: For those of y'all reading from cellphones - here's what it says:
[Boy]: I can't remember any of my anger management shit..and my teeth feelin num from me grinding..it's funny how life is. a lot of my friends treat they parents like shit and they parents try to still love em..I swear I treat my parents better than anything and yet I still get everything thrown in my face. I swear imma stop ...being the old stef..cuz I could be like everyone else and really not give a fuck 5 hours ago[Boy's Friend]: S***, just breathe! Breathe your way thru whateva it is and know that you are a kid that any sane parent would be proud to have. Nothing good comes from anger...you can't think you can't grow, you can't shine. You were born to shine, so don't let ANYBODY lead you into the darkness....Love ya, Man! Call me if you need to talk! 5 hours ago
[Mother]: Just got home and read ur FB. Now let me sound off, u don't have but 1 parent because the other piece of shit don't do anything 4 ur ass. The only parents u have still try to keep u in the fly gear, driving on 22's, and u don't work. May be for the rest of the year until u go to school or get out, u ride the bus, get a job, make better grades and still have a curfew. U will do what I say, when I say it and with a smile. And those friends who does what they want to their parents, that is y they don't live n my house. You get a lot of freedom until now. Don't let ur fingers write a check ur ass can't cash. about an hour ago
[Mother]: Now cuss on FB again and u won't have an account, nor phone nor computer. Don't 4get whohouse u live n son. I don't play with children especially mines. I am ur parent not ur friend. Try me if u like.
1st off theres absolutely nothing wrong with a parent being their childs friend. nothing at all.i hate when i hear people say (despite everyone is entitled to their own opinion) parents shouldnt be friends with their kids. says who? as a parent who just need to know with what n where to draw the line. my daughter didnt even reach her teens yet n shes my friend n vice versa. i always tell her if she has anything to tell me good or bad to dont be afraid to talk to me. i wanna be a mother and a friend to my kids. it should be like that. just know when to draw the line
Unlike some people on here I LOVE the Facebook stories.
Lol he is trippin' though. You think I'd talk bad 'bout my parents when they buy me e v e r y t h i n g? They pay my tuition, got me my car, and even though I've bought a lot of my clothes and shoes my self, they still have bought some of it and they buy me much more.
That is sooo something my mom would say though lol. When I was younger I would bring up the "but my friends .." 'speech' until I learned that's not the wisest thing to do.
loves it! all you people with bad ass kids need to pay attention! kids can only get away with what you let them. Give their ass a inch, they will try to take a mile. Don't be lazy. correct them when they are young, let them know you run [EXPLETIVE]. they will only get worse as they get older. I've got some bad ass nephews I watch run [EXPLETIVE] in their house cause their parents didn't raise them right.
nywoman23 - i believe people were talking about friend on Facebook
But I do agree with you, my mom is also a friend - I think parents should be of course a parent first and also a friend. I have friends who can't tell their moms anythinggg so they do a whole bunch of sneaky stuff behind their parents back(s), but my mom and I go out a lot, we talk about things, etc I don't have to lie or hide anything because since we're so open - she trusts me.
WELL I GUESS I'LL BE THE ONE TO SAY IT...
THE MOTHER SHOULD NOTTT BE TALKING ABOUT THIS KID'S FATHER TO THE KID LIKE THAT. IT'S OBVIOUS FROM WHAT SHE WROTE "PIECE OF [EXPLETIVE] WHO BLAH BLAH" SHE MUST HAVE BEEN TALKING ABOUT THE FATHER SINCE THE KID WAS LITTLE. YOU DON'T DO THAT INFRONT OF YOUR CHILDREN NO MATTER HOW BAD THE OTHER PARENT IS. YOU ARE THE ADULT IN THE SITUATION.
Now that is the type of mama I remember having. You do not disrespect the people who take care of you, and kids these days have no respect for their parents. She put his ass on blast and he deserved it. More parents should take her lead and take care of your own damn kids. Tired of seeing them on the news and on the judge shows looking like some damn idiots.
Well all I could say being on the outside looking in is that whoever his friend is that responded on Face Book gave him some positive and good sound advice while trying to remain NEUTRAL. As for some young people that still live at home,depend on their parents for everything financially down to their food and personal needs but want to be considered GROWN at the same time always feel they are being wronged and their parent or parents should mind their business and leave them alone. However the mother in this case sounds level headed and right on point and if SON don't like it move on!
OMG!! I am soo feeling the mom on this one. Brings back so many memories *tear* lol It didnt matter where we were, if we disrespected our mom or did anything she didnt approve of, we got it right then and there so I am all for moms putting him on blast where he put her on blast! It sounds like this kid has it made, how dare he try to go in on mom for anything!!
moms put it down, and i LOVE it. you see homeboy gets everything he wants, and its still not enough! y does he want to be like everybody elese? thats the problem with youth today, they want to follow and NOT lead, and that there is what gets us in trouble. to the youth use your own minds, be leaders not fowllers!
This reminds me of the guy who went to rob a check cashing place and the white lady he was robbing prayed with him. He left the money and turned himself in. Later on Oprah, he said he couldn't go to his own mom and talk to her, that he felt the love of God coming from a total stranger, who was the lady he was robbing. His mom cried, and said she was sorry for not being there for him, even though she was 'there' for him. She didn't realize he was going through emotional problems, like anger. It's not about what u DO for a kid financially. It's about being THERE emotionally, giving him/her your ear when they feel upset or angry. Too many angry parents raising angry kids and wondering why the cycle keeps repeating. 2 wrongs don't make a right, she could have dealt with this privately and showed some maturity.
@the_lady, u r so right! many of times i didnt feel like being bothered. you know being tired from work or something, my husband also. we always found time for the kids. they r grown and on their own, but we still have famiy nights. it may sound corny but once a week they come and hang out with us if they r not too busy! lol!
@ The _Lady...I cosign!!!! No one payed attention to the iggnorance exhibited by the mother. "I keep you in fly gear, 22" inches etc..and (as if this is punishment) "You can get out or ride the bus, get a job and make better grades" EXCUSE ME!! Why does he have those materialistic items if he wasn't exercising his full potential in and out of school to begin with. She's setting him up for faliure, trust me I know. Instilling character traits and life skills in your children are far more priceless!!
I want to know what the hell he was complaining about in the first place! I dont have kids but I mean, she probably just got home from working a job she hates and read too much into his venting. Instead of handling it with compassion, she went straight for his jugular, and did some venting of her own (i.e. her being a single parent). But I do commend her for trying to rectify the situation, some parents wouldnt have done that much.
my children 1.bristol 2.track 3.trigg 4.willow 5.piper know better then to talk IIISH bout their mother
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Good for you MOM. They can do what they want - when they get their own to do it with. And as I said - internet is going to get some child/teen and young adult in a lot of trouble. Not counting the ones who already have gotten in a lot of trouble posting on these sites. Why don't these DUMMIES learn. A wise man learns from some other Fools mistakes, not his own. I guess we don't make any wise men anymore, just internet junkies.
To persian princess you don't know the facts, the facts are what they are. His daddy dont do [EXPLETIVE], never has done [EXPLETIVE] for him or his siblings so you cant fault his mom for trying to kepp his ass in line. you alos can fault his mom for the [EXPLETIVE] his lamea ass daddy did by braking up the family after 15 years and cheating on his beautiful wife who is a business owner for a trick ass flight attendant whith no money. If his momma put it on facebook trust she went to his face with it. He knows not to be disrectful and stepped out of line , but im sure he wont do it again. Dont talk [EXPLETIVE] u dont know
I betcha' next time his ass will be careful what he say. That's the very reason why I don't say to much on my facebook page, and I'm careful as to what I say on my myspace page. I rather do it ole skool style....www.yahoo.com....lol at least that way the only person can read what you said is the person you sent the email to.
OMG boy you already know your momma is a fool! You know she don't play with kids!lol.. why would you make her act up! She is doing all she can with what she has.Be grateful for all the things that you have been given considering what has happened the last few years. Whoever your friend was that put you on blast they are not your friend!Learn from this,when u talk crazy she is always gonna check you!
I can see why he feels that way. Obviously mom may be a good provider, but she is lacking in the parenting dept. He wrote that so she could see and perhaps talked to him about it, but she just showed to the world that she sucks as a Mother. I would say boy go to school, get a good education, thank her for feeding and keeping a roof over your head all them years, and get the hell away. Why the hell do parents think that if they put food on the table and a roof over your end they are going above and beyond? That's just the frigging basics, even birds build a nest for their young.
this is the cyber equivalent of getting you A$$ beat in front of your friends!!!!!
Go head mama!
Any for all you folks talking about the moms shouldn't have responded on FB best believe he got it in person too!
Frontin like he in a two parent household! course he mama was mad b/c she pay all the bills with no help from dad!
We need more mothers like that, kids are very rude and disrespectful nowadays. And they need to be check, when i was growing up, there was NO talking about and it took me further down the road as i got older. Hell we need fathers like that, especially in this world that we are living in, every child need to be put in a child place. All its going to do is make them a better person.
That's right. My neice is terrible. She is a manipulative little wench. I hate to say that about a 7 year old but you have some kids who are totally ungrateful. When I was in high school, I worked, and helped pay my parents bills without them asking me to. My dad gave me his old Pontiac 6000 that would overheat LOL. I didn't get a new car until I started college and needed a more dependable ride, but I worked too. Some parents are neglectful, but momma is supplying this fool with 22's, he isn't even in school, rent free, latest fashions. I wish my parents would have spoiled me like that.
WE NEED MORE PARENTS LIKE THIS MOTHER HERE... YOU'RE DOING A GREAT JOB MA'AM.... God bless you both!
I love this part right here: "Don't let ur fingers write a check ur ass can't cash. Now cuss on FB again and u won't have an account, nor phone nor computer. Don't 4get whohouse u live n son. I don't play with children especially mines. I am ur parent not ur friend. Try me if u like!!!!"
I'll chuck it up to some of yall being young, childless, not having any ethnicity, or no (real) mother. She was so on-point w/her parenting.
Im sure she did speak w/her son in person after writing this. DUH! She lives w/him & obviously the problem wasnt over when she clicked "SEND"
He painted a picture of unhappiness w/his mother for the world to read, so she set the record str8 while running it down to him.
The daddy stuff? Ever raise a child ALONE, worked fulltime, taken classes, paid all daycare/household bills and daycare w/o help just to have the child grow up to be ungrateful?
we are not talking about a young child here with sensitive ears. We are talking about a (young) man trying to be grown and forgetting what his mom has done for him. If she was bashing the father his whole life, his perspective on life in general would have been different.
This is obviously a working-class woman who sacrificed for her child to have while the dad was nowhere in sight. this is why fathers are so important. Its so hard to raise a boy into a man-especially for a lady.
BOTTOM LINE--he is spoiled and has just gotten a huge life lesson.
obviously there are several things u do not understand..so let me help u:
Cultural Dictionary
ethnicity [(eth-nis-uh-tee)]
Identity with or membership in a particular racial, national, or cultural group and observance of that group's customs, beliefs, and language.
Note: Many minority groups in the United States maintain strong ethnic identity; especially in cities, immigrants are often attracted to ethnic communities established by people from their own country, communities in which many traditional cultural features are maintained. (See melting pot.)
..but ur still confused.
THATS WHY U DONT ADD YOUR PARENTS ON FACEBOOK!!!!! THATS WHY U DONT ADD YOUR PARENTS ON FACEBOOK!!!!! THATS WHY U DONT ADD YOUR PARENTS ON FACEBOOK!!!!! THATS WHY U DONT ADD YOUR PARENTS ON FACEBOOK!!!!!
THATS WHY U DONT ADD YOUR PARENTS ON FACEBOOK!!!!!
THATS WHY U DONT ADD YOUR PARENTS ON FACEBOOK!!!!!
THATS WHY U DONT ADD YOUR PARENTS ON FACEBOOK!!!!!
i know that's right! Grown azz kids talking mess and can't take care themselves. It is not the point you shouldn't add your parents to your fb- point isnot to be talking mess especially about the woman who had u fed cloth u-basically who is busting her azz to give u not only your needs but your wants. It's amazing how ignorant some of you are. I wish mine might think about getting out of line....lol.....never to old to get jumped on.....i truly believe in I BROUGHT U HERE AND I WILL TAKE U AWAY!
R U ALL SERIOUS?
A TRULY GOOD MOTHER WOULD NOT " keep u in the fly gear, driving on 22's" REGARDLESS OF HOW GOOD OR BAD YOU MAY BE. NICE VALUES--TEACH HIM TO BE A STUPID LITTLE SHEEP. "FLY GEAR" AND "22'S"...SAD
TO THOSE WHO THOUGHT SHE TAUGHT HIM SOMETHING--YOU STUPID!!! KIDS LEARN FROM EXAMPLE, BEHAVIOR, NOT FROM ***EMPTY*** WORDS.
SO MOMMA'S JUST REINFORCING THE OVER THE TOP CONSUMER CULTURE THAT WILL KEEP POOR PEOPLE POOR...DIGUSTING
