: MediaTakeOut.com learned that rapper Slim Thug made the following comments in a recent interview with Vibe Magazine:
It's hard to trust a Black woman because a lot of Black women's mind frame is that the man gotta do everything for her - he gotta pay for this, he gotta pay for that, and if it ain’t about money then a lot of them ain't ****ng with him. If that’s what you’re here for then I don’t want to be with you.Don’t you hate when these RAGGEDY AZZ dudes try and sh*t on Black women and try and act like they are some kinda SPECIAL BREED of gold digger.Most single Black women feel like they don’t want to settle for less. Their standards are too high right now. They have to understand that successful Black men are kind of extinct. We’re important. It's hard to find us so Black women have to bow down and let it be known that they gotta start working hard; they gotta start cooking and being down for they man more. They can’t just be running around with their head up in the air and passing all of us.
I have a brother that dates a White woman and he always be ****ing with me about it saying, "Y'all gotta go through all that **** [but] my White woman is fine. She don’t give me no problems, she do whatever I say and y’all gotta do all that arguing and fighting and worry about all this other ****.'"
My girl is Black and White. I guess the half White in her is where she still cooks and do all the **** that I say, so we make it. She just takes care of me and I like that. She don’t be begging and I don't gotta buy her all this crazy ass ****. And she’s a smart girl too. She graduated from Columbia [University] and I like that about her so it’s cool. I’ve dated girls that will buy a $3,000 bag and don’t know how to pay it off on their credit cards. They walk around in these Louis Vuittons and red bottoms but they’re riding around in raggedy cars, so it’s just getting your priorities right.
White women treat they man like a king and Black women feel like they ain’t gotta do that *****. Black women need to stand by their man more. Don’t always put the pressure of if I'm ******ing with you, you gotta buy me this and that. Black men are the ones that mother****ers need [but] I think a lot of them need to step it up too. A Black man who gets a little bread will go make it rain in the club and be broke the next day or instead of him going to invest in a business he gonna go buy new jewelry or a new car and still live in the hood. Black peoples’ mentality is real ****ed up in general [and] it’s affecting everything.
Black women need to be more genuine and be more 50/50 [but] It should be a fair exchange in a relationship period or eventually somebody is gonna feel like they’re getting ****ed over whether it’s the woman or the man. I think that will help Black relationships out a lot.
Why doesn't he ask TIGER WOODS . . . or OJ SIMPSON whether they STILL believe that we're all THAT DIFFERENT from White women . . .
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Aint no bigger gold digger than white chicks. Those bit.ches have been trained from birth to get the money. They are taught to stay with their cheating as.s. husbands to make sure the keep the money. White Bit.ches aint new to that game, they are true to that shi.t! Black women are trying to feel themselves around, still finding their way. They aint got the Gold Digging Game down packed yet!!
Not sure about the white women does everything I want comment,but it seems like women are defiant towards men from the gate on a lot of traditional issues. Who needs someone reminding them constantly how they are independent and can do for themselves. I say that's great! Go forth and be fruitful without me and continue the hunt. just my opinion.Thats not being a partner if you don't have my back 100%.
@naaneci--same here mama. fuc him, who is he again anyway??? any minority women that still work with this dude are self haters. wow, i hate to see so many of our people hatin ourselves and each other...mikeharris i see you have graduated to white girls, now the light sistas aint even worth your time huh? lookin glossy as a bytch again today again. you aint even light skinned yourself...
i once dated a black man who told me some sh!t like that. the white girl gave him money and paid his bills. i showed that n!gger the door! BLACK WOMEN BOYCOTT THIS N!GGER. DON'T BUY THIS N!GGER'S MUSIC! AND LET'S THANK WHITE WOMEN FOR DATING AND MARRYING THIS BLACK TRASH! BLACK WOMEN DATE OUTSIDE YOUR RACE. MOST OF THESE GHETTO NEGROES ARE GAY ANYWAY!
1st of all if all black women r gold diggas how come alot of black females stay commited2n!ggaz n jail r take care of n!ggaz who dont have job puttin money on n!ggas books n jail white women r ur true gold diggas they scounge around like buzzards4black athletes whether its baseball basketball football n golf say hi2elin woods4me u c all white women married2rich men bot black women marryin rich guys look at larry kings wife mel gibson's girlfriend
So this coon basically said black men and black women aren't sh!t. Ok...Successful black men are practically extinct, eh Slim Thug? What are you saying with that comment? That the majority of black men are unsuccessful and worthless? Then his comments on black women? Get a clue. Does he really think that half white chick he with or any Kim Kardashian type woman is going to date a black man who picks up garbage?Nah...they're gold diggers worse than we ever will be
he 1000% on point with what he said. these raggedy hoes now a days all about money. you can be the best dude in the world, treat her like a queen, do nice things for her, but if your not making the kind of money she wants you to then its a wrap. its funny how that works cause these black chicks be having worse jobs then men working a kfc as a casiher. black bitches need to make they own money and get educated.
SLIM YOU A FOOL IF YOU THINK THAT THERE ARE NO WHITE HOOD BOOGAS. COME TO BED-STUY AND YOU SEE WHITE CHICKS ACTING JUST AS NIGGERISH AS A BLACK CHICK. YOU HAVE PLENTY OF EDUCATED, ALL-BLACK FEMALES WHO DON'T NEED TO ASK A MAN FOR ANYTHING...MYSELF INCLUDED. LIVE A LITTLE LONGER SON, THEN SPEAK ON A SUBJECT YOU KNOW ABOUT.
WOW.. THESE R UR RAPPER U MAKE RICH SO THEY CAN GET A BECKY!!! WOW.. THESE R UR RAPPER U MAKE RICH SO THEY CAN GET A BECKY!!! WOW.. THESE R UR RAPPER U MAKE RICH SO THEY CAN GET A BECKY!!! WOW.. THESE R UR RAPPER U MAKE RICH SO THEY CAN GET A BECKY!!!
DID GARY COLEMAN FEE THE SAME WAY ABOUT BECKY'S? DID GARY COLEMAN FEE THE SAME WAY ABOUT BECKY'S? DID GARY COLEMAN FEE THE SAME WAY ABOUT BECKY'S? DID GARY COLEMAN FEE THE SAME WAY ABOUT BECKY'S?
I HATE IG-NIGS(CELEBS)
EVERYONE IS MATERIALISTIC- DEVIL WORLD!!!!!
...I'm sorry, Mr. Thug and other dishonest brothers. What you attract is a reflection of you. It's not like your meet women while networking or at a place of worship or while attending an alumni event. If you walking around in jeans,cornrows and enough bling to feed a small nation at a club or picnic area should you be shocked. Don't blame Black women as a group because you don't have it in you to pull better women especially if you represent yourself as a lesser man.
BLACK WOMEN HAVE BEEN SINCE THE BEGINNING AND IT IS IN OUR BLOOD TO BE QUEENS- JUST AS BLACK MEN HAVE THE SWAGGER OF OUR NATIVE KINGS!!!!!!!!
Since slavery respect has been an issue for our race.. black man want to run to becky fake solving the problem and then expect a becky to be able to raise a real black king. proud of his heritage-
is slim thug mom white?
WE ALL DESERVE BETTER!!!!!
THAT IS LIKE SAYING
BLACK MEN CAN'T STEP UP LIKE WHITE MEN AN PROVIDE!
BLACK MEN CAN'T STEP UP LIKE WHITE MEN AN PROVIDE!
BLACK MEN CAN'T STEP UP LIKE WHITE MEN AN PROVIDE!
BLACK MEN CAN'T STEP UP LIKE WHITE MEN AN PROVIDE!
@ watchMEshyne Honey you can't school me on how I refer to myself.. I say my race meaning Bi-Racial being a race which the term itself already states it consists of two races but if it makes you happy I can simpley say "My Races" {roll of the eyes} WTF!!
@Miiz uh okay If you think I got a huge a$$ forehead whoop ti do for you!! I don't get much complaints about it... If I was to make an observation on your photo I would have to say at least I don't have to take pictures in my underwear to get attention from men.... no ma'am that's what ugly chicks do to get attention... poor baby!
Slim may not be the most articulate cat but he's pretty much right. Black mothers raise their daughters to look for the diamond instead of the diamond in the rough that's why the merry goes round and everything is all f'd up in the black household. On the other hand most white women will ride and die with yo ass fo real. I would love to find a good black woman but I just wanna be her man not her psychologist.
[EXPLETIVE] that uneducated man. Where the [EXPLETIVE] were these fair haired whores when you all couldnt even look at them without being stabbed beat shot and mauled? where the [EXPLETIVE] were these fair haired bitches when you were being [EXPLETIVE] on by them digging their yards up with bare hands? ARE YOU SERIOUS? Wow another uneducated [EXPLETIVE] running around solely making money off of singing...you dont need no REAL education for that. Like your ass is somebody special..WHY NOT WANT MORE OUT OF YOUR MATE? I sure the hell do not want some dumb sounding ignornant ass man behind me for [EXPLETIVE]!
WOMEN ARE GOLD-DIGGERS PERIOD. BUT HERE'S THE TWIST; THE MEN SET IT UP THAT WAY SO THEY COULD USE MATERIAL THINGS TO GET WOMEN WHO WOULD OTHERWISE NOT BE INTERESTED IN THEM. IT WAS A GOOD DEAL WHEN MEN HAD BETTER EARNING POTENTIAL THAN WOMEN BUT NOW THAT WOMEN HAVE THEIR OWN, IT SEEMS UNFAIR TO A LOT OF MEN THAT THE WOMEN STILL FEEL ENTITLED TO GETTING PAID TO BE WITH THEM.
#1 “Most single Black women feel like they don’t want to settle for less. Their standards are too high right now. They have to understand that successful Black men are kind of extinct.”
VERY TRUE successful black man ARE EXTINCT, Black women out number black men 4:1 in obtaining Bachelor degrees, and 3:1 in Professional degrees.
AND HERE IS WHERE THE PROBLEM LIES, instead of Black men embracing these facts, stepping their game up, or even being proud of the fact that their other half (black women) are stronger, brighter, and more willing than ever to find a successful black men to love and be down for. They run away and date hood rats who indeed spend their money and wreck havoc because according to black men like Mr. Slim Thug here stated above “WOMEN HAVE TO BOW DOWN” Black men are their own worse enemies, life is not about finding the easy way out and men and women regardless of race will get burnt every time they seek to do so.
#2 “White women treat they man like a king and Black women feel like they ain’t gotta do that *****. Black women need to stand by their man more.”
REALLY??? The number of black women standing by their man and refusing to leave while he cheats, is incarcerated, or trying to figure himself out is astronomical. My Mother chased my father around for 30+ years, while she raised 4 children on her own and I hated her for it, to this day she has not divorced him, even though he fathered other children. And trust the reason why so many black families consist of single parent households is due to similar circumstances. NO race of women will ever collectively love and appreciate blk men as blk women do. A gold digger is gold digger she has no color, and the majority of white women athletes, celebrities, etc. date and marry are housewives who are jobless and have no education, where’s the 50/50 equation slim thug seeks, and because they bow down they’re better than black women? SMDH
TRUST, a black women sees a good catch or a bad apple, just as a black male does, if she chooses to keep it stepping more power to her, because black men made that decision a long time ago, and practice it daily. SLIM THUG WHO???
I'm shame for black men that feel this way. White women are the ORIGINAL gold diggers! Slim is crazy if he thinks black women are the only women that like n*99az with money. Every athlete with a white woman is with a white woman that looked past his color to the color of money. You and all other black men that date "other" women are delusional if you believe one is better over the other and not just "different" based on culture. AND There are plenty of white women who have been turned into angry black women after dealing with a trifling a$$ n*99a!
He's a damn liar. No graduate of Columbia University would give him the time of day once they hear his dialect and vernacular. He speaks as though he didn't get past the 3rd grade. I personally find that most AA men in general are quite frugal. I have an Italian Amer. friend for 17 years & all she's ever dated were AA men and she even states that they can be 'quite mean & stingy'. I still don't know why she exclusively dates them if she feels that way (?) *My captcha is 'spenders ing' lol really?
Im No GoldDigger But This Is Offensive.. No One Cares What This Irrelevant Rapper Has 2 Say.. He Dnt Have 2 Put His Own Race [Blacks] Down.. All Black Woman Aren't Like That.. So He Just Need 2 STFU Cuz He Sounding Real Dumb Right Abt Now..
& If He Dnt Want Ne Thing 2 Do w/ Blacks Then That's Fine.. Just Another Loser Off The Market 4 Us Black Woman..
Black men kill me with that black woman need to step there game up. We been stepped our game up, more of us making our own money then you fools. I am glad that I do not purchase none of these lazy bombs records. Black women are holding it down when all black men can think about is themselves. He look slow and sound ignorant,and I hate calling ppl that but this fool is Numero Uno for an ignorant azz [EXPLETIVE].
Come on Slim. Lets be fair. ALL WOMEN are selfish gold diggers. A poor man will get dropped like a hot potato for cheating but as long as the Gucci bags & diamond jewelry keeps flowing in a rich man can cheat all he wants. Unless the b*tch is really greedy & decides to try to divorce the rich man to try to get 1/2 of his assets. Either way,ALL WOMEN are selfish gold diggers. Any nicca who thinks different has a lot of growing up to do.
TRUTH BE TOLD, white women date black men with $$$$$$$$$ I don't see too many white chicks doing all those things Slim Thug mentioned for dudes in the hood, NO SIR! Come on now dude get a grip you just mad that black women are making their own $$$ and we don't have to be submissive to coniving antics, let them white chicks have you 'cause I don't know too many sistas that would anyways!!!!!!!! Trust and beleive if you lived in the slums that white B!tc# would not even look twice at you!
...and ladies please don't read that with a simple mind, for 80% of of you if you really really handling your business with your man....he will NOT cheat and he will love and support you. UNFORTUNATELY, the first thing most black women do when there is a problem is that they hold back sex and affection from their man (greatest mistake ever!!!) Your man should never-ever-ever leave the house with his ego vulnerable, cause a skeezer's always watchin...lol
Idont understand how people are saying 'yeah, for the most part he's right, girls are materialistic', because if thats the case, what do you call the men with all the bling and flat screens in the back of their car window that they can't even see? Whats that? They have gold diggers, materialistic people, and ignorance in ALL races. What do you say about the black women who TAKE CARE of the broke azz men who sit at home playing XBox and on myspace all day? What do you call Gary Colemans wife who's trying to make money off of him despite his death? What do you call Kim Kardashian who (cont)
SMH typical coon! How are you going to say in the same breath "black women need to start cooking" then turn around and call them gold diggers?
So let me get this straight men can DEMAND that women need to stop complaining and cook, f*ck them all the time AND clean. But when a woman wants a man who don't live off his mama and wants him to be faithful(which is were the arguments come in) they are just nagging gold digging bitches?
I swear to god I don't know what you men think. That is a stupid bullsh!t statement. Black women are strong which is why black men can't handle them. Punk ass.
jumped from Ray J to Reggie Bush? and what about these white chicks who jump on these sugar daddy millionaire websites? What do you call ALLLLL of Hugh Hefners (dont know how to spell it) girlfriends who kiss him in the mouth, say they love him and then bounce after they get their own 'status' (Love u Kendra lol) Black men need to stop being so 1 sided about things and if u ACT right and stop stickn ur d!ck everywhere and hitting us, maybe we would shut our mouths sometime...
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He's not talking about gold diggers...he's talking about women who are programmed on brands. Women who live their lives about what they wear and how much money they can give up for it. We used to be Kings & Queens...we used to love first..we created our own riches...we invested in each other...Most of us do treat our men like they are nothing if they don't follow this plan that was not created by God. IMO God did not create our men to sit in a office all day to spend money on indian hair & Gucci. We give all this money to companies that don't give a [EXPLETIVE] about us but won't buy from each other.
That dude told the 100% truth. These birds on here are gonna get mad and not want to hear it but there isn't one thing in there that isn't fact, and that is why so many of sisters are single. Instead of getting mad, y'all better pay attention.
And MTO for every Tiger, there's an AI, and for every OJ there's a Mike Tyson so that little line don't prove SHYT.
This right here is the pathology that permeates the black race like sewage. If one believes that men of other races don’t have to deal with materialistic women, I suggest you have a very myopic view of the world and need to get out more. No other race talks about it’s race of women like SOME black men. Wow, why did God have to make me part of such a sick, pathological race? I, do, however, thank God that there are so many intelligent brothers out there who do not hold to this mindset. The ones cosigning him (and this includes weak-minded, silly, easily influenced black women) share the same pathology that makes our race weak. I say, let’s cut out the cancer and reclaim our dignity.
When the media gives a voice to the obviously psychologically unbalance populace, it shows the state of our society. Here you have a “black man” publicly putting down the very women who look like him. Ironically enough, black men are the butt of the world’s hate, yet many of them still insist on downing the black women. It’s often said that one who criticizes much, is one that really needs the help.
Note to Slim Thug: Please use your energy and your obvious command of the English language to influence your black male counterparts whom cannot keep their azzes out of prison, from killing each other, and from other anti-social behavior. Take your biracial or white or whatever you date with you. I hope you and your treasures living happily ever after.
he does have a point. i'd say about 70% of black women don't do a damn thing they dont take care of their children, they dont go2 college, they don't work and their ass be acting uncivilized. They live off of government money, food stamps and free housing. Why should black dudes date us when majority of us black women don't do nothing for ourselves?
Its not about Slim not being happy with his life that he says whites r better than blacks. You think if a black man don't like black women they not happy with themselves or suffer from low self esteem? Your wrong! Think about how black females act and think about why black kids r [EXPLETIVE] up and have no motivation to do anything but live on the streets dealing drugs, committing crime, joining gangs and dropping out of school.
Sometimes when i see black people acting like animals and just being so destructive I am very embarrassed to be black. We as black females need to do better, take care of our children, go to college, get a good job and be able to provide for ourselves and our kids/family.
Sometimes I do wonder what goes through all u racist mofo's minds. You people forget that it is not your place to criticize what other people do or what race they choose to date. People are not forbidden to date out of their race and their is no law that states that blacks have to be with black, asians with asians, whites with whites and indians with indians. We will date who we want to its none of your business if god puts a black man with a white woman or vice versa who r u to make judgement? God is the only one to judge and we are our own people and we can date whoever we want whether u racist [EXPLETIVE] approve or not.
we'll keep loosing our men and living our lives out of harmony if we keep expecting them to buy high priced merchandise from companies who don't give back to our communties...Let all run out and give rich ppl all our money so they could hire people in other countries & pay them $3 a day to make you a $20 purse that you pay $7,000...a purse that is worth you giving up a beautiful family life for
@TheRealRuckus - no I suggest YOU pay attention. He isn't the kind of man I have nor would I want. What he needs to do is go back to school and learn to talk and write b/c his command of the English language is dreadful.
I think a lot of brothers have gotten uppity thinking b/c women of other races are checking you, that you hold the title to man of the universe. Well you don't. You are still hated world-wide, and you only add fuel to the fire when you make such assinine suggestion. People are laughing at you, not with you. Ya dig?
Sisters listen it is not all men who have turned on us..think for a minute about what he is saying...ABOUT WHAT OUR MEN HAVE BEEN SCREAMING TO US!!!!
Name Brands is the root of our ECONOMIC SLAVERY!! Stop caring about them and look at how many things fall into place.
Think about being happy & appreciative for the gifts God gave us that your man appreciates & provides..he can build & create for you with great love...but if he can't buy you those false man made created wealth you consider himj nothing... C'Mon Ladies.if we support our men & eachother more it would help US ALL ALOT!
Once again i live in Houston and Slim Thug does not hold a good name w/black women out here. no one wants him & he doesnt have money. Furthermore everyone knows that white women are the #1 gold diggers they just go about it in a different way. So if being a strong black woman that will not put up w/bullshit makes me a gold digger then that is a title i dont mind having...fyi: Slim thugs is extremly LAME!!
ROTLMFAOO@ SLIM THUG.... THE ONE WHO IS RIDING A BUS DUE TO GETTING IN TROUBLE LIKE A TYPICAL BLACK MAN RIGHT?? HIS OPINION IS HILARIOUS...HE'S WALKING AROUND SPENDING HIS "RAP MONEY" ON CHAINS AND TEETH AND GROUPIES BUT THEN COMPLAINS ABOUT IT???.... IF IT WASNT FOR GOLDIGGERS YOU WOULDNT HAVE SHYT TO RAP ABOUT...
CHARGE THAT TO YA CAREER AND FORGET ABOUT IT
Oh my poor ignorant race-kind. Please wake up from your stupor and look at YOUR heart and what YOU need to do. Directing criticizm at others is only a smokescreen for the issues YOU have to deal with. Oh, but then again, we all know black men are the pillars of society so they need no improvement. BWAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! Brothers, if you don't like sisters, keep from discussing us. We don't care if you bounce. Let some other woman be bothered, and when she finally wakes up, she'll just repeat what many black women have stated long ago.
BTW sisters - THEY DOG THE WHITE GIRLS TOO. LOL!!!!
WTF are you talking about @lookgoodfeelgood? Women like namebrand stuff? Have you EVER heard a rap song? Black men talk about namebrands more then women. You would never catch a black man wearing a non nike sneaker. Talking about Gucci, Louis Vutton, YLS, Versace etc. Lord help me some people I tell you.
He is right. Truth is every men is the product of their women, men cannot be successful without women and the sad truth is that black (African-American) women are a drag down to black men. Black men dating white women dont have financial troubles and headaches like those dating black women. White women raise their kids to be something for themselves, black women only raise kids that will be something for them.
While there may be some of us with that mentality there are a lot of Black Women who have their game on point! WE HAVE MORE DEGREES AND EDUCATION THAN MOST BLACK MEN! HOW ABOUT THE BLACK MAN STEP UP HIS GAME!!!!!! THERE ARE A LOT OF BLACK MEN THAT ARE BROKE BUSTERS OUT THERE !!!!!!!!!!!! THEY WANNA STAY AT YOUR HOUSE , EAT YOUR FOOD, DRIVE YOUR CAR ! Don’t TAKE CARE OF THEIR KIDS ! DON’T WANT TO WORK AND PROVIDE FOR THEIR FAMILIES !!!!!!!!!!!! STAY IN JAIL ! BLACK WOMEN ARE MORE INDEPENDENT ! WHITE WOMEN HAVE BEEN TAUGHT TO MARRY UP AND MARRY MONEY FROM CHILDHOOD! NOTHING BUT NEGATIVISM AGAINST BLACK WOMEN ALL THE TIME! Most black women support some of you busters ,but I don’t ! my husband is a well educated black man and myself as well is educated! We are equal! Don’t try and paint a picture like all Black Women are the same! Furthermore, Black Women you need to supporting these racist negroes that think so less of you!!!!!!! THEY ARE QUICK TO DEFEND OTHER RACES OF WOMEN AND TAKE CARE OF THEM WITH NO PROBLEM!
THE WORLD THE CREATE TODAY WITH ALL THIS HATRED TOWARDS YOUR OWN RACE OF WOMEN WILL BE THE WORLD YOU R BLACK DAUGHTER WILL LIVE IN TOMORROW ! YOU ARE NO BETTER THAN THE KKK!!!!!!!!!
@JaneDoefans I hope to god you aint a woman! And for that 70% of black women you claim don't do anything you can say 85% of black men don't do anything which is why most black children don't have fathers and why black men are the majority in the U.S. prisons. This sh!t can go back and forth allday. It's not the all black women who are like that stop painting everyone with the same brush. There are good and bad people of all races.
WTF are you talking about @lookgoodfeelgood? Women like namebrand stuff? Have you EVER heard a rap song? Black men talk about namebrands more then women. You would never catch a black man wearing a non nike sneaker. Talking about Gucci, Louis Vutton, YLS, Versace etc. Lord help me some people I tell you.~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I have some advice for you. Listen very closely. I know it might be hard because of the drone of the short yellow bus's motor beneath you, but give it a try:
"It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt."
^^^oppps, wrong quote. Sorry to the broken silence. I meant to quote this idiot (419boi):
He is right. Truth is every men is the product of their women, men cannot be successful without women and the sad truth is that black (African-American) women are a drag down to black men. Black men dating white women dont have financial troubles and headaches like those dating black women. White women raise their kids to be something for themselves, black women only raise kids that will be something for them.
Most black women are materialistic. They want a man who makes X amount of money, drives a certain type of car, and can provide a life of luxury for them. They dont always look into, or care about the dude's character, just about what he can provide for them. Why not provide for yourself instead of lookin for a baller to provide for you? Or why not learn how to grow together with a man and build wealth together instead of searching for a man who is already established? You see Basketball Wives, Real Housewives of Atl, etc. @sexytranny - You dont know any black women like this? You are in denial
Slim thug could of expressed himself with less controversy but overall the black community needs to improve by getting rid of the ignorance thug,goon,hood rat,dependant,complacent mentality! Now there are citizens in the black community who are about positive but because of society they received no recognition.
@WUTUPDOE313 - MOST? How many of the millions of black women have you met? You sound like so many brainless BM. How about this? MOST BM can't keep their azzes out of prison. MOST BM are unemployed. MOST BM don't have a pot to pizz in or a window to throw it out of. MOST BM are broke, thus sisters are holding it down. MOST BM hate themselves so much they are killing each other offSo now, genious, let me ask you? How can we want from someone who doesn't have S.H.I.T.? You do know BW on the average make more money than BM, right? I guess you don't read anything other than MTO. Boy, go buy a clue.
sweatmytechnique86 Slim thug could of expressed himself with less controversy but overall the black community needs to improve by getting rid of the ignorance thug,goon,hood rat,dependant,complacent mentality! Now there are citizens in the black community who are about positive but because of society they received no recognition. ~~~~~~~~ WE can't blame society for this. If black people weren't so brainwashed, we'd know better.
BTW: People read a book called, "Brainwashed." It will help you understand the demented psyche of many of our sisters and brothers.
I'm not going through all these comments. I can already predict them. I'm just glad I'm married and I don't have to pick from this poor selection. He made some valid points but he's being hypocritical. Dude called himself 'Slim THUG' and portrayed himself as a 'BALLER' and now he's complaining about gold diggers? LMAO.
But I saw his girl, and she's banging still. Having said that, this had a FEW valid points but his rant just made him look ignorant. I mean, he's trying to say his girl's white side made her more cultivated? SMH, these southern Negroes.
@Jamaicazstarr
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BLACK WOMEN THIS...BLACK WOMEN THAT...WTF It seems like the more the media broadcast their documentaries about black women etc, the more you hear people dog black women. ALL women like nice things and so do men! How many of these entertainers get "milked" by non-black women every year? Slim Broka sounds like a fool lol
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@brokensilence maybe in your world you dont see black women competing to look like they have the most money by investing in what they consider name brands. Maybe you don't see any black women treat each other like [EXPLETIVE] if they're not up to their speed on the latest "hot names" which don't include any of us...the people who they're buying from get their stuff for free cus they're friends of each other..we're the dumb ones going broke and hating each other if we're not all doing it..I want to live where you live
Yeah just bunch us all in one box why don't ya? THE PROBLEM WITH MEN IS THAT THEY WANT A VIDEO MODEL, SUPER STUCK UP BITCH THAT AIN'T HAD TO DO NOTHING FOR HERSELF EVER...IF YOU DATE THE SPOILED BITCHES WHO'S ONLY JOB IS TO GIVE GOOD HEAD, COOCHIE, AND THROW IT IN THE BAG, THEN YOU CAN'T COMPLAIN..THERE ARE PLENTY OF BEAUTIFUL, SUCCESSFUL, BLACK WOMEN OUT HERE WHO HOLD'S THEIR HOUSE AND THEIR BILLS DOWN WITH NO HELP...I'M ONE OF THEM!!!
So just like black women want men of a certain status, some men to decide to only date women of a certain status. So if black men treated women the same way most of them treat us, then what you got to offer US? Only date black women that make over $60k a year, no kids, have their own house/condo, drive a nice luxury car, have a college degree and look good. Not many black women are like that, but lots of white women are. Most black women can barely afford to take care of themselves alone, much less contribute to a man financially.
WUTUPDOE313--let's be fair and balanced here...
For all those shows you talk about, in an effort to prove that "most" black women are goldiggers, there are countless more White shows; Housewives of NY, NJ, Orange County, Kardashian's show, Girls next door w/ Hugh Heffner (sp?) etc...
If that's you're weak attempt at making a point, please come correct
Just take a critical listen to what he said, there is some truth to it. And I don't think he's bashing black women, he's expressing his opinion, something black people don't do. The first thing you posters do is talk about how little money he has now (proving his point) , he's been on both sides of this success thing, and it is a huge problem in black relationships.
IT'S NOT ABOUT BLACK VS WHITE..HE WENT WRONG THERE BUT THE REASON I'M NOT ADDRESSING THEY'RE NASTY GOLD DIGGING ASSES CUS I'M TRYING TO TELL YOU HOW THEY'RE GOLD DIGGIN ON YOU!!!! YOU'RE NOT GIVING YOUR MONEY TO BLACK BUSINESSES THEN WHO THE [EXPLETIVE] YOU THINK YOU GIVING YOUR MONEY TO??? WHITE GOLD DIGGERS...UGH..SMH
WUTUPDOE313 - Again, such pathological thinking. Let me ask you something? Do you like it when people generalize about BM? I’m sure the answer would be NO, so why must you and your ilk do the same. You sound as ignorant as racist whites who lump all people into the same container and label it. Think, son! THINK!!! You are just as bad as they. In fact, you are worse because you don’t know the millions of black women on the planet. Think about how dumb generalizations sound.
OH, BTW, black women are taking care of themselves. Are you nuts?
Black women R more successful & more educated than black men, check the stats. But successful BM dont marry successful, educated BW. Black male athletes, doctors, business owner wld rathed marry a broke, uneducated white housewife (or gold digger as we call it). How many white women marry average black men? But white women arent gold diggers, and BW need 2 lower their standards!?! SlimThug's comments only apply 2 hoodrats, hoochies & hoes that rapper-types attract. Shout out 2 Ludacris and his BLACK med school girlfriend. Maybe U'll start a trend.
Mann...1st of all y yall tripping on sumthing slim thug says..that ninja look like he 1 chromosome away from being down syndrome...old frankenstein w/braids looking as*!! Let the white broads have him, thats less ugly we gotta worry about. Eeeww...he can have all the money in the world he still lame..let the white girls soak up that lameness shyt!! @darlin-nikki77...im mixed myself but that statement u made is hella ignorant ma. Jus cuz u mixed don't make u a star-ra!! Please dont play into that dumb as@ stereotype!! I can show u alot of mixed girls that AIN'T the "[EXPLETIVE]" as u put it...womp womp to u ma'am!!
@ILoveOldSkoolRB - But you right. Most black men are in that position. Either in jail/prison, unemployed, dont own their own homes, into violence and drugs. I'll give you that. But like you said thats MOST, not ALL. Plent of black men make good money, sh!t I do. So for you to say how can you want from someone who doesnt have sh!t makes no sense bcuz obvioulsy some black men do have sh!t. Maybe you should buy a clue and not be so defensive
Brothers, you should be kissing the ground sisters walk on. The every loyal black women will stand by the black man even if she’s the butt of his insecurities. Brothers, if you are about something, you will find a woman about something. The problem is many of you aren’t about anything. You’re talking about, “He speaking some truth.” You wouldn’t know truth if it bit you on your backside. You can’t handle the truth because NO ONE HAS ANSWERED THE QUESTION ABOUT THE ISSUES BLACK MEN HAVE. Address those things, okay. Many black men have failed because your fathers have failed you. It’s easy to blame others instead of looking in the mirror because the truth can be paying. It’s easy to deflect your insecurities on to others so you don’t have to face you. Black men like Mr. Thug need not apply. Please date out and if you don’t date sisters, you need not talk about us.
@ Miiz OOOOO you sure told me, lol what eva biotch... I'm dumb and yet your the one taking picture in your damn draws???? To bad your parents didn't teach you any freakin self respect. Maybe you let [EXPLETIVE] put their dick shaft on ur forehead but I don't so keep your bedroom behavior to urself... unlike yourself I do have a life outside of MTO and must go live it so I will have continue this battle of wit with you later, although I must say you obviously came ill prepared. I bid you adieu my little ghetto mud pup be sure to have a wonderful day sweetie ~smooches~
That's ridiculous. How many of these celebrities had white women throwing themselves at them when they were broke? Now that they are famous they forget who was there for them when they had nothing. Yet, we are the gold diggers? We believe in you when you don't believe in yourself. As soon as you get a little money you want a white girl. It's truly sad. I don't know what happened between black women and black men, but this is getting out of hand.
& WHITE WOMEN WANT YOU FO YOU, CUZ YO BLACK AZZ IS SO CUTE?!
BLACK MEN NEED TO STEP UP THEIR GAME FOR BLACK WOMEN. I SEE THEM AT CHURCH, IN THE MALL... HOLDING THE DOOR FOR THEM, PAYING FOR ALL THEIR ITEMS. BUT WITH A SISTA, IT'S - GET YOUR OWN DOOR, SPEND YOUR OWN MONEY, DO ALL THE HOUSEWORK BY YOURSELF.... THEN, THEY WANT "THE COOKIE" ALL NIGHT LONG.
SOME OF Y'ALL BLACK MEN NEED TO TREAT US THE SAME WAY YOU TREAT DEM WHITE WOMEN.
BEND OVER BACKWARDS & L!CK MY PUZZY TOO OR ELSE SHUT THE F**K UP!!!
PUHLEEZ.
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God forgive me fo cussing.
This is exactly why I dont support these self hating coons. Newsflash dumbass a white women will make you think she's down for everything by not complaining and asking your mother for a fried chicken and macaroni and cheese recipe but once you catch your big break and f*ck up you won't be able to blink before she has the divorce papers drawn up getting ready to take half.
Black men just dont like the fact that black women will not stand around and entertain their B.S. Grow up and handle your business and retire all these get rich quick schemes, dreams of being an athlete at 35, coon mentality and all the other foolishness. Black women have a lot to work on too but so does the black man. Shame on you black men for thinking you are gods gift to a woman. So quick to point the finger but now you have three pointing back at you.
@ILoveOldSkoolRB - I dont think Im lumping ALL black women together at all. I said MOST, not ALL. Of course there are exceptions. Let me ask you something. Have you, or anyone you know, ever talked to a black guy because of what he had financially? Or, have you or anyone you know NOT talked to a black dude bc he didn't have as much financially?
And Slim Thug cheated on and used all of LeToya's money. She was so bitter about that, she made a whole album about it! Lol! But 4real tho, thats the fear of most black women, because black men treat black women wrong. And U cant deny that cuz look at all the successful male-bashing my-man-did-me wrong songs. But I see he didnt address his own flaws! BM use BW, #and when he get on he leaves ur @$$ for a white girl!
All i'm saying is, don't shoot the messenger. The comments he made, you can hear in any barber shop on any given weekend. He just had the guts to put it out there. Keep on thinking that everything is the black man's fault and that the attitude of black women isn't part of the problem. Keep on co-signing each other ladies and keep passing the buck and failing to take responsibility. It's why the numbers are where they are.
@ILoveOldSkoolRB. You want to talk about laughing? Every 5 minutes the mainstream media picks on black women and their inability to get a man. The mainstream media have made Black women the symbol of futility in relationships. That is where the laughter lies.
And as to the rest, I sum it up like this. It is NOT black men's fault that black women stubbornly refuse to consider all their options. Common sense says, if you aren't getting what you need from one source, go elsewhere. Brothers get it. Sisters don't. There is a fine line between loyal and stupid. And a lot of sisters fall over it.
Trying to get sisters to take any responsibility or accountability for their behavior is a losing battle. They will do what n*ggggas do. Blame the man, blame society, blame black men. Everything is everyone elses fault, with no looking in the mirror. We are so defensive to a fault that we dont look at what we can do for ourselves to better our situation
He contradicted his self, first he said that he wants he women to do what he wants her to do, but then at the end, he saying a relationship should be 50/50. GTFOH!!!!
I always say, if you're not bringing anything to the table, dont expect anything in return. If all you advertising & offering is money of course your gonna attract gold diggers. IDIOT!
@daRlin_nikKI77 if U have a LIFe oUTsIDe of MTO then wHY u sTILL seNDIn cOMMENts dIREcted @ me LOL...I KNo u prOBLy fEELin dUMB abOUT tha [EXPLETIVE] u posTed dUE to tha facT that me n seVERal otHERs dISSed ya dUmb MIxEd aZZ...IN tha wORds of that IGnoraNT aZZ mikE bOY thats dEEPly wISHes he was a darKsKIN woMAN whaT else is THere lefT tO say
well I dont think he said anything wrong, and i think slim has a valid point. The way some black girls act and do certain things is just rediculous. I love my black nubian princesses though, i just dont [EXPLETIVE] with the uneducated, welfare recipient, lazy, 20kid having, cant get a job because she has 100 tattoos, nasty, no hair having, curse all the time,claiming she a strong black woman but rely on the government for everything black bitches. But dont get me wrong there are latinos and whites out there that have the same mentality i believe its all about that specific person.
@WUTUPDOE313
MOST? Really? Where did you get that bit of information? I didn't know you knew most of the millions of BW in the world.
This might be hard for you to understand, but I am not a materialistic person, so no, I haven’t talked about how much money a person has or doesn’t have. I have my own money and I don’t need his. So to answer your question, NO, I haven’t nor have my friends.
He is 100% right about white women being a bunch of docile, passive, sex slave cum bucket, taker of bullshyt from ugly ass men especially black [EXPLETIVE] coons all to live comfortable and for money. After all its all tutorial for them and let me start counting the days when he'll won't be able to talk all this shyt about black women when the money is depleted. As you can see you don't hear shyt from all those other rappers who had the same view when things were good and now i'm sure is with a black women since their money and career is now extinct.
hehe...out of any 20 dudes I know...16 got issues with women because of some insecurity. Most men's character is set by the age of 13 - 14 and thats how they will be for the rest of their lives(ladies u cant change a man). I don't even try to deal with a woman who's dealt with thugs. Blacks have been the most pushed/pulled race in history and it shows. There is no comparability between us and other races, we have been on a totally different path. Stop trying to compare us to immigrants ppl. This man is a product, u can tell whats going to come out his mouth before he opens it.
TheRealRuckus - Take care of your own backyard b4 you start trying to tell someone else to take responsibility for their actions. It's starts with you FIRST. Get it?
Why you’re on here talking all this nonsense, another brother is being murder by….THEIR OWN. Now put your money where your delusional mouth is.
He has an opinion but he need to get the stats correct. In fact most black independent women don't mess with slim thug types why? Because the SLim Thug Types are usually inferior, abusive and can't really handle it mentally when a women is strong, intelligent, and hold their own. He's right there are WOMEN who are gold diggers and dont have their priorities correct but those women are the same hookaz and hoebags that are usually in a rap videos or the ones in the hoods who immulate the videos these so called superstars make...So I always say if you are looking for the dirt then its easier to find it when you are dirt. When you are looking for class its really not that hard if you are class. The truth of the matter is i bet it is easier for a Black Man to find a Great Black Women, than it is for a Black Woman to find some one other than A SLIM THUG TYPE...I don't know dude don't listen to his music but dude is talking reckless.. for real...IF Black men like himself is being so great why is it that half of the male population is either in Jail, Dead, or deadbeat fathers? There are more successful black women than their are Black Men...Black women are even making more money than them...so who has the real problems. US or THEM
That is RETARDED. What woman ISN'T digging for gold?? Who wants to struggle to feed and take care of kids who have been all but abandoned by their fathers? (though some of us should stop having babies by men who CLEARLY don't give a [EXPLETIVE] about us or their kids) Why is it okay for MOST women but not us? Are we supposed to be content with struggling? Are we supposed to just be happy to have a man, ANY man? Leave the good life for the ones who *LOOK LIKE* THEY ARE 'SUPPOSED' TO HAVE IT, huh? Given the state of black communities WORLDWIDE, black women ought be digging for gold with every available tool we got. The biggest and best tool is EDUCATION to get your own damn gold and stop giving thought and wasting time with idiots like Slim Thug.
WUTUPDOE313 @ILoveOldSkoolRB - You didnt understand what I wrote? How old are you? Are you slow? ~~~~~~~~~ I'm old enough to know that you were making no sense and all, and to answer your question about being "slow." Hardly, sweetie. I'm very intelligent and educated, that's why I didn't understand your sentence. Sorry.
Well I guess my mix doesn't apply, because neither my Black or Asian side would pay any mind to this fool. I like my Black men educated and secure, I am so why should I settle for less? This is why I date majority Viet men, they don't have all of these insecurities & hangups, plus they treat me like a princess. I take care of my man because he more than takes care of me.
badyellabroad hey baby tell yo cousin dee i said i miss her
@ topic hmmmm lets well i always found it interesting that whenever sistas bitch and cry about [EXPLETIVE] dating white bitches , asian bitches, and latino bitches, they always complain about the NBA players, NFL players, and movie stars and other black millionaires, and i notice whenever they cry about these quote on quote good black men that white women are allegedly steal from them its always a [EXPLETIVE] that makes a huge amount of money, why they dont ever complain about the blue collar brothas and 9 to 5 [EXPLETIVE] that date white bitches? i think women that complain about rich [EXPLETIVE] gettion with women of other races have golddigger tendacies IMO
Slim thug has his money right he is a successful rapper so he is not going to deal with lack luster black woman because he is in a position to where doesn't have to deal with them Black woman date wanna date successful black men have to bring something to the table besides a pretty face and a phat ass having a good job cooking holding down the household things that a successful brotha would want
If black women were real true golddiggers, then there wouldn't be so many issues with bw and the black community. Not as many oow babies being born to broke dudes,single mothers working two jobs,not as many black women on welfare,foodstamps,living in government housing,riding on city buses and trains with their kids,not as many black kids going to bad public schools,and there would be more black stay at home moms and housewives,more cultured black kids with connections,experience,and knowledge that would open doors and I'll even take it a bit further and say that there wouldn't be as many obese black women,or mentally unstable kids....IF black women were real true golddigers...
As a bm who just received his maters degree, true there are more bw in school than bm, but the REALITY is many bw want to play this "I don't need you" & "you can't tell me nothing" role so much that it doesn't matter what education level a bm has. Many bw are too got damn full of themselves. BW have a real hard time taking responsibility for their mistakes and always it useful to blame black men for it ALL! Could his message have been altered as to not include EVERY bw, yes. But to act like there's no truth whatsoever in what he said is foolish & equally ignorant!
@blaqbeauty21: I co-sign with you on that
@topic: Damn..my great grands and forefathers of long ago would gringe to learn of the dis-unity, disrespect, and mis-trust of black men and women. White man has sure done a job on us, they started the disparity and the breakdown and we've continued it to present-day. Shidd...if Willie Lynche was just a myth...many black folks has damn sure followed the fathom manifesto for sure.
What cracks me up is that this ignorant piece of ghetto, hoodrat, gutter trash says that black women's standards are too high and that we should lower our standards and settle for less. He's too f*cking stupid to realize that he just insulted himself and black men as a whole. I'll be d*mned if I settle for some ghetto fool like Slim Thug. He can have all the white women in the world for all I care. Though I doubt they'd even want his ugly a**. What's sad is that many men on this site agrer with him. Ladies, we can do better. Let's never settle for less.
@Ruckus, #1 so uneducated white women (or housewives) arent gold diggers? Name me one black successful man who isnt married to a white gold digger dressed as a housewife. #2, go into any barber shop and all U hear is how BM are so upset that BW are dating white men. Dudes be pissed that most of my successful homegirls are dating outside of their race, askn me 2 tlk sense into them.
@ ILoveOlSkool Thanks for proving my point. Rather throw mud at someone else than take responsibility for your own actions. And since when is the criminal system just a Black man thing? Black women are incarcerated 6 times more than women of other races, y'all make up 7% of the population, yet 28% of mothers that are incarcerated are black, you disproportionately make up cases in the social service industry so just STOP. When you point a finger 3more are pointing back at you.
oh plz its ok for a white woman to want a guy who is financially stable and is going to take her out and treat her well but as soon as a black woman looks for the same thing she gotta be called a gold digger. some black men crack me up. and in the interview he is basicly saying he wants a woman who doesnt have an opinion and wont talk back to him.
all these ppl sayin slim thug aint successful need a reality check...jus cuz you dont hear about him as often as usher or someone else doesnt mean he isnt making millions doing other things in the music biz(yes there is a business side to music, gasp). Anyway yall hate but you aint making n e thing CLOSE to wut he makes.. jealousy and ignorance, a lethal combination. This is partly true, but every race has gold diggers.Hip hop and every other high profile career shapes ppl to think this is reality when its a fantasy lifestyle.Ppl need to start having more respect for eachother an THEMSELVES!
@ backup2fallback, I don't know where you live but brothers aren't trippin off Black women being with white men. Hell we actually would rather you all go and get a white boy so you can shut the fcuk up with all the damn whining and trying to put us down. Just go and be happy somewhere and stop complaining.
@Blasian, I agree with U. I want someone educated. I dont care what color U are. That's a standard I cant lower for anyone, because I need someone who can carry a convo. I cant help more educated men are more successful. @CrankDat, again, I say, if SlimThug had his money right, Y was he using LeToya's money? Listen to the album...
i ain't readin' all that sh!t..so imma take MTO's word(which is probably stupid on my part)..that's what he said..so with that said..fuk slim thug..he's another rap clown propagating the illusion that black manhood has it's bases in the thuggish mannerisms and behaviors..i believe that regardless of what he said about sistas..
PREACH CRE8TION730!!!!!
He has an opinion but he need to get the stats correct. In fact most black independent women don't mess with slim thug types why? Because the SLim Thug Types are usually inferior, abusive and can't really handle it mentally when a women is strong, intelligent, and hold their own. He's right there are WOMEN who are gold diggers and dont have their priorities correct but those women are the same hookaz and hoebags that are usually in a rap videos or the ones in the hoods who immulate the videos these so called superstars make...So I always say if you are looking for the dirt then its easier to find it when you are dirt.
When you are looking for class its really not that hard if you are class. The truth of the matter is i bet it is easier for a Black Man to find a Great Black Women, than it is for a Black Woman to find some one other than A SLIM THUG TYPE...I don't know dude don't listen to his music but dude is talking reckless.. for real...IF Black men like himself is being so great why is it that half of the male population is either in Jail, Dead, or deadbeat fathers? There are more successful black women than their are Black Men...Black women are even making more money than them...so who has the real problems. US or THEM
THe Hogg needs to get a clue and stop f**king with groupies, who's just after him for his money or/and his seed. It goes to show the women that he; himself select. How r u going to malign us black women bcuz of the poor choices you have made in women? Typical. Then to express we don't do what you say. I didn't know when in a relationship women become kids and have to do as a man say. I'll take what you have to say into consideration but at the end of the day. I have a mind of my own. It sounds like you need a Yes woman or a white. Bcuz no Strong Black Women is going for shyt u talking
Lol woooow i wana no wats the obbession with BM & BW?? We r always on sumbody mind blk r white.. & seriously y wood ne women settle?? & y wood we have ta ta settle wen the ww standards r obviously set pretty dag on high?? & just because we arent submissive its a problem?? I swear how dudes always rappn about an independent women but wen they find them they got an attitude problem they think their too good?? Seriously u guys need ta make up ur minds....
I have to say that some of what he said is true, and as a black woman, I do not take offense because the LITTLE GIRLS he's talking are not me. It saddens me to sit in the nail shop or in the beausty salon and listen to some of the philosophies these females are living by in regards to men. I think it is a disgrace for a woman to turn her nose up at the notion of having a meal ready or ironing work clothes for a MAN who is handling his business.Ladies,you can not walk around expecting to get the fully loaded 2011 Bentley when your overall presentation is a '96 Civic. Step it up ladies!
Unfortunately, because black women want what every other culture/race woman wants: a good husband and father who respects her and their family and wants to provide things for them whether it be materialistic or not(knowledge,protection,connections,experience)....We are considered golddigers! And thats because many black men have no respect and place little value on black women,so in their minds,we don't deserve good things. Well I say if black men consider those little desires golddigging, then negro women dig for GOLD and PLATINUM too!!! And don't stop til you've struck gold! If you want the best in a man/husband/father,then don't be ashamed and do you. Cause if you lower your standards,its a chance,you will be setting up a lifetime of stress and issues for you and your children. (I'd rather be single forever) I mean,for example,do you really see "Slim Thugga" going anywhere past this point in his "career"...Exactly! Would you want to have kids by someone like him(just looking at him physically)and his "career"? He and his current girlfriend will not last... I think he is going through a quarter life "career" crisis and is frustrating no one is really digging him(but people from Texas),and he wants to take it out on black women...Thats why I am careful with what rappers I support...
@Atu - Brotha, please go back and start over again. Why are so many of you men so insecure. You can’t hand an independent, I don’t need a man woman. What’s wrong with that? Black women have ALWAYS HAD TO BE INDEPENDENT b/c we were so busy backing up our black man. But today’s brother is fatherless and don’t know how to be men, so heyell yes, I’m independent and don’t need you. I will not kiss a black man’s behind just to make you feel better.
You guys wanna talk denial. Again, let’s take a long look at the one’s doing so. Start dealing with your issues (and you have many of them). If you aren’t checking sisters, it shouldn’t matter how we are, now should it?
"At midyear 2007, the incarceration rate of black women held in custody (prison or jail) was 348 per 100,000 U.S. residents compared to 146 Hispanic women and 95 white women."
So Black women have the NERVE to shyt on black men when you all go to prison at a rate higher than white and hispanic women COMBINED!!! LMAO! FAIL!
@ JAGirl, I didn't start in on the incarceration issue, but since you all want to talk about it, just illustrating that Black women be rolling BOULDERS from their glass houses on this issue.
cocokiss318 - broaden your horizons, sister, and hang around a different type of woman. For the record, he IS TALKING ABOUT YOU. If anything, BW need to stop internalizing some BM’s insecurities and cosigning their nonsense. These are the same sisters shaking their big, fat arses to demeaning songs about women saying, “They ain’t talking about me.” SMH.
@atu, the reason Y some successful BW have that attitude is bcuz they have seen other BW struggling mostly bcuz they were chasing some BM. Many get an education so they wont have to be in that position. They disdain gold diggers and the stereotype of BW, but they dont wanna be used by a BM either. Their attitude, although misguide, is a form self protection, which unfortunately is also Y most R single.
TheRealRuckus - Thanks for proving what point? Your bitter rants are overriding anything you have to say.
You still didn’t address the exorbitant high incarceration rate amongst BM. Just like you to turn it around. Not only that, why are ya’ll killing yourselves at such a high rate too. Oh, let me guess. Black women do the same at a higher rate than anyone else?
Boy bye!
WHO THE PHUCK IS SLIM THUG? SOME OF WHAT HE WAS SAYING IS TRUE, AS FAR AS BLK WMN WITH ATTITUDE PROBLEMS, THAT SHYT IS NOT CUTE. I DONT KNOW Y SUM BLK WMN R SO MEAN. THEY MEAN TO ME AND IM A BLK WMN, SO I KNOW ITS TRUE. AS FAR AS BEING A GOLD DIGGER, THAT SHYT IS FUNNY, JUST BECAUSE SOME ONE HAS HIGH STANDARDS THEY A GOLD DIGGER? YEA, OK. AND, A GOOD WOMAN DOES WHAT HER MAN TELLS HER, UM OK. U R NOT MY FATHER. ALSO, BEING MONEY HUNGRY 4 MATERIAL ITEMS IS NOT CUTE EITHER, I HAVE FOUND MY SHARE OF BW LIKE THAT, BUT PLS STOP SAYING ITS A BLK THING, PLENTY OF WMN R THAT WAY.
Black women have attitudes. Well let’s take a looky here:
We are maligned not just by whites, but by BM AND silly BW. We are weave wearing, diseased, ugly, disdained by SOME black boys (yes, boys), told that b/c some of us are single, there evidently is a problem with us unlike other single women or single men (especially Asian), we get called every name in the book, and yet, we stand. Are you angry? Dammit, yes, many of us are, but so what? We have a right to be.
BM, no other man degrades their women like you. You are a detriment to society as a whole and people are laughing at you. NOT ALL BM, but those of Slim Thug’s ilk saying that “he is making a point.” Only a short bus riding fool could cosign with such ignorance. I feel sorry for many of us.
BM, while you are consistently stating BW stereotypes, you do know you are very much stereotyped as well. I guess what they say is right, huh?
@ ILoveOlSkool, you haven't addressed the inherent dysfunction with black women either, which is the point. So follow your OWN ADVICE. And the point is what this man said. Which is that the attitudes of Black women plays a huge part in why brothers get tired of dealing with them. It's real, but you all can't hear that because the minute a brother has ANY opinion, you all can't hear it. You all can't take any sort of constructive criticism. You just DEFLECT. Sad and pathetic.
ALSO BM R CONDITIONED TO BELEIVE THAT BW SHOULDNT WANT BETTER, THAT TAKES THE PRESSURE OFF OF THEM TO HAVE TO WORK HARD, BE EDUCATED, AND KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF A FAMILY. WHEN BW REQUIRE THAT OF THEIR MEN, THEY GROW RESENTFUL OF HER, SAYING SHE IS A GOLD DIGGER, FOR SHE, AS A BW SHOULD TAKE WHAT IS GIVEN TO HER, IT IS THE SAME CRAB IN THE BARRELL MENTALITY ON A DIFFERENT SCALE. BASICALLY HE LIKE, WHERE DO U GET OFF WANTING MORE WHEN I DONT.
TDR25 I guess Slim's gonna get Black balled and boycotted by Black women now because of some comments taking out of context. ~~~~~~~~~~ No, I don’t think so. There are still some weak azzed BW who cosigned what he said and will still support this coon. Some sisters don’t have the sense God gave a knat, so they’ll be right up there waiting to buy his next CD.
And for the record, I never said that Black men don't have issues in the justice system. Shyt that's obvious. My point is, who the hell are black women to be throwing that up in our face when you all are disproportionately represented in the criminal system TOO. THAT is pot calling the kettle black LOL. As usual, you all can throw point the finger with the best of them but can't deal when someone places the spotlight on you.
I am so sick of black men always being so quick to put down black women and extol (praise) women of other races who have probably done nothing for you except perhaps give you a blow job and some sex…maybe. None of these black men on here putting down black women would be alive without a black woman and most probably would have never been fed, clothed or had a roof over their head without one. Almost all have a black female (girlfriend, sister, aunt, mama, grandma) who has supported, encouraged and got their behind out of trouble. There are bad people of every race that’s why they get divorced from each other too.
But for many black men it’s all about take, take, take. For example, “Give me sex when and how I want it,” “Do what I say,” “Clean the house, “Take care of the kids” When you gettin paid?” “Don’t say nothing when I cheat” but don’t want to get anything back and certainly couldn’t handle similar treatment. Telling a black woman to step it up is code for “worship me.” You don’t deserve to worshipped you’re not God. Try being an equal partner, respectful, faithful, kind….then it wouldn’t be about how much money you have or don’t have.
Black men are the only race that refuses to be faithful and responsible for their women and kids and then want to blame them for it. WEAKNESS personified. Learn to be a man then you can talk about women. You’re supposed to be the leaders but all you do is pass blame. Leaders don’t do that. They honestly assess the problem and then do something about it. The black race is largely weak because our “leaders,” black men are failing to lead. When a problem arises in the company, it’s the bosses fault not the workers.
It is these problems inherent in many black men that cause them to have problems with whoever they date. I know lots of white women with multiple black, baby’s daddies. Their problems aren’t solved by going white, Asian or Latino, they simply take those problems to other races and become absentee providers and fathers. Grow up black men. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Get educated, get a job, keep your penis in your pants. Contrary to what they tell you you’re not animals or breeders. Learn to be responsible and faithful, stop killing each other, then I promise you the black race will be much better off.
It’s always the black women’s fault….geesh!!! I admit, there’s enough blame to go around but not put everything squarely on our shoulders. It’s not fair and its not accurate.
@Ruckus, if U go to where the real successful BW are (and get out of the hood), U will see that they R dating outside of their race. Most successful BW wld not date Slim Thug, and wld choose a white man over him any day. Sadly, successful black men (non-athletes, musicians) are a dying breed, thats truth. More BM are in jail than in college. U cant say that about BW. How many doctors, bankers, grad students, or college graduates has SlimThug dated? We both can agree that he doesnt need one hand to count. So his statements R biased!
Black Men: If you prefer to date non-black women, you don't have to demean black women!
I for one, have figured out that many black men are just physically attracted to women of other races, mixed races,and/or more eurocentric features. These type of men complain about the stereotypical attitude of black women,but will date the same type of girl of another race....
Black women,wake up and smell the black coffee...and brush some of these negros off!!!(You know the type of black men i'm talking about,you can tell when you meet them)
Although I doubt that this comment will even get read, I gotta say that Slim has a point. At the end of the day, everybody wants to be with somebody that they can go home & ENJOY. U can't enjoy walking into the crib with some bytch hollerin' all in yo ear about who u been f'kn with or how much money u made on the block!! I mean, don't get me wrong...white women shouldn't sit around & be STUPID and believe everything that the man is sayin 2 them, but at the same time, black women get mad when they see a white girl with a black man...but they need to be mad at themselves…so what if the white bytch is naive & believes everything she hears & is actually getting played?? She ain't puttin that man thru no bullshyt, so she's still got a man to come home to.
BM GROW UP KNOWING THAT WHITE WOMEN LIKE THE FINER THINGS IN LIFE, SHE LIKES TO LOOK GOOD, EAT GOOD, TRAVEL, AND KEEP NICE HOME. TURN ON ANY CHANNEL AND THE MEDIA PORTRAYS THIS; HGTV, THE TRAVEL CHANNEL, SEX IN THE CITY TYPE SHOWS, DESPERATE HOUSEWIVES, THEY SEE IT EVERY WHERE, THE FEEL HEY, THIS IS WHAT SHE USED TOO SO, IF I GOT IT, I CAN GET HER AND GIVE HER WHAT SHE IS USED TO, NO HARM THEIR. BUT WHEN A BLK WMN WANTS THE SAME, ITS LIKE BYTCH U AINT USED TO THIS, GO GET UR OWN, U USING ME. U TRYNA COME UP OFF ME.
@TheRealRuckus - I did just address why so many sisters are angry. Apparently you missed it. What you fail to understand is that the MAJORITY OF BLACK MEN ARE WITH BLACK WOMEN. Stop projecting!
I don’t give a rat’s behind if some brothers don’t want sisters. Keep it moving. Did you hear that? Most of you men whining, bytching and crying are weak and want a woman to baby you. I don’t want a baby, I want a man! Yes, there are black women that have issues. Heyall, a lot of women have issues. Have you heard all the white men
@ backup2fallback, sweety Ol' Ruckus doesn't do hood LMAO. And I see Black women who are smart enough to know better sticking by these thugs and losers who ain't about shyt. They pass up a gentleman brother who is doing well for himself but take on a thug who will sit on his butt while they work all day. Black women cry that they can't find a man but reality is they sit around and hold on to the worst ones thinking they can change them. That isn't loyal its stupid! Decent sisters forsake good brothers for that ignorant thug "swag" all the time. Most wouldn't know what to do with a decent man!
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Have you heard all the white men complaining about their mates? The thing is THEY DON’T CLASSIFY ALL WHITE WOMEN. Black men, step your game up, quit being so daxn bitter, and if you want other women, please darken their doorstep. I live amongst a lot of BM w/WW and I can guarantee you that they are seeing the light. Ya’ll have too much baggage and you want to project that on women. Take that energy and get some help.
THE CRAZY SHYT ABOUT THIS IS, I ASKED MY MAN ABOUT Y DO BM WIT MONEY WANT TO DATE WM IN HS OPINION. HE SAID THAT FROM WHAT HE GATHERS IT SEEMS TO BE THIS ATTITUDE OF WHITE PPL GON PHUCK THEM OVER SOME WAY IN LIFE, SO IT DONT MATTER IF THE WHITE BYTCH DO IT, THATS WHAT THEY USED TO, GETTING PHUCKED OVER BY WHITES, SO WHO CARES BUT THEY WILL BE DAMMED IF THEY LET A BLK WMN PHUCK THEM OVER, ITS LIKE THEY BECOME A SUCKA AFTER THAT. I AM SURE IT IS DEEPER THAN THIS.... IT WAS INTERESTING.....
@therealruckus
Wow, Its funny how you skipped over the stats for Black males "The custody incarceration rate for black males was 4,618 per 100,000"
Compared to the estimated numbers of black, white, and Hispanic males in the U.S. resident population, black males (6 times) and Hispanic males (a little more than 2 times) were more likely to be held in custody than white males. At midyear 2007 the estimated incarceration rate of white males was 773 per 100,000.
LMAO and black men say that women are passing along the blame??? You just compared 348 to 4,618 WOW
Black Women start teaching your son’s better so that they won’t grow up to be like some these black men who hate black women ! You are going to have to do it , because most of them are either in prison or just plain absent from the home! I think that white men do take better care of their women and family! We hardly have anyone that has our backs ! definitely not some of these fools!
@ ILoveOlSkool, A lot of you sisters have forgotten what it means to cater to your man. Catering isn't babying. You all want to try and dominate rather than take your proper place in a relationship. If you all can't do that, then a dude is going to go and find a woman who can. It isn't even about race as much as its about attitude and mentality. A lot of sisters create their own problems in relationships with their attitude. That is all the man is saying. And if ya woman got anger, then fix that shyt. It is not a man's job to take on your anger and baggage.
Well there are successful Black woman that do pay there on bills and are making a six figure salary or more and most black men are intimidated by them, however personally I would never spend $3,000 dollars on a bag and can't even pay my car note or the insurance. Some Black men just want to bowed down to and be treated like a king and you be the slave!!
TheRealRuckus co-sign i dont wanna sound like one these hoes who got with a white guy and felt like the struck gold or won the lotto , but i would rather for a hoe to hop the fence and get off our (black men) dicks and shut da [EXPLETIVE] up and be happy, instead of blaming us for [EXPLETIVE] that goes sour in they life
sounds like this dirty bum wants his woman to be his maid... gtfo! and trust there is plenty of white women goldiggers.. lets just think.. if something ever was to happen to him (god forbid) and he was on life support... i bet the white woman would pull the plug faster than black woman would.. hence gary colemans wife!
@ sexytranny more men go to prison than women. The overwhelming majority of prisoners are men, whether white/black/asian/latin across the board with all races. Judges will give a woman a break in cases where a man goes to jail. So that number is deceptive. But the rate at which black people, men AND women is high and disproportionate. NO sense in black men and women going at it on that issue because BOTH need to do better in that way.
I wanna know what black women think a successful black man is????
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Somebody who buys them all the sh-it they ask for, always takes them out and pays the tab or for the meal, takes them on trips and they don't have to pay a cent.
Basically a guy who pays for everything for them, while they go around talking about how independent they are.
Not all Black women, just the chicken heads (a lot are on here).
maaaaan, consider the source. You attract what you emanate, Mr. Thug. Come with a personality, and people will be drawn to that. Come with gold-dipped midgets swinging from your neck, and the diggers (just like your girl)* will dig. That's like a chick wearing a see-through bodysuit up in the club wondering why nobody's tryna take her to dinner.
*--face it, you can't know if she's down for YOU because it hasn't been tested. Go broke(r), and if she's still with you, THEN you have a down @$$ chick. I'm sure she prolly said "I'd be with you no matter what" . . . that's called game.
Yo what's good emmetmays..
Here is another thing, did you damn oversensitive ass women miss the part in his statement where he said that brothers need to step up too? Or were you too busy acting like Pavlov's dog and foaming at the mouth the minute you saw something critical of black women? The man's statement was real and you all can't even see it.
I HAVE NEVER AND WLL NEVER ASSOCIATE WITH PPL WHO CALL THEMSELVES THUG, THAT IS NOT CUTE. AS A BLK WMN I CAN ADMIT THAT WE BLK WMN NEED TO CHECK OURSELVES ON SOME SHYT, HAVING AN ATTITUDE IS NOT CUTE. THERE IS NO EXCUSE TO BE A BYTCH, I DONT GOF WHAT U SAY. THERE R EDUCATED SECURE BM OUT THERE THAT KNOW HOW TO KEEP HOME AND RESPECT WHATS LEFT OF THE BLK IMAGE. IF U WANT A RESPECTFUL GUY GET HIM, IFU WANT A SLIM THUG,AN NBA/NFL PLAYER, GET ONE, BUT STOP COMPLAINING BECAUSE U HAVE POOR DECISION MAKING SKILLS.....
@TDR 25 No, we’re not blaming BM for everything but don’t put us down and claim that other races are superior to us and have no problems. There are bad women of all races. Many women of other races are gold diggers, have attitudes, are sluts, disrespectful and messed up in other ways. Somehow though, they are still “good women” in black men’s eyes because they have been conditioned to think women of other races are superior, good, wholesome do matter what they do. That’s why they gold dig so successfully (at least with black men) and why you’ll find lots of black athletes married to white women that no white man would touch because they are whores and gold diggers.
Black men like to paint black women with a broad brush and talk bad about us when most of us are taking care of y’all or your children in some way. Yeah, there are some mad black women because they are playing both the role of both mommy and daddy (man and woman) because a black man won’t stand up and be a man for her. She’s not built for but she has to handle that so she sometimes acts harder. A black man doesn’t have to be rich, just there and willing to do some work, not run off looking to bed everyone one he can and then get mad at BW for not liking it. She’s supposed to stop “bitchin” and “whinin.” No other race of man does that. Most have respect for their woman, even though they know that there are some bad (white, Asian, Latino) ones out there. A lot of them don’t mess stuff up, jump ship and then blame her.
@Ruckus, I can def agree wit ur last statement. Check my earlier post. Its ignorance passed on generation to generation. A mother w/o a husband cant teach her daughter (even one wit a college degree) what qualities to look for in a man. But there R no fathers 2 teach their daughters & too many single mothers, so Black ppl are left wit words of idiots like SlimThug. My friends and I constantly schooling educated BW in grad school on men. They dont know and thats a major prob!
A successful man to me has nothing at all to do with how much money he makes. A successful man to me is one who takes care of his family. He is his family’s protector, guide, strength, and he holds it down. He’s intelligent, loving, caring, and knows who he is. He isn’t afraid of my successes or strengths. He’s confident in his ability so my independence is not a threat to his manhood. A successful man knows how to LISTEN. He can accept his failures with the notion that he will learn from them. A successful man is me is a hardworking man (blue or white collar) who has a strong work ethic. I don’t care what kind of car he drives, but he should strive to be the best he can be. THAT’S WHAT A SUCCESSFUL MAN TO ME LOOKS LIKE.
You know, what I find amazing about some brothers is that you want sisters to love and respect you, yet you don’t give her the same. You criticize us, yet you want us to have your back. Unfortunately some sisters are loyal to a fault – sight unseen. You don’t deserve our loyalty if you are putting us down. Don’t talk down about me then expect me to keep smiling in your delusional face. How dare you insinuate that we should!
it is interesting to read what a lot of people have to say about black women being gold diggers,it often show how we as black people have been conditioned, i will just throw this thought out there to some of you,look at the white women who these rich black athletes marry and i bet you these men are the first and only black man they have ever dated,i guarantee the next man you see in tiger woods soon to be exwife life will all be white men,after she will already have a lot of his money
A SUCCESSFUL BLK MAN IS MY FATHER AND MY MAN, AND WITH THE HELP OF THE GOOD LORD, MY SON. PLS PRAY 4 ME ON THAT ONE, LOL. THEY R RESPONSIBLE, AWARE, HARDWORKING, THEY HAVE PRIDE IN WHAT THEY DO AND CREATE (I.E. THEIR CHILDREN, AND RELATIONSHIPS, THEIR JOBS, THEIR IMAGE AS A BLK MAN AND AS IN INDIVIDUAL) THEY LISTEN, THEY ADVISE, THEY RESPECT THEIR SPOUSE AND HER CONTRIBUTIONS TO THE RELATIONSHIP. THEY KNOW WHEN TO CRY, THERE IS NO MACHISMO FOR THEY KNOW WHO THEY R, THEY R KINGS. WHAT IS THERE LEFT TO SAY....
I have noticed that more and more black men are becoming arrogant. White women and non-black women, most of the time just want their brown baby, and the money. White women have been taught to only mess with men that have money. It is all about the class. If he is not from the right family, you do not mess with him, especially a black man. White people will over look it if the black man has money. Whites have not spent hundreds of years degrading blacks to let us take the wheel.
@ sexytranny I completely agree with that getting kids involved in something positive is key. An idle mind is the devil's workshop. I got my nephews both involved in sports and my niece just started with chior. Hoping that will keep them busy instead of hanging with these little bad ass knuckleheads out here.
To all the black women. Stop supporting black men like slim thug. Black men come from black women and if black women stop having children with black men, eventually over time the black man will no longer exist. White women are not caring about the music you make, jsut as long as you make the music to bring in the money. Your name is slim thug. Do you really think her parents want their daughter with someone like you? Come one black men. Black women have always had your back and this is what we get in return? Wow. Whites and non black win again.
@Howard_Alum03--A successful man is one that is mature enough to be a faithful mate, a good father, someone who goes to work everyday and wants the best for his family. He is spiritual and able to lead, a man who is responsible, is a protector and wants to help take care of the people under his care and watch (children and wife). He doesn’t have to be “ballin” but he does have to want to work and provide, a man who doesn’t want the latter isn’t a man in my opinion. It’s not natural for a man not to want to work and provide. Of course, all of these things may not be there at once. It’s a progression. But in a nutshell, that’s my definition of a successful man.
So now black men that did not grow up with a father. It was your mother that kept him away not lack of education, imprisonment, drugs, and overt sex drives to screw everyone. Marry white women that are puppets and in about 15 years, they will have what they need from you. Brown babies and your money. IF keep this up, black people will eliminate themselves because there are more white people in the world than their are blacks. Remember, while white women were being waited on, it was black women cooking the meals and taking care of the children. WHAT WENT WRONG MY PEOPLE?
This man is clearly stating his opinion about his experience. Whether you agree or disagree, his and more black men's opinion are like this. I cannot understand why sisters get offended by this when it is usually true. In every post on this website, you will find attractive and unattractive men however your interest is only sparked if they make a large amount of money.
Somehow people like Diddy can date multiple sisters and father children with them and its cool because he has money. Lil' Wayne and more. Women and blogs give congrats when a sista lands herself a BALLER! Why? Is the perception that rich men are better men or that better men can buy you more stuff.
If most of these men were working in a low wage job would you find them attractive. Most women will remain single for these reasons alone: 1. Money is more important than love 2. Instead of listening and changing this man's attitude and showing him how good a sista can be to him, she gives up and says, "the white women can have him" 3. In reference to number 2, if he want somebody to cook for him, clean for him, treat his broke a## like he freakin special and he ain't got no money, let him look somewhere else. (he will)
The truth is, as a race, we are totally divided because there is a lack of self-awareness. It all dates back to the time of slavery when Willy Lynch advised slave owners on how they could keep their slaves under control without the use of force... He mentioned using fear, envy, and distrust for control purposes. He also mentioned to the slave owners to separate the slaves based upon differences such as age, color, size, intelligence, and sex. Sadly enough.. all of this has trickled down and now governs the way we interact, or not..., with one another. Think about it.. it's fact not fiction.
4. For every interracial couple that goes bad sisters attribute it to being because the woman was white (clearly racist)
I.E. If Tiger Woods would have married a sista he would not have the problems he has, so you mean to tell me this cheating man's problems would be less if his wife was black? what does that say about sista?
If O.J. would date sistas he would not be in jail today. REALLY?
Gary Coleman and Micheal Jackson would be alive today if they were not phukin with de white women. COME ON! How many sistas were checkin for Gary Coleman? This man found love, temporary happiness or just a female to lay next to who hung with him. Most sistas would not be there if he paid them, so please stop the games. Let men find love when and where love is shown.
FIRST OF ALL, WHO IN THE HELL IS SLIM THUG???? AND THEN WHATS WRONG WITH A WOMAN SETTING HER STANDARDS HIGH??? IF MEN CAN SAY, "I WANT A CHICK THAT WILL LISTEN TO ME AND DO WHATEVA I SAY" THEN WOMEN SHULD ALSO BE ABLE TO SAY," I WANT AN EDUCATED AND SUCCESSFUL GUY WHO IS FINANCIALLY STABLE" COZ I FOR ONE AM NOT GONNA HAVE SOME LOW LIFE HOODRAT THUG TELLING ME WHAT TO DO . SORRY!!! AND IF I AM THE ONE BRINGING HOME THE BACON DONT EXPECT FOR ME TO FRY IT IN A FRYING PAN EITHER!!!!! FRANKLY IF A DUDE CAN NOT UPGRADE MY LIFE IN ANYWAY THEN I AM BETTER OFF DOING ME. I CAN DO BAD ALL BY MYSELF!!
idk i dnt look at a guy for what he got in his pocktet [EXPLETIVE] it aint mine, i look at my own [EXPLETIVE], if yu got a good head on yur shoulders then we can make it happend but that gold diggin [EXPLETIVE] is wack and im black wit money and i dnt expect [EXPLETIVE] from anybody maybe he lookin at the wrong black woman... and why does he matter anyway lik wen was the last time we heard anything from slim thug??
Howard_Alum03 - As long as a man is striving to better himself, yes, he is successful. If he is accomplishing his goals and is at least trying, he may not be successful financially, but in other ways, marked successes may be noted.
Yes, I have dated men who have made less than me. My sister is a doctor and makes long paper, and is hard pressed to meet any man that can match her income. As long as a man is contributing to the household and wants to do better for himself and his family, I will never hold his income against him.
Ain't this about a biitcch...why are black men always trying to tear down black women. Someone needs to put their foot in that clowns dumb ass. It never ceases to amaze me how fools like this can't figure out how other women are much bigger gold diggers than black women will ever be.
I agree with the poster who said it's the business that these fools are in that attract those types of women and they damn sure are not JUST black women!
"Don’t you hate when these RAGGEDY AZZ dudes try and sh*t on Black women and try and act like they are some kinda SPECIAL BREED of gold digger.
Why doesn't he ask TIGER WOODS . . . or OJ SIMPSON whether they STILL believe that we're all THAT DIFFERENT from White women . . ."
DANG MTO...GREAT COMEBACK
@ILoveOldSkoolRB,nkreseknowledge,hello07 So it seems like you all agree that a successful black man is someone who takes care of his family, is intelligent, loving, caring, confident, a hard worker etc. So you mean to tell me there arent many black men who meet these requirements? I find that hard to believe. I notice none of you mentioned income. Why is money not a part of success in your opinions? It seems like when black women get mad at black men the first thing they wanna say is call him BROKE! Why?
ButtaFlyKissez – I’m glad you said that because when I take a look at relationships around me, I see man WW women complaining about the same thing everyone else complains about. I live in a town where 99.9% of the brothers are swirling. I can tell you that many of these WW are NOT happy. There’s a lie that says that BM treat WW better. I will tell you this, however, the white couples I see – their men treasure and honor them, and many of them have had bad relationships in the past, but would never attribute that to WW. They just realized the woman they picked was a loser. They never internalize their women as some black men do. These men understand that women are responders. When they treat her with love and respect, she will bend over backwards to give the same to their man. Some brothers haven’t figured that out. They want all the goods, but aren’t willing to pay for them. It’s shameful!
I kinda agree with this statement because not all black women are goldiggers..a big majority of them are material girls all they want is a fly guy wit the money and a car so they can go to their friends and brag about what their men got..and they wonder why men act the way they do towards them (remember I said a big majority not all black women)
Why do people generalize the mass based on their personal experiences? That's ignorant. I get that its not realistic to put expectations on others that you're not willing to live up to. That applies to everybody. Being a doormat is commendable...what the hell is wrong with this picture? Only a strong man can be equal with a woman of strength. Where this idiot contradicts himself is he's taking and not giving back. There needs to be a fair exchange in the relationship and that's not limited to the pocket book.
PERSONALLY HIS COMMENTS REALLY DONT EFFECT ME LIKE THAT.. BECAUSE I DO NOT FIT INTO ANY OF THOSE GENERALIZATIONS OR ASSUMPTIONS THAT HE HAS MADE...ITS ONLY A INDICATION OF WHAT HE IS SURROUNDED BY, AND WHERE HE HAS BEEN...LOL AND CLEARLY HIS SPREWL INDICATES THAT HE IS A VERY LIMITED MAN...HE IS NOT WELL ROUNDED AND AGAIN VERY LIMITED SO TO SPEAK...HES RIGHT SOME CHICKS ARE GARBAGE & SO ARE SOME MEN BUT HE IS AROUND THEM SO MAYBE HE JUST NEED TO EXPAND HIS HORIZONS BUT TO GENERALIZE GOES TO SHOW YOU HE NEEDS TO HIT IN THE HEAD WITH A FEW BOOKS, OR OPEN HIS EYES AND TRUELY SEE THE BIGGER PICTURE...
He's ugly as hell. Let him date white women. Any women with class woudnt dat him, so ho cares. But i think that black women should date white men more. Black women are to loyal to the black men, while their date white women and other races. Am with a white men, and black men always look angry at me when am with my men. But ho cares they do the seem. But i dont talk bad about my race unlike them. Am not saying that white men are better, but i know that some black women dont wont to dat outside their race just because they want to be loyal. All am saying is date ho you want and dont be ashamed, but just dont talk bad about your own race.
THIS POST IS VERY SAD SLIM THUG,ARE U REALLY SAYING WHITE WOMEN PUT DOWN IN THE KITCHEN AND US BLACK WOMEN DONT COOK ARE YOU KIDDING ME? WHITE WOMEN TREAT BLACK CELEB MEN AS KING YES WHILE THERE BUYING THEM EVERY LIL THING THERE WHITE HEART DESIRES.TILL YALL BLACK A$$ [EXPLETIVE] UP THEN SHE TAKES HALF OF WHAT YALL SELF HATING A$$ OWN.BLACK MEN WAKE UP SOCIETY HAS YOU HATING YOUR OWN RACE.MEN LIKE THIS NEEDS TO FALL OFF THE FACE OF THIS EARTH WE DIDN'T GO THIS FOR HUNDREAD OF YEARS TO BE BELITTLE BY OUR OWN RACE..THERE IS HOPE PPL WAKE UP MORONS.AND FOR ALL THE BLACK MEN THAT AGREE SMDH.
@OldSkoolRB, my homegirls in med school hav da same understanding. They prolly wont meet a BM in their income bracket, so they just want a BM who is loyal and can contribute 2 the household. SlimThug cheats on woman and uses them for their money (yes, I gotta keep bringing up LeToya). So they wld neva eva look his way, and his statements dont apply 2 all BW.
AMEN @therealbrazil! Couldn't had said it better myself! I'm sorry just cus my man says JUMP doesn't mean I say how high! He is entitled to his opinion but he confused me! So he's saying that he wants a woman who listen to him and cooks and other sh*t so he's setting his standards forbthe type of woman he wantd but us black women can't have our standards too? We can't want a succesful man who has his own? He
Howard_Alum03 - Let me say this. I believe there are a lot of good brothers out there. In all honesty, I really do. The Slim Thugs of the world are few and far between. BM and BW need to work on our interrelationships b/c this anger isn’t healthy. I know I say a lot, but really, this must stop. We are really all we have, and when many brothers cross over, they realize very quickly that the other side isn’t always as nice.
It just irks me when brothers put us down, especially publicly. It is not a good look for a race of people claiming to be victims of racism.
@ILOVE OLD SCHOOL --"..so heyell yes, I’m independent and don’t need you. I will not kiss a black man’s behind just to make you feel better." #1. That's why I would never share my income with a chick with a mindset like yours. #2 I don't nor expect a woman to kiss my ass. Yes, I'm educated, only date black women, but when females like you come around with an attitude, and act as if I'm the reason your previous relationship didn't work b/c of the [EXPLETIVE] YOU CHOSE 2 BE with, and act like I owe you something...you're automatically disqualified and left to be mad by yourself.
backup2fallback - THAT'S what I'm talking about. They know the chances of finding a brother that will match their income is slim. I really hope LeToya makes better choices in men because I don’t see any redeeming quality with this Slim Thug fool.
You're so right about him being a user. He's a user and then has the gall to get mad because a woman won't allow it. This speak volumes about his current gf.
Ok I have been silent for too long MTO. This is sheer debauchery.Well Slim THUG you don't have to EVER worry about we my 'wealthy' black ass buying none of your music.. matter of fact when was the last time you made a song?.. YOu and your lame a$$ brother can eat a d!ck. NO offense. There is white/ Indian/ Asian/black oh and a lil bit of [EXPLETIVE] in my blood.This statement shows how ignorant this rapper really is.Always dumping on the Black women.He will be the next dumb BROKE [EXPLETIVE] on 20/20..when your White-black broad turns on that ass and your unknown brother we'll see his story on SNAPPED
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So I pick the world up and I’ma drop it on your f*ckin’ head Bitch, I’ma pick the world up and I’ma drop it on your f*ckin’ head And I could die now, Rebirth motherf*cker Hop up in my spaceship and leave Earth, motherf*cker I’m gone Motherf*cker, I’m gone
I'm not going to say that everything he said was false, but I hate when men generalize women as a whole. All black women are not GOLD DIGGERS and all white women are not materalistic/GOLD DIGGERS. Like someone once said "You attract your kind" so if he's in the club around a much of groupie bitches then that's who he's going to attract. Some White women are far from dumb its not that they're not gold diggers, they're just not obvious gold diggers. They play there cards very well. You negros are just to dumb to read in between the lines and think that you're getting a grand prize puppet.
@ saashalee
AND THE SAD THING IS THAT THE DUDES ALWAYS COMPLAINING ABOUT BLACK WOMEN BEING GOLD DIGGERS YADA YADA YADA, ARE THE ONES THAT AINT EVEN GOT SHEEEIIITT. SLIM THUG IS WORTH ALUMINUM HENCE ALL HE ATTRACTS IS ALUMINUM DIGGERS SO HE NEEDA GET IT RIGHT!!!!! GOLDDIGGERS DONT EVEN WANT HIS REGEDY AZZ
@Atu - *sigh*. A chick with my mindset. Let me savor that comment for a hot minute. What’s wrong with my mindset. Let me straighten this out of you, Atu. My mindset is that it’s not my responsibility to make a man feel better and to baby him because of HIS insecurities. My current man understands that completely. Are you picking up what I’m putting down?
I’m from a generation in which MEN loved a woman’s independence. That’s was a redeeming quality for a lot of men. They loved a woman who could handle her own and didn’t need him. Today’s man want to be needed. I understand that. We all want to feel needed, but so many black women don’t have the luxury of leaning on good, strong brothers. There are a lot of good ones out there, but they are taken, so what are we supposed to do? Go around begging you and being desperate. It’s funny because BW are often labeled as desperate. We can’t win for losing w/some of you.
Maritza Ain't this about a biitcch...why are black men always trying to tear down black women.
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Shut your uneducated a-ss up, spewing that one sided ignorance.
Last I checked Slim Thug also criticized Black men, not just Black women.
Also, last I checked all I see is Black women dogging men on MTO. There are some men that dog Black women here, but it is the minority. However, the majority of Black women posting here do nothing except dog/insult/degrade/emasculate Black men... then wonder why they'll never find a good Black man.
We all RUNNING AWAY from you, THAT'S WHY!!
LOL SOME OF YOU ARE NUTZ IM JUST TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHERE IN THE HELL ARE YOU MEETING THESE BW @? ON THE BUSSTOPS AND CORNERS OF AMERICA? SOME OF YOU MEN MAKE YOUR FIRST MISTAKE WHEN YOU CAT CALL A WOMAN AND SHE TURNS HER AZZ AROUND AND RESPOND? YEAH YOU MIGHT THINK ITS CUTE AND YOU GOT THE CHICK IN THE BAG BUT REALLY WHAT ARE YOU EXPECTING? WHAT ARE YOU EXPECTING WHEN YOU MEET A WOMAN IN THE CLUB AND SHE HAS 17 DIFF COLORS IN HER HAIR AND ALL YOU SEE IS A FATT AZZ? WHAT ARE YOU EXPECTING WHEN YOU BUYING THE CHICKS DRINKS AND SHES TAKING THEM? ARE YOU EXPECTING A JADA PINKETTE TYPE? BECAUSE I TELL A DUDE IN A MINUTE I BUY MY OWN AND ILL OFFER YOU ONE. BECAUSE I DONT OWE YOU ANYTHING!!! I DONT ANSWER TO YOUR CALLS OR PLOYS OF WEIRD NOISES OR A YO'S. SO IF YOU ACTING LIKE YOU RECKLESS AGAIN YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU ATTRACT!!! AND ITS AS SIMPLE AS THAT? CALL IT HOW YOU SEE BM BUT SOME OF YOU HAVE NO RESPECT FOR WOMEN PERIOD...SO WHY SHOULD A GOLDDIGGER RESPECT YOUR POCKETS...
HOW DATOUCH FEELS EXEMPLIFIES HOW A LOT OF BLACK MEN FEEL. I SAY THANK U TOO DATOUCH BECAUSE U PROVE ME RIGHT. THEY WANT MIXED KIDS AND ANYTHING LIGHT, SO I AINT MAD. ALSO, WHY PEOPLE NEVER ASK BLACK WOMEN HOW THEY FEEL? THEY ALWAYS DOING STUDIES AND WRITING ARTICLES BUT BLK WMN R NEVA APART OF ANY OF IT. WHY SHOULD WE CARE ABOUT PPL WHO DONT WANT US? WHO SAID WE DID? ITS THE SAME RACIST IDEOOGY THAT AS A BLK WMN I HAVE NOTHING ELSE BETTA TO DO THAN WORRY ABOUT A MAN AND CAT FIGHT WITH NON BLK WMN OVA HIM. CHILD PLEASE!
@ILOVE OLD SCHOOL-And it's not my responsibility to defend the men that are worthless & the women who are EQUALLY as worthless. As I said before, Slim could have worded his statement differently, but to say that his point was totally wrong isn't correct. Slim is who he is. What I have a problem w/ are bw who have the audacity to act as if they have NO FAULT in the world or our community.What I find interesting is that many bw want bm to uphold the "traditional" role, but abandon what their position was. I only purse solid bw. BW with father abandonment issues & bm issues need not apply.
@outtaline..what's happenin' brother..your question is one i cannot answer on a factual basis..but imo..i think people without a clear understanding of social and psycho conditioning..are quick to use their rudimentary understanding of freuds' psychosexual development theory(oedipus complex)..to make sense of the interracial phenomenon..and so my friend..i submit to you..it is possible that some bm could hate or not respect their mother..so they date women who in no way resemble her..but i would surmise that that would be a very small percentage..and there are other social and psychological factors that are much more prevalent in the formation of interracial unions..most black men love their mothers dearly..shid..talk bad about a brothers..mother..and see what the fuk happens..lol.
AAAHHHHH U MUTHA PHUCKAS R STOOPID! HE SAID ABOUT 3 PARAGRAPHS ABOUT BLK WMN AND ONE SENTENCE ABOUT BLK MEN AND U R SAING HE CALLED BLK MEN OUT TOO? LOL! U NYGGAS R STOOPID, THAT RIGHT THERE IS INDICATIVE OF THE PERCENTAGE OF BLAME IN THE BLAME GAME WHEN U LET BM TELL IT. 99% OF THE PROBLEM IS BLK WMN FAULT AND ONLY 1% IS THEIR FAULT. SHYT, THEY PROB WOULD SAY GIVE THAT 1% OF BLAME TO THE WHITE MAN, THEY BLAME WHITEY FOR EVERYTHING ELSE. SMDH.... KNEEGROWS KILL ME.....
rappers only attract groupies not the real women doin it in life...i don't blame rappers attracting those type of women only when they always calling women out their names and not treating women equal and rappin bout hoes an [EXPLETIVE]..of course u gon attract what u speak about an show in your videos..OVER-materialistic gold diggers don't matter the race..slim thug u really disapointed me, even though u make a song on every album talkin bout u "back"..i rocked wit U 4real..but now i feel differently and i think u needa sit down an never do interviews doggin ur own race.
HERE IN THE US IT SEEMS AS THO BLACK MEN HATE THEIR ROOTS SO MUCH THEY TRY TO FIND EXCUSES AS TO Y THEY PREFER WHITE, HISPANIC, ASIAN WOMEN ETC. FUNNY THING IS IN THE UK ITS THE OTHER WAY ROUND BABY!!!! WHITE GUYS LOOOOOOVE BLACK WOMEN OH AND ITALIAN DUDES LOVE BLACK WOMEN TOO. SO IF U R A SINGLE BLACK FEMALE TIRED OF THESE LOOZER THUGS AND WANT TO BE APPRECIATED, THE UK IS THE BIZZNESS!!!!! OR ITALY
THIS THREAD IS POPPING ITS ONLY 2PM WHERE I AM AND ITS AT 431. WHEN I GET HOME U MUTHA PHUCKAS WILL GO TO SLEEP INSTEAD OF STAYING UP AND HASHING IT OUT WITH ME. ITS OK I STILL LOVE YALL. WHAT HAPPENED WITH THAT WHITE BYTCH LYFE WAS WITH? SIKE, IT WAS JUST A PICTURE COULD HAVE BEEN A FAN. ALSO, SOMEBODY SAID BW HAD A ROLE THAT THEY ABANDONED? WHAT ROLE IS THAT? THEY TAKE CARE OF THEIR KIDS HELP THEIR FAM AND FRIENDS TAKE CARE OF THEIR KIDS, THEY WORK, EDUCATE THEMSELVES... WHAT R THEY SUPPOSED TO DO?
MAN [EXPLETIVE] U SLIM THUG..I JUST DONT UNDERSTAND THIS ANYMORE...NOT ALL BLK WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT. JUST LIKE ALL WHITE WOMAN ARENT LIKE WHAT U JUST GLORIFIED...TALKIN BOUT THE WHITE IN HER IS WHAT KEPT HER COOKIN..WHITE PPLE FOOD AINT GOOD[THAS AN OPINION OUTSIDE OF THIS DISCUSSION] SOO I GUESS BLK WOMEN JUST STARVIN CUS WE AINT COOKIN..BULLSHIT
What a fcking idiot!!!! Does he not know that most of the white women he (and most black athletes and actors) are with are with them because they are golddiggers!!
He must NOT know many white women, because I do not know any white woman who just caters to their man's every wish. White women are just as label-loving. Please!! This is offensive to both black and white women. And he said that successful black men are extinct...black men should be offended too. I guess you're happy being lazy do-nothings though!
@THEREALBRAZIL: I COSIGN ALL THE WAY. I HAVE BEEN SAYING THAT FOR YRS, IT IS NOT ABOUT BLK WMN, IT NEVER WAS. THE BLK MAN WANTS THE WHITE WOMAN, IT DONT MATTER WHAT A BLK WMN DOES, HE DONT WANT U. ITS NOT AOUT LOOKS EITHER SO BLK WMN PLS STOP BUYING INTO THAT. IT IS ABOUT BEING PART OF A WINNING TEAM. THAT IS WHY THE BLK MN WANT TO BE WITH A WHITE WMN, THERES IS NOTHING U CAN DO, UNLESS U CAN CONTROL MINDS LIKE WHITE MEN. PLS ENUF, BLK WMN, THEY DONT WANT U BECAUSE U R NOT WHITE. AND THERE IS NOTHING U CAN DO TO CHANGE THAT.
@moediggedy...willie lynch is a myth..and by black folk propagating it..we do 2 things..1)we give white folks too much credit and power as our lord and masters..and 2)we make it harder for ourselves to break free from the self and group destructive and negating behaviors..that leave us in social, psychological and spiritual peril..but i dig what you are sayin'..but i assure you..the condition we collectively find ourselves in..is a result of a power system..that effects all peoples regardless of race..some more unfavorable than others.
And i'm sick of the idea that black women are supposed to put up with whatever we get. I dn't know any of my white friends who would be seen with a guy who didn't have a job, was a do-nothing, lazy, man-whore who leeches off of his parents are girlfriend and knocks up women. But black women are supposed to be happy with whatever we get. SMGDH!!
I dont think half these chicks would recognize a successful black man if they saw one. How would you know if a dude is successful or not when you first see him? I dont think black women are gold diggers any more than white, asian or hispanic women. I do think they are more materialistic tho. I also dont think ALL white women treat their men like kings. Some white women aint sh!t either
BLK WMN I LOVE U BUT, IM NOT SAYING DONT CHECK UR ATTITUDES, OR STOP TAKING CARE OF URSELF, GETTING FAT AND OBESE AINT CUTE, BEINGMATERIALISTIC AINT CUTE, HAVING KIDS ALL OVER THE PLACE AINT CUTE. I JUST MEANT THAT FOR A GOOD AMT OF BLK MEN, THEY WANT TO HAVE A PEICE OF THAT WHITE LIFE, WHATEVR THAT MEANS TO THEM, ITS DIFF FOR EVERYONE. A LOT OF IT IS MIXED KIDS, THEY FEEL THEY PRODUCED SOMETHING THAT EVERYONE WILL APPRECIATE, ALSO, BY HAVING A WHITE WMN SHOWS THEY R NOT WITH THAT IGNORANT NYGGER SHYT, AFTER ALL IF THEY WERE SHE WOULDNT WANT ME, ITS ANOTHER WAY OF GETTING PRIDE, YA DIG?
PUSSYMONSTER I dont think half these chicks would recognize a successful black man if they saw one. How would you know if a dude is successful or not when you first see him? I dont think black women are gold diggers any more than white, asian or hispanic women. I do think they are more materialistic tho. I also dont think ALL white women treat their men like kings. Some white women aint sh!t either
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Exactly. Well said.
@The Real Brazil--"IF MEN CAN SAY, "I WANT A CHICK THAT WILL LISTEN TO ME AND DO WHATEVA I SAY" THEN WOMEN SHULD ALSO BE ABLE TO SAY,.." --but you won't do what he says, regardless of what he does for you so why bother. And I'm not talking about an abusive man, just a man whose made a decision and attempts to override yours.
"FRANKLY IF A DUDE CAN NOT UPGRADE MY LIFE IN ANYWAY THEN I AM BETTER OFF DOING ME." -- Most females who say things like this aren't in a position to upgrade themselves, that's why they "rather do bad by themselves."
U HAVE TO UNDERSTAND HOW MEN THINK TO UNDERSTAND WHY, IN THIS SYSTEM WE ALL LIVE IN, THE BLK MEN FEELS EMASCULATED. Y WOULDNT HE? U HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THIS. U THEN TAKE THAT, THE HISTORY OF WHAT IT MEANT TO BE A MAN IN AFRICAN CULTURE OR OTHER CULTURES AND U WILL GET IT. HE IS TRYING TO GET HIS PRIDE BACK IN THIS SYSTEM, AND ONE WAY IS PROCREATING WITH WOMEN WHO R CONSIDERED DESIREABLE. U HAVE TO BE MAD AT THE WHITE MAN FOR IMMENSE INTELLECT AND TRICKERY, NOT MAD AT THE BLK MAN FOR HIS FRUSTRATION AND CONFUSION.... IT IS REALLY SAD, BECAUSE WHITE PPL HAVE ALREADY WON THIS....
therealbrazil is the chick Slim Thug is referring to. It ain't all Black women.
This chicken head going post after post about a guy, saying "who is he?". Well, who are you? You're the one on the internet getting emotional about what dude said.
If his opinion meant nothing to you, you wouldn't be barking.
You're saying dude is worth "aluminum", why is a man's worth monetary? See you're the gold digging chicken head who is only thinking about cash.
You're the chicken head we run away from cause we know you only looking for cash.
WHITE PPL HAVE ALREADY WON, BUT I AM NOT READY TO THROW IN THE TOWEL. ALSO, BLK WMN STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT WHAT BLK MEN DO, DO WHAT U HAVE TO DO TO MAKE URSELF HAPPY. HOW IS IT THAT U GIVE OTHERS THE POWER TO MAKE U HAPPY OR UNHAPPY AND WHY BE MAD AT WHITE WMN? THEY GOIN AFTER WHAT THEY WANT AND THEY R BENDING AND DOING WHATEVER IS NECESSARY, CAUSE THAT MAKES THEM HAPPY, LET THEM DO THEM. U GET WHAT U WANT OUT OF LIFE. U COMPLAIN ABOUT MEN THAT U DONT EVEN WANT! THAT IS SAD. DO U BLK WMN, UR QUEEN!
@Datouch WHEN YOU HATE AND DISRESPECT US , YOU ARE DISRESPECTING YOUR OWN MOTHER AND SISTER’S AND DAUGHTERS!!!!!!!!!!! YOU DUMB A$$ ! GET PULLED OVER IN THE WRONG PLACE AND SEE WHAT COLOR ARE YOU? Without us there would be no BLACK MAN !!! you are a IGNORANT Mofo! They have a website were white women post on how the black man run up behind them and worship the ground they walk on! RACE OF MEN THAT NO LONGER HAS A MIND OF THEIR OWN! WHATEVE WHITE MEDIA PUT OUT IS LAW TO YOU! FOLLOWERS SHOWING THEM THAT ARE SUPREME OVER ALL OTHER RACES! WITH YOUR RACIST COMMENTS AND ACTIONS! AGAIN WITHOUT THE BLACK WOMEN THEIR WOULD BE NO BLACK MAN!
Slim Thug and most rappers put all their emphasis on material possessions and none on substance. So these guys are attracting strictly women who share similar desire for materialism. But he is too stupid to realize this and goes on to blame all his stupidity on the women. Being wealthy alone can attract gold diggers but braggin' will only attract gold diggers. Not a woman who would look for substance beyond materialism. Slim Thug has no substance, he doesn't put emphasis on anything except materialism.
YALL KNOW DAMN WEL A WHITE WMN IS LOOKING FOR STABILITY. SHE DONT HAVE TO SA IT, SHE GRAVITATES TO IT. U KNOW BY LOOKING @ HER THAT U HAVE WHAT IT TAKES OR U DONT. WHY WOULD SHE MESS WITH A BROKE BLK MAN WHEN SHE CAN MESS WITH A RICH WHITE ONE. WHEN IT IS NOT ABOUT MONEY IT IS EITHER WITH WHITE TRASH, OR ITS WITH EDUCATION, WHERE AN UPPER MIDDLE CLASS WHITE WMN WANTS SOMEONE ON HER LEVEL WHO CAN FETCH A DECENT WAGE, NOT RICH BUT ABOVE AVG....SO..
I AM BY FAR SICK OF ALL THE IGNORANCE AND DISRESPECT TOWARDS BLACK WOMEN.... FIRST OF ALL, NOT ALL BLACK WOMEN ARE GOLD DIGGERS.... I KNOW WHITE GIRLS THAT ARE GOLD DIGGERS.. THAT USE MEN FOR MONEY AND DO WHAT THEY DO... WHAT DOES HE HAVE TO OFFER A GOOD EDUCATED WOMAN???? HE WAS BASICALLY A ONE HIT WONDER.. AND WASN'T HE GOING WITH LATOYA LUCKETT FOR A MINUTE.. IT BAFFLES ME HOW EVERYBODY MAKES HELLA SLURS.. THATS WHY WE SO [EXPLETIVE] UP NOW.. WE GOT FEMALES ON HERE THINK THEY ALL THAT JUST CAUSE THEY ARE BIRACIAL.. WE GOT OTHER DUMB ASS BROADS TALKING NEGATIVE ABOUT BROWNSKINNED WOMEN.. ITS SOO SAD THAT OUR ANCESTORS DIED AND FOUGHT FOR THIS [EXPLETIVE]..... NO WONDER THE MEN DON'T RESPECT US.. CAUSE HALF U DUMB BRAODS DON'T HAVE RESPECT FOR YOURSELF, AS WELL AS OTHERS.. SLIM THUG IS EXACTLY WHAT IS NAME SAY.. A THUG.. AND NO GOOD WOMEN IN THERE RIGHT MIND WOULD WANT TO BE BOTHERED WITH A MAN THAT (MIND U I SAID MAN) STILL OUT THERE HUSTLING OR WHATEVER.. THERE IS SUPPOSE TO BE A MUTUAL RESPECT BETWEEN THE MAN AND WOMAN.. A WOMAN IS A MAN'S HELPMATE.. NOT SERVANT.. U DON'T WANT TO BE WITH SOMEONE BECAUSE THEY DO EVERYTHING THAT U TELL THEM TO DO.. THATS SOME BULLSHIT!!!!! I AM SICK OF IT ALL.. LADIES.. GROW THE [EXPLETIVE] UP.. MEN.. GROW THE [EXPLETIVE] UP!!!! POINT BLANK....
mikeharris always talks about women.. and how they need to get a job.. and we are pathetic.. but every [EXPLETIVE] POST on here YOU Have a comment or tWo.... U MUST DON'T HAVE A JOB .. U HAVE TOO MUCH TIME ON YOUR HANDS.. GET A CLUE... PICK UP SOME READING MATERIAL.. SUMPTN.. U ALWAYS GOT SOMETHING TO SAY.... LET THE NEXT COMMENT U MAKE... FINALLY MAKE SOME SENSE
@ PUSSYMONSTER
BY UPGRADING ME I MEAN I CAN TAKE U TO MEET MY PARENTS AND MY DADDY WONT WANNA SHOOT YO AZZ THINKING U R TRYN TO ROB US. BY UPGRADING ME I MEAN YOU CAN COME TO MY JOB AND THE SECURITY PERSONAL WILL NOT ACTIVATE AN INVASION CODE ON YOU. IN OTHER WORDS, U HAVE TO COMPLEMENT ME AND THAT MEANS U MUST LOOK PRESENTABLE ALL THE TIME. PERSONALLY, I PREFER EDUCATED MEN, BACHELORS DEGREE OR BETTER, WITH A HEAD ON THEIR SHOULDERS AND I WILL BE HONEST, IF U HAVE $$$ THATS A PLUS. IF U HAVE POTENTIAL TO MAKE $ THATS A PLUS TOO COZ CURRENTLY, I AM MAKING ENUF $ TO TAKE CARE OF MYSELF AND DONT WANNA WIND UP WITH A GHETTO THUG WHO I WILL HAVE TO USE MY PAYCHECK TO HELP HIM PAY HIS CHILD SUPPORT TO HIS 7 DIFFERENT BABY MAMMAS.
how in the hell are u going to want someone attractive.. that can cook.. clean.. and all that other stuff.. and CLEARLY you are not cute at all... and why should a woman sit and serve a mofo that sits on his ass... make sure he always have the FIRST comment on MTO.... and is so disrespectful... I KNOW FA SHO U DON'T MAKE 50 THOUSAN A YEAR.. NOT HOW YOU LOOK IN UR PICS... U LOOK WORN AND TIRED.. MAYBE FROM BEING UP ON THIS MOFO ALL DAY.... YOU WANT A FREAK IN THE BED.. U PROLLY LAST 5 MINS.. IF THAT.... LMAO... I KNOW U ARE STILL IN HIGHSCHOOL.... LOL
@outtaline...my brother..that was a reasonable question..and i dig where you comin' from..i never been with a woman from another race..but one of my brothers is married to a white woman..and he will snatch a mafukers neck off they shoulders if you look at our momma wrong..and i bet you'd do the same..people and the world are more complicated..then a theory that sounds good..life is good my brother..keep on beatin'..lol.
How can men who look up to nothing but rappers who put half naked video-hos in their videos, tacky rims, etc. then turn around and criticize black women for being materialistic?? And anyone here saying that black women are more materialistic than white women DO NOT know many white women, at all, and do have a lot of experience with them! I have lived in areas and gone to school with predominately higher-income white peers my whole life. Pretending that white girls are not materialistic is absolutely laughable. LAUGHABLE. To say that black girls are MORE materialistic is laughable. Most black girls are materialistic because they're wanting to keep up with white girls with the latest YSL or Fendi. I think most black girls probably don't have the luxury of being spoiled with LV, so yes its maybe more alluring when they're able to obtain it.
LMFAO @ SLIM POCKETS THUG, [EXPLETIVE] NONSENSE AND COON LOL anyways 1. BLACK MEN are gold diggers just as much as any balck women becuz they say [EXPLETIVE] like "i'm with my white girl becuz she BUYS me [EXPLETIVE] and takes care of me"??? wtf look how hypocritical that is!! people are [EXPLETIVE] idiots and it's more successful black women out there then black men becuz they are all waiting for a white women to come take care of their ass!! white women gold dig so much more, has everyone just ignored all The real housewives of gold diggin WHITE women..HELLO!! at least the black women on any real housewives all have there on business, white women just sit around and drink their money they dug for away ugh!
Black men need to stop lying and just admit that they put all things white in higher esteem. I know a couple girls' fathers, who were black but married to white women, who became UPSET that their children brought home black dates. That is just sad to me.
I'm so over there being discussion of what black women should "take." I go to a top university and plan on making a good living. I'll be damned if I have to "settle" for a McDonald's manager, when no one would expect a woman of any other race to.
Not that anyone is reading this far but I just had to comment because I read too many posts like this. Yes Slim Thug can have his opinion. Here is mine:
Maybe it is certain Black men that need to up the standards. If you are looking for a quality women stop looking for them in the club or finding them on Facebook because they have a big ass on their profile. Why look for the female that is not doing anything with her life. If she was spending her own entire paycheck on some Louboutins, then she will also spend your paycheck on the same.
@therealbrazil I think that was kinda stereotypical. There are plenty of educated black men with bachelor degrees or better who are making good money or have the potential to make good money (myself included). How would you recognize that type of man if he approached you? I think it should be a way for black educated men and women to network and find each other. I think they both exist but for whatever reasons are not being connected.
lol, WOW. Too me if anybody should be offended it should be the men. He said GOOD men are kinda extinct. So in other words black woman suppose to lower their standards because a lot of black men ain't shyt. lol WOW!
He just threw his entire career down the garbage.
It's funny black woman are golddiggers but the only men white woman date or athletes, rappers, lawyers and Dr....Huh slim think about what you just said?
I have high standards for myself and men. I don't think I should have to date a man who is not trying to obtain something in life. I love when my man takes me out places and buys me gifts. Does that make me a gold digger not at all. I do the same for him. He knows he can ask me to pay for something and I will. I come out and offer to pay for things (dinners, trips, gifts ect). I like to cook for him, I don't mind cleaning, I would love to have his kids. Why? Because he deserves it. He is in college and holds a job. I cherish that and treat him more than well. If a man deserves it He will getit
@ fineasshell...Mike Harris in my neighbor. he walks with a cane when he's not wearing his cliff shoe. One legs longer then the other. He only stands 5 ft. one. he has short man's disease, he can't help it. only white girls come over to bring him McDonald's. He fronts a lot like he's got it going on and he has a dent in his head, reason for the baseball cap. The hospital gave it to him for being a good patient. The accident happened when he was about twelve years old. As a little boy, Mike took the short bus to school and never made it past fifth grade.
To all the black women in including Mike's deceased mom, I apologize for his idiocy comments he makes all the time on this site to black women. He doesn't know any better.
Wow, all the white woman are chasing athletes but they're not GOLDDIGGERS? lol
When you see a white woman with a blackman he usually have money. So you think that was just a coincidence?????
It's funny Jay Z, Nas, T.I. Obama and Ludacris have no problem finding a good black woman. Slim may want to take a look at his self.
@bourgie_girl You made a good point and I think thats one of the main differences between men and women. A man making good money would date a woman who makes far less money and has less education than him and will try to bring her up if he feeling her like that. Most women would never do that for a man. A billionaire like Tiger Woods, or a multi millionaire like Steve McNair would date a restaurant waitress workin off tips. A woman with that kind of money wouldnt look twice at a dude workin in a restaurant and try to bring him up. Plus, some women with degrees and good jobs get very arrogant and get they ass so far up on they shoulders and look down at dudes they think not on they level wit a arrogant attitude
@ PUSSYMONSTER
YEAH I AGREE I WAS A BIT STEREOTYPICAL AND YEAH THERE ARE SOME EDUCATED BROTHERS WITH A BACHELORS AND THE SAD THING IS THOSE R THE ONES WHO HAD TO STRUGGLE TO MAKE THEIR $$$ AND SOMETIMES MAY HAVE GREW UP IN POVERTY AND PSYCHOLOGICALLY, THEY WANT TO ERASE THAT PART OF THEIR LIFE SO BADLY THAT THEY WANT TO DO AWAY WITH EVRYTHING THAT REMINDS THEM OF IT AND WIND UP WITH SOME WHITE GIRL. NOW WITH SLIM THUG, HE GREW UP IN THE HOOD AND NOW THAT HE FEELS LIKE HE'S "SUCCESSFUL" HE WANTS TO DISSOCIATE HIMSELF FROM IT AND HIS MENTALITY ABOUT BLACK WOMEN, (BASED ON HIS PERSONAL EXPERIENCE IN THE PROJECTS) IS THAT ALL BLACK WOMEN R GOLDDIGGERS AND BLAH BLAH BLAH. WHAT A FREAKING LOOZER!
Europeans no longer have to wear a KKK sheet, we're wearing it. Europeans no longer have to make us feel inferior, we make each other feel inferior. Europeans no longer have to dumb us down, we dumb ourselves down by choosing to stay ignorant. Slim Thug is an ignorant man and his comments prove he is a tragic BM. African Americans uplifting a race who once stripped away all their human rights and have stripped away their identity. Now their strippin' away their self love.
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I don't have to BOW DOWN to a man and I feel like he shoudn't either. We are equals. We stand up side by side and hold each other and our family down.
I don't know where most men on this site find their women but obviously they are not looking in the right places. I am school for my Ph. D in Psychology, I work a full time job and still make time for my family, MAN and friends. I have 10 other very close friends who have graduated this year alone seeking a higher degree. I went to Hampton University where there were plenty of Beautiful Woman who were on there way to be a success
Its not just black womens fault per se. I dont agree with putting it all on the black woman.
BLACK PEOPLE IN GENERAL ARE WAY TOO MATERIALISTIC PERIOD ! NYGGAS WILL DRIVEV AN ESCALADE AND LIVE IN THE PROJECTS AND THINK NOTHING OF IT.
I HATE TO ADMIT IT, BUT HE'S RIGHT ABOUT WHITE GIRLS. NOT ONE OF THEM THAT I EVER DATED EVER CARED HOW MUCH MONEY I MADE, YET I COULDN'T HAVE STEPPED TO SOME OF THE SISTAS I'VE DATED IF I DIDNT HAVE PAPER AT THE TIME.
SORRY BUT ITS TRUE. SISTAS DO THINK NYGGAS OWE THEY @SSES SOMETHING. THAT IS OBVIOUS.
When did BLACKMEN become the KKK???
They trippin, I guess they forgot black woman owned more businesses and make more money then they do by 4x's. If this rap shyt fail off the market, most of they @$$'s would be drug dealers.
I love blackmen but not the ignorant ones like slim thug.
I guess that's why he silenced the awards last night. He and chamillionaire performances was the only two that the crowd was quiet on. lol
Now he just tossed his career all the way out the window.
Slim thug is so ignorant and ignorant older men breed even more ignorant sons. Its would of been much smarter of him and anyone to say some or in his experience. There's some white woman that won't touch a dish and can't be seen with someone with no status or cash. Each person should be willing to give in the relationship and find a good balance together. Men don't run and shouldn't try to run sh** and niether should women. Good women of any race should be showered and a Good men of any race deserves to be held down. Slim thug needs to get over himself!
@ CREAMGIRL
I COSIGN BUT U KNOW Y A LOT OF ATHLETES END UP WITH WHYT GIRLS? COZ MOST OF THE TIME, THEY MEET IN COLLEGE. WHITE GIRL IS ON THE CHEERLEADING SQUAD AND BOOYAH!!!!THE BAIT IS SET. WHYT GIRLS R SMART. THEY KNOW HOW TO SET THE BAIT EARLY AND THEN REEL IT IN. THE MORAL OF THE STORY IS, I FORGOT WHAT I WAS GONNA SAY, ITS LUNCH TIME, I'M HUNGRY LOL
Lastly I need to stop reading these type of posts. They only make me sad for the Black race. The men on this site seem to agree for the most part. I don't know if thats how a lot of the women they encounter act or if they are plan ignorant. Some don't even realize that this so called rapper also played black men saying that the successful ones are almost extinct. So in other words most of you men, in slim thugs opinion, are not [EXPLETIVE] either. At least thats my interpretation.
Either way when I step into my classroom and see that most of the Black students are FEMALE I can only think one thing.
#1 “Most single Black women feel like they don’t want to settle for less. Their standards are too high right now. They have to understand that successful Black men are kind of extinct.”
VERY TRUE successful black man ARE EXTINCT, Black women out number black men 4:1 in obtaining Bachelor degrees, and 3:1 in Professional degrees.
AND HERE IS WHERE THE PROBLEM LIES, instead of Black men embracing these facts, stepping their game up, or even being proud of the fact that their other half (black women) are stronger, brighter, and more willing than ever to find a successful black men to love and be down for. They run away and date hood rats who indeed spend their money and wreck havoc because according to black men like Mr. Slim Thug here stated above “WOMEN HAVE TO BOW DOWN” Black men are their own worse enemies, life is not about finding the easy way out and men and women regardless of race will get burnt every time they seek to do so.
#2 “White women treat they man like a king and Black women feel like they ain’t gotta do that *****. Black women need to stand by their man more.”
REALLY??? The number of black women standing by their man and refusing to leave while he cheats, is incarcerated, or trying to figure himself out is astronomical. My Mother chased my father around for 30+ years, while she raised 4 children on her own and I hated her for it, to this day she has not divorced him, even though he fathered other children. And trust the reason why so many black families consist of single parent households is due to similar circumstances. NO race of women will ever collectively love and appreciate blk men as blk women do. A gold digger is gold digger she has no color, and the majority of white women athletes, celebrities, etc. date and marry are housewives who are jobless and have no education, where’s the 50/50 equation slim thug seeks, and because they bow down they’re better than black women? SMDH
TRUST, a black women sees a good catch or a bad apple, just as a black male does, if she chooses to keep it stepping more power to her, because black men made that decision a long time ago, and practice it daily. SLIM THUG WHO??? via readyforit *two thumbs up!*
Aint no bigger gold digger than white chicks. Those bit.ches have been trained from birth to get the money. They are taught to stay with their cheating as.s. husbands to make sure the keep the money. White Bit.ches aint new to that game, they are true to that shi.t! Black women are trying to feel themselves around, still finding their way. They aint got the Gold Digging Game down packed yet!! via The_Stars_Critic *two thumbs up!*
DANG!!!!!I Want TUPAC back, he seemed to be the only Rapper that truly understood this BULLSHYT with the KKK turning us against each other and he was the only RAPPER STRONG ENOUGH TO SPEAK ON IT.
T.I., Diddy, JAY Z, NAS or somebody with some sense or education need to speak all the way up and shut these insecure losers DOWN.
NOT TO MENTION HE HAD A GOOD BLACK WOMAN THAT HAS HER OWN SH** BUT HE FU**ED IT UP CHASING THE BROKE A** HOES THAT HE'S REFERRING TO AS GOLD DIGGERS... WHAT DO YOU EXPECT? APPARENTLY, YOU HAVE NOTHING ELSE TO OFFER A WOMAN OTHER THAN MONEY... MEN LIKE TO FLASH, SHOW OFF AND THROW MONEY AND WHAT THEY CAN DO FOR YOU IN YOUR FACE BUT WHEN YOU TAKE ADVANTAGE THEY GET MAD... CLEARLY THAT'S HOW YOU APPROACHED SO THAT'S WHAT YOU GOT IDIOT!
OH I REMEMBERED WHAT I WAS GONNA SAY, OH AND THEN WHEN THE COLLEGE ATHLETE MAKES IT TO THE NBA OR NFL IN HIS HEAD HEZ LIKE, DAAAMN "JESSICA" IS A REAL RYDE OR DIE CHICK COZ SHE WAS MY #1 FAN SINCE COLLEGE." BUT LIL DOES HE KNOW THAT THIS BIICH IS AN UNDERCOVER GOLDDIGGER. SMH 5 YRS LETTER, SHE GOT HALF HIS $ AND HE PAYING SHILD SUPPORT FOR 18YRS!!
@kattdaddy2...ah..something we agree upon.."black people in general are way too materialistic period!"..in much the same manner as most people(irregardless of race) living in eurocentric power systems..BUT..once we learn how to break away from the unnatural pursuit of inanimate material goods..and equating these goods with happiness and succcess..THEN..we can/will begin the process of experiencing true freedom..the last part is something we probably don't agree upon..but i could be wrong..
Damn, The only thing I agree with him on is that black women don't like to cook for anyone now. They are to busy trying to wear the pants.
However the rest of what he said is complete bullshyt. White women are the biggest gold diggers on the face of the earth. Come on now, white women stalk NBA players non stop trying to land some rich black idiot with a lot of money. Idk how people came to the conclusion that black women are gold diggers.
Everybody givethis nobody fool a hand ( or at least a backhand..lol) for being the latest girly man to verballly lynch the Black Woman!! It totally escapes me why any woman especially the Black Woman wouldn't want someone called "Slim Thug" Let me assure you that the white and biracial female suits this coon just fine. He has now arrived now please leave the Black Women alone!!
THIS IS MY FINAL COMMENT AND I'M OUT:
I REALLY DONT CARE WHAT RACE ANYONE IS ATTRACTED TO COZ ITS 2010, BUT JUST REMEMBER YOUR ROOTS AND DONT TRY TO FIND SOMETHING WRONG WITH ONE RACE OR THE OTHER JUST TO JUSTIFY YOUR PREFERENCE. YOU LIKE WHAT U LIKE, FINE BUT DONT TRY TO DOWN OTHER RACES.
K, GOOD DAY PEOPLE!!!1
well i wouldn't say all but i would say 9 out of every 10 blk female you run into fall under what he just said. Also ill have to side with blk females who work for their [EXPLETIVE] and wouldn't settle for broke ni&&ers. i just recently blast a friend for doing exactly that. F%%ck these lazy coon ni&&ers.
@The Real Brazil - Congratulations (seriously, beyond our disagreement of sorts) I completed my MBA last month. My issue is that when a man, no matter how inarticulate Slim is, says something anti-bw, it turns into a bm as a whole aren't [EXPLETIVE] conversation. If a bw made the same statements about a bm in an interview, somehow bw would cling to her & praise her "honesty." Wealthy or not, the idea that men must somehow play a traditional role, while women abandon theirs will always be bullshi.t in my book.
The black community is suffering right about now. Black people despise one another. We have survived slavery, genocide, and oppression for what? During these so called "peaceful" times of integration black people have become their own worse enemies. Black people killing one another in the street, black people getting incarcerated, black men and women at each others throats.
The black community needs a REAL leader to unify us as a people because this shyt right here is sad.
OKAY he did say a relationship has to be 50/50 I'll give him that. It is a sad thing when our own people can't even love each other. Let's be real Golddiggers don't discriminate lmbo they come in all shapes sizes and forms. If the males know this they hav eto think about the type of women they are attracting and know how to distinguish the difference between a real woman and a golddigger. Now as far as "taking care of" men love that nurturing aspect, but in short it's a song that goes "If U want a do right, honest woman, u gotta be a do right honest man" and vice versa STOP think about it
@MANIFEST: LOL, I DONT KNOW WHY THAT SOME SISTAS DONT WANT TO COOK. I LIKE TO COOK AND I COOK 5 DAYS A WEEK. I COOK BECAUSE, WELL IF U HAVE A FAMILY U SHOULD, Y DEPEND ON SOMEONE TO COOK FOR U KIDS AND UR MAN. IFU NNED SOMEBODY TO COOK FOR HIM, THEY MIGHT AS WELL PHUCK TOO, U AINT DOINT IT! ALSO, I AM PARANOID, I THINK PPL R DIRTY AND ALWAYS OUT TO GET ME, SO I WONT ALLOW THEM ACCESS TO MY NOURISHMENT LIKE THAT, ONLY ONCE IN A WHILE....
@dreayonn..that's right on brother!..i have been making the call for black people to stop supporting rap music..once they(white record execs) seen it could be used as a vehicle for black conscious social awareness(i.e. public enemy, bdp, xclan, poor righteous teachers)..that could mobilize black men to empower themselves with knowledge of self..it was determined to quash that movement and replace it a gangster/thug image..that promotes disharmony and mistrust of fellow blacks in our collective communities..black people..please do not support the current rap artists/music...it is all an attempt to influence low level behavior and thinking..
@TheRealBrazil-- "BY UPGRADING ME I MEAN I CAN TAKE U TO MEET MY PARENTS AND MY DADDY WONT WANNA SHOOT YO AZZ THINKING U R TRYN TO ROB US. BY UPGRADING ME I MEAN YOU CAN COME TO MY JOB AND THE SECURITY PERSONAL WILL NOT ACTIVATE AN INVASION CODE ON YOU." But these are things women should clear before he ever meets your father or comes to your job. This is what I mean by women needing to be responsible for whom THEY choose. But most won't. Most will choose the man they know they shouldn't be with, get dogged, then turn around and claim all bm are that way.
SLIM THUG AIN'T SHYT!!! JUS ANOTHER BYTCH AZZ [EXPLETIVE] WHO DONE FELL OFF AND NOW HE TRYIN TO HATE BECAUSE BLACK WOMEN DON'T WANT HIS UGLY AZZ NO MORE!!! HE NEED TO GET HIS AZZ BEAT FOR DISRESPECTING HIS MAMMA, GRANDMAMMA AND ANY OTHER STRONG BLACK FEMALES WHO WAS IN HIS LIFE BEFORE HE BECAME SUCCESSFULL!! I CANT STAND IGNORANT BLACK MEN WHO GET MONEY AND ALL OF SUDDEN TURN ON THEIR OWN RACE. DAMN SHAME!!
Well my advice to black house ni99ers like Slim Thug is for them to continue to date non-black. They're part of the problem that's going on in the black community, i.e. standing in and out of jail, giving our black women HIV, selling drugs, not taking care of their children, abusive, controlling, won't commit, etc...but they don't see their flaws. Besides, what has Slim Thug ever done, besides rap? Give me a fxcking break. He's the least person who should try to give advice. I also don't understand if these black men date non-black why do they focus so much on what black women won't do if
their non-black women is holding them down? Are they really happy? I think that black men don't really know what the hell they really want. I said it once and I'll say it again, black men really want a robot. Someone who they can program and control. All white women are NOT submissive towards their man. If black men want us black women to be submissive then they need to start acting right as well. It's easy to put the blame on the other gender. Slim Thug is scum!
Sista's stop supporting these Black Men that degrade you! Stop buying their music! Slim Thug need to ask his mother, sister, female cousins, and grandmother what they think about his interview of with Vibe Magazine. BW need to start dating & marrying nonblackmen, expand your options, don't lower your standards!
Someone need to tell him of the meeting that President Barack Obama had last week to discuss the emergency health crisis of Black Men being the largest carriers of AIDS/HIV. Black Men need to come to THE TABLE WITH MORE THAN A FELONY RECORDS, HIV/AIDS, AND A BAG OF DIRTY CLOTHS.
@manifest..that's the tricknology..there has not been any peace time in the last 2500 yrs for black people..most black people(my guess 95+%)..don't know that there is/has been a war waged against us for over 2 1/2 milleniums..wake up people..look at how every negative social condition affects is in disproportionate numbers..it's not cuz we are more immoral or less intelligent..it's cuz we are being targeted..we need to seperate from these people..physically if possible..but if not..seperate our values, principals, behaviors and customs..if not we shall surely perish in the manner for which they intend..
as a Black woman, the crux of what he's saying has merit, but he just isn't articulating it well. Black wmn need to embrace and retain many of the traditional roles that the feminist movement has tried to strip away. I'm all for a woman being independent, but it doesn't mean you emasculate a man in the process of trying to define who you are. Providing the traditional support to a man and vice versa in no way precludes our advancements as women. Look, men need to be needed as do we ladies; it's a reciprocal process. The relationship should be one of interdependence, can't be both sexes ladies
For the record, WHITE WOMEN(not all) ARE SOME OF THE BIGGEST GOLD-DIGGERS THERE IS. Their parents raise them to be natural born gold-diggers. How are black women gold-diggers if these so called black men don't want our asses? Just face it black men, a lot of you all are just so white washed it's pretty sad. You all have self hatred issues.
SLIM THUG IS A MORONIC THUG. HE IS A BLACK KKK. SOME THINGS SHOULD NOT BE SAID. WHY DENIGRATE YOUR OWN RACE OF WOMEN? WE HAVE ENOUGH NEGATIVE CRITICISM FROM OTHER RACES WITHOUT HIM ADDING TO THE NEGATIVITY. HE MUST HAVE FORGOTTEN THAT HIS MOTHER, SISTERS, AUNTS, AND COUSINS ARE BLACK WOMEN. THE BLACK WOMAN HAS ALWAYS BEEN THE BACKBONE OF THE BLACK RACE. THUGS LIKE HIM HAVE MADE EVERY EFFORT TO BRING THE BLACK WOMAN DOWN.
f@ck slim thug. he damn right ima gold digger bc if i dont take your money then u gon try to be in my pockets bc black men are lazy, and unambitious and always looking for a comeup. NO ROMANCE W/O FINANCE. whether i got my own money or not. dont no real woman want no "slim thug" anyway, so his opinion is irrelevant.
@fabulousweetie
Well I'm beginning to become VERY worried about the future of the black community. We will not last long as a race of people if this nonstop infighting continues. It is suicidal as a people.
Hopefully the black community can get someone that generally cares about our well being. A leader that can guide us on the right path.
Anyway I'm out for today.
wow alot of opinions on this story, I kinda agree with slim Im a 38yr old blk male, me & my wife whos blk has been together 21yrs We have convos bout this, and I have said stuff similiar we have family & friends we see go thru it. we both agree, not all blk women but alot are one sided want a man to give & give them, and think givin him sex in return is enuff, not only blk women blk males mentality is crazy too. mostly evry young blk male thinks saggin his pants is cool a thug or not a punk, or goin to jail is cool after commiting a crime against another black person. and the drug selling!oboy
Every conscious person knows that Slim Thug is part of a growing number of Black Savages running loose. I guess he had to create some drama to get people talking about an otherwise forgettable rapper. If he has everything he has ever imagined in his white female, then why us it that the Black female is never far from his mind?Don't fight what cones natural "bruh." Any white female reading his interview should feel more offended than prideful..Doormat is what he described.
@ tuff-tony
I respect that brotha. U know what im sayin. the second statement i agree, im generalizing a bit using my own personal experience.
Men will date any woman regardless of money or status. But women are less likely to date a man who has or makes less money than her. This goes across all racial lines.
But in my experience what i said is true and i hate to say it. The sistas ive dated have been way more materialistic in my opinion, and most of the non-black women i dated never cared how much money i made. They only cared that i had a fairly decent job, car. That i wasn't some sorry nygga off the street.
IGNORANT RAPPERS LIKE HIM STARTED ALL THIS NEGATIVITY IN SOCIETY TOWARD BLACK WOMEN. THEY WREAKED HAVOC ON THE BLACK WOMAN BY MAKING THESE IMMORAL RAP VIDEOS, AND CALLING BLACK WOMEN VILE NAMES IN THEIR SONGS. THEY MADE ALL OF THIS FOUL MUSIC JUST TO MAKE MONEY. THEY ALONE HAVE DESTROYED THE BLACK WOMAN'S REPUTATION. STOP SUPPORTING THEM;DON'T BUY THEIR MUSIC.
@tuff-tony
lol well I don't hate fabulousweetie, she just annoys me sometimes lmfao. We always clash with one another.
Anyway I agree with your previous statement.The black community is as war, Black people have become too universal during integration.They seem to actually believe whites have changed which is not true. The existence of white people will always be a plaque to black people.The African mind and the European mind have complete opposite views from one another. They will never be able to coexist together. This is evident.Black people need to unify and see who the real enemy is
Slim Thugs had a few points, but only on a small percentage of AA woman, however he did a lot of stereotyping. As a race, we are extremely materialistic... buying huge houses we can not afford, spending thousand dollars on expensive bags and shoes and buying fancy cars with expensive Rims but living in an apartment... Getting on AA men, what about the dude commiting crimes and going in and out of jail,or the dude that dont didnt further his education and so he feels he is to good to get a job that pays mimnimum wage because of his pride.. I feel like this, there is nothing wrong with a man providing for his family and being the head of the house hold. Other races do it and dont complain.. but why when AA woman want it, we are seen as gold digging, ghetto trash? I think it is a double standard. Now, dont get me wrong, I do agree woman should work and assist with the bills because two paychecks can go longer than one... but just because we want a mate that can help provide... whats wrong with that... now I am not talkin about nails, hair and expensive bags... I am talking about the basic needs. Anyway, black love is beautiful and we need to stick together and stop kicking each other down. They stereotype us and misrepresent us in the media enough.
MATERIALISTIC? WHAT IS THAT BIG GOLD CHAIN AROUND HIS NECK. HE PROBABLY PAID THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS FOR IT. THE PRICE OF THAT CHAIN PROBABLY WOULD BUILD A HOME FOR, OR FEED SOME NEEDY PEOPLE. WHY IS HE WALKING AROUND LOOKING LIKE A BUM, IF HE HAS MONEY ? WHY DOESN'T HE INVEST IN SOME SUITS TO LOOK DECENT. GET AN EDUCATION IGNORAMUS, THERE IS SOMETHING YOU CAN DO RATHER THAN DEGRADE BLACK WOMEN.
@kattdaddy2
Can you please stfu with that " black women are more materialistic" statement?
The black community in general has a very materialistic mindset. Materialism is not subjective to black women.
I know some bruthas that get paid 500 dollars a week and they blow it all of jordans, jewlry, and rims for their car. Black people always have a desire to wear the most flashy bullshyt. So stop saying only black women do it because that is a lie.
It truly pains me to say this. But in my experience, non-black women treat the blazck men that they are with better than the sistas they've dated. They are more supportive and less about the bullshyte.
And then here come the hater @ss sistas hatin sayin that they are way to strong to kiss our @sses. Well, that white girl aint kissin my @ss bytch ! She just treatin me how a man wants to be treated without drama and bullshyte.
And sistas to this day still wonder why nyggas is leavin their @sses for non-black women ??? Well isnt it obvious ? And u bytches thst say F@#k that coon, we dont need his @ss. Well what u gonna say when the last nygga leaves the last sista for a non-black woman. Yall dont understand that yall could lose us completely. The numbers of ir relationships are increasing exponentially every day. It may not matter to u bytches now, but i guarantee u it will matter to yo @sses one day. like when your grandkids cant find a decent black person to marry and have kids with.
@manifest..we don't need one leader..we been conned into thinking that we do..somebody tell me..who is the leader of white americans?..who is the leader of messycan americans?..who is the leader of native indian americans?..who is the leader of asian americans?..why is there no call for a prominate leader to shepherd these people into a state of social and psychological well-being..the only reason there is/was a call for a black leader..so that the collective can be passified and controlled by one person..and that one person(leader) can be manipulated and bought by the establishment..we need 40 million leaders..40 million black people committed to the shared upliftment of each other..a paradigm shift in our whole way of thinking, feeling, and beliving..we haven't lost the war..but we are losing..
BLACK WOMEN LOST THEIR ASS, GAINED MORE ATTITUDE AND EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE. NOT ONLY DO BLACK WOMEN EXPECT THIS KING SAVIOR TYPE [EXPLETIVE], BUT THEY STILL WONT TRUST HIM OR WILL DEF MAEK MONEY AN ISSUE. I DONT KNOW WHATS GOING ON NOWADAYS BUT BLACK WOMEN ARENT WHAT THEY USED TO BE> MAYBE IT HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH SHITTY BLACK MEN?
FUK A DAMN SLIM THUG. US BLJ WOMAN R JUST SMART. WTF WE WANT WIT A BROKE AZZ DUDE. YEAH MONEY IS EVERYTHING U GOTTA PAY BILLS WIT MONEY, U GOTTA EAT WIT MONEY. LIKE LISA RAY SAID" GOLD DIGGIN WAS MY HIGH SCHOOL DAYS, IM DIGGIN FOR PLATIUM NOW. SLIM THUG SOUND LIKE A JACKASS. HE BETTA GO HOLLA AT TIGERWOODS.
WHITE WOMEN WROTE THE BOOK ON BEING GOLD DIGGERS FOR EXAMPLE;TIGER'S WIFE ELIN, KIM K (MOTHER AND SISTERS), KENDRA, AND SHANNON PRICE. SHANNON IS TRYING TO SELL PICTURES OF GARY COLEMAN WHILE HE WAS IN THE HOSPITAL DYING. SHANNON WOULD NOT EVEN RENDER AID TO GARY WHILE HE WAS DOWNSTAIRS ON THE FLOOR INJURED. SHE STAYED UPSTAIRS.
@ psychmaj
Cosign.
Instead of tearin the guy down, let's investigate and discuss and see if what he says has any merit whatsoever, and he does. (as a Black woman, the crux of what he's saying has merit, but he just isn't articulating it well. Black wmn need to embrace and retain many of the traditional roles that the feminist movement has tried to strip away. I'm all for a woman being independent, but it doesn't mean you emasculate a man in the process of trying to define who you are. Providing the traditional support to a man and vice versa in no way precludes our advancements as women. Loo
@tuff-tony
The other community don't require leaders because they have not been the main targets of systematic racism, oppression, police brutality, and media scrutiny.
Black people need another Malcolm X. Someone who was genuine, refused to compromise with the enemy, and sacrificed it all to make strides towards healing the psychology wounds of black people.
Jessie jackson and AL sharpton are idiots. They are con-artist that only exploit the black community for financial gain.
secondly, nothing screams materialistic more than that big chain he has around his neck. You can't be a walking contradiction.
Third, women are naturally attracted to men who can be thought of as a good provider and men are driven by being that provider. If you don't a woman to notice you, look like a bum.
Now, there are some women who are certainly attracted to only money, but of course what I find interesting is that these same men with all these oversized pendants and chains tend to attract these type of women. Quality attracts quality, PERIOD.
@ manifest
Black folks dont need a damn leader to follow. I agree with tony. We dont need another capt. save a hoe !
We need to do this for ourselves as individuals. We need to find a way to settle our differences with one another. Sistas and brothas hate each other somewhat. We need to fix that or their will soon be no such thing as the black family anymore. It's almost extinct as it is.
@katdaddy2
I can read just fine, obviously you have issues comprehending your own statements. You stated " black women are more materialistic than other races of women". This is not true. For you to actually believe this shyt makes me question your intelligence as a man.
sistas have a few issues but I don't think gold digging is one.
BLACK WOMEN KEEP YOUR STANDARDS HIGH. BLACK MEN GET AN EDUCATION. THE WHITE MAN IS BUILDING PRISONS FOR YOU; EVEN PRIVATE PRISONS. THE NEW SLAVES ARE THE BLACK MEN IN PRISON. BLACK MEN STOP ABANDONING YOUR CHILDREN. YOUR SONS AND DAUGHTERS NEED YOU. OF COURSE, THERE ARE GOOD BLACK MEN OUT THERE DOING WHAT A MAN IS SUPPOSED TO DO.
@kattdaddy2
Black people do need a positive leader to follow. Black people are wondering in the dark without their being a light to lead them out of the tedious times that we are in.
Black people are failing miserably as a community right now. Any one that says we don't need a leader is in serious denial.
Ahhhh I love my haters !!!!
Hi Haters ! Hi Haters !!!
@ psychmaj
By far you have the most intelligent comments on this issue. You are lookin beyond what Slim is sayin and focusing on whats important instead of the trivial comments that make the sistas in here feel dissed. Not saying they dont have valid reasons to be upset, but there are more important issues to be discussed that this topic brings up.
why does addressing a concern for your race equals bashing & hatred? Why would he address any other race of women if he only has a concern for his own...thats exactly what he talking bout..YAL EASILY INFLUENCED LET MTO INSTIGATE HATE AGAINST THE MAN BY USING WORDS LIKE "GOLD DIGGER" AND PUTTING THEIR OWN FOOLISH 2 CENTS IN ABOUT WHAT HE SAID...PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT HE SAID..ITS SAID HE'S FALLING TO PREY BECAUSE HE FEEL LIKE HE CAN DEAL WITH HIS OWN & IT DEMONSTRATES SOME WEAKENS BUT IF HE HAS RAN INTO CASE OVER & OVER WHAT DO EXPECT HIM TO SAY..DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL
Wow, black men have a lot to say negative about black women and how we need to do better. However, they are not willing to take any responsibility for their short comings and do better. Be fair. Be honest. Be straight up. Yes, many black men are starting to date outside but many have the same problem. Almost all of the white women I know who have babies by black men have 2 or more black baby’s daddies. Most of their baby’s daddies aren’t paying child support and one won’t let the black daddy knows where she or his child lives. She’s scared of him. I also have a black male friend who has 5 babies by three white women. So obviously black men and white women have problems as well. White women aren’t perfect. No one is. Stop putting them on a pedestal that is not warranted.
he and his brother can keep their passive, no backbone having white girls. we black women stand up for ours. we don't take any mess and we certainly don't allow men to walk all over us. black women are and have always been down for our men. he shouldn't generalize and stereotype people like that. there are plenty of good black women out there as well as men. he's not one of them. he's just another ignorant [EXPLETIVE] that's been misdirected and miseducated.
@ manifest
You are a liar !
I never said black women are more materialistic than other races. I said black people as a whole are more materialistic. I also stated that i dont believe in puttin the materilistic label only on sistas as hoe slim is doing. That to me is wrong.
I also stated in my personal experience with the people i dated, that sistas was the only ones that ever cared about how much money i made. So where am i wrong ?
@ KATT Thanks, I try and look at the essence of things, not saying that none of the other issues mentioned by some of the women on MTO aren't valid, it's just we all need to look at what we do that contributes to the breakdown within the Black community. This is his perspective and I've considered his points and I understand what he's saying and I agree to an extent. Everyone wants their perspectives heard, but everyone just isn't listening, they're too busy being defensive; that doesn't work when you're trying to get your point across, because then the other person feels dismissed.
Oh please! I ain't worried about no loser coon niglet like a 'Slim Thug' thinks of a woman like me. Like I'm supposed to arrive @ some epiphany and say 'ooh if I want a man of that calibur, I better step my game up!' WRONG! He is so inarticulate it's embarrassing. I saw him on MTV Cribs a few years back and was appauled by his speech & vernacular. He couldn't hang talking to me for 5 minutes, I would just frustrate him. I desire a man of substance & depth, something he clearly lacks.
@kattdaddy2
ugh whatever you say. You are always going off on random tangents about how Non-black women don't care about financial status.
Most women look for stability, regardless of race.
I personally believe white women and asian women are the most concerned when ti comes to the man's pay check but that is just me.
I have had issues with black women but gold digging has never been something I encountered with them.
@nkreseknowledge..lol..yeah it means mexicans..just me tryin to be funny..
@manifest..let me deal with the 1st part 1st..everyone is under attack in this racist system..red man has been decimated..yellow and brown man has been domesticated..black man has been emaciated..and the white man has been superficially elevated..all these conditions have psychological side-effects that are detrimental to the well-being of each group..so it is my position..that one leader is not the solution..we need a coalition(multiple group of leaders) of black folk in each community..that can effectively teach other black folk values, principals and customs that are conducive to physical, emotional, and spiritual, political, economic growth of blacks..by promoting behaviors that are self and group validating..if we have one leader..and he is targeted and neutralized..there will be a power vacumm..when a power vacumm is created chaos ensues..once a flux of chaos is presented..an outside force can manipulate segments of the targeted population and seize control..that's basic war stratagy vs a top lite leadership organization..cut off the head to kill the snake..
Instead of us being able to unite, brothers have decided that since they can't compete against the real enemy they will compete with and attack Black Women. Why is the conversation about Black Women lowering their standards instead of Black Men raising theirs and getting an education, starting a business and becoming leaders and role models in the community so the next generation can learn how to treat Black Women and love their strength instead of putting us down. It seems to me that Black men are always looking for the EASY way to do everything, easy woman, easy job, easy responsibilities. The woman is to be the help mate not the other way around. Step up Black Men, stop looking for the easy way out in life.
I must NOT live in the same society because materialism is widely adopted and accepted by the masses. Look at all the celebrities spending millions and millions of dollars on material possessions. Americans are spoiled because we have been brought up on materialism. Who introduced the phrase 'Diamonds Are a Girl's Best Friend'? At one time, we didn't even have all the things we have today. The problem is we as a race have adopted much of westernized culture while also creating a negative culture for ourselves. We need to stop blaming ourselves for what others do as well. Saying a gold digger is a BW attribute is incorrect. Saying there are BW who have adopted this attribute would be more appropriate. The same way many BM have adopted attributes which hasn't always been accepted by our community. We would know this if we had real knowledge of our culture prior to slavery.
@ fabuloussweetie
Good questions and i will try as best as i can to answer then. Forget my friends, lets talk about me. I'm college educated, i dont have any babies mommas, decent job, etc.
I have dated black and white. In my personal experience, the non-black women i dated never cared how much money i made, were less volatile and argumentative, and all around easier to deal with and interact with, in general.
The sistas i dated cared more about my financial status, than the non-sistas i dated, had more attitude, and when we had an issue, it was much more likely to be blown out of propotion into a big argument. The non-sistas were less argumentative because they seemed more sure of themselves, therefore less likely to argue about shyte.
Doesn't mean i loved them any less. This is just my personal experience. I cant speak for other except what they tell me.
By the way, I am with a lovely sista now, and have been for a minute. But she is half white. Not sure that has anything to do with it.
Do mixed girls have less attitude than all black women ? That is the topic of another discussion.
It is sad to see these crazy rants with false stats. There are 2.5 million Blk Women with degrees and 1.8 million Blk Men with college degrees..That means that only about 7 percent of sisters have college degree. Did you know that Blk Men have more PROFESSIONAL DEGREES than Blk Women.. So "Black Women are doing it".. Last time WE CHECKED there was a sudy that stated BLACK WOMEN had a NET WORTH OF 5 DOLLARS AND 50% OF BLK WOMEN HAD "HERPES". 90% OF BLK MALES IN PRISON come from FEMALE HEADED HOMES! SO THIS IS WHAT U ARE BRAGGING ON? BLK MALES AIN'T SHI-T? SAME boys BLK WOMEN RAISE?
You attract what you put out there. If you present yourself as money, you attract those who seek only money. I've never seen Slim Thug present himself as intelligent.
If he wants a 50/50 relationship then he should come with 50. He can't. His career is too risky. He wants a college educated woman who will come home after a hard days work and be a mother and maid. I think not. Where is his 50 percent in that kind of relationship? See my previos post!
Funny how all the "Sisters " are out in force all of a sudden. Calling him ignorant then leaving ignorant comments in return. BTW this talk about Successful Black men being extinct is complete baloney. Sorry to burst the bubble but there are far more Successful Black male business owners than Black Female-FACT. So please stick your phoney stats up your behind.
P.s. GO LAKERS!
@ psychmaj
More brilliant comments. I hear you. I personally consider myself somewhat of a representative of black people when im in public or at work. I wanna create a positive image of black men to influence the negative sterotype. I'm not a criminal, im educated, competent in my job, i pay taxes, own property, etc.
@ manifest
(You are always going off on random tangents about how Non-black women don't care about financial status. )
So why u mad ? This is my personal experience ?
(I personally believe white women and asian women are the most concerned when ti comes to the man's pay check but that is just me.
I have had issues with black women but gold digging has never been something I encountered with them.)
Again, your personal experience, not mine. So why are u gettin mad at me for my personal experience when im not mad at yours ? Help me understand ?
ITS NOT GOLD DIGGIN ITS INVESTING!
AN DONT NO WOMEN WONT A BROKE DUDE.
AN DONT YALL DUDES SAY YALL WANNA SPOIL US AND [EXPLETIVE], THEN WEN WE ASK FOR [EXPLETIVE] U WANNA TRIP.
"bABY I WANNA GIVE U EVERYTHING U WANT, I WANNA GIVE U THE WORLD." YALL DUDES FEED INTO YALL SELVES TO MUCH. THANKING YALL HIGH AND [EXPLETIVE], SOME OF YALL [EXPLETIVE] DONT EVEN DESERVE THE WOMEN U GOT. SHID GO GET DAT MONEY GIRL. n0 [EXPLETIVE] IS FREE. mEN CAN SAY WATEVA THEY WONT ABOUT BLACK WOMEN BUT A WHITE GIRL AINT GONNA GIVE U SHID LIKE WE DO. ALL HE WONT IS HER MONEY AND HER HEAD.DAY GONE COME BACK. ALL DOGS DO.
The Niigger comes out in a so called intelligent Black woman when a man has an opinion. Black women need to get rid of this festering insecurity & the whole "But White women do it too" attitude. It's sad that a man can't have an opinion without having to face a barrage of insults from a bunch of no namers who aren't doing shiit with their life.. Jealousy is a disease.
@ blaqbeauty21
Your pic is the bomb mami, i cant lie. But is that really you ? I mean are those your real eyes ? Did u buy them or are you mixed with the same white u talkin shyte about ? Is that really your hair or did you purchase it through chinese middle men from some poor indian girl from New Delhi ? Is it really that straight, or did you perm the f@#k out of it ? Or are you mixed with non-black ?
Think about this before you diss some non-black woman for tryna be something she's not.
By the way, i would love to see what some of yall would look like if our ancestors were never brought over here from Africa and never had access to shyte like perms, weaves, and fake colored contacts ??? LOL
@MikeHarris I hate G0D gives People Like U Life. I Wish He Would Take The Breath 0ut 0f U♥
I Bet U Single and U Live Wit Ya M0ms.
yo daddy Left U @ A young Age.
Sorry [EXPLETIVE] MikeHarris Is.
Like Men Dont GoldDigg. We Just d0 It Betta. L0L Like Everything Else. [EXPLETIVE] Wat U Heard. Yall men might have been here first but we watched and learned from yall [EXPLETIVE] ups. and we came from yall? why is it dat we got/are the betta half.
Look at my baby! Tuff-tony m m m m m m m m m m muah! I missed you honey! I love the way my man expresses and articulates himself! It turns me on, I wanna hear more!
*I've been busy. I made a prom dress for my friends' daughter and another dress for a client last week. Whoo! Don't know how I managed, but I did & both clients were happy; so I'm feelin' gooood!
I KNOW THE WHITE MAN WATCHING THIS THREAD WITH GLEE. HE IS SAYING MY PLAN IS WORKING, THESE NYGGERS ARE SO GULLIBLE, THIS IS SO EASY. AAHHH YES, NYGGERS WHAT DO U EXPECT. ALSO, I WONDER WHEN THESE MEN SAY BLK WMN, DO THEY MEAN THEIR MOTHERS TOO. SOME OF THESE WMN WERE PROBABLY POOR SINGLE MOTHERS TRYING TO RAISE THEM. NOW THEY ON THIS THREAD TALKING SHYT ABOUT ALL BLK WMN. HOW PATHETIC!
man one minute is black vs white now its black men vs black women.
wats goin on ppl.
just man up and say we all got problems.
men man up and say yall cant afford the things we wont and stop calling us goldiggers. Last time i check black women support they men more then black men support they women. but dis dont apply to every black man and women. Yall r the unemployment rate and the more u get these women pregnant and raise them to be like yall its gone go up.
Use to love you but now...smh. Its funny how dudes want a pretty face and small waist for free. You didn't love her you just wanted to poke and so she returns the favor by going after the paper. Whats this foolishness about black woman feeling dudes gotta do everything. Boy you from the south, you know way better than that. Black woman have taken care of men like they their children. And don't blame a whole race of woman for your mad choice in woman. My husband has a winner, you need to get like him!!! Wonder how you messed things up with Ms. Luckett...
smh... his generalizations are absolutely horrible. yes, he may have dated some black women that are gold diggers, but that says more about him than anything. When a certain breed of woman is attracted to you, you have to check yourself. I can guarantee you that if he dated white women, he would most likely run into the same problems.
I just find it hilarious how SOME men lead with their wallet and flash their money, cars, and jewelry and then they get upset and act surprised when they only find women that are interested in their money.
This is coming from a guy who calls himself Slim THUG! A THUG still rocking braids, music and lyrics lack substance and most of all it's LOADED with materialism! That's ALL he talks about! He's a blatant hypocrite and a scumbag. And once again, non-black women can do NO wrong! You guys are soooo gotdamn STUPID! Just like I said before, I hope you get exactly what you deserve!
@ faboulous
I hear you. I stated earlier that the non-black women i dated cared if i had a job and a car, but they never cared if i made alot of money. As long as i could take care of myself. We both have had different experiences, so to each their own. Believe me, i know pleny of sorry nyggas u talkin about, but im not one of them. I have done good by every woman i ever dated. I never dogged them like that.
I was with a white girl for like 6 years, and she held a brotha down like no other woman in life, except my momma. My mother loved her, so did my entire fam. Through thick and thin she loved my dirty draws. Havent found a sista that has been as down for me to that level yet, except the one im with now. But we havent been together as long.
I dont judge people by color, only by character. When sistas tell me how sorry their nygga is. I think its their fault for stayin with that sorry nygga. But then they wanna complain. I say, be a better judge of character.
Whatever. Not ALL of us AA women are NOT like that. I love to cook for my man and make him feel important. He just have to realize that I was grown when I met him and have a mind of my own. I don't submit to NOTHING but the LORD. So if these [EXPLETIVE] feel a WHITE woman would make them a "better man," go for it dude. When she cut your dick off and take you for all you're worth, don't come back to us mutherfuckers. Believe me, that snow white bitch wouldn't be bothered with your black ass if you was an ordinary,working black man stupid ass!
As a black woman, I refuse to take offense to what he said about black women being gold diggers. I know that I am far from a gold digger. In fact, I am the type of woman that likes to make my own money and buy my own things. I don't feel the need to tell men that I am independent because actions speak louder than words. I don't mind cooking and catering to a man as long as he treats me well. I believe that you get what you put out. So for all the men that truly believe that all black women are gold diggers, think about what it is that you do to attract these gold diggers.
ROFLMAO.....Slim who? Nothing Slim about his azz #1......This Latoya Luckett ex......Please! He need a damn fake azz maid not a woman (quote) She don’t give me no problems, she do whatever I say and y’all gotta do all that arguing and fighting and worry about all this other ****.'"
That was a stupid azz comment he made it takes team work and honesty not some bull the majority of men bring to the table...
He can get what Wesley Snipes got (DISS BY THE ENTIRE RACE OF BLACK FEMALES....
Shockembaby----Tell it! Men want p*ussy and women want money! Shouldn't that be an even exchange? And Katt-Crap----you looove to twist around your statements when you are called out because you obviously think people on here are stupid. You make snide, stupid remarks about black women and black people in general, you are fierce advocate for black people to be dumbed down and compliant. Of course white woman are not going to outright inquire about your finances. They are trained to be MUCH more skilled and cunning when it comes to getting what they want. Your brainwashed, self-hating mentality
makes it all the more easier. Nonblack women are not as materialistic as black women? Yet when they decide to marry and have your kids, that bank account of yours is USUALLY always FAT! Katt-Moron----your white girls know if you are financially able to care for them whether you tell them what you make OR NOT! You are an idiot!
White men would laugh at you black men for putting their women on a pedestal and professing their perfection….just like the good massa taught ya! It makes you guys look really weak and dumb. Many of them know that lots of WW are with you for your money or for sex. They think so low of you that most won’t touch them after you have gotten done with them. After they have a mixed baby they really have no where else to go but with you.
@ fabuloussweetie
I hear u. I aint into hittin chicks no matter what they do, or even if the deserve it. It aint worth the trouble.
I used to be with this fine @ss sista, I mean drop dead fine. Black and mexican, she looked like Alicia Keys, but she had attitude and was violent with me. I was with her 4 years. It was hard to leave her fine @ss but I did. One day she came to my spot and caught me havin sex with this chinese chick and flipped the f@#k out ! But she didnt leave me. I was puttin it on her too swell, but she didnt leave me.
(I admit, back in the day I went through a time where I was a straight dog)
We broke up 2 years ago. 2 weeks ago she calls me screamin at the top of her lungs talkin bout why did I f@#k her sister. I was mad at her cuz we was havin problems and it happened. I regret it now and would never hurt a woam like that again.
I try and lead a much better and healthier relationship now.
@trulee..the feelings are mutual..i feel your soft beautiful smile..i'm glad you're feelin good..cuz life is good..especially when one can rest upon..a stack of soft racks..while lookin into a pair of sexy eyes..sayin "don't worry bout no attitude..you just be yourself..could live with you in solitude..and need no one else..give me your love"..
This is by far the biggest lie self hating blacks tell themeselves black woman are least likely to get that alimony check and more likely to make more money than a potential mate saying that black woman have worst attitudes and are gold diggers is a cover for the fact that some of these idiots use other races or biracial as a cover to make themselves seem more valuable and to give excuse why they black azz don't like something they come from. Its no use arguing with these idiots money does not give a person self esteem and sense of pride for what they are im not one to say you should not date outside of your race but putting down a group of people in which you come from is bull sh!t reason and cover for his issue with himself.
I noticed that the black men who speak negatively about their own women are: Immature, mentally unstable, socially retarded and repulsive, terribly insecure with themselves and covertly homosexual. They are self-centered, uncle toms, hypocrites and DEEPLY troubled individuals. We can't let their words bother us----they are the living dead.
He has some good points in there but he talks about what black women should do more than what black men should do. I agree with being independent, and cooking & supporting your man but fellas need to do that iish too. They need to stand by their woman, do things for her [not always financial] and treat her like a queen if they want to get treated like a king. That's just how it is...
I DONT SEE WHY THERE SHOULD BE ARGUING AT ALL BEING THAT MOST OF THE PEOPLE ARGUING WITH EACH OTHER ARE BOTH BLACK. BLACK WOMEN AND BLACK MALES SHOULD STICK TOGETHER INSTEAD OF BASHING EACH OTHER. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE LOOKED AS LESS TO A WHITE WOMAN/MAN OR ANY OTHER RACE SO WHY BASH YOUR OWN AND UPLIFT ANOTHER RACE WHO THINKS LESS OF U ANYWAY?? AND YES IT SOUNDS HARSH BUT ITS THE TRUTH. IF YOU PUT ANOTHER RACE HIGHER THAN YOUR OWN IE BLACK WOMEN SAYING WHITE MEN ARE BETTER OR BLACK MEN SAYING WHITE WOMEN ARE BETTER THEN YOU HATE YOURSELF PERIOD BECAUSE 1. U ARENT THAT OTHER RACE U WISHED TO BE 2. U ARE A BLACK AND ALWAYS WILL BE AND 3. REMEMBER WHERE U CAME FROM BECAUSE THAT RACE U PUT HIGHER THAN YOUR OWN WILL LEAVE U FOR THEIR OWN IN A HEART BEAT
IM 20 YEARS OLD AND NEVER EVER EVER EVER SEEN SO MANY HATEFUL, IGNORANT, BITTER ASS SELF HATING BLACK PEOPLE IN MY LIFE UNTIL I CAME ON THIS FUCCING SITE YAH ARE TOO DAMN OLD FOR THAT. MOST OF U COME ON HERE EVERY DAY BASHING YOUR OWN, MOST OF U MAKE FAKE PROFILES TO BASH UR OWN. ARE U THAT SICK IN THE HEAD TO THINK SO LOW OF YOURSELF TO DO SUCH REPULSIVE IGNORANT SHYT TO MAKE OTHERS OF YOUR OWN KIND FEEL BAD BECAUSE U DONT THINK HIGHLY OF YOURSELF.
YOU WILL ALWAYS BE BLACK UPLIFTING A NON BLACK PERSON OVER YOUR OWN RACE IS PATHETIC.
NOW ON TOPIC: SLIM THUG IS A WHAT HE IS' A THUG NO REAL WOMAN OF ANY RACE SHOULD WANT OR CRY OVER HIS ASS ANYWAY
thats all
All races and colors of women gold dig, it's just that our women seem to all be materialistic. There are good black women out there no different like there are good women of other races.
My thing is those "good women" are the ones here on MTO. If they are you can see by the content of their post where their head is at.
Just go through and read all the dumbsh-it people (both male & female) posted here. One would think most of you are uneducated or at best ignorant children.
Black men who agree with this nyqquh are black men who are uncle tom coon ass ugly ass mutha fuqquhs and dark as hell also. So white women can spend all your money but just because shes white she isnt a gold digger but let a black woman come in all of u will quickly scream gold digger. lmao im so glad i dont date black men
Well said @uhljjangkitty lovin that pic by the way
Without that money none of these white women will want your fuqqin ass. Look at gary colemans ass his white bitch doesnt give a 2 shyts about that mutha fuqquh. She pulled the plug 15 minutes when he was in a coma TO GET THAT CASH NEGRO
and most of you screaming black women are gold diggers thats why I dont like them who the fuq are u. yall aint got no damn money. so discard that lame excuse yall just say that so others can feel your reasoning to go with nonblack women who dont want your fuqqin ass anyway.
I would not miss a step with the comment from Slim Thug. First this the same guy who can't be faithful. That is not even the point,..Men/Women to find a person of quality take time to get to know them instead of just jumping toward sex. Every woman is not a gold digger, but if you are fishing in a trash can you are going to pull out trash. Where is he meeting these women, what standards does he have, and what qualities does he have to compliment a woman of quality. A man need to have God,Goals,and Morals,and not a million kids all over the place..
black and loving it you cant make me stop loving being black it just makes me not respect you more i love my black my black has a story your mixed don't or white don't so don't try to make us feel less cuz when all the others r gone we don't' fall for your [EXPLETIVE] and then were no good grown up boys!!!!!! it's not the black men it's the black boys!!!!! grown up!!!!PS my black is beautiful o and im not a mad black woman lmfao im just saying
HIS NAME IS SLIM THUG. SO LETS FOCUS ON WHAT A THUG IS. WHAT IS A THUG? A THUG IS A MAN WITH AN AGGRESSIVE VIOLENT MENTALITY. A THUG IS MAN WHO IS OFTEN IRRESPONSIBLE OR UNPRODUCTIVE. A THUG IS WHAT MAJORITY AMERICAN BLACK MEN EMBRACE EVERYDAY. THE MINDSET OF THE AVERAGE BLACK MAN IS THIS THUG HE GLORIFY. YOU NOW HAVE THUGS SUGGESTING US WOMEN TO DO BETTER. IMAGINE THAT....A THUG LOL NOW BLACK WOMEN UNDERSTAND BEING A GOLD DIGGER IS A BAD THING, BLACK MEN DO NOT UNDERSTAND BEING A THUG IS A BAD THING. BLACK MEN DO NOT SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH ANY OF THE THUGISH QUALITIES I MENTIONED.
@nkreseknowledge..woman..i asked you that 4 hours ago..lol..and i had my black panther beret on then..now my baby showed up..and i gots my silk pj's on..and i'm tryin to romance the stone..lol..but to answer your question..NO..we did not lose..but we are losing..we gonna have to visit this another time though..cuz it would be a good discussion..but it's dinner time..you have a goodnite sis..much love.
BLACK MEN CHOOSE TO PUT HIS OWN DESIRES OVER FAMILY. MANY BLACK MAN CHOOSE NOT TAKE EDUCATION SERIOUSLY. INSTEAD HE RATHER SPEND YEARS CHASING HOS LIKE TOM & JERRY OR TRYING TO BECOME THE NEXT LIL' WAYNE OR LEBRONE. MAINLY SO HE CAN HAVE ACCESS TO MORE NASTY HOS & MORE BLING BLING. *NEWFLASH* EVERYONE CAN'T BE AN ATHLETE OR MUSIC ARTIST. TRY A NEW CAREER FOR A CHANGE. OH I FORGOT, THE WHITE MAN IS HOLDING ME DOWN. SO I GUESS I NEED TO RUN THE STREETS OR STEP MY D*CK GAME UP. YOU KNOW D*CK IS THE ONLY THING THESE NYGGAS BRAG ABOUT CAUSE THAT'S THE ONLY THING A NYGGA CAN OFFER IF HE AIN'T RICH.
@trulee..goodnite sweetheart..we gonna make them e-babies..just like this..“bear skin rug..fire place..i run my fingers all over the place..kissin..huggin lovely taste..close your eyes drift into space..secrets learned and secrets to keep..with no concerns..we have no time for sleep..emotions overflow..shouldn’t be denied..let me take you for a magic ride..intimate connection baby..serious..oh baby..oh baby..”
@UHLJJANGKITTY
very very well said. Best comment I’ve read. my boyfriend is half white but i would never talk down on full black men. why uplift a race over your own, I don’t get it. no matter how much you lay down with someone who is non black or uplift their race, you will still be black till the day you die
Oh! Trulee---Good evening Star? Getting it in with the Capt'n I see! Hello Tuff-Tony! I wonder where's TastySis--I hope she doesn't miss this one! EmmettMays WHERE ARE YOU---YOU GORGEOUS BLACK MAN! I need your lovin! Outtaline---What---no more beatings for me? LOL You're starting to get real romantic---pressing up on me from behind with your manhood LMAO!!
He actually has some major points in here, but you can hardly comprehend anything he's saying when all you hear is a fuked up version of the English language. It's also hypocritical for a coon name "Slim Thug" who raps about hoes and gettin' dat moni and all kinds of debauchery to sit up there and tell other people what they have to do. I say black women leave ALL black men alone. Move on and while these big lipped fukers whine about us, we'll be two steps ahead of them.
FATHER DAY IS COMING UP THIS MONTH. HOW MANY BLACK FATHERS WILL BE RECEIVING ANY GIFTS? DON'T WORRY I'LL WAIT. INSTEAD HOW MANY BLACK FATHERS WILL BE RECEIVING CALLS FROM ONE HIS BITCHES OR HIS HOS THIS MONTH? DON'T WORRY I'LL WAIT. SEE US WOMEN CAN DO THE SAME THING WHEN YOU HAVE TRIFLIN NYGGAS WHO GIVE US THIS AMMO.
Looking at the situation from an evolutionary prospective, some scientists believe that humans choose certain partners to enhance reproductive success. I guess you would think other factors are more important to humans now than in the past due to evolution. However, some of it may be true still. It’s been studied that women prefer men that contribute to the survival and protection of herself and her children. Although many women are more independent now than ever, I think some women naturally choose men who are financially stable because it reminds them of security.
Whether you agree or disagree, one thing is sure, and that is that there are “gold diggers” in every race. Humans choose to make race an issue.
Loving these comments. So many smart, intuitive black people taking a stand against poisionous idiots like this. Young Berg dissed black women you see what happened to his sh*itty career? Even a tired white fagg like John Mayer. As for Slim, this might be a Boule move---an initiation. He can't POSSIBLY be that stupid to make such a public statement and expect to revive his dead career. Either way he's done!
I don't get why people still feel the need to classify others by race. Those that made comments on white or black women or men for that matter are just as wrong as slim thug. There are good white women and good black women. Race does not make a person who they are, but rather how they carry themselves and what they do with their life. Some black men prefer black women, others prefer white women, others could care less. Preference is one thing...putting everyone in a box is a different matter.
Everything stems from home, so when you look at the 70's & 80's, most bloggers on this site are the off- springs of that era...in which the black women was (and still is) the single parent holding down the family (for the most part). So when a girl grows up seeing the mother doing everything, most girls grow up with the "I don't need a man" mentality. Now when a boy grows up with no father in the household with the "my son can do no wrong" mentality, that doesn't help either. I believe both men & women need to seriously work on this because this is one of the main topics in the barbershops.
MY COMMENTS ARE NOT DIRECTED AT ALL BLACK MEN. ONLY THE BLACK MEN WHO ARE DESTROYING THE BLACK COMMUNITY AND BLAMING THE WOMEN CAUSE HIS DESIRES ARE NOT BEING MET BY ONE OF HIS STANK HOS. SLIM THUG A BLACK MAN WITHOUT A REAL FAMILY OR REAL EDUCATION BUT WHAT HIS WOMEN TO COOK FOR HIM JUST BECAUSE HE'S A MAN & SHE'S A WOMAN. GTFOH
I AM SO DONE WITH TOPIC
@soldier777, you better get out of here with that bullsiht! It's not 50% of ALL black women have herpes, it's fifty percent of the ones they tested and I believe they were aged 18-24. You dumb piece of siht! Just like a cooned ass ngger to think he's "learnt" something useful, only for it to be a bunch of misconstrued information. If it weren't for black men using black women and running around after anything with a vagina, those boys would have fathers. Black women get those diseases from BLACK men who have gay sex in prison and who cheat with other women. Point blank period. I hope you get syphilis in your throat.
@up2it! You are a stanking lying bitch!!! White people brought disease here and spread it to indians and others! Read your history you dirty bitch! Herpes and everything else come from them nasty hoes! White bitches and other races of women have different baby daddy 's to! I know several of them! Get your fact straight bitch!
woooow - Sistas your peers are here representin....but are they representing you in a good light. If I were looking for potential hope in the sistas here, I would be S.O.L.
If sistas are top choice and it is NOT the attittude that upsets men, then what is it?
We love thick hips! We love Chocolate and Mocha skin! We love Big Butts!
All sistas who know what men like, can you tell me what men don't like. if you can answer that then tell your peers.
I cannot believe the attitudes here on this site. We have a few great well rounded sistas here, however your opinions are supported by a TRANNY and a FABOULSWEETIE who admits to cheating on a good guy (fool) and a trifflin' sip of Gold diggin Champagne!
If your words are true and this is a real representation of black women, you do not have to worry about what Slim Thug or any other black man has to say. Your sistas say enough to send black men running the other way. However other sisters please keep giving us the positive hope we need. There has got to be a better way!
I'm sooooo mad for missing this sheet! Is this big knotted forehead frankenstein looking b!tch serious??? This is the same sheet I was talking about the other day! Blk people being mentally ill! This mother phucker believes that ww r better but I bet he believes the blk man is superieor to all other men! What a coon!
P.S. The ignorant blackmen here were probably raised by one woman who he does not respect. The responsibility still relies on the sistas. You have the power and control. It maybe too late for some men but the next generation is in your home. What can you do now? Todays men are a result of us looking up to rappers and sportstars as heros. Our heros are immoral and ignorant. Take the lead ladies.
On another note Drake and Niki Minaj are extremely overated, just sayin.
BM are always putting down BW. Like someone else said if you prefer not to date us that's your prerogative but why talk down on us like you do? You want us to have your back but you don't have ours. There are a lot of generalizations being thrown around about BW. Keyword "generalizations"...we are not all argumentative, loud, or gold diggers. Why must we do what you say? A relationship is a partnership not a dictatorship. SMH at this lame,Slim Thug...he has a girl with a college degree. Umm...what happened to his degree? He is NOT a good catch, he needs to date on his level.
Yo @Mel_P said it best: Why should black women lower their standards when black men refuse to raise theirs???
I'm w/ u on that! Clearly there is a disparity between what some black men "THINK" and "REALITY"! Some women are all about the money but those women come in every race. So he made that blanket statement out of ignorance.
Ok..so lemme get this straight. If a black woman believes in traditional values and does not put up with nonsense, and wants to know a man CAN BE A SUFFICIENT a PROVIDER (highly lacking in the BLACK community due to the men who abandon kids,locked up, gay, etc..)...she is a gold digger..and flip the script..if a black woman is highly educated, successful...it is even HARDER for her to find a BLACK MAN because he is too damn INTIMIDATED especially if she makes more than him...i don't get it? Damned if you do damned if you don't. I will date ANY race. I am not close minded and want someone to appreciate the ambition of a highly intelligent black woman who is a million/billionaire in the making. TEAM WORK...that's what it is about. I want someone who wants to build an empire TOGETHER, not sweating the futile, impish stuff! Not whining, and stereotyping. His grammar is atrocious and he sounds like an ignorant imbecile. Just because you are a bum and had a hard time getting play. Negro please.
We must not forget that he is NOT talking about "average looking black women". He is referring to the "dimepieces". As a successful black man, not rich, but successful, I have noticed that pretty black women are alot more arrogant than equally pretty white women, and much less approachable,but usually make much less money than their white-girl counterparts. They try to catch up by spending alot of money on Louis Vuitton and Gucci.There was the study not long ago that suggested the average black woman's net worth, if she paid off ALL debt, was ONE dollar. the average for white women was $80,000
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Jaming876 is dat u? I guess u have a lot of experience in multicutural dating to make such generalizations! I'd like to make some of my own then! White men tend to be more laid back then bm when approaching a woman! Also they tend to pay for a dates, and have higher paying jobs! Okay ur turn!
700+comments lmao deep topic but long story short its easy to talk about the negative sh!t and the positive goes under the rug! Smh truth is there are good black women out there as well as black men if u wanna go to the club for love what u see is what u get! Get your priorities set for yourselves before bringing a partner into your life.
SLIM THUG YOUR MOTHER IS BLACK. YOU NEED TO GO CHECK YOURSELF... YOUR ALWAYS HANGING AROUND GROUPIE GIRLS AND ENCOURAGING THIS HOLLYWOOD LIFESTYLE. YOU AREN'T EVEN THAT GREAT OF A RAPPER. YOU LOOK PRETTY BROKE TO ME. WHAT EDUCATION DO YOU HAVE??? PEOPLE LIKE YOU MAKE ME SICK AND YOUR A DISGRACE TO BLACK PEOPLE TOGETHER
AN Open letter from Columbia Professer Marc Lamont Hill. Ladys Were not alone a real black man Talks the truth..
In your interview, you talk about how much better white women treat their partners than black women. If what you�re saying is true, why do Whites have the highest divorce rate of any group? Do white men get tired of being treated like kings? In reality, it seems that you are buying into (and selling) a stale but dangerous ideal that constructs White women as ultra-feminine, loving, queens, and Black women as angry, selfish, and untrustworthy hoes.
Even more disturbing was your comment that �Black women gotta start being down for their man more.� Since slavery, Black women have had to withstand rape, torture, and humiliation (from both white and black men) in order to sustain their families. Now, in 2010, 1 in 3 Black men between 20 and 29 years old are incarcerated or otherwise under criminal supervision. Every day, Black women are raising children without men in the house, working multiple jobs (for less pay!), and supporting brothers as they finish their prison bids.
With Black male unemployment as high as 50 percent in some cities, sisters are often holding down households without child support or other financial assistance. Black female incarceration rates are skyrocketing, partly because Black women are �riding� for their men, hiding guns and drugs, operating as mules, and refusing to snitch to authorities. In addition, Black women are the group most likely to be victims of domestic violence and the least likely to be married. Still, in spite of all this bad news, Black women are less likely to date outside their race than Black men.
How much more �down� do you want Black women to be?
Read Full Open Letter Here
The brother has several excellent points. What do you think?
Slim Thug has already tweeted that he plans to respond, and he and Marc Lamont Hill have been tweeting back and forth this afternoon.
Oh so this is where everyone was at today??? mmm I see! Anyway, I'mma make this short. Why listen to some thug azz n*gga complain about gold diggerish black women and other issues?? Have he ever stopped to think that that's the type of women he attract(hoodrats) since he's a thug azz rapper?!?! Hmmm. If he was really intelligent and wise, he would KNOW that there ARE black women out here who aren't gold diggers and can hold they own. But then they trip about that too right? We just can't win. So it's no point in letting this upset a lot of you. If he wants to bash black women while praising becky like most black men do, then let him. One less COON for us to worry about.
@ DaTrueOne:Why is it the mother’s responsibility to raise strong sons? Where are the fathers? It takes a man to raise a man. Many single mothers are doing the best that they can while many men go off and do what they please, chase after women, father other kids and such. So selfish!!!! “Ladies take the lead.”???? That’s what men are supposed to do. Be a man. Be a father, stop abandoning the children you help create and things will turn around.
blaqbeauty21, haha look at you, bashing white people just to get other black people's approval on here. first, you have no room to talk about anything because you dress like a slut with your boobies out trying to provoke lust from all these coon bafoons, you are going to hell with your fornicating ways, quit being such a cheap tramp and cover up and show some modesty! you're only like 10% black anyway, so when you talk about white people like that your talking about 90% of your blood, god hates whores like you!
@ TDR25: What are you talking about black women have always preferred white men over black men. That’s a lie if I ever heard one. That’s just something that black men throw out there and hope that it sticks. We’re not mad about being criticized we’re not perfect and we understand that. We just don’t like being bashed. How can a black man dare say that black women in general are gold diggers when we are holding down the majority of households, taking care of men who are underemployed or unemployed and the kids these men procreate. We by-and-large have been nothing but loyal but continue to be [EXPLETIVE]**ed on by black men who we often support and extol. Enough is enough. Say forget black women if you want to, but no other race of women are going to support every black man wholesale and have your back like we do. It’s something deep down that makes a remain loyal. You think white woman as a whole are going to ride or die for you like they do white men? Look at OJ, beloved, extolled but when it came down to it, he was a black man. Don’t get it twisted. Most (not all), white women even the ones that date you, deep down think that you are inferior. It’s just the way that they have been raised. It’s deeply ingrained in them. They feel this way no matter how often they sleep with you and how freaky they get. Obviously you feel you’re inferior as well if you can’t stand what you came from and what you mirror, the black woman. The one that know doubt is largely responsible for you living and breathing today.
KingNative, I'm so sorry the idea of desiring a man with goals, ambition and some way to provide for his family is just TOO MUCH TO ASK FROM from a black man. We're to be the father and the mother, bring home the bacon, and not be resentful that we have to pick up where you fail to top it off while you leech. OUR MISTAKE!!!!
lol, what the [EXPLETIVE]. balck women are gold diggers. a chick used me for money. small [EXPLETIVE], like $20. bitches(gold diggers) take all the time and majority are black females. [EXPLETIVE] my sister does it too, wtf. you hes act like this [EXPLETIVE] don't happen like George Bush and his Hurricane Katrina RE:action video
He is speaking the truth! He is talking about black men and black women. We (black men) can take the constructive critisism, but as you can see by the comments, black women let you know even more that he is telling the truth! They love to argue! Why God Why did u make (most) black womens attitudes the way they are, WHHYYYY??? We still love ya'll though!
Well no black woman wants to obey a man and be good for nothing but domestics. Sounds like he is scared of a real f'ucking woman, that's what the problem is. Don't generalize black women because you've chosen the wrong ones. He said black women needs to be more genuwine, no.. Your dumb ass needs to man up.
Everytime some of these ignorant ass rappers open their mouths bullshyt spew out of it, and that includes their music too. I don't know why people, black men in particular, like to single out black women as being gold diggers because thats the biggest damn lie told. Gold digging ain't exclusive to any race. I knew this Asian woman who would not marry a man if he didn't give her big ass rock. If the ring wasn't big like she wanted it, she sent that ass kickin rocks. Every man she ever dated or married had to have money, lots of it and if his money got low, she got rid of his ass.
Wait a FUKN minute. White women are easier to control. Whip out the big black magic stick and they'll do whatever. White women will take u for all that u have, the sneaky way. Black women tell u up front. I holdz it down for my boo.. cook, clean and er'thang in between. My husband doesn't wanna "Yessa Masta", type chick. No strong, secure black man does. I could see if vanilla is just ya fave flava, but b/c u say we're (blk wmn) are just gold diggers?.. C'mon man! Get cha sh!t togetha!
...cont'd 2 There are many women like her and the vast majority ain't black. When some of these ignorant ass men let some of this ignorant ass shyt come out of their mouth it's a clear sign to me that they don't know shyt and don't get out much. He made the statemnt that 'black women's standards are too high'. Thats bullshyt, I don't think their standards are high enough cuz if it was, they wouldn't be invloved with these lazy, no-good, insecure, low-life riff raffs. I think BW should set higher standards. Some of us do but we get labeled 'goldiggers' and 'bitches' for doing so. *shrugs*
And this is why no one is buying your shitty albums.
I work hard...there isn't a gold diggin bone in my body. I think what it is that these WANNABE THUGS are too busy looking at the physical they aren't screening and scrutinizing the "person". If the girls got [EXPLETIVE] and ass they want it without really getting to know these chicks. So in reality it is their faults they pick these gold diggers. You can tell within the first date or two whether or not the girl or guy is out to find a sugar daddy.
@ pinkdiamondprincezz
Thank You......
Check it Slim date a Oreo and start this mess about how perfect of a woman she is....Haaaaa!!...Dude slow like that!......Half the women I know are good females with beauty, brains and could cook their azz off including myself....
I could say a million and one trifling things I see black men do daily but to judge all black men as the same would be ignorant.....
LOL these men need to really need to read a book. Black women can not be gold diggers cause unfortunately as a whole they make more money as a group then the men. Its a shame the bad PR males and females get and how they are set up to be against 1 another. They teach African Americans to idolize other races and hate themselves. LOL Black chicks are not even no where in the game of gold digging and these silly men make dumb statements. White women and Asian women are about their men with money. I know so many women that go so hard with their successful men bs that its just sad. Different races just are better at disguising it or maybe because of the cultural difference black men have a hard time recognizing. Black women need to get better media representation.
@ 3deep
Your comment is major love it....LMAO!...
@ TheRose
He talking about street slutts he use to dealing with no decent azz woman please...
@Mrs_B_Kidd
Love your comment....lol...This African guy said to me his ex was white and her father said he hates black people (lol) because his azz pump gas for a living...Great family right....If his azz was making 6 figures or more daddie tune would change quick.....
A Asian woman would never date a regular black broke azz dude and bring him home daddie would never approve that...
*SAD..........The majority of black men confuse beauty and phat azz for love...Then place lables on black women like the entire globe of women are living like that.......Yea Whatever!
All Black Women Are not Gold Diggers... Its Them Easy Ass- Rotten Ass- I Only Date Superstar ass Females! Like They Say... Men Don't Wanna Climb 2 The Top Of The Tree 2 Get the good apple... They go for the apples at the bottom of the tree CUZ THERE EAZY 2 GET!! They dnt wanna take there time and climb to the top!! **Its cool doe... Slim Thug Aint No Superstar 2 me!**
I disagree with what he said. He wants a woman to do what he says and not have anything to say about it. Plus, when most men get a women who is good to them they don't treat her right in the first place. Also, I think he is wrong when he said "Successful Black Men are extinct" that's a lie. Black men who are famous aren't the only successful black men. Its more than just those men people just don't talk about all the brothers going to school and making a difference in their communities.
when do a black women have to give a excuse 4 wanting to have a man that can provide ---DAMN im getting tirer of us getting the blame 4 the black man insercuries -it all about being a team player not a player hater --and all these in your blood to serve the master milleium [EXPLETIVE] [EXPLETIVE] is going be the downfall of the black man-----LET remember when our struggle meant say it loud- im black and proud---yeah we came a LONG WAY but still NOWHERE if there no unity with ourselves fisrt -becuz black man might stop beliving me as a black woman - but i wont stop beliving in them no-matter how bad they put me down-old school rules -is that the men take care of the women and the babies of the world that why GOD gave them balls!!
Slim thug, you are one dumb [EXPLETIVE]! The reason why most black women run for the ballers is because you promote it in your records and the videos. You say [EXPLETIVE] these broke ass [EXPLETIVE], roll with me and you want for nothing. Then when its all said and done, you drop diss the chick for being a gold digger. That was the lamest interview ever.
R.I.P to the Black community ! You know the saying "devide to reign better", people who have power in this world are deviding the black community and some of y'all don't even see it ! As a mixed race person I'm totally for interracial relationships or however you want to call it, but why putting down some women ? There are gold diggers in ALL countries even here in brasil some women jobs is to wait for soccer players after their trainnings so they can get at them, sleep with them get a baby and live on the man's money so what do you think ?
Well the problem with that is this, most rappers (including slim thug) advertises a materialistic life style, which influences some young black men; then these same men (who immitate these rappers and the rappers themselves) become offended when women respond to that particular advertisement. You can't blame most women for merely responding to what you (most men) put out. On the other hand, please don't generalize a vast amount of black women (or people in general) based on a small sample, e.g., groupies, video girls, etc. If you would change your demeanor and focus on hard working, decent women (regardless of color), maybe you wouldn't have the problem!
Ok Slim Thug u had some key points in ur article.. Hey I dont get black women myself and Im 1..but everything u said about the other race I was brought up that way.. Pay own way and appreciate the [EXPLETIVE] out someone who does nice things cause it come the heart.. Its the type u go for dog dont blame all of us
I guess he is speaking about his mother since that is the fist Black woman he knew. He is a modern-day minstral show coon, house negro. He needs to watch Malcolm X, study some Black history and find the statistics on Black women working 2-3 jobs to support their families. Why do these Black men refer to Black women as goldiggers when there are fewer Black men who are finanacially secure than other races. Again, I think is having flashbacks about the women in his family, maybe they were goldiggers and that is all he knows.
yes,some of us black folk need to get our priorities str8 when it comes to buyin [EXPLETIVE] we cant afford such as clothes,jewelry,rims,hair, tha club and not taking care of our kids!but at the end of the day,sistas are tired of the constant bs from childish ass supposed to b men. we often submit to they dumb asses,but they dont appreciate [EXPLETIVE]!we cook,clean,take care of yall kids, go to work, [EXPLETIVE] u and all kinds of other stuff, but its never enough!so go on to them white chicks u weak ass excuse for a man. i need a man in my life, not to be some grown ass mans mother!grow up and grow some!
If a woman is provided for and is not employed then she should at least take care of home cook, clean Ect.. I love cooking for my man. I have an 8 to 5 job. My honey works his @ss off I enjoy cooking for him. What u don't do another b!tch will.. Im white but I don't think it was right for him to generalize black women. I have met plenty of black women who throw down in the kitchen for their men. Different things work for different people. If you dont want to be a submissive housewife, then don't. Just as long as ur happy.
@FroggyStyle DOES THE TRUTH HURT YOU !!!!!!!!!!! THEN LET IT !!! I CALL A SPADE A SPADE AND A SNAKE A SNAKE! YOU HAVE NO IDEA ABOUT ME OR MY PERSONAL LIFE! YOU ARE NOT THE JUDGE FOR WHO GOES TO HEAVEN OR HELL! GOD IS! YOUR MAD BECAUSE I KNOW THE TRUTH AND I WILL SPEAK AND UNCOVER IT ! FOR THE RECORD I AM ABOVE AND BEYOND BLESSED BY GOD! I AM MARRIED AND HAVE NOT IN ANY WAY CHEATED ON MY HUSBAND! I AM FULL BLACK WOMAN ! AND PROUD OF IT! AND FOR THE RECORD YOU DUMB A** THAT PIC IS A AVATOR!
Wow, Slim, its like that? It’s funny how u can say that black women are gold diggers, but what bout black men? Most of yall are the same way that if a female aint coming out her pocket then she a goner. Then u say it about 50/50 in a relationship, but in reality you slipping cuz u only giving ur girl half of you and not all. I’m about 100% on my part and my man and I’ma treat him like a King as long as he can treat me like a Queen. It goes both ways and white women are the REAL gold diggers….u can cheat and beat them and they wont leave cuz u got money and when yall split up (if ya married) then they gon take half and then ask for alimony, spousal support, child support and whatever else they can get….So u got it all twisted up and maybe the ones u r choosing are gold diggers but not all of us. You need to evaluate urself first then speak. You also know that black women don’t take no s*** from black men and aint nothing free in this world but advice. NOW WHAT!!!
Slim, what I said in my previous post was REAL and I meant every bit of it. U should evaluate yourself first before u speak on anyone else. In addition to that, maybe you are the issue. Not all black women are gold diggers but you so used to groupies, your probably don’t know what a REAL WOMAN is supposed to be like bcuz with groupies…ANYTHING GOES… You are in no position to judge anyone but I can say one thing…..ur music or whatever u call it…..straight….GARBAGE….
If not then i wonder how her gold diggin ass feel about the comments he made. Get ya mind right slim and put the crackpipe down..didnt ya have a pic of this n!gga at the bus stop not too long ago? I think he's just a penny pinching,broke ass,wanna be white loser. Do us all a favor and shut da fck up!
Coming straight from the West Indies we black women cook. I know why you make these foolish comments it was taught to you by your mother, grandmother, and your whole female generation. If you do not want to pass this on to your next female generation( no matter what color they are) stop picking up absented minded black women and find a black woman who has her own. Â INDEPENDENT. since the female women in your life brought u up this way, you need to be bringing this to them. Clean up your backyard before you try to clean up others.
I have dated guys in houston, where slim thug just so happens to reside, and Ive noticed that all the men Ive came across are flashy and talk about what they have and how much money they make. So how could you blame a black woman for being a gold digger if thats all you talk about. I am a black woman who is 27 never been married and want to know a guy for him w/o all the money and fame but its so hard to break that barrier with black men. You are what u eat I guess!!
I'M TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHAT BOOK YALL BLACK MEN ON HERE READING? I KNOW ALOT OF BLACK SINGLE INDEPENDENT WOMEN, ALOT, HELLL I'M ONE OF THEM! WE AINT LOOKING FOR NO HAND OUTS JUST SOMEONE THAT MAKES A LIL MORE THAN WHAT WE MAKE! BELEIVE ME THAT AINT MUCH! WHERE YOU GUYS LOOKING, IN A STRIP CLUB? THEN OF COURSE YOU GONNA HAVE THE OPINION OF THIS IDIOT!!!!! THAT'S THE PROBLEM, YOU GUYS NOT LOOKING IN QUALITY PLACES. GO LOOK IN OFFICE BUILDINGS, BOOK STORE, GYM...ETC. NOT IN CLUBS!
Shi is right. White women are better at it, they lay low spend your money and stack your money. Trick u into marrying them and then chunk you the deuces and take ALL your cash! Black women a man like slim"thug" wouldn't be worth keeping anyway. I need a REAL man I make my own money. Have my own everything! Bank account on deck! Stocks, bonds and I'm educated! Ha! Slim thug WISH a black woman wanted him lol
SLIM can kiss my ass...cuse black men dont stand by black women...a black woman will take care of her man.he can have those gold diggin ass white women ..they will have baby after baby and in the end take eveything you have and more...white women are sneaky as hell...black women are just up front about their [EXPLETIVE]its your job as a man to provide but black men want all of the privledges and dont want to work for those privledges. he disgust me. Im sorry if a man cant provide for me then he isn’t a man at all and he needs to go learn how to be one…this is why as a race black people cannot stick together because we put each other down. The only reason why educated black women have high standards is because the majority of black men don’t do anything for themselves. They go around making babies everywhere and [EXPLETIVE]…trying to be a little boy instead of a grown ass man… you don’t see black women going around saying imma date a white man cuse they are successful….NO BLACK WOMEN ARENT ATTRACTED TO WHITE MEN….get that through yall heads….BLACK WOMEN aren’t gold diggers they just need security….damn [EXPLETIVE] its in the mother [EXPLETIVE] constitution….hes an [EXPLETIVE]….
Maybe if he'd stop messing with hoodrats, and get with an educated hardworking black woman; he wouldn't be going through that. Smh. I don't expect anything from a man, but his love, honesty, loyalty, and respect. I would give him the same. Most successful black men are as shallow as the women they attract, so why complain. He need to get his priorties straight on what type of woman he wants.
First and foremost, biggups to Slim Thug and Steve Harvey for not being afraid of telling black women about themselves. First, I am a dark skinned, plus size black woman. I am the woman who everyone thinks will never get a man and I agree with Slim. A lot of black women in this day in age do have their standards set pretty high. We think that black man is supposed to have everything and more, plus a big d**k, and be a carpet for us to wipe our feet on. We always complain about what a black man can't and ain't doing when we refuse to see the slave mentality that lies behind it. For hundreds of years (and still true today), it is much easier for a black woman to navigate her way through the white man's blue collar or white collar world than it is for a black man. Why, black women, do you think that is? Because, it is the best way to destroy our race from within. Next, Slim is so right, we gotta put down all the name brand crap that we buy. We as black people have to stop defining ourselves in material value. Our neighborhoods don't even profit off that s**t. Have you ever seen an Asian or a White man throw our neighborhood a cookout or fix a rec center? Third, don't expect a [EXPLETIVE] to do s**t that you won't or can't do for yourself. He is a human "being" not a human "atm", "exterminator" or "chauffeur". Our Black men get enough slack from the outside world, they sure don't need it when they get home. And ladies, every time someone tries to say something to you about this black man white woman thing y'all get so upset. You need to realize that we are the ones who shape the generation of the future. A baby knows his mother long before he knows his father. We are the 2nd after God. Why should we not be held to a higher standard? Last but not least, for as much old school music that we hear, we sure must not be listening. Ladies, when you ain't doin your job at home, the "Cleanup Woman" will sure do it for you. So don't be mad at white women. They just doin what you won't
And to the men. This does not let you off the hook. Y'all got a lot of work to do too. Especially when it comes to persistence. Y'all got to learn how to not give up the fight and stop taking the easy way out of everything. Remember: "Everything that's fine ain't the finest and everything that shine ain't a diamond.
And to those of you who are wondering, Yes; I am a black woman with a college degree. My man is a black man who does not have college degree. We make it work because I respect him as a man. I know that when I get home, I don't have to be the Fortune 500 girl that I am at work. I can lay back and let him be the King that I know he is. And plus, my skils always remain tight! LOL!
@niceone:stfu, how dare you call yourself a bw! And yes you are right, you are they trypical fat girl that will never get a man. You clearly have self-esteem issues for agreeing with this ignorant bs. Probably bc ur fat and most fat girl are picked LAST and that is y fat chicks mostly are the one's playing slave just so a man will kepp yo big ass around. Your opinion was automatically disqualified bc of SE and weight issue. I know the gam honey. I'm on the other side getting chosen.
Moving on. Look at Slim. FAR from attractive. Is a rapper (most likely only graduated from HS IF that-so def uneducated) and sinfully ugly. He may have some $ from his "rap career". The pool of women he is exposed to is very limited. Only a golddigger/freak would be w/in ear shot of him..hence his warped opinion of BW. If you were an educated BM and not in the "industry" maybe there would b a better experience
BUT since ur just another dumb ass uneduated rapper, you won't get to experience that AT ALL. My girl went to Columbia. That right there tells me he's never step foot in a higher learning institution. People who attended know, a college degree doesn't mean you are smart, being w/o one doesn't mean you aren't. There are plenty of golddiggin freaks who go to college just to hide that fact. Bc dumb rappers always fall for the good goody role of college girl. My point Slim u don't knw shyt and
Can't know it bs you aren't in the lopp. Your ignorance excludes you. A woman in high society, classy, educated etc would never be anywhere around you, so how would you know? You look like shyt! You better be paying! Looking like a light skinned Frankenstein! He just wants a dorrmat and is stuck in the 50's. That's fine just don't generalize your insecurities into behvs of ALL BW. It astounds me how clueless some of these guys are to the game. That's y they get got everyday. Drake(stripper), Wayne(LL,Nivea)Slim(his mixed bytch), and list goes on
Niceone: decide to finish your comment: some valid points but like I said U are disqualified BC you work and literally take care of your man. You work all day and come home to another job. You are slaving for your "king". I'm sure he is cute and that is y you essentially pay him to be with you. Fat hoes always have to go the extra mile just to compete! Its pathetic. I'm sure you make waaay more than him and its cool as ling as you have a "king", right? Newsflash men can be golddiggers too and they always try and go after the ugly and/or fat hoes. They know yall are THAT thirsty.
Your words Slim Thug are an insult to the beauty, strength and character of all black women. A white woman is a caricature in comparison to the true beauty of a black woman. We come in every shade from lightest caramel mocha to deepest chocolate. Our white counterparts are white, white or whiter. And you dare to compare them to us. White women from your definition are more agreeable, more malleable than a SISTA. Is that what you want? To have your foot on someone’s neck because the “man’s” foot is on your neck? Why not look at a beautiful black woman who has the fire, determination, drive and ability to help you succeed as she succeeds. Not all black women are money hungry video hoochies come to life. Or maybe those are just the only ones you attract with your pitiful, misogynistic viewpoints.
I cant wait until they start hanging these dumb black man on trees again =) they should start with the bumb rapers and then the dead bet ones. not the ones that respect there people only black men that treat there people like [EXPLETIVE]. that is why no one respect them. and white men will always rule and be above them grow up black men. YES I SAID IT
I cant wait until they start hanging these dumb ass black man on trees again =) they should start with the disrespectful rapers and then the dead bet ones. this is why black men will never be. no one respect them they act like little kids most of them don't know how to put down the video games white men will always rule over your dumb ass. most of you don't respect your race you disrespect your women and children who dose that.
@ GeorgiaPeachATL: "Fat" must be a hot button issue with you. It seems that you may have some self esteem problems of your own. To start off, my man works just as hard as I do. He makes his own money at work and has his own business. Yes, I do make more money than him, bet we take care of each other. We split the bills equally and we have a great time together. Where is your man and what is he doing? Maybe you can tell me a little about him and how well he treats you. Next, I don't slave to NOBODY. Black people been that long enough and I sure as hell ain't gonna let a man do it to me in this day in age. Third, when it comes to love there is no competition. God has made someone for everyone. You know, you raise a great issue when it comes to black women. We think everything is a competition. This has nothing to do with size, color or desperation. This has to do with the lies that you and many other black people have been telling themselves for years. Fourth, I think it is very peculiar of you to cast so much judgment on me and leave yourself out of the equation. At least I'm honest. And at least I can use myself as proof that the thought processes of people like you are wrong. Fifth, the nerve of you to talk about hanging black men from trees. Danm Bojangles.
Come on, Slim Thug. Don't be THAT man! Black men need to stop praising white women like they're the answer to all their problems. #1, did you fuk wit any white women b4 u made it? Black men get rich, finally get WANTED by white women, and then come the jacked up theories that white women care about the man behind it all and bw are golddiggers. Women want SECURITY. It's a natural instinct of ours. Just like men look for the biggest ass (which everybody accepts) women want to know they'll be taken care of. Today's woman (both white and black) have gotten that twisted up with a lot of superficial bullsh!t and I'm assuming that's where his complaints lie. But don't be stupid enough to think that black women have monopolized that mindset. Black women are who we were made to be. We're put thru the ringer time and time again dealing with...well, black men. And then those black men come up, change circumstances, and then they look back at us like we're problematic to them now.
Idk what kind of woman he's looking for, but it sounds to me like he just wants a submissive woman. One who doesn't argue too much and lets him have the final say. Men tend to want that nowadays. They want that old school "obedience". But what do they do to inspire it? Women deal with men time and time again who killed that mentality a long time ago simply by being undeserving of it. And they CONTINUE to be undeserving but listening to them, u can't tell that. They have the nerve to stand there acting like a king in a rented castle. In the past, how has Slim treated all the black women in his life? Has he showed them the utmost respect or has he been a triflin disappointment, keeping it fully within the race and away from the pure eyes of the white woman? Then of course after he gets the "celebrity" title, all the white women flock to him. They haven't been tainted by his past ignorance, so they're ripe, willing to take the toilet paper from his hands and wipe his ass clean to keep him happy. No complaints. Black man happy now. What a lovely reality. Too bad all he's dealing with is a different kind of hustle. Men play games. Women play games. Black and white. And judging by Slim's paltry ass analysis, white women have found a great angle in playin the game. They hear black men complaining about what we DON'T and WON'T do so they know exactly what to do to keep him happy. And why is he actin like he's an innocent guy wearing his heart on his sleeve anyway? He's looking for one thing from these women. Not like he's looking for a wife & keeps coming up with lemons. He wants pu&&y, plain & simple. What's SO wrong with those women using him for his money? Tit for tat. It's all game playin. Don't make the woman's sh!t seem like the ultimate scam. Hate when men do that sh!t. A hustle is a hustle. Hate the game, baby.
Love seeing black men put it all on us. Maybe if bm started steppin it the fuk up, more bw would also. Y'all wanna lead? Y'all wanna make all the rules? Wanna make it a twitter relationship and have us following y'all? Well, give us something worth following. What I see is bm willing to change nothing at all about themselves but acting like they deserve glitz, glam, and homecooked goodness. Fuk that. Idk wtf is up with this trend. If u wanna get famous & forget ur roots, that's your choice. But to get in an interview & put the white woman over a BLACK WOMAN like your ass wasn't birthed, raised, and defended by black women your whole life, that's not okay.
He is just stereotyping..maybe its the women he gets with that wind up leaving him high and dry but not every BLACK WOMAN is the same look at oprah obviously she don't a man period. And every WOMAN likes to be pampered and showered with gifts so I guess that makes every female in the entire world GOLDDIGGERS!! get it together slim who are you to judge anyway??
adytopshotta73 Point blank---White women are some D*AMN good actresses. That's why in the end---they have all your hard-earned money and your nuts in a glass jar under the sink.
Oh my damn!!! kakakakakakaka I'm rotflmmbao!
what some of these coons don't understand is that we are all WOMEN (black, white, brown, whatev) and we know how women think, what motivates us, and how PATIENT we can be when we have an agenda....this has NOTHING to do with race (white being better)...we know how women think...so nigs, take this as sistas tryna hip u to Becky Lynn's game! so stop getting defensive and accusing us of hatin'! get a clue....
The comments Slim made could affect his album sales, but it's the truth. Black Women ain't [EXPLETIVE] these days. Naturally a black women will here that and get offensive, but their not seeing it from a man's perspective, and I'm a black man. Compared to other races black women are selfish opportunist's using their sex to get what they want. But when it comes to the man they choose to be with, no matter how good you look or how good you are to them, their only out for one of 2 things; Money or a good [EXPLETIVE]. SnoopDog saw it coming when he said,"Bitches aint [EXPLETIVE] but hoes and tricks."
sorry black girls but i gotta agree with slim thug on this. 98% of yall r gold diggers. [EXPLETIVE] i know a black girl right now that went as far as even tattooing GOLD DIGGER on the back of her thighs like that [EXPLETIVE] was attractive or somehting. like thats a real good 1st impression 2 have of urself when ppl see u or meet u. && ive had a lot of black girls as friends b4 an all they ever talked 2 any of their "friends" or "[EXPLETIVE]" 4 was if they were paying their bills or giving them money or doing this n that 4 them. they never wanted [EXPLETIVE] 2 b 50/50, they never wanted 2 do anything 4 they [EXPLETIVE] 4 a change or help them out or just throw them a few dollars every now an then. all black girls know how 2 do is take take take, there is no give n take with them at all. they r very selfish n self centered an thats not cool at all...n then they got the nerve 2 get mad when a [EXPLETIVE] is with a white girl, or a spanish girl, or like myself a mixed girl. they hate 2 see a [EXPLETIVE] with a lighter female or exotic females like me n other girls...but what they fail 2 realize is we know how 2 take care of our men n true enough we dont want no broke [EXPLETIVE] but thats also not ALL we r with them 4. we arent using them 4 all they got. && we arent selfish like they r, n only worried about what we could benefit from this dude. i could truly go on n on 4 days but the proof is right in front of us. 50%+ babies that were born within the last year alone r all mixed babies. black n white or black n puerto rican or black n something. sorry black woman but u better step ur game up n stop being so concerned about only urselves n change ur stank ass attitude while ur at it.
@mosthated_lex. Honey, as much as it pains me sometimes to see a good brother with a white girl, I have to admit that you are right. Now don't get me wrong, there are plenty of black men in this world who need to step their game up, especially when it come to their crazy baby momma's, but you have a point. A black person has no choosing in being black and the same goes for all races. I am not mixed, white, or spanish. I am AA and it kills me to watch these black girls get a good black man, dog him out when he don't pay her rent and then call herself getting pissed when he go with a white, spanish or asian woman. In all truth, love is blind it can't see color. So black women, pull your lives together (as we've always done) and start working on yourself before you want to work on black men.
As I sort through these comments, I am asking myself "where did WE go wrong"? Black men and women alike, still continue to point the finger after all that we been through. When will we step up as a race and say enough is enough!! When will we learn to respect one another, and stop allowing our history to destroy our future?
Black men: If you want a "Becky", get you one! Stop using a sista as an excuse to date outside of your race! Stop insinuating that sistas are upset when we see you with white women. If you feel in your heart that choosing a white woman over any other race is best for you, then so be it!! It's not necessary to belittle black women as an effort to show the world how happy your are with Becky Sue!!! Love who you love for the RIGHT reasons, and not because it's the forbidden thing to do or because you think you are hurting or getting back at black women. Stop leaving black women alone to raise YOUR children because the relationship didn't work out. Step up and give back to your communities, and learn how to invest your money in FAMILY as a whole, and more lucrative things other than: jewelry, rims, car tvs, and clothes. Stop hiding your sexuality from women PERIOD, black or white!!!! Be honest with yourself, and proud of who/what you are. Stop being intimidated or afraid of a ANY women who might be more successful or educated than you are.
Black Women: Stop hating on white women, or any woman in general. Stop disrespecting yourself by sleeping with ANY man because of status, money, or fame. Stop degrading your bodies/mind by shaking your ass in videos or clubs, allowing men to call you hoes and bitches. It's great being independent and successful, but that doesn't mean you have to repeat it to the WORLD a thousand times!!!! Black women stop being so insecure and intimidated by ANY other woman!! Start going to the GYM every week instead of focusing so much on hair and nails!!! You are NOTHING without your health. For those who do workout, make sure you are working on your inside just as much!!! Some of us tend to focus so much on making the outside perfect, and are suffering internally!!! Bad internal health is why we tend to drive MEN away period.
Bottom Line: We all can afford to love ourselves more individually first, and then collectively as a people!!!! Quit pointing fingers so much, and coming with these one-sided opinions. We can all hate Slim Thug's point of views/comments, but change starts with SELF!! We can lash out at him and say nasty things, but at the end of the day our world is still suffering!! Shame does not change anything, actions do!!!! Ask yourself, "how will I change my own mindset?". "What actions will I take to be a better person?"
If you like or are attracted to one race of men/women over the other then don't make excuses of 'why'.. that turns into belittling and judging just to make an excuse for yourself. If you like what you like then leave it at that! Maybe it is true for some but every classification of people has their issue and it isn't right to generalize groups! I get sick of people that feel like they have to play the blame game, 'this is why' nah you like what you like stop disrespecting.. then how funny to demand or expect respect when you present yourself in such a way.. NEXT. Wht girl here.. and if I ever date outside of my race and dude has sht like this to say no wonder wht girls think they are the sht.. What I want to know is how is ur relationship with mom?
He sound like an ass not all women are like that some women are sane, have a great education and have a good job, their own place and their own money and don't need a damn thing from a man and while were on this subject some white women will f**k you up just look at tiger woods he cheated with all white women now look at him . And by the way slim uugg you are nothing to look at black women are smart to bypass you period.
