: Ladies . . . imagine if your own HUSBAND tried to deny paternity of your children. Well that's EXACTLY what happened to oneMTO reader.
But she didn't go FARAH-FAWCETT-IN-THE-BURNING-BED on him. Instead she took their child to the DNA specialist, confirmed the paternity (that she had NO doubt about). And then proceeded to hack into his FACEBOOK PAGE and put his DIRTY BEHIND on blast.
Oh . . . and dude had all his co-workers and former classmates as friends. . . . D'OH!!!!
I can see why she is heated. How is your HUSBAND and the father of your children going to deny his own seed? That would piss me the f*** off, too. I'd probably divorce his ass. What kind of father has he been to his children for these couple of years if he believed they weren't his? Keep kids out of grown folks issues.
The bigger question here is WHY and I mean WHY on earth do you women continue to have children with these black "men". THEY ARENT BUILT FOR BEING FATHERS AND PROVIDERS! STOP! Please! Black "men" don't know how to step up to the plate and really take care of the women they claim they "love" and the children they are SO QUICK to create and then LEAVE!
@ TheTruth052489, sorry, I gotta disagree. Men become the men WOMEN desire them to be. When women encourage men not to take care of business, then men don't. When women accept second best, then they become second best, or less. But when women demand more from men from the beginning instead of after the horses have already left the barn, then men become that better man.
Women just have to make sure they are 'better' themselves, in the first place.
@umafairuza: Im just calling it like I see it. You can demand a bunch of things from these black "men" out here but you'll have better luck talking to a brick wall! These black "men" don't want to be real MEN! Listen to the music they make, they don't want to be known for anything other then sex,drugs,money and cars. Period. They are worthless! You don't have to demand anything from a white man for him to be a man. He just does!
@umafairuza if you have a man you gotta tell/show them how to be a man then you aint got a man you have a pet dog! if you get a lazy one he will finish lazy. life changes women change with life cuz that is the cross we bare men dont. they dont know what it is to hold something like that which is why they always denying... Imma tell you from jump if a ni66a ask for a paternity test he goona get one but I know the out come and our relationship is over cuz I know who the father is always
@ TheTruth052489, That black guy name after OJ don't want to claim his own children. Because then He would have to be a real man and God forbid, You are speaking the truth, black men are not good fathers or providers for there family but they are always screaming black power, They are so stupid they don't know that power starts with a strong family unit, All a black man care about is his d!ck and his car not his black family or any black woman , If any black woman have kids with a black man she is a total idiot, These black women then want to come on here complaining about their black man he don't want to take care of his kids, B!tch who told you to breed for some loser black guy who don't take care of their kids, They are as much of an idiot as he is
@richdaddy please shut up you sound real stupid! My BLACK HUSBAND takes damn good care of me and my kids just like my father did me and my grandfather took care of all 9 of his kids! And all 3 of them took care of your azz too being that each of them fought for this country! So please go sit down somewhere and stop making inaccurate generalizations
@BlkHit20: Their are occasions when the woman hasn't done anything wrong (besides) believe a man to be everything he was making her believe he was! Their are men who have child after child (knowing damn well) they're the father But they would rather continue bringing children into the world (then) move on to the next one (Instead) of taking care of his responsibility! You are correct when you said women lie about certain men being the father But that doesn't happen iN every situation.. Some men just don't give a F*cK!
Continued:: Second, why are women applauding this chiCk? She has just caused herself more harm then she knows because depending on what he does for a living (dude might lose his job) especially when those he works with are friends of his on Facebook profile! If I'm your boss or one of your clients and some Sh*T like that happens... I'm done doing business with someone who can't handle his personal business! She accomplished Not a Damn Thang!
@NeeshRenee, I understand what you're saying, but sweetheart, women can be the worst decision makers when choosing a baby daddy. It's YOU women who will decide to have a baby with a dude when you don't use a condom. We are the ones pursuing you and you make the decision on how far things will go. So, some of these trifling bitches need to stop playing games, keep their legs clothes and because hoopz said it best, "if you open yo legs and let a n.igga fukk, he gonna fukk."
