 2 STICK BY MY HUSBAND THRU SICKNESS AND HEALTH, RIGHT AND WRONG, AND ALL THAT. BUT HIM AND HIS HOMEWRECKIN HOE GON PAY. THAT RELATIONSHIP AINT GON BE BLESSED SO I AINT EVEN WORRIED ABOUT IT B/C NOW BOTH OF THEY ASSES ARE SUFFERING AND IT AINT DUE 2 ME CAUSIN IT. HOW DO U EXPECT 2 B BLESSED WHEN U HELPED BREAK UP A MARRIAGE??? CMON NOW BE SERIOUS.


The_Lady

@ hotbunny " that's why Steve McNair is in the grave now."..... hell to tha yes!

i'm hoping he's resting in peace and all but...he was DEAD ASS WRONG!...and know he's just a dead ass!


The_Lady

*now*


keasyy

alicia keys needs to tell that bxtch to #packitup! she is a platinum selling artist!! swiss want a bxtch who aint depending on him Obviously!!!!!!!! girl die.


Kay_hearts

how kould someone take somethan that was no longer urz if yu still had your husband heart u would of made it tho tha dark spot yall was in. if u truely love someone you will except what happen and move on n grow frm a situation but if the party that messed up dnt wanna work it out its bekuz the love was no longer there. yu kant have sumone that doesnt want yu to have them yu have to take every situation and grow frm it if yu kant grow frm it then yu have not excepted whats gonna happen frm this pt on and your gonna hurt bad


silky1700

The best chick won that's all.


dicegirl

Either this chick is dellusional or desparate to extend her 15 minutes, either way her quest for public sympathy is getting old REAL FAST. Someone "advised" her to go and read Alicia's twitter? Really, so not only is SHE obsessed with Alicia but so are her instigating a** friends. Mashonda grow up, it's pretty pathetic that the only time people even bother to click on a blog with your name on it is when Alicia Keys' name is mentioned in it.


TheTruthCanHurt

You never know how many dumb mofo's in the world until you read comments posted on Media Takeout! Why in the f*ck would Mashonda want Swizz back? Cause she can trust him? The reason Alicia doesn't want to talk to Mashonda is because she's ashamed.Do you think Alicia thought of his CHILD when she decided to say yes? don't get it twisted.."you reap what you sow." All we have to do now is..wait! God's word will not return VOID! TRUST! I'm also sure that the dummies making these retard comments are tricks themselves. Cheating with someone elses man!


tmonique

Good for her. She's grieving the end of a relationship. She's allowed to vent.


BlaziANDoLL

this is some "Resentment" by Beyonce


bronxd

1ST OFF!!! TO THE PEOPLE SAYING ALL THIS IGNORANT [EXPLETIVE] ABOUT THE WIFE, YALL ARE LOST SOULS. YALL EITHER SLEEP WIT MARRIED MEN ALL THE TIME OR JUST NEVER BEEN IN A REAL RELATIONSHIP. MASHONDA DID WHAT SHE HAD TO DO, AND SHE WAS CLASSY. IMAGINE SOME CELEB CHIC THAT USED TO GETTIN HER WAY COME UP IN BETWEEN MY FAMILY. I DONT THINK I WOULDVE WAITED 2 YEARS I WOULDVE RAN DOWN ON HER ASS THE 1ST DAY! ANE ALL THE MEN SAY FOULSHIT YALL WOULD TRY TO KILL SWIZZ IF HE WAS SMASHING YA WIFE. I HOPE AKEYS STEPS UP AND SHOWS SOME DAMN RESPECT. ITS FOOLISH 4 AK TO THINK SHE CAN AVOID THE WIFE AND MOTHER 4EVER


BlaziANDoLL

I know exactly how she feels and it is a hurting feeling to have just given birth and your no good man is out there sleeping with someone else. Their marriage wasn’t to broken before the situation b/c she was pregnant when they started the affair. Both are to blame. Married means off limits. It is a hurting feeling to be at home with an infant child while your HUSBAND is out there publicly with someone else. In her case so the whole world to see. If they were having problems having a bitch that don’t respect the marriage doesn’t make it easier to work things out. So now you have a broken marriage and a boy that is growing up in a fatherless home



Kay_hearts

Www.twitter.com/kay_hearts follow meeh


shondizel

if things r over in a relationship, both parties should be informed and have that understanding... and if the above is true in this situation, why were SB & AKs dirty deeds done in the dark? AK should address this as a woman. I can't judge her but I can't support it either. adultry is what it is!


greenroses

Ak is a slut.Karma is a bitch alicia.you will get yours.U 2 swizz.you ugly skinless rat.


PutUOnBlast

Man, I know that's gotta be some effed up feeling that women go through while they are married. This dude put the ring on, had a new born, and started creepin'...WITHOUT A DIVORCE! Swizz, you put her through some sh.it for no reason, sh.it happens i know, but you could have at least got the divorce first! Alicia, you some shi.t for not makin it known for him to get papers first..Karma hoe. Now, back to the Eagles vs. Chiefs game LOL!


soulie

YALL ARE RASSES!! yall so busy worried about this woman as a celeb that u dont want her to be blamed for her humanly mistakes. shes an adulterer she slept wit a married man. who cares about how much u like her music. if she was fucin your husband im sure u wouldnt feel mashonda was the bad guy. M had every rite to blast alicia she shouldve done it earlier. M just wasnts the broad to face the fact that she needs to deal wit her if she plans on ever being round her son, yall must not cant read!!!!!


TheTruthCanHurt

@dicegirl...you shouldn't have made the comments or if you had to...you shouldn't have added your picture because now when people see you they're going to think what a dumb hoe you are!! If Alicia is so right...she should address Mashonda BUT she knows she's wrong and she's shame!! Dumb ass people taking up for a trick who won't even take up for herself! There's no excuse! All those songs about strong women! hmph...she's nothing but a lying ass trick. Didn't her MOTHER teach her better! Dayummm!!


thrasher

See, THIS is why the marriage thing doesnt appeal to me! A CONTRACT! The marriage is OVA, but because of a piece of paper, he has to hold out. She could contest da divorce, could take a LONG time! This isnt a 2 yr warranty, u are sayin UNTIL DEATH! People change, u outgrow ppl, U FALL OUT LUV! A piece of paper will make me miserable foe LIFE? I prefer the warranty.


Asiaboo

Karma is gonna get Alicia and Swizz ass...just wait and see...it always does


BrooklynLatina

PutUOnBlast

Why would he get a divorce first? (not how I really feel but speaking the way some guys think) They have a sure thing at home, they have someone who takes care of the home and kids, and even though they arent "in love" with the wife anymore they are comfortable with her and they're not gonna sacrifice that for just any pusC. Until they get caught up with one specific chick and he's already caught feelings, then he's stuck and having an affair, all because he was too scared and selfish to leave a marriage because he didn't want to pay child support or have to do things on his own


BlaziANDoLL

I used to be a fan of Alicia as well but this entire situation between she, Swizz and MaShonda made me lose every ounce of respect I had for her as a person, and as a musician. Whether Alicia Keys, Beyonce’, the Queen of England, RuPaul, or the crackhead prostitute on the block….WRONG IS WRONG! You do NOT sleep with a married man! And to sleep with a man you KNOW is still married, and KNOW was probably still crawling into bed with his wife when you began dating him is morally, ethically and psychologically reprehensible.


MDATX

DAMNNN she got Upgraded BUT she is trying to handle it with class GOTS to Respect that. She right its a kid involved She is not going noWere.


PutUOnBlast

Free Will is a mutha fu.cka, in this life, you never know who has your best interest...Mashonda, you WILL get past this! in Jesus name..you'll be alright


BlaziANDoLL

It hurts me that so many females on this post are siding with Alicia simply because she’s “Alicia.” Please- like most of ya’ll have never ran up on some chick ya’ll knew was creeping with your man once or twice. If you were mad then, imagine how the pain is magnified when one is MARRIED. Like someone said- if this was the regular chick down the block, ya’ll would be asking for Alicia’s head. Yet, now some of you are all taking about how “theyre such a beautiful couple together,” “I hope they last,” “Alicia is such a giving person and MaShonda should be glad he left her for Alicia.” WTF? Where they do that at?

Maybe the forum in which Mashonda did it was wrong, (as Twitter is a very public forum), but I applaud her for doing it with such class. Lord knows, I’d have had every expletive in the book hurled at Ms. Keys. Besides- its just as right for MaShonda to address her in the “public” seeing as Alicia addresses her “publicly” everytime she shows up at events, shows, pictures and etc. with MASHONDA’s HUSBAND (as they are STILL married).


Kenny73

Swizz has cheated on Mashonda before & she allowed it by turning the other way for $$$, now that she realizes that he's not coming back she want the world to feel sorry for her. I have no sympathy for her, she need to listen to AK song called Lesson Learned...lmao


sumertime

Mashonda has every right to write this, in my opinion she should have put Alicia on blast more. Mashonda and Swizz been together since high school. I mean do you really expect her to be quiet about losing the only man she's probably been with her entire life!!! I really like to see how some of ya'll would react if it was you. Both Alicia and Swizz are some straight up SKANKS! What kind of man puts his wife and child through this type of drama??

And I ain't buying any more of Alicia's album. I don't want no homewrecking, skank singing to me about love.



BRittanyMaChelle

ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS THAT ALL THOSE PPL WHO WERE SAYING THEY WERE ALREADY BROKEN UP WHEN THE OTHER POST CAME OUT I TOLD Y'ALL THAT LADY SAID SHE THOUGHT EVERYTHING WAS HUNKY DORY THEN ALL SHE SEE IS SWIZZNAKEYZ ALL IN THE MEDIA THAT COULD'VE HANDLED IT BETTER NOT THAT IT SHOULD'VE EVEN HAPPEN


envymee

Damn didnt know it was like that.. i really dont know whos at fault cause this is just one side of the story... I feel for all four in this situation especially the child.... the exwife seems sincer in this letter, but that could be just for the public eye...See thats why pplz need to keep there business to themselves.


BlaziANDoLL

The truth is,Mashonda has been a quiet little trooper from the gate.I would have been on the cover of every magazine,newspaper, blog or interview outlets. Why? Because we are all in the public eye and why? Because that’s where you put it and embarrassed me and yourselves!Why not twitter!For her to finally speak whether its twitter or not is to me about time she stood up for herself.I’m sorry but Everything she says is true!She blames him but she has the right to blame her to.She’s simply sayn Alicia you know me,we live in the same hood,do the same thing and run in the same circles. Why my “Husband”.You knew!! The only people giving her a pass are those who are fans and ofcourse those who never had alicia sleep with your man and he bounce on you and your few months old baby.


shondizel

so then who will be his next 'upgrade'? and what does this say about his and her character? so AK likes to either sleep around in random places or have men in and out of her home? she surely wasn't invited to his home...how would that make you feel? in my opinion this is a downgrade! after all another famous slogan that remains true 'you can't turn a ho into a housewife'. he had his housewife..now onto his other option


BlaziANDoLL

She told swizz keep her away from me. I don’t want a relationship with her. That’s because you like the rush of taking someones man. It makes you feel fly! But you don’t want to live in reality and face your demons. You were wrong!You’re really insecure like every other woman,ur not superwoman. You look that woman in her face and smiled knowing you were screwing him the whole time.Fake [EXPLETIVE]!! BET YOU DID’NT Know: 1) alicia persued swizz first,started from a studio session in la,they were screwing by the next weekend.2) swizz is… was… still creepin with both women,3) believe it or not mashonda is not the one holding up the divorce although that’s what he’s been telln ak 4)He secretly invited mashonda to the birthday party alicia threw for him a week ago. Which stunned ak and her family because she had no idea. Now why is that? Why not twitter? Twitter is where ak is proclaiming her love for swizz and how wonderful he is. It is not classy to do so when the divorce is not final, nor CLOSE to being.Stay tuned people


BRittanyMaChelle

ALOT OF PPL R SAYING SHE SHOULD JUST GET OVER IT BUT IF U HAVE REAL EMOTIONS U KNOW THAT SOMETIMES U HAVE TO CONFRONT PPL TO GET THINGS OFF UR CHEST I'M SURE THAT SHE WOULD BRING IT UP AGAIN IF SHE SAW AK FACE TO FACE BECAUSE THATS HOW SOME PPL GET PAST THINGS IF U THINK BACK THERE ARE SITUATIONS EVRY1 HAS BEEN THROUGH N THEY WANTED TO SAY MORE N WISH THEY COULD GO BACK BUT I THINK SHE DID THE RITE THING BUT AKNSWIZZ PROLLY WNT B 2GETHER N THE END THAT NEVA WORKS THIS HAPPENS TO PPL ALLDAY EVRY DAY U THINK EVRYTNG OK AND THY UP N LEAVE!


PutUOnBlast

I don't know about you now Alicia. is this why we haven't seen you on TV lately? I never bought this chicks music anyway


lottawoman

Real Talk, You can't fit in where you can't get in!

It takes 2!


emilybaby

I CAN'T BEIEVE SOME PEOPLE ON THIS SITE...ESP THE WOMEN...WHO ARE SAYING THAT MASHONDA NEEDS TO MOVE ON..FINE ANOTHER MAN. FIRST OFF, UNLESS UVE BEEN IN THE SAME SITUATION THEN U DONT KNOW HOW IT FEELS! WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF THIS HAPPENED TO YOU? IF YOU HAVENT BEEN THROUGH THIS THEN CLEARLY YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO SAY "GET OVER IT!" LEMME SEE THE SAME THING HAPPEN TO YOU AND THEN LEMME SEE YOU "GET OVER IT!"

SECOND OF ALL! INSTEAD OF TELLING MASHONDA TO "FIND SOMEONE ELSE" HOW BOUT YOU TELL YOU GIRL AK THAT! HOW BOUT SHE GOES AND FINDS ANOTHER MAN? WHO IS NOT MARRIED!


emilybaby

YOUR* GIRL


zinobeano

One sided story..we really dnt kno these ppl or their personal lives..err thing is based on tabloids and gossip site like mto..if they had a happy marraige then the affair wudnt have taken place


Kenny73

Mashonda did what desperate women do, had a baby hoping it would keep him at home and as always he still left. There's more to this story...


shondizel

is wondering wth is 1 sided about this story?? public facts: 1. mashonda and sb still married 2. sb and ak together while sb still living with masonda 3. ak and sb still together whether or not their are problems within a relationship that are not public information, you should 1st remove yourself from the situation to make it clear


BlaziANDoLL

AK is a cowardly, homewrecking clown- flat out. Swizz was wrong for violating his vows to his wife and God (I’m sure that wasn’t his first time- he just left his wife for the jumpoff this time) but I wanna comment on AK at this moment. If AK had any self-esteem or morals, she wouldn’t have pursued a relationship with a man that was obviously still married. That’s just trifling and messy- screwing some wishy-washy jackass who is still climbing into bed & screwing his then-pregnant wife each night. She was wrong as two left shoes for that. She tries to project this image like she’s this strong, confident woman but she is really just an insecure, trifling woman to make a move like that. Its all good because what you put out into the universe will come back & God ain’t gonna bless no foolishness like that. Why would God send someone else’s husband as your mate? He was a dog when she got him and I’m sure he still is…I bet he used to wine & dine Mashonda when the relationship was still new too. Black men: raise your sons. Teach them what a man really is and how to be one.


emilybaby

I SWEAR, THE NERVE OF SOME PEOPLE. ESP THE WOMEN...OR IN THIS CASE THEY ARENT WOMEN YET THEY ARE PROBABLY STILL GIRLS! AREN'T WE SUPPOSED TO SUPPORT EACH OTHER AND BE THERE FOR EACH OTHER?? YES! WE ARE! HOWEVER SOME "GIRLS" DONT SEEM TO COMPREHEND THAT.

NOW I KNOW EVERYBODY HAS THEIR OWN OPINION AND I RESPECT THAT! BUT I JUST CANT SEEM TO UNDERSTAND WHY ANYONE WOULD NOT SEE WHERE MASHONDA (OR ANY WARRIED WOMEN WHO HAS BEEN CHEATED ON) IS COMING FROM! WHY WOULD WE NOT SUPPORT HER??



MaliaRichards

BlaziANDoLL, I don't know Ak's actual twitter account but I think this is some of her tweets and if so it could be construed as flaunting the her situation with Swizz. I would definitely not have talked about the whole love thing knowing I slept with someone's husband if that is true. [link to external website removed]


dondi

Akeys will have to answer for her sins! Mashonda is right to do an open letter or whatever else she wants to do to have closure. I'm tired of gutter broads thinking its ok to f.ck someone husband! What a hypocrite alicia is with all her peace and love shyt


MaliaRichards

I meant flaunting her stituation with swizz


emilybaby

I SAW ONE GIRL COMMENT ..."SHE (MASHONDA) NEEDS TO GET OVER IT...THEY (SWIZZ AND AK) LOOK BETTER TOGETHER ANYWAY!"

ARE YOU KIDDING ME? IS THAT SUPPOSED TO JUSTIFY ANYTHING? DOES THAT MAKE IT RIGHT?? HONEY, I DONT THINK SO. AND I REALLY DO HOPE YOU SEE BEYOND THAT!

ANYWAYS, I CAN GO ON AND ON ABOUT THIS BUT I WON'T. IM ALREADY SURPRISED AND DISGUSTED ENOUGH AS IT IS! LADIES....LETS PLZ BE THERE FOR EACH OTHER AND SUPPORT ONE ANOTHER TO HELP EACH OF US GET STRONGER THROUGH THOUGH TIMES...THROUGH ANYTHING!


tresha27

Boo hoo!!! girl get over it, move on, find another man


BlaziANDoLL

@maliarichards das crazy smh


BrooklynLatina

regarding karma? I dont know

I was cheated on hard and where is the man tha cheated on me and the chick that KNEW he was with me and still pursued? 13 years later and they are married w/ 4 kids a nice house upstate and two cars.. Yeah Karma bit them in the ass. I'm glad i didnt waste my life resenting and waiting for their karma and moved on with my life, or else I'd be a very bitter bytch right now. Best advice IS to move on and don't look back!


DonSimmons

LOL @ "stealing her husband! Women can be such silly creatures sometimes. If your spouse can be "stolen", then they weren't really yours in the first place. A grown man chose to leave her, not another woman "stole" her. Women always attacking each other is why men have been able to get away with bad behavior since the start of time.


MaliaRichards

BlaziANDoLL, Yeah if that is her she is definitely going on and on and rubbing it in. I would keep a low profile,that's just me. I would not draw attention to it. If she did sleep with the girls husband she surely has no remorse. Idk the full situation but after seeing that I definitely see how Mashonda might have gotten angry over it.


backup2fallback

I'm torn about this situation. I disapprove of destroying a marriage & most importantly a family. AK has no commitment 2 U, and she doesnt hav 2B a part of ur son's life. The fact that she isnt in his life is interesting. How serious can their relationship be? If they do develop, the child will eventually be a part of her life. Keep a child alive, AK! I do find tweeting on your adulterous affair 2 B in poor taste and tacky, and I find the open letter childishness under the guise of womanhood. Let it go. Shld hav got a no cheating clause in the prenup!


Geektastic98

I will say 2 things about this story and than brush it off like any other gossip story. One, Swizz Beatz has every right to find another woman when he feels the relationship at home isn't working, how do we know that A.Keys started dating Swizz while he was still so in love with Mashonda (who is that again??) How do we know that the marriage wasn't falling apart and he was tired of taking care of a woman instead of having a woman inspired enough to take care of herself, i mean seriously how do we know anything about swizz and his ex wife?? Just saying since we all hate AK now (go figure).


MaliaRichards

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i-hate-white-media

THE DEVIL IS A LIAR..

The instiution of marriage is a beautiful thang when you find the right person.

Whats messed up is that the devil want us to believe marriage is a thing of the past.

50% of married couples are maintaining and keeping their marriages together, but we only hear about the other half who are not. Only God can judge Swiss & AK. My peraonal opinion says that nothing good will come out of destroying a marriage, but we don't know all the facts. And... BTW For those of us who Do believe that, Jesus Christ is the Son of God, read 1Cor 7:7-9 in the King James Bible.


nywoman23

alot of you guys are putting everything on AK dont forget SWIZZ . They both are at fault. His wife displayed a well put together letter. very artistic. its funny how AK made that song karma way before this situation. because karma s gonna take place. if not now in the future.


liquidcracc

im proud of mashonda takin the high road and not attacking ak but wat it seems to me (w/ all the supposed girl unity needed) swizz gets let off the hook for the whole thing. smh seems to me women especially married women wanna play the victim role. i look at it this way u knew things were going dwn hill to begin w/ yet she ignored the signs and thought that baby they had was gonna save a marriage. the reality is he just got of the turmoil b4 she did.



mrcritic1

THIE EX SHOULD STOP BEING SO FCUKING SALTY & MOVE THE FCUK ON!!!!

SHE DIDNT STEAL YOUR EXHUSBAND (IT TAKES 2 TO TANGO). FOR SOME REASON (ONLY KNOWN TO YOU & HIM) YOU LOST HIM. BUT IF YOU HAD DONE EVERYTHING CORRECTLY, HE WON'T HAVE MOVED ON.

TIME TO MOVE ON & STOP LOOKING FOR YOUR 15MIN BY BEING SO FCUKING SALTY!!!


Miss_Mention

To all chicks saying that he and Alicia "look better" together ya'll are dumb as funk and I hope when the next cute girl sleeps with your husband you will creep gracefully into uglyville without complaining.

That being said, fidelity is something that we all should support in our relationships and those around us. Do not date married men. It is not that hard dayum, is it? Don't condone it, don't make it ok based on how the people look or on their supposed talent. We need to stop accepting the bad behavior of our celebs this is why R Kelly still pissin freely.


fashionista0075

WHO GIVES A SH*T. SHE MUST BE MAD THAT HE WENT AND GOT A 10X GRAMMY WINNER MULTI PLATINUM SELLING RNB SUPERSTAR. PLZ GIRL NOBODY GIVES A DAMN. THIS HAS HAPPENED TO SO MANY WOMEN, YOU SEEN OPRAH, MONTELL, TYRA. WHAT U THINK IT COULD NEVER HAPPEN TO YOU? I DON'T GIVE A FU*K MOVE ON BIATCH.

MASHONDA PLZ JUST ASK YOURSELF THIS: ME OR ALICIA KEYS? AND WHO ARE YOU AGAIN? THATS WHAT I THOUGHT!


fashionista0075

IF A MAN D0N'T WANT YOU THEN WHY U STILL OUT THERE LOOKING DESPERATE? I WOULDA BEEN HAD ME A NEW MAN!


Lashan

She is coming form a place of hurt. I know that it has to be hard seeing them together at events and on t.v. it makes it harder to get over. I hope that she can get through this pain and move on because most men dont have a problem doing so.


TheBrokenSilence

How is writing an open letter going to help in closing this chapter in your life? I can't stand when wives say that the other woman is the one who "assisted in destroying a family". NO! It was your selfish ass cheating ass husband who was the ONLY one who destroyed your family. I love how she tries to use her son too. The only thing she is trying/wants to do is publicly try and humiliate Alicia and brand her a home wrecker. I understand she's hurt but EVERY time she talks about this it's her blaming the other woman. Does she ever hold her "husband" accountable? No because he signs the checks!


liquidcracc

and another thing wat ALL the mto readers dnt understand is that if u dnt wait for the lord to place you in the right standing to find ur wife/husband things like this WILL happen its called being unevenly yolked. wait on the lord when it comes to love and he will point u in the rite direction.


AliciaKeysFan

Mashonda or Alicia Keys? Pow, end of this story! This won't hurt Alicia's career or make Mashonda's any better, so Mashonda go find someone else to mooch off of...cuz Swizz don't want you, and ur too irrelevant for Alicia to care.


Coffeecolor

Call it for what it really is....All he had to do was wait until the divorce was final to make it a public thing.Many Men have affairs,but at least some of them try to hide it and the RULES are accpeted by the other woman.(until SHE realizes she is just the jumpoff)..In her tweets AK really does not make any bones about the man she's seeing..of course I haven't seen her use HIS name, but she makes it clear that she IS throwing caution to the wind.She constantly throws it in her(mashonda's) face.."lying here with the one I love"...Uhhh! she's NOT who I thought she was!..You're Terrible Alicia!


tr3ndsetta

I love Alicia but what she did(and still is doing) is wrong... KARMA is a bitch....


fire4u

It' sad that a lot of the bloggers, apparently along with Alicia, choose NOT to acknowledge that a LOT of ladies heal in different ways, and in their own time. Children are involved. The wife is in pain,stlll. And like she said so many of you will NOT see past the CELEBRITY, in order to acknowledge her PAIN. Alicia is the celebrity, nnd FANS support messiness because of the talent. Does not make it right. Alicia is a female.. and she will feel the pain of her choices, and I am NOT mad at either woman. I just KNOW for a fact that ALICIA will pay a PRICE for her poor choices...because LOVE obtained through ill gotten gain, is like a thief's intent to profit from a robbery. The ends NEVER justify the means. People are so tacky and lowdown..and just don't care.


nothanks

I can't stand stupid women like fashionista!!! So you saying if your husband cheat on you for a famous chic it will be all good cause she better than you. I feel sorry for you that you feel that way be cause if my man cheated on me with alicia keys I would give a damn how many grammy's she won cause no matter ho many times she say it she ain't no superwoman, I'm sure her blood is red just like yours and mines!!!!


fire4u

fashionista0075 Flag post WHO GIVES A SH*T. SHE MUST BE MAD THAT HE WENT AND GOT A 10X GRAMMY WINNER MULTI PLATINUM SELLING RNB SUPERSTAR. MASHONDA PLZ JUST ASK YOURSELF THIS: ME OR ALICIA KEYS? AND WHO ARE YOU AGAIN? THATS WHAT I THOUGHT! ---------------

How evil. What an evil, tssteless way to view things. So because Alicia is this pretty celebrity singer, that automatically gives her empowerment over a wife..a common wife?? So morals go out the window? Care for the hurt of the other's feelings means nothing? Waiting until he is DIVORCED and available meant nothing? I guesss Alicia can take your man too then?! JUST GET ANOTHER ONE! Just shows that your relationship with your men are superficial. This WOMAN had something, that was real to her. Alicia should have waited! why not? Give Swizzz the time to TRY. Sleeping with him, while he is still married is DESPERATE! Alicia is tacky white trash!!


iSex

The problem i have with this letter is that a) she's putting this out 2 yrs after this all started. I understand grieving over a failed marriage but after a while it's time to stop blaming and start being an adult. B) If it wasn't A Keys, who else would it have been? Just because he's with her, it doesn't mean he wouldn't have cheated with someone else. If you have cheated or been cheated on, you already know that sometimes it just takes that one person who looks like they can save you from your current relationship or whatever you would want to call it. She needs to just mend the fence.


talitha

Mashonda,my heart really goes out to U and your sone.U R, a truly a grown azz woman!! And like U said, let God handle that!! Cause he will NEVER BLESS THERE RELATIONSHIP! GOD DONT BLESS ADULTRY!! I have Truly Lost Respect 4 Alicia Keys!!



MrWindyCity

This comment is for EVERYONE including MTO. Mind your [EXPLETIVE] business! All of these people(famous or not) are fukkin human beings. No one REALLY knows what went down. Marriages fall to pieces everyday.(you hetero's have a bad track record) but because they're famous it makes [EXPLETIVE] worse? Get off of A. Keys dick(and no I'm not a stan), swiss is obviously where the [EXPLETIVE] he wants to b. I just wish all parties involved would stop with the messy [EXPLETIVE] on twitter.


fire4u

Mashonda, girl move on. GOD and LIFE will take care of those 2. Don't let him, or Alicia for that matter see you sweat. No matter what you type, evil and DECEPTION will ALWAYS exist among us. TRYING to get evil people to see your moral viewpoint is frustrating. Everyone is different. Some folks just have loose morals and don't see NOTHING wrong with Anything. Hold ya head up, snap ya fingers when you see that trick, and keep it moving. lol


RedDragon

THESE PEOPLE KILL ME TALKING ABOUT "SHE WASN'T ON HER JOB.." SEX CAN'T KEEP A MAN..THAT MAN WAS JUST RUNNING AWAY FROM REALITY INTO THE FANTASY. TYPICAL BLACK MAN...AND ONE OF THE MAIN REASONS WHY THESE WHORISH BLACK MEN MESS WITH THESE HALF WHITE CHICKS IS BECAUSE A LOT OF THEM DO THAT NASTY STUFF THAT WHITE WOMEN DO...LIKE HAVE THREESOMES AND BUTTSEX...MOST REAL BLACK QUEENS AIN'T DOWN WITH THAT FOOLISHNESS!!LOL


honeylove121

WHAT SHE NEEDS TO DO IS MOVE ON AND STOP WORRYING ABOUT AK, IF YOU AND SWISS BEATS ARE AT A GOOD PLACE, THAN THATS ALL YOU SHOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT. DID YOU PUT THE LETER OUT CUZ AK WASN'T FUKIN WIT YOU?, [EXPLETIVE] YOU CAN GIVE IT UP NOW SHES NEVER GONNA TALK TO YOU NOW. HOW LOW OF YOU TO MAKE THIS LETER PUBLIC. NOW YOU LOOK STUPID LIKE ALL THE OTHER CRAZY ASS BABY MOMMAS OUT THERE....LMAO


RedDragon

I HOPE YOUNG CHICKS SEE THE LESSON AND TAKE HEED..YOU CAN'T TURN A HOE INTO A HUSBAND...IF HE'S NON COMMITTAL, HE'S GONNA RUN THE STREET AND SLANG HIMSELF ALL OVER THE GLOBE.....YOU CAN'T CHANGE A MAN...IF HE DOESN'T WANNA ACT RIGHT..KEEP IT MOVING..I'D RATHER BE ALONE LIKE I AM THAN DEAL WITH ALL THAT DRAMA..THESE MODERN BLACK MEN AINT GONNA ACT RIGHT..YOU BETTER OFF ALONE..


tambet

Well first and foremost i think Mashonda is the bigger person and the only ones that would find fault with her letter is those that condone this type of behavior. It is wrong and why wouldn't she have a baby i mean she is his wife and hey God works in mysterious ways and if i was her i wouldn't be mad i'd take him str8 to the bank! "pay me my money" AK dead wrong and that was a low down desperate move and what goes around comes back around! Mashonda is the definition of a real women, chick that are low class wont understand that and brothers that like that is low just like them!


xLatinaMami89x

i love alicia keys, but that's just [EXPLETIVE] up! I never would've thought of her as being a home wrecker...guess everyone is capable of anything. I wish Mashonda and her son the best of luck...hopefully swizz beatz is man enough to @ least be a part of his sons life.


Miss_Vsha

They both sinned. The sad things they might not even care. How can u be that famous and beautiful and choose to be a mistress for that long. I will never buy another cd from her or any that he is on. Not judging them just not happy with stupidy! When he does the same to her then her cd will be a banger! Pray for them both and them in Gods hands like you said miss lady.


love2screw

i was always told dat any married mudda fuccka, that is dat easy to steal was never worth keeping around in da first place. To Wifey; My mom is going thru da same thing as you. Fucck Swiss big dicck-nose looking ass and as for AK dat stank k*unt is in lust with yo husband fo now and once u divorce Swiss, AK will leave him and move on to her next married man. A woman can't have nothing another woman don't give her. Let AK have his NO-GOOD Ass.


dridri

i AGREE WiT MASHONDA 100 % i DNT BLAME HER WRiTiNG THiS AT ALLLLL.NOW DNT GET ME WRONG i LOVE ALiCiA KEYS MUSiC SHE'S TALENTED ND GOT A GREAT VOiCE.BUT EVERYBODY LOOKiN AT ALiCiA AS THiS SiNGER THAT HAS A HUMBLE SPiRiT.BUT NO ONE KNOW ALiCiA THE "PERSON" iM NOT DOWN TLKiN HER BUT i MEAN REALLY.......HAVE SOME RESPECT FOR ANOTHER WOMENS RELATiONSHiP ND HOME.AS FOR SWiZZ HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN MAN ENOUGH TO APPROCACH THE SiTUATiON.HE MUST HAVE FORGOT THERE WAS A CHiLD iNVOLVED.


trixie

Wow are Celebs not allowed to marry out of Hollweird, they are becoming incestuous Sleeping up with each other, not a good look for Alicia


CunningANDStunning

Wait.. I thot AK had a man?!


SugarWalls78

I think that Mashonda is still in love with Swizz, but apparentley he fell out of love with her while married...It happens, I do think that she should move on, Just like he did..it is a tough situation, but didn't no one steal anyone from anybody, Because he wasn't hers..Obviously!


MissDaniBaby2

WOW...SOME OF THESE COMMENTS...WHOA!

THE PASSION BEING DISPLAYED IF OFF DA CHAIN!

*GOT THE POPCORN AND RECLINES IN CHAIR*


donthateonthegreat

What I wanna know is...what was AK putting in her tweets?!?!...This twitter shyt is crazy and full of drama..glad I don't have an account with them!



u_2_jealouz

a.k doesnt write all her songz. shes no angel but mashonda needs to let it go. get a damn divorce and alimony. it'll be ok when mashonda gets a new man. it may be hard so ask toya carter what she done and for her psychs numba!


u_2_jealouz

can we say crime of passion??? mashonda pull it together..


MaliaRichards

donthateonthegreat

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skyneska

In some ways, I wish Meshonda would have continued to be quiet. The more AK talks, the more fans she looses with her actions. I have never trusted her in the first place. Given the fact that she likes men AND women. She will have to meet Karma one day and then she really will have some hits! It's messy and AK should have waited until the divorce was final. Afterall, there is a little boy involved and if there is a father/son relationship to be had - the ex is still in the picture!


Original_POV

I really admire her maturity... Well said


luvqtpies

LOL@Drea2660.....Toucan Swizz....that is exactly what he looks like....A TOUCAN....LMFAO!!!!!!


fire4u

@ Red Dragon, Exactly. Just do ANYTHING to get what they want.Alicia feels like a LOT of celebs, a since of ENTITLEMENT! because of bloggers and fans of hers that view her a certain way, she feels no remorse or error. Yeah, she turned tricks to get him, and also RELISHES in her status to keep him. I am ALICIA KEYS..BITCHES!! lol Mama always said WATCH the quiet soft spoken ones. lol.I tend to THINK it JUST happened, it can. BUT to relish in it, years later, with no remorse, and a sense of entitlement speaks to her character (or lack there of.) tacky bitch!


MissDaniBaby2

@ FIRE 4 U

LMAO AT U CALLING ALICIA KEYS “WHITE TRASH”! NOT TRYING TO BRING RACE/COLOR INTO IT, BUT WONDER HOW MANY BRAWDS WOULD BE CO-SIGNING AND HIGH-FIVING A-KEYS IF THE MISTRESS WAS A REGULAR BROWN SISTA LIKE INDIA ARIE….HMMMMMM??? MY GUESS IS THAT SUMMA U COLOR-STRUCK FOOLS WOULDN’T BE AS FORGIVING!

@BROOKLYN LATINA

“regarding karma? I dont know

I was cheated on hard and where is the man tha cheated on me and the chick that KNEW he was with me and still pursued? 13 years later and they are married w/ 4 kids a nice house upstate and two cars.. Yeah Karma bit them in the ass. I'm glad i didnt waste my life resenting and waiting for their karma and moved on with my life, or else I'd be a very bitter bytch right now. Best advice IS to move on and don't look back!”

^^^^

INTERESTING PERSPECTIVE HERE. I OFTEN WONDERED ABOUT THIS KARMA THING MYSELF…YES, I’VE SEEN SOME AWFUL PEOPLE GET THEIR JUST DESSERTS, BUT THEN AGAIN, I’VE ALSO SEEN SOME ROTTEN MUFFUGAS (ALL TYPES) LIVE THEIR LIFE HAPPILY EVER AFTER LIKE THEY AINT DO SHIITT. BUT YOU RIGHT, IT’S BEST TO MOVE ON AND NOT “WAIT” FOR THE PERSON WHO WRONGED U TO “GET THEIRS” CAUSE IN SOME CASES U MIGHT END UP HELLA DISSAPOINTED. DATS REAL TALK!


QnzBaby

For alicia keys to have an affiar with this married man and then to tweet some sh!t about is is CHiLDiSH as hell!!!!! You a qrown asz woman tweetin about your affair??.. smh. No class.


Sexymom

I think it's really effed up that her husband cheated on her with Alicia, Moshonda expressed alot of maturity and self control in that letter, for those of you saying she should move on and just get over it, that was her dayum husband and I dont know if it occured to any of you that maybe she was deeply in love with his funny looking azz, everytime she looks at her son she is reminded of the union,, Moshanda says she wants closure, maybe after she can air this out with Alicia she can find it God Bless You Moshanda


missphysical

i understand what the ex-wife is clarifying ,but it goes back to that old saying. (you can't keep a man that don't wanna be kept). and yes alicia keys new she was married ,but at the end of the day ,alicia keyes didn't brake marital vows ,and commitment with her. He did! im just saying! alicia keys is not bothered by it right now nor is she thinking about if it was her would she want it done to her. exactly!.....she wouldn't want this swizzbeats guy being disloyal to her. Alicia ain't thinking straight right now. she's thowed and just enjoying the moment i guess.


donthateonthegreat

Thanks MaliaRichards!:)

I won't take sides or judge either one of these ladies, but this kind off mess goes on all the time, in hollyweird and in the real world! Married or in a relationship, these men are sill gonna do what they wanna do, and be with whoever they wanna be with. You can't stop them. Yeah it's not right and is fukked up, but that's reality. People RARELY stay together for long anymore these days. Too many willing, consenting adults out here for folks to remain faithful for long. That's why I think that people are NOT meant to just be with/WANT to be with only ONE person...


FlyJcanDiva

It's obvious this sister is hurting, but to all of the people on here talking about classy.please. There is nothing classy about posting ur business on tweeter..she could have wrote AK a letter and kept it woman to woman...the only reason for the letter is to make AK look bad.See this girl(because it's obvious she is not a lady)should look for closure of her marriage from her husband, I'm sure your marriage was broken before AK came in.If you trust the man to marry him and have a baby for him..now that he's moved on, you should trust the choice he made now, on who he loves, let him see his son


fire4u

@BROOKLYN LATINA

“regarding karma? I dont know I was cheated on hard and where is the man tha cheated on me and the chick that KNEW he was with me and still pursued? 13 years later and they are married w/ 4 kids a nice house upstate ----- 13 years of misery or love and bliss?lol Misery loves company.Often the OTHER woman lives through her pain because she feels deserving. So staying together means little. I know couples who have been together for YEARS..some of which sleep in seperate beds...and raise the kids. But I do agree,, that moving on is best. But trust me, if the heart of the cheater was in the wrong place, Karma will bite! lol Keep living.


missphysical

but everybody in the whole entire universe know that alicia keys would want mr. swizzbeats to be loyal to her and trust worthy. as every woman would. Why would she want a guy like that to begin with. im still unsure of?



donthateonthegreat

(Cont'd)...forever! Soon, either the man or the woman is gonna go out and find interest in another person, and want more. And this keeps repeating. So I don't believe in "being together forever". That's why I wouldn't take any man seriously. They always got their eyes on someone else...


Sexymom

IMO I feel that when women dont just get over it and move on they are considered some type of weak azz female, some people handle things different, there were times I was cheated on and just moved on and didn't care, there was a time when I was cheated on and was absolutly devestated felt like my heart was crushed, ego bruised, and my life doesnt play out in front of the public eye... imagine the embarassment sh!t half of yall would be embarrassed to tell one of your homegirls you got played her sh!t is played out for the world to see, so my heart definately goes out to her and her son


universalbliss

this letter seems quite desperate... life is too short to dwell on any circumstance, situation, or person (even cheating husbands)... move on mashonda... why would you care what AK tweets anyway?


moneylover

Wat goes around cums around they will get ders. I don lost ALL respect 4 alicia keys and dat long d!ck nose mf


BayouHottness

When will you numbskulls realize that most of these celeb social network accounts are fakes.With all they have going on, do you really have the time to tweet? All of the messages are created by peons that PR execs hire to work the net to keep their client's names on everyone's lips.


donthateonthegreat

So remember, what goes around sure as hell comes back around! So I wouldn't even trip that much. But I'm hoping that Mashonda gets through this for her own sake and for the sake of her kid(s).

Mess like this is part of the reason why women can't stand each other!! A lot of women have 0 respect for one another, and don't care what they do that they know will hurt them.


fire4u

@DaniBaby..i agree. The people in support of her seem to feel her celebrity, beauty, color and style make her OK as the choice. Morals, scruples, class, etc..mean nothing. Is Mashonda dark skinned? IF she is, i rest my case! Superficial bullshyt. lol Folks are a mess


BeReal

BEREAL IS A WIFE TO SO I SYMPATHIZE WITH HER BUT SHE IS SO WRONG.

HOW IS THE HELLS IS ANOTHER PERSON RESPONSIBLE FOR THE END OF YOUR MARRIAGE?

MASHONDA IS WRONG....NO ONE STEALS NOBODY THE DUDE LEFT HOME! dat sh-it even sounds stupid!

SWIZZ BEAT, SWIZZ BEAT, SWIZZ BEAT L-E-F-T !!!


bebdiamonds

I have absolutly no respect for AK or Swizz Beat! They are both as low as they go.


BeReal

******************* *******************

MASHONDA

NO ONE MADE SWIZZ MARRIED YOU.

NO ONE MADE SWIZZ LEAVE YOU.

ALICIA BONE-QISHA TELICIA NO ONE STOLE SH.IT GIRL.

THAT TRASHY AZZ DUDE LEFT YOU.

YOU CAN'T BLAME ALICIA FOR SH.IT. YOUR HUSBAND JUST AINT NOTHING CHIC.


missphysical

a beautiful girl like alicia keys could of found a single man out there with no problem. but to make sure u stay in it. involved with this married as man like that is straight skanless


sobaywitit

Team Mashonda all day!! any1 who tells her to just "get over" losing her huband has no heart, she can and will get over it, maybe, but the fact stills remains the situation needs to be adressed

AK needs to be put on blast she his suppose to be so "pro women" are whatever but shes nothing more than a WHORE

anyway i think AK is a lesbian she is using swizz as a beard he will soon see his lost his WIFE for a woman who obviously favors puzzy over penis


BeReal

............ Already I can hear some of you saying " why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken". Well, my marriage was not broken ......................

WHETHER OR NOT UR MARRIAGE WAS BROKEN DOESN'T TAKE AWAY THE RESPONSIBILITY OF YOUR HUSBAND TO STAY AT HOME WITH HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN.

THOSE 2 SUBJECTS ARE TOTALLY DIFFERENT AND HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH ONE ANOTHER.

TRUTH IS YOUR HUSBAND BROKE YOUR MARRIAGE BY DATING ANOTHER WOMAN.

ITS NOT ALICIA OR MINE OR YOUR NEIGHBORS RESPONSIBILITY 4 YOUR HUSBAND TO DO RIGHT.


fire4u

uHottness Flag post When will you numbskulls realize that most of these celeb social network accounts are fakes.With all they have going on, do you really have the time to tweet? ----- Some are. The guys that own it said that they verify them now. Alicia's is real. You can NOT send a twitpic of YOURSELF unless it is you.Plus she has said in an interview that she tweets sometimes.Follow Diddy for example. This fool tweets a lot! It's him! lol. He was on Larry King..endorsing it. Honey, it only takes 1 minute to send one. Plus you are on your blackberry, , not sitting around. You are on the go.faster than a text message. lol


MZBIGSEXY1

hes a typical cheater, girl move on! but ak is wrong too, homewrecker!



BeReal

coachprincess101 - HOW IS ALICIA A HOMEWRECKER? AND SWIZZ WAS THE PERSON MARRIED. SHE WASN'T EVEN THE MARRIED PERSON!

MASHONDA IS HURT AND I UNDERSTAND BUT HER HURT IS MISPLACED.

ONLY THE PERSON WHO IS MARRIED CAN BE A HOMEWRECKER.

SWIZZ IS THE HOMEWRECKER.

HE OPENED THE DOOR TO HIS MARRIAGE AND BROUGHT IN ANOTHER WOMAN.


RedDragon

IT KILLS ME HOW SOME WOMEN THINK THEY HAVE SUCH GOOD NOOKIE THEY CAN KEEP A MAN AROUND..A DOG IS A DOG..HE IS NEVER SATISIFIED AND WILL DO WHATEVER TO SATISFY HIS SELFISH NEEDS...GET OVER YOURSELVES..TO THESE MEN YOU'RE NOT ANY MORE SPECIAL THAN THE NEXT CHICK...


shawn007

Alicia Keys is such a freakin HOME WRECKER! And a hypocrite to boot. Never will I EVER buy another album of hers. She's lost me as a fan, and she should know that what goes around comes around....and nobody's gonna wanna hear her singing bout her broken heart when it happens!


menthonia

AK is a homewrecker, period.I lost respect4her the minute this affair was confirmed.I would Neva buy her music and for her to flaunt an affair,just sad. KARMA will bring her the same pain she gave Mashonda. Mashonda sounds like a brave woman, she shouldnt wory about this slut,WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.


BeReal

CAN'T NOBODY BREAK UP MY HOME OR YOUR HOME BUT THE SPOUSE!

IT TAKES A STUPID CHICK 2 THINK AN OUTSIDE PERSON IS A HOMEWRECKER.

SO WHAT IS SWIZZ? IF THE OUTSIDER IS A HOMEWRECKER WHAT IN THE HELL IS SWIZZ?


BeReal

**@@@%%%!!!&&&&

NEXT QUESTION,

SO WHAT ARE ALL THE OTHER CHICS SWIZZ BEAT BEEN MESSING WITH?

ARE ALL OF THEM "HOMEWRECKERS" ?

WHO'S THE COMMON PERSON IN ALL OF HIS AFFAIRS?

WHO MADE VOWS TO MASHONDA?

WHO HAS CHILDREN THAT HE'S SUPPOSE TO STAY AT HOME AND FATHER?


BeReal

**&&&^^%%$$##

BEREAL LOVES HER MAN. KNOW THAT. BUT ALSO KNOW IF HE CHEATS AND GOD FORBIDS LEAVE ME AND HIS CHILDREN I GOTS NOTHING ON THE CHIC.

SHE DON'T OWE ME NOTHING.

ITS HIM WHO PROMISED ME AND MADE VOWS. HE AND I ARE THE GATE KEEPERS TO OUR MARRIAGE.

I WOULDN'T BE STUPID ENOUGH TO GIVE ALICIA KEYS OR ANY OTHER CHIC THAT MUCH POWER OR CREDIT.

IF MY HUSBAND LEAVES, HE LEAVES!

NO ONE CAN TAKE A GROWN, ORANGE RUSTY AZZ MAN ANY DAM WHERE!

**&&&^^%%$$##


BeReal

**&&&^^%%$$##

BEREAL HATES THAT THIS HAPPENED. IT HURTS US ALL.

ALOT OF THESE MEN AIN'T MUCH OF NOTHIN.

I JUST LOST ALL RESPECT FOR SWIZZ AND HIS BIG AZZ BEAK!

**&&&^^%%$$##


fire4u

BeReal..

Be for realgirl, you are on some whole other level, if you think Alicia shares NO responsibility. She may NOT be all the blame. But the OTHER woman, contributes. Send married men home. Mashonda admits that Swizz is to blame as well. Read the letter!But Alicia...wow. I would never sleep with a married man,,knowingly. So yeah, she's no angel either. She should have stepped off.Not being the married person does not CLEAR her...particularly if she KNEW he was married.In order to properly place the blame, we would need to know more. Either way, Alicia is to blame the moment she ACCEPTS a married man into her home. What is the purpose of DIVORCE people? smdh


glam_barbie

all the females need to stop frontin... let ur husband do this to u. i know for a fact itll be houses on fire and bricks thru car windows. they were both wrong as hell. As i woman one thing i never wanna be is the mistress. She made the song karma so i hope shes ready to face it!


missphysical

and really every woman don got cheated on. it doesn't matter whatcha look like. it happens. so mashonda don't look in the mirrior and start thinking its because the way u look. thats irrelevant. Mrswizzbeats is suffering from a disaese call (temptations)! its a known disorder alot of men suffer from with no self control. just know woman come in all different shapes and sizes ,an skin colors. if it wasn't alicia it would of been someone else still. because he can't fight tempatations boo!and when alicia flavor starts to bore him ,his eyes will be dancin in the back of his seeking the next


ShoujoOtaku

I saw this on urbanreup.com yesterday. Read the whole thing. Based on what I've read, I'm siding with Mashonda. She should have been better informed on what was going on, Swizz Beatz should have been somewhat aware of the consequences, and Alicia should have kept in mind that he is legally married, and based on the things that I've heard, Mashonda and Swizz were'nt legally separated yet. Swizz Beatz is the true homewreaker and Alicia is the enabler. He needs to be there for his son and provide some kind of support for both his soon to be ex-wife and child.


fire4u

WHAT IS THE GOT DAMN PURPOSE OF ASKING A MAN " ARE YOU MARRIED"..? IF YOU GON' SLEEP WITH HIM ANYWAY? I GIVE UP !


ShoujoOtaku

Its kind of depressing that no one takes their marriage vows seriously anymore.



ShoujoOtaku

Mashonda is not desperate, she needs a resolution to whats going on. I think we all need that to successfully move on, or therapy.


missphysical

@ShoujoOtaku thanks so much...( enabler ) is the perfect word for alicia keys.


ShoujoOtaku

@PunchDrunkPretty - yeah I agree. Some of these comments are getting straight up mean. No sensitivity at all.


LemonLim321

damn I felt pain for her and I don't know her from a can of paint! I believe that she is true in her statements and frustrations.....people are gonna look at alicia keys the artist and shrug off this situation but man oh man real talk im baffled but not surprised and for those of your saying that mashonda wasn't "doin her job" how do you know were you there??? my word to mashonda is that things happen for a reason boo God doesn't make mistakes....continue to grow as a woman and your light will continue to shine !


Queenmidas

Well I have no respect for Alicia Keys. Mashonda should have pissed all over the high road and acted as ladylike as Alicia did by pursuing a married man, or giving in, to the will have of a married man however it is percieved. She should have beat the snot out of that acne ridden faced home wrecker. I would have went to the party for Swizz and pummeled her lazy eyed azz in front of the very people she had brought me to shame before. JMO

305 4 LYFE!


nothing101

Amazing how Alicia Keys would rather be KNOWN as a home wrecker than a lesbian who may be in LOVE with another woman. When are black celebrities going to realize that it's okay if you love someone of the same sex - people will get over it if you do!


QueenOfNewYork

How can many of you dumb B*tches go in on Mashonda? She's married to the man with a child. I'm certain there are many of you whorish women on here with several babies Daddies'

It seems like AK has many fans on here from reading many of the posts. Many of you'll failed to mention she's a Lesbian!!!!


wisdom0239

If AK reads this, I hope that she realizes that she is a single woman who doesn't have children. Yet she is taking on a serious relationship with a man who has tax problems, pending child support, and the ability to do her the same way. Learn from Halle Berry and Kandi Burruss' mistakes and leave the men with children alone.


The_Lady

Wow, this thread count is ridiculous...I love Alicia’s music, but I think this situation should have been handled better. Any female on here who says it was OK since the marriage was 'already over' has probably never been married. And maybe never will with that attitude! If it was over, they could have legally separated even though not divorced, then things would have been fine. CHEATERS NEVER WIN!


nothing101

Swizz beatz is ugly anyway!


moneyhungry

Wow

The comment count is ridiculous

Mashonda is seeking closure

If more women sought closure instead of carrying baggage into each relationship, they'd lessen the bullshiit that they experience by at least 50%

You can only respect this letter, he is her husband, afterall

I think she's just the only one that isn't in on the publicity stunt

Bless her heart


missphysical

really some of these men come knowing they with somebody already. but yet they still find time to make them selves avilable for another woman. sometimes us woman don't get the honor of making a decision right from the start. simply because the man come atcha with baggish only he know about. then later after sleeping with the man ,other woman/or girlfriend ,start coming out the darkness. when this happens its better to remove yourself and not even be avilable for the dude anymore. alicia should of did that! remove yourself don't enable his wrong doing.


hottamale28

sounds like some people on here are trying to justify this behavior from swizz and a.keys because.... 1.they to have practiced the same trifling behavior!! 2.half of ya'll probably met your mate the same way 3.DONT HAVE ANY MORALS!!! this is why marriage fails in this country,because no one has morals and self control,none of us are perfect...but damn we can atleast try to be better people.


creamgirl1

Alicia Keys is a PATHETIC piece of DOG SHYT!

Mashonda don't even trip off them, you know who will take care of all this, too bad they don't know because if they did then they would have known better. Alicia wrote her own destiny KARMA and when he's ready, he will come through with a storm.

Mashonda keep doing you and you will be okay and let us do the talking, you need not say anything, we see her trifling @$$.


moneyhungry

Alicia is innocent?

See #9

Thou shall not covet thy neighbor's wife/husband



moneyhungry

can't even listen to Alicia's music anymore.

That's why I am a stan for MJB! She never lets me down.

Okay, back on subject..

Mashonda, I am definitely on your side on this one. ---------------

Super_Negra:

I wouldn't put Mary on a moral pedestal either

Kendu wasn't exactly single when they started dating, there was just no twitter @ that time

lol


emilybaby

btw i agree on almost everything FIRE4U says...now she seems like a real woman!


Rockie28

ALICIA KEYS IS A HOME WRECKER, POINT BLANK


thrasher

Dis sh!t is CRAZY! I want to see what damsel in distress looks like! Know what i got from the letter? SHES LONG WINDED as hell! I got bored half way thru. U ladies are lovin this! Woman luv bitch fests, dont want to fix it, just sit 'round cackiling, feeling her pain. See, if ur lil girl fell, or someone hit her, wut would u do? Hold her & baby her? Or tell to get up, shake off, hit em back? Prepare ur girls foe heartache from men. Damn Cinderella & Snow white...


LemonLim321

it does say a whole lot about the women on these threads! NO sometimes you can't help who you fall in love with but you can help who you have sex with ( yea I said it) anyways how in the hell is mashonda trying to "play" victim when she and her son were the victims. No one is perfect and we/some of us are all human but man oh man I always say most of the time its not what you do but how you do it.......the way you handle a situation is often more important then the actual situation....karma is crucial best believe it!


RedDragon

FOR ALL YOU MEN TALKING ABOUT IT'S NOT NATURAL TO BE WITH JUST ONE WOMAN..I WONDER HOW NATURAL YOU GONNA FEEL WITH GOT CRAP GROWING ON YOUR PICKLE...IT'S SOME DISEASES OUT THERE THAT WILL MAKE YOU FORGET SEX COMPLETELY...AIDS AND STDS ARE NOT A JOKE..YALL NEED TO GET REAL!


glassdoll1

I THINK THIS IS GONNA EFFECT AK FAN BASE AND IT SHOULD BCUZ..IM SICK OF THESE ARTIST SING'N& RAPP'N & ACTING ON WAY & DOING THE OPPOSITE...AK SINGS ABOUT EMPOWERING WOMEN & YET SHE GOES PUBLIC WITH A MARRIED...IT'S TIME WE STOP SUPPORT'N THESE ARTIST THAT WILL SAY ANYTHING ON WAX JUST TO GET OUR MONEY & PRACTICE DIFFERENTLY BEHIND CLOSED DOORS...JUST GOES TO SHOW PEOPLE WILL TRY 2 FEED U ANYTHING...I HAVE NO RESPECT 4 ANY1 THAT DATE'S A MARRIED PERSON & JUST BCUZ SHE'S AK..DOESN'T MAKE HER EXEMPT!!!!


glassdoll1

SHE KNEW WHAT THIS COULD DO TO HER CAREER & APPARENTLY DIDN'T CARE...SO BCUZ SHE SO CALLUS ABOUT THE SITUATION...WE ALL NEED NOT TO SUPPORT HER MUSICALLY ANYMORE...LET'S SEE HER SING HER WAY OUTTA THIS ONE


RedDragon

I LIKE SOME OF A.KEYS MUSIC, BUT SHE COMES OFF TO ME SOMETIMES IN INTERVIEWS AS ARROGANT AND COCKY... A CHICK THAT THINKS SHE'S SO PRETTY AND FINE IS ALWAYS CHASING DOWN SOMEBODY ELSE MAN..IT'S WOMEN LIKE HER THAT MAKE IT HARD FOR LIGHT SKINNED CHICKS..


Mrsbigdog

I never liked Alica Keys however, here body is banging. But she has always been a bore to me and now that i know she's a home wrecking bitch i really don't like her ass. Besides, to me Mashonda is hot she"ll be fine while Alica Keys is going through something similar in about two years. Mashonda girl if it don"t kill ya well i"m sure you know the rest.


thrasher

@red, MEN ARE NOT WIRED LIKE CHICKS! I see it all the time, get married, chicks start letting themselves go. The baby comes, no more sex...So when a sexy thing starts makin yo man feel wanted, attractive, [EXPLETIVE] in da car... Well now! HOW DID THAT HAPPEN? Easy...*smile*


RedDragon

THIS MAN IS GETTING USED...I BET A. KEYS IS BISEXUAL..THAT'S WHAT MOST MEN LIKE ABOUT THESE WHITE OR HALF WHITE WOMEN..THEY ARE MORE ACCEPTING OF SEXUAL DEBAUCHARY LIKE THREESOMES AND BUTT SEX...SHE WILL LEAVE THIS FOOL, AND HE WILL BE LOOKING FOR HIS WIFE AGAIN...BUT IT WILL TOO LATE BY THEN..LOL!


Ms_Lieutenant

HONEY I'M HERE TO TELL YOU. HE IS WHERE HE WANT TO BE & THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO NOW. PERSONALLY I THINK YOU'RE WASTING YOUR TIME ADDRESSING THIS BITCH. IF SHE DIDN'T GIVE A FUCCK THEN, SHE DON'T GIVE A FUCCK NOW. SHE IS TRIFLIN LIKE THE NICCA SHE'S THROWING HER [EXPLETIVE] AT SO IT'S WHATEVA. DIVORCE HIS ASS, COLLECT YOUR CHILD SUPPORT AND KEEP IT MOVING. NO SENSE OF STRESSING OVER A NICCA WHO DON'T WANT YOU.


glassdoll1

SHE COME'S OFF IN INTERVIEWS AS A GOODIE GOODIE...SAY SHE DONT CLUB AFTER SHOW'S SHE JUST GO TO A ROOM & CHILL WITH FAMILY & FRIENDS...GUESS SHE 4GOT2 MENTION & OTHER PEOPLE MEN(HUSBANDS)


RedDragon

@THRASHER..LOOK, IF YOUR MIND IS WIRED IN THE MOST HIGH, YOU WON'T CARE ABOUT WHAT YOUR WIFE LOOKS LIKE ONCE SHE'S HAD YOUR I REPEAT YOUR BABY..IT SEEMS TO ME YOU ARE LOOKING FOR AN EXCUSE TO BE A WORLDLY MAN, INSTEAD OF A GODLY MAN..YOUR VALUES IN LIFE ARE ALL SCREWED UP..



missphysical

alicia keys! no one is putting the blame on u. but the positin u played in the deal and the behavior exzibited on your part shouldn't be rewarded. thats why mashonda did what she did. when folks avoid your calls ,messages ,and initiations to talk it out ,this is what happens a sista gotta put u on blast to get your attention. as any wifewould do!


RedDragon

@THRASHER..WOMEN DON'T ALL LET THEMSELVES GO ONCE THEIR MARRIED. I SURE DIDN'T..I WALKED AND JOGGED SEVERAL TIMES A WEEK, LIKE A LOT OF WOMEN CONTINUE TO DO AFTER THEIR MARRIED...AND WHO SAID NO MORE SEX AFTER KIDS? HELL, I FELT EVEN MORE SEXY AND HAD AN EVEN SEXIER FIGURE AFTER KIDS..IT DEPENDS ON YOUR CHOICE OF WOMAN...YOU MEN CHOOSE WOMEN WHO ARE LAZY, FILTHY, AND NOT WIFE MATERIAL..BUT YOU CHOOSE THEM BECAUSE THEY WERE HALF NAKED IN THE CLUB..ONCE YOU MARRY THEM, YOU WANNA COMPLAIN..THE CHICKS WERE LAZY AND UNABLE TO FULLFILL HOUSEHOLD DUTIES WHEN YOU MET THEM..THEY'RE NOT GONNA CHANGE


RedDragon

@THRASHER CONT...AFTER YOU PUT THAT RING ON THEM...YOU MEN JUST KEEP MAKING EXCUSES FOR THESE PATHETHIC AZZ WOMEN YOU CHOOSE FOR MATES..IT'S YOUR OWN FAULT...IF SHE'S NOT WORKING OUT BEFORE YOU MARRIED HER, DON'T EXPECT HER LAZY AZZ TO DO AFTER THE WEDDING..IF SHE CAN'T TAKE CARE OF A HOME BEFORE THE WEDDING, SHE CAN'T AFTER..DON'T BLAME THE WOMAN.YOU GOT WHAT YOU PAID FOR!!LOL


Ms_Lieutenant

Flag post FOR ALL YOU MEN TALKING ABOUT IT'S NOT NATURAL TO BE WITH JUST ONE WOMAN..

-----

GIRL FUCCK THOSE NICCAS TALKING ABOUT A MAN CAN'T BE FAITHFUL. IF A WOMAN CAN BE FAITHFUL, SO CAN A MUTHAFUCKIN MAN. NICCAS WILL MAKE ANY EXCUSE TO SUPPORT THEY'RE TRIFLIN HABITS. IF A MAN THINK HE CAN'T BE FAITHFUL, THEN DON'T EXPECT WOMEN TO BE FAITHFUL. FUNNY HOW THESE SAME TRIFLIN ASS NICCAS ARE CREATING WEBSITES PUTTIN BITCHES ON BLAST.


the_disputed_truth

Mashonda should've handled this face to face at the party & should admit she needs closure to emotionally progress. Why are we quicker to forgive our men than we are the other woman? AK's failure to respond seems heartless & guilty to me. She doesn't owe her anything but if she's going to be apart of their child's life she should respond to M's attempts to establish a civil relationship. I think AK's new album will suffer for this; her actions 100% contradict the message her music sends.


fire4u

Thanks , Emily.ooooh...I'm just appalled at these comments!some of which are actually from married women?! The divide on here is shocking. Whether you blame Alicia or Swizz , we should ALL sympathize with and UNDERSTAND Mashonda's stance as a wife and mom. What the hell kinda women are some of you? She blames her husband, but she ALSO blames you all's precious Alicia. So what! She can do that!! The anger toward Mashonda is deplorable! This woman only wants to keep her marriage together. She has a young child. I find NOTHING wrong with that. Sorry, but Alicia is a homewrecker at this point. She knows this man is married, she knows that he is with her, and not his wife.. so common sense dictates that she knows he left the wife, for her. So She helped wreck the marriage. duh! She knows it. She just doesn't care. She, like about 40% of this blog, thinks it's okay, so long as the man WANTS you. Never mind the other woman. I never asked him to leave home. etc...But you never asked him NOT to either. Sleeping with a MARRIED man is still wrong. When did it become OKAY ladies. ???? When??If it is, let's just get RID of marriage. Just forget it. Everyone, just do your thing. Alicia, i'm cute too boo, i got the next dibs on Swizz. I'm next in line. smdh.Let's all just do our thing.


thrasher

*throws up hands* I give up!! The same chicks that are 'feeling her pain', defending her as if it happened to u...I guarantee, I can take ur man right now. Truth. Woman that play da damsel in distress, ALWAYS GET FUKKED. Take it from a chick dat took what she wanted & NEVER had a bitch take from her.


blackwhite

I didn't read the article but I never understood by 1 person would attack or belittle the person that their significant other would mess around with. It's not their fault. They should go after THEIR partner. Idiots!


aWaKe

@Brooklynlatina FLAG POST I was cheated on hard and where is the man tha cheated on me and the chick that KNEW he was with me and still pursued? 13 years later and they are married w/ 4 kids a nice house upstate and two cars.. Yeah Karma bit them in the ass.

DUDE IS PROBABLT CHEATING ON HER ASS AS WELL...JUST CUZ THEY GOT A HOUSE AND KIDS DON'T MEAN SHYT IS PICTURE PERFECT. YOU ARE ON THE OUTSIDE LOOKING IN, ALL THAT GLITTERS IS NOT GOLD. TRUST..


Alexandrite

all these females in here taking alicia's side are nothing but hos! the only reason why you agreeing is because you are doing exactly what she has done. and swizz beats is just an [EXPLETIVE]! i think mashonda is classy and mature. i knew there was something not right about alicia. she seemed more like a lesbian than straight. who knows, she could want mashonda too!


BrooklynLatina

"All is fair in love and war" "The heart wants what it wants" "You can't help who you fall in love with"

I'm sure Alicia is justifying her actions with these age old sayings....

Mashonda it hurts like hell, but you're crying over spilled milk sweetie. You are not the first or the last it has happened to, and hopefully the demise of your marriage will lead to you finding a better, more attractive man to make you thank God that Swizz set you free to find something better!


SoSerious4life

I lost all respect for Alicia Homewrecker Keys! She is straight up trash, and whatever happen to her and Swizz that's what they both get. I definitely feel where Mashonda is coming from. Put all of their business out there. Swizz didn't give a damn about your feelings, so f*ck him and Alicia with her rat looking self. Alicia, TRIES to act as if she's this strong, innocent, superwomen, but she's nothing but a slut. I hope Alicia lose fans after all of this.


aWaKe

THRASHER SOUNDS LIKE A SCANDALOUS AZZ SKEEZOID....

YOUR DAY IS COMING MA....TRUST. ITS COMING.


BrooklynLatina

aWaKe

He tried to cheat on her with me-lol. But that really doesn't make me feel better. I have many male *married* friends. Most of them have cheated on their wives, but they are still with them, as is my ex still with his wife. They proudly claim they will never leave their wives...yet they still cheat if they get the right chick at the right time..SMH


SoSerious4life

The audacity for you nasty low class women on here taking up for Alicia. Oh, I get it, a lot of you bustdowns can relate to Alicia because you all are or have been with a married man. Shame on you! That's why whenever the opportunity comes and it's time for you to get married, KARMA is gonna come for that ass. Who in their right mind will condone something like this? You women, just don't have any standards anymore. A lot of you just want to be loved, because you all are so lonely and pathetic. Whomever condone this foolishness can eat sh*t.



SoSerious4life

Half of you all aren't even married, and probably will never be married. So I guess that's why a lot of you are taking up for trashy Alicia.


thrasher

@red, im not a dude darlin...im an ex alicia...the cold hearted bitch that has taken husbands & boyfriends. Tryin to school some chicas. When i took da dudes did i feel guilty? No. Still dont...im pretty sure alicia doesnt either. The husbands? I just wanted to see if i could do it...Wasnt hard.


aWaKe

PEOPLE WHO DO PHUCKED UP DEAD AZZ WRONG SHYT HAVE NO RESPECT FOR THEMSELVES OR GOD.

EVERYTHING YOU DO COMES BACK TO YOU GOOD AND BAD. "Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay," says the Lord." Romans 12:19


fire4u

thrasher Flag post *throws up hands* I give up!! The same chicks that are 'feeling her pain', defending her as if it happened to u...I guarantee, I can take ur man right now. Truth. Woman that play da damsel in distress, ALWAYS GET FUKKED. Take it from a chick dat took what she wanted & NEVER had a bitch take from her ----- I find that hard to believe. Keep living. Maybe you never had anything worth taking? Your tough gangsta attitude allows you to hide from reality. Many a chick closes her eyes to a man's cheating. He's taken from you...He 's long gone, and they are holding on to straps. Could that be you? Somebody just may have TAKEN your man, yet you just refused to let him GO?Unless you have ONLY had one man your entire life..how do you REALLY know? sigh...NOTHING taken from you? You do all the taking? That's cute. You're the problem in the world. A jail cell awaits you one day,, with that attitude.


thrasher

@awake, maybe my day is coming...im a pretty strong chica, doe *smile*


aWaKe

@BrooklynLatina THAT LETS YOU KNOW RIGHT THERE THAT DUDE WAS A COMPLETE DYCK. THAT BYTCH SAVED YOU A LIFETIME OF MISERY. THAT COULD HAVE BEEN YOU SITTING THERE TAKING CARE OF 4 KIDS WHILE HE OUT PHUCKING EVERYTHING WITH A HOLE.

ITS STILL SOME GOOD DUDES OUT THERE...NOT ALL MEN CHEAT.


BrooklynLatina

It doesn't take much to get a guy, in all honesty. Stroke their ego, promise some pusc and good head n make sex ready and available. Most guys are easy-lol. I think girls who try to "take" someone else's man suffer for low self esteem and feel like if "he" thinks the other chicks is pretty or good enough to be with her, then if he gets with me, then it means I'm just as pretty/hot/good whatever. Inferiority complexes.


aWaKe

@THRASHER GOD HAS A WAY OF BRINGING THE STRONGEST TO THERE KNEES BOO....YOU'LL SEE FOR YOURSELF

*wink


SoSerious4life

It's pretty obvious Swizz has been misleading Alicia and his beautiful wife Mashonda. I blame Swizz, and Alicia. Mostly Swizz!


newyork7

Alicia Keys need to be ashamed of herself. She certainly cannot beleive in God. Because to believe in God she would not assist the Devil in breaking up that Family. Families are important to God. I hope that when Alicia Keys get married the same thing happens to her so that she can understand how Mashonda is feeling. THey both are committing adultery because Swiss is still married. If AK really cared for him she would step back and let him handle his business. I don't care how well she sings, she can't have REAL friends, because a real friend would have told her to dis-involved herself.


BrooklynLatina

DCstillhere

Why step out though? Whats the point of getting married if your going to keep hooking up outside the marriage? IMO a "real" due would keep it real and say he doesnt want to commit to only one person instead of lying and saying you will "forsake" all others. Guys like that and some of my male friends I see as frauds and shams. they want someone just to call their wife cuz it sounds nice and grown and have a security blanket at home, but they go out without their wedding rings and play single on the weekends..SMH


mediumsteakout

soo...they're still dragging out this PUBLICITY STUNT? Alicia is GAY. Her people put out this lame stunt to deflect the attention away from her gayness. It's a shame that they'd rather have people believe that she's a home wrecker, over the fact that she's gay...smh. Look at Alicia and Swizz in that pic. They don't even look like lovers. They look like home boys. People please stop buying into this mess.


newyork7

-AK PLEASE IF YOU ARE READING THIS WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. YOU CAN'T HAVE GO'D BLESSINGS RUNNING AROUND WITH A MARRIED MAN. IT WILL NOT WORK. WHY COULDN'T YOU FIND YOUR OWN MAN. THIS IS THE SNARE OF THE DEVIL.... YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO ANSWER TO GOD FOR THIS SIN.


Juicy_Dee

Speaking from experience, she (AK) aint had no bidness messin with this dude and makin a relationship with him. We all do things in life that we're not proud of but the thing is, we're supposed to LEARN from them. Trust that AK will reap what she sowed and maybe the next time so married man comes knockin @ her door, she'll do what's right. She gonna lose him the same way she got him.


Juicy_Dee

God don't bless no mess.....



thrasher

@fire, If u wanted to burgular proof ur home, wouldnt u hire an ex-thief that has been doing it SUCCESSFULLY for years? I am dat BAD girl, who u good girls hate. I am not a gangsta, i am classy & refined in person. Im tryin to school some chicks, is all. Im just keepin it real.


SoSerious4life

AK probably do like women! Swizz and AK probably be having nasty ass freaky threesomes with women.


fire4u

Brooklynlatina. I agree. the other woman PREFERS that job too. It definately is low self esteem. She never has to worry about him loving her., or accepting her.Her heart is protected. She can send him home.The hurt that comes from building a relationship is not felt by her. She settles for seconds...it's easiar.Skanks..basically ! lol


BrooklynLatina

I met a guy, we dated for three months. He was with me all the time, at first every day of the weekend and every nite and he would stay till the morning. I found out after three whole months he was married! Tried to tell me his marriage wasnt happy, etc, was with her cuz of the kid blah blah. I was crushed. I told him to have a good life. he kept persuing beating down my door. But Alicia had all the cards in her face before hand and she made the decision knowing full well the deal. I can only hope that her feelings for this man are so deep and hard that she cant see past her love, cuz I hope


BrooklynLatina

she didn't make that decision simply because she could. Thats even worse. Women in love do alot of stupid shyt they wouldn't do with a clear head, but if she just got with him cuz she was lonely or bored or felt insecure KNOWING he was married, thats just another selfish level right there.


Brooklynbaby686

U loose a man the same way u get him alica I had so much respect for u wen I found out she was wit him I was happy for her I never knew she stole him messed up


Ms_Lieutenant

IF I WAS MASHONDA, I WOULD BE THROWING A MUTHAFUCKIN PARTY RIGHT NOW. FUUCK WRITING A LETTER AND THIS OTHER BULLSHYT. BITCHES NEED TO START CELEBRATING DIVORCE & BAD BREAK UPS.


glassdoll1

2 THE PEOPLE THAT ARE BOOSTING & BRAGG'N ABOUT TAK'N PEOPLE MEN...THAT BCUZ THESE MEN DON'T THINK UR WORTHY OF BEING THERE MAIN SQUEEZE...UR ONLY WORTHY OF BEING A BUSTDOWN & HE HIDES U BEHIND TINT..DONT UR GETT'N AHEAD BY SLEEP'N WITH SOME HUSBAND/MAN UR JUST MAKING HER JOB EASIER & SHE'S REEP'N ALL THE BENEFITS..SO WHY SETTLE? ONLY PEOPLE WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM ISSUES ALLOW A MAN TO CREEP WITH THEM & SEND THEM BACK HOME TO THERE WIFE


fire4u

thrasher Flag post @fire, If u wanted to burgular proof ur home, wouldnt u hire an ex-thief that has been doing it SUCCESSFULLY for years? I am dat BAD girl, who u good girls hate. I am not a gangsta, i am classy & refined in person. Im tryin to school some chicks, is all. Im just keepin it real. ---- oh ok. Kinda like the Video Vixen..Karrine Steffans ..huh? lol I got ya. Like that movie, Catch me if you can'? Have you seen that? Leonardo Dicarprio is in it. After all of the crimes ended..he ended up being an FBI agent and helping society because of his expertise. I can roll with you on thatlevel. The other woman can shed some light. So shouldn't you agree or understand why the wife wants to talk to Alicia? This poor woman needs closure. Keep in mind, every woman and matters of the heart is different. Her pain may run deeper.The other woman in this case is vasping in glory on twitter. Not talking it out with her.


Harmony33

MASHONDA! SIT YO RAGG behind down!! Ya man left you. Cheated on you while YOU thought everything was all gravey. Get over it. Stop trynna make conversation. They're out doung their thing. They don't care about you or your feeling OBVIOUSLY! You may still love him thats expected but really?! You really going hard. Shut up!!


the_realist

Alicia...all I can say is ur song Karma was written b4 its time.


BrooklynLatina

I had a female friend that used to brag about how she stole her husband from her best friend in high school. They got married, had two sons, were together for over 10 years. They got divorced after she found out he got some 16yr old pregnant.He had been cheating on her all those years w/ different chicks, but he never left her, and she was blinding herself to the truth.


thrasher

On that note, i hope i touched SOMEONE, & opened their eyes. Take it from me, let go of these silly fairy tales, playing the victim and protect urselves. I do know women are not like me, but please STOP GETTING PLAYED! Woman are the smartest, EXCEPT when it comes to men. And they are SOO easy to control.


dallastexaschick

actually its not to vow in front of god and then get divorced....but then again swizz is UGLY as hell...and alicia keys is dirty for what she did cuz she knew he was married and she kept trying to get at him.....and she dont want to come face to face with mashonda bout it...cuz she know she wrong and she feel stupid or she shud feel stupid some women are just scandolous and dont care....but mashonda its hard but you gon have to move on gurlll hef aint worth....kelis his ass if you have to wen it comes to that child...


GoneBad

ALICIA KEYS IS MY GIRL THAT'S LIFE. GIRLS ACTING LIKE THEY FRIEND NEVER STOLE THEY MAN BEFORE. THIS IS REAL LIFE IF IT DIDN'T WORK OUT ON TO THE NEXT LIKE JAY-Z SAID. MAYBE ALICIA WAS WAITING FOR THE DIVORCE TO BE FINAL THATS WHY SHE CAME OUT WITH IT NOW. THAT'S LIFE NOBODY ON EARTH IS PERFECT. ACTING LIKE YOUR A SAINTS GET OUTTA HERE.


fire4u

@ DCSTILLHERE>

I AGREE with your first post.your accessment on Swizzbeat coming from a man, is dead on point, i'm afraid. Because statisically men do not leave the wife. I pondered why he did. Part of it is her celebrity.But you went even deeper...in your blog...and satisfied my curiosity/nosiness about this dilemma. lol Swizz(the mama's boy) was looking for a leader. he was not content being the HEAD of the household..and is drawn to the INDEPENDANCE you speak of in Alicia.In all likelihood, MOMS is a strong leader, very independant, and starchly different from Mashonda. You've touched on something. Morevoer, I'm thinking he feels more compatibility with her. But at the end of the day, marriage is a bond. He should have nurtured his wife's career and independance. He is lazy, weak..and wanted an easy way out. Alicia provided it to him. What will he do if her KINGDOM falls and he needs to be the stronger LEADER?


RedDragon

@THRASHER...WELL FROM THE WAY YOU TALK YOU SOUND LIKE A MAN...GET SOME LADYLIKNESS ABOUT YOURSELF..ALL YOU GOT TO DO IS TAKE OUT WHAT I SAID AND PUT "SHE" IN FRONT..IT APPLIES TO WOMEN TO..AND BY THE WAY YOU TALK YOU JUST A WHORE CHILD....THESE MEN USING YOU AND DON'T GIVE A CRAP...IF YOU "ALICIAS" WOULD KEEP YALL FREAKING LEGS CLOSED TO MARRIED MEN, WOMEN LIKE HER WOULDN'T BE HAVING THESE PROBLEMS..IVE HAD UNAVAILABLE MEN APPROACH ME, BUT LET IT BE KNOWN FROM JUMP THAT I WASN'T DOWN..I WAS ACTUALLY OFFENDED BY THE MAN COMING AT ME LIKE THAT..WHORES SLEEP WITH WOMEN'S HUSBANDS!!!


icandothat

@HARMONY33 SHUT YOUR MOON PIE FACE ASS UP YOU CUM DUMPSTER! BITCH YOU LOOK LIKE A TRANSVESTITE. NOW I SEE WHY YOU TALKIN DOWN ON THAT GIRL. YOUR UGLY ASS PROBABLY ISN'T MARRIED AND NEVER WILL BE, SO YOU'RE MORE THAN LIKELY ANOTHER HOMEWRECKIN WHORE LIKE A.KEYS. RAGGEDY BITCH.


sxylitenig

not a good look for ak


RedDragon

@THRASHER...IT'S WOMEN WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM AND SELF WORTH LIKE YOU THAT MAKE IT EASY FOR THESE CLOWNS TO DISRESPECT THEIR LADIES...YOU SHOULD BE OFFENDED WHEN A MAN, MARRIED OR NOT IS LIVING WITH AND IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE ELSE..YOU DON'T MESS WITH OTHER PEOPLE'S SPOUSES..GET SOME RESPECT FOR YOURSELF..THESE MEN JUST SEE WOMEN LIKE THAT AS WHORES, JUMPOFFS AND SIDESPIECES..WHY YOU WANNA BE SOME MAN'S WHORE? WHY YOU WANNA BREAK UP HOMES..THE MAN ISN'T GONNA MESS UP HIS LIFE FOR YOU...A JUMP OFF IS JUST AN ESCAPE FROM REALITY..JUMPOFFS AND SIDE WOMEN GET USED!!!


BrooklynLatina

A huge percent of divorces are set in motion by the wife, who usually has had enough. Men will stay in a marriage till the bitter end even if they are unhappy because they can go have their cake and eat it too, so affairs tend to help a man's marriage and relieve it's stress. Many women don't see affairs and one night stands as options, either because of their moral upbringing or because they respect their vows. That's why most men don't leave. Their frustrations are relieved by going out of their marriage, and women stay frustrated until they cant take it anymore and leave.


RedDragon

@THRASHER..YOU'RE JUST TRYING TO MAKE EXCUSED FOR BEING THE HOMEWRECKING WHORE..WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH WOMEN LIKE YOU? YOU TALKING ABOUT YOU'RE AN EX 'ALICIA'..TAKE A GOOD LOOK AT WHAT YOU'RE SAYING...YOU STILL HAVE THE MENTALITY OF AN "ALICIA"..BLACK WOMEN ARE NOT RAISED TO BE WHORES...THAT'S SOME "WHITEY" STUFF...WOMAN UP AND BE THE QUEEN THAT YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO BE...


BrooklynLatina

I literally, actually had a male friend tell me that his extra-marital affairs were HELPING his marriage and making it more tolerable, cuz it was making him happier and it was easier to deal with the stresses of his home life knowing he had his sidepiece to go to when things got annoying at home...


masju08

In the words of NeNe, "Close your legs to married men." Enough said.


RedDragon

@FIRE4U...OF COURSE BLACK MEN DON'T WANT TO BE THE HEAD...THEY DON'T WANT TO BE WHAT GOD ORDAINED THEM TO BE..THEY ARE PATHETHIC...SPINELESS JELLYFISH...EVERY MAN I MEET IS LOOKING FOR THE WOMAN TO HOLD THEM DOWN..MY SORRY EX-HUSBAND GOT LEFT BY YOURS TRULY CAUSE HE'S TOO WEAK AND PATHETHIC TO DEAL WITH LIFE..SOON AS PROBLEMS COME WEAK AZZ BLACK MEN GET TO FLIPPING OUT AND RUNNING...THEY MAKE ME SICK!!


MzMIzzy

ITS HARD TO ACUSE PEOPLE WHEN THEY ARE SO PRETTY AND TALENTED AND ALICIA KEYS IS ONE OF EM! IM JUS GLAD SHE NOT GAY


fire4u

THIS IS REAL LIFE IF IT DIDN'T WORK OUT ON TO THE NEXT LIKE JAY-Z SAID.MAYBE ALICIA WAS WAITING FOR THE DIVORCE TO BE FINAL THATS WHY SHE CAME OUT WITH IT NOW. --------- oh ok, wow! There is nothing tackiar and more desperate than WAITING for the divorce to be final.lmao!!! Listen to that crap. WAITING..on a married man????Waiting on leftovers. Waiting on your turn. Well, one day someone is going to be WAITING on Alicia's divorce to become final. smdh Celebrities think it's cute, and that they should be VIEWED differently.Mashonda is putting her on blast, that's all. All that darn twittering . lol Like a love sick puppy. Bitch, you a homewrecker. .what makes you an expert on love. uuugh. Alicia, whatever, trick.Jay-z has an oppinion? He's a drugdealer...that sold his people drugs. What do you expect from him,.santity and ethics? smdh


RedDragon

WOW...FROM THE STUFF I'M READING, IT'S A WHOLE LOTTA WOMEN WILLING TO BE WHORES HUH...IT'S A CRYING SHAME...



wanda2002

ak is a homewrecker ho how would she feel? and bet he do it to her she aint no better than da next wat ever fizz he had for her will fade out. wat a idiot,if any man will run off on their wife he'll do it to u too monica said it best SIDE LINE HOE!i look forward to the day she get hers they made a promise to God He wouldnt approve her,hes guilty too but as a woman ak knew more than better dont worry shonda KARMA she sung her fate keep ya head up and hell if i was u id take his ass to tha bank...dont let your child play 2nd fiddle to another AK May GOd Bless You,u gonna need it


fire4u

But brooklyn latina...with all of that..men still don't leave. I understand they just KEEP the sidekick etc...but the main reason is that MORALLY they know it's wrong. How can you TRUST the one you're cheating with as a wife? So like DC said. Swizz left his woman for a reason. Why didn't he just keep her on the side..for stress relief ...etc. I tend to agree that he was looking for INDEPENDANCE and a LEADER.,.in Alicia. an outlet. Otherwise, keep her on the side. These two seem serious.. and this fool left his wife..which is indeed very, very rare.


MissDaniBaby2

@DCSTILLTHERE

“…Men like variety, as well as the ability to feed and nurtue that EGO we have, it's a MAN thing, u wouldn't understand! We are like children, we sometimes get burned by the pot and will still touch the mothafukka, it is what it is! We are wired different and our experiences are predicated on a foundation quite different than women! MARRIAGE kills men mostly and empower women, especially in this retarded and morally corrupt society in the US! We'll get married knowing full well it's a sham and we are at a disadvantage by doing so, so 4 real 4 real, u ladies need to applaud the brothas who do embark upon that insane journey of marriage with some of u BIPOLAR CHICKS! if a dudes $$ is right, he can maneuver and fair a little better in marriage, but he goes into it wanting and trying to do the right thing! Don't get it twisted, these butch, domme, lesbos cheat just as much if not more as men, don't think men are the only 1s who step out, especially when ur surrounded by means, scantilly clad women, sex appeal, porn and temptation! Nobodies perfect and we as men definitely have our shortcomings, but ladies look in the mirror and accept some of this shyt! I'M JUST SAY'N!”

^^^^

WOW. YOU PUT THE FELLAS ON BLAST RIGHT HERE (LADIES TOO). LOL

THIS SHIITT IS MADD SCARY. RELATIONSHIPS ARE SCARY PERIOD. THERE’S ALWAYS THE POSSIBILTY OF MARRYING THE WRONG PERSON, FALLING “IN LOVE” WITH THE WRONG PERSON OR REALLY FEELING SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T BELONG TO YOU ETC, ETC. CRAZY ISH.

BUT BY THE LOOKS OF THIS THREAD, THE BOTTOMLINE IS THERE ARE 2 THINGS THAT ARE CERTAIN IN LIFE: THINGS YOU “DO” AND THINGS YOU “DON’T DO”. WE HAVE TO BE ACCOUNTABLE AND WILLING TO ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR OUR OWN SHIITT. DID SWIZZ GO INTO HIS MARRIAGE WITH INTENTIONS OF BEING UNFAITHFUL? I DUNNO, BUT IT’S OBVIOUS HE’S DEVASTATED A WOMAN WHO CLAIMS TO BE MADLY IN LOVE WITH HIM. MAYBE MASHONDA WOULDVE FELT BETTER IF DUDE WOULDVE SEPERATED FIRST B4 SERVING THE DIKK TO A.KEYS.

BUT THIS IS SOME COMPLICATED SHIITT. NO WINNERS REALLY. MASHONDA IS NOW SCORNED, HER CHILD DOESN’T HAVE A FATHER IN THE HOME AND A.KEYS WILL FOREVER BE KNOWN AS THE SELFISH BRAWD THAT “WILLINGLY” STOLE SOMEBODY’S MAN. SMH.


MzMIzzy

Mashonda needs to know that Alicia got nothin to do with that baby! ALICIA! U JUST CURSED YOURSELF GURL


LVHUNNIE

This is very sad...if u never ben where this woman has then it is not easy to say move on no matter how much time went by. They have a child together and that is key as well..A.Keys is probably taking alot of time away from his son because she is not being woman enough to face Swizz's wife..so swizz has to chose and he chose A. Keys...sad!


RedDragon

@DCSTILLHERE..OH I'M CHILLED...CAUSE I DON'T DEAL WITH THESE BLACK MEN ANYMORE...I'M CELIBATE AND THROUGH WITH DATING..I DON'T NEED THAT DRAMA!


BrooklynLatina

MissDaniBaby2, fire

It seems like marriage for alot of people nowadays is more like having a roommate. someone to share the bills with, someone to help w/ the chores, while u go your way, I go mine, we just gotta be seen together from time to time for photo ops. It's really scary to me what marriage has become for so many. I used to b a hopeless romantic, but with my own experiences and even more seeing how many of my male friends act, I've got to say I've become very disillusioned with marriage.


RedDragon

DCSTILLHERE..LISTEN YOU [EXPLETIVE], I'M NOT GAY, NEVER HAVE BEEN GAY, NEVER WILL BE GAY..YOU BLACK MEN ARE JUST PLAIN PATHETHIC OKAY SO DON'T GET MAD AT ME CAUSE THAT'S WHAT YOU ARE ANOTHER PIECE OF SHYT NYGGA...MY OWN BROTHER IS MARRIED TO A CHICK THAT WEARS THE PANTS AND HAS MORE MONEY THAN HIM..YALL SORRY AZZ TROLLS AINT NOTHING BUT SOME GOLDDIGGERS LOOKING FOR A EASY WAY IN LIFE...BECAUSE DEEP DOWN MOST OF YALL AINT NOTHING BUT SOME HOMOS ANYWAY.YOU MODERN BLACK MEN ARE SO SISSIFIED IT'S PATHETHIC..YALL GOT ON MORE EARINGS THAN THE WOME.SO GET A LIFE AND GET OFF MY TIT PUNK!!


fire4u

DCstillhere Flag post @ fire4u If all else fails, he will turn to drugs, abuse his finances, seek a hobby, dive head 1st into religion, come out da closet or find anotha AMAZON to nurture, protect, breastfeed, lead and or support him! Don't get me wrong, he tried, but at the end of the day, the need to be nurtured out weighed his role as leader ----- wow! Great answer! Sad but true. You are likely correct.This is why it is so important to talk to your mate, and attempt to get to the core of his feelings. This includes his upbringing. If he felt trapped or matched up incorrectly with her, that can feel like prison to anyone.I still believe that Marriage works...with all it 's pitfalls it works. i'm inclined to believe that these two met at the WRONG time, however. The santity of marriage should not be disrespected like this. Things should be doned with class and decorum. However, you definately provided food for thought to this. Great reading.


RedDragon

@DCSTILLHERE...JUST SHUT THE HELL UP AND CLOSE YOUR MOUTH..YOU DON'T KNOW A DAMN THING ABOUT WHY I LEFT AND FRANKLY IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS...I WAS TRYING TO MAKE A POINT..YOU BLACK MEN NOWADAYS ARE JUST PATHETHIC AND SISSIFIED..YOU WEAR MORE COLOGNE THAT WOMEN DO..YOU GET YOUR HAIR FIXED AND DOODLED UP MORE THAN WOMEN DO...YALL RUNNING AND GETTING PEDICURES AND FACIALS AND THAT "METROSEXUAL" CRAP...MOST OF YALL OF TOO CUTE TO GET YOUR HANDS DIRTY IN SOME YARD WORK..YALL ARE SISSIFIED AND PATHETHIC..AND IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT I'M SAYING, GO SUCK ON A BONE CAUSE ICOULD CARE LESS!!LOL!!


RedDragon

@DCSTILLHERE..OH STOP YOUR WINING..TYPICAL BLACK MAN.."PICK ME UP, STROKE MY EGO...ME ME ME ME'..BUT SOON AS THE WOMAN NEEDS HELP, YALL SORRY AZZES GO RUNNING TALKING ABOUT SHE CRAZY AND ALL THAT..MAN PLEASE...YALL CAN GO TO HELL!!


MissDaniBaby2

ANOTHER THING, FOLKS BE GETTIN’ SERIOUS AND MARRIED WAYYYY TOO YOUNG BEFORE HAVING A CHANCE TO EXPERIENCE LIFE AND MEET DIFFERENT PEOPLE AND FIGURING OUT WHO “YOU” ARE AS A PERSON!

HOW THE HELL YOU GONE MAKE A GOOD SOUL MATE WHEN U DON’T EVEN KNOW WHO U ARE YOURSELF? HUMANS MAKE POOR DECISIONS FOR A VARIETY OF REASONS, BUT MARRIAGE IS SO SERIOUS, I WOULD WARN “ALL” OF YOU TO “THINK” BEFORE YOU ACT! IF I’M LYING, I’M DYING!!!

DON’T GET ME WRONG, EXCHANGING VOWS IS A PRECIOUS, NOBLE ACT, TRUST…BUT IT CAN ONLY WORK WHEN THE INDIVIDUALS INVOLVED ARE MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND SPIRITUALLY READY FOR SUCH A HUGE COMMITMENT AND UNDERTAKING. YOU MUST BE “BONDED” TO EACH OTHER.

IN THE END, LOVE DESERVES BOTH PARTIES “UNDIVIDED” ATTENTION.


fire4u

@ dcstillhere.. One more thing,..it you're still here...Not knowing the whole story...if Alicia had not come along, as pretty as she is. etc...dangling her what nots in his face..etc..Do you think he may have discovered the independance in his wife as time past? Could he have discovered in her what he SEES in Alicia? I mean what is the trade off? I guess i'm asking you as a man, how much of a role does the FEMALE really play. Or are you all ALWAYS just DOGS in heat? lol lol Can a sista trust you while she goes grocery shopping, basically is what i'm asking? Or is it just temptation that drags and lures you away? What's a girl to do?


blackjustice30

Woman to Woman,Mashonda I do understand your pain. It worries me that we have women out there who think that this is ok.I see nothing wrong with your response comment to Ak comments. This was your husband not your boyfriend this is the father of your child not your baby daddy from a one night stand. You can not unfortunetly take the ignorance out of people. So please excuse the rude and uncalled for comments. They will oneday understand when it's their turn.I feel if swiss has to pay alimony A Keys should be sued for breaken up the marriage that is legal in some states. look it up Mashonda.



rese713

@mzmiszzy- exactly! ppl were saying that she was gay. i recall wen the song secret came out ppl were like shes talking about a lesbian love affair. guess she showed they a$$es...on a sidenote...everybody got something 2 say...wat about the flaws in ur own life! I for 1 havnever been so invested in a person that i cudnt tell they were either steppin out r on theyre way to steppin out & half the time i was steppin out my damn self! this site my guilty pleasure& i will be glad as hel wen i giv it up!


RedDragon

@DCSTILLHERE..WHAT' YOU'RE QUOTING IS TYPICAL SELFISH BLACK MALE PHILOSOPHY...THE TYPICAL BLACK MAN ONLY CARES FOR HIMSELF...AND HE WILL DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO MAKE SURE LIFE IS EASY FOR HIS SORRY TAIL..YOU SAY THE WOMAN IS SUPPOSED TO BE SUPPORTIVE OF A MAN'S MELTDOWN, BUT WHEN ARE YALL SUPPORTIVE OF WOMEN? NEVER..SOON AS A WOMAN HAS A BIT OF DEPRESSION , YOU GO LOOKING FOR SOMETHING ELSE TO STICK YOUR NASTY PICKLES IN...THE MAJORITY OF YOU BLACK MEN ARE JUST SELFISH AND WEAK..GET OVER IT AND TRY TO CHANGE YOUR PATHETHIC TAILS..


fire4u

brookynlatina..@ Dani..

I agree. I'm on a longgggg engagement right now. I'm not ashamed to admit that i'm scared. Marriage is a huge leap. Listening to DC...and other men that i know, ..i do hear this sorta thing all the time. That they are DIFFERENT from us. VIEW cheating and stepping out DIFFERENTLY..etc. they are not WIRED the same way..etc. It's complicated. You love them, but do you really know what they would and would not do?

They square you up and down they love you..and will do anything for you. Then along come Shaniqua. lol


RedDragon

YALL TRIPPING TALKING ABOUT SHE'S IN LOVE WITH A WOMAN..PLEASE.....ALICIA KEYS IS PROBABLY ON THAT FREAK-NASTY TIP LIKE MOST OF HOLLYWOOD..THEY ALL DO THAT NASTY THREE WAY STUFF AND THEY SWING WITH EACH OTHERS HUSBANDS AND WIVES...SWIZZ BEATS PROBABLY LIKES THAT KINKY MESS..AND SHE PROBABLY LIKES THAT BUTT SEX....THESE MODERN BLACK MEN HAVE BEEN TURNED OUT BY WHITEY...THEY'RE NASTY..AND MOST BLACK WOMEN AINT DOWN WITH THIS NEW FANGLE MESS LOL!! I KNOW I AINT!!LOL


dallastexaschick

BASICALLY YOU SHOULDNT DO TO OTHERS..THAT YOU WOULDNT WANT PEOPLE TO DO TO YOU...THATS THAT...PLAIN AND SIMPLE CUZ IT WILL COME BACK ON....NOT THAT DAY OR THE DAY AFTER IT WILL EVENTUALLY...


MissDaniBaby2

@BROOKLYN LATINA

“MissDaniBaby2, fire

It seems like marriage for alot of people nowadays is more like having a roommate. someone to share the bills with, someone to help w/ the chores, while u go your way, I go mine, we just gotta be seen together from time to time for photo ops. It's really scary to me what marriage has become for so many. I used to b a hopeless romantic, but with my own experiences and even more seeing how many of my male friends act, I've got to say I've become very disillusioned with marriage.”

^^^^^

VERY TRUE. BEFORE GETTING MARRIED, IT IS IMPERTAIVE THAT WE ASK OURSELVES “WHY” WE ARE GOING THIS EXTRA STEP…FOR THE BIG CEREMONY? THE HONEYMOON? TO HAVE SOMEONE TO CLEAN THE HOUSE AND WASH OUR CLOTHES? TO HAVE SOMEONE PAY THE BILLS? A SEMI-GUARANTEE U WON’T BE LONELY? HMMMM? OR JUST TO HAVE CLEAN PUZZY AT HOME WHILE THE OTHER PERSON STEPS OUT? INSANITY!!!

LIKE I SAID B4, YOUNG PEOPLE SHOULD NOT, I REPEAT, “NOT” GET MARRIED OR BE PLAYING HOUSE. *SHAKES HEAD AT SOULJA BOY* THE CONSEQUENCES ARE WAYYYYY TO BAD, ESPECIALLY WHEN U BRING KIDS INTO IT. GEEZ-US. BUT SWIZZ AND A. KEYS ARE PROLLY IN THEIR 30’S AND SHOULD HAVE THOUGHT THIS OUT A LIL MORE. I MEAN, I WILL ADMIT THAT SWIZZ HAS A RIGHT TO LOVE WHO THE HELL HE WANTS, YOU CAN’T FORCE LOVE WITH SOMEONE U NO LONGER HAVE LOVE FOR. PERIOD. BUT LIKE FIRE4U SAID, THERE COULD HAVE BEEN A BETTER SENSE OF RESPECT AND DECORUM FOR THE “SO-CALLED” MARRIAGE B4 HE BOUNCED SO WHEN HIS SON GROWS UP HE DOESN’T THINK DADDY WAS “JUST OUT THERE WILD’IN”.

CATCH-22 HERE FOR SURE.


TrueWords

@WHOGONACHECKMEBOO

b*tch is you retarded? that was what my whole post was about (swizz disrespecting his marraige) he's the one to blame not ak & i said ak's is in the wrong too i never said she was innocent because she's not read before you type sh*t & who said anything about black & white? WTF? b*tch kill ya self


The_Lady

got lost in the thread...but whoever said "We are like children" referring to men, that ain't quite accurate, it's an excuse. Mature men recognize their spiritual component which allows them to connect with their soul and their partner. This means that real men don't cheat, it's not a fallacy, it's real. Cheating cause "it feels good" or strokes the ego means you're not mature, because the ego doesn't really need stroking. And sex with your woman 'feels good' too. This is truly the end of days.


The_Lady

ain't trying to preach but Jesus came to teach us about love..We all know sex and love are 2 different things...and if u truly LOVE your partner, u can't do anything to hurt them, it would be like hurting yourself, because you're just that connected. A quick come at the expense of your partner's pain is never worth it. A Real man will tell ya that.


The_Lady

AMEN and I'm out...Good Night.


MissDaniBaby2

@FIRE4U

CONGRATS ON YOUR ENGAGEMENT AND BEST OF LUCK TO YOU SIS! DON’T WORRY TOO MUCH, YOU’LL BE FINE. JUST MAKE SURE BEFORE YOU TAKE THIS HUGE LEAP THAT YOU ARE BONDED TO YOUR MAN IN EVERY WAY. FUKK HIS BANK ACCOUNT, OR HOW BIG HIS DINGALING IS OR HOW GOOD HE DRESSES AND SMELLS. JUST MAKE SURE “THIS” MAN IS SOEMONE YOU CAN TRUST WHEN THE CARDS ARE DOWN AND WILL HELP YOU BE A BETTER WOMAN AND VICE VERSA. YOU HAVE TO BE DOWN WITH EACH OTHER NO MATTER WHAT. THAT’S THE REALEST TALK EVA. AS LONG AS YOU HAVE THAT, THEN BABY GIRL YOU’LL BE JUST FINE! *WINK* ;-)

@RED DRAGON

“…YOU WEAR MORE COLOGNE THAT WOMEN DO..YOU GET YOUR HAIR FIXED AND DOODLED UP MORE THAN WOMEN DO...YALL RUNNING AND GETTING PEDICURES AND FACIALS AND THAT "METROSEXUAL" CRAP...MOST OF YALL OF TOO CUTE TO GET YOUR HANDS DIRTY IN SOME YARD WORK…”

^^^^^

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAA! “DOODLED UP HAIR” GIRL, YOU FUNNHY AS SHIITT. I BE ROLLIN’ WHEN I SEE YOUR COMMENTS. I FEEL SORRY FOR ANY MUFFUGA CRAZY ENUFF TO PISS U OFF! LOL KEEP YA HEAD UP MA, IT’S ALL GOOD.


TEEWAYS

thats [EXPLETIVE] up...i didnt know akeys was such a bitch


emilybaby

@fire4u i agree...i just cannot believe that people, esp women, can't see where mashonda is coming from. its ridiculous to me..and quite ignorant!


JasmineBell87

swizz and ak both wrong


iamlyrik

Mashonda dont worry the same she got is the same way she's gonna loose him watch, it doesnt pay to do dirt , you get dirt . Stay up and take his money when you go to court .lol , he aint worth havin, if he was taken that easily .



glamuruz07

That was very big of Mashonda. It bothers me cause I'm such a big fan of AK and it's crazy cause she sang the same some to help me get through my same situations. I don't wish AK bad luck, but in her own lyrics. What goes around...comes around. Practice what you preach AK. I hope everything works out for Mashonda.


Wierdo

ALICIA A SNEAKY BITCH. WATCH THAT HO, SWIZZ. SHE CHEATED WIT YA. THAT HO GON GET DISTRACTED AND CHEAT ON YOU. WATCH. FUK THAT PUUPPY LOVE [EXPLETIVE] SHE SPITTIN. WOMEN ARE FICKLED. SHE FEEL THAT NOW, CAUSE SHE IN THE MIX. WHEN LIFE HIT. SHE'LL SEND YOU HOME. LIKE A PUNK WIT TAIL BETWEEN YA LEG.


Phillydakid

All of you idiots saying she needs to get over it need to realize that there is a child involved. Swizz isnt the issue Mashonda needs to be comfortable with her child being around AK. Its funny people put celebs o these pedestals like if they are wrong its ok because they can sing, or dance, or rap, or they have want the masses want. We are in a mental state of emergency because some of you have no morals or ethics if you are defending anything either Swizz Beats or AK have done or will do. Put celebrity aside and think of whats best for that child. A healthy relationship between his parnets


UoNmTo24-7

Da heart wants what the heart wants..best be careful though..I've seen bitches get cut behind that [EXPLETIVE]!!


blkjk

It's funny how people (esp women) can tell homegrl 2 get over it as if they would jus get over it if it were them and not her. Some of u hoes would lose ur minds while the rest would do what she did. AK has a song called Karma, well, I hope Karma comes bac and bites her real good. Still love the music AK


VerbalWarQueen6

KARMA Is A Biatch!!


lima4u

Well if MTO is correct. Mashonda should not have displayd her dirty laundry her matter i personal.What does Mashonda expect from AK? This is an possible attempt to continue to bring both of them down, except she make herself desprate.The child has nothing to do with if she is the wife she should act as one.There is not action for any of this so called celbrity want privacy but why put this in the paper it only makes matter worst.Tell if im mistaken did Hilary Clinton make a public display of her husband affair.I don't recall


FLS

I thought Alicia and Kerry were going to be together until the end of the time. I sympathize with Mashonda. I hope things work out in her favor.


MsLucci

well never know the true story...


tyeballerMB

Idk y all y'all hating on AK....who wouldn't curve dey wife 4 her??? And wateva dude say dey wouldn't is a straight liar


speedy1268

All I can say is---WOW!!


MamaGummibear

Dam that was deep. But I'm followin Akeys. I didn't see no tweets that she talkin bout. maybe its the wrong AKeys


bronxd

REPOST (BLKJK) It's funny how people (esp women) can tell homegrl 2 get over it as if they would jus get over it if it were them and not her. Some of u hoes would lose ur minds while the rest would do what she did. AK has a song called Karma, well, I hope Karma comes bac and bites her real good.


bronxd

@ BLUBOY THIS IA THE IGNORANT [EXPLETIVE] U WRITE. MESSAGE TO MASHONDA:...LET IT GO!!!...UR ACTING LIKE A DESPERATE BYTCH!!...SWISS is HAPPY with ALICIA... so ALICIA KEYS MUST BE THE BETTER WOMAN!!!...

BLUBOY, UR CLEARLY A LOST CASE. I CAN ONLY IMAGINE YOUR SHAMELESS ASS WATCHING YOUR MOTHER OR SISTER GOT HRU THIS. ALICIA AINT THE BETTER WOMEN, SHES THE CHIC WITH THE FAME AND $. THATS WHY SWIZZ RAPPER WNA BE ASS CHOOSE HER AND LEFT HIS WIFE AND NEWBORN. NO BETTER WOMAN WOULD HAVE A FULL RELATIONSHIP WIT A MARRIED MAN. UR A LOSER BLUBOY OR SOME DAM AK STAN, GET A CLUE


lilbuddhameditation

Mashonda is a real woman. It takes a woman on her highest level to handle the situation like she did. This affair has been out for a while now. And my respect for alicia is now non existant. She writes these amazing songs about the female strength and uplifting when really shes just a homewrecking ass skank. Their relationship will nt survive simply bcuz of the foundation it was built on.



lovemesumdance

Mashonda owns a lingerie line and a production company so she wouldn't be hurting even if he wasn't a multi-millionaire. But since they married when they were young & BEFORE he had his millions, there is NO PRE-NUP! Go head & get this off your chest sister & move on. I have been in your shoes. AND Alicia Keys shoes. But Alicia you must know one thing: GOD WILL NOT BLESS YOUR UNION IF YOU DESTROYED SOMEONE ELSE'S TO GET IT.


lovemesumdance

AND they should've never given some of you ignant sistas a computer. How dare you say that say so what, so what, he don't want you, move on? Her life that she was committed to for over a DECADE was ripped out from under her. She loved that man - he was living with her and taking her EVERYWHERE w/ him & it is clear tht they continued to consummate their marriage because they have a newborn! Who in their right mind would try to dismiss that woman's pain? U heartless jezebel's are probably waiting 4 YOUR married man to stop through now. Men wouldn't cheat if they didn't have women to cheat with!!


djjay

THIS IS USUALLY WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU CHOOSE TO MARRY FOR MONEY AND STATUS BEFORE TRUE LOVE...SH*T JUST DOESN'T WORK OUT! IF ONLY MORE WOMEN WOULD QUIT DEPENDING ON BEAUTY TO GET THAT 'FAIRYTALE' LIFESTYLE...WE'D TRULY HAVE MORE HAPPY ENDINGS. MASHONDA, LOOK ON THE BRIGHTSIDE... YOU WON MAMA! WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO BE IN A MARRIAGE WITH SOMEONE WHO TRULY DOESN'T WANT YOU ANYMORE...JUST TO SAVE FACE? STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT HE'S DOING FOR THE NEW CHICK AND GET ON WITH CLOSING THIS CHAPTER OF YOUR LIFE...HE'S TAKING CARE OF Y'ALL BABY BOY AND YOU'RE ST8...NO MORE TWEETS K? WRITE A BOOK.


kayleKatt

Mashonda been telling these AK home wrecker stories for too long now. Get over it u party crashin, long twittin, bitter b*t*h.


2009_NYGGA

DAM wifey202 GOT A FAT ASS


effyermess

1) Ur late, MTO. This was on UrbanReUp dot com. 2) Look at all of these proud wh0res telling Mashonda to get over it. They're probably on some married man's d!ck as we speak. Only a woman whose never legally had her own man would tell a married woman WITH CHILDREN to "get over it".


BeReal

))^^%%%

THEY BOTH ARE WRONG. WE ALL KNOW THAT. BUT MOST OF THAT BLAME GOES TO WHOMEVER IS MARRIED.

BOTTOM LINE SWIZZ SHOULD HAVE STAYED OUT OF ALICIA'S FACE AND ALL THOSE OTHER CHIC'S FACES HE'S BEEN IN. I CAN'T BLAME THOSE OTHER CHICS OR ALICIA IF THAT GROWN MAN SAID F! MY WIFE AND KIDS. THAT ISH IS ON HIM!

WHEN U TAKE VOWS U ARE PROMISING TO STAY OUT OF OTHER GIRLS FACES. U PROMISE TO UR WIFE AND I THINK TO GOD TO.

BOTTOM LINE SWIZZ SHOULD HAVE STAYED OUT OF ALICIA'S FACE AND ALL THOSE OTHER CHIC'S FACES HE'S BEEN IN.


BeReal

THE REAL DEAL IS...

TO MANY CHICS WANNA FIGHT AND BE MAD AT ANOTHER CHIC FOR HER MAN RUNNING IN SOME OTHER CHICS FACES.

NO THOSE SIDE PEICES AIN'T SAINTS THEY ARE WRONG TO BUT THEY ARE NOT THE CULPRIT.

A REAL WOMAN KNOWS A REAL MAN DON'T F! AROUND RUNNING FROM WOMAN TO WOMAN. THATS A LIL BOY. AND THAT'S WHAT SWIZZ IS. A REAL MAN WOULDN'T DO HIS ACE, HIS GIRL, HIS WIFE, LIKE SWIZZ DID MASHONDA.

AK AND ANY OTHER CHIC AIN'T THE PROBLEM HERE. SWIZZ JACKED UP HIS MARRIAGE.


BeReal

BEREAL FEELS SORRY FOR MASHONDA. I CAN RELATE TO HER. BUT ITS NOT THE CHICS. THESE DUDES NEED TO STOP CHEATING ON THEIR WIVES. I SEE MORE WHITE DUDES STANDING TALL IN THEIR MARRIAGES THAN BLACK DUDES. TO FEW BLACK DUDES STAY TRUE TO THERES. REAL TALK.


BeReal

ALSO IF I WAS ALICIA I WOULDN'T WANT A DUDE WHO CHEATED ON HIS WIFE. THATS THE CLOSEST THING IN LIFE TO YOU. WHEN YOU CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE LIKE THAT OUT IN THE OPEN YOU AINT SH!T. SUCH IS SWIZZ.


ssxxysam

AK IS A FAT HOMEWRECKING BITCH I HAVE LOST ALL RESPECT FOR HER


tellitlikeitisssssss

thats to much to read fail !!


jewelz83

This situation certainly makes me look at AK with a frown on my face. The girl is undeniably beautiful and talented but that don't make messing with a married man ok. That shyt is for young dumb naive lil girls who don't know no better. AK should know better regardless of how well Swizz's relationship with his wife was. Or was not. I don't like it. Mashonda is a real woman for speaking from the heart like that. She's not stupid, she's not supposed to just "move on" as so many people suggest. A marriage is a lifetime commitment, for better or WORSE. Swizz should man up and honor that!


jewelz83

I'm single, never married, but I vow to never mess with a married man. I did when I was a teen and the married man was so outta pocket for being with me (esp. at a young age) but it took for me to go thru it to learn from it. Married men are off limits, if more women would say NO then it wouldn't give those men so much leeway to cheat and disrespect the unions they built!


jewelz83

Rose777 you sound stupid! YES Swizz did leave his child when he left his wife, he made lifelong commitments to them both! This is fully affecting his son and his son's upbringing and way of life because instead of him being raised in a 2-parent household he'll be raised by a single mother, a skanless ass daddy and a homewrecking ass step mama! There is nothing right about what Swizz and AK are doing, but it's nothing that isn't going on in millions of other households. A shame, I tell ya.....



CincinnatiRed

how could she steal something that is not yours he left yo azz get over it and stop trying to put my girl Alicia on blast .... Alicia is just the clean up woman.


gentalsex

ok i would prefer to appreciate some big beautiful ladies dancing in front of me without anything dressed up better shaking their beatiful meat.i mean in the video.wat i need to do is sitting at my laptop and imaging nice bxxbs.well i recommend you a place with drooly BBW video. [link to external website removed] free to join lol .C'MON```


RoRo17

I dont have any respect for a woman who gets involved with a married man, definitely a NO NO. All u chicks on here basically saying its ok are dumb basic bitches. The comments,saying she didnt destroy their marriage and shes the clean up woman blah blah are just plain stupid.If that was the case Alicia could have waited until the divorce was final. I thought she was a classy chick but now I think shes some homewrecking trash. What if it happened to u? Its so many dumb bitches in the world today. Karma is a bitch!


Just_Sum_Blogger

i'll never buy her albums again! Clearly, she dosent practice what she preaches. AND HOPEFULLY SHE WONT LEAVE HIM FOR A WOMAN!


rese713

wow! i didnt read all that ish 2 see where she said SHE WILL POST THIS EVERYDAY...UNTIL AK RESPONDS! Heard it on the radio. Wtf? Why isnt she going after her husband! And damn this story confirms what i knu about most on this blog..there a bunch of bitter-face whiney a$s b!tches on here! Yea AK & Swizz were wrong as hell. AK knu he was married, swizz= ultimate betrayal. But guess who look like a bitter-face crybaby. Hell hav some dignity, do that sh!t in private! Whoo is me! I mean damn! She need to pick herself up dust her arse aff and keep it moving. Cry @ hm!


VicSage

Swizz is a pssy..I blame that nicca...Mashonda sounds like a good woman who wanted to save her marriage..AK is just collateral damage from tht nicca's shortcomings regarding conversating with his wife...Although AK she should have fell back and allowed them to work it out or dead it..Ak took me for a loop though because I had her pegged as lesbo...Who Knew?"


rese713

Im sure its painful. my heart goes out to her. But I hate to see any woman go out like that. As i stated previously there is nothing that Ak can say to giv her closure, her heart is torn. There is no explanation excpt they were both selfish. I heard Moshonda was at the bday party so why not speak up then, why now, on the net? This is purely insane and as always...fu*k the fame give me the $!


kingnuttyvids

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NYCYungladii

IVE SOOO BEEN WAITN FOR THIS.. NOT TO MAKE AK LOOK BAD.. JUST TO LET IT BE KNOWN OF HER DISGUSTING, FOOLISH WAYS I CANT EVEN LISTEN TO HER MUSIC I FEEL SHES A FAKE B*TCH. (GOOD LUCK MASHONDA)


quinncere

I read this letter and WOW. To put a letter out or comment out on the internet is not so classy. There is a young child involved and Mashonda should have thought about a few years from now when her son can read and surf the internet and he comes across this. And I say this because I work in an industry dealing with kids and families - and it's sad. However, I can feel where Mashonda was coming from, she's pissed (yes she's pissed). There were three people involved and someone made a comment about Mashonda knowing of this prior to having a baby and she still did it


quinncere

She probably wanted to save her marriage but kids dont fix problems. The only thing really is that no one knows what really went down between the three of them. Yes AK is wrong for sleeping with a married man but who knows what was actually the deal when it started. Problem is, now it's public. Mashonda knew about it two years ago but it wasnt blasted everywhere so it's a lot of shyt behind this thing.....


PROUDLesbian24

*gives Mashonda a standing ovation* Now she is the epitome of a REAL woman...she didn't get ghetto, didn't air out any dirty laundry, and even wished them the best in their future...that's crazy that Alicia Keys was a homewrecker like that but hey, I guess it is true that people act n say whatever they need to, to get u to cop their album. I wish Mashonda and her son the absolute best in the future.


1toughCookie

Excuse me if I'm looking too deeply into this but...whether or not someone is married w/ a child involved or had a child with someone w/out being married should be enough cause to do the right thing. When someone's emotions are invested in a relationship, it always hurts to be betrayed and though its difficult to deal with the pain that comes with that we should always strive to move forward with our lives; not only for the sake of the child but for ourselves. Children are resilient and things that adults decide on are not always the best but we learn from our mistakes and move on...


1toughCookie

I can see everyone's point here...everyone's perception of the situation can be validated. But where does it end? All of us can learn from this situation. Going back and forth is more damaging than anything. What's makes everyone so bold to tell Mashonda to move on is that while she's typing "open letters", Swizz and AK are remaining silent or private. None of us know...


1toughCookie

Who ever the negatron is that directed her to look at the page in the first place should be slapped. That just sounds like some instigating ish right there. ashonda is proclaiming to want to be positive and be at peace and here some fool go telling her to look at a comment that wasn't directed to anyone. That's the foolishness on Mashonda's part...but love makes us do the craziest things...or maybe now she let her pride get in the way



1toughCookie

Mashonda


flyazzchick

I THINK SHE IS STILL HURT BE THE WHOLE SITUATION


undressingHER

lol @ women. A woman can't steal another womans husband. Your husband has to divorce you. If she can "take" him, he was never yours, despite the signing of a peace of paper or a vow to God. He wasn't happy with her, or he was happier with someone else. Do you know how many men would divorce their wives to be with Alicia Keys? lol.


CWpiggy

Wow....Mashonda is a class act. Alicia is a fake b!tch


MSWIN

A MESSAGE TO SHONDA YOUR MAN HAS MOVED ON SO LET IT GO...LET HIM BE A DAD TO HIS SON AND COLLECT YOUR SUPPORT...I DONT THINK ALISHA WILL MISS TREAT YOUR CHILD WHEN HE IS WITH HIS DAD AND YOU AND HER BEING BUDDIES WITH NEVER BE..JUST KEEP IT CORDIAL FOR THE SAKE OF THE CHILD..I KNOW IT HURTS BUT CONSTANTLY TALKING ABOUT SHE STOLE YOUR HUSBAND ISNT GOING TO MAKE YOU FEEL ANY BETTER..AGAIN SISTER LET HIM BE A DAD AND YOU MOVE ON..CONNECT WITH GOD HE IS THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN HEAL YOUR WOUNDS..


Luv4Obama

Im sure its painful. my heart goes out to her. But I hate to see any woman go out like that. As i stated previously there is nothing that Ak can say to giv her closure, her heart is torn. There is no explanation excpt they were both selfish. ****************** DUMB BITCH..HOLDING THE ET LOOKING BABY. AK CAN SEND DUDE BACK HOME, THAT'S WHAT SHE CAN DO. TELL HIM TO TRY TO WORK HIS SHYT OUT..SHOW A LIL RESPECT FOR FOLKS MARRIAGE.. DUMB BITCHES. THAT'S WHY YALL HUSBANDS DO WHAT THEY DO.LET THAT WOMAN GRIEVE IN HER OWN WAY. I HOPE YOUR BABY DADDY LEAVE YO TIRED AZZ.


wonderful3

Mashonda oviously is hurting at this moment in time..and I can't blame her...it does take some time to get over relationships..(they are married)..depending on how long you will allow yourself to go down in the trenches...however, I am not sure why is she addressing AK..any andressing should be done with Swizz..I just sometimes wish people would do to other as they would want it to be done to self...leave these married men alone...have we gotten so far way from being respectful to one another...


ssljc

SHE NEEDS TO GET THE HELL OVER IT, RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGE ENDS. IF THAT MAN DIDNT WANT TO GO HE COULDNT HAVE BEEN TAKEN. LADIES, STOP LOOKING AT THE OTHER WOMEN, LOOK AT THE MAN U WERE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH, THE OTHER WOMAN OWES U NOTHING, THE MAN U WERE COMMITTED WITH IS THE ONE U SHOUDL HAVE AN ISSUE WITH. DAMN, Y EVEN BOTHER, SOMEONE WANTS TO GO LET THEM! DAMN, NOTHING IS GUARANTEED IN THIS LIFE, WE CAN ALL JUST HOPE EVERYTHING WE DO, WORKS OUT. LET IT GO ALREADY!


wonderful3

MSWin..you said it respectfully and perfectly.


Smarie21

I have to ride with Mashonda on this one. Alicia and her knew each other and Alicia knew her as Swizz's wife. The vows were between Swizz and Mashonda, but "thou shall not covet thy neighbors husband". Alicia is wrong and Mashonda can't just move on and not care because she has a son that is missing his daddy. That is hard for any mother to deal with. When you try to move on your baby asks about daddy regardless of who left who. Cut Mashonda some slack


misslady09

i have no more respect for AK that is sum messed up sh*t she did i would have neva thought she would b a homewrecker she of all ppl should know that KARMA is a bi*ch


the_disputed_truth

IF I WAS MASHONDA, I WOULD BE THROWING A MUTHAFUCKIN PARTY RIGHT NOW. FUUCK WRITING A LETTER AND THIS OTHER BULLSHYT. BITCHES NEED TO START CELEBRATING DIVORCE & BAD BREAK UPS

Right. We need to stop treating men like they're a prize & value ourselves more. I'm shocked & disappointed in AK! I beleive M was stalking AK's page & saw this as an opportunity to lash out. Nothing AK says will make her feel better & why are we quicker to forgive the men than the other woman? It's natural to hurt but at some point she needs to move on, even if it's with the help of counseling.


Girly-Girl

I feel that a lot of people are caught up in the status of these two. They are a no diff from the next man when it comes to affairs of the heart. Celebs do the same stuff the everyday Joe & Hoe doest. We must realized that when we see them doing their thing rappin, singing & etc. that is their job! After the lights go down they are just like you & me and that women is as hurt as any other women who's family has been torn apart by an affair and Alicia K. is the same as any other homewrecker and Swiss B. is the same as any other cheater. They have to pay for their sins too!


FASTBLACK

GET OVER IT HONEY.... NO WOMAN CAN STEAL A MAN THAT DOESN'T WANT TO GO.

MOVE ON & DON'T PLAY YOURSELF.

FU&K BOTH OF THEM



imoonah

There are issues to be resolved. I think Mashonda has a point,however, Swiss needs to be driving it not her. Man up cause you [EXPLETIVE] up in not handling it correctly. You could be attracted to AK all day but you had a convenant in place before God/Your Marriage. Alicia is a home wrecker and very selfish... Right or wrong he was married and the answer to your advances is NO. First of all he was disrespecting AK by asking her to creep with him... Self respect first then demand he hold it down.. other then that you just talking .... actions baby.. do your wife right that shows me


imoonah

If you can't handle your family key word YOUR then what do I have coming. There could be mad chemistry, great conversation etc... I should be able to have all that and no be expected to creep.. That is where I lost a whole like of respect for AK.. Cause she did not respect herself, Mashonda as a women and sistah nor the son. HOME WRECKER. NO would have at least kept her name out of the drama. Let him move 2 the next fool.that gets off on swag. That is what women should get over.. Mashonda is looking for closure. and she is right if AK gonna be around it is better 2 b women about if she no how


imoonah

They talk the talk by walking the walking doesn't this apply to all those lyrics that AK thinks up in her head. Reality is a bitch. walk the walk sistah or do I use that too losely for her.


Baxby

I have always like Mashonda. It's a shame this happened to her. It definitely puts Alicia Keys in a different light. SMH...affairs of the heart makes life so complicated.


lilbuddhameditation

God dont like ugly & thy will surely fall. Whts gross is that thy look so much alike. All she needs is a fade.


Ragazza79

ALCIA KEYS FAKE LIKE ALL THE REST OF THEM, EVERYONE ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT PALSTIC SURGERY AND MICHAEL JACKSON NOSE THIS AND THAT, BUT WHY NOBODY NEVER TALKS ABOUT ALICIA KEYS NOSE JOB. SHE SO FAKE, TALK ALL THIS BLACK EMPOWERMENT, AND BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL, BUT WHY DID YOU GO UNDER THE KNIFE ALICIA AND CHANGE YOUR BLACK NOSE THAT YOU INHERITED FROM YOUR JAMAICAN FATHER TO A EUROPEAN NOSE? THEN SING SONGS LIKE" A WOMEN WORTH" AND ALL THIS AND THAT, AND SLEPT WITH SOMEONE HUSBAND, I KNOW NO ONE IS PERFECT, BECAUSE ITS A BIG DIFFERENCE , WHEN YOU TRY TO PORTRAY YOU DON'T DO THIS AND THAT,


VivaLaGlam

i dont wanna hear shyt swizz is wrong but just because alicia is a humanitarian it does NOT exempt her from homewrecking! She new he was married with a child and like mashonda sed she shud have respect that as a WOMAN and not interfere with her marriage she deserves to b put out on blast thats what she gits for tweeting about it!


ayanacarm13

DANG ! ! ! Alicia out of all people !!! But mmand em be da ones ! ! ! She's such an unclassy chick for that and so many people have lost respect for ol gurl. You DO NOT [EXPLETIVE] with married people . Shonda did ha thing tho !


CeCe_716

she's right


Carmel7

Alicia is a home wrecker & Karma is a beyotch!! She will get hers one day don't worry Moshonda.


aROB

Mashonda told her right. Alicia should have respected what they had. Doesnt seem like Mashonda is saying anything to get her husband back. She just saying alicia and her gone have to be cordial. so she feels more comfortable with her ex for the sake of the child.


Tjlove777

She is blaming Alicia, first of all Alicia has NO obligation to her, her HUSBAND does. So she needs to talk it out with him. I wouldnt give her and explination either. Swizz is FOUL!


djjay

COMING FROM SOMEONE WHO IS HAPPILY MARRIED, THE ONLY CONCLUSION I COULD COME TO IS SWIZZ IS STILL BEATIN THAT...DIRTY GAME


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I have been married for six years and i"m here to tell you that women don't give a damn about my husbands wedding band. Women flirt with him all the time we laugh about it because he's not going anywhere he"ll die with out me but yeah, there are a lot of hurt sisters out here, a lot and as they say HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE its a shame.



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theREALthang

Wow...I am completely taken back by how heartless and cold some of you women are as demonstrated by your comments. I've learned the hard way that many women use their personal relationship with a man whether she is an aunt, mother, sister, sex partner, etc. to lure a man away from his family. Aren't you all tired of seeing broken homes, especially in the black community?! It's a man's OBLIGATION to MAKE it work with their kids mother, it's the right thing to do!!!!! Homewreckers like Alicia Keys are just plain WRONG! No excuses will do!!!!


huhduh10

well said


huhduh10

some women would rather go after a married man with the aim to get him fr his wife and would even go a far as to have a child , them preach im a christian ... my question is , is it worth it , no it is not , it just makes you a wh ore with a child , mrs beatz i gave u props fro the way u have dealt with him and her ....


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blackbarbie773

Don't get me wrong but i love all of these people but how is alicia a homewrecker you can't stop dick and [EXPLETIVE] and if swizz anit have it in him to be up front with mashonda and just let her know what was what then that's on him don't be mad at akeys cause he [EXPLETIVE] with her now. she's is not a homewrecker she was just on the recieving end


muah31103

Wow blackbarbie773 are you serious....since when is it not being a homewrecker when you're dating a married man? At that a man that she knooooooowwwws is married. Not one that lied to her. I really believe that people...black people at that need to seriously check their morals and values. It is very alarming how people think marriage is just a game.


teenz

it happenes everyday. men don't care if there's a newborn baby, if ur pregnant, whatever. if they want something, they're gonna get it. point blank period. this just shows us that even the rich and famous are not exempt from such issues. probably get hit even worse... temptation is a bytch


Ransomed

She tried to act like she was Miss Thing with the morals and knowledge and she's nothing but a homewrecking skank! Shame on YOU Alicia.


Ransomed

aROB Flag post Mashonda told her right. Alicia should have respected what they had. Doesnt seem like Mashonda is saying anything to get her husband back. She just saying alicia and her gone have to be cordial. so she feels more comfortable with her ex for the sake of the child. **** Trust me, Alicia felt like she had it like that and was going to take this woman's man. I am thoroughly disgusted with her behind.


sistersthatpoint

I don't see what the big deal is, men leave their wives everyday. She did not take him, he went to her. Has anyone considered the fact that he may not have been happy in his marriage. It happens, she needs to move on and let this go.


townsj

Alicia Keys does not owe this woman anything. Swizz Beatz owed her his loyalty. How can Alicia be called a home wrecker when her husband was the one who lived in her home? He was the one who got up in front of the preacher or whoever and vowed to love, honor and cherish her. I learned (from experience) that a woman can do no more to a man than he lets her do. You can't make a person want you no matter what's involved( children, property, money, cats, dogs etc.) She just needs to stop blaming Alicia Keys for the break-up of her marriage and realize that God is the only man she can trust!!!!!


MSTEXAZ

I'M NOT GOING TO LIE I LOVE A.KEYS BUT I REALLY HAVE LOST RESPECT FOR HER AFTER HEARING THIS WHEN IT FIRST CAME OUT AND TO THIS DAY SMH...


HerWifey

i commend mashonda she was very classy and respectful in her approach and that says alot about her character, i really like alicia keys and hope these two women can sit down and talk things out.


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theREALthang

Some of you just sound plain 'ole ignorant, raped of all morals without a clue. One of you said " you can't stop d*** and p*****," since when did those two equal LOVE? Since when did those two justify breaking a VOW furthermore a FAMILY? If Swizz wasn't happy in his marriage, as a man, he should have felt like he had no choice but to make it work! . It looks like the root of this issue is accountability. Alicia keys should not have made herself available to a married man! POINT BLANK PERIOD!!!


GossupGirl

fo


chinkyiis

She played herself with that. who cares how you feel, "mrs. whoever you are". Why didn't you speak to her on the phone why put it out there for all to see. you think you're making her look bad, but really you look like a fool. cause she is being pictured all over the world with your "husband".


muah31103

If you would have read....she tried to reach out to her....C'mon black people we gotta do better....


disco_davis

At the end of the day, what comes around goes around. I don't blame Mashonda for taking as much as she can from this trick and his trick (AK), as thy have taken from her. Her self-esteem has taken a dive because she is human! I don't understand Alicia, she doesn't need him or his money, wtf?


wow2much

just move on sweetie


QuitaVs.Cookie928

She is a home wrecker and she will most def.ly get that she deserves, only time will time. I lost all respect for her, she should have been a woman instead of an immature ass little girl.