: MediaTakeOut.com received the following letter - from Karrine "Superhead" Steffans. We've had our fun with her, but even though she's real SCANDALOUS, she doesn't deserve this:
I’ve been a victim of abuse all my life –– literally, for as long as I can remember. It is my norm. Whereas most people would run in the other direction the moment someone physically, emotionally, or mentally abuses them –– I stay.Hold your head Karrine . . . hopefully you'll get the strength to get out.It’s a sickness and just when I think I am cured, the cancer spreads.
For the past several years, I have been involved in a highly abusive relationship. I have been choked, whipped with belts, thrown about, berated, belittled, raped, and disregarded as a human being. I have been abandoned and embarrassed, then, loved and coddled.
I have been caught in a vicious cycle and have left on many occasions, just to return.
I have found little support from my friends and family because I complain, and I cry, then I go back for more. I go back knowing that, one day, he’ll kill me but he’s all I have. He’s the only one who understands because he’s stuck in this cycle, too.
When I try to confide in friends they ask, “Well, what did you do to him? What did you say to him?” They tell me, “You know how he is, he’s never going to change, so why do you stay? You know what you’re getting into. Don’t tell anyone because he’ll come out looking good and you’ll only make yourself look bad.” It’s always my fault.
No one understands – not even me.
So, I keep it all to myself and it continues. Then, we make up and vow it will never happen again –– then it does and I feel so foolish for ever believing he can change or that we can change. Then, I begin to believe again. I believe even now.
I love him though it pains me to admit. It sickens me to know that I will return to him in an instant and that the next time could be the last time and that breath, my last breath. Still, I hold out hope that one day we’ll learn how to love one another without pain. I pray that those who look on with smirks and judgments know one thing –– domestic violence is very real and, at times, very final.
If you, or someone you know, has been a victim of domestic violence, please contact the National Domestic Abuse Hotline at (800) 799-7233.
—Karrine Steffans‐McCrary
If she is able to articulate and explain it like this, the she should be able to get out. It sounds like she once again is just trying to get attention. Which is unfortunate for those who really are living this nightmare. I agree, don't give out the domestic abuse hotline if you are not using it yourself! SMH
this is really sad. i understand the cycle and a survivor of a abusive relationship but she is the only one that can make the decision to leave and she knows this. i'm confused. i hope this is not her way to get attention, again. she is screwed up and i feel bad for her and her son. i pray she gets the help she needs before somenone gets seriously hurt.
DAM, THE PIC ABOVE MAKES HER LOOK LIKE SHE'S DOING SOME SERIOUS BLEACHING...I MEAN...I KNOW SHE'S LIGHT SKINNED BUT EVERY TIME I SEE A PICTURE OF THIS SKANK, SHE SEEMS TO GET LIGHTER AND LIGHTER.
BATTERED WIFE SYNDROME...GIRL PLEASE...STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR YOUR STUPIDITY...YOU GET NO SYMPATHY FROM ME.
ANY MAN THAT BEATS ON THE "SACRED / DIVINE" FEMALE, IS A LITTLE BOY / LOSER WITH LOW-SELF ESTEEM ISSUES!
like someone else said, she aint that scared. I really can't believe this, she has sunk to a new low. Even through getting her ass beat, she's still trying to get attention. What do you think is going to happen when he sees this letter idiot? You shoulda took this letter to the police, not mto. You just want people to feel sorry for you. Well I don't. If you really wanted help you woulda took this letter ANYWHERE but mto. You just wanted attention. Well you got it, now what?
For some reason this sounds like a fictional book she is writing. I am sorry but it is hard to believe that someone could be going through this and then write about it, make it public but don't do anything to actually fix the problem. Sounds more like a publicity stunt to me, but I am sorry if it true and I am wrong.
I Don't Care If She's A Whore, Hooker, Prostitute, etc.
She is Still a Human Being FIRST, and a Woman!
No Woman Deserves That!!! FCUK what You SAY OR THINK.
Karrine, Break the Cycle, Throw some HOT Grits On His AZZ, AND PRESS CHARGES. GO TO CHURCH, SEE A THERPIST, AND CHANGE YOU LIFE AROUND OR YOU WON'T BE AROUND!!
You HAVE A SON!
women who are abused don't writer letters to mediatakeout saying how badly they are abused, nor do they include the info for the national domestic abuse hotline at the end of the letter. yall have been played. you keep giving her the air time that she wants. she is clearly at textbook narcissist. its also apparent that there are things we on the outside don't know. you all are already passing judgment on darius. she could easily inflict bruises on herself...we know women have done that. sure you want to comment on the hype..but really posting this story to the website does no good.
I don't take domestic abuse seriously unless the woman is afraid to leave the man/woman but other than that girl please. She has all this time to write books but can't call the 1800 domestic abuse hotline? She likes a lot of attention and needs to find a good therapist and meds.
I don't know if Eddie Winslow is doing something to her or not but if he is she should ask his sister Laura Winslow to talk to him. LOL.
Battered woman syndrome my azz some women just like to get they ass whooped.my aunt was in an abusive relationship for a loooong while and at times,it was like she would ask for it.its connected to some freaky kink [EXPLETIVE]getting ya ass whooped.well,at least thats all i can come up with cus if she didnt like it,she wouldve left.u deserve whatever you have.
I don't understand. She's telling other chicas to get help but she won't do it herself? She needs to get psychiatric help and GET AWAY FROM THAT ABUSER! He may be fine and sexy and throw down in the bedroom but nothing is worth being beaten or shot or killed. Superheadd, please, leave that man for good!
I'm not understanding why she wrote a letter to MTO. She's choosing to stay. She's choosing to subject herself and her son to this nonsense. She needs to move asap, file for divorce and get mental help. If that doesn't work then lock and load..self defense. You tell him "you put your hands on me again and I will bust a cap in your corny behind". You're raising a man and this is how he sees a man treat not just a woman but his Mother. How do you think he's going to grow up?Do you want him to be like Chris B?If Kool G Rap sees this, he has grounds to file for sole custody. GET OUT!
B*Tch please. The only people who are allowed to beat me with a belt (without me stabbing them afterward) are my parents. I will NEVER understand women who get their asses kicked then stay with the man. My mom taught me well. She said if a guy ever hit me I should play it off like I didn't care that he did it then make his a** something to eat and poison that sh*t. I love her.
bitch you go by the name "superhead"!! who do you think is going to respect you?? eddie spoke on this bullshiot and he sounds more credible than this cum dumpster! this biotch makes a living gettin nutted and pissed on, plus writing books puttin men on blast but shes a victim? i would tell you 2 eat a dikk but youll enjoy that!
Can you guys please take this story down? It's a lie. Darius is my cousin and he would never do such a thing. I know Karrine personally and she is [EXPLETIVE] crazy! She is delusional and makes up a lot of stories. She has caused my family a lot of drama as well... Please don't believe her... If anything she has abused has abused her own son and has treated Darius' 3 yr old son very badly... smh. She has serious mental issues
It sounds to me she know its wrong but at the same time she likes it! If your afraid he might kill you, you dont post it on media take out (or any place for that matter)You seek help in all the right places, you leave the situation you dont stay and complain to social media outlets... you let everyone know in your eyes he is a monster what do you think he will do to you now?
Dear Karrine, We both know you have done some shady [EXPLETIVE] in your life, but you don't deserve to be beat on no woman does. Love does not cause hurt and pain. Not saying he will never change but he won't change for you because you have accepted it already as a way of life and it's not. Being abused isn't normal honey. If you feel as though you can't leave for yourself leave for the sake of that handsome son of yours. You are scarring that boy. He will have those memories for the rest of his life. His mother being selfish and staying with her abuser cuz he understands her and not leaving
Putting his safety and needs first. Im going to pray for you baby girl cause you are lost in your life. I need you to come back to reality and return to motherhood and find yourself. live your life and stop trying to be apart of everyone else's life. Your whole life was surrounding a man and what they have done to you or made you do. You not tired of being a victim?. You have not learned yet men are your weakness. You should stay away from them and find yourself and live your life thats (you and your son) and once you found yourself then you can look for a companion. A man don't respect a needy woman you let men validate you. Everytime we hear anything about you, It's sad news I want to hear Karrine has came from the bottom up with dignity and respect. We get it you've been through alot ok who hasn't but what are you going to do to come up out of this cycle and rise above that. I'm not going to judge you imma pray for you mama. I pray you get it together before it's to late an you let a MAN kill you.
She's the boy who cried wolf. When it happened to Rhianna everyone was able to see. And she wasn't the one who even came forward. She is an attention whore & a real whore. Does she think she's getting help by telling the world she is dumb? She even failed at becoming a porn Star. She is a narcissist and sociopath who tries to manipulate the media to sell her stupid fictional books. What an embarrassment she must be to her family. Eddie your not a Doctor you can't fix that hoe!
i just watched a show i recorded off showtime called kiss and tail(yeah tail spelled that way) anyway it was about hollywood jump offs & superhead was main one they talked about it was so many mofos discrediting her it wasn't funny but i believe alot of what she says is true but alot is lies she befriends folks get they personal info & twist it up but that one cat who shhe says prostitutes himself fir his lifestyle i believe cause that nikka looked fruitier than a hawaiian cocktail fruit salad! & plus he said he didn"t smash lol (chi-hop)!
oh yeah darrius mccray discredited her to said they were never engaged let alone married & she pulled a knife on him plus she texted him saying she hopes he & his ba$tard son die in their sleep he said there ain"t NO coming back after that & i believed him on that so how is he STILL beating her when they not together mto? & i don"t believe he beat her in 1st place (chi-hop)!
Any woman who allows a man to abusive her has a illness that hasn't been cured,they r having issues within n if family would step up we wouldn't b haven so many lost souls,people need people that y God created adam n eve,she needs support not people n family turning there baks!that's y the world corruptd nw everybody only care about thereselves,smh
I know them both and she is crazy! I was at his listening party where she made a scene because she wasn't getting attention she was hitting him in public. He was nice enough to even invite her. I'm surprised know one has put pictures up of it. She's a liar. What next? Is she going to say she's dying of cancer to get attention. She's just discrediting herself as a writer.
Ha ha! I just noticed this picture look like it was photo shopped. Did she photo shop a picture with Darius McCrary and send it in to Media Take Out for attention! LOL! I just got done watching her porn w/ my girlfriend. She like the matrix with a dick! Type in Superhead porn on Google and you can find it to.
She was on tv one & i read her book before, some sad [EXPLETIVE] up in there but if theres anyone to blame its her mother for neglecting her and beating her for being prettier than her (thats what she wrote in her book). she always taking bout her being abused though what she need to do is go to counseling and get her life turned around like a 360 wave, lol
Wow I really thought Karrine was coming up outta this kinda syndrome. I read her last book THE VIXEN MANUAL. And I thought it was pretty good she sounded like a woman on the "upswing". If this is true I feel sorry for her, it's hard when you love someone who continuously disappoints you and if abuse if the norm for her, I'm sure it's even harder for her to leave. She needs a therapist and an intervention. No one should get beaten like this, if it's true.
ahahahaha[SPAM]h[SPAM]h[SPAM]h[SPAM]h[SPAM]h[SPAM][SPAM]!!!!!!!!...Darius McCrary was just in my job about a week ago!....&& he didnt bring whoever that is in the picture. He had some dudes & 3 more chiks wit em. That sat in the "regular" people section & didnt get any dances & no food. I dont even remember seeing a drin on the table--->LAME.
An no man deserve abuse either it's not ok wen a man hit a woman but wen it's the other way around they like uh huh u go guuuurl beat his ass mmmhmmmm beat him lik he stole sumthin alot of the domestic violence cases are woman fault they be hittin men an wen u don't hit them back they see it as a sign of weakness an keep doin it an the anger builds up until u snap an blackout an u end up in jail a she's playin the victim role
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Wow, very powerful words!
There are soooo many women out here who need a man to validate them. It kind of remind me of my friend. She act like she's incomplete without a man. Like she's stuck or something. She doesn't realize it's not the mans problem, it's her problem. She doesn't love herself. How in the hell can you love someone else, when you don't even love yourself? We as women have to find our self worth. There are plenty of more fish in the sea. These men aren't going anywhere. Ladies, get yourself together first.
Women will tolerate so much from a man, from his cheating, having multiple baby mamas, abuse, staying in and out of jail, etc..but some women will ignore all of those issues, all for the sake of a man. They don't want to be alone. The man will usually make up some lie trying to console them, with either buying them gifts, having makeup sex, making false promises they know damn well they're not going to keep, etc...once again the woman being the vulnerable person she is will more than likely FORGIVE...FORGIVE...and FORGIVE. All because she need a man to complete her.
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If any of you believe this I think you haven't been really listening to her. She is a liar and she wants attention and for the whole world to feel sorry for her. She is by far the biggest hypocrite known. How many domestic violence victims would write a letter to the media knowing that the accused will see it? This isn't a typical action of someone who is getting abused. Karrine is sick and a liar. She lied about having a daughter in her past just to garner some attention from KoolG Rap and his wife. What self-righteous person does that? I hardly believe anything that comes from this sick girl
I think she should stay and continue to get the crap beaten out of her.its what she wants. I have zero sympathy for stupid women who allow men to abuse them in anyway. If she really wants to leave she will...she dosnt so therefore the the azzz whoopins continue until he eithers kills her or she kills him or whatever...
@Reef: I was thinking the same thing! She is an attention-seeking liar. I knew she was a liar when she wrote about having sex with Usher and during their encounter, he allegedly mumbled something in Haitian. First of all, she's an idiot because Haitian is not a LANGUAGE it's a nationality. Haitians speak Kreyol. Usher isn't even Haitian. Both of his parents are African-American. Whoever bought her book got duped. She needs to get her life together.
What will your son do without his mother, have you thought about that? Why do parents think of themselves instead of their children? Man fucc Eddie bc he ain't sh*t when it comes to your son! As if you had no life before Eddie. You know the same strength you had while writing about all them dicks u supposedly had, why don't u use it and get the fucc out of ur situation?!? Otherwise shut up and take it!
(If Only) is the beginning to many statements made by a person who is stuck in an abusive relationship.. I find it to be said to feel as if you have no way out, you just take it & take it Until the day that someone ends up dead.. What I find most amusing about a man that beats on a woman, is the fact that they would Never do half of the things they do to a woman that has no one too turn to.. As the would someone like myself, that has protective men in my life that would make you wish you ever met me.. But Most Of All:
The bitch is full of [EXPLETIVE]... Don't play these bullshit games just for attention because you're trying to find a way back into the media since you made the dumb decision to expose some of the biggest celebrities in the game.. Any man that hits a bitch... Becomes another mans bitch... Because since you embrace being a bitch..The rite one is going to come around and make you there bitch...see how you like (no Vaseline) If she really needed help, why go to Media Take Out of all people? What the [EXPLETIVE] are they going too do? If what you're saying is true, then wouldn't submitting that letter to a gossip site Only make things worse for you? The only reason I chose to do anything in the legal Field was because I wanted to make a difference and help people So it's a shame that because she's so scandalous.... It's hard to believe anything she says.. If she got away from her mom, the father of her child and every other man that beat on her.... She could get away from him. So save that battered woman bullshit because if she Really suffered from that.... She would still be with her mother or her child's father.. She would be with the person who caused her battered woman syndrome.. Why? because just like she claims she doesn't have in her to leave him.... She would of never been able to leave the one before him.. You submit that to some one that can help you...Not MTO, whose reaction to your letter was... Keep your head up Karrine... Shut the [EXPLETIVE] up with this [EXPLETIVE]... Don't expose yourself... Then swear up & down... You're Scared... Dumb Bitch
I wanna feel sorry for her but at the same time, this broad is foul. She made a name for herself by being a ho and writing not one but two books on all her sexual encounters. Her whole sex life can be an effing chapter book LOL I dunno how she possibly think any man or woman would respect her. Karrine pretty much ruined her own image. It would take a miracle for the world to see her as anything else but Supahead. She done effed up foreal.
Why can't they say light skin chicks are the ones with identity and daddy issues, attaching themselves to different men because their black daddy was never around? WHY? But let a dark girl come out and oh, she's dark it's because all dark girls are sluts. No, look at this HO! She's all light and bright and she's a HO!
SMMFH @ the ignorant comments posted up here. I think she wrote the letter to MTO in her defense. This is not the first time MTO posted a story about her getting abused by this man. If this is credible, then she needs to file an order of protection and move. Where's her child while all of this is taking place? Now this might turn into an ACS case. I've read Karrine's book and this is sad to read because she's been abused ALL of her life. I hope she gets out of that situation before its too late. And Eddie Winslow is a [EXPLETIVE] for beating on her. He'll pay. In due time, he will pay.
I HATE men that beat on women. HATE. And I hate when people say, "oh she's just a dumb bitch, that couldn't have been me" Believe me, u don't know what that is like until you are in it. And NO, no one will help you. They will talk about you and say this and that and pass judgement but NO ONE will come to your aid or defense except a family member who has your back or the police. Clearly she doesn't have a defense mechanism against this man, so she needs to involve the law. Now that within itself is hard because you say, 'oh no, i don't want him to go to jail'
But he needs to be in jail, so someone can whip his ass and then [EXPLETIVE] him in his ass. Maybe then he'll realize its bad to beat on a woman. She needs strength, prayer, and help. And if ya'll ain't planning on helping her, then why post the motherfcuking story, cause its definitely not a laughing matter.
I'm confused! Is Karrine giving out the hotline # to victims of domestic abuse or Media'takeout? Why doesn't she take her own advice since she seems to recognize the vicious cycle of abuse? I don't feel sorry for anyone accept her son that she has already mentally damaged by living such an embarrassing, destructive and sad existence. Now her son will become a man that mistreats women or he won't date them at all, either way he has suffered the most from her escapades. Darius needs to know that he can't beat the "HO" out of Karrine & that he is not Captain Save Em. She needs JESUS!!!
It's sad how Rihanna's whore ass got maaaaad media attention when Chris Brown blacked out on her and fcuked her up. But no one talked about how she used to hit him and that's why he blacked out that night an rocked her [EXPLETIVE]. Now here you have Karrine, who is by far in a more detrimental situation than your favorite pop star but she won't get the media attention and help she truly deserves. Why? Cause she sucked and told. So what?! That has nothing to do with her getting abused on a continuous basis by this bum ass [EXPLETIVE].
You guys don't get the point. Usually men who are abusive have a history of being so right? It's funny because I've never heard of any instance of the man who plays the character "Eddie Winslow" of being abusive and getting locked up. Surely he has been with many women outside of Karrine. His celebrity status definitely would have made that easy outside of his physical appearance (if his physical appearance isn't desirable) I just don't believe Karrine because she has a long history of actually being the abusive one in past relationships (do the research).
Karrine is not dumb. Everything she does is calculated, believe me. She writes now a total of 3 tell all books and then tells the media to stay out of her business and affairs because it doesn't concern them, but you publish all of your sexual encounters and name everyone. She is really dumb and if you really read between the lines you'll see how very manipulative she is. The only people I feel sorry for is her son and anyone who deals with her.
now yall kno its always 2 sides to a story . && if this is true , i hate to say it but its her own fault . domestic abuse isnt new to society . she's tellin her own sob story && knows tha outcome each && everytime but yet she keeps allowin herself to run back to him . love aint shxt to do wit it ! kuz klearly she dnt love herself enuf to walk away && save her own life . she kan life wit out hym , she's jus too dumb to realize it !
I can't believe little white washed Eddie Winslow is beatin' b@&$=£s! This dude is soft as wet toilet tissue! I mean don't get it twisted me and my wife has been in physical confrontations, BUT I WILL throw down with ANY man walking the planet not just my WIFE! If put on the spot this dude wouldn't bust a grape in a five-hour food-fight! THAT makes him a 1000% sucka!
half of yall laughing is in the same situation. she aint the only one. karrine aint never loved herself. when she was a video hoe men used her for sex but she thought it was love so she let them do it. now she thinks violence is love. at the end of the day aint nobody a dog or an animal so even she dont deserve to be killed. i hope she one day get her life under control. i aint know eddie winslow was like that but it dont surprise men cuz entertainers make thee absolute worst boyfriends and husbands
She has written 3 NYTimes best-selling novels and has a deal with Hustler Magazine to give sex advice and classes. She also has products of her own in the Hustler store. She was slated 2 write another sex advice book in 2010 so she has $. If she wanted out she can get out its not like she's dependent on him or his Y&R checks for support.....hell he claims they aint even married. I smell a publicity stunt....at first I felt sorry 4 her...then I read her bio and was like wait a minute.....
First, I pray her son is not witnessing any of this..if so she needs to go to jail just as well as the man beating her. Secondly, No one can do anymore to u than u allow..At the end of the day..she will get tired and leave for good or he will remove her from her misery. I pray she seeks help and removes herself from this situation. He needs to seek help as well..he is very sick as well!!!
You got to love how MTO takes her side and/or believes this b%tch and at this point why should anyone care. She runs around talking so much sh%t, disrespecting folk, and acting like she's the sh%t because she made a little money off of her bullsh%t books. At some point it's no longer the "abusers" fault especially when the same chick keeps on finding the same type of relationships. Sorry, but I don't feel sorry for her & in a way I don't even believe her. Why tell the world & not tell the f@cking cops?? She just needs another story to sell to the world & needs sympathy & attention to do so!
On November 20th, Karrine showed up to a listening party the Darius and this artist Ju`Not threw and TURNED IT OUT YA'LL!!!! I've never seen a female disrespect herself like that! She was screaming and cussing for no reason. If he did whoop her ass, she deserves it because the way she acted at that party was crazy...
She's an attention whore....even if I did believe she was getting her a$$ beat on the daily (which I don't) she should use her own advice and dial that number she gave out instead of writing letters to MTO.
The only thing I am praying for her about is that she get a life and some good sense to go along with it!
Idk if I believe her. If he knows her past n history like all the world He must like the fact that she a crazy h.oe. that lead me to believe something wrong with his as.s for real. If its true then I feel sorry for her. Somebody f-ed that chic up when she was a kid and she is leading a miserable life . Being beat, using drugs bein Hollywoods toilet bein judged and scorn by Everyone . Only God can help her. I'm gonna pray for her rather she lying or not.
She has some real Issue's! She like to feel pain SMH, One's gonna end up In jail and the other dead! She need's more than prayer, She need's to wake up from this fantasy she think's Is love! She has a son, he's gonna grow up and feel like him mom Is taking It so every woman else Is. She's feeling sorry for herself yet she's doing nothing to change her circumstances! Trust me there's good guy's out there even with someone like her having a bad past! I'm going to pray for her, Her son don't need to see her Ina box so young!
Yo Darius that aint a good look brah ...I don't be understanding somoe dudes maaaayn. he knew who she was before he wifed her.What he thought wifing her was gonna make all the ish that come with her go away.He got with a chick thats been with everybody and they cusin famos or not and she made it known to the world.He couldn't for see the bull ish to come with that move.In the word of B.I.G. ya DEAD WRONG!!!
