: Cute pics . . . but we could called the White husband. She's got that "I don't date brothas" look to her . . .
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@ whatwhatwhat....if you open this thread
lmbao ironic I was going to ask you if you watched it last night---dude is obsessed with Tara ...that's a nut job
Poor Bill & Sookie. Did you check out that fine azz LC that she was staying with
will check back later to see if you came on
@TheBrokenSilence same could be said for black men like wesly snipes, taye diggs, terrell owens, and a host of other dark skinned brothas who did'nt get any love from da sista because they were considered "too dark" yet alot of insecure women who constantly throw guilt trips(thats all it is really) on dark brothas for dating women who look nothing like them, they explore the possibility that maybe these men are dating these women because they did'nt reject them
FANG BANGERS!!!
LOL this show is addictive, as far as the IR...well considering "Black women aren't relevant anymore, and Black men prefer white/exotic" why should any black men care?
Black men are constantly saying that black women should explore their options as they do, so big ups to her and other women of color who are doing just that. She looks happy, and I'm headed down a similar road.
sexytranny so are u saying that a black woman love with a non black man is more genuine than a black man love with a non black woman? ridiculous, i was always wondering how come u never calla sista that date outside their race a sellout, truth be told the white guys that do seek black women most of the times just do it to fufill some sick [EXPLETIVE] the slave fantasy and after they are tired they go back to their white wives
@ bourgie_girl yeah the sistas wanted Taye Diggs and Terrell Owens only when they got rich and famous, both of those guys have stated thats sistas did'nt want them because of their skintone , just face the fact alot of sistas dont want these [EXPLETIVE] until its too
@ sexytranny no im right alot of white men do just use black women for some sick fetish , there is a huge hypocrisy between black women and black men when it comes to IR and that is when a black man is with a non black woman oh he is a sellout , he hates his mother, but when a black woman dates out , cont'd
@emmettmays85 its alot of strong black men out their. But now that you are starting to see more an more black women dating outside of their race. You got to blame black men for that. Putting black women throwing white women up in their face. An now black women have had enough of it. Now black women are starting to do what they need to do to be happy.
AND ALSO I HOPE SHE IS MARRIED TO HIM DUE TO LOVE AND NOT BECAUSE HES ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE COLOR SPECTRUM .
SO MANY BLACK PEOPLE HATE THEMSELVES AND PEOPLE DARKER AS THEM DUE TO BRAINWASHING. MOST ARE COLOR STRUCK AND HAVE BEEN PICKED ON IN SCHOOL FOR BEING DARK BY THEIR OWN KIND AND OTHER RACES. SO THEY FEEL AS THO DATING OTHER RACES OR PPL LIGHTER WILL VALIDATE THEM. JUST LOOK AT THIS THREAD ALL THE BLACK MEN ARE CALLING HER WESLEY SNIPES SAYING SHES DARK BUT THEIR DARKER THAN SHE IS SO IM CONFUSED ABOUT THAT
I NEVER DEALT WITH RACISM OR DOUBLE STANDARDS FROM MY OWN RACE OR ANY OTHER RACE FOR ME BEING BLACK FOR SOME REASON BUT I CAN FEEL WHAT OTHERS GO THROUGH BECAUSE WHEN I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL THERE WAS ALWAYS BLACK BOYS TALKING ABOUT OTHER BLACK GIRLS IN MY CLASS OR THEY PICKED ON EACH OTHER ABOUT WHO IS DARKER THAN WHO.
WHICH IS RETARDED BECAUSE DARK SKINNED PEOPLE TALK ABOUT OTHER DARK SKINNED PEOPLE AS THO THEY ARENT DARK THEMSELVES LIKE THEIR BLIND OR SOMETHING ITS SO SICK.
AND BLACK WOMEN ARE THE SAME FUCCING WAY. I WAS WATCHING THE TYRA SHOW AND THESE DARK BLACK WOMEN BLEACH THEIR BLACK CHILDREN, SAID THE DONT WANT TO BE CAUGHT DEAD WITH A DARK BABY, PURPOSLY DATE OUTSIDE THEIR RACE BECAUSE THEY DONT WANT TO WALK AROUND WITH A DARK SKINNED MAN AND SO THEY CAN HAVE A MIXED CHILD. BLACK MOTHERS DO THIS TO THESE BLACK CHILDREN. THEY PERM TEIR HAIRS AT A EARLY AGE, THEY TELL THEM LIGHTER IS BETTER AND EVERYTHING ELSE NEGATIVE ABOUT THEMSELVES. SO WHEN THESE KIDS GROW UP THEY HATE THEMSELVES ENTIRELY AND ITS SO SAD. AND GUESS WHO LAUGHS AT US. FUCCING WHITE PEOPLE
THE BLACK RACE IS SO SICK. U NEVER KNOW WHEN SOMEONE IS MARRIED OR DATING SOEMONE OUTSIDE THEIR RACE FOR LOVE AND NOT FOR COLOR.
AND IF U EVER WATCH THE OCHO CINCO SHOW ON VH1 WHITE PEOPLE ARE CLOSET RACISTS MOST OF THE TIME. THE WHITE GIRL THAT OCHO CINCO LIKES THE MOST DOESNT LIKE HIM BACK, SHE FEEDS OFF OF HIS INSECURITY AND SAYS WHAT HE WANTS TO HEAR. RIGHT WHEN SHE WAS BE HERSELF WITH ANOTHER WHITE WOMAN SHE SAID HE WAS GROSS AND HAS ALSO SAID SHE NEVER DATED BLACK MEN BEFORE WHEN OCHO CINCO ASKED HER DO U LIKE BRAD PITT SHE SAID " EEEWWW NO " IN THE MOST FAKEST WAY AND SAID SHE LIKED CHOCOLATE BUT THEN TOLD HIM HER FAMILY WOULD THINK HE WOULD ROB HER HOUSE AND HIS COON ASS LAUGHED ABOUT IT. WHITE WOMEN MOST OF THE TIME DATE ATHLETES FOR MONEY NOTHING ELSE. WHITE MEN WHO DATE BLACK WOMEN USUALLY DO IT FOR FETISHES
BUT SOME ACTAUALLY HAVE LOVE LIKE HEIDI KLUM AND SEAL THATS LOVE RIGHT THERE.
SO NOT ALL INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIPS ARE ON PURPOSE BUT MOST ARE DUE TO SELF HATE THAT GOING FOR BLACK MEN AND BLACK WOMEN.
ASIAN WOMEN DO THE SAME THING TO THEIR OWN ASIAN MEN. THEY DATE WHITE MEN JUST TO BE MORE WESTERNIZES SO DONT THINK ITS JUST THE BLACK RACE
NO WONDER SHE MARRIED A CRACKA, ALL THE BROTHAS VISITING THIS THREAD CALLED HER UGLY SO, WHAT DO U EXPECT?? I GUARUNTEE U NO BROTHAS TRIED TO HOLLA AT HER JUST BECAUSE HER SKIN IS DARK... YALL CALL HER MUSCULAR, BUT SO IS BRITTNEY FROM THE GAME AND WHITE GIRLS... BUT ITS OK FOR THE WHITE GIRL TO BE MUSCULAR... I HAVE HEARD IT FROM MANY BLK MEN AND WMN TALKING THAT IGNORANT SELFHATING BULL... HE/SHE TOO DARK... U PPL SICKEN ME, GO OFF URSELVES... I REALLY MEAN THAT..
@emmettmays85 I don't know whether to believe them or not. From what I can tell, most black women love dark skinned black men.
as far as the hypocrisy thing, it may be hypocritical but i think it has to do with the phenomenon that black men will typically go for any white girl, fug and trashy as they come(look at ochocinco's show), whereas usually white men with black women is going much more against the norm in our society.
@EMMETMAY: HEY BOO, WHY U IN DENIAL? WHITE MEN BEEN TRYING TO HOLLA AT ME SINCE I WAS A TEENAGER, AND NO, NOT WHITE TRASH.. MORE LIKE UR TYPICAL WALL STREET EXEC. Y IS IT SO HARD FOR U TO BELIEVE? I THINK U DONT WANT TO BELIEVE. I WAS IN NYC LAST WEEK, THERE WERE MAD BW/WM IR COUPLES. I DID SICKEN ME A BIT, I ENDED HAVING THE RUNS FOR 2 DAYS, BUT THATS WHAT HAPPENS. AND WHEN U SEE A COUPLE LIKE THAT, I CANT FRONT, THE SISTA BE BANGING AND THE WHITE DUDE IS HOT TOO.. BUT I STILL GET SICK, YUCK... ALL THAT PINK MEAT AND CHOCOLATE...
sexytranny dont hate the truth? what truth? of course there are some white men that love black women , but for most part alot of them dont, everybdoy sayin she had to date a white man becuase black men probably didnt want her, but none of u consider that possibility when a dark skinned brotha hops the fence
Her husband looks lame, pale and homosexual like a lot of white guys. One of the reasons I don't get on famous women for their "choices" all that much is because I have YET to hear them publicly diss black man on record in favor of t nonblack men.From Tina Turner, Chaka Khan, Donna Summer, Kelly Rowland, Zoe Saldana, Garcelle, Stacey Dash and countless others. NEVER, have I EVER heard ANY of them speak down about their own race of men or how they will cut a black man if they ever "got out of pocket" with their nonblack mate. I will say it again, I have NEVER EVER heard ANY of these women PUBLICLY HUMILIATE their own race of men NO MATTER WHAT. Wesley Snipes, Terell O, Dennis Rodman etc have all gone on blast, blaming BLACK WOMEN for their troubles. Now I won't lie---darker black men have been dissed in favor of lighter skin. but the difference between dark skin men and dark skin women is that women of ALL nationalities woke up from their slumber and recognized the power, masculinity and beauty of a dark skin man. Darker skinned women HAVE YET TO EXPERIENCE that SAME appreciation from black men. A lot of black men still tend to be resentful and brainwashed and will chase and praise ANYTHING that isn't black. And I guess because AT ONE time black women thought light skin men were in season, you guys are gonna take that friggin excuse to the grave with you to cover up your own loathing and contempt for women who look like you. All one has to do is read these blogs or read the rags to hear everyday common black men tearing apart black women in favor of "others". Black women do it, but it's CERTAINLY not on the level in which black men do it, from the average nobody, to important public figures it has always been an epidemic. It is what is. A darkskinned woman like this young lady will probably NEVER be top of the list of hotties for most of you. According to some of you, she's too dark and manly looking---what's YOUR excuse for being color struck? She will never be on the cover of a black men's magazine, she is not held up as a symbol of beauty like darkskinned black men are in ours---she doesn't fit the criteria for most of you, so I KNOW you don't really give a sH*it about her being married to a white man. You are just using this as an excuse to argue and justify the f*ucked up sh*it that you say and do!
bourgie_girl most black women love dark skinned men yeah it may seem like that , but i met so many sistas who boastfully proclaim their love for dark skinned brothas , but when i see their mates/signifigant other , he be the complete opposite of their preference now maybe they made an exception and decided to give a light skinned [EXPLETIVE] a chance, but i think alotta sistas only say they love dark skinned brothas cause it sounds good, cause its a popular thing to say in the black community
Darkskinned Black men have been the deal and been most desired since the 1980's. Nobody has favored lightskinned men since Debarge. Let that sh*it go already--- Darkskinned black women are STILL discriminated against---mainly by their own to this very day. So please---all that mess about black men being dissed by black women 30 yrs ago---who are the ones with the REAL issue?
nkreseknowledge hey baby im sorry but i been arounnd if most white men love sistas as some of y'all claim how come u still got sistas going on TV talkin about their single? and please dont say swingle black women are waiting on the right black man and they dont wanna date outside they race cuase i have personally seen how alotta sistas react when a white approached them
@emmetmays85, I have no idea. That may be just what you've observed, but I definitely have observed many black women who love dark skinned men and date/marry them. For me, a good looking man is a good looking man, I don't care if he's dark, light, pale, whatever. Sadly, I think ladytopshotta83 is onto something. I don't deny that being light skinned is seen my some as better, and I never understood why that is. I never understood why a beautiful dark skinned friend of mine would get told she was beautiful for a dark girl. It is very rare for a black man to prefer a dark skinned girl. How many rap songs have the term "bad yellow/red bone" to constantly remind everyone that they consider lighter better...
but i think alotta sistas only say they love dark skinned brothas cause it sounds good, cause its a popular thing to say in the black community---- Emmett--you know I love ya! But I gotta say this-----who made it popular to love and appreciate the beauty of a darkskinned man? Yeah we were wrong at first but WE woke up! When will some black men do the same,stop bitchin about the past and learn to appreciate black women?
ladytopshotta73 hey baby . actually dark skinned brothas era came in the early 90's the dark skinned brothas i mentioned earlier like taye diggs , T.O., and wesly snipes grew in the 80's where all the sistas were drooling over light skinned guys and the darker brothas were shunned, so they had to go elsewhere for companionship
ladytopshotta i dont know the answer to that first questiom , as far as the second question i believe the discrimination against dark skinned will stop when young black boys mother stop tellin them "you better not bring home no dark skinned girl, i dont want no dark grandbabies" alot these guys are gettin it from their mothers , grandmothers, aunts and [EXPLETIVE]
WELL EMMETMAY, I HONESTLY DONT HAVE THE ANSWER TO THAT QUESTION. I KNOW I HAD A CHOICE OF ENDING UP WITH A DARK SKINNED BLK MAN, A VERY LIGHT SKINNED BLK MAN WITH LITE EYES, A LATIN MALE AND A WHITE MALE AND I CHOSE THE DARKER SKINNED ONE BECAUSE I FELT MORE AT HOME WITH HIM. MEN R VIEWED AS THE PROTECTORS, OF THE HOME, THE STABILITY...UNFORTUNATELY THERE IS ALOT OF HISTORY WITH WM AND BW, OUR GENDER HAS TO WORRY ABOUT BEING ABUSED, AND TAKEN PHYSICALLY ADVANTAGE OF, MEN DONT THINK ABOUT THAT STUFF.
I KNOW BLK WMN THINK, WELL, IS HE A GOOD MAN WITH MORALS, WILL HE HURT ME OR MY KIDS, WILL HE LEAVE WITH MY KIDS ALONE, IT IS HARDER FOR US TO FEEL AT HOME WITH WHITE MEN AND NOT JUST CAUSE OF HISTORY, CAUSE OF SHYT STILL GOING ON TODAY.. BLK MEN DONT GIVE A PHUCK ABOUT HISTORY, PRESENT, FUTURE, 2 SECONDS AGO, THEY LIKE, IMA BOUT TO GET THIS WHITE BREEZY, HAVE SOME MIXED KIDS, PHUCK HER IN DA AZZ AND EVERY NYGGA IN DA HOOD AND BEYOND GONNA WISH THEY WAS ME .... HOLLA!
I love this woman & I think that she has such talent. I also think that she is such a natural beauty. Looking at some of these comments, is really just goes to show you how much self hatred is out here. All of these black people on this blog saying how ugly she is & how black she is trips me out. She looks like our cousins, our aunts, our sisters. I am a black woman & I LOVE the skin I'm in & this world would be a much better place if some of you ignorant ass people out there could learn to love yourself as well.
ALSO, IT HAS A LOT TO DO WITH SUBMISSION. HOWEVER, WHAT I HAVE NOTICED, IS THAT WW R REWARDED FOR THEIR SUBMISSION WITH VARIOUS GIFTS, MONIES AND ACCOLADES, WHEREAS, BW, R JUST TREATED LIKE BYTCH U SUPPOSE TO SUBMIT TO ME, IM YO MAN AND U SHOULD BE LUCKY U GOT ONE. THIS SHOWS ME THAT, IT STILL GOES BACK TO WHITES HAVING PRIVILEGE EVEN WITHIN THE BLK COMMUNITY.. EVEN THOUGH, EVEN I CAN ADMIT THAT NOT ALL IR R BASED ON RACE, BUT A GOOD AMOUNT...
SO EMMETMAY MY DARLING, I DONT THINK ONE COULD REALLY COMPARE THE REASONS Y 2 GENDERS OF THE SAME RACE CHOSE WHO THEY CHOSE FOR PARTNERS.. GENDER ROLES AND IDEALS PLAY A SIGNIFICANT PART IN THAT AS DOES THE RACIAL ISSUES.. HOWEVER, GENERALLY, MEN GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS FOR DIFFERENT REASONS THAN WMN AND FOR THAT REASON ALONE, ISOLATING A REASON Y BW R NOT WITH WM AT HIGHER RATES, IS NOT THAT BLK AND WHITE, EXCUSE THE PUN..
Um......I don't see nearly as many BM complain about IR dating as much as BW do. When a brother has money and has a white woman all hell breaks loose. When Brothers see a BW with a WM only a few say something. Its not that serious for real. I meet tons of fine ass sisters who don't worry about the sterotypes Amerikkka puts on blacks. People are quick to listen without research. If you had shitty experiences then blame yourself.
@LJBRONXBORO: I BET U HAVENT HEARD THE CASES OF BW AND THEIR WM COUNTERPARTS GETTING BEATEN AND OR KILLED, MANY WMN HAVE BEEN RAPED AFTER THEY R SEEN WITH THEIR WM, THEN WHEN THE BROTHAS SEE THEM ALONE, THEY GO RAPE THEM, GO TAKE BACK WHATS THEIRS I ONCE READ... U RIGHT SISTAS DO COMPLAIN ABOUT IT, HOWEVER I RATHER HEAR COMPLAINTS THAN BE PHYSICALLY ATTACKED OR KILLED BECAUSE OF THE MAN I CHOSE TO DATE...
1. Rutina always looks great no matter hair style or outfit. Girl crush! :-D This woman is GORGEOUS (!) and her dark skin only adds to her beauty. 2. MTO, why did you “kinda suspect” the she as in a relationship with a White man? Is it because so many Black males always have something negative of hateful to say about her (and other dark skinned Black female’s) appearance?
black dudes have said dumb $hit to her before I'm sure! Lol---The difference btwn what this young black woman has been through in terms of her looks and complexion as opposed to whining, hateful a$$holes like Taye Diggs, Wesley Snipes, etc, is that you don't hear her publicly bitchin and crying about black men who have shunned her. Black men are not the ones who showed interest in her and boosted her career---it was WHITES. The other black male idiot celebrities who leech off of the black community, how many of them are status symbols who are TRULY appreciated outside their race? What these morons fail to understand is that nonblack women (SOME) feed off of your negative attitude towards your own people, and use your resentment and insecurity to THEIR advantage! I'm sure they Loooove hearing your pitiful stories about being "dissed" by black women and how you view your own women as "no good" and unattractive. You even make it a public service announcement to get that "point" across, yet who are you hurting?
@Ladytop: Chile, you neer lied. They love to hear when black men down their own, then they talk about that self hating coon behind their backs. I worked this sales job once and the cheap asian hurry up and buy bastards made me share a hotel room with this filipino girl. Anyway, she told me about this one rep they dealt with, a black guy, and how he would always talk bad about black women over dinner. About how he hates them, how they this and that... She then said that the owner would say, "how could that guy talk about his own people like that", he said it cant be that bad isn't his....
cont. isnt his mother black, anyway, they said they didn't respect him and wouldn't invite him to the company location anymore after that first incident. She asked me why are some black men like that? I could'e ripped his azz but I didn't. I just said its hard to be black and some people just don't have the backbone, they feel in order to be taken seriously by others, they must forsake the whole community.. she was like well thats good you are understanding.. but yea, it was so embarassing, Im like damn, why this coon mutha phucka gotta embarass us like this... making people disgusted..
@Topic---She has beautiful skin and a perfect set of teeth. Not that it's anything to brag about, but white men have always secretly admired this type of black beauty. They travel to Africa, discover a rich, pitch-black darkskinned beauty, bring her to America and have her gracing the runways and all high fashion magazine covers. They have ALWAYS been obsessed with black beauty---from Iman, Naomi Campbell, Beverly Peele, Alek Wek--white men use their wealth and prestige to spoil these women and put these women on the map! The funny thing is that many of these blk women STILL prefer blk men deep down. Rustina doesn't even seem to be really happy.....the body language is off in that pic and something about her (to me) tells me that all in all---her preference is black men. But all that seem to chase her, spoil her and love her are white men
@Ladytop: I totally agree and see that in her too.. I think if she found a descent worthy brother, she would be good with that, but nobody wants to be alone.. and most women want to at least feel desired at some point in their life. Also, if someone will treat you right and respect you, you give them a chance. That was my argument with non-black women... if blk men spoil them and tell them they are everything, of course they are gonna be with a man that worships and spoil them, why not??
TDR Post *It works both ways remember that. While some of you are in the "burbs" being checked out by Bill and John, you best believe Katie and Lyndsay are in the mall checking out Braheim! As much as you may wanna badly deny this fact, it's truth*
Really?? Everyone likes a good black stiff one---there's no denying that--lol. The bottom line is---even though Bill and John like the chocolate and Lyndsay and Katie like the black stud, their forebears and parents DON'T! This is not a contest about how much whites "desire" us. See the truth for what it is.
Black men don't have to be rich athletes and wallstreet execs to bag beautiful non-Black women.
Yeah---I see it all the time. They are not just sampling the di*ck---they are bringing you home to meet their parents in DROVES---if they come from a two parent well to do home! Their fathers just looove your black a$$es---you don't need money! LOL
@ emmettmays i don't agree with what your saying and it sound like its coming from personal experiences you've had. But just because that is your opinion doesnt make it a overall fact just YOUR opinion. I am a dark skin female and have dated different types of men. My prev finance was light skinned and my current hubby is dark skinned. And I was attracted to each of them. Ive also dated outside my race because i was attracted to that individual not because of anything else. Some people need to quit sterotyping others because of your own insecurities.
LMBAO! It never fails really. MTO puts up a BM/WW/Non-Black woman couple and it's all self-hatred this, coon that, can't handle a Black woman this, hates his mother that. Next day after, MTO puts up a story of a BW/WM/Non-Black man and it's praise and acclamation*
The nature and content of most of these comments on here just went RIGHT over your head---didn't it? Why don't you ignore the trolls for once and focus on some of the good, plausible arguments being presented today? I mean, who started all this black woman bashing to justify "preference" Who the f*uck started it?
Anyway, why is it the sam.e IGNORANT dude/user on here talkin bull crap?! Name starts with a T. Lmao.
LOL--FabulousSweetie---Girl it's the same SH*IT EVERY time with this guy! LOL Ole- tunnel-vision a$$! I guess this time once again, he's gonna comeback with some lame pointless crap HOURS after everyone has gone to bed and forgotten completely about this topic---lol SMH!
They look happy! But what will they tell there Mutt of a child? Here on one side she had slaves as ancestors, then on his side they owned them! How do u explain that to a child? Barack didn't want no Mutt children, so he kept it str8 black! An he has a beautiful black family! All black!! I hate interacial couples! They mess up the world with this rainbow [EXPLETIVE]!!
As usual there's a sh*t-storm of controversy because these two aren't "sticking to their own kind". Get used to it you sensitive little b*tches. Black & White people both will be the minority. Latino's & Mixed race people will be the majority and there isn't a f**kin thing you darkies & pink-skins can do about it. Hahahaha!!
when a black women isn't up to part then the white dudes can have her! I can careless. White dudes have no game any way they either get low black chicks, or a black women that is fed up with black men & want alternative also black women that grew up in white neighborhoods tend to get white dudes; These are true facts that I collected in my data banks!!! lol
Everywhere I look, it states her ethnicity as African American- I suspect she has some kind of asian or amerindian (more specifically Carb/Kalinago) heritage. Looking at her eyes, hair and bone structure... Someone told me I look like her the other day and whilst I wouldn't say we exactly looked alike, we share those distinct features not typical of pure africans. Well, no part of me is african, but there are parts of her that made me think 'Kalinago'.
