: MediaTakeOut.com just received a SHOCKING REPORT from one of our readers. She unwittingly discovered that her EX-BOYFRIEND was living a downlow gay lifestyle.
How did she find out? Well somehow, she managed to get into his Facebook account, and she discovered the following messages. Warning - the below material is VERY GRAPHIC.
This is some scary mess, check him out kickin it to other girls online - and talking about his babys moms . . . LAWWWWWWD!!!!.
I respect others lifestyles UNLESS your lifestyle could endanger someone else and given the fact that the downlow community has the highest rates of transmitting diseases to their partners he should be shot at point blank range. It's okay to be curious bi or gay but do not hide that shyt you become a risk to yourself and others when you do
Haven't had an account with FB in ages but even I know FB DOESN'T look like that. Any other time mto would show images and names to encourage mtoers to harass the person. Not the case here because its MADE THE [EXPLETIVE] UP!! Smh@ SHEEP..not to say shyt like this doesn't go on but geez enough with trying to assasinate the black man mto. Wtf? Every man who uses slang isn't a thug or gangsta and every black men isn't a DL faq though a good growing #, just not all
lmfao Black women are going to have a field day on this thread.
This is the all time favorite pass time of the black woman, to accuse every black man of being "downlow" just because 2 out of 100 are downlow smfh whatever lol.
And that dirty talked freaked me out " that thing in your pants makes me hot" EWWWW. I'm cool with the gays but that was a little too much lmfao.
oh and one more thing, only 2 percent of black women contract hiv/aids from downlow/gay men so all of you need to cut that noise out " BLACK WOMEN ARE GETTING INFECTED BY DOWNLOW MEN"
No black women are getting infected because they allow their HETEROSEXUAL boyfriends to convince them to have sex without a condom on, black women get infected because of drug needles, black women get infected from one night stands.
Take responsibility for your own health, blaming "downlow" men for your mistakes is foolish and ignorant. Be responsible ladies, you can't blame the "downlow" forever
not surprising to me @ all! Females no longer tease or leave [EXPLETIVE] to the imagination so these males have to turn to each other to try new [EXPLETIVE]. Life was neva exspected to get better only WORSE. Be gay if u want to but when u in denial and want to front like u not tapping ass or getting that ass tapped then u just as deadly as AIDS or a GUN. SO SAD......... LIFE IS A BIG JOKE TO SO MANY PEOPLE!
Aint this about auh BIOTCH !!!!! NASTY STRAIGHT NASTY C THIS IS WHY before I eva feel a dude and we date... shyt I throw a curve ball shyt take dudes to the clinic before anything POP'S OFF !!! TRUST SUM DUDES BE LIKE "WHAT" O YEA DUDE SO IF UR NOT WIT IT DEN COOL .. bye it's no neva n mind !!!! keep it movin !!
Downlow men are not responsible for the hiv/aids rates amongst black women for the umpteenth time!!!
Black women are responsible for their own hiv/aids rates.
Unless you were raped or cheated on there is no reason why you should have hiv/aids. Before you have sex with a person GET TESTED, THEN STILL USE A CONDOM!!!!! 30 days later GET TESTED AGAIN!!!!
this is the only way to ensure you are your partner are safe. "downlow/gay" men are not fans of vagina, so common sense will tell you that black women are not contracting the disease from them. Hiv/aids is NOT A GAY DISEASE!!!
Do ppl have ANYTHING better to do than facebook and tweet their every move and trivial thought on a day to day to day basis. GET A PHUCKING LIFE!
"An idle mind is the devil's workshop". He's more than likely a jobless, hopeless, unmotivated bum who surprise surprise gets high. They always up to no good because they have NOTHING TO DO!
Women WISE UP. If a man is over 30 on facebook! RUNNN! He ain't bout shyt! A REAL man don't have time for "SOCIAL" networking. He too busy mentally advancing IN REAL SOCIETY!
!!MESSAGE!!
I'M SORRY BUT I was dying laughing as I read this entire post as it resonates so well from experiences with having a gay roommate and meeting his supposedly “straight, wanna-be straight / thug acting” dates. I attended college in Atlanta (the self-proclaimed Black Gay Mecca) and saw gay men, both open and closeted, on a daily basis.
My BEST friend is gay, and unfortunately one of the finest and intelligent brothas I've ever met in my life, 6'2 mocha, 6 pack, body to die for, not a inch a fat, and breaks the scale at 200.
With that said LADIES Masculine looking guys (baby, or no baby) should not be overlooked as being homosexual. If these two guys are still invested in sexual relationships with their baby’s mothers or with women in general with no protection I AGREE, TAKE THEM TO THE SHOOTING RANGE AND HAVE AT IT, as this type of behavior is the culprit for a small percentage of new HIV cases in women.
HOWEVER, Ladies EVERY MAN IS NOT GAY nor should their sexuality be questioned in a demeaning way should you ever begin to ponder. I know a friend who lost out on a good guy by being over presumptuous and verbally insensitive and now he’s happily married. Such questions can make a man think less of himself by the even thought any women would see him as such. Though I think some of her insecurities were to my fault after I introduced her to my roommate and his guy friends who all were gay and looked similar physically, it still does not take away from how Ignorant men and women can be in their choice of words or actions. I hate the word F*g, and I hate the word B*tch and people use these two words too often and too comfortably.
I’ll conclude with this 1.IF you go looking you find, DL is disgusting, but Gay is what it is. 2.Every man is not gay and yes a few get a bad rap, for actually dressing like their parents would appreciate them to. 3.RAP IT UP, RAP IT UP, RAP IT UP, the DL mess is bad but the unprotected promiscuous sex by both men and women is even worse.
@emmettmays85
Exactly, black women are always resorting to the " every black man is downlow" excuse. It is f_cking annoying.
@zombiegirl
Of course whites invented hiv/aids, they did it to control the population of people of color. Haven't you noticed that this disease is wiping out more people of color than white people?
That isn't a coincidence, yet some of these universal negros still think whitey and his white bytch are there friends because they allow you to sit in front of the bus with them...smfh. integration has made black people delusional.
I'M SORRY MTO the story looks FAKE BUT I was dying laughing as I read this entire post as it resonates so well from experiences with having a gay roommate and meeting his supposedly “straight, wanna-be straight / thug acting” dates. I attended college in Atlanta (the self-proclaimed Black Gay Mecca) and saw gay men, both open and closeted, on a daily basis.
My BEST friend is gay, and unfortunately one of the finest and intelligent brothas I've ever met in my life, 6'2 mocha, 6 pack, body to die for, not a inch a fat, and breaks the scale at 200.
With that said LADIES Masculine looking guys (baby, or no baby) should not be overlooked as being homosexual. If these two guys are still invested in sexual relationships with their baby’s mothers or with women in general with no protection I AGREE, TAKE THEM TO THE SHOOTING RANGE AND HAVE AT IT, as this type of behavior is the culprit for a small percentage of new HIV cases in women.
HOWEVER, Ladies EVERY MAN IS NOT GAY nor should their sexuality be questioned in a demeaning way should you ever begin to ponder. I know a friend who lost out on a good guy by being over presumptuous and verbally insensitive and now he’s happily married. Such questions can make a man think less of himself by the even thought any women would see him as such. Though I think some of her insecurities were to my fault after I introduced her to my roommate and his guy friends who all were gay and looked similar physically, it still does not take away from how Ignorant men and women can be in their choice of words or actions. I hate the word F*g, and I hate the word B*tch and people use these two words too often and too comfortably.
I’ll conclude with this 1.IF you go looking you find, DL is disgusting, but Gay is what it is. 2.Every man is not gay and yes a few get a bad rap, for actually dressing like their parents would appreciate them to. 3.RAP IT UP, RAP IT UP, RAP IT UP, the DL mess is bad but the unprotected promiscuous sex by both men and women is even worse.
@ manifest umm yes downlow men do play a part in WOMEN IN GENERAL contracting hiv/aids. There are MARRIED women contracting the disease. So what should they do wear a condom with the man they married? You sound highly uneducated. These Men(and I use that term loosely) are called downlow because they either PRETEND to LIKE WOMEN because they are afraid to come out OR they like BOTH and secretly date men on the side.
@w123t456f
So, you need some nondescript's persons FB acct. to make you aware of fellas on the downlow? You can't possibly think MTO is exposing anyone to this lifestyle...or putting anyone on or on blast for that matter.
Let me rephrase, most grown folk could give a damn about some nondiscripts persons FB acct.
Expose a face and a name then I'll be interested.
Just want to point one thing out. You blocked out his name on his profile but forgot to block it out where it says that he only shares some private information. Oh yea and that Mike Harris boy is the ugliest thing i have ever seen. I'm confused do you like men or woman? All that no homo no skittles is a little suspect. Im a pretty girl so im not hating just not interested in a confused self absorbed idiot!!
ugh!!! I give up, lmfao. black women are clearly delusional. Keep thinking that these mystical "downlow" men are the cause for hiv/aids infection amongst black women.
When you heterosexual boyfriend/husband passes the disease to you try not to look stupid, ok? lmfao! keep thinking it is a gay disease. That mentality will put your azz 6 feet under in the end.
This is why black women are getting infected with hiv/aids, their own ignorance is truly astounding and they are very misinformed.
According to CNN, African American males are 65% dl and gays. Do you see how they wear their Jeans with their azz showing. Ladies that's a sign your African American culture is messed up and dying. They also diss each others by saying "suck my d*ck nigggga". That's gay and they know it. As an African, I don't consider them my family. Sick Americans.
I'm out for today.
Just want to say Mrlife isn't a African, he is probably some stupid azz white troll.
White people's history stemmed from homosexual sex so he should not be posting his little fake statistics on here. White people have organizations where old white men can engage in sex with under-aged boys so I would say 80 percent of white men are "downlow" lol. fuk out of here.
A white man once said " the greatest love on earth is between a man and a young boy". Fu_king nut jobs.
Sherry and DL Hughely were correct on "The View" in stating that it's men on the DL causing the high statistics of HIV/AIDs among women in the Black community. What a disgrace! Black women should think about it: these black men love gettin' their dingle sucked like a f*a*g, unlike menfolk of yesteryear. It was only a matter of time before it would evolve into full blown g*a*y men on the DL. Prison & gang life also produce a crop of gay men on a regular basis.
thats why u dont sleep with just anyone ppl dont believe in love no more they just want to lay up with as many ppl as they can and than when they get a disease the first thing they want to do is blame the other person it takes 2 to have sex just be careful life to short to let other ppl shorting it
www.myspace.com/bigsexy306
I agree with antidumb. This is jail nigg@ type sh*t. The most ghetto, sorry ass excuse for a man, wanna be thug nigg@s are the ones takin it in the butt. You see these fake ass rappers, with their over sized tshirts, and their pants down around their knees (helllooo thats the gayest sh*t ever) and you people wanna oogle at them and call them men cause they act "hard". But then you see a real, grown, clean cut, well dressed, "takin care of business" type man, and he's gay. O_o somebody raised you wrong, got you real f*cked up in the head. Neyo, Jamie Foxx, Usher, etc, etc, their all gay right, but Lil wayne isn't ???? Yeah right, waynes in there right now suckin on some dirty nigg@s lollipop as I type this.
[link to external website] is Enrique's profile. His real name is Teddy. I'm the one who sent MTO the tip***
What irks me the most about down low cowards is, when they're in the process of linking up with each other; everything is nonchalant & hetero. Ex: "sup man, wanna chill" they're so perplexed that they don't even realize that the ACT of sleeping with another man (if you, too, are a man) is wat makes you gay..Not simply talking to another man.. Smdh
I'm not suprised by this at all. I heard that in Nashville, TN there is a "huge" down low following of gay men. And, believe it or not it's usually the "thugs" that are the ones on the DL. Alot of them have wives, or girlfriends and children too. But, they see men on the side. It's very, very common there.
**Here is Enrique's future "wife's" facebook. She is going to be a doctor. Kinda scary she needs to get checked for the package. I have gotten tested many times after I found this out because he could been spreading it. [link to external website]
It's no such thing as being bi when you are a male
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It's double talk like that which creates the environment for this type of fukkery to fester. Personally, I can't support that lifestyle, whether he was DL, bisexual, gay or transgendered….and whether it was two females at the end of these conversations. I find all of this shyt deplorable
He likes women and men...and to ensure he keeps fukking brawds, he must maintain the persona that he is completely straight.
Very few brawds would mess with this guy if they knew he was “bisexual”...even if he had records proving he was completely disease free and was meticulous in his sexual practices….for many brawds, it’s not about contracting diseases…but, about exclusivist and security.
So, kill this shyt about HIV/AIDS….I don’t think that’s what concerns you brawds. Because if AIDS was the determining factor in your disapproval of DL men, then you would understand, DL phenomenon isn’t exclusive to black men….Chico down the street maybe be bisexual…Tom in suburbia may lead a double life….Jhadi and is Indian cohorts are engaging in Punjabi butt-stomping
The moment you began to type-cast one group, you are opening up yourself to be hoodwinked by the unsuspected.
If you think HIV/AIDS in black women can be easily eliminated just by cutting out certain groups, then you are delusional.
In fact, I am willing to go on records and say the reason why many of you brawds contract all types of sexually transmitted diseases is because of you sexual habits…you fukk anything indiscriminately….that means you would open your legs to any Mexican, Cuban, Puerto Rican, Jews, whiteboys or thug who may or may not be sanitary. That’s why in states or counties where there are heavy influxes of immigrants, black women cases of HIV and STDS are extremely high.
Ahahaha…it’s funny…who is to say the DL men they are contracting HIV from comes from exclusively black men….I am curious…lol…is there any statistics out there that says the race and nationality of the men these women get HIV from….ahahaha
You Negroes would be surprise…when all of this shyt comes to light….ahaha…I am out
@Melysa @phontaine2010 @Bri_Lordhavemerc Agreed. They need to stay away from females.
@Antidumb Fully agreed. They gave into lust in jail and that is a habit (nasty or otherwise) that they cannot shake. They are in bondage.
To the person that stated that women think that aids only come from gays. No one said that gays are the cause of it but if a woman gets it from her man, then she needs to re-evaluate his orientation and who he has been with.
It is not possible to be straight and sleep with the same sex. It's denial.
Shout outs to the other ladies noticing these undercover butt pirates defending the actions of their brotherian. Down low men contribute to high Std ratings because of their deceit and manipulation jackasses. They're not upfront about their sexual preference hence the term DOWN LOW= deception and trickery and deceit towards black women. DL dudes will be husbands fathers not just one night stands to black women so stop acting like black women are just contracting it from random [EXPLETIVE]. The [EXPLETIVE] up above disproves that theory.
Ok I'm back and some of you sistas have been laughing very hard right now.
@beautifulnblack10 & NYSDIVA
The both of you need to brush up on your research and stop reading J.l king's "On the downlow".
Only 2 percent of black women contract the hiv/aids virus from gay/downlow men. ONLY 2 PERCENT.
The remaining 98 percent of infected black women contracted the virus from other sources.
IT has nothing to do with me "defending downlow" behavior, that shyt is nasty. I'm just defending logical facts, I go off of facts not preconceived notions.
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Black Women just need to wear a f__king condom,stop blaming Black Men for your failures.
I use to live in the bronx and Black women use to stay busting it open for Dominican men, puerto rican men, mexican men, and god knows who else
Black women aren't loyal to black men, and black men on the "Downlow" are not giving you females hiv/aids. These have to be the two biggest myths in the black community.
I guess downlow men are also the reason why 50 percent of black women have he.rpes. Take accountability for your own shyt, stop being a promiscuous sl.ut and wear a condom
@ emmetmays since you decided to pick on me today I shall humor you with a response. Perhaps I should have said "highest counts" come from down low men but if you read my other posts I say that while they are not the main cause they do contribute. Prime examples during a seminar the question was posed to a healthcare worker what part do. Downlow men play in hiv and other std cases. Do you know what she told us and I quote " the majority of new hiv cases come from young men who have female partners and still have intercourse with other men."
@beautifulnblack10
Supposedly this myth of the "Downlow" was accurate. Why aren't Black women protecting themselves? Are these "Downlow" men raping black women? wtf is really going on?
I have cousins on my puerto rican side that date black women and they tell me that black women don't even ask to get checked for the hiv/aids virus. My cousins have to drag their azzes to the clinic to get checked out.
I have also had to drag sistahs to the clinic in the past to get checked out.Black women aren't fooling anyone, they need to stop perpetuating silly myths.
Cont." And because std testing is anonymous it is illegal to report the positive cases, and the majority of the female partners do not know of their partners extracurricular activities, leaving them(the male) to infect them and others freely." Notice I said young men and not BLACK MEN because undercover gays are in every race. However, for you to adamantly claim that they do not play a part is utterly ridiculous. These men are long term boyfriends and husbands we are talking about not "one night stands." Have a conversation with a gay man or a tranny they will gladly point them out to you.
To assume the AIDS/HIV rate is so high because of DL men is basically homophobic. I don't agree with the DL lifestyle either, but you can't blame gay men for all the AIDS in the black community. If he's f*ckin men while he's f*ckin you, yeah thats dangerous. But its no more dangerous than if he was sleepin with a bunch of women. Call it what it is. Promiscuity and ignorance is the reason for high HIV/AIDS, not gays/bisexuals. And whoever said somethin about men being tested in jail...SO? They can be tested in jail, be diagnosed HIV positive in jail, doesn't mean you'll know when he gets out :/
@beautifulnblack10
I'm not on the downlow so you accusations don't bother me.
The only reason why I am challenging your misguided opinions is because you are very ignorant.
You are a chickhead promiscuous slut that can't keep her legs closed. look at you, you can't even write one paragraph without saying " mother F_ck this and Mother f_ck that" Typical ghetto sl.ut, I've seen your type many times in new york so I'm ready to deal with females with your temperament, that are not yet domesticated.
@beautifulnblack10
And another thing your argument lacks the capability to hold a glass of water. Married women cheat on their husbands all of the time and pass on various infections.
From reading your deplorable opinions not only are you a homophobe you are also promiscuous slut, and a feminist.
Acting like men are the only ones that cheat and f__ck raw, ok sure!!! who is your source? sherri shepard? LMFAO
@ Manifest maybe you and your cousins need to upgrade the Black women that you associate with. I have never been diagnosed with a disease and get tested faithfully and I am now happily married. I only have one friend who contracted a venereal disease and she's Filipino. But guess how she got it , her long time boyfriend. She found out after he decided to show her the bottle of pills he was taking to cure it. So don't group me in with the sluts you've been with which is exactly what you're doing when you say "Black Women"
@beautifulnblack10
lol you are lacking common sense sista. If I was a homosexual I would come out and say it. I'm not the type of person to give a shyt about the opinions of other people.
Secondly, you are celibate? well congratulations, that is a very tedious task indeed.
lastly just because a white homosexual male was diagnosed with the hiv/aids virus doesn't mean it is a gay disease. More heterosexuals have died from the disease then anything else.
I'm not saying all DL/gay men are clean, I'm saying you can't put the whole blame on them. What about all these black women who do have AIDS? You can't tell me that they're ALL married. So if these black women are sleeping with these DL men with no protection (which BOTH parties are responsible) then she's going and sleeping with another man, without protection, without being tested, she's just as much responsible for the spread, correct? If a married women contracts it from her husband who is DL, its a very sad, unfortunate situation. But if he got it from another female, its just as sad and wrong. You can’t say the spreading of the virus is coming mostly from married people who generally don’t use condoms. Its coming from promiscuous people period. Both gay and straight, both male and female, both married and single.
@loosecannonSag90
I never even addressed you, why are you getting sensitive?
According to the bias attitudes being displayed here by black women it is ok for them to generalize black men, but the minute a black man throws a blanket statement back all Hell breaks loose.
If you don't like generalizations I won't use them anymore, but have the common decency to grant me and other black men the same respect.
@beautifulnblack10
The last time I generalized black women on mto was damn near two months ago.That is not something I enjoy doing. I hardly even post on mto anymore because I have a night shift job working in retail.
And how are your actions any different than mine? you generalize black men all day on mto. What makes you any better than I am?
and lol @ me wanting to be a black woman. That was hilarious.
@beautifulnblack10
I think you are the one that is having diffculty coming to terms with their sexuality. Homophobic actions and remarks are usually the first signs of a closet homosexual. Studies have actually been done on this.
If you love slurping down carpets and playing with plastic d!ldos it is ok sista, homosexual females get a pass in society anyway so PLEASE come out of the closet, it is 2010!!! :)
@beautifulnblack10
I don't put 100 percent of my faith into the statistics created by white people. Some have validity but most do not.
Secondly you have allowed the "kkkracker" to brain wash you into thinking hiv/aids is a gay disease.
That white gay man was used as a pawn to brain wash weak minded individuals such as yourself, so that you would let your guard down and believe hiv/aids is related to homosexuality.
White people are not ignorant, they are adept at psychology. Why do you think they have dominated the entire world being a minority? think outside of the bubble for once
@ Manifest by saying "Black women do this and Black women do that" you are addressing me indirectly as a Black woman. That's where my sensitivity comes from. Notice in my comments I never generalized any race of men at all. What I said was while MEN being downlow causes some cases they are not the sole cause. Respect to everyone is a big thing for me because that is how I was raised
@beautifulnblack10
Anyway sistah I'm going to abide by your wishes and stop having this little debate with you.
Bottom line is hiv/aids is related to irresponsibility, the disease isn't related to gay men/women.
This was fun though. I learned some new things about myself today. Supposedly I'm on the downlow infecting black women with hiv/aids, and I secretly wish I was born into the body of a black woman....lmfao!!! Wow HAHA!!!
anyway take care people.
@beautifulnblack10
White people dominate the world because they are master psychologist. They don't have to murder, lie, or steal from anyone.
All They have to do is go into a nonwhite civilization, give the indigenous people guns, divide them into different groups and have them kill one another.
Rwanda genocide ring a bell? King lepoid the II of Belgium ring a bell? he had Africans kill 10 million of their own people for rubber in the congo during the late 18 hundreds.
@beautifulnblack10
I never took your statements personal, you called me a downlow butt pirate and that didn't bother me what so ever lol.
I was just challenging your generalizations. I constantly hear black women accuse every black man of being on the downlow so I wanted to debate a black woman on her accusations.
And if you questioned everything the media puts out then you should be questioning the "Downlow" myth? That is another lie the media has put out to mislead black women. but yeah, I'm leaving now. laterz
LakerGirL has a point. Its not like a married man is gonna tell his doctor that ''Tyrone hits from the back every friday afternoon during lunch'' or some female gonna be like ''it must've been 1of those guys that ran a train on me...'' SO MANY PEOPLE DO NOT GET TESTED ANYWAY. You cannot tell if somebody got the monkey on their back by lookin in their eyes or crossing your fingers.
@lakergirl: "Yall jigaboos are dumb is you think DL AKA BISEXUAL is anything new. People of all colore men and women have double dipped since the 'olden days'."
Firstly, why in most (if not in all) of your posts do you call Blacks “jigaboos”? Is that really necessary? Secondly, being on the downlow is not the same or similar to being bisexual. A person who is on the DL pretends to be one sexuality while privately indulging in their true sexuality. Someone who is bisexual is sexually attracted to males and females. Thirdly, just because something has been done for ages, it doesn’t mean it is not as bad as critics are making it out to be. Rape and murder have been around since the beginning of time, does that mean that both actions okay?
"Stop feeding into this hyped up DL [EXPLETIVE]. If a nicca cheating wit a woman or man he can bring a disease home to u. So cheating azz folks men n women is da problem! Not Who dey cheating with!"
Yes and no. The shared theme of deceit is an issue. However, the person someone’s significant other is cheating with does is relevant due to the number of and high of STDs in the Black American population and the US population as a whole.
@pretty_princess: Haven't you heard? Black women are apparently at fault for every thing wrong with the Black men and the Black community. "The man," institutional racism, Black men, and p1ss poor personal choices play absolutely no role in the failures of our community..... SMDH @ the Black woman bashers on MTO
@ antidumb
I’m not naïve to the fact that prison has created a subculture of forced homosexuality among AA men…I am not blind to fact that there is a subculture of DL, bisexual and homosexuals in the African community as a whole. And I understand the LAW of NUMBERS, which indicates the problems affecting a large group will magnify when examined in a much smaller group or sample set.
My argument was never about the subculture of homosexuality in the African Community....whether we are comparing males or females…it is in plain view for all to see.
My argument rest on the contention of black women and some black men that believe a large component of HIV/AIDS cases in African American women is due mostly to DL BLACK MEN..
You see, I have a several problems with this accusation…it’s making a broad assumption that I am not ready to accept.
Assumption:
For your accusation to be true, then black women would have had to live in a vacuum…and their only sexual exploits were confined to black men who are on the DL. In this day and age, I would be stupid to believe that the only sexual partners of black women are exclusively black men.
You know, it was shown that the age group of women who are prone to HIV and AIDS are between 18 to 35. What does this age group tells you?
For one, it tells me that their young, entering college, and just settling into a job, profession and career. And the fact that they are young, suggest they are more prone to date across the spectrum (this new generation of black men and women are more open to alternative lifestyles).
Secondly, there are more black girls entering college than black men…so, it stands to reason many black girls will more than likely meet men from different socio-economic backgrounds…and being young and liberate, they will engage in all type sexual proclivities with many type of men. If you been to college, you will understand what I mean.
Young professional black women will more likely enter workforces where again they will encounter different types of men…statistics shows there are a lot of workplace romances takes place after hours.
More and more black women are upwardly mobile…meaning, they don’t stay in one place…there were reports of black women traveling to Jamaica or other exotic islands to satisfy their sexual desires.
You see…antidumb, black women outnumber black men by a couple of millions…and you’ve heard these caverats on here, claiming that there aren’t enough good black men….So, I don’t understand how a group of males who are so few in number can impact a group of female who far outnumber them.
Unless you can show me numbers, actual data that indicates the rise in HIV/AIDS cases in young African women is attribute specifically to Black men who are on the DL….I am more likely to believe that it’s not black men who are infecting these women, but other groups of men.
And if it is DL Men who are affecting these women in large numbers, then I can't assume they are all black men...again unless, you can show me the racial make-up of these men...I am more apt to believe, these DL men that these black women are encountering can come from any socio/racial/group.
That's my argument...to assume DL men = black men is naive and blatantly ignorant on any one's part.
Prove me wrong...and I will eat my words...
@MANIFEST,
WHAT IS IT ABOUT YOU AND BLACK WOMEN? YOU'RE VERY OPINIONATED ABOUT BLACK PPL PERIOD! THE SAME ISSUES WE FACE IS THE SAME ISSUES EVERYONE FACE! AND YES, IF YOU DO YOUR RESEARCH STASTICS SHOW THAT MORE AND MORE BLACK WOMEN ARE INFECTED EACH YEAR WITH HIV OR AIDS FROM THEIR DOWN LOW PARTNER! IT'S AT AN ALARMING RATE!!! SO STOP POINTING UR FINGERS AT BLACK WOMEN!! AND FYI: I DON'T KNOW ANY BLACK WOMEN THAT EVER USED DRUGS!
I HATE WHEN PPL SPEAK OF THINGS THEY HAVE NO KNOWLEGE OF! EITHER SHUT UP & SIT DOWN AND LISTEN OR DO SOME RESEARCH!!
No form of cheating is "ok" in a relationship, esp. when it comes down to health concerns. With that said, if homosexuality was less stigmatized in the African-American community, we'd see a lot more brothers comfortable enough to admit their sexual identity. Ppl call these men fags, wanna beat their ass just 4 bein out and gay, then wanna be outraged at all the DL bros.?! You can't have it both ways...
THE RATIO OF BLACK MEN TO BLACK WOMEN ARE LIKE ONE TO FIFTHTEEN. SO WHILE HE'S SLEEPING WITH HER AND HER, HE'S ALSO SLEEPING WITH HIM! UNPROTECTED! SO,DO THE MATH! =====
right...so, he is a gigolo...running through 15 different women every month....ahahahah!!!
fukkk outta here....if he is that good, he should enter porn and make some real money...or may be you black brawds are that thirsty.
again...fukk outta here...you are fukking indiscriminately every Tom, Juan and Muhammed...and blaming it on black men...
ahahahah!!!!!
THE RATIO OF BLACK MEN TO BLACK WOMEN ARE LIKE ONE TO FIFTHTEEN.
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I can tell you are mathematically challenged...ahahah!!!!
15 to 1?...not even in war ravage Sudan is the ratio of black women to black men is 15 to 1...Not even in China whose preference of male children over female children is the ratio of female to male is 15 to 1...
ahahaha!!!! again...[EXPLETIVE] outta here...
Will someone make me a believer....
I want to believe so badly that DL Black men, somehow jail-cultured black men, who have served their prison sentence, and have been released back into society and is now living at home with their mommas, barely able to support themselves...and somehow have the means to attract so much single black women to infect with HIV…He Must be King Mandingo.
Or how somehow every DL black men are infected with HIV/AIDS and manage to keep their lifestyle entirely secretive, while entertaining women in daytime and fukking men in back alley at night.
Well if every DL black men has full Blown AIDS or HIV....then, in a couple of years, all of them will be non-existent...problem solved....ahahaha....
But, you still have to worry about Tom, Juan and Muhammed...down the corner
I am out….ahahahah!!!!!!
See that. This is how AIDS spread to women so fast. Down low men who don't want to tell them they are bumping booties with dudes. Sorry ass mofo. If I were her I would get a full STD panel. I don't have a problem with a man wanting to bump booties with another man but when you don't tell the female you are risking her life.
The sad thing is Aids rates have gone down with gay men but have gone up with black people males and females. Straight men are just as bad as gay men sleeping with multiple partners. Aids cant be classified to just one group gay men. Black people are dumb if they think thats the only group infecting black women with diseases. Hell cheating straight men regardless of who they are cheating with take out more sisters then anyone else. Black women who sleep around with multiple partners even when they know the person has somebody they are with and then black men who dont use condoms with these women and go home and sleep with their girlfriends or wives without condoms. Just look at the hollywood rats that men fantasize about and we know a lot of men especially black love to pass women around.. lol Look at the women MTO hypes up and all the dudes that pass them around like blunts and those are wealthy rich men of color so you can image what the average regular dude does if the rich and famous taste is so ran through and bad.
@ CharmedArts1.. I'm afraid I didn't get that memo. I would laugh but it is so ......SAD. Hurtful and disrespectful. The "Mans" plan worked. The division is undeniable now. How do you respond to that? You don't. I just wonder how these black mothers feel about their baby boys points of view. It has to be devastating, especially when alot of the times they are raising these boys by themselves anyway.Its like a slap in their face that they would "turn" on them like that. It makes me happy that I don't have any sons. I would just have to kick my sons ass I guess.lol But I would be ashamed.
Your focus is on white men...my focus in on all men in general. If you don't think today's black women are fukking more and more out of their race...then you are delusional. Again, if it's not a white man, it could be Pablo, Enrique, Muhammad, or any other ethnic group.
And even if you don't see them about on dinner or lunch dates, that's not to say, they aren't picking them in nightclubs for one night stands. It's not to say they aren't at college parties fukking in the up stair rooms. It's not to say they aren't in the office bathrooms on lunch break getting "their freak on." It's not to say they aren't on some online chat group, talking for days and then decide to meet and explore their fantasies.
You see antidumb...I will agree that some group of black women are sharing black men...but I don't think that tells the whole story.
You may think black women aren't fukking around with other group of men...but, I know differently....I've seen differently...and I've heard differently..
Let's take a pole...How many black women can emphatically say, all of their sexual partners have been exclusively black male?...and if so, How many of you are HIV positive or have full Blown AIDS...
ahahahaa....I am out....have a goodnight
Here's a few solutions to this problem. 1) B/W need to stop trying to hop on the same Niccas d**k. When a Nicca tells you he's got 4 or 5 different baby mommas,keep it moving. 2) Be as accepting as towards gay/bi B/M as you are gay/bi B/W. I know i'm not the only one who notices gay B/W are hardly ever subjected to the same treatment as gay B/M. They don't get beat up,ridiculed,or ostracized like gay B/M do. Gay/bi B/M would be more open about their sexuality if they were treated with the same respect as gay/bi B/W. 3)Never f**k anyone with out a condom unless you've seen papers showing they're clean. The main thing is acceptance though. I'm sure Tyler Perry & Mike Harris would just come out of the closet if they were treated with the same respect as MC Lyte,Wanda Sykes,Felicia Pearson,Queen Latifah,Missy Elliot & many other gay B/W. Don't like that idea? Then don't expect this problem to go away.
I disagree with the whole DL issue (just be gay - be free), but I certainly understand and see the pressures involved with having to maintaining that sort of imagine. They have to live in a [EXPLETIVE] up society that’s constantly trying to TELL them “what” they are ([EXPLETIVE], homo, etc.), what they can and can’t do to protect said society’s “picket fence” views (can’t get married, but do our nails and hair, etc.), and constantly have to defend themselves verbally and physically from ignorant ass people like many of MTO posters. Even on here dudes always talking about how somebody is gay all the time as if their sexist, misogynistic, “hip-hop” view is so special when don’t nobody want their tired asses either. I mean for real. If the DL community started from dudes coming out of jail, take a good look at the character of the dudes usually going IN there. Until society learns to get over themselves and realize that the world and its people span beyond their petty little beliefs, we gonna stay [EXPLETIVE] up. If people can’t practice tolerance, acceptance, and compassion for our fellow men then you’re going to have people who have to hide who they are to continue to feel accepted and secure. And just the same, some women will continue to open up their legs to unprotected men of any condition to feel accepted and secure. And if people can’t do that, then they need to just shut the [EXPLETIVE] up and take responsibility for themselves. I’m done.
MTO always posting facebook drama....how the heck yall be getting this info? If not fb drama, interracial love,or inciting us to to hate on one another (clothes,looks,finances, etc). As the "most visited urban website in the world" one would think you would publish things that would UPLIFT our race instead of working so hard on behalf of the KKK to drag it down. Can u please publish something that shows us banding together, uplifting and meaningful. Also if u r running out of FRESH ideas..just ask...im just saying!!!
