This is a forum post by the user bdsbabydoll
: LOL I need to vent today..And today will be the last day I will ever use the words "baby mamma" ever again. It's become something very common, and to me, demeaning, and I certainly don't intend to offend any unwed mothers. With that being said, why are some so gotdamm stoopid? I am divorced, so technically I guess I'm a baby momma, but there is no way in the world I would stand between my ex husband and my daughters having a relationship, even if I didn't like his ***. Thankfully, we get along great, because even though there was a bit of animosity, we both handled it like adults and just dropped the issues...why hang onto them when we are no longer together, and just go ahead and wish each other well? I have a situation where my beau has a very very unpleasant baby momma (she doesn't realize that I've listened in on some conversations, bc I was convinced he was exaggerating about her being ignorant), and I truly want to get along with her, because the child is a sweetie pie. She definitely could use some guidance, with the type of mother she has, to allow her to wear those lil hoochie clothes, and cussing all around her and whatnot, but how do I get a rational point across, to a seemingly irrational person when it's time for me to talk to her? Yall know me pretty well I think, and I really don't want to go in my trunk :) LMAO
I think you should try, and i mean TRy to talk to her and let her know that you yourself is in a situation where your husband is divorced, and you udnerstand that she is trying to raise a child, BUT she needs to probrably learn how to be a good expample in front of her child.
i dont know how exactly you want to say this, and also a factor would eb if her ignant azz would listen to you, seeming how she flying off the handle like that.
BDS,
As a man with an ex-wife who has his children, let me tell you:
some women simply cannot see their children without seeing the man without seeing the failed relationship and what might have been.
You can not reason with the unreasonable.
Let her be crazy. Tell him to ignore it every single time she says something or does something just to *** him off. Eventually, you'll be able to laugh at her. Let her be miserable by herself. Don't let her spread it to your relationship. That's EXACTLY what she's trying to do.
Laughing My Black *** Off @ Crislex. That what so funny I had to type it out.
Are you serious? You want the baby daddy's new girlfriend to talk to the baby momma about how she can be a better example for her daughter??
[SPAM]LOLOLOL
Call me before you do it. I wanna pop some popcorn and get my camcorder.
BDS..THATS WHY I SAY I CANT DATE A MAN WITH CHILDREN. IT WOULD BE TOO MUCH FOR ME AND MY PATIENCE LEVEL IS NOT THAT HIGH....AND YES I HAVE A DAUGHTER BUT I REFUSE TO BE AN A$$HOLE WITH MY DAUGHTERS FATHER JUST BCUZ HE IS DATING SOMEONE. ALL I ASK FOR IS RESPECT. BE RESPECTFUL AROUND MY DAUGHTER AND DONT INTRODUCE EVERY WOMAN YOU F'ING TO HER.
Vent away... But please don't go in the trunk ;0)
I think there is just no talking to people like this. You just have to HOPE and PRAY that one day she gets mature and a little wiser. Like my momma always said "Your just too smart to understand stupid, so don't waste your time trying." All you can do is be the example of a real women for the little girl.
BDS, Top of the day to ya!
I would not say anything. First off, you are not the girls stepmom (not yet anyway) and you may be overstepping your boundaries this soon. Your relationship is with your guy not his ex. Does the child live with him? If not, I would not say anything to her mom. She is not rational and it could get ugly. Just set an great example for the child when she in your presence and she will start to see on her own her mom is a fruitcake. I would not allow the bad language etc. around me and my children either. The child must set a good example for your children as well. Talk to her and her dad when you need to and leave the wacko out of it. Keep it as peaceful as possible.
Hey MzKB!!!!!
@BEAUTY
I FEEL YOU AND I HAVE TO. HE AND I DONT GET ALONG FOR ANYTHING BUT WHEN IT COMES TO OUR CHILD ALL HOSTILITY IS PUT TO THE BACK BURNER...TAKE HER HAVING THE STOMACH FLU FOR INSTANCE..HE IS UPSET THAT IM DATING SOMEONE, MIND YOU ITS BEEN A YEAR SO WHY IS HE STILL MAD..WHO KNOWS..BUT ANYWAYS MY DAUGHTER HAS THE STOMACH FLU AND I CALLED HIM..BETTER BELIEVE HE CAME DOWN AND IS TAKING CARE OF HER SO I CAN GO TO WORK..AND WE LIVE IN 2 DIFFERENT STATES...
THE FIRST THING MANY SISTERS MUST DO..IS NOT RESPOND THE THE WORDS BABY MAMMA. YOUR CHILD'S FATHER SHOULD BE REFERRING TO YOU AS MY CHILD'S MOTHER. THERE IS NO ADVICE I CAN REALLY GIVE YOU ON YOUR SITUTATION, BUT I DO FEEL CALLING HER WILL ADD FUEL TO THE FIRE. IF THE TWO OF YOU, ACT LIKE WHAT SHE IS DOING DO NOT AFFECT YALL, SHE MAY STOP. A PERSON CAN NOT ARGUE OR ACT STUPID BY THEMSELVES.
Woosah...Woosah Reality check you had me cracking up in here when you typed it out like that LMAO!
I wasn't going to exactly try to give her advice about having the childs *** all out, I would simply lead by example..when she comes over here, you got to take off them lil Payless oochy ooh heels and go outside and play.. and let my daughters and her have fun. She's only been here once, bc her mother doesnt want to let her spend much time with her dad, and it's just being spiteful bc they are not together anymore. And that wasnt even bc of me! I want to talk to her to simply get her to let her come over, so that daughter and father can build a relationship. He truly wants to, and it hurts me to see him so discouraged and just give up, bc the mom is acting like a ***. He has actually said "I really don't feel like dealing with my daughter, because that means I'll have to speak with her mother". And that is truly a discouraged man. I don't want his daughter to grow up thinking that her dad didn't want her around... Her mother has actually told her all kinds of things, like your daddy aint ish, he doesn't care about you because he didn't spend $500 (on a 6 yr old) at Christmas...what kind of mother would tell that to a child?
@beauty he does but i cant help that! thats on him..he had almost 5 years to get it together and he thought i was going to take it and be okay..noooo...i let go after awhile and although i dont feel he is doing like he should financially im not gonna make him pay by not letting him be a father to her
@BDSBABYDOLL
YES, YOU CAN SHOW BY SETTING AN EXAMPLE, BUT REMEMBER SHE IS THEIR MOTHER AND CHILDREN LOVES THEIR MOTHER UNCONDITIONALLY. AND THERE ARE TWO SIDES TO EVERY STORY...THEY MIGHT HAVE HAD A BITTER ENDING AND HE MIGHT HAVE JUST STARTED DOING FOR THE CHILDREN TO IMPRESS YOU. ALSO, IF HE MADE A STATEMENT LIKE THAT ("I really don't feel like dealing with my daughter, because that means I'll have to speak with her mother").
YOU CAN IMAGINE WHAT HE HAS SAID IN THE PAST.
Just my opinion: Your headline is a bit vague.
Perhaps it should read: Why are SOME baby's mommas so stoopid?
I am a "baby's mama" and I have never acted that way. I guess I would be considered to be more like you. You have to take the grownup approach to raising a child in a single or separate parent home.
bds
see im not stable enough to deal with women like that. so im glad i found a man that doesnt have any kids but will gladly accept my daughter when the time is right. we have been dating a year but i haven't brought him around just yet. i guess when i feel as though i am ready then i will..i know i am in it for the long haul..but there is always a but...
@CARAMEL you are right. Because your priority is your child, and her happiness. You would not be hurting him. That will just *** him off and she will be hurt. Thats how I do.
@BDS my kids father use to bad mouth me in front of my kids all the time. He grew up, as I stuck to my guns and ignored him.And never talk about him to my kids because thats so awkward for a child. They love them both and its tooo much for them.
I'm so steamed right now, I forgot my manners! Hi to all, hope you all are having a good day at work :) Try not to cuss nobody out lmao!
Caramel, I feel you on not dating a man with kids, bc this is the second time I'm dealing with a crazy-woman situation. My exhusband had one son when I met him, and his ex old lady was crazy as hell!! The only thing that caused us to get along halfway was when I got tired of her sh!t, and beat her down with a set of big *** car keys (I keep all kinds of junk on mine), then dragging her around my car and busting her face on each 18" Iroc rim :) After that, we got along great LMAO Then she suddenly understood that I didn't mind having his son at my home any time he wanted to come over, and that I was sensible and reasonable :)
I'm wondering is it because I'm usually so calm and collected, that I'm being singled out as the quiet one that people can ***? NOT TRUE
Girl..Been there done that. Personally, I think its your Beau's responsibility in handling his daughter's mother. Your 'wifey', but not WIFE, so there really isn't too much you can try to force her to respect to a certain level. Girlfriends come and go, as do some wives, but a wife is normally a permanent fixture, and someone she has no choice but to deal with. He needs to get you to together and he need to address her and check her in front of you, so there won't be none of that he say this in front of you, but says this behind your back, or so none can get things misconstrued. He needs to be firm with her and let her know that you are and will be partaking in raising their child while in yall's home (if yall live together).
If she's ignorant, then she's ignorant; ain't to much to be done about that, till she come around, but she needs to keep that to herself, and get some sense when it comes to dealing with yall. Get together, talk, but HE needs to be the initiator not you...that would open a whole new can of worms lol
lol@bds!!!! you kwararaazzziiii! lol!!
i bet she did understand!! lol
@beauti yes..she is our first priority..but you know when i finally left him for good. he tried that EVERY *** IM *** IM GONNA BRING HER AROUND THEM.I DONT CARE..IMA DO WHAT I WANT..
BUT BEST BELIEVE HE CHANGED THAT TUNE AFTER I TOLD HIM A FEW THINGS THAT ARE NOT NICE ENOUGH TO MENTION ON HERE..LOL
BUT HE WAS JUST TRYING TO HURT MY FEELINGS.......
If life leads you to a place where you must deal with a baby momma who refuses to be smart about anything especially raising her child, don't get into the drama of it on any level. I believe that folks that are stupid I mean not smart feed off of drama. Sometime they actually like folks that don't feed into the drama. Sometimes that means just being quite.
Hey BDS-I totally agree w/MzKB and Reality-Check. Just leave it alone...there's always TWO SIDES and you listened in on the conversation(s) because he knows that she is bitter and that is the side that she would portray over the phone and most likely in person should you ever confront her. My ex-beau did the same thing regarding his ex-wife and the truth be told...the situation wasn't even the way he made it seem. Once you're around ANYONE long enough, the true side will come out eventually. Convince him to be there for his daughter but that should be the extent of it and please know that this is just my opinion. ****HUGS TO YOU BDS****
MsE that *** avatar keeps giving me the giggle fits LOL
I guess I won't call her then :) I really just want to see the baby more, but I'll just let it go for now. He's been handling it very diplomatically so far, and I won't rock the boat. It just kills me to see a child under a bad influence, and not be able to show them that the world does not consist of food stamps, booty ***, BET, and ***!gga this or ***!gga that.....
*EVERYONE*JUST A THOUGHT>> I THINK MEN REFER TO A WOMAN AS THEIR "BABY MOMMA" BECAUSE USAULLY AFTER THEY BABY IS BORN THE COUPLE SPLITS UP. ON THE OTHER HAND, IF THE BABY GOES TO BE A TODDLER OR YOUND CHILD WHILE THE COUPLE IS STILL TOGETHER, THE FATHER USUALLY REFERENCES THE MOTHER AS "MY CHILDS MOTHER". SO I THINK THE NAME "BABY MOMMA" IS INDIRECTLY USED DUE TO QUICK BREAK-UP AFTER THE BABY IS BORN.
Hey cat!!
If something ever goes down, yall BETTER get more than some popcorn..Yall better get some Twizzlers, some Skittles, some Milky Ways LOL When I'm finally MAD mad, I tend to put on a show...I'll show up with a boombox to tear that *** up to the beat of my theme song LOLOLOL! Someone told me I'd make a great addition to the women in the WWF..I have style..I will show up in a special outfit for the occassion :) Next time I get into it, I'm putting it on youtube..well, as long as there's nothing on there that will convict me in a court of law :) :)
I try to clarify things with a guy I'm talking to that if your baby mamma is crazy then keep that *** away from because i want your kids going up knowing who their real mother is....lol
but for real there us no reason I need to meet the baby mamma, the only time it's necessary to meet her is if your marrying the guy and even then the only thing i want to hear out of her mouth is congratulations...that's it. I feel that any business having to do with the child should be left between them, the only time I should get invovled is if the child is being physically hurt.
I may be the fool in here but,
I dont think it should be left alone, from what I have read the blogger posted that this woman doesnt properly dress her child neither does she have the respect not to curese around her.
I dont have children, but me being the oldest sister 5 kids and helping my mom out with them when we were younger, I am quick to tell someone else's child what is right or what is wrong IF I am friends what that childs mother. I also have a friend who has a unruly child but she does unruly things in front of that child and I have to tell her that she *** do things that way for the sake of the baby. Her daughter is only 2 and can curse up a storm.
I know its not the right thing to say to another ignorant woman who might and wont listen, but i think it is better than having that child suffer due to the ignorant baby mother and the exaggerating father.
And again maybe its just me :)
But even though this woman had a past relationship in his life, that child is his present responsibility meaning that she will be involved one way or another, I would want to talk to her and get to know her to keep my eye on her and also let her be comfortable with her child being around me. Then maybe words can be exchanged about the raising of the child. Mother to Mother advice.
Yall didnt see " Why Did i get Married" LMao
@ Crislex Believe me when I say he's not exaggerating! When listening to a phone conversation, I actually heard her yell to the child in the background "It's your stooped *** daddy, why don't you ask him why he only spent $250 on your Xmas presents..ask him why he don't love you enough to spend $500 like he did last Christmas", and I was like WTF? He felt so bad that I could see the tears behind his eyes... How do you teach a child to equate love to money? But that's the reason why I wanted to talk to her. She probably has valid concerns, the same that I would have, about who my child is around. I met my ex husbands girlfriend for that reason..she was kinda scary too, like she expected me to be crazy. I got to know and like her, and she will come pick up the girls as often as their dad does. I'm not complaining, as long as she takes good care of them just like I would. And people actually see that as STRANGE that women can get along.
@ BDS
I mean thats what i am saying. If your ex is having another woman and you two have kids together, less energy would be spent on learning who this woman is and getting to know her than fighting and hating on each other for no reason.
But IMO i think that when you have the time and energy try to talk to her and see her story.. :)
Easy Flag post CAT FOREVERRR
I think that if an opportunity to be helful comes along you should take it. Remember its not about the baby momma, its about the child. Sensitive situation, Words are powerful, speak wisely.
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trust me, confronting another woman about her child when you are the other woman would not be an opportunity..lol
bdsbabydoll Flag post @ Crislex Believe me when I say he's not exaggerating! When listening to a phone conversation, I actually heard her yell to the child in the background "It's your stooped *** daddy, why don't you ask him why he only spent $250 on your Xmas presents..ask him why he don't love you enough to spend $500 like he did last Christmas", and I was like WTF? He felt so bad that I could see the tears behind his eyes... How do you teach a child to equate love to money? But that's the reason why I wanted to talk to her. She probably has valid concerns, the same that I would have, about who my child is around. I met my ex husbands girlfriend for that reason..she was kinda scary too, like she expected me to be crazy. I got to know and like her, and she will come pick up the girls as often as their dad does. I'm not complaining, as long as she takes good care of them just like I would. And people actually see that as STRANGE that women can get along. ***************************************
what!!!!! I don't even know how you put up with an idiot like that, now she can be called a baby momma lol she deserves it!
Micaii Flag post i hate the term "baby momma" it's so, well it's so almost degrading women and the only people who use it is black, hispanics, latinos, etc I never heard a white person say, " I gotta go call my baby momma", it's disrespectful to me, but that is just my input :) ************************************* Aint Hispanics and Latinos the same thing? I aint tryna be funny either I just wanna know
Thank goodness I don't have any kids...I don't plan on being an unwed baby momma..or a baby momma..I hate that terminology that and wifey and boo.
BDS just make sure you keep the safety on. Some chicks are just ignorant.
Me or my man don't have any children and we will probably get married and then have kids we are having so much fun enjoying each other right now that he is in no rush to make me his baby mama because neither one of us wants kids. any hoo like I said
Keep the safety on!
@ Cat
Thats true but i dont know the fathers "training" habits for his child, but if that child is spending most of the time with his baby mother than, thats the person that needs to be addressed.. Now MAYBE the father needs to talk to her and let her know not to say these things, but she wont stop doing it because HE says some..
Sometimes people have to hear stuff form the outside because once that is achieved whether they agree or not, they have a notion in their head that "*** Someone else notices these habits". And she might still be ignorant but, she will have that echo of someone in her head trying to give her advice about her habits in front of her kids.
Crislex Flag post @ Cat
Thats true but i dont know the fathers "training" habits for his child, but if that child is spending most of the time with his baby mother than, thats the person that needs to be addressed..
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the fact that he allowed bds to over hear the conversations tells me he was looking for advice, comfort or both. this isn't something she can help him out with. it's one of those things he has to learn on his own. she would be getting in the way and making it worse in the long run. i don't know bds extremely well but i know her well enough to know that she's not gonna let that woman come out her mouth wrong to many times. once it gets to that point there's no turning back. she should stay out of it.
Crislex Flag post @ Cat
That could back fire....she would defintely be upset to have her mans new woman come help her because she fell SMACK on her face.... She DEFINTELY wont listen....
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you ever hear that saying that goes when you hungry anything tastes good? you'd be surpise what a humbling experience hitting rock bottom can be. believe me, i've been there and pride goes out the window.
LOL i am with whom ever said they DONT DATE MAN WITH KIDS!!!, will unless the she is out the pic our married thats the only whay i would date him!!! babymama drama is to much, and the crazy thing about iot is kids are having Kid!!!! so the dang abay mama is a baby her self so yeah she goin to act up!!!! MESSING WIT A BABY MAMA WILL HAVE ME IN JAIL!!!!!
@ Cat That's the problem..she's such a *** she won't even let him spend time with him, enough to really come over here.. She's come twice..once for maybe 30 minutes, and the second time for a few hours..She has these weird restrictions..she has to be back home by 6pm (school gets out at 3:45, and once the commute time eats up an hour of that, theres not much time left)
And why? No reason. She just said "Just because I said so. When are you going to buy her yadda yadda??".
@ Cat
I feel what you saying.
the only thing about the child is that if the child is picking up habits from BDS (good habits) but the mother is still being very irrrational and ignorant around her child, than that will eventually confuse the child into what they are supposed to do. thats the only reason why I say they should talk so that there is no conflicting rule witht he child between adults.
uh oh. this doesn't sound good. do they have custody rights down on paper. i'm hoping they aren't trying to work it out between the two of them. the best thing he can do i go to court and have the time he has with his daughter defined. i know it may be hard. a lot of men prefer to pay child support directly to the mother instead of going through the courts. but if he went about it that way he would have time set aside by the courts and the mother wouldn't be able to do anything about it.
Crislex Flag post @ Cat
I feel what you saying.
the only thing about the child is that if the child is picking up habits from BDS (good habits) but the mother is still being very irrrational and ignorant around her child, than that will eventually confuse the child into what they are supposed to do. thats the only reason why I say they should talk so that there is no conflicting rule witht he child between adults. --------------- Please Spare Me the BullSh*t!!!
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true story-
my sister's kids were snatched from her by child protective services because she beat them with a belt one day after they stole money from my dad, their grandfather. long story *** they went to school the next day and told the teacher who decided to report it.
my sister had to go through a 6 month process to get them back but it ended up lasting a year.
by the time they went back home they were a different set of kids. it was hard for them to fit back in their old environment. they learned how to have a time and space for homework. they were making d's and e's before they came to me. they left making c's and b's. the standard in my house is no c's. even though they didn't leave meeting my standard i'm still proud of the fact that they improved. their communication skills were grately improved. when they got back to thir moms house they were teased for talking white but you know what, they don't have the same problems that their piers are having getting a job.
it takes a village to raise a child
bdsbabydoll Flag post @ Cat That's the problem..she's such a *** she won't even let him spend time with him, enough to really come over here.. She's come twice..once for maybe 30 minutes, and the second time for a few hours..She has these weird restrictions..she has to be back home by 6pm (school gets out at 3:45, and once the commute time eats up an hour of that, theres not much time left)
And why? No reason. She just said "Just because I said so. When are you going to buy her yadda yadda??". ***************************************
he should take that baby momma of his to court! he should file for custody when you have to share with her, he sounds like a good man and he *** have to put up with that idiot!
Hey, Cat That's EXACTLY what we're thinking about doing, just letting the courts handle it..he pays directly to her, but he said he'll just go ahead and have the courts take the money, then they'll have some sort of formal agreement about getting her every other weekend...
And Crislex you do have a point.. I'm very old school in my approach, and mama don't take no stuff! So I know that's going to be a biiiig problem, especially since it's already been a problem with her paternal grandmother..The childs mother told her grandmother that she was not allowed to scold her at ALL, even though the child was running around tearing sh!t up and talking back like a grown woman.. Now you KNOW that's bad when you make a GRANDPARENT p!ssed off!
bdsbabydoll Flag post Hey, Cat That's EXACTLY what we're thinking about doing, just letting the courts handle it..he pays directly to her, but he said he'll just go ahead and have the courts take the money, then they'll have some sort of formal agreement about getting her every other weekend...
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good thinking...that's gonna *** her up real quick..lol
@ BDS
Yea you DEFINTELY need to handle that. Cause aint nothing worse than a child running around, talking *** and recking your home and then have thier mother tell you to *** up when you scold them..
BYTCH please, get your GRIMLIN before i through some water on her lil ***... lol
NAw handle that love, handle that :)
LMAO @ Cris!!
The one time she was here long enough to play with my girls, they IMMEDIATELY gave her the rundown on what NOT to do to get your *** handed to you :) No stomping like a pack of horses. No talking back if you want your teefuses. No breaking things you did not buy. No jumping on the bed bc Momma WILL swat you like a fly in midair, causing you to cut several aerial cartwheels, busting your head on the floor LMAO
Let me stop before Cat starts fussing about doing a People's Elbow on my kids lolololololol
(whispering) I just DDT them occassionally!
bds,
i'm so happy that you let her come around your girls even tho her behavior is less than desirable. you are doing the right thing. it's also good to know that you have enough confidence in your girls to know they won't pick up bad behaviors. that tells me you've done something right in raising them.
Babydoll... I wouldn't even waste my time talking to that girl if I were you. It's just going to create a whole lot more animosity and problems. Especially if she's ignorant, immature and irrational. Just leave it alone. And pray for that child. Now if she's been an unfit parent than you and your beau should fight for custody if you are concerned for what's best for that child. Now if not than just ignore the baby mama because all she's wanting is attn from him.
Hey african child :)
*blushing at Cat's compliment* Awww shucks (kicking gravel) LOL
And just so you know, I listened to you on whatever other post we were talking about childrearing on... It's HARD, but I've been using more of your method :) Didn't work, and they busted out laughing when I told them to go sit in a corner and write lines, causing them to get their grills snatched as a result..but at least I TRIED LMAO
@ Oreo... it's a message I'm trying to send across to GETITWET, it's a reminder to her that she could never ever in this lifetime or next... she could ever get into my panties.... You like it??? If you look at the pic closely it has a lock and a login and password like a PC... LMAO. And then read my signature.... :)
LMAo @ Beige and her secret want-to-be lover! That is hilarious!
Cali That's why it's funny. The ish is just so *** random.
Do you remember In Living Color? David Alan Grier played a guy that would just blurt ish out at the restaurant all off topic. Tommy Davidson was the chef "fish stick, pick it up" *ding*. The other guy would just yell out ish like "My feet smell like doo-doo and I pick my boogers on the bus" just out of nowhere. That ish cracks me up. LMAO
crafty Flag post ham & eggs pick it up! *************************************** remember he would come out with his one eye and hit the bell with the spatula? BAWAHHHHHHHHHHH! And the waitress had all the condiments and silverwear in her drawls and bra! "ah baby, you need a spoon, let momma see what she got in here for ya, *** here ya go suga. All the while Crafty in the background yelling out random ish like, "i got six toes on foot and a wart on my azz!" LMAO!
dead pigeon , side of fries *ding* pick it up!
LOL @ Oreo YES the *** goggles..Just creep outside her window wearing my bush hat with the ferns on top, and trip her down when she goes outside to check the mail box, deliver a one-two *** whooping...If I do that every time I hear her going off on the telephone, maybe she'll connect the dots LMAO
Hey Crafty! I see you over there peeping at me..I'm not a "baby momma" but I'm the best thing since Wonderbread (cheesing)
Oreo Flag post crafty Flag post ham & eggs pick it up! *************************************** remember he would come out with his one eye and hit the bell with the spatula? BAWAHHHHHHHHHHH! And the waitress had all the condiments and silverwear in her drawls and bra! "ah baby, you need a spoon, let momma see what she got in here for ya, *** here ya go suga. All the while Crafty in the background yelling out random ish like, "i got six toes on foot and a wart on my azz!" LMAO! .............................................................................. LMAO
Hey bds..and all for that matter...
I have a friend who is going through something similar. I know you want to rationalize and be adult about the situation but judging by what you said if you do talk to her either it isn't going to be pretty or you'll be talking among deaf ears. The biggest thing I hope is that the child isn't affected by her mothers actions because i'm sure she probably knows whats going on...
cali2texas Flag post @ Oreo
You know I don't be............... I got a nipple in the palm of my hand..........blurting out crazy *** *************************************** LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OK I'm getting ready to pull out the old dvds of ILC.
I am still crying over the "brother in drag" comment. I'm glad I don't have my pick up here for you to pick me apart. Big Crafty has seen me though.
cali2texas Flag post @Oreo
Now would I talk about someone I never met in.........she looked Magilla Gorilla had a twin sister......my entire life. ************************************ That's it!!!!!! Wine all over my *** keyboard!!!!!!! My daughter came in my office talking about "Mom you OK?"
*steamed chicken feet, side of corn* DING, pick it up!
@ Oreo... I'll ask Mz or someone that was there when I see them. I think it had something to do about *** on the 1st date or wait or something... I don't remember. And you got jokes... that ain't my e-boo... more like e-stalker. But it's ok I got CRAFTY around to protect me. :)
@ Crafty you better keep that flirting clean because if not the only thing you are going to see of me is my hand while I wave from the plane while flying over Michigan...
@Go I'm still here about to leave know. It's ok babe no sweat.
oooooooooo and beige you *** is lucky I seen you spoke because I was going to hunt yo *** down tomorrow and tell the Army your real name. Quanquisha Tatiana Fredrick Ali Bin Laden. You know yo *** is from the Taliban....LMAO Good *** errbody.
umm.. obviously she's 'SPECIAL'.. so talk real slow.. if u talk to fast she might get irritated.. and im kinda serious! lol
talk slow.. tell her that u respect her and u hope that u guys can work together to help bring up lil wutshername. that's it. but help train the child. let her know there will be no cussin in ur house(let her daddy tell her). and buy her some decent clothes... as a "gift".
