Prominent MARRIED Black CEO Gets SHOT AND KILLED In NOTORIOUS GAY PARK!! (Help SOLVE The Mystery)

: MediaTakeOut.com learned that a 48 year old Atlanta man named DeFarra Gaymon's was traveling from Georgia to New Jersey to celebrate his 30th high school reunion at Montclair High School.

DeFarra, who is the CEO of an Atlanta company, was approached in a GAY PARK by an undercover police. hat happened next is UNCLEAR . . . But DeFarma ended up dead.

Here's how the AP is reporting it:

According to the Essex County Sheriff's Office, Gaymon was shot and killed Friday evening at Newark's Branch Brook Park during a "tussle" with an undercover police detective, but it is unclear what led to the incident.

The detective, whose name has not been released, went to the park around 6 p.m. to investigate reports that people were engaging in sexual activity in public.

He ended up firing a single bullet into Gaymon's chest while trying to arrest him on charges related to the original call, authorities told The Star Ledger.

We're going to keep you posted . .. to see how this story plays out.

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mikeharris

LMAO!! WHY WOULD HE HAVE GAY SEX IN A PARK? THATS WEIRD!! NO SKITTLES AND NO HOMO

YOU THINK YOU BETTER THAN MIKE HARRIS? CHILD SIT DOWN AND KISS THE BABY! #just sayin


mikeharris

THAT DUDE LOOK LIKE WENDY WILLIAMS WITHOUT MAKEUP LMAO!


Meech35ENT

Mike Harris is a bitch


Nikki9Milli

whoa..


MissBecky2U

I have heard that a lot of these prominant ethnic men are DL. The fat woman on the view said that they are the reason for HIV in the black community. Besides all the free love in the penile system.


notorioussteph

Awwww thats sad! :/


FRESHLOLA

SAD STORY!!!!


FRESHLOLA

HES A FCKNG CEO AND HE COULDNT AFFORD A 'TELLY? WTF


mxd_beauty

he looks gay but thats sad


sexy43

he was on the dl n was killed by his lover mystery solved i mean come on a married man killed n gay park his gay lover got tired of waitin 4him 2leave his wife nuff said


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bLuEcRyStAl252

His name happen to be gaymon lol #stopit.. but that's sad yeah maybe he was tappin the cop on the dl


Diasamax

Regardless of it being a "gay park" or not, the incident needs to be investigated completely and as quickly as possible. The family needs to know everything that happened. The police in Jersey better be smart and tell the truth. People are tired of cops getting away with hurting and killing people who have done nothing wrong.


Truthfullyspeaking

WOW gay or not, nobody should have to lose their life for nothing.

>>>> SOUTH CAROLINA<<<<


CARMEL777

ACTUALLY IT SOUNDS LIKE THE DETECTIVE WAS A [EXPLETIVE] ASS COWARD.

THE MAN WAS ON THE DL, DIDN'T WANT TO GET CAUGHT LIKE EDDI MURPHY OR GEORGE MICHEAL AND HE STARTED TRIPPIN ON THE COP WHO COULD HAVE JUST TASED THE MAN, BUT CHOSE TO BE A FAG HIMSELF AND KILL HIM.

THE DEPARTMENT IS GONNA GET THEIR ASSES SUED TO HELL.



Post_IT

What an embarrassing way to die, on the stroll. He looks older than 48.

I'm not say he is but i'm just sayin.


durkniggler1

Is his last name really GAYMON? Sounds like how a Jamaican would say it.........R.I.P


mikeharris6921

Y'all BE NICE !! That was my lover! In fact, this park is right up the street from where I live in Atlanta and I had just got back home from meeting him there. I blew him and then he stood up in my butt and the I left to wash the jizz out of my behind....I was going to meet him again later for some more fun & games, but heard he got deaded!! I'm going to miss him! Chile, that man ran through me like General Grant took Richmond!!!

At least I still have the skinny jeans I wore stained with his knutt to treasure him by.

I'm sexy Mike Harris! JUST LOOK AT ME!!! WHAT ELSE CAN I SAY?????

www.twitter.com/sexymikeharris


thenamesquan

MARTIAL LAW IS IN PROGRESS..WAKE THE [EXPLETIVE] UP U MONKEYS


Russo--Sweet

If you need help than why wasn't this the top story you guys are so freaking backwards.......


Amp1

Now I'm sorry for the loss...but NAN about that man says "I wouldn't be caught dead in a gay park", so this doesn't surprise me...just sayin...


Blacque

omg

why wud he b lookn fo love in the park in jersey

i knew he grew up there but them nuggaz crazy ova there

they got undercova po po selln propositions to gay peeps nah - that is bullschitt fareally tho


allergic2bullshyt

@ BOBBENBECY2U !!!!!! WHORE shut da hell up cus first and far most trailer.white man is the reason for aids..they introduced same sex..u crak-ers all ways wanna say it's the black man..but u pig MUD ROLLEN ppl have bought so much crap ..u ppl have made diseases to kill.. u no wat BIOTCH u need to not look @ the view cus yo dumb AZZ shud B on JERRY SPRINGER !!!!!


tigerlove

WHAT THE HELL !!!


PoohA

As far as him being gay & on the dl, that's for his wife 2 emaotionally deal with IF she didn't know. He may have panicked IF he was actually caught in a compromising situation, but the issue here is whether the events actaully occurred as the officer stated, & IF they did still why did he have 2 shoot him? An unarmed man threatens 2 kill a police officer? Hard 4 me 2 believe. The focus as black people needs 2 be, was this unarmed black man killed unnecessarily. His family is doing the right thing by demanding an investigation, & they deserve the black community support until proven otherwise.


allergic2bullshyt

@BOBBENHEADBECKY@U !!! I hate wen u ppl always try to start [EXPLETIVE] but never want to take responsibilty that ur fuc-up crack-ers introduces so much crap then always try to point the finger to blame another race...chick do wat u do best and screw a family member u ppl r wicked ..triff...and u ppl also started humans having sex wit animals ...biotch go roll ova a DIE !!!! HATE to smell like Baloney !!!


misshugrad

My question is, what woman was actually married to this dude?? He was clearly a gay man.


PoohA

This could have been one of our family members, & whatever his sexual preference was, u would have still loved him & wouldn't want him killed if it was unjustified. Like someone said earlier, y not taser him? It appears he was one of our successful black men, that was possibly taking care of his family. It really is beyond time 4 us to unite,pay attn, speak out on the injustices our people are subjected too. We owe it to our ancestors & elders. Otherwise, we will cont 2 be a race of "easy pickings" for other races who do unite. Pls be educated & prepared 4 the Nov elections just like the


signified

his last name is Gaymon.......nuff said.


uniqueSag

Stop living on the down low. If his wife didn't know he was gay then she's a fool...



sweetpea1

i read this story yesterday and dude looks suspect.


coco526

I smell murder of a gay man.The police officer probably was homophobic and hated gays.so he killed him for no apparent reason.


nkreseknowledge

I READ ABOUT THIS YESTERDAY IN THE STAR LEDGER, IM FROM JERSEY, SO IT WAS ALL OVER THE NEWS... SUPPOSEDLY HE STARTED YELLING AT THE OFFICER AND LUNGED AT HIM, SHYT FOR ALL WE KNOW THEY WERE PHUCKING EACH OTHER. WHO KNOWS. EITHER WAY A MAN IS DEAD. Y WOULD SOME ONE SOLICIT SEX IN HE PARK? I DONT KNOW, THIS COULD BE AVOIDED IF HE GOT A ROOM. NEWARK IS CRIME RIDDEN AND SHYT POP OFF EVERYDAY EVERYWHERE AROUND NEWARK, SO.... I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST GAYS BUT THAT IS THE WHITE MANS DISEASE, DONT GET CAUGHT UP, DONT EVEN TRY IT ONCE....


PoohA

..you did 4 the last Presidential elections b'c if we don't & the blue political party wins most of the seats, then our Pres. is Pres. in name only b'c they will reject just about everything he tries 2 pass. These "Tea Parties", & others r working OT 2 make him look bad. He needs us, & we need him. Now back 2 our regularly scheduled program, MTO(aka Maiming The Oppressed).


MRS-RANDY-JR

I READ THAT STORY YESTERDAY MTO!

GAYMAN IS A MARRIED MAN WITH FOUR CHILDREN...IT IS SUSPECTED THAT HE WAS A DOWN LOW MAN AND THAT THE POLICE WAS SO SHAKEN UP THAT HE ENEDE UP IN THE HOSPITAL AFTER THE INCIDDENT.......DISTURBING!


Symone2287

well he is, excuse me was defintely a gay mon, just look @ that pic, & i'm sure the "police detective is one too, perhaps his lover ummhmm o_O @snizzle LMFAO @ your comment.....


agentjay1130

when you come to the BRICKS YOU JUST MIGHT NOT LEAVE!! BRICK CITY UP NEWARK BOUND BUT SAD STORY!!


axabushgal

That family should find that a$$ of a cop and give him a whooping ,the gay man was getting a bang _dont disturb his piece ,i think the officer had want some loving but the gayman said know not right now come back tonight so the police got vex and pow pow boom bam the gayman dead ......sad story


GeorgiaPeachATL

Man I'm willing to be the cop was getting some and was about to get caught/exposed so he off'd that man. The man wasn't armed so him being shot above the waist? Nah PIG, the family better sue they ass BLIND! Why didn't he use a tazor or the club or mase? A kill shot? He was trying to hide something or he himself commeitted a hate crim by killing a black gay man. I hope the whole precinct FRIES. So they're gay, disgusting yes but need to be killed over it? Hellll no! That wrong!


Blizz314

Sorry to hear but c'mon MTO. Gay park, gay looking dude, GAYmon? If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, swim like a duck its a duck


emmettmays85

misshugrad hey i been good so far i havent been actin up lately

@ topic sad story


strangeness

his name damn near says it all and the pic isn't helping his case either!


Luvlieshay1

I think havin the last name Gaymon makes him pretty suspect as it is. You know they homophobic down south, inappropriate sexual acts were probably holdin hands or somethin.


dwayne725

yeah I read about that on yesterday but it is crazy.


Chicana

This story is too common and happens way more than people realize. The mentality of so many people is the reason why this will continue to happen, and for those of you living in the dark, your turn is coming.

How sad is it that so-called law enforcement can say he was in a gay park, and he tussled with an officer - and so many of you think that justifies what happened to this man - because of his pic or his last name. The law will always get away with these murders cause most of America is brainwashed and believe the garbage published by media.

To even be debating where AIDS came from is just how brainwashed you are. It was created by the variety of races that make up the American government, then brought to Africa for population control. Say your prayers before your time is up.



massappeal

he was in a gay park...case solved


kilikana

I like how the family said "It would have been completely and totally against his nature to ‘tussle' with a police officer, to resist authority, to assault a police officer"... But yall probably didn't think that sexin dudes was in his nature either. You never really know someone. But as soon as his picture popped up, I could see that he was gay. Whatever the case may be, its still very sad. This was nothing to lose a life over. RIP


byemail

sad...


godchillhard

as a retired police officer from nyc with well over 20 yrs of service i can tell that this cop phucked up royally,i spent my last several years processing tens of thousands of arrest,and i can assure you that every person that i have ever processed for (public lewdness)NEVER HAD A WEAPON ON THEM,plus most of you would be suprized that most of these men were not BLACK,they were mostly well educated white men who where married with children,yet the myth is most dl men are black,that may hold true in atlanta but not for the rest of the country


NeeNeeBSF

Wtf he doin in a gay park.?!


nkreseknowledge

WHITE DUDES INVENTED LIVING ON THE DL, SO DEF NOT ALL DL MEN R BLK, NOT EVEN MOST. THEY TRYING TO CORRUPT MINDS SO THE TRY AND FOCUS ON THAT WHEN THEY BEEN DOING IT FOR YRS. A PROF ONCE TOLD OF MANY STORIES WHERE THE SLAVE MASTER WOULD ENGAGE IN SEX ACTS WITH MALE SLAVES, THEN WALK 2 FEET AND STICK IT IN THE SLAVE WMN. YUCK! AGAIN I SAY, DONT LET THEM CORRUPT U, DONT EVEN TRY IT ONCE!


nkreseknowledge

IM NOT STICKING UP FOR THE PIGS, BUT YALL DONT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED. MAYBE IT WAS AN ACCIDENT, MAYBE ON PURPOSE, SELF DEFENSE, A HATE CRIME, NO ONE KNOWS. MAYBE HE ASKED TO BE SHOT CAUSE HE KNEW HIS FAMILY WOULD FIND OUT AND WOULD RATHER DIE...WHO KNOWS? BUT WHEN U DO SNEAKY SHYT, THERE IS ALWAYS ROOM FOR SOME EXTRA SHYT U HADNT INENDED ON TO GO DOWN... I LEARNED THAT THE HARD WAY, NO HOMO THOUGH....


emmettmays85

realroxxanne stfu bitch regardless of his sexual orientation he did'nt deserved to be blasted by bitchmade cop


emmettmays85

nkreseknowledge hey baby i missed u


emmettmays85

i heard the officer is now screaming self defense saying that he feared for his life


PoohA

Even though I don't agree with some of the stories MTO posts, nor some of their gossip baiting, I do appreciate that they use their forum to bring issues like these to the assumedly mostly black readers attention.


ten4cowboys

Unfortunate. Prayers go out to his wife and family.


iLuvMTO

wtf kinda story is this? a gay man named Gaymon? was he married to a man or a woman? and since when did they have gay-only parks in nj? its sad that another black man was killed by a cop but this story is very bizarre to me.


kdj997

lol I had to respond lol the dudes name was gaymon lol lyou cant make that up



DMONEYMEDIA

GAY PARK, GAY CEO, GAY COP. GAY WORLD! LMAO NO..RIP to the DL Black Ceo tho!


CLBRML

Together forever, Mike Harris and Snizzle. Fierce as a firecracker!


Xfactor

I don't know how his wife didn't know the man was gay, it's pretty obvious. Too bad he was killed though but it was wrong for him to be married and going to a gay meeting park to have sex, that's just nasty.


Bella10

The police are killing and beating people all over the U.S. Something needs to be done.


imsickoftvnradio

Yeah, you can look at the pic and tell he is a homosexual and it looks like he may have been into cross dressing too. But no disrespect because he is someone's son, uncle, brother etc. so my prayers are with the family.


terinmack

mike harris is snizzle


drec00k

MOST OF YALL ARE THE MOST STUPIDEST [EXPLETIVE] IN THIS WORLD OK HE WAS GAY AND HAD A GAY LAST NAME SO [EXPLETIVE] WHAT THIS MAN WAS KILLED. KILLED KILLED FOR [EXPLETIVE] IN A PARK KILLED YOU STUPID [EXPLETIVE].. IT DONT SAY WHAT RACE THE COP WAS BUT I CAN BET 10 RACKS THAT IT WAS A [EXPLETIVE]... But what i wanta know is what happen to the other person he was so called [EXPLETIVE] in this gay park???


DTRAIN704

GAY DUDE GOT CAUGHT SLIPPIN SAD BUT REAL


Shock-em-baby

Sounds a little setup - ish to me. To neat! Just throwing that out in the universe...


Sunshine009

Died getting head in a public park....wow


TankLoC60z

honestly [EXPLETIVE] the policwe nicca/ sincerly , get like me nicca


spoiled78

The cop was mad because dude turned down a blow-job by him.


MykelHarris

GAYmon? Duh!!!!!!


donthateonthegreat

A gay park...WTF?!?! But that's sad. My condolenses to his fam...


Shaniqua25

i happen to live in newark but it is not a "gay park". however, it is known to be very dangerous, especially at night time.



QTEETAY2

SORRY HE DIED BUT "HOW YOU DOIN"


1MoreThing

Dean was in NJ for his high school reunion. The park is only 12 miles away from the hotel in Secauscus where they were holding the reunion. Something in the park went WRONG!

I believe it was reported that Dean helped to coordinated the HS reunion. Did he go there looking for one of his old classmates,or why would he have been in the park instead of at the reunion? I am sure there were activities that needed to get done, prior to the event.Why was the Officer-immediately put on medical leave? why has the officer not explained to anyone what happend? You'd hate to find out hes on the DL. That's a hell of a way for a wife to find out!


Beauty08

the full story is o blackvoices.com

the policeman said that the spot he cruising in a popular male prostitute's area and propositioned him. then when he found out it was a cop he freaked, there was a scuffle and he got shot.

No one knows the truth truth though yet.


TheBrokenSilence

This is what happens when black men can't be open and themselves. They have to live a double life and cruise for sex in gay parks. He probably was terrified of being caught out by the cop and they faught and bam he was shot. Either way he was CLEARLY a gay man I can look at his picture and see that.


freekountri

I SMELL A "SET UP!"


cashmonet140

The first most important question the family should ask is " WHERE IS THE OTHER PERSON?//////???????" If he was involved in sexual actions then another party is involved and if so they should know EVERYTHING if not then the cop probably though he would fuk him and rob him until he found out he was a prominent person something went wrong and he had to get rid of him.... but nseriouly the person he was having sex with if so should come forward and help his family we can put everything aside.


cashmonet140

okay i read the update now but still this part sounds funny "The detective and his partner had just made an arrest at Branch Brook Park while investigating complaints of public sex when he realized his handcuffs were missing and began to retrace his steps, Laurino said. As a result, the sheriff's detective was alone when he was....."... approached by Gaymon, Laurino said.......................Nown how come his handcuffs happen to go missing in the gay park and if he losing handcuffs thats questioning his police skills be for real of course he shootn at everything ...they coudve been long ti


cashmonet140

lovers.....check to see if they knew each other 30 yrs ago..he kept talkin about the reunion... the cop was probably mad he moved to atlanta and started a family.. u never know ppl are crazy..the story sounds funny


CeeCe

IT WAS HIS WIFE!!! SHE KNEW HE WA SUCKIN DYCK AND GOT SICK OF IT!!


elmcitychick

WAIT...SOMETHIN AIN'T RIGHT. A "DETECTIVE" (PLAINS CLOTHES) WENT TO GO INVESTIGATE SOME FREAKYNESS IN THE PARK BUT NOT A PATROLMAN?? THAT'S HOW THEY DO IT IN JERSEY? OR IS THERE MORE TO THE STORY.... I CANT UNDERSTAND WHY A "DETECTIVE" WOULD GO AND INVESTIGATE A "BREACH OF PEACE" OR SOME OTHER PETTY ASS CRIME OR DISTURBANCE AND HE WINDS UP DEAD?? *SMH*


TheBossDiamondB

...sad but u know - he does look like a gay-mon

...jus say'n


tragic_just_tragic

the police man killed him simple


XzoticRythemz

FOR THOSE OF YOU THAT ARE NOT FAMILIAR WITH NEWARK NJ >>>>> BRANCH BROOK PARK IS DEFINATELY NOT A GAY PARK!!!!! IT MAY HAVE A GAY SECTION (which the majority of Newark residents are not aware of) BRANCH BROOK PARK IS THE LARGEST PARK IN THE STATE OF NJ & NOT A GAY PARK!



starchild7

Some of you people are ignorant and blind! All you can do is focus on him being gay...what you should focus on is that another unarmed black man was shot by the police. Wake up people!

RIP Defarre, we'll miss you!


calmedcooled

His wife didn't know he was a gayman (gaymon....really tho?)?? I'm guessing the prominent CEO didn't want 2 "go down" ...no pun intended lol....and started tussling with the officer out of desperation because he knew if he was arrested he'd surely be exposed. Nasty. All in the park seeking sex. His wife should get tested.


calmedcooled

Read that article clip one reader posted: the sister says something's not right. I mean really? Unfortunately he was on the DL. Not like he was some famous dude that everybody all over the world knows. He was prominent as a business man in Atlanta and prominently gay. It's a hard truth to swallow because the man is dead....but I believe he tussled with that officer for fear of being exposed. AND u know he [EXPLETIVE] hella boybooty down in the ATL. Bless the dead. That man may be in hell. smh


femlawyer

Sad seems like that could have tased him instead. The family is grief-stricken I'm sure but just because he was'nt a violent person doesnt mean he didnt react violently when he saw his life flash before his eyes while being arrested for having Gay sex in a public park. He had worked years to build that lie and bloggers would have ethered him over that arrest, he probably panicked. Real Talk.


sexe757

A [EXPLETIVE] prolly killed him. Why do blks hate blks?


LuvUChompoN

i kinda agree with carmel77... except for the cop bein gay. i mean u never know how u would react when your life is in danger... and i know many homosexuals... they can get pretty viscious. idk my deepest condolences for his family, may he RIP, and may justice be served.


MsTriniGyal

Ok im from newark,An damn i didnt get the memo tht it was a known gay park...Sheesh Guess i wont be up in there to go skatin,lol


Xocio

How could they murder an unarmed man, since when is soliciting sex punishable by death they have loads of non lethal weapons they could use to detain sum1 in a public park.


Cadillacredd

sorry u got dead dude,but he looks like red from "the five heartbeats". "what are my office hours?"


JU

gay Mon duhhh


CuteAtlPrincess

Stfu @Becky DL men are in all races. When I went to cosmetology school one of my besties was a gay white dude and he use to hook up with married white men all the time. HIV is prominent in the white community but they don't release it. We weren't the ones who created the aids quilt so get your facts straight krakah.


freeisdope

he shot dude cuzz he tried to give him head

follow me twitter.com/freeisdope


THANK-MELATER

WOW!!! THATS ALL IM GOING SAY


whatthef

I'm from the area and this park is not or has ever been a gay park. MTO needs to stop trying to make the story something its not. Bad enough someone lost their life over some crazy [EXPLETIVE].


IC

1 down...



Ransomed

Who married this sugary man?


Cocoa1908

I don't know if the man was gay or not. I live in ATL and I am just hearing about this. I guess I haven't been paying attention to the news lately. NE way, I grew up in Newark. It was a little different back in the day, but still not the place to be having sex in a park in the evening. It just seems weird that the man would have sex in the broad day light with another man at that. Something just does not add up!! I have witnessed some of the corrupt [EXPLETIVE] that police do when making arrests, so I pray that the family find out what REALLY happened!


salatheo

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