This is a forum post by the user OMARLITTLE
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Yes Black woman have to start looking in the mirror!!!
they are to blame for the way our community is.
The Bible tells us that:
Isaiah 30:9 That this is a rebellious people, lying children, children that will not hear the law of the LORD:
1 corrinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.
Isaiah 3:12 As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths.
1 Timothy, chapter 2:15 Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.
Titus, chapter 2:3: The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; 4: That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
Black women it's time that you come back to the words of the Lord and stop with all this foolishness. This is why you are in the conditions that you are in because you are going against the laws of the lord. This is why you can't find a man...come back sistahs and follow the Laws.
OMARLITTLE Flag post Yes Black woman have to start looking in the mirror!!!
they are to blame for the way our community is.
I RUN MTO!!
------------------ Maybe just maybe if you stop trying to "run MTO" maybe you would take charge of your life and stop blaming black women for the woes of the entire black community.
That's jus absurd.
If black men took their roles as leaders seriously, there would be no why "black women" could be responsible for the destruction of our community.
I have no problem following my man's lead, but I'll be damned if I'm going to let him lead me and my children down the wrong path. God gave me common sense and I know that I was meant to use it.
How dare you blame black women for the state of our community. smh What a cop out!! Would you say that to your mother or would you have said that to her?
@AuntieFree2377
You should be a better Judge of character..Why would you be with a man that is no good? unless you are desperate.
The thing is sistah..I understand that Black men have our faults..But when are black women going to look in the mirror at their actions?
Today on the main page we see a sistah witha stripper outfit on around what appears to be her daughter. see she is raising our your children to be a damn whore. Is that right sistah? when are women going to stand up against women likee this and challenge them and change? I brought out scriptures showing ou how the Lord wants us to conduct ourselves. there is no secret that we have not been keeping those Laws. These are the reason why we have such a problem..
We always want to go around and ask why this and why that/ but the answers are right in our face...
@AuntieFree2377
Maybe just maybe if you stop trying to "run MTO" maybe you would take charge of your life and stop blaming black women for the woes of the entire black community. *************************************
It is not only me who is blaming women...the scriptures say it:
Isaiah 3:12 As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths.
Question: Who leads the Black house holds?
Omar
Today on the main page we see a sistah witha stripper outfit on around what appears to be her daughter. see she is raising our your children to be a damn whore
Auntie
Where is the childs father? Where was the father of the stripper?
Omar I brought out scriptures showing ou how the Lord wants us to conduct ourselves. there is no secret that we have not been keeping those Laws. These are the reason why we have such a problem..
Auntie
Yes you did quote scripture, but then you put the blame on black women. Just as you said.. they are to show "US" how "WE" are supposed to conduct "OURSELVES".
Omar
there is no secret that we have not been keeping those Laws. These are the reason why we have such a problem..
Auntie
I agree 100%, but that not what you said earlier. You blame black women only. Never did you say that we as black people should look in the mirror.
That's all I'm saying brother.
and P.S. every black woman is not like that stripper you speak of on the front page.
Omar
You should be a better Judge of character..Why would you be with a man that is no good? unless you are desperate.
I could say the same about you but I won't, that would be petty and pointless.
I will say this though, you didn't understand the point I was trying to making. I would never get behind a man that I couldn't follow. But we are all human, and sometimes we make mistakes and we all need help or advice. I would never be with a man that didn't value my opinion and I would never be with one whose opinion I didn't value.
We are all weak and strong at different times. The true worth and success of a marriage is to step up or step back and the most crucial part is is recognizing the time when it comes.
AuntieFree2377
Where is the childs father? Where was the father of the stripper? *************************************
Good question sistah... as you see from this video and others. we as a people have been caught up in this American dream, Which in all reality is not why we were brought over here in the First place.
We were brought over here to serve Bondage. now we are caught up in the American way of life..By doing so We forsaked The lords words..
Women went into the feminist movement and stared to rebel.
Today women wear pants when the Bible teaches us that a women is not to wear that:
Deuteronomy, chapter 22:5: The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.
All up and down in The world today women are wearing pants...Why is that? A pants has a zipper to pull out a penis. a woman does not pull anything out. so when you go out of order you create chaos.
Then the feminist movement created this 50/50 madness.. this is not what the Lord wants he specifiaclly made it clear that the man is at the head of his household:
1 corrinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.
1 Timothy, chapter 2:9: In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; 10: But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works. 11: Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. 12: But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. 13: For Adam was first formed, then Eve. 14: And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.
so there you have it sistah...these are the keys to life..and if you go against this order then your house will fall.
This is what Love is to the Lord
2 John, chapter 1:6: And this is love, that we walk after his commandments. This is the commandment, That, as ye have heard from the beginning, ye should walk in it.
so if you Love the Lord then you will follow his words...And these are some of those words...
Sooooo because:
"Women went into the feminist movement and stared to rebel." [so that they could work, vote and be treated fairly]
and
"Today women wear pants when the Bible teaches us that a women is not to wear that" [because it's get cold and we want to stay warm j/k]
This is why the black community is in the shape it's in? These are the horrible things that we black women did to destroy our black community? Come on now...
And one more question ... why do you seem to idolize Omar Little, if you're so closely follow the Lord's word? His character is the axis of evil.. don't you think.
To be honest, I don't watch The Wire because I don't care for the subject matter for my own personal reasons. So I had to google the name to get information about the character and based on this fictional characters Bio. he is not a created to appear as a man of God.
He makes some valid points, but it's his presentation. For me.. every 20 points he makes, i agree with 3 of them maybe.
Honestly, I can't sit through the whole thing because he's so angry. And he is disrespectful.
I don't know how he can address "all" black woman like this.
and he's more than "a litte radical" IMO
@AuntieFree2377
Sooooo because:
"Women went into the feminist movement and stared to rebel." [so that they could work, vote and be treated fairly]
and
"Today women wear pants when the Bible teaches us that a women is not to wear that" [because it's get cold and we want to stay warm j/k]
This is why the black community is in the shape it's in? These are the horrible things that we black women did to destroy our black community? Come on now...
And one more question ... why do you seem to idolize Omar Little, if you're so closely follow the Lord's word? His character is the axis of evil.. don't you think.
To be honest, I don't watch The Wire because I don't care for the subject matter for my own personal reasons. So I had to google the name to get information about the character and based on this fictional characters Bio. he is not a created to appear as a man of God
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No.......you are missing the point completely...What I am saying is that the feminist movement, which was created by the Rockerfellers (BTW..to tax the other half of the nation)...
This gave women an independent streak..which made women and Black woman in particular to say.."I don't need a man"
This also mad women rebel aginst her man becaus now she was in a position to do for herself and in most cases particularly in the Black community the Black women earns more than the man...she looked down on her man...
see Oprah Winfrey for ex...
never been married....But been in a relationship with the same man for years.
The scriptures tells us the order...now if we go against that order what happens?
Eventually the man is going to leave....why because the woman usurp authority over him...when we just read in the scriptures that a women is not supposed to do that:
1 Timothy, chapter 2:12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
So when the Black man leaves the House because there is a clash...Who raises the children?
The Mothers in the Black community overwhelmingly....and we just read in scriptures what happen then.
Isaiah 3:12 As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths.
This is why the children have become Monsters in the streets..
The main point is we have to come back to following these laws..
And the Omar thing is just a s/n has nothing to do with my character..
just like your avatar has nothing to do with you..
isn't that the news reporter that cursed on air?
not professional!!! but you like her right?
A lot of people talk too much crap. How can you just single out black women? How can a real man blame a woman for his problems regardless of color.
Granted, black men have more daily pressures, from every direction. Corporate america would rather deal with a black woman than a black man anyday, because they fear black men and the potential they may obtain power.
But you know what I deal with crap from men in my profession EVERYDAY. when I first started it was far worse, and you know.. it hurts the most when black men give me crap. I don't expect any better from the whites and spanish men in my field.
Black women are not our only problem and if he addressed all of the issues then maybe just maybe I'd be able to stomach his ranting. But I refuse listen to anyone that only sees one side of anything.
timialynn
SO LITTLEOMAR, I GUESS YOU AGREE WITH THIS BULLSHIIT? ************************************
yes i agree...but I don't believe it's bullsh1t..they are just speaking truth to power....our peopl are hard headed..we don't get thing when people speak nice to us..
We have to hear it hard..
think about it sistah..when you were young and you did something wrong, your mother or grandmother or whoever yelled at you and called you all kinds of names..
It wasn't done bcuz they hated you..It was tough love to get you in order..
people get mad at people like this, but we have to look in the mirror and check ourselves..
we, as a RACE..not just specific genders should try to better ourselves. why is that men try to quote scripture that pertains to women that suits their own agendas, but not as a whole. NO one is without sin. No male. No female. WHEN ALL PEOPLE FOLLOW GOD's WORD. THEN QUOTE WHAT WOMEN SHOULDN'T BE DOING. Men lie. Women lie. before a man is so quick to point a finger at a woman for her shortcomings.. he should look at his own. and vice versa. no one is perfect. and although i do agree with some of his points..althought they don't really apply much to me.. that disrespectfulness is garbage. let he without sin cast the first stone. ...i'm just sayin
@DistortedPerception
we, as a RACE..not just specific genders should try to better ourselves. why is that men try to quote scripture that pertains to women that suits their own agendas, but not as a whole. NO one is without sin. No male. No female. WHEN ALL PEOPLE FOLLOW GOD's WORD. THEN QUOTE WHAT WOMEN SHOULDN'T BE DOING. Men lie. Women lie. before a man is so quick to point a finger at a woman for her shortcomings.. he should look at his own. and vice versa. no one is perfect. and although i do agree with some of his points..althought they don't really apply much to me.. that disrespectfulness is garbage. let he without sin cast the first stone. ...i'm just sayin **************************************
I understand that..but this is just one video. there are others when he or they condemn the Black community including men..
This particular one is about Black women.. i mean let's be honest..there are some very triffling Black women out there. These things have to be addresed. we can't just keep silent about it. people need to see what they are doing..
personally i was not offended by what Bill Cosby had to say..I felt he was speaking the truth.
it get tiring to see your community go down the toilet like that.
Somebody has to point this out.
Omar
This gave women an independent streak..which made women and Black woman in particular to say.."I don't need a man"
Omar
I would add it lead us to say I don't need a bad man, I can do bad by myself" I think most women want a good man.
Omar
I am not quoting scriptures, trying to pretend that I live my life according to the bible word for word.
Yes, my avi is a news caster who made a mistake and apologized for it. It doesn't say anything about her character, other than she's human and makes mistakes.
Now your avi is an evil fictional character. If you're so worried about black people living by the Bible, why even consider using that avi? Just a question. Obviously you're free to use whatever you want, because in fact, most of what and who are on here are not real.
Usually your avi is your visual presentation of yourself, most times how you'd like to see yourself I only chose this one because it cracks me up, most times I don't use an avi.
however, the point I was going to make is you use that avi and quote the Bible, that's like that guy in the video wearing a stripper outfit preaching against the actions of some black women.
@timialynn
THIS PART 1 WAS A 180 FROM PART 3 SO I TAKE BACK THE BULLSHIIT REMARK, IT'S NOT B.S., BUT IT WAS HANDLED CARELESSLY AND FULL OF ANGER, HE WAS USING THAT "HARD TALK" I HEARD IT BUT AS I MATURED I REALIZED IT HAD A LOT TO DO WITH MY MOTHER BEING TOO IMMATURE TO RASIE A BABY. I GREW OUT AND OVER THAT; THE PROBLEM IS MOST BACK PEOPLE DON'T SHAKE THAT ***********************************
oh Black people get it alright...That is why she is crying..becaus the truth hurts.. when someone tells yu off..that stings in you. the first thing you do is go home and get mad and think about what that person said. Now it is up to you to take heed or just be rebellious and do what you want to do.
@DP, and why is it that people always use that "no one is without sin" excuse when the bible calls them out? lol
personally, i dont read the bible. but i do know what he is saying to be true. the VAST majority of black woman in america seem to PRIDE themselves on being difficult. they love to talk shiit. love to challenge their man. and as a man, its hard to deal with. ask any MAN with a black baby momma, "why arent you with ur BM?" i guarantee at least 75% give you the same answer. thats what the guys talking about. i think the problem is black women would rather hear from other black women how to get along with their man, rather than the man himself.
@AuntieFree2377
Now your avi is an evil fictional character. If you're so worried about black people living by the Bible, why even consider using that avi? Just a question. Obviously you're free to use whatever you want, because in fact, most of what and who are on here are not real. *************************************
Great point....."Fictional"
Like you said you avi cracks you up...
well mine does too...
What a coinsidence.. I don't agree wth his lifestyle at all. I am totally against that.
But he went against the grain in his community..he robbed Drug dealers of their drugs and money and he threw the drugs away...
he wasn't about destroying his community or targetting the innocent..
Now the other thing about him that he is most famous for..I am totally against...
But if you watch the show you would Know that he was the most feared character on that series....
He had a great personality..
its simple bobfry. very. i don't judge people. why? because i know i'm not perfect. no one is. so before i let someone who is no better than me tell me what I need to do..i'm going to ask them to look at the mirror and sweep around their own front porch before they concern themselves with mine. simple as that if i know i lie. who am i to tell another person they shouldn't?
@AuntieFree2377
So then I should make a post that says:
BLACK MEN, BEING A CRIMINAL IS WRONG, WANTING TO BE A THUG IS NOT ATTRACTIVE TO BLACK WOMEN (GIRLS MAYBE) DON'T LIKE IT... IF U NWANT A BLACK WOMAN STOP IT ************************************
Sure I don't have a problem with that at all.
why? bcuz I am none of those things. the only ones who will have a problem with it:
is the ones who are living that lifestyle. The problem with our people is that we like to make excuses for our actions..
We hate when people criticize us. We like to throw out references like don't judge me...
It's not about Judging..
It's about taking corrective action..
we are all affected by the acts of others..
If we let those acts go un checked then it will come unto us.
i cant understand that logic. if nobody is without sin, then nobody has the right to tell anybody else anything. which means you will never know ur character flaws because nobody would be worthy to point them out. thats retarded to me. sometimes you need somebody to say "HEY, ur acting like a nut!" cause if nobody tells these black women that their mouths are out of control, and its turning off the black men, they wont stop. and one day that black man may hurt them. or leave them. and do you know what that woman will say, "why didnt anybody tell me? i didnt know! im sorry!"
i can understand that @ Bobfry. we'll just agree to disagree this time, because honestly, there's no moot point. most people resist criticism..thats a given. all i'm saying is that its quite easy to be on the outside looking in and be able to tell someone else to do, but your own life be messed up.. not saying dude's is. but i bet his own life is far from perfect, or he wouldn't be so damn irate. and it goes both ways. I can say.. men..pull your pants up..do this..do that.. but i'm not a man..nor am i perfect.. so who am i to tell him what to do if i don't have my own sh*t together. all we can do is try to live our lives the best way we know how and learn from our own mistakes, and stop being so quick to point the finger at others.
well yall dont have to put up with nothing, if we're that bad ( which i know that all black women arent but some cant seem to distiguish that) than go date other races cause im sick of all this bashing. and if not letting a man control our every waking move means that we have alot of mouth or too much attitude, than guilty as charged. b/c some black men take the "im the man" thing or the "im the head of the household" thing as a free past to act a fool on u and to treat u like dirt. ( i'd figured i put my 2cents in real quick.lol.)
lol. yea i know alot of people get confused about my avi. yes imma girl, thats just my favorite b-ball player in my avi. what can i say, i love sports.lol. yea i agree with you as well, but as long as some people dont wanna compromise and just want power, than i cant see an understanding actually happening. its just unfortunate that we seem to be the only race of people who cant get along with each other.
i disagree, i dont think black men cant get along with black women. i think black men ADORE black women. the problem is, a lot of black women have this mentality that black men are worthless. theres a million and one books and shows and sites that exist about how men are dogs. or requirements a man needs like X amount of dollars, or X inches of dik, or X kind of car, or whatever else. and then you wonder why every song on the radio is about a nigggas pipe game, bank account, and car. theyre doing it for you. why? cause black men ADORE black women. but imagine if beyonce was dating a poor man. MTOs servers would explode! black women would talk so much trash. it would be sad. you RARELY if ever hear a black man say i need a woman that makes X amount of dollars. we just want a woman that makes us feel good. we dont care what kind of car she drives.
i understand what ur saying @bobFryTheFish , but i have to disagree with black men not careing what their women have because i've heard numerous black men say that they could never date a woman who makes more money than them, cause she would have a better car or bigger house than they do. you cant fault people for having a preferance. some folks do some folks dont.
I hear plenty of black men say, "she has to have something to bring to the table". I know a few black men whose spouses make more than they do and are really okay with that.
I think people just need to stop generalizing and get to know people individually. Everyone is not the same.
The are plenty of loose women of all races. There are undesirable people of all races.
can't we all just get along?
