: MediaTakeOut.com learned that a 48 year old Atlanta man named DeFarra Gaymon's was traveling from Georgia to New Jersey to celebrate his 30th high school reunion at Montclair High School.
DeFarra, who is the CEO of an Atlanta company, was approached in a GAY PARK by an undercover police. hat happened next is UNCLEAR . . . But DeFarma ended up dead.
Here's how the AP is reporting it:
According to the Essex County Sheriff's Office, Gaymon was shot and killed Friday evening at Newark's Branch Brook Park during a "tussle" with an undercover police detective, but it is unclear what led to the incident.We're going to keep you posted . .. to see how this story plays out.The detective, whose name has not been released, went to the park around 6 p.m. to investigate reports that people were engaging in sexual activity in public.
He ended up firing a single bullet into Gaymon's chest while trying to arrest him on charges related to the original call, authorities told The Star Ledger.
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Regardless of it being a "gay park" or not, the incident needs to be investigated completely and as quickly as possible. The family needs to know everything that happened. The police in Jersey better be smart and tell the truth. People are tired of cops getting away with hurting and killing people who have done nothing wrong.
ACTUALLY IT SOUNDS LIKE THE DETECTIVE WAS A [EXPLETIVE] ASS COWARD.
THE MAN WAS ON THE DL, DIDN'T WANT TO GET CAUGHT LIKE EDDI MURPHY OR GEORGE MICHEAL AND HE STARTED TRIPPIN ON THE COP WHO COULD HAVE JUST TASED THE MAN, BUT CHOSE TO BE A FAG HIMSELF AND KILL HIM.
THE DEPARTMENT IS GONNA GET THEIR ASSES SUED TO HELL.
Y'all BE NICE !! That was my lover! In fact, this park is right up the street from where I live in Atlanta and I had just got back home from meeting him there. I blew him and then he stood up in my butt and the I left to wash the jizz out of my behind....I was going to meet him again later for some more fun & games, but heard he got deaded!! I'm going to miss him! Chile, that man ran through me like General Grant took Richmond!!!
At least I still have the skinny jeans I wore stained with his knutt to treasure him by.
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@ BOBBENBECY2U !!!!!! WHORE shut da hell up cus first and far most trailer.white man is the reason for aids..they introduced same sex..u crak-ers all ways wanna say it's the black man..but u pig MUD ROLLEN ppl have bought so much crap ..u ppl have made diseases to kill.. u no wat BIOTCH u need to not look @ the view cus yo dumb AZZ shud B on JERRY SPRINGER !!!!!
As far as him being gay & on the dl, that's for his wife 2 emaotionally deal with IF she didn't know. He may have panicked IF he was actually caught in a compromising situation, but the issue here is whether the events actaully occurred as the officer stated, & IF they did still why did he have 2 shoot him? An unarmed man threatens 2 kill a police officer? Hard 4 me 2 believe. The focus as black people needs 2 be, was this unarmed black man killed unnecessarily. His family is doing the right thing by demanding an investigation, & they deserve the black community support until proven otherwise.
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This could have been one of our family members, & whatever his sexual preference was, u would have still loved him & wouldn't want him killed if it was unjustified. Like someone said earlier, y not taser him? It appears he was one of our successful black men, that was possibly taking care of his family. It really is beyond time 4 us to unite,pay attn, speak out on the injustices our people are subjected too. We owe it to our ancestors & elders. Otherwise, we will cont 2 be a race of "easy pickings" for other races who do unite. Pls be educated & prepared 4 the Nov elections just like the
I READ ABOUT THIS YESTERDAY IN THE STAR LEDGER, IM FROM JERSEY, SO IT WAS ALL OVER THE NEWS... SUPPOSEDLY HE STARTED YELLING AT THE OFFICER AND LUNGED AT HIM, SHYT FOR ALL WE KNOW THEY WERE PHUCKING EACH OTHER. WHO KNOWS. EITHER WAY A MAN IS DEAD. Y WOULD SOME ONE SOLICIT SEX IN HE PARK? I DONT KNOW, THIS COULD BE AVOIDED IF HE GOT A ROOM. NEWARK IS CRIME RIDDEN AND SHYT POP OFF EVERYDAY EVERYWHERE AROUND NEWARK, SO.... I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST GAYS BUT THAT IS THE WHITE MANS DISEASE, DONT GET CAUGHT UP, DONT EVEN TRY IT ONCE....
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Man I'm willing to be the cop was getting some and was about to get caught/exposed so he off'd that man. The man wasn't armed so him being shot above the waist? Nah PIG, the family better sue they ass BLIND! Why didn't he use a tazor or the club or mase? A kill shot? He was trying to hide something or he himself commeitted a hate crim by killing a black gay man. I hope the whole precinct FRIES. So they're gay, disgusting yes but need to be killed over it? Hellll no! That wrong!
This story is too common and happens way more than people realize. The mentality of so many people is the reason why this will continue to happen, and for those of you living in the dark, your turn is coming.
How sad is it that so-called law enforcement can say he was in a gay park, and he tussled with an officer - and so many of you think that justifies what happened to this man - because of his pic or his last name. The law will always get away with these murders cause most of America is brainwashed and believe the garbage published by media.
To even be debating where AIDS came from is just how brainwashed you are. It was created by the variety of races that make up the American government, then brought to Africa for population control. Say your prayers before your time is up.
I like how the family said "It would have been completely and totally against his nature to ‘tussle' with a police officer, to resist authority, to assault a police officer"... But yall probably didn't think that sexin dudes was in his nature either. You never really know someone. But as soon as his picture popped up, I could see that he was gay. Whatever the case may be, its still very sad. This was nothing to lose a life over. RIP
as a retired police officer from nyc with well over 20 yrs of service i can tell that this cop phucked up royally,i spent my last several years processing tens of thousands of arrest,and i can assure you that every person that i have ever processed for (public lewdness)NEVER HAD A WEAPON ON THEM,plus most of you would be suprized that most of these men were not BLACK,they were mostly well educated white men who where married with children,yet the myth is most dl men are black,that may hold true in atlanta but not for the rest of the country
WHITE DUDES INVENTED LIVING ON THE DL, SO DEF NOT ALL DL MEN R BLK, NOT EVEN MOST. THEY TRYING TO CORRUPT MINDS SO THE TRY AND FOCUS ON THAT WHEN THEY BEEN DOING IT FOR YRS. A PROF ONCE TOLD OF MANY STORIES WHERE THE SLAVE MASTER WOULD ENGAGE IN SEX ACTS WITH MALE SLAVES, THEN WALK 2 FEET AND STICK IT IN THE SLAVE WMN. YUCK! AGAIN I SAY, DONT LET THEM CORRUPT U, DONT EVEN TRY IT ONCE!
IM NOT STICKING UP FOR THE PIGS, BUT YALL DONT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED. MAYBE IT WAS AN ACCIDENT, MAYBE ON PURPOSE, SELF DEFENSE, A HATE CRIME, NO ONE KNOWS. MAYBE HE ASKED TO BE SHOT CAUSE HE KNEW HIS FAMILY WOULD FIND OUT AND WOULD RATHER DIE...WHO KNOWS? BUT WHEN U DO SNEAKY SHYT, THERE IS ALWAYS ROOM FOR SOME EXTRA SHYT U HADNT INENDED ON TO GO DOWN... I LEARNED THAT THE HARD WAY, NO HOMO THOUGH....
MOST OF YALL ARE THE MOST STUPIDEST [EXPLETIVE] IN THIS WORLD OK HE WAS GAY AND HAD A GAY LAST NAME SO [EXPLETIVE] WHAT THIS MAN WAS KILLED. KILLED KILLED FOR [EXPLETIVE] IN A PARK KILLED YOU STUPID [EXPLETIVE].. IT DONT SAY WHAT RACE THE COP WAS BUT I CAN BET 10 RACKS THAT IT WAS A [EXPLETIVE]... But what i wanta know is what happen to the other person he was so called [EXPLETIVE] in this gay park???
Dean was in NJ for his high school reunion. The park is only 12 miles away from the hotel in Secauscus where they were holding the reunion. Something in the park went WRONG!
I believe it was reported that Dean helped to coordinated the HS reunion. Did he go there looking for one of his old classmates,or why would he have been in the park instead of at the reunion? I am sure there were activities that needed to get done, prior to the event.Why was the Officer-immediately put on medical leave? why has the officer not explained to anyone what happend? You'd hate to find out hes on the DL. That's a hell of a way for a wife to find out!
This is what happens when black men can't be open and themselves. They have to live a double life and cruise for sex in gay parks. He probably was terrified of being caught out by the cop and they faught and bam he was shot. Either way he was CLEARLY a gay man I can look at his picture and see that.
The first most important question the family should ask is " WHERE IS THE OTHER PERSON?//////???????" If he was involved in sexual actions then another party is involved and if so they should know EVERYTHING if not then the cop probably though he would fuk him and rob him until he found out he was a prominent person something went wrong and he had to get rid of him.... but nseriouly the person he was having sex with if so should come forward and help his family we can put everything aside.
okay i read the update now but still this part sounds funny "The detective and his partner had just made an arrest at Branch Brook Park while investigating complaints of public sex when he realized his handcuffs were missing and began to retrace his steps, Laurino said. As a result, the sheriff's detective was alone when he was....."... approached by Gaymon, Laurino said.......................Nown how come his handcuffs happen to go missing in the gay park and if he losing handcuffs thats questioning his police skills be for real of course he shootn at everything ...they coudve been long ti
WAIT...SOMETHIN AIN'T RIGHT. A "DETECTIVE" (PLAINS CLOTHES) WENT TO GO INVESTIGATE SOME FREAKYNESS IN THE PARK BUT NOT A PATROLMAN?? THAT'S HOW THEY DO IT IN JERSEY? OR IS THERE MORE TO THE STORY.... I CANT UNDERSTAND WHY A "DETECTIVE" WOULD GO AND INVESTIGATE A "BREACH OF PEACE" OR SOME OTHER PETTY ASS CRIME OR DISTURBANCE AND HE WINDS UP DEAD?? *SMH*
His wife didn't know he was a gayman (gaymon....really tho?)?? I'm guessing the prominent CEO didn't want 2 "go down" ...no pun intended lol....and started tussling with the officer out of desperation because he knew if he was arrested he'd surely be exposed. Nasty. All in the park seeking sex. His wife should get tested.
Read that article clip one reader posted: the sister says something's not right. I mean really? Unfortunately he was on the DL. Not like he was some famous dude that everybody all over the world knows. He was prominent as a business man in Atlanta and prominently gay. It's a hard truth to swallow because the man is dead....but I believe he tussled with that officer for fear of being exposed. AND u know he [EXPLETIVE] hella boybooty down in the ATL. Bless the dead. That man may be in hell. smh
Sad seems like that could have tased him instead. The family is grief-stricken I'm sure but just because he was'nt a violent person doesnt mean he didnt react violently when he saw his life flash before his eyes while being arrested for having Gay sex in a public park. He had worked years to build that lie and bloggers would have ethered him over that arrest, he probably panicked. Real Talk.
Stfu @Becky DL men are in all races. When I went to cosmetology school one of my besties was a gay white dude and he use to hook up with married white men all the time. HIV is prominent in the white community but they don't release it. We weren't the ones who created the aids quilt so get your facts straight krakah.
I don't know if the man was gay or not. I live in ATL and I am just hearing about this. I guess I haven't been paying attention to the news lately. NE way, I grew up in Newark. It was a little different back in the day, but still not the place to be having sex in a park in the evening. It just seems weird that the man would have sex in the broad day light with another man at that. Something just does not add up!! I have witnessed some of the corrupt [EXPLETIVE] that police do when making arrests, so I pray that the family find out what REALLY happened!
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